Hey Steve: Staying Friends with the Exes
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- Опубликовано: 27 янв 2019
- She likes to stay friends with her exes - so how can she keep from scaring them off?
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She said “boyfriendsss” she’s setting herself up to fail relationships 😂
she's a teenager. she'll be fine.
ryan I mean she’s a young girl. She’s smart enough to know odds are she’ll date more than one guy in the future
She wants drama lol
I personally don’t think you should be friends with your ex. In very small cases 2 people may be able to do it but it will cause problems in future relationships in my opinion 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She is a teen none of them should be in any real relationship
The boy is scared like hell...!!!!
He's scared of lunch, lol!!
LMFAO
Steve pulled his card. "You only came on this trip to block. Look at me and tell me you just want to be her friend."
Why they gotta do em like that
Haha
Steve can even read millenials minds. 😂 He never get old enough. 😂
Millennials live in denial... denial about their relationships, their gender, their needs, everything... confused people
Millennials are just so ez to read tho.
They are new to adulting and relationships that when they seek advice from us is that they turn out to be stupid but is just all new for them
Well the stupidity is right there
Cuz it ain't a new problem..it has happened for years
Technology may change but people do not.
Dude look so uncomfortable 😭😭😭😭 plus Steve called him RJ 😭😭😭
No no no. He called him AJ. Didn't get his name wrong. He said "You think all AJ want is to be your friend?" It's the Southern twang that makes people misunderstand...trust me. I have lived in Georgia after moving from Miami...that's what he said 😂
@@lautali at 2:14 he says it the way u said but screws up at 3:20 I think
he said our Aj
Ex looks like a lil kid
That's because he's still a kid lol. 18.
I thought he was like 15. Such a baby face.
He's 18 and Asian lol
They both are.
Probably acts like one too. Lol hes a baby
“Is this real life” -Steve Harvey 🤪
Quote of the year 😂 😊
Oh yes Steve it is and has been real life ... 🙄☺
or is this fantasy?
Caught in a landslide. No escape from reality.
Robert Grossi 😂😂
that boy looked like he finna pass out lol
3:04 his reaction to when she said “oh I hope so I’m hungry is priceless” he is like am i going to have to pay for that
Well said😂😂😂
🤣😂
Aj face says it all...he's hoping to get some in the future
Future? He's trying to get some after the show 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That guy went from being AJ they ex/friend to RJ the liar at the end🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nkhani Phiri facts 😂😂
Nkhani Phiri ... he was hoping to get some that night
After she says she's hungry look at his face. He's like "I hope you brought money lol"
Lol
Not sure she hungry for food
Haha.
Yessssssss
@@gold6813 my thoughts exactly
well maybe that's one of the reasons they broke up
The fear in that boys eyes says everything 🤣🤣🤣
Aj is so damn scared as Steve is literally calling him out in his act. Also I don't understand relationships these days. They're just weird about everything
“My names AJ sir”
“Now RJ..”
they missed an entire portion when he was calling her so many different names but i think it was on purpose.
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂
😂omg. idk why that just made me laugh so loud
aaaah😁good niiiight
ahahahhahahhhahhahhaha
I mean Steve caught the boy point blank he cant even deny that he doesn't want friendship.( His face says it all)
Kevin Jacks love
Kevin Jacks 666 likes and the comment was posted 6 months ago
he also said the clear no when Steve asked her if they are friends. And then she went on and tell the story of their past friendships.
Nah I’m sure all her boyfriends are cool with being the friend that gets to smash and pass
@@mabelspeaks8019 what love? Let the girl meet other people if she doesn't want you... this isn't love, this is lying
Steve's expressions are priceless. He can make you burst out in laughter without even saying a word. Plus the way he answers people's questions is always on point- straightforward and honest while being funny at the same time.
Steve is better than 10 psychologists.
He is ten psychologists💯...,
I love AJ! His facial expressions says it all lmao.
