I absolutely agree with you. I am a manager in an IT company my salary is 1.75 lakhs per months but my personal life is fallen apart. My divorce case is going on in court, my wife has my daughters custody and I think this happened coz of somewhere I am a very dedicated employee. Sometimes i even sleep in office to not miss the deadlines. I realise this at the age of 37 however didn't know all of this when I was young and I took my family for granted.
Dont worry brother. Some people work as a Money Machine. Just to grow more and more. But, they loose their relations. The top position in big firms are spoiler of the health first. So , instead of one top or big positions . Do many more medium work or get many more medium positions. And stay healthy wealthy , stress free.
Sir I am 45 years old. I am working as block superviser in health department for last 20 years. I leading a life the way you described in the video. I left two chances of promotion. Just because I am running school with my wife . Doing very good stock market. I personally feel very successful inspite of group C post. But there was a guilt somewhere in my subconscious whether it was right to forgo promotions. Today you removed all guilts. Thanks a lot.
Dhanya ho Swami that you have realised earlier in life. I have been a top performer and I am burnt out at 42. I am BP medication. I keep having panic attacks. I spend very less time with wife and children. Nothing to be proud of
Are you in a Govt post ? Can you guide if any issue occurs in stock market for govt employees? Or we have to inform our department if we are earning good in Market
This is a great approach. My father did not take promotion for 20 years as he did not want to take transfer. Once his kids were in college and he built his house, he started taking promotions. This way he supported us in our crucial years and built a house which is worth crores now. Now his super seniors cannot afford to buy a house in our city.
@@TK-yj8tifigure out the way to improve & value productivity over employees working till burning out, as this video says. stop trying to put just companies goals above all because a company cannot thrive without employees happiness,mental/physical health and when employees sense that company only cares for itself & money over their well being, they obviously would have to care about themselves. - & not every promotion means a transfer/excessive responsibility so doesn't mean everyone has to reject promotions, that's just how it worked out for the person above. Smart decisions can be opposite things for different peoples different circumstances sometimes.
the essence of the video is - 1. बने रहो पगला, काम करेगा अगला। 2. बने रहो कूल, सैलेरी मिलेगी फुल। 3. जिसने ली टेंशन, उसकी वाइफ लेगी पेंशन। 4. काम से डरों नहीं ओर काम को करो नहीं। 5. काम करो या न करो, काम की फिक्र जरूर करो। 6. फिक्र करो या न करो, फिक्र का जिक्र बॉस से जरूर करो। 7. जो काम करे, उसे अंगुली करो और जो काम न करे उसकी चुगली करो।
Oh my God .Point 1 and 7 what I see in my organization.I never understood why General Manager supports all the idiots and always after people who really work hard.
I lost my marriage due to all of the reasons you mentioned in the video. I figured out very late 4 years ago at the age of 32. Now I am close to 37. Re-married, happy & wealthy. I stopped chasing corporate ladder. Devoted my time into marriage, family, investments and self growth.
Proud to be living like this for the last 4 years in my profession of overall 8 years, it took me 4 years to realise promotion paane ke chakkar me life ka swaha nahi karwana
I never took career seriously. Nobody gave me any advice yet i followed what my heart wanted to. I enjoyed my trips more than working on Sundays. I have no regret 😊
I was admitted in ICu for 1 month due to covid and I was very hard working in my career and wanted to learn new things related to work and wanted to have a success full career, but I got enlightenment when my manager hardly asked abt my health when I was ICU and only family cared. After that I have released and giving 60% to work and giving time for family, health and kids.
Absolutely correct Sir Doing 80% in everything is very easy, I am Glad I found your channel at the age of 24 (Just by searching tricks for job), IN 10th Scoring 10.6 was Easy(While playing soo much Cricket and Playing in empty plots) In 12th Scoring 83.4% was very easy (While almost focusing nothing at school just to chill out at school as was studying for IIT-JEE) Scoring 18k rank out of 12L People who give JEE was easy (While being regular to school with chilling with teachers and friends going for parties), Completing Engineering with 7.77 CGPA Was Very Easy (While fully enjoying the engineering life like bunking going clubs, trips and what not) Getting a good Job in MNC was easy (While playing soo much online game in corona time also giving too much time to family and enjoying lot with family watching ramayan Mahabharat again and countless movies and chilling full nights ) Scoring 90% in CAT was not easy while doing job but not that tough also(While giving time to family, friends and learning about investment, saving money, Swimming, Playing Fortnite Valo for hours daily and doing well in job also) *Will focus on carrier and MBA but only 80%*
I started my first job in IT company being very far from my parents and hometown with uncertainty of marriage and life. Hence I left IT after working 5 years and prepared for banking job. Now I am working as associate in PSB in my hometown with my parents and my wife. No plan for promotion. With 50K salary with 7-8k annual increment with no extra efforts along with petrol allowance, Medical allowances and very less expenses Now I am fully satisfied with my balanced lifestyle. Thanks God for giving this life. 🙏🙏❤❤
Thank you man , I just joined as a fresher in a semiconductor company, transition from student to professional life , this is a very good way of seeing things instead of too much stressing out for things learning first time
Mr. Sangwan you are great. I wish you had met me when I was in the job of a scientist.My life would have been far better. Anyway, at the age of 70 I am seeing someone speaking my thoughts. You are better than any saints that happened in this country.
At 32, Im quite happy with my current post...I get a lot of time for other things...and salary is also good...and I had already decided that I wont take any promotions as that would increase my workload considerably...job is not everything in life...its just one of the many things that u have to do in life...U have only one life...make the most of it...
Just 20 days back, I was under a lot pressure in my work. I learnt a lot from your earlier video on the same topic. After watching your videos I felt so relaxed and now I am able to breathe easy and do the job. Thank you so much sir. From Bangalore 😊.
Very true Sir - I wish I had realized this earlier. It is too late for me at the age of 70. However, let me share this video with my near & dear ones. स्वप्न झरे फूल से, मीत चुभे शूल से लुट गये सिंगार सभी बाग़ के बबूल से और हम खड़े-खड़े बहार देखते रहे। कारवाँ गुज़र गया गुबार देखते रहे। 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mai jab bhi frustrated feeel krta hu mai enhi ke video's dekhta mai bas 24 saal ka hu lekin sir ki baato se mujhe bhaut relax milta hai duniya zyada smjh aati hai ab
Zindagi ek baar milti hai...ise apno ke sath jeene ki kosish karo....Jeevan imandari se bhi kat jata hai isliye utna tension mt lia kro...dusro ko dekh kr mt chlo...apni khushiya dekho aur apni family ke sth rhne ki hmesha kosish karo.....qki ye sab sirf limited time ke lie hai.
What mindblowing analysis. We all have been brainwashed to hard work to be happy. But its so ironical that hard work results in unhappiness. Spent last decade working hard. Hardly spend time with family, gave 90% of time to my studio/company and today what I have in hand? nothing. It came at a great cost.
