Top 05 Reasons For Divorces In India

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutras  Год назад +16

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    • @ektalamba8497
      @ektalamba8497 Год назад +1

      Sir aur un parents ko kya bologe, jo bdi bhu se toh sb karate h, ek din late nhi hona kitchen Mein nd all, ye lunch nhi bnaegi toh kheer tut jaega, inspite of being educated, Saas bimari se nhi uth rae, agli bcha bhi dekhe ghar bhi, pti family business seriously krta h....... Aur fir chota beta, jo already jail vel sb dikha chuka maa Baap ko, love marriage kre zabardasti vo bhi Baap k paiso se, uski biwi toh jaegi job pe... Ab Saas ki bimari bhi thek ho gyi eska bcha palne k liye, ab kitchen Mein Bhi kaam krti h....

    • @biks.1
      @biks.1 Год назад +1

      Meri to acchi income bhi hai, ek hi sahar me rehte hue maa papa se alag bhi rehna pada. For bhi divorce hua.

    • @AnilKumarHugar007
      @AnilKumarHugar007 Год назад

      @@biks.1 bura hua bro..

    • @vishwajeetsingh6654
      @vishwajeetsingh6654 Год назад +1

      ...apna kaam kar, bhagwan mat ban...tu real estate pe hi video bana...tere bas ki nai hai

    • @PS-hy8od
      @PS-hy8od Год назад

      सबसे ज़्यादा ज़हरीली शादी होती है जब आप ख़ुद के zodiac से दूसरे या आठवें zodiac से शादी करते हो(if you are leo then getting married to Virgo or pieces)। घना ज़हर फैलता है।ख़ुद के zodiac या सातवें zodiac से शादी में chemistry बेस्ट है।

  • @Jay-rv4ee
    @Jay-rv4ee Год назад +101

    Sirji, you have left out a very very important reason. *Abuse*
    Abuse of all kinds - emotional, mental, sexual, physical, financial

    • @Mathretaledvideos
      @Mathretaledvideos Год назад +16

      Correct... it arises wen man feels he cant control the woman

    • @Jay-rv4ee
      @Jay-rv4ee Год назад +7

      @@Mathretaledvideos Most overt abuse cases are by men. Most covert abuse cases are by women.
      But there are exceptions on both sides.
      While most abusers are men, women abusers are slowly on the rise because of generations of repressed anger towards men.

    • @IamSoangelic
      @IamSoangelic Год назад +1

      वॉयलेंस मैटर नहीं करता इनको according

    • @Jay-rv4ee
      @Jay-rv4ee Год назад

      @@IamSoangelic Sango Sirji hasn't said so anywhere. It maybe just that he has left out mental health issues....

    • @surjyasahu5397
      @surjyasahu5397 Год назад +3

      I think most abuse happened in lower middle class and wife dependent on husband so divorce not happen s most of the time

  • @DeepLife
    @DeepLife Год назад +12

    Marriage is a holy concept so divorce is not right . So think 100 times before marrying as a man . Rather stay single and enjoy life .

  • @zaid_murtaza_
    @zaid_murtaza_ Год назад +357

    Money solves 99.9 percent problems 😅

  • @Elite8476
    @Elite8476 Год назад +10

    My marriage is dead no chance of improvement now.....
    Still carrying the burden from 20 years...😢 Divorcing.... Is not a solution for me....it will worsen my life

  • @somyamishra5185
    @somyamishra5185 Год назад +41

    DP... Very practical and eye opening videos..We get a closer view of what all is, happening in society through your videos...Atleast you're talking about such taboo topics as well..That too free..lot of appreciation for that👏👏👏. Thanks a lot Sir👍

  • @crystal6350
    @crystal6350 Год назад +20

    Main main reasons for Kaleshhh turning to divorce!!
    1 differences in Kitchen Rules and regulations
    2. mothers wives insecurities MIL controlling son
    3. Tana marna
    4. Wives not understanding or taking responsibilities
    5. No passion between couple
    6. Money issues
    7-- main reason not using brains / intellect to find and implement solution emotions ke chakkar main

  • @advocatesharma5670
    @advocatesharma5670 Год назад +182

    As a matrimonial lawyer i can cinfirm that each and every word of this video is true and currently playing in the society. Apart from that penetration of western culture is also a major reason.

    • @Iamsmitasharma
      @Iamsmitasharma Год назад

      Sir kya aap mujhe guide kar sakte hai

    • @advocatesharma5670
      @advocatesharma5670 Год назад

      @@Iamsmitasharma regarding?

    • @Iamsmitasharma
      @Iamsmitasharma Год назад

      @@advocatesharma5670 फैमिली इश्यू

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 Год назад +7

      In South most of the inlaws live in senior citizen's home. Only some live with their children.

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 Год назад

      @sowjanyap5827 Nobody has to TELL Me. Visit Chennai, Bangalore, Coimbatore and see for yourself how and where most of the parents are living. They seem to be better off than being with their children

  • @Samikshakomal
    @Samikshakomal Год назад +15

    You are absolutely right sir...money problem is the main problem behind disputes in marriages ❤❤❤

  • @ShriyashPatil24
    @ShriyashPatil24 Год назад +136

    5 Reasons!
    5) Infidelity - Extra Marital affair of some other partner.
    4) Saas Bahu Ke Issues- Both are not happy with each other.
    3) Failure of a man to adjust to a wife which has got a mind of her own.
    2) Normalization of Divorce. The girl after divorce is more desirable for marriage than a man.
    1) Money Issues! - There are insecurities, fear in a women. 50% marriages are breaking due to money. Have the courage to talk about money issues even before marriage.