And then Steve called him RJ 😂
@@ICECREAMan2991 lol 😆 he also called Evangeline Evangelina 😁🤣
He's like I better get some after this or after dinner haha can't be friends with exs the biggest pile of manure I have ever herd
Yes indeed
He even said “no” lol when he said hes not just trying to be friends LOL.😂
The Dude's face when she said she hopes they are going to get some food after this!
He’s looking like WHAT? I ain’t got no money!
@@mabelspeaks8019 Lol
bruh i was weak at his face the whole time
😂😂😂 He broke man
He (AJ) is not broke. He got money. He just don't have money for a "friend".
Poor kid, his expression says it all. He really loves her !
Yea he loves her assets, if yanno what I mean.
Can’t be friends with someone you loved. Period
I agree. It's too complicated having a friendship with someone you previously had strong romantic feelings for
@@enzo_softwareboi18 especially when you were really in love. If you two were just having fun then you can easily be friends
@@preciouslouis7634 yes. this is true. if it is love, then maybe not. if it's a fling, then yes. it's cool.
@@suja605 yeah Suja that’s so true
They're young. I'm 47. I believe ur ex is ur ex for a reason. It's hard to move on if you continue to drag ur past along.
Yes!!!!
I agree 💯
Amen! I have my ex's to try to hang on too but my new husband put me in my place LOL..I took accountability too because I allow them to have access to me by accepting their facebook request but to save my "courtship" at the time I blocked them they were not worth losing a good man over.. Ex for a Reason!!
LMAO she wants to be friends but Steve exposed his motives
She wants to benefit from the friendship. Ppl misuse a lot of words nowadays. Friends, and love to be the main 2.
@@SplendidNinja perhaps
Umar Uppal yessss! 🙌🏽
Actually the guy is pretty decent. It's the girl that is screwed up, she is the one forcing this "friends" narrative. If you want to be friends, just make friends. Simple.
Your exes can be your past. She wants to have the cake and eat it too.
She's a user. The beta should throw that B away and not give her any more attention and find a nice good girl that was raised right and actually listened to her parents lol
Poor kid, he's been found. Harvey is right, like always. Never remain friends with your exes.
"Never" is a strong word. There's cases where it's perfectly fine being friends with exes, but also plenty of times when it's either a bad idea or it's because someone wants more
🤔
I believe that this is true for the most part; but I have successfully remained close friends with one of my ex's of 4.5years. But what made it work was that the break-up was mutual, and we took 1.5yrs completely away from each other, no contact whatsoever. And we didn't even plan to be friends, but we ended up reconnecting. Three years later he's happily married, his wife is now a close friend of mine, and I have an incredible partner of my own. So, I do think it's possible, but it has to be the kind of thing where you're both steady on your feet, and that it's nice to have it but you don't need it.
They are 18. Babies. It’s not possible lmao
Yes, I agree with you. A lot of times people just remain friends because they don't wanna let go and they're not used to not having this person in their lives. I think there definitely needs to be a break to reset things in order to start a pure friendship with you ex.
Of course, that's different. But most of the people don't do that
How do she expect to move to her next if she’s always with her ex? Girl he’s blocking you from your next relationship and probably benefiting from it
This right here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your comment is everything!!!
Yup hes just keeping her close till he meets a girl he really wants🙄
Lol! True! These are kids but a married person keeping in ‘nicely’ touch with an ex....hell no! They seen each other naked. Unless it is for the sake of kids between divorce hmmm but still. Keep your distance! Is over!
Mrembo Mweusi more like a girl that really wants him😌
Not only he. It's her too. She wants someone to do things they did when they together (not sexual stuff ) not only he is blocking her and also she is blocking him from find a girl.
