Yeah but even with a class in school in which teachers say we can trust, I don’t trust anyone with my emotions because whenever I share people use them against me. I agree with you though
A wise person once told me “do not put too much pressure on a pencil, or it will break. I finally now realize that they weren’t talking about a pencil.
I remember my mom when I was 14, one night I was reviewing for an exam and we were having a conversation about school and I said that my teacher said that I'm disciplined because I'm always doing good in school and doesn't do much social activities and always quiet, my teacher asked me if I'm pressured and I said kinda and my mom reacted saying that there is no such thing as pressured in grades and is only hands on is because I can do better, she also said that when I grow up I'll thank her for disciplining me like this. Now I'm 29 years old and a civil engineer, I thanked her for providing me with education but until this day I still haven't thanked her on how she raised me.
Peace upon all goodness. God is there even tho we can’t see him, he is there for us everyday, every hour, every minute, and every second of our lives. - SarahWolfYT- Peace be with you.
I have Depression, not many people know the struggles of it. Sometimes my hygiene could be bad and I can’t get out of bed, other days I’m happy and laughing with my friends. I’ve shown signs of depression since I was a little girl and since then have grown to adapt with it, now I am a happier person that is still struggling on the inside
Same. My dad keeps calling me lazy cause I don’t wanna go out of the house anymore and I can’t tell him why. I’m honestly scared. It’s pretty new for me and I don’t know how to handle it. Also are you feeling any better now?
Same, I used to be able to study for like 2/3 hours a day with no problems. Now forget studying I can’t even focus on the lessons. I am either daydreaming or just thinking about the happy moments I had in the past
I used to be the most bubbliest and outgoing person you would have ever met. during the pandemic i became isolated and lost all of my social skills. i'm trying to get them back
Oh my gosh, that's literally me right now. And I'm still not able to get my old self back, plus I've even grown anxiety in me. I don't know how to get out of this hole..I just keep falling into it deeper and deeper each and every time.
It’s why you can barely trust family with anything. They don’t care about your feelings or anything, they just see you moping around the house and their first thought is make sure they stop so they can become my support for money in the future. One thing I’ve learned is it always comes down to greed.
I can agree with all these Symptoms. I just am tired, and I can never focus. Partly because of my ADHD, but I also have a lot of bad stuff in my life that led me to having depression.
I feel similar with the adhd part and all… Currently I am struggling with school, a friend group which doesn’t care about me anymore and my crush just slowly disappearing out of my life. I kinda feel sad, lonely and like I lost my drive even though I have an amazing family who I can talk to. It is just a dark time right now for me. But I found a way I can experience joy and all and that is by taking my bike and just ride ! Ride into the sun , most importantly without a phone bcs that thing just pressured my subconscious. Remember that there’s fun things to do like you did when you were younger, just do them again! My adhd is not a boundary if I’m enjoying something. And don’t be pressured by teachers/expectations because you need to prioritize yourself. Hopefully my random thoughts helped you @Gl..AJ_X
You know, you've made plenty of videos of "Signs of _______," but what do we do if we match the signs? And don't just say "seek professional help," because that option isn't always readily available. Especially for minors. I bet you're thinking "Plan B: Talk to someone close to you." What if they don't have such person? And not because they are isolating themselves, but because they genuinely have a hard time being social even without depression. I am in such situation. No close friends to talk to. No way to convince my parents for therapy or anything else related. Heck, it's been a thing for so long I wouldn't be surprised if they saw it as normal. My dad is always verbally aggressive. Once, it even got physical. One apology talk later, and absolutely nothing changed verbally. Doesn't help that my mom jokingly calls me Eeyore every time I end up complaining about something a little too much. I am in a terrible fucking situation, and I feel as if I have no way out. That I'm just sinking further into the water, waiting to finally drown. Edit: This is an old post, but I'm still getting replies. I know you just want to help, but please, stop. I've gotten enough help, and thank you to all that helped me.
And remotely isn't an option. My dad has made a rule where if me or my older brother miss the bus, we both have no internet for 24 hours and it doubles each time. Today was the 3rd time. Only reason I have internet is because I'm at school.
Me too, man. Me too. It'll get better, I'm sure, but it doesn't really feel that way right now. I constantly wish I could go to the future just to see whether it gets better ... or worse. But we can't, so just hang in there. All I've got to say right now.
I was in a similar situation and I graduated from high school a year early and went to college when I was 17 to escape. I played a waiting game. Then after I moved out my parents started actually changing for the better for my younger siblings which simultaneously makes me happy and thankful while also slightly jealous that they have better parents than I did
Daily reminder, Your neck is not a coat so don’t hang it Your skin is not paper so don’t cut it Your body is not a book so don’t judge it Your heart is not a door so don’t lock it Your hair is not a rope so don’t pull it Your life is not a story so don’t end it In case no one has told you yet Im proud of you I know it’s hard I understand Im here for you It’s all going to be ok I see how hard you try I truly appreciate you YOU DID SO GOOD! Your getting better every day Your not alone I’ll stand with you forever ♾️ I won’t leave until your ready You don’t have to be ready Your safe I won’t let go no matter what You’ve come so far Wow your really good at that! Tell me more I love you I hope for you I am extremely proud of you I hope to see you succeed I love to see you smile I will listen Accomplishments that may not seem like they’re hard to do but they are 1. Getting out of bed 2.brushing your teeth 3. Asking for help 4.going outside 5. Opining up 6. Eating food 7. Drinking water 8. Taking a shower or bath 9. Loving yourself 10. Standing up for yourself 11. Brushing your hair 12. Seeing things through 13. Being there for someone 14. Getting dressed 15. Not giving up You are absolutely beautiful and it can be hard to see that in yourself but I promise it’s true Eat the cake, there’s no use worrying about a bit of yummy dessert 🧁 Go treat yourself in any way possible 💆💇♀️🧖♀️ Don’t worry about what other people think why let them control your life when you could be out there expressing yourself It’s never to late. Here I bought you some flowers 💐 I made you fresh baked cookies 🍪 HAPPY BDAY 🥳I threw you a party 🎉 🎂🎈🎁🪩🪅 You can go home early today if you want 😊 Here 💵 I know it’s been hard lately hopefully this will help Will you be my friend?👯♀️ Wow you look really good today! Will you be my valentine? 💝🌹 Even in your darkest times there is someone who can help even if it seems like all hope is lost there is always a way out, when it’s dark find someone to be your light, when it’s cold reach out to find your blanket, never give up no matter how hard things may be, and always remember everything always gets better with time. There is a plan for everyone and even if things don’t work out how you imagined it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing never stop believing and always stay kind you never may know how much simply smiling at someone or saying hi can impact there live always reach out and always be kind because you can never really know what someone is going through now go in joy your day or get a good nights sleep. -An internet stranger simply trying to make your day at just a little bit better
I can relate to this. There are days where I have to do homework, but I didn’t feel like doing them because it kinda stress me out. And I feel drained when doing so.
I used to get amazing grades in primary school, I had an innocent look on life but after middle school and highschool it feels like all of that energy and happiness that I used to have faded away.
Schools tend to do that, they are made mainly to produce factory workers rather than people capable of thinking for themselves. Not to mention that hanging out with classmates who don't value what you used to value can also put a dent in someone's innocence. Think about what you want from your life and then work towards that, one day at a time. Perhaps you can regain what you once valued that way.
This is me right now, ever since my parents divorced, and I’ve lost all my friends and now I have no one, I just hate myself and feel the need to just jump off a bridge, I hate how I look and what I don’t have, I hate when people say “ you should be more like ****** or ****** “…. ❤️ you are my favourite RUclipsr and you’ve helped me a lot thank you ❤️
It makes me sick, the fact that it's been a problem for years to me. And I already know that it's depression. I'm sick of people online telling what the signs are, I'm sick of myself searching and trying to validate it because everyone around me doesn't seem to have a problem like me. Like it's just me who is always oversensitive since I was a child. It's the same old problem again that always weighs me down and took away my opportunity to grow and my passion. I don't think there's any passion to begin with. Like heck, I always ended up in failure. And what is more shitty is that I have to act like I'm fine and I'm doing good in front of people who are supposed to be dear to me, parents, best friends, family. No, shit. I'm not a bright person, I'm not someone who likes to joke, and I'm not an empathetic person. All of those traits evaporate in an instant if I'm left by myself. I'm just a shell of human beings, full of hate, envy, and regret. I have no personality fr.
Not really, i saw myself in your text, stop talking like you're soul less, the world became an expensive dump so it's pretty normal some of us youngies feel depressed
A link is in the commments that they made for the full video. It is not 60 seconds so watch the longer video, well if you want to, so then you can learn!
