This video deserve a crore likes. Arguably the best video of the channel. 4 hours work system for women is a mind blowing idea. This needs to be reached to the decision makers at the earliest.
Bhai sahab unpractical hai aise suggestions. And actually fertility has reduced bcoz women are marrying late bcoz their priorities have changed and by the time she wants to get married her age would be above 28-30 which you can ask any doctor or gynac or even pull out stats from web women is gone but in opposite to men fertility it lasts for more the age 40 if good care taken it can last till 50 age also. Unfair yes but this is nature women should get married utmost at Age 22 to be fertile and atleast have 2 children which is just replacement of current generation figures otherwise this is going to get worse.
Awesome video 😊👍it's high time ! Govt needs to take serious measures on this matter Working hours should not be more than 4 to 6hrs with 5days working is must . Also baby sitting arrangement should be made mandatory in every locality ,so that can provide employment to all . Also dependency on inlaws will be nil. 😊👍💐🙏
Really good ,4hrs work is nice,difficulty is compratio with husband .in no way she likes less salary when can get more by working 8hrs .There is no satisfaction that is problem .Balance is must. Female in no way is less then men but now she wants to show she is not less then man competion make family life worse. I feel so please Commet.
Tears in my eyes. This is so relatable. I have a 3 year old son with no help from family. Everybody expects us to be perfect everywhere both at work and at home.
Nobody said you to be perfect, the moment you decided what's well for "your" family and "your" Son... You are sorted. I live like this, without any admission of peer pressure from society I am sleeping well, can travel, can save a lot on finances.
Women breakdown because of insensitive family and society. Less educated have more children and are not in favour of educated. You have understood the plight of women very well
Namaste sir! If all the men in India starts thinking and analysing like you. India would really become a role model for rest of the world. Also we will become a much better society. Thank you🙏
I can relate. We are a parent of 10 months kid. But I am lucky that her office is very supportive, she has an option if she wants she can work for 4 hrs with half salary, but we supported her to go for full time job. Yes there is challenges but i am a happy and proud husband. My family is supportive
Bhai ye banda kitna frank hai. The way he is adding value to people's thoughts is Commendable. He is teaching us just like a father. We must listen to his observations and then ponder upon. I am going to be his fan now.
Pehli baat ye banda nhi he....atleast try to show some respect in your language for the minimum that he is an aged man. Pkka Delh ke aspas ke hi hoge - 100% -- Kya hogya he ajkal ke generation ko....😓
Sir I am lady. Eyes r non stop watering. Working and worked a lot . Just got support from mother and in token got so many bad rewards. Only thing just worked and worked as I build my carrier with lot of hardship since grade. But u r very sensitive and sensible person try to put the india in right direction. May GOD bless u
Sir, I lived in California and worked in tech company from last 10 years. Had 3 kids with in 2.5 yrs( twins). It was so hard to work in office as you mentioned- my WFH was pointed in my year end review . Not promoted being smartest in the group but my kids were discussed by ex boss. It’s just hard here with only 16 weeks of maternity leave. You just touched my ❤. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I was fresher at corporate & observed one thing : one day in office call (online WFH) a child (2-4 age) was calling mother (our team-mate) ,she was saying something in meeting . That time I realized it's a mother whom child calls for every problem . I messaged her appreciating her and every other mothers efforts just to make her feel good .
My wife was pregnant and she was working in Good MNC, so she got 6 month of maternity leave. Her coworkers and specially manager behaviour was very bad and not at all coperative. They were jealous of the fact that she is getting 6 month leave. Surprisingly he was married also but couldn't understand what it takes to give birth to a child and what it means to society and country.
Every word spoken by you is 100% true…I spent 10yrs of my life to become a specialist…but neither my own parents nor my in laws supported me during most crucial phase of my life ..i.e childbirth….as a result my career suffered…though I have resumed my work but I won’t be able to forget that phase and behaviour of my family
You are absolutely right sir.. Society don't care about working women in India.. India is busy in glorifying housewives only and treating working women as selfish.. Society needs to change their mindset.. Especially men needs to participate in household chores and to support their wives to do a job... What you are saying is also said by sudha murty.. Thank you for raising this topic 🌸🙏🌸
@@bhadwamuhammad979s is how men escape from responsibilities. Most men are lazy.. that’s the main problem. They are ready to live in poverty but not help women. Then men should marry uneducated women only. Why they want all benefits of marrying educated women? Uneducated women are also treated like slave and degraded by men by denying her even basic facilities and finally they too are forced to do some maid work. This is the reality
Working women should consider plumbing,brick laying, electric lines maintenance,road construction,coolie,Uber driver as professions then they will find ample amount of opportunities.
@@SSCCGL-ph9eb first of all its about men and women & not me and women, secondly the derogatory tone in your question sums up your attitude towards labour class And to answer your question i have worked with these people as श्रमदान and have also got some friends still working there. Create some content and get some followers. Cheers
Uncle this is such a revolutionary thought video you have made. Definitely ppl have to understand why they are making girls study if they have to sit at home only. I being Specialized doctor, worked in best institute of India, had to leave my job as no one was there to support me. My parents had washed off their hands, in laws very conveniently said we are traveling and no support from husband at all. 10 years I sulked at home, seeing my batchmates becoming HODs and gaining professional highs. Now after my husband's death I am back to work but it pinches the amount of precious time I lost in between. But it is really hood video everyone should watch as actually female need support else there won't be next generation. Females will either do kids in case of support or won't but they will not sit back. 4 hours job system can solve so many problems of females plus Government too. Great ideas uncle. I am your big fan
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
Ma'am, I don't understand why you're complaining, think about the lovely time you had with children and husband. Think about what your last memories will be after you retire- will it be about how well you worked or the beautiful moments you got to spend with family. We ladies need to appreciate the lovely moments with our children, they fly by so fast and kids grow up before we realize. And then we sit and whine our children are too busy to spend time with us. Appreciate it.
All my friends are having only 1 kid and simply not ready for second child due to high education, medication and real estate cost in Mumbai. I shared the example of china's one child policy and how it is backfiring them but still no one wants 2 children. Today's young parents in 30s are having a tough time emotionally and financially to raise kids.
The onus is on government. Kal ko log hi nahi bachenge to desh kaise chalega? It is their responsibility that Japan-like situation never arises in Bharat.
@@Love-dz1um yes i have seen such issues in many homes, but here parents usually have favorite child and hence they are partial in upbriging. Child who stays with parents gets somewhat less respect and the son staying abroad or doing well in career gets more love and respect. Children understand the partial nature right from childhood so the onus is on the parents that there is love care between siblings. On a lighter note your life seems to be like a saas bahu hindi serials with such environment.
