My husband doesn't like horror or thriller movies or shows, his eating preferences are different to me but i don't mind. Now my in laws shifted with us. My MIL doesn't eat onion garlic on thus, they prefer boiled food. Cant cook or eat non veg at home. They keep demaged crockery saying its working, she pee in the drain of bathroom coz if she pee sitting on toilet she has to bathe and washroom smells like sulabh shochalya...they are even tight fisted like buying one packet of milk for 4 people in the family, leftover food is the topic of discussion for them like who will eat it, eat extra but dont waste...what should i do..its miserable to live like this
Don''t entertain this behavior before people use to say adjust karloo.Then your life is filled will adjustment and it will make you more bitter.Before most of the senior citizens will live only for 60 to 65 and they will have lots of kids .so they have to adjust for some days or years .Now it will be whole life adjustment. Tell them directly they will make problem for some days .Don't ask permission for each and everything .saff saff kehna mee aysa ho.me aysa he rahogi thats all .Its worked our for me
@@abhijitbhattacharya2625how she will thank them latter? She has to kill all her desires ,adjust with the दकियानूसी behavior of her in-laws and this illogical कंजूसी!! My god! I would rather say have a detailed discussion with your husband and try making your in-laws understand what is what. Try before taking any extreme step. Divorce isn't easy, rather very painful as far as have come to know. Please talk with everyone, then come to conclusion.
Earlier, divorces couldn't happen because women had no choice. They were socio-economically dependent on their husband. Financial independence and societal acceptance are helping women escape from abusive/ unhappy situations.
She just explode new reason of divorces, m a police officer and handling such case of dowry unnatural sex and unmatched orientation in relationship rising these days😊 Conclusion is that.......we all need emotional intelligence and changes with time 😊
Don't you think most of these allegations are made up by advocates to make a divorce case stronger? I have seen divorces where women is using the law just to vindicate silly points to groom and his family.
@@engineerofemotions1183 What I see in today's Society Hobbies is missing If someone has atleast one hobby in there Life like - Sports, Dance, Music, Art, Singing, etc It creates Enjoyment in Life We all know Our Education System is created for 9 to 5 Order Following Jobs by 🇬🇧 It doesn't support hobbies Government is changing the System by NEP 📚 but it will take time & Those who are already Passed out we can't put them back to School So they need to Find some kind of Hobby for Enjoyment
We all know our Education System 📚 was designed for 9 to 5 Order Following Jobs by 🇬🇧 It doesn't support Hobbies However Government is Changing the System with NEP 2020 📚 But those who are already studied can't go back to School So if they try to Find a Hobby it will help them a Lot
Men are porn addicted, they behave like a porn star with his wife in bed, but dont want a porn star wife, they want saaf suthri jo sax m interested na ho.... Jisme hawas na ho,...khud chahe dalaal ho.... Don't get married... Because mard paida hona hi bnd ho gye h, ab to sirf dalaal pda hk rhe h, jinko jine k lie ak permanent rndi chahiye..... Or asi rndi jo sax m interested na ho😂😂😂
This is so true. Both sides parents actually. But fir kya cheating bandh ho jayega? Insaan mein insaniyat ghat rahi hai ,sab selfish ho rahe hain. There's a major change going on in society...for good or bad? All values getting lost. No end to this discussion 😅😢
Marriage is a legal contract that is made holy so that the two people will remain tied to each other no matter how bad the relationship is. People need to understand the history behind marriage. And when polygamy became illegal. Marriage was never about love even today it’s not. Most Anyone who thinks it is will soon realize after 5 years of marriage or whenever honeymoon phase ends. Simple reality walk around your neighborhood.
1:42 mereko toh maza aa gaya unn sabko alag hote dekh kar. Mai hamesha se hee kehta tha ki bhaiya ek bhi paisa kharcha mat karo, lekin koi maan ke raaji kaha.
India me to ladke ke parents apne bigade hue ladke ki shadi hi isiliye karte hain ki bahu aa ke usko sudhar degi. Aur jub ye nahi ho pata to sabhi mil kar ladki ko hi dosh dete hain ki apne pati ko bhi nahi sambhal sakti tabhi vo idhar udhar bhagta hai…😂😂!
