Career For The Girl Child Part 1 | Four Factors To Be Considered | Izzat Or Khushi | A New Approach
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
- In this video some factors while selecting career for girls are discussed. How the conventional approach may longer work.
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This is one of the most beautiful takes on this issue and is applicable to everyone.
Your daughter is very lucky to have you as a father, much love and respect 🙏🏼
I am a ptv school teacher working since the age of 21... Now m 30... Though I don't earn much but m satisfied cz teaching is such job which gives you respect plus tym for ur family... 9 to 3 job is best for someone who has to manage the household work as well..
Though started as a good video, I would like to differ, that if the girl gets married early in her carrier, before settling her foot into the career, and earning too else getting married to a high salaried guy, it is very likely that the money she brings into the family would mean nothing, and they would show her the pros to leave the job, once she has left the job, there are chances that she gets exploited at every level. There is an age to set your foundation in your career that is between 24-30, once this age is gone it never comes back. You cannot do the same do that at the age of 35 or 40 once you realize your mistake or life take an untoward turn. In technology-oriented jobs you need to update yourself technologically everyday, out of the market even for a year means you cannot go back there again it can be very very difficult and you would be exploited to the fullest if at all anyone gives a chance
Lately, we had PhD entrance exams in our university. There were a lot of female candidates of age 40 and higher willing to do PhD and do better salaried jobs in the future. The problem was that they spent last 10-15 years raising up kids. They could not answer a single technical question. Honestly, we had to reject all of them. Not a single female was selected. My heart ached for them. They really were interested and travelled from long distances but technology is advancing so quickly that it takes only a little time to become outdated. They had done their BTechs 10-15 years back and then became busy with the family, settling with a low income job. Wouldn't it be better if they spent some more time right after their BTech/MTech, got a fulfilling job sustainable for lifetime and then marry. Particularly, if any child want to be a doctor/doctorate, it will take a significant time of their youth. That is a discussion for debate whether we need more doctors and scientists. If yes, and if we want female doctors and scientists, I guess marrying at 23/24 ain't going to happen.
@@scholarsteachys3223 so true, completely agree
परिवर्तन संसार का नियम है l समय के साथ साथ अपनी सोच को बदलना बहुत आवश्यक है l
Right 👍
Much needed to teach both masculine and feminine life skills optimally to both genders or simply respect and nurture both masculine as well as feminine traits in both genders and it has to come from the thought developed in the culture. Great effort to.🙏🏼🙏🏼🌻
No one is telling this perspective 🙏 this is todays generations need
The article is good but the role changing is taking place in the society and I know many couples where girl is in transferable job and husband is doing or not doing a job and moving with wife.
bro thats not gona work in long term
Is he happy no
Maybe a handful in the whole nation 😇
@@aena5995 I never said and is a firm believer of equal partners in every sense.
Yes, it is happening, though in rare cases. I know 2 friends of mine who moved abroad for their higher education and their husbands relocated for them and searched a job there. I am not in touch with them so can't comment if they are happy or not. But both the girls are publishing world class papers. After completing my education and looking for a partner, this was the biggest issue for me. My community is quite conventional and I was clearly told that no boy will relocate for me. By God's grace, I married in another caste with an old friend, with same educational qualification. We both left our jobs and searched a new job together in a new city. Males are changing for better and are taking lead for their wives. The world is changing.
A worthwhile discussion topic and a need of the day since the institution of marriage is slowly crumbling in India
Sir carrer ladkiyo ko khud chunna chaiye. Kyuki wo hi decide kar sakte hai unke liye kya best hai. Ghar ke kaam me koi respect nahi hai. Ye nature ka rule hai jis kaam me respect milti hai log wo hi karte hai.
Har ladki to apna carrer decide karne ka pura haq hai. Hume shadi karni hai baccha karna hai ye soch kar carrer compromise nahi kar sakte.
Really appreciate. He is discussing the actual and practical issues.
Good video. Excellent presentation.
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Sorry typo, I meant if the girl earns too less, and the guy earns too high, they would always advocate and hound the girl to leave the job and look after the home, and the girl falls for it, but then her explotation starts, what I meant is set your foot, your foundation into your job before getting married
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Yes...and this divine activity should be done by both genders
Yes this is very true..
