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FF sab thik bolate ho aap.. bas aap ki ' rashtra pratham ' ke bare mr bahot galat dharana hai.. i know bahot log desh ka bhar le ke chalate hai , aur family ignore karate rehte hai. lekin family jitani imp hai utana hi majbut desh, 5-10 SAAL BAS HO JATE HAI DESH KHOKHALA HONE ME. EVEN IF U LOOK INWARD N MAKE FAMILY STRONG DESH DESH HAI.. EQUAL AWARE REHNA HI CHAHIYE FAMILY AUR DESH DONO KE LIYE EK SATH
Very true. My husband was posted in bangalore then and before I could join him, corona struck and he was left all alone in a hostel - sick, hungry and lonely. Corona khatm hote hi promotion ka moh tyaag kar gurgaon shift kar gae. Even 1night matters without a genuine caretaker- which is family❤
You’re always spot on. And please don’t ever change your crude and satirical way of sharing your thoughts. It’s what my soul craves for. This unhinged way of speaking. Thanks a lot Guruji!
Jo chaye coffee poochta hai , sabka care karta hai use punching bag bana diya jata hai thinking he/she will keep on caring hum kuch bhi kar lein. This taken for granted attitude has separated families
That's my dad attitude he never help her in household works har bkt Bina koi reason ka gussa hoke fight krna rudely taunting reply Dena pura Ghar and bahar ka surrounding krb karna special occasion main mood of krke Bethna he is one of the selfish person bcz when he get sick or if he has to get admited my dad behaviour change drastically like anything itna sweet behave krne lgte hain like crying giving money and jb unko pura care diya hota ha fir jb wo thik ho jate hain ush din hi pirse unka mood off and fight start pure narcissistic. He just made my mom like hell left her govt job for my dad ,getting no money, never buy saree or anything for her cz papa paiise nhi dete hain and never treated her special
The "Family First" motto saved my children's future. About 20 years back my family was on the cusp of breaking due to the clash of egos, police involvement, and court case. Every advice from near and far was to get separated, but I said I put my children's future ahead of anything, including my own interest. Today both my children are well settled. I do not regret my decision at all as I avoided the biggest loss.
आपने बिलकुल सही कहा सर, हार्वर्ड यूनिवर्सिटी की 50 साल की रिसर्च में भी यही साबित हुआ था की जिनके संबंध अच्छे होते है वही लोग जीवन में प्रसन्न रहते है 😄
Kya baat kahi hai Sangwan ji aapne. I can totally relate to this. My father fights with me for his brother and sister. E.g. If I don’t invite my taya or bua to my daughter’s birthday (which was supposed to be a small function), then my father refused to show up because my wife has 3 more siblings and I have only 1 then my father was like “humari majority nahi dikhegi” so invite taya, bua, and chacha. These are that taya and bua who fixed their children’s wedding (roka) without taking my father along and my father took everyone at my wife’s home.
Yeh aisa hi hota h Best is you do you Ask your father once if he doesn’t come let him be dnt let anyone manipulate you into doing something you feel uncomfortable with
Family first in India is necessary because Govt has no schemes for helping old parents with hospital expenses, attendance. Only the children are expected to be parent's guardians. This anomaly forces us to think of family first concept.
Great. I always searched for someone like you. I used to take my family on priority in my life, this video just proved me right and true. Thank you pitaji for your wisdom.
Sir jis tarah se aapne family ko value samjhai hai aise to aaj tak kisi ne bataya hi nahi, really I don’t know how to manage our family. I salute your deep thinking level & adding value to people’s life. Thanks for making this great video 👍👍
My family is toxic😔😑.. Soo truly u said. But unfortunately not everyone has an understanding family. Sab ego , so called image maintain karne me lage hai. Not interested to ask, listen or care. So my best frnd is my pet😔.. Sir, fridge me' Family first' lagaungi toh ghar se nikal hi denge😬.. No space for discussion or open talk is there.
Agreed I am 23 years old ..sacrifice everything to my family.. am not enjoying..like other people do.. i don't drink , I didn't smoke ...I am not Unemployed..then also thay don't respect me specially my mother...who has ego ...of living in city ...But I want to live simple life....but she didn't want this ...life has become so bored doing same thing everyday ...
@Samir Bhalerao I fully agree. In India there is a lot of mis-trust between boss and the employees. Also there is a lot of mis-trust among the family members. Everyone seems to be thinking that the other person is a "lier" or "hiding things". Let's begin from the family and talk about the situations of our maids who work at our home. When the maid wants to take leave because of someone's illness at home, the first thought comes to our mind is, "she is lying". When I grew up and realised society's mindset, the first step I took is, NOT to ask the maid, "why do you want leave?". I allow her without asking a question. And surprisingly, our maids are very happy to work at our home. The relationship between a boss and an employee is the same as Owner and Maid, except for the fact that we make more money than maid. So, the underlying message is, "The value system begins from the family". So, Family First.