I agree with u... Kyonki ye mere sath ho rha h jese bchcha kuch kre to maa ko dosh dete h ese hi kisi kisi ka concept yhi hota h beta achcha to maa ka beta or bigda to bahu ka pati ...mujhse bola jata h ki kesi aurat h jo apne pti ko kaboo nhi kr skti?😮are bhai wo pdha likha achchi job bala banda h kitne hi bachcho ko achchi advice deta h usko me kya sudharu koi janwar to h nhi ki akl na ho achcha bura na janta ho to use apne anusar chalau....or fir iske just ulta bhi ho jata h turat ki beta bahu se haste ya bolte dikh jaye to fir wo bahu ka hi ho gya ab beta ho nhi bachcha hme to smjh nhi ata ki me kya kru ....maa
Mujhe bhi exactly yahi bolte they. Na sirf sasural vale, balki mayke vale tak! Jubki usko idhar udhar moo marne ki aadat shadi se pehle se hi thi. Isiliye shadi Kari gayi thi ki 20-22 saal ki bacchi uski biwi bun ke usko sambhal legi! 😂😂
@@neetagulatirawal5637 वो सब बात ठीक है पर 20 - 22 साल कि बच्ची ये कब हुआ 😆 मानसिक तोर पर विकास ना हुआ हो तो कह सकते हैं वो भी पिछले 50 सालों से ज्यादा इसलिए हो रहा है क्योंकि शिक्षा व्यवस्था में समस्या है
Good podcast I feel accepting and loving unconditionally transforms the other person The negative aspects of the other person wanes away gradually This needs a lot of patience and commitment
At 28:00 mins- Its not toxic masculinity.. this system is wired that way.. if husband will cry in every situation the wife n children will not respect him.. families problems ko tabhi face kar paati hain jab koi ghar ka mard kehta hai main sambhal lunga.. agar ladkon ko strong nahi banayenge toh har sector me fellow men unka mazaak hi udaayeinge.. rone ko koi mana nahi kar raha par baat baat pe rona, ladka ho ya ladki dono k liye hi galat hai
Does checking sexual/physical compatibility (once sexual orientation is confirmed and disclosed to each other) require actually having sex before marriage?
Does checking sexual/physical compatibility (once sexual orientation is confirmed and disclosed to each other) require actually having sex before marriage?
@slowdown7276 Nop! It is about sharing and identification of each other's love language, not for shorter version but in each other's normal life as a family member.
Marriage is an obsolete concept in modern times because people forgot the reason why marriage existed. It wasn't for 2 stupid adults but for the well developed and stable children. It was based on duty and sacrifice. It was never about pleasure or love. Since the whole center has changed, why marry? It's stupid.
@@codedusting You are right But Love & Pleasure also existed in Older Times However it was not only thing in Marriage One more thing is Cultural Music, Dance, Art, Sports, etc is not Part of Education System It is creating only Money Oriented Robotic Humans
Reason for marriage was different for different varna. Brahmin married as they know spouse will essential in getting moksha. Shiva and Shakti. Kshatriya marry for passion and for alphaness. Vaish marry for broadening family influence and prestige. Shudra marry for expanding and domestic support. The main point is everyone is a mix of 4 varnas and that too changes over time. Mismatch in varna between spouse at a given time causes conflict.
In financially insecure mothers, talk I’ll about her husband to her children, so as to emotionally bind them to her. In such cases despite father doing all his best to get emotionally connected with his children, but children’s mind has already been polluted Such children, join their mother to emotionally and physically disconnect with their father and his family Men are truly struggling
Schools desperately need to impart moral or emotional education that includes sex education from a mental and physical angle. US, Japan and all European countries have been doing it well.
Meri Saheli Ji, aap log bhi baki podcasts ki tarh, video k andar section bifurcate karna consider kar sakte hain, usse watch time bhi badhega aur viewers k liye b easy hoga.
Those going for arranged marriage nowadays goes through a dating like phase. Where they meet at places and talk and understand each other. Somewhere down the line they should have sex. It's nothing new buddy. It's similar to dating in the West. That aspect needs to be introduced in the arranged setup too.
I appreciate your views about the exploitation of men by women and its really true I ve seen men going into depression because of this today girls don't want to respect the parents of the husband and the poor man gets shattered
Ldke aur uski family vale bhi to yhi krte hain. Ki ldki apne ghr valo pr jyada na focus krke sasural ko hi sb kuchh Mane pr vo kyu Mane jb pyar bhi nhi mil rha vha aur bs kaam krna hai ab ldki nhi Maan rhi to bura lg rha
Thats why living in diff house is imp. But people dont understand it. It is impossible to live happy under the 1 roof with in-law's n wife .and men has to suffer
@@charanjitkaur6819 not just girls but even boys n his parents also dont respect girl side relatives. earlier girls tought to be so submissive without self value. better yahi he ki boy n girl shud sort out each others view nd live separate from parents. parents of the boys, girls both should go to old age homes !
Agar mard paida hone band ho gaye to next 100 years me human species khatam ho jayegi. Hame aaj ka homo sapiens ban'ne me bas kuch crore saal lage hain.