What is it when I feel like I’m just not needed. Sometimes there will be a big family group hug and everyone is hanging out or my friends will be playing and I just feel like I’m not needed and I can just step of to the side and let them enjoy it…?
I feel this way too. My parents wanted me to be special when I was younger, so they payed for chess classes. I really like it and became national champion of my age. But now I feel like if I'm not good in chess I serve no purpose, and that I have to be good at it because otherwise my parents pay for my classes and tournaments for nothing. People at school also gave me special permission to not study on Wednesdays so I can focus on chess. Now it feels like I have to do it, because otherwise I lose all my special benefits and become less important than average people because I wasted 4 yrs of my life playing chess 3hrs a day. I feel like I'm drowning in expectations of others and don't enjoy chess as much as before. It feels like the only reason I leave my bed is so I can please others. I don't know if it's normal to feel this way or if I have a condition like a depression.
If you don't feel energized by hanging out with people and don't feel a need to participate in stuff just because, then you could very likely be an introvert, someone who can charge up by simply being by themselves. Alternatively, you could be aware of the reality of things, because truth be told, we people are often not actually "needed" in most situations, many extroverts simply do stuff together because of the sake of it and you, you simply don't feel a need to do that.
@@CiciChessYour situation almost the same as mine. I always have been the top 2 of my batch, but when I failed to meet my parent's expectation, my mom tell everyone on the Earth how dissapointed she is. I only have a week to "study" for the exam because of a surgery. Now, I am the 6th highest in my class. Anyway, do you have time for a chess game?
Most people think that depression is just a phase and sadness but as a person who almost killed it self I can say that it's not. One of the things that hurts most is because you have to say "I'm good" to everyone to not hear again and again that depression is "just sadness". Anyone has its own fellings, just respect it, don't try to say like you felt it or you know how would feel
@@Ayans-KamilasChannel uhh there's a bunch of reasons, like: bad relationship with my parents, no friends, break up, everything I tried to do didn't work, and these are just a few of them.
@@Ayans-KamilasChannel I still I'll, but a little better, I got some friends that I could talk to, and started to go out (I'm never outside of my home =])
I’m both adhd and depressed. Like, the laziness is nothing new… but neither is the depression XD the only sign that I’m really depressed is emotional detachment and pushing friends away, cause the laziness is just there regardless.
18 year old here, sometimes when I tell my parents what I go through they just think I act like the generation of now, all they do is argue at me, talk to me an hour about the way of life and compare me with others. They think that pushing me too hard will make me successful in life and be like Elon Musk but the reality is it just makes me pressured too hard to a point I just can't take it. My family follows a culture of hard work and I understand that but when it's too much it is too much.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Try meditation u have bad mood regulating skills this shouldn't be effecting u that negatively also no offense develop some gratefulness discipline is a wonder full thing wish I had it when I was younger 😢 please follow my advice it likely will change ur life
All depression goes away when you have someone to share who doesn't judge you and listen to you as per me it really helps and depression goes away but the main thing is not all has that special one❤😢
it definitely helps a lot to feel heard and being able to trust someone enough to share your most private feelings. unfortunately there's no way to really know if that person will be safe until exposing ur vulnerabilities and it does wayyy more damage for me at least when I find out they suck and I just got put on blast and had my most private insecurities shared with 10 strangers going through that now :( I don't know how I'm gonna learn trust anyone ever again to share my whole self. also when ur very broken and depressed it's hard to find others to want to be around you besides sexually they will put up w you just enough to get what they want then ignore you until the next time they need you
Sometimes the line between laziness and depression is a very fine line. there used to be a time when I would be so depressed that even getting up from the bed is a struggle. Even now I still wonder if I'm not just being mentally weak.
It could potentially also be a result of lack of exercise or lack of nutrients, nowadays people even suffer from touch starvation. If you're an extrovert, then being alone is the last thing you should ever be.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Try meditation if u do it commited everyday promise ur life will change also u prob have a lack of purpose most people aren't happy just exsisting and it will boost ur will power tremendously having a purpose too get outta bed hope u follow my advice
I used to watch these to help others..... now I realise I always needed someone to help me... and I'm too tired of acting like the safety net for myself....
yes, i can relate! I've lost my passion for hockey, a hobby ive had since i was 4. I am about 11 now. nothing terrible has happened except our family dog dying, and i dont feel like i have a reason to be depressed. One day it just washed over me. I hope that one day we can all learn to love ourselves more than we love others. best wishes to everyone reading this! good luck in your journeys
I wake up every morning, but the weight of sadness follows me like a shadow. It’s hard to explain why everything feels heavy, like I’m carrying a backpack filled with rocks that no one else can see. The colors around me seem muted, and even the sun struggles to brighten my world. School used to be a place of laughter and friends, but now it’s a battlefield of fake smiles and forced conversations. It’s like I’m trapped in a bubble, watching everyone else live their lives while I’m stuck in this endless loop of numbness. The words of teachers and classmates blend together into a meaningless buzz, and I find myself daydreaming about a world where happiness isn’t a distant memory. Sometimes, I sit in my room and stare at the ceiling, wondering when this darkness settled in. It’s like a storm that won’t pass, and I’m just a small boat tossed around in its relentless waves. My parents try to understand, but the gap between us feels like an abyss, and I can’t find the words to bridge it. Nights are the loneliest. The silence amplifies the thoughts in my head, each one a heavy anchor dragging me deeper into the abyss. Sleep is elusive, and when it finally comes, nightmares dance around me, making rest more exhausting than wakefulness. I wish I could escape from this maze of emotions, but it’s like being lost in a forest with no way out. I hold on to the hope that one day, the clouds will part, and I’ll feel the warmth of the sun on my face again. Until then, I navigate through the darkness, clinging to the belief that somewhere, somehow, there’s a path back to the light.
I never had a "used to be". That is I cannot remember a time when I didn't feel depressed, I had these god awful feelings as a child. Finally learned the difference 30 years later. Got help and things just kept getting better. Learning that life doesn't have to be as hard as it was was the hardest and best part.
My moms boyfriend forces me to be happy to have a good image on the "family" if im caught acting sad i am banned from fishing (which calms me down) for a while. Ive told him and all he says is its just a feeling get over it. My dad is the only one who understands and is always right there to help me... even in the middle of something i have seen this man drop anything and rush to my aid. I love him so much
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
I relate to this soo much i used to spend most of my free days drawing and doing crafts read things i love but nowadays its hard and in this household depression is not a thing🚶🏾♀️
By the sound of it, you could need a vacation of a full month or more, because you sound exhausted, burned out. Take some time and figure yourself out.
I have nobody to talk to about my problems, I hate my family. They’re all weird, rude, and unsociable. I can’t talk to them about anything. I love a girl and recently they ruined my chances at having an amazing relationship with her. I asked her out to a dance as a date, they told her I asked her as a friend. Now she doesn’t see me the same, no matter how much I’ve voiced myself on the topic.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
And the worst part, is that you know deep down that something is wrong, but you know that no one will hear you or take you seriously, and then you start doubting whether you're truly depressed or overreacting, and you're afraid of going to take a depression test and waste other's time over nothing if you end up actually not being depressed and mistaking your current state with depression and then getting judged or called a drama queen...life is so frustrating..I hate it..
I thought it was laziness for years or boredom, but looking back, i now realize that you don't usually hurt yourself out of boredom but that is also only because it has become worse and i have suicidal thoughts literally every single day and i am so numbed, that i can't even cry even though i regularly get close to it even if i try to let it all out.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
@@Aydenkaye maybe you were Right but honestly I don't really care anymore because it just went away on it's own last fall and I didn't have any real problems with it since
I feel sad on the inside but feel pressured to hide it with a joyful smile and help my friends because there sad they can’t even compare to how I’m feeling 😢
I was depressed while watching this short. I just realized one of my best friends betrayed me online and stopped caring about me. I am now feeling nothing but sadness on the inside, there is nobody that can help me, every person i talk to, either online or irl, they just answer me with "deal with it", "i don't care", "L+didn't ask+ratio", "KYS 😂"or." ok EMO" Nobody loves me, not even people on youtube, its just lies everywhere, i can't trust anyone because of this. I am litterally about to cry and start to feel hopeless about life. Im a bloody failure that will never get a girlfriend. That's why im planning ending myself in the future, my depression has fully taken over me, and theres no turning back. The world is better without me anyways
Aye homie, you may feel like that but I damn well guarantee at least one person cares about you. I doubt you're ever going to see this but if you got pets, they'd miss you. I hope you're feeling better man.
Symptoms not mentioned may be physical pain, aches, or sore muscles indicating a severe depression. There is also a chronic low grade depression. Get help. It's hard for guys, especially with wife. Biological Depression, bipolar disorder, or from serious abuse can be dangerous.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
This is might be gut health as gut health affects lit everything causing even inflammation in the muscles maybe but idk never heard of sore muscles for depression others is prob mood fight or flight
? Really I suffer from this and I went for an examination in the hospital and everything is fine, but I still do not know the reason for all this pain and mood.....
