Each and every concept not only on this channel but also on clarity for youth presents a new concept every time and it unfolds a new dimension of thinking "knots khulte jaa rhe hain "
Mother's narrative on relatives of husband side is because she is the one who has to tolerate and live with them and she is affected by their behavior. Father rarely lives with his in-laws and even with his own relatives he is not able to sense the politics played by his own relatives. The wife has to vent out her feelings and also feels the need for a sympathetic listening. Hence she pours her views on relatives to her children as the husband doesn't pay any attention to her complaints. I don't say that mother side relatives are all good. But as she is mostly affected by in-laws side relatives due to the societal set up of girl living with her in-laws, this type of narrative against relatives tends to get generated. But anyway your videos are really mindset changing and thought provoking. Kudos to you for your effforts in bringing change in societal mindset. Thank you.
@@Dvg-vh2qx Only those who have experienced this situation can understand my views. It seems either you have had the privilege to live your life on your terms if you are a female or else you are a typical man with a patriarchal mindset. My kids are wise enough to observe and form their own opinion and judgement without any prejudice. I too feel pity for your kids' spouses and wish you too get cured.
@@svidhyag I have two children and still I am staying with my in laws and I am happy for that. I don't need to tolerate anyone. But your view is as such every daughter in laws are perfect and everyone on the other side are the worst human beings and only humiliates n exploit daughter in laws. My kids are also growing up happily with grandparents.
Manipulation, emotional blackmail, narcissism are all unfortunately related words to indian parenting. A person who is born in india but without typical indian mindset, it becomes difficult for him or her to live with society where even families are full of politics. So any guidance for such ppl, how to stay unaffected while living in society which is completely different from his or her thought process? Bit weired question, but would glad if you guide on this subject.
@@jyotivyas9286 it's not about lndian or western societal fabric. It's about good, logical, and proper parenting which will make a child onto responsible and law abiding citizen. Parents have to understand this irrespective of country.
@@jyotivyas9286 U are just talking about politics whereas i have mentioned here seroius issue like nacissism in parenting. Also this narcissism parenting is so common in india, that is most horrific thing about the indian family system.
@@shekharkapoor9208 basically the family system here is destructive in inner core but sugar coated outside considering itself sophisticated ! Most hypocritic society. Whereas westerners they look scattered but made such strong society that their children (above age of 18) can work, wander, explore diffnt ways of life, follow their hobbies and interests so easily..without any family or society pressure and narratives.
sir I am a mom of a 7 year old boy. and I want you to make a vedio for our generation who is raising this new below 10-12 years old next generation. sometimes I feel confused because jo humare parents ne Hume sikhaya tha vo humari life me kafi hadd tak workout nhi hua. ab hum apne bachho ko kya sikhae , kaise handle kre. Hume to Mast pitai lag jati thi , ab hum apne bachho ko Marne ka soch bi nhi skte. so parenting to change kr di Hum ne but now kaise kre parenting......... please 🙏 make a vedio about new generation parenting.
Every word that you have said is 100% true. The elder generation of today has literally destroyed the young generation of today with the baggage of their expectations and hopes. Relations between the ward and their parents/guardians have been dented beyond repair in many cases including myself. 😵
And still sometimes u have to gulp it up because you can't be the one who always Fights or starts it, otherwise firse typical Indian parents wala drama start.
My brother and I are very fortunate. My mother inspite of her issues with her in laws and other family members she never tried to influence us. Infact all cousins are having strong bonds.
करोडो युवा सरकारी नौकरियों की तैयारियों में 35 years निकाल दे रहे है . अंधी दौड़ है । सरकारी नौकरियाँ बहोत कम है sir. अगर ये सब युवा private business में आ जाये तो सब बदल जाये। इस विषय पर वीडियो sir
Very true, there is a great need to form your own opinion of things rather than blindly following elders or parents just because they take care of you.. When you become parents yourself you will understand that you are just a person and you can't be always correct and that is the same for other elders and parents.. Nice Concept !!
It's true that mothers usually set the narrative in a household....my mother had started hating my father and set both of us children against him...but his house sheltered her till her 80's and the finest academic education he gave us and his legal legacy stands by us till this day
Thank you sirji. This is a very very relevant topic. I have seen this being played out in my life, my aunts have influenced their kids (my cousins) so much that i don't have a good relationship with them. It's a loss for both sides I feel.
