Indian Men Need To Accept This Hard Truth

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @ClarityForYouth
    @ClarityForYouth  Год назад +21

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    • @jishnuray8456
      @jishnuray8456 Год назад +2

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    • @jatinbhojwani
      @jatinbhojwani Год назад

      Excellent but the only point i disagree with is the comment made on promoting our dharam i.e Hindu culture. Both topics are irrespective of each other - Being a good husband and earning money and promoting Hinduism. Why don't you share your thoughts on this. By the way you are a great mentor.

    • @MensAttitude
      @MensAttitude Год назад

      Sir ki smile bhut mischief vaali hai. Bhut bdia information. Great work

  • @rg1283
    @rg1283 Год назад +313

    Such a fantastic episode. Thank you. Here's a summary:
    1: Figure out what makes a person high-value
    2: Stop complaining and see how you can build you capability
    3: Happiness = expectation minus reality
    4: Indian men traditionally have low life skills, cannot do household work, those who have skills are happy
    5: Money and earning ability are valuable assets
    6: Let go of ego and victim complex
    7: See how you can add value

    • @RajatK91
      @RajatK91 Год назад +4

      What a perfect and beautiful summary!

    • @Ahmad_Yusu
      @Ahmad_Yusu Год назад +2

      Thanks for writing this summary

    • @actone3675
      @actone3675 Год назад +3

      Reality minus expectation, perhaps?
      If R < E, H < 0. 🙃

    • @Raju_K
      @Raju_K Год назад +7

      I see and understand but how is the woman going to add value to me. I need reciprocity. I'm not a sucket .
      I earn good, I have everything I need and some thinga that I want. I will increase as time goes on. Now what a man should provide are tangible but what women provide are not tangible it depends on their feelings. Then how is this fair. That's why I avoid intimate realtionships with women.
      I don't need no woman except for sex and children. Same as women feel

    • @frc_sc9114
      @frc_sc9114 Год назад +1

      ​​​​@@Raju_KThat's what dating is for, to find out more about the other person and what they add/subtract to/from your life. There are plenty of happy, successful couples around. So if you can't find a woman that adds to your life, maybe change your dating approach and standards? No one is forcing you to bring a woman that doesn't make you happy into your life.

  • @nikeshjha9246
    @nikeshjha9246 Год назад +215

    Being a father is the most difficult thing to be for a man. Being an earner, a protector and a teacher for kids is really challenging and yet something worth doing.

    • @San_home-chef
      @San_home-chef Год назад +7

      You are right, because girls learn all work, in many cases the mother of the house says, he is the son, why he will learn household work

    • @San_home-chef
      @San_home-chef Год назад

      Yes, my father had separate plate, bowl, spoon, if anyone touches it, my mother got offended.

    • @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785
      @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 Год назад +1

      It's your choice. No one has imposed it on you.

    • @sannjd
      @sannjd Год назад +2

      Something worth doing? Not for everyone though. There are different people with different mindset and want different things out of life.
      Not every man wants to be a father. With or without money.

    • @Shotsfyred
      @Shotsfyred Год назад +1

      Keep telling yourself that.

  • @npaul1440
    @npaul1440 Год назад +350

    Truth seekers will love this content and praise him, while haters will say "Buddha zyada gyaan deta hain".

  • @vishybuddy
    @vishybuddy Год назад +84

    Yes it's a bitter truth of life that when you earn good amount of money... Not only your wife but people in society respect your capacity to earn more and if you directly and indirectly help others in society then you are praised and they hold you in high esteem

    • @Sample-Alok-Youtube
      @Sample-Alok-Youtube Год назад +5

      Really? What if people are jealous of you and want to bring you down? What if they think you don't deserve, your success?

