YOU can change your life!, Living with liver disease

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  • Today's video is a discussion on changing your life and how I regret not changing my life when I had the chance
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  • @nefer11111
    @nefer11111 Месяц назад +32

    "You're not a failure until you stop trying." Best quote ever! Thank you so much for your dedication and transparency. 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much nefer!!!! God bless❤❤❤

    • @twinkle533
      @twinkle533 Месяц назад

      Hi, nic to your looking n doing good.
      I was wondering how do maintain your muscle mass. I trying to gain muscle strength but with protein shakes and they have other ingredients that flare up my inflammation. dairy, sugars and sodium diet are what I try and focus on.
      Do u still have varices or do u feel unbalanced at times.
      Yeah light flashes before our eyes.
      Should we believe what Drs say that a decompensated fibrosis is not fixable?.
      Are u still taking meds?
      Are u able to go back to work. Before I got diagnosed I wanted to go back to work especially since my kids r 14.
      Thanks for reading

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      @@twinkle533 hey there! I understand. Have you tried eating lean meats? Beans? Anything that has protein like fish, beans, Greek yogurt, etc? It's essential for out livers and especially late at night before bed. You need to consume protein before going to sleep so that your liver can try and repair itself. I do still have varicese unfortunately and I do think that they are correct. It's not what I want to think either, but the evidence is out there. I don't think there is a conspiracy to keep us sick. I really do think the Dr's want what is best for us and want to help us heal. We can continue to live with ld and prosper. It might not be the most ideal of circumstances, but it's worth fighting for, that's for sure!!!! I do still take my meds every day and I take a lot!!!! I have come a long way from where I started and I do believe it's from the help of my wonderful medical team! They have helped me tremendously! There has been a lot of will that I have had to muster through all of this though as well, mind of matter. It really can be life changing when we believe that things will improve! I truly believe that!!!! I hope this helps and God bless❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @SamPonder-pr5js
      @SamPonder-pr5js Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk whole unpasteurized milk is loaded with fat and protein! Just a suggestion. Some people can't drink straight from the cow.

    • @twinkle533
      @twinkle533 Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk
      From the bottom of my heart I really appreciate for your input and advice. ❤.
      You really lift spirit, energy and make my day.🤗. Wish we all could sit together with protein shakes and teas and talk and laugh. Even miles away ur a blessing for us and helping us deal with this liver issue.
      Do you take any supplements. I am taking milk thistle and dandelion tea at times to help manage my water retention.
      At night i did have nuts. But stopped.
      I was getting ammonia. Plus my GGT was 108.
      Platelets go down to 77. Which im seeing a internal medicine specialist.
      Basically since my ER, experience my hemoglobin works r waked out.

  • @deniserusinski5354
    @deniserusinski5354 Месяц назад +11

    You look so good, I go back to your first Video and what a difference.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much denise!!!! It's so crazy how far I have come from then!!!!! God bless you!❤❤❤❤

  • @lsullivan5249
    @lsullivan5249 Месяц назад +14

    You are helping a lot of people with your message. Thank you.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much!!!! I really appreciate you being here!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ God bless😊

  • @05BabyReg
    @05BabyReg Месяц назад +9

    Happy Birthday to your boy!! Omg--sleepover, trampoline, and people over later on...wow! That sounds exhausting. We took our two and their friends to a kids' playplace yesterday and they absolutely would've stayed all night! Everyone slept well, let's put it that way...
    Please don't worry about not being on in a few days...we understand! And everyone's so busy especially with kids. I'm so glad you're able to be present for your babies ❤️

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you!!! It was a wonderful weekend!!! Sounds like you guys had a great time too!!! God bless❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chcpage
    @chcpage Месяц назад +10

    You are just so inspiring- you’ve definitely found your calling in this channel ❤. Happy birthday to your son🎉

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much chcpage!!! I really do appreciate you! God bless❤❤❤

  • @Kristen10-22
    @Kristen10-22 Месяц назад +11

    Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉
    Wishing you a special day!
    You enjoy 😊 GO LIVE LIFE

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much Kristen!!!!! It was a beautiful day!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Laura-hk4th
    @Laura-hk4th Месяц назад +5

    Did you have blood transfusions after 2020? I was so upset that I couldn't donate blood and designate it for my daughter. I'm one that doesn't believe in the2020 jabs. That all
    made it way more stressful being concered for her health.
    I could hv never made it without Jesus❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey Laura! I did unfortunately. I know exactly what you mean. I'm right there with you. Thank you so much for sharing! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @scottgebow6539
    @scottgebow6539 Месяц назад +10

    Happy Birthday to your son. Enjoy your day 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +2

      Thank you so much scott!!!! It was a wonderful day!!! God bless❤❤❤

  • @thatpointinlife
    @thatpointinlife Месяц назад +10

    Yeah, once you get to the point where you can routinely drink huge amounts without it giving you the spins and making you throw up violently, it's time to get off the ride, because the longer you stay on it it just gets progressively worse and harder to quit.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +2

