My ex used to insist 1,000 times that no hope, impossible, definable not coming back for sure and after few months… he’s back and apologized and ask me to move to his place. Bla bla bla soo the future is unpredictable…
You cannot give them more of what they dont want and during the break up they dont want you. The best thing you can do is give them the break up and focus on yourself.
Ex husband told me he no longer loved me and wanted to pursue things with others. I focused on myself and looking good feeling good. A few months passed and he admitted he still has feelings and would love to give us a chance. I’m so happy! I will finally got my family reunited
all very true. SOO true. I did all the wrong things, and remember if anyone is going through this just do the next right thing. They can and often do change their minds. Just focus on being happy on your own. Not to get them back but because you have to. Act as if you are moving on and moving forward...you have to for you. Not for them, they may say in a moment they dont love you. Its not true, the unseen is very powerful.
@@rebeccadyson201you can’t hope, whether they come back or not is unforeseen right now. And you moving on is essential regardless of the outcome. Keep your head up. You’re a beautiful person who deserves love from someone who doesn’t need space to show it
Think of it this way you dont want the old relationship because it didnt work. So nostalgia is bad you need to build a new you not worry about them outgrow them. Then when you finally do make a move it has the highest possibility of working at this point but its much more likely at this point that you will attract someone better with the added possbikity of yor ex coming back. Its not about them its about you.
My wife of 15 years, we have 3 kids left me at the beginning of the this year. Up until now I see the kids, but have no idea what she is up to. If we communicate it’s about the kids and keep it transactional. I prefer it that way. I’d like to believe she is with some else already wether it’s true or not I don’t know. It makes it easier to move on in a sense. Deal with it by moving on in your own way and don’t look back.
Same here. Wife of 16 years filed for divorce and we have 3 kids - youngest is 4 years old. While she initiated majority of our altercations, it was I that had intense reactions. I commend you for being so cool about it.
My ex ended things today after a 10 year relationship. She said we both want different things and she wants to focus on her career. She stated I didn’t help her when she was struggling with stuff, she never made those struggles clear to me so I was just going on as usual. I haven’t begged for her to take me back. I’m hoping in time with self improvement and space we will reconnect. She truly is the love of my life. I’m heartbroken, but not giving up ❤
Thanks guys! Now I have a more clear vision for what I need to do in order to give myself a better chance at getting my EX back! It’s almost like this video literally read my mind 🤯
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago when the love of my life decided to move on. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the memories we created together. I've done everything I can to try to bring her back, but nothing has worked. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've tried to push the thoughts away, but they keep coming back. I’m not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I really miss her and wish I could have her back.
Hello, a month is such a short time - it is absolutely normal for the wound to feel so fresh. I encourage you to take this time to spend 100% of your free time on activities that feel fresh and healthy (gym, time with friends, meet new people, go to new places, etc.) By doing so, not only will you feel better and more in control, it will be much easier to tell your ex that you understand that you both deserve more happiness, and your ex will notice that you've truly adopted this mindset. This is what will make her see the relationship in a new light. Very best, Coach Adrian
When she broke up she said she loved me but that it’s not enough. We are both going through difficult time outside the relationship. Said that I wasn’t making things easy for her because she was distant and I took it personally. I asked her if it was definitive. She said she thinks we’re too old to believe time will fix things. I thought we had a good relationship, I really think she made a mistake. She is very stubborn. At first I did the whole I want to be in your life thing. Then a few weeks later I told her I couldn’t talk for awhile because I want to keep the positive momentum I’ve built going. And that I would talk to her later. I know how she is, not the type to reach out no matter her feelings. It’s just hard to know when it’s ok to try to ease back in
Thanks for sharing my ex is stubborn, prideful , and has little patience (according to herself). She said no to me 3 times I figured 3 Strikes i am out.
Mine says who knows what the future holds and “I don’t think it’ll work out.” But then he gives me false hope too. He has his things in my garage for a year and a half and pays my utilities while living separated. He’s slowly but surely come to get things but I have reached out a few times. He still hasn’t changed his mind but hasn’t moved on either. But then again who knows what he’s doing. I’m now enjoying myself but I still love them. :(
These relationship videos are watched by not only folks in a crisis-situation, but those who are watching for their own issues, which may trip us up, regardless of who is wrong/right, or where we are on life's journey. And, Jordan Peterson's videos are excellent for these issues. Thanks.
my x contacted me after 2 weeks I was not ready. I still felt very emotional. I did talk to them. they bagged me to come back. I decided to yes give him another chance. yes what a big mistake that was. he left me weeks later for another woman. so I told him I will never have him back I was so very angry with them.
