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I am a woman but living abroad and in India I see women sitting at home have all the maids for household chores and still they keep complaining about being tired of working.
Do u realise in US you have machines for everything which mostly work ?? In India many of us can’t afford those ! And main issue is in-laws chik chik which doesn’t exist in a foreign country . Pls grow some common sense !!
Machines to anyways mostly upper middle class ko bhi accessible hain India me but nowdays most women in urban Indian cities have to balance professional and personal life hand in hand which is a tedious job, hardly one gets any time to sit idle not sure whom you saw sitting idle in home enjoying life doing merrily nothing.
@@indup6858 I think life in general is harder in India the in-laws having to live with them their interference, homes get messier , not having amenities like washer dryers, dish washers , central heating and cooling, bathrooms that are always dirty , hard water, electricity cuts , air pollution, noise pollution, most families don’t even have one car per family so relaying on crowded buses and daily traffic jams. When all this is part of daily life it becomes harder. I say this as a person who have seen both sides of the coin and currently living in US life is easier here even with all its hardships .
@@shikhadwivedi1655 these people just don’t realise most of us online - are working in IT which itself is a hectic and stressful career . On top of that , if you are in cities and have to go to ofc - there is traffic . And we have in-laws dropping in any time and whenever they want - no matter if they have to come from mangalore , tamilnadu , Andhra or north india or Odisha or Kolkata or from Ahmedabad and stay here for good 3 months doing nothing !! So I would suggest the OP to think about these factors . I am a woman who works in IT , dealing with all the above problems in India , and I have a friend who is in US enjoying her life - going out almost every weekend and having a relaxed work life balance !! I am not jealous of her , I am just stating facts !! In-laws do come in even in the US - but travel there is much easier , education is mostly free , and people don’t have the burden of wearing traditional Indian clothes with pallu on unlike India!! So - yeah , may be some urban brats do have that privilege and most of them are also making insta reels , humein toh yaha apni Baal banane ka time nahi - aur aate hai aise comments !! Hey Raam 😇
After 22 years of marriage, I completely agree with you that Hisband and Wife need to give each other peace and space too.. Love is concept evolved by Bollywood and K dramas ..
@@aaysha16 Nahi kuch log shanti pasand karte hain wo bhi doosre ko peace dete hain lekin pyaar nahi karte jo ki kisi bhi relationship ko maintain karne ke liye jaroori hai.
My wife was epileptic. It was hidden from me. No divorce possible as half the estate would have gone. The best way is to live together but don't keep any type of contact.
@@aaysha16 Aap hi ne kaha ki aapke pati ko pyaar chahiye lekin aap unhe peace deti ho, jis wajah se ladaai ho rahi. Agar pati ko pyaar mil raha hota to wo ladta nahi.
A lot of men are emotionally absent at home but show keen interest in what's happening in sport, politics or their parents and siblings life. This leads to such feelings in a marriage.
Then comes ladies like us who manage both and in-laws treat and act as they are favouring us to allow for work. We manage both like we don't have anything for us in life. Exhausting. Smtime it feels like get out from this mess anyhow. We are financially independent, almost doing all our chores by ourself but world treat us as nthng. Working ladies are draining themself for nothing.
You are right,didi But husbands also used to work hard before when men were sole earners Now women are earning and they feel independent But when men earned,they took responsibilities... Then comes women like you who is talking responsibility..4
we are not doing for strangers, if we take it as responsibility, then we won’t look for acknowledgement from outside.. and moreover spending some of our salary for appointing maids or equipment is not wrong.
It’s a very relatable saying I heard somewhere,- “Firstly, woman treats a man how she wants to be treated. Then later treats him how she gets treated” All men need this knowledge- woman will give you 10x back. Which you rightly put. But men are generally insecured and thinks if we give 100% love,respect, trust in the first place, we will be manipulated by woman later. that’s also a fear in them. That leads to making them, men, more controlling, dominating to get things done from the woman. And it brings bitterness in both of the partners. Men and women needs prior counseling before getting into any partnership.
Shadi ke baad aise insecure honge to shadi nibha nahi payenge. Shadi is samarpan. For both husband and wife. Shadi ho gayi tab to ye guards neeche karne hi honge. Or else soch samajhke shaadi karo.
Our neighbour bhaiya is manager in govt institution good salary her wife is house wife. Bhaiya washes clothes of his own n kids n blankets bed sheets everything.. n he cleans store n old stuff on weekends n his parents dnt live with them takes them to hospital n for outings n stuff too n wife is sitting at home al day only cooking she does. House help does safai n Bartan wife is always out roaming here n there with frnds or funds at home. N kids always cms to our home Di mama ko cal Krdo she not at home.. n stil husband is happy never complains. Infact wife complains itna kam hai n al that
As a 30 y.o. man, i told my mom i will take care of her the best way possible for eternity, but won't give her a bahu. Not going to marry. this decision has been made after much deliberation. Advise to boys n girls, don't marry. be a bit shameless and bold. think out of societies expectation.
Beta ... Tu toh bol hi matt 😂😂😂 Kyuki tu abhi bachha hai , kab tera dil phisal jayega aur shadi kar lega patha nhi... Mein tera baat ko man leta agar tu abhi 70 saal ka buddha hota toh 😊 ...best of luck, find a fine woman ❤
Do whatever you wanna do it's great that you don't want to bring a girl to your home and make her a maid to your mom.But don't project these thoughts that just because you may have had bad experiences that means everyone should do the same. Many people younger than you and your age are in healthy and happy relationships so don't stereotype.
Sahi mein bhai? Watch what reels she is watching,, most of wifes want an ambitious husband. And if you are too ambitious and don't spend any time with her then you need to park some time to talk random stuff with her.
Agar husband narcissist hoga to wo jyaadatar" gay" hoga aur apni biwi ko avoid karega aur baahar affairs karega. Agar aapki saas narcissist h to pati bhi narcissist ho sakta h. Tab pati se love, care, kindness, respect ,understanding and peace milna to bhool hi jaao bas apni jaan bachaao.
@@bullseye6969 jab narcissist se saamna hoga to tum bhi samajh jaaoge dear, aur agar tum khud ho narcissist to try learning about it and try to work towards healing with prayers.
