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Don't marry, at least for the sake of your parents. Todays girls are not made for marriage. One more thing: Jo baap apne beti se 30-35 saal naukri karwa ke uske paise pe jeeta hai wo beti shaadi karwage apne damad ke paise bhi loot ta hai aur damad k ghar rehta hai aur damad ko uske parents se relation rakhne nahi deta. This is just another form of prostitution enforced by girl's parents. Ab to ye ladke ka gotra change karwane ka system le aaye hai. And those girls who are giving sex in exchange of some favours are already prostitutes.
Clarity of youth but you have limited charity so let us ask you why Congress could not get Gdp growth when the Congress were in power 65 years why India was behind Pakistan why when Modi govt came to power Pakistan and UK bankrupt
I am a girl, and really thankful for your video. And you're right sir. We men and women both have to make good community. Both are responsible for that.
I have always lived by the values and thought process. I have been called old school and everything. I don’t care. I know what’s the right thing to do. Thank u Guruji for making my own thought process 10 times stronger now. Thank u so much for making this video. It was long due.
27 and still a virgin and dont even have boyfriend or any bad habits. But the problem of the society is such people like me are treated like behenji and people dont include us in any conversations, so some people take wrong ways in order to look cool.
You are all highly intelligent not backward. A stranger is not going validate your life. If you seek validation from strangers then you need to build your life really well Building life means Building it all alone.
Thank you Uncle. I'm a 21 yrs old woman & it might be offensive for people of my generation because last thing they want to know is the reality. Sex isn't solely magical, it's pleasuring when done with comfort, commitment & care. And anyone who sees you as replaceable isn't going to give you any comfort, commitment or care. This was for both genders
I m a woman and I agree this . Nowadays girls are presenting themself infront of boys as if they are some sort of sweets. I feel very irritated when teenager girl change their whole attitude when any boy comes. Kya ho gya is generation ko?
इतनी गंभीर बात आप सोच रहे हैं और बिना गलत शब्दों को इस्तेमाल किए आप समाज में लड़के और लड़कियों को मार्ग दर्शन दे रहे हैं यह बहुत ही सुंदर बात है। आज की जनरेशन को यह समझ कर अल्पकालिक विवादों के विद्रोह स्वरुप में अपनी जिंदगी बर्बाद ना करते हुए पहिले से चली आ रही परंपराओं को मानते हुए उन्नति की ओर अग्रसित होना चाहिए।🎉
I had to resign my jobs because of this toxic environment you have explained here sir. Despite having and rewarded for excellent problem solving skills in the organisations, I had to resign from my job because of these nonsense behaviour. I can’t pretend to be someone just to flatter my manager male or female, attend a party every weekend drink to your throat and come at 12 in the midnight, also I can’t put some one else down to get the credit for me. Having integrity and self respect is equally important as getting a good salary. I would rather sit at home doing nothing or starting something on my own than getting into all these, it’s just shows your upbringing. You don’t have to sell yourself and your values for money and status be it 2 lakhs or 2 million. It is this disgusting behaviour by few girls which is making men to feel and expect the same from other good girls as well. Hope this video reaches as many people as it can to bring in right mindset among youth. Thank you!
I thought the term "Body Count" was meant for the number of people killed or dead. Never knew it had multiple meaning. Excellent video sincerely meant for today's generation. Thank you guruji 🙏
I m married gone through everything in life right wrong This person is giving you the life lesson To all the young women I hope you understand He has not ridiculed but guided you
Believe it or not, but there's a group of girls between the age of 30-40 with zero or no body count, but they never married due to various reasons, not saying they're happy, their number might be less, but it exists
They are more happy than married one, they have freedom to make mistakes or freedom of choices......and also take responsibility of their actions, social media is a becoming a centre for Brain drain these days....
True what this uncle is saying is not true for millennial girl and some girls are fat not because of high body count but due to pcos which is completely different
@@simratikaur5226 I am 26 years old. And I have zero body count. I am heavily inclined towards spirituality and I don't think I am ever going to marry because the idea doesn't resonate with the kind of life I want and I am not making these choices out of trauma or life experiences. It's just what my heart beleives in. Yes you're right, we exist. Generalization doesn't work all the time.
Hi di I'm 23 A boy I loved left me as he wanted sex but I want to do it after marriage,i know I did right thing by saying him ni,but I still miss him,He said I am immature as I don't approve of this and left,as you are older than me and more mature than me can you give me advice?am i immature to say no to sex before marriage?@@vedangigarg
Menstrual cycles have become much more sensitive compared to previous generations. Being a doctor I myself agree that such abortion pills and hormonal pills definitely affect the body in a negative way...
Menes became sensitive due to IT job long working hour limitless stress a doctor saying that and giving a certificate to.girl is really a shameful at and that the reason young girl suffer but not come to gynics
@@soumendash3911 because now a days most of us are having poor lifestyle and additionally if we consume such hormonal pills it becomes even more difficult to get cured.
@@roshinitoenlightenment may women around you will go through this way but stress specially work life balance is effect majority health whether physical mental.sexual or emotional regardless of male or female .
What you are saying is 100% true sir. I was literally thinking..ke Thank God i have a Dad who told me this my whole life. And i was able to stay away from predators and womenizer guys. What you are doing is seriously noble for those girls who dont have a father in their life 🙏🙏🙏
You are doing samaj- seva sir. Y baate parents ko baccho ko smjhana chahiye. Bt shram aa jati h . Grt respect for you sir. May god bless you!! U r taking lots of risk being youtuber.
Sir i was the guy who would not go into GFS Just because I was so sure that I will do it with my wife only..... My friends made so much fun of me, as they would be going for hunt.. I am blessed to have met a good girl as my wife... I follow spirituality, I read good books meditate and life is bliss
Very Good ! Actually ye bat aap par charitharth hui "jo jaisa hota hai use vaisa hi milta hai " aap achhe hain so aapko acchha partner mila ,har kisi ko apni virginity sirf apne partner ko hi deni chahiye .
Excellent vdo. You are talking exceptionally truth. As a practicing Gynecologist, i am facing this daily. I keep telling these girls about same. High time , you are bringing this issue in the public domain. They are least bother about health issues, STD's, mental and emotional trauma. Good parenting is very important. So called partially educated , 20-40 k salaried girls are indulging in these activities more than well educated, well employed girls with good salary. Excellent, educative vdeo
rather than telling them this give them proper sex education. maybe ask them to decrease their frequency and use condom rather than what this uncle is speaking - sex after marriage bullshit. that "tapasya" is not made for everyone.
Very well pointed out. Someone needed to address this issue. I'm a modern well-educated woman from a broad minded family, yet I always felt disgusted at the way girls nowadays devalue themselves in the name of freedom, equality and modernity.
I dont think youngsters will wait till mariage for sex. In fact several dont even consider marriage as a goal these days. Sex is considered necessary as a component of wholesome healthy living and medically it is said good sex gives one, male or female, that glow & shine of health, that happy outlook of mind. But the flip side, the reality, the practical situation is that socio economic and social security set up , the social outlook in India in the most parts,with respect to sex & sexuality, are still poorly developed , medieval and generally no where near how they are in the evolved western, advanced country status. These are disruptive times for young Indians and your advice is quite valid for this category of the young Indian. 😊
First and the foremost stop telling women that they need male support to feel safe and achieve things in life. Treat women like normal human beings. That mental dependence has to go. And women need to be told that a man being a good friend or a good human being in general isn’t something to go nuts over. Problem is that the bar is set too low for women. So a man being a decent human being is idlolised. Hence women feel obligated to return favour. I admire your guts Sir. Someone needs to discuss these so called Tabboo topics
But women do need support of family to achieve things in life. A woman who is left alone thinking she is strong independent woman is often taken advantage of and her life becomes unbearable. See any women in high positions. They achieved those high positions with support of family. I'm not saying the family gave them those positions. Just the thought that I can fall back on my family if anything goes wrong is enough.
