This video can only be made by one who is a reformist...a brave ,yet compassionate...must watch for all women ..wish that they understand the true intention of message
Very correct. A problem which must be discussed more. Women have better marks than men. Government/Companies are supporting ladies more. But sometimes the problem is on the mindset of ladies and nonsensical mindset of men. With more women workforce our country will get more wealthy (GDP).
My maternal grandmother was very vocal about this. She used to tell me that a women should not be totally dependent on husband. Even though she was uneducated she felt the importance of women empowerment.
@@pushparao4819 you are right about understanding the importance of education and career because there being a lack of opportunities for them. But my grandmother got married at a much later age and she studied till elementary. She was self employed as well. She was a weaver which is pretty common in NE India. She was not dependent on her husband and so could make a lot of independent decisions about kids. That was why she realised the importance of this. But other females in the family didn't support this.
It's a relief to see you standing up to those outdated beliefs. My parents, both doctors, always encouraged me to excel in school. When I turned 20, I decided to pursue a PhD. But some people asked, "Tu kya padhti hi rahegi, shaadi nahi karni?" Thankfully, my dad helped me realize that education is important and marriage can wait. But my own relatives were critical. They wanted me to be more traditional, like wearing sarees and being a great cook, even though I wasn't interested. I cooked basic meals in my hostel room and thought that was good enough for me. After finishing my PhD and entering the marriage scene, I realized how tough the real world can be. I thought people would be impressed with my PhD, but many were scared off by it. Some thought professors don't make much money, so they didn't care about my income. Even though I was proud of studying at an IIT, it didn't seem to matter much when looking for a partner. People still thought it was more important for the man to have a good job. Some even rejected me because I was younger and more educated than their son. It was devastating, but now I'm thankful it happened. Teaching and research are my passions, and being in the classroom is the best part of my life. But it's tough for educated women because people often say hurtful things about our jobs. I still remember one of my seniors to leave her PhD because of the pressure from her in-laws but before leaving, she inspired me to complete mine. According to me, it is a big part of society that thinks that an educated lady can't take proper care of her families or kids. It hurts me. Because I prioritize my career over rushing into marriage and having kids, some people criticize me for delaying those things. In my own family, I've seen that women who don't work are more likely to get divorced. To cite, I have seen 4 such broken marriages. On the other hand, all my friends who are working are doing well. I also realize that people say hurtful things to us because of their own insecurities. One of my relatives who was not working wanted a nolakha haar from her husband. I feel that if she would have been earning, she wouldn't need that piece of jewel or even if she needed, she would know how hard would it be to earn that much. Our society really needs to change its thinking. I'm lucky to have married a friend who supports me in everything I do. He even says he'd be happy to stay home and take care of things so I can focus on my career. Even my in-laws value me for the income I bring home. My mother-in-law takes special care of me and brings me dry fruits while saying lovingly, "Beta, tumhara dimaag ka kaam hai na?" Although my husband doesn't accept this compliment, I feel fortunate to be married into a family like his. They truly believe in the power of women. From my 32 years of experience in India, I feel that such families are rare here. To be honest, as an educated earning female, it is a struggle to earn the approval of the society to be unapologetically myself. When my relatives call me, they don't ask me about my job, they ask me when will I give birth to a Devta. Who tells them that my kids will be devtaas, she can be devi, or even chandi maai and I will love her from the core of my heart.
Sir you are a true social reformer.I have recently started watching your videos.Being a working women i developed an inferiority complex that i am not giving enough time to my kid by neighbourer ladies and sometimes I realised that i am working in heat,cold and even in corona and every women around me is enjoying their life.But your videos have given a new meaning to my life.Now i am trying to do some side hustle along with my job and my son is far better in behaviour and academics than others.Thanks for making me feel proud on me because every person around us celebrates the homemakers
Sir, with due respect to this thought provoking information, one thing which can be added to this that while women start doing work, they need support in the household chores which is not limited to cleaning and food. Then it would make more sense. Just to mention, I am a working women in IT industry. Thanks for all the time you are taking to create this content.
@THE ZOLDICS : and how it is related to the topic. However, for perspective market is also volatile and can be doomed anytime. You can't have shield on all the time. Just keep doing and achieving 🙏
Very correct. A problem which must be discussed more. Women have better marks than men. Government/Companies are supporting ladies more. But sometimes the problem is on the mindset of ladies and nonsensical mindset of men. With more women workforce our country will get more wealthy (GDP).