      Hey thatpointinlife!!!! You are absolutely right!!! I was there for so, so long! Thank you! God bless 😊😊😊

  • @Slayer-7373
    @Slayer-7373 Месяц назад +12

    Great video as usual brother!!!! Looking forward to our video on Wednesday! Much love man and god bless. 🙏
    Also happy b-day to your son man! 🎂

    • @paulandrew4415
      @paulandrew4415 Месяц назад +2

      @Slayer-7373 hey slayer I've been watching you man. Looking forward to your talk with our friend L.D

    • @Slayer-7373
      @Slayer-7373 Месяц назад +1

      @@paulandrew4415 hey Paul 👋!! Thank you so much brother!! I’m looking forward to it as well. God bless!

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      Slaaaaayyyyer!!! I hope you're doing well, my friend!! Sending love from NY ❤😊

    • @Slayer-7373
      @Slayer-7373 Месяц назад

      @@amandaflaherty7528hey Amanda!!! 🖤🙏

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much slayer!!!! Can't wait to talk to you Wednesday!!!! See you then! ❤❤❤❤ God bless😊😊😊😊

  • @thatpointinlife
    @thatpointinlife Месяц назад +9

    Happy birthday to your son. 🎉

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you thatpointinlife!!!!😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤ God bless

  • @Bipolar_Spike
    @Bipolar_Spike Месяц назад +10

    As a young adult. I was scared to death with anything that included any doctors, doctor's appointments, procedures or anything relating to going to any hospital. I was petrified and would get anxious and even panicky. How things have changed. Since my diagnosis June 2023, all that has changed. Going to the doctors, procedures and going to the hospital on many occasions is what my life is all about these days. I actually look forward to going. One can either have a bad attitude or a good one. I enjoy it. Why not like going? I even pick on the residence students. I have got an advanced degree in End Stage Liver Disease. Since I have it, I wanted to know all there is about it. Can't say I enjoy some of the procedures but if I have to have it done, so be it. Getting a needle jabbed in your gut without any local anesthesiology for a liver biopsy was NOT fun. When I told some nurses about that, their reply was, 'that's brutal!' Getting tapped isn't exactly pleasant, yet I feel so much better after the procedure. It is well worth it. Hepatic Encephalopathy is downright scary. I had to be hospitalized for that 3 times and that was just in the last few months. Thanks LD for providing this forum for us. I don't feel so alone anymore.

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      Omg that's crazy with the biopsy!! I am so sorry about your diagnosis, but I'm celebrating with you the life you're leading now!! You are doing all the right things to live a well life. ❤🎉🎊🎉🎊 and heck yeah, you're not alone! You've got friends here, so keep sharing 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey there my friend!!! Thank you so much for being here and for sharing your story!!! I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. You are so right!!!! Man.... I can relate. This is our life now. Going to the Dr and the hospital is like an everyday thing for me now and I never went before this. I was terrified of going. Wish I had gone sooner, but I didn't. Thank you for sharing this!!!! I know for sure that it is going to help someone out there!!!!! You are so welcome btw!!!! We are in this together!!!!!! I am right here by your side!!! God bless❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @judithnicholais1492
    @judithnicholais1492 Месяц назад +11

    Enjoy your family LD -- you're moving towards a much more authentic life, fully plugged in with your new found sobriety.. R E J O I C E!!!

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much judith!!!! It's so much better now!!! God bless❤❤❤

  • @pachagirl79
    @pachagirl79 Месяц назад +8

    I think this is your most legendary session yet. It hits so hard.
    I’m such a tremendous struggle bus this weekend.

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      I'm so sorry for whatever you're going through, pachagirl!! Im sending you tons of good juju, prayers and strength ❤😊❤ you've got this!

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you!!!! Im so sorry that you struggled this weekend. I hope that you are doing better today! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @debrah4241
    @debrah4241 Месяц назад +9

    11K ❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you debrah!!!! It's so awesome!! God bless❤❤❤

  • @jonoh4883
    @jonoh4883 Месяц назад +6

    You've mentioned 'Chasing the Dragon' before.. which is spot on. But for me it was like tryna maintain a BAC level to Run From the 'Depression Dragon'.. Like a feedback loop of depression that you use Alcohol to fix but also causes depression/hangxiety..