Every human being is entitled to take leave assume that even maid would take 1 leave in a month then let her take without any questions , if they are taking more than 3 days in a month then ask the reason Same applies to bosses they have no right to ask the reason if it is within the limits
Well said , people want children but don't want dedication to family in terms of quality time , love, care feelings hope this video reaches more people and makes meaningful life #Family First ❤️🙏😇💐🎁
All your views are great. Family first 👍. Along with character & integrity. Believing that you are doing the best only if you take them out to eat, trips etc., it's not so. Every one in the family should standby each other irrespective of financial equations and adversity.
SIR, Apke point of view se mere point of view 90% same hai. I like to spending time, discussing something on some topics like you. I m not welcoming in my family, social circle for such straight forward talk.
Guru Tatva, Very true previous generation first others, family last. This legacy continues. Fully agree family should be first, Daily " Systematic Family Investment Plan"
11:15 sahi bola sangwan ji ... Meri lineage corrupted hai. As in chiz jaanta hu aur nahi bhi jaanta. Very complicated. Plus house is all against each other all times. Result: everyday depression I'm learning to live with and try to control Mere papa bas meri widowed dadi ke peeche apni zindagi qurbaan kr chuke hai aur baaki hum sab ki lagi padi hai. Baaki chacha log married hain, zindagi ke maze le rahe hain. Chida pada hua hoon ma baap aur is dadi se. Life long rahunga. Mujhe toh actually family complete format chiye.
same bhai same mere papa apne bhaiyon ke pyar me pagal hain puri jawani ki kamayi bhaiyon aur unke bacchon k upar uda diye apni family always last samaj first, bhai second, bhaiyon k bacche third, apne bacche fourth, apni wife fifth
sir exactly aaj kal parents ka yahi haal hai . Apne grand children se koi matlab nahi kbhi godh mei nahi lete .Bolte hai humne thodi kaha tha paida krne ko.khud dekho.koi compassion nahi hai apni family se bas poore din bolte hai meri society mera padhose meri relative ,are yaar apne ghar nahi dekhte bas bahar society krte rehte hai
The family which u make together with ur spouse is much more important then the family u come from.........ye baat dono husband and wife dono apne Jevan main utar de to kafi sookun aa jayega
Nice video as always. Family member ko sahyog nahi karte aur baahar achhe bante he. Pehle ke vaqt me ek sadasya kamanevala hota tha aur 7,8bachhe pal jate the kuki sab bachhe ek dusre ka saath dete the. Society ko achha banane ki shuruat ghar se hi honi chahiye. Baki sab khokhalapan he.
Thanks Guru ji for this stupendous video. you're spot on with the burning issue of our society. I have benefited from your knowledge videos. 🎉 Respect 🙏 🫡
Amit ji, you are great. I really like your practical advice, mixed with sarcasm and humour. And it’s fun to listen to you mixed Hindi and English , with haryanavi snippets 🙏😊
भाई साहब , आप वाकई में बहुत अच्छे हैं। इतनी साफ सुथरी और सपाट भाषा में आप जीवन का निचोड़ बताते हो कि क्या बताऐं।वास्तव मे दिल के अंदर बात उतर गई है।मैं आज और अभी से ( family first) इस बात को अपने परिवार में लागू करुंगी। परिवार में छोटी छोटी बातों से विघटन हो जाता है। ये कोन्सेप्ट शानदार है भाई साहब। मैं आपके सारे विडियो देखती हूँ।बहुत मजेदार और क्लीयरकट होते हैं। आपका धन्यवाद।सभी को शेयर भी करती रहती हुं भैया।🙏🏼😀
Sir, your videos are very good. Family unit is very important. We can see how west has been destroyed by destroying family. Same unfortunately can be seen in India.
Western culture families make it a point to put family first that’s what I see in USA. For big festivals n all they all fly for the functions of family. My experience of 40 years of living in USA.
Spot on sir. Great content. I have seen in families of the previous generation the husbands are retired and still wish to move out of the house on the context of charity work but if you look closely they completely ignore their aging wives who have served them for years while they worked.
I fully agree with this and your earlier video about how the older generation had created havoc in the life of a wife and later on the the same woman shows her frustration on the new generation especially the daughter in law. Elders need to change and set precedence and in our society the Man being the head of the family has to take lead and set an example
Jo Mit Na Sake woh "Amit" hu Main Bhagwaan nahin "Mr Sangwan" hun Main Deta hum Sabko ekdum badiya Gyan Rasta dhyan se dekh le apna har Insan Inki Baaton se milta hai bahut Sukoon No. 1 clarity giver ban jana hai inka Junoon
Mere husbend din raat t v pe news dekhte the kabhi mere or mere bete ki khaber nahi li akir bhut pare Shan Hui wahan family fast rool nahi tha karte karte 17 sal baad divorce ho gya apki kahi har baat sach hai or sahi hai
The main villian is the Western idea 'ME and I First', 'My rights-My returns from a relationship' rather than 'we and our feeling' not only at family level but all levels.
Don't demonize Western culture as though Indians are perfect. It ultimately boils down to individual character. Selfish ppl have been in all societies particularly Indian since ancient times
Indian men have done this to me and only for centuries they just have issues if women do that because they are not considered human. A family should not make Bali ka bakra and all. Anyway, Europe always ranked higher in happiness, this self-sacrificing nature is the reason for unhappiness as people here take it for granted and unappreciated.
