Sir,Your channel is like University in itself.Because you address real issues which are neglected by most people.We are not flattering you but it's truth.
Sir I am job quitter and now home maker from past 10 yrs. I have a daughter and concerned about her future. Request you to please let us know about women's career choices which can be sustained lifetime. Thank you sir 🙏
This is truth. Even if women want to work, the in-laws a lot of time want her to do everything that a housewife does - and go out and earn money. Most working married women are tired. They get up at 4-5, make breakfast, lunch and prep dinner, give tea to husband and in-laws, manage maid/s, reach office, work office jobs, go home to cook dinner, wash dishes, manage 100% of emotional labour, and praise the husband if he makes one cup of tea to "help" etc. Weekends/holidays are worse as since its a "holiday" the family would demand lots of food and need to do general cleaning....and for the women who have kids...I don't know how they manage to remain sane...even a robot would breakdown with the kind of work that they do. Familys are not supporting working women in major homes and covid made it even more difficult with families wanting big meals and mid day teas.
I am unable to understand why a mother in law stops making tea for herself as soon as the bahu comes..Is it such a tough job? Wasn't her household running prior to this marriage?
Primary teacher should be paid equal to college lecturers but just because lecturer bante tak investment lagti hai toh unki zyada kar di hai salary jub ki lil kid ko teach karne mei jzada zoor lagta hai
@@anjies8188 No. Primary teacher and college lecturers are in totally different levels. Anybody can become a primary school teacher, not much difficult. But to be a college lecturer one has to master very complex subjects and ideas and be able to deliver them in a precise manner.
@@poojasharma-xc9un Perhaps from interpersonal skills level, patience, empathy, dealing with children and all that.. yes those are the challenges for a primary school teacher. But purely on academic level there's a heaven and hell difference between the subjects taught by a college professor and a primary school teacher. A college level professor can easily teach those subjects in primary school, but the primary school teacher will never be able to teach the complex subjects taught by the college lecturer. So no! The two are not on the same level.
@@srinjoydas6644 Agreed I am Lecture Physics in KV Other than Teaching we have to do all other thing as generally lectures are incharge of all activities/department
Working since 12 years. With a 11 yr old son. Managing house, son everything... at 38 I'm exhausted! I agree man's world is ruthless. But, what I have seen is maximum taunts come from women- at workplace, in society and from family
I am a woman, and I agree 💯! Ek bhi point aapne aisa nahi bataya jo sach na ho… from my own experience, and all women I see around me- I accept, “it’s not about equality and capability, but sustainability”… Men and women need to understand that each have their strengths, each can’t do without the other… so play to the strengths.
The domestic work that women do is an unpaid job, which supports the men and lets them concentrate at work without worrying about how will I get a good home-cooked meal this evening. (I am not talking about the fully maid-operated households where the woman of the house doesn't do a conventional job)
So very true.Topper of my MBBS ,a girl is now sitting at home whilst her hubby a last bencher is a pathologist.Many just pass fellows are now top surgeons.And well said about sustainable career.many software corporates women are suffering pcod, infertility etc...
You are so practical..I am a retired bank manager..so everyone in family respects me..moreover after retirement I helped my children to look after their children spart from my hobbies like reading learning and social work..which gives satisfaction to me..your attitude is noteworthy..thank you sir
This is so true. Lol..I actually resigned within 6 months, after my ex-boss [male] was expecting me to do a skilled work of 8 hours for 15-20 K. That"s basically Rs. 100/hour. It was my first corporate job. But i have no emotions left for it. Lol... My maid, definitely earns more than me. How? She has her two businesses plus there's fire in her belly. Good for her.... Now am myself, into being a business owner. Good for me. Every woman, should start business. It gives time freedom for sure. Do what you love, do something with which you can give time to your family. Think big, ladies. Grow slow. " It takes a lifetime to build a business, and to build a family. "
@@onlineshopping652 Business = Giving value to customers. It is just not about making money. There are many business types you can start with. First see whether, you want to start service-based biz or product-based biz. See what interests you for long, where you can provide value to customers, as there is going to be competition everywhere. Decide accordingly, and work upon it with a stubborn heart and aware mind
Facts, men and women are different. And the most embarrassing I've seen mostly in India men selling women's under garments. Thank you for speaking on this topic
Being a woman, i want to share that i saw many working women who are working as well as doing all the housewives task too. By seeing their lives i decide not to work and be a housewife. As it does not matter how much you earn but you will have to do the house chores too.🤣
If that doesnt deprive you of your self-respect - good for you!! But just listen to this, you are playing no role in transforming the lives of women. Women are ready to fight with husbands on majority of petty things, but when it comes to their job/career they do nothing because they also find it easy. I am also a working woman and do some of the household works along with husband's help. We both work as per the time we get. Rest of the work we outsource. You get support only when you ask for. Or if needed, do fight. There is nothing wrong in fighting for something right.
@@nirupamasharma4389 fighting for what when women try to outsource thing most of North Indian oppose it saying go to your mayka n do it all...then nothing left but opt for being house wife one can not do everything without little support...if do it end of life they will have nothing not good health which is most important I believe...til til ke marna ho jata h when women try to do everything without little support...so I am currently exploring new way of working via digital...u guys won't believe but literally I had leave my 10 lpa job that too work from home because of no support in any case with 2 kids it used to feel doing suicide when no support means no support jada oppose karo to go to mayaka with kids aise situation me feel like baad me jaye kamake to pati aur bacho me hi Jana h aise hi chal jayega Bina kamaye
Agree with all the points. I am a 36-yr old chartered accountant. I’ve taken career break a couple of times, and currently contemplating on the sustainability of my career choice. Thanks for the insightful video. Would love to see more videos on this topic.