Just like shark tank he said straight forward, great video, like ashneer he opened the eyes of society by saying truth things, this video should get views.
Ur topic is good, now let me tell u reasons 1 boy's mother got insecure k kahin ab ladka usko like na karne lag jaye 2 boy's mother didn't allow her because agar ghar pe nahi hogi to main jhuthe ilzam kaise lagaungi or in mein jhagra kaise karungi 3 sasu got insecure k kaam pe jayegi to ghar ki naukarani kaise banaungi. 4 aap job ki baat karte ho yahan sanitary pad lene jana ho to sasur bolta hai jaldi aa jana mere liye chai banani hai. 4 inlaws allow nahi karte kyun ki unke hisaab se ladke ki shaadi k baad ladke ki maa koi kaam nahi karti, use pani ka glass bhi bed pe bahu degi 5 agar koi ladki zidd kare to saas achanak se bimaar ho jaati hai 6 agar koi zyada insist kare to sharte rakhi jaati hai k subah breakfast bana k saara kaam kar tiffin bana k jaugi or shaam ko aa k saara kaam dinner, kapde sab karogi 7 job se ghar pe jaldi aana hoga 8 koi official meeting ho, party ho training ho nahi ja sakti 9 koi rishtedaar bimar ho geya to tum chhuti karogi 10 bacha bimar ho geya to bahu chhuti karegi 11 bacho ko ladki ki maa palegi kyun ki ladke ki maa se wo nahi sambalte 12 saas pura din khali baithegi sabji tak nahi kaategi chahe bahu marne wali ho 13 saaa bete ko barkati hai k dekhna is ka office main koi chakar ho jayega 14 job kahi kar rahi shaadi kisi or shehar mein ho gayi 15 jis shehar mein shadi hui waha koi job ya hai nahi ta mili nahi, after all sifarish k bina kaha milti hai job chhote shehar mein 16 sab jaante hai married lady ko kabi bache k liye kabhi saas k liye kabhi husband k liye chhuti leni padti hai, koi rakhta hi nahi use job pe 17 married ladies extra kaam ya extra time kaam nahi kar sakti isliye use job pe nahi rakha jaata 17 married lady maternity leave pe kabhi bhi ja sakti hai isliye private job main u he avoid kiya jaata hai 18 sab jante hai kabhi bhi uske in-law ultimatum de sakte k job chhod do isliye unhe jobs k liye consider hi nahi kiya jaata 19saas barkati hai dekho jeans pehan k jaa rahi hai 20 or husband apni maa ka pura saath deta hai wo khud insecurity se bhara pada hai Abhi hazaar or reason hai appointment denge to tab bata dungi Ab app batao ladki shaadi k baad kaam kaise kare
Kaam naa karne ke 100 bahane, aur karne ka ek!! I don't disagree with all that. But jab 1000 aur cheezon ke liye husband se zid kar sakte ho to job ke liye kyun nahi??? Aur pehli baat to aisi ghatiya family me shadi hi kyun ki?? Anyways ap shuruaat karo....and zid pakde rakho!! Jo bimaar hota hai hone do, jo dikkatein aati hain aane do ...just apni baat pe ade raho!! Aur kuch nahi to apke bacche apse ye cheez seekhenge ki job karna zaroori hai!!
@@nirupamasharma4389 nirupama g I have worked for 9 yrs before marriage. Now it has been 12 yrs since I got married and I did open coaching centre because job was not practical because my husband was working in different shifts every week. But I had to shift to other town when my husband changed his job. At new location landlord never allowed me to do coaching moreover it's small town but I don't sit idle I do everything on my own plus do online counselling too😊.
One more reason,office se aaker Ghar ka poora kaam karna padta hai ,buri thhik jati hai,isliye job nhi karna chahti kyu ki maids bhi nhi rakhne dete sasural wale
Sir, main humesha se working hona chahti thi but husband bahar rahte hain aur sath me aur koi nahi hai bachon ko main hi dekhti hun.. Main bhi job karna chahti hun par kaise karun samjh nahi aata... Maine librarian ki job ki hai kuch salon tak but last 10 years se kuch nahi kar pa rahi..isliye gardening pe apne RUclips channel pe kaam kar rahi hun...par main sath sath bahar ja kar bhi job try kar rahi hun.. I hope I will do 🙏🙏
I salute u sir ji I definitely agree with u sir ji l am also a house wife and I am also searching for a job Everybody should have his own identity u are absolutely correct sir ji 🙏🙏🙏👌👌very nice.
