Mere father se aise hi saare paise mere Bade Bhaiyya ne le liye. Aur fir unko apne ghar par rakh liya. Fir one year baad unhe apne ghar se nikal diya. Ab mai unke saath hi Vrudh Ashram mein rehta hun. To parents beware of sick daughter in law. Meri bhabhi bahut chalaak thi mai pehle se keh raha tha. Now my mother is sick on saline she cannot walk same with father he is unable to walk , mai apna job chor kar baitha hun , Varanasi Vrudh asharam mein , case file kiya hai court se but use ladke ke bhi paise nahi hai. Now i am seeing my parents dying, and i can do nothing. Father was in private company, he dont have any pension. Toh mere baap ke bete ne toh pura dhamaka kar diya hai. Toh yeh sir ki advice mujhe sahi nahi lagi. Bye mujhe abhi khana parosna hai sabko aur mother ka saline bottle change karna hai , from DNS water to RL with mvi .
Hamara sahi hai !! Jo kuch karna hai khud se karna hai because saas sasur hum par hi dependent hain !! Devar bhi humko hi dekhte hain jab zameen aur ghar lena tha unko ! That’s why we are still living in Govt accommodation . We have so many liabilities can’t think of ever owing a house 😢
Very informative and practical advice. Hamare father in law to hamare hi paise se hume ghar nahi lene de rahe the. Kafi saal nahi lene Diya. Fir mere husband aggressive ho gaye ki mai to Ghar banaunga hi , aur rent pe nahi reh sakta jabki paise haath me hai,loan bhi nahi lena.But ab hum apne bachhon ke sath Aisa nahi karte. We are with them in every thick and thin
Sir please make an exclusive video on "selfish parents", i.e., those parents who wants to stay with their children, or at least have a say in all the decisions their children make, are highly emotionally dependent on their children's time and attention, and even stop them from pursuing higher studies abroad or a career of their choice just because that will take their child away from them. Also maybe a video on why is old age so scary that even good people become selfish and exploit their kids to take care of them. And how to ensure one's old age will be comfortable, for those who still have time to prepare for it.
My inlaws spoiled my husband's life only because of same reasons, me and my children suffered a lot. But paid attention to both of them. Societal pressure is too much
You come up with remarkable topics. Same thing had happened to us, when we were buying a property in Mumbai. We didn't even ask inlaws for money and my father was prepared to pay few lakhs to help us. Yet, they were so angry about us buying a property in Mumbai. Now for the last 7 years they are living in Mumbai and I live separately in Chennai. They ended up spoiling our married life. You are so relatable, AMAZING.
Parents in law bhale hi muh pe, keh de ki hum tumhare sath nahi rahengey ghar apne hisab se lena Lekin jab koi life serious illness ya bed ridden ho jate he to bete bahu ke, ghar turant shift go jate he Bete bahu ka bed room bhi dena, padta he Jab bete bahu ko bachho ko deshbhal n care ki zaroorat thi as bahu was working in emergency services still parents in laws refused to help in taking care of grand children while remaining in same city direct mana kar dete he grand children ki deshbhal karne se Kehte the naukar laga lo Night duty pe maa jati he to apni choti si beti ko kisi domestic help ke pas maa nahi rakh sakti In laws kehte they apni maa se kaho tumhare bachhe ki dekh bhal kare wo hum responsibility nahi lengey emergency services like railwaya, departments police departments hospital services me emergency services me sudden leave nahi milti but sas, saur ko koi fark nahi padta, They blyntly said on fce we will not help take help from bahus parents Bahus parents, helped to take care of children Now after 15 to 20 yrs suddenly parent in laws are talkin very nicely and telling bahu about care of elderly where will they go now they need your help as they are very old bed ridden nd as, bahu is really good she is taking care of them as well nice as her upbringing is good but now irony is both sides parents, are dependent on this couple as beta bahu / beti damad and rest children means other son/bahu of in laws and brother and bhabhi of woman who is working in Emergency services are not at all interested in taking care and helping nd even in laws have changed sides now seeing comfort in this betas house No funancial help from any side Crux is as a mother working in emergency services is Govt should make a law to force in laws to help in taking care of kids of working