@@bourbon646 marrying is difficult today as both girls and guys are very demanding in terms of materialist stuff, they expect the other person should do most of the stuff. true people below 20 may not even like to get married in future, my relatives who are in school have already declared not to get married as they see their parents mostly mother's working a lot. Many see marriage as a burden bits that's just a perspective and it changes with time and life experience.
I left my job for my kid because I was underperforming at office and at home too. I felt guilty as a mother. My husband didn't want me to leave my job but I still did. Best decision of my life.
Absolutely agree! We need a huge change in society. If the woman in a family is happy and fulfilled the family will be happy too. Support while raising children, flexible work, support for work at home will really help.
Sir i have not seen a single man talking about women issues in so much depth and understanding women's problems with so much empathy ! My highest regards and respect to you , keep doing this great work .
Either you are lying or you have not observed a single thing in the society .. Because now a days everyone is only talking about the problems that women are facing .. Not only the women but the men also showing concern about this .. But phir bhi tum jaisi ladkiyon ko problem complaints hamesha he rahengi jo rela problem hai naa ki ehat men are facing ? So I think rarely someone is concerned about this and talk on this.. Aacha ye batao gii ki tum ladkiyaan itni nafrat kyu karti ho hum ladko ke parents se ? Problem kya hai tum logo ko aisi ?
@@MohitSingh-gv3gfkoi pbm nahi hai ji, bas sath rehna nahi chahte!! Ab tum reason puchoge to i have another question for you. Are you ready to live in woman's house with her parents?? Agar iska jawab apki taraf se naa hai to ladies se bhi yehi jawaab expect karo, yes nahi!!
I can relate to this video. I left my job when I was pregnant because I didn't get any support from mother and mother-in-law was busy supporting her own daughters. Now I'm inspired by your videos and starting to look for WFH job. What a brilliant idea of half day job options, Sir 🙏🏻 Hope companies introduce such opportunities.
Same case with me,,,but instead of leaving job,,, I took help of maid,,, now both my kids are grown up and I am still in job,,,,,find someone else from relatives who can help you when you need and help them back in other ways later ,,,,,some company has half day work with half salary,,,I guess Infosys has it,,,but not 100%sure,,,
be careful while choosing your next job, some say half day with half pay, but still work assigned is for full day...simlar thing happenned with my friend's wife and she had to again resign.
@@Shadesofwhite_ I get your point. Daycare is an option but I wasn't comfortable leaving my little child with strangers. It's a very difficult choice but you are right. Daycare option is available.
I have seen my male colleagues staying in office to have Pizza on office expenses n claiming traveling expenses.I have seen them Playing cards or share market during office hours/Saturday.They try to impress seniors and avoid household responsibility even when their spouse is working too.I had a female team member when she was doing job, house hold work,kids homework n family refused for part time cook as they wanted to eat food cooked only by her
Sir, i am the example of this problem, i went to so many organisations and asked them any part time work, but they said do fulltime or no work, i gave them reason of productivity and potentials, but they all refused. I asked in schools also, that why so long time for teachers, keep it alternate days for subject teachers or less time for them or it could be only definite periods,they come and take class, But principal said that is not the way school works, you can't change the system. Management does not want to bring change then how they will retain quality. Thank you that you brought this subject,need for an hour .
As a working mother I can relate with each word of you. Pressure is high on working moms. Very good idea on part time jobs for women so that they can also contribute while having family and children. In real a woman wants everything - a family, children, home , relations, a meaningful job for her own identity and independence. Man and woman are not equal. Pressure in on women. Women are doing a lot and at the end leaving their job or family means leaving her own identity for the family which is making her empty from inside. This part time solution is great. Also there are cases of suicide or suicidal thoughts in women after baby. This is because of lack of support system at home and work Its become impossible to balance everything on own.
When you get married, or other women get married, at that time itself you need to make us understand this position because we men don't think second hand. Men can help in daily grocery and cleaning. You need to communicate that clearly, because we although we understand, we don't think second hand. We act like captain of a ship but coal workers work more.
@@subhrajitgupta5535its not called 'not able to understand'. Its called being ignorant and insensitive, and also being inhuman towards your wife. Sorry if my words hurt you, but try to think about this objectively.
@@nirupamasharma4389 Most men are atypical when it comes to their work model. They do whats in hand, and other things get left out. We follow day to day routine straight line work and deviations aren't our strength. You need to tell us a little what you want, if neglect of some become insensitive. Nobody's words hurt me. Why would it hurt!
@@subhrajitgupta5535 again i don't get it. What's there to tell? Isn't it a fact that a woman is also a human being and she also needs rest after coming back from work like men do? And even if I agree to your point, that 'men needs to be told as they don't understand by themselves', then also i dont think that your point fits here as most men fail to support their wives even when they are clearly told about it. They just say manage your way out or leave job if you can't handle. That's the point being discussed in this video and comment section as well.
Thank you so much for the topic Sir. this is a story of every educated girl who studied and worked passionately to achieve something in life.. got married in a family who never realised her potential or worth.. they just want her be at home and be a servant for them.. I am really thankful to you for bringing out this topic. I am so lucky that my parents specially my father always supported and encouraged me to work.. I have been watching your videos and they are bringing in so much clarity.. looking forward to start my career again..
This video is a must watch for all indians...such clarity on a sensitive issue presented with such compassion....a social reform has been initiated with this video ..hope the msg reaches everyone..mass and policy makers
So true Sir. I have been working continuously from the day I finished my education. I got married early so I completed education after my marriage. Initially I got support from my Maa and MIL but now they are either old or have gone to the other world so I have been struggling now. My day starts at 4.30 in the morning and I crash out at 10pm. I raised 2 kids and now my son is working. I feel like giving up. But financial independence is like drugs. Can't quit. I feel I couldn't enjoy my life. It has been a journey of work and only work.
Its a good addiction dear. People get addiction of resting all the time. Its much better than that. Keep taking, breaks from work, like a week long leave sometimes. And try having great time with friends and family. Or may be just a good me time. Jiske paas jo nahi hota wo hi khalta hai, so don't worry i would say. Just be grateful and enjoy life.
I want to make an honest confession: I have worked with mainstream print media and top publishing companies. Too many hard deadlines and lack of social support at home, need for rest, made me give up my career. I am very happy today as a home maker, because at least I can rest whenever I want to.
@@nirupamasharma4389 I did switch to publishing and then freelancing from home for a good 15 years, after giving up my full time job in media and publishing, but it didn't work out well for me. I have lower spine problems because of long hours of freelancing. Now I am taking care of my pets, and resting. I have a dog walker and groomer, also I have a maid and cook.
@@nirupamasharma4389How miserable of you to think that her job as a homemaker is full of rest for her whole life. Didn't your mother worked hard to raise you or did she just rested.