Sir I work for a maharatna , this is exactly the scenario u have told, seniors do not want to leave the office. And keeps juniors engaged in futile activities. And dhamki dete rehte hai bekaar ki. After retiring they neither have health, relations, friends, and their money is also not too much to buy this. Luv u sir.
BHAI SAHAB AAP KI YEH ANMOL BATEIN HAR KISI KI SAMAJH MEIN BHI NAHIN AATI۔۔۔ISS HI LIYE AAP KE ISS ANMOL VIDIO KO HUM APNE PAAS RAKHNA KO HI SAHI AUR FAIDA MAND SAMAJHTE HAIN ۔۔۔AAP KI NASIHATON KA SUKRIYA۔۔۔۔KIYON KE AAP KE HAMARE QAYALAAT BAHUT MILTE HAIN۔۔۔Tks.for giving your valuble 👍🏻🇮🇳
Sir, really an eye opening video. What a relief after watching your video, I felt 80% burden vanished. Thank you sir for the gyan, really it is practical.
Hearing this second time as it resonates with what I have been believing since last 10 yrs. By not running behind promotion and so called growth I am much at peace with myself. Today I am equally focusing on building my skills in carpentry, video editing and working on social initiatives. Life is short, I do not want to die as VP of a big company after losing all opportunities to explore new things
Till now i thought 'career mei mera kuch nai ho raha, zyada nahi kama raha, achi position nahi hai, naukri fix nahi hai, canada padhne nahi jaa paya, zyada kuch hai nahi life mei.' Now i realized that 'naukri ghar ke 1km pas mei hai, chaho th ghar ja sakta hu garam garam roti khaane. Aur toh aur gym paas mei hai, ghar par achi khaasi guitar class chala raha hu, mumy papa ke kuch kaam aa sakta hu aur physical activity k naam pr ghar saaf karne ka samay mil jaata hai. Im so freaking blessed. Thank you for making me realize this.
Bhai mai bhi canada mai Hu almost 2.5 saalse. Har din socha ta Hu kya kar raha hu yaha. Kuch paane ke chakkar mai bahut Kuch kho diya hai. Roj soch ta Hu is it worth it!? . Bro, enjoy your life and take care of your family. ❤
Sir, wishes from Bangalore. I am working in S/W with 17 yrs exp not aiming for position but i have a very peaceful life and beautiful family. I am happy with non office life, we have bought farm lands and invested in sip. I am planning to start side work soon😊. You made me realise that its ok not to run behind titles or be greedy. Thank you sir. Best wishes 🙏 pranam
I was Hospitalised for 2 month due to work related injury. Nobody fm office cared to ask. Everyone was busy in thier own life. Only my family members were with me during that hard period.
I m also in the same company from past 8 years because it offers work life balance.... i got no promotion in these 8 years but i became mother... not left job after kids like many people, invested in stock market, mutual funds and real estate.... having a relaxed life
Hello sir , I am 19 age ka hu sir apki guidence se muje lifebke reality fact pta chlta hai and apki video se life mai alg view ban jata hai dekhne ka and motivation milta hai thanks sir
Yes... The main thing I learnt from this video is that for fulfilling just one aspect of life one cannot afford or should not afford to sacrifice all the aspects of their life! Because ultimately it's not worth it... It's like killing your actual potential. In your own mind you think that you achieved everything in life you desired by hyper-focusing on your professional life but that's actually not the case, when you really realise it.... You should know about things that are out of your domain and capitalise on that. Work smartly for your own benefit... 🙂👍
बिल्कुल सही कहा आपने, प्राइवेट सेक्टर में आपको ऐसा महसूस कराया जाता हैं जैसे पोस्ट ही सब कुछ है और यदि आप नाइट शिफ्ट कर रहे है तो आपकी सोचने समझने की क्षमता और हेल्थ बुरी तरह प्रभावित होती है। आपका सोशल सर्कल रिश्ते नाते खतम आप विदेशी त्योहार मनाते है। आपको अपने त्योहार के लिए छुट्टी नहीं मिलती है। आपके काम का माहौल ऐसा होता है जिससे आप सिर्फ काम पे ध्यान दे। आपका ध्यान काम से हटे नहीं। कुछ समय बाद एक दिन आपको ऐसा महसूस होता है की ये नोकरी करते हुए कितना समय निकल गया और मैं वहीं के वहीं हूं। आपको अंदर से लगने लगता है मेरा पैर गन्ने की मशीन में फस गया है। आशा करते है किसी के जीवन में परिवर्तन आए। धन्यवाद।
Sir, I am 70 years now. Retired from a PSU. After listening to you I repent now why I put so much effort in my carrier to grow. It's true as you say, that people who worked with me at lower ranks progresses and command more respect and are leading a much more fulfilled life now. Now tell me what I should do now. Your suggestions are practical and one can easily put them into practice. Hats off to you.
Problem ye hei sir ki senior level pe jo bande pohonche hein un logo ne apni life jhund pehle hi bana li hei. Ab juniors ki khusi unse dekhi nahi jaati. Whatsapp pe smile kerte hue photo tak nahi daal sakte, ye situation ho jaati hei. Koi banda khush hei apni personal life ya apni kisi hobby mei ye unse dekha nahi jata. Usko upar se upar aur kaam dete jaate hein. Toxicity has seeped deep into the Indian corporate structure and society.
One more thing people working in MNC should keep in mind is that the India office will have limited slots for promotion so it does not matter if you gave full effort or not. And any increment will be taken by the government at 30%
Pata nhi kyu ye vichar mere mann mein pehle se the 9th se abhi to mai 20 ka hoon job join karne hi wala hoon college ke baad mai bas ye chahta hoon ki ek normal job ho jyada workload na hoon mai freely duniya ki saari cheeze explore kar saku like astrology seekhu, multiple languages seekhu, spiritually increase karu , books likhu literature, kaviya, raag, dance, i want everything not just one specific thing or yhi mai sunna bhi chahta tha kisi se.... Samaj ki vyavastha aisi h ki vo karne hi nhi deti movies, reels etc. Hume mentally push kiya karti h. Hume cahhiye tha sukoon use liye paisa kamana socha peeche gye to jo thora sukoon tha vo bhi kha gyi duniya
Frankly I am living my life this way..keeping balanced life style. Inhave got everything and no stress. I do not see what others are doing. I am going on my own pace. Loving life.
It's absolutely true what Sir has told in this video, right now I am 39 years of age, had worked earlier with very good company at descent position but unfortunately I had to leave that company because of some reasons. I had given my valuable 8 years for growth if that company and I was just asked to leave. Now I am working with another company with low designation but I am relatively happy as I am also able to do my other stuffs which are more important to me and I enjoy time with my family as well 🎉
Amitji… 1000% Agree can’t believe you exactly said what I have been following in my career for last 15/20 years… this simple practice has helped me enjoy life at its full potential… Cheers!!!
Absolutely correct. The idea that the education system is propagating into the younger generation is that defeating the person next to you can make you successful.. but no matter how many people you defeat, there will always be someone who will be a little better than you the next day. Its an endless cycle.
