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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
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  • @KeirtiMalviya
    @KeirtiMalviya Год назад +29

    Passive aggressive behavior is such a real thing! It takes away respect from one who's victimized.

  • @dhanamjayas
    @dhanamjayas Год назад +30

    Yes women are doing false cases against men. I am NRI, not even breaking traffic rules. My wife with Nambinarayan (ex-isro scientist of rocketry movie) are trying to declare me as mentally unsound and thereby smoothly confiscate my property.

    • @HarshSharma-jp4no
      @HarshSharma-jp4no Месяц назад

      plss explain what is happening with you

    • @dhanamjayas
      @dhanamjayas Месяц назад

      @@HarshSharma-jp4no definitely, please give me a few days time.

    • @MGTOWbrotherhood3
      @MGTOWbrotherhood3 13 дней назад

      ​@@dhanamjayasNambi Narayanan?? The famous scientist?

    • @dhanamjayas
      @dhanamjayas 13 дней назад +1

      Yes, the infamous scientist! Shame he is comparing with Abdul Kalam. Kalam is a diamond whereas Nambus is a blue metal used for roads!😂😜

    • @dhanamjayas
      @dhanamjayas 13 дней назад +1

      Please wait , my wife has withdrawn her false case of domestic violence! I will post a video in Tamil, Hindi, English and Telugu.! Within a month!

  • @amitrajput6904
    @amitrajput6904 Год назад +13

    Sir i know a case personally where wife filled false cases just bcoz husband had caught her affairs with multiple men .

    • @vaibhavkumartiwari2374
      @vaibhavkumartiwari2374 Год назад +1

      🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥹🥺
      Kalyug

    • @afreenjamal4045
      @afreenjamal4045 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yeh prove hua ya phir sirf husband bol Raha tha? Ab case ho Gaya uspar toh kuch toh jhoot bolna hi parhega.

    • @_13456
      @_13456 5 месяцев назад

      Even if she filed a wrong case the thing is you saw just one woman doing that but not seeing crores of innocent women sufferring in marriages and not doing anything against husband/in laws..how can you generalise..

    • @HarshSharma-jp4no
      @HarshSharma-jp4no Месяц назад

      @@afreenjamal4045 internet pe video leak hua tha

    • @MeditationMelodies962
      @MeditationMelodies962 24 дня назад

      ​@@_13456more than 2 lakh married men commit suicide due to matrimonial dispute and misuse of laws according to ncrb data.

  • @vandana2705
    @vandana2705 Год назад +48

    Don't suffer in toxic relation ship whether men or women .Respect individual .As sir said always women should be financially independent so no one ever try to haress women .

    • @AmazingWondersTV
      @AmazingWondersTV Год назад +19

      Also all men should be financially independent so no one ever try to harras men.

    • @saumyapunekar8625
      @saumyapunekar8625 Год назад +3

      Well said , but people feel scared to speak up with fear of social isolation so more and more people should move out at the right time from bad abusive relationship irrespective -emotional, verbal and physical . Be strong , protect yourself from such toxic person(male/female).

    • @srijaandtanushreebhattacha1480
      @srijaandtanushreebhattacha1480 Год назад

      ​@@AmazingWondersTVde

  • @souravdeylog
    @souravdeylog Год назад +63

    I am glad you made this video. I was biased towards ladies for some past experience. I wrongly generalized them all. However, the reality has changed today from the expectations I had, by observing my mother/aunt and Hindi Films of 90s. Women today want to live as comfortably as men. I cook two times a day now for myself, and I can understand the pain and boredom I feel sometimes. I have realised we can't expect women to do things that we don't enjoy doing ourselves.
    Good video.

    • @souravdeylog
      @souravdeylog Год назад

      @@Therohitdubey Incel

    • @nirupamasharma4389
      @nirupamasharma4389 10 месяцев назад +3

      Respect brother❤
      Actually for women, problem is not cooking or doing household work. Main problem arises from lack of appreciation and respect for these things. And if a woman is working like i am, there is a limitation to do household works. This thing men fail to understand and do not adjust at all. But i also agree that not all men are same. I am blessed with a really good husband. He helps me in household work, whatever is not done by maid. Sometimes when we both have tired day at work, we adjust either by ordering from outside or cooking something quick. Its all about understanding each other.

  • @chaudhary4253
    @chaudhary4253 Год назад +88

    I don't see ppl getting married in next 25-30 years..

    • @crypto_with_tushar
      @crypto_with_tushar Год назад +10

      May be in next 20 years people are getting married to AI robots. 😀💗🤖

    • @hello-zn8fd
      @hello-zn8fd Год назад +13

      Dont get married
      Let mil and fil sudhare

    • @chaudhary4253
      @chaudhary4253 Год назад +1

      @@crypto_with_tushar once artificial womb comes into picture marriage will become outdated and useless imo

    • @swetas4010
      @swetas4010 Год назад

      😂😂

    • @cinemamylove5712
      @cinemamylove5712 Год назад +2

      Next 5 years samaj lo...

  • @arjunthakur310
    @arjunthakur310 Год назад +32

    Excellent video sir but u just missed one point about 498A law and that is it's not gender neutral. Women have been the biggest sufferer historically but everyone should be equal infront of law but this law is actually too much protective of women if u read it . Women basically can make the men suffer as they have the upper hand in it.