mothers just as beta n bahu are bound to help and support in laws If govt wants family system to survive Child care has no laibilty on in laws They should be make liable to support care and sfe environment Other wise how women will work with little children Highly educated working women don't get inlaws support in raising kids but in laws want that they should be taken are of and supported in severe illnesses bedridden conditions Even if healthy they want to live with their son as it is difficult to make chapati dal rice daily chores themselves plus maintenance of house is difficult for them Achhi nature ki Bahu par hi rishtedaro ka dawab hota ki seva kare jo bahue nahi karti unko kuch nahi kahte Jo bahu karti he, seva unko bura bhala, kehna Parents are really very biased it is, a sad fact They never realize that they will need help whe they get old Achhi bahue, bahut, suffer karti he, wo house wife aur working dono ho sakti he Har cheez mehangi he Leki jo beta videsh me rehta he wo mast koi help nahi karts na physically na financidlly sara burden ek par hi hota he aur parents jispar finacial limitatiin hoti he usko hi emorionally exploit karte he Dusre bachhe ke sath unka relationship ghumne phirne enjoyment ke liye hota till the fall illl than other son bahu / beti damad with more emotional attachment will take all burden and other son bahu will physically disappear in need of help Gayab Baney raho pagla kam karega agla Parents will not dare to ssy such other din/ bahu to take care but again when all healthy hood gears will shift This is the reality Exploitation of seedha beta bahu / beti damad happens who take responsibility
@@viaan945 tell parents to hire a caregivers or maid in Old age. Govt wants to decrease population so laws will be made to decrease population which is good otherwise there will be no jobs and places to live in the country. When they ask for help try to help but after helping for a while ask for financial help from in laws or parents if they don't help financially while you are taking care of them then better to cut off all relationships with them don't even talk to them
At least I've been super lucky in this regard. Have been going through a low phase for some time now. My parents have been rock solid with me. They've been providing for me and my kids even though my father is a pensioner now. Hopefully things will get back on track soon.
U talk very practical guruji...u show another side of story But sir also for these small town people 10-15 lakh is big...also they feel what if their child don't look after them in old age,so they see this amount as security.
No pension for a person who is doing his own small business their full life.. only some savings depending on much they can save, if enough income is there
This is new to me. As in my family boys parents are squeezing them for money even for daily essentials and rice dal etc. Everything to be borne by son even they are well off. Son should pay even for their donations to extended family and inlaws will take the name.. my husband is vexed up with this behaviour. But he is the only son so I don't bother. Let them enjoy their son money as long as they are alive. But feel bad for my husband he lives like a monk earning for others. Never does anything for himself
The way you have taught astrology... bringing Karma in your own hand and making peace with surroundings ... you have changed my life for ever .. I am on my path to increase Guru Tatva ..... No gurudakshina will ever be at par to that guudh gyaan 💫🙏🏻💫
Case study- Sir, in-laws koi help nhn karte. Wo sas ke naam pe FD bnaa ke rakhte jaa rahe hain aur bête ki ₹1 help nhn karte. Unka apna hee attitude hai ki mera pati earn karta hai. We don’t need son and daughter in law.
@@manvir777 Jab bachein College ki padahi Khatam kar leta hai toh usey Atmanirbhar banne ki aur dhyaan dena chahiye...kab tak gharwalon se maangtha rahega.. Baat rahi hospitalization ki toh woh bachoon ka kartavya Banta hai...jis tarah parents ne apna kartavya nibhaya padalikhakar bad kiya..uski zarooratoon ko poora kar
I dont agree with this. My own brother was helped by my father financially also gave property . He just walked away from parents after marriage. He was the most pampered among us . My husband was never helped by his parents in any way , but he supports his parents. It's about individual personality . The more pampered ,the more narcissistic. BTW, it's 20 years since my brother gave a,damn. He just dumped everything on me .
