How To Reduce Or Avoid Bitterness In Life ?

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2022
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  • @chandanamaitra5692
    @chandanamaitra5692 Год назад +174

    Bht sahi bola apne..... I am 50....bht saal maa k khne pr sb shti gyi... Apna sb kuch sacrifice type ka kr dia.. Pr ankhen khuli during covid.. Itna kaam and no help... Tang aa gyi me.. I started my career again.... God helped me... Working since 2020 .. After 20 years... Bht bht khush hu... Shikayat nhi Kro. Apne comfort zone se bahar ao... Beautiful Life is waiting for you

    • @jityensharma3832
      @jityensharma3832 Год назад +2

      As all ways very nice knowledge sir... Kindly make a video on employer and employee.

    • @indu192
      @indu192 Год назад +1

      Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏 great words this is fact we all are in same condition aabhar Dil se 🙏🙏

    • @joyfullifepractice9269
      @joyfullifepractice9269 Год назад +3

      Bhut acha lgaa aapke liye

    • @mamtalele5674
      @mamtalele5674 Год назад

      Awesome

    • @preetiscorner8853
      @preetiscorner8853 Год назад +1

      Kaun sa business start kiya apne?

  • @shimankumaheshwari6904
    @shimankumaheshwari6904 Год назад +36

    Topic is good...sir you have identified the problem well...but more solutions are needed...some suggestions:
    1 Go to a govt hospital and see the patients and staff...when you see so much suffering patients and see that still world goes on your pain may ease (I am a doctor)...
    2 Give charity...give simple Parle G biscuits to ten needy people/beggars whatever...do this regularly...biscuits worth 100-200 rs per week...you may feel better...
    3 stay away from news channels, political, religion news , messages, forwards etc...
    4 learn to play a musical instrument...not just listening to music...
    5 play with small children at home if they are around...
    6 go for morning walk daily...
    7 eat more fresh fruits/vegetables (salad)

  • @astharatawal9783
    @astharatawal9783 2 года назад +36

    Sir, my husband started seeing your videos. Fir mujhe dikhaya, ab pura ghar dekh raha hai. Just awesome. Ek ek baat sach!

  • @geetachourasia3045
    @geetachourasia3045 Год назад +18

    I have these bitterness in my life... To remove these I hear songs to change my mood. At least for sometime I forget my worries. Thank God we have nights when we can sleep and forget everythings. Who knows next day maybe better than today. Hope is life. 😊

  • @butterflybush8981
    @butterflybush8981 Год назад +29

    Yes - you're 100% right about "psychological issues lead to physical problems".

    • @JyoSco007
      @JyoSco007 Год назад +1

      It's a spiritual truth - The body follows the mind.

  • @jaishriiyer1563
    @jaishriiyer1563 7 месяцев назад +9

    Big time Urja 😊. I am a working woman of this generation and I completely agree and relate to what you said sir. I have seen my mother and grandma just working all the time in kitchen, managing home,kids and men think that's their duty. Indian men are not raised to connect emotionally with the females of the family - mother, sister or wife. I see that it is changing now with more women working and taking care of themselves and dont give a damn about men.
    Women need to prioritise themselves, dont wait for someone else to take care of you. You are your own boss. Order from a good restaurant once a week if you dont want to cook, go out on a spa day. Relax your body. Keep a maid if you can afford and if you are working. Go for a walk, watch a funny series. Take break, rest your body and mind. We are as special as anyone else in this world. Self care is the best care.
    On an ending note, I would like to say the same thing to men as well. Don't work so hard to impress your boss. Your family is more important than the boss.
    We are forgetting self care and family time in this time. Just money and no health is zero happiness.