@@berserker9747 my mother was a working woman. So no, i just don't get the idea of being a homemaker. I absolutely don't support financial dependency at all. In this era of having luxury of machines to do so many household tasks much faster than before, and also having maids, i do consider homemaker job, not a job. And i can say that with confidence because I am also married and also have a child. I also have a home to take care of. I still don't consider homemaker as a full time job. May be it all depends on how you are raised.
2011 census data showed a more than 115% increase in the numbers of never married women age 35 and more. We have missed a decadal census but from my observation the rate of growth in this number will be exponential in the coming decades. I agree with you Sangwan ji, we need public policy intervention for ensuring sharing of women's care burden.
Thank you sir for discussing such a relevant topic. I'm blessed with the best of parents who are extremely supportive regarding my job. Though at office I have come across women who are going through a lot just to keep a job, it's a sad situation for women indeed.
Very sensible vdo. You are absolutely true. Because of the support of my mother and mother in law, I could manage my job as a specialist doctor in all India transferable job and retired after completing 25 yrs. They looked after my children throughout. I worked day and night attending emergencies and went for out station duties without worrying about my kids as they were looked after by their grand parents. Now I am getting handsome pension and my both children are pursuing professional courses. Daily I remember my in laws and parents for their immense support.
Very lucky now a days nobody willing to care for children upbringing neither parents nor in laws. They say that we cared for our Jobs and for you now your child please leave us
True. I am blessed. I looked after my mom in law till her death ( at the age of 94 yrs ) . She was with me for 14 yrs. I looked after her during her illness. Got her 3 major surgeries during those 14 yrs. Left my good paying job to look after her when her health started deteriorating. I feel , in every family, if ladies understand each other's problems and help each other, there won't be any KLESH as Sangili says. Life will be Jinga Lala
Sir I think I really needed this to hear today. Running to and fro from work . Listening to you is not less than an appreciation for all women .. your words are such a relief to all tired souls
Very true. The irony is that when one used to go for school admission of daughters, the school management would frown on working women saying that they have no time for children.
I'm from Kolkata, married to an Australian, we have two children and I work part-time. Here there are more options for part-time jobs. India should give more options for part-time employment.
Am amazed 👏 the kind of topics you come up with.. !! So relevant..!! So much needed !! Bang on you target !! 👏 I have almost seen all your videos.. !! And forwarded too.. !! Aankhen..Dil..Dimaag..Aap sab kholte ho.. !! Highly impressed !! :) Regards !!
This is a good point. With a 4 year old child I’ve tried to find part time jobs and work from home jobs but they are too hard to find. It’s better to stay home and pursue my hobbies.
if you are doing ok financially, better to spend time with your kid and start doing what you enjoy like hobbies/ join woman groups and have good time. some of us got so occupied in work that we missed out totally on family part and now no family and golden time is also gone
Sir....what you said in the video is absolutely true. !! But there is other side as well. There so many men who support their wives but they have to go through so much abuse from their own family members. In my case, my husband has gone through panic attacks because of physical and mental abuse from his own family members. His family members are deadly against his support for me in household chores..!! He has always supported with me in everything..But he has gone through so much..i feel bad for him.. 😢😢😢😢
Nice topic sir and very true..there should be balance between having kids and also work, both extremes are not going to beneficial in long run. Women who have kids and leave job later feel depressed and same with women who decides to not have kids for career later regrets. This idea would be win-win situation
Perhaps one of your best videos! You have a unique talent of selecting a very relevant issue and explain very beautifully so that everybody understands and start thinking over it. Since my childhood I have fought for the welfare of working women because I used to take care of my working aunt's little children during my holidays. All my aunts were working and I know the pain and it is deep rooted in my mind. I am glad that now somebody like you has raised this issue of problems faced by a working woman! Hats off to you 🙏🙏
Thank you sir,you have high lighted absolutely necessary topic of concern for our society.I appreciate your efforts.you have given important point to ponder upon.
Very true.....my husband left me n daughter for a younger girl.......I asked this question in court...if I also leave child who in society take care...if all women stop taking care of children what will happen to future population.
Eye opener video. This issue should be talked at top priority in our society as nowadays working women r necessary but to make them work comfortably we need to learn these points u described in video. I'm also a highly qualified lady of 90s but couldn't do job with non supportive sasural . If this 4 hour job get started in india % of working women will increase tremendously. I also could work for 4 hours .Queen honey bee example was mind blowing to show the importance of a mother.
7:12 - 7:25, you explained it all. My mother used to be most educated one in her so called sasural. But after having kids, she left working and became housewife. After looking at her, I decided I don't want my life to be like her. Thank God I am not the one who think this way. I used to thought, I am weird.
Ek video aisa bhi banaiye Kaise women apane married hone ka, mother hone ka fayda leti hai aur jin women ki shadi nahi hui hai jinke bacche nahi hai unpe injustice karati hai. This is just another side of coin you may not be aware of. And I am a girl / woman.
Thank God & Thanks to you......Kisi ne to ye issue raise kiya......seriously your topics are relevant to society ,to us,to every woman ,to me.....🙏Again thanks ...Sir
Sir you have touched every topic very deeply and closely .Those who are watching these videos regularly will certainly bring changes in the Society.Your efforts in making these video on different issues is really appreciable.👌👏👏
You nailed it sir👍😍 ek aur angle bhi hai in problems ka, sarkar ne taxation itni heavy kar rakhi hai ki logon ka jeena muhaal ho raha hai. Survival ke liye lar rahe hain to baby planning dimaag me aata hi nahin. UK me bhi yahi hua tha. Senior citizens zyada ho gae the aur working population khatm hone laga tha
Reasons for less kids: 1. Late wedding 2. Living without parents so problem in raising kids 3. Fertility issues due to stress, toxins. 4. People don't want to take responsibility. 5. Middle class think they are doing a favour by having less kid- which uncle ji said.
Not really these are not the issues except the 2nd one. The main problem is not having a supportive husband, in-laws or parents and inflation. Late shadi krne se bche hone mai koi problem nhi ho rhi h or na hi esa h ki log environment k liye bche peda nhi kr rhe. Kuchh log kbhi krna hi nhi chahte the or ab unless bs azaadi h na krne ki or ye kafi km log h maximum bs time na hone k karn or mehgayi k karn nhi kr rhe.
Population km hona problem nhi h pr ekdm se bahut km ho jana problem create krta h. Isliye govt ko parents k liye or women k liye scheme nikalne ki zrurt h... Jisse vo ye overwork km ho.