    • @darshanagaja7282
      @darshanagaja7282 Год назад +2

      thank you for summary

    • @mad_in_2020
      @mad_in_2020 Год назад +11

      #5 is becoming common these days due to Western culture 😢

    • @MayankKumar-hk3ud
      @MayankKumar-hk3ud Год назад +16

      ​@@kavitathakur2223 it's opposite, wives are not spending. They want their husband to spend all.

    • @mallusingh1318
      @mallusingh1318 Год назад +1

      You saved my time

    • @richakushwah3679
      @richakushwah3679 Год назад +5

      first issue should be infidelity, because I have seen this so much where i live and this happens in perfectly healthy marriage with kids. Like my father did this because he is an asshole

  • @PoojaSingh27
    @PoojaSingh27 Год назад +34

    Money can be a reason for divorces, but now that many women are financially independent they fulfill their materialistic desires by themselves and also contribute to household expenses. The problem that I am seeing among my female peers is that we are physically, mentally and emotionally drained out by trying to balance between career, motherhood and household chores.
    We are expected to excel everywhere with no appreciation or empathy by our partners or any other family members.

    • @mamtaSingh-mu8qx
      @mamtaSingh-mu8qx Год назад +2

      Ditto

    • @binakhimji6509
      @binakhimji6509 Год назад +1

      @pooja absolutely right. He hasn't even addressed that issue.

    • @Ally_moni55
      @Ally_moni55 Год назад +1

      Yes

    • @coder5411
      @coder5411 8 месяцев назад

      If wife has someone (bf) in her heart and couldn't get away from it after marriage then who is right in this situation...

  • @bharatmittal9937
    @bharatmittal9937 Год назад +95

    DP....we handle family court matters. Your practical discussions on intricate issues are very informative and inspiring too. Regards. 😊

  • @mbmb7521
    @mbmb7521 Год назад +13

    A Big DP, DP, DP, DP, DP, 🙏🙏🙏-----only thing in this video that if Possible you could have elaborated that in the 5th reason, when you said that when there is an extra marital affair the marriage is already dead means it has gone through certain stages n then extramarital affairs starts. But I feel it's not always the case---sometimes it starts very early in marriage n sometimes after having kids, so I would be very pleased if you could explain the last point in detail in some other video during similar discussion . I wanted to hear more. N in between this video I laughter my heart out during some comment like maa ko rent me bagal vali flat me rakh kar seva ho jati . 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💜💜

  • @neeru6611
    @neeru6611 Год назад +36

    Interference of girl's parents on daily basis is a majorvreason which you have missed.

    • @asht7899
      @asht7899 Год назад +5

      Correct in parallel universe.

    • @swethamr87
      @swethamr87 Год назад +15

      what about interference of boys parents on hourly basis??

    • @Antimgupta16
      @Antimgupta16 Год назад +2

      Wo actual % se batate hai ye apka prospective se nhi bata sakte jo maximum divorce reason wo handle karte hai yaa dekhte hai use bata rahe….go nd check google maximum marriage falling dur to son family interference nt daughter

    • @gaurav8267
      @gaurav8267 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@swethamr87boys parents live with the couple so they have the right to speak on a regular basis.

    • @sumanjangra649
      @sumanjangra649 6 месяцев назад

      Absolutely right.. But ldke k parents ko bbi involve nhi hona chahiye unki married life me😊

  • @PS-oy1el
    @PS-oy1el Год назад +15

    Im happy that people r taking divorce instead of rotting in name of sanskars. Infedility n creepiness is something that cant b tolerated. N infedility has always been high. N yes girl emotions n needs n respect r totally ignored. Insecure men cant stand strong women.

  • @sachinkumar151992
    @sachinkumar151992 Год назад +52

    Just like divorces are normalised these, in future living separate or living without marriage will be normalised.. as percentage of singles n happy persons is increasing...

    • @rushiraul4084
      @rushiraul4084 Год назад +14

      He blindly advocates marriage system without considering the fact that marriage is a personal choice & does not guarantee happiness

    • @mbmb7521
      @mbmb7521 Год назад +2

      Yes👍🏽

    • @siddharthkaria8704
      @siddharthkaria8704 Год назад +1

      That will be Great Time in Future

    • @warrior_1101
      @warrior_1101 Год назад +1

      unless we take women's rights away

    • @nikitafernandes461
      @nikitafernandes461 Год назад +2

      True 💯💯 being unmarried is normal nowadays but society and people should understand this

  • @sk-en8dv
    @sk-en8dv Год назад +37

    What about gf_bf system.. Multiple partner before marriage

    • @devshelke1545
      @devshelke1545 Год назад +11

      shaadi hi nhi krte log agar multiple partners hote h past mai

    • @pepe_2518
      @pepe_2518 Год назад +15

      Genuine advice, even if you're someone who's liberal and don't care 100 men, maybe more went through her before, never marry/date someone who wasn't 2-3 years off from her last relation. Unless you think you can deal with with baggage from her past relation and ruin your mental health trying to fix her.

    • @lalitsharma8166
      @lalitsharma8166 Год назад +8

      characterless ladki/ladko se shaadi hi nhi karni chahiye,

  • @varshavaran2558
    @varshavaran2558 Год назад +8

    Sir my husband abandoned me with newborn for his parents….. He sent notice within 3 months and bribed judges to get divorce judgement without giving me any alimony…. He did not visit even one day to see his son and my son is now 8 years …. He is business man in Dubai and his parents and also his sister with her husband live with him

    • @Ashleysarash
      @Ashleysarash 7 месяцев назад +1

      Ur husband did the right thing with u

    • @varshavaran2558
      @varshavaran2558 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@Ashleysarash yeah …. Let this right thing as you said happen will all the females in your family

    • @otisdubey
      @otisdubey Месяц назад

      Any perticular reason ??