  • @richasharma5342
    @richasharma5342 Год назад +15

    Uncle apke jaise parents agr sabke ho jayein humari generation ki zindagi hi bdl jayegi aur depression se hum sab door ho jayenge. Meri soch bilkul apke jaisi hai... I accidentally came across your channel n m your new subscriber.
    N yes URJA mil rahi hai😊🙏

    • @gopalmali1087
      @gopalmali1087 5 месяцев назад

      Same I also think 90% like this..now got confirmation 😅😊😊

  • @kalpanakadiyan
    @kalpanakadiyan Год назад +52

    I loved what you said. My sister in law ...worked very hard n lost her health....i was always compared to her ....but i was this modern woman who thought it was better to earn well and keep a help. I am in good health today and my SIL ...has many health issues. I love the fact that you have the courage to say it as it is. Keep doing the good work. I felt really good today....thinking i did the right thing.....and that everyone who compared me with my SIL and how hard working she was were wrong.

    • @anik1614
      @anik1614 Год назад +11

      You are absolutely right. Apni samajh se chalna chahiye. Do not become the football of other's opinion. Naye raaste par chalne Wale ko criticism toh jhelna hi parta hai.

    • @cheemaokeree
      @cheemaokeree Год назад +11

      It is not an apple to apple comparison always. May be, it was not her mistake but her situations and sacrifice. May be, you might not have been able to do as well in her situation. So be kind to all, everyone has a different story.

  • @nehaankolekar3621
    @nehaankolekar3621 Год назад +20

    Sir, you said very right thing helplessness and hopelessness. Bitterness comes when life seems out of your control. Bringing back control is d remedy to bitterness. Thank you🙏🙏

  • @jonam2608
    @jonam2608 Год назад +64

    Sir thank you for being our friend, philosopher and guide! Breath of fresh air in today's spiritually and socially polluted life!

  • @kiransharma7848
    @kiransharma7848 Год назад +9

    Me myself next month going for a knee replacement. I'm 61. Sure life is bitter till date. 🙃 I love this word ' Heplessness

  • @pranatipatra23
    @pranatipatra23 Год назад +13

    Take away: Acknowledge the helplessness
    Use resources to overcome and feel good
    Accept yourself with broader perspective and general situation
    Like shatter your illusion that only you are unfortunate to suffer
    Take knowledge and practice and observe the positive difference .

    • @geetham8967
      @geetham8967 10 месяцев назад

      great to see your summary thanks 👍

  • @ushakshirsagar3466
    @ushakshirsagar3466 Год назад +6

    सर, ये आपने बिल्कुल सही कहा की 1950 वाली औरतों में बहुत ज्यादा कड़वाहट भरी है। मेरी सास का जन्म 1947 साल का है। वो हमेशा बडबड करती रहती है और ना जाने क्यों नाखुश रहती है। मैं उनके तानों से परेशान हूं। लेकिन मेरे पति मुझे ध्यान न देने की सलाह देते हैं। जो हरबार तो मुमकिन नहीं है। उनकी शादी 14 साल की उम्र में हो गई थी और 25 की उम्र में 4 बच्चे हो गये थे । मेरी तो शादी ही 26 साल की उम्र में हुई। अब उनकी सास ने उनसे कैसा बर्ताव किया इसके लिए मैं भला कैसे जिम्मेदार हूं....? और तो और उनके पति में और उनमें उम्र का अंतर 17 साल था यानी कि 31 साल का दुल्हा ..... जब के हमारा age gap 5 साल का है। मेरे ससुरजी की मृत्यु हुए 27 साल बीत चुके हैं, मेरी शादी से कुछ साल पहले लेकिन मन की नाराज़गी मुझे बातों से महसूस होती है।
    URJA

    • @DonthekeyforJ
      @DonthekeyforJ Год назад

      Ek baar apne saas ko gale lagaakar dekho. Shayad unki andar bhari hui dukh bahar behkar Kam ho jaaye. She needs an acknowledgement that yes there was pain. Tell her you understand.