Netflix and Korean serials have replaced Ekta Kapoor serials and are more damaging home energy. Ladies are glued to Korean serials for 5 to 6 hrs in a day, making them couch potato and get irritated quickly
sir bahut bahut achcha aur sateek video hai..main 60 saal ki hoon .ab ghar mein kaam Kam ho gayaa mera..please mujhe bataiye main kya kaam kar sakti hoon...main willingly kuch karna chahti hoon..mujhe ye gossips pasand nahin..please please kuch kaam batayen 🙏
Agar bahu exam aspirant hai to family walo ne support kare na ki uske raah me aur mushkil na laye , ispe video banaiye. I want only time till exam ni hua to firse private school join kar dungi , bus itna time mangti hu . Ye ni ki guest le ao bulake , tea banao tea banao ,
if you are working and not contributing to family, they will obviously ask you to stop, if a men earns and not provides for family will you accept, similarly go earn and contribute to family and growth of family then lets see which inlaw is stopping.
@@rohi1255 In my case after three generations working I have realised that even though the wife takes care of her own expenses and kid's expenses it is a great help. And if she is financially independent but emotionally matured it is an added advantage
I m taking tuitions...... Per mere husband her time harassment kerte hain..... Bolte hain ki kaam mat ker.....bani firti hai padhi likhi.....etc etc.....pareshaan ho jaati hun
True story from many houses.....but sometimes atleast in my house....whenever my mom wants to work and tell that in my house to my father......all he said is...... why now??? Take care of the house ....it's enough. Isn't my income enough???? Why are u so money minded? Etc..... she studied law by the way....and now don't remember anything about it.
Living in the West where we get no help for housework, working more than full-time while managing all the housework, highly educated, and with my husband, I have raised a well-educated and very hardworking confident kid. Guess what the family members living in India judge me for? The quality of my housework! After my husband, you are probably the wisest person I have encountered.
Absolutely truth sir most women are clever and wiser than their husband but they won't earn money by self-employed or small business or job they are just finding a reason rather than solution. They just follow their housewife's mother blindly.
Women work only for their wolet and that can creat unrest with husband. I don't support women to work. Wife should manage the house, it is nota small responsibility. Those women who go to work out side, how their home remain a sweet home ? Children don't get care. Whole family remains disturbed for every thing required for living. It is a bullshit idea, it destroys the family
agar wife job kare to in laws ko samajhna chahiye. if couple is living then husband should also help her in household chores. if MIL is living with couple, MIL should help. society still expects DILs to do every household chores irrespective of what job she does
Home kitchen hotel with online orders,Toy making,children sweater making,ladies blouse stichting,tiffin service,ladies wedding photography,bangle selling,pickle making in home style,home made ghee from cow milk,Papad making home made,soap making,tooth paste making,shampoo home made,home made hair oil,home made shikakai,home made face wash powder,etc..These business can be opened by housewives by making their own home as centre of commerce and earn a very decent income of 30k to 3lakh per month depending on demand supply equation,skills,management,communication and smart marketing strategy.
I chanced upon your video 'by chance' and have since then watched quite a few more back to back. I have been married for almost 3 decades. Personally speaking I think I was ahead of my times in my views on life. What you are advising this generation was what I thought then. I was working before I got married in a very reputed multi-national. After delivery I was forced to give up all in the name of womenhood - motherhood - sacrifice. As you have correctly mentioned in your various videos, I bacame bitter...irritable....unhappy which led to a very toxic atmosphere in my house because I never wanted to lead a life of a housewife or a homemaker. Once my children reached grade 10, I started taking up small assignments from family and friends (like doing some content writing for their social media accounts to Business Development and communication for some startups) and did it pro-bono just to keep my mind occupied. Now after a gap of 25 years I am working full time for an IT company and earning my 'pocket money'. It is very important to keep your mind occupied constructively as empty mind being a devil's workshop keeps dwelling on the past and does not let you to let go of things. As a human it does sadden me at times when I see my colleagues reach the level of department heads and I am working as a junior under a manager who is half my age!!
