गुरू जी प्रणाम, यह अब तक का सबसे गहरा वीडियो है। Thanks a ton for this video. Please make more such content. भगवान से आपके लिए एक खुशहाल और लंबी आयु की प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏
Sir, Please make video on English parenting how to communicate with their kids regarding below points 1) What is importance of studies when they are in school or learning skills at young age. 2) Why marriage is important when they will be adult? 3) Sex education not given in school so how parents should communicate with them regarding same. Yes, you are right parents should honestly tell the truth of situation. Then kids atleast believe on them may be will not follow all but will not ignore the parents also.
Sach m bahut hi eye opener video h parents k liye. Mere in- laws ne poori life yahi attitude rakha .Meri shaadi 31.5 years pehle hui thi. Mere parents aaj tak aise hai that they only Give . But in - laws ekdum opposite. Unke behaviour k kaaran mere husband k over all personality ,mental health bahut affect hui but maine dheere dheere husband ko unconditional pyar aur care karke usase baher nikala. Mere 2 bete hai . Bade k recently shaadi hui. Abhi kal hi hum bete k ghar se wapas apne ghar aaye hai almost 1.5 yrs baad. Wahan humne hamesha yahi kosish k unko her tarah se khushi de chahe bete bahu ka tiffin pack karna ho ya bahu ka birthday celebrate. Aaj wo itne close ho gaye hai k hamare wapas aane per rone lage .Raat ko 3 baje teeno air port chhodne aaye. Mere in - laws k kaaran mere husband k nature affect hui . Isliye hum bhi bachchon ko perfect parents nahi ban sake . But kaafi hadd tak humne koshish ki. Apni life bachchon & even bahu k saamne khuli kitaab k tarah rakh di. Mere parents Only Give wali nature ke hai shayad isiliye m unki parvarish k kaaran apne pati aur bachchon ko sambhal paayi. Aapke poore video ka saar is line m laga k apne bachchon ko Interesting way m paalo Hats off sir
Haan....parents ne jaise Paala hai upbringing dee hai uska asar har aspect pe jata hai aur ye realization muje ho chuka hai....mere husband bohot difficult personality hai tabi mera aaj divorce ho rha ....Main itna humiliation nhi seh paayi aur realise hua mere SAS sasur bohot pehle hee satyanaas kr chuke hai apne bacho ka ....Maine apna beta leke divorce lena choose kiya
@@vineetagupta6030felt sorry for u dear. Aapke husband aapko support karte hai ya nahi aur aap in- laws ke saath rehte ho ya alag . In dono ka bahut impact aata h . M bhi isiliye us situation se baahar nikal paayi becoz hum alag rehte the husband ki job k kaaran . All the best to u dear ❤
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 Amit sir ki videos toh hum kuch time pehle se dekh rahe hain unhone toh humse 1 saal se relation tod rakha Even inki brother sister ne bhi
Few kids have never seen such parents. I was opposite during my childhood. I was super happy when parents were out. When they came back, I used to get locked in my room so that parents don't see me. 😀 That's why I'm permanently out of the house now. 😎
@@beasty007 that's story of many kids. What we can do. That was anyways past. Ab rone se kya faayda. But what he said in this video just reminded me all those points.
I lost myself totally and emotional..I am father of only daughter and I am bringing up her in the same way as you adviced in this video..she feels me as her best friend and shares everything with me and seeks advices and makes fun of me and her mom..we parents and she enjoys every moment of being together..we are blessed to be..you touched heart of every parent..thank you sir..waiting for your life lesson videos 🙏
@@vibha-ff1eenhi vo ek gawar insaan h or kuchh nhi... Jinhone bche apni comfort k liye peda krte h ya beta isliye chahiye hota h taki sas bnkr vhan control kr ske. Ye ek cheap mentality h jiski shikar auraten bhi h.
My parents maintained two faces. I was under a strict control of my parents, have regret that my father didn't spend quality time with me as compared to other people. He considered me as a burden. He once said being a father of a daughter is a liability till she is married. So I married according to my choice without their knowledge.
I too had a tough childhood and teenage. I however, married as per their choice. My mother is better. She cares and doesn't expect anything in return. My father is harsh natured. Even now he doesn't like me. I felt bad until few days ago and thought of putting in more effort but now I think, no. Enough is just enough. Enough of disrespect I always had.