    • @ushakshirsagar3466
      @ushakshirsagar3466 Год назад +2

      @@DonthekeyforJ
      धन्यवाद चिनू.... आपकी मासूमियत भरी reply के लिए...
      लेकिन वो बहुत खुसट और लड़ाकू है। एक बार उनकी कलाई को मेरी उंगलियां touch हुई। क्यों कि हम ने एक साथ दूध का बर्तन उठाना चाहा । मेरे हाथ गीले नहीं थे और ना गंदे थे पर उन्होंने आंखे बड़ी कर मुझे देखा और मेरे सामने एक टॉवल निकाला और रगड़कर साफ करने लगी । और कुछ बडबड करने लगी । ऐसे व्यक्ति को क्या गले लगाना ..... मेरे पति बिल्कुल असाह्य महसूस करते हैं। वे चूप रहते हैं। लेकिन उनसे ५ साल बड़ा भाई आधे घंटे की दुरी पर परिवार के साथ रहता है। वो अपनी मां को साल में दो बार गणपति उत्सव और लक्ष्मी पूजन के दिन ४-५ घंटे ही लेकर जाता है। जेठानी से उनकी नहीं बनती। मेरे पति भी ये बात मानते हैं कि उनकी मां का स्वभाव विचित्र है। लेकिन वे कहते हैं कि मां ने जन्म दिया है। अगर दोनों भाई एकसे हो जाये तो क्या उसे वृद्धाश्रम में डाल दूं ...? किसी एक को तो धैर्य दिखाना होगा और उसकी अर्धांगिनी को भी.... शादी में साथ निभाने का वचन जो दिया है। तो हमारे घर में साथ निभाना साथिया ये सिरियल चलता रहता है...

  • @bubmumluv
    @bubmumluv Год назад +6

    Sir, hats off really this is the story of my in-laws family. And seriously because of my husband & my in-laws I think I am also turning bitter.

  • @diptipatel3833
    @diptipatel3833 Год назад +5

    Haa yhi hota hai. 60's ki saas yhi kheti thi. Ham to bukhar ME bhi kaam krte the to tum kyu nhi kr sakti. Yane unhone jo saha vo tumko bhi sahena hi hai

  • @indukhurana1738
    @indukhurana1738 Год назад +5

    You have said it in a very precise manner. Arthritis is a direct consequence of family burden and help lesness. on ladies specifically.even doctors are prescribing to avoid bitterness if you want a healthy life for the rest of the life. Superb analysis. Thank you for awakening the society.

  • @priyankadhar2325
    @priyankadhar2325 Год назад +10

    Meri mother in law ko arthritis hai..c don’t forget & forgive..c fight with everyone..husband, brother,brother’s wife, 3 sons, 3 bahus, her mother in law,her bhabhi,her devar,neighbor,friends,bahus family…c has many health issues..c fights with everone..her hobby is fighting..

    • @poonamsoni-cr1rr
      @poonamsoni-cr1rr Год назад +2

      😄

    • @DonthekeyforJ
      @DonthekeyforJ Год назад +1

      May be there is some fact in what she's saying. Don't go by public opinion. Observe carefully if you really love her.

    • @onehappytortoise
      @onehappytortoise 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hobby is fighting 😂😂

  • @Phoenix77766
    @Phoenix77766 Год назад +3

    Love the tongue-in-cheek manner in which you put those unspoken truths out there!😊

  • @saraswathiab5995
    @saraswathiab5995 Год назад +1

    Beautiful talk.May be an eye opener for many.Thank you.

  • @alkadeshpande6628
    @alkadeshpande6628 Год назад +4

    actually you have solved our puzzle because we were wondering why our children are so ill mannered when we were so obidient and 'sanskari!'

  • @sudhasharma4212
    @sudhasharma4212 Год назад +4

    Aapke thoughts bht clear hai.
    Ultimate 🙏🙏

  • @sachindatt4045
    @sachindatt4045 2 года назад +6

    Simple and profound!

  • @kiransharma7848
    @kiransharma7848 Год назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom & educating all Appreciate you.🙏🌺

  • @imho99s89
    @imho99s89 Год назад +6

    My mother in law and sister in law who is just 2 yrs older took a lot of hardship mostly out of dependency social n financial and when I did not do the same, my "Sanskars" were questioned by the same ladies and then later on picked up by mens in the family.