I have come across this channel accidentally. But after that, I saw all your old videos and I am very happy now. Your choice of topics is very unique and relevant. Plus your thoughts and perspectives are so fresh and new. Thank you very much Sir
Ye common hai .. nothing new.. mother in laws who never worked and are dependent they do these tricks a lot to save their old age time..budhapa sahi beet jaaye.. bahu jaaye bhaad mein..
I lived in hostel in school and college and a solitary life after joining service. I lived without any any influence of narratives on me. It has made me solitary, detached and analytical person.
One more point📍 sir I will like to add. Is OverControlling and Overinterference ka repercussion hi ye ho raha hai.... Yaa hone wala hai... Ki aane wali generation marriage institution system se Kanni kaat rahi hai. Kyoki unhe ye poora game samajh mein aane laga hai. Bahut Bahut Dhanyavaad aapka hum sabko aaina dekhane ka 🙏🙏🙏. But Sir as you say already jobs logo ko mil nahi rahe, mil bhi rahe hai to wat is the situation of Salaries, inflation, expenditures etc. Ye system kaha tak jaayega iska bhagwan hi maalik hai. Aap sahi kehte hai.... Jo 40-50 saal pehle kiya hai, usse bhugatna to hum sab ko padega.
Great topic! The "average" Indian needs an alternative narrative to that so far offered by "Saas-Bahu" type inferior, third grade media productions or worthless influencers - very important to open up the doors & windows of the mind & let fresh air & thoughts in, to be courageous, take chances in life - which does not translate to being foolish & reckless. Thank You 🙏 very much for taking up this thankless job! The mountains you have to climb are very steep indeed. Good luck!
हमारी बेटियाँ है इसलिए हमेशा दुत्कारा जाता रहा... हमे ही नहीं बच्चियों को भी... Property हम कभी नहीं मांगे फिर भी हमेशा झगड़ा कि कहीं देना ना पड़े कुछ... तो भी 17 साल इसलिए सहन किया कि माता-पिता हैं समाज तो हमें ही गलत कहेगा... लेकिन अब बच्चे बड़े हो गए हैं समझते हैं इसलिए उनके और अपने आत्म सम्मान के साथ छोड़ दिया... रिश्तेदार या समाज जो कहता है कहता रहे
That is very correct ...I am myself 54and remember my parents saying Hamid bnogey ya mehmood of premchand fame story eidgah....😁😁😁😁😁😁...or hum Hamid kya ameena dadi bn Gaye.
If my wife or friend see this comment, they will be shocked, amit ji is my new best virtual friend, it may be one sided but I was never so confident in life, but since last more than 4 months, amit ji has opened my eyes nth number of time. Thank you so much best friend 😘
It is so true sir , I was thinking earlier that I I am the only person to be influenced by the narratives of my parents....but later on realises if I had sat calmly and peacefully ask the question to myself then I would have got the answers .....Ur videos are such to the point and answers our inner conflict with ourselves.... Thank u so much sir...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sir ji me aapko Guru manta hu. Shayad aap kabhi mujhe mil na paye dekh na paye lekin me aapko bohot sunta hu. Keep it up and you are at such high level of wisdom ki aap corrupt nahi honge. Mujhe yehi baat achi lagti he. Kyuki baaki log jinko me follow krta tha wo ab corrupt ho gaye he time ke sath. Aap sahi ho. Thanks for existing sir! 😊
Sir.. your videos are life changing. Thanks a lot for this perspective. You have explained my life. I wish I had come across these videos 20 years ago. I would have been a different person 😊🙏🙏🙏
Sir aapne duniya ko bhut njdeek se dekha hai ya to aapki life me bhut aise experience hue hai isliye aap in baaton ko bhut acche se smjhate ho main abhi 30 years ki hu but main bhut kucch jaan gai hu apne experience se mujhe aapki video dekhna bhut accha lgta hai mujhe lgta hai k koi hai jo aisi topic pr baat krte hai thanks you sooo much uncle
Thanks sir for making this video It gives clarity how narratives are used in society, workplace & in family to create fear, confusion and mislead people
Sir aapne 1950-1960 Wali generation ko expose kar diya hai. They had lot of issues specially Controlling issues. Sir is chakkar mein 1970-1980 Waale kahi ke nahi rahe. Hum log pura control kiye gae.... Aur hamare bacche aab hamari bilkul bhi nai sunne wale. You were right about this. Isliye 1970-1980 Walon ki awakening ho rahi hai. Unke saath kya kiya gaya hai.... Ye aab unhe Clear cut samajh mein aa raha hai.