I agree with what you say but I cannot support a family member who has committed a crime or done wrong. Here I differ. If my brother hits my friend without any justifiable reason, I will surely side with my friend. Similarly if my son molests someone I will never support my son
I am helpless.. Even if I am matured and I understood what you said.. I can't do anything. I married in a family where there is no emotional attachment of family... They doesn't care. We live in rent home and we don't have option.
yes aaj kal sab lage pade hain desh duniya ki information collection main par khud ki bagal main kya ho raha hai nai pata😟😟 abi family family nai reh gayi... i feel so close to my friends rather than being in family because no one talk openly.. bas sab ke hath main phone and busy hain sab desh, religion aur politicians ke peeche🥺 age pata ni kya hoga... so much negativity in indian society
Sirji Bang on🙌. This is amongst your best videos. Truly unique and "zameen se juda hua". Just a suggestion- This should be on your main channel as well.
Sir, a heart felt Salute to your information, really after stopping news papers reading and watching TV News, my BP has turned normal.,great nonsense people like that are informative.,but here it will spoil many mind. Thank you very much. 😊❤
@@kishore314 haan sir, but Dom ka character un sabko apna Family maanta hain and he repeats this in every film. This is a recurring theme in this franchise.
I have not seen this video completely yet . I want to sink deep in this subject and to express my gratitude to Mr. Sangwan for touching the Dukhti Hui nas of our ultra modern and educated society. I think modern girls and bahus are main accused in this regard because they hate the family of the husband. A working married boy is not free to take care of his parents and siblings because his wife doesn't like them. So many thanks for raising this burning issue. Now I will watch the remaining video.
@@babaramdev1077 thank you sir that you invested your precious time for providing this free service, even nobody asked for and if you have genuine ans for my query than kindly reply because I'm interested in knowing the reason and not to indulge in any kind of fight
They are actually collapsing now…let eastern world develop a little economically u’ll see yourself…there population is depedent on immigration now…more and more youngsters want to avoid producing children, birth rates are falling since no concept of family…ppl want to live for “indriya sukh”(satisfying pleasure sensations) there now and only few have the idea of “sacrificing” for the family unit
Much of their foundation is built on other's death and misery. Remove their loot in the last centuries what are they then? It has not even been century since we have opportunity to grow our nation with our efforts NOT on SOMEONE'S BLOOD
Sir, thanks for the amazing video Sir, I am a research engineer currently working in Canada, I have been in Canada for half a decade (initially came to pursue my thesis) but till now I didn’t feel that family is everything, recently I noticed my quality of life was going down as I noticed my performance at job was reducing, I am indecisive about going back to India despite I am having very good career position here…..I am afraid to go back is because of uncertainty I might face in terms of finding this good job in India and decent amount of package….how can I come out of this dilemma Please advise or do a video about how NRIs can decide to come back and what factors need to be considered before taking a step sir, thank you very much
Sir, how to avoid not talking about religion? All these years we were not aware of the vicious strategies of few faiths. We were blissfully practising our own faith, as it suited our aptitude and convenience. But suddenly you are made aware of instances in Kashmir, Kerala, West Bengal, and all over the country, and even in foreign lands, where people practising Hinduism are targeted and harmed. We're happy as Hindus. Why should anyone want to invade our lives and endanger our existence if we don't convert?
Stop watching news and deactivate social media accounts !! After some days, you will realize the magic. Dont eat the things which the world feeds you, eat the things what you want to eat.
Well… no one is putting a gun to anyone’s head to make them convert. In most cases people convert to other religions because they are dissatisfied with their own. Hindus were “happily” practicing their own religion as you have mentioned only if they were of upper castes. Ask a lower caste or SC / ST and they will not be so “happy” with the situation. So if you are so worried about other religions I suggest you look inward.
@@varshasindhu5672 Kashmiri pandits would disagree that no one puts a gun to anyones head… please don’t forget history… or even current events for that matter…
@@varshasindhu5672 Don't be blind to the hardships of hindu minority in Pakistan, the facts depicted in Kashmir files, the current events like Mamta Banerjee asking Hindus to avoid sensitive areas, etc., What do you then mean by saying no one is pointing a gun at you. May be you are lucky enough to be in a Hindu majority area. Regarding the hardships of SC/ST etc., people usually speak to malign Sanatan Dharm, compare with the atrocities heaped on Native Americans, Native South Africans, how they were made slaves, chained, separated from their families ( new born children separated from mothers, etc., literally being treated like animals), forced to forget their culture and traditions by the so called present flag bearers of human rights. In our society certain evils existed and the society is trying to redress them. But in this very society people of so called lower section are the authors of epics like Ramayan and Mahabharat. Think over.
Gentleman, Prioritiesing family over all other things is only telling half the truth there comes time when vanaprasth and sanyas ashrams are to be embraced. Because ultimate truth is all existence here is transitory and reunion with Almighty must be the lesson to be learnt while undergoing ups and downs of life.