Take it as a loan from parents, so can repay them their money at 0% interest over time. So its comfortable for both parents and children. Or minimal interest mutually agreed upon
Children expect money as gift from parents. Very few would take money as loan from own parents. Registering the property on joint name with parent is a good suggestion .
This is really happening and kids end up buying the flat themselves and there will always be a gap created in views and not involving and understand each other how much you try.
Sir you are right I had similar case. I wanted to buy flat but my prarent refused. So I went for cheaper plot I took personal loan and then I was duped by property fraud and lost money. This is there in mind even after 8 years
Fellow community members, my parents have already decided that they won't live with me later. So, they probably won't help me out financially, as they'd like to save for their future as well. And they've been very negative lately saying that "tujhe to rehna hi biwi ke saath hai, shaadi ke baad". And I am not even married yet. What about this situation?
Then you are so set for a good life where the ghar ka kleshis very minimal. Once things are sorted out with your life partner after marriage, then you all come up with an understanding based approach that is mutually beneficial. Eventually situations in a few years will change irrespective of what your parents say now, and who know a new arrangement with with out really well for all. By default the Indian brought up is reasonably good, and we children take care of our parents in their old age whether they like it or not. It's just that the nature of taking care changes its form according to the times.
Bhai parents should not give such a big amount. This Person is not giving the right advice. Kids today are not trust worthy. They should think of themselves first.
Even other western cultures with less familial and cultural values parents help their adult kids when in need. Nothing wrong if Indian children needs help as long as they are trustworthy.
Your thoughts are more relevant to North India where population replacement ratio is above 4 . The normal ratio is 2.1. in south India population is decreasing
Sir my case is a little different,my wife doesn;t earn much . she is the only child of her parents.her parents do not have any retirement income. now she is indirectly expecting me to financially support her parents.which i am not willing to do. we have returned all the gold to her parents which was gifted to her during wedding
ऐसा लगा जैसे आप मेरी कहानी सुना रहे हैं! मैं एक ट्यूशन टीचर था/हूं। पिता ने मुझे जमीन बेचकर भोपाल में एक 300 sqft ka प्लॉट ले दिया, लेकिन काफी मिन्नतों के बाद भी मकान बनाने में सहयोग नहीं दिया, पिता जी से मैने कहा भी कि मुझे कर्ज/लोन में मत फंसने दीजिए वही हुआ जिसका डर था, लोन डिफॉल्ट - corona महामारी - बैंक एनपीए!!! आज मेरे पास कुछ नहीं है!! कुछ भी नहीं! कुछ भी नहीं!!
Happy this not happen in tier 3 cities and villages mostly times... Samajhdar log ko dukh jyada hota hai jab pta ho paise hain,,, par mile naa.... Bacche ki property bss physical asset nhi hoti maa baap bhi hote.... Bacche ye sab samjhte bhi hain.... par kya karein... you can't leave them.. Sometimes youth are also bad,,, so vice versa happen.... in law are good but child are not.... due to any condition.... like the @deepaks-G saying totally agree..
Maine to 5000 maange the, coaching ke liye, Mahindra mein education coaching ke liye, nahi diye. Ab zindagi aur truth se lad raha hoon, kya karu. Shree Krishna hai na...
Sir aapne bilkul shi kha mere husband kbhi bhi apne papa se paise nhi mangte hai wo knhi bhi interest me le skte hai lekin lekin apne papa se nhi maang skte sir kya aap mujhe bta skte hai k aisa kyu krte hai ma baap age bacche k liye nhi hai unke paise to kus k liye kya kr skte hai???
Case study- meri family Faridabad maine rheti hai in 2bhk..now I am married..we want bigger house 3 or 4 bhk..now my father telling me to take loan of minimum 50 lakhs..30 lakh he will add by selling 2 bhk... Siblings I have I sister and 1 brother..issue my father is doing..that may could lead to property dispute among brother...that I want to avoid.. Secondly I have idea that I haven't shared with him..he give me 30 lakh and i also have downpayment of 10 lakh ..5 lakh take from father in law..5 lakh ask my father to contribute..then take 30 lakh loan..once I will pay loan then I will payback my father 30 lakh also.. Mine Salary-12 lakh , working- MNC and age- 30.. Kindly suggest.
