You shouldn’t. I’m friends with my ex. Even though I dumped him he wanted to be my friend. Only one who I have truly loved and in good terms with till this day. I have told him that I still like him and he likes me too. Yet we aren’t together and say we are just friends
Staying "friends" with an ex is the personification of toxicity. Not only that people who do stay friends with their exes tend to cheat on their future partners and it's usually influenced by the ex in some way
Facts! And people will say there is something wrong with you if you don't want to become friends after you break up . No it's just you need time to heal and forgive. The ex thats wants to remain as a friends it's just Blocking and have some Benefits. Or just have some access to continue to hurt you.
This. People get weird about me not being in contact with my exes, asking why I couldn't do it. Because, I don't need to. I needed to fully move on and the truth is, you simply cannot do that with an ex still in your life.
I don’t feel like there’s something wrong. I’m friends with my ex. Yes we both still like each other but we are just waiting for the right time. Not everyone’s situation is like that
Let me just say that this dude right here he gets it. He has a lot of common sense. It’s so simple and people in the so-called dating spaces try to make dating so hard,and give all this toxic BS advice to the blk community…. This man is the real deal right here.
He blocked his own blessing because he still had ex’s as friends when we got together. I told him how uncomfortable that made me. He claimed it was not an issue..Even got mad once and yelled, “we don’t owe eachother nothin’” while we were still in a “committed” relationship. Later down the line we break up, & he starts adding them back on socials, flirting with them under their pictures…then still claims he wants to be friends with me after our breakup😑When will he learn that this pattern will not work? If you want a person, just stay with them. Don’t have them lingering around as your “friend” just so they can watch you get into a new relationship and repeat the whole stupid cycle. I refuse to disrespect myself by giving someone who betrayed me access to me.
This is exactly why I block exes/people I dated for a while when things are over. I don't hate you, but I also can't move onto someone who deserves and wants all of me if I'm still worrying about this old "emotion". And I don't fully trust people who are still friends with their exes. Like, you have to still be holding on, hoping something will happen and you get back together. All I can do is wish they eventually move on from their ex, but I can't help you do that.
Glad you can do that. I only do that to those who dumped me and were bad to me. The only person who wasn’t bad to me I dumped because I was scared. Now we are about to be a couple and get serious after being “friends as exes”
On point. Works both ways too.. I used to attempt to remain friends and be available for ex gf's because some part of me couldn't let go of the part of them I would miss.
@@tebohorakotsoane9397 nah we have grown into different people and we are better off as co-parenting friends. It's healthier for the both of us and especially for our child, we are still family just not romantically.
I don’t believe you should be friends with an ex, cut them of completely, they weren’t friends with you when you were together, why be friends now, it’s only a way for him to stay connected to you and another way for him to slither his snake behind into you life , while sabotaging your new relationships !
I’m a woman and I’m currently dating a woman who is still friends with their ex from five years ago she’s saying that she moved on and doesn’t care for her only as a friend.. I trust her but it’s soo upsetting to me, I relate to everything u said.
You said the key word unsettling 😮 sounds like your mind and heart not ensyc....ijs...I felt like that in my last relationship finally I left that relationship bc I wasn't happy my guy was telling me but I wouldn't listen. I hope it works out for you ❤
Every female need to share this man videos so we can better all women especially our younger girls and they will have better standards and uplift them cause this man is Daddy to a lot of women and this is how men Suppose to be about women
So true I thought that too …. Until he was just as disrespectful as he was when we lived together!! He a piece of trash so I had to erase his number then block him! I learned my lesson!!! Glad he’s gone !!!
My feelings have to be loooong gone before we can be on that level... Until then, we don't even need to be in the same vicinity, no communication, no contact, until I'm healed from whatever it was we had... After that, I'm good.
I like how he said some not all but that’s definitely the exception and not the rule. Usually (consciously or subconsciously) one or both of you is still holding on to whatever y’all had.
Each situation is different. In some instances...yes, there is a necessity sometimes....for X's to be just that~~ex partner. In other situations? Like he states...there are children involved (kids should have both parents...just because y'all can no longer function as romantic partners doesn't have anything to do with your role as a parent). In other situations? Sometimes...two former partners...ARE BETTER OFF AS FRIENDS! Heck, I've heard of situations in which a couple FUNCTIONED better as friends as opposed to being romantic/sexual partners.