Hi Sir Such an eye opening video. These days it is very common and I have 2-3 girls in my friend circle only who are not virgin and use bumble ,tinder etc. They all are from good family backgrounds and are engaged in these kinds of activities . One of my friends is regretting a lot after the break up and she is emotionally and physically disturbed. Another one is also regretting but she has become extremely negative and manipulating other girls around me to have sex before marriage or there is nothing wrong in having multiple partners as she herself is "BARBAD " . She tried manipulating me as well but I never had any physical relationship with anyone , and I am proud of that. I am 27 years old and preparing for competitive exams . And I have cut her off from my circle. But these days every 4/10 of the girls are not virgin & these girls try to manipulate other girls to be like them.
@@ayushisrivastava5278 this is true girls who loose their virginity tell others girls that they will go mad if they donot have sex 😂 One of my non virgin friend seriously told this to me . It is better to be a virgin all life and be mad rather than have sex with a low life who has no plan to marry you I am same age as you And the pressure on us is real sis
I'm 22 single since birth not because no one propose me or approch but because i want my husband to be my first in everything i want to love only one man that my husband people of my age group call me old fashion and tell me that one is waiting for me or the man i'll marry will not wait for me to get married and have sex and all they be like you should have experience but my question is why ? Why should i have experience? Too with some random person if i need experience i can get it from my husband too its better to build my career and count my degree rather than sleeping around and counting body count
This was a much needed video. It has become a pandemic specially in cities like Delhi. I work as a non teaching staff in one of the prominent colleges in Delhi, and what he has said about today's boys and girls are 100% true.
I live in US originally from India. I visited India after many years for a wedding. I was shocked to see women/girls in India wearing almost pornographic clothes even in weddings. I was like wow, people in the west do not wear such sexualized clothes but indian girls think that this is modernism. In US only poor women without much going on for themselves wear such provocative clothes. Good women always wear very covering and nice clothes. Def a shocker for me! 😂
Yes, this has been noticed, specially in the north, many women are wearing highly revealing clothes, might be the women think they are looking modern and sexy and not like some behenji type, but to be modern you dont have to expose, there are so many pretty clothes which are modern as well as give decent covering. The thought process these days for many people( including parents) seems to have yo yoed from too conservative some years back to too exposing these days.
@@RimaDesu00 the vulgar clothes you see in ancient temple sculptures are mainly wore by Nayikas and vaishikas (prostitute) and they were mostly hired by the king for some plesure activities and they were the one who learned the skill of 64 arts of kamasutra and ratishastra... their whole purpose was to pleasure the king or other courtesans in ancient time, in modern day we call them wh*re, not all wormen were lke this, only who were into certain professions..... you should know before commenting..
@@me_debankan4178 Yes, also most of these carvings are the fantasy of men, who carved their fantasy into the stones and made these sculptures, it is not real. Real men and women are full of emotions, and their whole life and actions are guided by their emotions, only if they have satisfactory emotions can they live a fulfilling life and feel a sense of self worth and achievement.
Today 's generation should listen to Munshi Premchand ki kahani .There are many stories of him revolving around relation ship of husband and wife . The author uses words like "Hridyeshwari " for portraying hero's love for her (wife )in the story meaning goddess of my heart . In return the wife calls him PRANESHWAR . AT first I was getting laugh but then I felt how much depth it gives to a relationship . This kind of respect you can get from a man only when you deserve it .. When you are high value high calibre person you attract people with high morale . Otherwise only luccha lafangey will come in your life who will use you and throw you .
Being a Gen Z I'm telling....Gen Z girls are having physical relationship in their very early days like in schoolday and at their teenager stage. I live in city called patna (hub of students) here students of class 11 & 12th comes here for the preparation of IIT & neet but they are being trapped in the situationship ( mean having sex, with no intension to marry).
Really appreciative video Guruji. Women engaged in non relevant aspects of gender equality and fails to understand female body and hormones worked in different manner .It is female who bear the consequences of child birth & abortion. I am in health care sector from 15 years and posted in Govt PHC .I 100 % agreed with you in video. Ethics & morality of society saves us from many future troubles especially in reproductive health.
Sir what you ve said is absolutely right . But one thing I don't like when you said "25 Tak shaadi karlo koi pati kitab nahi cheen Raha", i mean really?? You should ask any married woman, she will say it's tough because it is tough. & What about if the female is virgin & male has 3-4 body count , same thing applicable to women also. To isliye shaadi kar le ??? & Sir what about marital rape or all that adultery stuffs. You can't deny on that. It's not a solution to get married early, instead of this we focus on build our career then we will decide do it or not do it, take that decision wisely . I am okay with what did you say , bt aapne bhi sab sahi nahi bola hai to flow me cross check Kiya kare that what am I saying...
After marriage women will take care of children no matter how smart she is, how independent she is, she will be a mother and have motherly feelings and afterwards her career will sink instead of taking off she will not get a fair chance to build up a career.
Prime age to have kids is 20-30. I am asking you if a girl want to continue job till 30 then won’t that will also be effected when she will be pregnant? She will drop that job to take care of baby. One way or other for some period of time a woman needs to take a break or leave job. You can do that earlier in a healthy way or later like others and have complications and run to doctors.
I got married at 24 was working successfully at an MNC, my husband motivated me to study further. Now happily settled 😊 I studied he supported us then I got a job and he studied 😊
After ages you made such a sensible & much needed video, this is spreading more faster than pandemic, thank you for taking the effort to make this video
In working life we see, given example - if A single girl working in office mostly prefer taking lift from office colleague who is married instead of unmarried man, they have excuse that married man hai toh sharif hai single hai toh galat samjhega. At the end mostly we find person who was married is ending with extramarital affair with same girl or married man wife always fighting with him saying why you are helping her 😂😂😂. This we see in daily life as example
Why to give and take lift if you are working and independent. If people are involved in giving and taking lift that definitely means they have bad intentions.
Sir, pahli bar kisi ne itna acha video banaya. Bilkul sahi. Thank u sir thank u. I start proud of my self again becoz so many girls around me told me that I m a old school nd so many things. I always thought that I m not belong to that generation. But thank u sir for mentioning the point of high value women. And u were right high value women always find a high value men. I got a high value men. Not a bodybuilder, not a handsome hunk but a very responsible men who always valued me, exactly my father. Sir bht Acha content h aap ka. Aap nhi jante per high valued women ko bht niche samaghti h ye body count type ki girls. But is trha ki videos se hmara confidence badhta h. Thank u sir.
I am 25 year old woman and never ever had a boyfriend for the same reason , cause I understood these things from an early age. And Thanks to my father for always loving me and showing me what true love really is. I a man ever comes to my life he has to have a good character.
Thank you, sir, for being brave enough to speak on this topic. While industries like Bollywood and Hollywood seem dedicated to destroying the sanity of youngsters, someone like you is speaking the truth. 'In times of universal deceit, speaking truth is a revolutionary act.' - George Orwell
Mai picchle 8-9 saal se kehti aa rahi hun, ki there is very less that we have to change in how we used to raise our daughters and too much to change in how we raise our sons. Hum agar betiyon ko beton ki tarah paalne lage toh world war ki bhi zarurat nahi paregi is duniya ko khatam karne ke liye. Hume apne beton ko betiyon ki tarah paalne ki koshish karni chahiye.
Yes. Beto ko betiyon ki tarah palne ki zarurat hai. Isi kami ki wajah se hazaro saal bigda raha. Ladkiya to paanch das saal se Khushi se kar rahi hain। Pehle majboor karke rula ke ki jati thi. Ladke to hamesha karte hi the. Ladkiyon ke saath hi to karte the.
Our body is the temple of God. We need to keep our spirit, soul and body pure. Wait for the person who is your legal husband or wife, become emotionally connected to their spirt before connecting with their body.. Pls don't do casual sex and most importantly doesn't murder ( abortion) innocent baby because of your wrong choices.