    • @Aryan-nv9kd
      @Aryan-nv9kd Год назад +9

      @@Sample-Alok-RUclips They will beg you to give them a job in your company and hide their jealousy.
      If you are a man who earns a lot, jo chahiye milega.
      Aur ye jo gyan pel raha hai upar youtuber ki aadmi ne kuch nahi kiya itne saalon mein, isse jara ye puch lo ki border pe kaun mar raha tha since our country's independence, aadmi ya aurat?
      Tata, Reliance, Adani Group etc. jaise groups kisne banaye? Aadmi ya aurat ne?
      Desh ke liye jaada kaun mara angrezon ke saamne? Aadmi ya aurat?
      Jawab hai Aadmi.
      Aadmi ne jitna sacrifice kiya hai, utna aurat ne kabhi sapne mein bhi nahi kiya hai. Bas rakhael jaise jaake baithne sikha aurat ne, jiss bhi aadmi ke pass paisa ho, uske saath.
      Aur phir, ye auraten bolti hain ki inki respect karo. Kyu kare respect? Kya ukhad liya hain inhone zindagi mein?
      Kaunsa nuclear reactor banaya hai? Kaunsa spaceship launch kiya hai? Kaunsi aisi machine banayi hai jisse mankind ki help hui ho?
      Video bana ke camera ke saamne tim-tima kar nachna koi bhi RUclipsr karlega likes ke liye.
      But when it comes to real life, no one else but MEN. No one else BUT men, have helped to make this nation grow or make it earn it's wealth.
      Auraton ne sikha hai ki kaise boss ki table ke neeche kela chus ke promotion lena hai.
      In real life, as a man, if you want to be successful, you must become the most ruthless and resourceful version of yourself.
      Form alliances, make connections, earn a crapload of money and gather status in society.
      Uske baad aadmi, aurat ya chakke, sab naachenge tumhare samne taali bajate hue.
      5-6 saal feminism kya introduce kardiya, inko lagne laga ki hum auraton ne hi sab kuch banaya hai. Inn behenji auraton ko koi samjhaye ki izzat kamayi jaati hai, demand nahi ki jaati.
      Abhi toh feminism chal raha hai, kal phir misogyny chalegi, samay ka chakr aise mazak bohot karta hai. Uss samay kitno ko bewkoof banayengi ye?
      Aur ye bhai sahab jo video mein bol rahe hain ki auraton ne jahaz udana sikh liya hai etc. etc., inse jara ye bhi puch lo ki pilots ka sexual ratio kya hai? Kitni auraten plane udati hain aur kitne aadmi? Jawab phir se niklega ki majority flights are handled by men.

    • @arindamghosh5438
      @arindamghosh5438 Год назад +2

      @@Aryan-nv9kd bahut gussa bhara hai tumhare andar, itna ego male hone ka acha nhi hai Marie Curie Rani Laxmi Bai jaise kitni saare women hai Andrew Tate sahi bolta hai lekin itna bhi pagal mat ho jao uske piche

    • @Aryan-nv9kd
      @Aryan-nv9kd Год назад +9

      @@arindamghosh5438 Kisi ke peeche pagal nahi hun, sirf sach bolta hun.
      Aur agar sach bolne ka matlab hai ki mere andar gussa bhara hai toh koi nahi, ek paisewala angry aadmi, ek shaant bhikhari ke comparison mein hamesha zindagi mein jeetega. Mujhe aggression ki quality pe garv hai.
      Baaki Andrew Tate ki life se mujhe kya, maine thodi na usse koi PHD seekhni hai.
      Auraten apne jagah sahi hai, aur mard apni.
      Aur aapne abhi ye 2-3 ladkiyon ka naam jo bataya hai, uske badle main hazaron male scientists, kings, emperors, freedom fighters etc. ka naam bata sakta hun.
      The exceptions do not change the general rule. Men simply can not be competed against by women at large. Ek do exceptions toh har jagah hote hain.
      Aise toh main bhi bol dun, ki yaar Pakistan chahe kuch naa banata ho, lekin dekho JF17 bana liya hai, therefore ye duniya ki sabse acchi country hai. This moronic logic does not help or sound correct since women's arguments are like this only when it comes to feminism.

    • @AM-nx2iw
      @AM-nx2iw Год назад +1

      ​@@Aryan-nv9kd kitni age hain tumhari 😂?????

  • @rushikeshbendre9434
    @rushikeshbendre9434 Год назад +43

    “The difference between Reality and Aspirations is equal to DUKH”
    I have taken this statement.
    Thank you

  • @RaviSharma-jq1bi
    @RaviSharma-jq1bi Год назад +146

    I hope Indian judiciary understand the role of a father in a child’s life.

    • @gauravdube8133
      @gauravdube8133 Год назад +7

      Correct. Bang on.

    • @pepe_2518
      @pepe_2518 Год назад +21

      That's not happening soon. Let them cry Feminism agenda first

    • @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785
      @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 Год назад +3

      ​@@pepe_2518
      Yeah feminism is really needed son.

    • @Aryan-nv9kd
      @Aryan-nv9kd Год назад +23

      @@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 No, it is not.
      Remove and ban men from protecting women for one day.
      Ek din mein pata chal jayega feminism kitna powerful hai.
      Feminism is relevant because there are some men who protect that ideology.
      Baaki agar tumhe chaatna hai auraton ki toh chaato par sach yahi hai. The one who is the strongest decides what the rules are.

    • @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785
      @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 Год назад

      @@Aryan-nv9kd
      What do you mean protecting women? Do you mean if that is removed will women start getting raped or lose their dignity? That is happening even without men having to refuse to protect women.
      Women are the ones who continue the offspring. They keep the baby for 9 months dude.

