Kody Is Presenting Himself As Many Viewers Already See Him. A Devil In Disguise

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2023
  • TLC's Sister Wives has returned for it's 18th season and the hypocrisy, inconsistencies, and out right lights are being exposed.
    Throughout the years Kody has tried to present himself as the Peter Pan like father and husband. Unfortunately for him, many of the fans saw right through his playful facade. Kody is immature, insecure, and soon to be irrelevant. It is odd to watch a person unravel so completely. In reality show standards this is par for the course, but we can't lose sight of the real world consequences.
    Kody is a (un)functional husband to one woman and father of 18 kids. In previous episodes, he held the position that: "living married is a calling, but living polygamy is a higher calling." I disagree. Living well is the higher calling. Finding commitment to your family is a righteous and noble goal. To date Kody has fallen well short of this.
    It sounds as if Kody is living through severe depression as he tries to find himself. I hope that he seeks the help that he needs to put his life together and he develops a strong and lasting bond with all his kids and their mothers. Until then, I am going to use his story as an example of how not to live.
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  • @SuperTiffyLynne
    @SuperTiffyLynne 9 месяцев назад +582

    James!! I want you to host the tell all! We need someone who will ask the hard questions. Plus I think Kody will say more to a man. How do we make this happen?!

    • @lucidawakening
      @lucidawakening 9 месяцев назад +31

      Great idea!!

    • @craftyflalady
      @craftyflalady 9 месяцев назад +30

      I will get behind this for sure!❤

    • @dee0101
      @dee0101 9 месяцев назад +28

      This would be Must See TV!!👏🏽👏🏽

    • @NJ-Cathie
      @NJ-Cathie 9 месяцев назад +33

      Seriously - James would get to the heart of the issues.

    • @alongfellow4147
      @alongfellow4147 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think Andy Cohen should do the tell all! Let kody call him baby and grab his leg... he'll get bitch slapped in 2 seconds flat

  • @js2art1
    @js2art1 9 месяцев назад +282

    One part that everyone forgets is Kody not only refuses to go to Ysabel's surgery, he refuses any responsibility to pay for it, Christine has to raise $50,000 in order to pay for the surgery, with NO help from Kody. But now we know he had plenty of money to buy ugly art and tiny villiage houses and Victoria Secret clothing. He wasn't there in anyway for Christine kids.

    • @robinperini5226
      @robinperini5226 9 месяцев назад +40

      I am glad you brought that up. I think that is the real reason Kody calls his kids Christine's kids Janelles kids. He didn't have a problem paying for His and Robins son Dayton to have his surgery.

    • @donnakeegan3495
      @donnakeegan3495 9 месяцев назад +19

      Kody go back under the rock you came from.

    • @js2art1
      @js2art1 9 месяцев назад +20

      @@robinperini5226 Oh that's, right! It would be impossible to me to watch my husband be there and support another woman and her kids and ignore
      'ours
      '

    • @heretoday788
      @heretoday788 9 месяцев назад +26

      It's weird that during talking heads, we rarely get any discussion of finances other than to buy a house or not. There is a big story in the pooling and allocation of resources that remains untold.

    • @lisalehman1935
      @lisalehman1935 9 месяцев назад +28

      Cody is not on any of Christine's children's birth certificates, and he's never provided health insurance for them, how horrible! When him and Meri got divorced and he married Robyn so he could adopt her kids they got health insurance!!! What a despicable man, you reap what you sow!

  • @mjc42701
    @mjc42701 9 месяцев назад +126

    I saw this quote and wanted to share it: When a man is dealing with two women, he’ll always stay with the one who has a weak mind The weak minded one will think she’s won because she is with him but the whole time he’s wishing he was with the strong woman. But he’s too scared to be with the strong woman because he is weak too. - Unknown

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +35

      Love it. I've been saying something similar for years. The quote is on point

    • @caridad724
      @caridad724 9 месяцев назад +23

      Love this quote. I walked away from a relationship once because a weak minded woman was interfering. After zero contact for almost 5 months, he realized he wanted the strong one and came back on his knees, begging my forgiveness. Rule #1 is NEVER be #2!!!

    • @continuallycountingchicken7338
      @continuallycountingchicken7338 9 месяцев назад +1

      Damn!
      Truth!

    • @ohanaohana8844
      @ohanaohana8844 9 месяцев назад +18

      "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy." Bob Marley

  • @MargaretShane
    @MargaretShane 9 месяцев назад +180

    So, did we all catch the MOST telling moment for this guy? He has kids (two youngest) who are still "loving me back". So they are still worthy of his attention and care. Once anyone stops "loving him back", they are consigned to the outer darkness. It's entirely conditional and that is not love.

    • @LinaGenX
      @LinaGenX 9 месяцев назад +26

      Kody's love is conditional, it always was, his tagline about love should be multiplied, not divided was pure BS

    • @djtonja
      @djtonja 9 месяцев назад +24

      Exactly! I feel so bad for all of his kids. Sol and Ari, too, are in for a rude awakening once they start having their own opinions and expressing feelings that don't center on their dad.

    • @hillarymelechen249
      @hillarymelechen249 9 месяцев назад +12

      I agree. It's also not parenting.

    • @atlramona
      @atlramona 9 месяцев назад +22

      He wants unconditional love while never returning it.

    • @joerudnik9290
      @joerudnik9290 9 месяцев назад +8

      What about Mykelti? Her neutral stance doesn’t merit his notice? I guess he has to be loved to the exclusion of others. What about Robyn’s older girls? They sure act like it’s a lovefest!!

  • @malanenix4033
    @malanenix4033 9 месяцев назад +79

    A video over an hour long?!? Now that deserves the HBO Special!