@@MeditationMelodies962 that is way it is said to choose ur partner very carefully.. if a couple is in a sexless marriage, its either one person's problm might be wife or husband.. talk to that person before getting marriage without involving in any kind of sexual activity, having a deep conversation can understand about ur partner well. We should be mature enough choose our partner carefully. We should not mess up our body by having sex before marriage. This is applicable to both men and women. Respect our body and wait for the right person for marrying.
@@Peachykeeen that is very unfortunate for those who are raped and impregnated them by some monsters. If a girl is a victim of a sexual assault, it doesn't make them, loose their dignity or respect. They come back and become stronger. God will be make them strong enough to get over it, it doesn't mean they dont have a life ahead, they too have life.
It is almost impossible to study after marriage especially if husband is not supportive and in laws are overpowering..a girl's life take a 360degree turn after marriage... suddenly she becomes responsible for everything, she has to take care of everyone in the family and she has to fulfill the demands of in laws by giving them babies . Plus there is constant pressure of dowry on every festival and occasions.
Awesome video, Bhai Saab, God bless you long life, Very important points you have discussed, Not everyone has the guts to talk about the real issues troubling our society,
(i hope my comment will not be deleted) - ladkiyan meethay ke jaise sex de rhi hai ladko ko? what do you mean by that? kya aap yeh keh rhe ho ki ladkiyan ladko ko sex deke koi un par upkaar kar rhi hai? yeh toh woh baat ho gai ki ladkiyon ko toh sex chahiye hi nhi aur woh toh sirf samaj seva kar rhi hai, esa bilkul nhi hai, main mumbai mein rent pe rehta hoon aur mere flatmate ki shadi hai dec-2024 mein lekin woh phir bhi ek ladki ke saath casual sex karta hai, kal raat ko hi woh ladki iske room mein aayi thi, maine uss ko puchh bhi ki bhai usse pata nhi hai teri shadi hone wali hai, wo bola ki usko pata hai aur woh toh boli ki shadi ke baad bhi jab bhi uss ko sex karna ho just call her, ab aap yeh bologe ki bhai toh yaha pe toh aadmi bhi harami hai, arey bhai, aadmi ki image toh waise bhi harami hi hai pehle se, baat yeh hai ki aurat bhi aadmi ki jitni hi harami hai if not more or less.
Uski hone wali biwi ko batao. Why she should suffer a character less man? Par udhar Brocode nibhaoge. And are you sure usne tumhe kahani nahi sunai, ki ladki ko usne sab bataya hai? Par zyada zimmedari to admi ki hai, dusri ladki ko bhi shadi me fansaa raha hai। Ab uski hone wali biwi bhi aise hi maze le, to 🐕🦺🐕🦺 rona shuru karega. You should tell his to be wife some way. Don't be a part in this PaapKarm. Karma spares none.
Shwetabh Gangwar had been a childhood friend of my very dear friend and he literally has bragged about sleeping with multiple girls a million times to my friend and I've heard that.. To social media ke do kauri ke trap me mat fasa karo bhaiyo aur behno
Sir mai apka subscriber hu kaafi purana Ab tak ka ye one of the best video hai apki taraf se . Mai apne Papa Mummy ki itni baat nahi maanta hu jitna apki maanta hu aapse kafi relate kar paata hu mai aap dost jaise lagte hai mujhe Jo life me apko sahi le jaaye sahi raasta dikhaye. Thank you Sir ❤
Bro keeps dissing Men after every sentence(that is supposed to be a “fact” on Women)so that he doesn’t feel the wrath of angry feminists in the comments.
I live in Delhi. I have talked to many girl's and what i have observed is that -- Earlier "marriage" was compulsory but "job" was optional for girl's, but genZ girl's say that "Job" is compulsory and "Marriage" is optional......
Because of the step treatment to girls by in laws inspite of her education and inspite of the fact that she had to leave her job because of never ending responsibilities on her shoulder. What message will younger girls grab from the above situation if they observe other elder females in family are going through above. For what you are studying physics, chemistry, biology, accounting, becoming CA, CS, lawyers, doctors, engineer, ultimately leaving jobs for responsibilities and get insults.. So, better to have your job... if your partner will cooperate good for both, if not, that's OK..
Points you raised are keenly observed one. 1. Absence of father figure. 2. Anonymity 3.Stress in family and btw parents 4.lonliness 5. Perception that' s its cool
Every sentence said by you is so true. This issue is growing serious with each passing day. Bahut zarurat hai esi valuable seekh dene ki aaj ki generation ko. Irrespective of gender and age, everyone must watch this masterpiece. I appreciate your thoughts and thank you for bringing out this video. 🙏🏻
I am from 80’s Born… Shahrukh khan ke dialogue brain mai embedded the.. Pyaar ek hi bara hota hai.. 😂 type.. And full emotional and respectful towards Girls 🙏🏻… Hamara Generation Girls se Baat karne se darne ka!! Kya Jamana Aaya hai bhai 😵💫.. I hope Meri beti badi hone tak sab trends change ho jaye.. back to our Generations.. 🙏🏻
I'm from Gen Z generation and telling you payar ek bar nahi bar bar Hota hai...kyuki pahle payar lesson deke jata hai ki 2nd payar ko kaise handle karna hai Payar is the just way to know the girls whether she is fit for us or not. After knowing each other for 7 to 8 months we decided whether to keep this relationship going on or should find someone better. Us 7 to 8 months me bhaut kuchh ho jata hai jo nahi hona chahiye. Ese hi relationship chalte rehta hai jab tak kisiko so called perfect partner nahi mil jata hai.
Sir ladkiyan aapas main competition karke, body count, body count khel rahi hai, virgin ladki ko useless feel karake usko bhi force karti hai damaged goods mahilaye.
Yeh bt yadh rakhe dost glt kam krne ma hi zada support krte hai tum kuch accha kroga toh vo nicha girana ki koshish krenga Aur virgin ladki useless nai hai voh sabse special hai
Khud mai akal honi chahiye vo to , kis cheej se influence hona hai kisse nhi vo sab humare khud k hath mai hai , jo khud galt hoga vo to apni galti kaise na kaise chhupana ki koshish hee krenga , khud ka body count high hai or dusro ko dekha nhi jata ki kisi acchi relationship Mai kyu hai , I had only one boyfriend who is now my husband, I continued dating him because I was sure that he is the person for me to marry , n there were some jealous girls who used to say " tum log ak dusre se boar nhi hote kya " etc etc , because they could not find a single good boyfriend n engaged with many at the same time , wasting their time , effort n emotions
If you watch the whole video till end, you will know how right he is. He is not only telling girls to stop destroying themselves but he is also telling the whole society including men and women to stop.
Sir, I agree with most of your points, but yeh jo baat apne bola ki get married by 24-25 career to hota hi rahega, I do not agree with that at all, ajke date mein jo unemployment ka rate hai, usme ek proper career banne mein time lag jata hai! Aur specially larkiyo ke liye Career banana bohot tough hota hai marriage ke baad, kyunki hum sabne apne mummy logo ko dekha hai ki kaise shaadi or bacche ke liye un logo ko kuch bhi karne ka mauka nahi mila life mein, unke pass bhi talent tha par woh log kuch nahi kar paye kyunki unko karne nahi diya gaya, aur jo in-laws hai wo chahte hai ki ladki ki alag koi zindagi nahi hoo, sirf ghar aur bacche samhale, iske liye to sirf ladkiya paida nahi hoti! Aur society hoti kaun hai decide karne wala ki ek ladki apni zindagi kaise jiyegi, jabki wahi society to na to khane ka 2 roti deta hai aur nahi rehne ki jagah, upar se jb ek ladki financially independent nahi hoti hai, uska husband kitna bhi bura ho, in laws kitna bhi bura treat kare, usko mu baand karke sehna parta hai! To isi liye yeh jo aap itne confidently bole ki shaadi karlo pehle, career wareer to chalta hi rahega, yeh baat ap dubara soch ke boliye, kyunki is duniya mein khud ke dam pe paise kamane ke baad hi freedom ke saath ji sakta hai insaan. Waise aap bhi to youtube per videos daalte hai, aur marriage counseling ka kaam karte hai, at the end of the day, yeh sab bhi to paise kamane ke liye hi hai na? To aap bhi to apne financial security dekh rahe hai, to ek ladki kyu na dekhe? Kyunki jo ladkiya shaadi karne ke baad musibat mein parjaati hai, aur unke pas financial strength bhi nahi hota, aap to unka roti Pani ka intezaam nahi kar payenge na? To advice thoda soch kar dijiyega! Baki body count aur casual sex ko leke apne jo bhi kaha I 100% agree with you on that!
