peoples to avoid 1 who always endlessly critisise 2 rondu people who always cry in every situation and full of toxicity and won followa of ur advice who steals ur mojo in life 3 jinse milkar aacha feel na kare. who constantly nags you jo apko dard pahuchane ke liye comment kare
Here is my 2 cents ( or my 2 paisa gyan ): "People who talk ill of others ( in their absence ) in front of you , can do the same about you ( in your absence ) in front of others." Now you decide what to do about them ( or how your own behaviour should be towards them, actually ).
Once again, you are 100% right. I recently noticed one rondu mal who saw no value in some very valuable words I had for him. Have stopped meeting him, and have not spent one more second with him since. I have started avoiding several such people and am much better with my energies!! I suffered a lot for almost twenty years and it's only recently I started recognising such patterns of certain people and have forgiven such people once for all.
The USP of your vedio is that 1) You appears to me fatherly figure guiding... 2) You are straight forward 3) explain with appropriate examples Kindly continue guiding same way...🙏
Towards the end of the video you have touched upon a very important point of how friends of a husband can adversely affect marital and family life... please talk at length about it... Sir, I find your videos to be very interesting and useful... your points are very relevant and full of practical wisdom... almost everyone is plagued by these issues but no one talks about it...
Very well explained sir. One of my relative continuously keeps saying negative about my profession repeatedly. Asking why you are not doing xyz things and when I explain the reasons it's as if the explanation is not registered in their mind....keeps repeating the same xyz thing
Please make a video about relatives who borrow money by playing emotional card and don't return it on one pretext or the other. Later on they offer only part of the money borrowed as one time settlement.
Thanks uncle for lighting this situation which almost every 1faced either through relative fake society work employe friends special young kids also faced.
Hats off to you for such a wonderful video. Amazing and very practical advice on whom to avoid for your sanity and happiness: 1.People who criticise without having any idea on how to do better.2 People who are always complaining about their problems..3 People after meeting whom you feel sad and unhappy. Great video.
Sirji a great topic 👏 👍 you are brave to takle it, I keep meeting such people full of negativity in my in-laws, they live in their own micromanage world and they expect you to bow down to their views on their micro world, that there is a wide world out of the house 🏠 is not known, amazingly enough they live in Mumbai, a city that is so connected with the whole world 😀
I feel that the friends of childhood are the friends because there was no dealings with them. When I join a service and some coworkers or new neighbors are always in competition with each other in office or at home. So to judge a real friend is to tough.
Fantastic points. So true and we should have the sense to avoid completely such negative and draining people. Why should we be let down by anyone ? We must keep up our self respect . That’s our right and duty. Yes pls do talk about friendship. And how people should not get used continuously by others.
Yes , what you said is true...n I already had chosen this approach/path to live my life...no place of such people in anybody's life...in my opinion " being zealous" n not enjoying success of closed ones in particular is one of the worst part of one's character cum basic nature-:) let's stay away from such ingredients.
You're 💯 pc right. There are so many who are like this. They're toxic and it's because they are unhappy themselves. It's best to cut off from such people.
I have seen type3 people who don’t give you happiness if they come.Mostly who make friends only for time pass.Such people don’t help when we need help and become happy when we are in trouble.And worst thing is that they are husband’s friends and their family which we can’t avoid as they are close to husband.😂
I really have people like this !... They cry over things and i give advice. But next time it's always the same, they don't care. I always avoid those who don't care about any advice or solutions. Its really difficult to avoid these people. But We must avoid it. Its really necessary for a healthy life.
Sirji ,excellent point ,1 hi person h meri life me jisko itna importance de rakha tha bhot saalo se but ab had ho gyi Sach samne aa hi gya ,itna Sara waqt barbaad kia uss pr lekin ek din to iska end hona hi tha
I have literally suffered because of 3 of my NRI brother's and NRI Brother in law . They give their un wanted advice and leave my family very low . Now I have told them I don't want to meet them and absorb the negativity
peoples to avoid
1 who always endlessly critisise
2 rondu people who always cry in every situation and full of toxicity and won followa of ur advice who steals ur mojo in life
3 jinse milkar aacha feel na kare. who constantly nags you jo apko dard pahuchane ke liye comment kare
Wonderful💞
All three in my father what to do?
Here is my 2 cents ( or my 2 paisa gyan ):
"People who talk ill of others ( in their absence ) in front of you , can do the same about you ( in your absence ) in front of others."
Now you decide what to do about them ( or how your own behaviour should be towards them, actually ).
My life full of this kinds of people even in my family
Once again, you are 100% right. I recently noticed one rondu mal who saw no value in some very valuable words I had for him. Have stopped meeting him, and have not spent one more second with him since. I have started avoiding several such people and am much better with my energies!! I suffered a lot for almost twenty years and it's only recently I started recognising such patterns of certain people and have forgiven such people once for all.
