Do You Have Emotional Wound? Here are 7 Signs
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- Опубликовано: 10 июн 2024
- Do you have an emotional wound? Emotional wounds can be caused by all sorts of trauma, such as heartbreak, toxic families, domestic emotional abuse, betrayal, and more. Traumatic events from your past can leave you wounded. Over time, they take the shape of an emotional wound itself. Like a physical wound, it’s always in your awareness, you’re protective and sensitive to anything that may reinjure it. And this same sensitivity often makes you even more vulnerable.
DISCLAIMER: This is your friendly reminder that this video is for informative purposes only. It is not intended to serve as a substitute for professional mental health advice. Please seek help from a qualified mental health professional if you are struggling.
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As kids- We loved heroes
As Adults- We understand villains
And we love villains.
I doubt you're older than 13
We relate to them for sure. Heroes just shadow the bad parts of life. While vilains. Show it. And heroes just erase it. Make the vilain's conditions worse.
Am I the only child who understood a villain
@@Army-km6kz 😂
1.) 0:50 You cry easily over small things
2.) 1:40 You lose interest in the things you used to enjoy
3.) 2:06 You get annoyed easily by people's behaviors
4.) 3:03 You feel worthless and hopeless
5.) 3:40 You keep replaying the bad memories in your head
6.) 4:36 You feel too much until you're numb
7.) 5:45 You feel clueless and stuck
Respect
This is literally me =D
Describes me perfectly.
8.) You want revenge
@@BlackestEyes709 YES!!
as a person who has an emotional wound, I never knew I even had an emotional wound. I started to cry as soon I realized how damaged I am, thank you for making this video even though its a year old. When someone asks me what's wrong too much I get angry ( 2:03 ) I'm not trying to be rude and whenever I tell them they get angry at me saying "jeez I was just asking" which makes me feel guilty. ( 3:39 ) Whenever I have those thoughts I get mentally weak like I don't want to do anything like I get numb just like ( 4:35 ) These signs are really strong and it makes me feel like I'm not the only one. Thank you for helping me realize things. ♥
@k4tzj0y4 Aww... Now I want to hug you so badly! 😢❤
I understand as well because I always have a tendency to ignore others when they say something or tell me to do something. I can relate to almost all the signs except for the last one. Most of the time I actually feel pretty useless to other people. I don't want to make people uncomfortable so I just leave them alone for awhile. I mostly stay up during night contemplating whether I should say something to my peers or my family, but I don't want to be mean to them or have them get the wrong idea. I also think that if I was to talk to others about a certain topic they might get mad at me and leave me alone forever. I also feel retarded and stupid whenever I raise my hand in class for everyone to hear so I just keep everything to myself and bottle up my feelings to hide from the rest or the world afraid that others will judge me. I also always contemplate whether or not my friends except me for who I am. So in conclusion, I hide myself from the world.
Same. Sending hugs to you
I think sadly everyone has at least 1 emotional wound
you're not alone, don't worry
The "You feel too much until you're numb" part actually made me realize something and the "you get annoyed easily" is more of just me running away without saying anything, i hope this helped. thank you psych2go
Do you like this animation style?
Hell yeah
Nice
Yes.
Yes I like it
I love all your animation styles because they’re light years better than mine
At this point doesn’t everyone have an emotional wound ?
Yes :(
Yes:"((
True
@Happying yes🥲
Yes:((((
I've basically been through all of this because of dark pasts. I had to move from many schools because of bullying and strict teachers, so I gave up on a lot of stuff that I enjoyed very much back then. It can be understandable if the memories coke back to mind. I hope everyone is doing great right now.😊❤
same!! i am afraid to open up and get close with anyone because i've always had to change schools growing up. thank you, and you too!! sending a virtual hug your way
Im still numb
@@alinaroxanadecu6514I pray you get well
Nah, I just prefer to not socialise. The quiet is relaxing for the mind.
Obviously I don’t have social anxiety or anything like that, and I’m willing to respond to requests or general statements from the public. (In college rn)
atleast you moved but i have to remain till finished high school enduring everything was a challenge for me , my mom still tells me that its a good school that i am good at certain things , that i am impatient , aggressive it would have been same everywhere
I think I'm in the INTP personality type and will admit here 7/7 on signs. A decade of childhood trauma from school/playground, being known as the easy target, haunt me even 20 years after the fact. I found that, at least for me, talking to trusted friends, family, therapists, none of that works. Keeping myself distracted with work and hobbies, build new connections that bring me strength, only help for a while before the memories take over. I've repeated this cycle maybe 5-6 times over the years. But lately - and this is a bit specific to me - I've been feeling different, in a good way, after talking to classmates from those days. Some because they were a part of the problem, some because they were a light in the dark, but all in all it made a difference knowing these were people who walked the halls and knew the names. Not by looking for apologies, or platitudes, but closure through actual reflection on THEIR version of that time of their life and why things happened the way they did.
Honestly after reading your comment, I feel the same way. I'm not diagnosed that I have anxiety but I feel I have all these signs. I want to tell my parents about this but they might think I'm being somewhat paranoid? They might think I'm too young? Idk if I should have this kind of conversation with them because for so long I never thought of it as anxiety but just being a crybaby and really emotional but all the signs are kinda pointing to it. I'm scared.
Why does this sound like me? ..
"You feel too much until you're numb"
I felt that one.
Yeah. Me too. :/
Meh stop feeling... 😅
We'll get through it ya'll ❤
Once I had an panic attack that was almost like a seizure and I felt something break inside. It took months before I was able to feel strong emotions again.
@@FRODOGOOFBALL aww i hope ur ok now
I've been stuck in this mental loop for so long, finally realizing and understanding that I have A LOT of emotional wounds. I found it ironic that this popped up just now when I was thinking of this. Thank you for this. I hate how apathy has become my daily for a multitude of years.. it's been more debilitating that I knew.
Hmm...
When you realize you fit 6/7
D:
I’m so sorry to hear this 🥺 I hope this is a start to your healing process
Apathy is death.
Same…I don’t give a shit about life anymore, it’s just…boring
this hit. no matter what experience you are going through, always keep in mind that soon it will be something that happened in the past that will not need to be revisited anymore. it gets better, keep your head up! 💞
Thank u
Much needed
This feels like therapy. Honestly
You know what is the worst feeling in this world ?
*The feeling of being dead from inside, feeling numb, laying on the bed looking somewhere and waiting for death*
Actually for me this feeling is my best friend right now...