I 100% agree. I am an earning woman. I married at 25 now I have 2 children I did my doctorate when my kids became school going. Now I M more than 45 my children r studying in universities I M established in my career and my home I M helping my kids in every aspect thank God.
This was much needed. Real understanding of womenhood and its powers is required. Men and women have their unique places. Please create more videos on this which speak practicality.
The conflict does not stop at male/female, working/not working, married/unmarried...it's deeper than that. The amount of work that goes into managing the house and raising the kids is not easy and it never gets easier, even after years of practice as kids keep growing and needing you in a different way as they grow. I'm sure if a husband has played this role...it's equally difficult. Also there is a traditional custom of moving to in-laws home which is different from your own and re-learning to adapt. Taking everything into account the safety factor inside as well as outside the house. If the husband earns..the wife is in the supporting role...but the salary may/may not reach her.
Science Technology Engineering and Medical. STEM Careers are also good for women. जादातर लॅपटॉप पर दिमाग वाला काम करना है, पानी मे गिरोगे तो तैरने आएगा। अपने आप को महिला होने के लिए कुछ नियमों से छूट या कही एक्स्ट्रा सहूलियत मांगने की आदत न बनाए। सिर्फ आवश्यकतानुसार छूट मांगे। जादातर अपने पुरुष सहकर्मीयो के साथ कंधे से कंधा मिलाकर काम करे। लोग साथ देते है। मार्केट मे टॅलेंट की कदर होतीही है।
साथ नही देते। कोई भी लड़की अगर नयी काम पर आयी है तो उसे skills सीखने में मदद या support करने के बजाय बोला जाता है तुम्हारे बस का नही है,औरते बस खाना बनाये etc etc सड़क पर ऑटो में इतनी गंदी नजर से देखा जाता है पूरे कपड़े पहनने पर भी ,खुद से नफरत हो गयी है😢🥺
And i more thing i would like to share, i used to think women do gossip but after joining job i have seen the male counterpart also gossiping , and much more than women do. Some Women in their 30s tend to feel weak physically at times, they should be given awareness on bone health and proper health care tips in their early childhood days .
Amitji, vow what a bindass video. Loved it. In India, this is the hard truth👍👍👍. Keep on spreading this awareness. In developed countries, like Singapore, women have equal representation. You must have a webinar on this topic.
Absolutely right 👍🏻...aapka Gyan such mai original hai... Kinhi books mai dhundke bhi nhi milega.... And advance mai congratulations 🌹 Amit jee 1 lac subscriber.... Watching you when you had 6k subscriber...💐💐💐💐
Hello Amitji, I loved this episode . Its so informative. I want to tell all my cousins & sisters in law who are in their 40s to get up and work, make money & assets for yourself. My husband & me started our Recruitment business from home 8+ years ago and are doing very well together. We initially had no employees, but now we have 5 "women" employees working from home, taking care of their families, home and themselves. We only employ Women in our office, coz, we think they do a better job. Thanks for this video!
Hi I have done my MBA in Hr. Do you any work from home job opportunity? I have 2 experience in recruiting. ( retail feild). I am a married woman. I am 35 years. Due to some personal reasons can't work outside.
Hume raaz pata chal Gaya sir bcz Maine end tak dekhi apki video and it was really good . I have started watching your videos just 2-3 days back and I am finding these very practical and informative .it's always better to receive information and knowledge from the person who is experienced and your way of talking shows sir that you are experienced but the best part is that you are experienced and interesting too . I am like your daughter maybe sir I am 26 years of age ..and I am a student .
Absolutely true!! Each and every word is related to real life. Not even this but all other videos are straight forward and very well define. It's being one week that I came across to your channel ,watching videos back to back ,keeping all my other jobs beside. It must be funny but true. First time ever I am commenting this much on someone's video. Thankyou so much for sharing your knowledge on each and every required topic. Pls do elaborate this topic.
Could relate very much to ur talk! Did Bachelors in Architecture but realised the amout of running around the Profession demands once l started doing Housing Projects on my own! Reached a stage where i wasn't happy working for less salaries in other offices but was also not ready to compramise on my family time to build my own Company! Had never thought in this perspective while choosing my Career.
Hello sir, i am a chartered accountant of 24 yrs have just started my career 1.5yrs back. I found your video very motivating and eye opener for our future choices. Thanks for your insights and please keep making such video👍🏻👍🏻🙏
Whatever you said is the bitter truth. Its a man's world so more neutral or ladies related work or work suited to woman temperament is good. However women have to do it on their own steam. No one supports you in real sense barring may be few. Be prepared to face the inherent problems of the work. Take help from reliable corners. And dont keep any regrets. You only can make it sustainable. Bravo Sir, make more videos.🙏
Yes we want this kind of content more.. as a PhD dropout I can only say that..life has become meaningless..I want financial freedom but due to the long career break.. going back to work seems impossible. Pls suggest some career choices
Phd Kerne key dauraan jo sadme lagtey hai ussey kaam kerne key hausley khud hi kharaab ho jaatey hai 😅 I can understand as I myself is phd student sitting at home and doing household chorus …… but I am thinking of doing net ….par samay itna ho jaata hai ki us par bhi shak hota hai ki ker payengey ki nahin ….. bahut mushkil sey paraie ho paati hai fir maan khud hi bhatakne lagta hai …
Sir, you are absolutely correct. Teachers are paid very less compared to the amount of patience, hard work they put in. I have been a teacher for more than 23 years at a stretch.. You are very right, it is high time society realized this & supports women.
