What To Do If Your Ex Says There's No Chance Of Getting Back Together?

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @robertbaca988
    @robertbaca988 3 года назад +832

    I’ve honestly never felt so broken and dead inside ever since she chose to call it quits. Everyday fighting these thoughts is so tiring and I still miss her so much. I’ve been trying my hardest to let go after the months that have passed, but this is the toughest fight I have ever had Togo through in my life. I pray for others who feel the same as me.
    Update: quick update for everyone who is interested. The process of moving on was a very hard task and it made me realize a bunch of things about myself. I had no clue who I was without her and I used her as an emotional crutch because I was scared to be alone with my thought’s. It took breaking down mentally to realize I needed help to mend wounds from my childhood and help is what I got. I now found value in myself and no longer scared to be alone, honestly I prefer it now. I met an amazing woman and we are expecting a son next month. The whole experience helped me become a better man today. A better husband and a soon to be father. My son will not feel the pain I felt most of my life. It is possible my fellow people. If I can do it, I have no doubt you can as well.

    • @CherryBlossom-vr2dc
      @CherryBlossom-vr2dc 3 года назад +67

      I know your anguish. Feels like it's never going to end sometimes...😥 When I feel alone, I read these comments and see there are many others hurting like me.

    • @robertbaca988
      @robertbaca988 3 года назад +42

      @@CherryBlossom-vr2dc it truly does suck. Don’t wish this pain on anyone

    • @CherryBlossom-vr2dc
      @CherryBlossom-vr2dc 3 года назад +45

      @@robertbaca988 I know 😔 The depth of the emotional pain is almost a radiating physical ache if that makes sense? It feels like the other person never cared at all and it was so easy to walk away.

    • @robertbaca988
      @robertbaca988 3 года назад +22

      @@CherryBlossom-vr2dc i know exactly what you’re feeling. You are truly not alone in this. We got this! 💪🏼🙏🏼

    • @jewelfewel
      @jewelfewel 3 года назад +11

      I'm going thru a similar experience. Just have to work toward progress and trust NC. It's great to have such a great support system here on the youtubes

  • @jasonbrophy5567
    @jasonbrophy5567 4 года назад +546

    I'm praying for everyone to get the ex back. I miss mine and have already proven I don't need her to live. She's done the same I just pray I get to see her soon and resolve the situation in person.

  • @tonymontana5753
    @tonymontana5753 4 года назад +270

    Lack of communication is what leads to break ups. Please communicate with your partner if you dont feel good in the relationship. By talking you can solve many issues. There will always be problems when 2 humans come together. Both think differently. So its common. This should not lead to break ups.

    • @lunaluna8100
      @lunaluna8100 3 года назад +7

      @@axelbriggjern3534 Indeed. My anxiety led him to break up with me. Whenever I told him I have anxiety, he used to tell me "Anxiety about what?".

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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    • @monicawylie3985
      @monicawylie3985 2 года назад +1

      I tried communicating with my ex. I didn’t badger or nag. I was communicating issues. We both tried. Sometimes I would just let things lie so we could just experience one another without him thinking I’m just being a pain in the butt. 😆

    • @Nimbus3690
      @Nimbus3690 2 года назад +1

      @@lunaluna8100 well did you communicate what your anxiety was about?

  • @hodanbille
    @hodanbille 9 месяцев назад +17

    "They just have to doubt, just a little bit of doubt, that's all it takes to have the house of cards fall to the ground." -Coach Lee

  • @Godsgift2mee
    @Godsgift2mee 3 года назад +163

    I can vouch for this. I told my ex that we would NEVER get back together. After a year being broken up and 5 months after saying that statement I then felt completely different. By then my ex had moved on. But my point is MY feelings changed.

    • @kindallwoodly1101
      @kindallwoodly1101 3 года назад +4

      I’d like to ask you this, my ex just told me that last week, and I’ve left her alone, but she reached out to me for this past week. I wasn’t always a good man towards her, but she told me she misses me ( after I told her the same thing). My main point is, if you as the dumpe played your role in the breakdown of a relationship, how will I know that my ex’s feelings of not wanting to get back together have changed?

    • @saschagussler2052
      @saschagussler2052 2 года назад

      Are you a girl or a guy?

    • @thehavoc6331
      @thehavoc6331 2 года назад +1

      Did you reached out to your ex then, to see if your ex takes you back?

    • @rbguerreiro2466
      @rbguerreiro2466 2 года назад +4

      Good on your ex for moving on.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 Год назад +1

      @@kindallwoodly1101 sound like me bro...I think if the good outweighed the bad she may come back just give her more time and mean what you say when you have pleaded to her and explained you mess ups...it will hit her after some time

  • @rivv010
    @rivv010 4 года назад +271

    If you’ve treated your ex good for the most part and they broke up with you they will come back.
    Typically the ones that don’t come back have legitimate reasons but from my experience if I’ve treated an ex girlfriend good, they always come back.

    • @echox000
      @echox000 3 года назад +10

      @Eso Tarot STFU

    • @3ndoku5h
      @3ndoku5h 3 года назад +1

      I usually contribute that to this fat dong🤷‍♂️

    • @foreverred105
      @foreverred105 3 года назад +4

      @@solonesq How are you getting on now? I treated mine very well. I am on 33 days no contact. It is tough going.

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @bosslady991
    @bosslady991 2 года назад +119

    Even if they say there’s no chance believe me they will come back just give them space.. and time

  • @DerMelodist
    @DerMelodist 5 лет назад +350

    My ex said, “I’m certain of my decision.” I think she really meant it. Good news is that I’m moving on.

    • @robertscottTV
      @robertscottTV 5 лет назад +15

      Stay strong you got this

    • @vdubmansmith86
      @vdubmansmith86 5 лет назад +18

      The Melodist that's the mindset you have to have. You just move on and find someone else delete them from your social media accounts and trust and believe they will be the ones wondering what happened to you when you ghost them.

    • @randonlee
      @randonlee 5 лет назад +106

      One of my exes said the same and even dated a guy. I walked away calmly and didn’t chase. Of course the rebound failed and I started getting text. Played it cool and eventually asked her if she’d like to go to a concert with me just for fun long story short is she came back and since I studied and worked on myself I was different and ready. I was actually so much better i ended up leaving her and wanted something better. Number one thing that worked was I didn’t chase and I worked on myself

    • @vdubmansmith86
      @vdubmansmith86 5 лет назад +11

      @@randonlee that's what Im talking about. That real testimony and your actions to take your life and confidence back payed off. Congrats to you and as always respect yourself first and prosperity will come your way undoubtedly.