So right i hv been beaten a lot by my parents even without no reason bcoz of relatives frustration, married life frustration n the result today is i hardly have any affection or emotional attachment to them, dont feel any home sickness when im away from home, in fact i njoy being away from home, just i support them by giving money n nothing else
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 maine decide kar liya hai mai apne baccho ko kabhi bhi discourage nhi karunga balki pyar se samjhaunga aur bataunga agr nhi mante to subconscious mind ko programme karunga
U did right. For such parents only relatives r their kids, they do whatever their relative say. Such parents never regret for wrong doings. If kids live with such parents they end up with divorce, depressed, financial loss. Parents are good but never accept wrong advice given by parents. Be happy.
I believe Parents should love children unconditionally irrespective of their age, and it's a bliss being a parent. I have learnt a lot from my parents how not to be in life. It's their failures that made me a better person and a better parent. Thanks a lot sir! 🙏
Uncle ji aapki baat sunkr aansu aa gaye kash ki sb aapki trh sochte aapki age bhi mere papa or sasur k jitni hai but wo kbhi itna smjh nhi pate or aap aaj ki generation ki problem ko bhut acche se smjhte ho aapke bacche kitne lucky hai!!!
Much grateful for your videos sir. As a parent, sometimes we end up doing the same mistakes that we hold grudgingly against our parents. Love your reminders, feels just like an elder in the family telling us ( but they don't). God bless you!
Sir,being a parent I do all these pravchans but after seeing your video I am definitely going to change. Sir,pls make a series on parenting tips for parents in dealing with adolescents children It will help us as parents
I'm so happy and proud that my father has always been so supportive, friendly and cool with me. He's exactly the kind of parent that you are asking everyone to be like, sir.
Brilliant content. This video should be national parenting advice. Thanks for sharing this insightful masterpiece, extremely well articulated and bang on point.
Some parents scold their sons and daughters even after marriage. It is common for 75 yr old village man to control and scold his 40 yr old officer son mainly to control son’s income
This is true. My best friend's parents are just like this - talk very nicely to him always. And they have a strong and healthy relationship amongst them. I have seen the kind of conversation they have amongst them, which is enriching and healthy and not like bitter preaching or mundane things as you mentioned. Great work sir!
The definition of parenting is unconditional love which you have elaborated beautifully!! The only real deal without any fine prints or hidden clauses!!
Sir, aapki baaton gyaan ka ek ek word itna awesome, relatable and solutions se bhara hota hai ke kitni bhi lambi video ho ek second ke liye bhi mind divert nahi hota hai. Thank you so much for making this video. Much needed.
Sir, I'm regular audience of your videos. I think you are a true realist and have a wonderful wit and insight. My daughter is 17 and we live with our parents-in-law. By god's immense grace we are a happy family. But I'm writing to you bcoz, this video resonated deeply with me. My husband is a wonderful man and a very hands-on loving father. He's exactly like what you said the ideal parent should be and naturally is very close to my daughter. Although I'm also close to her but they have a special connection. Please keep making such videos.
We all are products of our upbringing & are often very rigid in our actions . But a child brings a huge change in the way we think & behave . We should keep the emotions that we feel when we are with them , alive ! We are supposed to be nurturers and providers and we should never forget that ! Be there , be theirs .. that’s always been my funda 😊 And yes you have tugged at the right strings again Amit ji !
My parents never went behind my sister and me with instructions. Rather they chose to say once and then let us learn through their actions! Now as an adult I am proud of how we turned up. I myself go and call my parents every single day.. and we talk sweetly for 2-3 and sometimes even 30 min if we have a topic. No lame talks. No faltu ki guidance 😊
Every video feels like somebody putting words to my thoughts !! Thank you Sir for bringing so honest and real and talk about something which is so obvious but is not talked about and hence kids become bitter !!
I am 42 yrs old ..have two kids and although my parents are with me .. I left metro city for them just to spend time with them but I still misses my father’s warmth who rarely talks to me despite being in the same home …your last 5-10 mins video has made me cry . God bless you .. I will make sure I treat my kids in a better way than my father treated me
Meri mummy bhi ek hi baar batati hai. Baar baar piche nahi padti. Isliye mere liye uski advice important hoti hai. Aur hame hamare decisions lene deti hai aur bahot chhoti advice deti hai jo ki sach me kuch alag aur achi hoti hai. I hope to be a same mother to my child
Yes, I do this... what can I do for you, not for any reason, just i feel joy ...in giving...to my son...and he says u r doing so much more than i need n he feels n says that I want to do something for you...u r absolutely right...jahaj ke panchhi...pranam.
