I’m not sure why this is popping up on my feed 4 years after you uploaded it. Got me pretty emotional about my father. What an amazing message he’s given you.
I'm a dad, today is not Father's Day, but my son Filippo sent me your video. Your words are very beautiful, which are the fruit of your father's teachings. He's definitely proud of you. I too am of my son, who today sent me a message of affection through you. Thanks and have a good life.
My Dad taught me that success is not found in what you get, but in what you are able to give. That ‘character’ is a bridge you build between the man you are and the man you strive to become.
Yes, "what you can give" is a big deal, but you need to be wise when you "give." If you give each time a family member or friend asks, you'll end up broke. The first time you don't give they'll hate you despite the amount you gave earlier. The best things you can give are knowledge and good examples.
@@mitchd949 you’re thinking about giving money. That’s myopic. Giving is about giving of yourself. What do I give? I am a sculptor. After dropping out of college because they didn’t know how to actually make a living at art, I had the good fortune of serving a 5 year apprenticeship with a bunch of Italian immigrants where I learned everything I needed to know to make my living. They treated me like the son they were teaching a generational trade. For the 40 years since I have run my studio, offering the same kind of old world apprenticeship, merged with the cutting edge of modern technology, to help aspiring young artists gain the real skills and abilities they need to make a living at art. Unlike art school which puts them in debt, here they at least get PAID to learn by working on real projects. And then I help many of them secure their first higher paying jobs, or going out on their own. Working in my studio is not like most jobs and I am happiest when I hear my apprentices out in the shop, laughing. Loving their job. And loving their life. Far from costing me money, having these young artists assist in the studio means I can take on more and larger projects, and they turn what for most is a solitary profession into camaraderie of shared interests and shared creative expression. “Giving” is not impoverishing yourself. It’s about creating a more loving and humane world within the scope of your reach. About being there when your children need your advice or assistance, but in ways that help them build self reliance. It’s about understanding that business connections are Human connections. I can’t tell you how many times I have done something simple for a client for no charge because I knew they were strapped for cash, and helped out their business. And how many times those clients returned those favors by lowering their prices to me on every job, or even doing projects for free, or recommending me to new clients or for larger projects. It comes down to John Donne. “Any man’s death diminishes me, for I am involved in mankind.” We are all in this together. It’s not a zero sum. We pull together, or we fall apart.
@@mitchd949 i believe that "give" means something way further than money(not sure if you meant exactly money or not) but i'd like to add some things in what you said. Beyond "What you give" and "when you give" i believe that "who you gave" is way important too, and unfortunatly sometimes family members are a little toxic, but that's it!
This video found me at the right time. I lost my father to cancer. He was diagnosed 3 months before he passed so it was very fast. I’ll always cherish the lessons my father taught me.
My dad never ever told me he was proud of me. The maximum validation I ever got from him was a thumbs up emoji. I envy you far more for having a letter from your dad saying he's proud of you than for having any watch in the world. Big cheers and big props to your dad.
Be the change you wish to see. So, if you ever get to be a dad/mom, you know what your kid needs, that what you did not get. I know you will be a good parent❤
Damn. Times have changed. Now we have emojis as lasting memories, not scars by being beaten with a belt with steel buckle by an asshole father who actually understood the world much more than anyone else around him, teaching you all of this, so now you have mixed feelings.
1:53 Treat material wealth as the *seasoning* to life rather than the main course. - that was brilliant man. Oftentimes in trying to live a “pure” or “wholesome” life it is taught to stop wanting nicer things and stop using social media and all that. But there’s nothing wrong with wanting beautiful things, nor is there nothing wrong with wanting to genuinely see what your friends are up to. We’re teaching how to go to the other extreme end of having things when really it should be a life that’s more in the middle, living life well and only having material wealth as a supplement to it, not the main goal. Thank you for sharing this video with us all
I am a 36 year old father of 2 boys. I can confirm that fatherhood puts everything into perspective. I have done decently, working hard in Tech, but have gone from working hard in order to move up the ladder to working less to spend more time with kids - and the primary reason I work now, is to be able to afford time with my kids - now and in the future.
Not a Rolex but it reminds me of the Timex I bought my father some 4 years ago for Father's Day. It was all I could afford at the time, but I bought it with my first "big boy" job money because before that I worked a lot of menial jobs that didn't pay well and he knew this was the first step in my career. He wore that cheap watch nearly every day...he could've worn his Tissot, Hamilton or his favorite Omega, but nope...he wore the $50 Timex Easy Reader watch that his son bought for him. Had it with him until he passed last year from cancer...now I wear it nearly every day. Miss him.
@@qazzranalamry1772 Thanks, I appreciate the kind words my friend. He was a loving and wonderful father and something that has helped the grief is remembering how lucky I am. Truly blessed.
Instead of a Rolex, my father left me with a box of abandonment issues. I had to teach myself these lessons the hard way. I would have preferred the rolly and note method. But good for you man, he seemed like a good father and taught you well. Cherish that and embrace it when it’s your turn.