Ulta bol diya, aajkal ladka sochta hai wife ko lene ja raha hu lekin aa jati hai randi. Ladki ko hamesha sex chahiye, husband job me busy rehta hai to wo bahar talash leti hai. Ab ladko ko shadi se duri bana leni chahiye.
If you feel good afternoon sex,then they are not faking it.especially men cannot fake it.and if the other party is a woman,try to see if she is getting aroused.she can give fake orgasms.but there are other ways to figure it out
Times have changed & people have become very materialistic, female partners are taking undue advantage of the law (which are in favour of women mostly) . The sanctity of institution of marriage is lost completely; ultimately one has to accept one's spouse with both + & -points. Previously the beauty of marriage used to be निभाना।
What causes divorces ..men's insecurity, ego, anger, frustration, disrespecting behavior towards his wife, too much patriarchy, irresponsible behavior, laziness,
@@PankajSingh-vz5nehar ladka galat nahi hota aise har ladki bhi galat nahi hoti aur zyadatar victim ladkiya hi hoti hai.inki bat sahi hai.insecurity even with her family members, disrespect full behavior,controlling behaviour,in laws ka interfere se bhi jyada pati ka unko jyada mahatva Dena,patni ke family se problem,not give money for basic needs, ladki ke maa baap Bhai behen ko gali dena ye sab hota hai😢 Aaj bhi.sare ladke bhi nirdosh nahi hote hai
Aorat ke 'violence' ka aek mrd k violence se muqablaah nhi kyu k usky phisiology frq h usay bacche peda krk paalne hote hn plus woh apne ander gender bias k wound bhi dabaaey huay hae cultural conditions of worth yhn aajaate hn Disagreed ... you are discounting cases of domestic violence against women and i know men who gossip so please STOP gloriyfying the king baby who is as common in your society as he is in ours if not more! Women are equally repressed in their feelings in the Eastern society as they are not ALLOWED to be graced with true expression so that they can be acknowledged and addressed ...
Bakiyo ka toh pata nahi .muje nere husband se meri mother in law ho alag karwana chahti hai. Muje aaj tak samaj nahi aaya alag karwana chahti jai toh shadi kyu kawai
@@neerajkumar-mw8qz ye society easy nahi hai girls ke liye.. sagayi Tut jati hai toh bhi ladkiyo ki jindagi nrk bn jati hai.. itne taane sun ne ko milate hai..shadi hokar ya ma banne ke baad divorce ko tum aadmi andaaja bhi nahi lga sakte.. vese beti ki shadi main maa baap itna khrcha krte hai khud ke or bachho ke sapno ko simit karke.. apni pai pai jodkr woh sare pese khrach krte hai shaadi pr . Vese divorce cash or mentance ka cash bhi easy nahi hota maa baap ko vakilo ko ro rokar bari fee payment karni hoti hai..tb thodi si elumony milti hai bheekh ki trh.. Meri advice yahi hai ladkiya ko peso ke or logo ke chakkar me na pade.. Saadi sahi na ho toh baccha na kare.. bachhe ladkiyon ko hi palne padenge.. jitna jaldi ho toxic marriage se bahar nikle.. torchar & harrasment se bahut si bimariya lg jati hai.. baad mein peso se bhi thik nahi hoti.
Relationship kharab hone par kaun jyada danger men chala jata hai? Husband ya wife? Jawab hai: Husband. Khane men koi bhi radioactive chiz ek chutki mila do. Wyakti ko ek sal ke andar cancer ho jayega. Khana wife banati hai. Isliye wife jab chahe tab husband ko eliminate kar sakti hai. Yahi aaj ho raha hai. Isliye, male hargiz shadi na kare.
This is a very good advice.couples going for arranged marriage also should have sex before marriage multiple times and figure out if the ither person is nit homosexual
@@Daredevil007-v7m having multiple sexual partners can leave a feeling guilt at a subconscious level especially for women as during the action women releases love/feel good hormone called oxytocin .Also this is just biological ,social factors and one's belief system also determines how they fees afterwards .
Divorce is not good for society as a whole.. even one divorce creates problem for upto 5 families, both side parents and both sides sibling's family and child's future family. Let's try to find ways to live together as partners and not find ways to accept divorce.
purane zamane ki aurtein tab ke 'sanskar' lekar ab saas bani hui hain aur maxium saas bahu bete mein phoot daalne ko apna dharm aur adhikaar samajhti hain. What 'sanskars' are you talking about?
@@Mohindramohindra hmare desh me dharam, culture , sanskar bachane ka Sara theka aurto pr hi dal rakha hai Men khud western cloths wear krege, sirf job krege, ghr k kaam me koi help nhi krege
@@Neetukumari-qz2keyes. Women are the sacred gender of the two. They have to take the responsibility. Also our society gives special privileges to women.