What a video Ji! Swaadh Aagaya 😘 One of the best video I have seen in this year. Thanks for sharing it openly and bluntly. This is the reality 💯 and everyone must watch share this video so that atleast some people will get motivated to change their attitude. That will result in a better country some day. Thanks once again 🙏
O my God! So so heart touching video. Agar sabhi parents ye sab follow kar le to hamara apne bachchon se rishta to gehra hoga hi, parivaar me hamesha mithas bani rahegi.bahut hi gehari baat kahi hai sir aapne. One more thing,aapke videos chahe kitne bade ho magar lagta hai aapko aur sunte rahe.
amazing amazing amazing !! You convey the root cause of the solution of the problem. This is very true when parents tell to become ideal wife ,daughter, daughter in law or career advice. Children see that parents themselves have not followed anything then there is no logic to understand parents what they are trying to say. As u said children already give so much happiness to patents in their childhood and actually parents should pay them for that feelings and moments and not ask in return that I have done so much for you and you are only our investment and give us returns.
This is exactly my thought. I feel fortunate that my 12 year old son is in my life. He is the greatest gift i ever got and each day i'm grateful to god. Sometimes even when i'm disappointed with my wife for something, i feel so grateful to her for giving me this greatest gift of my life. And yes, i pay him each month so that he does not have to lower his self esteem and actually have to ask us for stuff that he needs.
main apni beti se poochti rehti hoon ki use kya chahiye if fells lack of anything, she can tell me anytime..i am always there for her. kabhi gumsum si lage to bhi behlakr poochti hoon ki koi concern hai to plz share with me..what is the reason behind ur sadness ..let me help u resolve ur issue or to help u atleast... Apne bahot achha topic uthaya hai. My daughter mostly says that she is blessed to have a mother like me as she compares with other parents and how her frnds crib or complaint abt their parents.. she said ki use koi kami nahi mili apni mother me jo wo bata sake..i felt so blessed that God made me sensible enough to grow my child in the best possible way. its not always materialistic things that children seek for...its emotional bond with parents..after all, v r everything fr them.
THANKU thanku thanku। so much sir g 🙏 Bahut sari new things,👍👍👍👍 नई तरीके से सोचने की दृष्टि मिली। शब्द समझ नहीं आ रहे आप को कैसे शुक्रिया कहूं🙏🙏🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫 मैं अभी 7 साल की बेटी की मां हूं,, और मुझे बहुत खुशी हुई कि मुझे इतनी जल्दी ये सब बाते मिल गई🤗🥳🥳।
Amitji, what a beautiful message! I agree with you as I follow this message everyday with my family... how do you spell love? It's spelling is TIME. Being a parent, I express love by spending quality time everyday by asking them about what they want, are they happy and how are their friends and sharing their experience with their friends, watching their favorite shows and laughing with them.... they do NOT need list of classes, they just need quality moments with parents :)
Sir, i'm not very old but all the advice you gave is very insightful.. i never thought I'll get a great new perspective by watching this video but I tell you l learnt a lot. 1. Stop giving pravachan to your younger one. 2. GIVE GIVE GIVE keep love/things/support to people you love 3. If you can't help materially then use your toung to be sweet with loved one 4. Your loved ones are not behind your wealth all the time. Share, give and earn their respect. 5. Be a comfortable person for your children as you were when they were small child. You use to forgive, love and help them recover without being too preachy. 6. Be Open and candid in interaction when you're talking to your son/daughter. Appreciate their challenge, anticipate their worry and don't exaggerate your success in front of them 7. If you want to change behaviour best way is to show your kid that you're feeling sad or disappointed with their actions instead of fighting or beating.
Sir, kids know what we are is the best thing I liked… for my parents and for me as I am parent as well… ur ideas are great and very clear… love n thanks for giving clarity… respect..
Sir aap toh bhut hi pyare parents h kabhi b dantane marne nahi dete bacchon ko. Kash hmare b parents aese hote aap ke jese. Sir aap apne parivar apne bachon ki yan pote\poti ki parwarish kese krte ho hame b bhut asani hogi samjhane m or curiosity b hai aapke parivar k bare m janne ki😊
Probably, one of your best videos if not the best. Thank you for making this video. A lot of depth. High level stuff but everyone can relate and easily do.