Sir India ka 18 percent b pakistan k 19 and bangladesh k 34 percent se ziyada h if you consider the percentage with respect to population. From Pakistan.
Hello sir, i am a housewife and i want to work and I never complaint about all the issues mentioned in your video, am not saying that I am perfect but, 90-95 percent things that u hv mentioned in ur video i do not complaint about but my husband always demotivates me about working, Jo kaam main karna chahti hun uske liye hamesha hatasha haat lagti hai, Ghar mein kalesh karke kaise kaam Karu, i really really want to work, but no support frm husband. He earns very well but he hardly gives some amount to me, like 1/10 bhi nahi, unki pocket mein se Lena mujhe acha nahi lagta, kaam wo mujhe karne nahi dete, main kya karoon. Sir 16 yrs ho gaye marriage ko, bohot kuch hua hai in 16 yrs mei, bohot compromise and adjust Kiya, ya karne ki koshish ki, lekin ab financial independence and freedom chahti hun, sir pls find me a way out, pls help
Oh my god Mjh to Aisa LG rh jse y same meri story likh di aapne Mere mann ki baat kr di ho Main kse earn kar skti hu apni respect n earning m bs din raat yhi sochti rehti hu
Promise her that you will help her in household works and will intervene whenever your parents will abuse her for going out to work. Promise her that you will help her in remaining house work when she will come back from work. If she will go straight to kitchen after coming from work, and you will chill on sofa with tea and food, then she is not stupid to take additional work in her life.
This video can only be made by one who is a reformist...a brave ,yet compassionate...must watch for all women ..wish that they understand the true intention of message
Very correct. A problem which must be discussed more. Women have better marks than men. Government/Companies are supporting ladies more. But sometimes the problem is on the mindset of ladies and nonsensical mindset of men.
With more women workforce our country will get more wealthy (GDP).
Ww
My maternal grandmother was very vocal about this. She used to tell me that a women should not be totally dependent on husband. Even though she was uneducated she felt the importance of women empowerment.
Bcz they were forced into homemakers at the tender age of 13
They understood the importance of education and careers
@@pushparao4819 you are right about understanding the importance of education and career because there being a lack of opportunities for them. But my grandmother got married at a much later age and she studied till elementary. She was self employed as well. She was a weaver which is pretty common in NE India. She was not dependent on her husband and so could make a lot of independent decisions about kids. That was why she realised the importance of this. But other females in the family didn't support this.
Thanks!
My mom worked before her marriage. And until now, she has continued her job. It really benefits our family a lot.
It's a relief to see you standing up to those outdated beliefs. My parents, both doctors, always encouraged me to excel in school. When I turned 20, I decided to pursue a PhD. But some people asked, "Tu kya padhti hi rahegi, shaadi nahi karni?" Thankfully, my dad helped me realize that education is important and marriage can wait.
But my own relatives were critical. They wanted me to be more traditional, like wearing sarees and being a great cook, even though I wasn't interested. I cooked basic meals in my hostel room and thought that was good enough for me. After finishing my PhD and entering the marriage scene, I realized how tough the real world can be. I thought people would be impressed with my PhD, but many were scared off by it. Some thought professors don't make much money, so they didn't care about my income. Even though I was proud of studying at an IIT, it didn't seem to matter much when looking for a partner. People still thought it was more important for the man to have a good job. Some even rejected me because I was younger and more educated than their son. It was devastating, but now I'm thankful it happened.
Teaching and research are my passions, and being in the classroom is the best part of my life. But it's tough for educated women because people often say hurtful things about our jobs. I still remember one of my seniors to leave her PhD because of the pressure from her in-laws but before leaving, she inspired me to complete mine. According to me, it is a big part of society that thinks that an educated lady can't take proper care of her families or kids. It hurts me. Because I prioritize my career over rushing into marriage and having kids, some people criticize me for delaying those things.