I go through depression myself, but I have a motto that keeps me going, and I’m going to share it with everyone who reads it, but I would like credit happiness doesn’t come as a result of something we don’t have, but rather from recognizing and appreciating what we do have so don’t mess up some thing good looking for something better when you can end up with something totally worse
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
The reason I still keep my toys in my room from when I was under 6 was just because I miss being so happy and joyful playing with those toys. I just remember how happy and energetic I used to be. I mean to other people I have infinite energy and I do whatever other people want me to. Just because I want to make someone else feel happy. I searched something up on RUclips a few minutes ago (I don’t want to tell you what it is) and it said I’m not alone and I can call someone if I needed to. I feel kind of better ig but I still am gonna pretend I’m happy.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
@@Aydenkaye i have bipolar disorder and im on meds for it, and u do understand, but u dont understand it from my perspective, depression is different for everyone, Could just be me but it sounds like u just said that i dont have a purpose and i dont work for thongs or am i not understanding?
@@n0tchqn_. no u aren't understanding I'm just trying to help and saw a book on a therapist in the holocaust sounds depressing right he found tho that people with an intense sense of purpose were still strong and I was just listing different reasons u may have depression and i did nail it on the coffin people with bipolar disorder have a hard time regulating their emotions causing them to be super happy one minute and super sad next minute or angry sad whatever bipolar u have and meditation will cure that my friend by training the brain to just observe the thoughts instead of taking them as u because thoughs don't define u it's ur choice to except them and Quiting the mind they did research and found a direct link to how a quiter mind is linked to a happier person just look at animals I just want people to see that they can be helped and it's not helpless cuz that could also be contributing to ur depression
@@Aydenkaye what was the book called? Ill see if i can find it on amazon bc it sounds pretty interesting, and yeah ive been trying meditation but its hard to bc im in the city and theyres noise 24/7, and i just dont like wearing headphones bc they hurt my ears so its hard to find a time where its quiet and peaceful
@@n0tchqn_. that's actually better idk if u know who Andrew Huber man is he's a neurologist and I trust his word and he says that u don't change when u can do something perfect so the harder it is the more dirastic ur brain will adapt and he said u need to enjoy losing because that's the only time u improve and the book is called man's search for meaning by Viktor e frankl def worth reading
what if the person is never cheerful, always feels down, there's no difference between the present and any past they can ever remember?they are always isolating themselves and have no one to talk to. But when they have someone, they have nothing to talk about. desire for connection and intimacy but sometimes when people interact with them, they feel angry without any reason. so they always feel frustrated.
Have they witnessed abuse, especially by parents? Anger issues, trust issues, inability to form relationships, asocial, depression, severely low self esteem, lack of confidence, feelings of inadequacy, isolationist, easily bullied, constantly wanting approval, conflict avoidance, passive aggressive behavior? If they have physical pain, aches, or sore muscles, they could be in a severe depression. There is also a chronic low grade depression.
@@MichaelSHartman Dude please help I have most of the things I was brought in very strict surrounding ,I am still being nagged I am 18 and 47 kg at 176 cm,money was always a Problem , this year I have joined college please please help , people here can't understand these 😢.
Too be honest I used to have depression and suicidal thoughts but I’ve gone past that I’m better now but people really need To talk about this stuff too other people!
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I play the viola, and it was my favorite thing to do. I play for my school orchestra and I loved it so much. I haven't picked it up in weeks at my home to practice because I have no motivation, and I don't find it pleasurable. I'm sad for most of the day
Thank you for explaining my whole life ..... I have a badly depression that no one can stop me from crying....im hate to eat but i also feel so hungry behind it ....... Thank you❤
Thank You, For The Information Me And My Friend Got Into A Fight He Was Not The Only One Lots Of Them Did Back To Me So I Know I Have Depression I Should Seek Help.
This video help me fine put I am depressed because I used happy and always going out places now I don't want to go anywhere I just want to be alone. Thank you for helping me find out I will get help.
I’m 13 going on 14 right now and Ever since I turned around 11 I haven’t felt happy, I haven’t felt like what I was doing had meaning and I started to wonder if I even matter in life. I’m still going through those struggles. Just know that you are amazing and you can do anything. I hope you don’t end up like I am now and never give up or think about giving up. Good day to all…
I have always denied that I had was depression but watching this I’m actually starting to realize that I could and I’m scared to admit that I most likely am dealing with depression
This describes pretty well what I was 2 years ago. I've always been a very cheerful and energetic guy, but when I had my first year of University, Covid prevented me from going to Uni, my grandma died, I was stressed about losing contact with a lot of my old friends and all that led me to being unable to making any new friends. I don't know if it was outright depression or if I was just close to it but I lost all my energy I stayed at home all the time and didn't go at Uni when I was finally allowed to, I didn't want to do anything, even things I used to love, and I had this constant feeling of sadness and lonelyness that felt extreamly heavy on my shoulders... I tryed to keep it all in and played it off as everything being fine when at home but all my family noticed something was wrong. When I broke down in front of my mom and told her everything, it was too much for her and she gave me a psycologist's phone number. I know it was the right decision cause ultimatly that's one of the biggest reasons that I was able to move out of it, but at the time it felt like a slap in the face to open up to my mom and be answered with a phone number. I felt like she was telling me that she didn't care and that I should talk about it with someone else. That year was easily the worste year of my life, but thankfully I was able to get a lot better in a relitavly short amount of time. First, I met some new people that I started hanging out with. Then, I started going to the gym with some friends which forced me to go outside and interact with friends every day. Then came the therapist wich fianlly helped me move on from my grandma's death and finally, the biggest thing I did which most helped me move on was join a student association where I met a lot of new people, made new friends, and constantly went out. It only took me 2 and a half years to fully get better, but these 2 and a half years ruined my university experiance so far... so now I'll do everything to cach up on lost time with this final year. If this story sounded familiar to anyone, hang in there and don't give up. It may seem extreamly hard, or even impossible, I know it did to me... all you can do is percevere and try to force yourself out of your confort zone little by little. And seriously, going to a psycologist is the biggest helper. Don't say that you didn't like it or that it doesn't work, because it takes time to have an effect. If it really doesn't work, change psycologists, maybe he's just not good for you, but whatever you do, don't stop seeing one, because he/she'll be the key to your getting better.
Omg i just i used to watch there’s videos to see if my crush likes me in third grade and I haven’t watched one since I miss this channel so much. I’m so happy to stumble against me.
*Had (key word being HAD) a friend who told me I could tell them anything and said they didn't mind helping me. Well I was always kind to them and thought I could feel comfortable getting advice from them. I didn't always go to them since I do have a therapist. So I did treat my friend well, and I'd care about them too and their life. One day I felt pretty down, and they wanted to know whats up. When I told him, all he could say was "Cut that sh-- out!!" and called it "tough love". He made me feel tons worse. I deal with Major Depressive Disorder, so swearing at someone with depression isn't going to help, and it's certainly NOT "tough love". I always make sure to talk to my therapist about things I go through. So I never hurt my friend. I asked my therapist about it, and she believes he struggles socially and didn't help me in the right way. I haven't spoken to that friend since that day. I didn't like his harsh tone since it caused me to burst into tears. I realized I have much better friends who wouldn't ever put me down like that. They're more understanding and caring. I don't consider that one guy a friend anymore. I'm glad I have great friends, and a good therapist to go to.*
I've neglected my thesis for 1 and half year after traumatic events that happened continuously in the beginning of 2023. My parents keep telling me to finish it off, but I couldn't bring myself to even look at the computer. I cried now and then, but brushed off everything and played with my phone all day. People called me lazy all the time. I was a bright person. Posted everything that I saw or felt everyday without caring about anyone's opinion. Now I barely post anything. I shut myself down because I'm afraid of people. I have nowhere to go to share my feelings. People around me don't understand how to deal with depression. I gave up on therapy because my former therapist kept judging me which prevented me from telling everything to her. I was scared everytime I got triggered and felt down when it's the time for counseling. I just want someone safe who can understand me and tell me it's gonna be okay everytime I break down.
I am depressed because of trauma and neglect I've been on medication for 3 years and it makes it not as bad but I'm still heavily depressed in myself but I present very joyous because that ips who I am I keep pushing through ❤
I’m sorry to hear, I get how difficult it can be. Sending you hugs and kindness, and prayers for you and everyone who is going through depression. Remember to seek help whenever it is, and know that you are loved and worthy. If you need to talk you can reach out to me. You matter. God bless you and know that God is there for you 💛 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 John 4:9-10 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3
Honestly, I've been on this boat, for years, I try to no observe myself as much, because when I look at myself now, I just get overwhelmed by thousands of memories from how I used to be, and it just gives me the feeling that I'm just an empty shell from which the old me has decided to leave, a long time ago. They're somewhere out there, living their best life for sure, meanwhile the shell is just there at the same spot ever since.