Bhagwan ko nahi padi hai toh tumko kyu padi hai? You need to understand the purpose behind traditions and restrictions on this planet. They are not hard and fast laws that if broken, will send you to hell. The purpose behind them is to maximize enjoyment in heaven. In heaven, there are no restrictions on sex. And people who go there spend lacs to crores of years there. But some people will not make it to heaven. So the pleasures of this world will be all they'll know for a very long time. The pleasures of this world are very small compared to the pleasures of heaven. Agar abhi saare mazze le lenge toh swarg mein kya karenge?
She is a very honest counsellor. And superb at her job.
Thankyou
I loved this episode. The psychologist is very insightful and smart. The interviewer also did a fantastic job.
thank you
My husband doesn't like horror or thriller movies or shows, his eating preferences are different to me but i don't mind. Now my in laws shifted with us. My MIL doesn't eat onion garlic on thus, they prefer boiled food. Cant cook or eat non veg at home. They keep demaged crockery saying its working, she pee in the drain of bathroom coz if she pee sitting on toilet she has to bathe and washroom smells like sulabh shochalya...they are even tight fisted like buying one packet of milk for 4 people in the family, leftover food is the topic of discussion for them like who will eat it, eat extra but dont waste...what should i do..its miserable to live like this
@@Rivagill56 u r lucky becos your kids will get great examples to follow. Tolerate these few inconveniences as u will thank them later
Don''t entertain this behavior before people use to say adjust karloo.Then your life is filled will adjustment and it will make you more bitter.Before most of the senior citizens will live only for 60 to 65 and they will have lots of kids .so they have to adjust for some days or years .Now it will be whole life adjustment. Tell them directly they will make problem for some days .Don't ask permission for each and everything .saff saff kehna mee aysa ho.me aysa he rahogi thats all .Its worked our for me
You need to move into a separate house or get your husband to speak to his mother about peeing in the toilet bowl. Don't put up with this.
Tell them to move out
@@abhijitbhattacharya2625how she will thank them latter? She has to kill all her desires ,adjust with the दकियानूसी behavior of her in-laws and this illogical कंजूसी!! My god! I would rather say have a detailed discussion with your husband and try making your in-laws understand what is what. Try before taking any extreme step. Divorce isn't easy, rather very painful as far as have come to know. Please talk with everyone, then come to conclusion.
Earlier, divorces couldn't happen because women had no choice. They were socio-economically dependent on their husband. Financial independence and societal acceptance are helping women escape from abusive/ unhappy situations.
Unheapy means mental problem too 😊
@@shubham5781 So, earlier your mother and grandmother were allowed to roam naked in public?
@@shubham5781 So, earlier your mother and grandmother were allowed to roam naked in public?
@@shubham5781 So, earlier your mother and grandmother were allowed to roam naked in public?
@@shubham5781So, your mother was happily married because after marriage she used to roam naked in public. Was she used to be a prostitute?
She just explode new reason of divorces, m a police officer and handling such case of dowry unnatural sex and unmatched orientation in relationship rising these days😊
Conclusion is that.......we all need emotional intelligence and changes with time 😊
Don't you think most of these allegations are made up by advocates to make a divorce case stronger?
I have seen divorces where women is using the law just to vindicate silly points to groom and his family.
@@engineerofemotions1183
What I see in today's Society
Hobbies is missing
If someone has atleast one hobby in there Life like - Sports, Dance, Music, Art, Singing, etc
It creates Enjoyment in Life
We all know Our Education System is created for 9 to 5 Order Following Jobs by 🇬🇧
It doesn't support hobbies
Government is changing the System by NEP 📚 but it will take time
& Those who are already Passed out we can't put them back to School
So they need to Find some kind of Hobby for Enjoyment
What I see is People need Some kind of Hobby in there Life for Enjoyment
Like Sports, Music, Dance, Singing, Art, etc
We all know our Education System 📚 was designed for 9 to 5 Order Following Jobs by 🇬🇧
It doesn't support Hobbies
However Government is Changing the System with NEP 2020 📚
But those who are already studied can't go back to School
So if they try to Find a Hobby it will help them a Lot
Men are porn addicted, they behave like a porn star with his wife in bed, but dont want a porn star wife, they want saaf suthri jo sax m interested na ho.... Jisme hawas na ho,...khud chahe dalaal ho....
Don't get married...
Because mard paida hona hi bnd ho gye h, ab to sirf dalaal pda hk rhe h, jinko jine k lie ak permanent rndi chahiye..... Or asi rndi jo sax m interested na ho😂😂😂
Thank you for this podcast, we really need to keep aside our previous lenses and tried to understand the situations.