Very true sir 👍 you are inspirational all the time.your observations are bang on Eye opener.I forward your videos to my kids n I have seen they discuss these aspects and prospects. .keep up the good work.Thank you
Well said sir.. Even in my family after my tauji's death the relations among our cousins have become hostile due to some misunderstandings between my taiji, mom & dadi. As taiji feels that we ( my parents &dadi) did'nt supported her during tauji's cancer phase which is completely wrong.
Sir I want to tell you something my father died in 2021 due to covid. But since I have started to listen to you.i feel that my father is talking to me.thankyou 🙏🙏
Yes sir, you're absolutely right. Narratives are made by smart, cunning people for their own benefits or image making. Money, power, position are the reasons behind.
Yes can see the same in society. I do stock market long term investing, so other people in the family say, do take a loan and buy a house first, wherein my house construction is already going on!!
Very true. My mother is the same. She used to fill up my brains for against all relatives and now she blames me for everything that I am at fault that all my relatives dislike me now.
I am commenting before watching this video. My father doesn't want to share his earnings and not allow us to do agriculture in grandfather land . After watching your videos i feel so much father could have done or can do now also but he doesn't leave his control he is 68 i am 38 my brother is 35. No hopes he will leave property in next 5 years also. Feeling depressed
@@tindrums Han Bhai true, but we could do more with the help of father. Adding to this the main problem is we had step mother, as usual childhood was also screwed. Ultimately we have reached peak of frustration with father.
Your children are so lucky 😂 ..I’m very curious to know how you gained all these refreshing perspectives and what were your experiences that shaped you into the person you are today. Anyway ,Sir , you are very entertaining and informative to hain hi…I’m hooked to your videos. Parents ko bhejne ka man kar raha hai but kaise bhejen😂 …we will be termed nalayak if we do! 😂
कोई भी न्यायप्रिय व्यक्ति दुस्तोंके साथ वही व्यवहार करता है जो वह दूसरो से चाहता है, और न्याय की सबसे बड़ी कसौटी और परिभाषा यही है। जिस बड़े को ये करना आता है, वह अपने पीछे सूची परिवार बना लेता है, जिसे रिश्तों से, दूसरों से फायदा उठाना समझ में आता है वह अपने साथ साथ अपना परिवार चौपट कर लेता है।
आपको सर सब पता है।।।।आपकी videos जबरदस्त होती हैं।।।।।मैं बहुत भाग्यशाली हूँ के मेरे पति भी आपकी तरह खुली सोच के हैं।। he always supported and guides me......
Sir this the exact thing that happened with me. I used to think that my buas and chacha are not so much loving and chill. I used to get more excited to visit mama's house. But now after so many years i have realised that those chill mamas are the most toxic😬
Life things and concepts keep changing with time, innovations and many other factors. One must therefore not get tied up one belief. One must keep reviewing life from time to time and change accordingly.
Sir, Muze do pyaare bate he....fir bhi aate jate bbohat log bolte he ki do bete he to jyada problem hoti he..... Muze bahut dukh hota he... Jab me ye sunti hu.... Fir me khod ko samzati hu ki aaj ka din to Khushi se Jilu..... Abhi to 10- 15 saal baki he...tab Tak Sikh logi ki kaise problem solve karni he
Hello sir, I am in a situation with my parents in which they create a false issue and when i clarify things they say '' Hum to Jhut bolenge to bhi sunana padega'' Also whenever i buy something new (essential things like ac sofa kitchen chimney suv car) they think i am buying these things to make them feel inferior. I don't know how to get out of this silly situation. Can you tell me why parents do this or am i the only one who is suffering from this.
They want u to be a puppet for them sit stand do what makes us comfortable . U don’t have to bother so much focus on ur wife and kids and ur parents will never be happy becoz they are negative people
Yes because that generation is very successful and is in competition with your generation See video of sir where he talks about generation A, B, C You will understand
Indians ne sabko unhappy banane ka theka le rakha hai. For no reason at all they will make themselves and everyone else also unhappy by creating absurd artificial imagined issues, where there are actually none.