Very nice video sir. Aap apne videos mein hamesha aise subjects late hain jo samaj ko ek nai disha dene mein saksham hain.Really aaj hamare desh ko aise hi changes ki zaroorat hai.Aur sabse badhkar ye hai ki aap inhe analyse kar rahe ho,jo shayad abhi tak nahi hua hai.I just wish aapke prayaas safal ho aur hamara desh nai vichardhara ko apnakar aage badhe.👍
100 % Agreed. I have 100 % same situation My wife wake up at 5 give tea to my parents. Then prepare some lunch for herself and sabji for others. Comeback at 4:30 then her mother in law give tea to him. Then she just sit for dinner planning. Then she prepare dinner do some school work as she is a teacher. Where I get a chance to help her i try to help her like some dusting and kapde sukhne dalna kind of. But seriously i have a so so soft corner for her as you said ki vo kissi bhi boy se 3 Guna kaam karti hai. Love you as you are saying this thing socially. ❤️
This is an Indian problem those who want to drink tea/coffee should make it on their own not trouble others else they should stop drinking anyways it does not do any good
@@arpanmadrecha946 As a wife she is giving Tea and other members are taking care our 5 year child through out the day and giving breakfast and lunch to me. I am washing clothes and taking care of other household work. So that she can take a rest after coming back to the office. Then she also does some dinner stuff and all. So it's easy to say ki jisko chai pine ho vo khud bnaye.. But not a good ethics.
Very relevant video in today's context....Work for home,teaching online, entrepreneurship from home,textile from home,creativity,4 hour workday or 3 day workweek can be great solutions in future...coding from home etc are great solutions for women who are finding it difficult to carry on working with family
*A VERY VERY VERY BIG FAN OF YOU FROM PAKISTAN SANGO UNCLE. WHAT A PERSONALITY YOU HAVE.* 💗💗💗 *Sir I will like to meet with you. Is that possible sir?*
Women are very focused. They know what they want to do and what not to. But it is happening in only one community. Some communities want to just reproduce,nothing else
True I am A doctor worked in periphery I have seen muslim women really don't get education they literally marry at 16/15 to 30 yr men and read up to class 7 that's why their fertility rate so high sadly here not a single feminist have raised this question because it's against the narrative 🤡.
Sir, This is very true.. Its really tough for female.Even many time we are not considered for onsite opportunity and good position bcz they think we have always excuses for family responsibilities
The most beautiful & urgent video so far. God bless you sir.Ghar me bethi Ladies agar workforce me agayi to desh hi badal jayega, kyunki max % educated ladies to ghar bethi hen.
Half working hours,half salary OMG what a great idea for women Ye idea मानव संसाधन विकास मंत्री के दिमाग में क्यों नही आता। हिंदुस्तान की आधी आबादी अपना आधा वक्त बर्बाद कर रही है उसका सदुपयोग होना चाहिये।
Sir you are a great visionary person. I salute you. What a amazing video; after watching this video each of us should realize the importance of women and family before it is too late. Instances of great leader like barrack Obama never miss to mention the importance his wife and family while making a speech. Thanks 👏
Thank you sir for bringing out the most relevant topic of India today. None of the political parties are thinking of these irreversible change, gender gap, future effects on the demography and culture. They think mahila sashaktheekaran means only economic empowerment . But economic stability with happy families and complete change of Employer and the family (saara parivaar) mindset can create better society. Hope your video triggers this discussion in the society. Thanks.
Your videos on all your channels are worth sharing.. u are so on point with every topic and give so much clarity.. thank you so much.. keep up the good work 👍
Sir could you please throw some light on taboo topics of our society like physical relationships before marriage and concern of virginity. What are the impacts of it on our society if the people engages in any above mentioned scenario.
Another way in which working women are pressurized is by blaming her and making her guilty whenever the kids are unwell or if they fall back in studies
Working women doesn't marry a non-working man or a working man with lower salary than her... Does the society blame or pressurized the women for that 😂😂😂😂
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This video deserve a crore likes. Arguably the best video of the channel. 4 hours work system for women is a mind blowing idea. This needs to be reached to the decision makers at the earliest.
abe yeh buddha bahut bada feminist hai sala
Bhai sahab unpractical hai aise suggestions. And actually fertility has reduced bcoz women are marrying late bcoz their priorities have changed and by the time she wants to get married her age would be above 28-30 which you can ask any doctor or gynac or even pull out stats from web women is gone but in opposite to men fertility it lasts for more the age 40 if good care taken it can last till 50 age also.
Unfair yes but this is nature women should get married utmost at Age 22 to be fertile and atleast have 2 children which is just replacement of current generation figures otherwise this is going to get worse.
Awesome video 😊👍it's high time ! Govt needs to take serious measures on this matter Working hours should not be more than 4 to 6hrs with 5days working is must . Also baby sitting arrangement should be made mandatory in every locality ,so that can provide employment to all . Also dependency on inlaws will be nil. 😊👍💐🙏
@@hindguy shame on you using such words
Really good ,4hrs work is nice,difficulty is compratio with husband .in no way she
likes less salary when can get more by working 8hrs .There is no satisfaction that is problem .Balance is must. Female in no way is less then men but now she wants to show she is not less then man competion make family life worse.
I feel so please Commet.
Tears in my eyes.
This is so relatable. I have a 3 year old son with no help from family. Everybody expects us to be perfect everywhere both at work and at home.
😒😒😒oh..we can't hire maid also..they don't work or dot work acc to us
True
Ab yeh sir ko bolo sambhal ne..
Kon bola tha fir itne bache karne ko? Dimag use kiya karo thoda. Now that you have had a kid love him and don't hate him take care of him.
Nobody said you to be perfect, the moment you decided what's well for "your" family and "your" Son... You are sorted. I live like this, without any admission of peer pressure from society I am sleeping well, can travel, can save a lot on finances.
Women breakdown because of insensitive family and society. Less educated have more children and are not in favour of educated. You have understood the plight of women very well
Nowdays girls had 2 boyfriend before marriage and in office they had 10 boyfriend
Namaste sir! If all the men in India starts thinking and analysing like you. India would really become a role model for rest of the world. Also we will become a much better society. Thank you🙏
I can relate. We are a parent of 10 months kid. But I am lucky that her office is very supportive, she has an option if she wants she can work for 4 hrs with half salary, but we supported her to go for full time job. Yes there is challenges but i am a happy and proud husband. My family is supportive
"Naukariyaan kam hain, KAAM kam nahi hai." That was Best. Clap clap. 👍
Because men don't work. Why they cannot work at home?
Awesome dk
Bhai ye banda kitna frank hai. The way he is adding value to people's thoughts is Commendable. He is teaching us just like a father. We must listen to his observations and then ponder upon. I am going to be his fan now.
Love this idea of having ladies work for 4 hours a day. This shall make them independent.
Pehli baat ye banda nhi he....atleast try to show some respect in your language for the minimum that he is an aged man.