  • @18Callahan
    @18Callahan 9 месяцев назад +144

    Make no mistake … Kody wasn’t upset Christine left him… he’s pissed off that she took “her house” money with her.
    Kody got the Coyote Pass property that was in his/her name that was already paid in cash. But Kody wanted it ALL. He honestly is only about the money. That’s why he didn’t help Janelle with diddly squat. He had his foot on her neck and her boys saw it all real time.

    • @IaneHowe
      @IaneHowe 9 месяцев назад +24

      And that's the same reason he wanted Janelle to buy a house. His name would be on it, and she would pay for it. 100% profit

    • @mjc42701
      @mjc42701 9 месяцев назад +21

      He's also mad that she left on her terms even when he tried to bully her, she was over him before she left and that is what he can't wrap his egotistical mind around.

    • @alongfellow4147
      @alongfellow4147 9 месяцев назад +20

      Remember his worry about Christine leaving was she would start dating a man that would take all the family money (as if she had to keep contributing to a family she left)... it's all about money and the fact that he can't provide for snobyn and her brats is probably the reason he wants to run away. I encourage him to run away bc nobody would miss him!

    • @LinaGenX
      @LinaGenX 9 месяцев назад +19

      She could have taken more, she sold her part in Coyote Pass to the gruesome twosome for 10 dollars, she ciuld have taken him to court to get child support, and gotten a forencic accounting on his finances, the TLC money went to an LLC in all the adults names, that money should have been split EVENLY between the adults, that is how LLCs works

    • @karensiegel6669
      @karensiegel6669 9 месяцев назад +9

      Kody also wanted that snow blower left for him. The only reason he was "helping" her move. She wasn't letting him have it. His watching her and Truely go down the road was epic. The final "I'm Glorious and Done!" For Christine!

  • @brettbrinegar3929
    @brettbrinegar3929 9 месяцев назад +63

    Neglect cloaked as “sacred loneliness” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @becky9103
    @becky9103 9 месяцев назад +140

    The Christmas gathering with the snowball fight was the first time I've seen Janelle's kids REALLY smile in a long time. Why? Because it was as if their Mom and siblings were back home. Janelle is their real mom, and they love her, but she always served in more of a father/breadwinner/provider role doing Kody's job for him. Christine was the nurturer. Those kids have been grieving the loss of Christine for a long time. They miss her so much. When Hunter was going through his dark time, it was Christine's house that he used to go to for comfort and understanding. Janelle didn't know what to do with him, and Kody simply yelled at him to snap out of it.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +23

      Great points

    • @nightingalesastra5451
      @nightingalesastra5451 9 месяцев назад +2

      What was wrong with Hunter?

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 9 месяцев назад +15

      I remember that season where Hunter was *clearly* struggling with clinical depression. It was depression on a very serious level, and Hunter was only a teenager! I remember being concerned with Kody's dismissive attitude about his son's reclusive behavior, obvious sadness, detachment from his siblings, etc. Any *one* of those abrupt changes in a young teen's behavior should be a red flag to their parent/s. I was disappointed in Janelle for seemingly (idk all the details, this is only my opinion) choosing to follow Kody's lead rather than her own inner voice as a mother. Nobody talked about seeking professional help for Hunter during that time and it made me worry for him. Fortunately, all sources seem to agree that Hunter has turned out to be a fine young man who is a military veteran, has gone to and finished his college education, has a career that allows him to live comfortably and has a serious, long-term girlfriend. But when it comes to teenagers and depression, unfortunately Hunter's recovery from those incredibly difficult months is the exception, and not the rule. Most depressed teens, if the depression is ignored or overlooked and therefore goes untreated, end up seeing their lives get a whole lot worse before things eventually start to get better. It's a hellish way to spend your high school / undergraduate college years, carrying around a depressive mindset 24/7. Please, anyone reading this, if your child is showing signs of depression you need to get him/her in contact with a professional immediately. It's possible to intervene in time for your to turn things around before it gets worse. You could be saving them many years (if not decades) of struggling to function in the world if you can catch it in time. Do not wait one more day. This doesn't "go away with time" in 99% of cases. Please take symptoms seriously and get your kid the appropriate help!!

    • @RWorley3sl
      @RWorley3sl 9 месяцев назад +4

      I think Christine allowed him space right after the move to las vagas and let him be with his siblings. The kids would live with different moms if enough issues came up.

    • @becky9103
      @becky9103 9 месяцев назад +14

      @@nightingalesastra5451 After the family moved to Las Vegas, Hunter was very depressed. He hated leaving friends, had difficulty making new friends, and I think resented his dad's affair and mid-life crisis with his little twig tail which up-ended the entire family with no thought for any of them. They were not only forced to treat Robyn's kids as siblings, but he saw the preferential treatment they and Robyn received from Kody. She also tried to stick her nose in all of the issues and decisions involving the teens, and she had no teens herself.

  • @redds7777
    @redds7777 9 месяцев назад +70

    The last straw was him not reaching out to Savannah on Christmas. Plus Robyn not letting Kody's daughter have their special Christmas, her kids had theirs. But oh no, Robyn could not even do that for them. Ugh !

    • @malanenix4033
      @malanenix4033 9 месяцев назад +18

      Yes! That bothered me so much. I don't feel like she did it for the right reasons at all.

    • @threadyorknot4423
      @threadyorknot4423 9 месяцев назад +12

      100%! You know those kids didn't have "gifts held back" so they would have something to open at 2nd Christmas. They just got more

    • @ParadoxicaLeo730
      @ParadoxicaLeo730 9 месяцев назад +5

      She thought she was being sweet doing that too. NO!!

    • @deea8362
      @deea8362 9 месяцев назад +7

      Ya, when Mary wanted host at her house every but she jumped in and said it would be "scary". Afraid to be out numbered. F-U!!!😢😢 sobyn Robyn and vindictive Kory. If he doesn't change his ways he may end up in hell.

