The only secret to getting your EX back

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @don4glenn
    @don4glenn Год назад +131

    An old sistah once told me, "Baby, do yourself a favor...never ever get in the habit of taking a shit and then stepping back in it."

  • @cajunscorpion
    @cajunscorpion Год назад +137

    Ignore them and move on….they’ll be back

  • @keenah1111
    @keenah1111 Год назад +29

    youre a very wise man. if only all men had this maturity and wisdom... theyre too many man-children out there playing with womens feelings and using them. like the kind that will disrespectfuly reply here because he knows no woman with value would take a look at him. time to get our strength back ladies! know your worth and value. choose yourself first and foremost and walk away if he doesnt satisfy you in every aspect

    • @elsereno4
      @elsereno4 Год назад +3

      Delusional

    • @joncarbone
      @joncarbone Год назад +2

      No human can amount to those expectations

    • @keenah1111
      @keenah1111 Год назад +2

      @@joncarbone certainly not any that settles for a man that thinks like you. a woman that knows her worth and value can have the right man if she so chooses to have him. no worries. i wouldnt dare to expect you to understand that

    • @karenjudd8490
      @karenjudd8490 Год назад +1

      And with THE FIRST RED FLAG, Step Away. My "crush" (booty call from 23 years ago & that's what it ended up to be again..) He was "on the way", then Nothing. No response to my texts, no answering the phone..?! WTF? I blasted him via text !! He called hours later - I SHOULD HAVE told him to "stay home" !! It's been THE SAME DAMN THING for 10 months now.
      The ONLY reason I tolerated his behavior is because, 1. I know him,
      2. our sex is INCREDIBLE, and 3. I don't wanna have sex with a stranger. I stopped sex for 24 years - focused on making money. Met up with Crush & BAM - I was FLOATING for days.
      There's a definite magnetic pull I have for him But probably just lust. Outside of bed, he's NOT a good BF. Kinda feel sorry for him that he's screwed up.

  • @thomashoward8919
    @thomashoward8919 Год назад +14

    True.. So true! You must know your self worth!

  • @ellenringer5236
    @ellenringer5236 Год назад +35

    He is telling the truth.

  • @Ninja-xh9lw
    @Ninja-xh9lw Год назад +34

    My ex will never change.
    I don't want him back just the best for him..

  • @timahawk3220
    @timahawk3220 10 месяцев назад

    Coach Blac your advice is so profound and you’re a pleasure to look at and hear,Great mind. Great look and nice voice. Thanks for all you do 💯

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles Год назад +28

    One and done. I never give second chances for any reason. Once we’re done, we are done. There are too many people in this world to return to an ex.

    • @roudy9275
      @roudy9275 Год назад +8

      i think it depends on what the ex has done if it's cheating definitely won't have a second chance

    • @mrs.h9621
      @mrs.h9621 Год назад +11

      You don't have a good mentality..you will regret later not giving people more chances..of course, there are things which can be forgiven and some which can't..

    • @roudy9275
      @roudy9275 Год назад +8

      @@mrs.h9621 yeah we all makes mistakes after all we are humans we are not perfect

    • @SoundsSilver
      @SoundsSilver Год назад +7

      It's funny how people with this mentality never seem to hold down a relationship long term

    • @HakunaMatataNoCap
      @HakunaMatataNoCap Год назад +3

      Horrible mindset to have

  • @josipakovacic8362
    @josipakovacic8362 Год назад +7

    Oh, Boy! Your voice is so calm... greetings from Cro...

  • @mhamilton4547
    @mhamilton4547 Год назад +151

    I don’t do exes. Once an ex, you stay an ex and blocked!

    • @abdurrehman5431
      @abdurrehman5431 Год назад +16

      If you have more than 3 ex
      It means the problem is in u

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee Год назад +4

      Agree!!! Remember why they are the ex---trash let it be.

    • @IMJAYSAVAGE
      @IMJAYSAVAGE Год назад +5

      I had a lot of exs that were horrible except one and I say I respect her and all the other ones blocked

    • @lacey07
      @lacey07 Год назад +5

      @@abdurrehman5431 thats not true whatsoever. some people just don’t have good luck in relationships and end up with the wrong people.

    • @nadlat8880
      @nadlat8880 Год назад

      You must be a lonely person with a cat.