    • @whisperingwind7730
      @whisperingwind7730 5 лет назад +1

      Leroy Jones Good for U man!! Thanks for sharing ur story!!
      Very cool. 🌬🙏🏻🙌🏻✨🙂

  • @sharonpaul1618
    @sharonpaul1618 2 года назад +20

    never felt so betrayed by the feeling of how he could just walk away while i tried so hard to make it work. it’s been one and a half year of the breakup, he reaches out to me at times just to small talk. We finally met yesterday after the breakup and it was so emotional for me cuz I felt so many things but couldn’t show it infront of him, I still thought we could give this a shot but all he said was,”he’s not ready to be emotionally invested”. i never felt this broken before feels like we actually broke up yesterday and not like a year and half ago

    • @cateyelizabeth85
      @cateyelizabeth85 Год назад

      I hope everything is going well with you. If it's meant to be it will be. I know it's cliche but it's true. Don't forget God is in control and time how we perceive it doesn't limit Him. Just have faith and be strong that's what I'm doing.

  • @loveswintertrees
    @loveswintertrees 4 года назад +40

    So true. People break up usually because they dont see hope for things working.

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time...

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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    • @Nazo_moon
      @Nazo_moon 2 года назад

      @@HolyRollerTV 😂😂😂😂

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Год назад

      Why?

  • @ekowitaly
    @ekowitaly 5 лет назад +186

    This coach is genuine

    • @ekowitaly
      @ekowitaly 5 лет назад +2

      My ex has started talking to me on phone for hours. Expressing why she asked out. She says she won't friendship. Am confused. Am just playing cool,my trust for her is toooo low.What can I do still?

    • @vdubmansmith86
      @vdubmansmith86 5 лет назад +1

      @@ekowitaly Just give it time and if you decide to talk to her act like you got things to do or places to go. Make her chase you for a bit by remaining mysterious and keep your conversations with her to a minimum. That's going to make her curious and she might stop playing subliminal games with you by staying quiet as possible. Dont give her no more energy unless she's really about that life. Until then play it cool and keep doing you and don't waste your time going back and forth with her.

    • @elliejade4801
      @elliejade4801 4 года назад

      Absolutely he is

    • @jasonarokiaraj9817
      @jasonarokiaraj9817 4 года назад

      Yes, as is Brad Browning.

  • @NotYourTypicalMermaid94
    @NotYourTypicalMermaid94 4 года назад +167

    See I'm a long haul type of girl I'm hopeful of being with my ex one day. I'm going to focus on myself and finish my bachelors degree and then go to Med School. Forward Progress.

    • @thefnaffan2
      @thefnaffan2 4 года назад +5

      Good for you... Focus on yourself, you might change your mind later anyway. Good luck

    • @loveswintertrees
      @loveswintertrees 4 года назад +5

      same but studying as a premed is nearly immpossible when youre heartbroken. I hope it works out for you. Im studying the MCAT and nothing is sticking because hes all i tihnk about.

    • @NotYourTypicalMermaid94
      @NotYourTypicalMermaid94 4 года назад +2

      @@loveswintertrees nothing is impossible :) heartbreak is only temporary do this for your future.

    • @animerealityquotes8345
      @animerealityquotes8345 4 года назад

      Any update?

    • @SJ-nw1ym
      @SJ-nw1ym 3 года назад

      @@NotYourTypicalMermaid94 update?

  • @theprototype907
    @theprototype907 2 года назад +28

    I BROKE NO CONTACT (like Coach Lee said not to😅💔😭). AND HE MADE IT CERTAIN THAT HE’S GOTTA STICK TO HIS DECISION. WE WERE FRIENDS FOR 8 YRS SO I FELT SAFER W HIM, WE LOST EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION. I WAS WILLING TO WORK ON IT ONCE I FIGURED OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS. I HAVE NO ONE TO TALK TO SO IM VENTING ON HERE. I PRAY FOR US ALL💔💔💔😭😭 I THOUGHT HE WAS THE ONE

    • @danieller9778
      @danieller9778 Год назад

      Any update?

    • @theprototype907
      @theprototype907 Год назад +1

      @@danieller9778 NO, NOTHING. 6WKS NC…😢
      IVE LET GO PRETTY MUCH

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Год назад +1

      ​@THE PROTOTYPE Give it more time, you never know!

    • @user-id1qb1vm2s
      @user-id1qb1vm2s 6 месяцев назад

      @@theprototype907any update?

    • @Ieiesjso
      @Ieiesjso 4 месяца назад

      Any update?​@@theprototype907

  • @markvincentr.degrano8901
    @markvincentr.degrano8901 3 года назад +15

    My ex told me that we will never be the same again. And i told her that i respected her decision. Im applying no contact rule for 1week and still continue improving myself.

    • @Avgytbwatcher1765
      @Avgytbwatcher1765 3 года назад +3

      And how’s it going she ever reach out? Try not to focus so much on her saying that, nc is to improve yourself and to gain confidence and attraction from them so of course she’s right but you have to prove it’ won’t be the same cause it will be better different man different time so it will be different of course

    • @markvincentr.degrano8901
      @markvincentr.degrano8901 3 года назад +4

      @@Avgytbwatcher1765 youre right bro. Now i lose weight, hitting at the gym, focus in my grind and purpose. Now i am now more confident compare from the start of doing no contact. I dont any updates from her and im not interested now 😊

    • @Avgytbwatcher1765
      @Avgytbwatcher1765 3 года назад +2

      @@markvincentr.degrano8901 there you go bro 😎 keep your head up and keep grinding and make sure to evaluate things from the relationship so things will be better in your next one

    • @markvincentr.degrano8901
      @markvincentr.degrano8901 3 года назад +1

      @@Avgytbwatcher1765 thanks for the encouragement bro. Keep safe

    • @gagsjjmomom9014
      @gagsjjmomom9014 2 года назад

      @@markvincentr.degrano8901 did she reach out?

  • @monisagoo
    @monisagoo 3 года назад +20

    Coach Lee is awesome…. He’s helping me a lot through his videos. It hurts like hell because of the breakup. I am trying everything I can possibly do to take the pain away of the breakup. It causes so much anguish, anxiety, a blow to your self esteem, and various other emotions. You cannot concentrate on work. All you do is think about your ex every moment you are awake.