In 42 years working in IT sector, life is very unsatisfied. Other people who started very late and doing side work are better than IT professionals. They invested in land and plots which is worth in crores while i spend my life in traveling foreign countries never realized India is rapidly changing. All money is spent without any financial freedom yet.
In my opinion, the best way to live the life: a) take care of your health and fitness. Nothing in the world can compensate if you lose it b) make money sufficient to take care of your basic expenses till 45 and post that do whatever you enjoy with an objective to make passive income c) never do something to show someone else that you are happy or above them d) your happiness should never be relative to others. Don't compare lives Sir, pls do a video on ways to make passive income after 45-50
@@Pajeetmyson-hz6ifary nahin Jee..45 main b bohat sy passion hoty hain..... I am 44 and started 2 new project this year.... My father is 75 (Alkhamdulillah), he is more passionate about his profession and planning innovative projects
This video was a revelation for me….Didn’t realise I was sacrificing so much in order to become perfect at my job. Thank you for opening my eyes Sir!!🙏🏻
Same here. I was also putting 💯 percent effort but now I will put 60 percent. No point in getting 5/7 percent extra increment or promotion at the expense of family, self .
Very deep . I have been working very sincerely for last 20 years and grown fast. It came at a cost : my health is gone both physical (BP) and mental (anxiety and panic attack). This video is the right intervention I need
Sabse badi baat h k apki family life kaisi hai aap kitne sukoon se Hain, is baat se koi farq nhi padta k aap kis post aur level par Hain, bas apki needs achhe se puri honi chahiye
There is a saying in competitive exams.. If u cover 100% syllabus with 60% accuracy u ll get 60% result If u cover 80% syllabus with 90% accuracy u ll get 72% I think this hold good in real life as well
The problem is there is a huge disconnect between Economy and returns from a Job, the system is designed to push people in the rut, any career break is considered a "crime", in reality there is no job security in today's private jobs and almost every one changes job every few years, even relocating to multiple cities, in a few years these guys realise that their career is stagnated and there is no growth and they're a slave to the system. They lose social capital, financial capital, health, fail to invest in the right areas of life
💯% sahi bola aap ne sir maine 10 year one company ko diye Supervisor se Assistant Manager ke Level tak gya but apni personal Life aur health kharab kri ik cheez ke liye ki muje sab se acha kr ke dikhana hai apne boss ko but itna load load ld ke Depression Anxiety ho gyi last mein jab mental condition bigri toh job chod di 10 saal ki mrhnat bhi pani mein gayi aur mnn ka sakunn bhi gya.
Eye opening video sir... In reality most are trapped but presenting themselves as a successful instead of accepting that they failed in other aspects of life.
Either you scan do good in your career or live a fullfiling life.... same thing in schools Either you scan be a good student or you can be a good learner.
Thats why i tell my son not to bother scoring very high. The cost benefit does not make sense. Instead i tell him to be above average in studies but learn other skills
@@doncorleone3901 My parents are also like this they use to get happy when I used to get 60-70% in school during childhood. I used to get some more time to sleep than other students 😇
I did exactly this when I was becoming a workaholic obsessed with ambitions academically and professionally Surprisingly despite strengthening of family bonding as I spent quality time with children and wife as I put my academic and professional ambitions to second place ,I was constantly successful It’s very important to schedule according to your age and situation There’s no formula or proportion,you have to use your sense and shift gears as per need But one thing is clear give priority to your self and family
This is what I have always felt in my life. I've always felt differently from the people around me. Everyone around me is hell bent on "making it big" in jobs. I see jobs as a soul-sucking arrangement in which you think you are/ you will be getting a lot (money) but actually it's a moving target and in the process you lose so much. Think about it - you work in a system like a tenant. You get a monthly salary as long as you work. The moment you stop working, your income stops. So, you cannot stop even if your health suffers because you cannot afford to stop. And all of this takes a huge chunk out of your day ( at least 10 hours if your commute to work is not too long). It's a crazy way, to be honest. But people are running and spending 30-40 years of their life. And they will keep doing so.
Sir, this video contains an important piece of advice. I used to discuss along similar lines around 20 years back in college with a close friend. We named it the "Pass Marks" guideline. Just as one cannot go to the next class without securing a minimum in all subjects, similar is the case in life. It is okay to be good at something. But it is not okay to fail anywhere. Essentially, this is about seeking balance in life.
That’s a very great and unique advice sir. I am 30 years old and my 4 years elder brother gave me this same advice few months back. And since then I have been focusing more on health, family and investments than career. Thank you sir !
The things u are discussing, no one tells no one. I m 40 and some of these thoughts used to come in my mind, but u connect all thoughts with great examples. Thanks sir.
Sir, WOW, this is the best video of yours and even from the whole lot of videos on real life stuff available on internet. I realised this info in my mid-life and as a life Coach I have been saying this too ever since but it isn’t received too well because of the exact reason of the indoctrination you’re talking about, of constantly being in motion -- “do more”, “be more”, “have more”!! people who are following this concept blindly without any self reflection are so so unhappy!
Aap ne shabdo mein bahut coherently woh baat bata di jo mein ne saalon pehle apne job me mehsoos kiya tha - ke kaam karte karte machine ban jaye aur zindagi 'jeene' ke liye kuch bhi apne paas bacha na ho to aise kaam karne ka kya matlab hai. Aaj aap ke baaton ko sunkar bahut santosh mehsoos kar raha hu. Ek baar ek IITian se mila tha kareeb 22-23 saal pehle. Bataya ke uske cousin brother (jo hardly 20s mein tha tab) jhadoo ka business hai - mahine me 1.5-2 lakh kama leta hai! Aur yahan itni gheesne ke baad bhi log aksar waha pahuch nahi paate. Aur pahuchte hai to bhi kya kimat chukake. Aur pahuch bhi gaye toh kya bharosa kab tak rahe ya na rahe. Aap ko phir se shukriya ye baat itna spasth karke batane ke liye 🙏🏻
This is applicable when you are in govt job which is secure. However if you are in private, especially in IT where technology is changing almost everyday, and there is cut-throat competition only the best of the best survives. A slighy lose, and next day you are laid off, and you wonder how to pay the bills from the next day.
This is same point he is making. Even if you give more than 100 percent, there are 1 lakh equally capable people for your job profile who will easily take this role and you will put more effort. So your job will be dependent on your boss hands. So relax and put 70/ 80 percent and focus on income generation through other means than only dependent on this as Jobs are easily replaceable
Dekhiye, diya jalaane waalon ko aksar murakh hi samjha jata h...aap ki baat ekdam sahi h...kon kya sochta h aap k liye, yah koi maayne nhi rakhta...aap ka hamesha se subscriber rha hu, khoti baat hoti h but hamesha fact hoti h..n dil se respect n abhivaadan..maine aap se sikha hai n sujoon mila h mujhe..🙏
Sir, you are a very practical person. You give a genuine advice which either a father, or a mother, or a real brother or sister gives. My way of thinking is exact like yours.