I personally beleive mental peace in priority we shudnt b in toxic marriage
Excellent podcast 👏 she covered all the topics so well
Pichle 20 saalon me maine ek hi divorce dekha hai. However ppl r not happy together. Wo bhi saas ki wajah se 😄😄😄
Jab khud saas banengi tab...?
tab wo aajkal ki saason ki tarah toxic nhi hogi@@triptisingh4342
@@triptisingh4342aap saas ho ya maa?
Nhi love ki kami ki wajah se
I heard of 5 -6
Keep inlaws away from newly married couple / everything will be alright ;
This is so true. Both sides parents actually. But fir kya cheating bandh ho jayega? Insaan mein insaniyat ghat rahi hai ,sab selfish ho rahe hain. There's a major change going on in society...for good or bad? All values getting lost. No end to this discussion 😅😢
Marriage is a legal contract that is made holy so that the two people will remain tied to each other no matter how bad the relationship is. People need to understand the history behind marriage. And when polygamy became illegal.
Marriage was never about love even today it’s not. Most Anyone who thinks it is will soon realize after 5 years of marriage or whenever honeymoon phase ends.
Simple reality walk around your neighborhood.
That is so sad
point on!
1:42 mereko toh maza aa gaya unn sabko alag hote dekh kar. Mai hamesha se hee kehta tha ki bhaiya ek bhi paisa kharcha mat karo, lekin koi maan ke raaji kaha.
India me to ladke ke parents apne bigade hue ladke ki shadi hi isiliye karte hain ki bahu aa ke usko sudhar degi. Aur jub ye nahi ho pata to sabhi mil kar ladki ko hi dosh dete hain ki apne pati ko bhi nahi sambhal sakti tabhi vo idhar udhar bhagta hai…😂😂!
Jhoot
@@ravikumar-nd2ju jhoot nahi, sach hai ye!
I agree with u...
Kyonki ye mere sath ho rha h jese bchcha kuch kre to maa ko dosh dete h ese hi kisi kisi ka concept yhi hota h beta achcha to maa ka beta or bigda to bahu ka pati ...mujhse bola jata h ki kesi aurat h jo apne pti ko kaboo nhi kr skti?😮are bhai wo pdha likha achchi job bala banda h kitne hi bachcho ko achchi advice deta h usko me kya sudharu koi janwar to h nhi ki akl na ho achcha bura na janta ho to use apne anusar chalau....or fir iske just ulta bhi ho jata h turat ki beta bahu se haste ya bolte dikh jaye to fir wo bahu ka hi ho gya ab beta ho nhi bachcha hme to smjh nhi ata ki me kya kru ....maa
Mujhe bhi exactly yahi bolte they. Na sirf sasural vale, balki mayke vale tak! Jubki usko idhar udhar moo marne ki aadat shadi se pehle se hi thi. Isiliye shadi Kari gayi thi ki 20-22 saal ki bacchi uski biwi bun ke usko sambhal legi! 😂😂
@@neetagulatirawal5637
वो सब बात ठीक है
पर 20 - 22 साल कि बच्ची
ये कब हुआ 😆
मानसिक तोर पर विकास ना हुआ हो
तो कह सकते हैं
वो भी पिछले 50 सालों से ज्यादा इसलिए हो रहा है
क्योंकि शिक्षा व्यवस्था में समस्या है
Pls ask ma'am that shall we share our problem & relationship issue with adult children .?
@42:25 Mothers in law.
Madam ko sunke lagta hai jaise a mature mother is speaking 🙏
I am single 34 nd so so much happy , nd i will never get marry cause i cant give my freedom
Log kya kahenge 😂😂
@sonujain2348 ... Logo ko bolne do , Mei maje karta
@@paragsancheti8359 then don't.
@@paragsancheti8359brother how to you handle sex?
@@akshaydogra8015 ... Spiritual hojao , Roj mandir jao .. dekho phir Jaadu
1:52 maine to saari shadiyo me dramebaazi dekhi hai 😂 mostly arrange marriage me 2:43 unmatched or mismatch couple hote hai
Very nice episode. Facts explained nicely. .
Pls ask Mam this question how to resolve different parenting style problem
Watch next episode
Great episode..ma'am single words of full of wisdom...todays era fake feminism is destroying the relationship..
Very nicely explained Maam ❤
Good podcast I feel accepting and loving unconditionally transforms the other person The negative aspects of the other person wanes away gradually This needs a lot of patience and commitment
Excellent podcast.