That's a daily activity bro. The only emotions I can sense is anger and sadness. Most of my time at school, I wait. Like from 12h to 14h I don't do anything i don't react to anything people look at me and ask me if everything is okay and I say yes just so they go away because talking about it is not easy. Talking about it is the only thing that makes me cry. A year ago, there was someone in my school that bullyed me for the whole year I think that's why I don't react to anything anymore. I had deppresion for a long time. After he was gone, I started to not feel anything. Now I realize, but going at school is (for me) useless because I don't learn anything I already knew everything that we learned. But I kept going... And now I stay in bed in weekends. Thank you to have read this comment I hope you are not like me. Seriously, you do not want to be like me. Anyways I am going to continue my life even tho it is not interesting anymore. At least I have friends. And I can trust in you all.
Hope you're doing well!
WHO LIKED MY COMMENT? Sorry what? I don't know how to react. How to feel? What's that? Is that love? Thank you.
@@migueldossantos9987 same here but the only difference is I didn't get bullied just simply isolated and talked behind after getting used... even the best treatment was that I was treated as a classmate who is good in studies. no real friends i just coped up through and just trying to go on even though i have earned some friends but they barely understand me. It's enough that they talk to me share their problems and I'm their listener in a way
@@Harharmahadev-nb3uq Okay. Do you still feel emotions ? I think what broke my emotions is THE BULLY.
Also, Nunber 5-6 is my literral definition. I keep thinking about that bully and what he did. I am in my 2nd year of school after primary and he went to another school this year. I keep on thinking of THE BIG FIGHT that happned june 26 i think. My whole neck was red and it hurted so much. I just hope I don't feel that again. In front of every teatcher he lied. I was the one taking all. So unfair. Il also have 136 IQ and I really felt how unfair his advantage was. Good Luck with your life!
"it was fun while it lasted" is basically my motto of life lol.
"It was fun while it lasted" would be a funny tombstone inscription.
It is what it is...
The way My parents treated Me growing up, made Me not able to cry even when I am sad & most of these sound like Me.
I started crying on #1 and I'm 54yrs old and still play back wut memories I can remember from my dad hating me and calling me dummy, stupid, and u talk with marbles in ur mouth and also the kids in grade school bullying and waiting for me to leave school so they could chase me until I found a house with blue star to knock on and bring terrified to go to school everyday as a young child and I did absolutely nothing to deserve it!! I don't put up with anyone's shit now but I avoid people at all costs and I'm alone in this world!! I've been looking for a counselor and I'm determined to face my childhood trauma and forgive the people who destroyed my spirit and let it go and overcome so I can fulfill my purpose cause I'm tired of feeling stuck and I'm trying so hard to exit this dark nite of the soul and have my spiritual awakening!! I will conquer this bokeness God willing!!❤😢😢❤😮
33 years later, emotional wounds from my childhood never go away. Just reading the topic alone brings me to tears.
So very sorry
I'm really sorry I'm really sorry I'm really sorry I'm really sorry I'm really sorry
me to 🖤
i am a 21 year old....... i too had a shitty childhood. but i is fucking up my relationships in the present... how can i deal with it...
As a kid I get emotional wounds a lot eveday
I’m crying listening to this realizing that I keep fighting the pain. I just want to move on and be happy. My husband left me and I am constantly replay and asking what went wrong. i relate to every single topic. I listen to this channel often and appreciate everything you do 💜
Hang in there Jenny you will beat this.
I'm so sorry , if he left you that means he clearly didn't deserve you. Just know thta better days are comjng and God loves you ❤️
Jesus Christ heals and forgives, come before him, invite him into your life, repent and beliebe in him.
I feel the same. Would never take my own life but I’m just waiting to die. It’s not over an ex-husband, but it’s another extremely traumatizing event. I used to be so strong and resilient. Why not now? Weird how I can never find my car keys but ask me any tiny detail of my emotional heartbreak of several years ago. I’m on it like Blue Bonnett. Im guilty of all mentioned but the worst is “over sharing.” I can stay in my house and no one knows if I’m crying and lethargic but…all you do is annoy people when you over share. Ughh. I won’t lie and tell you it’s always easy to recall, but there’s only two things that help me…1. We are all unique and perfectly made in God’s eyes. …and 2. It’s All part of God’s plan. I know you’ve wondered a hundred times what is wrong with you because he left, but see 1 and 2. There’s always a reason. Love and prayers for you.
@@emmbieemmbie2131 Hello Embie. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
You say you believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much Do not give up.
The only thing is... how do you fix it?
Step one. Find a therapist who can guide you through it.
I'm not going to say that you can't fix this yourself, but I imagine it would be extremely difficult.
I am not a psychologist and I do not play one on tv. However, I am a first responder who has dealt with past PTSD issues.
Having a guide to help you resolve those issues is very helpful.
I cried when you said keep replaying the memories I have is real ❤
I think we’ve all been hurt a bit mentally but when it’s severe I definitely see how these behaviors can develop. I truly feel like they’re spot on honestly. But being aware and deciding to heal is the first step to a better mental headspace. Wishing everyone the best 💛
What business are you running?
yk when you're so aware but you feel like maybe you're lying to yourself and everyone for attention except for a fraction of a while when you actually connect with yourself and you're aware for a fleeting moment but even then you can never really commit to healing or even ask for explicit and continuous help? yeah.
Let's heal :)
@@Psych2go I try to do that by venting through fiction. See "The Master of Perception" and "Catch a Falling Star" (homepage/about).
Thank you
This just made me realize how important it is to take really good care of your emotional well-being because in the end there is no one better other than yourself who can help you get through hard times. Also, this video allows us to be mindful of the people around us because we never know the reasons behind those what we often consider as "silly actions".
-To those who have suffered from an emotional wound, I hope you find happiness in life. For those who haven't, I do hope that you don't suffer from it, but if you do, I hope that you will be strong enough to overcome it and still be able to smile.
Thanks you really makes my day well
Lol
@@vecoolgaming I'm glad I made you happy, but I'll take your "Lol" as "Let's offer Love". Happy gaming to you.
Laughing out loud is love too, from you to me. Don't take love as an insult, social construct are confusing these days... 😂 there no shame in make people happy!
stay safe
This video just explained my whole life in just a few seconds.
School ruined my life
same, but not school in general. The people in my class ruined me emotionally! :)
@@jade_blazkowicz wait really well do you sleep a lot or what because there’s someone who sleep a lot and people hate him so much because of it
@@jade_blazkowicz also I started to love school I think I,m starting to getting insane
@@hibye4804 i'd say sometimes i sleep too much or I don't sleep at all, im overwhelmed i guess
@@jade_blazkowicz if you like trying to do something but it feel like it’s to hard and you are always tired that called burnout
I am 70 years old and am just now trying to did with bad things that happened to me all my life. within the last year I have been told I am bipolar and I suffer from PTSD. Right now I am stuck in April 17 2005 that is when my wife passed away. come close to taking myself out. but I see a little light. my therapist is helping and they are trying to get me on the right meds
💖
"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28, KJV).