OMG! I found this channel today. Every word said in this video is cent percent true.😱 Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I wish I was earning I would right away take counseling session with the sir but I am still a student only.
You r spot on Sir 😅😅 keep going.👍🤗❤️🇮🇳🙏 India Needs to change for the better. GREAT wish someone was there to guide me .I was a primary teacher Montessori, very popular, loved by children parents but so poorly paid by school. Now retired .🙏❤
Practicality... Sir Its Needed in this society of future... Especially for Young Adults Like Me.. It helps to shape Right Perspective about Life.. Please Keep up the Good Work Sir..!
Hey sir am listening with my 21 yr daughter the way u said the things so confidently it takes a lot of guts really really appreciate god bless you❤❤ this is a true mirror for people who want a change.pls suggest career options for women according to venus n moon.. Thank you waiting for ur next video eargerly
Really appreciated video plz do webinar on this topic sir .n also suggest career options n business choice for us who r upbringing their kids also no one is their for the upbringing
Yes Sir........we would definitely like to know more about this topic......... atleast we will be able to guide our next generation of daughters in selection of a better career.....
Girls, actually can do anything.....just have to be very very careful about the men they marry. Marry men who would be a support system, not the ones who would stand in the way..mere kapde press kyun nahi, Aaj salad nahi hai. :(
u r super intellectual sir i have seen maximum videos of yours all r super original thank you so much for this useful content provided in such an interesting way .May god bless you sir.
Sir, you really touched the paining veins of ladies...i m also a MBA graduate and left my job n doing tution..but not satisfied with my job...give some light over career choice at late 40s
Sir, thts so true. I m a government servant I totally agree with you. Men’s dominant the services.., basically job, party, site visits etc ye saab ke men ka dominate kar rahe hai
All the words are so close to working woman's life. The unemployed lady members are the one who criticize them pointing their less care on children, home cleaning and managing. We working women are left in hands of in laws by our own parents and in laws get the whole authority to manipulate, brain wash the newly wed working girl and often make her realize her duties regarding family. We women get suppressed from both side. Eventually we donot perform well in both field and live a miserable life. These things no one discuss, even we hesitate to tell our painful condition to others for the sake of family pride.
well said sir, Everything you mentioned is relatable. I am ex IT professional, currently pursuing freelancing and stock market as a career. Worked in corporate environment for nearly 12 years. You mentioned correctly work environment is not that women friendly. I was very mentally disturb at work and at home also after my marriage , as my in laws were not supportive. And at my parents place i was very pampered and my parents supported me always. After marriage working and life at home was tough.
Sorry but this happens only in India because outside India scenario is so different as women are working in all fields even driving city buses, ambulances, taxis and much more so it depends on society and culture how they treat gender differences. When this will change and all women start working or doing business whatever to make them financially independent India will be super power. As we have lots of manpower just wasted. I think sir you can do revolution by making some videos for them who are just sitting at home and doing nothing because they think their time is gone. I am studying CA and found one lady age 55 doing phd as she did not complete while she was younger and had family responsibilities she encouraged me to complete my studies even with family responsibilities and working full time so we are the only one who limit our possibilities.
True so many big tech companies have lot of talented women or agar hum kahe men to marta kat te rehte he gunda gardi yai sab karte h vo karna to kisi bhi gender ke kiye sahi nahi h kuki mard agar ladayii karega or baad me mar gaya to baad me uske ghar ki lady ko.hi soni family' k support karna padhega
I was among chilled toppers in class who always knew her capabilities even if scoring zero. Post 12th i was made look fool n depressed for saying what i wanted to b. I was forced to b doctor n i always feel out of place. At workplace i see bihari types antiwomen men. Most men where their women r not treated well ,devalue women.
Sir I'm 28yrs old when I was 23 I joined in pvt bank but it's too exhausted I didn't even have time to eat food on time after giving my number Four worthful yrs I left Bank nd sitting at home listening taunts from Family Marriage is also not happening...Please make more videos like this show Women the Right path🙏
Well said. You hit on the core issue but need your guidance on solution as well. Pls conduct a webinar where we can discuss career opportunities for ourself and our daughters
Its sad that at the end you highlighted how men are suffering cause they are working and women should continue with their career too even after they are married, running their house while they work, managing kids and their life and career all while they work. I think the actual message is that men inspite of working should help in the house and women should do the same too, cause in a working women house, men are definitely not the ones suffering all the time. Yes women do get comfortable in the household chores, but a working women does way more than that and if u actually want to push a women to work, you need to push men too to help in the household chores.
Blatant truth put across bluntly...one needs to be bold to say that men and women are not equal in society these days...the issue of sustainability of a women's job is extremely valid..wud look fwd for more on the topic sir...
Even today career of girls is seen as a ladder to get a good match...no matter after marriage she will be compelled to leave her job or asked to give her full salary at home because she goes out to do work.... No matter how much we become progressive or laws for women has been made, women at home is still opressed because patriarchy is rooted in the blood of this society!!!