Great advice... Exactly resonates with my thinking. I have also observed that women are not much interested in increasing posts but just happy to earn.. My music school is doing good.. Peaceful... No great humbug.. But peace... My husband was running after career.. He had a hell of life! Now he left it and is peaceful taking care of his health!
Sir,at the onset of my career only i hv this thought process adopted religiously in my life ,though i was criticised for it n sometimes i used to doubt about my thought process becz no body was supporting it but today with conviction after listening u i m proud of myself n i m living happily in all aspects of life . Thnks for ur guidance
I know many of us who have close watch and do analysis on their life may be knowing this what u are saying . A big clap for you to put these things in public. ❤
Very eye opening video sir, i am thankful i watched it at the right time. I have spoiled my 2-3 year pleasing my superiors and ruined my social life. Now i will start working on other aspects also. 👑
Thanks for this video. I can resonate with this topic, I spent my early 20s with mindset but realized it as soon as I got married. I'm 34 now I absolutely follow this now and I can say that I'm happy and contented 🙏🏻 subscribed to both of your channel Amit Sangwan sir since two months. I can say this is the best university that everyone needs.😊
Hello Sir.. In one word..,Aapko Koti Koti pranayam 🙏🏻 I'm clear as glass by your words.. As a MBBS, it thought me tothe path what i actually want in life. ❤
About a week ago my boss offered me director ship to handle every thing but after analysing all things I rejected his offers. Due to the same reason he got annoyed, but i didn't mind him and stayed calm.... I can't sacrifice my personal life and peace.... I sleep very well, I take care of my family.... What is the moto of rat race guys enjoy your time with your partners, family, kids they are the true wealth according to my point of view. How many of you agree with me??
Different perspective but can't disagree. God has created different kind of personalities and human beings, understanding them is important. Problem occurs when we don't understand them and impose our way of life and our ideology on them.
Sir I am addicted to your channel . Really great gyan 😊 I can personally attest to this as I have been living like this for the past few years . Took an easier job to focus on health and family .
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I absolutely agree with you. I am a manager in an IT company my salary is 1.75 lakhs per months but my personal life is fallen apart. My divorce case is going on in court, my wife has my daughters custody and I think this happened coz of somewhere I am a very dedicated employee. Sometimes i even sleep in office to not miss the deadlines. I realise this at the age of 37 however didn't know all of this when I was young and I took my family for granted.
Dont worry brother. Some people work as a Money Machine. Just to grow more and more. But, they loose their relations. The top position in big firms are spoiler of the health first. So , instead of one top or big positions . Do many more medium work or get many more medium positions. And stay healthy wealthy , stress free.
You are a dedicated employee but that doesn't mean company will value your diligencey
@@rohitduggal1 I absolutely agree Rohit sir.
@@haroprasadp roger that
Bhai please see if you can reconcile with family and say you will prioritise them over job
Sir I am 45 years old. I am working as block superviser in health department for last 20 years. I leading a life the way you described in the video. I left two chances of promotion. Just because I am running school with my wife . Doing very good stock market. I personally feel very successful inspite of group C post. But there was a guilt somewhere in my subconscious whether it was right to forgo promotions. Today you removed all guilts. Thanks a lot.
Proud of you. your comment guided me to make few choice's in life today..
Dhanya ho Swami that you have realised earlier in life.
I have been a top performer and I am burnt out at 42. I am BP medication. I keep having panic attacks.
I spend very less time with wife and children.
Nothing to be proud of
@@vikrambhandolkarstay strong. Promotions, money, social status will come and go but your health once ruined will never be the same. Take care
Are you in a Govt post ? Can you guide if any issue occurs in stock market for govt employees? Or we have to inform our department if we are earning good in Market
Hi Sir, can you please reply to my previous question/doubt ?
This is a great approach.
My father did not take promotion for 20 years as he did not want to take transfer. Once his kids were in college and he built his house, he started taking promotions. This way he supported us in our crucial years and built a house which is worth crores now. Now his super seniors cannot afford to buy a house in our city.
Sir ek dum sahi baatein bolte hain
If everyone refuses transfer how will company run....it can't be like this
@@TK-yj8tifigure out the way to improve & value productivity over employees working till burning out, as this video says. stop trying to put just companies goals above all because a company cannot thrive without employees happiness,mental/physical health and when employees sense that company only cares for itself & money over their well being, they obviously would have to care about themselves.
- & not every promotion means a transfer/excessive responsibility so doesn't mean everyone has to reject promotions, that's just how it worked out for the person above. Smart decisions can be opposite things for different peoples different circumstances sometimes.
@@TK-yj8tiTum chalaogey na company apna loss krwa ke transfers mein. 😂
the essence of the video is -
1. बने रहो पगला, काम करेगा अगला।
2. बने रहो कूल, सैलेरी मिलेगी फुल।
3. जिसने ली टेंशन, उसकी वाइफ लेगी पेंशन।
4. काम से डरों नहीं ओर काम को करो नहीं।
5. काम करो या न करो, काम की फिक्र जरूर करो।
6. फिक्र करो या न करो, फिक्र का जिक्र बॉस से जरूर करो।
7. जो काम करे, उसे अंगुली करो और जो काम न करे उसकी चुगली करो।
Bhai tum video ko samjhe hi nahi yeh toh tum muftkhori kaise kare work me yeh bata rahe ho
Sirji core idea diye hai do everything balanced
Oh my God .Point 1 and 7 what I see in my organization.I never understood why General Manager supports all the idiots and always after people who really work hard.
Very creative ☺️
Full picture of a govt org😂
To phir tumhari agar koi company hogi ya tumhare aane waale bachon ki hogi to unko bhi yhi sikhana ise kehte hain haraam ki kamai khana...😅
I lost my marriage due to all of the reasons you mentioned in the video. I figured out very late 4 years ago at the age of 32. Now I am close to 37. Re-married, happy & wealthy. I stopped chasing corporate ladder. Devoted my time into marriage, family, investments and self growth.
Correct
You are making a fatherly conversation to father less kids or father absentee kids. Thanks to you
True.😢❤❤❤
Very true
Namasakara sahebra
Yes 👍
❤😢
Proud to be living like this for the last 4 years in my profession of overall 8 years, it took me 4 years to realise promotion paane ke chakkar me life ka swaha nahi karwana
banker ?
😂
@@ps41122 Software Engineer
I'm following the same what you follow since 4 years.
Kon se bank m ho bhai..?
I never took career seriously. Nobody gave me any advice yet i followed what my heart wanted to. I enjoyed my trips more than working on Sundays. I have no regret 😊
That is fulfillment. Continue to live a happy life monsieur.
what do u do for living ???
I was admitted in ICu for 1 month due to covid and I was very hard working in my career and wanted to learn new things related to work and wanted to have a success full career, but I got enlightenment when my manager hardly asked abt my health when I was ICU and only family cared. After that I have released and giving 60% to work and giving time for family, health and kids.