@@davidlafleche1142 what do you want him to do with that? Your encouraging su!cide right there in this context buddy. Keep going man, for it is just not your time yet. Keep going. Best of luck to ya!
Thinking of you in Italy
Sending love to you!
I literally started crying just at the start of this video and all of the points resonates with me,and the emotional wound was given to me by my depression and anxiety and the reaction of my close ones to it aggravated it even more. Right now I'm completely clueless in my life,like where am i heading,what even makes me happy???these types of thoughts arises in my mind. Everyday is just now same,waking up,faking a smile on your face so that others don't get upset because of you even though you're the one going through it and then just sleep at night and again repeating this cycle. I know there are many out there suffering from this situation,and i really really hope that you all get healed really soon and find your lost self and happiness again.❤❤❤
But what if I don't know how to get healed or who to talk to? What if I don't want others to know that I need a therapist? What if I don't know how to take of the fake smile?
Same...
Same
i almost suffer through that to your not alone
Not alone bro...
okay but, SERIOUSLY your voice is so calming!
I love your videos.
Watching this and making my conscious face my problems directly got a lump in my throat and holding tears. I'm officially drained.
I have been like this for years, despite that, I made it to my dream college and faced the hardships that I still can't believe I did. But what worsened it is that I couldn't get better at dealing with pent up emotions and the fear of not being accepted (I always was the hated student in every class I was in and was popular for that), also nowadays the attitude one of the professors has with me, like she is trying her hardest to pinpoint that I didn't care enough to study the given lecture, saw the way she treats other students vs how she treats me, for one particular subject I DID study and scored high, but made me retake the test out of the blue (mind you, she just made only me retake it), agreed unwillingly uncomfortable but she just changed my former score to a one that's significantly lower, when trying to understand where I went wrong, please let me know my mistakes , promise to do better, she just told me "you have no right to discuss anything with me, take your leave and don't make things hard for me" with a roll of eyes in front of my colleagues. like MRS, this is my future and every grade is important in order for me to ensure my stay in my dreams field - in my country it's equal to NEET and MCAT - and I hung my head and silently left her room crying. To this day it hunts me the thought no matter what I do I will not be enough and even now I think about quitting everything bcs I can't find it in me to continue. I'm desperately trying to feel any kind of positive feelings but to no avail.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm a 10-year-old kid with depression. It's been hard for me, because my parents don't know. But I hope your family is there for you the rest of your life. ❤
@@hazelpopp2843 you're so sweet♡︎ but my heart now aches for you.. you're so young to let all of the depression's burden on your soulders! I didn't really take my problems with uncontrollable negative feelings seriously so when I was overwhelmed with them I would talk about it with family - mind also, they didn't take it seriously too since I get sensitive because of any harsh word thrown at my way - but it actually helped! Getting what's bothering you out of your system and talking about your depression lessens the pain. When I was younger I kinda held everything in and was so closed off but after growing up I became more vocal about my struggles. I wish I seeked help from parents earlier though, now I'm twenty years old and still trying to cope. Please, don't let the same thing happen to you. I'm sure your parents will try to understand💜 sorry for writing this long:(
You don't want some of the family I have
I can relate to most of these. Being emotionally wounded was the darkest time of my life so far. I’ve struggled with that, being depressed, social isolation, self-identity, and even dealt with suicidal thoughts. I only started to get out when I talked to my parents about it. I still felt numb and depressed but it was a lighter than before. I started making friends again and I became comfortable with who I am. I finally let go of all the hurt and sadness so I can live my life. I might not be completely healed but I am grateful for the people who helped me get out from the worst of it.
Thank you Psych2Go, you’re amazing.
You are very fortunate to have people who care enough about you to listen and believe what you are saying.
Trust me you are lucky to have such parents who understands you. My dad just told me to stop doing these dramas and focus on my studies
Oh wow. That is the least helpful advice your dad could say to you. I hope you have a friend or someone you can trust to listen to you and maybe help you with whatever you’re going through!
I am an introvert. Seek no social contact. Prefer to be alone. Have no friends and do not want any. Am usually sleepy.
is it alright if I relate to all of em?
This was me a couple months ago with basically every sign: I got angry quick, I cried at all the videos I watched, and I felt unloved and I wanted people to leave me be. Thank you for this. For me it’s a reflection of what I used to be and how much better I am. I hope everyone reading this and everyone here can someday feel real healing 🥀🌸💜💜💜☔️💧🎖🧸🧸🧸
Sending love to you!
@@Psych2go appreciate it 😊
Relatable...
Jesus Christ heals and forgives, come before him, invite him into your life, repent and beliebe in him.
I can understand that, only difference is I want people to not abandon me even if I tell them to leave me alone..
Besides 1 and 4, you described me. I don’t replay the same bad memory in my head though, it’s always either a daydream or dream following the same premises as all of those horrible memories, but in a different style. Thank you for this, I’m only 12 and I’ve been through way to much then I needed. I’ve been through a lot of horrific things, so when you said the stuff about apathy I thought you were stalking me.
1 and 5, not 4
Same, a few described me and I sorta think I know why.
Same
When you started the intro I felt the edge to cry
I never managed to realize that feeling numb was an actual thing and always told myself I was being dramatic. All your videos help me realize that I'm not being dramatic and they made me realize I needed to get help, which is good because no one around me cared to notice
These videos are pseudo science redditors spoon feed on
Hey can u tell me the name of bgm?
i understand what you are saying.
@@fardeater I understand how you guys feel too. Im probably ) depressed (not diagnosed, because no one cares and literally is like "you dont need help just get it over with" the same as my parents so they didnt got me to an psychologist or anything like that) and everyone said that im just being dramatic and I should act more like a man and not be a crybaby
So these videos help me a lot
I literally realized things about me, me myself didnt even know about
The apathy thing... I struggled with that for a while.
One thing that helped me turn it around was thinking "If I decide to give up, life will be like this until I die"
It helped me realize that it would be boring, depressing, and it would probably get worse. I was more scared of those possibilities than taking trying again. It didn't jump-start me with a lot of energy, but it was enough to start working on myself, slowly, but consistently.
Dont loose hope, I know you have a better future, well me suffer all of them & more also I suffer from my Punishment from my past self sin.
@@reevebryllielawas7834 hope is an illusion. hope can be build when he starts doing what he says but he can only do that if he is living somewhere where that can be done freely without disturbance. inner and outer physical dimensions have to have the right conditions to align.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
Sometimes it's not up to you... can't move on and imagining living your life like this is too painful and probably that's one of the reasons people kill themselves...