No! He's standing there blocking as we speak! 😂😂😂
Lmfaooo
If I was a guy wanting to date a girl and found out she was talking to her exes, I'd just dismiss her. lol
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"Cauee RJ you're lying to me." .. His name is AJ, I'm deaddddd 😂😂😂
She's immature. First of all, she needs to focus on her future and leave these boys alone for a season.
well she young and dumb thats normal
@@TakashiNippon I'm 19 and more focused on my future than I am these girls, because relationships can wait until you're financially stable. It all depends on whatever upbringing you had. I have a co-worker at McDonald's who's in her late thirties, has 3 kids, and is struggling because she wouldn't leave those boys alone. Even gets upset when I have the audacity to mention my plans after college. That's "normal" in this age, but it shouldn't be.
@@6ixlxrd Good job young man keep it up and focus on your success, the women will come later in abundance. Trust me, I've been where you are and I know.
@jesusramirez9033 lmfao
@Tao Pai Pai exactly. You heard her question when she said future boyfriendS? How many is she planning to hook up with? By the time the biological clocks ticks she is gonna ask where have the good men gone? Then all she needs is a cat or two.
0:47
''This some New Millennial 2000s....''
With his facial expression...He hits the point in a nutshell!!
Nattie bubbles You're right. ;) They are the Generation Z. But still that's the reason why Harvey said ''New Millennials''.
@Nattie bubbles if you had a cellphone or tablet as a kid, YOU ARE A MILLENNIAL.
@Nattie bubbles yea yea its called Nokia 3390. I had a couple of those too. But I'm talking about these younger people who had tablets, iPhone, Snapchat, etc. as a kid. I'm not a millennial, I grew up in the 90's
@Nattie bubbles Gen Alpha?? Soooo who are the MILLENNIALS??
@Nattie bubbles i think i saw somewhere that 1997 - 2012??? is gen Z? but im not exactly sure
You can stay friends with ex’s I think if you’re single, but once you get into another relationship, that needs to stop.
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AJ knows he can make some faces! Told a whole story in the span of a second, LMAO
He should’ve asked, “why did you break up?” That could help determine a lot. Cordial is one things, friends is another.
He's standing there and blocking...
AS WE SPEAK
he trying to get that cat
Who's he blocking? He ain't blocking nothing. She will leave him at the drop of a hat if she meets a man that she likes but he says he doesn't date women with male friends/stays in contact with her exes.
@@geremymason5936 lmfao
If my significant other was friends with his EX and would "casually hang out with them ALONE" I'm sorry I'm leaving. Actually, I wouldn't feel sorry I'm not about to be played like a fool. It's disrespectful and selfish to your significant other. It shows they're not ready to fully commit to a healthy relationship. We all know that's some faithless BS.
But what if they hang out and it’s pg13 it’s all mutual just cuz I married doesn’t mean u can’t hang out with other people even of the opposite sex u either trust someone or not, what if it was years ago they slept together and they mutually decided the relationship wouldn’t work but friendship would, I’m friends with my ex and I’m cool with his wife he tells her every time we hang out there is no secret plus he has herpes now I wouldn’t dare touch him
Her bringing her ex and him coming was pretty ballsy lol
Blind led a blind. I would never go with my ex even to heaven.
When you breaking up it's just what it is breaking up let it go move on its over
Waheedah's Recipes yes, you’re right
It should be. But just so you know some exes are just crazy. They remain friends but don’t know or crossing their boundry.
Sapphire yeah somehow they are
Done.
Preach 🙏
She says he just a friend, she's say he's just a friend, oh baby yooouuu, you got what i need.
🤣💀
Lmao poor guy. Straight up on the spot. Truthfully though Steve is right. The dude is blocking her future relationships even without trying. It has to be said though, you stay friends with your exs until marriage. After that it's just not fair to your wife or partner to have to live with that doubt.
I read this from somewhere: if you’re still friends with your exes, it’s either you are still in love with them, or you were never in love [during your relationship] with them.