Sir you are absolutely right... once I told same thing to my mother... but I failed to make her understand my perspective... aur jo muje taunt mile hai uff... she said "Tum to duniya se oposite chalti ho... tumko samaj ni hai duniya ki... tum khud ko Raja harishchand samjane lagi ho". 🤣
My mom doesnt have good terms with her brother and her brother's daughter is my best friend so she is doing everything to break my friendship from scolding me to disrespecting my friend when sje comes home etc i have to lie at home to even meet her sometimes.
सर जी narrative को दृष्टी कोन कहते है या आपके स्टाईल मे बताना है तो खुदके चष्मे दुसरोंको पहेनाना. यह व्हिडिओ सही मायनेमे आंखे खोलने वाला है. बिलकुल फेविक्विक से चिपके हुए आँखे भी खुल जायेगी.
Each and every concept not only on this channel but also on clarity for youth presents a new concept every time and it unfolds a new dimension of thinking "knots khulte jaa rhe hain "
Hi
Hi
You knoty boy🤣
The main issue with Indian family set up is the utter lack of respect for boundaries.
So correct this is the exact problem we don't believe in the policy live and let live
Exactly... When we put boundaries around us tab Ghar Wale and friends sochte hai ki hum egoist BN chuke hain...
So true.
Uske liye to fight karni padegi
Absolutely 💯
Seriously true..throughout childhood I thought my mom's side was amazing but in adulthood I know..Not everything that glitters is gold..
Mother's narrative on relatives of husband side is because she is the one who has to tolerate and live with them and she is affected by their behavior. Father rarely lives with his in-laws and even with his own relatives he is not able to sense the politics played by his own relatives. The wife has to vent out her feelings and also feels the need for a sympathetic listening. Hence she pours her views on relatives to her children as the husband doesn't pay any attention to her complaints.
I don't say that mother side relatives are all good. But as she is mostly affected by in-laws side relatives due to the societal set up of girl living with her in-laws, this type of narrative against relatives tends to get generated.
But anyway your videos are really mindset changing and thought provoking. Kudos to you for your effforts in bringing change in societal mindset. Thank you.
Tolerate??? Affected??? So much of one sidedness and negativity.. I feel pity for kids and I wish u to get well soon
Absolutely right , in fact sometimes if in laws don’t like one particular daughter in law , they don’t like her children also
Exactly, cuz the woman has to deal with them and serve them while a man gets respect and get served from women's family( exceptions are there).
@@Dvg-vh2qx Only those who have experienced this situation can understand my views. It seems either you have had the privilege to live your life on your terms if you are a female or else you are a typical man with a patriarchal mindset. My kids are wise enough to observe and form their own opinion and judgement without any prejudice. I too feel pity for your kids' spouses and wish you too get cured.
@@svidhyag I have two children and still I am staying with my in laws and I am happy for that. I don't need to tolerate anyone. But your view is as such every daughter in laws are perfect and everyone on the other side are the worst human beings and only humiliates n exploit daughter in laws. My kids are also growing up happily with grandparents.
My mom's response for every reasoning , "Maine jyaada duniya dekha hai, mujhe sab pata hai" 😥
Next day : she comes back with a tip from Whatsapp university 😂😂
Ye line mere papa bolte hai 😂😂
Dimag khrab kia hua h yr is bekar si line bol bol kr🤦
Your response should be - duniya badal gayi hai 😂
😂😂😂
Manipulation, emotional blackmail, narcissism are all unfortunately related words to indian parenting. A person who is born in india but without typical indian mindset, it becomes difficult for him or her to live with society where even families are full of politics. So any guidance for such ppl, how to stay unaffected while living in society which is completely different from his or her thought process? Bit weired question, but would glad if you guide on this subject.
It's not at all weird, it's actually very much practical issue
@@jyotivyas9286 it's not about lndian or western societal fabric. It's about good, logical, and proper parenting which will make a child onto responsible and law abiding citizen. Parents have to understand this irrespective of country.
@@jyotivyas9286 U are just talking about politics whereas i have mentioned here seroius issue like nacissism in parenting. Also this narcissism parenting is so common in india, that is most horrific thing about the indian family system.
@@shekharkapoor9208 basically the family system here is destructive in inner core but sugar coated outside considering itself sophisticated ! Most hypocritic society. Whereas westerners they look scattered but made such strong society that their children (above age of 18) can work, wander, explore diffnt ways of life, follow their hobbies and interests so easily..without any family or society pressure and narratives.