But Mera ye sawal hai...maa baap ne itna kuch kiya bacho ke liye...apne khud ke sapne pure nhi kiye bacho ke sapne pure karne ke liye....aur ab budhape me bhi bacho ke liye karte rhe....Mai bhi aaj ke generation se hu...hamari age abhi 30 yrs old hai..maine aur mere husband ne ghar liya hai...hum logo ne ek rupiya nhi liya apne father in law se.... infact hum log unke monthly expenses vahan karte hai...hume kyu lena chahiye maa baap se...maa baap budhape me bhi bacho kaa bojh uthhaye ..ye kya matlab hua...
Sir maine haal hi mein ghar book kiya hain, par abhi parents ko bataya nahi kyunki convince karne mein waqt lagega & baad mein higher rates pe wahi flat kharidna padta..
Mere father se aise hi saare paise mere Bade Bhaiyya ne le liye. Aur fir unko apne ghar par rakh liya.
Fir one year baad unhe apne ghar se nikal diya.
Ab mai unke saath hi Vrudh Ashram mein rehta hun.
To parents beware of sick daughter in law.
Meri bhabhi bahut chalaak thi mai pehle se keh raha tha.
Now my mother is sick on saline she cannot walk same with father he is unable to walk , mai apna job chor kar baitha hun , Varanasi Vrudh asharam mein , case file kiya hai court se but use ladke ke bhi paise nahi hai.
Now i am seeing my parents dying, and i can do nothing. Father was in private company, he dont have any pension.
Toh mere baap ke bete ne toh pura dhamaka kar diya hai.
Toh yeh sir ki advice mujhe sahi nahi lagi.
Bye mujhe abhi khana parosna hai sabko aur mother ka saline bottle change karna hai , from DNS water to RL with mvi .
Hamara sahi hai !! Jo kuch karna hai khud se karna hai because saas sasur hum par hi dependent hain !! Devar bhi humko hi dekhte hain jab zameen aur ghar lena tha unko !
That’s why we are still living in Govt accommodation .
We have so many liabilities can’t think of ever owing a house 😢
Very informative and practical advice. Hamare father in law to hamare hi paise se hume ghar nahi lene de rahe the. Kafi saal nahi lene Diya. Fir mere husband aggressive ho gaye ki mai to Ghar banaunga hi , aur rent pe nahi reh sakta jabki paise haath me hai,loan bhi nahi lena.But ab hum apne bachhon ke sath Aisa nahi karte. We are with them in every thick and thin
Good thinking
Sir please make an exclusive video on "selfish parents", i.e., those parents who wants to stay with their children, or at least have a say in all the decisions their children make, are highly emotionally dependent on their children's time and attention, and even stop them from pursuing higher studies abroad or a career of their choice just because that will take their child away from them.
Also maybe a video on why is old age so scary that even good people become selfish and exploit their kids to take care of them. And how to ensure one's old age will be comfortable, for those who still have time to prepare for it.
Yes siir please make video on this topic ,,my parents have spoiled life of my brother due to this
eagerly waiting for this topic
really needed
My inlaws spoiled my husband's life only because of same reasons, me and my children suffered a lot. But paid attention to both of them. Societal pressure is too much
Thank you for the video.
I am fortunate enough to have a father who is not like this. He is so much supportive
and giving...
Very Logical. However nothing extraordinary.
You come up with remarkable topics. Same thing had happened to us, when we were buying a property in Mumbai. We didn't even ask inlaws for money and my father was prepared to pay few lakhs to help us. Yet, they were so angry about us buying a property in Mumbai. Now for the last 7 years they are living in Mumbai and I live separately in Chennai. They ended up spoiling our married life. You are so relatable, AMAZING.