Sometimes when you have no family and especially no father or uncles around you tend to keep the ‘friendship’ thing just incase you need a man’s help one day. Still no healthy though, I do agree. But it’s just not always a black and white issue
💯👏, block them if you have to, in order to heal and move on. If I would have kept the lines open for a man who wanted nothing serious with me I wouldn't have met my husband❤... that ending 😂😂😂
I don't like being friends with exes, I'm usually glad to get rid of them when it's said and done. I have no desire or interest in being friends with that person, what for? Also, a lot of exes are sneaky, they claim there a friend when there have ulterior motives.
I cackled a little too loudly at the a$$ eating 😂😂😂😂😂 so true. I’m only in closer contact with my ex cause he’s my baby daddy but we respect each other’s boundaries.
I let go of everything in my past because I realized some never meant me any good. I am happier with the no contact rule I have applied in my life. Altho I'm not looking right now the coast will be clear when the time comes. Keep doing your thing we need more men to stand up 💗💗💗
I don’t go backwards whatsoever. My ex-husband said we should be friends. My husband and I looked at each other and busted out laughing. He was on the speaker phone with our daughter. My husband and I have shenanigans that no one will ever understand.
Hello yall , tha man right here is back!!!! His ass is always on point. I luhv the energy, his mind, his damn realness. I wasn't ready for that eat yur ass sh!!!t. U can't just make this up!!!! I luhv how he continues to give us the real deal, holy field❤❤❤. I'm very blessed to have came across his messages ( BRILLIANT) LUHV U ACE❤❤❤❤❤
If your children are grown and yall have grandkids I feel like you and your ex shouldn't have no contact unless something medical is happening to yall children or grandkids.I feel like the ex need to move on with there life and if the ex have moved on then the ex need to move on as well ,and not cross the boundary with the ex .Then the ex need to set boundaries with the ex cause he has moved on.Then the ex need to respect the other ex relationship as well.Cause respect goes both ways.
I can weigh in on this from the side of truly trying to be friends with an ex who I got along with much better as friends from the get go.. we knew each other since childhood so I thought we could be friends.. and he had a new gf too and I was cool with her but I could tell she was jealous.. she was much younger than me. But I tried to be my nice self and show her I was absolutely not a threat bc once I’m done with someone I am done! But of course he ended up leaving her… and hanging around me a bit more… I got the feeling he was going to hint at us trying again.. but I made sure he knew I wasn’t going there subtly lol well out of nowhere he blocked me 😅 I’m like okay dude! Lmao .. but the only part that sucks is I found a cold tracks he made and had sent me that are so good and I want to send them to him but I can’t bc he can’t be my friend apparently! So yea… I don’t know if guys are capable of ignoring the past but I promise it was not a problem for me! Maybe I’m just not typical.. idk! 🤷🏼♀️
I X out all my ex's. They an ex for a reason. There's not an open door policy in my world. It's called the good ole INFJ Door Slam. Once we're done WERE DONE! I no longer know who you are. In fact I never met you. And if you see me in the streets just remember to keep it pushing cause you don't know me!
Yea i think that we shouldn’t be friends because we both like each other still. But yet what do we call each other when we’re on the verge of reconnecting
Imo you don't need to block them unless they do/say anything that crosses a boundary, but they shouldn't be a friend/confidant after you are with a new partner.
And even sometimes when you keep in contact with kids because kids is a hindrance. There’s apps out here know for parent communication. Sometimes baby momma’s and baby daddy’s be still on some bs
I believe it's nearly impossible to maintain a friendship with an ex-boyfriend, especially when you're dating someone new. Moving forward and respecting your current relationship often means leaving past relationships behind. It's about prioritizing and giving your full attention to the new person in your life. You can't move forward if you continue to live in the past.
My best friend is my ex. We were in a relationship for 6mo, even lived together for a couple of those which is what lead me to break up with him, but it's been 4 years and he's the only person that's been there for me
My ex just asked to go to the movies next week…first boundary I put up in a while as coparents. His response was “I wasn’t asking to be together but ok” sir…we are done. If it ain’t about our kid, have the day you deserve without involving me.