    • @yihaw149
      @yihaw149 2 года назад +3

      Hey guys please don't worry and try to distract yourself with as many activities as possible. Allow yourself to grieve but stay strong in your mindset that you probably deserve someone better, who will stick with you through thick and thin. It's hard I know but i think having a strong enough self love will raise your esteem and standards on how you want to be treated. I was dumped by a person i care a lot about. He even admitted that he was not a good bf and that i was always the one trying. But still he ended things. I've then decided that some people are just not worth it no matter how much you cared and loved them. If they truly value you, you guys wouldn't be here.

    • @peteypablo8687
      @peteypablo8687 2 года назад

      Get out the house , don’t listen to live songs , it takes time , I’m 45 days in and live with my ex and I have to move out , I have my emotional days off and on , yeah it’s hard , try to sleep and eat and work out … maybe try to talk to other t people …. We are all in this together…

  • @aleksshenesq
    @aleksshenesq 3 года назад +7

    Of all the coaches, I like Coach Lee. It's not just what he says, but the way he says it, with wisdom and maturity. His voice is comforting. While we are on the subject of "no chance," Coach Lee, is there a chance you yourself would be taking coaching calls? Any other coach is not you!

  • @lezscartes7798
    @lezscartes7798 4 года назад +38

    My wife and I decided to separate after 1 1/2 years marriage. Admittedly I Was unfaithful and displayed NPD traits and gaslight her towards the end of the relationship which led to us deciding to split up and agreed to see other people. She began seeing someone and I found out and did the plead and beg ,was constantly watching her statuses on social media . Called her and we had a fight she said she was right to leave and tis was definitely the end. I felt that it definitely was. I miss her but cut her off from all media . Want to save whatever little dignity I have left. Decided on no contact initially with the intention of getting her back. But this slowly turning into making myself a better person. Started therapy and who knows the next person will get the real me not a psycho narcissist.

  • @luvngold1
    @luvngold1 7 месяцев назад +4

    blocked me, deleted social media, changed numbers 💔 it hurts. Especially being in different states. I made my mistakes, (begged /pleaded bc wanted closure/ anxiety, blamed myself ) I never wanted him out of my life, never wanted to push him away, but I think I blew it. I even said that I respected his decision, just the hardest part was him not being in my life in any capacity, even as a friend. He said his “”final goodbyes.” to me, he’s done this before in the past, but I think this is it this time

    • @dawnokeefe8456
      @dawnokeefe8456 Месяц назад +1

      Same for me, but he left me on 26th September 2024 for the first time. Honestly, if he doesn't come back, it means that he is too strict as a partner in general.

  • @jeffreylapore2619
    @jeffreylapore2619 3 года назад +90

    i find your videos as stress reliever. when i start to get paranoid i will immediately play a video specifically on what my kind of emotion i feel at the moment.. thank you.🙏..very much..

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time...

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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  • @GregWorzel
    @GregWorzel 2 года назад +8

    Funny how the hurt goes away and it's replaced with embarrassment for allowing yourself to be so disrespected. She says I have low self esteem. Funny, that wasn't a problem until after being married to her for 23 years. Time to start respecting myself again. I'm not perfect but I'm a caring, loving person. My future is in God's hands...and He loves me. I'm good.

  • @blazinbloke
    @blazinbloke 4 года назад +11

    3 weeks ago, my wife of 18 years recently said she wasn't emotionally attracted to me anymore. This was on the back of me finding out she had been having a Facebook Messenger flirty thing with a bloke in Europe. We live in the UK. You're videos are really good source for helping to explain things to me from her perspective. I've moved out now. Thank you.

    • @blazinbloke
      @blazinbloke 4 года назад

      @@rollinswnag3533 Hi

    • @blazinbloke
      @blazinbloke 4 года назад

      @Queen MJ who's number is this

    • @blazinbloke
      @blazinbloke 4 года назад

      @Dierks Bentley Hello Dierks

  • @hollydrucker5235
    @hollydrucker5235 4 года назад +9

    Coach no matter how much I love this person I do not want anyone that does not want me in there life . I have too much respect for myself to be a annoyance to anyone even in this case. I put him first and trusted him and my love for him clouded my vision of things. No more, he will have to come to me or not at all. Thank you ! GOOD VIDEO AS ALWAYS!

  • @Casanova102986
    @Casanova102986 5 лет назад +37

    nothing more that i look forward to than a coach lee video.

  • @infinitewave4565
    @infinitewave4565 4 года назад +35

    Literally the real life “hitch”😂

  • @micallll100
    @micallll100 5 лет назад +48

    My story is very sad since I ruined my realtionship because of anxitey now I am alll alone and would be a single mom

    • @toms81162
      @toms81162 4 года назад +8

      Same here for the last year. I think depression as well. I tried to shake it, knew I was screwing up but stayed on the same path. Out of control, weird I just couldnt stop being an ass. It has happened before and we have gotten back together. Now she says Ive heard it before, we wont be getting back, she doesnt love me. I have no idea if this was anger or the truth. Ill find out soon I guess

    • @aalagh57
      @aalagh57 4 года назад +4

      You are not alone... you are pretty and good .. and god is watching over you honey.. hang on

    • @generatie
      @generatie 4 года назад +1

      Make anxiety your enemy then! I hope things will work out for you and your children

  • @fian7304
    @fian7304 3 года назад +4

    I did NC to 2 of my exes because they couldnt stop cheating behind my back and they ghosted me whenever i reached out. Finally I came to an edge and I left. No turning back. And since then, both of them keep reaching out to me via my social media. Not just them, also their gfs. I was too kind back then ,but now not anymore.

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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  • @dennispeel715
    @dennispeel715 3 года назад +4

    I notice there are so many men on here saying their ex is confident of their decision to leave! And they have thought it through and are better for it. The world is changing so fast. All of a sudden men are not worthy of their wives?? There is such a selfish thought among them in common. But let them go- see how they do. As for me my Savior has a plan for me and I’ll take it! My happiness does not come from them!