I am also buying my office space of 300 sqft on my own only
Those parents who have already decided that they don't want to live with their children won't help. They need enough to spend on themselves
Future parents are all like that
Parents in law bhale hi muh pe, keh de ki hum tumhare sath nahi rahengey ghar apne hisab se lena
Lekin jab koi life serious illness ya bed ridden ho jate he to bete bahu ke, ghar turant shift go jate he
Bete bahu ka bed room bhi dena, padta he
Jab bete bahu ko bachho ko deshbhal n care ki zaroorat thi as bahu was working in emergency services still parents in laws refused to help in taking care of grand children while remaining in same city direct mana kar dete he grand children ki deshbhal karne se
Kehte the naukar laga lo
Night duty pe maa jati he to apni choti si beti ko kisi domestic help ke pas maa nahi rakh sakti
In laws kehte they apni maa se kaho tumhare bachhe ki dekh bhal kare wo hum responsibility nahi lengey emergency services like railwaya, departments police departments hospital services me emergency services me sudden leave nahi milti but sas, saur ko koi fark nahi padta,
They blyntly said on fce we will not help take help from bahus parents
Bahus parents, helped to take care of children
Now after 15 to 20 yrs suddenly parent in laws are talkin very nicely and telling bahu about care of elderly where will they go now they need your help as they are very old bed ridden nd as, bahu is really good she is taking care of them as well nice as her upbringing is good but now irony is both sides parents, are dependent on this couple as beta bahu / beti damad and rest children means other son/bahu of in laws and brother and bhabhi of woman who is working in
Emergency services are not at all interested in taking care and helping nd even in laws have changed sides now seeing comfort in this betas house
No funancial help from any side
Crux is as a mother working in emergency services is
Govt should make a law to force in laws to help in taking care of kids of working mothers just as beta n bahu are bound to help and support in laws
If govt wants family system to survive
Child care has no laibilty on in laws
They should be make liable to support care and sfe environment
Other wise how women will work with little children
Highly educated working women don't get inlaws support in raising kids but in laws want that they should be taken are of and supported in severe illnesses bedridden conditions
Even if healthy they want to live with their son as it is difficult to make chapati dal rice daily chores themselves plus maintenance of house is difficult for them
Achhi nature ki Bahu par hi rishtedaro ka dawab hota ki seva kare jo bahue nahi karti unko kuch nahi kahte
Jo bahu karti he, seva unko bura bhala, kehna
Parents are really very biased it is, a sad fact
They never realize that they will need help whe they get old
Achhi bahue, bahut, suffer karti he, wo house wife aur working dono ho sakti he
Har cheez mehangi he
Leki jo beta videsh me rehta he wo mast koi help nahi karts na physically na financidlly sara burden ek par hi hota he aur parents jispar finacial limitatiin hoti he usko hi emorionally exploit karte he
Dusre bachhe ke sath unka relationship ghumne phirne enjoyment ke liye hota till the fall illl than other son bahu / beti damad with more emotional attachment will take all burden and other son bahu will physically disappear in need of help
Gayab
Baney raho pagla kam karega agla
Parents will not dare to ssy such other din/ bahu to take care but again when all healthy hood gears will shift
This is the reality
Exploitation of seedha beta bahu / beti damad happens who take responsibility
@@viaan945 tell parents to hire a caregivers or maid in Old age.
Govt wants to decrease population so laws will be made to decrease population which is good otherwise there will be no jobs and places to live in the country.
When they ask for help try to help but after helping for a while ask for financial help from in laws or parents if they don't help financially while you are taking care of them then better to cut off all relationships with them don't even talk to them
@@fasttube1948 cunning move....... Work in India 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My dad offered me help but we ended up saving 35% as downpayment already
So I avoided taking help from anyone
It's very true sir.....same situation with us, in laws ne help nhi ki hamene toh ghar le liya but husband ke man me baat reh gyi
Same here
At least I've been super lucky in this regard. Have been going through a low phase for some time now. My parents have been rock solid with me. They've been providing for me and my kids even though my father is a pensioner now. Hopefully things will get back on track soon.