Look for ur own independence get a job in new city move away from such families . Learn to manage ur independence
What my mother did in unnecesaary hate for my wife, can't forget for life. She created a hell out of my life
sir I am a mom of a 7 year old boy. and I want you to make a vedio for our generation who is raising this new below 10-12 years old next generation. sometimes I feel confused because jo humare parents ne Hume sikhaya tha vo humari life me kafi hadd tak workout nhi hua. ab hum apne bachho ko kya sikhae , kaise handle kre. Hume to Mast pitai lag jati thi , ab hum apne bachho ko Marne ka soch bi nhi skte. so parenting to change kr di Hum ne but now kaise kre parenting......... please 🙏 make a vedio about new generation parenting.
Yes sir.. please make video on our category too.. new moms whose children are around 7-10 yrs
Every word that you have said is 100% true. The elder generation of today has literally destroyed the young generation of today with the baggage of their expectations and hopes. Relations between the ward and their parents/guardians have been dented beyond repair in many cases including myself. 😵
And still sometimes u have to gulp it up because you can't be the one who always Fights or starts it, otherwise firse typical Indian parents wala drama start.
Especially if the house has 3 Sons with different income levels, the biases are multifold, blocking individual growth 📈
Oh god !!!that could b hell 😢@@srikrishnadentalcare4416
My brother and I are very fortunate. My mother inspite of her issues with her in laws and other family members she never tried to influence us. Infact all cousins are having strong bonds.
करोडो युवा सरकारी नौकरियों की तैयारियों में 35 years निकाल दे रहे है .
अंधी दौड़ है ।
सरकारी नौकरियाँ बहोत कम है sir.
अगर ये सब युवा private business में आ जाये तो
सब बदल जाये।
इस विषय पर वीडियो sir
Very true, there is a great need to form your own opinion of things rather than blindly following elders or parents just because they take care of you.. When you become parents yourself you will understand that you are just a person and you can't be always correct and that is the same for other elders and parents.. Nice Concept !!
Keenly collecting golden wisdom from your videos sir.. lucky to have found this channel.
Me 2
Ya seriously
True ....earlier middle class generation seems to be really suffocating.
It's true that mothers usually set the narrative in a household....my mother had started hating my father and set both of us children against him...but his house sheltered her till her 80's and the finest academic education he gave us and his legal legacy stands by us till this day
Sab gharo mai yahi chal raha hai
Mummy log actually me apni shadi me khush nhi the but ye bhi galat hi ki wo Hume papa k khilaf kr dete the..
My God
@@utopiancity8138 be murakh vo apni mummy ki baat kr rahi hai
I was in family where my mother put in additional effort in having good relation with both my paternal and maternal uncles and aunts.
Thank you sirji. This is a very very relevant topic. I have seen this being played out in my life, my aunts have influenced their kids (my cousins) so much that i don't have a good relationship with them. It's a loss for both sides I feel.
Sir, where were you 20 years back, lot of things in my life would have changed.
I have come across this channel accidentally. But after that, I saw all your old videos and I am very happy now. Your choice of topics is very unique and relevant. Plus your thoughts and perspectives are so fresh and new. Thank you very much Sir
Things we were not having clarity and were bothering us subconsciously. Because of you sir getting clarity in life. Thank you from bottom of heart
In my family my mom-in -law has created frictions between their sons for her own benefits
Ye common hai .. nothing new.. mother in laws who never worked and are dependent they do these tricks a lot to save their old age time..budhapa sahi beet jaaye.. bahu jaaye bhaad mein..
sab jagah same. not necessary sons me ho sons daughters me bhi karte mothers aise
My mother in law too.
Same here.. i can relate
Same here
I lived in hostel in school and college and a solitary life after joining service.
I lived without any any influence of narratives on me.
It has made me solitary, detached and analytical person.
Solitary means without one’s own family or a family ( nuclear family)away from extended family ?
@@Martian1859
Without family and without friends
One more point📍 sir I will like to add. Is OverControlling and Overinterference ka repercussion hi ye ho raha hai.... Yaa hone wala hai... Ki aane wali generation marriage institution system se Kanni kaat rahi hai. Kyoki unhe ye poora game samajh mein aane laga hai. Bahut Bahut Dhanyavaad aapka hum sabko aaina dekhane ka 🙏🙏🙏. But Sir as you say already jobs logo ko mil nahi rahe, mil bhi rahe hai to wat is the situation of Salaries, inflation, expenditures etc. Ye system kaha tak jaayega iska bhagwan hi maalik hai. Aap sahi kehte hai.... Jo 40-50 saal pehle kiya hai, usse bhugatna to hum sab ko padega.