I deal with the same thing ,for me its more of self hate
This video is too close to how I feel, I almost cried and I never cry.
I cried while watching this video.
I've been hurt by so many people I've become numb to it, but this was the last straw.
Some people I'm close to tease me alot but not only a few months ago while talking to one of them, they said they didn't like me anymore because I'm ugly. Being sensitive when it comes to this kind of treatment with friends absolutely broke me. Later they 'apologized' by saying "Oh, Sorry, I didn't mean it" this was obviously a fake apology. I'm still pretty close with them I guess.. we've been friends for more than 4 years. I don't plan on getting out of this relationship anytime soon, so I... don't know..
I lost a friend to suicide a week ago. I'm broken, the school I go to has forgotten. The afternoon after it happened, I was sitting in the commons. A girl named Alice, one of my friends, walked up to me because she noticed I was having a tough time. Instead of just focusing on the bad of what happened, she showed me fun pictures of the friend I lost instead. It helped me so much to remember the fun things my friend would do instead of what he had done the previous night.
Everybody, please, find yourself an Alice who will help you through tough times. I dont know how, but she knows how to perfectly comfort somebody. Not with coldness, but with warmth and happiness.
I'm just in shock- My best friend's name is Alice! I just found this comment, and I've been friends with her for over a year!
I'm the "Alice" here. I also have a bestie who relates to me in every way! We've been friends for 6 years! And, we relate to each other's feelings.
that's really a warm person, go glad you had them by your side during those tough days.
“You feel too much to where you’re numb” that one hit hard. I have depressive episodes every now and then and I feel so much emotion and pain, then I just go blank. Like i feel nothing at all, numb. This really gave me reassurance to know I’m not alone.
Heh more or less the same for me s
It mostly happens to me when I have nothing to do and it's silent gazing of then it just hits me and makes my whole week miserable
Ive been feeling just that for these psdt months snd i cant get rid of it
Jesus Christ heals and forgives, come before him, invite him into your life, repent and beliebe in him.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
I used to be able to feel emotions now it's just depression..
i like how every video has a different art style
You are the only person so far that has made me feel like I am understood. Like I’ve been heard. I know this came out a while ago but…I just wanna thank you for what you do. I feel like you’ve healed me a lil bit
Reality carries so much--too much--to the point, where it's unbearable. 💔
What we feel, express, manage, even break from, plays a significant role for the next page. If we choose to do smth about these matters we face, we can definitely overcome the stress, we just need to be emotionally available to ourselves. 🤲❤️🩹✨
I know others have had it far worse than I have, yet I hope you will be able to slowly allow yourself develop courage, self-love, hope, and determination towards your endeavors. 🙏😔
I just want to say, thank you. I am a 12 year old individual with depression, and within the almost 13 years of my life i have had to deal with a lot of loss, and heartbreak, and you guys help heal my depression by calming me, and allowing myself to let go of the past and negative emotions. I couldn't be more grateful for you guys. Much Thanks.
I’m sorry I hope things get better for you :(
you got this lil homie
How are you today?
How are you now?
Noo! I hope ur okayy
In high school, we had a hsie teacher who would jokingly insult some students occasionally, but I noticed that (at least) one of my classmates seemed to dread the classes, and I think they might have developed an emotional wound from the teacher. On top of that, he was also very strict at times. I know he wasn't trying to hurt people, but I think some were actually mentally and emotionally affected by his 'insults'.
Uhhhh you don’t have to put “insults” in quote marks. They WERE insults. It doesn’t matter if they were intended as humor. Not everyone is okay with that - especially from an authority figure.
Off topic but I have 1 though 7
I had a teacher like that as well, I dreaded his classes and I know a few others did as well. He also told us that we were too young to be depressed.
I have 6/7 signs
I can relate to everything but crying
I used to cry a lot until i was 10
Now, i don't cry at all on anything
Not on emotional movies,loss of friends,funerals
Nothing
Is it bad ?
@@theteenagedragon1 not crying at anything, not even funerals, could be bad. Some people may think that you're being disrespectful to the person who passed away, or they think you don't care about them. It's okay to cry at events like funerals, just if you're bottling the sadness up, try to let it out sometimes.
The "bad memory keeps on repeating again and again and again" literally happens for almost a month now.
I’ve been having this deep emotional wound that’s been going for months, since I’ve been laid-off.
I don’t know how to heal it, until I watch this video. Thank you for making it!
From being emotionally wounded to start getting healed... it's a journey; this is how life teaches. It is important to identify the causes of the crisis within us and outside and get rid of those. We all deserve a good life 🌼
Life is all a Daily Grind (see homepage/about).
@@notbriish4726 who doesn't?
@@insearchoflight2444 In life there are only 2 problems--mind and the body. Once you take charge of these life is stress free. To feel better reduce negative thoughts. Be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 10-15-20 minutes or more. You can sit or lie down, neck straight and eyes closed. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Keep a reminder to observe your breath sensations throughout the day and night --before sleep, when reading, at work, when sitting in the park etc. Like me, make this a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@@shyaaammeneen63 thanks
@@insearchoflight2444 Only if there are multiple symptoms a visit to your family physician is needed. Since many years I have made it a habit to observe my breath sensations even during my normal activities and I am feeling relaxed. Anywhere-anytime it can be done. The best part is nobody comes to know that you are doing the breath observing practice as there is no deep breathing or sound. Reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Read my msg and do the practice regularly. Best wishes. Sr. Counsellor
It looks like I have all these 7 symptoms. I started crying even while watching this video because I could connect myself with all these points. It feels like I am the only person in the world going through all these emotional rollercoaster...
Sounds like you don't have testicles
I feel the same from some time... Earlier I was the one in my family who was made to cry even at funerals.. but now I just can't control myself
I have the same symptoms but with uncontrollable happiness and laughing, I feel happy and cheerful all the time that I just try to be negative, usually always cheerful that it feels like I am messed up in the head, got a kind of trauma of being too cheerful. Only have one solution that is to hide it and try to be gloomy and edgy. (I'm finally in my teens so there's nothing wrong with edgy for now)
as a person who has an emotional wound,thank you
you really helped me in this video just because i had all the signs, so i knew i had an emotional wound
Hello I am 14yrs old I’ve been with my strict parents and they always gave me pressure to go to a good school. They said that they are trying to support me but it was really difficult to go through. And every time I see my friends they are always free but I’m the only one crying in the bathroom stalls. And I’m watching this rn and I’m crying thinking about the words my parents told me. My friends were very good while taking exams and I did really bad because my anxiety kicked in while my friends getting a perfect score. I hope I get over with it and thank you for listening
I lost a couple friends who were like family to me. I talked to them dang near every day for several years. People around me told me they were bad for me and were more bullying me rather than helping me. I couldn't see it until it was too much for me. I gave them the benefit of the doubt the whole time. I still can't help but think if things could have been different or somehow prevented. Ive been separated for a couple years now, but still not over it. I don't know if I ever will.