Bharat prachin desh hone ki wajah se andhwishwason ka desh ban gaya hai. Yahan ke so called educated log bhi ulte pulte harkaten karte hain. Agle 100 yr men ismen sudhar 10% bhi ho, to bahut samjho.
I am a fan of your straightforward attitude. But in your videos you always say 'aadmi bechara kaam kar ke, thak ke aata hai'. It's kind of one sided statement. In today's time women too work full time and yearn for the family's wellbeing. In my 16 years of marriage, my husband is still struggling to get settled in his business. I stood up with him and will always do the same. I am sure there are many women who have been doing a lot financially for family. So kindly give due credit to women as well for their contributions towards family.
Log family ko support karte hain to arjun ne bhagwan krishna ke kahne par pariwar ke hi logon ko kyun maara? Agar vibhishan ke naam pe log apne bachchon ka naam nahin rakhte hain to ye logon ki galti hai. Logon ko dharm ki samajh nahi hai.
Sir Rama and Sita sacrificed their family life and lived apart, but that feeling of doing what they did for supporting each other's duties and remaining steadfast to each other till death is exemplary. Not that because they were forced to separate physically they gave up upon each other. Till death they did everything for their duties and love for each other. Though Maa Sita separated from Ram, she knew She was the only woman in his life and she and her children were his only family. This is the emotional family bonding which is missing now.
Sir ,Insaan ne duniya ki her cheez ko kaat chaat kar rehene laayak bana diya. Ab Insaan ko khud ko banane ki Bari hai . Aap jese guru mile tho dhire dhire ye bhi ho jaega
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FF sab thik bolate ho aap..
bas aap ki ' rashtra pratham ' ke bare mr bahot galat dharana hai..
i know bahot log desh ka bhar le ke chalate hai , aur family ignore karate rehte hai.
lekin family jitani imp hai utana hi majbut desh, 5-10 SAAL BAS HO JATE HAI DESH KHOKHALA HONE ME.
EVEN IF U LOOK INWARD N MAKE FAMILY STRONG DESH DESH HAI.. EQUAL AWARE REHNA HI CHAHIYE
FAMILY AUR DESH DONO KE LIYE EK SATH
FF
Very true. My husband was posted in bangalore then and before I could join him, corona struck and he was left all alone in a hostel - sick, hungry and lonely. Corona khatm hote hi promotion ka moh tyaag kar gurgaon shift kar gae. Even 1night matters without a genuine caretaker- which is family❤
You’re always spot on. And please don’t ever change your crude and satirical way of sharing your thoughts. It’s what my soul craves for. This unhinged way of speaking. Thanks a lot Guruji!
Jo chaye coffee poochta hai , sabka care karta hai use punching bag bana diya jata hai thinking he/she will keep on caring hum kuch bhi kar lein. This taken for granted attitude has separated families
Yes very true...! Try to change things by taking a stand for yourself. Hopefully could help
Yes it's so true
Sometimes I think if I could surround myself around same vibes people. But it's impossible to find. Because it's very rare
Wife aur mother is always a punching bag
That's my dad attitude he never help her in household works har bkt Bina koi reason ka gussa hoke fight krna rudely taunting reply Dena pura Ghar and bahar ka surrounding krb karna special occasion main mood of krke Bethna he is one of the selfish person bcz when he get sick or if he has to get admited my dad behaviour change drastically like anything itna sweet behave krne lgte hain like crying giving money and jb unko pura care diya hota ha fir jb wo thik ho jate hain ush din hi pirse unka mood off and fight start pure narcissistic. He just made my mom like hell left her govt job for my dad ,getting no money, never buy saree or anything for her cz papa paiise nhi dete hain and never treated her special
The "Family First" motto saved my children's future. About 20 years back my family was on the cusp of breaking due to the clash of egos, police involvement, and court case. Every advice from near and far was to get separated, but I said I put my children's future ahead of anything, including my own interest. Today both my children are well settled. I do not regret my decision at all as I avoided the biggest loss.
Well done sir
आपने बिलकुल सही कहा सर, हार्वर्ड यूनिवर्सिटी की 50 साल की रिसर्च में भी यही साबित हुआ था की जिनके संबंध अच्छे होते है वही लोग जीवन में प्रसन्न रहते है 😄
Kya baat kahi hai Sangwan ji aapne. I can totally relate to this. My father fights with me for his brother and sister. E.g. If I don’t invite my taya or bua to my daughter’s birthday (which was supposed to be a small function), then my father refused to show up because my wife has 3 more siblings and I have only 1 then my father was like “humari majority nahi dikhegi” so invite taya, bua, and chacha.
These are that taya and bua who fixed their children’s wedding (roka) without taking my father along and my father took everyone at my wife’s home.
Yeh aisa hi hota h
Best is you do you
Ask your father once if he doesn’t come let him be dnt let anyone manipulate you into doing something you feel uncomfortable with
Thik h papa ki khushi ke liye ...
Agar Galt na lage toh ek baat bolta hu tumhare papa C hai kyuki jaise ko taisa dena nahi ata unko
Family first in India is necessary because Govt has no schemes for helping old parents with hospital expenses, attendance. Only the children are expected to be parent's guardians. This anomaly forces us to think of family first concept.