I agree get married at whatever age be financially independent but dont loose character or become shameless which is becoming cool thing in todys generation
@@dilpreet63 Yeh at this point I too agree, that sleeping around is not a good choice and it's not even empowerment! It's just ruining lives! Find decent person, with whom you are compatible and get married, but that should be by choice, that should not be forced, because it's a lifelong journey, so the decision must be taken wisely and not in hurry because other friends are getting married or to have kids, even the kid's life gets ruined if parents marriage is not good,
@@anwesamallik6657 I think marriage in India is very risky thing because it is not easy to end it and move on but people find relationship easy because breakup don't cost you money India need better family courts for married people to end it if they don't want to continue it. Untill then youth will always find different ways to sleep then marriage
@@ShyamSunder-yk8zj government and corporate wants to loot middle class men and doing that through our women it becomes easy wives mothers sisters are brainwashed to loot our money
Sahi kaha aapne.. apni life me maine isi principal ko use kiya.. ek bande me apni energy invest karna chahiye. Physically aur mentally 100% ek hi aadmi me invest karna chahiye.
Reality is guys are getting intellectual and passionate about other things in life, and women at large number has nothing to offer to that category men anymore apart from body.
Social media, Bollywood are major influence on young girls and ladies. Media makes these fil and tv stars as demigods. Not the ones who contribute to the society like farmer, doctor, teacher, soldier. Narration should change in Films, media to bring positive changes in society at present
I want to share it to so many people, but sadly can't. However I follow celibacy before marriage, just so I can look myself in mirror, and not do wrong with the mother of my children.
I wish all the Youngsters the best in their lives. Our Youth is the future and responsible for preserving the culture. My Dear Young Brothers and Sisters, please take care of Your selves. A fair advice from Your Elder Brother. God Bless.
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than how to check/match sexual intimacy before sex/marriage with someone
@@attitude4989 ask your parents how did they found it?
Don't marry, at least for the sake of your parents. Todays girls are not made for marriage. One more thing: Jo baap apne beti se 30-35 saal naukri karwa ke uske paise pe jeeta hai wo beti shaadi karwage apne damad ke paise bhi loot ta hai aur damad k ghar rehta hai aur damad ko uske parents se relation rakhne nahi deta. This is just another form of prostitution enforced by girl's parents. Ab to ye ladke ka gotra change karwane ka system le aaye hai. And those girls who are giving sex in exchange of some favours are already prostitutes.
@@attitude4989 marry someone who is young, preferably below 23.
Clarity of youth but you have limited charity so let us ask you why Congress could not get Gdp growth when the Congress were in power 65 years why India was behind Pakistan why when Modi govt came to power Pakistan and UK bankrupt
This man is more updated than anybody of this generation, really loved to hear it coming from someone in India.
I am a girl, and really thankful for your video. And you're right sir. We men and women both have to make good community. Both are responsible for that.
Again "both". Who will lose more ma'am?
From a girl point of view ,women suffer mentally and physically but i think men also suffer mentally After some period of time.
Os what he saying is true?
@learnenglish7331 im a man. Men don't suffer as much. Pls protect yourselves because its very bad for women
@@doncorleone3901 some men who are spiritual ,suffer in toxic relationship.
Finally someone from India giving importance on this topic 🙏 no one is discussing these topics
Sirhud karla ka videos dekh lo bhai 3rd eye open ho jayega
The fact he's our Desi uncle telling us this, I feel soo grateful 😭
I have always lived by the values and thought process. I have been called old school and everything. I don’t care. I know what’s the right thing to do. Thank u Guruji for making my own thought process 10 times stronger now. Thank u so much for making this video. It was long due.
Queen 👑
You are not old school, you are mature than others.... trust me ....
sorry you wont get any positive character certificate by writing things here..
She is just expressing her opinion, why do you have to assume that she wants your or somebody else's certificate. @@saikatghosh90
@@saikatghosh90 bangaliyo ko sabse jyada mirchi lag rahi hai 😂
27 and still a virgin and dont even have boyfriend or any bad habits. But the problem of the society is such people like me are treated like behenji and people dont include us in any conversations, so some people take wrong ways in order to look cool.
thats so true with me although i m just 18 now but few of my friends say me like behenn ji ho and no boyfriends and all aisa kehte hai
True same I'm 29 virgin and looked as backward
@@avni-rh8qz बहन होने में क्या बुराई है?
You are all highly intelligent not backward. A stranger is not going validate your life. If you seek validation from strangers then you need to build your life really well
Building life means Building it all alone.
🙏....Devi ho aap
Thank you Uncle.
I'm a 21 yrs old woman & it might be offensive for people of my generation because last thing they want to know is the reality.
Sex isn't solely magical, it's pleasuring when done with comfort, commitment & care. And anyone who sees you as replaceable isn't going to give you any comfort, commitment or care.
This was for both genders
I'm the 22 years man with same beliefs. Thank you for giving me hope that women like you still exist.
I am 24 years old man with same value. You are a queen.
Sx is holy.... Don't do with multiple men.. your body isn't an object
@@loveyourself-n6y yes. Sx is holy. Don't do it with multiple women
I am 28 virgin thnx for reminding
I m a woman and I agree this . Nowadays girls are presenting themself infront of boys as if they are some sort of sweets. I feel very irritated when teenager girl change their whole attitude when any boy comes. Kya ho gya is generation ko?
Bollywood aur web series ka influence..aur parents ka involvement na hona
Hamesha se hi aisi thi!! Don't demean the new ones!! Hamare bhi time pe aaj bhi wahi hota h
A teenager girl some of them, would always be like that. Giggling, trying to attract attention etc.
Boys bhi toh wohi kar rahe hai
इतनी गंभीर बात आप सोच रहे हैं और बिना गलत शब्दों को इस्तेमाल किए आप समाज में लड़के और लड़कियों को मार्ग दर्शन दे रहे हैं यह बहुत ही सुंदर बात है। आज की जनरेशन को यह समझ कर अल्पकालिक विवादों के विद्रोह स्वरुप में अपनी जिंदगी बर्बाद ना करते हुए पहिले से चली आ रही परंपराओं को मानते हुए उन्नति की ओर अग्रसित होना चाहिए।🎉
I had to resign my jobs because of this toxic environment you have explained here sir. Despite having and rewarded for excellent problem solving skills in the organisations, I had to resign from my job because of these nonsense behaviour. I can’t pretend to be someone just to flatter my manager male or female, attend a party every weekend drink to your throat and come at 12 in the midnight, also I can’t put some one else down to get the credit for me. Having integrity and self respect is equally important as getting a good salary. I would rather sit at home doing nothing or starting something on my own than getting into all these, it’s just shows your upbringing. You don’t have to sell yourself and your values for money and status be it 2 lakhs or 2 million. It is this disgusting behaviour by few girls which is making men to feel and expect the same from other good girls as well. Hope this video reaches as many people as it can to bring in right mindset among youth. Thank you!