Company hardly care about you personal especially big IT companies
Colleagues don't care about your personal issues ,why u think manger should care about your personal, your relationship with manger is just work.
Good for you. You found out the hard way but it's never too late
Absolutely correct Sir Doing 80% in everything is very easy, I am Glad I found your channel at the age of 24 (Just by searching tricks for job), IN 10th Scoring 10.6 was Easy(While playing soo much Cricket and Playing in empty plots) In 12th Scoring 83.4% was very easy (While almost focusing nothing at school just to chill out at school as was studying for IIT-JEE) Scoring 18k rank out of 12L People who give JEE was easy (While being regular to school with chilling with teachers and friends going for parties), Completing Engineering with 7.77 CGPA Was Very Easy (While fully enjoying the engineering life like bunking going clubs, trips and what not) Getting a good Job in MNC was easy (While playing soo much online game in corona time also giving too much time to family and enjoying lot with family watching ramayan Mahabharat again and countless movies and chilling full nights )
Scoring 90% in CAT was not easy while doing job but not that tough also(While giving time to family, friends and learning about investment, saving money, Swimming, Playing Fortnite Valo for hours daily and doing well in job also) *Will focus on carrier and MBA but only 80%*
I started my first job in IT company being very far from my parents and hometown with uncertainty of marriage and life.
Hence I left IT after working 5 years and prepared for banking job. Now I am working as associate in PSB in my hometown with my parents and my wife. No plan for promotion. With 50K salary with 7-8k annual increment with no extra efforts along with petrol allowance, Medical allowances and very less expenses Now I am fully satisfied with my balanced lifestyle. Thanks God for giving this life. 🙏🙏❤❤
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Are bhai kaise switch Kiya job, mujhe be batao
@@rijfd did so many mock tests on various platforms. Solve easy questions in minimum time . And do regular practice for tough questions
@@satishpandey131is IT job too hectic??? I also recently started working in IT but in bench... So preparing for govt exams side by side..
@@masteruser97don't leave IT job it pays well and in govt job you have very limited growth and work is not related to skills
I completely agree with this.Fortunatelly I realised these things much earlier in my career.Since then I decided,"Work to live, don't live to work".
Work to live, don't live to work.. Agree with you Man, you summarized everything in single line...
Thank you man , I just joined as a fresher in a semiconductor company, transition from student to professional life , this is a very good way of seeing things instead of too much stressing out for things learning first time
Absolutely agree, if you want peace in your life, grow spiritually, and have a contended family life; then don't take work life too seriously.
bohot badiya, the key idea of people not respecting productivity but just putting extra time
Mr. Sangwan you are great. I wish you had met me when I was in the job of a scientist.My life would have been far better. Anyway, at the age of 70 I am seeing someone speaking my thoughts. You are better than any saints that happened in this country.
Good sir reality
At 32, Im quite happy with my current post...I get a lot of time for other things...and salary is also good...and I had already decided that I wont take any promotions as that would increase my workload considerably...job is not everything in life...its just one of the many things that u have to do in life...U have only one life...make the most of it...
U work in bank
@@wangelsherpa6688 Nope then I wudnt have said I get a lot of time for other things...
Good thinking. A relaxed mind performs better in all aspects of life.
Lpppp
I think you are not married...or married to an exceptionally good woman..because you cannot make such a decision at 32.
Just 20 days back, I was under a lot pressure in my work. I learnt a lot from your earlier video on the same topic. After watching your videos I felt so relaxed and now I am able to breathe easy and do the job. Thank you so much sir.
From Bangalore 😊.
also traffic and commute time adds to extra stress in the city,
Even I am from Bangalore... joined a job, travelling 20 kms and terribly dissatisfied... your video is nice, inspiring
Very true Sir - I wish I had realized this earlier. It is too late for me at the age of 70.
However, let me share this video with my near & dear ones.
स्वप्न झरे फूल से, मीत चुभे शूल से
लुट गये सिंगार सभी बाग़ के बबूल से
और हम खड़े-खड़े बहार देखते रहे।
कारवाँ गुज़र गया गुबार देखते रहे।
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Itna relaxing hai ye video kya bataun. Teesri baar dekh rha hoon. Thank you sir.
Mai jab bhi frustrated feeel krta hu mai enhi ke video's dekhta mai bas 24 saal ka hu lekin sir ki baato se mujhe bhaut relax milta hai duniya zyada smjh aati hai ab
Me too
Zindagi ek baar milti hai...ise apno ke sath jeene ki kosish karo....Jeevan imandari se bhi kat jata hai isliye utna tension mt lia kro...dusro ko dekh kr mt chlo...apni khushiya dekho aur apni family ke sth rhne ki hmesha kosish karo.....qki ye sab sirf limited time ke lie hai.
What mindblowing analysis. We all have been brainwashed to hard work to be happy. But its so ironical that hard work results in unhappiness. Spent last decade working hard. Hardly spend time with family, gave 90% of time to my studio/company and today what I have in hand? nothing. It came at a great cost.
Sir I work for a maharatna , this is exactly the scenario u have told, seniors do not want to leave the office. And keeps juniors engaged in futile activities. And dhamki dete rehte hai bekaar ki. After retiring they neither have health, relations, friends, and their money is also not too much to buy this. Luv u sir.
Konse PSU me ho??
Can u throw some light on futile activities?
Sir ji Indian Oil me ho kya 😂😂
@@devrajshellagi9843p0
Sabhi PSUs ka yhi haal hai😂
BHAI SAHAB AAP KI YEH ANMOL BATEIN HAR KISI KI SAMAJH MEIN BHI NAHIN AATI۔۔۔ISS HI LIYE AAP KE ISS ANMOL VIDIO KO HUM APNE PAAS RAKHNA KO HI SAHI AUR FAIDA MAND SAMAJHTE HAIN ۔۔۔AAP KI NASIHATON KA SUKRIYA۔۔۔۔KIYON KE AAP KE HAMARE QAYALAAT BAHUT MILTE HAIN۔۔۔Tks.for giving your valuble 👍🏻🇮🇳
Sir, really an eye opening video.
What a relief after watching your video, I felt 80% burden vanished.
Thank you sir for the gyan, really it is practical.
Hearing this second time as it resonates with what I have been believing since last 10 yrs. By not running behind promotion and so called growth I am much at peace with myself. Today I am equally focusing on building my skills in carpentry, video editing and working on social initiatives. Life is short, I do not want to die as VP of a big company after losing all opportunities to explore new things
Wonderful
Thanks for sharing your experience 😊
Yes
@@NandanSingh-of6ui Bro, answer depends on which way one looks at life. For some like me, money is not everything
@@NandanSingh-of6ui No really bro. But again nothing right or wrong with whichever direction we take. Its an individual choice
Till now i thought 'career mei mera kuch nai ho raha, zyada nahi kama raha, achi position nahi hai, naukri fix nahi hai, canada padhne nahi jaa paya, zyada kuch hai nahi life mei.'