  • @13jhelum
    @13jhelum Год назад +43

    My father used to help with housework even though my mother was a housewife. Even after retirement he is the same

    • @TheKuttaapi
      @TheKuttaapi Год назад +4

      My FIL and husband also do housework .So no fighting in home. We very rarely fight.

    • @viveksharma8334
      @viveksharma8334 10 месяцев назад +2

      Good strategy. Wise man.

  • @TheSatireDeshbhaktImran
    @TheSatireDeshbhaktImran Год назад +212

    First become RICH then become PHILOSOPHER
    That's the motto of my life ...

    • @amanujjain7297
      @amanujjain7297 Год назад +15

      ooooo tabhi tu rich nhi hai 🤣🤣

    • @pineapple9644
      @pineapple9644 Год назад +4

      Yh bhi apnh philosophical quote hi kha h

    • @gsb1929
      @gsb1929 Год назад +6

      Hakle ka chura ke likh diya.

    • @97Aniket
      @97Aniket Год назад +3

      Same here Bhai 👍

    • @trackandgrow
      @trackandgrow Год назад

      instead be a practioner and documenting your journey bhai... and once u sell ur product and service people will trust you more, as they saw you what it takes

  • @satishsable7138
    @satishsable7138 Год назад +3

    Guruji ka har vakya jindgi jine ki Sikh deta hai, pranam guruji

  • @ritiksharma9649
    @ritiksharma9649 Год назад +6

    Be single , be happy 😊

  • @drbabun1
    @drbabun1 8 месяцев назад +1

    Clarity hi to aisi … Boss tussi great ho ! Thanks for enlightening us … please continue with your great work , at the same pace … this is the best one (applicable to me)

  • @sageofsixpaths98
    @sageofsixpaths98 Год назад +3

    This is truly best channel I've come across for life guidance.

  • @startupconsultant
    @startupconsultant Год назад +81

    Men are not complaining about the fact that they have to earn. They are complaining about the quality of outcome they are getting in return. Marriage doesn't appear to have the same benefits for a lot of men that it used to. That is also a bitter truth. I am talking about the top 10% of earning men of course.

    • @shrin210
      @shrin210 Год назад +11

      In Past, we had to suffer physical war.
      Now we have to fight mental war.
      Nothing changed in this world for men. Don't cry, Be strong. That all men is supposed to be.

    • @startupconsultant
      @startupconsultant Год назад

      @@shrin210 I'm not crying lol. Men of the earlier generations are responsible for this mess. They were the ones who killed female children out of the womb and oppressed woman. Stop behaving like a victim.

    • @poojaganguli2624
      @poojaganguli2624 Год назад +20

      How about women who is earning, she is not benefitting either. She has earn money plus do house hold chores. She is tired stressed out

    • @startupconsultant
      @startupconsultant Год назад +18

      @@poojaganguli2624 Man is also tired stressed out earning money. The problem with a lot of modern Indian woman is that they think marriage will make their lives easy. That they will find a man who earns more than them and will add to their comforts. It's quite the contrary, it's rather harder keeping the family afloat and raising children. Woman of the previous generations understood this.

    • @shrin210
      @shrin210 Год назад +7

      @@poojaganguli2624 Divorce that husband, and be independent. If you are already independent what're you crying about.

  • @keshabpoudel3126
    @keshabpoudel3126 Год назад +10

    Sir we need more practical people like you who can simplify the things...

  • @restlessvikash
    @restlessvikash Год назад +27

    Sir beleive me when I say this, you give more clarity than all the self help books combined.. I have read many.. Most are good but you are best ❤

  • @01_abhijeet49
    @01_abhijeet49 3 месяца назад +1

    Sir aapne bahaut acchi video banai hai.
    Ye kaam na karne wali cheez meri family mein hai. Aapki vajah se maine ye generational mal-adaptive behaviour recognize kar liya hai.
    Thankyou

  • @anamikaseth2102
    @anamikaseth2102 11 месяцев назад

    Awesome...jo baat har mahila puri life samjhana chahti hai wo aapne 15 min main bata diya🙏

  • @gurvinderjeetsingh7735
    @gurvinderjeetsingh7735 Год назад +1

    Sango veerji aapki baat Sahi hai. Sab Kuch Jo aapne kaha sach hai. Practical hai.

