How To Be More Confident
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- Опубликовано: 19 июл 2024
- Do you know how to look confident? When you walk into a room, go on a date or pitch at a meeting you want to make sure you look confident. In this video I will show you how to both feel and look more confident.
Confidence is a skill that can be developed with intentional and purposeful practice. It starts all in the mindset, but your own body language and verbal can do a lot for your mindset. I think that when you can implement some of the tips I mention in this video, that confidence can come naturally for anyone!
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In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:25 Confidence myth
0:56 How to LOOK confident
2:32 Hot to SOUND confident
4:18 Happiness and confidence
5:44 Hot to walk confidently
6:44 Find a confident role model
8:06 Pump up your confidence
8:47 Overcome imposter syndrome
10:46 Sparking confidence in your brain
12:00 Limit social media consumption
13:23 Final thoughts
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You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you.
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My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:
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Learn more about the science of confidence in the article: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-confident/
Thanks my sister really needed this 😊
Self confidence is not "they will like me"
It is "I'll be fine if they don't"
The qualities that confidence people have:
1. Demonstrates confidence and leadership
2. Isn't afraid to be unique
3. Communicates and interacts with everyone.
4. Shows respect and concern for everyone.
5. Is knowledgeable and well-rounded
6. Has humility and shows willingness to admit mistakes
7. Does good things outside the job
My biggest takeaway from this video is: To be confident, be happy; to be happy, find some humor.
You put it in good way. I was about to comment !!
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Real easy to say for those who don't suffer from chronic depression and schizophrenia, even when being treated by drugs.
@@angelus_solus Yep...most people aren't going through that...😬
Here's a thing...im not that funny lol
I become so nervous when i have a presentation that my voice ends up cracking, but at the end i’m proud that i’m brave enough to present in front of people and with time i’ll get used to it and become confident presenting
I think ,it call stage fear at initial but gradually removed
That's great but is public speaking necessary for everyone? Can you be a confident introvert without others expecting you to change?
You are just wonderful Vanessa. You boosted my confidence to yet another level, now I got elected as school president against the most popular girl in school. Couldn't thank you more💜
Congratulations!
Congratulations on your achievement
Awesome work Shelseas. How was your year?
Damn !!!! Awesome !!!
Congrates ji
My role model is you Vanessa Van Edwards .
I’m that awkward person, who realised my awkwardness only after watching your Videos.I’m headed towards that complete positive transformation with you backing me up virtually.
Lots and lots of gratitude, respect and Love Vanessa 🙏🏻
A year later, where are you on this journey
I worked with Filipino interaction with other companies with Filipino, their style of saying heloo over phone is mind blowing, filled with happiness...helooooo
Love that!
It's hard to live when we always worry about small things, we hardly focus and neglect our responsibilities, thus we can't get what we want and that become disappointment.
This kinda how to tips arereally helpful especially as an insight, so we have options when we feel trapped in a difficult situation.
Thanks Vanessa, this is really helpful for many people out there,
The the gestures, expression, and tone when you deliver this video is fantastic!!!
I come across many videos in you tube speaking about building up confidence. But truly she cracks it all with such wonderful presentation skills and I haven't come across such a person who speaks so naturally and with ease. With each word this video carries that energy reaching its subscribers an amazing level of confidence! May be because she really does mean every word she says instead of thinking it just a subject or topic and do this with all passion inside her, to motivate others! Thanks much!!
This is literally the best video I have watched in quite sometime! Thanks Vanessa!!
You are now my secret role model! Your confidence is astounding.
Hey Vanessa, you are truly awesome. Thank you for sharing your videos over the years. A fan of your stuff.
By far the most intereting video I found on youtube in these last months. I can't wait to read your books! And thanks for share it! =)
I am watching this while getting ready for work today and I’m so excited! I hope to ask my manager how I can feel more confident. I’m motivated to be confident! Thank you ❤️
Hi Vanessa, I would like to thank you so much for all the precious information you provided. Appreciated. Hope in the future I can see in real your lectures. Wishing you all the progress.😊
This was great ! Definitely appreciate the tips. Love your work !!