Great info! Joy and peace of mind are way important than respect/status in job. Please share more info related to this subject if possible :)
This will get lot of clarity to parents and girls mind ..
U picked very relevant social issue, related to every family. Pls throw more light, by making more videos on this issue. My daughter is all set to become excellent PGT (in a Natural Science subject). But it is very painful to see that even reputed schools are offering start of just Rs.35K, to brilliant Freshers, who have undergone 7 year study after schooling. However, she may expect good alliance proposals, as High School Teacher is a preferred category.
Even doctors are earning on this scale. 30- 35k. Engineers earn about 10k in the start phase
Even engineers are earning 20-30k to start with, however they can double triple within couple of years with good experience and skills.. key is consistency and develop business ready skills.
Aap ekdam practical baat karte ho
Very nice sir. I agree with you. I have only girl child. She is a housewife and married to a network engineer in Cisco usa. She is living happily. She studied b.com mba from local jind
Sir, I bow before your knowledge and experience. Great job.
Amazing series. We need more videos on this issue.
Very nicely articulated and very practical advice
Excellent and very practical!
More than money sir it’s about attitude also..Even if girls is earning v high..guys say you will have to take care of my family,cooking,then my parents also if they want to shift with me Toh have to be ok with that also..this is also a problem
Swati , Men view Women differently than what Women view Men.
Men want a Homemaker first and then an earner.
Women Want an Earner first and then other things.
In prehistoric era , Men would hunt and women would copulate to have kids with that Man only so that his resources are secured by her.
Sir i m a 42 yr doctor having two girl kids....in medical theres lots of competition and both thr time i had operation delivery......both the time after my operation i litraly started working back in my prectice with in 5 to 7 days nt coz i couldnt take break but i DIDNOT WANT TO take maternity break thinkng that if i sit at home for 6 months i will b very behind in my career of privet prectice and my husband and my parents supported me a lot and i do have good domestic help.....but kai factor hote hai femaile ki career main.....bahot firm rahna padta hai aage badhne ke liye
Doctors have a different life altogether. They are exceptional. Being a full fledged doctor including MBBS and a PG degree will take 10 years of your life that too needing full focus and effort. My elder brother is MS in ENT. Even being a male, his journey has been full of struggles. Doctors sacrifice their sleep, hunger, leisure time & sometimes life [COVID time] everything for their patients. Being a female doctor, in my opinion is one of the toughest profession. I think that the prospects being discussed in the videos are in general and not applicable to a few outstanding individuals who are way too firm about who they want to be.
Sir, ek aur ladka ladki wala comparison hai ki ladkiyon ko saare shauk palne hai addiction of cigarettes, alcohol, and social media pe showoff bhi karna hai ki we are equal to men in these things too.
Yeh dono ko hi nhi karna chahiye but ladke kar rhe hai toh hum bhi karenge coz "choriyan choro se kum nhi hai". 😂
Well thought of topic with a sincerety of approach . Do help out all the parents in this most vital factor of life and society of today and future .
Plz keep it up sir..Thank-you for this valuable information
Very well covered and received sir. Please make more videos on this subject.
16:50 perfect said!!
Excellent content sir
Will like to listen more of your advice
Bhut badhiya keep it up sir
Very true fact and clearly apparent on matrimony window shopping sites posted by parents
Government job vaali patni ke non job vaali pati... Patni ke saath saath hi jaate hai aur rahate hai.. Aur bacche bhi pasl rahe hai.. Time ulta ho gaya hai ab..
Amit...well articulated... the topics that u choose are pretty unique...not the run of the mill...great👍👍
Great lessons...
Waiting for more videos sir.
Hats of you sir.. your thoughts are really practical.
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj india ❤
Agree 💯👍👍👍👍👍👍
Its an excellent video. This situation comes in every girls life.
We should talk about these things in society to stop the rat race in jobs.
Yes please do make more vdos on this topic
Thank you sir 😊 nicely explained
Damn realistic approach, Sir...!!
Very good video 👏
Sir please share the ways a girl can earn other than a job and can you please discuss about the important skills in todays time🙏😊
V good, plz continue the discourse
Part-2 is also already out
Topic is apt. More videos are welcome in this series
I saw many vdoz of yours, but i like this vdo very much, very practical approach towards our girl child. Finally subscribed your channel😀
Getting associated. I left my job after marriage.plz share more videos about how to get financially independent for married women . I want to start something being at home.