  • @officialjustinalvarez
    @officialjustinalvarez 3 года назад +4

    This is such bs 💔💔💔 I hate going through this

  • @josipakozul8215
    @josipakozul8215 4 года назад +6

    Coach Lee, I had one intense LDR one year ago. My boyfriend said there is no chance of ever getting back together, after some time (2-3)months i contacted him and apologised, he said he wanna be friends with me. But I just gave up and move on, and he never took intiative to contact me first. NOW I have another LDR with different guy, we were dating for seven months and he is a bit older than me. I enjoyed our relationship and saw future with him, although future cant be soon because we live in different cities. We got into bigger fight and he said he is tired of LDR. But problem is, I see same patterns like relationship before. I am always the one who gets dump. He said he cares about me but dont want nothing anymore and asked for space. I gave him space of 10 days without contact which is longest we ever went without contact, and I reached out. It was mistake because he was very cold and said he doesnt feel anything for me anymore. I am afraid that he will never reach out again because same thing happend with this guy in past, they just move on. I think distance is biggest deal breaker. We also had fights a lot through this 7 months, I dont know whats the reason, some little things

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 4 года назад +5

      You know what coach lee is gonna say? DO NO CONTACT PROPERLY. DONT REACH OUT GURL LOL. If it takes 45, 60 days or more, so be it. Dont be low value. P.s. they usually reach out between 45 and 60 days of no contact. You were reaching out way too soon

  • @theyluvvcoco
    @theyluvvcoco 4 месяца назад +2

    i cried every night for weeks. once i stopped he started loving me again and came back. but is that really love when they are like this when u cry

  • @adamdeveau6311
    @adamdeveau6311 3 года назад +5

    I'm in the friend zone now and she said there's no chance. It's been 4 months since break up. I'm walking away.

  • @unknownx8504
    @unknownx8504 5 лет назад +13

    I've had an ex come back before. Was together for 3 years and she broke it off with me. I was absolutely shattered into pieces and she seemed much better than i was. I begged and pleaded for a few weeks thinking it would make her regret her decision but looking back it probably wasn't the best idea. I eventually started doing my own thing and about 5-6 months later met someone else, who to be honest was just a void filler. My ex ended up saying she regretted her decision and was crying and i thought i would never ever see that day. 4 years later i am going through the same thing my ex of a year and a half, although this one means much more to me. Everyone is different and every situation will work out with what it meant to happen.

  • @kevc9657
    @kevc9657 5 лет назад +11

    She said a bunch of times at the breakup that she could see us getting back together, or her coming back to me. But I didn’t want to be friend zoned so I went no contact. Been no contact for a month today now. No word from her, but going strong and feeling better everyday

    • @ricasso777
      @ricasso777 5 лет назад +2

      Same here I’m on 35 days no contact it is getting better each day just have to stay busy and productive

    • @kevc9657
      @kevc9657 5 лет назад +3

      Luciano Mercado yea man. It has it ups and downs. Like I can see my life without her but still I want her to come back to me at the end of the day

    • @ricasso777
      @ricasso777 5 лет назад +5

      Kev C I know the feeling bro .. I’ve been in the gym 6 days a week down 10 pounds since the break up if and when they do decide to reach out best case Scenario is that we’re a totally different person physically and mentally that’s what’s keeping me going .

    • @jarrodoberg2078
      @jarrodoberg2078 Год назад +2

      Updates??

  • @Troy12-fitnessmodel
    @Troy12-fitnessmodel 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your hair is on point in this video coach

  • @ssmd7449
    @ssmd7449 3 года назад +5

    NC didn’t work on my last ex 1 year ago. Now I’m in NC with my new ex for the last 2 weeks. No more relationships for me... one mistakes I feel was not refreshing my knowledge on this material.

  • @monicawylie3985
    @monicawylie3985 2 года назад +1

    I had to watch this again for more understanding. I never thought this would ever happen to me again. Especially with my now ex-boyfriend. The first time this happened was a very long time ago with my ex-husband. At that time I went no contact unwittingly. It took two and a half months for him to call me crying. He wanted me back. We stayed married for 24 years. We ended our marriage amicably. I waited eight years to date. That’s when I started dating my boyfriend. I again went no contact. So far it’s been 46 days. We will see. In the meantime I’m so grateful for Coach Lee’s videos.

    • @monicawylie3985
      @monicawylie3985 2 года назад +2

      @@Polly1589 as of Thanksgiving of 2022 I’ve been in a relationship for almost two months. When you are without the ex for some time, you see how toxic the situation was. I’m thrilled to say that I finally have the man I deserve

  • @kbrandolph09
    @kbrandolph09 5 лет назад +9

    Let them walk move on something better for u out there

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Год назад +2

    I asked my ex if he's open to trying things in the future once we see positive change and both work on ourselves and he said "right now, no" and said that he doesn't want to give me false hope. I asked him what would change his mindset and he said "time and understanding", I'm willing to give him that but sadly I think it truly is over.

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Год назад

      outrose, I believe you said the magic word, IT'S OVER! You don't need that in your life. I recommend Coach Lee's Workshop for you. It's awesome and you will find strategies that will help you.Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need! /rant

  • @RETRODISTORT
    @RETRODISTORT 5 лет назад +28

    Keep this up! 😊
    I could've really used all these videos 7 months ago

  • @seanj11421
    @seanj11421 2 года назад +2

    If you’ve been doing the work on yourself, you shouldn’t be thinking about this. Being having been forced to stay away, they kinda slammed the door on themselves.

  • @DennisNowland
    @DennisNowland 5 лет назад +95

    Not even watched this, because I know what I would say. " Fine, goodbye" Then I would turn my back on her and get on with my life. I have high value, If she cannot see that well that is her problem and her loss.

    • @vdubmansmith86
      @vdubmansmith86 5 лет назад +6

      Facts

    • @EJayyDreadHead
      @EJayyDreadHead 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly

    • @anushreedixit3818
      @anushreedixit3818 5 лет назад +6

      Please give me this strength as well

    • @whisperingwind7730
      @whisperingwind7730 5 лет назад +17

      So did u come on here to post that ur not gonna watch this video bc u already know what you would say? 🤔
      Hmm interesting.