Nice video! I just can't believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. I've tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him. I'm frustrated I don't see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I don't know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him!
Hello, It is a painful experience when the person you love leaves your life, but it’s crucial to focus on yourself and your healing journey. No matter what the future holds, this is the most important thing to do right now. Best, Coach Adrian
I really like how calm and confident you both talk! really gives a positive feeling and possibility to grow and learn , but omg I feel myself as the dummy in the test car, I did all the possible mistakes and was asking myself why I am not good enough and push her away so much, how to become better please help guys
How to become better change your bad habits and have a strong attitude and don’t be clingy and become who u were in the beginning, us men have a habit of getting comfortable when she’s ours and we start to slack and lose ourselves and our style and attraction dies out.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
My partner of 27 years ended things 6 weeks ago. We still live together. Went out shopping for the day. He said he enjoys my company. I did do a lot of things in the relationship which I'm not proud of. He has only told a few people. He hasn't told any friends that he sees every weekend. They think he is just out having a good drink with the lads
What if they started a new relationship? We had problems and 4 months after our break he got in a relationship which leads me to believe he was cheating with this person!
I can tell you that a 5-year relationship I was in ended last year around this time. Now this is where the 80/20 rule comes in. I knew the 80% of what I really wanted in a relationship she could not offer yet the physical chemistry between us was the best we had both ever had and were doing so many firsts even having numerous partners before. Now I can't sit here and tell you that I'll ever find that Feeling Again of lust / love but that was just 20% once that wears out I really want the 80% we need to focus on the 80% over the 20% because the 20% will fade and 80% is what you'll want long-term growing old. These are 100% facts.
Hi I’m currently going through a breakup of 5 years. There was infidelity on my end and we have a 2 year old daughter together. I feel like I ruined the whole relationship and her life. He is moving out and says we will never be back together. Currently seeking counseling for myself. I am remorse full and regret everything I did I completely destroyed his trust. Just really hurt that I did this to someone I love and want to make it right.
How is it going? I am having similar situation, but I ruined my woman life. We have no kids, but she gave me so much support and I have never gave her a fraction of it. She is the best person I ever knew. I am signed for therapy myself. I didn't even noticed that she was going through hard times herself😢
Two words, walk away. If it’s meant to be they will come back, if not move on with your life. Do not wait for them in the meantime, it will drive you crazy. Saying this because I’m currently going through the same situation.
@@jonaveul I did. Some days it's really tough. But as time goes by I get more clarity. Missing the person and the aching still there. But it is also liberating to fight those urges. Holding on to the emotions of the past won't allow me to create a new future. I'm hopeful that all of these are not for nothing. If it's not him then it is someone better. I don't have regrets as I did everything to salvage the relationship. It has been almost a month and I almost lost every ounce of my self respect for begging someone to take me back when I haven't done anything wrong. The person has wronged me a few times but God knows I will never leave the relationship. Hence he let the person hurt me even more for me to be awake. I don't have regrets. Actually I am so grateful that it happened. I learned a lot and am working on myself to be a better partner when the right one comes.
She told me Sunday there is a possibility in the future but then spread lies about me I also had to fight for her time to have together when we lived together
1 and a half years in i cheated on her. Not physically but on my phone. So i confessed. I would have never cheated on her in person. I was so scared and worried that she was going to leave me i acted irrationally and failed us. I’m trying to be completely honest to her and everyone, and i will be giving her space when she gives my stuff back in 2 days. I have to focus on myself and pray we can fix it down the road, but if not i will become a better man regardless.
Initially, I was also like..WTF..why does he say all this when he broke up with me.. Now in NC and I have no clue as to how many months that has been. Now - the evil spirit inside me says, dude who are you to say NOT POSSIBLE, NO CHANCE? I will tell you the effing same thing. Not possible dude. 😂😂😂 Big Deal, as though the entire world revolves around them . My friendly suggestion to you all.. Chuck them, let them go and work on yourself, your likes and keep yourself happy... This breakup is not the end of the world...its a damn trivial thing. Oh, and - My ex was a Taurus who left me after 10 yrs in the cold. He first said he needed a break and after that did not even communicate that he wanted to breakup.. I messaged him after while and he said its over and that he is never coming back. While my journey of self realization was hard... its totally, totally worth it. My life is free of drama and I am learning a new skill, taking care of my family and leading a wholesome life.. ❤
I followed the no contact advise and she came back, a few months after seeing each other I asked her would you ever cheat on me again, she said....... I can't see the future so I don't know.