Correct advice given by Amit sir for wife and husband. I understand what we should give or what we need is peace and space. Basic cooking and cleanliness is necessary for husband as well as wife. Love is wrongly described in all movies and we have born by seeing these one. We feel that such thing will happen in our life but practically all thinga are opposite. Waiting for more of your videos
Everyone wants peace, 3 foundations must be built 1. No extra marital, 2. Both should have free hand in joint money, 3. Both should have joint property. Peace comes after fulfilment of responsibilities towards spouse
I have my mother of 65 years. I never see a day off at home all seasons. I can relise this today being a home meker n working eoman,being a wife is a thankless job. Even if i advise today any youbg girl i will advise not to marry. I found money earning is far more easier than running a home and it is considered a dutg for woman to run household n riase kids. At least in job ppl recoginse work n say than you. Life is far more easier to live when you earn n live alone than xarrying the burden of entire family on your shoulders n ppl having the audacity tovsay , mere liye tum karti kya hoti. Mein to even worst enemies 'girls) ko shaadi advise na karo n if i get a relive a life will never ever marry again.
grass is always greener on the other side. recognition at work my foot. You should understand, agar naukri gayi bande ki, to jo aj badhiya si society mein rent pe flat le rakha hai, jahan park hai sab facilities hain, naukri nai rahi to apne gaon mein jana padega to save expense. if you think earning money is easy for you, please do.. and show it to your husband, he will be more than happy to contribute to household chores by cutting his job work and lose on appraisals (on top of that no fear of losing job).
@b0606089 yes don't worry I have already done that ... n he says tj.he to kaam karne ka shoik hey tum kaam kar lo mein aaram kar leta hoon. It is hard to accept thst money earning g is far more easier if you have the right skills n attitude. N in job you are not bound you don't like it , you find a new one still don't like find new one.marraiges don't work like that. People can change for bosses not for partner
@b0606089 don't worry. I have bought the assets that you thought are necessary n also gone through the appraisal part as well. The beauty of job is you change whever you don't like it. Marraiges don't operate like that. You just don't leave because at some point u dont like it. N from my own experience I can tell you that the most easy part I found was earning money. After reaching the office when the kids was small, just enjoyed the peace office offered for 15 minutes n then started work. All household responsibilities n parenting primarly fall on woman n supposedly with a discussion with my husband he agreed to that at some level. Definitely this is not going to work in future generations.
Nhi krte ghar k kaamo me help. Kehtein hain ki meri mom ne raja ki tarah rakkha h mujhe. Ghar ka kaam nhi aata, seekhna bhi nhi chahte. Jabki main accha earn karti hu.
I teach in the college and my husband does all his chores. He makes his breakfast, he sweeps infront of the house ( not inside that is my domain), he washes sometimes his clothes etc. alhamdulillah
jinki saas nahi hai sath vaha bhi peace nahi ab bolo? fir bhi saas ka naam leke kuch naa kuch sunati hi rahegi, pucha ki kab baat hui kya baat hui to bolegi, me kyu baat karungi. matlab bina baat kiye hi usko bas bolte hi rehna hai shanti chahiye hi nahi aurato ko, shanti aurato ka naam hi ho sakta hai asal me nahi.
Nice clarity giving video. Really kdramas and bollywood movies have really overhyped concept of love. In reality, wife needs protection, trust care and respect from Husband. Life can smoothly go on without love if you have these qualities and lots of money of course. Pay the bills are more 3 magical words than I love you.
If there is no love in life, then there is no meaning of life, forget about going smoothly. All are not materialistic like you to think about money and paying bills all the time. Love is equally important as money is.
Rubbish.why anyone will give u trust care respect without love ?when love is not there in relationship neither trust or care etc will be there .and talking about bills why men will pay ur bills without love. if you want something in yr life earn for yrself.
In reailty men need ,appreciation,care,loyalty,supportiveness .and it all depends on love. u can not get anything from anyone with out love.and if its there then it is a fake relationship.
Hello sir, I am watching your videos for a longtime Very informative Sir, nowadays infidelity is ruining everyone's married life which is the main cause for divorce most of the cases. Sir please give your suggestions about it. Because it scares people to get married.
Starting one year me mijhe bhi bhot problem aayi yhi husband ko samjhne me , mujhe bhi lgta tha ki kaam nhi krte even i was working too but i notice small small thing , wo apne kapdo or mere kapdo pr Iron krte the , breakfast bnane me bhi help kr dete the , sunday ko laundry me bhi help kr dete the , dheere dheere chije thik hoti gyi but wo kabhi bhi safai ko le kr complaint nhi krte m hi lgi rehti hu ki chije saaf ho , understanding bhot jaruri h husband wife me
I think peace exchange is possible only when a couple solves the money issue. Both men and women should understand that the money they earn is the family money not individual money. A portion should go as pocket money to their individual accounts (same should be used for their respective parents) and the rest to a joint account, where they both decide how to do monthly expenses investments etc. Men want their wives to earn money but in reality the majority only create hurdles for them.
Really! Here is my version - Both individual should be financially independent before and after marriage only during pregnancy all the expenses should be beared by husband. Child upbringing (financially and emotionally)should be by both individuals. Both individual should take care of their parents and should entitled to their respective inheritance. No individual should have any financial right on others only because of so-called marriage.
Marriage is a partnership, not an individual pursuit. In the beginning, splitting responsibilities like rent and household tasks may seem simple: each spouse contributes 50% to the rent, the wife cooks on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, while the husband handles Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays, and they share the dining-out costs on Sundays. This strategy may work well for live-ins or the early years of marriage. However, once a child enters the picture, everything changes. The dynamics shift dramatically, and the division of labor can no longer be equal. The mother's role in early childhood is especially demanding, and sometimes stepping back from a career is the best decision for family well-being. In modern marriages, however, women are expected to remain financially independent, without any career breaks, often ignoring the impact on both mental health and child development, which could contribute to rising autism rates. Every wife and child should have financial rights to the husband's earnings, ensuring the family’s overall well-being. This is true even for dual-income, no-kids (DINK) couples. As the earnings gap between spouses grows, feelings of disconnection arise. A mismatch in lifestyle can lead to strain, making extra-marital affairs and divorce more likely. Ultimately, couples should have open discussions about finances and make joint decisions about how to allocate their combined income to best support the family’s needs. Communication and collaboration in financial matters are crucial for maintaining a strong, united relationship.