I thought the term "Body Count" was meant for the number of people killed or dead. Never knew it had multiple meaning. Excellent video sincerely meant for today's generation. Thank you guruji 🙏
Metoo
I still didn't understand what body count means
मुझे भी आज पता चला
😂😂 true that 😅😅
I thought it was weight
I m married gone through everything in life right wrong
This person is giving you the life lesson
To all the young women
I hope you understand
He has not ridiculed but guided you
Believe it or not, but there's a group of girls between the age of 30-40 with zero or no body count, but they never married due to various reasons, not saying they're happy, their number might be less, but it exists
They are more happy than married one, they have freedom to make mistakes or freedom of choices......and also take responsibility of their actions, social media is a becoming a centre for Brain drain these days....
True what this uncle is saying is not true for millennial girl and some girls are fat not because of high body count but due to pcos which is completely different
@@simratikaur5226 I am 26 years old. And I have zero body count. I am heavily inclined towards spirituality and I don't think I am ever going to marry because the idea doesn't resonate with the kind of life I want and I am not making these choices out of trauma or life experiences. It's just what my heart beleives in. Yes you're right, we exist. Generalization doesn't work all the time.
Hi di I'm 23
A boy I loved left me as he wanted sex but I want to do it after marriage,i know I did right thing by saying him ni,but I still miss him,He said I am immature as I don't approve of this and left,as you are older than me and more mature than me can you give me advice?am i immature to say no to sex before marriage?@@vedangigarg
@@vedangigarg india hai behen
Bhot muahkil hai ye faisla
200% relatable.... aapme hi guts h ye sb btane ka... hats off to you.....
I'm 20 yr F and I'm thankful to my father and elder brother who always had my back and I can proudly say that they had made me high value women ❤😊
Sex mat do mithai dedo. True.
Can be a good tag line for aggarwal sweets corner 😂
😂😂
😂😂
Thanks
Menstrual cycles have become much more sensitive compared to previous generations. Being a doctor I myself agree that such abortion pills and hormonal pills definitely affect the body in a negative way...
@@dr_global_herb senstive in the scene,u mean increasing desire
Menes became sensitive due to IT job long working hour limitless stress a doctor saying that and giving a certificate to.girl is really a shameful at and that the reason young girl suffer but not come to gynics
What about 10 boyfriend before marriage
@@soumendash3911 because now a days most of us are having poor lifestyle and additionally if we consume such hormonal pills it becomes even more difficult to get cured.
@@roshinitoenlightenment may women around you will go through this way but stress specially work life balance is effect majority health whether physical mental.sexual or emotional regardless of male or female .
What you are saying is 100% true sir. I was literally thinking..ke Thank God i have a Dad who told me this my whole life. And i was able to stay away from predators and womenizer guys. What you are doing is seriously noble for those girls who dont have a father in their life 🙏🙏🙏
Kudos to your dad
Lucky to have a father who didn't consider you as a burden
Thank you guys! He is the best really. He tries his best to guard me with all his life. Literally. 😊
@@San_home-chef Yes since all the burden is on the male child..
@@San_home-chef Do you know her dad personally ? She has no where mentioned in her comment about her dad considering her as a burden or not.
You are doing samaj- seva sir.
Y baate parents ko baccho ko smjhana chahiye.
Bt shram aa jati h .
Grt respect for you sir.
May god bless you!!
U r taking lots of risk being youtuber.
Sir i was the guy who would not go into GFS Just because I was so sure that I will do it with my wife only.....
My friends made so much fun of me, as they would be going for hunt..
I am blessed to have met a good girl as my wife...
I follow spirituality, I read good books meditate and life is bliss
So one has to have the clarity.....
I hated doing sex outside the marriage....
This confidence comes by making good money and following spirituality
Very Good ! Actually ye bat aap par charitharth hui "jo jaisa hota hai use vaisa hi milta hai " aap achhe hain so aapko acchha partner mila ,har kisi ko apni virginity sirf apne partner ko hi deni chahiye .
@@vikramchauhan1831you hated but still did it?
@@ARPITAVERMA-f5y sahi baat hai
I hate social media influencer,
but guru ji you deserve to be at top most position in our society
Excellent vdo. You are talking exceptionally truth. As a practicing Gynecologist, i am facing this daily. I keep telling these girls about same. High time , you are bringing this issue in the public domain. They are least bother about health issues, STD's, mental and emotional trauma. Good parenting is very important. So called partially educated , 20-40 k salaried girls are indulging in these activities more than well educated, well employed girls with good salary. Excellent, educative vdeo
What do u think is the main reason ....why is only these girls r indulging in this?
Glad to know the information
Yes , half knowledge is dangerous.
rather than telling them this give them proper sex education. maybe ask them to decrease their frequency and use condom rather than what this uncle is speaking - sex after marriage bullshit. that "tapasya" is not made for everyone.
Very well pointed out. Someone needed to address this issue. I'm a modern well-educated woman from a broad minded family, yet I always felt disgusted at the way girls nowadays devalue themselves in the name of freedom, equality and modernity.
Thank god atleast someone like you is there to guide today's generation
Today,s movies r also very derogatory ,,it generalize wrong things
FASHION. Movie thi vo
@@chandrakiransharma9101 That's why i don't watch
That missing father figure syndrome , that was on point! And where father is missing, even the mother doesn’t care much.
Absolutely 💯 right
I have to say this is your best video on today's generation.
I dont think youngsters will wait till mariage for sex. In fact several dont even consider marriage as a goal these days. Sex is considered necessary as a component of wholesome healthy living and medically it is said good sex gives one, male or female, that glow & shine of health, that happy outlook of mind. But the flip side, the reality, the practical situation is that socio economic and social security set up , the social outlook in India in the most parts,with respect to sex & sexuality, are still poorly developed , medieval and generally no where near how they are in the evolved western, advanced country status. These are disruptive times for young Indians and your advice is quite valid for this category of the young Indian. 😊
It's so true Amit Ji...i also observe and come across these things while teaching Menstrual health
First and the foremost stop telling women that they need male support to feel safe and achieve things in life. Treat women like normal human beings. That mental dependence has to go. And women need to be told that a man being a good friend or a good human being in general isn’t something to go nuts over. Problem is that the bar is set too low for women. So a man being a decent human being is idlolised. Hence women feel obligated to return favour.
I admire your guts Sir. Someone needs to discuss these so called Tabboo topics
I agree. The bar is so low, normal interactions with men feel so refreshing. Theyre always on edge.
But women do need support of family to achieve things in life. A woman who is left alone thinking she is strong independent woman is often taken advantage of and her life becomes unbearable. See any women in high positions. They achieved those high positions with support of family. I'm not saying the family gave them those positions. Just the thought that I can fall back on my family if anything goes wrong is enough.
This information would listen to every Girl ..Great Topic
Hi Sir
Such an eye opening video. These days it is very common and I have 2-3 girls in my friend circle only who are not virgin and use bumble ,tinder etc. They all are from good family backgrounds and are engaged in these kinds of activities . One of my friends is regretting a lot after the break up and she is emotionally and physically disturbed. Another one is also regretting but she has become extremely negative and manipulating other girls around me to have sex before marriage or there is nothing wrong in having multiple partners as she herself is "BARBAD " . She tried manipulating me as well but I never had any physical relationship with anyone , and I am proud of that. I am 27 years old and preparing for competitive exams . And I have cut her off from my circle. But these days every 4/10 of the girls are not virgin & these girls try to manipulate other girls to be like them.
Very true
Please spread awareness to every innocent girl as these girls come in peer pressure and don't have any knowledge about these kinds of people.
@@ayushisrivastava5278 this is true girls who loose their virginity tell others girls that they will go mad if they donot have sex 😂
One of my non virgin friend seriously told this to me .