Tysm U helped me a lot, I was crying in my room, opened Yt shorts and... This. And I was like OMG thats me, Ur reading my mind and somehow this make me realize that... Im not ✨alone✨
Hey, Listen. I know life is tough right now, but I promise it will get better. I don’t know who you are, or what exactly you are going through, but I love you. You matter. You are amazing. You are beautiful. You are perfect.
Depression is really awful. I try to make every day a good day and be super productive, and then I cry, breathing gets hard, and get yelles at for being "lazy". That is how pretty much every day goes.
That confirms, I am lazy. I was trying multiple things as a child desperate to find myself, but none of them stuck so now I do nothing but be sad and procrastinate.
As someone with depression and is in a highschool relationship, I can confirm it’s very stressful. I try to stay ontop of my tasks, daily chores, and self love routine.
I’ve felt this way since 2nd grade.. I used to love basketball but now I don’t even like sports, or just anything I used to love,but my mom says I’m just growing up and going into a “emo phase” but I don’t even like goth or act emo she just thinks that because I’m always “sad”, but she thinks I can’t be depressed bc I’m young and kids shouldn’t be depressed… I’ve felt this way bc I’m scared of what people think of me, just feeling tired of life and having suicidal thoughts everyday.
It's 10:00 right now and I'm sobbing watching this. I've missed so much school, I'm always tired, I have 4 F's and I just want to run away or smth. I'm done.
To anyone reading this who has ever felt disheartened and confused, hurt or lost...you are not alone. You are surrounded by countless multitudes of people everywhere who are just like you. Just like us. But you don't have to stay confused or lost or in pain. We might forget this sometimes - or may not know it at all. But there is nothing in your life, no matter how difficult or painful, that cannot be turned into something very beautiful. So please, have lots of hope
here is my feelings on you They didn't notice you were crying They didn't notice you were sad They didn’t notice you were tired They didn’t notice you were alone They didn’t notice how attentive you were They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are... They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile They did notice you failing grades They did notice your unattractive They did notice the mean side of you They did notice all your mistakes They did notice all you flaws They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them. But you stayed strong You kept going on You never gave up on hope You never let them take you down And you know they wasn’t good enough for you And that’s what make you stronger You aren’t ugly You aren’t mean You aren’t lazy You aren’t a failure You aren’t a mistake You are beautiful You are worth it You do deserve everything You are trying You are smart You do deserve to live
You're not alone. Seek for help if you're struggling. Here's the full video: Full video link: ruclips.net/video/kTD9zWQKCsg/видео.html
Yeah
Okay but i only nine in the fourth grade this happened to me I just can’t let out my emotions
@@YourlocalmlpFanjust because you're 9 doesn't mean you can't be depressed
Not worth it
but i dont think i have it but its telling me i might.. ?
Everyone deserves someone to talk to about their feelings and problems
You know what I agree with you but what if know one is there for you it can be hard
This never helped me. Just makes it worse cause people keep saying "just do better"
Yeah but even with a class in school in which teachers say we can trust, I don’t trust anyone with my emotions because whenever I share people use them against me. I agree with you though
I don't now who I can trust
nah, somehow it make me more depressed. 💀
A wise person once told me “do not put too much pressure on a pencil, or it will break. I finally now realize that they weren’t talking about a pencil.
😂😢truth
Tbh I don't get it
@@femiadejuwon7814 if you put too much pressure on a person, they will snap,= trauma, anxiety, depression.
That's totally true
My parents do this to me they rush me for stuff and everything
I remember my mom when I was 14, one night I was reviewing for an exam and we were having a conversation about school and I said that my teacher said that I'm disciplined because I'm always doing good in school and doesn't do much social activities and always quiet, my teacher asked me if I'm pressured and I said kinda and my mom reacted saying that there is no such thing as pressured in grades and is only hands on is because I can do better, she also said that when I grow up I'll thank her for disciplining me like this. Now I'm 29 years old and a civil engineer, I thanked her for providing me with education but until this day I still haven't thanked her on how she raised me.
I feel you :)
True gigachad ✊
Peace upon all goodness. God is there even tho we can’t see him, he is there for us everyday, every hour, every minute, and every second of our lives. - SarahWolfYT- Peace be with you.
@@Sarah-lc4hpI do not believe in god but thanks
Happy for you. You've done it! 🥲
I have Depression, not many people know the struggles of it. Sometimes my hygiene could be bad and I can’t get out of bed, other days I’m happy and laughing with my friends. I’ve shown signs of depression since I was a little girl and since then have grown to adapt with it, now I am a happier person that is still struggling on the inside
I just wanna get my energy back, I feel like I'm stuck here..
me too
How are you now
Same. My dad keeps calling me lazy cause I don’t wanna go out of the house anymore and I can’t tell him why. I’m honestly scared. It’s pretty new for me and I don’t know how to handle it.
Also are you feeling any better now?
Same, I used to be able to study for like 2/3 hours a day with no problems. Now forget studying I can’t even focus on the lessons. I am either daydreaming or just thinking about the happy moments I had in the past
I used to be the most bubbliest and outgoing person you would have ever met. during the pandemic i became isolated and lost all of my social skills. i'm trying to get them back
Oh my gosh, that's literally me right now. And I'm still not able to get my old self back, plus I've even grown anxiety in me. I don't know how to get out of this hole..I just keep falling into it deeper and deeper each and every time.
Haha me too. And i also got the feeling of being average and left out. Which made me a bit struggling with my mental
@@kor-_e same damn
I swear, after the pandemic I was acting like I was depressed to be cool. Now I actually have depression. I can't get help. I hate myself.
You can do it gurllll
I remember talking about my problems to my mother and all she said was “ you are just being lazy.”
my mom asked me why i felt depressed then she threatened to end her life because i didnt tell her, which is the exact reason why i didnt tell her lol
Smh.
You're not sad when you're lazy. You don't feel drained from energy, you mental health is so and that it affected your physical health.
@@eat_avertical_tortilla_chip Exactly Same🙂
It’s why you can barely trust family with anything. They don’t care about your feelings or anything, they just see you moping around the house and their first thought is make sure they stop so they can become my support for money in the future. One thing I’ve learned is it always comes down to greed.
Me: "I'm not depressed, I'm just clumsy and introverted."
Same I'm an introverted but I do have friends at school and I don't really speak a lot at school.
Same bro, we just don’t like talking to others..
Im not Depressed, I just got Pornography Addiction
Me: "I'm not depressed, I'm just the entire video."
"im an introvert with social skills"
People keep just calling me lazy but I always have to keep a smile
real...
Are both of you okay now?
I miss my old days
I can agree with all these Symptoms. I just am tired, and I can never focus. Partly because of my ADHD, but I also have a lot of bad stuff in my life that led me to having depression.
Same man. So sad
I feel similar with the adhd part and all…
Currently I am struggling with school, a friend group which doesn’t care about me anymore and my crush just slowly disappearing out of my life. I kinda feel sad, lonely and like I lost my drive even though I have an amazing family who I can talk to. It is just a dark time right now for me.
But I found a way I can experience joy and all and that is by taking my bike and just ride ! Ride into the sun , most importantly without a phone bcs that thing just pressured my subconscious.
Remember that there’s fun things to do like you did when you were younger, just do them again! My adhd is not a boundary if I’m enjoying something. And don’t be pressured by teachers/expectations because you need to prioritize yourself. Hopefully my random thoughts helped you @Gl..AJ_X
same
You're not lazy because you're depressed, you're depressed because you're lazy
Same
"OH mY gOD YoU ArE TOO YOunG FOR dEpressIon" this is why i hide it, i relate.
Edit: Goddamn I make one smartass comment and it gets repplied jeez
Same
Same
When I was 14, I was told I can't be depressed because "I'm in my prime"
I was depressed since 7 years old and i still am now
Same
You know, you've made plenty of videos of "Signs of _______," but what do we do if we match the signs? And don't just say "seek professional help," because that option isn't always readily available. Especially for minors. I bet you're thinking "Plan B: Talk to someone close to you." What if they don't have such person? And not because they are isolating themselves, but because they genuinely have a hard time being social even without depression. I am in such situation. No close friends to talk to. No way to convince my parents for therapy or anything else related. Heck, it's been a thing for so long I wouldn't be surprised if they saw it as normal. My dad is always verbally aggressive. Once, it even got physical. One apology talk later, and absolutely nothing changed verbally. Doesn't help that my mom jokingly calls me Eeyore every time I end up complaining about something a little too much. I am in a terrible fucking situation, and I feel as if I have no way out. That I'm just sinking further into the water, waiting to finally drown.