Great. I always searched for someone like you. I used to take my family on priority in my life, this video just proved me right and true. Thank you pitaji for your wisdom.
Sir jis tarah se aapne family ko value samjhai hai aise to aaj tak kisi ne bataya hi nahi, really I don’t know how to manage our family. I salute your deep thinking level & adding value to people’s life. Thanks for making this great video 👍👍
Priorities hierarchy:-
1. Health
2. Family
3. Career
4. Friends n Society
My family is toxic😔😑.. Soo truly u said. But unfortunately not everyone has an understanding family. Sab ego , so called image maintain karne me lage hai. Not interested to ask, listen or care. So my best frnd is my pet😔.. Sir, fridge me' Family first' lagaungi toh ghar se nikal hi denge😬.. No space for discussion or open talk is there.
Agreed 😢….I visited counsellors 2times but still they didn’t ask me what happened in counselling….just shouting in house…everyday…😢
@@virajharimkar7783 Sad.. Hope u get out soon.. 🙏
Sahi hai meri family bhi aisi hi hai..apne ko sahi dikhane ke lage hai,image maintain karni hai
When the roots start to rot, you need to cut the plant and grow it elsewhere. Otherwise, the whole plant will rot.
Agreed I am 23 years old ..sacrifice everything to my family.. am not enjoying..like other people do.. i don't drink , I didn't smoke ...I am not Unemployed..then also thay don't respect me specially my mother...who has ego ...of living in city ...But I want to live simple life....but she didn't want this ...life has become so bored doing same thing everyday ...
आध्यात्मिकता का अर्थ घर बार छोड़ना नहीं बल्कि गृहस्थ मे रहते खुद को सुधारना है
@Samir Bhalerao I fully agree. In India there is a lot of mis-trust between boss and the employees. Also there is a lot of mis-trust among the family members. Everyone seems to be thinking that the other person is a "lier" or "hiding things".
Let's begin from the family and talk about the situations of our maids who work at our home. When the maid wants to take leave because of someone's illness at home, the first thought comes to our mind is, "she is lying". When I grew up and realised society's mindset, the first step I took is, NOT to ask the maid, "why do you want leave?". I allow her without asking a question. And surprisingly, our maids are very happy to work at our home.
The relationship between a boss and an employee is the same as Owner and Maid, except for the fact that we make more money than maid. So, the underlying message is, "The value system begins from the family". So, Family First.
I second you , I used to be shocked to see such sus behaviour but now I have realised this is inherent mindset among most of the people
Every human being is entitled to take leave assume that even maid would take 1 leave in a month then let her take without any questions , if they are taking more than 3 days in a month then ask the reason
Same applies to bosses they have no right to ask the reason if it is within the limits
Well said , people want children but don't want dedication to family in terms of quality time , love, care feelings hope this video reaches more people and makes meaningful life #Family First ❤️🙏😇💐🎁
Family first. You are a wonderful person; very relevant and useful talk. Thankyou.
Aaj taak sidha baat kisi ne nahi sunayi
Dilki baat 😢
Ma baba is the top most priority I can't put them in any difficulty
You are a voice of sanity in the insane world. Thanx bro
All your views are great. Family first 👍.
Along with character & integrity. Believing that you are doing the best only if you take them out to eat, trips etc., it's not so.
Every one in the family should standby each other irrespective of financial equations and adversity.
SIR, Apke point of view se mere point of view 90% same hai. I like to spending time, discussing something on some topics like you. I m not welcoming in my family, social circle for such straight forward talk.
Guru Tatva,
Very true previous generation first others, family last. This legacy continues.
Fully agree family should be first, Daily " Systematic Family Investment Plan"
Mag ❤
One of the best video ever made sir
Thanx for opening my mind...
Your thought process is super visionary. Thanks for making such a content and being a torch bearer for our society
"you try to save this world, when its you that needs help;
try to win their hearts when its mine that needs love"
Mag sir, dhanyawaad. Aur FF.
is this quote original?
@@ythandlesn nope its from a song called canary yellow by haken
11:15 sahi bola sangwan ji ... Meri lineage corrupted hai. As in chiz jaanta hu aur nahi bhi jaanta. Very complicated. Plus house is all against each other all times.
Result: everyday depression I'm learning to live with and try to control
Mere papa bas meri widowed dadi ke peeche apni zindagi qurbaan kr chuke hai aur baaki hum sab ki lagi padi hai. Baaki chacha log married hain, zindagi ke maze le rahe hain. Chida pada hua hoon ma baap aur is dadi se. Life long rahunga.
Mujhe toh actually family complete format chiye.
same bhai same
mere papa apne bhaiyon ke pyar me pagal hain
puri jawani ki kamayi bhaiyon aur unke bacchon k upar uda diye
apni family always last
samaj first, bhai second, bhaiyon k bacche third, apne bacche fourth, apni wife fifth
This is like,.... the best video of this channel.
I mean...there would be no problems if everyone started implemeting what you are telling here.