Sir u touched the lifes of so many well educated women's... I had done M. Sc, n Ph. D in Agriculture and could have got my dream Govt job but due to marriage n kids compromised on my career choices n after a long break now I m working as a guest faculty in a college... Now also demand for a second child... Life is full of compromised for a women... Who wants to pursue something good for herself... Husband ka bhi transfer hota rehta hai jaise hi mera kahi acha hota hai we had to shift d city again... Pls give some suggestions to us also
He had already sed...women needn't to compete with man..emotionally and biologically women are different from man...women should do job related to venus and moon..need to be little diplomatic while handling things... Like in you case..if you husband taking transfer..why u need to change place with him..initially it is fine..but later let's hold your place.if u get a good opportunity in city a, no need to move to city b with husband..just do your job
@@pranatidas5972 what about kid.....he will live and get education with whom parent, as he needs stability too.......women have to make choice between family and career options
Maybe you can opt for some way to take your skills online where location is not important 😊. the task might not be as lucrative as an " on site" job but less hours less pay model... Just a suggestion...
The example that you have at 19.15 where husband leaves his job and joins wife...it actually happened with Gayathri reddy traditional sarees store in hyderabad.please read her story.very inspiring
Agree as a HR i know back side relatives, Females are judged they are at 25-26 yrs so will get married soon, 27-33yrs old do you have child if no then won't hire them so no need to pay maternity leaves of 6 months. Even females gets lesser salaries than men as assumed men has more responsibility. Sometimes manager prefer to keep one female in team of males so they will be entertained and males feels motivated at workplace. I heard managers tell females you don't have that lady charm, put up some makeup don't be rough tough lady. I feel very sad for ladies, but we are behind such things cause we always look for comforts, even new concepts Menstrual leaves so management reduces number of ladies as they can't scold females like they can put pressure on males for sales, productivity.
But man's world needs to be changed...agar aise haar maan k sari ladkiyan sirf teacher hi banengi...other fields ka to pata hi nahi chalega..and jahan jahan ladies ayi h jhande gade hain they are good in doing business ... good politicians...y can't we create a balanced society ...
Practical rahiye...Sahi cheeze sahi hoti hai...Khud ki comitment honi chahiye apni carrier ke prati...Main toh khud kar rahi hoon...mera aim of Life hi yehi tha...Self Independent for Lifetime...Thanks to my Nani who gave us these Teachings for all her daughters and grandchildren way ahead of times...Feel proud to be part of such Family.
Yes , sir aap bht thik baat ko recognise kiye hai jo aaj kal humare saath hota hai, ladies independent banna chahate hai par gents un par havi hote hai
More family videos sir. Husband working for his entire family but when it comes to wife’s responsibilities he says he is working as favour. But brother and family issue is who will do if I will not. I do earn and do all household including jhadu pocha he sometimes tell what you do while day. And if I keep maid for 2 months in one year he says that now no work you have though I have full time job but only I am working from home now.
Aap ka kehena bilkul sahi hai. Meri office me Boss k ye hi vichar tha ki ladies ko jyada increment nahin dena chahiye even if they are doing hard work and more deserving. I left the co in 1 year.
Agree with you , girls should not quit their earning work/job/,kids grow with in 4 to5 years span. Adult Children respect mothers if they r earning good amount. For 4 to 5 years untill kids grow ,they should seek help from Nainy or cooks or daycare providers.
Sir,Your channel is like University in itself.Because you address real issues which are neglected by most people.We are not flattering you but it's truth.
Thanks.
So true👍🏻👍🏻
Absolutely right.
Sir I am job quitter and now home maker from past 10 yrs. I have a daughter and concerned about her future. Request you to please let us know about women's career choices which can be sustained lifetime. Thank you sir 🙏
Not flattering? First time hearing this from an indian :O
This is truth. Even if women want to work, the in-laws a lot of time want her to do everything that a housewife does - and go out and earn money. Most working married women are tired. They get up at 4-5, make breakfast, lunch and prep dinner, give tea to husband and in-laws, manage maid/s, reach office, work office jobs, go home to cook dinner, wash dishes, manage 100% of emotional labour, and praise the husband if he makes one cup of tea to "help" etc. Weekends/holidays are worse as since its a "holiday" the family would demand lots of food and need to do general cleaning....and for the women who have kids...I don't know how they manage to remain sane...even a robot would breakdown with the kind of work that they do. Familys are not supporting working women in major homes and covid made it even more difficult with families wanting big meals and mid day teas.
Very true
True
I am unable to understand why a mother in law stops making tea for herself as soon as the bahu comes..Is it such a tough job? Wasn't her household running prior to this marriage?
@@jyotsnakailashiya1 nice question
Here again only if the families afford to hire servants, otherwise situation is the same no much changes.
I am a pre primary teacher. Thanks for understanding our situation. The amount of hard work we do, we don't get paid accordingly.
Primary teacher should be paid equal to college lecturers but just because lecturer bante tak investment lagti hai toh unki zyada kar di hai salary jub ki lil kid ko teach karne mei jzada zoor lagta hai
@@anjies8188 No. Primary teacher and college lecturers are in totally different levels. Anybody can become a primary school teacher, not much difficult. But to be a college lecturer one has to master very complex subjects and ideas and be able to deliver them in a precise manner.
@@srinjoydas6644 That exactly should change...not anyone should be allowed to become primary teacher....
It requires great skill and patience
@@poojasharma-xc9un Perhaps from interpersonal skills level, patience, empathy, dealing with children and all that.. yes those are the challenges for a primary school teacher. But purely on academic level there's a heaven and hell difference between the subjects taught by a college professor and a primary school teacher. A college level professor can easily teach those subjects in primary school, but the primary school teacher will never be able to teach the complex subjects taught by the college lecturer. So no! The two are not on the same level.