  • @om6980
    @om6980 Год назад +7

    Itna raw and useful content youtube kea zindegi me peheli bar mil rahi hai! Thank you sir 🙏 God bless u

  • @viveksangwan9640
    @viveksangwan9640 2 года назад +25

    The content is so good uncle ji…really appreciate your work🙌🏼

  • @AshuRajdor
    @AshuRajdor Год назад +11

    Your videos have touched a topic that is rarely discussed in the society and which is affecting personal lives of so many people. Thanks for atleast starting this and trying to give solution to it.

  • @diprajbehere1327
    @diprajbehere1327 Год назад +3

    Yes sir we get energise and inspired while lisening. Thank you sir.

  • @edeboor
    @edeboor Год назад +3

    Sir, bohot practical gyan hai aapka. Hats off to you!

  • @shejwalkarhemant3110
    @shejwalkarhemant3110 Год назад +3

    Sirji, you have brute strength to talk about things with such an honesty and clarity.

  • @kamakshisaxena8808
    @kamakshisaxena8808 Год назад +8

    Hello Sir your videos are too good . Since 1 year I was dealing with many things and everyone used to shut me out but today when I am hearing you it feels so right and good .

  • @pushpakhaitan1044
    @pushpakhaitan1044 Год назад +5

    Yes it's true. What u r saying. I'm suffering fm many ailments. Due to not being able to talk and express myself.
    Now I'm fiercely open in my thoughts.

  • @archanaverma9976
    @archanaverma9976 Год назад +36

    Sir, I can relate each and every word of yours to me.I was married when I was 22 and I had to look after my kids as well as my in laws (no support from their side) since then.And this helplessness continued forever.Whenever I tried to make my point,I was declared 'sanskarheen' bahu.My health issues started when I was only 32. I have taken treatment of more than 16 docters but my condition is not much improved and I know this is because of stress I have gone through.Yes,sir your videos give us that ऊर्जा which inspire us a lot . Thanks for making such unique content,🙏

    • @pollytheparrot8929
      @pollytheparrot8929 Год назад +2

      So sorry to hear about your story.. Regarding your health you can try Ayurvedic treatment.. Thers a Ayurveda shala called ' Kottakal Arya Vaidyasala'.. It's from Kerala..they have branches all over in India..they have their doctor..you can consult and take treatment..It's very good and recommended. . There are many other Arya Vidya Salas.. But I feel Kottakal one is genuine

    • @archanaverma9976
      @archanaverma9976 Год назад

      @@pollytheparrot8929 thanks

    • @pollytheparrot8929
      @pollytheparrot8929 Год назад +1

      @@archanaverma9976 Most welcome.. You might not see immediate effect with their treatment, but in time you will.. Tc😊❤

    • @simply_wow3593
      @simply_wow3593 Год назад

      I have tears in my eyes 😢 reading ur story.. may ur future life be very beautiful

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el Год назад

  • @ajaykumar-banker
    @ajaykumar-banker 9 месяцев назад +5

    Extremely insightful video.All bitterness springs for helplessness in the present & hopelessness for the future. A certain lack of control over life's circumstances. A nugget of wisdom. Understanding it and taking charge of other areas will help us cope with one's bitterness and frustration and live a life of peace with ourself.

  • @mamtaSingh-mu8qx
    @mamtaSingh-mu8qx Год назад +1

    Great advice . Very commendable social service

  • @Sarkaribehanji
    @Sarkaribehanji Год назад +3

    True.. my mother has this bitterness.. and I can connect very well.

  • @shakuntalajena6309
    @shakuntalajena6309 Год назад

    Absolutely right video,gone through all these situations

  • @GnyanSaagar
    @GnyanSaagar Год назад +7

    Sir, you have great knowledge in several subjects and the best thing is your capability to explain. Keep up the great work in improving the society standards.

  • @ashrafnm2448
    @ashrafnm2448 Год назад +12

    This is a talk from senior friend. This will solve many of our problems.

  • @raghurams131
    @raghurams131 Год назад +5

    Vey wise and nice soothing to all those who suffer mentally. Ur talks like this on various topics should for sure reduce stress and depression in ladies May u please continue to talk on such very subtle topics Thank u

  • @baijuv3
    @baijuv3 Год назад +5

    Nurture good sanskara of Live and let Live without being too judgemental of others. keep learning, form new ideas without being contradicted will keep bitterness out naturally. Good topic Amitji.