I love him so much. OMG, I just don`t know what happened? I would beg him to come back. I tried so many times to move on, but it is impossible. I know it is wrong, but I love him, I just would rather dieng than being with someone else except him.... Oh, my God, please, help me, please, I beg you
I’m going through the same right now! I would do anything to get her back, I love her so much! I would rather die than live my life without her or try be with someone else!
I think I can help you with something that would help you get her back in less than 24 hours. If you can then send me a message or reply here and I will drop details for you
my story... was 20 years ago... we're both nearing 50 and single despite trying to find someone but he still doesn't want to try again ... we haven't talked for 15 years
My wife said that wants to break up with me after 22years of marriage! We always had lack of communication in the relationship, different views in some points of life and now she says that's it she wants the divorce! Very difficult times as we also have a daughter and not we want at all, although she says that though about that but first is her...😢 We still in the same family house but she wants to sell it and go different routes... I'm not contacting her that much living her space but not sure if that will result even she treated me quite bad ...
If it is over, it is over. The studies have shown that the percentage of giving it another go and being successful are very low. If they broke up with you best to work on yourself, and move on. Insanity is repeating the same thing expecting different results.
Maybe, but if people change and mature it can lead to different emotions and perceptions. I myself broke up with many women and at the time I didn’t care. It wasn’t until I grew as a person that I felt love for my past partners but by then it was to late. It all depends on time and growth
Mine said she wanted it permanently over ,then called me out of the blue speaking to me like nothing happened between us. She hung up on me , I went to her , she wouldn’t speak to me , then called me a hour later accusing me of being outside her place
My ex came back to me after 8 months of silence and he had an immediate rebound. We were together for 3 years. When he came back he was “ready” to be together and we were talking and suddenly he got “confused” and after 3 months of this he said there is no chance and left me again. He’s constantly tried no contact and he would end up coming back constantly, but idk maybe this time this no contact is different. Seems like he is avoidant attachment now and he would get so stressed and overwhelmed over everything. He says he’s okay with being alone. But I know that I messed up by begging for him too
TODAY, I became a brand new subscriber. What do you do if your ex blocks you on their phone and Soc media accounts? We don’t live together and it’s not as if I can show up to her place unannounced to attempt to talk with her. This is somewhat of a dilemma because of the circumstances. Any good approaches that you could think of? Thanks in advance.💯‼️
i am the person who broke the trust. My fiancé says she wants to stay and still loves me, but is actively in my face seeing other women and tells me i have no right to have any feelings about it, has removed me completely from her social media accounts, but still wants to operate like we are together. she want to have regular sex, share bills, celebrate holidays, tell me she loves me, but only her body and heart belongs to me. Also anytime someone else upsets her she dosent want work on it any more, when i give her what she asks shes upset because "i'm not fighting to keep her" when i actively display change and a will to let her heal while i fight for her i'm making her miserable. I dont know what to do..
She said to never speak to her again and then told me she misses being in love with me. She lost respect and love for me but she felt like I was the one. I know that what hurt her would never happen again but now she doesn’t reach out. I’m unsure of what to do but she’s the one and I want to make things right
We been broken up for along time she told me months ago go she found a new guy she even had him text me in said that she move on in we will never get back together I’m blocked on everything she said we was meant to be I begg in begg
She says she doesnt love me anymore, and shes no longer interesting and does not even find me attractive anymore. For me I cant see a way back regardless of any significant changes in myself. Ive made the mistake of pleading and asking for 2nd chances, but its no use.
How can I get free advice just can’t afford a session right at this moment with me moving out out my ex house pls need help , I tried to rekindle 2 days ago we went out as friends and she seeing someone had catching feelings for the guy but he’s married and she said he supposedly he’s gonna get divorced and he makes her feel wanted and they have a good conversations and connection but I tried to rush into things and it push her back . Pls help 🙏
An avoidant girl I used to speak to said like 3 times she’s fully done and would always let me back or come back but this time it’s been 14 days no contact normally it’s like 4 days max , and she said the same stuff again but feels different this time , I’ve been working on myself as a lot of it was me but then she’s also broken from her ex , so yeh a mess
What do I do now that my ex and I have been separated for 3 months and I pushed her away with my neediness and we see each other every day because of our kids? I want her back so much at this time.