    • @vdglam5468
      @vdglam5468 Год назад +2

      @@gagansingh7026 how you know that??? are you his content writer...

    • @mamamiakool
      @mamamiakool Год назад +4

      @@vdglam5468 jis tarah ye 1980-1990 nahi he. ussi tarah laws bhi 2020's ke liye update hona chahite

    • @afreenjamal4045
      @afreenjamal4045 10 месяцев назад

      Aise "mardo" ko koi bhi aakar samjha de unki samajh me nhi aayega. 😂 He said na, most of the men are idiots.
      Chorro inko, they will continue with their beliefs. They are not flexible. In that sense they are like 70 yr olds. Very rigid.
      Also, some have very low IQs. They think they can make better laws than lawmakers, who have studied these things and are practicing it, just because they want to make laws which suit their needs.

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад

      Wow highly educated men. If a women file the case 498a there will be an investigation team .....husband will not be put behind bars just after case. Women has to provide proof to the court in her favour .......if she fails no court can sentence against husband. Even a latest case in which women got jail for lodging false case.
      Jaake theek se padhai Karo 😂😂.....ohhh sorry school college Mai padhne ki jagah ladkibazi porn dekhna se fursat mile toh buddhi Mei vriddhi ki jayegi na.
      Jitni bhi shadiya hoti h usmei se 95 percent Mei dahej li jati h aur keval 1 percent shadi divorce Mei jati h ......usmei bhi purush Prajati roti h ki alimony Dena pada.
      Log kehte h na ladkiya bohot roti h woh toh dikh hi rha h kaun roo rha h. Teri age kya h woh toh mujhe Pata nhi 😂😂😂 par zara jaake thik se padhai Kar aur research Kar phir aakar comment Kar warna sabko Pata chal jayega teri buddhi Kam h

  • @sukantasahoo4278
    @sukantasahoo4278 Год назад +8

    For earning women my income is mine and husband's income is mine with no responsibility and all obligations are husband's .

    • @Raythelightlife
      @Raythelightlife 7 месяцев назад +4

      It means you are not transparent in spending. That's why your wife don't trust you that you can secure her childs future.
      You might be giving money to your parents without her consent

  • @suryapartap7095
    @suryapartap7095 11 месяцев назад +8

    To court ne ise legal terrorism kyon kaha? Marriages will be vanished soon.

    • @_13456
      @_13456 5 месяцев назад +1

      Ek judge ke aisa comment krne se ye sach nhi ho jata..judges too have biased n patriarchal mindsets.

    • @JackReacher-rt9ng
      @JackReacher-rt9ng 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@_13456 haa bass ek ye word seekh liya hai patriarchy. Indian judiciary ne ladko ki maar rakhi hai, but harr cheez mai ladkiyo ki hi problem dikhti hai.

  • @hotelcalifornia715
    @hotelcalifornia715 Год назад +34

    @AmitSangwanji it's funny 😁 how people research, find reviews, friends references to even eat out at chinese restaurant or to go on vacation but mindlessly marry without asking crirical questions about their future lives. IN TODAYS WORLD PREMARITAL COUNSELING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN KUNDALI MATCHING. It's shocking to know people look at shadi as market

    • @SangoLifeSutras
      @SangoLifeSutras  Год назад +7

      Fully agree. Good point

    • @mallikasapre3662
      @mallikasapre3662 Год назад +8

      Absolutely agree. Not only premarital counseling but also now theres a need of prenuptial contract also for marriages in India.

    • @madhurbajpai9965
      @madhurbajpai9965 Год назад +2

      @@mallikasapre3662 Premarital Counselling is good idea. Marriage is a divine RELATIONSHIP, it's absolutely sacred. Contracts often fail/break.

    • @aastha466
      @aastha466 6 месяцев назад

      ​​@@madhurbajpai9965only if world was an ideal place. The ones who have intent to make it divine can do so despite prenups but in worst case scenario one doesn't end up with loosing money and marriage both or living with a philandring/ controlling spouse. This is applicable to both genders.If nit pre cups absolute clarity on how different aspects before marriage

  • @anikettripathi7991
    @anikettripathi7991 Год назад +23

    All women can't be treated as Devi.

    • @pallabiran4266
      @pallabiran4266 Год назад +11

      Devi won't tolerate chutiyapa.
      Besides think them as human that would be enough.

    • @anikettripathi7991
      @anikettripathi7991 Год назад +6

      @@pallabiran4266 woman are just possibilities of femenity, love, care and motherhood never guarantee. Are all women manifesting these qualities. Are women not involved in harmfull, antisocial, antinational activities. Are all the criminal are males only. Thus gender is never important our activities and responsible attitude is most important. Those who choose to respect and care others are treated as Devi Maa in our sanatan philosophy.

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@anikettripathi7991 राक्षसों को देवी मां क्या देवी मां ही लगेगी?

    • @anikettripathi7991
      @anikettripathi7991 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@ninanani4085 only in Hinduism women are considered mother , sisters and Devi . In polygamous relationship it's not possible to respect any type of relationship permanently forever .

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      @@anikettripathi7991 Thats Why no man is respected because they were ever into polygamy, ruining other women's lives. Even they created polygamous gods even to sanction their own lechery.
      And those lechers became Self claimed pati parmeshwars, subjugating weak women.