    • @geetapawar8402
      @geetapawar8402 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@Ashleysarashhow can you even say this to any woman 😮😮😮

  • @aapaurhum439
    @aapaurhum439 Год назад +55

    Sirji gaanv mein jakar dekhiye wahan divorce rate jayada h wo panchayat se kar lete hn to count ni hota

  • @sakunia.bikram89
    @sakunia.bikram89 Год назад +12

    Sir ...The most main Reason of divorce now days is Financial issues or low earning of Husband and Dominating nature of Husband or wife and also Long term relationship is a reason, Infedility, Sexual Unsatisfaction, Lack of Children etc.

  • @purnimajyotikr9331
    @purnimajyotikr9331 Год назад +7

    I agree with your 1st point. I saw one of my relative getting divorced because he cannot afford to stay separate

  • @debpal8236
    @debpal8236 Год назад +10

    Real truth is that more more expectations in our life which is directly connected with money, is the main reason of divorce.

  • @MyfoodsSaas
    @MyfoodsSaas Год назад +33

    The way you have change the word from control to adjust 😂 says everything

  • @Simunn08
    @Simunn08 Год назад +9

    Happily married for 4 years , and taking notes Sir. Thank you for your insights Sir🙏🙏

    • @adityanjsg99
      @adityanjsg99 Год назад

      No need to mention here..
      Kahi nazar na lag jaaye😮

  • @suvarnashinde8822
    @suvarnashinde8822 Год назад +29

    Sir please make a video about people who are constantly keeping in touch with their ex even after marriage.

    • @skalrask8097
      @skalrask8097 Год назад +2

      Good question!!

    • @harneetsingh8776
      @harneetsingh8776 Год назад +2

      haha,,, good one 😄

    • @guppyd69
      @guppyd69 Год назад +1

      Yes much needed video I have seen such cases

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 8 месяцев назад

      @@skalrask8097if there are children in first marriage, then they have to stay in touch . If there are no children and still staying in touch , that’s cheating

  • @helpathand9347
    @helpathand9347 Год назад +5

    Thank you Sir for wonderful video. I would like to tell you about one more reason about Divorce, " Husband doesn't want to be emotionally invested for his wife. Doesn't see problems happening with in-laws with Girls perspective. "

  • @shikhapandey242
    @shikhapandey242 Год назад +16

    I think ,if both the spouse have mutual respect and 'friendship' b/w them, they can sail through money and family issues ( been there and survived them together)

  • @dineshtalreja8384
    @dineshtalreja8384 Год назад +272

    You missed - wife's mother interfering and teaching wife control tactics. Most lawyers know.

    • @NikhilDixitMusic
      @NikhilDixitMusic Год назад +28

      Exactly. One of the major reasons.

    • @subnan5126
      @subnan5126 Год назад +14

      This is very real

    • @archiem654
      @archiem654 Год назад +55

      It's not called controlling. It's her telling her daughter that she doesn't have to put up with abuse by her in-laws. It's the ego of man and his family that they are "ladke wale"

    • @NikhilDixitMusic
      @NikhilDixitMusic Год назад +14

      @@archiem654 you’re absolutely wrong pal.

    • @archiem654
      @archiem654 Год назад +29

      @@NikhilDixitMusic nope. I am absolutely right. In a patriarchal society, where most power lies with men, it's natural for women to resort to other ways to assert their own dominance. Human beings have a tendency to take others for granted. If a wife is good, she is being taken granted by her in-laws. If the in-laws are good, then the daughter in law takes them for granted. The same goes for husband and wife. Women were abused a lot in their in-laws families. The parents of girls back then just asked them to put up with abuse. Now they don't. It's pretty simple.

  • @charutanwar857
    @charutanwar857 Год назад +39

    I think if there is great rapport between husband and wife, there is love and respect between them, then no saas, no money matters. Understanding, love and respect is a must between partners. And this comes with open communication. Lack of communication related to expectations, real life goals, mutual emotional and physical needs leads to all problems. No female would want to ruin her relation because of saas or money and no male would like to divorce his partner for petty matters. It is the problem between the partners which gets reflected in other areas and leads to complications.

    • @green.frugal.minimalist1316
      @green.frugal.minimalist1316 Год назад +5

      Aapne ekdum sahi bola Charuji.

    • @poojakhatri4609
      @poojakhatri4609 Год назад

      Dp

    • @Hetal28
      @Hetal28 Год назад +2

      Yes love and respect is a must

    • @krishnasaini8474
      @krishnasaini8474 Год назад +2

      Love & respect must dp

    • @Raju_K
      @Raju_K Год назад +1

      How will that rapport begin? It'll start when both do things which others appreciate, it should start small and investment increases later on.
      But patience is important for that

  • @bushshan122
    @bushshan122 Год назад +3

    Sir , plz make more videos on all aspects of ground realities .You dont know but you are changing the old mindsets . New generation needs such precious advises for a better life .

  • @naishaanddivyansh784
    @naishaanddivyansh784 Год назад +22

    गाँव मे एक बड़ा कारण शराब भी है.. आधे से ज्यादा घर बरबाद है.. जहाँ आदमी शराब पी कर अपनी wife ko abuse krta h

  • @vr3216
    @vr3216 Год назад +3

    Tujh se na ho paayi 😂😂😂😂😂😂 how much i enjoy this dialogue from sir that इ have begun saying it to myself when feeling down😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @itsdeysubhone8
    @itsdeysubhone8 Год назад +5

    DP.. a very much needed video from you sir plz make a video on this topic. 🙏🏻

  • @payalgupta4953
    @payalgupta4953 Год назад +3

    Same case meri marriage mein b tha when i got married i was having my own strong opinion for everything and my hubby wants to control me that was a reason of so many disputes

  • @GokhalePriya52
    @GokhalePriya52 Год назад +30

    I like your thought process very much and appreciate also I want to add sonething on
    *parents of the boy should be looked after by the daughter in law*.
    Here we forget that the parents of the girl are also living alone 100% if they have only one/many daughter/s. At that time nobody cares or thinks of them. I always think that borh set of parents should live some what at a distance from the first day of marriage. Let the couple adjust themselves. If they ask for advice then only both inlaws sets should give advice and not interfere in any other case. The parents of a boy should be ready now to live away from their son like the daughter's parents. So that many issues would not even arise. (4rh reason according to you). If you want your son / daughter's happiness don't meddle into their affairs at all. Also there are some other things which I have followed but can't say here because of lack of space.