U talk very practical guruji...u show another side of story
But sir also for these small town people 10-15 lakh is big...also they feel what if their child don't look after them in old age,so they see this amount as security.
Handsome pension is always there
@Real Thor not in all case...sometimes they commute their pension for major life events
No pension for a person who is doing his own small business their full life.. only some savings depending on much they can save, if enough income is there
This is new to me. As in my family boys parents are squeezing them for money even for daily essentials and rice dal etc. Everything to be borne by son even they are well off. Son should pay even for their donations to extended family and inlaws will take the name.. my husband is vexed up with this behaviour. But he is the only son so I don't bother. Let them enjoy their son money as long as they are alive. But feel bad for my husband he lives like a monk earning for others. Never does anything for himself
The way you have taught astrology... bringing Karma in your own hand and making peace with surroundings ... you have changed my life for ever .. I am on my path to increase Guru Tatva ..... No gurudakshina will ever be at par to that guudh gyaan 💫🙏🏻💫
I agree!
i also agree
Case study- Sir, in-laws koi help nhn karte. Wo sas ke naam pe FD bnaa ke rakhte jaa rahe hain aur bête ki ₹1 help nhn karte. Unka apna hee attitude hai ki mera pati earn karta hai. We don’t need son and daughter in law.
Yuppppp
Darr parents ko iss baat hai ki ...lifetime ki savings hai...old age pe kaun dhyan rakhega jab jebb mein paisa hi nahi hoga..
Parents ko hospital me bete ki bhi jarurat hongi.
@@manvir777
Jab bachein College ki padahi Khatam kar leta hai toh usey Atmanirbhar banne ki aur dhyaan dena chahiye...kab tak gharwalon se maangtha rahega..
Baat rahi hospitalization ki toh woh bachoon ka kartavya Banta hai...jis tarah parents ne apna kartavya nibhaya padalikhakar bad kiya..uski zarooratoon ko poora kar
He is not calling about the lower middle class who have only few lakhs ..
I dont agree with this. My own brother was helped by my father financially also gave property . He just walked away from parents after marriage. He was the most pampered among us . My husband was never helped by his parents in any way , but he supports his parents. It's about individual personality . The more pampered ,the more narcissistic. BTW, it's 20 years since my brother gave a,damn. He just dumped everything on me .
But children भी parents ko support करते हैं कई बार
These are things which noone tells us !! Aapke content bahut badhiya hai !!
Sucha a straight forward message. Thanks for sharing the knowledge.
Case study,we need these series
Take it as a loan from parents, so can repay them their money at 0% interest over time. So its comfortable for both parents and children. Or minimal interest mutually agreed upon
Yes , Sir....I have done happiness course....a lot of change in my life.... Thank you very much for everything , Sir ji......
Superb knowledge for society you are giving for working Son/Daughter n Parents, God bless you.
Bulls eye sir, that is why you can call yourself no 1..
Keep up the great work you are doing.
Sir, we definitely need this series. Thanks for sharing such highly practical and niche content.
Children expect money as gift from parents. Very few would take money as loan from own parents. Registering the property on joint name with parent is a good suggestion .
One should not judge parents on financial terms, kids should not complain if parents don’t help , parents need to be cared and not always milked
Meaning plz
Accurately captured. A friend had shared the exact same situation with me last year.
10-15 lacs is not a big amount in gurgaon. That's why kids get bitter to their parents.
This is really happening and kids end up buying the flat themselves and there will always be a gap created in views and not involving and understand each other how much you try.
Very practical and good advice given 🙏 we need this series.
बहू भी बेटी है,,,wow
Sir you are right I had similar case. I wanted to buy flat but my prarent refused. So I went for cheaper plot I took personal loan and then I was duped by property fraud and lost money.
This is there in mind even after 8 years
Your thinking is very practical and perfect 🌹
Sir please make a vedio on why parents are more attached to daughter and jamai but not to son and bahu .