    • @monicaperrin8178
      @monicaperrin8178 9 месяцев назад +5

      Right there was no need for her to save gifts for her children to open. She makes me sick!

  • @jblkcns
    @jblkcns 9 месяцев назад +34

    The only thing the Crepes did was remind us that usually the older girls prepare breakfast for Christmas. Another family tradition destroyed.

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +1

      And that Kody will do absolutely anything for attention!

  • @honiej00n75
    @honiej00n75 9 месяцев назад +20

    And the Nobel Prize for “Telling It Like It Is” goes to James🏆

  • @torchwoodgal
    @torchwoodgal 9 месяцев назад +65

    Kody has more than a math problem. He has a heart problem. It has always been 100% about him.

    • @logic7753
      @logic7753 9 месяцев назад

      The biggest problem is his ego.
      He's a sad broken man.

    • @nagatomutsu844
      @nagatomutsu844 8 месяцев назад

      narcissistic personality disorder

  • @amw74
    @amw74 9 месяцев назад +36

    The scene between Kody and his BFF was like watching Dumb and Dumber! He’s calling us arrogant for watching their train wreck of a life? Dude these people decided to air their dirty laundry and sell from row seats so don’t complain when you don’t like what you hear. 😂😂😂 love the channel James! You are a voice of reason!!! “Losing wives like hot cakes!”😂😂😂

    • @cathywithac
      @cathywithac 9 месяцев назад +2

      The one valuable insight that Nathan offered to Kody was "The wives are going through it too. They are grieving their relationships with the departing wife and their lifelong friend too." Kody chose not to hear him. Kody does not recognize that they women are grieving and redefining relationships too.

    • @onmylastnerve282
      @onmylastnerve282 8 месяцев назад

      I'm really not trying to be rude at all, but every time Kody's friend pops up on screen I burst out laughing. Listening to these two morons comment on women is absolutely hilarious. Dumb & Dumber is right!

  • @touchedbyfire99
    @touchedbyfire99 9 месяцев назад +10

    Janelle just needs a good lawyer. No tears. Just a lawyer.

  • @mjc42701
    @mjc42701 9 месяцев назад +35

    You know Kody practiced that statement which made it even more pathetic. Kody choose this life, his children didn't, instead of him being the devil he thinks he is why not do the harder thing and that's be a man, a father, a husband or ex-husband to your wives, show some common decency, he can't play the victim and be the devil, that just makes him an a$$hole.

  • @harrietyounger6118
    @harrietyounger6118 9 месяцев назад +22

    You had me at. " It sounded better in his head".

  • @kristinenovak42
    @kristinenovak42 9 месяцев назад +11

    One thing that everyone seemed to miss is when Kody said he couldn’t kick Janelle’s boys out because his name wasn’t on the lease. I think that has him burning up too. His hands were tied & he couldn’t force the issue with Janelle.

  • @sarahshannon760
    @sarahshannon760 9 месяцев назад +54

    I don’t remember what season it was or what episode but I never forgot the way Cody described keeping his wives under control by getting “creative and pitting them against each other.” The man has always been a monster!

    • @janetmariededick6061
      @janetmariededick6061 9 месяцев назад +16

      I remember a scene at CP where are four ladies were making snow angels in the snow and laughing. Kody said when he saw them. I hate to see them getting along.. or something similar.Kinda says it all doesn’t it.

    • @ParadoxicaLeo730
      @ParadoxicaLeo730 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@janetmariededick6061 wonder if I can find that clip!

    • @deea8362
      @deea8362 9 месяцев назад +3

      Was right before moving to Arizona. He was trying to get them onboard with the big house and move. That was his strategy to convince them all to sell pack up and move at a time they were probably in the best setup they ever had for everyone

  • @alongfellow4147
    @alongfellow4147 9 месяцев назад +60

    Kody looks so different from when this show started. Now he looks like pure evil and acts like a vile human

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +15

      It gives unhinged energy.

    • @SandraUrquia
      @SandraUrquia 9 месяцев назад +12

      No God, No Faith, just Madness...

    • @SandraUrquia
      @SandraUrquia 9 месяцев назад +16

      I love when Janelle said, "Dude! You are'nt even on the Lease!" BAM 💥💯🏆

    • @SandraUrquia
      @SandraUrquia 9 месяцев назад +10

      Even Kody's Eyes have gotten Darker! In the beginning Season's, his eyes were more of a light blue color! The Eyes are the Window of the Soul! 🪟

    • @SandraUrquia
      @SandraUrquia 9 месяцев назад +3

      Kody went Rogue...🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏼‍♂️

  • @brettbrinegar3929
    @brettbrinegar3929 9 месяцев назад +90

    AMEN!!! Leadership isn’t telling people “Your opinion doesn’t matter-just live with it”. It’s about actually listening, making your ‘team’ feel valued, and and appreciating every contribution by each member. Kody has failed miserably on every point

    • @bonniegropper
      @bonniegropper 9 месяцев назад +6

      When someone calls themselves devil,believe them.Thank you James for all of your hard work.

    • @neonmoon8356
      @neonmoon8356 9 месяцев назад +8

      Despite what Kody believes, leadership isn't take take take. It's a 'what can I give, what do you need?' mindset.

  • @loveisthekey5737
    @loveisthekey5737 9 месяцев назад +21

    No, she was actually behind the scenes manipulating Kody into moving to Flagstaff, Arizona because her son got a scholarship for there!!!!‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 9 месяцев назад +30

    Janelle, Christine and Meri are everyone's Moms. All of their kids see them as Mom. Robyn's kids refer to Meri, Janelle and Christine as Dad's wives, not as Mom. Robyn was obsessive about her kids calling Kody Dad but she did not instruct her kids to call Meri, Janelle or Christine Mom. They were always Dad's other wives.