Love you Sir! Thank you very much! Heart touching and much needed!
sir exactly aaj kal parents ka yahi haal hai . Apne grand children se koi matlab nahi kbhi godh mei nahi lete .Bolte hai humne thodi kaha tha paida krne ko.khud dekho.koi compassion nahi hai apni family se bas poore din bolte hai meri society mera padhose meri relative ,are yaar apne ghar nahi dekhte bas bahar society krte rehte hai
The family which u make together with ur spouse is much more important then the family u come from.........ye baat dono husband and wife dono apne Jevan main utar de to kafi sookun aa jayega
Nice video as always. Family member ko sahyog nahi karte aur baahar achhe bante he. Pehle ke vaqt me ek sadasya kamanevala hota tha aur 7,8bachhe pal jate the kuki sab bachhe ek dusre ka saath dete the. Society ko achha banane ki shuruat ghar se hi honi chahiye. Baki sab khokhalapan he.
Teach Indians to speak well First ... Words influence life a lot 🙏🏽
Thanks Guru ji for this stupendous video. you're spot on with the burning issue of our society. I have benefited from your knowledge videos. 🎉 Respect 🙏 🫡
Amit ji, you are great. I really like your practical advice, mixed with sarcasm and humour. And it’s fun to listen to you mixed Hindi and English , with haryanavi snippets 🙏😊
I think jealousy/comparison between others and us has led us to constant sorrow in life.
We take things we have for granted.
Yes
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Aadat hee sirf Rona Rona .
Yes family first for bonding , love and happiness
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Sir, you have really helped me with happiness and wealth quotient. Thanks 🎉
भाई साहब , आप वाकई में बहुत अच्छे हैं। इतनी साफ सुथरी और सपाट भाषा में आप जीवन का निचोड़ बताते हो कि क्या बताऐं।वास्तव मे दिल के अंदर बात उतर गई है।मैं आज और अभी से ( family first) इस बात को अपने परिवार में लागू करुंगी। परिवार में
छोटी छोटी बातों से विघटन हो जाता है। ये कोन्सेप्ट शानदार है भाई साहब। मैं आपके सारे विडियो देखती हूँ।बहुत मजेदार और क्लीयरकट होते हैं। आपका धन्यवाद।सभी को शेयर भी करती रहती हुं भैया।🙏🏼😀
Superb video !! If only people could understand the value of family
Sir, your videos are very good. Family unit is very important. We can see how west has been destroyed by destroying family. Same unfortunately can be seen in India.
Jai bappa rawal✊
Western culture families make it a point to put family first that’s what I see in USA. For big festivals n all they all fly for the functions of family. My experience of 40 years of living in USA.
बहुत सही और सटीक बात बोली आपने..... 👌👏👏👏👏🙏😊
Very nice video, made me emotional also. Thanks for this
This is the missing link ...seriously thank you for creating this awareness...i wish i had heard you when i was a teenager..ff
Me and my family will not take this country anywhere..
We need to set example and keep our country first
Family First Gurujii, mai to waise v 7 numbri hu
Spot on sir. Great content. I have seen in families of the previous generation the husbands are retired and still wish to move out of the house on the context of charity work but if you look closely they completely ignore their aging wives who have served them for years while they worked.
Super Sangoji.
Very correct observations and relevant topics you are taking to help people.
Well done.
Sir aap mahan ho. Mera baap jindagi Bhar kiraj me raha aur maa ke jugarne ke baad beti se paise lekar bike lekar ghumta hai aur duniya dari karta hai
Yes and MAJ without seeing the complete video, I know this will be another mind boggling video.
sango sir's video is incomplete without acharya prashant's reference 😂😂
😂😂😂
Timestamp
7:49
Prashant destroying indian yough and GDP. Bas satsang me baithe raho na shadi kro na kamao na kam karo. Aur khud ki books aur tickets bechta wo
Acharya prashant never said to run away from responsibilities.. yeh unhone bahut baar bola hai..
I fully agree with this and your earlier video about how the older generation had created havoc in the life of a wife and later on the the same woman shows her frustration on the new generation especially the daughter in law. Elders need to change and set precedence and in our society the Man being the head of the family has to take lead and set an example
Jo Mit Na Sake woh "Amit" hu Main
Bhagwaan nahin "Mr Sangwan" hun Main
Deta hum Sabko ekdum badiya Gyan
Rasta dhyan se dekh le apna har Insan
Inki Baaton se milta hai bahut Sukoon
No. 1 clarity giver ban jana hai inka Junoon
GOOd idea sir, But in a family somebody earning high salary & some one low, At the end because of Money fight will come, & Misunderstandings
Thanks Guruji for this wonderful video
Family First
Maza aagya
best video of yours so far, a life changing one
In between the lines I observed that your kids and their friends sit in front of you and are so eager to listen to you
Family is not an important thing it's Everything.
Mere husbend din raat t v pe news dekhte the kabhi mere or mere bete ki khaber nahi li akir bhut pare Shan Hui wahan family fast rool nahi tha karte karte 17 sal baad divorce ho gya apki kahi har baat sach hai or sahi hai
You are at your best today.