@@BharatSingh-qf9ip Yea, it sucks...I don't feel hate, just sadness. But I've mostly moved on. You will too :) It just comes back to me from time to time.
I haven't moved on from it not yet to be honest in fact i think it's getting even worse i don't feel that happiness and positivity in things that i used to. now the only thing that makes me happy is music
I know what you mean. I felt exactly that same way after it happened to me. Just stay positive and try to work on yourself. I know its hard, but you can do it.
Yeah I'm trying bro i just need some time. if you wanna be friends then i would love to ☺️ . we can share our different countries culture, traditions languages. it kinda feel interesting to know about that stuff to me
@@BharatSingh-qf9ip I don't have Instagram, but I do have discord. I gotta go right now, but will reply later with it :) Wouldn't mind talking.
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Unfortunately a lot of people around everyone of us are struggling in life, for one reason or another. Probably, even ourselves.
Sharing love and positivity costs nothing.
Let’s all remember that some small word of encouragement can literally make someone’s day. Because sometimes, that’s all we need ❤️🚀🌙
Your look sad
I cried while watching this bc someone actually understands me. ty for making me feel like I’m not alone
This video just spoke how I feel right now I’m going into a hard time of losing my cat and I just can’t stop over seeing the way I saw my cat dead yesterday. Feel like it was the most traumatising thing I had to face through.
I just lost my dog in October from when a coyote attacked her. It was so sudden, I have felt almost all of these. I used to write stories all the time, now it feels like a task. I have have apathy, and you have helped me a lot. Thank you for your videos
I wrote stories a lot too, until I got replaced by a man I loved to death. I haven't written anything in months...
@@europeanghst why don’t you both try to write a story together? Creating a background, the characters and their relationships, even if it’s short or something easy it could help you both to revive your passion. Or something like role-playing, maybe?
(Sorry my main language is spanish) but this also happens to me when I lose all the motivation in drawing, I take an exercise book or something easy to follow and try enjoying it and learning something new.
I’m sorry you lost you’re dog ❤I just prayed God helps you heal. It’s difficult to lose a best friend. I know you’re dog can never be replaced but maybe in time, you might be ready to perhaps help out a rescue dog from the shelter. It’s very gratifying to save a pup from a bad situation and as you know they reward you with unconditional love 💕. God bless 🙏🏽
RUclips comments aren’t therapy.
@@_..-Honeybee-.._ maybe you're right. But it's a natural habit to want to comment your life experience in a place where it somewhat matters.
I'm at the verge of crying while watching this video. I tend to hurt myself but not physically. And I feel guilty of not being compassionate to myself. :((
The worst thing for you to do is to self sabotage. instead of finding your way to heal, you prevent yourself from healing because you yourself is now actively and passively participate to depreciate your value by negative self talk, low self esteem and ITS NEVER YOUR FAULT because its is the result of your trauma, wounds. its never too late to heal. healing starts when you acknowledge your wounds then you can encourage yourself to try baby steps.
If you need to talk, I'm open.
I was in tears while watching this video
It is fine, just do small steps and be proud of your self for not giving up
I'm sorry but I'm the 69th like-
Look I believe you can climb your way out this dark hole try to be kind to yourself :]
Holly heck, this hit me hard this is why I haven’t been myself lately holy cow. This brought me to tears at how well it describes how I feel.
It makes my heartache and my throat tingle whenever I encounter something that will endanger my mental, physical, and emotional health. Nobody understands me (some people do, but I see things different or the opposite if what they actually are now). I've been exposed to too many negative things that I can't even find any positive things anymore. I even feel scared about being happy because something will come out of the blue and ruin everything. I even have anxiety at night along with delayed sleeping.
You get hardened as you get older. I don't remember the last time I cried but I definitely have experienced depression when I was younger... Even now occasionally. It's good more attention is being brought to mental health because treatment is so unaffordable.
How does depression feel like
@Pyroplasmata it feels like a heavy nothing. There's anxiety in mine so sometimes it's terrifying.
@@user-rf8xy8yj9k hmm… is it a big problem having depression? Should I go to a doctor?
@@cat_XO only you can answer that question.
thank you👍 I guess I don‘t go to doctor because I guess sometimes it maybe helped me having depression although yi‘m not sure having them.
I'm at the last sign. I just feel numb after all these years. It's been years yet the wound still remains. I'm honestly not sure if it'll ever go away. I'm only turning 22 this year and I already feel empty. The few times I truly am happy feel temporary. They go as quickly as they come. The stress and guilt along with other emotions are giving me strands of gray hair... I've been told that I'm too young to be experiencing all of this.
I felt like this after I moved out from my parents, struggling with things my family went through, job pressure, emotional pain and physical pain, loneliness, religious conflict, everything.
It felt like the world was crashing down on me. I felt empty. I would spend time with my family at gatherings and I would act happy while inside I kept asking myself "I should be happy right now but why do I feel like I'm on the verge of breaking down in tears?" And I hated myself and felt ashamed for feeling this way.
Sometimes I would get home at night and lean against my vehicle and just cry. I didn't know why I was sad or felt so empty. After a while I stopped feeling anything. Each day seemed like I was a zombie dragging myself toward what I perceived would be my next happy moment hoping that it would make me feel better only for it to leave me feeling empty in the end.
I never went to therapy, but I probably should have.
My own stress was eating me alive and created even more problems for me as well. I am still not completely healed from this but I am feeling much better and when I do start to feel this way I have learned how to handle it better.
What helped the most for me was writing how I felt in a journal. Writing my thoughts helped me rationalize how I was feeling in a more clear and concise way because if I tried just thinking about problems in my head I was way less nice to myself because I already felt terrible.
I even created two Instagram accounts and talked back and forth with the accounts as if it was two different people.
I would view each message as if it was a friend I cared very deeply about and wanted to help them. My own responses to my problems were a lot more clear and helpful then they ever were when I just thought about them.
Turns out we tend to hate ourselves a lot more in the moment then if we take time to rationalize why we feel things certain ways and for what reasons. Looking to external reasons for solutions never helped because my problems were rooted inside of me and in the way I perceived external problems I had.
A friend once told me that it was a shame that I had all of these negative emotions against myself because I was one of the nicest, most caring people he had ever met. He told me to use the same compassion I extend to others and try to view myself with that same compassion.
It was really hard to find a good way of doing that but the journaling and messages to myself really helped me a lot.