And it is true 💯
Did you see his facial expression when she said she hungry? Dude nearly choked 🤔😂
Awa I used to think like her too. I had to realize that I was embracing these friendships after the relationship because I had a hard time letting go of things and people and come to find out it was a Daddy issue. My Dad was always there but not to the capacity like when he and my mom were married. I mean it was so bad I was holding on to torn clothing, broken shoes and everything. I’ve learned to let things and people go. There is no maturity to holding on to something that is over, no matter how evolved you may feel it makes you.
Great advice.
Thank u habitaty 🤍
So true. I've always had a hard time letting go, and that's how I ended up with exes still in my life, and they probably had similar issues. And I realise now that it was because of feelings of abandonment as a child.
So glad to have come across your comment 🙏
My husband is platonic friends with his now married to another man ex and she is not interested in him and he is not interested in her anymore. We still visit each other and his ex has been extremely kind towards us - in fact, when we got married this year, we were invited to their July 4th party and we had a fun time. It is sad many people think you can't be platonic friends with an ex. Of course you can. Praise the Lord for the reminder - "Try to live peacefully with everyone, and treat your neighbor/friends as you would yourself". As for my ex boyfriend, whom I broke up with - if I ran into him in future, I would be kind to him and if he still respected the fact that my husband is my one and only and I will never return to the ex and he has no interest getting back together with me, then I see no reason being kind neighbors and friends with the ex and his wife. ^_^ Otherwise, my first and only husband is all I want for the rest of my life. I don't need to be around the block more than once. ^_^ I found out that in the Bible that IS the mature thing to do.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 If your current husband and his married ex have kids together, it doesn't really count because obviously parents need to be amicable for the sake of family. This is more so for people who don't have kids with their exes.
Steve's a god dang detective he knew Ajay whole plan lmfao😂😂😂😂
Ghetto Sherlock Holmes.
This girl scares the heck out of me. She keeps putting those words "ex" and "future boyfriend" in plural. What is going on here ?
Wow !
Spot on.
Show off how immature she is. She needs some help in that regard.
I won’t be surprised if i find out she’s on onlyfans under the name of exploring the world.
The look on Steve's face lol
She Deaf look at the boy’s face 😂😂😂
@@ferdiyansurya most embarrassing moment for him lol
Unless you have kids, I don't see the reason why you should remain friends. Be friends/civil from afar.
I don't see the reason to not be friends
Am not carrying around hate for anyone
@@ddh19454 way about if u are in a new relationship, do u think ur current partner will want that????
@@nworahmiracle5404 I've done it before
My partner never had a problem
But it matters who u decide to date
Am not gonna date someone that can't handle that caz i can't deal with excessive jealousy in my life
Itz about trust
N i haven't done anything to not deserve it
My bf can't tell me who and who not to talk to n i wouldn't try to rule his life like that either
@@ddh19454 is this real life? 😂
Bingo! Hell at times i dont even want to be no nothing with kids mom.
That face the guy made when she said “I hope so I’m hungry” 😂😂😂
AJ has the most adorable smile 😂😂
They watch Ask Steve together??....how tf do they not know Steve enough to not come together & ask this question????
Ikr!!!
Immaturity mate. Lack of parental guidance as well.
She said boyfriend(S) damn she has no goals
Not at all
She gonna be a dating website lmao
She's young bless her
She's 18, give her a break. When I was 18 I just wanted to play the field too. She'll get past it
That's how cheating begins..not making up ur mind of who u wanna be with just jumping into relationships after relationships
@@Noix009 what's wrong with dating websites?
First off where’d she get that sweater? It was sooo cute. Secondly AJ looked like he was gonna piss his pants when Steve put him in the spot! 😂
I absolutely LOVE how Steve keeps it real.
That person laughing in the back after Steve asked does she think he really wana be his friend "Ah ah ahhhhh!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your EX is called your EX for a reason and the thing is I don't want to be friends with anyone I loved
I’m about to be 30 in March. I’m dating a 24 year old guy right now. He tried telling me his “ex” is just his friend that’s why they stay in contact, then follows it up with “her dad wants me to work for his business one day.” I’m about 6 years older than him so this isn’t new news to me. The dad thing is just icing on the cake for me🤷🏻♀️ I have to walk away now out of self respect👍
How’d it all go?