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      I'm just so glad that you were able to recognize that it wasn't serving you, and that you're free now! 🎉🎊🎉❤️ I used it similarly. I was always avoiding my anxiety, but it made me so unproductive and secluded, that every day I ran away from it with drinking, the avoidance brought me deeper into my anxiety/depression. I'm celebrating with you our freedom from that cycle! 🎉🎊🎉😊

    • @jonoh4883
      @jonoh4883 Месяц назад +1

      @amandaflaherty7528 right on!! Thank You... yes, yes, it truly is freedom.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey jonoh! Man... I was right there too! It worked until it didn't anymore. I'm so happy that you have gotten away from this "dragon "! God bless❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-wb2yv7ll9d
    @user-wb2yv7ll9d Месяц назад +10

    All the things you're describing with your family sound so joyous. ❤️

  • @paulandrew4415
    @paulandrew4415 Месяц назад +9

    Your right about constantly reminding ourselves to stay the course. I have to do it several times a day and I've been sober 15 months . I hope more people take your message to heart, cause if it gets this far we are dead men walking. Each day is a struggle to stay alive and just get by let alone live and be free of it.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much paul!!!! You are absolutely 💯 percent correct!!!! The struggle is real! Hope you had a wonderful weekend!!! God bleee😊😊

    • @paulandrew4415
      @paulandrew4415 Месяц назад

      @liverdisease-qb6rk hey L.D. you mentioned you were talking to some subscribers about the trip to north Carolina. How do I get in touch with you so I can do the same?

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @@paulandrew4415 send me a message on my Instagram. Link is in the description. Thanks paul!!!😊

  • @garyharnish2395
    @garyharnish2395 Месяц назад +6

    Does your brother have the same problem?

  • @CraigFox-lt6lt
    @CraigFox-lt6lt Месяц назад +5

    Just thinking about your busy weekend and the plans for company Sunday afternoon.
    My guess is that just 3 years ago, you wouldn't be able to do this, because you would have been totally out of it, getting smashed as you've described. If the event happened at all, you probably wouldn't have been mentally there.
    - - - Now you can be fully involved with sleep overs, breakfast, and all the activities. That's FREEDOM, and must be a great feeling!!!

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +3

      Wow Craig this really hit me hard…in the best way possible. You’re so right….freeedooommmmm!! (Braveheart movie). Hope you’re having a wonderful Sunday. 😊

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      That is SO right, Craig!!! I was in a similar boat! 3 years ago, even if I forced myself to be sober for a family event, I wouldn't be present because I'd be both thinking about how much I wished I was home drinking, and I'd likely be suffering from an all day hangover. The freedom we experience from those nagging thoughts now and enjoying each day not stuck in the haze of a hangover... and most importantly, being an active, present, and loving presence in our friends and family's lives is SUCH a gift!!! Have a great day, friend 😊❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey craig! You would be correct! I am actually going to do a video on this topic this week! Great minds think alike!!! Hope you had a great weekend! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @clarapahlen1
    @clarapahlen1 Месяц назад +5

    What a great idea with the Discord community! 🙌🏻❤️

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      It was not mine, they had a great idea!!! Thank you! God bless ❤❤❤

  • @Jellytosh
    @Jellytosh Месяц назад +7

    Looking so forward to what is to come through this channel in the future 💐🌻

  • @kentlowry5435
    @kentlowry5435 Месяц назад +5

    Thank you LD great video today . Enjoy the birthday party . I can remember myself drinking on my kids birthdays . Celebrating their birthdays my and they were grown and away from home . So sad ! I love seeing the sun rise .Have a blessed day all we have this great day to live enjoy it to the fullest . 🙏❤️💙

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      We do have a great day just waiting for us!! I hope yours is amazing, Kent. 😊❤

    • @kentlowry5435
      @kentlowry5435 Месяц назад +1

      @@amandaflaherty7528 Thank you . And you as well my friend .

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey Kent! Thank you!!! It was a wonderful day! I am right there with you. I drank at all my kids birthday parties, it ended up being a party for the adults most of the time. It really is sad. But, not anymore! It's all about them now! I hope you had agreat weekend! Thank you! God bless 😊😊😊❤

  • @lynnemerrell5137
    @lynnemerrell5137 Месяц назад +12

    Being the steady person in his life means alot

  • @jonoh4883
    @jonoh4883 Месяц назад +4

    No worries Bro... For an introvert like me this is like my AA... Perhaps not an exact proxy for AA but it's very helpful to see everyone's responses on the subject matter....
    Thanks LD

    • @tomlyon3273
      @tomlyon3273 Месяц назад +1

      Hello, alcoholic here. Id recommend doing both meetings and RUclips videos. Many alcoholics feel introvert, or uncomfortable. I dislike talking to people and dread sharing in AA but the alternative is a poisoned life.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much for always being here jonoh!!! I really do appreciate your positive outlook!!!! God bless ❤❤❤❤

  • @Laura-hk4th
    @Laura-hk4th Месяц назад +5

    Happy Birthday to your son!! 🎉
    God bless & enjoy ❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much laura!!! It was such a great day! I hope your weekend was a great one! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @clarapahlen1
    @clarapahlen1 Месяц назад +4

    I hope your son had a wonderful birthday. Looking forward to seeing your talk with Slayer ❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      It sure was!!! Thank you so much! I can't wait either! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @newkingdom6750
    @newkingdom6750 Месяц назад +4

    I'm so excited you're setting up a discord 🙌❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Me too!!!! Amanda is doing it for us all!!! She is so awesome! God bless ❤❤❤

  • @TylerG69
    @TylerG69 Месяц назад +6

    Boy do I need to take more accountability. I really dislike myself sometimes. Mostly after a night of binge drinking by myself. Love your videos bro!