  • @raghbir1963
    @raghbir1963 Год назад +13

    System of marriage needs to be changed. Let us think of some other way of arranged marriage. Why only girl are going to boys place? There should not be any difference between boy and girl. Let the couple decide. If there is a problem in this type of system, break cast, religion, place restrictions. Let us make a beautiful society

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад +2

      Well there are society where husband stays at wife house . It's meghalaya culture

    • @shaangaming350
      @shaangaming350 9 месяцев назад +2

      Our ancestors have tried everything , so they try and tested and came to the conclusion that ITS BETTER TO SENT YOU GIRL CHILD TO HUSBAND . THERE ARE MANY REASON LIKE . POWER STRUGGLE , BASIC HUMAN MANLE TENDENCY , BASIC ANCESTORAL WISDOM .

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад +2

      and it failed more tragically .....but no worries women now are anyway not going to tolerate so doesn't matter

    • @shaangaming350
      @shaangaming350 9 месяцев назад

      @@ankitamishra0405 hahaahhaa , I am sure are 3 rd wave feminist .
      Ok your choice do it now what are you waiting for . When you will marry apply these things ,
      There is a saying in SANTAN DHARM , SON IN LAW AND FATHER LAW SHOULD NOT BE LIVING IN SAME HOUSE FOR LONG , OTHERWISE THERE WILL CRISIS IN DOMINACIAL INSTINCT
      SETA JI WHEN MARRIED TO RAM JI , SHE LEFT HER HOME , SO YEAH I THINK
      YOUR BRAIN IS CORRUPTED BY WOKEISM , FEMINISM AND ALL

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@shaangaming350 Patriarchy jas failed miserably. It did no good to the world ever.
      War, Genocide, massacres, Rapes, Loot, Dacoity, Molestation, Trafickking of women n children, all evil is result of Patriarchy, Uncontrolled and unquestioned Patriarchy.
      Men couldn't handle the power graciously.
      It should be changed now.

  • @amansinghal7575
    @amansinghal7575 6 месяцев назад +2

    Sir I respect your opinion truly but here are some counters.
    You discussed that boys are only scared because they might have some fault, but what about girls who have ego issues, who make it a point to destroy other person's life, saidst personalities etc. These exist in both genders and marrying a girl with these issues which are usually very layered and not visible in first few meetings(mostly arranged marriage context). If you visit some MRA [Men's Right Activist] like Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj and some more you will surely see the other side and how easy it is to frame a guy and his whole family in such cases even if they are false. If you follow their feed there are literally everyday 4-5 cases they post and aware people about it. In conclusion there are bad people in both genders and people in general who look good can have darker personalities due to insecurities and self esteem issues and mainly ego issues, so please try to think on this perspective as well.
    Thnak you for this video and comment section to give space for at least an open discussion on this topic.

  • @sourabh3540
    @sourabh3540 Год назад +26

    101% agree & You always see the other side of the COIN where the majority do not see or are unwilling to see. This analysis made your new approach IMMORTAL in history (इस वीडियो ने आपको इतिहास में अमर कर दिया) keep it up sir and we are with you "GO AHEAD" Thankyou🙏😊

  • @sudiptabrahma2631
    @sudiptabrahma2631 Год назад +6

    Unless there is adequate protection of law of male. Better to remain Single and Independent of taught and action for the rest of life. Thanks 🙏

  • @tindrums
    @tindrums 10 месяцев назад +3

    My experience is that it is not the wife who does it but the male members. Her Dad or her Mama

    • @tejamehu
      @tejamehu 6 месяцев назад

      or brother

  • @gauravkochhar3884
    @gauravkochhar3884 Год назад +9

    Women exhibit more of passive aggression, and it's very difficult to prove

    • @Raythelightlife
      @Raythelightlife 7 месяцев назад

      Like mother-in-law

    • @JackReacher-rt9ng
      @JackReacher-rt9ng 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Raythelightlifehaa mother in law shaitan hai, bass daughter in law bohot acchi hai har case mai.

    • @Raythelightlife
      @Raythelightlife 4 месяца назад

      @@JackReacher-rt9ng saas aur Bahu ko ek saath rehna hi nahi chahiye ek ghar me. Kyuki saas sauteli maa jaise hoti hai wo bas apne baccho se pyar karti hai dusro se nahi. Ye human nature hai isliye humesha saas hi galat hoti hai har case me.
      Solution - shadi ke baad saas sasur ko saath nahi rehna chahiye

  • @SaiAbitathaDUCIC
    @SaiAbitathaDUCIC Год назад +2

    1) Make rape laws gender neutral.
    2) Make domestic violence laws gender neutral.

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      Make Patriarchal laws gender neutral. Shun all bias towards men.

  • @Sarojdixit1
    @Sarojdixit1 Год назад +5

    बहुत सच्चाई है सर...आपके विचारो मे ..मैने अपनी life मे बहुत पडी लिखी महिलाओ को पुरूष के हाथो प्रताड़ित होते देखा है।वे बहुत ही सहन कर रही है।अच्छी बात यह है कि जो कुछ उन्होंने सहा..उनकी बेटी ना सहे..इस काबिल बना रही है।🙏

  • @poojasharma-xc9un
    @poojasharma-xc9un Год назад +10

    It takes a lot for women and her family to stand up and go for a case.... when things were going bad in the house that time no one notices her pain... they are simply ignored

    • @amitrajput6904
      @amitrajput6904 Год назад +6

      This is not 1950.
      In 2023 , there is no difficulty in filling the case .