Edit: This is an old post, but I'm still getting replies. I know you just want to help, but please, stop. I've gotten enough help, and thank you to all that helped me.
If you're a minor then your school should have counselors to talk to for free
@@Phantom914 I want to, but my schedule is so crammed that I can never find the time.
And remotely isn't an option. My dad has made a rule where if me or my older brother miss the bus, we both have no internet for 24 hours and it doubles each time. Today was the 3rd time. Only reason I have internet is because I'm at school.
Me too, man. Me too. It'll get better, I'm sure, but it doesn't really feel that way right now. I constantly wish I could go to the future just to see whether it gets better ... or worse. But we can't, so just hang in there. All I've got to say right now.
I was in a similar situation and I graduated from high school a year early and went to college when I was 17 to escape. I played a waiting game. Then after I moved out my parents started actually changing for the better for my younger siblings which simultaneously makes me happy and thankful while also slightly jealous that they have better parents than I did
Daily reminder,
Your neck is not a coat so don’t hang it
Your skin is not paper so don’t cut it
Your body is not a book so don’t judge it
Your heart is not a door so don’t lock it
Your hair is not a rope so don’t pull it
Your life is not a story so don’t end it
In case no one has told you yet
Im proud of you
I know it’s hard
I understand
Im here for you
It’s all going to be ok
I see how hard you try
I truly appreciate you
YOU DID SO GOOD!
Your getting better every day
Your not alone
I’ll stand with you forever ♾️
I won’t leave until your ready
You don’t have to be ready
Your safe
I won’t let go no matter what
You’ve come so far
Wow your really good at that!
Tell me more
I love you
I hope for you
I am extremely proud of you
I hope to see you succeed
I love to see you smile
I will listen
Accomplishments that may not seem like they’re hard to do but they are
1. Getting out of bed
2.brushing your teeth
3. Asking for help
4.going outside
5. Opining up
6. Eating food
7. Drinking water
8. Taking a shower or bath
9. Loving yourself
10. Standing up for yourself
11. Brushing your hair
12. Seeing things through
13. Being there for someone
14. Getting dressed
15. Not giving up
You are absolutely beautiful and it can be hard to see that in yourself but I promise it’s true
Eat the cake, there’s no use worrying about a bit of yummy dessert 🧁
Go treat yourself in any way possible
💆💇♀️🧖♀️
Don’t worry about what other people think why let them control your life when you could be out there expressing yourself
It’s never to late.
Here I bought you some flowers 💐
I made you fresh baked cookies 🍪
HAPPY BDAY 🥳I threw you a party 🎉 🎂🎈🎁🪩🪅
You can go home early today if you want 😊
Here 💵 I know it’s been hard lately hopefully this will help
Will you be my friend?👯♀️
Wow you look really good today!
Will you be my valentine? 💝🌹
Even in your darkest times there is someone who can help even if it seems like all hope is lost there is always a way out, when it’s dark find someone to be your light, when it’s cold reach out to find your blanket, never give up no matter how hard things may be, and always remember everything always gets better with time. There is a plan for everyone and even if things don’t work out how you imagined it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing never stop believing and always stay kind you never may know how much simply smiling at someone or saying hi can impact there live always reach out and always be kind because you can never really know what someone is going through now go in joy your day or get a good nights sleep.
-An internet stranger simply trying to make your day at just a little bit better
Thanks, I needed this. My dad and brother died a few days ago in a car crash and it has been an incredibly hard time for me. Thanks
this is the most comforting comment i have seen tdy,tysm
Sorry to hear that, im wishing you all the best in life :)@@CrzyCrsn
Thank you so much, I really needed to hear these things 😭
help i started crying reading this for some reason ty for this amazing comment
Idk if I'm depressed but I worry a lot, and it's really hard for me to social when my mind is full of anxiety
I can relate to this. There are days where I have to do homework, but I didn’t feel like doing them because it kinda stress me out. And I feel drained when doing so.
This is so relatable. Partly also contributes to me procrastinating all my work just because I don't feel like doing things I am supposed to be doing
Well i had to study a lot this year, but didn't because i couldn't concentrate at all 😭
Ur probably just overstimulated to dopimine most of these people are
I used to get amazing grades in primary school, I had an innocent look on life but after middle school and highschool it feels like all of that energy and happiness that I used to have faded away.
Schools tend to do that, they are made mainly to produce factory workers rather than people capable of thinking for themselves. Not to mention that hanging out with classmates who don't value what you used to value can also put a dent in someone's innocence. Think about what you want from your life and then work towards that, one day at a time. Perhaps you can regain what you once valued that way.
I went to a college that ruined my life. I never fully recovered. I'm better now but for years it was the core of my problems. Still is.
Sometimes I just want to sit In my bed and never come out nor go outside.
welcome to adult world bro, welcome to the club😂
@@nikolasantoro I know it's really difficult 🙂
Sometimes i feel like im not loved , and my family tells me they love me a million times, they make it worse
I have same feeling man every day
Same
This is me right now, ever since my parents divorced, and I’ve lost all my friends and now I have no one, I just hate myself and feel the need to just jump off a bridge, I hate how I look and what I don’t have, I hate when people say “ you should be more like ****** or ****** “…. ❤️ you are my favourite RUclipsr and you’ve helped me a lot thank you ❤️
I have Severe, anxiety depression ❤️
It makes me sick, the fact that it's been a problem for years to me. And I already know that it's depression. I'm sick of people online telling what the signs are, I'm sick of myself searching and trying to validate it because everyone around me doesn't seem to have a problem like me. Like it's just me who is always oversensitive since I was a child. It's the same old problem again that always weighs me down and took away my opportunity to grow and my passion. I don't think there's any passion to begin with. Like heck, I always ended up in failure. And what is more shitty is that I have to act like I'm fine and I'm doing good in front of people who are supposed to be dear to me, parents, best friends, family. No, shit. I'm not a bright person, I'm not someone who likes to joke, and I'm not an empathetic person. All of those traits evaporate in an instant if I'm left by myself. I'm just a shell of human beings, full of hate, envy, and regret. I have no personality fr.
Not really, i saw myself in your text, stop talking like you're soul less, the world became an expensive dump so it's pretty normal some of us youngies feel depressed
It sucks when my mom say get your lazy a** up but really it’s not laziness 😔
More Like Chupapi munanooooooooooo
@@shoutaitoit’s 1:50 am rn wtf
If you are depressed, than you need to tell your mom.
@@ibirbonyou im so sorry that was my lil brother he wanted to play on my phone😅
@@themacocko6311she’ll say it’s nothing and that it’s just excuses not to clean 😂
aint no way she just desribed my whole life in less than 60 seconds💀
POV: it was 61 seconds
@@Hacks536 💀
My life too
Ain't alone
A link is in the commments that they made for the full video. It is not 60 seconds so watch the longer video, well if you want to, so then you can learn!
What is it when I feel like I’m just not needed. Sometimes there will be a big family group hug and everyone is hanging out or my friends will be playing and I just feel like I’m not needed and I can just step of to the side and let them enjoy it…?
I feel this way too. My parents wanted me to be special when I was younger, so they payed for chess classes. I really like it and became national champion of my age. But now I feel like if I'm not good in chess I serve no purpose, and that I have to be good at it because otherwise my parents pay for my classes and tournaments for nothing. People at school also gave me special permission to not study on Wednesdays so I can focus on chess. Now it feels like I have to do it, because otherwise I lose all my special benefits and become less important than average people because I wasted 4 yrs of my life playing chess 3hrs a day. I feel like I'm drowning in expectations of others and don't enjoy chess as much as before. It feels like the only reason I leave my bed is so I can please others. I don't know if it's normal to feel this way or if I have a condition like a depression.
If you think that you are non needed, then accept it and become better
If you don't feel energized by hanging out with people and don't feel a need to participate in stuff just because, then you could very likely be an introvert, someone who can charge up by simply being by themselves. Alternatively, you could be aware of the reality of things, because truth be told, we people are often not actually "needed" in most situations, many extroverts simply do stuff together because of the sake of it and you, you simply don't feel a need to do that.
Exactly, same here.
@@CiciChessYour situation almost the same as mine. I always have been the top 2 of my batch, but when I failed to meet my parent's expectation, my mom tell everyone on the Earth how dissapointed she is. I only have a week to "study" for the exam because of a surgery. Now, I am the 6th highest in my class. Anyway, do you have time for a chess game?
Most people think that depression is just a phase and sadness but as a person who almost killed it self I can say that it's not.