I love how Vanessa talks about confidence in such a simple and effective way. Great video.
I love how she breaks down everything.
This is my first time of meeting you.
I love you already.
You are amazing Vanessa
The ownership of thoughts is really necessary and therefore . I always know something new from you
I’ve been googling “How to walk Science of People” the past few days. How did you know? 🤯 I wish I’d seen this channel in high school. Your work is truly life changing, Thank You Vanessa! 😁
You do realize that Google owns RUclips. Right?
You are just amazing! i love your videos and when I start watching them, it takes me minutes if not hours to watch or listen to them. Thank you
Omg huge fan!!!!
Btw I bought ur book and finished reading it. It's amazing!
Good luck!! 😊😊😊😊😊
I wish I had any sort of confidence. I’m looking forward to this video :)
Thank you for reminding me again that confidence can be put into practice. God bless :)
God bless you Vanessa! Love your content!!
This is like a crash course for learning how to be confident.. DAMN AWESOME.
Thank you Vanessa for creating these awesome videos!!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Something new that I’ve learned from this video is that we have different ways of showing confidence!
Finding happiness and confidence comes from discovering your value and your strengths. What you bring to the table. Thanks for the awesome video!
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"I don't want to build my confident because of social media I wan't to build my confident to inspire powerless people.
Confidence is the best outfit. A lot of it depends on how you feel inside. That way, it radiates outside. Thank you for this video.
Excellent video. Thank you so much!
You're amazing! I always learn something new from you.
Hey Vanessa, thanks for sharing this knowledge. Much love for you and your team. I don't listen to your words, i digest them.
Love ❤️
you must have a magnificent metabolism. Lolll
@Hemle c is it possible to at least try and make some sort of sense when replying.. thanks
Confidence comes with acquiring skills.
Great video Vanessa! 🙂
Absolutely agree to stealing the show with the confidence you talk about!
Thanks for this awesome topic on how to be more confident in different ways.I learned a lot!!!
What worked for me was hypnosis. My confidence went up 200% in one session! Much easier than trying to force ourselves to follow all these rules.
My sincere thanks for all your wonderful work to help us! My takeaway is internal happiness directly reflects confidence. During the down days look at your accomplishments that I made it through big or small. Trash Imposter Syndrome. Avoid social media to get a digital detox living a fake life! Take time to learn YOU!
I love they way you are that give me a lot off motivation know days are going really bad in my life but thanks for sharing help full tips god bless you ❤️
Vanessa, I think this is the best video you have ever made. Thank you. I love your way of expression. Love for you from Bangladesh...
Vanessa, you are wonderful! Thank you!
This video is sooo helpful! I practice this on my channel and at work all the time haha
You are so awesome. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
This is the best video ever ❤️ Thank you so much
I'd been watching you and following you, Ms. Vanessa. I'm struggling with public speaking. I'm a teacher and it's not good. Im also an awkward person. Hope to recover toooo 😂 and this morning while doing my module, i decided to emulate you ♥️
You are right, she give only scientific reason, research show that that, and at some point she is right but she don't tell what to do that will help you in long term. Confidence come believe in yourself doing right thing that are important. I seen his some video and i find it she is faking and doing to please people. His youtube channel is there from so many year but she is not telling real things, she only give scientific reason. Filipino you tell the truth in comment and all are blind folded there eyes. You are fucking nice filipino sc
You are amazing, thanks!
Well explained!... Great job! 👍👏
Thank u so much beautiful, for this video. It means a lot❤️
Ive learned a lot from you. Pls make more videos. Your content are awesome.
Such a great video .
I have finished your book captivate . It's a sheer pleasure to read it and lots of learnings .
When is your next book is coming up ?
These are wonderful contributions. Thank you.