    • @anandinata21
      @anandinata21 4 года назад +5

      I really hope It’s that easy, but you know feelings man, it hurts so damn much

  • @michaeloquendo9087
    @michaeloquendo9087 3 года назад +2

    Happen to me Monday. She told me that we will never get back together. Then I text her the next day I told her are we really done. She never responds

  • @TheMoka4
    @TheMoka4 4 года назад +10

    Got told on the phone she wasn't happy and wants me to be happy and to let her go I'm blocked everywhere as well after 7 years together :(

    • @BmwolotlE90
      @BmwolotlE90 4 года назад +2

      Sorry man i know 😔

    • @gaylor1010
      @gaylor1010 4 года назад +2

      Wow!!! That happen to me toooo. 7 years, angry want to talk at me instead of to me. And I’m blocked everywhere, that’s never happened to me in my life . I feel all your pain

    • @TheMoka4
      @TheMoka4 4 года назад +4

      @@gaylor1010 fucking horrible people she didn't once call to see how I was or anything didn't give one damn at all and 2 months later I find her on a dating site absolute bitch :(

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @j.cvasquez5677
    @j.cvasquez5677 4 года назад +2

    Hello coach, I have been in an on and off relationship for almost six years. I want to marry this girl but the main reason she always keeps breaking things off is because she says she never fell in love with me. Everyone believes she is in love with me even me, but she says she isnt. I always ask her "why is she still here if she isnt in love with me", to try and get her to realize it but it always leads to an argument. She constantly says that she needs space, wants to date other people, and wants to find herself. 6 years later and many on and off break ups here we are. But now yestetday she has fully gotten to the point where she really is breaking up for good. The longest we have stayed broken up is a month but even then we were still talking and seeing each other. She never gave me commitment. I still love her and still believe in us so today I took your advise and sent my ex a clean slate message. She called me and told me that she didn't want to end things badly and that she will miss me. But she also said that us talking again would be highly unlikely. She has said this many times before and we come back to each other. But this time it seems different. I am not blocked on anything thank goodness. She says she knows she won't be coming back. 2 days ago we were kissing, holding hands and now she's gone once again. I believe she does love me but she is convinced that she doesn't, what do you recommend my next steps to be?

    • @cmockingjay7265
      @cmockingjay7265 2 года назад

      No contact! She can realize she loves you if you don’t let her feel the pain of losing you. She has to have time to really miss you. No contact at all from you!

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @kylemays12
    @kylemays12 4 года назад +65

    Being in NC during this Covid-19 leaves no mystery for them to wonder what your doing?

    • @anisshafikahabdulrahman8103
      @anisshafikahabdulrahman8103 4 года назад +4

      Cindie Mays ikr! I’m start my NC today and I think the same 😂

    • @ngangaopisyal2
      @ngangaopisyal2 4 года назад +4

      The most is pure chatting. No contact as in no physical contact during lockdown.

    • @victoriaabella5322
      @victoriaabella5322 4 года назад

      True that’s his reason cause we don’t see each other very often

    • @reckzrs4113
      @reckzrs4113 4 года назад +1

      Only if they have strong feelings for u... if they don’t then no contact will not work

    • @generatie
      @generatie 4 года назад +3

      I've been sleeping with a girl during the lockdown and NC. I would rather die from Covid than my ex thinking I would just die alone in my room. Use everything to your advantage. Solitude is healthy in small proportions.

  • @richardvnosek191
    @richardvnosek191 2 года назад +2

    Wish everyone the best.
    I'm still healing & finding the strength, first love a marriage for a decade found out she was cheating/even sent $ to an old bf. Next relationship after being divorced ended after a little over 2 years after I couldn't change 2 things fast enough was dropped then told by ex she never felt better after the break-up.
    Trust is difficult everyone but keep in mind changing yourself not fast enough isn't something anyone can do overnight. Love well if you have it cherish it

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 3 года назад +10

    I am working on myself, just as I promised myself I would. I have accepted my ex's decision. Hopefully she will try us once more, but I honestly don't know.

    • @SJ-nw1ym
      @SJ-nw1ym 3 года назад

      Update?

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time...

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    • @gagsjjmomom9014
      @gagsjjmomom9014 2 года назад

      update?

  • @mrkeitt
    @mrkeitt 3 года назад +4

    My ex fiancee told me us getting back together won't happen. She said she's " light and airy " with no stress and chipper and that we weren't meant for a lifetime only a season and that I'll make some other woman very happy. She was into possibly working things a few weeks ago and gradually became distant and cold. I'm certain she's involved with someone else at this point. I firmly believe she's gone forever.

    • @CliffNdukuya
      @CliffNdukuya 2 года назад +1

      Dude I went through exactly the same thing, I'm also convinced she started seeing someone when she decided not to continue fixing things

    • @mrkeitt
      @mrkeitt 2 года назад +1

      @@CliffNdukuya Well it's been a year since and I did find out she was dealing with someone else whom SHE'S ALREADY MARRIED TOO lol. I'm also in a new relationship that's going great with a way better woman in every aspect. I met her and wasn't even looking for anyone. We've been together for 8 months.Tbh I'm glad that shit happened lol.

  • @josephgalamgam6885
    @josephgalamgam6885 4 года назад +3

    She said its over and i found out that shes happy now even with out me

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time

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    • @FoodNerds
      @FoodNerds 6 дней назад

      I’m sorry

  • @gl2773
    @gl2773 4 года назад +1

    A long time ago... I worshipped the ground she walked on, but we split because she hadn’t got over her broken engagement. She ended it making it clear there was no chance between us and I almost lost the will to live. Three years later, she tried to make contact but I was about to get married. Twenty years later we got together again and were both going to leave our partners, but in the end couldn’t do it. NC can work but you may have to wait a long time...

  • @jobossbaby369
    @jobossbaby369 5 лет назад +37

    Loving the videos Coach Lee.... wish I had these 2 years ago when my ex husband broke up with me... definitely a learning experience 👍🏽

    • @Tabassum-hb7ut
      @Tabassum-hb7ut 5 лет назад +2

      JoBoss Baby are you going to try now to be with ex husband or have you moved on?

    • @jobossbaby369
      @jobossbaby369 5 лет назад +4

      Tabassum R... He filed for divorced 2yrs ago and everything was finalized.... if we should ever get back together he would need to initiate all contact...😉

    • @Tabassum-hb7ut
      @Tabassum-hb7ut 5 лет назад +1

      JoBoss Baby I’m sorry for your divorce. If you are still slightly interested in being back with him, bring yourself to his mind. Post on social media how well you’re living life, send a positive/interesting text here and there so he thinks about you and misses you.

    • @jobossbaby369
      @jobossbaby369 5 лет назад +6

      Tabassum R That all sounds good in theory but you can’t force someone to love and care for you... I have accepted his decision and will continue to love myself first... he’s a grown man if he wanted his family he would do the right thing... we aren’t on FB and we only communicate through email... that relationship is like dead bones... only God can revive it😏.... thanks for the encouraging words... hope all is well in your situation....