  • @vikaskapse4114
    @vikaskapse4114 Год назад +3

    It's true and I personally feel that .....
    After corona pandemic......
    I really thank God for showing my right place

  • @AfsariBegum-h8t
    @AfsariBegum-h8t 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sir aap ne 100% takka sach kaha life ka sab se bada sach ka khulasa kiya aap ne ❤❤❤

  • @IamRahul_369
    @IamRahul_369 Год назад +7

    Mazzaaaaa Aa Gaya Amit Guru Ji for bringing such harsh reality to us💥💯💥

  • @bondpond2388
    @bondpond2388 Год назад +5

    Being a responsible man is Thankless job

  • @sapnapaul5430
    @sapnapaul5430 Год назад +1

    So glad and happy to see someone speaking the truth so well 🙏

  • @jackdenial9530
    @jackdenial9530 Год назад +3

    true sir ,men in world society has always being treated as PROTECTOR & PROVIDER

  • @SanketGilbile
    @SanketGilbile 7 месяцев назад +2

    Absolutely right

  • @awisin871
    @awisin871 Год назад +9

    Luck plays major factor in career growth,person who are in corporate sector can relate this. There are lot of talented employees working at lesser pay compared to less skilled employees. Reason may be getting chance at more demanding skills at early stage of career,great exposure in diffrent company,process ramdown etc.

  • @Brajgamer
    @Brajgamer Год назад +2

    Totally agree sir. This lesson is very useful to me. Mujhme bhi koi life skill nhi h. Ab m seekhunga.

  • @denzel9518
    @denzel9518 Год назад +25

    Hearing some very important topics from your interesting contents about today's society. Yes women have travelled a huge way and modern day men have simply remained latched to what they inherit from the men of yesteryears who developed, invented and earned through hard times of limited resources. Younger guys are literally loosing ability to work heard.

    • @aruncv1373
      @aruncv1373 9 месяцев назад

      They worked because there was returns. If you don’t get the bone, the dog ain’t gonna play. Smart people invest for returns.

  • @devenshah1805
    @devenshah1805 Год назад +1

    Truths are very better......

  • @DheerajUpadhyay-f4e
    @DheerajUpadhyay-f4e 8 месяцев назад +3

    असहमत हूँ
    जिस आदमी ने घर का काम और खाना बनाना सीख लिया उसका जीवन तो आसान है और वो किसी पर निर्भर नहीं है लेकिन फ़ैमिली लाइफ में खुश नहीं है काम करने के बाद भी
    लेकिन जिस आदमी ने खाना बनाना नहीं सीखा वो फिर भी खुश है क्योंकि खाना तो उसे बना बनाया मिलेगा वो कोई कोम्प्रोमाईज़ नहीं करने वाला , चाहे डिपेंड रहना पड़े लेकिन रहेगा खुश ही

  • @anthonypaste5208
    @anthonypaste5208 Год назад +4

    The best thing about being a man is you can change your value anytime and it's in ur control by hardworking.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад +1

      Yes if you’re not married 😂

  • @tanusreechatterjee9902
    @tanusreechatterjee9902 Год назад +11

    Amazing!! Sir, I am from Bengali higher educated family. I am a college lecturer. When ever I see your video, the content is just fantastic. I am an emotional person. But seeing your videos gradually I become practical. Each and every word of yours are just amazing.

  • @MrNikintel
    @MrNikintel Год назад +1

    Thank you , this video is mirror for every man in this country .

  • @RamKrGupta-nq2el
    @RamKrGupta-nq2el Год назад +2

    Thank you for guidance
    And showing path to the current generation

  • @garimadhawan7149
    @garimadhawan7149 Год назад +1

    u bring heart garnished on a platter..👍🏻👍🏻👏👏👏👏

  • @tupuusarkar3811
    @tupuusarkar3811 Год назад +2

    sir u r spitting bitter truth

  • @meenaadhikari505
    @meenaadhikari505 Год назад +1

    Very well said sir .hope men listen and follow this

  • @dsyadavusa
    @dsyadavusa Год назад +8

    As long as you have money, you will be respected. If the money is gone, you'll lose all the respect.

  • @debasmitakhadanga6606
    @debasmitakhadanga6606 Год назад +117

    Sir luck also plays an important role here. My cousine sister is below average looking, not earning with MSC qualification. She got married to a phd holder with 33 lpa with no dowry. After lots of rejection, she hot selected by that candidate and his family members. Now she like I am the queen. She is enjoying her life fully. Her family members are also very proud of her. Other cousine is in MNC. She got married to a PSU employee. Both are earning almost same. Bothe are busy in their own life. No time for each other.

    • @InLovewithLife888
      @InLovewithLife888 Год назад +32

      Ur right.. i too have seen such cases where ppl jus get lucky without efforts

    • @divineray7822
      @divineray7822 Год назад +5

      Luck pe apna control nhi.