Sir meri marriage 4 years phle hui hai n mere husband muje kahte hai before marriage mere money save nahi hota but after marriage kafi save ho pa re hai bcz me financially unhe bolti hu do save ur money in different schemes… wife bhut kuch karti hai ghar k lye but kisi ko dhikhta nahi hai
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@@architsrocksbhai tu to apne ego ka shikar hai isilye tuje apne kaam ka dukh dikh rha hai par jo wo lady ap a dukh bta rhi hai wo to smjne m koi interest hi nhi hai tuje. Shaadi mat krio bas.
Me & my hubby both are working, we have devided our responsibilities, plus my hubby is very well Organized by his own and takes his things seriously, we are living peaceful happy life ❤
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Sir ye bhi video banaiye ki aadmio ko kaise appraise kare. Paisa kamana enough hai kya agar wo ghar me involve hi na ho. Usko pata nahi uske bacche kaun se standard me padhte hai, wo nahi jaanta uski wife ko kya pasand hai, ya family members ki kya zarurate hain . Agar har zarurat ke liye unse jaake maangna padhe wo bina maange ya khud se observe karke na de to mujhe lagta hai waise pati bhi average hi hai.
Exactly. I think the thought of Guruji is also money related. Working women, who have to manage their career along with the kids, inlaws, their own parents, etc. Husband has to manage only his office and career, there also they will be saying- office mein bahut kaam hai. Humein to bithake salary dee jaati hai, free mein.
Aapne sahi kaha sir har kam karne ke bad bhi shadi ko 25 sal uppr hogya lekin husband paise nahi dete.khudko agar kuchh kharidna ho to paise hote hai par bachhe aur bivi ko nahi dete.
This is a very true advise, housewifes should get some money in their hands to take care of self which may be she wont be able to demand like personal hygiene, some skin care therapy because they need it actually. If she has some money she is also going to be a secured person. She will have money to buy things for kids, husband as a surprise. She has that freedom which she deserves.
I live abroad and i hear first time Korean drama ,it's thru Indian women is totaly free and help full from house helper that's why all Indian family thinking India was better because there was lots of people for house help but here not possible.
Problem with peace is peace is misunderstood as perfection and best by the other party.Peace gives comfort,comfort invites sluggishness to extreme extent.peace can only be earned by being full inside not depend on relations for peace. Man /Women come alone go alone in between is a drama good or bad depends.
Mere husband mujhse baat nahi krte, kai baar puchne aur clear bolne k baad bhi, pta nahi unko mujhse kya chahiye ya mai hi uhne pasand nahi hu wo bolte hi nahi hai, mai hamesha mujhse baat karne ke liye bolti hu aur bolte bolte thak gyi hu, ab bas bahut ho gaya, ab to unhi k jaise mujhe bhi behave krna hai wo Raashan le aate hai mujhe Khana bnana hai bas yahi relation rakhna hai
What if women works at home without maid and also go for field work n office work n gives all money to husband and still if husband wants separation then
People in comments should understand, his audience is wide and what he says applies to lot of people ( men and women ) but not all and is generalization. You should analyse each situation from neutral perspective. Everyone's situation is different and each persons desire is also different. Whatever he is saying is generalization and generalization does apply to lot of people ( and hence its called that name ). So no point in women getting angry in the comment. It rrally does apply to lot of women around me as well. But i also see few women who work really hard. Its important to be self aware when you hear such things. Also, it is important to understand how men and women are different and may want different things in life. We compliment each other and love is what that bonds us.
Aapki baat se mai sahmat nahi hu mei pregnant thi tab bhi mera pati mujhe dr ke pass nahi le ke jaata tha tumhe kuch nahi pata . hai shamaj ke bare me.budhi nahi hai aapke paas ledis ko target karna band karo
K drama is bad. But why is he rubbsihing female fantasy but not male fantasy of $3× ? So here also male's wish is being given more importance than that of female. He is complaining that wife kehti hain not today darling, headache h. Women emotional support maanfe, baith ke baatein karna chahe toh woh galat.
Mere ghar pe aadmi log ka household me contribution itna negative hai ki agar mera pati ne khud se koi ek bhi ghar ka kaam kia to mere bewakoof dil ko itna gratitude feel hoga jaise wo mera sabkuch hai.
When you speak, pleae speak pn both sides..some of your videos are so distrubing that my husband started behaving rough, having doubts and questions me all time and haunts me on my past..one of us is going to die because all peace is gone..every couple is different and their issues are also different..dont generalize plz
Agree about K-Dramas. They romanticize love and marriage. Life is a struggle and no one has time these days to sit and love someone. The burden of being happy is yours and yours alone!
Sir please working wife jo ghar ka bhi sab kam karti h,like house wife aur husband n to financially aur n hi house hold works karta ho tab kya karna chahiye video batayen please 🙏
@@Ashima-j9x just because ur husband/father/brother belong to that category does not mean that other men are doing that. Kbhi pados me dekh lena ki admi ko bahar ka or ghar ka itna kaam aata hai ki marriage ki jarurat b nahi hai.
It's a very lopsided video showing the hardship of only a man. A man goes to work irrespective of him being married or a bachelor either to support himself, his parents or wife. And not just husbands but wives also go to work and come back home equally tired who again have to do all the house chores if there is no maid or the husband doesn't help. There are very few housewives in India who have maids to help because its mostly the familes belonging to upper middle class and above who can afford maids which also don't come cheap these days. My mom being housewife and 50+ works continuously since morning till evening 7-8 pm and without any salary. And just like her most housewives slog their days from morning till night tending to the demands of their husbands, kids and in laws(if they are present). So only earning and running the household doesn't equate to love but also showing it from time to time. Wives, being themselves working or not mostly complain of their husbands not loving them after their marriage even if it was a love marriage because they don't show equal interest which they showed before their marriage. Didn't they not go to work then? Then why love and interest diminished after marriage?