In my own family, I've seen that women who don't work are more likely to get divorced. To cite, I have seen 4 such broken marriages. On the other hand, all my friends who are working are doing well. I also realize that people say hurtful things to us because of their own insecurities. One of my relatives who was not working wanted a nolakha haar from her husband. I feel that if she would have been earning, she wouldn't need that piece of jewel or even if she needed, she would know how hard would it be to earn that much. Our society really needs to change its thinking. I'm lucky to have married a friend who supports me in everything I do. He even says he'd be happy to stay home and take care of things so I can focus on my career. Even my in-laws value me for the income I bring home. My mother-in-law takes special care of me and brings me dry fruits while saying lovingly, "Beta, tumhara dimaag ka kaam hai na?" Although my husband doesn't accept this compliment, I feel fortunate to be married into a family like his. They truly believe in the power of women. From my 32 years of experience in India, I feel that such families are rare here.
To be honest, as an educated earning female, it is a struggle to earn the approval of the society to be unapologetically myself. When my relatives call me, they don't ask me about my job, they ask me when will I give birth to a Devta. Who tells them that my kids will be devtaas, she can be devi, or even chandi maai and I will love her from the core of my heart.
my god.. main ek aurat hoon but aapki har baat se agree karti hoon..sach mein aapka har video aur har baat bilkul sahi hai.
Dear pls reply me
Sir you are a true social reformer.I have recently started watching your videos.Being a working women i developed an inferiority complex that i am not giving enough time to my kid by neighbourer ladies and sometimes I realised that i am working in heat,cold and even in corona and every women around me is enjoying their life.But your videos have given a new meaning to my life.Now i am trying to do some side hustle along with my job and my son is far better in behaviour and academics than others.Thanks for making me feel proud on me because every person around us celebrates the homemakers
Sir, with due respect to this thought provoking information, one thing which can be added to this that while women start doing work, they need support in the household chores which is not limited to cleaning and food. Then it would make more sense. Just to mention, I am a working women in IT industry. Thanks for all the time you are taking to create this content.
@THE ZOLDICS : and how it is related to the topic. However, for perspective market is also volatile and can be doomed anytime. You can't have shield on all the time. Just keep doing and achieving 🙏
Sir mummy se baat karna,WhatsApp par baat Karna,chugli chapati Karna..,...sooo true😂😂😂
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@@jayasoni5333 yea toh sabhi ko pata hai
Very correct. A problem which must be discussed more. Women have better marks than men. Government/Companies are supporting ladies more. But sometimes the problem is on the mindset of ladies and nonsensical mindset of men.
With more women workforce our country will get more wealthy (GDP).
Lovely 😍 I totally agree with you 👍
We need to come out of our comfort zone to have an identity and thts very important 💫
Just like shark tank he said straight forward, great video, like ashneer he opened the eyes of society by saying truth things, this video should get views.
Mindblowing sir... I feel proud to have husband who pushed me and encouraged me to become a working women from a housewife.. Great thought...
Sir salute to you! You have the power to bring about a paradigm shift
I am from pakistan but i love your lecture sir.
pearls of wisdom, one of the best video, hats off sir
Charan Parnam GuruJi. I completely agree with your video. 🙏🏻 Aap ko sath sath Parnam. Aap ki videos ne mere mansik haalat thikh kar di.
Ur topic is good, now let me tell u reasons
1 boy's mother got insecure k kahin ab ladka usko like na karne lag jaye
2 boy's mother didn't allow her because agar ghar pe nahi hogi to main jhuthe ilzam kaise lagaungi or in mein jhagra kaise karungi
3 sasu got insecure k kaam pe jayegi to ghar ki naukarani kaise banaungi.
4 aap job ki baat karte ho yahan sanitary pad lene jana ho to sasur bolta hai jaldi aa jana mere liye chai banani hai.
