I am 26 years old now and mera pura teenage and early adult life isse mein WASTE ho gayi. Friends circle me hi sabse individually baat karta tha phone pe, fir society ke friends, college ke, yaha ke waha ke, sometimes in single day. Mera time waste multiple ho jata tha and mujhe bhi bhot maja aata tha. Now all of them are very ahead in life and I am nowhere as they never wasted time as much as me. 🥺🤧
Same case with me sabko sath lekar chlna dosti yaari etc... Jab time nhi dena start kiya to khud hi saare faltu log gayab ho gye... Apna agenda rakho seedhi baat kro that's it
I started following your advice since last year. I don't meet anyone without any agenda. Even during phone conversations with strangers, I ask them why they have called. If I think somebody doesn't add value to my life, I discard them immediately. I have only two friends (including my wife), and even people in my official circle think twice before dialling my number. Thank you Guruji.❤
Ye baat shuru se parents kehte rhe hain. But ab aapne kahi hai or mai jis phase pe khada hu life k wo bilkul sahi maloom apdyi hai. U gave an energy. Thanks 🙏🌹
I understand well this topic.. Even many ladiescwant to meet friends make groups...plan trips..call it enjoying life..bullshiz..no talent..no earning only spendinh husband and children money...sir Pls mke vedio on this kitty party stuck women
Very very relevant video. I have been saying NO a lot nowadays and feel stronger and powerful. But I still get bullied so I will work harder on this now. I read somewhere "NO is a complete sentence." Many times I don't even bother to give an explanation coz the other person will not listen anyway n will criticise you anyway.
नमस्ते सर, बातों में से बात निकलेगी, कोई ना कोई ऐसी बात मुंह से निकल सकती है तो रिश्ते खराब हो सकते हैं, ये बात बहुत बार महसूस की और देखी है, हमेशा की भाँति बहुत ही बढ़िया विस्तृत जानकारी दी है सर आपने ❤🙏
Totally agree, wid u sir some relatives also ask to meet without telling the reason on the phone. After meeting, they make awkward situations, so we can't say no to them and waste our time .
You speak so truly about the topics which many of us used to feel guilty about, even thinking in our minds although going thru the miserable situations. Thank you so much for getting the pressure out .🙏with out fthe feeling of being selfish.
Excellent observations, your points are very relevant and important. I have always been this way and people don't seem to understand but you have reinforced my belief and I thank you for it.
True, Actually from beginning I was very straight forward person, Eg if there is some lesson being taught in school my natural behavior was just to listen, solve answers & do hw, But then some teachers talked to my parents that I am introvert, after that i started talking way more giving time to any bullshit people, One of my teacher who I used to complain about a pencil chor, she as normally many teachers do didn't listen to it seriously while chit chatting with other teachers, and when my parents came to meet her she was like yaa your daughter is very silent I will change her place from that pencil chor, My parents came in changul of such teachers and made my behavior talkative, compelling me to open mouth in front of anyone & everyone Just waste of time young lifetime
Wah kya baat hai Bilkul 100% sach👍yehi sab bhugta hai mene b. Time suckers NE life Mein bada preshan kiya without adding any value to my life 👍your video is mind opening really 👌many has taken advantage of my goodness and wasted my time.😔but I will not allow these time suckers to cheat me more
My husband is a SBI po , kahi pe bhi transfer hota rehta hai unka 3 yrs ka beta hai mera , gharwale said primate school teacher ki job chodo , and fully prepare Karo govt school ke liye , as I am ctet qualified and mera bhi Mann tha , but baad me unki reality pata chali jab i resigned and jethani ka baccha pakda dete mujhe sath me , padhne ni milta as dono bacche same hai , ladte hai , and fir gali galauch , jethani ko govt job hai so sab support kar rahe use , maine mana kiya ki i don't have time to look after ur kid, as i have my own aim in life and i hv to focus on it , this is the high time . Fir mujhe ye mauka ni milega , kuch months ki baat hai , sab jhadge mujhe bole tujhse support ki umeed ni ki jaa sakti ,selfish hai tu etc etc ,... Husband was in my support as only he want me to opt for govt job of a good salary so that he can leave his job and become fulltime trader in share market . Ye video se pata chala ki selfish mai ni wo log hai , jinko mere precious time chahiye aur maine mana kiya to mujhe selfish bolte
Yes,they are selfish..You should focus on yourself,child and hubby.wo log rote h rahenge, because unka mindset hi aisa hai.Time is pressious.Give it to your self🙏
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Lovely & so apt, much needed in today’s time 😇You are simply impeccable.💫We always feel privileged to be sheltered under your guidance 🙏 ✨️
Namaste.. I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. Thank you 🙏
I am 26 years old now and mera pura teenage and early adult life isse mein WASTE ho gayi. Friends circle me hi sabse individually baat karta tha phone pe, fir society ke friends, college ke, yaha ke waha ke, sometimes in single day. Mera time waste multiple ho jata tha and mujhe bhi bhot maja aata tha. Now all of them are very ahead in life and I am nowhere as they never wasted time as much as me. 🥺🤧
Now also you can do and come up in life
True same here
same here
agar main aisa karun toh pehle dost group se bahar nikalenge phir ghar wale ghar se bahar nikalenge, aur kahenge ki GHAMANDI aur EGOIST hogaya hai
Same case with me sabko sath lekar chlna dosti yaari etc... Jab time nhi dena start kiya to khud hi saare faltu log gayab ho gye... Apna agenda rakho seedhi baat kro that's it
I started following your advice since last year. I don't meet anyone without any agenda. Even during phone conversations with strangers, I ask them why they have called. If I think somebody doesn't add value to my life, I discard them immediately. I have only two friends (including my wife), and even people in my official circle think twice before dialling my number. Thank you Guruji.❤
Agree 100% applies to my own family and in laws . They have no goals in life but want us to earn and give them everything for free
Ye baat shuru se parents kehte rhe hain. But ab aapne kahi hai or mai jis phase pe khada hu life k wo bilkul sahi maloom apdyi hai.