Now i realized that 'naukri ghar ke 1km pas mei hai, chaho th ghar ja sakta hu garam garam roti khaane. Aur toh aur gym paas mei hai, ghar par achi khaasi guitar class chala raha hu, mumy papa ke kuch kaam aa sakta hu aur physical activity k naam pr ghar saaf karne ka samay mil jaata hai.
Im so freaking blessed.
Thank you for making me realize this.
Tumhari soch achii hai
❤
Bahut hi badiya. Happiness is above all
Bhai mai Canada hu 5 years se , mne bhi koi jhnde Nhi Gaade 😄
@@deepsandhu641 muj se th zyada hi paise kamaye honge 😂😂😂
Bhai mai bhi canada mai Hu almost 2.5 saalse. Har din socha ta Hu kya kar raha hu yaha. Kuch paane ke chakkar mai bahut Kuch kho diya hai. Roj soch ta Hu is it worth it!? . Bro, enjoy your life and take care of your family. ❤
Sir, wishes from Bangalore. I am working in S/W with 17 yrs exp not aiming for position but i have a very peaceful life and beautiful family. I am happy with non office life, we have bought farm lands and invested in sip. I am planning to start side work soon😊. You made me realise that its ok not to run behind titles or be greedy. Thank you sir. Best wishes 🙏 pranam
I agree totally Sir. Sir Dhiru Ambani said- use your talent for your own good. Otherwise someone will use your talent for their own good.
I was Hospitalised for 2 month due to work related injury. Nobody fm office cared to ask. Everyone was busy in thier own life. Only my family members were with me during that hard period.
I m also in the same company from past 8 years because it offers work life balance.... i got no promotion in these 8 years but i became mother... not left job after kids like many people, invested in stock market, mutual funds and real estate.... having a relaxed life
Great 👍 have a pleasant life ahead
Hello sir , I am 19 age ka hu sir apki guidence se muje lifebke reality fact pta chlta hai and apki video se life mai alg view ban jata hai dekhne ka and motivation milta hai thanks sir
Yes...
The main thing I learnt from this video is that for fulfilling just one aspect of life one cannot afford or should not afford to sacrifice all the aspects of their life!
Because ultimately it's not worth it... It's like killing your actual potential.
In your own mind you think that you achieved everything in life you desired by hyper-focusing on your professional life but that's actually not the case, when you really realise it....
You should know about things that are out of your domain and capitalise on that. Work smartly for your own benefit... 🙂👍
Bilkul. People don't focus on their inner well-being.
बिल्कुल सही कहा आपने, प्राइवेट सेक्टर में आपको ऐसा महसूस कराया जाता हैं जैसे पोस्ट ही सब कुछ है और यदि आप नाइट शिफ्ट कर रहे है तो आपकी सोचने समझने की क्षमता और हेल्थ बुरी तरह प्रभावित होती है। आपका सोशल सर्कल रिश्ते नाते खतम आप विदेशी त्योहार मनाते है। आपको अपने त्योहार के लिए छुट्टी नहीं मिलती है। आपके काम का माहौल ऐसा होता है जिससे आप सिर्फ काम पे ध्यान दे। आपका ध्यान काम से हटे नहीं। कुछ समय बाद एक दिन आपको ऐसा महसूस होता है की ये नोकरी करते हुए कितना समय निकल गया और मैं वहीं के वहीं हूं। आपको अंदर से लगने लगता है मेरा पैर गन्ने की मशीन में फस गया है।
आशा करते है किसी के जीवन में परिवर्तन आए।
धन्यवाद।
This channel is life changing. Thank you ❤😊 We need more of our people to hear it from our own elderly. Bless you!!! Thank you for creating.
Sir, I am 70 years now. Retired from a PSU. After listening to you I repent now why I put so much effort in my carrier to grow. It's true as you say, that people who worked with me at lower ranks progresses and command more respect and are leading a much more fulfilled life now. Now tell me what I should do now. Your suggestions are practical and one can easily put them into practice. Hats off to you.
aim for attaining moksha
take guru diksha and chat mantra
5 semp is best date to take guru diksha i also take it from dharam rayasha channel
i m watching his chanel from almost 6 month
First, Change your actual photo, and real name from RUclips . 😂
Try to be at peace, this is not the age to compete and compare. Focus on god!
Problem ye hei sir ki senior level pe jo bande pohonche hein un logo ne apni life jhund pehle hi bana li hei. Ab juniors ki khusi unse dekhi nahi jaati. Whatsapp pe smile kerte hue photo tak nahi daal sakte, ye situation ho jaati hei. Koi banda khush hei apni personal life ya apni kisi hobby mei ye unse dekha nahi jata. Usko upar se upar aur kaam dete jaate hein. Toxicity has seeped deep into the Indian corporate structure and society.
Its in government sector also…basically its in our nature
Yes this is true . Sala agar status mai ghume phirne ka bhi laga do to aag lag jati hain.
Right Guruji
One more thing people working in MNC should keep in mind is that the India office will have limited slots for promotion so it does not matter if you gave full effort or not. And any increment will be taken by the government at 30%
Only if all the people can understand this... :D
Govt eating 30 percent in all your increments is a big realisation. You may get a 10 pct hike but in reality it's hardly 2 percent, thx to taxation 😂.
Pata nhi kyu ye vichar mere mann mein pehle se the 9th se abhi to mai 20 ka hoon job join karne hi wala hoon college ke baad mai bas ye chahta hoon ki ek normal job ho jyada workload na hoon mai freely duniya ki saari cheeze explore kar saku like astrology seekhu, multiple languages seekhu, spiritually increase karu , books likhu literature, kaviya, raag, dance, i want everything not just one specific thing or yhi mai sunna bhi chahta tha kisi se.... Samaj ki vyavastha aisi h ki vo karne hi nhi deti movies, reels etc. Hume mentally push kiya karti h. Hume cahhiye tha sukoon use liye paisa kamana socha peeche gye to jo thora sukoon tha vo bhi kha gyi duniya
Frankly I am living my life this way..keeping balanced life style. Inhave got everything and no stress. I do not see what others are doing. I am going on my own pace. Loving life.
Same; m 26 years old.
It's absolutely true what Sir has told in this video, right now I am 39 years of age, had worked earlier with very good company at descent position but unfortunately I had to leave that company because of some reasons. I had given my valuable 8 years for growth if that company and I was just asked to leave. Now I am working with another company with low designation but I am relatively happy as I am also able to do my other stuffs which are more important to me and I enjoy time with my family as well 🎉
There is a saying
Love ur job but not ur company. U don't when ur company stops loving u.
Amitji… 1000% Agree can’t believe you exactly said what I have been following in my career for last 15/20 years… this simple practice has helped me enjoy life at its full potential… Cheers!!!
Absolutely correct. The idea that the education system is propagating into the younger generation is that defeating the person next to you can make you successful.. but no matter how many people you defeat, there will always be someone who will be a little better than you the next day. Its an endless cycle.
Absolutely correct..that's why I follow buddha rules..accept what u have and don't try to fight for win ...