@@srinjoydas6644
Agreed
I am Lecture Physics in KV
Other than Teaching we have to do all other thing as generally lectures are incharge of all activities/department
Sarkari Wali baat 100percent true. Men flock together to pull down a strong, intelligent women.
Working since 12 years. With a 11 yr old son. Managing house, son everything... at 38 I'm exhausted!
I agree man's world is ruthless. But, what I have seen is maximum taunts come from women- at workplace, in society and from family
I am a woman, and I agree 💯! Ek bhi point aapne aisa nahi bataya jo sach na ho… from my own experience, and all women I see around me- I accept, “it’s not about equality and capability, but sustainability”…
Men and women need to understand that each have their strengths, each can’t do without the other… so play to the strengths.
Your videos are so practical
The domestic work that women do is an unpaid job, which supports the men and lets them concentrate at work without worrying about how will I get a good home-cooked meal this evening. (I am not talking about the fully maid-operated households where the woman of the house doesn't do a conventional job)
So very true.Topper of my MBBS ,a girl is now sitting at home whilst her hubby a last bencher is a pathologist.Many just pass fellows are now top surgeons.And well said about sustainable career.many software corporates women are suffering pcod, infertility etc...
You are so practical..I am a retired bank manager..so everyone in family respects me..moreover after retirement I helped my children to look after their children spart from my hobbies like reading learning and social work..which gives satisfaction to me..your attitude is noteworthy..thank you sir
Hats off to you.
This is so true. Lol..I actually resigned within 6 months, after my ex-boss [male] was expecting me to do a skilled work of 8 hours for 15-20 K. That"s basically Rs. 100/hour. It was my first corporate job. But i have no emotions left for it. Lol...
My maid, definitely earns more than me. How? She has her two businesses plus there's fire in her belly. Good for her.... Now am myself, into being a business owner. Good for me. Every woman, should start business. It gives time freedom for sure. Do what you love, do something with which you can give time to your family. Think big, ladies. Grow slow. " It takes a lifetime to build a business, and to build a family. "
Suggest some business ideas mam
@@onlineshopping652 Business = Giving value to customers. It is just not about making money. There are many business types you can start with. First see whether, you want to start service-based biz or product-based biz. See what interests you for long, where you can provide value to customers, as there is going to be competition everywhere. Decide accordingly, and work upon it with a stubborn heart and aware mind
Facts, men and women are different. And the most embarrassing I've seen mostly in India men selling women's under garments. Thank you for speaking on this topic
100 💯 right
Didi ye Pakistan main b hota 😢
Being a woman, i want to share that i saw many working women who are working as well as doing all the housewives task too. By seeing their lives i decide not to work and be a housewife. As it does not matter how much you earn but you will have to do the house chores too.🤣
True. Also you can give more love and attention to your children.
You're one smart woman. God bless ❤
If that doesnt deprive you of your self-respect - good for you!! But just listen to this, you are playing no role in transforming the lives of women. Women are ready to fight with husbands on majority of petty things, but when it comes to their job/career they do nothing because they also find it easy. I am also a working woman and do some of the household works along with husband's help. We both work as per the time we get. Rest of the work we outsource. You get support only when you ask for. Or if needed, do fight. There is nothing wrong in fighting for something right.
@@nirupamasharma4389 she is not even talking about fighting 🙂🧿
@@nirupamasharma4389 fighting for what when women try to outsource thing most of North Indian oppose it saying go to your mayka n do it all...then nothing left but opt for being house wife one can not do everything without little support...if do it end of life they will have nothing not good health which is most important I believe...til til ke marna ho jata h when women try to do everything without little support...so I am currently exploring new way of working via digital...u guys won't believe but literally I had leave my 10 lpa job that too work from home because of no support in any case with 2 kids it used to feel doing suicide when no support means no support jada oppose karo to go to mayaka with kids aise situation me feel like baad me jaye kamake to pati aur bacho me hi Jana h aise hi chal jayega Bina kamaye
Agree with all the points. I am a 36-yr old chartered accountant. I’ve taken career break a couple of times, and currently contemplating on the sustainability of my career choice.
Thanks for the insightful video. Would love to see more videos on this topic.
Same here... It's difficult to get opportunities after career break.
Very well said about jealousy against working women ... Not just govt.. Private as well
True. Been in corporate jobs...100 percent relate to what he is saying.
Yes true.
I 100% agree. I am an earning woman. I married at 25 now I have 2 children I did my doctorate when my kids became school going. Now I M more than 45 my children r studying in universities I M established in my career and my home I M helping my kids in every aspect thank God.
Hi ,
How old are you
Do you get full support from ur family
This was much needed. Real understanding of womenhood and its powers is required. Men and women have their unique places. Please create more videos on this which speak practicality.
The conflict does not stop at male/female, working/not working, married/unmarried...it's deeper than that. The amount of work that goes into managing the house and raising the kids is not easy and it never gets easier, even after years of practice as kids keep growing and needing you in a different way as they grow. I'm sure if a husband has played this role...it's equally difficult. Also there is a traditional custom of moving to in-laws home which is different from your own and re-learning to adapt. Taking everything into account the safety factor inside as well as outside the house. If the husband earns..the wife is in the supporting role...but the salary may/may not reach her.
Science Technology Engineering and Medical. STEM Careers are also good for women.