Bahu se nafrat krte krte beta bhi tyaag dete hain.. Aur bitiya haay kitni pyari hai ekdam masoom ai😂
Case studies are the need of the hour and specially by you sir since you have an amazing way of presenting them
I agree brother!
Mam to man ego also plays an important role.
We have seen father's having a huge jealousy from their son.
#casestudy
Fellow community members, my parents have already decided that they won't live with me later. So, they probably won't help me out financially, as they'd like to save for their future as well. And they've been very negative lately saying that "tujhe to rehna hi biwi ke saath hai, shaadi ke baad". And I am not even married yet.
What about this situation?
Then you are so set for a good life where the ghar ka kleshis very minimal. Once things are sorted out with your life partner after marriage, then you all come up with an understanding based approach that is mutually beneficial. Eventually situations in a few years will change irrespective of what your parents say now, and who know a new arrangement with with out really well for all. By default the Indian brought up is reasonably good, and we children take care of our parents in their old age whether they like it or not. It's just that the nature of taking care changes its form according to the times.
I learnt Hindi living in Delhi in the 1980s. Feels nostalgic listening to your slang!
Case study chahiye sir. Thank you for your priceless hindsight, insight & foresight.
Jo time per Kam aaye vo hi rishtedar he vo char maa baap ho mama mami ho.
Bhai parents should not give such a big amount. This Person is not giving the right advice. Kids today are not trust worthy. They should think of themselves first.
If your kids are not trust worthy then its your fault. Think about it, how you raise your kids...
Agar apne bachhe pe bharosa nahi karonge to kya bahar walo pe bharosa karoge.
@@yankeesahil1203 arrey I am myself a kid and a good one. So I am playing devils advocate here.
Even other western cultures with less familial and cultural values parents help their adult kids when in need. Nothing wrong if Indian children needs help as long as they are trustworthy.
Very informative and practical advice. Case studies.👍
Great analysis n very feasible advice.
Amit, Case Studies extremely requirement for us n Public as well.
I really appreciate your efforts...pls add more case studies
Exact story of my life......ek ek shabd meri life se relate krta hai
Very well said, sir. Keep up the good work.
Amazing video, full of practical issues..Thx much Sir
Case studies are the best source for a gentleman...
Very good Sir, we need series... practical content
Much needed series, guru ji 🙏
We need this series, continue....
What a story and content great appreciation......👍👍👍👍
Your thoughts are more relevant to North India where population replacement ratio is above 4 . The normal ratio is 2.1. in south India population is decreasing
Sir my case is a little different,my wife doesn;t earn much . she is the only child of her parents.her parents do not have any retirement income. now she is indirectly expecting me to financially support her parents.which i am not willing to do. we have returned all the gold to her parents which was gifted to her during wedding
Share your practical case studies... You are doing really 👍
ऐसा लगा जैसे आप मेरी कहानी सुना रहे हैं!
मैं एक ट्यूशन टीचर था/हूं। पिता ने मुझे जमीन बेचकर भोपाल में एक 300 sqft ka प्लॉट ले दिया, लेकिन काफी मिन्नतों के बाद भी मकान बनाने में सहयोग नहीं दिया, पिता जी से मैने कहा भी कि मुझे कर्ज/लोन में मत फंसने दीजिए वही हुआ जिसका डर था, लोन डिफॉल्ट - corona महामारी - बैंक एनपीए!!!
आज मेरे पास कुछ नहीं है!!
कुछ भी नहीं!
कुछ भी नहीं!!
Happy this not happen in tier 3 cities and villages mostly times...
Samajhdar log ko dukh jyada hota hai jab pta ho paise hain,,, par mile naa....
Bacche ki property bss physical asset nhi hoti maa baap bhi hote.... Bacche ye sab samjhte bhi hain.... par kya karein... you can't leave them..
Sometimes youth are also bad,,, so vice versa happen.... in law are good but child are not.... due to any condition.... like the @deepaks-G saying totally agree..