  • @amrutak4945
    @amrutak4945 7 месяцев назад +2

    Very true Sir 🙏👏 Once you take responsibility for your life and get out of the helpless-hopeless state, you can actually move to the next level in your life.

  • @nileshpatil586
    @nileshpatil586 Год назад

    Beautiful video Amit Sir.. Urja aur wisdom hai aapki baaton me.. contemporary issues par aapke perspectives bade anokhe hote hai.. kaafi samanya baate hai.. par Jo acknowledge nahi hoti hai.. more power to you

  • @vandanarai7018
    @vandanarai7018 9 месяцев назад

    Mahtvapurn jaankaari! Dhanyavad, Sir! 🙏

  • @neetujain1324
    @neetujain1324 Год назад

    Absolutely the truth....I'm loving all the videos

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Год назад +3

    You explain so well

  • @gurmilankaur9162
    @gurmilankaur9162 Год назад

    Mind - blowing Message 👍

  • @NeerajKumar-rl8cz
    @NeerajKumar-rl8cz Год назад +4

    Sir ji....JAAT hote hi hai urjawaan kyonki ye reality ko acknowledge karte hai....isliye inki originality se URJA milti hai....u r a realman

  • @satvikasingh81
    @satvikasingh81 Год назад +1

    Uncle it's 100% TRUE what u r saying!

  • @RekhaSharma-ye3ut
    @RekhaSharma-ye3ut Год назад

    mere ko to bshot urja mili great sir ji . ap ekdm papa jese samjate ho.

  • @aartibhalla845
    @aartibhalla845 Год назад

    Your video is definitely showing the reality of present times. Your are vocally telling the actual reasons for men or women turning bitter.

  • @poonamgrover8116
    @poonamgrover8116 Год назад

    so helpful and important issues you are taking. very nice.

  • @santoshthakur5491
    @santoshthakur5491 Год назад +2

    Very nice video, I agree with you.

  • @pdbelle
    @pdbelle 11 месяцев назад

    The way you explain life topics in depth is a fresh approach. Thanks

  • @indubalasoni4894
    @indubalasoni4894 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Bhaisab aane to jeene ka rasta bta diya,aaj aapki jarurat h samaj me.

  • @maildrpritishukla
    @maildrpritishukla Год назад +2

    Unique insights 👍

  • @wtkc1290
    @wtkc1290 Год назад +1

    Urja hi urja . Sir, you give us a new way of thinking.

  • @nehapremmohan7609
    @nehapremmohan7609 Год назад +1

    Aap itni easily kaise explain kardete ho sir heads off to you❤️🙏🙏

  • @sachinjain9165
    @sachinjain9165 Год назад

    Thanks Sir for sharing knowledge 🙏

  • @ashakothari7905
    @ashakothari7905 Год назад +2

    Sir..when the daughter is not being heard and understood and discriminated against Son and Daughter in law...it leads to helplessness and hopelessness...and time flies leading to bitterness

  • @bappadityasaha9229
    @bappadityasaha9229 11 месяцев назад

    thank u sir for making this video.
    ur statements will remove many misunderstandings in our society

  • @priyasimon1140
    @priyasimon1140 Год назад +2

    Excellent analysis 👍👍👍

  • @chetnakikan1526
    @chetnakikan1526 Год назад +1

    👌👌👌 Realy a positivity booster video

  • @indusingh9265
    @indusingh9265 Год назад

    V true...each & every lines🙏

  • @krishansandhu984
    @krishansandhu984 Год назад

    Very much true awesome video

  • @veenaramesh6473
    @veenaramesh6473 Год назад +1

    Very well analysed nd well said......nd I also appreciate ur style of presentation 👌

  • @crimsonlyyours
    @crimsonlyyours 7 месяцев назад

    Very true sir. Every word is extremely right on.