U gave an energy. Thanks 🙏🌹
A Million dollar Lesson sir 🙏
Pure essence of life ✨️ 👌
Very well said sir 😊Indians really need to value everyone's time .Our country will progress soon .
Time is God 😀 is said by Shri Krishna.
I understand well this topic..
Even many ladiescwant to meet friends make groups...plan trips..call it enjoying life..bullshiz..no talent..no earning only spendinh husband and children money...sir Pls mke vedio on this kitty party stuck women
People who suck/take away your time and energy should be called Energy Vampire.😂😂😂😂
Yrrr 😂😂😅😅
Very very relevant video. I have been saying NO a lot nowadays and feel stronger and powerful. But I still get bullied so I will work harder on this now. I read somewhere "NO is a complete sentence." Many times I don't even bother to give an explanation coz the other person will not listen anyway n will criticise you anyway.
I can listen this man full day. Maza aa gaya sir.
I can relate to the topic ,must save time from getting wasted from time wasters.
Brilliant video sir ji! Wish someone told us so frankly when we were in college, wasted loads of time. Thank for sharing!
Very clear and true definition of selfishness...never thought abt it.
It's always told wen u think abt urself is selfish ....😐
Eye Opener. Thank You for helping me
नमस्ते सर,
बातों में से बात निकलेगी, कोई ना कोई ऐसी बात मुंह से निकल सकती है तो रिश्ते खराब हो सकते हैं, ये बात बहुत बार महसूस की और देखी है, हमेशा की भाँति बहुत ही बढ़िया विस्तृत जानकारी दी है सर आपने ❤🙏
Totally agree, wid u sir some relatives also ask to meet without telling the reason on the phone. After meeting, they make awkward situations, so we can't say no to them and waste our time .
I wish I could get such advice 40 years back. Thank you for your insights
Sahi h guruji.......
Yes it happens sir. But it feels bad to say no to someone.
You speak so truly about the topics which many of us used to feel guilty about, even thinking in our minds although going thru the miserable situations. Thank you so much for getting the pressure out .🙏with out fthe feeling of being selfish.
Apaki ye video mere life me bahut hi late me mene dekha but finally aja dekhe ne bada mujhe bahut hi acha laga
Very practical advice. Extremely necessary to value the limited time we have in our lives
IT'S GOOD TO BE SELFISH FOR PERSONAL GROWTH.
Excellent observations, your points are very relevant and important. I have always been this way and people don't seem to understand but you have reinforced my belief and I thank you for it.
Aap ka confidence & guts ko ham subh ka vinamrak poorva namashkar Amit Sir
True,
Actually from beginning I was very straight forward person,
Eg if there is some lesson being taught in school my natural behavior was just to listen, solve answers & do hw,
But then some teachers talked to my parents that I am introvert, after that i started talking way more giving time to any bullshit people,
One of my teacher who I used to complain about a pencil chor, she as normally many teachers do didn't listen to it seriously while chit chatting with other teachers, and when my parents came to meet her she was like yaa your daughter is very silent I will change her place from that pencil chor,
My parents came in changul of such teachers and made my behavior talkative, compelling me to open mouth in front of anyone & everyone
Just waste of time young lifetime
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Kamyab ho gaye aap sir. Bahut badhiya message hai
You are perfectly right sir as you live only once
Thanks a lot... for the valuable advice of not to waste time for valueless discussion...🙏🙏
You are my Guru starting today.
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Yes. I am facing the same issue. Very right information on time killer. Aap KAMYAAB HO GAYA 👌👌🙏🏻
Very true sir, difficult to say no, but it gives a lot of self time.
Very good video bht clearty mili is video se
Excellent ji.
Bilkul sahi baat hai, verified baat hai.
My actions were correct, these are the reasons I couldn't say.
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Your message is good Sir, thanks for your clarity, pranaam.