जादातर लॅपटॉप पर दिमाग वाला काम करना है, पानी मे गिरोगे तो तैरने आएगा।
अपने आप को महिला होने के लिए कुछ नियमों से छूट या कही एक्स्ट्रा सहूलियत मांगने की आदत न बनाए।
सिर्फ आवश्यकतानुसार छूट मांगे।
जादातर अपने पुरुष सहकर्मीयो के साथ कंधे से कंधा मिलाकर काम करे। लोग साथ देते है। मार्केट मे टॅलेंट की कदर होतीही है।
साथ नही देते।
कोई भी लड़की अगर नयी काम पर आयी है तो उसे skills सीखने में मदद या support करने के बजाय बोला जाता है तुम्हारे बस का नही है,औरते बस खाना बनाये etc etc
सड़क पर ऑटो में इतनी गंदी नजर से देखा जाता है पूरे कपड़े पहनने पर भी ,खुद से नफरत हो गयी है😢🥺
And i more thing i would like to share, i used to think women do gossip but after joining job i have seen the male counterpart also gossiping , and much more than women do.
Some Women in their 30s tend to feel weak physically at times, they should be given awareness on bone health and proper health care tips in their early childhood days .
Amitji, vow what a bindass video. Loved it. In India, this is the hard truth👍👍👍. Keep on spreading this awareness. In developed countries, like Singapore, women have equal representation. You must have a webinar on this topic.
Sir itna 12 saal ke school mei nahi seekha....jitna aapki videos se seekha❤❤❤❤
Keep going with open n transparent discussion on every topic.. Love all your videos.
Absolutely right 👍🏻...aapka Gyan such mai original hai... Kinhi books mai dhundke bhi nhi milega.... And advance mai congratulations 🌹 Amit jee 1 lac subscriber.... Watching you when you had 6k subscriber...💐💐💐💐
Thanks
Hello Amitji, I loved this episode . Its so informative. I want to tell all my cousins & sisters in law who are in their 40s to get up and work, make money & assets for yourself.
My husband & me started our Recruitment business from home 8+ years ago and are doing very well together. We initially had no employees, but now we have 5 "women" employees working from home, taking care of their families, home and themselves. We only employ Women in our office, coz, we think they do a better job. Thanks for this video!
Hi I have done my MBA in Hr. Do you any work from home job opportunity?
I have 2 experience in recruiting. ( retail feild). I am a married woman. I am 35 years. Due to some personal reasons can't work outside.
What about female
doctor s
Khatarnaak sach....this is absolutely not an MCP rant, rather showing the current reality of society today.
Yes yes
Hume raaz pata chal Gaya sir bcz Maine end tak dekhi apki video and it was really good . I have started watching your videos just 2-3 days back and I am finding these very practical and informative .it's always better to receive information and knowledge from the person who is experienced and your way of talking shows sir that you are experienced but the best part is that you are experienced and interesting too . I am like your daughter maybe sir I am 26 years of age ..and I am a student .
Absolutely true!! Each and every word is related to real life. Not even this but all other videos are straight forward and very well define. It's being one week that I came across to your channel ,watching videos back to back ,keeping all my other jobs beside. It must be funny but true. First time ever I am commenting this much on someone's video. Thankyou so much for sharing your knowledge on each and every required topic. Pls do elaborate this topic.
Could relate very much to ur talk! Did Bachelors in Architecture but realised the amout of running around the Profession demands once l started doing Housing Projects on my own! Reached a stage where i wasn't happy working for less salaries in other offices but was also not ready to compramise on my family time to build my own Company! Had never thought in this perspective while choosing my Career.
Hello sir, i am a chartered accountant of 24 yrs have just started my career 1.5yrs back. I found your video very motivating and eye opener for our future choices. Thanks for your insights and please keep making such video👍🏻👍🏻🙏
Whatever you said is the bitter truth. Its a man's world so more neutral or ladies related work or work suited to woman temperament is good. However women have to do it on their own steam. No one supports you in real sense barring may be few. Be prepared to face the inherent problems of the work. Take help from reliable corners. And dont keep any regrets. You only can make it sustainable. Bravo Sir, make more videos.🙏
Very well described Sir.Of course more guidance is needed.🙏
I was needing a solid motivation, ending few minutes of this video has done that to me.. thanx from bottom of my heart
Yes Sir we want another detailed video !!
I wish apka video aj se 20 saal pehle dekha hota when I was going to enter college
Yes we want this kind of content more.. as a PhD dropout I can only say that..life has become meaningless..I want financial freedom but due to the long career break.. going back to work seems impossible. Pls suggest some career choices
Phd Kerne key dauraan jo sadme lagtey hai ussey kaam kerne key hausley khud hi kharaab ho jaatey hai 😅 I can understand as I myself is phd student sitting at home and doing household chorus …… but I am thinking of doing net ….par samay itna ho jaata hai ki us par bhi shak hota hai ki ker payengey ki nahin ….. bahut mushkil sey paraie ho paati hai fir maan khud hi bhatakne lagta hai …
Yeh to baad sahi hai ki world of man is ruthless
Ladies ke wkg hr in office 5 hrs in a day hona chahiye unko ghar bi dekhna hota ha.
Sir, you are absolutely correct. Teachers are paid very less compared to the amount of patience, hard work they put in.
I have been a teacher for more than 23 years at a stretch.. You are very right, it is high time society realized this & supports women.
OMG! I found this channel today. Every word said in this video is cent percent true.😱
Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
I wish I was earning I would right away take counseling session with the sir but I am still a student only.
You r spot on Sir 😅😅 keep going.👍🤗❤️🇮🇳🙏 India Needs to change for the better. GREAT wish someone was there to guide me .I was a primary teacher Montessori, very popular, loved by children parents but so poorly paid by school. Now retired .🙏❤
Sustainable jobs for women .Please bring more videos on this topic. Once again amazing content 👍.