    • @ketkipatil8309
      @ketkipatil8309 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@amitrajput6904😂in what delusion you live man, many people have mentalities of 1950, and pretend to be of 2023

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@ketkipatil8309 true

    • @jkuhede
      @jkuhede 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@ketkipatil8309 kyu bete? What's so difficult about it?

  • @indidesitourer585
    @indidesitourer585 Год назад +13

    Sir has not considered the manipulation through family politics and many girls have anxiety in first few years of marriage. So after initially married there is a high risk of 498A. Man is afraid of jail and loss of money, income, respect.

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад

      Omg sooo scarrryyyyy......😢.....this means 😂you are the someone who will do domestic violence on your wife or else why are you scared.
      498a case hone ke baad tumko jail nhi dalenge pehle investigate karenge .....tumhari wife ko evidence provide krna hoga and if she fails.....no court can sentence against you. Abhi recently ek case Mei ladki ko jail dala h false case ke liye 😮😮😮.......Kam se Kam theek se research aur padhai toh Kar lete

    • @MeditationMelodies962
      @MeditationMelodies962 24 дня назад

      ​​@@ankitamishra0405498A is most misused law even courts have said that this law is grossly misused against men and their family just to settle personal scores. As far as investigation is concerned we know that how much our police officers are honest ok. still people are immediately arrested in 498A ok. India is the only country where criminal cases are lodged if marriage is not working due to some issues for ex civil issues. Lastly why you presume women as satisavitri and innocent by birth we have seen taraka and sanupnakas as well.

  • @triptydatta7540
    @triptydatta7540 Год назад +2

    Sorry to say ,may be in north India women are sufferers but in Bengal especially Kolkata Bengali girls of today's generation toucher their husbands and inlaws. After marriage they never stay with inlaws and don't want to stay with husbands. They went back to their parents house and become ghar jamai because they can't do anything , can't take any responsibility. If the husbands don't agree then they come to divorce and ask hefty alomoni. Women's are very much dominating, physically tourcher their inlaws and husbands. This is the real truth. Women are abusing the laws. ITS TRUTH.

  • @raghbir1963
    @raghbir1963 Год назад +16

    Social atmosphere in India is such as if women are slave of men, why girls are being sent to boys place, why only girl will work in kitchen and look after all guests etc, this mind set has to be changed. I usually see in society that only girls are suffering of all sort of crimes, discrimination, social attrocities, blamed for small 2 issues. In her new home with in laws, she alone has to fight all problems and becomes helpless human being. We are not used to of girls asking their rights. Let us support every action which advocate for equality for men and women

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      Patriarchy is evil system to protect interests of character less males. It couldn't benefit society in any way.

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      When men can't learn to serve their parents look after their own households where they have lived with their own family since childhood, why another newcomer women are supposed to do that.
      If men are so inefficient, they should move to girls house after marriage, and take her surname. Its not a big deal. Women have been doing it effortlessly. Men can also do it.
      At least daughters dont have serving her own parents.

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      Subscribed you to keep connected

  • @archanatripathi7621
    @archanatripathi7621 Год назад +8

    I am surprised to see your emotional intelligence. Aap bahut achche se samajh sakte hain.

  • @bittun1607
    @bittun1607 Год назад +15

    100% true. Most of the problem men facing is not actually about divorce its about clashing opinions and unrealistic expectations of women these days. Sometimes men think better to stay long hours at office rather than going home early :P

    • @afreenjamal4045
      @afreenjamal4045 10 месяцев назад +1

      Pata nhi kya samajh me aaya hai tumhe?

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад +1

      Man like you should get out off marriage market. This will make easy to choose good husband. There are really great men on this planet.....soo women don't want people like you.
      And mister Unrealistic expectations are of men not women ......they want slaves not wife soo better marry your mother ( for mama boys) or hire a personal maid agar aukaat ho toh 😂.....joki jydatar logo ki nhi hoti.

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@afreenjamal4045are behen usne apne purush buddhi laga ke suna h 😂video. Self claim intellectual community or rapist community.

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@ankitamishra0405😂 Rapist community 🙄🤣

    • @jkuhede
      @jkuhede 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ankitamishra0405 now let's see women's achievements and inventions 😌
      Let's see intellect 😊

  • @onlineincomeideas6996
    @onlineincomeideas6996 7 месяцев назад +2

    How can you justify maintenance law in India.
    My friend wife is b tech cse pass
    Still she get maintenance
    Where
    As my friend is on 12 th pass and run a contractor business

  • @Jyotiuniquelove
    @Jyotiuniquelove Год назад +3

    Same n fully my case... I still don't have any proof and so, failed for court case... Their mental torture, abusiveness, money desires everything!!!! Sirf bolte the.. ab mai nhi jaa rahi waha

  • @ayushshaw3681
    @ayushshaw3681 Год назад +12

    I have seen an old psyco lady in my neighborhood beating her husband. In many households, women dominate in decision making.
    Recently, in Pepoye's channel, a school child was accused of sexual harassment by a girl in his school. The school never listened to the side of the boy and straightway rusticated him. Later due to support from social media, people got to know that the boy was falsely accused.
    Trust me, unless we get gender neutral laws on domestic violence and sexual harassment, such insecurities will prevail.