Sometimes we need to look inward to ourselves and learn how to become our own best friend, because someone who hates themself will never be able to find lasting happiness.
I hope this can help you in some way and you can find a way to push through the numbness you are feeling and live happy again.
You got this❤
@maple_istrue1023 I read it bro, I got your back as well and don't downplay any of your own problems either. Any issues you are going through deserve to be respected and taken as seriously as anyone else. I hope that the therapy has been helping 👍
Don't worry about me though I'm doing alright. Thanks for responding it means a lot!
@H2D Fives I did the same thing writing my thoughts and feelings in a notebook to figure out what to do next it really helped me a lot in the end I found someone 4 me and she fixed my whole lonely world and helped me realize I was worth more than I knew
I am 19, in the same stage, I feel you, people say we are too Young to experience this, but its pretty common and noone does anything about it. They will say you shouldnt go trough that, but thats all they will do.
Quick update: I was diagnosed with bipolar depression and schizophrenia. I'm on meds but it's really messing with my head. Recently my eye has been twitching uncontrollably and my memory is worse. Doctor said both are side effects. Not sure what to do rn if I'm being honest...
Thanks, you for telling me I'm not okay As I saw this Vid, I started to cry I realized How many times I felt that.
This actually made me cry
Every day I think to myself… “I feel like everyone around me was just a traitor no one loves or cares how I am feeling ” I feel just hate and sadness and nothing else…
Me too , I'm not pretending I also have trauma since 9 , and now I dont have friends to came up with
I almost started crying because of this. I relate to most of these.
And even if we are broken… shattered. We can pull through as long as we try. But almost everyone has had to gone through something painful, and we had ways to cope with it or are still finding ways to get through. I indeed understand that it will hurt, but overtime it will get better. ❤
The worst part is when you can't cry anymore
Yayayayayawuwu
I just cried on this video... now it explains why I'm hesitating when speaking with people...
Although I still have my downs in life that show these signs, I am very proud of myself now. I had these signs before in my life and they have stuck with me for a very long time. Nowadays I feel much better, I’ve reached for the light in my life and have overcome my problems and am now healing my wound slowly but with great success. I always thought that this pain will stay till I die, but with the little hope I have build up and the want to get rid of it, I started to heal myself. Words cannot describe how much this video made me relieved and I just want to let all of you reading this know that even if you think you will never ever be happy again, the light will be always above you. Reach for it, it is possible to heal, you won’t be stuck in the pain. Trust yourself and take it slow with the healing process and don’t give up when things start to get bad again, it’s hard, but you can switch the bad things into a confidence boost. I believe in you, you can do it!
03:53 Rumination - being in deep thought about something, and not particularly associated with sad or dark thoughts.
“Do you cry easily?” 😢 watching this video made me tear up 🥺 I’d say it’s because I definitely relate…
You drew me
You've described me way too well. Even hearing this alone just makes me want to breakdown into tears. At least now I can try to work on it and control my emotions. Big thanks to you nice human! I hope you have a wonderful day ❤️
This vid really hit home. I won't go into details 'cuz the story started over 20 years ago. I will share one detail. I wasn't there for my dad when he passed. Everything reminds me of him. He was supposed to live forever. I've often thought of just ending it, but always chickened out. I just want my dad!! All the meds in the world aren't helping......
these videos sometimes really just give what most of us need - acceptance and acknowledgment of our mental and emotional struggles...like just knowing that your not alone and it's okay to have them, and to know that you are seen is really the best one can ask for when we're so beaten down
I cry over the smallest things like sad song baby animal videos & more but the same way but I feel the bad things replaying in my mind a loop but I feel numb
I'm scared afraid I'm on autopilot when im on protective mode
sadly, i can relate to all of these. Litteraly all of them. I was pretty much aware of my mental wounds, until I watched this video. Thank you so much Psych2Go💖✨
Same too I have dyslexia, ADHD and emotional wounds...
I'm emotionally healthy 😌
@@pnhusnibintidin5855 same..i hope youre okay✨
@@Twankler1001 yeah you too
Thank you for important information 🌺
My grandma died in 2021, and it was very sad, and today my brother played a tune on a clock my grandma gave me a few years ago, and I burst into tears 😢
Idk why but when I watch your videos everytime I just shed some tears
I literally cried while watching this video because everything fits perfectly to me
I already had the thought if I maybe have Emotional Wound and not only once. I already had the thought like 15 times and I think its actually the truth
Don't worry dear 😃😃 Someone is in your life who love you and understand you better than anything 💕 Find that person in your life hmm..Be happy Be strong 💕💕
Same
Same. What’s even sadder is that I’m not even a teen yet
Can i be friends with you? I'd love to have someone in my life who is actually like me and at least wouldn't shout or get annoyed at me just becuz I'm feeling emotional... 🙂
@@soumita7988 Are u talking about me?
I cried during this. I always put on a mask about how I feel. Every day I go out and act happy and over emotional. Even though I'm numb. I don't feel anything anymore just misery. The air feels like a viscous liquid wich I struggle to breathe. The only times where I don't look back at bad things and feel miserable is wenn
Sending you love and hugs, friend.❤
I can definitely relate to the numbness. My grandfather died about two years ago and leading up to it one thing I actually feared was not crying because I felt that if I wasn't able to cry then I didn't care. When he actually passed I cried so much until I felt nothing again. I didn't care about anything and I hated the world for just continuing. Up till this day, I still feel numb. It feels like I should be sad but there's just nothing. It's so hard to explain.
Me too, my grandfather past away 3 years ago and I cried so much that I too began to feel nothing. Now it just seems that I feel one emotion a lot or I feel absolutely nothing
Thanks for helping all of these topics relate to me and while you were speaking tears were coming to my eyes
I relate to this a lot... I've had some serious trauma as a kid, and even though I never realized it when I was young, the older I get the more I realize it. And it hurts really badly... I'm a very sensitive person now then I ever was before. I do one thing wrong and tears start to fall out of my eyes. I'm trying to get the guts to tell my parents about all this bottled up trauma but its been really difficult... Thank you Psych2Go for providing such accessible mental health information for all ages. Its super helpful for people who are dealing with stuff, or people who are just simply curious.
I relate and I'm ten yet I feel just as much pain maybe even more
@@melindasmith2068 are u just ten years old. I hope u r okay... this is so disturbing I hope u aren't going through to much to take...
Hey, I’m going through the same exact thing. Is it okay if we can vent to each other? It’s eating me alive how angry I get and how much worse I’m becoming the more I realize my childhood trauma. All that trauma has been an influence on every decision I’ve made in my life, making everything more unbearable… 🥺
@@GenesisSpeaks you can vent whatever u r going through... i'll listen to whatever u have to say...