  • @harneetsingh8776
    @harneetsingh8776 Год назад +6

    Sango ji,,,One of the Major reasons for breakdown of marriage is if ONE PARTNER takes a unilateral decision to not have children.... without the consent of the other partner.

  • @RR-kl5ht
    @RR-kl5ht Год назад +13

    What is wrong in divorce? If marriage doesnt work out, divorce and move on...better than dying slowly in a toxic relationship! Wish there was a way to "divorce" toxic parents and siblings too!

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum Год назад +1

      If you want keep divorcing then why are you even marrying

    • @RR-kl5ht
      @RR-kl5ht Год назад +5

      @@manikyum what do u mean keep divorcing?? its not a hobby. Read my comment properly, if marriage turns toxic then only divorce. Marriage doesnt mean u r trapped for life in some prison.

  • @rgiam8794
    @rgiam8794 Год назад +4

    Truth.....money plays an important role in everybody's life!!

  • @andromeda2950
    @andromeda2950 Год назад +19

    Very perfect analysis... Guruji, one out of the box suggesation with regards to Indian marriage system.... In india parents invite relatives and others for their sons and daughters marraige.... This is flawed system and set wrong narrative right from the start till the end... Iske karan iski kimat sabko chukani padti hai, visheshkar husband wife ko.... So going forward, man who is not a boy anymore and woman who is not a girl anymore should jointly take control of their lives and furthermore send marriage invitation to whosoever they want to including their respective parents and relatives... Parents should not be sending marriage invitation of their kids to relatives and friends anymore.... This single thing can change whole game altogether.... No more farmaeshi programs from either side leading to conflicts and ultimate collapse.

  • @madsadgod
    @madsadgod Год назад +2

    It is said that money cannot buy happiness, I say money buys you (almost) everything and solves 99% of issues. Request 🙏🏻 to all women please don't give up careers and jobs and dreams and money.

  • @shikha4466
    @shikha4466 Год назад +21

    DP... I am also a divorcee and a 30 year old woman all the reasons you have said are 💯 true i have personally faced all this 😢

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum Год назад +1

      What was the main reason for your divorce

    • @shikha4466
      @shikha4466 Год назад +11

      @@manikyum his mother she interfered alot between us n finance problem he was at a good position job but his family was poor so all his salary went for them n we were left with nothing in hand also I was a non working women then so the problems aggravated

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum Год назад

      @@shikha4466 Was it your decision to leave or his?

    • @shikha4466
      @shikha4466 Год назад +4

      @@manikyum it was his decision first then I also agreed for divorce

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum Год назад

      @@shikha4466 Deep inside you wanted to stay or leave? Couldn't you two have sat and figured something out? Like waiting for sometime till situation improves.

  • @IamRahul_007
    @IamRahul_007 Год назад +3

    Dhamaakedaar mazza Aa Gayaaaaa Guru Ji! 🔥🔥🔥👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 please make a video on giving top 5 solutions as well 💯

    • @IamRahul_007
      @IamRahul_007 Год назад

      @@Lavanyachawla55 Yes, it’s a per month subscription plan!

  • @deepakbajaj6420
    @deepakbajaj6420 Год назад +55

    99% divorce ka kaaran insecurities hai
    💰 money bohut important ha ladies ka liya

    • @sahilkumar3866
      @sahilkumar3866 Год назад

      ​@@sanskritiverma8010 toh kamao bsdk

    • @predatordrone7719
      @predatordrone7719 Год назад +2

      ​@@sanskritiverma8010hermit like u, what a reply 😂😂

    • @sreyanshuchaterjee3962
      @sreyanshuchaterjee3962 Год назад +3

      ​​@@sanskritiverma8010ine. Quote a monthly budget that you might seek in your man. That information is valuable and helpful. Isn't it?
      Do u intend to be a housewife and depend fully on the man. In that case will u take over full household chores like olden days?

    • @predatordrone7719
      @predatordrone7719 Год назад

      @@sanskritiverma8010 Exactly 😂

    • @predatordrone7719
      @predatordrone7719 Год назад +3

      Kaam waali Bai chahiye hoti hai inko😂

  • @namithas688
    @namithas688 Год назад +2

    Top most reason is absolutely correct money is cause of all issues👍

  • @indrajitkatira5953
    @indrajitkatira5953 Год назад +10

    DP Apart from money there are. two more prime factors for div. One is sex /physical incompatibility nd second is certain facts are supress from either sides at the time of marriage.

    • @friendshiprocks8673
      @friendshiprocks8673 Год назад +2

      Exactly ur 2nd point is so true. People hiding things before marriage

    • @mad_in_2020
      @mad_in_2020 Год назад +2

      Sexual compatibility is not enough. If a men believes in having multiple partners, because hecwants more and more then he will cheat.

    • @skalrask8097
      @skalrask8097 Год назад

      👍👍

  • @durgeshpurohit5683
    @durgeshpurohit5683 Год назад +1

    1st is money, You are absolutely right 👍🏻

  • @shrutiprabhu8694
    @shrutiprabhu8694 Год назад +37

    Physical incompatability is the 1st reason other reasons can make way due to this reason being affected

    • @danielcruise8644
      @danielcruise8644 Год назад +7

      Not convinced

    • @akstream6172
      @akstream6172 Год назад +7

      U mean sexual compatibility right?