    • @user-os3qm3nb2k
      @user-os3qm3nb2k 9 месяцев назад +5

      Remember how possessive Robin was when her and Kodys boy was small and Meri wanted to have him for a little buddy. They all shared the kids but Robin then they complain they are the outcasts

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +4

      Robyn always kept herself and her kids separate from the family and then plays victim that they’re not close to the rest of the family like everyone else.

  • @aprilstearns9104
    @aprilstearns9104 9 месяцев назад +17

    You are SO right on, James. Robyn has failed her sister wives by continuing to make excuses for Kody's bad behavior and not holding him accountable.

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +3

      I think Robyn is actually behind a lot of Kody’s bad behavior. Kodys so paranoid already and Robyn’s whispering in his ear that the family is plotting against him.

  • @Jennifer-kw8py
    @Jennifer-kw8py 9 месяцев назад +14

    You were spot on when you said: Kody moves all the time because he's trying to run away from himself!

  • @juliannesouth8382
    @juliannesouth8382 9 месяцев назад +41

    So sad to see Meri at Christmas at "Cody and Robyn's" . Sitting at the end of the couch, like a proper house guest, while Cody sits with his arm around Robyn. That broke my heart. Meri WAS wife #1. Now just a house guest

    • @justbeingme7719
      @justbeingme7719 9 месяцев назад +11

      Not even a welcomed houseguest. Sad.

    • @Scipiogirl
      @Scipiogirl 9 месяцев назад +7

      Kody was an a-hole for not getting up and giving Robyn his seat. Asks her why she’s standing? Couldn’t just be a decent man and give her his seat, and him pull a kitchen chair in to sit in himself. Jerk

    • @nightingalesastra5451
      @nightingalesastra5451 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Scipiogirlhe wanted them to be affectionate. For them to cuddle but Robyn felt bad for Meri.

    • @deea8362
      @deea8362 9 месяцев назад

      He was trying to grope her too

    • @deea8362
      @deea8362 9 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Scipiogirlthinknhe wanted herbto sit on his lap in front of Meri

  • @jcwittig
    @jcwittig 9 месяцев назад +68

    In that realized moment Janelle looked devastated absolutely completely devastated and worried about where she goes from here. You could see the emotion flutter across her face It was raw, unexpected and real. Janelle Christine and Mary don't have to pretend that they have emotions and pretend that they cry their real people with real compassion empathy love protection. There's only two that aren't and that would be Cody and Robin Robin who must somehow think that in this 17th 18 episode everyone forget what she did from the beginning of the show seems like she's blocked it out. Sorry I'll get off my soapbox

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +4

      It’s mind boggling. And it’s recorded!

    • @glitterarmy89
      @glitterarmy89 9 месяцев назад +1

      It's only mine boggling to us. These women had so many years to get out but they kept sticking around so you're telling me Janelle's only just realised where it's at mate. She should have left f****** 20 years ago but they all stuck around so I think they're all undercover lesbians because why else did they hang around for no sex and no man

    • @jcwittig
      @jcwittig 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@laneneal3510 I often wondered what if Cody actually watched past seasons when you get the hint? Would you just think it's all editing? What would he think and how would he react to seeing himself and what he has or has not done to his family for the last 18 seasons? If the blinders were removed would he look at Robin in a new light? So many questions. So few answers.

  • @kittenbrave1003
    @kittenbrave1003 9 месяцев назад +14

    Are Kody and Nathan the Alpha males?😂😂😂😂😂 No, Alpha males never say I'm an Alpha male...

  • @marymarmolejo6508
    @marymarmolejo6508 9 месяцев назад +20

    I think Meri did a great dis-service for staying- it gave Kody the realization he can say and treat them horribly all the time, gave him false love that Christine and all of them would stay, as soon as he starts treating you bad leave- it isn't going to get better

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +7

      Preach! I 100% percent think. He thought Christine was just going to be OK. With a loveless non-existent marriage because well Meri is/was. I really find it sad that when. Christine or Jenelle speak of Meri, they do it in a kind way. I don’t see that reciprocated.

  • @kimberlybertrand2733
    @kimberlybertrand2733 9 месяцев назад +47

    I just want to say, I'll never miss any of your videos. No one can ever argue your points, AND you make me laugh harder than any other content creator!
    Kody and Robyn are both extremely self absorbed, the world "owes" them.
    They can suck the life out of anyone!
    Kody has become scary sharing his thoughts, I'd have an intervention if my husband ever spoke the words Kody is speaking.
    TLC seriously needs to drop this series and do a spin-off with Christine and Janelle.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +12

      Thanks for taking the time to watch, it is appreciated. I agree, an intervention is needed and he needs to come off tye show. His downward spiral is going to lead to real harm.

    • @kimberlybertrand2733
      @kimberlybertrand2733 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@mytakeonreality I agree!

  • @christid.8912
    @christid.8912 9 месяцев назад +3

    "Kody is running from himself. He can't stand who HE is." That was seriously profound James.

  • @monicaperrin8178
    @monicaperrin8178 9 месяцев назад +8

    Kody and Robyn are awful people! They destroyed this family. I think when he married Robyn they had a side agreement to run everyone away so that it could just be the two of them in the end! It's ungodly the way he has treated his other three wives and then expected them to stay and take it WHAT.....WHY?!

  • @Bildgesmythe
    @Bildgesmythe 9 месяцев назад +22

    I would love a conversation between Kody and James!

    • @justbeingme7719
      @justbeingme7719 9 месяцев назад +5

      Yes! However, Kody wouldn't do it. He couldn't get away with the ranting and finger pointing.