Superb. 🙏🙏
Very meaningful video, the truth of todays times and todays society. FF but family doesn't put me first
The main villian is the Western idea 'ME and I First', 'My rights-My returns from a relationship' rather than 'we and our feeling' not only at family level but all levels.
Don't demonize Western culture as though Indians are perfect. It ultimately boils down to individual character. Selfish ppl have been in all societies particularly Indian since ancient times
@@0bajwa0 Vaishesika, Nyaya, Samkhya, Yoga, Purva Mimansa and Vedanta or Uttara Mimansa.Go and read about them before opening your mouth next time
@@ashishtiwari1912 that just upper caste philosophy
Indian men have done this to me and only for centuries they just have issues if women do that because they are not considered human. A family should not make Bali ka bakra and all. Anyway, Europe always ranked higher in happiness, this self-sacrificing nature is the reason for unhappiness as people here take it for granted and unappreciated.
Sir wow amazing,❤❤❤ your knowledge came from your experience 😊
🎉🎉🎉 BEST MESSAGE FOR THE YEAR 🎉🎉🎉
Bahut important baat bata rahe hai sir aap thumbs up
fast & furious dialogue = i got family ❤
Sir jee, valuable information. Thank you.
I agree with what you say but I cannot support a family member who has committed a crime or done wrong. Here I differ. If my brother hits my friend without any justifiable reason, I will surely side with my friend. Similarly if my son molests someone I will never support my son
Great topic, wonderfully conveyed..... Thank you 🙏🏻
I am helpless.. Even if I am matured and I understood what you said.. I can't do anything.
I married in a family where there is no emotional attachment of family... They doesn't care.
We live in rent home and we don't have option.
yes aaj kal sab lage pade hain desh duniya ki information collection main par khud ki bagal main kya ho raha hai nai pata😟😟 abi family family nai reh gayi... i feel so close to my friends rather than being in family because no one talk openly.. bas sab ke hath main phone and busy hain sab desh, religion aur politicians ke peeche🥺 age pata ni kya hoga... so much negativity in indian society
Sirji Bang on🙌. This is amongst your best videos. Truly unique and "zameen se juda hua". Just a suggestion- This should be on your main channel as well.
Sir, a heart felt Salute to your information, really after stopping news papers reading and watching TV News, my BP has turned normal.,great nonsense people like that are informative.,but here it will spoil many mind. Thank you very much. 😊❤
😂so true guruji, on a lighter note 😂 respect increased for Dominic Torretto of Fast and Furious😂
@@kishore314 haan sir, but Dom ka character un sabko apna Family maanta hain and he repeats this in every film. This is a recurring theme in this franchise.
I suddenly watched your videos sir and found true wisdom it really gives a new dimension to my experience thanks 🙏 and keep doing it
I have not seen this video completely yet . I want to sink deep in this subject and to express my gratitude to Mr. Sangwan for touching the Dukhti Hui nas of our ultra modern and educated society. I think modern girls and bahus are main accused in this regard because they hate the family of the husband. A working married boy is not free to take care of his parents and siblings because his wife doesn't like them. So many thanks for raising this burning issue. Now I will watch the remaining video.
Thank you sir for bringing this quality content.
Sir western countries are individualistic society and many developed countries as well but still they are doing well than us
@@babaramdev1077 thank you sir that you invested your precious time for providing this free service, even nobody asked for and if you have genuine ans for my query than kindly reply because I'm interested in knowing the reason and not to indulge in any kind of fight
Tum upar upar se dekh rahe ho.
They are actually collapsing now…let eastern world develop a little economically u’ll see yourself…there population is depedent on immigration now…more and more youngsters want to avoid producing children, birth rates are falling since no concept of family…ppl want to live for “indriya sukh”(satisfying pleasure sensations) there now and only few have the idea of “sacrificing” for the family unit
@@akshaysharma8940 You are 100% right.Indic vedic solution is the only one solution to all the problems the world is facing today.
Much of their foundation is built on other's death and misery.
Remove their loot in the last centuries what are they then?
It has not even been century since we have opportunity to grow our nation with our efforts NOT on SOMEONE'S BLOOD
you are doing great work for the society
Gr8 point sir. This should be talked more and spread.
Sir, thanks for the amazing video
Sir, I am a research engineer currently working in Canada, I have been in Canada for half a decade (initially came to pursue my thesis) but till now I didn’t feel that family is everything, recently I noticed my quality of life was going down as I noticed my performance at job was reducing, I am indecisive about going back to India despite I am having very good career position here…..I am afraid to go back is because of uncertainty I might face in terms of finding this good job in India and decent amount of package….how can I come out of this dilemma
Please advise or do a video about how NRIs can decide to come back and what factors need to be considered before taking a step sir, thank you very much
Udaipur me Shiksha ntar ngo dekho foreign return ne khola he
Apke ye achhe vichaar sabko samajh aa jaaye our desh phir se phale phoole🙏
Make videos why elderly generation blames the younger generation
banaya hua hai
Sir aaj hi aapka channel discover kiya. Strangely pehli baar kisi ko dekh raha hun jiske thoughts exactly mere jaise hain.