    • @dhirajsaikia
      @dhirajsaikia Год назад +3

      Very important but not not first one

    • @RR-kl5ht
      @RR-kl5ht Год назад +2

      not at all, I and my partner are both asexual yet in a happy marriage from 10+ years

    • @azadjain8534
      @azadjain8534 Год назад +2

      Then everyone should have divorced in elder age

  • @mohitnathani6221
    @mohitnathani6221 Год назад +18

    I decided not to get married in this birth and live with the wisdom of God 🙏
    I am happy with whatever I have as a single person

  • @PS-oy1el
    @PS-oy1el Год назад +35

    In villages most people hav extramarital affairs but not taking divorce.

    • @skalrask8097
      @skalrask8097 Год назад +1

      Cities and small towns too!! 👍👍

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el Год назад

      @@skalrask8097 Exactly! Quality people r less n economic class doesn't matter .

    • @blackboxbs8642
      @blackboxbs8642 Год назад

      even in villages there are affairs?

    • @chaimaxx1642
      @chaimaxx1642 Год назад

      Which state villages

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el Год назад

      @@chaimaxx1642 Ur village n ur grandfather village

  • @neetaanand9207
    @neetaanand9207 Год назад +2

    You are correct fr the 1st reason. But divorce is not only 50% fr money,its more than 75%. Now everyone wants money to enjoy life. Though both partners are good earners still they do not want to take responsibility of their parents or younger siblings 😢

  • @samirsharma9394
    @samirsharma9394 Год назад +5

    Hari Bol
    You spoke very nicely
    Everything you said is true.
    Hari Bol

  • @priyankachoudhary628
    @priyankachoudhary628 Год назад +4

    Sir kuch saas aisi bhi hoti hai jo pass Wale Ghar nahi agar saat samundar paar bhi baithae bahu ke ghar main zehar gholti rehti hain... Itni dangerous hoti hai saas ..

  • @Abhishek-pp5in
    @Abhishek-pp5in Год назад +79

    Oh pls, extramarital affair is definitely NOT only 5% of marriages. It's way more than that. At least above 50% from what I have observed. Most of them don't know (as you know someone is a cheater only when he/ she gets caught). And the rest know about their spouse's affair, but are not bold enough to end the marriage because of kids or other reasons.

    • @drkk3199
      @drkk3199 Год назад

      Above 35 years most of the d females don't have much sexual drive. Hence men may be the reason

    • @Dee14444
      @Dee14444 Год назад +8

      Wife doesn't work so can't separate

    • @sonalverma9490
      @sonalverma9490 Год назад +14

      ​@@Dee14444yes that's y wife ko sehna padta kutte husband ko

    • @karanthakur5172
      @karanthakur5172 Год назад

      ​@@sonalverma9490your father is also kutta ?? That means

    • @nilinimagupta5311
      @nilinimagupta5311 Год назад +3

      ​@@vikasdubey1960yes u r right
      Extra marital affair comes when any or more than 4 causes have already exist in a marriage

  • @Lovelykaur0111
    @Lovelykaur0111 Год назад +2

    100% correct. I am not working now my Husband say he wants separation

    • @manikyum
      @manikyum Год назад

      How is the love life

  • @marychristinejoy9524
    @marychristinejoy9524 Год назад +12

    Sir, after every video of yours, my respect for you increases. Seriously, every word you say is so true. 💯 money is the biggest problem for a failed marriage. DP

  • @kirtiangolkar1409
    @kirtiangolkar1409 Год назад +2

    Very insightful video sir these issues are prevailing in every family today

  • @seeker8836
    @seeker8836 Год назад +4

    Another reason is rise in psychological and mental health issues among youth. A large number of young population today is suffering this and sometimes they hide it at the time of marriage amounting to fraud.

  • @Rikkivlogs33
    @Rikkivlogs33 Год назад +2

    Pillars for divorce.
    1. Finances
    2. Addictions
    3. Infidelity
    4. Family
    5. Children

  • @abhishekmukherji8620
    @abhishekmukherji8620 Год назад +5

    Kitne log dekh rahe hai ye vedio mere tarah jinki shadi nahi hui ...

  • @simsim7168
    @simsim7168 Год назад +1

    @sangolifesutras sir, many times it is also male egos and chauvinism. An acquaintance was once going through a divorce when well-wishers suggested the same thing… to have parents live in a separate house nearby. The man’s response was: If I give in to this “demand” now, there will be more demands from his wife that he will need to give into in the future. He does not want to compromise in that way, so he wants to get divorced.

  • @blitzqa9325
    @blitzqa9325 Год назад +24

    Financial issues top reasons for divorce

  • @anusuyadasgupta4271
    @anusuyadasgupta4271 10 месяцев назад +1

    You explain in your own style making grave matters sound simple. 😊There are no divorces in my or my greater family so the thought to get divorced does not come easily. But when men think their wife and all she earns is his property, problem starts. He will not look after 2 sets of parents. So surely as working she will take care of her parents as a duty.That should be accepted.

  • @RR-kl5ht
    @RR-kl5ht Год назад +26

    Money is an important issue in marriage but not always, for example, we are financially quite well off but my MIL still wanted us to live with her forever...coz she was afraid of losing control over her son. Its about control of power...i feel saas bahu or joint family is the biggest reason for divorce.

    • @abhishekverma4561
      @abhishekverma4561 Год назад +2

      pehle bhi to log joint families me nibha rahe the...to ab achanak se kya change ho gaya....