    • @nadyarossi5102
      @nadyarossi5102 8 месяцев назад +1

      Dump Suki. Hire James!

  • @tomonous7606
    @tomonous7606 9 месяцев назад +6

    Christine is like the sunshine and Robyn is like a dark cloud

  • @jblkcns
    @jblkcns 9 месяцев назад +16

    The only person who didn't sacrifice is Kody. Meri even breastfed Madi when Janelle wasn't producing enough milk. These women gave Everything to the family but he got the nerve to tell them that they can only gain his favor if they act like Robyn the side trick. Puh-leeez!!

  • @robinperini5226
    @robinperini5226 9 месяцев назад +7

    Kody told Janelle he wasn't going to suffer at the trailer, but the Og3 suffered with him for 20yrs but he can't suffer with Janelle in. Little trailer or apartment.

  • @carolsmith5531
    @carolsmith5531 9 месяцев назад +47

    James, you are such a wise man. Your children are very lucky to have you for a father and your guidance in this thing called life. With each episode it is getting more and more difficult to watch. I have some shows that I stopped watching on another channel because if all the fighting and tension among the cast. Life has enough negativity without it being in the shows that I used to enjoy watching. James, I’ll watch your recaps instead.

  • @CF-jj3pq
    @CF-jj3pq 9 месяцев назад +9

    James you’re not only cool, very funny, but raised right. I love hearing you talk and share your perspective.

  • @dee0101
    @dee0101 9 месяцев назад +9

    Kody in a few years, when the show is over and none of the kids besides Robyn's want anything to do with him, he will 100% turn on Robyn!!! It will be very ugly too...SMH The way he plays victim and takes no accountability is disgusting. Robyn is just as gross as he is!

  • @Imzadi
    @Imzadi 9 месяцев назад +6

    “How about you just be a normal person.” 😂 on point my friend! One thing though, Kody is always faking. He think we are in one big simulation where everyone plays a role.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes! 100% agree. He constantly talks about what people would do as though we are all subject to some base archetype. It is weird and immature at best.

  • @nancykent5784
    @nancykent5784 9 месяцев назад +17

    James amen for telling the truth on this man

  • @cheyrambles9558
    @cheyrambles9558 9 месяцев назад +6

    Kody eating his crepe like a burrito gave me the idk. 🤢

  • @jcwittig
    @jcwittig 9 месяцев назад +15

    I think the straw that broke the camel's back for TLC was when Cody broke the third wall I imagine TLC was done trying to make Cody and Robbins storyline sympathetic empathetic to viewers and decided to drop-mic Kody. I could hear it in the TLC voices when Janelle said to shut it down after Cody went out the door their response, tone and compassion empathy for Janelle was revealed and confirmed.

  • @lunatik5194
    @lunatik5194 9 месяцев назад +19

    He brought it all on himself. When your husband comes to you, tells you he isn't attracted to you, doesn't want to "do it" with you thrn he asked for her to leave. On topof that he didn't go to his daughters surgery because of Covid but go to a wedding with a bunch of strangers? Covid my arse! Cody is a true narcissist and Robyns a professional manipulative victim!!! Whoever feels sorry for Kody needs therapy because you are more than likely in an abusive narcissist relationship. My friend is like that and her ex was a psychotic narcissist. She always felt bad for him but never bothered to open her eyes and see it was him. Laws habe mercy.

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 9 месяцев назад +32

    Nothing ‘romantic’ and nothing 'tension' about it. That was a control move. It was about Kody claiming ownership in front of the camera. If that is ‘romantic tension’ then I am sad for both of them.

    • @shaunalea823
      @shaunalea823 9 месяцев назад +2

      True, it was bizarre that they chose that situation to make it an issue. I promise it won’t last.

  • @sandrarenolds
    @sandrarenolds 9 месяцев назад +10

    Kody gets paid a lot of money to act the way he does. It is not in his financial interest to "act like a person"

  • @TheSuefriend
    @TheSuefriend 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kody insists all the wives be strictly "Team Kody", but he refuses to be "Team Jenelle/Meri/Christine". Imagine expecting 1000% of something from someone that you yourself are unwilling to give. 🤡

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. In life we meet two types of people: The Makers and The Takers. Janelle, Meri, & Christine tried to make and maintain a family. Kody and Robyn took everything they could from those efforts and used them for their own benefit. I don't fault the OG3 for being generous. They just sacrificed for the wrong people.

  • @honiej00n75
    @honiej00n75 9 месяцев назад +6

    Kody also chose to spirit marry Christine because she was considered royalty in their FLDS community. He used Christine for status, and dogged her out.

  • @erinpearson6664
    @erinpearson6664 9 месяцев назад +5

    Love your videos, James! I think my favorite part is your impersonation of Robyn and Nathan! You keep it real and make us all laugh at the same time.

  • @judieversaul4274
    @judieversaul4274 9 месяцев назад +11

    You are so correct. Kody is running from himself. But it is futile. His issues go with him everywhere. Manhood illudes him. I think he feels jealous of his sons, so he avoids them.

  • @user-fb1on7ie4z
    @user-fb1on7ie4z 9 месяцев назад +7

    The title of the show is “Sister Wives” not “Kody Brown and his wives.” The show would be vastly improved if the got rid of him, and no one would miss him. I’ve gotten to the point that I just fast forward through the scenes that have him in it because I can’t stand to look at him.