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      You can absolutely step away from that lifestyle, and if that's something that you want, then you're in the right place! I used to binge drink alone, so I totally get how you get there and what you may be feeling like it does for you. But I learned the hard way that it wasn't serving me. If you want support, then know that there are plenty of people here who would love to support you and cheer you on!! ❤️😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      I know exactly where u are coming from my friend. I used to do the same thing, you can do it!!! Thank you! God bless 😊😊😊

    • @BillSteve-w9l
      @BillSteve-w9l Месяц назад +1

      One day at a time. We're rooting for you!

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @@BillSteve-w9l 💯

    • @TylerG69
      @TylerG69 Месяц назад

      @@amandaflaherty7528 I appreciate your response so much. Thank you

  • @almaconnor9171
    @almaconnor9171 Месяц назад +8

    Here he is! Happy Birthday to your son!

    • @almaconnor9171
      @almaconnor9171 Месяц назад +4

      I have to say your sobriety is the greatest gift u could give your son!!!! Isn’t it wonderful, LD? Priceless❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you so much! It was a great day!!! God bless❤❤❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      ​@@almaconnor9171it really, really is!!!❤❤❤

  • @yvonneshaub6111
    @yvonneshaub6111 Месяц назад +4

    Hey Ld, happy bday to your son!.. great news Brutus officially has a new home!.. its been a blessed weekend! Im hoping more blessings are to come.. have a great day / evening with your family! God Bless!!

    • @CMoore8539
      @CMoore8539 Месяц назад

      That’s great!! I’m very happy to hear that.💞

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      Omg that is amazing, Yvonne!!! I'm so happy for you all!! ❤❤❤🎉

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey Yvonne!!!! That's absolutely wonderful!!! I am so happy for you and your daughter!!!! I hope more blessings are heading your way too!!! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @thiefonthecross7552
    @thiefonthecross7552 Месяц назад +5

    This is so incredibly honest and humble. You have the spirit of truth in you now thank you so much for what you are doing. I'm almost 3 weeks sober after 20 years of binge drinking. Your videos are a huge part of my arsenal to stay sober. Praise Be

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +1

      Congratulations on 3 weeks sober. You should be really proud of yourself. Wishing you continued success in your journey.

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      Wow!! Congratulations on your sobriety!! 🎉🎊🎉 That is no easy task for anyone. Especially someone who has 20 years of binge drinking under their belt. I second Micru! You should be SO proud of yourself!! Keep killin it, friend!! ❤🎊🎉🎊😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for being here and using these videos in your arsenal!!!!! I really appreciate that and congratulations on.3 weeks my friend! That's absolutely amazing!!! God bless❤😊😊😊

  • @Kristen10-22
    @Kristen10-22 Месяц назад +6

    Constant relapser …
    Don’t ever QUIT trying!
    Now I have over 20yrs…
    It’s crazy

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      That's so awesome Kristen!!!! Congratulations on 20 years!!!! I am so happy for you!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 28 дней назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk 🫶🏻🥰 thank you

  • @RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p
    @RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p Месяц назад +6

    Happy birthday to birthday boy!

  • @CHlLLUMlNATI
    @CHlLLUMlNATI Месяц назад +5

    LD!! Love you brother!!

  • @RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p
    @RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p Месяц назад +12

    I have had custody of Ron's son Austin (long story)since he was in 5th grade. He turned 18 one month before Ron died. He wanted to remain with me just bcoz it's "home". He was still in school and has quit school. Then we lost his dog. Austin is refusing professional help.
    So if you can't sober up for yourself....look into the eyes of your children.

    • @paulandrew4415
      @paulandrew4415 Месяц назад

      @RonsMom40-pu1en2gj4p I have ronsmom and I'll never drink again

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey ronsmom! I did not know that. You are such a great grandma!!!! I'm so sorry that he is dealing with that. I really hope that he does accept some professional help. I'm sure it will help. Thank you so much for sharing this, I know it will help someone out there! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @UnseemlyGenie00
    @UnseemlyGenie00 Месяц назад +6

    Powerful message

  • @kathrynminnick8986
    @kathrynminnick8986 Месяц назад +6

    LD! Happy, happy birthday to your son!!! It is so great you are here for his birthday!! Both in body and mind!! So glad you are now a sober dad!! I know you and your kids cherish your sobriety so much!!! So glad you could find your way to sobriety and that you continue to stay the course while being ever vigilant! Thank you for mining so many intensely personal and difficult moments from your life to provide us insight, wisdom, and guidance. The depth and breadth of inspiration you offer just knock me out. Your videos (and you) are like an example of Newton's third law of motion: "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction." All the vast darkness and desperation of your drinking years has now boomeranged into the opposite: a boundless firmament of light, hope, wisdom and resolve. Every time I watch your videos I can't figure out whether I'm contemplating the miracle of physics or God or just one courageous individual. But I'm so grateful how you've transformed your difficult experience into a gift for others. I'm always amazed at your spirit. Thank you so much for who you are and what you do!! 😊👏❤❤❤