    • @RR-kl5ht
      @RR-kl5ht Год назад +8

      @@abhishekverma4561 pehle aur bhi bohut galat cheezen hoti thi... Jaise sati, ya female infanticide etc iska matlab ye nhn ke aage bhi hoti rahe. Ye tumhara bohut weak argument hai... People need to change with time and accept equality. Agar joint family se itna pyar hai toh tum jaake apni biwi ki maaike me kyon nhn rehte?

    • @abhishekverma4561
      @abhishekverma4561 Год назад +1

      @@RR-kl5ht Aapne mera point galat way me liya...
      mera matlab ye hai ki hum pehle se hi mindset bana chuke hai ki joint families me problem hongi...
      samay ke saath badlna chahiye ye bhi jaroori hai...
      log apni zindagi me kam se kam log chahte...
      akele rehna pasand kar rahe hai ..
      isme in-laws ke yaha rehne ka point hi nahi hai...

    • @RR-kl5ht
      @RR-kl5ht Год назад +7

      @@abhishekverma4561 toh tumhari point kya thi? Joint family ka matlab aur kya hota hai? Chacha chachi mama mami ke saath rehna? Saara desh jaanta hai relatives ke saath rehne se kitne issues hote hai. . Isme mindset ki kya baate hai.. It's a fact. Similarly in-laws ke saath rehne se bhi maximum problems hote hai... Aur ye cheez sirf ladki se kyon expect ki jaato hai? Ladke bacche hai kya... Woh bhi ladki ki family me reh sakte hai na?

    • @VikashSingh-kd9el
      @VikashSingh-kd9el Год назад +3

      @@RR-kl5ht sati, female infanticide ka joint family se kya relation hai?? Stay on cource and don't get deviated from the topic. Joint family is good. Only issue comes when wife is controlling. She won't be able to adjust

  • @stungun3009
    @stungun3009 Год назад +2

    Definitely need Divorce Proof video as well sir, please! DP

  • @umakirola8617
    @umakirola8617 Год назад +7

    Namaste sir.. aapki govt services ki barikyan batane wali video se I got stuck to your channel as everything you said was deeply true and can be fully appreciated by someone who is already in it. Since then, all day long, I have been watching your videos only.
    In case of marital series, I have two questions to ask sir:
    First, Should one be marrying someone within profession or outside? Own profession (PSBank) looks toxic and ham khud hi bahar nikalne ke raste khoj rahe (but can't say about future) but then dusre profession ka vyakti problems samajh nahi paega. But then thode time bad to job leave hi karni h 😬 so is it better to choose someone jiske sath thinking zada match kare goals and cheezo ko lekar. Sath me dono kuch kar sake but then ye sare thoughts khyali pulao to nahi?!
    Second: Isn't a delayed marriage in today's complex world better than divorces? My mother pesters for marriage but somewhere understands that you cannot study or do things with that vigour or focus after marriage. Priorities have to be changed and it is a big task. Shadi se pahle jo kar liya kar liya. And that will become your base. Looks anyway doesn't matter beyond a point and life has to be spent with a man and not a boy. Delayed marriage me atleast both persons are more matured and a better version of themselves. Before marrying, they are better able to gauge and discuss the real things that can matter. It may be less of teenage love and excitement etc but atleast more understanding, more practical and less eronneous. Bachhe 4 5 sal bad paida ho gae to zada issue nai h, atleast they will have better traits and better atmosphere to live in. Itna antar ho jaega ki friends ke bacche 7 sal ke hain and hamare 2 sal ke.
    Looking forward to your perspective on these issues 🙏🙏

    • @DevRaj-co4ei
      @DevRaj-co4ei Год назад +1

      Understand the opportunity cost. You will conclude everything for you.

  • @ashasatish8844
    @ashasatish8844 Год назад

    D.P
    Salute to you, about tell the truth about divorce in marriage.
    Thanks you

  • @puneetverma1847
    @puneetverma1847 Год назад +5

    I have seen enough videos of yours to know that the content you will give will be A1

  • @kulbhooshanjha4329
    @kulbhooshanjha4329 Год назад +1

    Money issues sir you are definitely right, only from the perspective of either side, w or H.

  • @gurvinderjeetsingh7735
    @gurvinderjeetsingh7735 Год назад +6

    BC no 1 reason Maine Sahi guess kiya tha. Mujhe Pehle lagta tha ki main duniya se alag sochta hoon. Lekin aapke videos Dekh ke mujhe lagta hai ki main bilkul normal aur practical sochta hoon.

  • @bubblegum505
    @bubblegum505 Год назад +1

    No. 3 reason is so true. In Madam C J Walker - movie this reason led to extra marital affair and then divorce.

  • @MonaSeth-g2t
    @MonaSeth-g2t Год назад +4

    Sir meri married life bhi dead hai meri beti mujhe hi blame karti hai plz is topic par video banaye

  • @partiswaripatra
    @partiswaripatra Год назад

    Yes...that's it..dil jitliya apke top reason ne...lots of respect sir..

  • @ajit.salunke11
    @ajit.salunke11 Год назад +9

    New topic, Should we disclose everything with wife? Ex. Once in a while social drinking, especially when we know that it will create big issue...

    • @vr3216
      @vr3216 Год назад +1

      First study what kind of control freak and blackmail tactics ur wife uses love her spend on her but never open ur heart secrets 😊😊

    • @nirupamasharma4389
      @nirupamasharma4389 Год назад +1

      Are you okay if your wife does the same with you? Hide things which she likes to do but you particularly dislike her doing so? Think and answer this question for yourself.

  • @rahulvig5298
    @rahulvig5298 Год назад +1

    5. Infidelity
    4. Saas Bahu issues
    3. Failure of a man to control a wife who is strong
    2. Normalisation of divorce
    1. Money Issues

    • @rahulvig5298
      @rahulvig5298 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@AnuSeetha Oh, sorry. I didn't write it correctly. You are correct. I hope you never get divorced.