  • @trailofatrilliontears1045
    @trailofatrilliontears1045 9 месяцев назад +4

    What really drives me nuts with Kody is he's always crying about his breakups and how hurt and mad he is, but in the same breath, he dismisses Mari. How do you think she feels? She actually loves Kody, unlike how he has said he feels about Kristeen. He has no empathy. He claims he is going through divorces, but he hasn't seen a divorce yet. If he keeps playing games with Robyn and talking about how he doesn't really want her anymore either he's going to find out what a divorce actually is. She can take him for everything he's worth. Then he really will be crying. Watching Janelle in that tiny apartment burns me up too. Robyn's Christmas decorations are worth more than a month of Janelle's rent.

  • @dawnclark4635
    @dawnclark4635 9 месяцев назад +14

    Hit the nail on the head once again,James. I think Kody's biggest issue is a lot of self loathing and fear that people will see through hm. I honestly think he thinks these moves are an opportunity to remake himself because he's so insecure about people seeing through him.

  • @MsMolliesMom
    @MsMolliesMom 9 месяцев назад +28

    I so enjoy listening to your perspective. You are the most sensible and yet compassionate reviewer of these shows. So many post pure gossip and suppositions.
    You hit the nail on the head when you said Janelle and Christine’s Christmas was about family and the kids and everyone enjoying themselves. Christmas at Kody & Robyn’s seemed to be about him trying to redeem himself with good PR work.
    Sad. He really needs to hold out the olive branch and let go of his ego. He should make an effort to be a father to all the children regardless of how his marriages ended.

  • @tonyaa8738
    @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +2

    So Robyn thinks when the husband moves on and leaves the wife to run a household and 6 kids by herself she’s got a lot of time to meditate and get closer with God? Talk about out of touch! She’s obviously never lived as a polygamist wife!

  • @SaltiB
    @SaltiB 9 месяцев назад +7

    When Christine was laughing… I was cracking up right with her! I love happy Christine! I wish they could all be that happy. Just laugh off his ridiculousness cause he is no longer her problem! 🤣🤣

  • @ItsBellum
    @ItsBellum 9 месяцев назад +7

    The sacrifices I've made WASTED-AH!

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 9 месяцев назад +3

      Knife to the kidneys! 😂

    • @ItsBellum
      @ItsBellum 9 месяцев назад +2

      😂@@Bildgesmythe

  • @continuallycountingchicken7338
    @continuallycountingchicken7338 9 месяцев назад +7

    You have the most wise statements of anyone I’ve heard on Sister Wives! You are my favorite person to listen to about the episodes. Thank you for what you do!! ❤

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 9 месяцев назад +21

    Mic drop moment: Kody wants to escape everything and everyone. What keeps Kody from leaving is Sol and Ari, not Robyn's older 3 or Robyn or anyone else. Kody is ok with ALL of his kids, the other women to see it AND millions of viewers. He just doesn’t want Robyn to see it. He knows that Robyn has it in her to take away his parental rights of Sol and Ari.

    • @caridad724
      @caridad724 9 месяцев назад +1

      Pretty sure she's seen it now..... should we take bets on the time frame of Robyn leaving now, too?

    • @tawnytseng7268
      @tawnytseng7268 9 месяцев назад +3

      And he will have legal financial responsibility as well.

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +3

      Robyn will never leave Kody because then she would have to get a job 😂

    • @cathywithac
      @cathywithac 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@tonyaa8738 Robyn would move on if Kody treats her kids the way he treats his other kids. As legal wife, she can get alimony, child support and half of Kody's assets in the divorce. She will look for the next man to take care of her and her kids. As she has demonstrated, she can have him stripped of his parental rights to Sol and Ari too.

  • @tamijones992
    @tamijones992 9 месяцев назад +8

    Janelle kids have Kody,s number. They don't buy his woo is me. Him hurting their women (mom,sisters) is really dumb, they will never forgive him.😊

  • @tonyaa8738
    @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +2

    For the last 30 years kody has had 3 women outdoing each other for Kody’s attention. He cannot comprehend that they’re over it. He never believed any of them would actually leave no matter how horribly he treated them and now he’s melting down. I’m really enjoying watching Kody collect his karma.

  • @priyankajilwani
    @priyankajilwani 9 месяцев назад +4

    TLC need to sit Kody down next to all of his daughters and together watch clips of how he treats Robyn’s kids.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +3

      That's a great idea and I want the moms looking him dead in the eye as it plays

    • @deborahtanner354
      @deborahtanner354 9 месяцев назад

      TLC could care less! Sign that contract and shut up.

  • @crucialtaunt5717
    @crucialtaunt5717 9 месяцев назад +5

    Oh...It definitely sounded waaaay cooler in his head and he probably practiced it in his bathroom mirror that morning.

  • @naluna1293
    @naluna1293 9 месяцев назад +7

    Cody is a 100% narcissist, he is never to blame, he is always the good guy and everyone else is the bad guy. I feel sick when I see the way he acts.

    • @Erica-wz8yv
      @Erica-wz8yv 9 месяцев назад

      Yes, he reminds me of my ex husband

    • @tonyaa8738
      @tonyaa8738 9 месяцев назад +1

      When he was patting himself on the back for not demanding an apology from Janelle? It would never occur to him to apologize even when he’s the only one in the wrong.

  • @bravelibby
    @bravelibby 9 месяцев назад +4

    Einstein once said, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its’ ability to climb a tree, it will spend its’ whole life believing it is stupid.” This is all that went through my head at 41:45 of this video.

  • @rebeccacrakow2918
    @rebeccacrakow2918 9 месяцев назад +6

    I always felt that Meri was truly IN-Love with Kody- I mean unconditional love- infact if he came to her and asked her to stay and better their relationship- she would. Christine and Janelle totally loved Kody - but when you have kids, that love shifts naturally to your children- you still love your husband, but everything Kody didn’t do for the children becomes a deal breaker! It really becomes more about the kids for a mom. Nothing turns me on more is watching a father interacting and spending quality time with your children. Kody not only didn’t do that but also neglected his 3 wives.