It's a good sign that you're in touch with each other. The first step you can do is to understand her and what your family needs and your responsibility towards them. She's the mother of your children, she will give priority to something or the moments you spent with children are happy, to build back those feelings and everything which you both had that all will take time for sure but one day she'll be yours again! Lots of positivity to you and don't give up! I am sure you guys will be back soon. 😊
Mine is abit more complicated he’s 57 and his mother YES his mother made him end things with me we were buying a house together and he pulled out of the purchase 3 weeks before completion!! We went no contact for 3 months then he would only see me in secrecy and only on a strict friendly basis he was very distant with me. His mother found out that he was in contact with me 9 months ago and I’ve not heard a word from him since and I have not reached out to him to save him from backlash from his mother…. We were together for 7 years he was still living at home with mum and dad. him just ending things so abruptly broke my heart in two. I so want him to come back so any advise on him seeing that he does want a future with me when he’s obviously not even speaking to me would be most appreciated
She asked for space it’s been a week since we broke up I’ve been giving her space then some days not it’s been confusing one day she says she wants me back the other not at all and she says she still loves me and always will and I should not doubt that so I’m planning to not text her at all this week not call her and just wait for her to text me is there still hope?
Yeah I’m in the same situation it’s hard but I feel like no contact is the best thing like make her miss you give her time to think about things I tried to get her back texting her but I felt like it’s just pushing her away even more so I’m just going to respect her decision and move on focus on myself and if the love is real it’ll find it’s way back just let her reach out to you first make her chase you
Man. You have to become overwhelming confident. Get her to hangout eventually but give her like a month. Make her want to win you back. There are tons of trainings. I love the Dan bacon stuff. These guys have good stuff too. The Scrambler is another I’ve used with insane success.
Hi. What if she said the problem is herself that she can't get over of the things I have done as it leaves a shadow in her heart and she dares not continue this
My ex used to insist 1,000 times that no hope, impossible, definable not coming back for sure and after few months… he’s back and apologized and ask me to move to his place. Bla bla bla soo the future is unpredictable…
What did you do to get them back?
Love this
Aaaaw I’m hoping my baby does this. Imma be like ok baby,let’s go and be happy 😅
How long were you guys in a relationship before you broke up?
???wow congratulations I’m happy for you. I wish my ex will come back to me too
You cannot give them more of what they dont want and during the break up they dont want you. The best thing you can do is give them the break up and focus on yourself.
Thats a very good way to put it
It's true from my experiences
I doubt these guys are sitting here watching these types of videos.
Ex husband told me he no longer loved me and wanted to pursue things with others. I focused on myself and looking good feeling good. A few months passed and he admitted he still has feelings and would love to give us a chance.
I’m so happy! I will finally got my family reunited
Congrats. I hope version 2.0 works for you guys.
Congratzs! Hope that my family will be reunited soon, too! He didnt like the responsibility, esp. with kid and wanted a more "easier" life...
Please pray for me and that this happens to me, too.
I loved her so intensely.
This is giving me hopes
❤❤❤
all very true. SOO true. I did all the wrong things, and remember if anyone is going through this just do the next right thing. They can and often do change their minds. Just focus on being happy on your own. Not to get them back but because you have to. Act as if you are moving on and moving forward...you have to for you. Not for them, they may say in a moment they dont love you. Its not true, the unseen is very powerful.
I hope you are right
Truly hope so. 😩
@@rebeccadyson201you can’t hope, whether they come back or not is unforeseen right now. And you moving on is essential regardless of the outcome. Keep your head up. You’re a beautiful person who deserves love from someone who doesn’t need space to show it
If it is god will you will be together
If not someone is better coming to you
Still waiting then.
God dnt give pain...
Its humans who inflict pain on others
Thank you
My ex so stubborn. Needed this. I need all the encouragement rn, I’m so messed up
Did you ever win her back bro?
Yea we need an update
Think of it this way you dont want the old relationship because it didnt work. So nostalgia is bad you need to build a new you not worry about them outgrow them. Then when you finally do make a move it has the highest possibility of working at this point but its much more likely at this point that you will attract someone better with the added possbikity of yor ex coming back. Its not about them its about you.
My wife of 15 years, we have 3 kids left me at the beginning of the this year. Up until now I see the kids, but have no idea what she is up to. If we communicate it’s about the kids and keep it transactional. I prefer it that way. I’d like to believe she is with some else already wether it’s true or not I don’t know. It makes it easier to move on in a sense. Deal with it by moving on in your own way and don’t look back.
Same here. Wife of 16 years filed for divorce and we have 3 kids - youngest is 4 years old. While she initiated majority of our altercations, it was I that had intense reactions. I commend you for being so cool about it.
My ex ended things today after a 10 year relationship. She said we both want different things and she wants to focus on her career. She stated I didn’t help her when she was struggling with stuff, she never made those struggles clear to me so I was just going on as usual. I haven’t begged for her to take me back. I’m hoping in time with self improvement and space we will reconnect. She truly is the love of my life. I’m heartbroken, but not giving up ❤
Did you have any luck bro?
What happened?