The USP of your vedio is that
1) You appears to me fatherly figure guiding...
2) You are straight forward
3) explain with appropriate examples
Kindly continue guiding same way...🙏
Right
He is 43 yr old
My in-laws have all three qualities 😂😂
1st quality ki logo ka kya kiaa jae 🤣🤣 kuch karbhi nehi sakte
Aap toh bilkul sati Savitri jaise hongi 😂😂
Even mine.
Same here
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
F, you are one of the rarest life lessons Guru I have come across, hats off to you 🙏
F
Yes it is
.I am have not Heard this multidimantional personity..🙏
F
@@pravinsannake1779 aaaaaaa
Milte hai sir, bahut log aise hi milte hai... Time suckers are the worst
2) learned to set boundaries with rondu folks
3) learned to put people in place who make snide remarks
I have no friends, I love being alone and enjoy my own company 😅
Ur real guru in 21 th century...
19th osho
20th sadguru
21 th acharya prashant
Amit sangwaan
sadguru vi koi guru ae 😁
Thanos💀💀. Guru ji don't like him to certain extent
Towards the end of the video you have touched upon a very important point of how friends of a husband can adversely affect marital and family life... please talk at length about it...
Sir, I find your videos to be very interesting and useful... your points are very relevant and full of practical wisdom... almost everyone is plagued by these issues but no one talks about it...
Your topics are very interesting
Yes please, my dear hubby's friends tried to seperate us ..😢
Very well explained sir. One of my relative continuously keeps saying negative about my profession repeatedly. Asking why you are not doing xyz things and when I explain the reasons it's as if the explanation is not registered in their mind....keeps repeating the same xyz thing
I have no words to express my gratitude
Pl make vdo on friendship and toxic relationship 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you
Please make a video about relatives who borrow money by playing emotional card and don't return it on one pretext or the other. Later on they offer only part of the money borrowed as one time settlement.
A vdo z already there
Kat gya kya bhai tmhara 😀😀
Never show you have surplus money
Never give to relatives… if given … forget it
@@thegovindmusic9548 agreed
Thanks uncle for lighting this situation which almost every 1faced either through relative fake society work employe friends special young kids also faced.
MIND BLOWING....... EXCELLENT ANALYSIS....... THANK YOU SO MUCH SIR JEE.🙏🙏🙏
Hats off to you for such a wonderful video. Amazing and very practical advice on whom to avoid for your sanity and happiness: 1.People who criticise without having any idea on how to do better.2 People who are always complaining about their problems..3 People after meeting whom you feel sad and unhappy. Great video.
U r absolutely right and I always avoid such people
Sirji a great topic 👏 👍 you are brave to takle it, I keep meeting such people full of negativity in my in-laws, they live in their own micromanage world and they expect you to bow down to their views on their micro world, that there is a wide world out of the house 🏠 is not known, amazingly enough they live in Mumbai, a city that is so connected with the whole world 😀
I feel that the friends of childhood are the friends because there was no dealings with them. When I join a service and some coworkers or new neighbors are always in competition with each other in office or at home. So to judge a real friend is to tough.
Thanks Amit Sir , You are absolutely right ....From today itself, You are my Guru ......By the way, today is Guruwar ! Namo Namah !!!
Fantastic points. So true and we should have the sense to avoid completely such negative and draining people. Why should we be let down by anyone ? We must keep up our self respect . That’s our right and duty.
Yes pls do talk about friendship. And how people should not get used continuously by others.
Zabardast sir... thansk a lot.
You nailed it, Sir...
Too exact observation!👍
App ekdum correct bol rahe hai sir ji mere life mein bhi Eyse log bahut mile hai sir ji app bahut ache videos banate hai 👌👌👌excellent sir ji
Please continue your series... They are valuable life lessons... 🙏
Sir aapse nayi baat ka maargdarshan mila.
I have faced the third category of my immediate relatives,who used to puncture my happiness.But could never retaliate bcoz of close relationship
Very rightly said Sir....am agreeing with each word about toxic people.
Please make on friendship sir... Kafi achey lagtey hain aapke video.. Bilkul saral n decent bhasa mein crisp points
What if your own family members have negative attitude?
Absolutely true... Mentioned three issues...you are spot on.
Aise the sir life me bahut log.
But nikaal die.
Now feeling much better.
And life vitality is preserved now.