  • @soniyasingh3508
    @soniyasingh3508 Год назад +4

    So sweet 😂Sangwanji and so true at 11:37

  • @SoniKumari-rx9ob
    @SoniKumari-rx9ob 10 дней назад

    Sab kuch sambhav ho jata man nahi ghabrata very true😂😂😂 very nice sir jii

  • @manishchopra3908
    @manishchopra3908 Год назад +9

    Sir, thanks for amazing content. You said money is top reason for divorce. Sir i have a doubt regarding marriage. What I have understood that marriage is based on money and physical relationship. In my view both money and human body are extremely transitory especially in age when diabetes and heart attacks are occuring in 30s and 40s. So how can marriage based on transitory elements can last for one lifetime in current era. Kindly enlighten.

  • @gaurikumari9155
    @gaurikumari9155 Год назад

    Yes sir last wala bilkul sahi hai yehi problem hai exactly sir

  • @aravindkrishna7606
    @aravindkrishna7606 Год назад +10

    Strong independent Feminazis are going to get really pissed off by this. But I 100% agree with sir. Absolutely true. I am also a man with less income and I have decided that I will never marry till I get rich enough. If that's not going to happen I will die single. DP

    • @RR-kl5ht
      @RR-kl5ht Год назад

      why do u have a problem with strong independent women that u call them feminazis?? do u want women to be weak and dependent??

    • @ankitamishra0405
      @ankitamishra0405 9 месяцев назад

      Mat karo bhai aur mera ghar bhara hua h examples se women earning more then men.....with sustainable marriage.....aur jitne marriages kharab h mere khandan mei woh sab non working women h victim of domestic violence during pregnancy n stuff.
      Mat kar achha hi h marriage market se kachra khud hi saaf hojayega toh achha ladka dhoondhna easy hogi

    • @aravindkrishna7606
      @aravindkrishna7606 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ankitamishra0405 Toh mujhe kya bta rahi ho behen. Jisse shadi karna hai karo. Waise mujhe lgta nhi ki tumhe shaadi karne ke liye kachre ke alawa kuch milega.😂🤡 I wish you good luck and happy kachra life. Khush raho apne kam income wale gareeb pati ke saath. 😂

  • @ankitmalik1665
    @ankitmalik1665 Год назад

    Please start attaching the playlist link in the description.

  • @oracle5278
    @oracle5278 Год назад +14

    Sir , latest reason is not interference of parents of husband but parents of wife .

    • @mbmb7521
      @mbmb7521 Год назад +2

      Really, what about Husbands parents especially Mother in law. Vo Devi Mata hoti hai kya❓❓❓❓❓

  • @aps0456
    @aps0456 Год назад +1

    (dp) your clarity about relations is more than our so called 'BUJURGs' who just imagine a typical pragmatic circumstance they have been into and solve all of our issues with that thinking. new generations need new ideas to solve what are the concerns with the relations.

  • @srisidharichsidham
    @srisidharichsidham Год назад +4

    Every man become like Ambani. Then man can get marry. Today extra material affairs is common in every family. Today femal ratio is highest.

  • @karunatimes
    @karunatimes Год назад +4

    Money k ilawa bhi is a big issue more than money is lack of intimacy among partners, sexual life is zero in urban areas

  • @jyotipachauri2146
    @jyotipachauri2146 Год назад +1

    DP....I am glad someone finally brought the real reasons😊

  • @bulbul1000
    @bulbul1000 Год назад +8

    sir u didn't put much emphasis on saas-bahu point. I see wife struggling to cope up with her in laws exploitation for years and expects her husband to save her which is absolutely right. otherwise who else she can go to in that family assuming her own parents no more want to entertain her and see her as a burden. That helpless woman is living for years with that grieving heart of her where her husband is still not available emotionally and rather tries to prove his innocence and provides fake assurance to not let things repeat again. Here husband is the culprit and divorce should happen asap as the kids are suffering mentally and turning into a traumatized soul everyday. There is no future for such a family.

    • @anishashaji4133
      @anishashaji4133 Год назад +3

      Same thing happened with my mom. My dad never stood up for her. Now I am not just judging the guy ,but also his parents when coming for proposals.

  • @namusaru4482
    @namusaru4482 Год назад +1

    Well said 🙌

  • @mansisharma-hr7bx
    @mansisharma-hr7bx Год назад +12

    Family life is like रायता 🤓 कैसे निभाए यह सिखाइए with narcissist society of members 🙏🏻

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el Год назад

      😂 agree.

    • @geniusshubham4400
      @geniusshubham4400 Год назад

      Great perception

    • @priyankapattanaik5414
      @priyankapattanaik5414 Год назад +1

      Do kan hai ..ek se suno dusron se nikal do...aise to iss planet mein rehna mushkil ho jayega...dusre planet mein Ja nahi sakte😂😂😂

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад

      ​@@priyankapattanaik5414are tho vha kya alien ke sath shadi karogi. earth ka admi hi lejana padega na

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад

      Jogan banjo😂 Sanyasini bano aur Vrindavan Ajao😂

  • @punjabitikka
    @punjabitikka 8 месяцев назад +1

    Can we get divorce from our parents and children and siblings?

  • @Casualvloger442
    @Casualvloger442 Год назад +6

    Sir I have an issue with you that you talk mostly about elite and high class society, where there problems are not whole india problems. Yes it is true that north India people like delhi , Punjab Haryana and Western up have some urban mentalities but their mentality is not about the whole india. These parts which i mentioned have high trend of feminism, modernisation, alcoholism, nuclear family, little bit racism towards lower class peope, and English obsession culture but their shitty issue is not the matter of concern for whole india. So my suggestion is to please bring the issues which are facing normal people who are earning 20k-50k because they are in the majority. Sir you are doing great because you bring the light on the social areas where most consultants never ever talk.