  • @maybabe82
    @maybabe82 Год назад +3

    Brooooooooh. That is some truth is soooo hard to hear. But it makes sense. I almost exactly in this place now and going to think about this

  • @SR-dg2dc
    @SR-dg2dc Год назад +2

    Thank you, I did. I've been trying to do this for months. I'm trying to stay away and see what happens because I live in more than anything on this earth and I know he does me but we haven't seen each other for 3 months. We're long distance lol

  • @sivgechheang2570
    @sivgechheang2570 Год назад +48

    I approve this method cuz it did work, however too bad I didn’t want him anymore after I left 😂 but it’s ego boosting after all

  • @ferguson0321
    @ferguson0321 Год назад +4

    I 100% agree with you ‼️🙌🙏💛✨

  • @ElizabethGasho-ow8ln
    @ElizabethGasho-ow8ln Год назад

    Beautiful healthy wisdom. Thank you for helping the masses of hurting people. Love the greatest of these, is potentially dangerous. Keep shining that light Brother. Appreciate you❤

  • @verniceannelaguna3045
    @verniceannelaguna3045 Год назад

    I'm so glad i am doing all he is saying. Before I saw his reels, I was already doing it. I love myself. No way I will allow someone precious like me to be treated like that.

  • @annajamjam1383
    @annajamjam1383 Год назад +1

    This is golden!!

  • @desmondgaines7610
    @desmondgaines7610 Год назад +1

    And work on yourself find new hustles, start something new. Something has to change about you also.

  • @TheGenerationX894
    @TheGenerationX894 Год назад +4

    Nope, don't go backwards, forever moving forward! Never look over the shoulder.

  • @DariusStridling
    @DariusStridling 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you that's what I'm doing now

  • @elenalimberg7364
    @elenalimberg7364 Год назад

    I did that. Let's see what happens...❤

  • @donnaholton1981
    @donnaholton1981 Год назад +2

    Set boundaries and as soon as they cross the fence of the boundary then you walk away and don’t go back.

  • @robpz448
    @robpz448 Год назад +7

    She made a fatal mistake by leaving 6 months ago and ignoring my attempts to reconcile as adults in the beginning. Little did she know , the last attempt I made to reach out to her would be my final attempt. Anyways , she called e twice in February. I didn't answer. Her birthday was in March. I didn't wish her Hallyday birthday either. She blew the bridge up forever. Hope she can live with that decision the rest of her life.

    • @Mariana-cp8cp
      @Mariana-cp8cp Год назад

      Big thanks to DR EJILA THE GREAT SPELL CASTER without Him I wouldn't have gotten my Ex back,and actually didn't even know that there were possibility of Getting back my ex ,He is doing a great job for people like myself who have been in this situation.

    • @Mariana-cp8cp
      @Mariana-cp8cp Год назад

      On Facebook

    • @Robert-hf6dw
      @Robert-hf6dw Год назад +2

      Hope I can be that strong

  • @SeasonedWoman1900
    @SeasonedWoman1900 Год назад

    Thank you Sir!!

  • @AbuYakubu-iw9rm
    @AbuYakubu-iw9rm Год назад

    yes my beautiful brother god bless you

  • @twimillabonongwe9100
    @twimillabonongwe9100 Год назад +10

    Thank you, am doing fine without him.

  • @MalkitSingh-qu3jb
    @MalkitSingh-qu3jb Год назад

    Thank you, sir, I like your video

  • @ScenicGangster
    @ScenicGangster Год назад +2

    How do I contact this guy?! Would love his opinion on something.

  • @JFheart
    @JFheart Год назад

    100% true if He really value u

  • @lellabeatricemacauley3459
    @lellabeatricemacauley3459 Год назад

    Yeah I agree with you 👍

  • @MrIlleism
    @MrIlleism Год назад +1

    I feel this only works on men, not women. Don't feel like my ex will come back.

  • @sampal7565
    @sampal7565 Год назад

    So true 👍

  • @vishalchunara1670
    @vishalchunara1670 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @cqualif
    @cqualif 9 месяцев назад

    LEVEL UP!

  • @Chosenoneforever
    @Chosenoneforever Год назад +1

    Ex are example of what not to do again

  • @tredd9019
    @tredd9019 Год назад

    God, I hope you're right...

  • @hamidravandi6971
    @hamidravandi6971 Год назад +1

    Thank you my brother God-bless you always you are really you are really good guy God me God me bless you always thanks for your advice you are right 100% always please people listen to you because what you say is true because what you say is true once you begging the woman for more she will or more even we'll deny you Thank you in God-bless

  • @experiment-im3pk
    @experiment-im3pk Год назад +4

    I miss him he was my friend at first. And now we have Dated. And now he's my xe. I miss my friend. 😔some time I whis we never have Dated. 🥺 it's be Dec. 7 to jun. Since we broken up

    • @charitysobozi3498
      @charitysobozi3498 Год назад +2

      I am in the some situation and i don't know what to do😑😐

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj Год назад +2

    AFTER AN EX, THEY GET BLOCKED PERIOD

  • @disnalee
    @disnalee Год назад +2

    Ex are best on their own. Ex not worth take back.