Pkka Delh ke aspas ke hi hoge - 100% --
Kya hogya he ajkal ke generation ko....😓
@@ScrorpionBloodbhai 40s mai hai ye uncle
Aur jisko tumne comment kra hai wo bhi 30s mai hai. To wo uncle ko banda bol skta hai.
Sir I am lady. Eyes r non stop watering. Working and worked a lot . Just got support from mother and in token got so many bad rewards. Only thing just worked and worked as I build my carrier with lot of hardship since grade. But u r very sensitive and sensible person try to put the india in right direction. May GOD bless u
Sir, I lived in California and worked in tech company from last 10 years. Had 3 kids with in 2.5 yrs( twins). It was so hard to work in office as you mentioned- my WFH was pointed in my year end review . Not promoted being smartest in the group but my kids were discussed by ex boss. It’s just hard here with only 16 weeks of maternity leave. You just touched my ❤. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hats off to you to give birth to 3 kids and raising them while working
You are a pro. Let go of short term promotions. Raise kids well. Job can be switched but future can't be. Family wealth and health is more important.
@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 ❤️
@@princeofheaven19 ❤️
@@mp47753 will show your comments to my wife, nice to know about superwomen among us
I was fresher at corporate & observed one thing : one day in office call (online WFH) a child (2-4 age) was calling mother (our team-mate) ,she was saying something in meeting . That time I realized it's a mother whom child calls for every problem . I messaged her appreciating her and every other mothers efforts just to make her feel good .
My wife was pregnant and she was working in Good MNC, so she got 6 month of maternity leave. Her coworkers and specially manager behaviour was very bad and not at all coperative. They were jealous of the fact that she is getting 6 month leave. Surprisingly he was married also but couldn't understand what it takes to give birth to a child and what it means to society and country.
Right it happened with me too
Every word spoken by you is 100% true…I spent 10yrs of my life to become a specialist…but neither my own parents nor my in laws supported me during most crucial phase of my life ..i.e childbirth….as a result my career suffered…though I have resumed my work but I won’t be able to forget that phase and behaviour of my family
I met one women who had 2 boyfriend after married
You are absolutely right sir.. Society don't care about working women in India.. India is busy in glorifying housewives only and treating working women as selfish.. Society needs to change their mindset.. Especially men needs to participate in household chores and to support their wives to do a job... What you are saying is also said by sudha murty.. Thank you for raising this topic 🌸🙏🌸
Completely agree
@@bhadwamuhammad979s is how men escape from responsibilities. Most men are lazy.. that’s the main problem. They are ready to live in poverty but not help women.
Then men should marry uneducated women only. Why they want all benefits of marrying educated women?
Uneducated women are also treated like slave and degraded by men by denying her even basic facilities and finally they too are forced to do some maid work. This is the reality
Working women should consider plumbing,brick laying, electric lines maintenance,road construction,coolie,Uber driver as professions then they will find ample amount of opportunities.
@@varadpatil4926 Y nhi Bolenge ise
@@SSCCGL-ph9eb first of all its about men and women & not me and women, secondly the derogatory tone in your question sums up your attitude towards labour class
And to answer your question i have worked with these people as श्रमदान and have also got some friends still working there.
Create some content and get some followers.
Cheers
Sir Ji...
If we want women to work then men must contribute to household work. As a men, we must support our women.
Uncle this is such a revolutionary thought video you have made. Definitely ppl have to understand why they are making girls study if they have to sit at home only. I being Specialized doctor, worked in best institute of India, had to leave my job as no one was there to support me. My parents had washed off their hands, in laws very conveniently said we are traveling and no support from husband at all. 10 years I sulked at home, seeing my batchmates becoming HODs and gaining professional highs. Now after my husband's death I am back to work but it pinches the amount of precious time I lost in between. But it is really hood video everyone should watch as actually female need support else there won't be next generation. Females will either do kids in case of support or won't but they will not sit back. 4 hours job system can solve so many problems of females plus Government too. Great ideas uncle. I am your big fan
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
So sad to learn. And happy that u r back on track. All the best 🎉
All the best to you maam
Ma'am, I don't understand why you're complaining, think about the lovely time you had with children and husband. Think about what your last memories will be after you retire- will it be about how well you worked or the beautiful moments you got to spend with family.
We ladies need to appreciate the lovely moments with our children, they fly by so fast and kids grow up before we realize. And then we sit and whine our children are too busy to spend time with us. Appreciate it.
All my friends are having only 1 kid and simply not ready for second child due to high education, medication and real estate cost in Mumbai. I shared the example of china's one child policy and how it is backfiring them but still no one wants 2 children. Today's young parents in 30s are having a tough time emotionally and financially to raise kids.
Exactly, very high costs in Hyderabad are dissuading people from having 2 kids.
@@rohitsoni9325 it may be practical financially but at a emotional level one child feels very lonely especially after parents death.
The onus is on government. Kal ko log hi nahi bachenge to desh kaise chalega? It is their responsibility that Japan-like situation never arises in Bharat.
@@Love-dz1um yes i have seen such issues in many homes, but here parents usually have favorite child and hence they are partial in upbriging. Child who stays with parents gets somewhat less respect and the son staying abroad or doing well in career gets more love and respect. Children understand the partial nature right from childhood so the onus is on the parents that there is love care between siblings.
On a lighter note your life seems to be like a saas bahu hindi serials with such environment.
@@bourbon646 marrying is difficult today as both girls and guys are very demanding in terms of materialist stuff, they expect the other person should do most of the stuff.
true people below 20 may not even like to get married in future, my relatives who are in school have already declared not to get married as they see their parents mostly mother's working a lot. Many see marriage as a burden bits that's just a perspective and it changes with time and life experience.
I left my job for my kid because I was underperforming at office and at home too. I felt guilty as a mother. My husband didn't want me to leave my job but I still did. Best decision of my life.
Absolutely agree! We need a huge change in society. If the woman in a family is happy and fulfilled the family will be happy too. Support while raising children, flexible work, support for work at home will really help.
Sir i have not seen a single man talking about women issues in so much depth and understanding women's problems with so much empathy ! My highest regards and respect to you , keep doing this great work .
Pichle janam me amit peerit[ opressed] aurat tha🤔
@@sandeepsuri7515 kaise bhai???
Because there are infinite number of opportunist feminist who think of women there's no need for a man to think about women's problem..
Either you are lying or you have not observed a single thing in the society ..
Because now a days everyone is only talking about the problems that women are facing .. Not only the women but the men also showing concern about this ..
But phir bhi tum jaisi ladkiyon ko problem complaints hamesha he rahengi jo rela problem hai naa ki ehat men are facing ? So I think rarely someone is concerned about this and talk on this..
Aacha ye batao gii ki tum ladkiyaan itni nafrat kyu karti ho hum ladko ke parents se ? Problem kya hai tum logo ko aisi ?