  • @WelaGamer
    @WelaGamer Год назад +7

    More Reformed Law should be created and need to be implemented properly and it will take another 5 to 10 years, Jese Jese cases aayege law reform hoge for both gender

    • @WelaGamer
      @WelaGamer Год назад

      ​@@rohanutep81 it will happen doesn't matter for this generation

  • @baijuv3
    @baijuv3 Год назад +18

    The root cause of All problems are Unfulfilled Expectations from others while not fulfilling theirs by overvaluing ourselves when something is expected from us. Reality driven thought process from Amitji.

  • @ashutoshpandey4341
    @ashutoshpandey4341 Год назад +23

    Sir, Ladaki ka sanskar is most important. She knows her rights but not her duty towards family.

    • @hello-zn8fd
      @hello-zn8fd Год назад +10

      Mil ke sanskaar zaroori hai
      Fil ke sanskaar zaroori hai
      Atyachaar kyon karte hai

    • @hello-zn8fd
      @hello-zn8fd Год назад +2

      I had to face domestic violence, what u say

    • @vdglam5468
      @vdglam5468 Год назад +7

      This biased mentality is the root cause of conflict..... why you want girls to be sanskari agar shaadi dono ne ki hai to dono ka sanskari hona zaroori hai.....both are responsible for every advantages and losses of marriage....

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      Men can not handle household chores of the house in which they live since childhood. They can not cook for and serve their own parents in their own comfort zone. How and why should a newcomer women be expected to handle such inefficient man and his house hold.
      Such inefficient Men should better move to wive's place after marriage and daughters can take care of the parents.

  • @Peaceisgod577
    @Peaceisgod577 Год назад +5

    passive toxic behave. Emotion kills to another level.

  • @gvamseepriya
    @gvamseepriya Год назад +18

    As always, dropping knowledge bombs with such clarity and intelligence. Kudos to your courage for speaking about these issues.

  • @doncorleone3901
    @doncorleone3901 5 месяцев назад

    In the right circumstances, my experience has been that women are the most loyal, the most supportive and the most fun to be with. The key is to create the right circumstances. I have had the privilege of having some of the most lovely women friends who would go to any lengths to make you happy. There has never been a secret i told my women friends that's been revealed or made fun of. Most of my male friends have turned against me out of sheer envy after succcess found me and i have been shocked by how cruel they can be. I have never had a woman envy me ever. Not sure why im writing this but im filled with gratitude

  • @shilpa.saachi
    @shilpa.saachi Год назад +14

    This is v true. I have come across so many males who keep cribbing about the good old days. And so beautifully u have described why the old days were good for them. I wish and pray that they learn their lesson soon 😀

  • @sg_j1547
    @sg_j1547 Год назад +8

    Kuch ladkiyo ko toh maike mein he itna torture mil chuka hota hai ki shadi k baad k harrassment ka ya divorce ka darr he khatam ho jata hai

  • @Pritigoel1
    @Pritigoel1 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hats off sir ... Many times family hide groom disabilities and do violence to hide

    • @jkuhede
      @jkuhede 7 месяцев назад

      Many families hide a woman's past relationships

  • @lazycat8946
    @lazycat8946 Год назад +8

    I still remember when I went to cinema hall a man continued to smoke near me and my father said me to adjust and I fell seriously ill and since then I'm allergic to it and I can't stand but people don't obey the 200 rd fine concept

    • @lazycat8946
      @lazycat8946 Год назад

      @@arpanmadrecha3013 wearing mask is also not that comforting

  • @proximab874
    @proximab874 Год назад +9

    Sir, it is difficult to be a successful man (who can attract women).

  • @GarudAtma
    @GarudAtma Год назад +1

    Baat to sahi hai, mere dost ki behan ne hamari batey sun kar puch liya ki agar acchi wife mil gayi to dekhoge gender biased laws ko. We both look at each other then to her and said, well, to hell with the world, my world is my wife only
    The laughs after that 😁

  • @akankiagrawal3313
    @akankiagrawal3313 Год назад +6

    Thanks by heart... For your logical, realistic thoughtful discussions

  • @sg_j1547
    @sg_j1547 Год назад +7

    Each and every man should listen to this video. Well made

    • @Vijay-cz7pe
      @Vijay-cz7pe Год назад +3

      Even every woman too.

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Vijay-cz7pe😂😂we will as it exposes your community 😂😂

  • @varunmittal3617
    @varunmittal3617 Год назад +17

    Love marriage sahi hai sir atleast we know partners but not arrange marriage as hard to know other partner. less chance of divorce.
    National crime record ke according maximum cases 498a ke cases mae Man and his family ko koi saja nhi hui. So majority cases are fake not minority.