Practicality... Sir Its Needed in this society of future... Especially for Young Adults Like Me.. It helps to shape Right Perspective about Life.. Please Keep up the Good Work Sir..!
Hey sir am listening with my 21 yr daughter the way u said the things so confidently it takes a lot of guts really really appreciate god bless you❤❤ this is a true mirror for people who want a change.pls suggest career options for women according to venus n moon.. Thank you waiting for ur next video eargerly
Yes sir ne aayina dikha diya..
Really appreciated video plz do webinar on this topic sir .n also suggest career options n business choice for us who r upbringing their kids also no one is their for the upbringing
Very true. I am a from West Bengal and a high school teacher👩🏫. Want more this type vedio.
Yes Sir........we would definitely like to know more about this topic......... atleast we will be able to guide our next generation of daughters in selection of a better career.....
Girls, actually can do anything.....just have to be very very careful about the men they marry. Marry men who would be a support system, not the ones who would stand in the way..mere kapde press kyun nahi, Aaj salad nahi hai. :(
Yes please . We would like to know what ladies can take up when she has raised her kids... I mean for late starters
I m facing the same
Same here
Ur very great sir. Truly said everything
U are the best..
Your thoughts should reach to all the world..
You are the treasure of good attitude 🙏
Very practical analysis. . . Do share more.
Sir your blunt nature is your true asset, world is too sweet to get diabetes
Sweet talks and fakeness that is today's world. But this is hat ke! What is happening.
Very interesting and relevant topic 👍
u r super intellectual sir i have seen maximum videos of yours all r super original thank you so much for this useful content provided in such an interesting way .May god bless you sir.
Thank you sir for touching this dark side of women.. Please talk about it more often
You are trying to take our society to a better level and harmony, hope your messages are spread out, understood and accepted
Everything you told is true. Thank you🙏
Sir you are always right. Because you have great experience of life
Sir, you really touched the paining veins of ladies...i m also a MBA graduate and left my job n doing tution..but not satisfied with my job...give some light over career choice at late 40s
Sir, thts so true. I m a government servant I totally agree with you. Men’s dominant the services.., basically job, party, site visits etc ye saab ke men ka dominate kar rahe hai
बहुत ज्यादा Helpful बातें हैं , एक नया perspective मिल रहा है , सच बता रहा हूं , इन बातों के लिए तो मैं पैसे भी देने को तैयार हूं
Very helpful insights....and real...keep going...u r doing a wonderful job 👍
All the words are so close to working woman's life. The unemployed lady members are the one who criticize them pointing their less care on children, home cleaning and managing. We working women are left in hands of in laws by our own parents and in laws get the whole authority to manipulate, brain wash the newly wed working girl and often make her realize her duties regarding family. We women get suppressed from both side. Eventually we donot perform well in both field and live a miserable life. These things no one discuss, even we hesitate to tell our painful condition to others for the sake of family pride.
Patriarchy is hell
Mein hun sarkari Class 1 officer . Apki ek ek baat 👍💯 . I am 40 yrs old female .
Very true Sir, very nicely explained.
Thank you so much Sir for this knowledgeable and inspiring and addressing this issue about woman
P.. Salute to u sir👏👏 please create a separate video for women self employment options
well said sir, Everything you mentioned is relatable. I am ex IT professional, currently pursuing freelancing and stock market as a career. Worked in corporate environment for nearly 12 years. You mentioned correctly work environment is not that women friendly. I was very mentally disturb at work and at home also after my marriage , as my in laws were not supportive. And at my parents place i was very pampered and my parents supported me always. After marriage working and life at home was tough.
So the problem is in-laws and marriage, not the job!!
Oh. Yes yes i need more infor plsss 🙏 last sentence is soooo true!!! ☺️
Dhanyawaad aap ne bhut accha bataya
Sorry but this happens only in India because outside India scenario is so different as women are working in all fields even driving city buses, ambulances, taxis and much more so it depends on society and culture how they treat gender differences. When this will change and all women start working or doing business whatever to make them financially independent India will be super power. As we have lots of manpower just wasted.
I think sir you can do revolution by making some videos for them who are just sitting at home and doing nothing because they think their time is gone.
I am studying CA and found one lady age 55 doing phd as she did not complete while she was younger and had family responsibilities she encouraged me to complete my studies even with family responsibilities and working full time so we are the only one who limit our possibilities.
True so many big tech companies have lot of talented women or agar hum kahe men to marta kat te rehte he gunda gardi yai sab karte h vo karna to kisi bhi gender ke kiye sahi nahi h kuki mard agar ladayii karega or baad me mar gaya to baad me uske ghar ki lady ko.hi soni family' k support karna padhega
I was among chilled toppers in class who always knew her capabilities even if scoring zero. Post 12th i was made look fool n depressed for saying what i wanted to b. I was forced to b doctor n i always feel out of place. At workplace i see bihari types antiwomen men. Most men where their women r not treated well ,devalue women.
Thank you for this video. 🙏🏼
Sir I so truly agree with you. pl make more series on this.
Sir I'm 28yrs old when I was 23 I joined in pvt bank but it's too exhausted I didn't even have time to eat food on time after giving my number Four worthful yrs I left Bank nd sitting at home listening taunts from Family Marriage is also not happening...Please make more videos like this show Women the Right path🙏
Humble Caring request kindly give yourself a break n feel light n re-start again fresh.
Do you deal in option trading? I need guidance. In same boat. 16+ yrs work of IT. Now frustrated.