@@MohitSingh-gv3gfkoi pbm nahi hai ji, bas sath rehna nahi chahte!! Ab tum reason puchoge to i have another question for you. Are you ready to live in woman's house with her parents?? Agar iska jawab apki taraf se naa hai to ladies se bhi yehi jawaab expect karo, yes nahi!!
I can relate to this video. I left my job when I was pregnant because I didn't get any support from mother and mother-in-law was busy supporting her own daughters.
Now I'm inspired by your videos and starting to look for WFH job.
What a brilliant idea of half day job options, Sir 🙏🏻 Hope companies introduce such opportunities.
Same case with me,,,but instead of leaving job,,, I took help of maid,,, now both my kids are grown up and I am still in job,,,,,find someone else from relatives who can help you when you need and help them back in other ways later ,,,,,some company has half day work with half salary,,,I guess Infosys has it,,,but not 100%sure,,,
Wfh job is there, just inform
be careful while choosing your next job, some say half day with half pay, but still work assigned is for full day...simlar thing happenned with my friend's wife and she had to again resign.
@@Shadesofwhite_ then forget about kids or you stay at home
@@Shadesofwhite_ I get your point. Daycare is an option but I wasn't comfortable leaving my little child with strangers. It's a very difficult choice but you are right. Daycare option is available.
I have seen my male colleagues staying in office to have Pizza on office expenses n claiming traveling expenses.I have seen them Playing cards or share market during office hours/Saturday.They try to impress seniors and avoid household responsibility even when their spouse is working too.I had a female team member when she was doing job, house hold work,kids homework n family refused for part time cook as they wanted to eat food cooked only by her
Rightly said 💯
Sir, i am the example of this problem, i went to so many organisations and asked them any part time work, but they said do fulltime or no work, i gave them reason of productivity and potentials, but they all refused. I asked in schools also, that why so long time for teachers, keep it alternate days for subject teachers or less time for them or it could be only definite periods,they come and take class, But principal said that is not the way school works, you can't change the system. Management does not want to bring change then how they will retain quality.
Thank you that you brought this subject,need for an hour .
I completely agree with you. Same happened with me
@@chandan4156 already taking economics and Math tuitions at home.
I have faced this same issue
I will do webinars on this to tell what all can be done
It's a choice of plenty in India. There's so many people to take up your role that they don't care about these situations.
As a working mother I can relate with each word of you. Pressure is high on working moms. Very good idea on part time jobs for women so that they can also contribute while having family and children. In real a woman wants everything - a family, children, home , relations, a meaningful job for her own identity and independence. Man and woman are not equal. Pressure in on women. Women are doing a lot and at the end leaving their job or family means leaving her own identity for the family which is making her empty from inside. This part time solution is great. Also there are cases of suicide or suicidal thoughts in women after baby. This is because of lack of support system at home and work Its become impossible to balance everything on own.
When you get married, or other women get married, at that time itself you need to make us understand this position because we men don't think second hand.
Men can help in daily grocery and cleaning. You need to communicate that clearly, because we although we understand, we don't think second hand. We act like captain of a ship but coal workers work more.
@@subhrajitgupta5535its not called 'not able to understand'. Its called being ignorant and insensitive, and also being inhuman towards your wife. Sorry if my words hurt you, but try to think about this objectively.
@@nirupamasharma4389 Most men are atypical when it comes to their work model. They do whats in hand, and other things get left out. We follow day to day routine straight line work and deviations aren't our strength. You need to tell us a little what you want, if neglect of some become insensitive. Nobody's words hurt me. Why would it hurt!
@@subhrajitgupta5535 again i don't get it. What's there to tell? Isn't it a fact that a woman is also a human being and she also needs rest after coming back from work like men do? And even if I agree to your point, that 'men needs to be told as they don't understand by themselves', then also i dont think that your point fits here as most men fail to support their wives even when they are clearly told about it. They just say manage your way out or leave job if you can't handle. That's the point being discussed in this video and comment section as well.
@@nirupamasharma4389 Well Ill gift her and take care of her. She will be amazing.
Thank you so much for the topic Sir. this is a story of every educated girl who studied and worked passionately to achieve something in life.. got married in a family who never realised her potential or worth.. they just want her be at home and be a servant for them.. I am really thankful to you for bringing out this topic. I am so lucky that my parents specially my father always supported and encouraged me to work.. I have been watching your videos and they are bringing in so much clarity.. looking forward to start my career again..
This video is a must watch for all indians...such clarity on a sensitive issue presented with such compassion....a social reform has been initiated with this video ..hope the msg reaches everyone..mass and policy makers
I hope your videos reach HR heads, policy makers and CEOs
So true Sir. I have been working continuously from the day I finished my education. I got married early so I completed education after my marriage. Initially I got support from my Maa and MIL but now they are either old or have gone to the other world so I have been struggling now. My day starts at 4.30 in the morning and I crash out at 10pm. I raised 2 kids and now my son is working. I feel like giving up. But financial independence is like drugs. Can't quit. I feel I couldn't enjoy my life. It has been a journey of work and only work.
But that's great you see. This addiction is nice. Isn't it?
Hats off to you
Its a good addiction dear. People get addiction of resting all the time. Its much better than that. Keep taking, breaks from work, like a week long leave sometimes. And try having great time with friends and family. Or may be just a good me time. Jiske paas jo nahi hota wo hi khalta hai, so don't worry i would say. Just be grateful and enjoy life.
I want to make an honest confession: I have worked with mainstream print media and top publishing companies. Too many hard deadlines and lack of social support at home, need for rest, made me give up my career. I am very happy today as a home maker, because at least I can rest whenever I want to.
Instead you could have tried switching to less stressful job. Everybody wants break and rest in life. But lifelong rest, i just dont get it.
@@nirupamasharma4389 I did switch to publishing and then freelancing from home for a good 15 years, after giving up my full time job in media and publishing, but it didn't work out well for me. I have lower spine problems because of long hours of freelancing. Now I am taking care of my pets, and resting. I have a dog walker and groomer, also I have a maid and cook.
@@nirupamasharma4389How miserable of you to think that her job as a homemaker is full of rest for her whole life. Didn't your mother worked hard to raise you or did she just rested.
@@berserker9747 my mother was a working woman. So no, i just don't get the idea of being a homemaker. I absolutely don't support financial dependency at all. In this era of having luxury of machines to do so many household tasks much faster than before, and also having maids, i do consider homemaker job, not a job. And i can say that with confidence because I am also married and also have a child. I also have a home to take care of. I still don't consider homemaker as a full time job. May be it all depends on how you are raised.
Being a homeopathic doctor ,I always practiced for 2, 3 hours daily. Private practice is good in terms of 3 4 hours ka kaam.