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад +3

      @@vivek8580 criminal cases close hote hai because of lack of evidence otherwise sabko saja hoti hai. 498a cases mae settlement hota hai mtlb majorly female get some payment to take complaint back in murder cases you can't do settlement. Most of 498a cases close on settlement if some lady will be really tortured for dowary why she will settle the case without punishment. even 25%-40% rape cases are fake. use your head

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад +1

      @@vivek8580 bhai meri bala se tho shadi karna hi bekar hai. Kyuki chae ladka ho ya ladki dono mae hi intni akal nhi hoti ki apna partner sahi se chun sake ya jo chuna hai vo sahi hai ye pta ho. but Marriage se niklna itna legally complicated ki vo bane rhte hai. Russia mae divorce bahut easy hai and single women get money for child care from govt so divorce rate is high. baki badnami ladke ki bhi hoti hai so ye koi reason nhi hua. Agar ladki vala sach mae badnami ki sochega tho kabhi case file nhi karega case file last option hota hai mostly ya jab domestic violence bhi hojay. Isliye mae apki baat se puri tarah agree nhi hu ki 1% ladko ke sath bura hota hai. I am not saying ladkio ke sath bura nhi hota and law nhi ho par netural rhna hoga law ko apna perception change karna hoga. Otherwise jese Sir ne bola na ladko ko Indian ladkiya pasand aygi aur na ladkiyo ki indian ladka. Dono foriegn shadi karne laggege

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад +1

      @@vivek8580 Problem ye nhi hai. Problem hai ki marriage ko hamne bahut hype bnaya hua hai. kisiko ye nhi pta hota ki ye ladka/ladki mere liye sahi hai ya nhi. Even 80% school relationships ki shadi nhi hoti tho ye socho ki jo ladka ladki 1st time shadi kar rhe hai unme kese umar bhar sath rhege. Human being ki pasand change hoti rhti hai time and experience ke sath. Uppar se peso ka len den dowary ho ya divorce pe makes matter complicated. its better to be in live in atleast agar nhi jami tho chodna asan hai. Bacha bhi jabhi karna chahiye jab bilkul 100% sure ho ki marriage stable hai sath vala banda & family smj agyi pura nhi tho phr female foeticide aur ladke ke tane divorce na lena due to child responsibility ye alag janjat. Human need to have freedom to leave his/her partner without unnecessary pressure. Agar koi sach mae pyar karega tho ja hi nhi payga kahi otherwise dokha tho dega hi adultary karega chupke. Europe and russia mae it is relatively easy to get divorce and support for single mother/father so People don't hesitate they only stay together if they are in love. In America and canda also system are bad like India.

  • @anuradhaprasad2614
    @anuradhaprasad2614 Год назад +6

    We cannot ask happiness and companionship from men ...is what most educated wirking girls have realised. They are on a journey of self discovery guys. Its changing. It will vety fast. Its not all a western influence. In ancient India women were empowered.

  • @vidit_kaushal
    @vidit_kaushal Год назад +5

    One of the best videos on a sensitive social issue by you ... Worth sharing.

  • @avin857
    @avin857 Год назад +4

    Ladkiya ajkl zomato,ola walo ko mar rhi, fake rape,sexual harresment cases to extort money are the result of these biased laws. and check ncrb data for the numbers please cover these points and aspects also.

    • @codecracker8856
      @codecracker8856 9 месяцев назад

      He won't because there is a reason why he is a marriage counselor

  • @aslicricket2178
    @aslicricket2178 Год назад +5

    Sir discuss something on well earning wives n very less earning husband's, bitter environment for family n kids. How to face or tackle such situations.

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад

      Lower your ego low earning wife stays with high earning husband yet no issues.....vice versa issue this means male ego

  • @amitrajput6904
    @amitrajput6904 Год назад +1

    Ladies ko cribbing krne ki jarurat nahi hai bcoz there are strong legal remedies for all problems that they face .

  • @varshas8745
    @varshas8745 Год назад +2

    If a woman makes herself strong, good n wise, self confident she will attract the same boys, no compromise. She knows how to sustain marriage n live peacefully
    What u sow, so shall u reap.

  • @designersden2652
    @designersden2652 Год назад +4

    Sir padhe likhe to sabse bade wale bewakoof hai, itna padhne ke baad bhi Sab apne gotra mein partner dhoondtey hai. Agar ye thinking change nahi ho sakti to pehle wali soch boss log kaise chhod de.

  • @frc_sc9114
    @frc_sc9114 7 месяцев назад +1

    All the men in a the comment section saying marriage is evil.. Maat kar shadi, only ppl who care about your marriage are your own parents😂. Uchaal aise rahe ho jaise ladkiya line de ke khadi hai tere se shaadi karne ke liye aur tereko zabardasti shaadi kara rahi hai. Rah na single, kisko padi hai? 😂😂 losers

  • @radhikaravi2498
    @radhikaravi2498 Год назад +17

    You are God sent Sangwan ji. Thank you for your video. Brought tears to my eyes because you are one of the men who understand women's issues and are trying to educate people.

  • @tarunankita
    @tarunankita Год назад +1

    Sir aap jaise samjhate ho.....bahut hee alag aur clarity deta hai.....thank you for doing this....

  • @RajSekharK
    @RajSekharK Год назад +1

    very good point. thanks for sharing. the misconception and fear is very much addressed well.

  • @suryawanshi01
    @suryawanshi01 9 месяцев назад +1

    Very nice video, As I am planning to get married having same kind of doubt. I am just a simple n calm person believing in pillars of equality, respect, Love n caring in a relation. But I fear its hard to get from the opposite person as well, experienced in my previous relationship, we mutually agreed to broke up due to our own individual reasons. I love her but looking at the things n her passive aggressive behaviour I am afraid to going back to her. Now worried about what if same happens in the arrange marriage but pre marriage counseling is good option to overcome this issue I guess.

  • @himanshuchandolia8501
    @himanshuchandolia8501 Год назад +5

    Sir, mere sath exactly ye hi ho rahi hai ...dahez, gharlu hinsa, meri pregnancy mai bhi usne mujhe mara hai, aur Mujhe mere gher bhej diya aaj tak June 26 se aaj ye din aa gya, kisi ka koi phone tak nhi aaya...ki kam se kam bacche ki to puch leta.