4 inlaws allow nahi karte kyun ki unke hisaab se ladke ki shaadi k baad ladke ki maa koi kaam nahi karti, use pani ka glass bhi bed pe bahu degi
5 agar koi ladki zidd kare to saas achanak se bimaar ho jaati hai
6 agar koi zyada insist kare to sharte rakhi jaati hai k subah breakfast bana k saara kaam kar tiffin bana k jaugi or shaam ko aa k saara kaam dinner, kapde sab karogi
7 job se ghar pe jaldi aana hoga
8 koi official meeting ho, party ho training ho nahi ja sakti
9 koi rishtedaar bimar ho geya to tum chhuti karogi
10 bacha bimar ho geya to bahu chhuti karegi
11 bacho ko ladki ki maa palegi kyun ki ladke ki maa se wo nahi sambalte
12 saas pura din khali baithegi sabji tak nahi kaategi chahe bahu marne wali ho
13 saaa bete ko barkati hai k dekhna is ka office main koi chakar ho jayega
14 job kahi kar rahi shaadi kisi or shehar mein ho gayi
15 jis shehar mein shadi hui waha koi job ya hai nahi ta mili nahi, after all sifarish k bina kaha milti hai job chhote shehar mein
16 sab jaante hai married lady ko kabi bache k liye kabhi saas k liye kabhi husband k liye chhuti leni padti hai, koi rakhta hi nahi use job pe
17 married ladies extra kaam ya extra time kaam nahi kar sakti isliye use job pe nahi rakha jaata
17 married lady maternity leave pe kabhi bhi ja sakti hai isliye private job main u he avoid kiya jaata hai
18 sab jante hai kabhi bhi uske in-law ultimatum de sakte k job chhod do isliye unhe jobs k liye consider hi nahi kiya jaata
19saas barkati hai dekho jeans pehan k jaa rahi hai
20 or husband apni maa ka pura saath deta hai wo khud insecurity se bhara pada hai
Abhi hazaar or reason hai appointment denge to tab bata dungi
Ab app batao ladki shaadi k baad kaam kaise kare
Kaam naa karne ke 100 bahane, aur karne ka ek!! I don't disagree with all that. But jab 1000 aur cheezon ke liye husband se zid kar sakte ho to job ke liye kyun nahi??? Aur pehli baat to aisi ghatiya family me shadi hi kyun ki?? Anyways ap shuruaat karo....and zid pakde rakho!! Jo bimaar hota hai hone do, jo dikkatein aati hain aane do
...just apni baat pe ade raho!! Aur kuch nahi to apke bacche apse ye cheez seekhenge ki job karna zaroori hai!!
@@nirupamasharma4389 nirupama g I have worked for 9 yrs before marriage. Now it has been 12 yrs since I got married and I did open coaching centre because job was not practical because my husband was working in different shifts every week. But I had to shift to other town when my husband changed his job. At new location landlord never allowed me to do coaching moreover it's small town but I don't sit idle I do everything on my own plus do online counselling too😊.
One more reason,office se aaker Ghar ka poora kaam karna padta hai ,buri thhik jati hai,isliye job nhi karna chahti kyu ki maids bhi nhi rakhne dete sasural wale
Wow what a intelligent vedio.. thank you sir..Glad to subscribe this channel 👍👍
Sir, main humesha se working hona chahti thi but husband bahar rahte hain aur sath me aur koi nahi hai bachon ko main hi dekhti hun.. Main bhi job karna chahti hun par kaise karun samjh nahi aata... Maine librarian ki job ki hai kuch salon tak but last 10 years se kuch nahi kar pa rahi..isliye gardening pe apne RUclips channel pe kaam kar rahi hun...par main sath sath bahar ja kar bhi job try kar rahi hun.. I hope I will do 🙏🙏
Sir gale laga ke dhaynywad aapka, aapne jo bola hai woh kis level ka hai main bata nai sakta.... Bahut bahut dhanyawaad.... Aapka ..
I salute u sir ji I definitely agree with u sir ji l am also a house wife and I am also searching for a job Everybody should have his own identity u are absolutely correct sir ji 🙏🙏🙏👌👌very nice.
Excellent video. Very informative.
Working ladies bht kuuchh learn karti hai,organised ho jati hai,unke baccho mei bhi confidence aata hai, proud feel karte hai bachhe
I totally agree with you sir, I laugh and realise on same time, this video totally made for me,
Great clarity 😜😜😜😜😜❤
Yes sir i will do that i will support my husband
Bahut acha hai bahut logo ke aak kule hi👍👍
Netflix and Korean serials have replaced Ekta Kapoor serials and are more damaging home energy. Ladies are glued to Korean serials for 5 to 6 hrs in a day, making them couch potato and get irritated quickly
You are right even I find it useless. All my classmates watch kdrama but I don't. Even the messages from such show is useless.
Extremely impactful
Wah ! Very practical tips, Sir !
I m big fan of u sir..