  • @alkasharma2399
    @alkasharma2399 Год назад

    सटीक जानकारी दी 🙏👍

  • @GajendraSingh-yk3pu
    @GajendraSingh-yk3pu Год назад +2

    Very nice & useful videos 👏👏👍

  • @Avarniya
    @Avarniya 8 месяцев назад

    आप वास्तव में एक सकारात्मक माइंडसेट समाज में ला रहे है, कोटि कोटि प्रणाम,

  • @dkbaghel123
    @dkbaghel123 Год назад

    bitterness causing arthritis is a very good input, i never knew this was a scientific finding and mostly affects women.

  • @saranginag2290
    @saranginag2290 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for ur valuable advice sir.

  • @shakilamohammedi8049
    @shakilamohammedi8049 Год назад

    Very much true..... Hatts off

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Год назад

    Yes it’s always better to talk frankly n to the point

  • @shrikantmama52
    @shrikantmama52 7 месяцев назад

    Superb... ऊर्जा मिलती है

  • @sreenathatirunarayanapura9296
    @sreenathatirunarayanapura9296 9 месяцев назад

    Wonderful message

  • @anitavijay1295
    @anitavijay1295 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sir you are right. I also feel this now after watching your video. We should do something about this only then can we live peacefully and happily😊🙏Thank you for motivating people like us to understand our problems 🙏🙏

  • @ArjunGolar
    @ArjunGolar 7 месяцев назад +1

    URJA - You are just awesome !!!

  • @rimashah3901
    @rimashah3901 Год назад

    Excellent video made to address the v common topics of life that is un told till date

  • @alaypatel6050
    @alaypatel6050 Год назад

    Very good and relavent topic😊😊😊

  • @sharbanichatterjee5053
    @sharbanichatterjee5053 Год назад

    Yes ,you are right.

  • @svgco2021
    @svgco2021 Год назад +1

    Very insightful video. Also quite entertaining 🙂🙂

  • @simpleliving3505
    @simpleliving3505 Год назад +1

    You are right sir 👏

  • @power.88
    @power.88 9 месяцев назад +1

    Shandar sir😮

  • @520610732
    @520610732 Год назад

    Wah... Outstanding sir

  • @shipragarg321
    @shipragarg321 Год назад

    Sir u are right..i faced the situation from many years..now few months i realise and trying to sort out all

  • @parimalbharti3794
    @parimalbharti3794 2 года назад

    Thanks sir, good addicted to your daily videos.....

  • @shwetaangadi4957
    @shwetaangadi4957 Год назад +1

    We have at home , we use it for baby food grains grinding.... I am from Karnataka

  • @dj4583
    @dj4583 7 месяцев назад

    This video was bang on bitterness. Helplessness is the source of it and not acknowledging it is the biggest mistake which people generally do. This was powered pack conversation.

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Год назад

    I’m so lucky to come across your Videos

  • @rupalidhall7358
    @rupalidhall7358 Год назад

    Absolutely true 👍

  • @nagalakshmi7574
    @nagalakshmi7574 Год назад

    iam very thankful to u to listen such a good information urza karthi hoo
    iam not that much peefect i n Hindi words thank u

  • @manilaverma9013
    @manilaverma9013 Год назад +1

    Yes very true..

  • @poornimaverma8853
    @poornimaverma8853 Год назад

    You r right about bitterness and arthritis.

  • @Roopa_shankaR
    @Roopa_shankaR 9 месяцев назад

    You are the best sir. Excellent videos

  • @supersristhi5241
    @supersristhi5241 Месяц назад

    U hit the bull's eye sir...
    Very right said... Every small things in our life.. Causes bitterness..
    Aur hume patta hi nahi hota..why we irritated or frustrated..most of the time!!
    Excellent sir.. Like always u did!! 🙏

  • @cpvenkatanathanparthasarat4182
    @cpvenkatanathanparthasarat4182 7 месяцев назад

    Useful guidance. Will benefit if followed in stages.

  • @DrNasirHussain
    @DrNasirHussain Год назад

    Very good article

  • @anilkawade3674
    @anilkawade3674 Год назад

    Very nice and practical