  • @Robert-hf6dw
    @Robert-hf6dw Год назад

    I gave up trying after a year and half we were still communicating but I was friendzoned
    Now I don't care what she does I did nothing wrong for her to dump me but treat her right and love her

  • @Noah-dd9eq
    @Noah-dd9eq 17 дней назад

    My gf left me today for something I didn’t even do , thank you man I will try this

  • @nimeshdeo3214
    @nimeshdeo3214 Год назад

    I claimed this reading nd video

  • @mrs_is_the_name3377
    @mrs_is_the_name3377 Год назад

    Definitely must be willing to walk away

  • @KendraWalker-z4t
    @KendraWalker-z4t 4 месяца назад

    Well I'll never case beg a men he knows that but I don't see him coming back because he has to much pride

  • @juli-je6xi
    @juli-je6xi Месяц назад

    i’m depressed can’t wait

  • @lifetime2370
    @lifetime2370 Год назад +3

    i rather my x b happy with who he is with

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 Год назад

    Let them go and boss tf up

  • @sts42ss
    @sts42ss Год назад

    Never ever take them back.I made a mistake by doing this because I loved him so much.He cheat again and got engaged behind my back.If you take them back they will treat you worser.

  • @Virginiabeltran00
    @Virginiabeltran00 Год назад

    So true

  • @Audioholic85
    @Audioholic85 Год назад +1

    Gotcha! But she went back to her ex who cheated on her 4 years ago so no no For me! Next!

  • @LB-rn2pg
    @LB-rn2pg Год назад +19

    Unless he’s a narcissist

  • @jimcrack3776
    @jimcrack3776 Год назад

    This me and my first love 4th time breaking up I think we really done this time 😂😂

    • @otiwaalinda
      @otiwaalinda Год назад +1

      😂😂😂I love your confidence.

    • @comcast03
      @comcast03 Год назад +1

      Lol are y’all back together?

  • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
    @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa 7 месяцев назад

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @ymnonlawyerservices8414
    @ymnonlawyerservices8414 Год назад

    I don’t care if my arc ever come back. Thanh you and I love u big time

  • @rickanderson1460
    @rickanderson1460 Год назад

    True

  • @Tzoptzoptimi
    @Tzoptzoptimi 4 месяца назад

    We live together how do I do

  • @johnnymartinez6922
    @johnnymartinez6922 Год назад

    🙏🏽💯

  • @ragnarlodrbrok2561
    @ragnarlodrbrok2561 Месяц назад

    I don't want my ex back i just want peace and forget this painfull trauma

  • @BarryWilliams-s6h
    @BarryWilliams-s6h 2 месяца назад

    Gave her a week to decide, last week said ahe would think about it but went cold after we talked all day, i am at point whrre i said all or notbing, scary but i know i am not willing to play games, i am worth it lets see if she thinks so

  • @lee.6442
    @lee.6442 11 месяцев назад

    Real

  • @lambormcdonell3561
    @lambormcdonell3561 Год назад

    Ex..makes me puke..🤮🤮🤮
    Y would anyone chase after their ex when there are lots of girls out there...

  • @festusosaro6924
    @festusosaro6924 Год назад +1

    Nice brother

  • @mattfield3371
    @mattfield3371 Год назад +1

    even better is realizing that you did better by moving on anyways...

  • @ChildOfEnki
    @ChildOfEnki Год назад

    I blocked my ex because it hurt seeing her post happy stuff because I want her back. Now I’ve unblocked her, she’s blocked me on everything. Have I messed up?

  • @IfraahAhmed-o3m
    @IfraahAhmed-o3m Год назад

    I can not afford that I need him in my farm ,who is going to help me take it or leave it😂😂😂with wife and three kids are you sure ?

  • @laleagosset1014
    @laleagosset1014 Год назад

    This guy will be tired 😂

  • @traceybiles2061
    @traceybiles2061 Год назад

    No ybanks..don't want to be with anyone who wants to be with everyone..

  • @Roland464
    @Roland464 7 месяцев назад

    Not all ex want you back. Being a ex boyfriend/ ex girlfriend is saying that there was a problem in The relationship didn’t work out because either what you did or say or what the other person did or say. Once you can’t solve problems with your girlfriend/boyfriend don’t date them again it not going to work out.
    It best to move on even though it hurts. I’m moving on with my ex girlfriend now because I said something that I shouldn’t that made her uncomfortable try to solve it didn’t work out she ended the relationship

  • @benedictaalfonso5773
    @benedictaalfonso5773 Год назад

    He better leave his ex and walk away she’s in the mental health hospital so don’t waste your time 😱👽

  • @Matt-the-Wise
    @Matt-the-Wise Год назад +4

    This is a tiny bite of the truth: The truth being that treating someone bad results in them treating you good. God in heaven, I'd give anything I'll ever have to make this not true, but it just is. You want a woman to respect you? Don't respect her. You'll sugar coat it by saying "be aloof, and act uninterested" but it's disrespect and unflattering. You want a man to desire you? Don't want him. You'll play it off as "make him work for it" but it's still just not having interest in him. It's just human nature. It's why good girls attract bad boys, it's why "nice guys" are a joke and an insult. You want to be treated good? Treat everyone else like trash. You can hate it, but once quick glance at modern life will tell you it's true.