🌅 awesome explanation for "selfish"
Definitely Kamyab Sir Ji.
Brilliantly detailed and comprehensive for the present times..... Thank you 🙏🙏
I always watch your videos. Very good life lessons for everyone. Thank you Sir.
Aapka bhot bhot dhanyawaad sir ...aisi hi himmat dete rhe... Aapko sunke mann itna halka ho jaata hai...
Wah kya baat hai Bilkul 100% sach👍yehi sab bhugta hai mene b. Time suckers NE life Mein bada preshan kiya without adding any value to my life 👍your video is mind opening really 👌many has taken advantage of my goodness and wasted my time.😔but I will not allow these time suckers to cheat me more
I admire and appreciate your videos Amit Ji. Such deep thoughts communicated so simply.
Yes sir...bahut fayada hua....tysm sir!!
Buri tarah fasa pada hu sir।Thank you for your valuable advice
Absolutely...Your videos are such eye openers..Your content is so meaningful and relevant....
Quite correct sir.❤❤❤❤❤
Excellent sir ji 🙏🙏🙏very correct lines sir ji you are absolutely correct I have faced the problem so I can understand u are showing correct way sir ji
Kaamyaab hue Sirji. Thank you so much.
Yes, 😢 I am So Much Emotional People are Take Advantage. Appreciate🙏 Brother This type of Content. Good👍...
Kaamyaab Guru Ji..... 🙂🙏
100% true... really appreciate your videos.
So true ...Very well said
Very useful and helpful video.
Thank you for giving the clarity🙏🏻
you are a quality adviser thanks
Wowww sir excellent video
Simply u r perfect, fully agree with you Amitji. Thank you 💓
Crisp and very clear knowledge video
Very good suggestion sir.. Thank you..
Kamayab sir
Brilliant point - time is a finite source and energy is a limited resource.
Ek osho or ek aap ki video dekh dek ke.25 years ke age me...40 years wali maturity arahi hai...nice..pure life clear ho rahi hai
Bilkul sahi bol rahe ho aap👌👌👍👍🙏🙏
My husband is a SBI po , kahi pe bhi transfer hota rehta hai unka 3 yrs ka beta hai mera , gharwale said primate school teacher ki job chodo , and fully prepare Karo govt school ke liye , as I am ctet qualified and mera bhi Mann tha , but baad me unki reality pata chali jab i resigned and jethani ka baccha pakda dete mujhe sath me , padhne ni milta as dono bacche same hai , ladte hai , and fir gali galauch , jethani ko govt job hai so sab support kar rahe use , maine mana kiya ki i don't have time to look after ur kid, as i have my own aim in life and i hv to focus on it , this is the high time . Fir mujhe ye mauka ni milega , kuch months ki baat hai , sab jhadge mujhe bole tujhse support ki umeed ni ki jaa sakti ,selfish hai tu etc etc ,... Husband was in my support as only he want me to opt for govt job of a good salary so that he can leave his job and become fulltime trader in share market . Ye video se pata chala ki selfish mai ni wo log hai , jinko mere precious time chahiye aur maine mana kiya to mujhe selfish bolte
Yes,they are selfish..You should focus on yourself,child and hubby.wo log rote h rahenge, because unka mindset hi aisa hai.Time is pressious.Give it to your self🙏
You are not selfish,you are an ambitious woman,all the best
meri dadi ne devrani ke 2 bacche ,aur unki 1 beti
khudki beti ke 2 bacche pale
ab budhi hogyi hamare pass aa gyi
Aap please koi bhi jaob ho govt ya private job mat choriye ladies ke liye unka job important hai Bahut
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Sir, I have faced this kind..my friends utilised my time when they need me..when I needed their help..no one was there.
Thank you so much for the valuable lesson sir🙏
Great vedeo. Please do one on being invited to parties by someone who invites unknown and boring people
U r very practical i really like your view point 👍
I already have this approach and I appriciate your initiative. I share it with many friends.
Yes you said everything right....hats off to u sir 👍👍👍👍
Very true. Keep up the great job in bringing clarity in people's lives.
Amazing
Kaamyab
Kaamyaab ho gya aap👍
Socialising kuch nhi hota?
With a large population I do agree with this video
You are simply awesome..such a practical advice..
Bilku sahi. Aaj Tak Aisa suna nahi Maine.
Thankyou Sir for this third party stamp as you said.
Yes Sir, waste talks and total energy suckers
Thank you sharing thought.
You right think. Everytime talk withaout any reasons west time important..❤
Time is precious 😊👌❤️
Yes sir apaka sabhi bata sehi hi
Good wisdom
Sir ap meko pele kyun nhi mile sir ....your advice so true and practical
Extremely accurate
Kamyab, sir! 100%.
Kaamyaab
Great msg sir
Very good explanation sir
Excellent video sir.
Very good one . kamiyabi
M rone आऊंगा ....haahaha sir mja aa jata h aapa वीडियो देख कृ
कामयाब।