गुरु जी प्रणाम आप से बहुत ज्यादा प्रभावित हु आप जो कह रहे हैं वो 1000% सही है और मेरे पैरेंट्स पर 100 % सही बेठती है सर् आपके वीडियो देख कर जीवन को समझने लगा हु। सर् आप पेरेंट्स पर सीरीज बनाते रहे अब समय कि क़ीमत समझने लगा हु plz सर् विडियो बनाते रहे बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद ।
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गुरू जी प्रणाम,
यह अब तक का सबसे गहरा वीडियो है। Thanks a ton for this video. Please make more such content.
भगवान से आपके लिए एक खुशहाल और लंबी आयु की प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏
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Yes nice content, eyes opening for parents
Pp
India is not ready for this maturity level😄
Sir,
Please make video on English parenting how to communicate with their kids regarding below points
1) What is importance of studies when they are in school or learning skills at young age.
2) Why marriage is important when they will be adult?
3) Sex education not given in school so how parents should communicate with them regarding same.
Yes, you are right parents should honestly tell the truth of situation. Then kids atleast believe on them may be will not follow all but will not ignore the parents also.
Sach m bahut hi eye opener video h parents k liye. Mere in- laws ne poori life yahi attitude rakha .Meri shaadi 31.5 years pehle hui thi. Mere parents aaj tak aise hai that they only Give . But in - laws ekdum opposite. Unke behaviour k kaaran mere husband k over all personality ,mental health bahut affect hui but maine dheere dheere husband ko unconditional pyar aur care karke usase baher nikala. Mere 2 bete hai . Bade k recently shaadi hui. Abhi kal hi hum bete k ghar se wapas apne ghar aaye hai almost 1.5 yrs baad. Wahan humne hamesha yahi kosish k unko her tarah se khushi de chahe bete bahu ka tiffin pack karna ho ya bahu ka birthday celebrate. Aaj wo itne close ho gaye hai k hamare wapas aane per rone lage .Raat ko 3 baje teeno air port chhodne aaye. Mere in - laws k kaaran mere husband k nature affect hui . Isliye hum bhi bachchon ko perfect parents nahi ban sake . But kaafi hadd tak humne koshish ki. Apni life bachchon & even bahu k saamne khuli kitaab k tarah rakh di. Mere parents Only Give wali nature ke hai shayad isiliye m unki parvarish k kaaran apne pati aur bachchon ko sambhal paayi.
Aapke poore video ka saar is line m laga k apne bachchon ko Interesting way m paalo
Hats off sir
Haan....parents ne jaise Paala hai upbringing dee hai uska asar har aspect pe jata hai aur ye realization muje ho chuka hai....mere husband bohot difficult personality hai tabi mera aaj divorce ho rha ....Main itna humiliation nhi seh paayi aur realise hua mere SAS sasur bohot pehle hee satyanaas kr chuke hai apne bacho ka ....Maine apna beta leke divorce lena choose kiya
@nilinimagupta5311 ji .. I am facing same issues ..jus 29 right now .. my husband facing issue plus iss sab ka effect meri 3yr old p padh rha h
@@vineetagupta6030felt sorry for u dear. Aapke husband aapko support karte hai ya nahi aur aap in- laws ke saath rehte ho ya alag . In dono ka bahut impact aata h . M bhi isiliye us situation se baahar nikal paayi becoz hum alag rehte the husband ki job k kaaran . All the best to u dear ❤
Mera ghar wale mujhse naraj hogaye hai ..maine aapke videos unko dikhaye toh. But andar se sukoon mil raha hai mujhe. Feeling liberated.
Aapse toh sirf naaraj hain yahan toh sach bolne par chilla pade aur rishta hi tod diya
@@Jaahnvi442 sometimes I think to watch his videos or not ? Kalesh has increased. Too much truth is not needed maybe.
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 Amit sir ki videos toh hum kuch time pehle se dekh rahe hain unhone toh humse 1 saal se relation tod rakha Even inki brother sister ne bhi
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 mahabharat me bhi sab koi saant rahte to kalesh nahi hota par wo adharm hota. Aap dharm chuno ,anyay nahi saho. Sri krishna
@@sachinjha6333 Sahi baat hai.
That thing about child hitting is so true. And, if wife- beating is not ok then why should child-beating be ok. You are so right 🙏
Right....shd not hit ones kids
It should be criminal offense to beat kids . Every person, even kid is a owner of their own body . Nobody has right to touch the kid
Ye apne ekdam correct advice kiya hai, jyada gyan nahi dena chahiye, vo seekh lenge, jo unke kaam ka hai, unme bhi dimag hai.