Why don't you start making some RUclips videos about something that interests you like cooking painting embroidery or any skill that u possess or any knowledge that u have about some specific field? You could make money through social media
I am planning to bounce back to earning through a optimise choice..I have two young kids
What u decided mam?? Please share
Good video also want more videos and also on wrong mindset of comparison. I think comparison is a time wasting exercise just only give your best than before that is the only thing we do. Stop comparing specially male and female.
Very educative and good video sir.
More I watch the marriage series videos... more the risk/reward of getting invested into the idea of a traditional family is becoming clear to me... and sadly my conclusions are going more against the thesis of a traditional marriage and family than I previously had... I guess you would need to up the fomo quotient and turn down the clarity quotient a bit... Too much clarity is becoming a bit counterproductive, atleast for me... This comment is on the marriage series and not just this video.
Yes sir I want to know about it, as I have a daughter
Please provide complete videos as this will help prospective parents as well as maintaining harmony at home
is par aur vdo banae, plz
Sir aajkal property ke liye log flats zyada prefer karte hain because of security. Aapke hisab se which investment is a better option? Pls is topic par bhi video banaye.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 thanks, lekin agar investment ke liye dekhna hai toh plot par bana hua ghar ya floor lena chhahiye ya phir flat ?
Sir ,this is an eye opener for me.
Please do more videos on social issues.
You spoke very well and to the point. We appreciate.
Yes, sure please share more videos for more clarity
You are a real gem..... Please make more videos
Please sir share more videos
Sir ji
More videos banaoo
Thanks sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Please make more videos on it.
Agar Hamare Ghar ke Buddhe bhi aap jaise hote to life me skoon aa jata. Sab soch ka farak hain. #SochBadloLifeBadlo
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Satay vachan maharaj
Well articulated. Looking forward to hearing more about this.
Very good sir. Look forward to more!!
so happy i found this channel
Please continue with the topic and more vedio.
Remarkable
I am waiting for next
God Bless you Sir!
Very good topic
Please make more videos on such topic. These videos are real eye opner.
Sir you are mirror to society.
Thankyou so much for making videos for our wellbeing
Please more episode ❤
Thanks sir
Yes sir i like your Videos and i want more videos related to unmarried and married both the women
Sir keeping making videos on topics whichever you feel are worthy, Someone sometime will definitely need them for guidance 👍💯🇮🇳
Awesome series Sir.
14:42 I have suffered this a lot while looking for girls for marriage.
- Girls who were earning 20k to 30k had an attitude of a celebrity.
- Girls who were only earning 50-70k had an attitude of princess with feminist values.
- Girls with 1lac+ package were talking like they're rare species or some kind of angels.
Since then I lost respect for feminism. Sab dikhawa hai.
Good and practical approach
Sangwan too good buddy....👌👌
Great
I can co relate with you.
Excellent Video
I am very happy to see your vidios.kripaya girls keliye carrier bataiye.
Need more content elaboratively, like this.
Please make more vedios on ideas for earning money for women. I had
been a teacher for 23 years, last year I resigned due to some problems which my children were facing, to support & motivate them ,I took a break. Now I don't want to do the regular teaching in schools. But want to earn some money. Any suggestions will be welcome.
Try making money through social media post videos on RUclips about anything that interests you or any skill you have
एक समय के बाद शादी शादी नही होती जैसे कॉन्ट्रैक्ट और स्वार्थ के आधार पर हो रही है। 30 के बाद ब्यूटीपार्ल वाले लोगो का काम बढ़ जाता है
Buhahahahahaha😂😂😂😂
Well said sir you should go ahead with next video for further clearity
outstanding knowledge sir!
excellent video sir🙏
The problem you are pointing is true, even sadhguru( jaggi vasudev) pointed the same thing that feminine is for aesthetic aspectts and we are killing it…..
A man is telling a woman what to do and how to do.
We women have a lot of strength to determine our best in lives.
Girls -- just educate yourself well, believe in god, and you yourself take care of you lives.
You don't need any advice.
Very apt topic ji
Thanks
Sir your words are practical
Learning for life 😊😊🙏