Thanks guys! Now I have a more clear vision for what I need to do in order to give myself a better chance at getting my EX back! It’s almost like this video literally read my mind 🤯
Did you get your ex back?
@@vin.t_17 hope so and trust me no contact rules will kill just using silence will draw them back trust me giving you advice from my experience
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago when the love of my life decided to move on. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the memories we created together. I've done everything I can to try to bring her back, but nothing has worked. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've tried to push the thoughts away, but they keep coming back. I’m not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I really miss her and wish I could have her back.
Hello, a month is such a short time - it is absolutely normal for the wound to feel so fresh. I encourage you to take this time to spend 100% of your free time on activities that feel fresh and healthy (gym, time with friends, meet new people, go to new places, etc.) By doing so, not only will you feel better and more in control, it will be much easier to tell your ex that you understand that you both deserve more happiness, and your ex will notice that you've truly adopted this mindset. This is what will make her see the relationship in a new light.
Very best,
Coach Adrian
When she broke up she said she loved me but that it’s not enough. We are both going through difficult time outside the relationship. Said that I wasn’t making things easy for her because she was distant and I took it personally. I asked her if it was definitive. She said she thinks we’re too old to believe time will fix things. I thought we had a good relationship, I really think she made a mistake. She is very stubborn. At first I did the whole I want to be in your life thing. Then a few weeks later I told her I couldn’t talk for awhile because I want to keep the positive momentum I’ve built going. And that I would talk to her later. I know how she is, not the type to reach out no matter her feelings. It’s just hard to know when it’s ok to try to ease back in
Thanks for sharing my ex is stubborn, prideful , and has little patience (according to herself). She said no to me 3 times I figured 3 Strikes i am out.
Same situation I’m in stubborn af she is so I think it’s time to keep it moving
Did you ever have any luck bro?
I never thought that such a vidoes may give you such a relief.
Then just let it go, they are not the only person on the earth! Work on yourself and get a new one!!
TRUE WORDS SPOKEN HERE.
Mine says who knows what the future holds and “I don’t think it’ll work out.” But then he gives me false hope too. He has his things in my garage for a year and a half and pays my utilities while living separated. He’s slowly but surely come to get things but I have reached out a few times. He still hasn’t changed his mind but hasn’t moved on either. But then again who knows what he’s doing. I’m now enjoying myself but I still love them. :(
Mine had his stuff in my garage too !!
I needed this best video I seen on here !! I am working so hard to get back with my wife
Leave and get a younger one.
Best of luck man
Did you win her back bro?
The ONLY people I listen to are these guys and Kelscoaching - Totally got me over my heartbreak x
Actually I watch these videos to move on but I like the hope and vibe you're sharing it saves people's lives thank you.
These relationship videos are watched by not only folks in a crisis-situation, but those who are watching for their own issues, which may trip us up, regardless of who is wrong/right, or where we are on life's journey. And, Jordan Peterson's videos are excellent for these issues. Thanks.
this is sanitary true with me had him back several times nothing's changed I'm done I've had enough
my x contacted me after 2 weeks I was not ready. I still felt very emotional. I did talk to them. they bagged me to come back. I decided to yes give him another chance. yes what a big mistake that was. he left me weeks later for another woman. so I told him I will never have him back I was so very angry with them.
Nice video! I just can't believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. I've tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him. I'm frustrated I don't see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I don't know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him!
Hello,
It is a painful experience when the person you love leaves your life, but it’s crucial to focus on yourself and your healing journey. No matter what the future holds, this is the most important thing to do right now.
Best,
Coach Adrian
I really like how calm and confident you both talk! really gives a positive feeling and possibility to grow and learn ,
but omg I feel myself as the dummy in the test car, I did all the possible mistakes and was asking myself why I am not good enough and push her away so much, how to become better please help guys
I can help you get your ex back
How to become better change your bad habits and have a strong attitude and don’t be clingy and become who u were in the beginning, us men have a habit of getting comfortable when she’s ours and we start to slack and lose ourselves and our style and attraction dies out.
If it is god will you will be together.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
My partner of 27 years ended things 6 weeks ago. We still live together. Went out shopping for the day. He said he enjoys my company. I did do a lot of things in the relationship which I'm not proud of.
He has only told a few people. He hasn't told any friends that he sees every weekend. They think he is just out having a good drink with the lads
You shouldnt be so present in his life as you both break up! Otherwise he wont take you back!
yes because I really don't want them back
What if they started a new relationship? We had problems and 4 months after our break he got in a relationship which leads me to believe he was cheating with this person!
Your videos always give me positive energy. I mean the more I watch, the more I'm finding my self. keep up the good work my favorites coaches
Love this platform. Helping so many at a difficult time to regain their sense of self. Excellent!!!