Your advice is like a father who is showing the real life to the sons and daughters.hats off.
In 42 years working in IT sector, life is very unsatisfied. Other people who started very late and doing side work are better than IT professionals. They invested in land and plots which is worth in crores while i spend my life in traveling foreign countries never realized India is rapidly changing. All money is spent without any financial freedom yet.
In my opinion, the best way to live the life:
a) take care of your health and fitness. Nothing in the world can compensate if you lose it
b) make money sufficient to take care of your basic expenses till 45 and post that do whatever you enjoy with an objective to make passive income
c) never do something to show someone else that you are happy or above them
d) your happiness should never be relative to others. Don't compare lives
Sir, pls do a video on ways to make passive income after 45-50
this is more good
Abe 45 saal budhape me kaunsa passion reh jata hai insaan me?
@@Pajeetmyson-hz6if passion Nahn. Enjoy Karon, relax Karo. No job stress from boss. Plan your day but earn some passive income
@@Pajeetmyson-hz6ifary nahin Jee..45 main b bohat sy passion hoty hain..... I am 44 and started 2 new project this year.... My father is 75 (Alkhamdulillah), he is more passionate about his profession and planning innovative projects
This video was a revelation for me….Didn’t realise I was sacrificing so much in order to become perfect at my job. Thank you for opening my eyes Sir!!🙏🏻
Same here. I was also putting 💯 percent effort but now I will put 60 percent. No point in getting 5/7 percent extra increment or promotion at the expense of family, self .
Very deep . I have been working very sincerely for last 20 years and grown fast. It came at a cost : my health is gone both physical (BP) and mental (anxiety and panic attack).
This video is the right intervention I need
Sabse badi baat h k apki family life kaisi hai aap kitne sukoon se Hain, is baat se koi farq nhi padta k aap kis post aur level par Hain, bas apki needs achhe se puri honi chahiye
I had this same self realisation , ki zyada ek cheez mein kar ke , sab kuch nai ukaad loge , you should balance rather than sacrificing 🙌
There is a saying in competitive exams..
If u cover 100% syllabus with 60% accuracy u ll get 60% result
If u cover 80% syllabus with 90% accuracy u ll get 72%
I think this hold good in real life as well
@@kbshrivastav8539 kya tumhara matlab??
@@devrajshellagi9843 the above C0ment person is a Brahman!! So he want to flex his Brahmaness by calling you LowClass by your Skin
@@devrajshellagi9843I never wasted my time on competitive exams.
I followed this approach when I prepared for engineering exams
@@crazyindianlife1584to kya kara
I have worked very hard in my career. But, I agree with you. Now, I'm on the path of balanced life. I agree with you completely.
Great talk. मैं ऐसे कई लोगों को जानता हूँ जो पागलों की तरह कम्पनी में काम करते है और खुद के साथ अपने जूनियर स्टाफ़ की ज़िंदगी बर्बाद कर रहे है।
Sir 100 % True Knowledge...
Now, I am just 23 and found the best mentor.
A satisfied life is more important than 'sucked successful life'.
सर, २० साल करियर-करियर करने के बाद सूत्र आज मिला। आभार।
The problem is there is a huge disconnect between Economy and returns from a Job, the system is designed to push people in the rut, any career break is considered a "crime", in reality there is no job security in today's private jobs and almost every one changes job every few years, even relocating to multiple cities, in a few years these guys realise that their career is stagnated and there is no growth and they're a slave to the system.
They lose social capital, financial capital, health, fail to invest in the right areas of life
Well said Sir 👏 👌 👍. I have followed this ideology throughout my life and now happily leading a retired life with focus on spiritual advancement ❤
Very true. Last week I hv discussed the same topic with my wife.
Thank you for making this public bcoz not every dare to discuss these kind of truth.
💯% sahi bola aap ne sir maine 10 year one company ko diye Supervisor se Assistant Manager ke Level tak gya but apni personal Life aur health kharab kri ik cheez ke liye ki muje sab se acha kr ke dikhana hai apne boss ko but itna load load ld ke Depression Anxiety ho gyi last mein jab mental condition bigri toh job chod di 10 saal ki mrhnat bhi pani mein gayi aur mnn ka sakunn bhi gya.
Eye opening video sir... In reality most are trapped but presenting themselves as a successful instead of accepting that they failed in other aspects of life.
Spot on sir. I will do 80% good in career, stock market, health, Relationship. Those who look for perfection will be looking for there entire life.
Either you scan do good in your career or live a fullfiling life.... same thing in schools Either you scan be a good student or you can be a good learner.
Thats why i tell my son not to bother scoring very high. The cost benefit does not make sense. Instead i tell him to be above average in studies but learn other skills
@@doncorleone3901 Very mature thought process to enlighten children
@@doncorleone3901 My parents are also like this they use to get happy when I used to get 60-70% in school during childhood. I used to get some more time to sleep than other students 😇
बहुत ही अच्छी बात कर रहे हैं सर, आपने तो पहली बार किसे सुना है, मैंने ऐसे बातें कीं, जैसे बातें दूसरे नहीं कीं, बहुत बढ़िया
I did exactly this when I was becoming a workaholic obsessed with ambitions academically and professionally
Surprisingly despite strengthening of family bonding as I spent quality time with children and wife as I put my academic and professional ambitions to second place ,I was constantly successful
It’s very important to schedule according to your age and situation
There’s no formula or proportion,you have to use your sense and shift gears as per need
But one thing is clear give priority to your self and family
Sir, I really appreciate your upfront talks. Itna sugar coat duniya ho gayi hai, koi guidance real bachi hi nahi hai. thanks :)
Decided this 1 year ago and my life has never been better 🎉
What you did ma'am ? If you can please explain
😂😂😂kya yaar kya mtlb hai
Only lucky ones will get to see this Timeless Wisdom,Thanks for Simplifying our complex lives Sir,Regards❤
This is what I have always felt in my life. I've always felt differently from the people around me. Everyone around me is hell bent on "making it big" in jobs. I see jobs as a soul-sucking arrangement in which you think you are/ you will be getting a lot (money) but actually it's a moving target and in the process you lose so much. Think about it - you work in a system like a tenant. You get a monthly salary as long as you work. The moment you stop working, your income stops. So, you cannot stop even if your health suffers because you cannot afford to stop. And all of this takes a huge chunk out of your day ( at least 10 hours if your commute to work is not too long). It's a crazy way, to be honest. But people are running and spending 30-40 years of their life. And they will keep doing so.
You are right sir ji , great insights only a very few will understand let alone act on it . Thanks 👏
Genius great observation, honestly you opened my eyes now I feel how I wadted my last 15 years of my life.
Absolutely right Sir... perhaps the best one from you..If I heard it 15-20 years earlier, life would have been lot of easier & enjoyable for me..
The content you are delivering is exclusive. Real and genuine without any personal motives. So much respect for you sir.