It is better to be a virgin all life and be mad rather than have sex with a low life who has no plan to marry you
I am same age as you
And the pressure on us is real sis
Get married
@@ayushisrivastava5278 I appreciate you as you are a true HIGH VALUE WOMAN ..keep it up and all the best for your competitive exam
I'm 22 single since birth not because no one propose me or approch but because i want my husband to be my first in everything i want to love only one man that my husband people of my age group call me old fashion and tell me that one is waiting for me or the man i'll marry will not wait for me to get married and have sex and all they be like you should have experience but my question is why ? Why should i have experience? Too with some random person if i need experience i can get it from my husband too its better to build my career and count my degree rather than sleeping around and counting body count
This was a much needed video. It has become a pandemic specially in cities like Delhi. I work as a non teaching staff in one of the prominent colleges in Delhi, and what he has said about today's boys and girls are 100% true.
I live in US originally from India. I visited India after many years for a wedding. I was shocked to see women/girls in India wearing almost pornographic clothes even in weddings. I was like wow, people in the west do not wear such sexualized clothes but indian girls think that this is modernism. In US only poor women without much going on for themselves wear such provocative clothes. Good women always wear very covering and nice clothes. Def a shocker for me! 😂
Yes, this has been noticed, specially in the north, many women are wearing highly revealing clothes, might be the women think they are looking modern and sexy and not like some behenji type, but to be modern you dont have to expose, there are so many pretty clothes which are modern as well as give decent covering.
The thought process these days for many people( including parents) seems to have yo yoed from too conservative some years back to too exposing these days.
@@rajanimenon1780I agree 💯
You will find the same kind sorry more vulgar clothes in ancient temples sculptures lol
@@RimaDesu00 the vulgar clothes you see in ancient temple sculptures are mainly wore by Nayikas and vaishikas (prostitute) and they were mostly hired by the king for some plesure activities and they were the one who learned the skill of 64 arts of kamasutra and ratishastra... their whole purpose was to pleasure the king or other courtesans in ancient time, in modern day we call them wh*re, not all wormen were lke this, only who were into certain professions..... you should know before commenting..
@@me_debankan4178 Yes, also most of these carvings are the fantasy of men, who carved their fantasy into the stones and made these sculptures, it is not real.
Real men and women are full of emotions, and their whole life and actions are guided by their emotions, only if they have satisfactory emotions can they live a fulfilling life and feel a sense of self worth and achievement.
Today 's generation should listen to Munshi Premchand ki kahani
.There are many stories of him revolving around relation ship of husband and wife .
The author uses words like "Hridyeshwari " for portraying hero's love for her (wife )in the story meaning goddess of my heart .
In return the wife calls him PRANESHWAR .
AT first I was getting laugh but then I felt how much depth it gives to a relationship .
This kind of respect you can get from a man only when you deserve it ..
When you are high value high calibre person you attract people with high morale .
Otherwise only luccha lafangey will come in your life who will use you and throw you .
Being a Gen Z I'm telling....Gen Z girls are having physical relationship in their very early days like in schoolday and at their teenager stage.
I live in city called patna (hub of students) here students of class 11 & 12th comes here for the preparation of IIT & neet but they are being trapped in the situationship ( mean having sex, with no intension to marry).
Really appreciative video Guruji. Women engaged in non relevant aspects of gender equality and fails to understand female body and hormones worked in different manner .It is female who bear the consequences of child birth & abortion. I am in health care sector from 15 years and posted in Govt PHC .I 100 % agreed with you in video. Ethics & morality of society saves us from many future troubles especially in reproductive health.
Yes technology advances have ruined society and females are not designed to be like males yes, excellent video.
Sir what you ve said is absolutely right . But one thing I don't like when you said "25 Tak shaadi karlo koi pati kitab nahi cheen Raha", i mean really??
You should ask any married woman, she will say it's tough because it is tough. & What about if the female is virgin & male has 3-4 body count , same thing applicable to women also. To isliye shaadi kar le ???
& Sir what about marital rape or all that adultery stuffs. You can't deny on that. It's not a solution to get married early, instead of this we focus on build our career then we will decide do it or not do it, take that decision wisely .
I am okay with what did you say , bt aapne bhi sab sahi nahi bola hai to flow me cross check Kiya kare that what am I saying...
true
Seconded
After marriage women will take care of children no matter how smart she is, how independent she is, she will be a mother and have motherly feelings and afterwards her career will sink instead of taking off she will not get a fair chance to build up a career.
There is no such thing as marital r@pe. Stop destroying marriage.
Prime age to have kids is 20-30. I am asking you if a girl want to continue job till 30 then won’t that will also be effected when she will be pregnant? She will drop that job to take care of baby. One way or other for some period of time a woman needs to take a break or leave job. You can do that earlier in a healthy way or later like others and have complications and run to doctors.
Excellent video sir, maine khud ko bahut bahut improve Kiya h pichle kuch saalo me, phle m kya thi or ab kya hu, literally I love my present self ❤
shaadi karogi kya
Movie name: Fashion (2008 movie)
I got married at 24 was working successfully at an MNC, my husband motivated me to study further. Now happily settled 😊 I studied he supported us then I got a job and he studied 😊
After ages you made such a sensible & much needed video, this is spreading more faster than pandemic, thank you for taking the effort to make this video
Kr liya ldkio ko shame kya milega isse ye bhi bola unhone wo ni suna?
This is a showstopper video
Bahut help karega society ko...thanx Guruji🙏🙏
Hy
In working life we see, given example
- if A single girl working in office mostly prefer taking lift from office colleague who is married instead of unmarried man, they have excuse that married man hai toh sharif hai single hai toh galat samjhega. At the end mostly we find person who was married is ending with extramarital affair with same girl or married man wife always fighting with him saying why you are helping her 😂😂😂. This we see in daily life as example
Yeah 100% true brother 😂😂
True 😂
Married walo k jyada chul hoti hai dusri ladki ki. Isliye wo single se jalte hai 😂😂
Why to give and take lift if you are working and independent. If people are involved in giving and taking lift that definitely means they have bad intentions.
This advice should be given to both genders. Both are equally responsible.
Dono ke liye h
Top video and on trend, so practical this person, feminist project is a psychological operation to divide society and is successful.
Why are you triggered?
😂😂
Sir, pahli bar kisi ne itna acha video banaya. Bilkul sahi. Thank u sir thank u. I start proud of my self again becoz so many girls around me told me that I m a old school nd so many things. I always thought that I m not belong to that generation. But thank u sir for mentioning the point of high value women. And u were right high value women always find a high value men. I got a high value men. Not a bodybuilder, not a handsome hunk but a very responsible men who always valued me, exactly my father. Sir bht Acha content h aap ka. Aap nhi jante per high valued women ko bht niche samaghti h ye body count type ki girls. But is trha ki videos se hmara confidence badhta h. Thank u sir.
Bhot acha video h sir
We men are responsible for everything… do minute ke sukh main bhot barbadi kr rahe h hum sab log
I am 25 year old woman and never ever had a boyfriend for the same reason , cause I understood these things from an early age.
And Thanks to my father for always loving me and showing me what true love really is.
I a man ever comes to my life he has to have a good character.
Thank you, sir, for being brave enough to speak on this topic. While industries like Bollywood and Hollywood seem dedicated to destroying the sanity of youngsters, someone like you is speaking the truth. 'In times of universal deceit, speaking truth is a revolutionary act.' - George Orwell
Well written message indeed.
This video should be shown to girls students.
Mai picchle 8-9 saal se kehti aa rahi hun, ki there is very less that we have to change in how we used to raise our daughters and too much to change in how we raise our sons. Hum agar betiyon ko beton ki tarah paalne lage toh world war ki bhi zarurat nahi paregi is duniya ko khatam karne ke liye. Hume apne beton ko betiyon ki tarah paalne ki koshish karni chahiye.
Yes. Beto ko betiyon ki tarah palne ki zarurat hai.
Isi kami ki wajah se hazaro saal bigda raha. Ladkiya to paanch das saal se Khushi se kar rahi hain। Pehle majboor karke rula ke ki jati thi.
Ladke to hamesha karte hi the. Ladkiyon ke saath hi to karte the.