One of the things that hurts most is because you have to say "I'm good" to everyone to not hear again and again that depression is "just sadness". Anyone has its own fellings, just respect it, don't try to say like you felt it or you know how would feel
Bro, I understand you.Ik this is kinda personal..but..I tried to kill myself..3 times..=]
@@Ayans-KamilasChannel oh, I just tried 1 time, but now I'm a little better, hope you get better bro
@@zaiko539 Thx,bro.Ik this is kinda personal question but why you tried to end yourself?..And I could die bc of 3 "accidents "..
@@Ayans-KamilasChannel uhh there's a bunch of reasons, like: bad relationship with my parents, no friends, break up, everything I tried to do didn't work, and these are just a few of them.
@@Ayans-KamilasChannel I still I'll, but a little better, I got some friends that I could talk to, and started to go out (I'm never outside of my home =])
I’m both adhd and depressed. Like, the laziness is nothing new… but neither is the depression XD the only sign that I’m really depressed is emotional detachment and pushing friends away, cause the laziness is just there regardless.
18 year old here, sometimes when I tell my parents what I go through they just think I act like the generation of now, all they do is argue at me, talk to me an hour about the way of life and compare me with others. They think that pushing me too hard will make me successful in life and be like Elon Musk but the reality is it just makes me pressured too hard to a point I just can't take it. My family follows a culture of hard work and I understand that but when it's too much it is too much.
I agree with you my parents are same
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Try meditation u have bad mood regulating skills this shouldn't be effecting u that negatively also no offense develop some gratefulness discipline is a wonder full thing wish I had it when I was younger 😢 please follow my advice it likely will change ur life
All depression goes away when you have someone to share who doesn't judge you and listen to you as per me it really helps and depression goes away but the main thing is not all has that special one❤😢
it definitely helps a lot to feel heard and being able to trust someone enough to share your most private feelings. unfortunately there's no way to really know if that person will be safe until exposing ur vulnerabilities and it does wayyy more damage for me at least when I find out they suck and I just got put on blast and had my most private insecurities shared with 10 strangers
going through that now :( I don't know how I'm gonna learn trust anyone ever again to share my whole self. also when ur very broken and depressed it's hard to find others to want to be around you besides sexually they will put up w you just enough to get what they want then ignore you until the next time they need you
This can help alot but Unfortunately, depression (at least for me) doesn't.. just go away like that, ˘̩︵˘̩
Sometimes the line between laziness and depression is a very fine line. there used to be a time when I would be so depressed that even getting up from the bed is a struggle. Even now I still wonder if I'm not just being mentally weak.
It could potentially also be a result of lack of exercise or lack of nutrients, nowadays people even suffer from touch starvation. If you're an extrovert, then being alone is the last thing you should ever be.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Try meditation if u do it commited everyday promise ur life will change also u prob have a lack of purpose most people aren't happy just exsisting and it will boost ur will power tremendously having a purpose too get outta bed hope u follow my advice
I used to watch these to help others..... now I realise I always needed someone to help me... and I'm too tired of acting like the safety net for myself....
yes, i can relate! I've lost my passion for hockey, a hobby ive had since i was 4. I am about 11 now. nothing terrible has happened except our family dog dying, and i dont feel like i have a reason to be depressed. One day it just washed over me. I hope that one day we can all learn to love ourselves more than we love others. best wishes to everyone reading this! good luck in your journeys
I wake up every morning, but the weight of sadness follows me like a shadow. It’s hard to explain why everything feels heavy, like I’m carrying a backpack filled with rocks that no one else can see. The colors around me seem muted, and even the sun struggles to brighten my world.
School used to be a place of laughter and friends, but now it’s a battlefield of fake smiles and forced conversations. It’s like I’m trapped in a bubble, watching everyone else live their lives while I’m stuck in this endless loop of numbness. The words of teachers and classmates blend together into a meaningless buzz, and I find myself daydreaming about a world where happiness isn’t a distant memory.
Sometimes, I sit in my room and stare at the ceiling, wondering when this darkness settled in. It’s like a storm that won’t pass, and I’m just a small boat tossed around in its relentless waves. My parents try to understand, but the gap between us feels like an abyss, and I can’t find the words to bridge it.
Nights are the loneliest. The silence amplifies the thoughts in my head, each one a heavy anchor dragging me deeper into the abyss. Sleep is elusive, and when it finally comes, nightmares dance around me, making rest more exhausting than wakefulness. I wish I could escape from this maze of emotions, but it’s like being lost in a forest with no way out.
I hold on to the hope that one day, the clouds will part, and I’ll feel the warmth of the sun on my face again. Until then, I navigate through the darkness, clinging to the belief that somewhere, somehow, there’s a path back to the light.
Your voice calms me
This sounds like me everyday but I let myself suffer in silence….😔
I never had a "used to be". That is I cannot remember a time when I didn't feel depressed, I had these god awful feelings as a child. Finally learned the difference 30 years later. Got help and things just kept getting better. Learning that life doesn't have to be as hard as it was was the hardest and best part.
You have the best explaining about it
My moms boyfriend forces me to be happy to have a good image on the "family" if im caught acting sad i am banned from fishing (which calms me down) for a while. Ive told him and all he says is its just a feeling get over it.
My dad is the only one who understands and is always right there to help me... even in the middle of something i have seen this man drop anything and rush to my aid. I love him so much
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
My whole family tells me I’m lazy and should stop. The problem is it’s not laziness, it’s depression. I can’t stop.
True
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
@@AydenkayeIm sorry but I cannot read this comment
I've noticed this about myself for a while but i found a passion that won't die out even if i try to and it helps me get through it
This is so me these days. I just make content to see others feel happy for me to be happy knowing that I made others happy.
I relate to this soo much i used to spend most of my free days drawing and doing crafts read things i love but nowadays its hard and in this household depression is not a thing🚶🏾♀️
By the sound of it, you could need a vacation of a full month or more, because you sound exhausted, burned out. Take some time and figure yourself out.
I have nobody to talk to about my problems, I hate my family. They’re all weird, rude, and unsociable. I can’t talk to them about anything. I love a girl and recently they ruined my chances at having an amazing relationship with her. I asked her out to a dance as a date, they told her I asked her as a friend. Now she doesn’t see me the same, no matter how much I’ve voiced myself on the topic.
Your the reason
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Also u may have victim narccasimn
@@Aydenkayewtf is wrong with you
@@marialourainebanosia26 get help dude I'm there for u don't take out ur problems on strangers on the internet ❤️
YOUR LIFE IS EVERYTHING! YOU SERVE EVERY PURPOSE! YOU SHOULD LOVE YOURSELF RIGHT NOW!
I wish I could brother
@@rubenlamprecht287 damn.
Virtual hugs for everyone here. Stay strong, I'm proud of you
STAY HARD brother! Continue grinding for your goals🔥
And the worst part, is that you know deep down that something is wrong, but you know that no one will hear you or take you seriously, and then you start doubting whether you're truly depressed or overreacting, and you're afraid of going to take a depression test and waste other's time over nothing if you end up actually not being depressed and mistaking your current state with depression and then getting judged or called a drama queen...life is so frustrating..I hate it..
So real.
Feeling like I'm drowning 😞
I feel you
I am concerned for you.
@@MichaelSHartman guys guys, what happened to yall, the hell are you going through?
Seek therapy
i have a good life but all i got are friends and fam. never had a girl once my whole life and it's hitting, so i get what you're feeling rn
I thought it was laziness for years or boredom, but looking back, i now realize that you don't usually hurt yourself out of boredom but that is also only because it has become worse and i have suicidal thoughts literally every single day and i am so numbed, that i can't even cry even though i regularly get close to it even if i try to let it all out.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
I believe u have bad mood regulating skills u can fight this with meditation
Yeah I know I think I feel like that, but why? I don't know.... How I can skip it? I don't know..........
@@Aydenkaye maybe you were Right but honestly I don't really care anymore because it just went away on it's own last fall and I didn't have any real problems with it since
@@i6418 yeah I didn't know either and i still don't but luckily it just went away at the end of last year
I feel sad on the inside but feel pressured to hide it with a joyful smile and help my friends because there sad they can’t even compare to how I’m feeling 😢
I remember been this way, I'm recovering though coz i fall into it sometimes but thank God I always find a way out and your vids also helps me❤
I was depressed while watching this short. I just realized one of my best friends betrayed me online and stopped caring about me. I am now feeling nothing but sadness on the inside, there is nobody that can help me, every person i talk to, either online or irl, they just answer me with "deal with it", "i don't care", "L+didn't ask+ratio", "KYS 😂"or." ok EMO" Nobody loves me, not even people on youtube, its just lies everywhere, i can't trust anyone because of this. I am litterally about to cry and start to feel hopeless about life. Im a bloody failure that will never get a girlfriend. That's why im planning ending myself in the future, my depression has fully taken over me, and theres no turning back. The world is better without me anyways
Aye homie, you may feel like that but I damn well guarantee at least one person cares about you. I doubt you're ever going to see this but if you got pets, they'd miss you. I hope you're feeling better man.