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +1

      Beautifully stated Kathryn. I’m amazed as well. I’ve had deeper interactions with LD and others on this channel that I haven’t had in years. It’s refreshing and has renewed my faith in humanity. He definitely has kept the promise he made when he was in the darkest point. Now his family, friends, and all of us have the privilege of having him. All I wish is that he continues to thrive and has an abundance of health and love! He has touched my heart. 💜 I hope you’re having a beautiful day Kathryn.

    • @kathrynminnick8986
      @kathrynminnick8986 Месяц назад +2

      @@Micru866 Everything is fine! I hope your day is fine, too. Are you going to the meet-up, btw?

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +1

      @@kathrynminnick8986 glad to hear it, yes I’m doing well too. Yes I’m trying to work out the logistics I’ll know for sure next month. Are you able to go?

    • @kathrynminnick8986
      @kathrynminnick8986 Месяц назад +2

      @@Micru866 I am hoping to!

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +1

      @@kathrynminnick8986 I know it will be a great time and I’m looking forward to meeting you 🤞. Are you on the east coast, apologies if you told me before?

  • @lynnemerrell5137
    @lynnemerrell5137 Месяц назад +3

    Would you do a show on how to be an advocate for your health care? I found that I get better care and understanding when I show the health care staff how involved I am

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      I absolutely will! I know exactly what you are talking about! Thank you! Be on the lookout! God bless❤❤❤

  • @BrandonRei95
    @BrandonRei95 Месяц назад +3

    Truly an inspiration brother, I’ve been going back on the booze on and off every other week or so. The guilt gets to me every time. Going to try and lay low for a while so I don’t put myself in a situation that I would normally drink in. Like you said one day at a time. God bless you and the community 🙏🏻

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      You've got this, Brandon!!! Don't worry about the fact that you fell down, just don't hesitate to get up!!! And never stop getting up!! It will click one of these times and I believe in you!! ❤😊❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much Brandon! I know exactly what you mean. I would have to do the same thing when I would stop, I had to stay away! Hope you had a great weekend! God bless ❤❤❤

  • @cheryldeanley2074
    @cheryldeanley2074 Месяц назад +3

    Hey G 👋 I used to make a plan with myself that I would only have 3 shots. What a joke! Back to the liquor store I went, making sure I bought enough the second time around. ! Thanks for taking the time to share even on your son's special day. 🎉🎉🎉 Have fun! Happy Labor Day 🎉🎉🎉 ❤❤❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey jersey girl!!! I know what you mean!!! I was the same way! Thank you!!! It was a grwt day! I hope you had a great weekend and happy labor day to you too!!! God bless❤❤❤❤❤

    • @cheryldeanley2074
      @cheryldeanley2074 Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk lol I thought today was Labor Day! I got some dead brain cells lol

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @@cheryldeanley2074 😄

  • @Ben123-ug6vm
    @Ben123-ug6vm Месяц назад +3

    Can you go over your diet, what I eat in a day again?

  • @angiesweeting6618
    @angiesweeting6618 Месяц назад +3

    Happy Birthday to your son! Thanks for the great video today and the reminder that life is for sure so much better sober! I never want to go back to that old life and having to have a drink first thing in the morning before I could function. Like you, I had alot of time to think about things while laying in a hospital bed scared out of my mind and wondering how I got there. Nights were the worst as my room was at the end of the hall, so unless someone was coming into my room I never saw anyone which gave me alot of time to self reflect! I can honestly say one of the best things I have ever done is click on your first video a week after that horrible time in the hospital. You and this community have changed my life! I am super excited about the discord, I think it will be a great thing! I am good with you saying my name. Thank you for all that you do!

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      Angie, you should be SO proud of yourself. It makes me sad to think about you or LD (or anyone here for that matter) sitting in a hospital bed, scared. But look at you both now!! Sling better than you have in years and going strong!! Neither of you can be stopped, so just keep going my friend. I am c so happy to know that you're living life and you're living it well 😊❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much angie!!! Man.... I know exactly what you mean. I was all alone at night too. It really does make you think about how you got there. I am so glad you found this channel as well and have become such a big part of this community!!!! Thank you for your help with the discord and I will definitely let everyone know!!! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @joanthomas1755
    @joanthomas1755 Месяц назад +5

    Thank you, LD.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      You are so welcome joan!!!! Thank you!!!❤❤❤ God bless😊😊😊