U haven't evolved with the society.. U have grown old but try to grow up.. Women work nowadays... Apne patni ko Saari woman samajh ke kyun baithe ho... Grow up then lecture
Main remote work from home karta hua mera koi izzat nai hai koi bhi dekhta hai to ye kya time pass kar raha sara din chair me mere ko mat bol kya kaam karte ho. Meri Bibi ka nind 11 pm to 11 am hota hai mera 11 pm to 7 am beech me Bibi uthkar hum dono ready karke wo so jati hum continue karte kyoki hame nind nai aata .. uske baad wo video call time pass aur mera side room me kaam. Bache aate to video dekhkar hum khana khilate kaam chodkar wo video call me. Ghar me sab kuch laga hai kaam wala khana wali. Phir bhi bolti hum kaam karte hai hame samajh nai aata kitna kaam to hum offic time me kar dete jisse hame tired hota physically and mentally aur jab bolti chalo ghumne mera himmat nai hota , bolti itna sota hai kyoki wo late Tak jagti mera himmat nai hota company uske video call wale bakwas pe. Kaise sahi kiya jaye
But sir, it's not too difficult to make your wife feel special. If a man comes from office, watches tv while having dinner, doesn't even look at his wife. Simply have sex at night and sleep, who will woman go to for her emotional needs. Women understand men's commitments at work but he atleast has to talk to her nicely over a cup of tea in evening. Is that too difficult? What if a woman does this
My relative lady, before marriage her mother used to cook & do everything, after marriage housemaid do everything. Now her age is 42 but looks like 65+ with Sugar , colestrol, joint pain etc. Her husband's age is 44 and he looks like 32 😂😂, that lady complain her husband to not wear good dress.
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I am a woman but living abroad and in India I see women sitting at home have all the maids for household chores and still they keep complaining about being tired of working.
Do u realise in US you have machines for everything which mostly work ?? In India many of us can’t afford those ! And main issue is in-laws chik chik which doesn’t exist in a foreign country . Pls grow some common sense !!
Machines to anyways mostly upper middle class ko bhi accessible hain India me but nowdays most women in urban Indian cities have to balance professional and personal life hand in hand which is a tedious job, hardly one gets any time to sit idle not sure whom you saw sitting idle in home enjoying life doing merrily nothing.
You got it right. India is heaven for women. Least hard working women.
@@indup6858 I think life in general is harder in India the in-laws having to live with them their interference, homes get messier , not having amenities like washer dryers, dish washers , central heating and cooling, bathrooms that are always dirty , hard water, electricity cuts , air pollution, noise pollution, most families don’t even have one car per family so relaying on crowded buses and daily traffic jams. When all this is part of daily life it becomes harder. I say this as a person who have seen both sides of the coin and currently living in US life is easier here even with all its hardships .
@@shikhadwivedi1655 these people just don’t realise most of us online - are working in IT which itself is a hectic and stressful career . On top of that , if you are in cities and have to go to ofc - there is traffic . And we have in-laws dropping in any time and whenever they want - no matter if they have to come from mangalore , tamilnadu , Andhra or north india or Odisha or Kolkata or from Ahmedabad and stay here for good 3 months doing nothing !!
So I would suggest the OP to think about these factors .
I am a woman who works in IT , dealing with all the above problems in India , and I have a friend who is in US enjoying her life - going out almost every weekend and having a relaxed work life balance !! I am not jealous of her , I am just stating facts !!
In-laws do come in even in the US - but travel there is much easier , education is mostly free , and people don’t have the burden of wearing traditional Indian clothes with pallu on unlike India!! So - yeah , may be some urban brats do have that privilege and most of them are also making insta reels , humein toh yaha apni Baal banane ka time nahi - aur aate hai aise comments !! Hey Raam 😇
After 22 years of marriage, I completely agree with you that Hisband and Wife need to give each other peace and space too.. Love is concept evolved by Bollywood and K dramas ..
@@aaysha16 Pyaar bhi chahiye, sirf peace kaafi nahi. Agar pati patni ek doosre ko pyaar nahi denge to aur kaun dega?
@@shivanshupandey7251 pyaar hota h tabhi peace de pate h shayad. Dushmani me kaisi peace.
@@aaysha16 Nahi kuch log shanti pasand karte hain wo bhi doosre ko peace dete hain lekin pyaar nahi karte jo ki kisi bhi relationship ko maintain karne ke liye jaroori hai.
My wife was epileptic. It was hidden from me. No divorce possible as half the estate would have gone. The best way is to live together but don't keep any type of contact.
@@aaysha16 Aap hi ne kaha ki aapke pati ko pyaar chahiye lekin aap unhe peace deti ho, jis wajah se ladaai ho rahi. Agar pati ko pyaar mil raha hota to wo ladta nahi.
A lot of men are emotionally absent at home but show keen interest in what's happening in sport, politics or their parents and siblings life. This leads to such feelings in a marriage.
Right
Message to girls - If you want your husband to treat like your queen, please treat him like a prince charming.
The last advise on cleaning bathroom, bed and organized cupboard actually works.
Yess my husband never told me to do iron his clothes 🙌 he do it since 9 years
even after lockdowns of 2020 many men did not learn basic survival skills)cooking , cleaning , laundry etc )🤔🤔
Then comes ladies like us who manage both and in-laws treat and act as they are favouring us to allow for work. We manage both like we don't have anything for us in life. Exhausting. Smtime it feels like get out from this mess anyhow. We are financially independent, almost doing all our chores by ourself but world treat us as nthng. Working ladies are draining themself for nothing.
Right..my mom is a working lady n sh does all the house chores...still no one care for her efforts....its like she means nothing
You are right,didi
But husbands also used to work hard before when men were sole earners
Now women are earning and they feel independent But when men earned,they took responsibilities... Then comes women like you who is talking responsibility..4
Why don't you spend a part of your or husband's salary in hiring a maid for household chores?
so what don't accept anything from this world
we are not doing for strangers, if we take it as responsibility, then we won’t look for acknowledgement from outside.. and moreover spending some of our salary for appointing maids or equipment is not wrong.