Well said. You hit on the core issue but need your guidance on solution as well. Pls conduct a webinar where we can discuss career opportunities for ourself and our daughters
You are right sir...thanks for understanding women 👍👍
True very true... their is diffrence between earning women and working women
100 % hit kiya shared with my partner. Really Need more videos on this. She is much educated.
Its sad that at the end you highlighted how men are suffering cause they are working and women should continue with their career too even after they are married, running their house while they work, managing kids and their life and career all while they work. I think the actual message is that men inspite of working should help in the house and women should do the same too, cause in a working women house, men are definitely not the ones suffering all the time. Yes women do get comfortable in the household chores, but a working women does way more than that and if u actually want to push a women to work, you need to push men too to help in the household chores.
Very very true!!!
Very good video. Very clear and crisp. Thanks sir.
Very Practical
I'm impressed
Blatant truth put across bluntly...one needs to be bold to say that men and women are not equal in society these days...the issue of sustainability of a women's job is extremely valid..wud look fwd for more on the topic sir...
It is not just about feminism and being equal..
Even today career of girls is seen as a ladder to get a good match...no matter after marriage she will be compelled to leave her job or asked to give her full salary at home because she goes out to do work.... No matter how much we become progressive or laws for women has been made, women at home is still opressed because patriarchy is rooted in the blood of this society!!!
This is truth sir . .u r very genuine person..aap practically hi bataye sabko
Good job sir.... harsh, hard facts presented nicely
Sir u touched the lifes of so many well educated women's... I had done M. Sc, n Ph. D in Agriculture and could have got my dream Govt job but due to marriage n kids compromised on my career choices n after a long break now I m working as a guest faculty in a college... Now also demand for a second child... Life is full of compromised for a women... Who wants to pursue something good for herself... Husband ka bhi transfer hota rehta hai jaise hi mera kahi acha hota hai we had to shift d city again... Pls give some suggestions to us also
He had already sed...women needn't to compete with man..emotionally and biologically women are different from man...women should do job related to venus and moon..need to be little diplomatic while handling things...
Like in you case..if you husband taking transfer..why u need to change place with him..initially it is fine..but later let's hold your place.if u get a good opportunity in city a, no need to move to city b with husband..just do your job
@@pranatidas5972 what about kid.....he will live and get education with whom parent, as he needs stability too.......women have to make choice between family and career options
Maybe you can opt for some way to take your skills online where location is not important 😊. the task might not be as lucrative as an " on site" job but less hours less pay model... Just a suggestion...
Sam here Mam
Shweta Gupta ji you should make grand parents responsible for your kid and focus on your job. Also one kid is enough.
The example that you have at 19.15 where husband leaves his job and joins wife...it actually happened with Gayathri reddy traditional sarees store in hyderabad.please read her story.very inspiring
Yes, I want to know & learn more.
This is a great topic to discuss
Agree as a HR i know back side relatives, Females are judged they are at 25-26 yrs so will get married soon, 27-33yrs old do you have child if no then won't hire them so no need to pay maternity leaves of 6 months.
Even females gets lesser salaries than men as assumed men has more responsibility.
Sometimes manager prefer to keep one female in team of males so they will be entertained and males feels motivated at workplace. I heard managers tell females you don't have that lady charm, put up some makeup don't be rough tough lady.
I feel very sad for ladies, but we are behind such things cause we always look for comforts, even new concepts Menstrual leaves so management reduces number of ladies as they can't scold females like they can put pressure on males for sales, productivity.
But man's world needs to be changed...agar aise haar maan k sari ladkiyan sirf teacher hi banengi...other fields ka to pata hi nahi chalega..and jahan jahan ladies ayi h jhande gade hain they are good in doing business ... good politicians...y can't we create a balanced society ...
I agree
But exploitation bhot juada hai
Ladki bhi ladkiyo ko support nahi karti wahi aadmi ki hawas hi nahi khatam hoti
Practical rahiye...Sahi cheeze sahi hoti hai...Khud ki comitment honi chahiye apni carrier ke prati...Main toh khud kar rahi hoon...mera aim of Life hi yehi tha...Self Independent for Lifetime...Thanks to my Nani who gave us these Teachings for all her daughters and grandchildren way ahead of times...Feel proud to be part of such Family.
Yes , sir aap bht thik baat ko recognise kiye hai jo aaj kal humare saath hota hai, ladies independent banna chahate hai par gents un par havi hote hai
100 percent agree with you. Pl. Go ahead in detail on this topic
More family videos sir. Husband working for his entire family but when it comes to wife’s responsibilities he says he is working as favour. But brother and family issue is who will do if I will not. I do earn and do all household including jhadu pocha he sometimes tell what you do while day. And if I keep maid for 2 months in one year he says that now no work you have though I have full time job but only I am working from home now.
Movies have also played a big role in damaging minds of generations to keep the confusion going on.
Stereotyping
Aap ka kehena bilkul sahi hai. Meri office me Boss k ye hi vichar tha ki ladies ko jyada increment nahin dena chahiye even if they are doing hard work and more deserving. I left the co in 1 year.
Amazing video Sir, your channel is a treasure of wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing your guidance.
Agree with you , girls should not quit their earning work/job/,kids grow with in 4 to5 years span.
Adult Children respect mothers if they r earning good amount.
For 4 to 5 years untill kids grow ,they should seek help from Nainy or cooks or daycare providers.
How to relieve working women from so much work at home.
Fir kaunsa career choose kare?
Very well explained. You nailed it. Guidance needed.... Pls
P... Very nice video full of practicality and fun!