  • @florenceumpherville8560
    @florenceumpherville8560 9 месяцев назад +4

    They weren’t worthy to be in the family in his mind, but they each were just brood mares and or cash cows? Man that guy is demented. If the kids deny he is their father, does he still make it into echelons of heaven? 🤣

  • @leahchase3699
    @leahchase3699 9 месяцев назад +10

    He’s an absolutely classic narcissist. My father is one, and he is identical. They have a big blast radius, unfortunately. Everything is transactional. Every thing.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  9 месяцев назад +5

      And they always have to get the lion's share of the benefit in the transaction.

  • @blackswangothika8920
    @blackswangothika8920 9 месяцев назад +6

    How convenient he leaves out how he and meri were renting from Janelle. She had money so he saw her as a resource. He also said how cute she was. She also bought them the Lehi house and helped the move to Vegas. Christine came with a prominent name. I find it so interesting he says these things now as if we cant see thru it all. Im so bothered at his phony kindness to Meri now that he needs her support. I imagine she sees thru it as it seems as soon as Kody is giving heŕ the kindness she has craved for years.. soon as he starts treating her nice shes like " c ya later beetchs!!" Lol

  • @hotmessmandy7
    @hotmessmandy7 9 месяцев назад +5

    Robin is never going to be the strong woman Cody actually needs. He needs a lot of therapy but he needs someone to stand toe to toe and scream and yell right back in his face and never give him an inch . she was only taught how to be a mistress not a wife. Remeber she's a child of bigamy not polygamy.

  • @tammypauls1077
    @tammypauls1077 9 месяцев назад +2

    Sobbin hasn't told coby to quit feeling sorry for himself because she is busy feeling sorry for herself.

  • @LIFE_is_G20OD
    @LIFE_is_G20OD 9 месяцев назад +7

    It's a really good point about the ladies carrying the show from the beginning and how Kody and Robyn hid behind them. Now that the ladies are out, the show is evolving. He must think everyone watches for him. Nope. The cameras arent even allowed in Slobbins house! Why the heck would we want to see a show where all the convos are held out on the patio!! Forget that!!

  • @chantallennox1201
    @chantallennox1201 9 месяцев назад +2

    What sacrifices is Kody talking about?! He is a taker, not a giver.

  • @kittyroxs
    @kittyroxs 9 месяцев назад +2

    OVER an hour? First I get home to see my neighbor has already mowed my lawn and now I get an entire hour? I should play the lottery...

  • @glennayarnot546
    @glennayarnot546 9 месяцев назад +3

    James, Kody isn't taking care of Robyn's kids, THE NANNY is!

  • @woodysbarndominium
    @woodysbarndominium 9 месяцев назад +3

    These thumbnails are cracking me up 😂

  • @Mamaisawake
    @Mamaisawake 9 месяцев назад +2

    “They got a break every other day” OMG QUIT SAYING THAT they were alone taking care of your kids! Not laying on a beach drinking margs! Uggggggggh

  • @DrofJustice
    @DrofJustice 9 месяцев назад +5

    Capital T Truth. You, my friend, have a gift. Keep it coming. ❤❤❤

  • @MarleneCoffey
    @MarleneCoffey 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kody is like AC spoiled child, his "wives" are possessions not people. He only wants them for how they make him appear. He doesn't love or honor them, they are part of his image and a source of income.

  • @colormetakenaback
    @colormetakenaback 9 месяцев назад +15

    🎯 Exactly! Kody has always been the devil- we must've all been living in the future! 😂 In the way back back he would snicker in his confessional about playing one wife off the other to get his way! He thought he was being cute too, like it was no big deal. That was just an everyday situation not some big to-do either. His confessionals bury him.
    What makes Kody so ridonkulous to me ia he has *no self awareness at all*! He thinks he is so witty and cute meanwhile the rest of us are either cringing, laughing, or fuming.
    You should deep dive on his daddy issues. Ol Winn was a piece of work!

    • @alongfellow4147
      @alongfellow4147 9 месяцев назад +10

      I like how the producers are trolling kody and sobyn and showing their lies and fake cries (sobyn we see you)

    • @colormetakenaback
      @colormetakenaback 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@alongfellow4147 You're right! They troll Kody and Robyn so hard and then at the tell-all you think they're going to nail them with some hard questions but they throw em softballs! Gah!!

    • @judymattiussi9027
      @judymattiussi9027 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@colormetakenaback❤😢

  • @helixmoore7636
    @helixmoore7636 9 месяцев назад +4

    If.this show isn't scripted then he needs prison

  • @LinaGenX
    @LinaGenX 9 месяцев назад +7

    Kody should look further than 5 years into the future. If he keeps up his current behavior, he is going to die alone. Robyn & her kids will wise up one day too

  • @CP-fd6pt
    @CP-fd6pt 4 месяца назад +1

    Kody never once asked how his kids were feeling. Not one time

  • @dejaporter7338
    @dejaporter7338 9 месяцев назад +5

    Im tired of Kody and his "spaghetti tendrils" i mean hair🤣🤣🤣🤨🧐

  • @maxineslife5159
    @maxineslife5159 9 месяцев назад +4

    James once again you're right on point. I found this episode really difficult to watch Kody and the creap thing nearly made me toss my cookies. Without the ladies, he doesn't have a show. Without the show, he can't Finance Robin, he is gonna lose everything.

  • @aurorab295
    @aurorab295 9 месяцев назад +2

    The problem is: if Kody has narcissistic personality disorder IT DOESN'T MATTER what is said, how it's said, any energy sent in his direction is going to feed him. The worse he acts, the more he shows his lack of empathy, the more hate goes in his direction and that's what he feeds on. His wives pain is also what he feeds on.
    You watch...when Janelle leaves (with nothing) and she pairs up with Christine and TLC picks them up as a rival spin off to Kody & Robyn, you'll see Kody start to take out his lack of empathy on the persons closest.... Robyn will soon find out what it feels like when/if Kody gets married again. Good luck!