Few kids have never seen such parents. I was opposite during my childhood. I was super happy when parents were out. When they came back, I used to get locked in my room so that parents don't see me. 😀
That's why I'm permanently out of the house now. 😎
@@beasty007 that's story of many kids. What we can do. That was anyways past. Ab rone se kya faayda. But what he said in this video just reminded me all those points.
I hope you are better now.
@@vishalpratap403 congrats that is a huge achievement on ur part I salute ur independence
Same here brother
@ vishal
I lost myself totally and emotional..I am father of only daughter and I am bringing up her in the same way as you adviced in this video..she feels me as her best friend and shares everything with me and seeks advices and makes fun of me and her mom..we parents and she enjoys every moment of being together..we are blessed to be..you touched heart of every parent..thank you sir..waiting for your life lesson videos 🙏
It is also not advisable to have single child.khusiya kab misery m badal jaegi pata bhi nahi chalega.life is unpredictable.
@@ishuyadav3788why u even say that....?
@@MaviNKaurat hai bhai
Aurato ko 1 beta jarur chahiye hota hai
@@vibha-ff1eenhi vo ek gawar insaan h or kuchh nhi... Jinhone bche apni comfort k liye peda krte h ya beta isliye chahiye hota h taki sas bnkr vhan control kr ske. Ye ek cheap mentality h jiski shikar auraten bhi h.
@@ishuyadav3788behan agr marna hi ho to logon ki puri ki puri family bhi Mr jati h ek sath. Ye koi reason nhi h or bche peda krne ka.
My parents maintained two faces. I was under a strict control of my parents, have regret that my father didn't spend quality time with me as compared to other people. He considered me as a burden. He once said being a father of a daughter is a liability till she is married. So I married according to my choice without their knowledge.
Nice
And when they find out ?
nice
I too had a tough childhood and teenage. I however, married as per their choice. My mother is better. She cares and doesn't expect anything in return. My father is harsh natured. Even now he doesn't like me. I felt bad until few days ago and thought of putting in more effort but now I think, no. Enough is just enough. Enough of disrespect I always had.
Very sad. He thought like this.
So right i hv been beaten a lot by my parents even without no reason bcoz of relatives frustration, married life frustration n the result today is i hardly have any affection or emotional attachment to them, dont feel any home sickness when im away from home, in fact i njoy being away from home, just i support them by giving money n nothing else
Ye sahi nahi hai.kya jane hum apne bachchon ke saath itne idle rah payenge ya nahi phir hamara bhi haal yahi hoga.
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 maine decide kar liya hai mai apne baccho ko kabhi bhi discourage nhi karunga balki pyar se samjhaunga aur bataunga agr nhi mante to subconscious mind ko programme karunga
U did right. For such parents only relatives r their kids, they do whatever their relative say. Such parents never regret for wrong doings. If kids live with such parents they end up with divorce, depressed, financial loss. Parents are good but never accept wrong advice given by parents. Be happy.
Same here
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 to unko bhi to koi problem nei hai
I believe Parents should love children unconditionally irrespective of their age, and it's a bliss being a parent. I have learnt a lot from my parents how not to be in life. It's their failures that made me a better person and a better parent.
Thanks a lot sir! 🙏
Great 😊
Only happens in dream
But aisa hota nhi hai😊
Nice❤
Same
Uncle ji aapki baat sunkr aansu aa gaye kash ki sb aapki trh sochte aapki age bhi mere papa or sasur k jitni hai but wo kbhi itna smjh nhi pate or aap aaj ki generation ki problem ko bhut acche se smjhte ho aapke bacche kitne lucky hai!!!
I have a 4 year old daughter sir and I'm already in tears. Thank you Sir ... Thanks a ton. Gratitude ❤️🙏🌹. An eye - opener video . Pranaam 🙏
Atleast you learnt this now when your daughter is just 4yrs old.. some people don’t even learn till their deathbed
4 y old kid:- muze kyu toda itne din😢
Mera 7 year h
Sir u r blessing
Ap jaise human being bhi exist karte h
Itna suljhi hui life
Itne grateful
Thanks to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aap ke jaise Pita sabko mil jaaye to sab kitni khushi se apna jivan jiye!!!!!
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Much grateful for your videos sir. As a parent, sometimes we end up doing the same mistakes that we hold grudgingly against our parents. Love your reminders, feels just like an elder in the family telling us ( but they don't). God bless you!
Well said
Phek do aise parents ko sale khudh ko samjh te kya hai baghwaan agar baghwaan bhi aisa karega to uski bhi naali pakad ke uska tetuya daba dena.