Sir, how to avoid not talking about religion?
All these years we were not aware of the vicious strategies of few faiths. We were blissfully practising our own faith, as it suited our aptitude and convenience.
But suddenly you are made aware of instances in Kashmir, Kerala, West Bengal, and all over the country, and even in foreign lands, where people practising Hinduism are targeted and harmed. We're happy as Hindus. Why should anyone want to invade our lives and endanger our existence if we don't convert?
Stop watching news and deactivate social media accounts !! After some days, you will realize the magic.
Dont eat the things which the world feeds you, eat the things what you want to eat.
Well… no one is putting a gun to anyone’s head to make them convert. In most cases people convert to other religions because they are dissatisfied with their own. Hindus were “happily” practicing their own religion as you have mentioned only if they were of upper castes. Ask a lower caste or SC / ST and they will not be so “happy” with the situation. So if you are so worried about other religions I suggest you look inward.
@@varshasindhu5672 Kashmiri pandits would disagree that no one puts a gun to anyones head… please don’t forget history… or even current events for that matter…
@@varshasindhu5672 Don't be blind to the hardships of hindu minority in Pakistan, the facts depicted in Kashmir files, the current events like Mamta Banerjee asking Hindus to avoid sensitive areas, etc.,
What do you then mean by saying no one is pointing a gun at you. May be you are lucky enough to be in a Hindu majority area.
Regarding the hardships of SC/ST etc., people usually speak to malign Sanatan Dharm, compare with the atrocities heaped on Native Americans, Native South Africans, how they were made slaves, chained, separated from their families ( new born children separated from mothers, etc., literally being treated like animals), forced to forget their culture and traditions by the so called present flag bearers of human rights.
In our society certain evils existed and the society is trying to redress them.
But in this very society people of so called lower section are the authors of epics like Ramayan and Mahabharat. Think over.
Yes. True sir. Family first than anything.
Sir ji aajkal paison ki zarurat ne family ko nuclear banaa diya hai.Kya yeh development achccha hai?
No....there is huge loss to our kids....and future generations
Paiso ki zarurat ne nahi, but paiso ki excess ne.
@@chandranem For consumerism only nuclear families have happened.
@@yogeshdhandhania Jee nahi consumerism aur uske liye paison ki zarurat ne nuclear family banaa diya hai.
I live in joint family. It's the best thing in the world. ❤
Ye bilkul sahi kaha ki sab kuch change ho jayega but family wahu rehti hai aur mushkil samay me wahi kaam ate hai😊
Gentleman,
Prioritiesing family over all other things is only telling half the truth there comes time when vanaprasth and sanyas ashrams are to be embraced. Because ultimate truth is all existence here is transitory and reunion with Almighty must be the lesson to be learnt while undergoing ups and downs of life.
Both are true
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🙏❤
Bharat prachin desh hone ki wajah se andhwishwason ka desh ban gaya hai.
Yahan ke so called educated log bhi ulte pulte harkaten karte hain.
Agle 100 yr men ismen sudhar 10% bhi ho, to bahut samjho.
I can so relate with him Thank You so much Sir
I am a fan of your straightforward attitude. But in your videos you always say 'aadmi bechara kaam kar ke, thak ke aata hai'. It's kind of one sided statement. In today's time women too work full time and yearn for the family's wellbeing. In my 16 years of marriage, my husband is still struggling to get settled in his business. I stood up with him and will always do the same. I am sure there are many women who have been doing a lot financially for family. So kindly give due credit to women as well for their contributions towards family.
So true 👍
Great episode, very informative
Log family ko support karte hain to arjun ne bhagwan krishna ke kahne par pariwar ke hi logon ko kyun maara? Agar vibhishan ke naam pe log apne bachchon ka naam nahin rakhte hain to ye logon ki galti hai. Logon ko dharm ki samajh nahi hai.
Thank you for your valuable videos🙏✨
Sir Rama and Sita sacrificed their family life and lived apart, but that feeling of doing what they did for supporting each other's duties and remaining steadfast to each other till death is exemplary. Not that because they were forced to separate physically they gave up upon each other. Till death they did everything for their duties and love for each other.
Though Maa Sita separated from Ram, she knew She was the only woman in his life and she and her children were his only family. This is the emotional family bonding which is missing now.
That was wrong
@@guddaandgolu6611choro bewakoofo ko mat samjha ne jao
Inhone kbhi ramayan pdha hi ni
Sir ,Insaan ne duniya ki her cheez ko kaat chaat kar rehene laayak bana diya. Ab Insaan ko khud ko banane ki Bari hai .
Aap jese guru mile tho dhire dhire ye bhi ho jaega
I'm confused because I have also watched the clip - "Why beta bahu should not live with parents"... which has completely contradictory reasoning....
Thank u Guru ji for bringing the topic.
Or agar parents hi ye chahte ho ki hamare pas mat aao apna khud karo
Aapke ander koi kmi hogi....ya aap apna point of view smja nhi pa rhe ho apne parents ko...pyar se smajao...ya smjo.... family first
You are right. You said about the mindset of my mother.