No offense but your too old too be talking to him in the first place….at 30 u should be getting married and having babies asap at 24 he should be playing the field and date as much as possible different women y’all are at different stages in life
@@aprylwalk6887 😂 that’s funny lol my other ex is 24 and his new gf is 37 years old w 3 kids. I’m 32. What’s your excuse for them?
When Steve says ‘I hope I didn’t say anything to hurt you,’ that shows what a great man he is. Truly great and compassionate in his soul.
3:06 that look on his face tells all that he got no money for food later.😂😂😂
Hahahahaha... that's what came in my mind..
IM SO STRESSED OUT FOR HIM OH MY GODDDDDDDDD
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao Steve is funny 😩 I’m dying at his relationship advice clips 🤣
Man, her ex boyfriend had no pokerface
A man always hopes, so don't think for 1 second he still your friend. he waits for that moment to jump in, trust me !
Staying friends with your ex like walking with sugar cane whenever you feel thirsty you just gonna take a piece and chew it😂😂
3:07 man his face just cracks me every time i watch this clip . This never gets old , his hope man 😂
I hope they had dinner after and he told her how he feels. Nothing is worse than wanting to be more than friends with someone and watching the girl you love hang out with other guys and stuff
Remember, they're in their growing years. Learning and experience. Also, don't leave out puppy love. We all been throught it. Years, will bring about some changes.
'Is this real life '😂😂 u aint ever havin a real relationship if u keep yo exs 😂
What she mean by...future boy friends 🤔
...worst....im 24 old boy...never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, never went on a date...obviously a virgin 😂😂 ....she is legend
As long as you are not sleeping with them & not spending time with them.
Is ok to be civil.
But friends... Nah
usually men stick around like that still hoping they can sleep with you.
true words.
Steve: sweetheart what's your name?
Girl: Evangeline
Steve: Evangelina
Boy: my name is A.J.
Steve: R.J.
Me: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is everybody elders in their family! Lol and you better not correct them! 😂😂😂😂😂
Its the Southern accent...He said their names correctly 😂😂😂
I’d correct the hell outta them and start callin them the wrong names and move on 😂😂😂
0:11 he's face says it all "steve help me"
Lool when she said she brought one of her exes Steve was like you dun lost yo mind😂
If Steve had said it's okay, I would have gone and get friends with all my exes which I never would want. Thank god, thank Steve!! ❤️
There's no sense in this situation 😂
AJ better run
@iamsaphirre 😂 😂, I'm going to subscribe to your RUclips channel 🔥
Emkayel she totally confused me
Lmao Steve is the real MVP the look on his face 🤣🤣🤣
Did she say future boyfriends ?
Wow she ain't hoping to meet a happily ever after?
if a guy does that he's considered a player
She’s 18. At 18 do you think you’re just gonna date one person for the rest of your life. She’s smart enough to know the chances are she’ll date more than one guy in the future.
Temi David well she’s just 18 🤣 let the girl explore
LMAOO his face when she said” I hope so I’m hungry “
When Steve asked her if he only wants to remain friends, the guy said no, Jaja, I can’t believe EVERYONE missed that, literally everyone.
I heard that!!
One thing about exs ... is that when one is lonely they tend to be comfort blanket .... especially when you have a tough breakup with the current boyfriend ... she will end calling and he will there to comfort her ...so girl ....just enjoy your young life apse happy
‘...He’s blocking as we speak...’ 🤗👀
Lil boy was scared cuz he knows Steve gonna exposes him.
AJ face is a mood 😂😩😂
Exes = baggage!!!! Get rid of them!!! After you throw something in the trash do you say”you know, I might not really be done with that?” 😒
They are still young, I feel you Steve .lol 😂God bless them , just have fun , no commitments guys fly , enjoy your youth . Much Love.
the witch laugh in the background was hilarious.