Yes we need such series'
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More case studies please, Mr. Sangwan 🙏
Parents bolte hain ki apni jama poonji tumhe de denge... Hum logo ko koi badi bimari ho gayi to kaun dekhega
Case study. Thank you
Definitely need such case studies.
GOod eveni ng sir. Sirtopic which u make us to understand is very good. Thanks sir 🙏
Very useful information. Thank you.🙏
Maine to 5000 maange the, coaching ke liye, Mahindra mein education coaching ke liye, nahi diye. Ab zindagi aur truth se lad raha hoon, kya karu. Shree Krishna hai na...
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Marvelous work done sir
Baat m dam h
Sir when parents cheat their own child what should be done
MAG
Case Studies aur laiye Sir Ji
Sir, please bring these type of issues
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Sir aapne bilkul shi kha mere husband kbhi bhi apne papa se paise nhi mangte hai wo knhi bhi interest me le skte hai lekin lekin apne papa se nhi maang skte sir kya aap mujhe bta skte hai k aisa kyu krte hai ma baap age bacche k liye nhi hai unke paise to kus k liye kya kr skte hai???
Case study- meri family Faridabad maine rheti hai in 2bhk..now I am married..we want bigger house 3 or 4 bhk..now my father telling me to take loan of minimum 50 lakhs..30 lakh he will add by selling 2 bhk... Siblings I have I sister and 1 brother..issue my father is doing..that may could lead to property dispute among brother...that I want to avoid..
Secondly I have idea that I haven't shared with him..he give me 30 lakh and i also have downpayment of 10 lakh ..5 lakh take from father in law..5 lakh ask my father to contribute..then take 30 lakh loan..once I will pay loan then I will payback my father 30 lakh also..
Mine Salary-12 lakh , working- MNC and age- 30..
Kindly suggest.
Yes we need this series
Please make more such case studies. This was very helpful.
Case study.
❤️ sarkari Dr here Sir , chandigarh se .🙏🏼😊 roz sunnte hain aapko.
Case study...MAG, Sir. Jai Hind.
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Definately want more case studies
Case studies. I need this series
Great sir ji 100% right .
Sir ye case study mujhe personally bahut acha laga me chahta hu in topics par or jada video bane
Case study..
Thankyou Amit ji
We need this series
Yes Sir we want to understand these series
But Mera ye sawal hai...maa baap ne itna kuch kiya bacho ke liye...apne khud ke sapne pure nhi kiye bacho ke sapne pure karne ke liye....aur ab budhape me bhi bacho ke liye karte rhe....Mai bhi aaj ke generation se hu...hamari age abhi 30 yrs old hai..maine aur mere husband ne ghar liya hai...hum logo ne ek rupiya nhi liya apne father in law se.... infact hum log unke monthly expenses vahan karte hai...hume kyu lena chahiye maa baap se...maa baap budhape me bhi bacho kaa bojh uthhaye ..ye kya matlab hua...
He is referring to parents who can afford to give that amount easily
It's a case study, and only applicable for parents who are financially good.
You're right too, but in the specific case you mentioned, not in general.
Didi bo udar he le rahe ge
Glad to see more case studies sir
Very helpful sir ...plz start series
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Thanks very much sir 🙏🙏
Excellent 👍
Sir aap baat toh sahi karte hai par jo purane chawal hai unka mindset change karna next to impossible....
Great. Case study.
What if whole pension n FD money is spent in total without having future secured at age of 60yrs?? Is it really sensible to help in such case?
Most government employees have more than 30 50 lakhs of corpus at the end
Jabardast 👍🏻
I'm also from Dehradun Uttarakhand 🙏
Muh se baat karana aur real life ki baat har family ki alag alag hoti hay sabhi family ki internal metter same nahi hoti
Sir maine haal hi mein ghar book kiya hain, par abhi parents ko bataya nahi kyunki convince karne mein waqt lagega & baad mein higher rates pe wahi flat kharidna padta..
Good topics that you come up with.. Keep it up!
Case study is needed 👍
Real estate of MP ( 1. jabalpur 2. Bhopal 3. Indore) if possible