    • @avikgupta44
      @avikgupta44 Год назад

      Echo the same. Thanks for bringing this up.

  • @Prachi-sha
    @Prachi-sha Год назад +1

    Next Divorce proof video Guruji .. my friend she is also facing issue due to mil .. hope her marriage is saved

  • @qbm7579
    @qbm7579 Год назад +10

    Paisa sab bolta hai why should man only sacrifice and suffer for money?

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el Год назад +5

      Keep asking this question n say to the girl u will marry before marriage or stay without marriage. Control ur lust.

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад +1

      ​@@PS-oy1elare esa kuch nhi hai. My sister got married to my unemployed Jija ji as she was in love. they both made a good business. if you look it like transaction then more likely even women will end up without marriage or used multiple times by different men and Any men can easily lure her by cash

  • @vijaysinghkhunga4953
    @vijaysinghkhunga4953 2 месяца назад

    nicely covered ...hard facts covers nicely

  • @happyvolly
    @happyvolly Год назад +20

    Jab tak hum marriage ko saat janm ka rishta mante rahenge yehi hoga. Divorce law ko easy banay jay. Bharat me 90 percent bimariyan ka karan loveless marriage ko kheench a hai.Husband aur wife andar hi andar suffocate hote hain lekin parampara ke naam par isko dhoye ja rahe hain.

    • @satrupasahu8184
      @satrupasahu8184 Год назад

      Correct

    • @salaar75
      @salaar75 Год назад +1

      @sanjaykumar-sx8v0 Ye toh west mein toh hai hi na...waha pe bhi toh loneliness kaafi hai na?

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад +1

      bhai jha divorce easy hai vha ki halat dekhto lo before suggestion

    • @happyvolly
      @happyvolly Год назад +2

      @@varunmittal3617 hamse lakh Guna behtar hai. Hum kyon sabhi bimarriyon me top par hai. Statistics dekh len. Chahe diabetes ho ya cancer etc. Hamara to culture bahut achha hai na. Vishwa guru hai hum. Aur hamare log kyon vahan bhagte hain acchi naukri aur research ke liye. Main ye nahi kah Raha hun ki divorce accha hai lekin Mera ye kahna hai ki loveless marriage jo samaj ko dikhane ke liye kheenchte hai vo bahut badi frustration aur bimarriyon ka karan hai. Videsh me sab kuch accha nahi hai lekin vo hamse relationship ship ko lekar jyada honest hain. By the way porn dekhne me india world ke chauthe number par aata hai. Ye hamare sexual frustration ko darshata hai. Bhartiya sanskriti ka sayyam aur videshi sanskriti ki imandari dono jaroori hai. Is par koi baat nahi karna chahta nahi to charitraheen ka label lag jayega lekin chupke chupke sab chalta hai hamare samaj me.

    • @happyvolly
      @happyvolly Год назад

      @@salaar75 bilkul. Bhartiya sanskriti ka niyam samyam jaroori hai tanavvbhare vivah ko sirf samaj ke liye banaye rakhna Kahan Tak uchit hai. Ye bahut badi bimari aur urja ko kheechne vala karan hai jiski taraf sochna hoga. Sirf Bhartiya sanskriti ke naam par samajik vishayon par naye tarike se na soche ye theek nahi. Sanatan dharm beshak sabse uttam hai lekin sanskriti badalti rahati hai hamne sanskriti ko hi dharm liya hai.

  • @abcxyz9783
    @abcxyz9783 Месяц назад

    I like both your content and your style guruji.

  • @darylolsen7928
    @darylolsen7928 Год назад +17

    DP, social media addiction among women, buying useless things among women and infertility due to pornography among men is also a very big reason for divorces these days.

    • @varunmittal3617
      @varunmittal3617 Год назад

      Pornography & Prostitution cause indefinitely not infertility. But no women right activists will stop it but will do march for maintenance and property rights. hypocrisy of high class women

    • @improvelivingandlearning
      @improvelivingandlearning Год назад +5

      Social media from both sides many males spent all time of house on social media

  • @varshadas4179
    @varshadas4179 7 месяцев назад

    Sir,i have faced lots of issues,he is not settled and his age is 43,i helped him from everyside but he don't look serious,and i have problems of intimacy too......

  • @shottyaiyer
    @shottyaiyer Год назад +16

    What is considered a decent salary in today's age and era?

    • @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv
      @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv Год назад +5

      No 1 lakh is nothing. I am earning 2.2 lakh per month but it's not enough

    • @shottyaiyer
      @shottyaiyer Год назад +3

      Which brings me to the counter-question, how much should a single woman earn to be able to live comfortably in a metropolis like Bangalore? I mean considering practicalities. Eventually even a 5LPM would seem unsufficient for some - depends on their lifestyle and expectations. But I mean for a comfortable but not necessarily luxurious lifestyle.

    • @rahulsrivastava2817
      @rahulsrivastava2817 Год назад +9

      ​@@Ankitjaiswal-hd7pvshow-off

    • @sapnakushtagi798
      @sapnakushtagi798 Год назад +8

      Stop living in metropolis....
      You can have many equal comforts in district place also,...😊

    • @nuukizmir
      @nuukizmir Год назад +12

      My salary is 1,97,000. My monthly expenses is only 30,000. Rest the money I invest in Stock market and crypto trading.

  • @kevinjohn2243
    @kevinjohn2243 Год назад +1

    Yes sir.. money is a big issue. The wife as she comes wants immediately inher name all the properties, bank accounts etc....maybe as you said insecurity....most of the time the insecurity is feeded by her mother.

  • @Ankurtist
    @Ankurtist Год назад +9

    Ye banda likhta kab hai
    Banaata kab hai
    Kaise itne topics laa sakta hai koi