@@Harharmahadev-nb3uq made me tear, reading this. When you feel alone all the time and misunderstood, it makes me shut everyone and everything else even more. I grateful for people like you.
I haven't realised that I've been emotionally abused, or emotionally wounded until I watch videos like these. I don't like feeling that I can't let myself release my saddness or anxiety. I know I've been crying over the littlest things, constantly thinking about dark or sad thoughts. I also noticed that I've been very dissmissive of myself and others, rarely talking to anyone and losing some friends along the way. I've always been ignored by my toxic mother whenever I try to talk about something that I'm passonate about. Sometimes she listens, but she always looks at her phone when I talk to her about my passions, then changes the subject to school. My mother has done other toxic behaviors, and it's because of her that I unintentionally ignore people, and I really find it hard to talk to people.
Emotional wounds are no joke. It can really affect your life.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
i had a friend i think might have given me an emotional wound
she always caled me short and weak and blamed everything on me, lied to me constantly and got angry and started crying and saying i was bullying her when i called her out on lying. i think she gave me all of my inability to understand if anyone is bullying/mocking me bc i think everything is my fault and idk how to stop feeling this. she was the worst thing to entre my life and i hate her so much. this all happened two years ago and it still affects me so much.
omg this felt so good to write
mom always said "you dont have a confident to socialize with them! im teaching you to increase ur confident!" yeah btw while i watch your vedios i cry a lot i cant really accept, thank you it helps a lot! may be in future i'll be a psycologist:)
Thank you for this, a lot of this I can relate to and my emotional wounds still affect me today. I have thankfully taken on therapy recently and all I can hope is it helps not just for me but for my relationships with my family, friends, and even my girlfriend. I know that these aren’t the only reasons I have issues but therapy is a start to help better these in particular.
Life sucks
Wishing you the best. Thank you for sharing 💛
Sending love to you!
As a 12 yo kid, I already have these symptoms. I lost my self esteem because i got laughed at because I liked a girl in grade 2. Now that I still like her but I’m too afraid to confront. I would normally walk around the school with my head facing down because I am scared that I might look at someone. At the moment, I only have 1 mental supporter that is my friend, not my mom or sth. He is very empathetic, kind and sympathetic. I only feel better sometimes thanks to him. But I am still struggling with those. Most of the nights i just go to bed and start crying 😢
Hey kid, take care of yourself and know just because others think your weird doesn't mean you are and just know that someone will always be there for you, don't let go of yourself and know you are worth everything. ✨
dude, i can relate so much! i know im not in the place to say this but it doesnt actually matter what others think of you. i hope you feel better soon
Man ngl I can't feel alot no more it just lasts for a minute or two and blank 🙁
What's wrong with the kids these days I mean GO and FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES bruh
@@idonthaveanyideafrmyusername 😐bro doesnt get it
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3
As a person with borderline personality disorder, this video helps a bit. Extreme sensitivity, major depression (Some have diagnosed me with bipolar 2), lack of interest in things I used to love, and a general feeling of not being well are my symptoms...Also, I'm very upset when things that don't even matter cause bursts of anger and madness. I'm on several medications, but they don't work well anymore. I'm at wit's end most days. My shrink and therapist do a fair job at helping me, but I still feel frustrated with them at times. I'm doing the best I can.
People with BPD are crazy I stay away from ppl like that
@@Loveispainj
Becoming numb was probably the best thing to happen to me I’ve totally adopted the “it is what it is” attitude.
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
Same . But I’ve lost my sense of happiness.. when good things happen I just accept it and move on I don’t fully enjoy the moment due to my numbness😅
@@Ashley-cr4tf yeah it’s like, “oh yay! thxs I guess..”
I hoped on the apathy train and can’t make friends, the ones I do have say I need to express myself but when I do people hate me for it.
@@cholesterolhuman208 I love you
The problem is its difficult when it's ur dad. They just bulldoze their actions towards u without giving a thought to how that affects ur emotions. They still keep on doing the same things over and over even when u have reached 22 years old.
My step dad, when he yells, he doesn't realize how loud his voice is, so it scares me,my heart physically hurts, and its not fun
I got a new wound just recently 😢
Trying to learn how to live with that, how to make it make me stronger, and how to go on with life, without it dragging me into darkness too much. It is really one hour at a time situation. Being thankful for the hours that is positive. And then hopefully someday these hours will be more than the negative ones.
1. I don't cry easily but.. sometimes I feel like something is tearing apart within me.. and when I cry ... it's unstoppable
2. Yeah, I've loosen interest in everything.. and this thing hurts
3. Yes I get annoyed very easily.. before atleast I had control on this behaviour.. but now it's getting uncontrollable (and it's kinda scary.. what if I hurt my loved ones)
4. Yupp.. I do feel like that.. I've lost my hope in everything.. what will I do in future.. how will I support my family.. how will I make my career.. how will I be what I want to be
5. No. I don't do that.. and I don't even wanna be that loop..
6. Yupp that happens a lot
7. Yeah that happens too
I actually cried... Because it’s like you understand what is happening in people’s lives and I do have an emotional wound thank you for your videos they really help me to understand things...
As one who has emotional trauma, I must say that a lot of these things happen to me, and it’s relieving to know that my experiences are not completely unique.
Me2
I am at the numb sign. I love your video, it was really good because You described something which I have not been able to do.
I am Currently fighting with it, After carrying way to many thoughts and emotions all at once for to long, which took My energy and I simply didn't care anymore
I felt like I didn't have The strenght to fight back, like I didn't have The strength to hold Myself up
But one big step takes a lot of small steps, so keep going💪
Again, amazing video💜👍
i cry so much even over fictional things sometimes its hard to do things i like im annoyed if people try to help me with ANYTHING sometimes i just go in my room alone and start just thinking about negative stuff about me or bad memories like me thinking about my dead grandpa it brings tears to my eyes but all the time its just silent and i feel like no one can hear me thanks for helping me realize what was happening
also in the middle of this i started crying for 10 minutes straight maybe more
I actually cried while watching this video because of how relatable this is
Samee
I didn't even realised I was like this for so LONG. I only paid attention to my mental health and trauma when I was a teenager, I have experienced trauma and abuse in the past and that really wounded me so bad 😞 I'm trying my best to cope with these feelings and thankfully it's getting a little better.
I just wanna say thank you psych2go! You made my life better by these videos! After knowing these things I try my best to get rid of these behaviours! ❤️❤️
Maybe so, but you'll appreciate good when you receive it.