Great sir
Ur punches are much stronger than any Bollywood dialogue writers... 👍
Narrative = धारणा ।
Wonderful message sir🙏. Please keep up good work sir. Let's change the society... With new narratives...
MAG (Maaza Aa Gayaa) Sir..Thanks a lot for this valuable topic discussion🙏😇
Great topic! The "average" Indian needs an alternative narrative to that so far offered by "Saas-Bahu" type inferior, third grade media productions or worthless influencers - very important to open up the doors & windows of the mind & let fresh air & thoughts in, to be courageous, take chances in life - which does not translate to being foolish & reckless.
Thank You 🙏 very much for taking up this thankless job!
The mountains you have to climb are very steep indeed. Good luck!
Amit Sangwan sir ji....Zindaabaad sir ji...tussi great ho!!!
हमारी बेटियाँ है इसलिए हमेशा दुत्कारा जाता रहा... हमे ही नहीं बच्चियों को भी... Property हम कभी नहीं मांगे फिर भी हमेशा झगड़ा कि कहीं देना ना पड़े कुछ... तो भी 17 साल इसलिए सहन किया कि माता-पिता हैं समाज तो हमें ही गलत कहेगा... लेकिन अब बच्चे बड़े हो गए हैं समझते हैं इसलिए उनके और अपने आत्म सम्मान के साथ छोड़ दिया... रिश्तेदार या समाज जो कहता है कहता रहे
टूथ पेस्ट वाला उदाहरण मेरे दिमाग मे हमेशा आता है और दोस्तों के साथ शेअर भी करता था. परफेक्ट उदाहरण change of narrative!
कोविड के बाद तो बहुत ही तेजी से सोच में बदलाव आया है , हर क्षेत्र में, अब लोगों के द्वारा , लोगों पर प्रभाव पड़ना कम हो गया है
True
That is very correct ...I am myself 54and remember my parents saying Hamid bnogey ya mehmood of premchand fame story eidgah....😁😁😁😁😁😁...or hum Hamid kya ameena dadi bn Gaye.
If my wife or friend see this comment, they will be shocked, amit ji is my new best virtual friend, it may be one sided but I was never so confident in life, but since last more than 4 months, amit ji has opened my eyes nth number of time. Thank you so much best friend 😘
It is so true sir , I was thinking earlier that I I am the only person to be influenced by the narratives of my parents....but later on realises if I had sat calmly and peacefully ask the question to myself then I would have got the answers .....Ur videos are such to the point and answers our inner conflict with ourselves.... Thank u so much sir...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sir ji me aapko Guru manta hu. Shayad aap kabhi mujhe mil na paye dekh na paye lekin me aapko bohot sunta hu. Keep it up and you are at such high level of wisdom ki aap corrupt nahi honge. Mujhe yehi baat achi lagti he. Kyuki baaki log jinko me follow krta tha wo ab corrupt ho gaye he time ke sath. Aap sahi ho. Thanks for existing sir! 😊
Very true.. hame to sun Kar bahut hansi aai.. true chal raha hai
I love listening you sir. We really need people like you in our society n families.
Sir.. your videos are life changing. Thanks a lot for this perspective. You have explained my life. I wish I had come across these videos 20 years ago. I would have been a different person 😊🙏🙏🙏
Sir aapne duniya ko bhut njdeek se dekha hai ya to aapki life me bhut aise experience hue hai isliye aap in baaton ko bhut acche se smjhate ho main abhi 30 years ki hu but main bhut kucch jaan gai hu apne experience se mujhe aapki video dekhna bhut accha lgta hai mujhe lgta hai k koi hai jo aisi topic pr baat krte hai thanks you sooo much uncle
What a wisdom.Must watch by all middle class families.
Thanks sir for making this video
It gives clarity how narratives are used in society, workplace & in family to create fear, confusion and mislead people
I wish i can forward this to my parents, relatives and in-laws 😂
Sir aapne 1950-1960 Wali generation ko expose kar diya hai. They had lot of issues specially Controlling issues. Sir is chakkar mein 1970-1980 Waale kahi ke nahi rahe. Hum log pura control kiye gae.... Aur hamare bacche aab hamari bilkul bhi nai sunne wale. You were right about this. Isliye 1970-1980 Walon ki awakening ho rahi hai. Unke saath kya kiya gaya hai.... Ye aab unhe Clear cut samajh mein aa raha hai.