Thanks a lot!
Guys i need you right now. I´m going trough a break up from a relationship of 10 years and i´m so scared i wan´t her back 😢
I’m going through a break up of 7 years💔. We broke up before and got back together but this time it feels so real, it’s as if there’s no chance😣
@@linahmphuthi3758 same here Linah:(
She won’t take me back because I did some stuff but it wasn’t planned
How are you doing?
she is waiting for the divorce paper, love her so much to beautiful children together
Listening from Rome
I'm so glad that we have you guys as for coaches! Love you guys! And thank you! Yes! I am focusing on today!
You're so rite. I actually experience same thing now.
I can tell you that a 5-year relationship I was in ended last year around this time. Now this is where the 80/20 rule comes in. I knew the 80% of what I really wanted in a relationship she could not offer yet the physical chemistry between us was the best we had both ever had and were doing so many firsts even having numerous partners before. Now I can't sit here and tell you that I'll ever find that Feeling Again of lust / love but that was just 20% once that wears out I really want the 80% we need to focus on the 80% over the 20% because the 20% will fade and 80% is what you'll want long-term growing old. These are 100% facts.
Hello, I appreciate you sharing this here. You have a very good mindset, and I wish you much success.
Sincerely,
Coach Adrian
Moving forward with memories. Strengers with memories 😊
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Hi I’m currently going through a breakup of 5 years. There was infidelity on my end and we have a 2 year old daughter together. I feel like I ruined the whole relationship and her life. He is moving out and says we will never be back together. Currently seeking counseling for myself. I am remorse full and regret everything I did I completely destroyed his trust. Just really hurt that I did this to someone I love and want to make it right.
How is it going?
I am having similar situation, but I ruined my woman life.
We have no kids, but she gave me so much support and I have never gave her a fraction of it.
She is the best person I ever knew. I am signed for therapy myself. I didn't even noticed that she was going through hard times herself😢
Any updates ?
@@nieczerwony did you manage to get through it? Did you win her back?
any update bro?
The most helpful video ever
Where was this video when I needed it
It's never too late!
Wow my girlfriend say we will not get back together but this change my mind thanks very much to u both
Did she come back?
But what if I already done those things? the pleading and begging. I drown with my emotions instead of stepping back.
Two words, walk away.
If it’s meant to be they will come back, if not move on with your life. Do not wait for them in the meantime, it will drive you crazy. Saying this because I’m currently going through the same situation.
@@jonaveul I did. Some days it's really tough. But as time goes by I get more clarity. Missing the person and the aching still there. But it is also liberating to fight those urges. Holding on to the emotions of the past won't allow me to create a new future. I'm hopeful that all of these are not for nothing. If it's not him then it is someone better. I don't have regrets as I did everything to salvage the relationship. It has been almost a month and I almost lost every ounce of my self respect for begging someone to take me back when I haven't done anything wrong. The person has wronged me a few times but God knows I will never leave the relationship. Hence he let the person hurt me even more for me to be awake. I don't have regrets. Actually I am so grateful that it happened. I learned a lot and am working on myself to be a better partner when the right one comes.
She told me Sunday there is a possibility in the future but then spread lies about me I also had to fight for her time to have together when we lived together
1 and a half years in i cheated on her. Not physically but on my phone. So i confessed. I would have never cheated on her in person. I was so scared and worried that she was going to leave me i acted irrationally and failed us. I’m trying to be completely honest to her and everyone, and i will be giving her space when she gives my stuff back in 2 days. I have to focus on myself and pray we can fix it down the road, but if not i will become a better man regardless.
Initially, I was also like..WTF..why does he say all this when he broke up with me.. Now in NC and I have no clue as to how many months that has been. Now - the evil spirit inside me says, dude who are you to say NOT POSSIBLE, NO CHANCE? I will tell you the effing same thing. Not possible dude. 😂😂😂 Big Deal, as though the entire world revolves around them
. My friendly suggestion to you all.. Chuck them, let them go and work on yourself, your likes and keep yourself happy... This breakup is not the end of the world...its a damn trivial thing.
Oh, and - My ex was a Taurus who left me after 10 yrs in the cold. He first said he needed a break and after that did not even communicate that he wanted to breakup.. I messaged him after while and he said its over and that he is never coming back.
While my journey of self realization was hard... its totally, totally worth it. My life is free of drama and I am learning a new skill, taking care of my family and leading a wholesome life.. ❤
My Ex went viral himself about our break up with families, friends and community stating he is never going back
How is it going ?