  • @Kristen10-22
    @Kristen10-22 Месяц назад +5

    We can’t control it
    We didn’t cause it
    We CAN CHANGE

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      You are absolutely right!!! I love this!!! Thank you Kristen!!!! God bless ❤❤❤❤

    • @debrah4241
      @debrah4241 Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Kristen. Needed that😊

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 28 дней назад

      @@debrah4241 welcome… sorry I wasn’t getting notifications

  • @MonaYY_Rig
    @MonaYY_Rig Месяц назад +2

    Happy 14th birthday to your son LD. Sounds like a great celebration 🎉 ❤enjoy it. So glad you are there for the family! Blessings to you 💜

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much mona!!!! I hope you had a great weekend! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @Micru866
    @Micru866 Месяц назад +5

    Hey LD just dropping in to wish your son a wonderful birthday! 14 wow 🤩 that’s a great one when we start feeling all grown up…lol at least I did 😂. I love candied bacon 🥓. It’s all good LD you were juggling a lot of things. Have a wonderful day with the family and friends. Greatest gift is just being around loved ones.

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад +1

      Just popping in to say hi, Micru!! I hope you've had an awesome week!! Have a wonderful day, my friend, and all this good juju is coming your way from NY 😊❤

    • @Micru866
      @Micru866 Месяц назад +1

      @@amandaflaherty7528hey Amanda I was thinking about you over the weekend didn’t see you much last week but I know you’ve been busy. I heard you are helping to start the discord, that’s super nice of you. You know I’ll definitely be in there 😊. It’s was a hectic week just busy that’s all. I hope everything is good for you. By the way, are you thinking about going to the meet up? I’ll know for sure by next month but I’m hoping it all pans out. Anyways, have an awesome day too my friend and always sending you good vibes and juju from FL. 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey micru866!!!! Thank you so much! It was a great day! You are absolutely right! The time that we can spend with our friends and family now is just unbelievable!!!! Hope you had a great weekend! God bless❤❤❤❤❤

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      @Micru866 also, yes, I've been super busy!! Trying my best to catch up on life while working this vacation. Whenever I'm with friends or family, I put my phone away. I want to soak them all in. I never get to spend real time living with my loved ones bc life is so hectic, so I've been taking major advantage. This week may be spotty as well, but I'll be back to my old routine when we're back in school ❤️

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      @Micru866 I think my first comment got deleted where I spoke about the meet up. Let me know if you get it! Otherwise I'll repost

  • @tomlyon3273
    @tomlyon3273 Месяц назад +2

    I told myself id never be a cleaner or alcoholic, but it happened. We dont realise all those small thoughts choices and justifications to do things sculpt our lives

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey Tom! You are absolutely right, it's the small decisions that shape our life. Thank you for sharing! God bless❤❤❤

  • @CMoore8539
    @CMoore8539 Месяц назад +2

    Thumbs Up 👍 and shared out.❤ Awesome Video!!

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you cindy!!! I really appreciate the shares!!! God blese❤❤❤

  • @candacecanderson
    @candacecanderson Месяц назад +2

    I absolutely love your channel and can totally relate to everything you say! ❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much Candace!!!! I really appreciate you being here!!! God bless ❤❤❤

  • @DebraReule
    @DebraReule Месяц назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ben123-ug6vm
    @Ben123-ug6vm Месяц назад +3

    Happy Birthday!

  • @Catlady52000
    @Catlady52000 Месяц назад +2

    The mind can be a horrible thing if you let it. It’s rough.
    Great video again 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
    Oh, and happy bday to your son…hope it was a great day! 🎉

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      You are so right catlady!!!! Thank you so much!!! I hope you had a great weekend! God bless❤❤❤❤

  • @SamPonder-pr5js
    @SamPonder-pr5js Месяц назад +6

    Have a great day with family.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you sam!!! God bless😊😊

    • @SamPonder-pr5js
      @SamPonder-pr5js Месяц назад

      @liverdisease-qb6rk as far as my sobriety goes I will have one year September the sixth. My problem isn't with alcohol at the moment but more so with my health. I'm on hospice and they refuse to do any medical procedures. I can't even get them to do a blood test for my A1C. When I had it checked by a doctor in February it was 7.6 which classifies me as diabetic. I might have no other recourse but to drop hospice. Idk Any ideas?