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 Год назад +5

      ​@@divineray7822 yes but good luck bhi whole life nhi chalti. Aaj luck hai kal kisne dekha hai?

    • @39madhurie
      @39madhurie Год назад +5

      Sabki apni apni kismat hai, background also matters , u cannot compare both girls

    • @sayantikaghosh4240
      @sayantikaghosh4240 Год назад +42

      I have seen this case too there are women who are least looking and don't know how to cook played with lots of men in past doesn't have job but marry rich great guy and there life is settled and a women good looking financially earning have good characters get the worst husband

  • @WiselyYoursOfficial
    @WiselyYoursOfficial Год назад +2

    Understood your message sir, thank you.

  • @reenananwani9054
    @reenananwani9054 Год назад +2

    Very nice video. Once the man see woman earning better then him he becomes relax. Now there is wife also to share house expenses. They don't express jealousy but don't co operate in house work so that wife progress gets hamper n she stops her work or career. This is also fact. Thank you

  • @akashtamrakar74
    @akashtamrakar74 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sir for making this video ❤🙏

  • @sidb2023
    @sidb2023 Год назад +1

    Sach kadhuwa hota hai. Thanks

  • @rohitdadhich706
    @rohitdadhich706 Год назад +1

    Very true sir.....
    Aap ko sunna apna he expire hai sir ......thank you for useful information Sir ❤

  • @P-Pal
    @P-Pal Год назад +4

    Thank you bahut acha laga sun k
    . Aisa laga kabhi kise ne first time taraf kiya ..
    I earn
    I cook
    I clean
    I iron
    I wash
    I am man 😅

  • @sagittariustiger1366
    @sagittariustiger1366 Год назад +1

    Kya Sahi baat bolte hain aap . Mazedaar

  • @geetajaiswal2269
    @geetajaiswal2269 Год назад +1

    बिल्कुल सही कहा आपने

  • @deepakdash4897
    @deepakdash4897 Год назад +39

    I agree, just from the fact that a high value men will be ok to look for women having lower salary, but the reverse Is not true. So get ready boys, its going to get harder.

    • @gauravdube8133
      @gauravdube8133 Год назад +14

      Correct. I agree with all the points he has made, but my point is that in todays world women have moved ahead because Men willingly shared their roles, opportunities, positions, power and resources with Women. Now, can the so-called "empowered" women, return the favor. The answer is big NO. You see women want new game but want to play the game with old rules and be selfish enough to not share the resources which Men willingly used to share and is still sharing. That is hypocrisy by Women which cannot be overlooked. In any case, I suggest Men should work strongly to live for themselves first and take care of their health, mental well-being and financial growth (share only what is required to keep others just happy.)

    • @Therohitdu
      @Therohitdu Год назад

      Guess why divorce and single are increasing....

    • @anempath24
      @anempath24 Год назад +6

      ​@@gauravdube8133 yeah. they call themselves modern educated strong independent women. but in the end they want the same traditional high earning man who acts as a provider.

    • @gauravdube8133
      @gauravdube8133 Год назад

      @@anempath24 correct. So, basically, all our taxes, mostly paid by men are going to waste.

    • @anempath24
      @anempath24 Год назад

      @@gauravdube8133 and they lecture us about patriarchy when they are the ones who r following and promoting.
      the modern bring nothing to the relationship. we are forced to accept these non feminine woman. they expect everything from a man. like who is masculine, tall, rich etc. but men cant expect anything. but if we expect our wife to cook for us then we will be labelled as misogynist, patriarchal and what not.
      we men should raise our voice. these fem'sts saying they are descrimated in past so its thier turn. they have no idea what men can do when they had enough. its the men who raised voice for womens rights. and these women turning against us. we men are the tax payers, protectors of the nation. we run the world but still sadly we men cant live the way we want to live. all are against us.

  • @aninaelizabethabraham5226
    @aninaelizabethabraham5226 Год назад +1

    Superb!!!

  • @debadityapurkyastha1777
    @debadityapurkyastha1777 Год назад +1

    Great wisdom sir

  • @l0vleen
    @l0vleen Год назад +1

    Agreed and already on the path. Good to hear.

  • @changingtangents
    @changingtangents Год назад +2

    Superlative video and top notch articulation of fine details. I enjoyed it a lot!! I am becoming your fan and at the same time getting more clarity about my own life.

  • @neelimavoice
    @neelimavoice Год назад +1

    Appreciate truly

  • @icyysingh2697
    @icyysingh2697 Год назад +3

    Sir , aapne ek ek baat mere mann ki keh di hai ... Aajkl girls ko bht blame kia jata h ki girls lalchi h n unhe pesa chaiye ladko se. Jabki ye ek natural phenomenon h , in animals also female birds or animals choose the partner who is most effecient in fighting or either making best nests for the chicks... a women knows aftr a certain time money is the main thing to run smoothly in life .