  • @carolinasharma5574
    @carolinasharma5574 Год назад +14

    My God! I am in awe of you a sir!! The line that there is no way to prove passive aggressive behaviour is so true!! Nobody wants to enter into legal battles otherwise!

  • @anuprastiwari8334
    @anuprastiwari8334 Год назад +3

    सर कुछ लड़कियां लड़ाई झगड़ा बहुत करती है घर का महोल खराब करती है परिवार का जीना हराम कर देती है उनके बारे मे कुछ बताइये

  • @conceptofgrowth
    @conceptofgrowth Год назад +8

    360 Degree approach.
    Lovely
    Thanks Sir for ur outstanding study and analysis.

  • @prabhagupta2825
    @prabhagupta2825 Год назад +8

    Subject is covered very sensibly and sensitively. Everything is analysed and explained very well 👍👍

  • @swetas4010
    @swetas4010 Год назад +2

    App jyasha koi har lardki ke jindegi main aye to baat ban jaye 😂😂

  • @kumarsontakki
    @kumarsontakki Год назад +4

    Very good content sir.
    Can you pls make one more video on how to understand woman especially wife so that the marriage is a smooth sailing and win win foe both the couples

  • @cricketmoment8803
    @cricketmoment8803 Год назад +2

    Deepika Narayan bharadwaj ka video dekh lijiye sir

  • @visheshbhardwaj9003
    @visheshbhardwaj9003 5 месяцев назад

    Prenuptial agreement must be legalized to avoid false cases

  • @naveentatasantoshsai4976
    @naveentatasantoshsai4976 4 месяца назад

    Living with parents is an issue. I partially agree with this. Because a wife may love her husband but it doesn't necessarily extend to his family. I understand that because they are complete strangers for her and most of the times do not love her as much as they would their own child. Partially, because a typical middle class man whose parents are dependent on him cannot afford two households at the same time. A lot of money could be rather saved for buying a property or for emergency. One of the reasons i do not wish to marry. Don't take me wrong. As an introvert i would like to have some alone bonding time with my wife if i were married. But it's not possible with my family around. To all those women who resent living with in-laws. I know it doesn't matter to you and i understand it. But it's not a privilege for men. It's a responsibility.

  • @rishusharma7514
    @rishusharma7514 Год назад +5

    Plz make video on understanding girls

  • @ashishVlogs393
    @ashishVlogs393 Месяц назад

    Neither women nor men are interested in marriage if they are working

  • @nitinwadnere8869
    @nitinwadnere8869 Год назад +2

    Sir sach me how to understand women par ho jaye video .bahut si jindagiyan bigadne se bach jayengi.

  • @pardeepkumar-fm9hj
    @pardeepkumar-fm9hj Год назад +1

    बात प्रैक्टिकल होने की है तो महिलाएं पुरषों के मुकाबले जल्दी मैच्योर होती हैं पुरषों की हर कमजोरी जानती हैं कानून एकतरफा और दोगले है कानून महिलाओं के लिए अलग पुरुषों के लिए अलग है अगर महिला सच्ची है तो केस जरूर जीतेगी आदमी गलत है तो सजा से बच नहीं सकता अगर महिला गलत भी है तो भी उसका कुछ नहीं होता है

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 8 месяцев назад

      महिलाएं जल्दी मेच्योर होती हैं तो पुरुष को पुरुष सत्ता छोड़ देनी चाहिए. वैसे भी Patriarchy ने बेवकूफ मर्दों के हाथ में सत्ता देकर समाज में रेप, हत्या, युद्ध, genocide, नरसंहार और घर घर में झगड़े ही कराएं हैं।

  • @amitrajput6904
    @amitrajput6904 Год назад +1

    Niyat saaf walo pr hi jyda cases hote h sir
    Kis duniya m jee rahe h aap.
    Galat logo se log panga nhi leta koi.

  • @neelamsukhnani2929
    @neelamsukhnani2929 Год назад +6

    Really aap boht ache insan ho jo sachai bolte hai..ek aadmi kbhi aadmiyo ki sachai itna nhi batata aadmi kbhi abbi galti nhi mante..u r great..ek acha insN banna chahiye sabko..aadmi orat se pehle🙏

  • @geetadholkaria7561
    @geetadholkaria7561 Год назад +1

    Very nice video sir,my daughter is also going through this problem, thanks ur video give me lots of eyes opening reality

  • @sujatajha2153
    @sujatajha2153 Год назад +1

    Thank you Amit ji. U explain core facts in such a hilarious manner. These explanations are based on real situations...indeed!

  • @ashishVlogs393
    @ashishVlogs393 Месяц назад

    Trust me not getting married will prove to be the best decision in a mens life...but set some goal in your life if you decide not to marry

  • @anitahcu
    @anitahcu Год назад +1

    Ladkiya kitni baatey saach bolti hei? Group bana ker sari jhoth bolti hei.chugli ker jhagda kerwati hei. aur bhi bahut kuch hei social media per nahi bol saktey.

  • @ashvns04
    @ashvns04 Год назад +4

    Wahji wah... jhuta case jayaj hai??
    Kisi ke pure pariwar ko jail bhej do, samaj me beijatti Kara do, naukri ke nikalwa do, sab jayaj hai?
    Bhai sahab, jhoote case ko justify aur promote mat karo!