It’s a very relatable saying I heard somewhere,-
“Firstly, woman treats a man how she wants to be treated. Then later treats him how she gets treated”
All men need this knowledge- woman will give you 10x back. Which you rightly put.
But men are generally insecured and thinks if we give 100% love,respect, trust in the first place, we will be manipulated by woman later. that’s also a fear in them. That leads to making them, men, more controlling, dominating to get things done from the woman.
And it brings bitterness in both of the partners.
Men and women needs prior counseling before getting into any partnership.
Shadi ke baad aise insecure honge to shadi nibha nahi payenge. Shadi is samarpan. For both husband and wife. Shadi ho gayi tab to ye guards neeche karne hi honge. Or else soch samajhke shaadi karo.
Our neighbour bhaiya is manager in govt institution good salary her wife is house wife. Bhaiya washes clothes of his own n kids n blankets bed sheets everything.. n he cleans store n old stuff on weekends n his parents dnt live with them takes them to hospital n for outings n stuff too n wife is sitting at home al day only cooking she does. House help does safai n Bartan wife is always out roaming here n there with frnds or funds at home. N kids always cms to our home Di mama ko cal Krdo she not at home.. n stil husband is happy never complains. Infact wife complains itna kam hai n al that
Focus on ur own life madam stop writing comments about neighbours
Focus on your own life madam 😅
Aur batao , aur bato 😂😂
thank you for exposing the modern day women :)
Very bad mother if her kids have to approach you to call her.
As a 30 y.o. man, i told my mom i will take care of her the best way possible for eternity, but won't give her a bahu. Not going to marry. this decision has been made after much deliberation. Advise to boys n girls, don't marry. be a bit shameless and bold. think out of societies expectation.
Beta ... Tu toh bol hi matt 😂😂😂
Kyuki tu abhi bachha hai , kab tera dil phisal jayega aur shadi kar lega patha nhi... Mein tera baat ko man leta agar tu abhi 70 saal ka buddha hota toh 😊
...best of luck, find a fine woman ❤
Good, don't marry. Take care of your mother. Dedicate your life to your parents. You don't have to share yourself with wife
Marry... But with a right partner. Don't force other people if you have an ideology coming out of your trauma or negative experience
Do whatever you wanna do it's great that you don't want to bring a girl to your home and make her a maid to your mom.But don't project these thoughts that just because you may have had bad experiences that means everyone should do the same. Many people younger than you and your age are in healthy and happy relationships so don't stereotype.
So true men have no choice but still the primary provider for his wife and children. Glad you touched on this topic
Biwi kehte hai ki husband ambitious kammaata hai uske garoor or status ke liye, family ke liye nahi
Sahi mein bhai? Watch what reels she is watching,, most of wifes want an ambitious husband. And if you are too ambitious and don't spend any time with her then you need to park some time to talk random stuff with her.
Agar husband narcissist hoga to wo jyaadatar" gay" hoga aur apni biwi ko avoid karega aur baahar affairs karega. Agar aapki saas narcissist h to pati bhi narcissist ho sakta h. Tab pati se love, care, kindness, respect ,understanding and peace milna to bhool hi jaao bas apni jaan bachaao.
Aap ka toh alag hi dimag chalta hain,
Kahan Kahan se aate hain ye log..😂
there is no rule that narcissistic parents beget narcissist children..
Try Grey Rock Technique and work on yourself.
Start wid Physical health and move onto Mental health.
And most important, have hobbies.
@@madhurani1441 be like "are waa maine naya word seekha internet pe, chalo sab jagah use karti hun cool lagne ke liye". 🤣
@@bullseye6969 jab narcissist se saamna hoga to tum bhi samajh jaaoge dear, aur agar tum khud ho narcissist to try learning about it and try to work towards healing with prayers.
Correct advice given by Amit sir for wife and husband. I understand what we should give or what we need is peace and space. Basic cooking and cleanliness is necessary for husband as well as wife. Love is wrongly described in all movies and we have born by seeing these one. We feel that such thing will happen in our life but practically all thinga are opposite. Waiting for more of your videos
Everyone wants peace, 3 foundations must be built 1. No extra marital, 2. Both should have free hand in joint money, 3. Both should have joint property.
Peace comes after fulfilment of responsibilities towards spouse
I have my mother of 65 years. I never see a day off at home all seasons. I can relise this today being a home meker n working eoman,being a wife is a thankless job. Even if i advise today any youbg girl i will advise not to marry. I found money earning is far more easier than running a home and it is considered a dutg for woman to run household n riase kids. At least in job ppl recoginse work n say than you. Life is far more easier to live when you earn n live alone than xarrying the burden of entire family on your shoulders n ppl having the audacity tovsay , mere liye tum karti kya hoti. Mein to even worst enemies 'girls) ko shaadi advise na karo n if i get a relive a life will never ever marry again.
grass is always greener on the other side. recognition at work my foot. You should understand, agar naukri gayi bande ki, to jo aj badhiya si society mein rent pe flat le rakha hai, jahan park hai sab facilities hain, naukri nai rahi to apne gaon mein jana padega to save expense.
if you think earning money is easy for you, please do.. and show it to your husband, he will be more than happy to contribute to household chores by cutting his job work and lose on appraisals (on top of that no fear of losing job).
@b0606089 yes don't worry I have already done that ... n he says tj.he to kaam karne ka shoik hey tum kaam kar lo mein aaram kar leta hoon. It is hard to accept thst money earning g is far more easier if you have the right skills n attitude. N in job you are not bound you don't like it , you find a new one still don't like find new one.marraiges don't work like that. People can change for bosses not for partner
@b0606089 don't worry. I have bought the assets that you thought are necessary n also gone through the appraisal part as well. The beauty of job is you change whever you don't like it. Marraiges don't operate like that. You just don't leave because at some point u dont like it. N from my own experience I can tell you that the most easy part I found was earning money. After reaching the office when the kids was small, just enjoyed the peace office offered for 15 minutes n then started work. All household responsibilities n parenting primarly fall on woman n supposedly with a discussion with my husband he agreed to that at some level. Definitely this is not going to work in future generations.
Nhi krte ghar k kaamo me help.
Kehtein hain ki meri mom ne raja ki tarah rakkha h mujhe.