  • @wlkrjnn
    @wlkrjnn 7 месяцев назад +2

    He probably wasn't allowed to fail as a kid.

  • @colleen1219
    @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +63

    I was disgusted by the sexual tension remark. Are you kidding me on Christmas. Then to act as if it is for meri’s well being. I’m so sick of the jabs by K&R. They know exactly what they’re doing.

    • @alongfellow4147
      @alongfellow4147 9 месяцев назад +17

      I wondered why they weren't at meris house like they said they would be!? It seems like snobyn is determined to cancel an6 tradition the family had before she ruined, I mean entered this family.

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@alongfellow4147 thank you! Wasn’t that the whole point of the conversation. They had the week before. God forbid they try to make Meri comfortable. Believe me I wouldn’t put myself in the position Meri did. they could’ve at least made it easier for her.

    • @jamiecronin967
      @jamiecronin967 9 месяцев назад

      How much sexual tension do they have after 12 years? They shouldn’t be displaying that in front of the kids EITHER. No wonder why everyone is unstable over there! You mean to say thru can’t save it for the bedroom? Kids don’t want to see that! Perverts! Maybe they both need to JOBS. Like normal adults! They wouldn’t be so energetic that they can’t contain appropriate behavior .

    • @jamiecronin967
      @jamiecronin967 9 месяцев назад +7

      Zero lack of empathy. Typical for cheating abusive husbands - “I will smack her in the face for asking me where I was” instead of feeling bad for cheating. That’s what malignant narcissists do.

  • @CARATMom
    @CARATMom 9 месяцев назад +2

    Ever since I first saw Sister Wives I thought Kody had on a mask. And his mask is now slipping. Everybody who had done a rewatch of the first season realize that Kody was trash from day ONE. He just sounded real friendly about it while he broke his wives and children’s hearts.

  • @juanitabrummell1072
    @juanitabrummell1072 9 месяцев назад +8

    I love your opinion on this crazy show, I don't feel sorry for Kody or Robin one bit

  • @yvettelarochelle888
    @yvettelarochelle888 9 месяцев назад +2

    When Robin divorces Kody, she will sue him for child support, alimony, and just about everything he has. She is not like the other past wives, she is just pure evil.

  • @jcwittig
    @jcwittig 9 месяцев назад +11

    One of the greatest sins that will create a immediate severing of any contact with me is when parents use their own kids to hurt others but by using their kids or also hurting their children you must be a really really selfish Jack-posterior to be even okay thinking that thought.

  • @zo3be11aXO
    @zo3be11aXO 9 месяцев назад +3

    Avoidance behaviors up, down, front, back, & sideways from Kooty. Avoidance. Avoidance. Avoidance.

  • @marlopeterson8283
    @marlopeterson8283 9 месяцев назад +2

    He should have sold the art on that wall to pay for Ysabel's surgery. Be a freaking father!!

  • @ExtraordinaryMachine333
    @ExtraordinaryMachine333 9 месяцев назад +8

    He has a lot of good reasons to go to therapy, and struggling to do the right thing is one of them.

    • @patglenholmes7393
      @patglenholmes7393 9 месяцев назад +1

      No amount of therapy will work with him.

  • @OuraniaAthena
    @OuraniaAthena 9 месяцев назад +1

    Kody's dad allegedly thought that Kody was too immature for polygamy. Kody has daddy issues.

  • @karenrnotakaren
    @karenrnotakaren 9 месяцев назад +3

    Janelle and Christine understand pologomy better than Kody!!

  • @katrinaDS
    @katrinaDS 9 месяцев назад +2

    I find it pretty ironic that Robin is saying she does not recognize this man right now. Isn’t that exactly what the other three wives said before they left. But Robin can’t understand why they left even though they were dealing with a man they did not recognize after 25 years plus dealing with never seeing him and never having Cody in the kids’ lives.

  • @raleighrobinson6399
    @raleighrobinson6399 9 месяцев назад +7

    You get out of a relationship what your willing to put into that relationship. Sadly children grow up seeing the way you treat their mother, and the way you treat them. If you refuse to accept responsibility for absolutely anything, they will eventually choose not to have a relationship with you. At least if you raise strong, intelligent, kind hearted children, they will have the strength to walk away and protect themselves from heart ache.

    • @rrj10
      @rrj10 9 месяцев назад +1

      I'm praying that these kids , most of whom are adults now, choose a partner that will treat them well. The 1's that r still lil should b sheltered as much as possible from the toxicity around them! They need help ! All of the kids do! I'm praying they find God , so they can see what true love is & how 2 become good ppl! If they read this, I hope they understand its not a religion, I pray 4 them, but a relationship with their creator, the ultimate Father ! Kody could use that truth, as well !!!!!
      The young woman should b very careful not 2 fall 4 some1 like dad & the young men should b careful not 2 become some1 like their dad!
      God bless u, James! Loving ur humor & ur empathy 4 all involved ! B safe
      Pray kody doesn't lose it, 2 much of that is happening 🙏!!!! Keep these women & children safe in Jesus' name, amen!!!

  • @cristyf5431
    @cristyf5431 9 месяцев назад +5

    I was glad to see it pointed out that Christine mother's the other wives kids even more than Kody has patented his own kids. Kody is a fool.

  • @AllMyLove111
    @AllMyLove111 9 месяцев назад +3

    Your probably the best ive heard at talking about these reality shows!!!
    You sure your not goving us all free therapy!!!
    All the best Mr James🌈🌈🌈