  • @fathimamohideen1917
    @fathimamohideen1917 Год назад +1

    Correct sir. A few exceptions do not make the rule

  • @sukantasahoo4278
    @sukantasahoo4278 Год назад

    There is no life after death and not much life before it either.

  • @ashishVlogs393
    @ashishVlogs393 Месяц назад

    Ladkiyo ko mirchi kyu lagti h jab koi ladka bolta h ki hum toh shadi nhi krenge

  • @varshajogriya
    @varshajogriya 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so so so much sir for bringing this topic up ....thank you

  • @amitrajput6904
    @amitrajput6904 Год назад +1

    Sir aap itna galat kyu bolte h .
    Aapko ground reality pta hi nhi h and aap logo ko gumrah kr rhe ho .

  • @seemabansal890
    @seemabansal890 Год назад +2

    Yes, it will be very interesting topic on how to understand men

    • @Dilip1600
      @Dilip1600 Год назад +2

      Same for a man to understand woman

  • @Rimjai7780
    @Rimjai7780 Год назад +10

    U r very nice sir . I am a victim of domestic violence and totally relate with ur words

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 Год назад +5

    Even today some guys abuse their wife to please their mom and sis

    • @jaishreeramjaihanuman3433
      @jaishreeramjaihanuman3433 Год назад +4

      Not some , most of the boys

    • @GeneralInfoSystem
      @GeneralInfoSystem Год назад +3

      I left my home and staying on rent....I can't stand if anyone try to disrespect my wife....
      Samajh ni aata kya kare.....log bhut toxic hote Jaa rhe hai.

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 Год назад +1

      @@GeneralInfoSystem Happy wife Happy Life,

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 Год назад

      @@rokhard5607 You must take action as soon as possible. Exactly the same way when the wife is tortured by her husband

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 Год назад

      @@rokhard5607 True.

  • @sumitdoshi2106
    @sumitdoshi2106 3 месяца назад

    Men have to focus on earning money. The worth of men is dependent only on the ability to earn. Nowadays men are also supposed to contribute to household activities. They also need to drive cars and manage outside activities. Women have freedom to not do their jobs. Stay at home. Housewives spend more time talking more about work. Men have clear criteria in office, perform or perish. If housewives do not perform to the level, there is no exit criteria. If men are allowed to be house husbands they can spend hours articulating minor issues.

  • @gauravkochhar3884
    @gauravkochhar3884 Год назад +2

    Advice to men, if ur unlucky enuf to have bad experience. Just accept ur bad luck There is no use of struggle or seeking respite.

  • @amazing3954
    @amazing3954 4 месяца назад

    ❤ In my life
    I have never met male with this perspective 🙏

  • @happygolucky9595
    @happygolucky9595 Год назад +1

    More stricter punishment should come ...misuse only .01

  • @ektadhania4297
    @ektadhania4297 Год назад +1

    Sense of humour is awesome. Bate sari sach h sir ji.

  • @JagatYagnik
    @JagatYagnik Год назад

    Very interesting perspective, I had very limited understanding in this aspect.

  • @anuprastiwari8334
    @anuprastiwari8334 Год назад +2

    सर लड़कियां आप के अनुसार सही है क्या सभी लडके गलत है

  • @sahilsrivastava17
    @sahilsrivastava17 Год назад +2

    Make a video on women understanding ☺️☺️

  • @avinandadutta1030
    @avinandadutta1030 Год назад +11

    We actually need people like u to change india thanks sir
    Being a woman myself I know u only talk about practical things

  • @mousumigorain9357
    @mousumigorain9357 Месяц назад

    Log auroton se dar rahe hain, aur yahan main dinrat suicide ke tarike dhund rahi hun😢. Sach mein mujhe jine ka koi hak nahi hai.

  • @poojasharma-xc9un
    @poojasharma-xc9un Год назад +2

    Actually there are no laws available to address the real issues that is disrespect, mental abuse, trivialising.. which are a huge stress in the marriage for women...
    In order to separate women end up using available laws that is domestic violence or dowry....

  • @basantchaudhary3691
    @basantchaudhary3691 Год назад +2

    Video on women understanding

  • @Anita-vh9zl
    @Anita-vh9zl Год назад +1

    Excellent analysis. Sir u are the true mentor 🙏

  • @HemantPandey123
    @HemantPandey123 Год назад

    This is correct that less flats are coming w.r.t population. But again per capita income is not commensurate with property prices. With technical deflation (deflation due to technology like zoom and wfh) real estate is due for crash till 2026.

  • @nilimanaik5721
    @nilimanaik5721 Год назад +3

    All problems starts from marriage only dowery leneka tarika bhi logone badala hua hai. In Maharashtra especially in Sindhudurg people are not taking dowery shadika kharcha adha adha karte hai no demands at all. Rest of the India this type of torcher happens. Vedio was very good 👍. Thanks for raising this issue. 👍👍

  • @mamamiakool
    @mamamiakool Год назад

    Sir, apka thought process bahut sahi he but 100% nahi he. Pre marriage counselling bahut jaroori he. Ladki walon ka interference bhi hota he, jiska mention jarur honachahiye. Ladko ko apne hi ghar walo se sambhal ke baat karna padta he jabki ladki din-raat apne ghar walo se baat pe lagi rahti he.