I followed the no contact advise and she came back, a few months after seeing each other I asked her would you ever cheat on me again, she said....... I can't see the future so I don't know.
I love him so much. OMG, I just don`t know what happened? I would beg him to come back. I tried so many times to move on, but it is impossible. I know it is wrong, but I love him, I just would rather dieng than being with someone else except him.... Oh, my God, please, help me, please, I beg you
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I’m going through the same right now! I would do anything to get her back, I love her so much! I would rather die than live my life without her or try be with someone else!
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What if the breakup is because your parents don't want him and he has refused to still stand by you despite your parents disapproval
my story... was 20 years ago... we're both nearing 50 and single despite trying to find someone but he still doesn't want to try again ... we haven't talked for 15 years
Excellent.
Bravo pour le travail les gars!
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My wife said that wants to break up with me after 22years of marriage! We always had lack of communication in the relationship, different views in some points of life and now she says that's it she wants the divorce! Very difficult times as we also have a daughter and not we want at all, although she says that though about that but first is her...😢
We still in the same family house but she wants to sell it and go different routes... I'm not contacting her that much living her space but not sure if that will result even she treated me quite bad ...
Wow..thank you both for wonderful knowledge..helped me alot
Thanks guys, I really appreciate and need this information right now.
Thanks a lot!
Thank youso much love this it heals me❤❤
You're welcome 😊
If it is over, it is over. The studies have shown that the percentage of giving it another go and being successful are very low. If they broke up with you best to work on yourself, and move on. Insanity is repeating the same thing expecting different results.
Unfortunately this is spot on 😢
@@preid100What about a wife for 2 years who has filed for divorce ? Does your equation still hold the same for this case ?
Maybe, but if people change and mature it can lead to different emotions and perceptions. I myself broke up with many women and at the time I didn’t care. It wasn’t until I grew as a person that I felt love for my past partners but by then it was to late. It all depends on time and growth
Actually the stats say 50% of ppl get back together..
Thats such a bs study lol. I know plenty of people who have gotten married even after cheating was involved
Great video!! This info works in general friendship as well!
I just sent her a message after a week. she immediately responded “BLOCKED “
Sorry to hear that.
That’s awful bro! Did you ever manage to get her back?
Mine said she wanted it permanently over ,then called me out of the blue speaking to me like nothing happened between us.
She hung up on me , I went to her , she wouldn’t speak to me , then called me a hour later accusing me of being outside her place
My ex came back to me after 8 months of silence and he had an immediate rebound. We were together for 3 years. When he came back he was “ready” to be together and we were talking and suddenly he got “confused” and after 3 months of this he said there is no chance and left me again. He’s constantly tried no contact and he would end up coming back constantly, but idk maybe this time this no contact is different. Seems like he is avoidant attachment now and he would get so stressed and overwhelmed over everything. He says he’s okay with being alone. But I know that I messed up by begging for him too
What if you ex hooks up with someone that gives her what she didn't get from you?
She never cared.
This helped me thank you .
Thank you so much for your comment! We're so glad this video could help you!
TODAY, I became a brand new subscriber. What do you do if your ex blocks you on their phone and Soc media accounts? We don’t live together and it’s not as if I can show up to her place unannounced to attempt to talk with her. This is somewhat of a dilemma because of the circumstances. Any good approaches that you could think of? Thanks in advance.💯‼️
Thanks guys, you really helped me find the way
i am the person who broke the trust. My fiancé says she wants to stay and still loves me, but is actively in my face seeing other women and tells me i have no right to have any feelings about it, has removed me completely from her social media accounts, but still wants to operate like we are together. she want to have regular sex, share bills, celebrate holidays, tell me she loves me, but only her body and heart belongs to me. Also anytime someone else upsets her she dosent want work on it any more, when i give her what she asks shes upset because "i'm not fighting to keep her" when i actively display change and a will to let her heal while i fight for her i'm making her miserable. I dont know what to do..
I just want to change and my mouth get me in trouble.
She said to never speak to her again and then told me she misses being in love with me. She lost respect and love for me but she felt like I was the one. I know that what hurt her would never happen again but now she doesn’t reach out. I’m unsure of what to do but she’s the one and I want to make things right
We been broken up for along time she told me months ago go she found a new guy she even had him text me in said that she move on in we will never get back together I’m blocked on everything she said we was meant to be I begg in begg
What if they tell you they also havnt loved you in a long time but yet they just professed their love for you a week prior
Liars can’t be trusted… I literally just went through this… fuck them
Just move on
You people are amazing ❤🎉😂
Thank you for this.. I just had an aha moment
Thank you. . . I will try to have hope ❤
You can do it!