At 28:00 mins- Its not toxic masculinity.. this system is wired that way.. if husband will cry in every situation the wife n children will not respect him.. families problems ko tabhi face kar paati hain jab koi ghar ka mard kehta hai main sambhal lunga.. agar ladkon ko strong nahi banayenge toh har sector me fellow men unka mazaak hi udaayeinge.. rone ko koi mana nahi kar raha par baat baat pe rona, ladka ho ya ladki dono k liye hi galat hai
Does checking sexual/physical compatibility (once sexual orientation is confirmed and disclosed to each other) require actually having sex before marriage?
Poocha bhi jaa skta hai. But the questions should be respectful.
- (Family, Money, Status, Looks, Communication etc)
- Blood Group
- Sexual Compatibility (Orientation)
Does checking sexual/physical compatibility (once sexual orientation is confirmed and disclosed to each other) require actually having sex before marriage?
@slowdown7276
Nop! It is about sharing and identification of each other's love language, not for shorter version but in each other's normal life as a family member.
@@ChildFirst what you said don't come under sexual compatibility
Ok so there will be changes, differences in the marriages so what should be the new defination of marriage??
please make playlists of your videos because it help us to find, watch & share your videos easily
Marriage is an obsolete concept in modern times because people forgot the reason why marriage existed. It wasn't for 2 stupid adults but for the well developed and stable children. It was based on duty and sacrifice. It was never about pleasure or love. Since the whole center has changed, why marry? It's stupid.
@@codedusting You are right
But Love & Pleasure also existed in Older Times
However it was not only thing in Marriage
One more thing is Cultural Music, Dance, Art, Sports, etc is not Part of Education System
It is creating only Money Oriented Robotic Humans
Reason for marriage was different for different varna. Brahmin married as they know spouse will essential in getting moksha. Shiva and Shakti.
Kshatriya marry for passion and for alphaness.
Vaish marry for broadening family influence and prestige.
Shudra marry for expanding and domestic support.
The main point is everyone is a mix of 4 varnas and that too changes over time. Mismatch in varna between spouse at a given time causes conflict.
9l?9
True
Excellent podcast ❤🙏very well explained. Much love/respect for dr ririi trivedi ji❤️
In financially insecure mothers, talk I’ll about her husband to her children, so as to emotionally bind them to her.
In such cases despite father doing all his best to get emotionally connected with his children, but children’s mind has already been polluted
Such children, join their mother to emotionally and physically disconnect with their father and his family
Men are truly struggling
Great episode 😊
She’s extremely wise and beautiful ❤
Schools desperately need to impart moral or emotional education that includes sex education from a mental and physical angle. US, Japan and all European countries have been doing it well.
Great episode . Kitna bhi Jodi tutate bachh jayegi. Amazing
Provide time stamp
Amazing
Meri Saheli Ji, aap log bhi baki podcasts ki tarh, video k andar section bifurcate karna consider kar sakte hain, usse watch time bhi badhega aur viewers k liye b easy hoga.
Any examples where it was solved with professional help
In arrange marriage how would u check sexual comparability batana?
She is lusty woman on this plannet bro 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She shd elaborate
@@nishiarora655 exactly she needs to elaborate which person is sexually compatible and what are the steps to check sexual compatibility
@@nishiarora655 u can only check sexual compatibility by performing sex
Those going for arranged marriage nowadays goes through a dating like phase.
Where they meet at places and talk and understand each other.
Somewhere down the line they should have sex.
It's nothing new buddy. It's similar to dating in the West. That aspect needs to be introduced in the arranged setup too.
What is destroying egos n in laws
In laws, Bollywood & cricket surely is...
Salam are you a psychotherapist?
23:41....... hFF
29:09
30:21
I appreciate your views about the exploitation of men by women and its really true I ve seen men going into depression because of this today girls don't want to respect the parents of the husband and the poor man gets shattered
Ldke aur uski family vale bhi to yhi krte hain. Ki ldki apne ghr valo pr jyada na focus krke sasural ko hi sb kuchh Mane pr vo kyu Mane jb pyar bhi nhi mil rha vha aur bs kaam krna hai ab ldki nhi Maan rhi to bura lg rha
There is no answer to such arguments
Thats why living in diff house is imp. But people dont understand it. It is impossible to live happy under the 1 roof with in-law's n wife .and men has to suffer
@@pratibhakale so people like u advocate the parents of the boys should go to old age homes
@@charanjitkaur6819 not just girls but even boys n his parents also dont respect girl side relatives. earlier girls tought to be so submissive without self value. better yahi he ki boy n girl shud sort out each others view nd live separate from parents. parents of the boys, girls both should go to old age homes !