English subtitles please!
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For us South Indians..
Very true sir 👍 you are inspirational all the time.your observations are bang on
Eye opener.I forward your videos to my kids n I have seen they discuss these aspects and prospects. .keep up the good work.Thank you
Agree sir 👍 how you explained narrative is wonderful 👏
Very good sir. Absolutely spot on
Amit Sangwan sir...jabardst batting krte ho ji!!!!
Best video so far ... Immediately forwarded to my family group
You are also a influencer who is setting a good narrative to the youth.
Well said sir..
Even in my family after my tauji's death the relations among our cousins have become hostile due to some misunderstandings between my taiji, mom & dadi. As taiji feels that we ( my parents &dadi) did'nt supported her during tauji's cancer phase which is completely wrong.
Very true..... Very precision analysis
Sir I want to tell you something my father died in 2021 due to covid. But since I have started to listen to you.i feel that my father is talking to me.thankyou 🙏🙏
God bless You.
same here sis
Your analysis is in fact...a reality of our society. I listen to you very keenly.pls keep it up.from Pakistan
Video banata raho sir bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai
Bahut achi n sahi baatein lekr ate ho sir aap. We also observe all these things.but we are unable to word it 👍
Agree with your comment that bringing new new topics and detailing it in words is very commendable and appreciated.
मेरा नैरेटिव तो सैट है आपके लिए कि आप ग्रेट हो।😅❤😊
Yes sir, you're absolutely right. Narratives are made by smart, cunning people for their own benefits or image making. Money, power, position are the reasons behind.
True
Sir yaha to dono ne bachpan se narratives set kiye hue hai. Me manta nahi tha to me kharab. Fully agreed with what u say sir.
This is so my family. Thank you very much for making this video and putting the right points upfront 🙏🏻
Always enjoying your videos sir. Our Indian societies need your input so they get better , also exceed in life .
Superb. Certainly food for thought.
U r of my father's age and i can relate to ur thoughts too much.i enjoy watching ur videos.👍
You are wonderful. I have never heard anyone discussing the ills of our society so frankly. We need more Sangos to free our society.
Yes sir there's lot of effort that you put in making a video sir, because you talk from all perspectives and it's not easy sir, keep it up sir.. 👍
Keep on going sir, you are doing super amazing job. #clarity 👏
Yes can see the same in society. I do stock market long term investing, so other people in the family say, do take a loan and buy a house first, wherein my house construction is already going on!!
Topic is interesting and factual. Narrator use narrative according to their circumstantial requirement of the time and personal comfort.
Very true. My mother is the same. She used to fill up my brains for against all relatives and now she blames me for everything that I am at fault that all my relatives dislike me now.
Good perspective.
OG influencers-mummies😂
I know this is so true and I am consciously trying to avoid doing it with my own kid now!
I am commenting before watching this video. My father doesn't want to share his earnings and not allow us to do agriculture in grandfather land . After watching your videos i feel so much father could have done or can do now also but he doesn't leave his control he is 68 i am 38 my brother is 35. No hopes he will leave property in next 5 years also. Feeling depressed
I am telling this after watching your some old video called baghban syndrome.
Bhai khuch din k liye city change kar lo ya job pakad lo dusere city me babuji samaj jayenge aur aap ki wife khuch rahegi
Apni khud kamao... pitaji se aayi property sirf bonus samjho
He won’t die till 90 so next 20 years u want to sit waiting ? Move away from them asap find a job some place
@@tindrums Han Bhai true, but we could do more with the help of father. Adding to this the main problem is we had step mother, as usual childhood was also screwed. Ultimately we have reached peak of frustration with father.