Let's go 🚀
Exactly what am experiencing
Thank you guys ❤
Thank you guys.
Thank you so much ❤
What if the cause of breakup was me making a rude comment?
She says she doesnt love me anymore, and shes no longer interesting and does not even find me attractive anymore. For me I cant see a way back regardless of any significant changes in myself. Ive made the mistake of pleading and asking for 2nd chances, but its no use.
Did you ever have any luck bro?
let god restore your marriage brother if it his will he the only one that can fix it
All the good work that relationship coaches like you do , get destroyed by Saadia Khan and Andrew Tate 😔
She said I should give a time.
But she said she is in a serious relationship and you know the guy that she talking about, what should I do.
Same
How can I get free advice just can’t afford a session right at this moment with me moving out out my ex house pls need help , I tried to rekindle 2 days ago we went out as friends and she seeing someone had catching feelings for the guy but he’s married and she said he supposedly he’s gonna get divorced and he makes her feel wanted and they have a good conversations and connection but I tried to rush into things and it push her back . Pls help 🙏
Thanks guys
You're welcome!
Is it right to delete his contact from ur phone so he could not see your status or u online?
Yes
An avoidant girl I used to speak to said like 3 times she’s fully done and would always let me back or come back but this time it’s been 14 days no contact normally it’s like 4 days max , and she said the same stuff again but feels different this time , I’ve been working on myself as a lot of it was me but then she’s also broken from her ex , so yeh a mess
Did she came back?
Great advise . Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
My ex is very stabbon and he will never come back...his got no interest..😭
What do I do now that my ex and I have been separated for 3 months and I pushed her away with my neediness and we see each other every day because of our kids?
I want her back so much at this time.
It's a good sign that you're in touch with each other. The first step you can do is to understand her and what your family needs and your responsibility towards them. She's the mother of your children, she will give priority to something or the moments you spent with children are happy, to build back those feelings and everything which you both had that all will take time for sure but one day she'll be yours again! Lots of positivity to you and don't give up! I am sure you guys will be back soon. 😊
What if ex says there is no hope there never come back and i chase her for 5 months but then applying no contact rule whether he/she come back or not
Hi guys,my ex told me that she is currently dating someone else. Will she ever come back?
Yes
Very nice video, am currently in this situation, 4.5 months now, how do i get in touch with you???
Mine is abit more complicated he’s 57 and his mother YES his mother made him end things with me we were buying a house together and he pulled out of the purchase 3 weeks before completion!! We went no contact for 3 months then he would only see me in secrecy and only on a strict friendly basis he was very distant with me. His mother found out that he was in contact with me 9 months ago and I’ve not heard a word from him since and I have not reached out to him to save him from backlash from his mother…. We were together for 7 years he was still living at home with mum and dad. him just ending things so abruptly broke my heart in two. I so want him to come back so any advise on him seeing that he does want a future with me when he’s obviously not even speaking to me would be most appreciated
Yeah, argue your way out of a relationship 🙄
She asked for space it’s been a week since we broke up I’ve been giving her space then some days not it’s been confusing one day she says she wants me back the other not at all and she says she still loves me and always will and I should not doubt that so I’m planning to not text her at all this week not call her and just wait for her to text me is there still hope?
Yeah I’m in the same situation it’s hard but I feel like no contact is the best thing like make her miss you give her time to think about things I tried to get her back texting her but I felt like it’s just pushing her away even more so I’m just going to respect her decision and move on focus on myself and if the love is real it’ll find it’s way back just let her reach out to you first make her chase you
Man. You have to become overwhelming confident. Get her to hangout eventually but give her like a month. Make her want to win you back. There are tons of trainings. I love the Dan bacon stuff. These guys have good stuff too. The Scrambler is another I’ve used with insane success.
She’s got another guy in mind…
We divorced he came back a few months later tried it a couple of months snd now he left again 🙇🏼♀️ he says no more
Sorry to hear that.
What about he asked for space but he's actually seeing someone else?
how about my ex chose the other woman between me and my children and nkw they living together and they are almost 5 months in a relationship
She broke up, 1 yr relationship 😰now she wants like ONLY FRIEND 😰NOT BLOCK ME.. BUT IGNORE ME🥺🥺🥺I LOVE HER
that really is not a nice thing to do mind games like that
What if we still have communication even after she said that she'll cut our communication. Plus she said that she's a better friend than a lover.
I lost my partner of 16 years a year and a half ago and no luck no where no growth no responses nothing think I should just give up
What was your plan to get your partner back ? Which actions have you done ?
Hi. What if she said the problem is herself that she can't get over of the things I have done as it leaves a shadow in her heart and she dares not continue this