Those who misunderstood each other marry
Hamare deshme,stree aarthik rup mesaksham nahi hye , isliye shadi ke khaddeme girti hye , 😃😃😃😃 our divorce ke baad , jagrut hoti hye ,pahele sehi iske bareme sochna jaruri hye , mam is 💯 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍buddhiman log apne buddhise upay karte hye , 😃😃😃😃😃💯👍👍👍👍
Dear girlss dont gett merride... Because mard pda hona hi bnd ho gye h ab... Ab to bs dlaal pda hote h unko bs ak rndi chahiye, wife nahi.... 😊😊
आज कितना hate फैलाया 5 kg या 10 kg 😂😂
कभी सोचा है धरती हमेशा एक जैसी नहीं रहती
समय का परिवर्तन चलता रहता है 😎
Agar mard paida hone band ho gaye to next 100 years me human species khatam ho jayegi.
Hame aaj ka homo sapiens ban'ne me bas kuch crore saal lage hain.
Ulta bol diya, aajkal ladka sochta hai wife ko lene ja raha hu lekin aa jati hai randi. Ladki ko hamesha sex chahiye, husband job me busy rehta hai to wo bahar talash leti hai. Ab ladko ko shadi se duri bana leni chahiye.
How to check sexual orientation when men or woman is hellbent on hiding it ?
If you feel good afternoon sex,then they are not faking it.especially men cannot fake it.and if the other party is a woman,try to see if she is getting aroused.she can give fake orgasms.but there are other ways to figure it out
Sometimes talk to each other in a calm way
I loved how gender neutral she is. She talks of both the equal suffering of men as well, Feminazism as well as toxic masculinity.
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Times have changed & people have become very materialistic, female partners are taking undue advantage of the law (which are in favour of women mostly) . The sanctity of institution of marriage is lost completely; ultimately one has to accept one's spouse with both + & -points. Previously the beauty of marriage used to be निभाना।
Not beauty please women used to sacrifice happiness ntg else. And still many womes doing the same
सेक्सुअल फिटनेस को जानने की कोई विधि हमारे यह़ाँ नहीं है| इसकेअलावा आदमी कितना भी होशियार हो , शादी की पोल दो साल बाद ही खुलती है |
What causes divorces ..men's insecurity, ego, anger, frustration, disrespecting behavior towards his wife, too much patriarchy, irresponsible behavior, laziness,
wow u just blamed everything on men. U are biased and only see men's fault
@@PankajSingh-vz5ne
She is a Commenter
She just comment in every video & blame one gender
I have seen her hundred's of time
@@PankajSingh-vz5ne
This account comments in many videos & blame one side
I have seen her hundred's of time
@@PankajSingh-vz5ne what do u expect from a feminist
@@PankajSingh-vz5nehar ladka galat nahi hota aise har ladki bhi galat nahi hoti aur zyadatar victim ladkiya hi hoti hai.inki bat sahi hai.insecurity even with her family members, disrespect full behavior,controlling behaviour,in laws ka interfere se bhi jyada pati ka unko jyada mahatva Dena,patni ke family se problem,not give money for basic needs, ladki ke maa baap Bhai behen ko gali dena ye sab hota hai😢 Aaj bhi.sare ladke bhi nirdosh nahi hote hai
Aorat ke 'violence' ka aek mrd k violence se muqablaah nhi kyu k usky phisiology frq h usay bacche peda krk paalne hote hn plus woh apne ander gender bias k wound bhi dabaaey huay hae cultural conditions of worth yhn aajaate hn
Disagreed ... you are discounting cases of domestic violence against women and i know men who gossip so please STOP gloriyfying the king baby who is as common in your society as he is in ours if not more! Women are equally repressed in their feelings in the Eastern society as they are not ALLOWED to be graced with true expression so that they can be acknowledged and addressed ...
Nowadays some gurls marry for money only. They get hefty alimony.
Bakiyo ka toh pata nahi .muje nere husband se meri mother in law ho alag karwana chahti hai.
Muje aaj tak samaj nahi aaya alag karwana chahti jai toh shadi kyu kawai
Budhaape mein jalan hone lagti hai saas ko ki ghar par control nahi rahega Mera , bahu hi centre of attraction rahegi. It is just plain jealousy
True.. bete Bahu ka divorce karwane ke baad bete ki dusri shadi ki bhi inko bahut jaldi hoti hai.
Mujhe toh saamne se kehti thi, nahi jamrah toh juda hojao aur mein iske liye dusri dhoondti hoon..! Jaise ladkiyaan koi commodity hai market mein, yeh nahi acchi lagi, doosri dikhao..!
@@Vedaasupremesartorialalimony maintenance or dusri shaadi ki jaldi ladki k gharwalo ko kyu hoti hai?