@acemetaphor Thank you Brother 🙏🏾 I really appreciate the advice. Just what I needed to hear. My ex wants to be friends after no contact for over a year. I gave it a go but as you said, he used to consume parts of me. I need to let go of the idea and let go of all else that does not serve my higher purpose. Thank you Brother 🙏🏾💖
I send my ex-whatever hate mail. It's a lot of fun. Is that like cheating on my new man? I don't want my ex ANYWHERE near my ear because he likes playing with women. He likes them interacting and see their reactions. He's evil and the best revenge is to be happy. They say omega 3 helps lower anger because I am so angry at the jerk that kept playing with my feelings and my father's feelings for over a year!
The guy im dating is currently on a 10 day holiday with his ex for his birthday. They have a key to eachothers houses, he drops everything to run errands and do diy jobs for her. She cooks food for him and has sleepovers, but 'she sleeps on the couch' of course 😒 He told me all of that with no hesitation. He talks about how great she is all the time.... i dont understand why they even split up. They dont even have any children together. I really like him and he seems to really like me. I cant find a video that relates to my extreme scenario. I feel like i fooling myself but he makes me feel like a fool for feeling this way. I need some advice
You know, I was in a relationship too but that ended a year ago (October 4th 2022), then on August she got my friend into convincing me into talking to her again which led me into letting her into her life( I know, I'm probably going to stuff in the comments saying that I am stupid for letting her back into my life). We agreed to build trust with each other but that didn't last long, 2 weeks later she tells me she's with someone else (she proceeded to hug me and say "I hope your not mad) she also said that we can be friends. I was hurt, she told me she didn't expected forgiveness. But weeks later she talks to my best friend to convince me to be forgive her and be friends. The truth was reveled that she saw me as a brother after we broke up, so the whole time she played me like a 🎻 twice and the whole time we were together, she never loved me, she just used me just to get close to my best friend and even tried to betrayed me with him( thank god, my best friend didn't betray me) she also showed a sign of jealousy when she found out that my bestfriend has a girlfriend. But 2 days after the one year anniversary since we broke up, she said "she was done with my bullshit" and then gets mad that I'm avoiding her. She just wanted to keep me around as a friend, just to make me jealous and wanted me to see her and lover boy do stuff that i didnt get to do with her. She tried to convince my best friend into doing her dirty work. In conclusion, being Friends with your ex can painfull so don't sacrifice your sanity just to be friends with someone you used to love that caused you so much pain.
Mature wise people can genuinely remain platonic only friends with their ex’s. My husband and I did and we don’t regret it. We also have no bitterness or animosity towards those who rejected us. As Jesus said “Love thy neighbor.”
well heres the thing for me, the only real reason i broke up with my boyfriend today is because i kept getting more desperate to see him even though i wont see him ever again, were both going to different schools or wtv. He never did anything i just didnt think that i could handle not seeing him. Thats the reason im still friends with him
I agree with most his videos but disagree with this one. Sometimes friendships can become a relationship but didn't work out. So you go back to a friendship status without the extra benefits. As long as your friendship doesn't interfere with your current relationship. I don't waste time thinking about a man's ex girlfriend because I have him now. Besides if someone wants to stay in contact with their ex than how can you stop them...
“He used to eat your ass” is crazy 😭😭😭 I wasn’t prepared for that..
Yea,I wasn't ready 🤣
Yes! That made me spit my water out 😆
💀💀💀💀 💯💯 zero lies told but damn I cackled
I laughed so hard at that
Never
I don't trust dudes who are buddies with ex's🤦🏾♀️
Me neither. My antennas go all the way up.
And you shouldn't
Exactly!!!!
Facts!!
yeah
I also hate ladies who are still friends with their exs. Huge red flag.
I agree. You block your own blessings when you don't let go of something/someone that no longer serves a purpose.💯
😢
That's right
I don’t trust no one who says they are friends with their ex
Riiiiiggghhhhtttt
And you shouldn’t.
You shouldn’t. I’m friends with my ex. Even though I dumped him he wanted to be my friend. Only one who I have truly loved and in good terms with till this day. I have told him that I still like him and he likes me too. Yet we aren’t together and say we are just friends
@@Nono-cy7nche’s just wants to keep you as a friend hoping yall have sex again 🤷🏽♂️
@@Nono-cy7ncdo you think you’re holding out for him?