Ghar ka kaam nhi aata, seekhna bhi nhi chahte.
Jabki main accha earn karti hu.
@@sreejaraj8052 ssas to aur bhi special maine apne bete se paani ka glass bhi nahi rakwa6a
I teach in the college and my husband does all his chores. He makes his breakfast, he sweeps infront of the house ( not inside that is my domain), he washes sometimes his clothes etc. alhamdulillah
Is your husband unemployed?
Means only if he is unemployed they he should work otherwise eat 5 star do nothing😂😂😂. @@rohitnayak9952
Peace kaise aayegi agar saas baithi h bahu k sir par 24/7 ?
he already asked son and daughter in law to live separately
Saas actually diwar pe tangi hui hi achhi lagati hai ......😅
jinki saas nahi hai sath vaha bhi peace nahi ab bolo? fir bhi saas ka naam leke kuch naa kuch sunati hi rahegi, pucha ki kab baat hui kya baat hui to bolegi, me kyu baat karungi. matlab bina baat kiye hi usko bas bolte hi rehna hai shanti chahiye hi nahi aurato ko, shanti aurato ka naam hi ho sakta hai asal me nahi.
@@amu808 ha sahi kaha aur wife ki maa bhi diwar par hi achchi Lahti hai.
Ladho pencho ,,,, maaaro ek dusre ko comment me.
That woman did not tell whether she loves her husband or not.
She just passed the blame on the man. Its gas lighting from beginning.
So relaxing video. Thank you so much Guru ji😊
Nice clarity giving video. Really kdramas and bollywood movies have really overhyped concept of love. In reality, wife needs protection, trust care and respect from Husband. Life can smoothly go on without love if you have these qualities and lots of money of course. Pay the bills are more 3 magical words than I love you.
even bollywood has destroyed the concept of Love
If there is no love in life, then there is no meaning of life, forget about going smoothly. All are not materialistic like you to think about money and paying bills all the time. Love is equally important as money is.
Rubbish.why anyone will give u trust care respect without love ?when love is not there in relationship neither trust or care etc will be there .and talking about bills why men will pay ur bills without love. if you want something in yr life earn for yrself.
In reailty men need ,appreciation,care,loyalty,supportiveness .and it all depends on love. u can not get anything from anyone with out love.and if its there then it is a fake relationship.
Everybody is entitled to his/her own opinion based on their experiences and perspectives. Aapke mat ka bhi aadar hai.
Yes peace is absolutely priceless . I love my hubby .
Hello sir,
I am watching your videos for a longtime
Very informative
Sir, nowadays infidelity is ruining everyone's married life which is the main cause for divorce most of the cases.
Sir please give your suggestions about it.
Because it scares people to get married.
Well said guruji k drama n Bollywood big reason for kalesh
Starting one year me mijhe bhi bhot problem aayi yhi husband ko samjhne me , mujhe bhi lgta tha ki kaam nhi krte even i was working too but i notice small small thing , wo apne kapdo or mere kapdo pr Iron krte the , breakfast bnane me bhi help kr dete the , sunday ko laundry me bhi help kr dete the , dheere dheere chije thik hoti gyi but wo kabhi bhi safai ko le kr complaint nhi krte m hi lgi rehti hu ki chije saaf ho , understanding bhot jaruri h husband wife me
I think peace exchange is possible only when a couple solves the money issue. Both men and women should understand that the money they earn is the family money not individual money. A portion should go as pocket money to their individual accounts (same should be used for their respective parents) and the rest to a joint account, where they both decide how to do monthly expenses investments etc.
Men want their wives to earn money but in reality the majority only create hurdles for them.
Really! Here is my version -
Both individual should be financially independent before and after marriage only during pregnancy all the expenses should be beared by husband. Child upbringing (financially and emotionally)should be by both individuals. Both individual should take care of their parents and should entitled to their respective inheritance. No individual should have any financial right on others only because of so-called marriage.
Marriage is a partnership, not an individual pursuit. In the beginning, splitting responsibilities like rent and household tasks may seem simple: each spouse contributes 50% to the rent, the wife cooks on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, while the husband handles Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays, and they share the dining-out costs on Sundays. This strategy may work well for live-ins or the early years of marriage.
However, once a child enters the picture, everything changes. The dynamics shift dramatically, and the division of labor can no longer be equal. The mother's role in early childhood is especially demanding, and sometimes stepping back from a career is the best decision for family well-being. In modern marriages, however, women are expected to remain financially independent, without any career breaks, often ignoring the impact on both mental health and child development, which could contribute to rising autism rates.
Every wife and child should have financial rights to the husband's earnings, ensuring the family’s overall well-being. This is true even for dual-income, no-kids (DINK) couples. As the earnings gap between spouses grows, feelings of disconnection arise. A mismatch in lifestyle can lead to strain, making extra-marital affairs and divorce more likely.
Ultimately, couples should have open discussions about finances and make joint decisions about how to allocate their combined income to best support the family’s needs. Communication and collaboration in financial matters are crucial for maintaining a strong, united relationship.
Sir meri marriage 4 years phle hui hai n mere husband muje kahte hai before marriage mere money save nahi hota but after marriage kafi save ho pa re hai bcz me financially unhe bolti hu do save ur money in different schemes… wife bhut kuch karti hai ghar k lye but kisi ko dhikhta nahi hai
Hi 😮
one more thing for husbands, please kapde aur towel ko bed ya zameen pe na pheke . Ek designated space rakhe uske liye. That speaks of a decent man.
Give some gyan to wives also, men are tired of hearing your bullsh1t
मै एक 40 वर्षीय विवाहित महिला है मेरी 18 साल की बेटी है
मै बहुत मेहनत से अपना bussiness चलाती हुं, अपने पति की आर्थिक मदद के लिए
मै अपने परिवार के लिए जीती हुं
पति को एक बच्चे की तरह हद से ज्यादा प्यार करती हूँ
सास ससुर की बेकसूर गलियां भी खाती हुं
माता पिता को दुःख ना हो इसलिए उनसे शिकायत नही करती
और घर की इज्जत की खातिर चुपचाप सहन करती हूँ , खून के आँसू रोती हुं
90% महिलाओ सबका यही हाल
बाकी मेरी बेटी को ऐसे चक्रव्युह मे नही फसने
दूँगी 😭😭😭
Aap Koi mahaan kaam nhi kar rhi. Aapka pati bhi yahi same cheeze kar rha hai.