  • @VideosVonDennis
    @VideosVonDennis Год назад +1

    It isn't love if you get disrespected like that or? I think I should start to get realistic and tell myself exactly that. It's not love, it's a trauma bond if I want someone back who would toss me like a piece of trash or someone I need to stay away from so that she re-values me again. This can't be love.

  • @marystacey2216
    @marystacey2216 5 лет назад +15

    He 's friend zoned me but wants me every day in his life , sex has stopped a year and half ago..it hurts

    • @mehadyislam
      @mehadyislam 5 лет назад +5

      Move on sister

    • @NavSingh97
      @NavSingh97 4 года назад +2

      Try moving on but make sure to go into no contact and if he’s surprised why, just say we are no longer together and you need to focus on your life and meet new people. This should wake him up

    • @minishaaa__
      @minishaaa__ 4 года назад

      Move on babe 😘

  • @0annonymous
    @0annonymous День назад

    What I personally would do is assume as soon as I’m ghosted that they’re probably never returning
    If you assume they’re gone for good, you’ll be pleasantly surprised if they do return

  • @shanez1215
    @shanez1215 Год назад +7

    I agree with Coach Lee. If they thought there was a chance, they wouldn't risk losing you or want to inflict pain on you.
    If they do think there's a chance and tell you this during the breakup, then they're using the breakup almost as a test for you and that's messed up.
    So regardless of whether they say or not, them breaking up indicates that they don't think there is a chance today. However, people can change their minds later on.

  • @roohullahshah
    @roohullahshah Год назад +1

    Mystery is more powerful than the answers ❤️ coach lee

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 3 года назад +3

    My ex-husband married me, intending to cheat on me all along. I think he married me for financial benefits. Once my family bought him a new van, a new trailer, and didn't keep on giving, he beat me up, and left; with the van. . . and the cat.

  • @abbsolute5758
    @abbsolute5758 2 года назад +2

    Coach Lee the lighting here is perfect 👌🏽 I have watched many of your videos and the lighting here is best

  • @larrylovejr5682
    @larrylovejr5682 3 года назад +5

    Day 1 NC I’m going to remain strong my goal is to reach 90 days and then reach out to her if she doesn’t within that time frame

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 года назад +1

      How are things holding up? I’m on day 10

    • @larrylovejr5682
      @larrylovejr5682 3 года назад +4

      @@livenow13 We are back together now taking it slow it was rough but we try to make it work so good luck to you !!

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 3 года назад

      @@larrylovejr5682 wow congrats. You went in with faith it sounded like? How long were you in no contact and did she reach out first or did you?

    • @mletlet03
      @mletlet03 3 года назад

      Any updates?

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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  • @vanessachiunda7262
    @vanessachiunda7262 4 года назад +3

    There was a chance to fix things, but he still went on with ending it and said "he lost me" even though he broke it off. And kept insisting "we broke up didn't we, so that's that".

  • @amberdavis1011
    @amberdavis1011 5 лет назад +9

    My ex broke up with me Sunday. We live together and have a 4 month old baby together.. so we’re in contact and I keep my distance but it’s so hard because he’s just right there. We were getting along then I was dumb and asked what he was thinking about being a family again. This video really helped on my situation. There’s so much more to the story I just wish you were doing calls because I really need help

    • @leslieyoung8911
      @leslieyoung8911 5 лет назад

      I’m in same. Except getting divorced. 16 years! 2 kids and now a grand baby on way. My husband won’t even try. But he’s always right there. He wants the family dynamic but not be married. I have done everything wrong begged cried pleaded. Divorce is final any day and I feel like I have no one to help me. He says we are over, done he’s not in love with me anymore.

    • @harrydowson7319
      @harrydowson7319 3 года назад

      @@leslieyoung8911 any update on this

  • @mbithikimanzi715
    @mbithikimanzi715 2 года назад +2

    When you break up with someone you loved a part of dies and you can never be the same again. Some wound never mature to scars they just stops bleeding.😭😭

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 2 года назад

      Mbithi, TIME heals, and you will get over the love you felt. However, you can find love again. Good luck to you..❤️⚘️

  • @toryhudson1065
    @toryhudson1065 4 года назад +5

    I broke up with her and went into no contact then she called me argued and blocked my number and told me not to contact her all the while she contacted me.

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @zachhinton3604
    @zachhinton3604 2 года назад

    Listen to Coach Lee, it can work. I'm not out of the woods yet, but my ex has been reaching out and we just planned a date this weekend. We have been split up for about a month and a half. I begged, pleaded all of that and then I went into limited contact, only discussing things about our son. Give them the breakup and time away and you have a chance!

  • @wolfofbusiness9682
    @wolfofbusiness9682 5 лет назад +19

    Coach you are the best ❤️
    Btw can you talk about "On Off relationship" and if it better to move on?

  • @Blozi
    @Blozi 5 лет назад +17

    I found your channel when I felt awful after my ex dumped me. He said to his friends he's never coming back, but he never said those words to me in his last message. So I want to thank you, it's been a really hard month but your videos keep me trying to stay in no contact and focus on myself. You've been teaching me a lot! ❤

  • @sabrinasani5321
    @sabrinasani5321 5 лет назад +11

    Thank you coach for new video, love the way your eyes looking directly to the camera makes me feel like connected to your words so well.

  • @whiteshark1958
    @whiteshark1958 5 лет назад +7

    Just want to thank you Lee for all your help. You make so much sense and have a great calming effect on me. Thanks again.

  • @clev409
    @clev409 3 года назад +9

    Your videos give me peace thank you 🙏🏼

  • @Rees1999
    @Rees1999 3 года назад +3

    I really loved and miss my ex so far it’s been a couple of days but I been working on myself I hope in the future I can go on making myself happy and hopefully be able to contact my ex once again and we can resolve our issues!

  • @localweirdo8187
    @localweirdo8187 3 года назад +11

    Thank you for everything that you do Coach Lee. You have no idea how much your work has helped me

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

      Hi,get help from Dr kingsley in any kind of problem you might be encountering,he can help in getting someone (Ex) back, money spell.job spell, marriage protection spell,love spell, curt cases spell, make himself/her confess spell, cleaning spell,also breaking evils curses and cure any type of sickness or disease on your body. He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks for your time...

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  • @francispellerin5093
    @francispellerin5093 2 года назад

    Met with my ex yesterday after a 3 weeks NC and she was still stern on her decision. She mentioned she was meeting me for closure not to reignite the relationship. Her reasons were that we are not on the same page as for career and relationship. She is looking for someone to have deep conversations with but she never really asked to have some when with me. Feels like she was putting the blame on me for not putting in the effort. I tried inviting her to an event next week as we had a good time after the conversation but she said she is not available until january. I have now understood the hidden message.