  • @Nikkhil_Sarvankar
    @Nikkhil_Sarvankar Год назад +1

    Very nice video 👍🏼 Its indeed difficult being Men in today's World. The onlyyyyyyy thing that men should be focussing is Money. Thats the only way.

  • @mr.phantom6969
    @mr.phantom6969 Год назад +5

    As per Hinduism the four principles/objectives of life are: Dharma, Artha, kama, Moksha....
    So artha is money which we must earn, we must not have any doubt that is money important or not, it is definitely important, just don't use wrong means to earn that money ....

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад

      Then why we keeping on hearing this phrase money cannot buy happiness crap does the religious principle not take into consideration why everything is so contradictory

  • @BKSahu-ks1jb
    @BKSahu-ks1jb Год назад +1

    Very true. Everybody has to work.

  • @prashantp8521
    @prashantp8521 8 месяцев назад

    Very lucidly explained

  • @nabheesh
    @nabheesh Год назад +4

    Damn you talk worth shit and this is treasure . Showing us the true value, thanks so much being so realistic . Watching you is so directional and motivating. Full power to you sir!

  • @TheVIKASHHH
    @TheVIKASHHH Год назад +12

    Life lessons for free ❤️🙏

  • @navjeetkaur2829
    @navjeetkaur2829 Год назад +2

    Work is worship

  • @thenormieguy
    @thenormieguy 2 месяца назад +1

    We want Amit Sango sir and Krishna Rao sir Collab video 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @prateikkarani9350
    @prateikkarani9350 Год назад +34

    The point where husband can help at home so that wife can go out and earn to make a bigger combined income is exactly what we need. But also if a man is capable to earn more, wife can take over household work so that man can focus on earning. Same thing. But being a homemaker is looked down upon. Understanding , trust and team work is absent.

  • @rishirajkashyap5834
    @rishirajkashyap5834 Год назад +1

    Thanks sir for this marvelous video

  • @anuptalwar6291
    @anuptalwar6291 Год назад +7

    In our family all men started helping their spouse the way back from 1980 because most of the women started jobs and they are highfliers in their professional life

    • @shreyashreya1328
      @shreyashreya1328 Год назад

      Sooo do u mean men are not highfliers right??

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад

      @@shreyashreya1328no it’s wrong

  • @anuragdas6644
    @anuragdas6644 Год назад +1

    thank you sir .

  • @desiroadtrips6686
    @desiroadtrips6686 Год назад +2

    Great video Sir as always.....

  • @rajnirazdan4753
    @rajnirazdan4753 Год назад +2

    Sir whatever you serve on this platform is really amazing. 🙏💞

  • @mrunalkapse7594
    @mrunalkapse7594 Год назад +3

    Indian Men 90 percent atleast and especially in the age group of 30's to 60's whether they are providers or Non providers are inflated by there Male egos they will try to adjust,adapt but eventually there male ego does the knocking

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад +1

      Same with females ego inflated with fake feminism and freedom

  • @vhn-02
    @vhn-02 Год назад +2

    Sir aap jo kuch bolte ho sab mujhpe laagu hota hai...Mai rehta nikamma aspiration and reality ka difference nahi handle kar paya...step by step success dekhni chahiye...target chote rakhke pure karo...

  • @swatidandekar-zr4no
    @swatidandekar-zr4no Год назад +10

    Every word is correct, today's reality,marriage of a boy has become nowadays, difficult laws are also favoring women

  • @adeshkumar4640
    @adeshkumar4640 Год назад +9

    Left gaal pe dimple --awesome AmitJi 😂😂

  • @panktislifestyle2354
    @panktislifestyle2354 Год назад +27

    I left my husband because he was not doing job. Entire day playing games in mobile at 33 age. Nothing else means nothing. And he will eat whatever I cooks. Rest sleep..
    And when checked mobile, caught him with many girls.
    He used to ask money, blame me as I was earning more than him.
    The thing is, we r ok if men earn less but earn to kare? Time pass hi karne Beth jao to who will accept?

    • @WHITE-pz8sv
      @WHITE-pz8sv Год назад +9

      Unka sarir bara ho geya aur dimaag chota rehegeya!

    • @prateek752
      @prateek752 11 месяцев назад +5

      He dodged a bullet.

    • @Shasy561
      @Shasy561 8 месяцев назад +5

      Same is for the girls also, will not work on one pretext or the other, but can/ will a man leave the wife for that case?