You have 100000 percent right logic sir. I wish more youth listen to you.
You are blunt sir but very right... this needs to be understood by all young people
thank you so much for this video sir... I'm a lady and totally support your vision 😊
Our body is the temple of God. We need to keep our spirit, soul and body pure. Wait for the person who is your legal husband or wife, become emotionally connected to their spirt before connecting with their body..
Pls don't do casual sex and most importantly doesn't murder ( abortion) innocent baby because of your wrong choices.
Respect sister ❤❤
There are many waiting even at 50. That’s the unfortunate truth.
@@rosegold2617 what if a girl is graped and gets pregnant?
@@MeditationMelodies962 that is way it is said to choose ur partner very carefully.. if a couple is in a sexless marriage, its either one person's problm might be wife or husband.. talk to that person before getting marriage without involving in any kind of sexual activity, having a deep conversation can understand about ur partner well. We should be mature enough choose our partner carefully. We should not mess up our body by having sex before marriage. This is applicable to both men and women. Respect our body and wait for the right person for marrying.
@@Peachykeeen that is very unfortunate for those who are raped and impregnated them by some monsters. If a girl is a victim of a sexual assault, it doesn't make them, loose their dignity or respect. They come back and become stronger.
God will be make them strong enough to get over it, it doesn't mean they dont have a life ahead, they too have life.
I’ve been following you for 2 years. Really good Guruji . Blessed to have you. I’m too in college & really got interesting important point
It is almost impossible to study after marriage especially if husband is not supportive and in laws are overpowering..a girl's life take a 360degree turn after marriage... suddenly she becomes responsible for everything, she has to take care of everyone in the family and she has to fulfill the demands of in laws by giving them babies . Plus there is constant pressure of dowry on every festival and occasions.
aaj kal waise nhi hota.. aab toh ladkiyan reverse dowry le rhi hain, alimony ke naame se.. fake cases laga ke ladka ke pura family ko fasati hain..
aap 60s, 70s ke jamane ki baatein bol rhi hain
@@sourabhkumar3852 this Is happening in today's world as well
@@sourabhkumar3852wo cases mostly rich and upper middle class me hote hai...lekin aaj bhi middle aud poor families me dowry, domestic violence comman hai...😅 aur divorce toh bhul hi jao... it's still taboo
@@Ss-ze8ym Rich and upper middle class are even more suppressive. More wealth means more advanced from of suppression.....
Men and women both need to watch this
Awesome video, Bhai Saab, God bless you long life,
Very important points you have discussed,
Not everyone has the guts to talk about the real issues troubling our society,
Ek dum sahi hai, Guruji. Bohot necessary topic hai.
Sir Oyo founder told its used for tirth Yatra😢
😂😂yeah tirth yatra 😂
😂😂
oyo is a prostitution business
(i hope my comment will not be deleted)
- ladkiyan meethay ke jaise sex de rhi hai ladko ko? what do you mean by that? kya aap yeh keh rhe ho ki ladkiyan ladko ko sex deke koi un par upkaar kar rhi hai? yeh toh woh baat ho gai ki ladkiyon ko toh sex chahiye hi nhi aur woh toh sirf samaj seva kar rhi hai, esa bilkul nhi hai, main mumbai mein rent pe rehta hoon aur mere flatmate ki shadi hai dec-2024 mein lekin woh phir bhi ek ladki ke saath casual sex karta hai, kal raat ko hi woh ladki iske room mein aayi thi, maine uss ko puchh bhi ki bhai usse pata nhi hai teri shadi hone wali hai, wo bola ki usko pata hai aur woh toh boli ki shadi ke baad bhi jab bhi uss ko sex karna ho just call her, ab aap yeh bologe ki bhai toh yaha pe toh aadmi bhi harami hai, arey bhai, aadmi ki image toh waise bhi harami hi hai pehle se, baat yeh hai ki aurat bhi aadmi ki jitni hi harami hai if not more or less.
Then these girls become sati Savitri when come to marriage
exactly , taali dono haatho se bajti hai
Bhai mjhe chakkar aara hai tf I read. Uski hone wali biwi ko pata hai????
@@maishayarrtohnahi ofc not
Uski hone wali biwi ko batao. Why she should suffer a character less man? Par udhar Brocode nibhaoge.
And are you sure usne tumhe kahani nahi sunai, ki ladki ko usne sab bataya hai?
Par zyada zimmedari to admi ki hai, dusri ladki ko bhi shadi me fansaa raha hai।
Ab uski hone wali biwi bhi aise hi maze le, to 🐕🦺🐕🦺 rona shuru karega. You should tell his to be wife some way. Don't be a part in this PaapKarm. Karma spares none.
Best video till date guruji ❤
Amit sir ji you are really the Virat kohli of these topics in India. Hats off sir.🎉❤. No youtuber comes close.
@Shwetabh Gangawar also talks about this in great detail
Video title please
I wish Shwetabh reacts to this video
@@shubhamjain931 same bhai
Shwetabh Gangwar had been a childhood friend of my very dear friend and he literally has bragged about sleeping with multiple girls a million times to my friend and I've heard that.. To social media ke do kauri ke trap me mat fasa karo bhaiyo aur behno
@@priyaa8602 shwetabh iss type ka hai , and youtube pe gyan deta hai
This is a great video ❤
Sir mai apka subscriber hu kaafi purana Ab tak ka ye one of the best video hai apki taraf se . Mai apne Papa Mummy ki itni baat nahi maanta hu jitna apki maanta hu aapse kafi relate kar paata hu mai aap dost jaise lagte hai mujhe Jo life me apko sahi le jaaye sahi raasta dikhaye. Thank you Sir ❤
Hi
I believe you are the modern day Chanakya. ❤🎉
Bro keeps dissing Men after every sentence(that is supposed to be a “fact” on Women)so that he doesn’t feel the wrath of angry feminists in the comments.
And when he says fact on men/patriarchy all men bash him in the comment section
Fantastic video sir🙏...great observation 💯...
Movie Name- Fashion
I live in Delhi. I have talked to many girl's and what i have observed is that -- Earlier "marriage" was compulsory but "job" was optional for girl's, but genZ girl's say that "Job" is compulsory and "Marriage" is optional......
Because of the step treatment to girls by in laws inspite of her education and inspite of the fact that she had to leave her job because of never ending responsibilities on her shoulder.
What message will younger girls grab from the above situation if they observe other elder females in family are going through above.
For what you are studying physics, chemistry, biology, accounting, becoming CA, CS, lawyers, doctors, engineer, ultimately leaving jobs for responsibilities and get insults..
So, better to have your job... if your partner will cooperate good for both, if not, that's OK..
That's the right thing being independent is compulsory not marriage
Yes, job is compulsory. Only if you are unemployed you will know the pain of being incomeless
Because a job is actually compulsory, marriage is just society confirmation nothing more than that
Sir, girls can have a job and still be pure it's a matter of morals or character, which has to be taught to both boys and girls from young age.
Kudos. Thank you for sharing this to all girls n women. Thank you for being upfront.
Totallly agreed on every point... aur behtareen video ... aapki tareef jitnj kare kam hai guruji🙏
Points you raised are keenly observed one.
1. Absence of father figure.
2. Anonymity
3.Stress in family and btw parents
4.lonliness
5. Perception that' s its cool
The point of father missing role is very true.
Every sentence said by you is so true. This issue is growing serious with each passing day. Bahut zarurat hai esi valuable seekh dene ki aaj ki generation ko. Irrespective of gender and age, everyone must watch this masterpiece. I appreciate your thoughts and thank you for bringing out this video. 🙏🏻
I am from 80’s Born… Shahrukh khan ke dialogue brain mai embedded the.. Pyaar ek hi bara hota hai.. 😂 type.. And full emotional and respectful towards Girls 🙏🏻… Hamara Generation Girls se Baat karne se darne ka!!
Kya Jamana Aaya hai bhai 😵💫..