Amazing video sister. Thanks for your genuine effort
good video thanks.. I'm not a working person but after few months I'm going to my inlaws.. and I really need this kind of videos.. because I don't have confidence in a social group.. I get so confused when so many people around me :(
Excuse me, I'm confident enough to answer the phone being sad or upset too. I'm not here to entertain anyone. I'm just being me and I'm allowed to be complex and have a range of human emotions, and if anyone has a problem with that they can move along. This is what I don't like sometimes about American culture and why they seem so fake sometimes. Just smile and look happy and you're good.. we'll like you. I deserve to be liked in all my aspects.
Amazing Content! Thanks for sharing!
Venessa your awesome! I like your words religiously keep going.
Thank you for your videos 😊
Great ideas about a job. Makes me think of what career matches me. High school counselors should have there students ask these questions to find what career they would like. Thanks so much you! I now know what career is best for me
Your hands along with the rest of your body language is amazing. wow!
You are the only one I can watch the whole video!!!!
I’m slowly growing my confidence and am still seeking a bigger boost in confidence. I have done things that push my comfort zone, like travel alone and forward focused mindsets. Today, I plan to go out in public and take pictures of myself (both for my blog and my comfort level). I can’t always rely on other to go with me on trips or to take photos or to help me actually get a job so I have to keep learning to do things solo. Before the summer ends, I also plan to go skydiving 😊
Being alone gives you the freedom of confidence and get lots attention without you even realizing it. I love it. It’s so powerful to be alone in public and that’s confidence. I feel like nobody pay attention to me but is totally the opposite
Hi Vanessa, I love all your videos and all the life skills of the human social development. You have answered all my questions and difficulties. I really want a chat with you to express some of my deepest secrets that makes me powerless and unlikable
This entire video is gold
What a great video. Reading your book Captivate and absolutely loving it. I cannot wait to share it with my clients helping them to have the best dates ever 😊🎊 thank you for all you do.
What is the name of the book dear?
Love your video content Vanesa!! 😉
Thank you 😊
i love the way you teach :)
I've perfected the art of looking and sounding confident and making a great first impression.
The problem comes when I talk to people for some time and they realise that I'm actually a socially anxious wreck.
I'd encourage you to watch Vanessa's video on "How to End a Conversation and Gracefully Exit Any Awkward Situation".
It's worthwhile..
Omg this could be me😂😂
You are amazing!
Thank you.You helped me a lot.😘
Vanessa thanks...
I love it, GBU...
VANESSA VAN EDWARDS!!! You are the best! PLEASE help me learn to be concise and succinct in my social conversations. I truly appreciate everything you have been posting and look forward to buying your book. >>is it a hardcover or e-book?
I've notice that your using a highly communicative movement with your hands! I wish if you could give us some tips for mastering these meaningful hand movements when giving a speech? or lecturing ?
I am definetly sooo much more confident thank u babe
Ty!
Wow so educative especially for me and I have just started practicing what you just taught us ma'am . 😃💃💃💃💃💃 thank you so much ma'am . I wish you can be my coach really. 🙈🙈🙈
Thankfully for you
Great video, Mrs. Edwards!
Thanks 🙏 for everything
Hi mam you are sharing a very valuable information. Simply superb.
Thank you, you beautiful soul! 💖🌻
Your video is superb. I like the tips that comes with some proven research and reaction steps👍👍👍🌟🌟🌟
Thank you so much for your advice and efforts exerted.you are really awesome. 🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁
Thank you.. You are the best venessa van edwards 👌
I love this video. Thank you.
This was a very good video on how to present yourself to others confidently.
You're a role model for me now!
You’re my role model 😊
Love your videos . What the name of the book and author you referenced ? Also would love to hear your take on the law of attraction .
So substantially informative
Thank you for this amazing video Vanessa. I'm currently reading your book as well. 🙋
I love this!
Nice video, thanks!
Thanks and my love for you 🍁
I like the way your talk.your smile,your presentation 👍
Excellent video !!
I'm student but it helps a lot for my presentation.
Thanks a lot!!!!!!
Great video and tips, it definitely helps us alot...