Thank YOU for all this mental growth :)
Yeah me too, i didn't underatand my feelings when i was a little kid, neither did anyone around me, i was really confused about everything, until i went to a place where people treated me nicely, i still had to figure things out by myself tho, atleast im not depresed anymore, but i still strugle with changing things in my life
Hello dear. Can you imagine that it saddens God to see you in this disfigurement? He doesn't want us to live like this, He wants us to be happy and grateful to leave the old behind and forgive all who have hurt us, bringing all bitterness and pride and our broken hearts before God then we can we experience liberation .
Maybe you already believe in God, but the Bible says whoever accepts Jesus as their Savior bears fruit, they change for the better, so my first question is: have you ever really got on your knees, with all your heart, humbly inviting Jesus Christ into your life, asking him to forgive you all your sins? but first you have to recognize from your heart that you are a sinner, because many believe in God, but never had true knowledge of sin, but without this knowledge, you do not understand in your heart how much you need Jesus' blood that was shed for you. If you haven't really had this knowledge yet, then ask Jesus today to show you your sins, only when we recognize all this burden of sin do we really understand why we need Jesus so much, it is important that we humble ourselves before God, because God gives no mercy to the proud, but he gives mercy to the humble. Then when you ask Jesus from your heart to wash you clean and trust Him as your Savior and believe that He is the Son of God, He will come into your life saving you from eternal disruption and you will get the Holy Spirit in your heart, you will become a new creation be born again according to the Gospel of John 3:3 .
Then of course, read the Word of God a lot, start with the Gospels, studies have shown that depression and anxiety disorders went way down after 2 weeks of regular Bible reading. Because Men don’t just live from bread, but of every living Word of God.
Ask God for wisdom to know what is keeping you trapped in this state and how to get out, in Case he didn’t already has liberated you from that when you gave your Life to Christ, but God also wants to see that we put some effort into it and want it , so he will help us. Pray a lot, seek God, ask him to show himself to you more and that you can recognize and accept his love for you. Get to know him, and learn to love him more, the more you look upon the glory of Jesus, all darkness within you will depart.
But if you don't change anything in your life, if you don't seek Jesus from your heart or if you haven't already given your life to him, how do you expect your situation to change? He is truth personified, he also said “you will know the truth and it will set you free”. In any case, it is lies that keep us in the bondage of sin, for by believing Satan's lie, Adam and Eve committed themselves into sin. What the serpent conveyed to them was, "God is holding you back, God isn't really good at all, and you're not really loved." All people believe this lie, they think they are inferior and not loved, and they believe that they can be God themselves, and can somehow redeem themselves and help themselves, believe me I have tried this for years, have had many coaching sessions bought for thousands of dollars, did many practices from Buddhism and Hinduism, was in the occult, in New Age spirituality, did rituals, meditated a lot, but I could never redeem myself. Until one day Jesus found me and I realized that without him I'm nothing and I need him. Feel free to make the decision for the Redeemer Jesus Christ with all your heart and let him transform you. It's only his mercy, there's nothing you can do, put your hope in his mercy, and come home today. Jesus said that whoever believes in me rivers of living water will flow out of him; he invited all to come to him, all who are weary and heavy laden, to give them rest. God loves you so much. DO NOT GIVE UP. ❤️✝️🙏🏻
@@Psych2go hey what is the music, it's pretty good
Not just watching sad videos make me sad but my tears overflowed while i was watching this video.. 💔🙂i don't why i felt this way...!
This video was indeed very helpful, thank you so much for posting it. It helped and lot :)
I definitely saw myself in this. I did start to feel not good enough when I was younger in school (from not getting straight A's like my younger sister), but my inner pain got worse after I graduated from business school and ended up with a job that eventually caused me to fall into a mentally and emotionally deteriorating loop. I'll try not to make this comment too long, but I feel I should say how I felt and still feel so I do apologize. I always wanted a job as some kind of artist and author because I loved to draw illustrations and write stories ever since I was very young. However, reality hit me like daggers after going through a couple of years at my first full time job. The work environment was negatively toxic and I was placed in a position I didn't even apply for. I was grateful to have a job, but other than that I felt like a prisoner. It got so bad to the point I actually stopped doing the two things that made up my being drawing and writing. I truly felt it was my fate and believed that I would never become successful in what I long dreamed to be. I kept telling myself I want to get out of there, but I never took action. I was just expecting something to come along and save me because I was trapped in my own mind. Today, I'm in a different job position, same company though, but I'm trying to heal my wounds inside my mind and heart. Learning to trust and love myself. I'm working towards writing a first book I want to get published one day. As for drawing I want to start drawing again on the regular, but I know I shouldn't push myself too much so I'm working on weaning myself back into it little by little. It's still heartbreaking knowing that me a very positive person got my spirit sucked out of me and for about 8 or so years that I stopped doing what I loved. I'm promising myself I'll become an author one day and I'll find happiness in drawing again as I had before. I just have to take it one day at a time and be patient with my healing.
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Everything is gonna be fine.Im proud of u for being so strong.🥰
@@aparachakrabarty6507 Thank you for your kind words. I actually opened up to 2 of my family members about it about it yesterday in fact and I do feel better than I was. I know it's not going to be easy, but eventually I'll be able to live in true happiness without the burden of the past holding me back from living. Thank you again.
@Taiye Opeyemi That's good to hear. I'm happy for you.
Thank you for sharing this. You are brave and wonderful;.
Ever since my father died almost 4 years ago, I've felt most of those signs, especially the first and last one. I've never been emotional before, so now crying often is really weird to me. And that last sign is still present, hopefully I'll be able to find my way again. Thank you for you videos ❤️
I feel similar after my mother died 5 years ago. She was an important person in my life and losing someone important to you can leave a big emotional wound. But before she passed away she told my family and me to live our lifes and even if I get sad when I remember her I try to also think about the happy moments we had and there are still people here who are also hurt and we support each other when we have problems. What I´m trying to say is that even if we lost someone we should also remember who ist still there for us.
I’ve realised I have all these signs since my first kitten died well my new kitten definitely has made me feel better about my first kitty’s death he can never replace him I hope my dead kittens knows that he’s loved And I want to offer my condolences to those who have lost loved ones
I wish you best
And get every single funeral I've been to, which has been many. I have never shed a single tear. I do not cry in public, ever.
May lord bless u 🫂♥️
I was depressed once to the point of being apathetic. Afterwards I learned to replace my emotions with happiness but I do find myself being overloaded sometimes and have outbursts of rage and sometimes I return to being apathetic for a few days in which I struggle to feel happy being with friends and kinda just wanna lounge. The only emotions I can truly say that I understand are happiness and anger to be honest. Even then, my anger doesn’t even last long.
Thanks psych2Go, you helped me understand what it is that my parents find wrong in me :] I found myself going through all of these signs, who knew i had a lot of emotional wounds, all i have to say is thank you ❤