Healing for me is setting them boundaries and have No contact. We ain't make it for a reason
EX- short for exit out of my life.
This right here
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Mic drop
Or Example of what to stay away from
I will never go back to my vomit 🤮.. I know my value
Right! Can’t be cool with licking it up like them dogs do!
Bet
Every ex u have is trash.... thats said.
I mean that’s you. Not everyone is bad
@@Nono-cy7nc I never said everyone is bad .. I will never go back to my vomit I can only speak for myself…..I don’t know about you .
Staying "friends" with an ex is the personification of toxicity. Not only that people who do stay friends with their exes tend to cheat on their future partners and it's usually influenced by the ex in some way
Facts! And people will say there is something wrong with you if you don't want to become friends after you break up . No it's just you need time to heal and forgive. The ex thats wants to remain as a friends it's just Blocking and have some Benefits. Or just have some access to continue to hurt you.
Facts
This. People get weird about me not being in contact with my exes, asking why I couldn't do it. Because, I don't need to. I needed to fully move on and the truth is, you simply cannot do that with an ex still in your life.
Nothing wrong with not wanting to be friends with anyone.
Facts
I don’t feel like there’s something wrong. I’m friends with my ex. Yes we both still like each other but we are just waiting for the right time. Not everyone’s situation is like that
Let me just say that this dude right here he gets it. He has a lot of common sense. It’s so simple and people in the so-called dating spaces try to make dating so hard,and give all this toxic BS advice to the blk community…. This man is the real deal right here.
Amen
ps your profile name got me weak💀
Facts
He blocked his own blessing because he still had ex’s as friends when we got together. I told him how uncomfortable that made me. He claimed it was not an issue..Even got mad once and yelled, “we don’t owe eachother nothin’” while we were still in a “committed” relationship. Later down the line we break up, & he starts adding them back on socials, flirting with them under their pictures…then still claims he wants to be friends with me after our breakup😑When will he learn that this pattern will not work? If you want a person, just stay with them. Don’t have them lingering around as your “friend” just so they can watch you get into a new relationship and repeat the whole stupid cycle. I refuse to disrespect myself by giving someone who betrayed me access to me.
This is exactly why I block exes/people I dated for a while when things are over. I don't hate you, but I also can't move onto someone who deserves and wants all of me if I'm still worrying about this old "emotion".
And I don't fully trust people who are still friends with their exes. Like, you have to still be holding on, hoping something will happen and you get back together. All I can do is wish they eventually move on from their ex, but I can't help you do that.
Glad you can do that. I only do that to those who dumped me and were bad to me. The only person who wasn’t bad to me I dumped because I was scared. Now we are about to be a couple and get serious after being “friends as exes”
On point. Works both ways too.. I used to attempt to remain friends and be available for ex gf's because some part of me couldn't let go of the part of them I would miss.
Understand that a little too much 🤍
You are so right I will never be friends with my X never ever ever .
Ever Ever!!!!
Trust your Heart and turn him loose ,so blessings can come ❤💯 ❤
The only ex i keep in contact with is my son's father lol and even sometimes i dont want to talk to that man lmfao 🤣😂
Does part of you feel like they could change and you guys try again?
@@tebohorakotsoane9397 nah we have grown into different people and we are better off as co-parenting friends. It's healthier for the both of us and especially for our child, we are still family just not romantically.
I don’t believe you should be friends with an ex, cut them of completely, they weren’t friends with you when you were together, why be friends now, it’s only a way for him to stay connected to you and another way for him to slither his snake behind into you life , while sabotaging your new relationships !
All off my exs where firends first.
I was not expecting that!
You legend!
I’m glad somebody speakin on this shiiiii ❤
Yep
Lol (someone who’s friends with my ex because I still like him)
I’m a woman and I’m currently dating a woman who is still friends with their ex from five years ago she’s saying that she moved on and doesn’t care for her only as a friend.. I trust her but it’s soo upsetting to me, I relate to everything u said.