Narrative means norms that is made by our society or family. 👍
Your children are so lucky 😂 ..I’m very curious to know how you gained all these refreshing perspectives and what were your experiences that shaped you into the person you are today. Anyway ,Sir , you are very entertaining and informative to hain hi…I’m hooked to your videos. Parents ko bhejne ka man kar raha hai but kaise bhejen😂 …we will be termed nalayak if we do! 😂
कोई भी न्यायप्रिय व्यक्ति दुस्तोंके साथ वही व्यवहार करता है जो वह दूसरो से चाहता है, और न्याय की सबसे बड़ी कसौटी और परिभाषा यही है।
जिस बड़े को ये करना आता है, वह अपने पीछे सूची परिवार बना लेता है, जिसे रिश्तों से, दूसरों से फायदा उठाना समझ में आता है वह अपने साथ साथ अपना परिवार चौपट कर लेता है।
Sir aap to great ho. God sent for our Indian society 🙏
Narrative means "Dharana"in hindi..
आपको सर सब पता है।।।।आपकी videos जबरदस्त होती हैं।।।।।मैं बहुत भाग्यशाली हूँ के मेरे पति भी आपकी तरह खुली सोच के हैं।। he always supported and guides me......
We need such talks to improve the Indian middle class family fabric.🎉 Kudos Sir
Sir this the exact thing that happened with me. I used to think that my buas and chacha are not so much loving and chill. I used to get more excited to visit mama's house. But now after so many years i have realised that those chill mamas are the most toxic😬
Great video (telling bluntly which is the reality & required)
This type of content is the need of an hour.
Thank u for making this videos👏🏻✨😃🙇🏻♂️
Very strong effort to change society mind set 👏 👌
Very practical & useful. I admire your guts, how logically you give examples in a simple way.
Life things and concepts keep changing with time, innovations and many other factors. One must therefore not get tied up one belief. One must keep reviewing life from time to time and change accordingly.
Actually south mein girls and boys have a very healthy relation with each other and parents are also very accepting of their kids
Sir, Muze do pyaare bate he....fir bhi aate jate bbohat log bolte he ki do bete he to jyada problem hoti he..... Muze bahut dukh hota he... Jab me ye sunti hu.... Fir me khod ko samzati hu ki aaj ka din to Khushi se Jilu..... Abhi to 10- 15 saal baki he...tab Tak Sikh logi ki kaise problem solve karni he
I asked my husband to watch your channel with me but he is always disinterested and I had to watch alone 😢
He doesn’t want to update his old mentality.. so making excuses
You are validating our thoughts
You have great experience.... True clarity giver....
Sir, बहुत सही कहा आपने !!! मजा आ गया...
Hello sir,
I am in a situation with my parents in which they create a false issue and when i clarify things they say '' Hum to Jhut bolenge to bhi sunana padega''
Also whenever i buy something new (essential things like ac sofa kitchen chimney suv car) they think i am buying these things to make them feel inferior. I don't know how to get out of this silly situation.
Can you tell me why parents do this or am i the only one who is suffering from this.
No we are also suffering
They want u to be a puppet for them sit stand do what makes us comfortable . U don’t have to bother so much focus on ur wife and kids and ur parents will never be happy becoz they are negative people
@@NA-vt6mz You are right 😞
Yes because that generation is very successful and is in competition with your generation
See video of sir where he talks about generation A, B, C
You will understand
Indians ne sabko unhappy banane ka theka le rakha hai. For no reason at all they will make themselves and everyone else also unhappy by creating absurd artificial imagined issues, where there are actually none.
So good you are clearing so much confusion the young generation has nowdays
Mom has engineered my relationship with father and many other people. Which I found later was fabricated to her favour.
On point! Exactly this is what happens in families.
Sir you are absolutely right... once I told same thing to my mother... but I failed to make her understand my perspective... aur jo muje taunt mile hai uff... she said "Tum to duniya se oposite chalti ho... tumko samaj ni hai duniya ki... tum khud ko Raja harishchand samjane lagi ho". 🤣
My mom doesnt have good terms with her brother and her brother's daughter is my best friend so she is doing everything to break my friendship from scolding me to disrespecting my friend when sje comes home etc i have to lie at home to even meet her sometimes.
सर जी narrative को दृष्टी कोन कहते है या आपके स्टाईल मे बताना है तो खुदके चष्मे दुसरोंको पहेनाना.
यह व्हिडिओ सही मायनेमे आंखे खोलने वाला है. बिलकुल फेविक्विक से चिपके हुए आँखे भी खुल जायेगी.
मैं जब भी आपको सुनता हु, लगता है सब कुछ मेरे साथ ही हुआ है, या इससे मैं गुजर रहा हु। धन्यवाद।
Sir God has blessed u with wisdom. 🙏