Aaj toh Rula hi diya aapne Sir..😢🙏आपके "गुरु तत्व" को मेरा कोटि कोटि नमन गुरुदेव 🙏😊
My son just turned 5 , and I am very grateful to you for all this guidance. Thanks a lot.....
My father is someone who asks "What shall I buy for you and your kids?".
He even asks me to share my Amazon wishlist.
You're lucky
@@talwindersingh3721 Thanks. You can also become one. Stay blessed.
My father be like:- chappal se maar khayega ya hath se
You are lucky
Naman ji Guru Ji...Amit Sangwan is the middle class rockstar Guru!!!
Sir,being a parent I do all these pravchans but after seeing your video I am definitely going to change.
Sir,pls make a series on parenting tips for parents in dealing with adolescents children It will help us as parents
I'm so happy and proud that my father has always been so supportive, friendly and cool with me. He's exactly the kind of parent that you are asking everyone to be like, sir.
Brilliant content. This video should be national parenting advice. Thanks for sharing this insightful masterpiece, extremely well articulated and bang on point.
I started crying while listening to this video… so realistic 🙏🏻
Well researched and practical tips. You have the guts to say this. Very few can do this . Congratulations.
Thank you Sir
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बहुत ज्ञानवर्धक। बार बार सुनूंगा और खुद को अपने बच्चों से कनेक्ट करने कि कोशिश करूंगा।
Some parents scold their sons and daughters even after marriage. It is common for 75 yr old village man to control and scold his 40 yr old officer son mainly to control son’s income
Namaste 🙏 Indian parents will continue doing what they went through with their parents. They make things easy for their children to hate them
@4:02 Not just actions but expressions too say a thousand words..
This is true. My best friend's parents are just like this - talk very nicely to him always. And they have a strong and healthy relationship amongst them.
I have seen the kind of conversation they have amongst them, which is enriching and healthy and not like bitter preaching or mundane things as you mentioned.
Great work sir!
sir you are a new age GURU.....much reqd for the 21st century......pls keep guiding us 🙏🙏
The definition of parenting is unconditional love which you have elaborated beautifully!! The only real deal without any fine prints or hidden clauses!!
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I feel so blessed to have such parents and I aspire to be one such emotionally intelligent parent.
Guess my son is just lucky 😉
Sir you are too much practical...koi mane ya na mane par apki baat mein dam hai✌️
Sir, aapki baaton gyaan ka ek ek word itna awesome, relatable and solutions se bhara hota hai ke kitni bhi lambi video ho ek second ke liye bhi mind divert nahi hota hai. Thank you so much for making this video. Much needed.
Excellent sir ... I am speechless... Thanks for reintroducing a parent to herself
Sir, I'm regular audience of your videos. I think you are a true realist and have a wonderful wit and insight. My daughter is 17 and we live with our parents-in-law. By god's immense grace we are a happy family. But I'm writing to you bcoz, this video resonated deeply with me. My husband is a wonderful man and a very hands-on loving father. He's exactly like what you said the ideal parent should be and naturally is very close to my daughter. Although I'm also close to her but they have a special connection.
Please keep making such videos.
I feel so blessed to be born to the type of ideal parents you just described.. great video..
We all are products of our upbringing & are often very rigid in our actions . But a child brings a huge change in the way we think & behave . We should keep the emotions that we feel when we are with them , alive ! We are supposed to be nurturers and providers and we should never forget that ! Be there , be theirs .. that’s always been my funda 😊 And yes you have tugged at the right strings again Amit ji !
Salute you sir. Only you have the guts to say the plain truth 😂🙏
My parents never went behind my sister and me with instructions. Rather they chose to say once and then let us learn through their actions!
Now as an adult I am proud of how we turned up. I myself go and call my parents every single day.. and we talk sweetly for 2-3 and sometimes even 30 min if we have a topic. No lame talks. No faltu ki guidance 😊
Thank you for making this videos.
We all claim to know everything as parents but in reality we have no clue.. God bless you!
I m 41 years old and very lucky, my parents always ask what they can do for me.
Thank you Sir,
I will confirm to change in my behaviour towards my children 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Every video feels like somebody putting words to my thoughts !!
Thank you Sir for bringing so honest and real and talk about something which is so obvious but is not talked about and hence kids become bitter !!
Wish I could show this to my own parents..