Lots of Respect for telling out loud the extra mental pressures of women at workplace.
2011 census data showed a more than 115% increase in the numbers of never married women age 35 and more. We have missed a decadal census but from my observation the rate of growth in this number will be exponential in the coming decades. I agree with you Sangwan ji, we need public policy intervention for ensuring sharing of women's care burden.
Thank you sir for discussing such a relevant topic. I'm blessed with the best of parents who are extremely supportive regarding my job. Though at office I have come across women who are going through a lot just to keep a job, it's a sad situation for women indeed.
Sir ,lost my father in my childhood.. see you as my father . actually you are father of nation
You hit the nail sir
Matlab sidhi baat no bakwaas.
Your ability to find pain points and express it so well is so amazing 👏
Amit ji no one supports working women, due to their self interest. But my experience bosses are more supporting than immediate family
Yes
Very very well said , you have described a mother ' s condition absolutely correct.🙏
Very sensible vdo. You are absolutely true. Because of the support of my mother and mother in law, I could manage my job as a specialist doctor in all India transferable job and retired after completing 25 yrs. They looked after my children throughout. I worked day and night attending emergencies and went for out station duties without worrying about my kids as they were looked after by their grand parents. Now I am getting handsome pension and my both children are pursuing professional courses. Daily I remember my in laws and parents for their immense support.
you are very lucky to have so much of blessing & support from elders
Very lucky now a days nobody willing to care for children upbringing neither parents nor in laws. They say that we cared for our Jobs and for you now your child please leave us
True. I am blessed. I looked after my mom in law till her death ( at the age of 94 yrs ) . She was with me for 14 yrs. I looked after her during her illness. Got her 3 major surgeries during those 14 yrs. Left my good paying job to look after her when her health started deteriorating. I feel , in every family, if ladies understand each other's problems and help each other, there won't be any KLESH as Sangili says. Life will be Jinga Lala
Sir I think I really needed this to hear today. Running to and fro from work . Listening to you is not less than an appreciation for all women .. your words are such a relief to all tired souls
Very true. The irony is that when one used to go for school admission of daughters, the school management would frown on working women saying that they have no time for children.
I'm from Kolkata, married to an Australian, we have two children and I work part-time. Here there are more options for part-time jobs. India should give more options for part-time employment.
Population dekho bhai😂😂
Such wisdom, Sir. Koti Koti pranaams to you
Am amazed 👏 the kind of topics you come up with.. !! So relevant..!! So much needed !! Bang on you target !! 👏 I have almost seen all your videos.. !! And forwarded too.. !! Aankhen..Dil..Dimaag..Aap sab kholte ho.. !! Highly impressed !! :) Regards !!
Absolutely Correct Guidance as always from your Sirji!
Love your stunning content!
Zabardast topic again, mein aapki videos family groups mein aksar share karta hun. Thought provoking topics, thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
This is a good point. With a 4 year old child I’ve tried to find part time jobs and work from home jobs but they are too hard to find. It’s better to stay home and pursue my hobbies.
if you are doing ok financially, better to spend time with your kid and start doing what you enjoy like hobbies/ join woman groups and have good time. some of us got so occupied in work that we missed out totally on family part and now no family and golden time is also gone
@@diauser3327 Inflation keeps kicking its luxury to have non working partner.
This happened with me too . I left my job after second child 😢😢
Means?
Sir....what you said in the video is absolutely true. !! But there is other side as well. There so many men who support their wives but they have to go through so much abuse from their own family members. In my case, my husband has gone through panic attacks because of physical and mental abuse from his own family members. His family members are deadly against his support for me in household chores..!! He has always supported with me in everything..But he has gone through so much..i feel bad for him.. 😢😢😢😢
Perfect analysis sir! Keep going please.
Superb thought provoking video ,must share this with as many people as possible.
Nice topic sir and very true..there should be balance between having kids and also work, both extremes are not going to beneficial in long run. Women who have kids and leave job later feel depressed and same with women who decides to not have kids for career later regrets. This idea would be win-win situation
Perhaps one of your best videos! You have a unique talent of selecting a very relevant issue and explain very beautifully so that everybody understands and start thinking over it. Since my childhood I have fought for the welfare of working women because I used to take care of my working aunt's little children during my holidays. All my aunts were working and I know the pain and it is deep rooted in my mind. I am glad that now somebody like you has raised this issue of problems faced by a working woman! Hats off to you 🙏🙏
Thank you sir,you have high lighted absolutely necessary topic of concern for our society.I appreciate your efforts.you have given important point to ponder upon.
very nice. this thought process is much needed. Thank you for making this.
Sir I was a civil servant. Each and every word uttered by you is 200 percent true
I have always talked about it with my family friends and my parents.. salute sir to bring this up
Very true.....my husband left me n daughter for a younger girl.......I asked this question in court...if I also leave child who in society take care...if all women stop taking care of children what will happen to future population.
Correct analysis Sir. The same happened with me. Could completely relate
Eye opener video. This issue should be talked at top priority in our society as nowadays working women r necessary but to make them work comfortably we need to learn these points u described in video. I'm also a highly qualified lady of 90s but couldn't do job with non supportive sasural . If this 4 hour job get started in india % of working women will increase tremendously. I also could work for 4 hours .Queen honey bee example was mind blowing to show the importance of a mother.
7:12 - 7:25, you explained it all. My mother used to be most educated one in her so called sasural. But after having kids, she left working and became housewife. After looking at her, I decided I don't want my life to be like her. Thank God I am not the one who think this way. I used to thought, I am weird.
Ek video aisa bhi banaiye
Kaise women apane married hone ka, mother hone ka fayda leti hai aur jin women ki shadi nahi hui hai jinke bacche nahi hai unpe injustice karati hai.
This is just another side of coin you may not be aware of.
And I am a girl / woman.
Sir, Your videos are really thought provoking. Hats off to you 👍🏼
Very good perspective. The society has to change its outlook
Very true sir..i was also suffering this situation...and i stopped my job after 40 because of 14 hours working time
Brilliant thoughts...give a proper direction to society
Thank God & Thanks to you......Kisi ne to ye issue raise kiya......seriously your topics are relevant to society ,to us,to every woman ,to me.....🙏Again thanks ...Sir
Sir, you're very ahead of your generation! I wonder how blessed your family members would be to have a mature and learned person as you.
You are telling my own story sir, I wish I would have got support from my parents and husband
Beautiful.... Hats off to you... So bang on point
Gr8 vdos. Ur channel is so addictive. Astrology, society, so many topics! Pls make a vdo on upcoming recession too
Sir you have touched every topic very deeply and closely .Those who are watching these videos regularly will certainly bring changes in the Society.Your efforts in making these video on different issues is really appreciable.👌👏👏
You nailed it sir👍😍 ek aur angle bhi hai in problems ka, sarkar ne taxation itni heavy kar rakhi hai ki logon ka jeena muhaal ho raha hai. Survival ke liye lar rahe hain to baby planning dimaag me aata hi nahin.