I guess we overestimate ourself
People r not that interested in us as we presume them to be
Either they r jealous or they don’t care 🤷♀️
Yes , what you said is true...n I already had chosen this approach/path to live my life...no place of such people in anybody's life...in my opinion " being zealous" n not enjoying success of closed ones in particular is one of the worst part of one's character cum basic nature-:) let's stay away from such ingredients.
You're 💯 pc right. There are so many who are like this. They're toxic and it's because they are unhappy themselves. It's best to cut off from such people.
han mujhe mile h
I have seen type3 people who don’t give you happiness if they come.Mostly who make friends only for time pass.Such people don’t help when we need help and become happy when we are in trouble.And worst thing is that they are husband’s friends and their family which we can’t avoid as they are close to husband.😂
Very practical and experienced!!! Thank you sir
Sir, thanks with regards and God bless forever .
I'm a regular follower of your videos. And i share them as well...Sir you are .a true mentor
No:2.....aise log bahot bahot hain.... You are on the dot... Sir.... Thanks
Haan sab aise he hai aas paas
Yes Sir ...many such energy parasites...in life ..nice briefing
Excellent points, thank you sir for giving valuable information 🙏
3 people to avoid
1- shows no cause of rejection but do reject all.
2 - one neither have any work to do nor helps to do...
3- who often make low
What a clear message 👍
I do meet people who r not happy with their life- have negative approach towards everything- tries to impart the same towards others
Thank you so much for the eye opening vdo on frnds 🙏🏻
Yes sir..such more people r there ...right
aapka bahot bahot dhanyawad. guruji ,🙏
I would love to see your series on Friends...F
Thank you sir very much I like your talking
You are absolutely right sir... please enlighten us on friendship issue also
Yes sir , of course
What if your immediate bosses are like this ? How can you avoid your boss with suffering the consequences ?
Thank you very much sir it was an eye opening video aapka observation sahi may bahut acha hain 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍
Sir isse related aur banayie videos bahut badiya hai yeh wala topic.
Yes I have this kind of toxic friend now i avoid since from last year . This kind of friend brings tension etc in our life.
Sir please narcissists ke baare mein ek video banaiye. How to deal with such people.
All three qualities in every member of my family
I really have people like this !... They cry over things and i give advice. But next time it's always the same, they don't care. I always avoid those who don't care about any advice or solutions. Its really difficult to avoid these people. But We must avoid it. Its really necessary for a healthy life.
Bilkul sahi 👏🏼👏🏼 F
Sirji ,excellent point ,1 hi person h meri life me jisko itna importance de rakha tha bhot saalo se but ab had ho gyi Sach samne aa hi gya ,itna Sara waqt barbaad kia uss pr lekin ek din to iska end hona hi tha
Absolutely honest and true video
Aap aise helpful baate bata rahe h
Chargeable hona chaheye
Aaj hii apki video mili RUclips par
5 nov 2022
Sir ji
Bahut acha maine apke kai video dekhe hai apka horizon bahut bada aur positive hai
god bless you
I have literally suffered because of 3 of my NRI brother's and NRI Brother in law .
They give their un wanted advice and leave my family very low .
Now I have told them I don't want to meet them and absorb the negativity
F..trying to follow the tips you've given. Keep it up you're doing great job 👍 👏
Sir aap apni life ki journey par bhi ek video banaye please
prataksh ko praman ki jarurat nhi🙏
I am very happy in my life
❤
Sir. There r many in my life. I already follow your suggestion of avoiding them for my peace of mind
Yes , point 2 n 3 ke lik bahut milate hai.
Aap bilkul sahi batate h videos me
Apke video Kitne bhi dekho tiredness bilkul Nahi hoti. Very good work.
Excellent work Sir 👍
Very true sir
Sir aapne bhout hi shi Topik liya h ye sab ke saath hota aa rha h Thanks a lot
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne.
All points r real and day to day happens
You are genius men.
It is afact
My husband has all three qualities in extreme quantity
सही है
Priceless and practical 👌
Superb, thank you Amitji
Mind blowing 😇
Gratitude⚡🔥 to Highest level Heavenly Father🙏 Send You On Earth For Social Work🙏, Thanks to🎉Guruji.
Thankyou so much Sir. Nice video. I encounter so many people of the types you mentioned and most of them are relatives.
sir flowers are luking gr8
Sir you are correct.. I have many people who come with such
Thank you 🙏
Same mujhe ese bahut milte he
Thank you sir
Mind blowing
I remember I have such mates in my ncc who always try to put sadness in my mind
Absolutely right sir!🙏🌺
सर अगर कोई इन तीन तरह के लोगों से 24घंटे घीरा पड़ा हो तो क्या करें न वह रहतें बने न छोड़कर भाग सके तो क्या करें
F . Sir you touches actual things. Thanks
Absolutly right sir,,,my husband,,,,