The boy still love her
I love when he talks like a caring Father
Them young cats...smh. Even at that young age I never stayed friends with my exes, cause I knew it's not a good thing. You can be civil and polite if you run into each other in public or if you go to the same school or whatever. But don't keep in touch and talk on a regular. It will only create problems for the next relationship. I've never gotten back together or wanted to get back together with any of my exes.
Ivaylo Iontchev Yea I don’t understand this generation it baffles me so much
This is it. This is the reply!
You can be just decent and polite if you bump into one another, but not friends, as in checking up on them/communicating regularly (let alone occasionally).
My husband is platonic friends with his now married to another man ex and she is not interested in him and he is not interested in her anymore. We still visit each other and his ex has been extremely kind towards us - in fact, when we got married this year, we were invited to their July 4th party and we had a fun time. It is sad many people think you can't be platonic friends with an ex. Of course you can. Praise the Lord for the reminder - "Try to live peacefully with everyone, and treat your neighbor/friends as you would yourself". As for my ex boyfriend, whom I broke up with - if I ran into him in future, I would be kind to him and if he still respected the fact that my husband is my one and only and I will never return to the ex and he has no interest getting back together with me, then I see no reason being kind neighbors and friends with the ex and his wife. ^_^ Otherwise, my first and only husband is all I want for the rest of my life. I don't need to be around the block more than once. ^_^
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 you are naive to believe that. Don't go crying if you find out they are smashing each other. Anyway, the exception doesn't make the rule though.
Oh man I’m so glad to see Steve’s reaction on this. Absolutely all the women who chase me end up putting me in this exact friend zone crap. My theory, women today do not know what they want so in fear of being alone the keep absolutely every option open so that they can choose the best one when it becomes too lonely for them…
If you are going to remain friends with your ex's you better off being alone or getting back with your ex because all your ex is going to do is block whoever guy comes to her next.
Had a girlfriend like that, she was in contact with at least 3 of them, all yall people ripping on the dude only shame on you.
Aww he’s so cute lol and he’s just there like “why I’m I here” 😂😂
Being the friend has its perks. Especially when he already hit it. Thats a dangerous game dating a girl who is friends with their ex"es"
Evangeline: _I'm so hungry_
AJ: _and I'm so thirsty_
The funniest hey Steve I have seen so far, man I love this guy he interprits guys mind correctly. damn right the buys is hanging around for the goods as soon as he gets the chance he gonna taste them.
I love Steve's facial expressions! They are priceless!
I’ve never understood being friends with an ex, that’s because none of my ex’s are my friends. What it comes down to is this person has seen you in a way, in a territory that is out side of the friendship zone - emotionally, romantically and sexually.
I’m the type once a relationship dies and breaks up… I wish you well, I wish you the best but you will never hear from me again. Why do I never get in contact with them: I’m getting on with my life, working on me, & making me happy. Plus, I agree the comments about ex’s blocking potential boy/girlfriends - that’s why they’re doing it, to get another chance should other options not pan out. Anyone that’s has any shred of self respect would walk away - big red flag. All I can say if anyone of my future potential boyfriends wouldn’t cut off his ex(s) for good, I’d be gone so fast 💨. You have to ask, they were romantically/emotionally/sexually involved with each other, they broke up… why is he keeping someone around, he was so involved with. Sus motives to me.
Facts: an ex is an ex for a reason. Unless you have a child with an ex, there’s no reason to keep them in your life. Even if you have a child together, you can be polite and civil and wish them well from afar as well as getting on with co-parenting and getting on with your life.
I’m glad to know I’m not alone on that thought
💯 facts
I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who thinks this way! Spot on! I couldn’t have said it better myself
That laugh at [1:29] just kicks me.. Her laughs be like "hell no!"
The boy’s face had me hollering 😩🤣
He gave steve the look like don't out me bruh lol
Like my friends always says..shes for the streets🤣
His facial expressions are hilarious and cute lol