@@neerajkumar-mw8qz ye society easy nahi hai girls ke liye.. sagayi Tut jati hai toh bhi ladkiyo ki jindagi nrk bn jati hai.. itne taane sun ne ko milate hai..shadi hokar ya ma banne ke baad divorce ko tum aadmi andaaja bhi nahi lga sakte.. vese beti ki shadi main maa baap itna khrcha krte hai khud ke or bachho ke sapno ko simit karke.. apni pai pai jodkr woh sare pese khrach krte hai shaadi pr .
Vese divorce cash or mentance ka cash bhi easy nahi hota maa baap ko vakilo ko ro rokar bari fee payment karni hoti hai..tb thodi si elumony milti hai bheekh ki trh..
Meri advice yahi hai ladkiya ko peso ke or logo ke chakkar me na pade.. Saadi sahi na ho toh baccha na kare.. bachhe ladkiyon ko hi palne padenge.. jitna jaldi ho toxic marriage se bahar nikle.. torchar & harrasment se bahut si bimariya lg jati hai.. baad mein peso se bhi thik nahi hoti.
लठ्ठ गाड़ दिया😂
हमारे देश में यो तलाक वाला स्वैग आ गया है।
Relationship kharab hone par kaun jyada danger men chala jata hai?
Husband ya wife?
Jawab hai: Husband.
Khane men koi bhi radioactive chiz ek chutki mila do.
Wyakti ko ek sal ke andar cancer ho jayega.
Khana wife banati hai.
Isliye wife jab chahe tab husband ko eliminate kar sakti hai.
Yahi aaj ho raha hai.
Isliye, male hargiz shadi na kare.
Phir ladkiyan kiske saath marriage karengi ?
😂😂
@@triptisingh4342 robot ke sath
Husband danger mein jaaye chaahe wife jaaye , lekin saas humesha maje mein hi rehti hai
Khana banana koi badi baat nahi😅
Puray dessh my bankok khulwa dena chahiye yh faltuu ki problem hi solve ho jayegi
This is a very good advice.couples going for arranged marriage also should have sex before marriage multiple times and figure out if the ither person is nit homosexual
Sexual Contact before Marriage will create more issues
It would be better if People share before Marriage is Fixed what they are, what they feel
@@Priyaykanth2 no.this aunty is very experienced.so respect her words
This ain't practical dude.... Ik sexual compatibility is important but you can't just test drive lol.. Sexual trauma is a real thing
@@bhavikapandey8 how do having sex gives your trauma unless you are doing bdsm or something
@@Daredevil007-v7m having multiple sexual partners can leave a feeling guilt at a subconscious level especially for women as during the action women releases love/feel good hormone called oxytocin .Also this is just biological ,social factors and one's belief system also determines how they fees afterwards .
Ha Ha Ha! Wives mumies do alot in Sindh.
Congress is responsible......
News channels.....
Mental issue ko medical aur sxual bana dala iss doctor ne
Reserch me pta chala hai no1 reason humare deshme Divorce ka in-laws hai or 2nd no pe cheating partner 😂 3 finance 4 sexually fit na hona 😂😂
Divorce is not good for society as a whole.. even one divorce creates problem for upto 5 families, both side parents and both sides sibling's family and child's future family. Let's try to find ways to live together as partners and not find ways to accept divorce.
Maam This problem arises because today women are not sanskari. They are too modern.
What about man?
Good counterquestion.
purane zamane ki aurtein tab ke 'sanskar' lekar ab saas bani hui hain aur maxium saas bahu bete mein phoot daalne ko apna dharm aur adhikaar samajhti hain. What 'sanskars' are you talking about?
@@Mohindramohindra hmare desh me dharam, culture , sanskar bachane ka Sara theka aurto pr hi dal rakha hai
Men khud western cloths wear krege, sirf job krege, ghr k kaam me koi help nhi krege
@@Neetukumari-qz2keyes. Women are the sacred gender of the two. They have to take the responsibility. Also our society gives special privileges to women.
What percentage of the population in India is homosexual?
Bhagwan ko nahi padi hai toh tumko kyu padi hai? You need to understand the purpose behind traditions and restrictions on this planet. They are not hard and fast laws that if broken, will send you to hell. The purpose behind them is to maximize enjoyment in heaven. In heaven, there are no restrictions on sex. And people who go there spend lacs to crores of years there. But some people will not make it to heaven. So the pleasures of this world will be all they'll know for a very long time. The pleasures of this world are very small compared to the pleasures of heaven. Agar abhi saare mazze le lenge toh swarg mein kya karenge?
Sexual compatibility 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what she is talking about
Kyu bhai, test karna chahiye na?
Divorce waje h ladki unconditional demand ghar per kaam chori