You said the key word unsettling 😮 sounds like your mind and heart not ensyc....ijs...I felt like that in my last relationship finally I left that relationship bc I wasn't happy my guy was telling me but I wouldn't listen. I hope it works out for you ❤
Every female need to share this man videos so we can better all women especially our younger girls and they will have better standards and uplift them cause this man is Daddy to a lot of women and this is how men Suppose to be about women
I wish he had a larger stage,because God knows they need to know!!!!
So true I thought that too …. Until he was just as disrespectful as he was when we lived together!! He a piece of trash so I had to erase his number then block him! I learned my lesson!!! Glad he’s gone !!!
God Bless you
My feelings have to be loooong gone before we can be on that level... Until then, we don't even need to be in the same vicinity, no communication, no contact, until I'm healed from whatever it was we had... After that, I'm good.
After that you still gotta think about how your new partner will feel.
Facts I keep saying that to women!!!! No friends you slept with period
What if he keeps her on soc medias?
@@bluecollary no contact period!!! They don't have kids together there is nothing to talk about..
Youre right
Not everyone has sex while dating. Many real Christian’s don’t until marriage
I agree with you wholeheartedly! Make a clean break!!!
I like how he said some not all but that’s definitely the exception and not the rule. Usually (consciously or subconsciously) one or both of you is still holding on to whatever y’all had.
Heal means letting go...period
Each situation is different.
In some instances...yes, there is a necessity sometimes....for X's to be just that~~ex partner.
In other situations? Like he states...there are children involved (kids should have both parents...just because y'all can no longer function as romantic partners doesn't have anything to do with your role as a parent).
In other situations? Sometimes...two former partners...ARE BETTER OFF AS FRIENDS! Heck, I've heard of situations in which a couple FUNCTIONED better as friends as opposed to being romantic/sexual partners.
Sometimes when you have no family and especially no father or uncles around you tend to keep the ‘friendship’ thing just incase you need a man’s help one day. Still no healthy though, I do agree. But it’s just not always a black and white issue
The part where you say “he use to eat your ass” is so funny to me cause it’s true 😂😂
Exactly but now we're Best Friends 😂😂
Lol yea that’s funny. I’m friends with my ex but never were we sexual like you sinners 😂
I didn’t learn to create healthy boundaries until my mid-30s. Thank you for helping me learn what that looks like.
Well said King.
💯👏, block them if you have to, in order to heal and move on. If I would have kept the lines open for a man who wanted nothing serious with me I wouldn't have met my husband❤... that ending 😂😂😂
I don't like being friends with exes, I'm usually glad to get rid of them when it's said and done. I have no desire or interest in being friends with that person, what for? Also, a lot of exes are sneaky, they claim there a friend when there have ulterior motives.
I cackled a little too loudly at the a$$ eating 😂😂😂😂😂 so true. I’m only in closer contact with my ex cause he’s my baby daddy but we respect each other’s boundaries.
I let go of everything in my past because I realized some never meant me any good. I am happier with the no contact rule I have applied in my life. Altho I'm not looking right now the coast will be clear when the time comes.
Keep doing your thing we need more men to stand up 💗💗💗
I don’t go backwards whatsoever. My ex-husband said we should be friends. My husband and I looked at each other and busted out laughing. He was on the speaker phone with our daughter. My husband and I have shenanigans that no one will ever understand.
Hello yall , tha man right here is back!!!! His ass is always on point. I luhv the energy, his mind, his damn realness. I wasn't ready for that eat yur ass sh!!!t. U can't just make this up!!!! I luhv how he continues to give us the real deal, holy field❤❤❤. I'm very blessed to have came across his messages ( BRILLIANT) LUHV U ACE❤❤❤❤❤
If your children are grown and yall have grandkids I feel like you and your ex shouldn't have no contact unless something medical is happening to yall children or grandkids.I feel like the ex need to move on with there life and if the ex
have moved on then the ex need to move on as well ,and not cross the boundary with the ex .Then the ex
need to set boundaries with the ex cause he has moved on.Then the ex need to respect the other ex relationship as well.Cause respect goes both ways.