  • @snezanabogojevic8257
    @snezanabogojevic8257 Год назад

    thank you

  • @Selfmadeaesthetic
    @Selfmadeaesthetic Год назад

    How????? I think I messed up when he wanted to meet up it was his idea and he was cute and sweet then I rejected him. I did this when we were together now he's cold. Help 😢😢😢 I didn't mean it ugh

  • @ReneyMartin
    @ReneyMartin 10 месяцев назад

    💔

  • @ReneeGentilcore
    @ReneeGentilcore 3 месяца назад

    I wish this worked

  • @tobiasedwards-oy7yd
    @tobiasedwards-oy7yd 7 месяцев назад

    My ex dump me a week ago I havnt tried to reach out but I really want her back I don’t know what to do I am scared if I message her she my just say no and then I am scared if I leave she might never come back

  • @itsyagirlbrenda4751
    @itsyagirlbrenda4751 Год назад

    AMEN! 🙏🏽

  • @jajajaja2624
    @jajajaja2624 Год назад +1

    Men don't ever take her back

  • @javiersds8081
    @javiersds8081 Год назад

    Don't try to get your ex back. Move on.

  • @tellneet
    @tellneet Год назад

    Leave it. A dog will always return to his vomit. How does this cure unresolved issues. Don't be his/her vomit. The pain that you have suffered will be worse. There's more than one fish in the sea. Life is too short. The ex has shown you who he / she is.

  • @speekerlol
    @speekerlol Год назад

    Don’t work if you broke up 2 years ago 💀

  • @laleagosset1014
    @laleagosset1014 Год назад

    😂😂😂

  • @ShellieBaptiste
    @ShellieBaptiste 9 месяцев назад

    Hey

  • @hudsond110
    @hudsond110 Год назад

    I broke up my lady 2 weeks ago ,wooooooo I'm loving it, no aggravation and B.S.

  • @adriennegarvey4518
    @adriennegarvey4518 Год назад

    I don’t care about him anymore I’ve moved on

  • @irenemanuel4217
    @irenemanuel4217 Год назад

    no way

  • @sinceresong9907
    @sinceresong9907 Год назад

    Who wants someone who it takes you leaving them, for them to really want you...absolutely ridiculous. Ladies keep walking on wards and upwards.

  • @thegodblogger3812
    @thegodblogger3812 Год назад +6

    All that's good and fine, bruh, but at the end of the day she's still who she was before y'all split up, you're still the same person, and when y'all get back together it will be the same chaos repeated over and over again. 88% of the time they become exes for a good reason. Just like a lonely highway, leave their asses in the rearview mirror.

    • @xclusively_meh6631
      @xclusively_meh6631 Год назад

      People actually change in life with experiences, you are not the same man you were at 18.. if so, then there’s something mentally wrong

    • @thegodblogger3812
      @thegodblogger3812 Год назад +1

      @@xclusively_meh6631 Wishful thinking is what keeps you exposing yourself to grief repeatedly 😒

    • @xclusively_meh6631
      @xclusively_meh6631 Год назад +1

      @@thegodblogger3812 Or maybe understand what’s worth grieving over, I don’t hold grudges but I do for sure remember and move accordingly in a different way with boundaries to protect myself from future “grief”. Nobody is saying let your whole guard down and immediately become besties… I’m just saying I’ll give them a chance because sometimes I have noticed being changes in men

    • @keenah1111
      @keenah1111 Год назад +4

      not if you learned the lesson. relationships teach us a lot about what to keep or stop doing so your next relationship with whoever comes after is a better one than the one that didnt work out or a new begining with the same person at the right time after youre both healed from all your issues that caused the breakup. as long as youre a responsible adult seeking happiness not a player wasting peoples time that is

  • @newlifeprayercentre
    @newlifeprayercentre Год назад

    She has moved on, she has a guy but she text me everyday telling me I'm a special friend. She coming back?

    • @charlesbuckwheat2347
      @charlesbuckwheat2347 Год назад

      She's stroking your ego to make sure you stay close by and ready to jump at her beck and call. You're the side piece she's keeping on ice for when this current guy doesn't work out.

  • @kadidiaguindo905
    @kadidiaguindo905 Год назад

    I dont want him back,

  • @chaabimaroc
    @chaabimaroc 5 месяцев назад

    Semen retension is the secret all other is bullshit.

  • @keitymarley733
    @keitymarley733 Год назад

    . #DRMADIDASPELLCASTER …….

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd Год назад

    Thank you

  • @keitymarley733
    @keitymarley733 Год назад

    . #DRMADIDASPELLCASTER …….