  • @TheMoka4
    @TheMoka4 4 года назад +5

    Was blocked on everything after 7 years told me I don't like u and I'm finding someone else to be with and blocked my number my life ended that day:'(

    • @KungFuChopstick
      @KungFuChopstick 4 года назад

      How long is that ago?

    • @TheMoka4
      @TheMoka4 4 года назад +1

      @@KungFuChopstick a week but it's permanently over now cause I fucked up I have ocpd she's gone for good :( I pushed her away

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk
    @Americanpatriot-zo2tk 5 месяцев назад +1

    Been there is no chance move on they’re not worth it.

  • @micallll100
    @micallll100 5 лет назад +8

    my ex has said to me:"our realtionship has past away"

    • @anushreedixit3818
      @anushreedixit3818 5 лет назад +5

      You are beautiful, and guess what? Worthy of love.

    • @micallll100
      @micallll100 5 лет назад +1

      @@anushreedixit3818 thank you so much:)

  • @welovee1680
    @welovee1680 4 года назад +2

    I went 6 days NC then he texts saying “I’m sorry things didn’t work out. I know you tried really hard and it’s not really your fault. Just wasn’t meant to be. Will never forget you. Don’t hate me!” We text some but I got no where, so back to NC. 3 days later he texts about some friend request of a friend’s friend of mine named the Same name? I assured him I had nothing to do with. Then he asks if I found someone to hookup with. I said no and wasn’t looking. Tells me how I have so many unsavory friends on fb. I tell him how all I do is think about us and how everything sucks now. He says sorry I bothered you. I say the wrong things I know:(

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @meganmarie5609
    @meganmarie5609 4 года назад +8

    This is what my ex said however he continued to reach out to me almost everyday , but I didn’t respond at all the past 3 weeks because I don’t think it’s fair for him to use me to make it easier for him to move on .

    • @meganmarie5609
      @meganmarie5609 4 года назад

      @Eso Tarot nah I don’t want him back THAT bad lol

    • @kleshamiddleton1
      @kleshamiddleton1 3 года назад

      update?

    • @meganmarie5609
      @meganmarie5609 3 года назад

      @@kleshamiddleton1 he has continued to reach out and I ignore him !

    • @tonileolion9702
      @tonileolion9702 3 года назад +1

      @@meganmarie5609 can’t wait until I can get to that point

    • @meganmarie5609
      @meganmarie5609 3 года назад +1

      @@tonileolion9702 you will ! I finally actually found someone way better !

  • @Gbb93
    @Gbb93 4 месяца назад

    I kinda came to a eureka moment recently. We both were somewhat avoidant. She’d respond fairly quickly and I’d take a day or two to get back to her, sometimes. Sometimes I’d get back to her right away. When I’d get back to her quickly, she seemed to respond positively. But when I’d take a day or two, she’d either ignore me or she would take a few days as well. Sometimes I’d ask if there’s an issue, because it seemed “reactive” and “manipulative”. But yeah, I realize now that she did that out of reaction to my response time. This was actually a big “power” issue within our relationship and I started to realize I might have actually been to blame. And ultimately, this drove her anxiety through the roof. But yeah, the “hard to get”, “cat and mouse” games were an ongoing thing for us, and I guess I didn’t see how I played a role in it. A relationship can’t thrive where communicating as simply as texting is causing stress and anxiety in your partner

  • @art-byfayleif3938
    @art-byfayleif3938 5 лет назад +20

    Honestly, I'm watching these to help me maintain my silence. I tried three times to reach out to him first two times he told me no (still didn't tell me the real reason for the breakup) the third time he pushed me away saying stuff like I'm pretty busy now maybe on the weekend. so I told him promptly goodbye to have a nice life and blocked him everywhere. Didn't help his case when he told a mutual friend all I wanted was sex when we never even had sex

  • @eligreg99
    @eligreg99 2 года назад

    It hurt so bad when she told me this. Especially because it wasn’t even a mutual break up she just told me she had lost romantic feelings for me but still loved me platonically. I tried being friends for a month and she became hard to reach. I already knew this would happen.

  • @netsanethailutache5985
    @netsanethailutache5985 3 года назад +3

    My ex said " we don't match" after 1 year relationship and I cried and he said that I'm not matured...it hurts

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      Update?

    • @netsanethailutache5985
      @netsanethailutache5985 3 года назад

      I'm glad He's back he apologized me and we are back guys have faith and don't contact them let them miss you don't chase no contact works

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 года назад

      @@netsanethailutache5985 im on 10th day of nc and my ex haven't texted me yet :(

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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  • @BeegirlsHoneyHouse
    @BeegirlsHoneyHouse 3 года назад +1

    Trust-Lost. We both destroyed the trust between us and over years, we each fought passively and aggressively until our marriage collapsed and he divorced me.Egos we’re a YUGE problem. People here talking about weeks and months of relationships… we first dated 40 years ago. After 8 years divorced and his rapid remarriage, now we’re in some type of circular dance. It’s exciting but it’s also very disturbing. We’re planning a meet up for me to have a family pet reunion with our senior pupper hound. I’m very confused and overwhelmed as it was an absolutely horrible ending and financial devastation to me. I’ve never stopped loving him and haven’t dated anyone. Wishing each of you peace, comfort and acceptance. 🤗🌎💚✌🏽

  • @itsmevanzsy4516
    @itsmevanzsy4516 5 лет назад +26

    Hi coach lee, after 3 months breakup with my bf he said he miss me and he still love me, but after that he says he wanted to forget me, I don’t know what he thinking. BTW, I feel good every time watching your videos, thank you and God bless. 🌹🌹

    • @jasonbrophy5567
      @jasonbrophy5567 4 года назад +1

      Confliction

    • @siriusly_ash
      @siriusly_ash 4 года назад

      @@jasonbrophy5567 my ex says he has conflicting thoughts too..

    • @smmaistheway
      @smmaistheway 4 года назад

      Were yall keeping in contact during those 3 months?

    • @SJ-nw1ym
      @SJ-nw1ym 3 года назад

      Update?

    • @___24b22
      @___24b22 3 года назад

      Did you guys get back together?