You Tell em Ace!!!!! God Bless you Continuously 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Even with children ladies, keep your distance specially when co parenting with a narcissist
I can weigh in on this from the side of truly trying to be friends with an ex who I got along with much better as friends from the get go.. we knew each other since childhood so I thought we could be friends.. and he had a new gf too and I was cool with her but I could tell she was jealous.. she was much younger than me. But I tried to be my nice self and show her I was absolutely not a threat bc once I’m done with someone I am done! But of course he ended up leaving her… and hanging around me a bit more… I got the feeling he was going to hint at us trying again.. but I made sure he knew I wasn’t going there subtly lol well out of nowhere he blocked me 😅 I’m like okay dude! Lmao .. but the only part that sucks is I found a cold tracks he made and had sent me that are so good and I want to send them to him but I can’t bc he can’t be my friend apparently! So yea… I don’t know if guys are capable of ignoring the past but I promise it was not a problem for me! Maybe I’m just not typical.. idk! 🤷🏼♀️
I X out all my ex's. They an ex for a reason. There's not an open door policy in my world. It's called the good ole INFJ Door Slam. Once we're done WERE DONE! I no longer know who you are. In fact I never met you. And if you see me in the streets just remember to keep it pushing cause you don't know me!
Just Living Single...for Abba-Father-God/Jesus...he alone knows the true!❤
TRUTH SPOKEN
Yea i think that we shouldn’t be friends because we both like each other still. But yet what do we call each other when we’re on the verge of reconnecting
Imo you don't need to block them unless they do/say anything that crosses a boundary, but they shouldn't be a friend/confidant after you are with a new partner.
Be there...felt that pain
I’m Rickisha James... I love them and leave them... and I will still do it!
💯 Totally agree boundaries 👏 👍 🙌
And even sometimes when you keep in contact with kids because kids is a hindrance. There’s apps out here know for parent communication. Sometimes baby momma’s and baby daddy’s be still on some bs
Truth, you're telling the whole truth let him GO so your real person can walk into your life. Let the happiness begin (Yes) YES!
I still felt the stupid emotions when she said why can't she stay friends with her ex.
I believe it's nearly impossible to maintain a friendship with an ex-boyfriend, especially when you're dating someone new. Moving forward and respecting your current relationship often means leaving past relationships behind. It's about prioritizing and giving your full attention to the new person in your life. You can't move forward if you continue to live in the past.
So true, plus they turn the ex into the side chick.
👏🏾👏🏾
Riiiiiggghhhhtttt
Depends but usually it’s a no. They’re out your life for a reason.
U said. Serious S***!💯
Haha you keep it 100% real brotha! Love it!
Thank you for this message. I had to learn this the har way, that I can't be friends with my ex.
My best friend is my ex. We were in a relationship for 6mo, even lived together for a couple of those which is what lead me to break up with him, but it's been 4 years and he's the only person that's been there for me
He simping and I feel bad for ur next partner
Me too!
You’ve got the best advice! Thanks Ace!
My ex just asked to go to the movies next week…first boundary I put up in a while as coparents. His response was “I wasn’t asking to be together but ok” sir…we are done. If it ain’t about our kid, have the day you deserve without involving me.
YOU WILL NOT GET BLESSED IN THIS MESS!! And the EX WIFE IS DOMINANTND INTERROGATING THE NEW GIRLFRIEND. RUN FAST!! PYCHO EX!
Thank you or block him . Oops! How can I be asking God to send me someone when I continue to hold on to the wrong one 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥i love you bro ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
No‼️Done‼️Peaceful Happier Life🙏🏽♥️💋
@acemetaphor Thank you Brother 🙏🏾 I really appreciate the advice. Just what I needed to hear. My ex wants to be friends after no contact for over a year. I gave it a go but as you said, he used to consume parts of me. I need to let go of the idea and let go of all else that does not serve my higher purpose. Thank you Brother 🙏🏾💖
AMEN AMEN AMEN
Thank you Lord for Changing me 💯‼️🙌
PreachBrothes this is soTrue!!!
I have a friend that holds on to every ex. I’ve been trying to tell her let them go. 😢
I disagree. This is only if it was some deep hurt.
I send my ex-whatever hate mail. It's a lot of fun. Is that like cheating on my new man? I don't want my ex ANYWHERE near my ear because he likes playing with women. He likes them interacting and see their reactions. He's evil and the best revenge is to be happy. They say omega 3 helps lower anger because I am so angry at the jerk that kept playing with my feelings and my father's feelings for over a year!