Thank you for raising such topics
Hello Sir.. I am already working but still would like to know to about some side income options. Looking forward for your women webinar. 👍
sir bahut bahut achcha aur sateek video hai..main 60 saal ki hoon .ab ghar mein kaam Kam ho gayaa mera..please mujhe bataiye main kya kaam kar sakti hoon...main willingly kuch karna chahti hoon..mujhe ye gossips pasand nahin..please please kuch kaam batayen 🙏
M bh kuch karna chahti hu
Khud ki self respect k liy
Self dependent k liy bssss
Sir, after listening to this, I am starting my home cooked food business.
Revolutionary thought
Thanks sir for this amazing video 🥰
Agar bahu exam aspirant hai to family walo ne support kare na ki uske raah me aur mushkil na laye , ispe video banaiye. I want only time till exam ni hua to firse private school join kar dungi , bus itna time mangti hu .
Ye ni ki guest le ao bulake , tea banao tea banao ,
Seriously sabko support to karna padta h
Exam clear karke hi shadi karni chahiye thi. In-laws kabhi kisi ke sage nahi hote. Aisi umeed rakhke shadi karna bevakoofi hai!!!
Aap kaha the sir itne din... Kaash shadi ke time se apko suna hota, life much bttr handle kar pati. God bless you sir
No. 1 CLARITY GIVER 🎉
Please share video link of WFH options to keep house ladies engaged
Sir very nice video.. but please share your views what to do when wife wants to work but husband and inlaws says no.. there is no need of u working ..
if you are working and not contributing to family, they will obviously ask you to stop, if a men earns and not provides for family will you accept, similarly go earn and contribute to family and growth of family then lets see which inlaw is stopping.
@@rohi1255 In my case after three generations working I have realised that even though the wife takes care of her own expenses and kid's expenses it is a great help. And if she is financially independent but emotionally matured it is an added advantage
@@nitinbaxi9579 yes , women should be made to contribute to family
Yes my father never spend a penny on me and my sister but my mother did@@nitinbaxi9579
I m taking tuitions...... Per mere husband her time harassment kerte hain..... Bolte hain ki kaam mat ker.....bani firti hai padhi likhi.....etc etc.....pareshaan ho jaati hun
Aap unse extra paise pucho ...use lagna chahiye mahgai bhad Rahi hai
Really the great video sir ji...
Sir salute to you... greatest video of RUclips 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Beautiful video and mind opening video. Thank you so much...
Ww
Taiyaar hoooooonnnnn....❤🙏🌺
Most honest video
True story from many houses.....but sometimes atleast in my house....whenever my mom wants to work and tell that in my house to my father......all he said is...... why now??? Take care of the house ....it's enough. Isn't my income enough???? Why are u so money minded? Etc..... she studied law by the way....and now don't remember anything about it.
yes..I want to do any work..please guide me .I am 60 years old .
Living in the West where we get no help for housework, working more than full-time while managing all the housework, highly educated, and with my husband, I have raised a well-educated and very hardworking confident kid. Guess what the family members living in India judge me for? The quality of my housework! After my husband, you are probably the wisest person I have encountered.
I most like ur great ideas Sir
Good advice, thanks sir
Very very very very true
Absolutely truth sir most women are clever and wiser than their husband but they won't earn money by self-employed or small business or job they are just finding a reason rather than solution. They just follow their housewife's mother blindly.
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Sir u explained wife should work. Pls also make video wife should also financially contribute and participate in home expenses with husband.
Exactly
Women work only for their wolet and that can creat unrest with husband. I don't support women to work. Wife should manage the house, it is nota small responsibility. Those women who go to work out side, how their home remain a sweet home ? Children don't get care. Whole family remains disturbed for every thing required for living. It is a bullshit idea, it destroys the family
Very TRUE analysis Sir.
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Kya kya km kr sakte hai?
wisdom.
agar wife job kare to in laws ko samajhna chahiye. if couple is living then husband should also help her in household chores. if MIL is living with couple, MIL should help.
society still expects DILs to do every household chores irrespective of what job she does
This increases inflation eventually two jobs both persons will need like in usa and other advanced countries
50k is quite big money per month .. What are the ways we females can earn so much
Home kitchen hotel with online orders,Toy making,children sweater making,ladies blouse stichting,tiffin service,ladies wedding photography,bangle selling,pickle making in home style,home made ghee from cow milk,Papad making home made,soap making,tooth paste making,shampoo home made,home made hair oil,home made shikakai,home made face wash powder,etc..These business can be opened by housewives by making their own home as centre of commerce and earn a very decent income of 30k to 3lakh per month depending on demand supply equation,skills,management,communication and smart marketing strategy.