Trust Allah, let everything be handled by Him. Just rely on Him with the feeling of sureness
@@raziyenecefova1777 i am afraid to tell you that i am Christian
Symptoms not mentioned may be
physical pain, aches, or sore muscles indicating a severe depression. There is also a chronic low grade depression.
Get help. It's hard for guys, especially with wife. Biological Depression, bipolar disorder, or from serious abuse can be dangerous.
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
This is might be gut health as gut health affects lit everything causing even inflammation in the muscles maybe but idk never heard of sore muscles for depression others is prob mood fight or flight
? Really
I suffer from this and I went for an examination in the hospital and everything is fine, but I still do not know the reason for all this pain and mood.....
I go through depression myself, but I have a motto that keeps me going, and I’m going to share it with everyone who reads it, but I would like credit
happiness doesn’t come as a result of something we don’t have, but rather from recognizing and appreciating what we do have so don’t mess up some thing good looking for something better when you can end up with something totally worse
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
Great quote btw
The reason I still keep my toys in my room from when I was under 6 was just because I miss being so happy and joyful playing with those toys.
I just remember how happy and energetic I used to be.
I mean to other people I have infinite energy and I do whatever other people want me to.
Just because I want to make someone else feel happy.
I searched something up on RUclips a few minutes ago (I don’t want to tell you what it is) and it said I’m not alone and I can call someone if I needed to. I feel kind of better ig but I still am gonna pretend I’m happy.
I used to watch these vids a ton when I was having mental issues and these sur helped me😊
I remember losing interest and just locking myself in my room at a certain point in my life and all i got told was "your lazy"
Theirs no possible way 5% of the population has a problem with their homostious that's like 5% of the population missing their brain it's one of the highest priority things in ur body it is much much more likely u just have something wrong with ur life like maybe inflammation most likely no purpose as we live in an unnatural environment where we can get almost anything we want without any sufuring so people aren't used to having to even work for things or u could have underdeveloped mood regulating skills which can easily be trained and before u say I wouldn't understand why do u think I know this much about depression
@@Aydenkaye i have bipolar disorder and im on meds for it, and u do understand, but u dont understand it from my perspective, depression is different for everyone, Could just be me but it sounds like u just said that i dont have a purpose and i dont work for thongs or am i not understanding?
@@n0tchqn_. no u aren't understanding I'm just trying to help and saw a book on a therapist in the holocaust sounds depressing right he found tho that people with an intense sense of purpose were still strong and I was just listing different reasons u may have depression and i did nail it on the coffin people with bipolar disorder have a hard time regulating their emotions causing them to be super happy one minute and super sad next minute or angry sad whatever bipolar u have and meditation will cure that my friend by training the brain to just observe the thoughts instead of taking them as u because thoughs don't define u it's ur choice to except them and Quiting the mind they did research and found a direct link to how a quiter mind is linked to a happier person just look at animals I just want people to see that they can be helped and it's not helpless cuz that could also be contributing to ur depression
@@Aydenkaye what was the book called? Ill see if i can find it on amazon bc it sounds pretty interesting, and yeah ive been trying meditation but its hard to bc im in the city and theyres noise 24/7, and i just dont like wearing headphones bc they hurt my ears so its hard to find a time where its quiet and peaceful
@@n0tchqn_. that's actually better idk if u know who Andrew Huber man is he's a neurologist and I trust his word and he says that u don't change when u can do something perfect so the harder it is the more dirastic ur brain will adapt and he said u need to enjoy losing because that's the only time u improve and the book is called man's search for meaning by Viktor e frankl def worth reading
"additive personality hooked on depression, tell them they are allergic to themselves and that they should be grateful"
what if the person is never cheerful, always feels down, there's no difference between the present and any past they can ever remember?they are always isolating themselves and have no one to talk to. But when they have someone, they have nothing to talk about. desire for connection and intimacy but sometimes when people interact with them, they feel angry without any reason. so they always feel frustrated.
Have they witnessed abuse, especially by parents?
Anger issues, trust issues, inability to form relationships, asocial, depression, severely low self esteem, lack of confidence, feelings of inadequacy, isolationist, easily bullied, constantly wanting approval, conflict avoidance, passive aggressive behavior?
If they have physical pain, aches, or sore muscles, they could be in a severe depression. There is also a chronic low grade depression.
@@MichaelSHartman Dude please help I have most of the things I was brought in very strict surrounding ,I am still being nagged I am 18 and 47 kg at 176 cm,money was always a Problem , this year I have joined college please please help , people here can't understand these 😢.
I am just stuck..
I have most of these things and about a semester has passed and I am in second sem now ,I really am tired of this hopelessness..
Depression for me, is the feeling of having a physical body but you're grieving the loss of your soul
Too be honest I used to have depression and suicidal thoughts but I’ve gone past that I’m better now but people really need To talk about this stuff too other people!
To whoever reads this,
i love you
i love your smile
i love your laugh
i love your personality
i love your hair (or lack thereof)
i love you even if you have insecurities
i love your accomplishments
i love you even if you have failures
i love your eyes
i love your beauty
i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
i love the way you dance
i love you on your happy days
i love you even on sad days
i love you on the days you feel lonely
i love you on the days you feel helpless
i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
i love you on the days you feel forgotten
i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
i love you on the days you feel loved
i love you on the days you feel sick
i love you on the days you feel motivated
i love you on the days you feel depressed
i love you on the days you feel stresses
i love you on the days you feel crazy
i love you on the days you feel hopeful
i love you on the days you feel cuddly
i love you on the days you feel clingy
i love you on the days you feel amazing
i love you on the days you feel beautiful
i love you on the days you feel like a failure
i love you on the days you feel angry
i love you on the days you feel aggressive
i love you on the days you feel horrible
i love you on the days you feel safe
i love you on the days you feel unsafe
i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
i love you on the days you feel weird
i love you on the days you feel ok
i love you when you're healthy
i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
i love your taste in music
i love your taste in movies
i love your taste in tv shows
i love the way you act
i love you even if you cry
i love you when you're kind
i love you even if you you're mean
i love you even if you're alone
i love you even if you can't feel
i love you even if you feel too much
i love you even if you can't take life anymore
i love you even if you feel like it's too much
i love you when you're asleep
i love you even if you have nightmares
i love you when you have dreams
i love how you believe
i love you when you believe in yourself
i love you even if you don't believe in yourself
i love you even if you hate yourself
i love you when you love yourself
i love the way you think
i love you even if you have problems
i love your solutions
i love how you support
i love you even if you're in pain
i love you even if you're hurt
i love your promises
i love your secrets
i love your attitude
i love you sass
i love your creativity
i love your voice (or lack thereof)
i love you hand gestures
i love your stories
i love you even if you have wounds
i love you even if you have scars
i love your face
i love your past
i love your future
i love your present
i love your outfits
i love your style
i love your art
i love your honesty
i love you even if you lie
i love you even if you're tired
i love you when you're energetic
i love how you look
i love how you cook
i love you when you're adventurous
i love you even if you're scared
i love your imperfections
i love your perfections
i love you even if you worry
i love you when you talk (or communicate)
i love your opinions
i love you even if you have headache
i love you even if you have a stomach ache
i love you when you help others
i love you when you're mature
i love you even if you're immature
i love you in the hard times
i love you in the easy times
i love you even if life isn't bright
i love you when you're responsible
i love you even if you're irresponsible
i love you even if you fight
i love you in your darkest moments
i love you in your brightest moments
i love your heart
i love you in the day
i love you in the night
i love you at midnight
i love you at 3 am
i love you at all times
i love you at your best
i love even if your worst
i love the little things you do
i love all of you
i love you when you're you
i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
and even if this is not mine.. spread it around the internet, everyone needs of love
You love too much. Disown that habbit before it harms you.
@@saudade_9. Damnn😂
Thanks❤
your user name I can only think of batata vada 🤣🤣🤣 ( A dish in India )
I play the viola, and it was my favorite thing to do. I play for my school orchestra and I loved it so much. I haven't picked it up in weeks at my home to practice because I have no motivation, and I don't find it pleasurable. I'm sad for most of the day
Thank you for explaining my whole life .....
I have a badly depression that no one can stop me from crying....im hate to eat but i also feel so hungry behind it .......
Thank you❤
Thank You, For The Information
Me And My Friend Got Into A Fight
He Was Not The Only One Lots Of Them Did
Back To Me So
I Know I Have Depression I Should Seek
Help.
Your voice just calms me down so much ty for the calming and soothing video
This video help me fine put I am depressed because I used happy and always going out places now I don't want to go anywhere I just want to be alone. Thank you for helping me find out I will get help.