  • @anirudhmitra4232
    @anirudhmitra4232 Год назад +11

    Still there is flaw in your theory. Women will still choose a man who earns more even if he is alocoholic, rude, arrogant. Good guys even if he earns slightly less will always be left out. Being good is not a virtue anymore. That's why its called Kali Yuga.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад +1

      Perfect said Gandhigiri only worked for getting freedom not applicable now

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Год назад

      @@yahudi7253😂

    • @shreyaswaraj5040
      @shreyaswaraj5040 Год назад

      Bcz for girls her pride is in her beauty...as simple as it is
      When boys will stop simp over just naam ke phadi likhi but befkuf and Sundar hai 😂😂she knows her work is already done and what a boy wants is just pretty wife...
      Simp over pretty and unsuccessful girls stops by high earning boys ...these girls will stop getting anything in her life 😂😂😂
      Boys ko wo Sundar ladki Bina kuch kiye sara sukh pati ka bhog Rahi hoti hai toh takleef and jealousy hoti hai ladki se but ye sara sukh bhi ladka he deta hai

    • @Ninanani-4085
      @Ninanani-4085 Год назад

      तुम अपना घर और Patriarchy के मजे छोड़ के matriarchy अपनाओ, फिर कहो।

  • @saumyapunekar8625
    @saumyapunekar8625 Год назад +43

    Firstly son's mother must be trained on this . They do not allow their son to do basic things like preparing tea, cleaning utensils , pressing their clothes and more ..saying "ladkiyon ka kaam hai". Also men need to be ambitious and hard working instead of depending on parents hard earned money and property or asking for dowry . Marriage should be done based on equality and respect both man and wife should share responsibility equally finance, kids , household chores , children baby sitting etc..Also a man and wife should not plan a family until they feel financially stable and take responsibility of parenthood 😃😊❤️👍😇

    • @tony_montana9122
      @tony_montana9122 Год назад +3

      2003 ka comment 2023 me kiya hai

    • @saumyapunekar8625
      @saumyapunekar8625 Год назад +6

      @@tony_montana9122 yeh 2023 ki baat hai , abhi tak log sudhare hue nahi hai . Kuch small changes hue hai lekin Dilli bahut dur hai 😊👍

    • @shreyashreya1328
      @shreyashreya1328 Год назад

      ​@@saumyapunekar8625right after doing all these only man I mean mard will be so strongest right???😊

    • @visheshmittal5651
      @visheshmittal5651 Год назад

      ​@@saumyapunekar8625bache man hi sare kaam kare?
      Tum job karke usse jyada Paisa kamao toh tumhara pati Khushi Khushi ghar ke kaam karega. Warna tum thik se kaam karo. Ladki ko phone and insta scroll karna hai. Aadmi din bhar kaam karta rahega and upar se fir Ghar ka kaam bhi wahi kare. Chutiya ho tum😂

    • @nikhil5894
      @nikhil5894 Год назад +7

      @@saumyapunekar8625 your comment has many flaws which i don't want to point out.
      One thing you said that marriage should be done on equal basis or salary. But almost in most cases woman and her family wants husband earning more than her

  • @kulranjanrao
    @kulranjanrao Год назад +2

    1000% true!!

  • @grenjith
    @grenjith 11 месяцев назад

    thank you...

  • @ajaymittal5239
    @ajaymittal5239 Год назад +1

    You speak so well and give great insights to everyone. You are doing a great job spreading awareness. It was a bit funny because you reminded me of my examination readiness status

  • @piyushkmanand4994
    @piyushkmanand4994 Год назад +5

    IN WEST,WIFE ,WEALTH AND WEATHER NEVER REMAINS SAME.
    Different countries have different coulture whichbi think people should inculcate while adressing any social sceanatio. Amit Sangwaan sir, plz also give the message, that earning a lot like a animal is very much needed but also do tell them atleast give a day jn week in which u can enjoy with ur family most.
    Earning like animal will lead to burn out and breakdown, which we see in european county and some advance country like Japan.

  • @thomasmene6559
    @thomasmene6559 Год назад

    No.1 clarity giver

  • @SaranshSagar999
    @SaranshSagar999 Год назад

    बहुत बेहतरीन वीडियो है

  • @karansehgal936
    @karansehgal936 Год назад +2

    Please keep making these videos. I have a hard time being practical & money minded. It really helps 😅

  • @chintandd
    @chintandd Год назад +3

    Also consider man who is
    KIND,
    GOOD CHARACTER,
    HAPPY MAN,
    GOOD SANSKAR WITH FAMILY
    Money is not everything. Caring and above features also matters

  • @manjeetkharod687
    @manjeetkharod687 Год назад +5

    One more advice which can add meaning to your relationship with your spouse and children and also make your marriage more successful 😊

  • @sangeethnarayanan4598
    @sangeethnarayanan4598 Год назад +16

    Here is a legendary man. The quintessential high value man. He does the dishes and advices a MNC on mergers simultaneously. Soyciety needs more legends like him.