Sir, this video contains an important piece of advice. I used to discuss along similar lines around 20 years back in college with a close friend. We named it the "Pass Marks" guideline. Just as one cannot go to the next class without securing a minimum in all subjects, similar is the case in life. It is okay to be good at something. But it is not okay to fail anywhere. Essentially, this is about seeking balance in life.
We followed the same thing in college to pass the exam and living college days happily 😂
Make it "pass first class" and not distinction to have successful career
Sir I m following you and you r the most truthful Banda I hv ever heard😊😊😊😊😊
Sir ji namaste 🙏
AAP Sahi keh rahe ho.
From last six month I am living the life you mentioned.
That’s a very great and unique advice sir. I am 30 years old and my 4 years elder brother gave me this same advice few months back. And since then I have been focusing more on health, family and investments than career. Thank you sir !
You're lucky, not all brothers think that way, some are hell bent on asserting their superiority because of their career success
The things u are discussing, no one tells no one. I m 40 and some of these thoughts used to come in my mind, but u connect all thoughts with great examples. Thanks sir.
Sir, WOW, this is the best video of yours and even from the whole lot of videos on real life stuff available on internet. I realised this info in my mid-life and as a life Coach I have been saying this too ever since but it isn’t received too well because of the exact reason of the indoctrination you’re talking about, of constantly being in motion -- “do more”, “be more”, “have more”!! people who are following this concept blindly without any self reflection are so so unhappy!
Aap ne shabdo mein bahut coherently woh baat bata di jo mein ne saalon pehle apne job me mehsoos kiya tha - ke kaam karte karte machine ban jaye aur zindagi 'jeene' ke liye kuch bhi apne paas bacha na ho to aise kaam karne ka kya matlab hai. Aaj aap ke baaton ko sunkar bahut santosh mehsoos kar raha hu.
Ek baar ek IITian se mila tha kareeb 22-23 saal pehle. Bataya ke uske cousin brother (jo hardly 20s mein tha tab) jhadoo ka business hai - mahine me 1.5-2 lakh kama leta hai! Aur yahan itni gheesne ke baad bhi log aksar waha pahuch nahi paate. Aur pahuchte hai to bhi kya kimat chukake. Aur pahuch bhi gaye toh kya bharosa kab tak rahe ya na rahe. Aap ko phir se shukriya ye baat itna spasth karke batane ke liye 🙏🏻
मैं आपकी इस बात को खुद से relate कर पा रहा हूँ.... आपसे सुन कर मुझे अच्छा लगा❤
This is applicable when you are in govt job which is secure. However if you are in private, especially in IT where technology is changing almost everyday, and there is cut-throat competition only the best of the best survives. A slighy lose, and next day you are laid off, and you wonder how to pay the bills from the next day.
This is same point he is making. Even if you give more than 100 percent, there are 1 lakh equally capable people for your job profile who will easily take this role and you will put more effort. So your job will be dependent on your boss hands. So relax and put 70/ 80 percent and focus on income generation through other means than only dependent on this as Jobs are easily replaceable
Dekhiye, diya jalaane waalon ko aksar murakh hi samjha jata h...aap ki baat ekdam sahi h...kon kya sochta h aap k liye, yah koi maayne nhi rakhta...aap ka hamesha se subscriber rha hu, khoti baat hoti h but hamesha fact hoti h..n dil se respect n abhivaadan..maine aap se sikha hai n sujoon mila h mujhe..🙏
Sir, you have hit the nail on the head... Many of us feel guilty in accepting this simple truth.
Sir, you are a very practical person. You give a genuine advice which either a father, or a mother, or a real brother or sister gives. My way of thinking is exact like yours.
Great advice... Exactly resonates with my thinking. I have also observed that women are not much interested in increasing posts but just happy to earn.. My music school is doing good.. Peaceful... No great humbug.. But peace... My husband was running after career.. He had a hell of life! Now he left it and is peaceful taking care of his health!
Sir,at the onset of my career only i hv this thought process adopted religiously in my life ,though i was criticised for it n sometimes i used to doubt about my thought process becz no body was supporting it but today with conviction after listening u i m proud of myself n i m living happily in all aspects of life . Thnks for ur guidance
I know many of us who have close watch and do analysis on their life may be knowing this what u are saying . A big clap for you to put these things in public. ❤
Kya baat hai sir ji, too good. This is amazing gyan !! Thanks a ton 🙏
Very eye opening video sir, i am thankful i watched it at the right time. I have spoiled my 2-3 year pleasing my superiors and ruined my social life. Now i will start working on other aspects also. 👑
Kya jabardast experience share kia hai sir aapne....10 baar dekh lia video.....aur pata nahi kitno ko share kar dia.....aur video lao sir aise hi❤
Thanks for this video. I can resonate with this topic, I spent my early 20s with mindset but realized it as soon as I got married. I'm 34 now I absolutely follow this now and I can say that I'm happy and contented 🙏🏻
subscribed to both of your channel Amit Sangwan sir since two months. I can say this is the best university that everyone needs.😊
True 👍. Jaago Jaago Re bandhu 💯
At what age did you get married ? And how are you able to manage personal and professional life ?
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Hello Sir.. In one word..,Aapko Koti Koti pranayam 🙏🏻 I'm clear as glass by your words..
As a MBBS, it thought me tothe path what i actually want in life. ❤
About a week ago my boss offered me director ship to handle every thing but after analysing all things I rejected his offers. Due to the same reason he got annoyed, but i didn't mind him and stayed calm.... I can't sacrifice my personal life and peace.... I sleep very well, I take care of my family.... What is the moto of rat race guys enjoy your time with your partners, family, kids they are the true wealth according to my point of view. How many of you agree with me??
Soooo true....
Very tru
Different perspective but can't disagree. God has created different kind of personalities and human beings, understanding them is important. Problem occurs when we don't understand them and impose our way of life and our ideology on them.
बिलकुल सही कह रहे हैं ये सज्जन ..... और हां एक सबसे महत्वपूर्ण बात है.... ये विडियो सबके लिए नहीं है 😊
Sir I am addicted to your channel . Really great gyan 😊 I can personally attest to this as I have been living like this for the past few years . Took an easier job to focus on health and family .
YOU ARE A VERY THOUGHTFUL MAN. I LIKE YOUR MENTAL PROCESS AND RESONATES WITH MINE. HOWEVER PEOPLE WHO OVERTHINK TEND TO BE "DUKHI" TOO.😮
Sir I believe you're one of the most sensible people from your generation. Great leadership advice! 🙏
At least someone said it , bohat vadia gal kari i doubted this thing but now i got to know that i was right.🙂 THANK YOU 🙂
महान हैं सर आप.. मुझे आज से अपना भक्त स्वीकार करे प्रभु 🙏
- nobody cares whether you are a Team Lead, Head, SME or whatever for everyone, you are a Software Engineer
- 11:21 Once you get the designation, thats;s done uske bad emotions, health, relsationships , city, mind, investments. kam bhagne se bhi kaam chal jata h
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- 13:56 invetments on time are priceless
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- 19:14 zabardasti nhii bhai 70% pe chala lo chalta ho