@@architsrocks God bless ur spouse... kitne bhayanak ho tum
Tumhe bhi sunna padta hai in laws ke taano ko ??what is your contribution in raising kids n managing household work besides your job @@architsrocks
@@architsrocksbhai tu to apne ego ka shikar hai isilye tuje apne kaam ka dukh dikh rha hai par jo wo lady ap a dukh bta rhi hai wo to smjne m koi interest hi nhi hai tuje. Shaadi mat krio bas.
USKE LIYE AAP KYA KARENGI , BETI KO SHADI KARNE SE MANA KARENGI?
Profound...just profound
Dharmik sant ko sun ne ki bajahe aap ko sun kar sakoon aa jata hai lagbhag jaise osho bilkul satik baat karte hai aap bhi vaise hi hai
Guruji ek humble request h working women pe bhi video banaye bahut jald
Very practical & correct advice. Please make more vedios like this.
Sir please make video on second marriage success or failure.
Second marriage is becoming mess.
Spot on , Thank Y🫡U ,
RESPECT... ✍️🏾
Me & my hubby both are working, we have devided our responsibilities, plus my hubby is very well Organized by his own and takes his things seriously, we are living peaceful happy life ❤
My husband does all you said and it really works. ❤
sir please tell your editor (thumbnail guy ) to make thumbnail like you made . he is talented guy , we are not against the guy job but your old thumbnail are MORE AUTHENTIC , PROFESSIONAL , UNIQUE
Sir ye bhi video banaiye ki aadmio ko kaise appraise kare. Paisa kamana enough hai kya agar wo ghar me involve hi na ho. Usko pata nahi uske bacche kaun se standard me padhte hai, wo nahi jaanta uski wife ko kya pasand hai, ya family members ki kya zarurate hain . Agar har zarurat ke liye unse jaake maangna padhe wo bina maange ya khud se observe karke na de to mujhe lagta hai waise pati bhi average hi hai.
Exactly. I think the thought of Guruji is also money related. Working women, who have to manage their career along with the kids, inlaws, their own parents, etc.
Husband has to manage only his office and career, there also they will be saying- office mein bahut kaam hai. Humein to bithake salary dee jaati hai, free mein.
Thank you so much sir ❤❤❤
Aapne sahi kaha sir har kam karne ke bad bhi shadi ko 25 sal uppr hogya lekin husband paise nahi dete.khudko agar kuchh kharidna ho to paise hote hai par bachhe aur bivi ko nahi dete.
This is a very true advise, housewifes should get some money in their hands to take care of self which may be she wont be able to demand like personal hygiene, some skin care therapy because they need it actually. If she has some money she is also going to be a secured person. She will have money to buy things for kids, husband as a surprise. She has that freedom which she deserves.
K darma dekhkr aajkl ki genz larkiya ..apne aap ko princess samjhti hain
Super nice 👍🏻 tips sir
Give peace to each other 😊
Aj ke video mai aapka Aura aur vibes kafi acche the!! You genuinely seemed enthusiastic about this video!!
1- 2 महीने एक दूसरे की शकल और अकल से आराम ले लेना चाहिए... किसी तीसरे को एंट्री नहीं घुसना देना चाहिए... तीन तिगाड़ा (भगवान को छोड़ के) काम बिगाड़ा
Guru Ji kya shi baat bolte ho 😃👍👍👍👍
I live abroad and i hear first time Korean drama ,it's thru Indian women is totaly free and help full from house helper that's why all Indian family thinking India was better because there was lots of people for house help but here not possible.
Please make video on working wives
Well said sir
Lekin pati aadha ghanta bhi nhi dete toh sadness aa jati hai
We wants consultation from you sir I tried to connect you but I am not able to connect you please reply
Very good sir aap bhot achha samjha te ho
People are too adamant/ obstinate to be a listener or to change. They remain unaware.
😂😂
Hello sir,mai first time aapka video me comment kr rhi hu bahut accha video bnaya hai sir thank you 😊
Problem with peace is peace is misunderstood as perfection and best by the other party.Peace gives comfort,comfort invites sluggishness to extreme extent.peace can only be earned by being full inside not depend on relations for peace. Man /Women come alone go alone in between is a drama good or bad depends.
More than love ,it is respect which is lacking in todays relationships
you are just AMAZING ❤️❤️ !!
Sir i can not reach fans as its v high in Canada... but i do clean my toilets and kitchen immacibly every week and also work in office too
Sir jin mahilao ke pati sharabi ho .unka kya
Hello👋 mam
Seriously Peace is most important
Too much on point !!!
h … k and khor aata h last me 😅😅
i’m in the middle of the video, but sir you are hilarious 😂😂😂
He is speaking hard facts🎉
Mere husband mujhse baat nahi krte, kai baar puchne aur clear bolne k baad bhi, pta nahi unko mujhse kya chahiye ya mai hi uhne pasand nahi hu wo bolte hi nahi hai, mai hamesha mujhse baat karne ke liye bolti hu aur bolte bolte thak gyi hu, ab bas bahut ho gaya, ab to unhi k jaise mujhe bhi behave krna hai wo Raashan le aate hai mujhe Khana bnana hai bas yahi relation rakhna hai
arranged or love marriage? maybe try going back to when relationship was good and workout what went wrong from there? best of luck 🎉
Check it out, bahar koi relationship to nahi.
question is- was he always like this?
Same condition here
Ha bilkul sahi , unke sath waisa hi behave kAro but kabhi Bina wajah ke misbehave mat karna
Orr ho sake to apna koi earning ka source dundh lo❤❤
Why (ghar jamai) and (live in )and (separate living) not yet normalised in our society..
Thanks you sir for wonderful advice. Please take care of your health and fitness sir.