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @@SamPonder-pr5js hey sam! Congratulations on 1 year!!! You don't have long until September 6th!!! That's absolutely amazing!!!! I am so sorry that you are on hospice right now and can't get any procedures done. I'm pretty sure that you can get an at home a1c test. And yes.... that a1c is diabetic. It's actually a good a1c for someone with diabetes, so good for you! I would look into getting at at home test. As far as the hospice goes, I can't give you any advice on that. Only you will know what to do there. I just can't say either way. Take some time and pray on it, think about the good and the bads that might happen if you stop. Will your pain be under control? Are you in a lot of pain? That could be a catalyst that changes the dynamics on what decision you make. If you get off of hospice, you will lose that ability to address the pain, if they are helping you with that, not saying that they are. I'm just bringing this up because I know how much pain I was in during the time I was bed ridden with the ascites and all I I would have given anything for help with the pain. My Dr absolutely refused to do so. I hope that thus helps and thank you for sharing your story with me! God bless you my friend!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @SamPonder-pr5js
      @SamPonder-pr5js Месяц назад

      @liverdisease-qb6rk thank you for your kind words. Yes I deal with extreme pain with the ascites and hernias. but refuse to take their pain meds. (Oxycodone). I don't want to be addicted to anything anymore. I guess I have picked my poison and so I must stand by my decision. I do think I'm going to drop hospice though so I can see my primary doctor. Thanks again my new found friend. I'm glad to see that you are thriving!

  • @CMoore8539
    @CMoore8539 Месяц назад +2

    Happy Birthday to your son!!💞🎂🎈

  • @michellerose7591
    @michellerose7591 Месяц назад +2

    Thanks bro 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      You are so welcome! Thank you for being here! God bless❤❤❤

  • @Marie1991-zq3kv
    @Marie1991-zq3kv Месяц назад +4

    Question. And you may already answered this question, but have you had kidney issues as well?

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey Marie! When i was in the hospital, I did, but not since. Thank you for being here! God bless ❤❤❤

  • @ShadesOClarity
    @ShadesOClarity Месяц назад

    I hope your son had a good birthday, LD. I am trying to change a lot in my life right now. You could say I am "in transition." These two months of sobriety I have now is the longest period I have had in a while. I don't like the smell of alcohol either and I can smell any form a mile away.

  • @Jaso839
    @Jaso839 Месяц назад

    Your son's birthday trumps everything else my man.

  • @Reggaechild
    @Reggaechild Месяц назад

    That was a good video man! A lot of really good advice and encouragement! And props to you Amanda! I’ve talked with you in the comments and I’m thrilled to hear you’re doing this! Happy birthday to your son too!!🎉

  • @Jimmypagesgreat
    @Jimmypagesgreat Месяц назад +1

    Happy birthday LD Jr.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you jimmy!!!! The funny thing is... he is a jr!!! God bless❤❤❤

  • @lberry2
    @lberry2 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      You are so welcome!! Thank you for being here! God bless❤❤

  • @Matt-lp8de
    @Matt-lp8de Месяц назад

    You hit the nail on the head with the hand sanitizer. I can't even use it anymore because it's such a huge trigger and if I absolutely half to use it I try not to breath through my nose so I don't smell it. I was a huge vodka drinker so I can relate to that.

  • @BillSteve-w9l
    @BillSteve-w9l Месяц назад

    Change or die. - Butterbean.

  • @simonjohn70
    @simonjohn70 Месяц назад +3

    hey liverdisease
    it was my bday and i have 10 shots 2 days in a row
    my cheeks are swollen
    is that someting you experience also?
    also is it safe to drink 2 tall cans of beer a day (710-740ml) 5% strenght?
    or is it dangerous note i have a fatty liver disease

    • @tomlyon3273
      @tomlyon3273 Месяц назад

      I had fatty liver, any amount of alcohol will cause further damage and inflammation. After drinking the liver gets irritated and causes the body to store more water. When i was a frequent drinker my face would be red and swollen all the time.

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      Hey, Simon!! If you have fatty liver, then I'd be trying my best to cut back. If you're looking to quit, though, and you drink that volume regularly, then I'd speak to a medical provider about how to do it safely!! You can do this. I'm sending you tons of strength and warm wishes ❤❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Hey Simon! Happy birthday first of all!!! I'm sorry that you drank. I would leave it alone. It is not good to drink with fatty liver. And I would say no, no amount of alcohol is safe, especially with fl. I hope this helps and I hope that you are doing well today! Thank you for sharing! God bless❤❤❤

  • @davidlafond8327
    @davidlafond8327 Месяц назад

    Hey LD, I hope you had a great weekend, and happy birthday to your son! 🎉🎁I was at the NYS Fair with family over the weekend and I must admit it was a bit tough. The smell of booze in the air and the wine slushie booths were somewhat triggering, but I was able to manage and I ended up having a great time! Didn't do too many rides though. After 3 or 4, I just get a really bad headache! Great message today my friend! I'm glad to have my life back on track, things aren't perfect, but nothing ever is anyway. I'm making progress and I'm so happy about that! Take it easy, brother!! ❤

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      Hey david!!! I sure did!!! Thank you so much! And thank you for the birthday wishes!!!!
      I am so proud of you for not giving in!!! That took a lot of strength!!!! I know it wasn't easy, but you did it!!!! Kudos to you!!! So glad to hear you had a great weekend at the fair! See you soon brother! God bless❤❤❤

    • @davidlafond8327
      @davidlafond8327 Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk Thanks man! Yeah I’m proud of myself too! 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @@davidlafond8327 😊😊😊😊

  • @glutitis
    @glutitis Месяц назад

    I literally changed my life around, being clean and sober. So my workplace, I suddenly have fun. I am calm and understanding, I feel like a batter man and I love it. That feeling, not being dragged around by an demon, called addiction is priceless. I wish, I could hand out that feeling in bulk. Sounds stupid, but I wish, I could share that hope and freedom. A heartfelt thanks, to a devine intervention, that is what I feel. It's a miracle in the works. Thank you L.D., you are part of my healing. I wish, I could hug you, for you, being you.
    A good, loving person. ❤ I do love the intelligence, you radiate.