Same here... All they need is Seva
I am 42 yrs old ..have two kids and although my parents are with me .. I left metro city for them just to spend time with them but I still misses my father’s warmth who rarely talks to me despite being in the same home …your last 5-10 mins video has made me cry . God bless you .. I will make sure I treat my kids in a better way than my father treated me
Meri mummy bhi ek hi baar batati hai. Baar baar piche nahi padti. Isliye mere liye uski advice important hoti hai. Aur hame hamare decisions lene deti hai aur bahot chhoti advice deti hai jo ki sach me kuch alag aur achi hoti hai. I hope to be a same mother to my child
🙏🙏sir aap bahut saare logon ki achi class le rhe ho, thank you so much for wisdom. keep up the good work.
Yes, I do this... what can I do for you, not for any reason, just i feel joy ...in giving...to my son...and he says u r doing so much more than i need n he feels n says that I want to do something for you...u r absolutely right...jahaj ke panchhi...pranam.
16..min...Anmol Gyan...got tears in my eyes....Sir heartfelt thanks to you...🙏🙏🙏
उत्तम । एसे तरीके से बच्चों की देखभाल करने पर दो बच्चे अलग-अलग प्रतिक्रिया देते हैं ।
What a video Ji! Swaadh Aagaya 😘
One of the best video I have seen in this year. Thanks for sharing it openly and bluntly. This is the reality 💯 and everyone must watch share this video so that atleast some people will get motivated to change their attitude. That will result in a better country some day. Thanks once again 🙏
गजब का बीडीओ बनाया sir आपने, लॉट ऑफ थैंक्स🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💐💐
I m sending this to my father 🤣
O my God!
So so heart touching video.
Agar sabhi parents ye sab follow kar le to hamara apne bachchon se rishta to gehra hoga hi, parivaar me hamesha mithas bani rahegi.bahut hi gehari baat kahi hai sir aapne.
One more thing,aapke videos chahe kitne bade ho magar lagta hai aapko aur sunte rahe.
I am thankful to have a parent like sir is explaining,🙏🙏
amazing amazing amazing !! You convey the root cause of the solution of the problem. This is very true when parents tell to become ideal wife ,daughter, daughter in law or career advice. Children see that parents themselves have not followed anything then there is no logic to understand parents what they are trying to say. As u said children already give so much happiness to patents in their childhood and actually parents should pay them for that feelings and moments and not ask in return that I have done so much for you and you are only our investment and give us returns.
This is exactly my thought. I feel fortunate that my 12 year old son is in my life. He is the greatest gift i ever got and each day i'm grateful to god. Sometimes even when i'm disappointed with my wife for something, i feel so grateful to her for giving me this greatest gift of my life. And yes, i pay him each month so that he does not have to lower his self esteem and actually have to ask us for stuff that he needs.
I don't know why i cried listening to this 😅
Me also
Me too
main apni beti se poochti rehti hoon ki use kya chahiye if fells lack of anything, she can tell me anytime..i am always there for her. kabhi gumsum si lage to bhi behlakr poochti hoon ki koi concern hai to plz share with me..what is the reason behind ur sadness ..let me help u resolve ur issue or to help u atleast... Apne bahot achha topic uthaya hai. My daughter mostly says that she is blessed to have a mother like me as she compares with other parents and how her frnds crib or complaint abt their parents.. she said ki use koi kami nahi mili apni mother me jo wo bata sake..i felt so blessed that God made me sensible enough to grow my child in the best possible way. its not always materialistic things that children seek for...its emotional bond with parents..after all, v r everything fr them.
You are exactly talking about my father, aapki video dekh ke meri Dil ki Bhadaasss nikal gayi 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My parents are so positive. And they always ask me what you want I'm so blessed.
Sir
Dil Jeet liya🙏🙏
गुरु जी नमस्ते, बहुत बहुत आभार इस वीडियो के लिए
THANKU thanku thanku। so much sir g 🙏 Bahut sari new things,👍👍👍👍 नई तरीके से सोचने की दृष्टि मिली। शब्द समझ नहीं आ रहे आप को कैसे शुक्रिया कहूं🙏🙏🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫
मैं अभी 7 साल की बेटी की मां हूं,, और मुझे बहुत खुशी हुई कि मुझे इतनी जल्दी ये सब बाते मिल गई🤗🥳🥳।
Pranam guruji. This is the best video I have come across ever. Thank you for opening our eyes
An eye opener, learnt alot about balancing relationship with kids . Thank you
Absolutely correct happy nd sad at the same time 🥺🙂
Thanks a lot for your words sir, that was a generation tip for every parent. 🙏
I m fortunate enough my mom is always asking
Great things
Zindaabaad sir ji
Amitji, what a beautiful message! I agree with you as I follow this message everyday with my family... how do you spell love? It's spelling is TIME. Being a parent, I express love by spending quality time everyday by asking them about what they want, are they happy and how are their friends and sharing their experience with their friends, watching their favorite shows and laughing with them.... they do NOT need list of classes, they just need quality moments with parents :)
Well said
Sir, i'm not very old but all the advice you gave is very insightful.. i never thought I'll get a great new perspective by watching this video but I tell you l learnt a lot.