True! I needed to hear this.
I am friends now with my ex boyfriend😬😅i didn't find any comment yet that it's good. But i feel good being friend with him. He's a nice person
I'm friends with my ex too. He raised my daughter for 10 years 7 of which were after we broke up. He's a wonderful kind person too.
Really 😂! Understood because he did that🤦🏾♀️ but got ya
When you have children it's tough.
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The guy im dating is currently on a 10 day holiday with his ex for his birthday. They have a key to eachothers houses, he drops everything to run errands and do diy jobs for her. She cooks food for him and has sleepovers, but 'she sleeps on the couch' of course 😒 He told me all of that with no hesitation. He talks about how great she is all the time.... i dont understand why they even split up. They dont even have any children together. I really like him and he seems to really like me. I cant find a video that relates to my extreme scenario. I feel like i fooling myself but he makes me feel like a fool for feeling this way. I need some advice
Preach 🔥 took me a min to get right but I got it
I BELIEVE IN NO CONTACT FOR THE EX. F OFF WITH THEM. IT IS FINISHED.
Bruh someone like this do I can come back to this video 😂
PREACH BROTHER!!!!
When your kids are big I don’t have to talk with the father specifically when is toxic conversation
You know, I was in a relationship too but that ended a year ago (October 4th 2022), then on August she got my friend into convincing me into talking to her again which led me into letting her into her life( I know, I'm probably going to stuff in the comments saying that I am stupid for letting her back into my life). We agreed to build trust with each other but that didn't last long, 2 weeks later she tells me she's with someone else (she proceeded to hug me and say "I hope your not mad) she also said that we can be friends. I was hurt, she told me she didn't expected forgiveness. But weeks later she talks to my best friend to convince me to be forgive her and be friends. The truth was reveled that she saw me as a brother after we broke up, so the whole time she played me like a 🎻 twice and the whole time we were together, she never loved me, she just used me just to get close to my best friend and even tried to betrayed me with him( thank god, my best friend didn't betray me) she also showed a sign of jealousy when she found out that my bestfriend has a girlfriend. But 2 days after the one year anniversary since we broke up, she said "she was done with my bullshit" and then gets mad that I'm avoiding her. She just wanted to keep me around as a friend, just to make me jealous and wanted me to see her and lover boy do stuff that i didnt get to do with her. She tried to convince my best friend into doing her dirty work. In conclusion, being Friends with your ex can painfull so don't sacrifice your sanity just to be friends with someone you used to love that caused you so much pain.
Well said!!!
Bro it's not easy to let go you know in your heart that it may NEVER WORK OUT but a piece of you just want it to be even when he break your heart
Yesssssss. Teach 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👍👍👍
I always say, "You're my ex, which means you need to EXITED from my life forever."
No friend. He became my enemy When he started treating me messed up and that's what caused me to walk away
Mature wise people can genuinely remain platonic only friends with their ex’s. My husband and I did and we don’t regret it. We also have no bitterness or animosity towards those who rejected us. As Jesus said “Love thy neighbor.”
Wow...I like you Bro. Preach!
You always keep it 💯
Thank you!!!!
I agree. Respect
Awesome message.
Damn, I thought he was going to say, "He use to eat yo potato salad" Damn!!!!
This One♟️✔️💯‼️
LISTEN, AND LISTEN WELL. IM GOOD WE AINT FRIENDS WE DONT NEED TO SOCIALIZE FOR ANYTHING
well heres the thing for me, the only real reason i broke up with my boyfriend today is because i kept getting more desperate to see him even though i wont see him ever again, were both going to different schools or wtv. He never did anything i just didnt think that i could handle not seeing him. Thats the reason im still friends with him
Thank you.
I LOVE this message
Real talk 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯 #self love ✌️
I agree with most his videos but disagree with this one. Sometimes friendships can become a relationship but didn't work out. So you go back to a friendship status without the extra benefits. As long as your friendship doesn't interfere with your current relationship. I don't waste time thinking about a man's ex girlfriend because I have him now. Besides if someone wants to stay in contact with their ex than how can you stop them...