Par mein to sixty one ki hu thoda alas aata h isliye jyaada kaam nahi karti hu
What if women works at home without maid and also go for field work n office work n gives all money to husband and still if husband wants separation then
Give him...be safe
Brilliant Guruji
Accha lga ki aapne background change kiya😂❤
People in comments should understand, his audience is wide and what he says applies to lot of people ( men and women ) but not all and is generalization. You should analyse each situation from neutral perspective. Everyone's situation is different and each persons desire is also different. Whatever he is saying is generalization and generalization does apply to lot of people ( and hence its called that name ). So no point in women getting angry in the comment. It rrally does apply to lot of women around me as well. But i also see few women who work really hard. Its important to be self aware when you hear such things.
Also, it is important to understand how men and women are different and may want different things in life. We compliment each other and love is what that bonds us.
Aapki baat se mai sahmat nahi hu mei pregnant thi tab bhi mera pati mujhe dr ke pass nahi le ke jaata tha tumhe kuch nahi pata . hai shamaj ke bare me.budhi nahi hai aapke paas ledis ko target karna band karo
K drama is bad. But why is he rubbsihing female fantasy but not male fantasy of $3× ? So here also male's wish is being given more importance than that of female. He is complaining that wife kehti hain not today darling, headache h. Women emotional support maanfe, baith ke baatein karna chahe toh woh galat.
Hi😮
peace wali baat bilkul sach hai.
Hi
Working women ka bhi batao Guru ji
Give peace to each other i agree 💯
Mere ghar pe aadmi log ka household me contribution itna negative hai ki agar mera pati ne khud se koi ek bhi ghar ka kaam kia to mere bewakoof dil ko itna gratitude feel hoga jaise wo mera sabkuch hai.
Thanks Sir 🙏
When you speak, pleae speak pn both sides..some of your videos are so distrubing that my husband started behaving rough, having doubts and questions me all time and haunts me on my past..one of us is going to die because all peace is gone..every couple is different and their issues are also different..dont generalize plz
Agree about K-Dramas. They romanticize love and marriage. Life is a struggle and no one has time these days to sit and love someone. The burden of being happy is yours and yours alone!
They romanticize marriage because in Korea people are not marrying and the population is decreasing. 😂😂😂
Sir please working wife jo ghar ka bhi sab kam karti h,like house wife aur husband n to financially aur n hi house hold works karta ho tab kya karna chahiye video batayen please 🙏
Bahut achcha video hai
Wow
Nice one
Naa inko ghar ka kaam aata
Na inko baahar ka kaam aata
Expectations K Drama waale
Same for men. Na gjar ka aata na bahar ka.
Bahar ka kar ke bhi Ambani ka juta banne ki aukat bhi nahi.
@@Ashima-j9xwhy did she marry him then ? You too make sure to marry an ambani only.
Instead of being offended try to understand why he is saying what he is saying@@Ashima-j9x
😂👍🏻
@@Ashima-j9x just because ur husband/father/brother belong to that category does not mean that other men are doing that. Kbhi pados me dekh lena ki admi ko bahar ka or ghar ka itna kaam aata hai ki marriage ki jarurat b nahi hai.
It's a very lopsided video showing the hardship of only a man. A man goes to work irrespective of him being married or a bachelor either to support himself, his parents or wife. And not just husbands but wives also go to work and come back home equally tired who again have to do all the house chores if there is no maid or the husband doesn't help. There are very few housewives in India who have maids to help because its mostly the familes belonging to upper middle class and above who can afford maids which also don't come cheap these days. My mom being housewife and 50+ works continuously since morning till evening 7-8 pm and without any salary. And just like her most housewives slog their days from morning till night tending to the demands of their husbands, kids and in laws(if they are present). So only earning and running the household doesn't equate to love but also showing it from time to time. Wives, being themselves working or not mostly complain of their husbands not loving them after their marriage even if it was a love marriage because they don't show equal interest which they showed before their marriage. Didn't they not go to work then? Then why love and interest diminished after marriage?
Namita thapar ne wahi kaha jo aap hamesha kehte ho sir 🎉
Guruji ur each & every vlog is relatable.
I DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED BUT STILL YE IMPORTANT HAI.
Korea is a Developed country..... India is a developing country....... Both cannot reflect on each others issue
Guruji Thumbnail graphics..😢😢
🥲🥲🥲
Guruji always says in his video play new game in life and never get stuck in old ideas and upgrade with time! 😊
U haven't evolved with the society.. U have grown old but try to grow up.. Women work nowadays... Apne patni ko Saari woman samajh ke kyun baithe ho... Grow up then lecture
Bed ke niche roj jhadu lagana practically possible nahi hai. Uska kya solution hai bataye koi.
Solution h naukar rakhna😂
The thumbnail 🥵👌🔥🔥
You look very much similar to Thomas Edison 🤩
Main remote work from home karta hua mera koi izzat nai hai koi bhi dekhta hai to ye kya time pass kar raha sara din chair me mere ko mat bol kya kaam karte ho. Meri Bibi ka nind 11 pm to 11 am hota hai mera 11 pm to 7 am beech me Bibi uthkar hum dono ready karke wo so jati hum continue karte kyoki hame nind nai aata .. uske baad wo video call time pass aur mera side room me kaam. Bache aate to video dekhkar hum khana khilate kaam chodkar wo video call me. Ghar me sab kuch laga hai kaam wala khana wali. Phir bhi bolti hum kaam karte hai hame samajh nai aata kitna kaam to hum offic time me kar dete jisse hame tired hota physically and mentally aur jab bolti chalo ghumne mera himmat nai hota , bolti itna sota hai kyoki wo late Tak jagti mera himmat nai hota company uske video call wale bakwas pe. Kaise sahi kiya jaye
But sir, it's not too difficult to make your wife feel special. If a man comes from office, watches tv while having dinner, doesn't even look at his wife. Simply have sex at night and sleep, who will woman go to for her emotional needs. Women understand men's commitments at work but he atleast has to talk to her nicely over a cup of tea in evening. Is that too difficult? What if a woman does this
My relative lady, before marriage her mother used to cook & do everything, after marriage housemaid do everything. Now her age is 42 but looks like 65+ with Sugar , colestrol, joint pain etc.
Her husband's age is 44 and he looks like 32 😂😂, that lady complain her husband to not wear good dress.
Superb video Guruji. So much to learn.