You’re more resilient than you know. Every day you choose to keep going, you’re winning a silent battle
No. I have the symptoms but refuse to be depressed. Although, I see myself asking “why feel happiness? why do I want to feel happy?”
Thank you.
Your voice is so calming
Thanks for telling me like I don’t know about that already
I’m 13 going on 14 right now and Ever since I turned around 11 I haven’t felt happy, I haven’t felt like what I was doing had meaning and I started to wonder if I even matter in life. I’m still going through those struggles.
Just know that you are amazing and you can do anything. I hope you don’t end up like I am now and never give up or think about giving up.
Good day to all…
Every time I want to communicate with parents, it just turns into a lecture.
Thanks, I have a channel and I’ve stopped posting because, I don’t know why I’ve stopped and have not been motivated.Thank you for the video.
That's actually me i look happy outside but inside is just sad
I have always denied that I had was depression but watching this I’m actually starting to realize that I could and I’m scared to admit that I most likely am dealing with depression
It’s wild how when I was 7 all the way to right know I’ve been depressed and now it’s just terrifying to think of
This describes pretty well what I was 2 years ago. I've always been a very cheerful and energetic guy, but when I had my first year of University, Covid prevented me from going to Uni, my grandma died, I was stressed about losing contact with a lot of my old friends and all that led me to being unable to making any new friends. I don't know if it was outright depression or if I was just close to it but I lost all my energy I stayed at home all the time and didn't go at Uni when I was finally allowed to, I didn't want to do anything, even things I used to love, and I had this constant feeling of sadness and lonelyness that felt extreamly heavy on my shoulders... I tryed to keep it all in and played it off as everything being fine when at home but all my family noticed something was wrong. When I broke down in front of my mom and told her everything, it was too much for her and she gave me a psycologist's phone number. I know it was the right decision cause ultimatly that's one of the biggest reasons that I was able to move out of it, but at the time it felt like a slap in the face to open up to my mom and be answered with a phone number. I felt like she was telling me that she didn't care and that I should talk about it with someone else.
That year was easily the worste year of my life, but thankfully I was able to get a lot better in a relitavly short amount of time. First, I met some new people that I started hanging out with. Then, I started going to the gym with some friends which forced me to go outside and interact with friends every day. Then came the therapist wich fianlly helped me move on from my grandma's death and finally, the biggest thing I did which most helped me move on was join a student association where I met a lot of new people, made new friends, and constantly went out. It only took me 2 and a half years to fully get better, but these 2 and a half years ruined my university experiance so far... so now I'll do everything to cach up on lost time with this final year.
If this story sounded familiar to anyone, hang in there and don't give up. It may seem extreamly hard, or even impossible, I know it did to me... all you can do is percevere and try to force yourself out of your confort zone little by little. And seriously, going to a psycologist is the biggest helper. Don't say that you didn't like it or that it doesn't work, because it takes time to have an effect. If it really doesn't work, change psycologists, maybe he's just not good for you, but whatever you do, don't stop seeing one, because he/she'll be the key to your getting better.
Omg i just i used to watch there’s videos to see if my crush likes me in third grade and I haven’t watched one since I miss this channel so much. I’m so happy to stumble against me.
*Had (key word being HAD) a friend who told me I could tell them anything and said they didn't mind helping me. Well I was always kind to them and thought I could feel comfortable getting advice from them. I didn't always go to them since I do have a therapist. So I did treat my friend well, and I'd care about them too and their life. One day I felt pretty down, and they wanted to know whats up. When I told him, all he could say was "Cut that sh-- out!!" and called it "tough love". He made me feel tons worse. I deal with Major Depressive Disorder, so swearing at someone with depression isn't going to help, and it's certainly NOT "tough love". I always make sure to talk to my therapist about things I go through. So I never hurt my friend. I asked my therapist about it, and she believes he struggles socially and didn't help me in the right way. I haven't spoken to that friend since that day. I didn't like his harsh tone since it caused me to burst into tears. I realized I have much better friends who wouldn't ever put me down like that. They're more understanding and caring. I don't consider that one guy a friend anymore. I'm glad I have great friends, and a good therapist to go to.*
*A good friend won't make you cry and won't be harsh to you when you're feeling down.*
I've neglected my thesis for 1 and half year after traumatic events that happened continuously in the beginning of 2023.
My parents keep telling me to finish it off, but I couldn't bring myself to even look at the computer. I cried now and then, but brushed off everything and played with my phone all day. People called me lazy all the time.
I was a bright person. Posted everything that I saw or felt everyday without caring about anyone's opinion. Now I barely post anything. I shut myself down because I'm afraid of people. I have nowhere to go to share my feelings. People around me don't understand how to deal with depression. I gave up on therapy because my former therapist kept judging me which prevented me from telling everything to her. I was scared everytime I got triggered and felt down when it's the time for counseling. I just want someone safe who can understand me and tell me it's gonna be okay everytime I break down.
12 years feeling like this and still going. I honestly just want to be someone else
I am depressed because of trauma and neglect I've been on medication for 3 years and it makes it not as bad but I'm still heavily depressed in myself but I present very joyous because that ips who I am I keep pushing through ❤
I’m sorry to hear, I get how difficult it can be. Sending you hugs and kindness, and prayers for you and everyone who is going through depression. Remember to seek help whenever it is, and know that you are loved and worthy. If you need to talk you can reach out to me. You matter. God bless you and know that God is there for you 💛
This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.
1 John 4:9-10
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds
Psalm 147:3
Youre helping me to get better at who i am
Honestly, I've been on this boat, for years, I try to no observe myself as much, because when I look at myself now, I just get overwhelmed by thousands of memories from how I used to be, and it just gives me the feeling that I'm just an empty shell from which the old me has decided to leave, a long time ago. They're somewhere out there, living their best life for sure, meanwhile the shell is just there at the same spot ever since.
Tysm U helped me a lot, I was crying in my room, opened Yt shorts and... This. And I was like OMG thats me, Ur reading my mind and somehow this make me realize that... Im not ✨alone✨
Hey, Listen. I know life is tough right now, but I promise it will get better. I don’t know who you are, or what exactly you are going through, but I love you. You matter. You are amazing. You are beautiful. You are perfect.
people always say 'youre too young to be depressed"
they just dont know.....
I had depression, I used the "it is what it is" tactic, it worked.
Depression is really awful. I try to make every day a good day and be super productive, and then I cry, breathing gets hard, and get yelles at for being "lazy". That is how pretty much every day goes.
That confirms, I am lazy. I was trying multiple things as a child desperate to find myself, but none of them stuck so now I do nothing but be sad and procrastinate.
As someone with depression and is in a highschool relationship, I can confirm it’s very stressful. I try to stay ontop of my tasks, daily chores, and self love routine.
I’ve felt this for like a year or two I’m not sad but sometimes I think of depressing thoughts
The fact that (most probably) kids wish they're parents to see this, instead of adults watching is sad
I’ve felt this way since 2nd grade..
I used to love basketball but now I don’t even like sports, or just anything I used to love,but my mom says I’m just growing up and going into a “emo phase” but I don’t even like goth or act emo she just thinks that because I’m always “sad”, but she thinks I can’t be depressed bc I’m young and kids shouldn’t be depressed…
I’ve felt this way bc I’m scared of what people think of me, just feeling tired of life and having suicidal thoughts everyday.
Thanks for giving me a bit more of an understanding that i am a lazy piece of crap.
what
It's 10:00 right now and I'm sobbing watching this. I've missed so much school, I'm always tired, I have 4 F's and I just want to run away or smth. I'm done.
To anyone reading this who has ever felt disheartened and confused, hurt or lost...you are not alone. You are surrounded by countless multitudes of people everywhere who are just like you. Just like us. But you don't have to stay confused or lost or in pain. We might forget this sometimes - or may not know it at all. But there is nothing in your life, no matter how difficult or painful, that cannot be turned into something very beautiful. So please, have lots of hope
here is my feelings on you
They didn't notice you were crying
They didn't notice you were sad
They didn’t notice you were tired
They didn’t notice you were alone
They didn’t notice how attentive you were
They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are...
They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile
They did notice you failing grades
They did notice your unattractive
They did notice the mean side of you
They did notice all your mistakes
They did notice all you flaws
They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them.
But you stayed strong
You kept going on
You never gave up on hope
You never let them take you down
And you know they wasn’t good enough for you
And that’s what make you stronger
You aren’t ugly
You aren’t mean
You aren’t lazy
You aren’t a failure
You aren’t a mistake
You are beautiful
You are worth it
You do deserve everything
You are trying
You are smart
You do deserve to live
I can relate RN I'm hella depressed and I kinda been crying abt it and lost motivation in doing anything
When you have everyone around you but not only that person whom you could share