Software development
Hats off to ur vision ..Ww
V. True , sir.
I chanced upon your video 'by chance' and have since then watched quite a few more back to back. I have been married for almost 3 decades. Personally speaking I think I was ahead of my times in my views on life. What you are advising this generation was what I thought then. I was working before I got married in a very reputed multi-national. After delivery I was forced to give up all in the name of womenhood - motherhood - sacrifice. As you have correctly mentioned in your various videos, I bacame bitter...irritable....unhappy which led to a very toxic atmosphere in my house because I never wanted to lead a life of a housewife or a homemaker. Once my children reached grade 10, I started taking up small assignments from family and friends (like doing some content writing for their social media accounts to Business Development and communication for some startups) and did it pro-bono just to keep my mind occupied. Now after a gap of 25 years I am working full time for an IT company and earning my 'pocket money'. It is very important to keep your mind occupied constructively as empty mind being a devil's workshop keeps dwelling on the past and does not let you to let go of things. As a human it does sadden me at times when I see my colleagues reach the level of department heads and I am working as a junior under a manager who is half my age!!
Thank u sir
Sir, कामकाजी महिलाओं को 7/8 साल तक के बच्चों को पालने का समय नहीं मिलता। अगर सास बहू के साथ नहीं रह रही है तो क्या उपाय है।
Nanny, japa maid!!
I am looking for a work from home but nothing is going to materialize as yet
Sahi kaha aapne Sir ladies ko bhi kaam karna chahiye
And sath hi larkon ko unhe ghar ke kaam me support karna chahiye. Tabhi ye possible hai!!
I am public relation officr. Own house own car and rental property i have but need more
please make a video on idea.
Great video
Tussi great ho......
Yes sir
Sir India ka 18 percent b pakistan k 19 and bangladesh k 34 percent se ziyada h if you consider the percentage with respect to population. From Pakistan.
Hello sir, i am a housewife and i want to work and I never complaint about all the issues mentioned in your video, am not saying that I am perfect but, 90-95 percent things that u hv mentioned in ur video i do not complaint about but my husband always demotivates me about working, Jo kaam main karna chahti hun uske liye hamesha hatasha haat lagti hai, Ghar mein kalesh karke kaise kaam Karu, i really really want to work, but no support frm husband. He earns very well but he hardly gives some amount to me, like 1/10 bhi nahi, unki pocket mein se Lena mujhe acha nahi lagta, kaam wo mujhe karne nahi dete, main kya karoon. Sir 16 yrs ho gaye marriage ko, bohot kuch hua hai in 16 yrs mei, bohot compromise and adjust Kiya, ya karne ki koshish ki, lekin ab financial independence and freedom chahti hun, sir pls find me a way out, pls help
Oh my god
Mjh to Aisa LG rh jse y same meri story likh di aapne
Mere mann ki baat kr di ho
Main kse earn kar skti hu apni respect n earning m bs din raat yhi sochti rehti hu
Where do u live?
15:20 Aman Dhatarwal is not harmed in this video. 😂 Tu phodega!! 😂😂
Amazing
Please explain work for women
" Jo bahar kaam karti hai na unke ghar bhi nahi ujad rahe "
Great… WW 👍🏻
WOMEN WEBINAR
please make video for after retirement life
To bhai yahaa. Engineers / doctors ko he job nahi.
Women ko kahaa job milegi.
We are so over populated.
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Sir definitely woman's ko kaam karna chahiye
V true
What does your wife do
Hum karenge naukri no to berojgaari 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😂😂
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Sir, my wife know about your opinion, but she is unwilling
Promise her that you will help her in household works and will intervene whenever your parents will abuse her for going out to work. Promise her that you will help her in remaining house work when she will come back from work. If she will go straight to kitchen after coming from work, and you will chill on sofa with tea and food, then she is not stupid to take additional work in her life.
Naukri miltee ni
WW 🙏
TAX VIDEO N WW PLEASE
Women webinar
Will do
Aur mere parents tution nhi padhane dete😤😤😤😤
Whyyy 🤔🤔🤔
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Kaan tatte Matlab garam.ho jayenge 😂
Ww plz..
Sir, इतनी चुगली करती हैं सब, शर्म भी नही आती😮