1. Stop giving pravachan to your younger one.
2. GIVE GIVE GIVE keep love/things/support to people you love
3. If you can't help materially then use your toung to be sweet with loved one
4. Your loved ones are not behind your wealth all the time. Share, give and earn their respect.
5. Be a comfortable person for your children as you were when they were small child. You use to forgive, love and help them recover without being too preachy.
6. Be Open and candid in interaction when you're talking to your son/daughter. Appreciate their challenge, anticipate their worry and don't exaggerate your success in front of them
7. If you want to change behaviour best way is to show your kid that you're feeling sad or disappointed with their actions instead of fighting or beating.
Kya khub very true & real life we r Experience In our life pranam
Thanks for your priceless knowledge shared with us for good parenting ❤️
Sir, your kids are so lucky ,aap jaise parent sabko mil jaayen to desh hi khushaal ho jaaye ,cool gaye 🙏
Aaj toh guru ji apne life ka meaning change kar diya..
Very nice session sir
I learn a lot of things about parenting
Thanx
Bcoz present yug me esa hi behaviour bcho me maa baap k liye kuch kar skenge
Sir, kids know what we are is the best thing I liked… for my parents and for me as I am parent as well… ur ideas are great and very clear… love n thanks for giving clarity… respect..
बहुत माता पिता का हमारे सामाज का यह हाल है कि
मत लड़ाओ हमसे ज़बान
क्यूंकि हमें है सारा ज्ञान
Sir aap toh bhut hi pyare parents h kabhi b dantane marne nahi dete bacchon ko. Kash hmare b parents aese hote aap ke jese. Sir aap apne parivar apne bachon ki yan pote\poti ki parwarish kese krte ho hame b bhut asani hogi samjhane m or curiosity b hai aapke parivar k bare m janne ki😊
Hats off you to guruji , apka 200% perecent correct analysis hai apka muze apki batein 200% correct laga kyon mein bhi ek father hoon
Aap ne tho meri aakhen he khol de thanku very much
Most quality content, I mean seriously, Every single word is relatable.. 🙏🙏
Thanks for showing the right way...guruji
Excellent, eye-opening, life-changing video. 🙏🙏 guruji
Invaluable Commentary Sire! We are On The Path Of Awakening Too Respect 🙏🏼
Top Class Sir,
No doubt sir, we parents gets preachy. But your perspective would now be taken into account.
Probably, one of your best videos if not the best. Thank you for making this video. A lot of depth. High level stuff but everyone can relate and easily do.
Even when Tree 🌴 is with lesser leaves, it should still give shades at least if not fruits, to remain uncut.
Bahut badiya jankari dete hai sir aap
An eye opening video, दिल से शुक्रिया🍎
Best video I have ever seen.... cleared my mind which was so much sceptical.thank you so much sir
bahut lajwab he apka najriya .mene suna ar apne pati ko b send kia .aj k tm me bahut imp he es tarah ki advice. thnx a lot sir
Sir ur discussing good topics,which our society really need.satsang se jyada logon ko aise bate sunnai ke jarurat hai
Sir you r an eye opener...
गुरु जी प्रणाम
आप से बहुत ज्यादा प्रभावित हु
आप जो कह रहे हैं वो 1000% सही है और मेरे पैरेंट्स पर 100 % सही बेठती है
सर् आपके वीडियो देख कर जीवन को समझने लगा हु।
सर् आप पेरेंट्स पर सीरीज बनाते रहे अब समय कि क़ीमत समझने लगा हु plz सर् विडियो बनाते रहे
बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद ।
सोचने का तरीका ठीक कर रहे हैं आपके विचार sir
OMG....
So Brilliant So Powerful....
Perfectly Eyes Opening Words
❤
I am just crying....but better late never ....
This is great. My favorite video of yours.
Great guruji maan gye aapko ,, real guru ❤❤❤❤❤❤