UK me bhi yahi hua tha. Senior citizens zyada ho gae the aur working population khatm hone laga tha
Very interesting perspective given.. and far sighted...!!
Your knowledge is out of par sir. You are great!
Reasons for less kids:
1. Late wedding
2. Living without parents so problem in raising kids
3. Fertility issues due to stress, toxins.
4. People don't want to take responsibility.
5. Middle class think they are doing a favour by having less kid- which uncle ji said.
Not really these are not the issues except the 2nd one. The main problem is not having a supportive husband, in-laws or parents and inflation. Late shadi krne se bche hone mai koi problem nhi ho rhi h or na hi esa h ki log environment k liye bche peda nhi kr rhe. Kuchh log kbhi krna hi nhi chahte the or ab unless bs azaadi h na krne ki or ye kafi km log h maximum bs time na hone k karn or mehgayi k karn nhi kr rhe.
Population km hona problem nhi h pr ekdm se bahut km ho jana problem create krta h. Isliye govt ko parents k liye or women k liye scheme nikalne ki zrurt h... Jisse vo ye overwork km ho.
Thank you sir you describe all the problems 😊 which are genuinely facing these days.Thank you again 👏 Kavita Ahlawat from Rohtak
Very nice video sir.
Aap apne videos mein hamesha aise subjects late hain jo samaj ko ek nai disha dene mein saksham hain.Really aaj hamare desh ko aise hi changes ki zaroorat hai.Aur sabse badhkar ye hai ki aap inhe analyse kar rahe ho,jo shayad abhi tak nahi hua hai.I just wish aapke prayaas safal ho aur hamara desh nai vichardhara ko apnakar aage badhe.👍
Highly appreciable, I was thinking on same lines.
So true for Pakistani society as well! Well explained.
100 % Agreed.
I have 100 % same situation
My wife wake up at 5 give tea to my parents.
Then prepare some lunch for herself and sabji for others.
Comeback at 4:30 then her mother in law give tea to him.
Then she just sit for dinner planning.
Then she prepare dinner do some school work as she is a teacher.
Where I get a chance to help her i try to help her like some dusting and kapde sukhne dalna kind of.
But seriously i have a so so soft corner for her as you said ki vo kissi bhi boy se 3 Guna kaam karti hai.
Love you as you are saying this thing socially. ❤️
@balvinder- this is Indian problem those who want to drink tea/coffee should make it themselves and not trouble others else do not drink t
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This is an Indian problem those who want to drink tea/coffee should make it on their own not trouble others else they should stop drinking anyways it does not do any good
I think each of the family members should contribute to the housework.
@@arpanmadrecha946 As a wife she is giving Tea and other members are taking care our 5 year child through out the day and giving breakfast and lunch to me.
I am washing clothes and taking care of other household work. So that she can take a rest after coming back to the office. Then she also does some dinner stuff and all.
So it's easy to say ki jisko chai pine ho vo khud bnaye.. But not a good ethics.
Sir, love the analysis and ideas u present
Very good video Sir.. Its amazing the content you are coming out with so regularly
Very relevant video in today's context....Work for home,teaching online, entrepreneurship from home,textile from home,creativity,4 hour workday or 3 day workweek can be great solutions in future...coding from home etc are great solutions for women who are finding it difficult to carry on working with family
*A VERY VERY VERY BIG FAN OF YOU FROM PAKISTAN SANGO UNCLE. WHAT A PERSONALITY YOU HAVE.* 💗💗💗
*Sir I will like to meet with you. Is that possible sir?*
Agreed respected
Amit Sangwan ji
Thank you for such natural & deep thoughts....Love all your videos. 👌
Women are very focused. They know what they want to do and what not to. But it is happening in only one community. Some communities want to just reproduce,nothing else
Thank God Females like you, exists on this Land...
They have been doing same from last 1400 years
And they will keep doing it for Next 1400 Years
@@slimeforyou2750 Ofc 🤣
True I am A doctor worked in periphery I have seen muslim women really don't get education they literally marry at 16/15 to 30 yr men and read up to class 7 that's why their fertility rate so high sadly here not a single feminist have raised this question because it's against the narrative 🤡.
@@nmo3148 muslim women education is so low they marry at 16 that's main reason.
Sir, This is very true.. Its really tough for female.Even many time we are not considered for onsite opportunity and good position bcz they think we have always excuses for family responsibilities
The most beautiful & urgent video so far. God bless you sir.Ghar me bethi Ladies agar workforce me agayi to desh hi badal jayega, kyunki max % educated ladies to ghar bethi hen.
I love, I like each and every word narrated by you. Salute to you Sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks for bringing this up...Thousands of women are suffering on account of this. Absolutely right, Govt will have to intervene!!!
Half working hours,half salary
OMG what a great idea for women
Ye idea मानव संसाधन विकास मंत्री के दिमाग में क्यों नही आता। हिंदुस्तान की आधी आबादी अपना आधा वक्त बर्बाद कर रही है उसका सदुपयोग होना चाहिये।
Sir you are a great visionary person. I salute you. What a amazing video; after watching this video each of us should realize the importance of women and family before it is too late. Instances of great leader like barrack Obama never miss to mention the importance his wife and family while making a speech. Thanks 👏
Brilliant awesome Idea. This is what clarity of thought can do. Must watch video
Thank you sir for bringing out the most relevant topic of India today. None of the political parties are thinking of these irreversible change, gender gap, future effects on the demography and culture. They think mahila sashaktheekaran means only economic empowerment . But economic stability with happy families and complete change of Employer and the family (saara parivaar) mindset can create better society. Hope your video triggers this discussion in the society. Thanks.
Eye opener
Only elderly can impart these type of knowledge
But many elderly arn't on RUclips
Thanks for bieng a info giver 🔥🔥
Your videos on all your channels are worth sharing.. u are so on point with every topic and give so much clarity.. thank you so much.. keep up the good work 👍
Thank you for all the guidance, direction, right way to think etc. The knowledge you are sharing with the youths is great and the best social service.
Sir could you please throw some light on taboo topics of our society like physical relationships before marriage and concern of virginity. What are the impacts of it on our society if the people engages in any above mentioned scenario.
Another way in which working women are pressurized is by blaming her and making her guilty whenever the kids are unwell or if they fall back in studies
Working women doesn't marry a non-working man or a working man with lower salary than her... Does the society blame or pressurized the women for that 😂😂😂😂
Superb idea sir !! Four hour working schedule for ladies is a path breaking approach
So so true all that you are speaking Sir.... Have undergone all that you spoke...