    • @-Prashant-Kumar
      @-Prashant-Kumar Год назад +5

      He didn't exactly said to do the dishes, he said kamate km ho to tevar bhi km rkho, ghr me hath batao. Ya fir zyada kamao aur naukar rkh lo. Would prefer to earn more, so i nvr have to do the dishes

    • @fathimamohideen1917
      @fathimamohideen1917 Год назад

      He has dishwasher at home. He did a video on dishwashers.

  • @ashleysingh1812
    @ashleysingh1812 Год назад +1

    Thankyou sir and salute to you 💐🫡 great motivation with practical explanation. Need more of this. 👍

  • @curiosIT_Param
    @curiosIT_Param 11 месяцев назад +2

    Society main kitni bi admi-aurat ke equality ki baaten kyun na ho jaayen, term plan ke advertisement main admi ko hi blackmail hote dekhoge, "ki tu mar jaayega to tere parivar ka kya hoga?"

  • @mp47753
    @mp47753 Год назад

    Very well said Sir. It’s important to be practical.

  • @ayushrajput3084
    @ayushrajput3084 Год назад

    beautiful video , best message
    thank you so much for the amazing content

  • @TheKuttaapi
    @TheKuttaapi Год назад +3

    "Women's contribution to children's life increases day by day not till 10 years old" that was a old concept When girls help moms at home in housework. Now both boys and girls don't have time to help their mother. After marriage also if your Daughter is working you have to help her taking care of kids Mother-in-law will never do it for your daughter. Most of the women who continue to work after having kids can do it only because of their mother. Raising kids are not as challenging as raising a mother's baby boy you are married to. Not how many year go by this baby never grow .Boys in comment section always say nobody respect contribution of a father .They will never understand the contribution of mother that's why papa ki pariya after marriage understand their mother better and support her.Boys they change according to their needs they will be momma's boy till mother is healthy and take the side of wife afterwards.

    • @Ninanani-4085
      @Ninanani-4085 Год назад +1

      Ur last life 👍 Ultimate truth of Men.

  • @routhusomeshwerrao3767
    @routhusomeshwerrao3767 Год назад +1

    Good morning dear Sango,
    It's really an amazing analysis. It's like "make hay while the sun shines" take advantage of whatever chance comes in our way.
    we must always be attentive, both mentally and physically. Not live like a slave. 🙏

  • @silent0141
    @silent0141 Год назад

    Thanks for the video. 🙏😊

  • @AquaGemExplorer
    @AquaGemExplorer Год назад +41

    I support this .. if a man is good hearted and wants to be house-husband or homemaker & women is earning more, I encourage that 🤩👍🏼🇮🇳

    • @RaviSharma-jq1bi
      @RaviSharma-jq1bi Год назад +15

      You may but still the society doesn’t accept that.

    • @AquaGemExplorer
      @AquaGemExplorer Год назад +16

      @@RaviSharma-jq1bi Chuck the Society , I welcome Change . we as a collective must dare to change the mindset .

    • @maheshchandrasharma4122
      @maheshchandrasharma4122 Год назад +10

      Mam something can't work in real life. Get out of hallucinations

    • @AquaGemExplorer
      @AquaGemExplorer Год назад +6

      @@maheshchandrasharma4122 may be you should rise up from Sadist mentality.. change your mindset first 🥇

    • @contentfilter-v4q
      @contentfilter-v4q Год назад +8

      Kathni or karni mei bahut fark hota hai.
      Actions speak louder than words.

  • @yogeshmahajanlegal
    @yogeshmahajanlegal Год назад +2

    Agreed, if we were living in 20 century. But it's now 21 st century, broken n men r receiving same education n opportunities, so in that perspective, views r biased towards the men.

  • @spiderman42985
    @spiderman42985 Год назад +4

    Have you heard Jyoti Maurya case?
    Why can't women have house-husband system ?
    If there are household chores, external affairs are more and hectic.

  • @rishabhtripathi6032
    @rishabhtripathi6032 Год назад

    I am So Agree with you sir

  • @vishalrajawat7733
    @vishalrajawat7733 Год назад

    Great video

  • @Vmr48765
    @Vmr48765 Год назад +2

    Iron clothes is important..wear neat clothes..dry clean once in a while..keep a neat clean and minimalist wardrobe..dont buy and stuff everything in

  • @cn42050
    @cn42050 7 месяцев назад

    Satya vachan 👍