I hope Meri beti badi hone tak sab trends change ho jaye.. back to our Generations.. 🙏🏻
I'm from Gen Z generation and telling you payar ek bar nahi bar bar Hota hai...kyuki pahle payar lesson deke jata hai ki 2nd payar ko kaise handle karna hai
Payar is the just way to know the girls whether she is fit for us or not. After knowing each other for 7 to 8 months we decided whether to keep this relationship going on or should find someone better.
Us 7 to 8 months me bhaut kuchh ho jata hai jo nahi hona chahiye.
Ese hi relationship chalte rehta hai jab tak kisiko so called perfect partner nahi mil jata hai.
I think bollywood is the one responsible for this mess love doesnt exist it needs to be created
Please make a video on how naive boys and girls can judge the character of opposite sex
Sir ladkiyan aapas main competition karke, body count, body count khel rahi hai, virgin ladki ko useless feel karake usko bhi force karti hai damaged goods mahilaye.
Yeh bt yadh rakhe dost glt kam krne ma hi zada support krte hai tum kuch accha kroga toh vo nicha girana ki koshish krenga
Aur virgin ladki useless nai hai voh sabse special hai
Khud mai akal honi chahiye vo to , kis cheej se influence hona hai kisse nhi vo sab humare khud k hath mai hai , jo khud galt hoga vo to apni galti kaise na kaise chhupana ki koshish hee krenga , khud ka body count high hai or dusro ko dekha nhi jata ki kisi acchi relationship Mai kyu hai , I had only one boyfriend who is now my husband, I continued dating him because I was sure that he is the person for me to marry , n there were some jealous girls who used to say " tum log ak dusre se boar nhi hote kya " etc etc , because they could not find a single good boyfriend n engaged with many at the same time , wasting their time , effort n emotions
Aise galat friends se to akele rahna acha hai...be confident and sincere
Then leave that group immediately no need to run after fake validation of 2rs people
Vaise to ladke bhi ladkon ko virgin bolke useless feel karate...unlogon se affect mat ho simple....unki apni life h tumhari apni
If you watch the whole video till end, you will know how right he is. He is not only telling girls to stop destroying themselves but he is also telling the whole society including men and women to stop.
Sir, I agree with most of your points, but yeh jo baat apne bola ki get married by 24-25 career to hota hi rahega, I do not agree with that at all, ajke date mein jo unemployment ka rate hai, usme ek proper career banne mein time lag jata hai! Aur specially larkiyo ke liye Career banana bohot tough hota hai marriage ke baad, kyunki hum sabne apne mummy logo ko dekha hai ki kaise shaadi or bacche ke liye un logo ko kuch bhi karne ka mauka nahi mila life mein, unke pass bhi talent tha par woh log kuch nahi kar paye kyunki unko karne nahi diya gaya, aur jo in-laws hai wo chahte hai ki ladki ki alag koi zindagi nahi hoo, sirf ghar aur bacche samhale, iske liye to sirf ladkiya paida nahi hoti! Aur society hoti kaun hai decide karne wala ki ek ladki apni zindagi kaise jiyegi, jabki wahi society to na to khane ka 2 roti deta hai aur nahi rehne ki jagah, upar se jb ek ladki financially independent nahi hoti hai, uska husband kitna bhi bura ho, in laws kitna bhi bura treat kare, usko mu baand karke sehna parta hai! To isi liye yeh jo aap itne confidently bole ki shaadi karlo pehle, career wareer to chalta hi rahega, yeh baat ap dubara soch ke boliye, kyunki is duniya mein khud ke dam pe paise kamane ke baad hi freedom ke saath ji sakta hai insaan. Waise aap bhi to youtube per videos daalte hai, aur marriage counseling ka kaam karte hai, at the end of the day, yeh sab bhi to paise kamane ke liye hi hai na? To aap bhi to apne financial security dekh rahe hai, to ek ladki kyu na dekhe? Kyunki jo ladkiya shaadi karne ke baad musibat mein parjaati hai, aur unke pas financial strength bhi nahi hota, aap to unka roti Pani ka intezaam nahi kar payenge na? To advice thoda soch kar dijiyega! Baki body count aur casual sex ko leke apne jo bhi kaha I 100% agree with you on that!
I agree get married at whatever age be financially independent but dont loose character or become shameless which is becoming cool thing in todys generation
@@dilpreet63 Yeh at this point I too agree, that sleeping around is not a good choice and it's not even empowerment! It's just ruining lives! Find decent person, with whom you are compatible and get married, but that should be by choice, that should not be forced, because it's a lifelong journey, so the decision must be taken wisely and not in hurry because other friends are getting married or to have kids, even the kid's life gets ruined if parents marriage is not good,
@@anwesamallik6657 I think marriage in India is very risky thing because it is not easy to end it and move on but people find relationship easy because breakup don't cost you money India need better family courts for married people to end it if they don't want to continue it. Untill then youth will always find different ways to sleep then marriage
You're right, but after marriage, women are also entitled to husband's property and assets. Indian laws are heavily against men/husbands.
@@ShyamSunder-yk8zj government and corporate wants to loot middle class men and doing that through our women it becomes easy wives mothers sisters are brainwashed to loot our money
Sahi kaha aapne.. apni life me maine isi principal ko use kiya.. ek bande me apni energy invest karna chahiye. Physically aur mentally 100% ek hi aadmi me invest karna chahiye.
Reality is guys are getting intellectual and passionate about other things in life, and women at large number has nothing to offer to that category men anymore apart from body.
Bang on 🎉
Not even body now .
Social media, Bollywood are major influence on young girls and ladies. Media makes these fil and tv stars as demigods. Not the ones who contribute to the society like farmer, doctor, teacher, soldier. Narration should change in Films, media to bring positive changes in society at present
Social media like insta is a curse
@@minakumari1515 not social media, mothers. They don't teach sanskar to Sons.
I think of doing anything after marriage only and guess what I get criticized for that by people of my age.
u r right. They are just playboys or girls who regret after becoming a victim and want you to become one of them
@@XBRupjitDhaliwell said. Because they are feeling like aliens
You are a smart woman. Please share this video to your female friends and in your social circle. It'll be a social service.
Guruji you r doing great job for humanity..
Shi kha sir, mere hostel ki ladkiyo ki bhi yhi halat hai every month new bf pta nhi kha se dhudh leti hai
Even i lived in hostel par maine nhi kiya
I want to share it to so many people, but sadly can't. However I follow celibacy before marriage, just so I can look myself in mirror, and not do wrong with the mother of my children.
Pls aise humesha rehna ❤ acchi ladkia bhi hoti hai jo spiritual hai❤
Thanks sir , your intentions, efforts to warn are very good.
How to save them ????
I wish all the Youngsters the best in their lives. Our Youth is the future and responsible for preserving the culture. My Dear Young Brothers and Sisters, please take care of Your selves. A fair advice from Your Elder Brother. God Bless.
I am a man. The mere thought that I will have to marry someone who has slept with others is depressing.
Same bhaii
How can also get high bodycount just lower your standards and you can get sex
Not just depressing, its disgusting
Kudos to you for this video. This is a very daring video. wakeup call to young gen
@jayantaroratv 😂😂😂.. bhai I'm also in for it
True about relatives . Taking help from them compared to your father and brother is completely bullshit !!
This video should get viral, but no body gonna share it to target audience.
Men should watch it more, tell men not to touch women apne aap ladkiya virgin rahegi
@@BabyYodaBaby jab wife thuki hui hi milni hai to me kyu virgin rahu ?
All because of movies and web series
Men
बहुत अच्छा vdo बनाया है sir
90s- accha character ka ladaka mil jaaye to accha hoga.
2024- acche character ki ladaki mil jaaye to accha hoga.
It is called karma
Very good advice sir, I just hope that they listen
🔥 aag laga diye uncle ji
Super video for new generation, who have spoiled our society.
Women want men with a bright future, but men want women with a clean past !