  • @staceyrourke2557
    @staceyrourke2557 3 года назад +1

    We were together 8 months we loved each other and were really happy. He said now there is no chance of getting back together he dont love me and to move on. He thinks he will be happier on his own again and things will get easier in time and would still like to be friends

  • @helen3389
    @helen3389 4 года назад +14

    You truly help me go through every day. Even though I have no idea if all this applies to my situation, your advices and voice is soothing. I wish I could book a session with you because my case is very complicated. Thank you Coach Lee, you're amazing!

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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    • @lantyfrench8986
      @lantyfrench8986 Год назад

      Same here

  • @l.8612
    @l.8612 4 года назад +6

    My ex says he will regret not being with me. When time passes.
    But he says he will not come back. Is this really true?

  • @jaynefernandez483
    @jaynefernandez483 5 лет назад +13

    Coach your knowledge and delivery always on point. You’re the only one I listen to. Thank you.

  • @stacym2201
    @stacym2201 4 года назад +3

    I am SORRY Coach Lee...i hav broken my NO contact. I am a total mess! I am sooo confused...i jus want 2 knw y...i jus wanted 2 hear his voice. Wat a fool i am huh. Dis is sooo hard...i DON'T wish dis on any 1 to hav 2 go tru dis. I feel like i hav lost my soul from within. I feel like my chest hav a hole where my HEART supposed 2b. I CAN'T eat...i CAN'T sleep. I am loosin it. I wish i cud wake up from dis nighmare!

    • @11cesarrenato
      @11cesarrenato 4 года назад +1

      Salisha M focus on yourself, restart no contact again, it’s painful i know...but the less we chase the chances grown

    • @EJayyDreadHead
      @EJayyDreadHead 4 года назад

      @@11cesarrenato facts especially if 6 months has gone by the chances are high

  • @randonlee
    @randonlee 5 лет назад +16

    Thanks for you great videos and taking the time to do free content. I watch every video even if it doesn’t pertain to me to support your channel. Hopefully you appreciate it.

  • @enriqueFelix2000
    @enriqueFelix2000 2 года назад +1

    4th Breakup with same person… only difference is that now I’m in no contact

    • @richard6907
      @richard6907 Год назад

      Same situation here any update on your side? it's been a long time so I hope you're in a better place with it all

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Год назад

      Felix Jr. STAY in NO contact..

  • @fionacahalane9185
    @fionacahalane9185 3 года назад +3

    Just move on. If they come back they come back but by that time you will realise you deserve better.

    • @audutaiyesandra3077
      @audutaiyesandra3077 2 года назад

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  • @Mixedbeauty11
    @Mixedbeauty11 Год назад

    I have no contact, he said all that we never get back together. I don’t have like you at all. I just accept it, it was the truth.
    I’m blocked on everything. So, I just keep focusing on myself. I’m on interview guys on dating app.

  • @billhunt4539
    @billhunt4539 5 лет назад +49

    Doors close for a reason. Leave them closed.

  • @rosserscott4376
    @rosserscott4376 4 года назад

    As of right now no. That's what she said to me. Why would she not just say no? She has also said she doesn't know.

  • @ervhinmariscal5269
    @ervhinmariscal5269 3 года назад +7

    Thank you so much coach , your videos are the only thing helping me during no contact. I'm going througha realy bad time and your videos make it a little better.

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @Boom24277
    @Boom24277 5 лет назад +2

    My ex break up with me. It been 3 weeks now. And I found out from her friend that she already has a new partner paired by her parents. It broke my heart to pieces..

    • @oneputtsteven
      @oneputtsteven 5 лет назад +7

      And rebound relationships rarely last long, and I mean VERY low pct. Plus jumping back into a relationship in less than 3-4 month is not healthy. Plus family setups rarely work.

    • @huskerraider9137
      @huskerraider9137 4 года назад +3

      @@oneputtsteven thank you, I needed to hear this.

  • @jlecampana
    @jlecampana 4 года назад +4

    Like I said on another video, I got dumped after taking my gf for granted big time, briefly tried to talk her out of it, but she said she meant it, a moment later she finished by saying she needed space to figure it out. Started No Contact and as expected 35 days later she texted a long message saying she’s sure she wants to break up because I was given enough opportunities to make it work. Again, briefly tried to talk her out of it but I believe she Really Really meant it this time 🤷‍♂️ the Question is? Should I just move on? I don’t think following the advice in this video will work this time, that is to go No Contact again, I guess her mindset from now on will be to give me No Hope (as she said) and she’ll do No Contact on me.

    • @jlecampana
      @jlecampana 3 года назад +1

      @@axelbriggjern3534 fortunately, I feel like I’m moving on. Even I can’t explain how’s that possible but my feelings for her have steadily decreased.

    • @zenretisaac4759
      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @ChosenJuana
    @ChosenJuana 4 года назад +2

    She had been texting me less and reading my messages without replying we already broke up for 3 months but told me we have a chance to be together in the future until now she said we will never work but she still loves me

    • @ChosenJuana
      @ChosenJuana 4 года назад

      The last time we talked told her hey she read it i said ig u dont wanna talk today she said no not today and this is where i made a mistake i should have took her at her word i was like how come your snap score keeps going up if you can text them you can text me and thats when she said they dont make her feel lile shit every conversation

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      @zenretisaac4759 2 года назад

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  • @ShinyArjunSingh
    @ShinyArjunSingh 5 лет назад +4

    wow...man...made my life....
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  • @lamda_scoringmachine7082
    @lamda_scoringmachine7082 2 года назад

    Coach lee! I appreciate you my bother ! Me and my ex gf broke up august and when I asked what happened told me I wasn’t the same person I was from the beginning and how she felt as tho I put her last in alot of things in my life and when I sat n reflected on it I saw where she was coming from but my communication was off around that time I was down bad which gave off bad energy and slowly pushed her away without me seeeing it thinking she would never leave me I got too comfortable..so fast foward we still talk n text and she went outta town with someone she used to talk to before me and it hurt me badddd like didn’t wanna do anything I’m used to doing anymore but after seeing this I got a confidence booster and remember certain convos we had and how we still text and now I’m seein certain signs thru them ..she told me we never a be a thing again but asks me do I miss her while she’s outta town wit someone else idk if it mind games or not …so now I’m on the I’m keeping it cordial and being friendly and not asking to please together I realized that only makes them feel bad and not be there full self so I have to play it cool and make her feel emotional attractive to me again and now I got that certain confidence back I know fasure I can get her back ..mind u she started to talk to what’s his name like around the time we broke up which tell me it’s jus a rebound for her to not feel as bad bout our breakup