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much glutitis!!!! I am so happy for you that you have found peace now!!! It's so nice when that finally happens! No more demons pulling you down! One day, I will give you a big hug, I know it!!! Thank you!!! Hope you had a wonderful weekend!!! God bless❤❤❤❤❤

    • @glutitis
      @glutitis Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk Thank you, friend. Its sounds a bit crazy, as if I made it just like that. Truth is, I fought over 30 years. Relapse, after relapse, after relapse, maybe 40 times in hospital, to detox. I couldnt make it. I dont even know, why this time worked. Anyway , what I do like to say, is. If I could make it, anybody can. I was considered a hopeless case, a failure. I was homeless , two times.
      Now, its, as if I found a spot of peace in my head. A place, I have never been before.
      Anyway. ANYBODY CAN MAKE IT. ( I have never been a religious person. Even that changed. I cant believe , I would have done it , without help from .......I dont know yet, but I was not alone.)

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      @glutitis that is so great to hear my friend!!!!! I am so happy for you!!!! I am so happy that you have found ...... whatever that is for you, but you are so right, we are not alone in this world. There is a presence there, waiting.....
      I am so glad to hear that you have found your peace now, it's so beautiful when we finally break free from the chains of addiction and can finally take a breath of relief!!! God bless you my friend ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @glutitis
      @glutitis Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk ♥

  • @Gr8Blue
    @Gr8Blue Месяц назад

    Thank you for the encouragement and sharing your story! 1st had Rum 151 at 11 years old. So crazy. It's just normalized in the culture I grew up around, in a lot of cultures. Alcohol really is one of the most dangerous drugs though. Struggled hard with minimizing..."just this one time, with this one special person, on this one special occasion", but made the commitment and NO REGRETS. Amen to communities like this. Found you through @addictedtomore. "Every day is a new day" 🙏💜🍀 Blessings to you and your family. And happy birthday to your kiddo.

  • @amandaflaherty7528
    @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

    Happy birthday to your son, LD! What a fun age 14 is. Young enough to not have a care in the world, but old enough to start wielding your autonomy. I hope he and your whole family had a blast celebrating!!
    I just got caught up on all the videos.
    I just wanted to say @addictedtomore_
    Your story is so compelling, and your experience was such a rough one. I'm so, so happy for you that you were able to come out of addiction and are enjoying life as fully as you are now! ❤🎊🎉🎊🎉The hope you're giving others by sharing your story is priceless. Many of us have been to such dark, lonely, and sad places within our addiction. But there is always hope, and you can always come out of it to enjoy life deeply and joyfully. No matter where you are in your addiction, it's never too late to come back. Thank you so much for your message! I'll subscribe to your channel.
    LD, as per usual, you nailed it with this video and it's message. We have to take the reigns, we're the only ones who can make the changes that we need for our lives, and you are a living testament that it can be done. You were delivered the worst possible news by your doctors. You didn't ignore it and move on, you didn't let it consume you and drag you further into addiction. You acknowledged it and decided to work hard to live as well as possible. And look at you now!! According to your doctors, you shouldn't be here. But you are, you're going strong, and you're doing amazing things. How we look at life, the cards we're dealt, and how we choose to interact with all of it determines our quality of life, and I believe our longevity. So I hope someone sees this video and recognizes that they have the power within themselves and the ability to live well. Wherever they are in their addiction, life is waiting for them if they decide to fight for it. ❤❤❤😊 sending love to this whole community!! Very excited to get the discord started so we can all talk in real time! 😊

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much Amanda!!! And thank you again for taking the time to create the discord for this community!!! I know that it's a lot of work! You are so right, we hold the power in our hands to change our lives. We have to want it! But, it can be done! Trust me... there was a time that I almost gave up, but I was inspired by a RUclipsr and now I am here too! I have to pay it forward! Thank you so much again!!!! God.bless❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @amandaflaherty7528
      @amandaflaherty7528 Месяц назад

      @@liverdisease-qb6rk I love that something, my friend!! Im so happy to help. Have a great night!! ❤️😁🙏💪❤️

    • @liverdisease-qb6rk
      @liverdisease-qb6rk  Месяц назад +1

      @@amandaflaherty7528 you too!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️