This really resonates with me. I am the father of a 1 1/2 year old boy, Colt. He really taught (and is still teaching me everyday) about what it truly means to be a father and live your life for someone else. Between he and his mother, they're all I really need in this world. Everything else is just fluff... That being said, this past Sunday was Father's Day, and my wife told me she wanted me to have something to someday pass down to Colt. About a half hour later, we're at the Rolex store in San Jose, CA. The wife approved the purchase of a Rolex (for me, and someday our son). I ended up with a timeless two-tone Datejust 41mm that I am over the moon about. It isn't necessarily the price of the watch that entices me. It's what the watch represents, and how it makes me feel when I wear it. And it's all compounded by the fact that someday my son will wear the watch on his wrist and have the story to tell about it. Sounds cheesy, but I don't care. It makes me happy.
this just made me write down questions to interview my 82 year old dad before he passes so I remember what success looks like. what an amazing gift. thanks for sharing
Jake your Dad is a true “sensei”for such beautiful words of wisdom that will follow you for life. Sharing this on this platform will now enrich your audience as well…
When you can let go of material things you really feel a sense of freedom. But if you do have wonderful material items, express gratitude and use them for good, as tools, and like you said, a seasoning to your life! Great video and message. I recently graduated so this was cool to hear!
I bought the same $200,000 Mercedes my family used to drive me to school in. It reminds me daily that some things are more important than money. God bless you ❤
Great video. Popped into my feed and so grateful it did. Jake, your dad's message is spot on and you also seem tuned in to what is truly important. Thank you for sharing.
What a beautiful message from your father. This is the dad I am and your father is the one that many of us men wished we had. Nice to see you appreciate that. Never forget and thanks for sharing this very personal story.
So ironic that he’s talking about finding confidence in himself and not materialism while making a video about his excitement in a luxury watch that his dad gifted him.
Just 1 day ago my father which is in Stroke illness and in recovery which he cant really talking anymore and move less, giving me his rolex watch and today i saw this video and i think this is not coincidence. i think He want to send a message to me but he cant talk much, but i really mind blown to find this video on youtube and really blessed by your message which I think my father want to say to me. Thanks a lot for sharing , live a Happy life and God bless you!
Hi Jake, cheers for uploading this video. I don’t know why it came to me but now I know. My dad (rip/Z”L) passed away during Covid, he gave me a submariner when I graduated from uni, I have never been a materialistic person far from it. Now I understand what he was trying to express, that I was his success, I gave my watch to my younger brother and I will work and save for a Rolex or PP for me to give to my future son whenever he comes. I appreciate this video mate!
"Wear this $20,000 watch in front of people that can barely afford food and rent to be constantly reminded that success isn't measured by materialistic things", yes that makes perfect sense...
@@GioMellosExactly. The Rolex is a reminder of his dad; who found his son and family was the most important thing to him. -it’s an endearing story that shows one of his father’s values. However, the son, seen here, speaks from a position of wealth. He shared the story and delivered a different message. The message he shared is: “don’t let money dictate your life and shouldn’t be the main course; it should only be used to spice it up, the appetizer”. Someone living in poverty, or us sitting here sees the irony in this statement. Because we don’t have money to spend outside of “the main course”. Everyday is a struggle, and for some that requires working 3 jobs to get by. To say “don’t focus on the pursuit of money; use it to sprinkle excitement in your life” is someone who’s never once had to worry about paying rent or putting food on the table. I can appreciate the man his father was, I enjoyed the story; but that doesn’t mean I agree with the son’s message and his perception of what he thinks it means.
Fantastic lesson to share with the world, one that I know of but is easy to forget from time to time. I have done well for myself overall so far, but I often wonder what my life would, be like if I had a father who was there that devoted himself to my upbringing as yours seems to have you. Cherish that and thanks for sharing. 🙂
I got my fathers Rolex, regretfully not while he was alive. He died when I was 40, I miss him every day and listening to your message I’m confident he would think the same way. He visited almost every spot on the world with his watch, it lived an amazing life on his arm and now on mine.
Appreciated this, my Dad died when I was 14 and I think about him everyday and the way he in stilled in me to always value people around me and spiritually over any material amount or things. People don’t realise just how important fathers are when now more than ever we see them as optional. We have a real problem of fatherlessness so if you do have a father and a good one, just remember who lucky you are from time to time. Having a good father is the best start you can have in life above any of material privilege. Mothers make the world happen, fathers make the world good.
Tell your kid that true success does not come from commercial consumerism, then goes with giving him the epitome of commercial consumerism. Should have just written him the letter to give to him upon graduation.
As someone who lost his dad recently, this video was not asked for but damn was it valuable. I never got hear if he was proud of my success or not, but i've taken his lessons to being a parent of my own kids. Thank you for sharing!
I am sad. I only remember beatings from my father, but not meaningful lessons. At the same time, I envy Jake and am happy for Jake. Fortunately, I am happy for him and I am grateful that I can still feel upright happiness for other people.
Well said. I love material things my Rolex’s and cars mean a lot to me. But they can’t hold a candle to my 2 daughters and wife. They are the true being of my happiness!
Bro, your dad is so sweet, my dad wrote me one letter only and its about how much of a burden i was when raising me and how much money i have to pay every month when i graduate, he made me sign the letter too! Forget the watch 😅
I will pass my Rolex to my son, It took me 29 years to get my first Rolex. Starting with a 3000 USD per year to 120000 USD in 4 years was a journey. That's what my Rolex means to me.
You and your father are amazing people. You made me remember that the reason I am who I am right now is my father, he has guided me heavily into the correct path without directly controlling me on the small things in life, but by making me study in specific schools and teaching me amazing lessons. My father is more amazing than I give him credit for and he's so much better as a person than I am. Thank you for bringing light to this and I hope everyone realizes how their father had a major impact on their life for good or bad.
I will be honest. I did not get the message. He talks about not chasing material wealth but he is flexing a Rolex. If someone explains it to me, I would appreciate it.
I didn’t understand either. A Rolex?? Seriously? I have an Omega. Much better. My dad died 37 years ago. So I bought it myself. Because I like the watch. 😄
The father gave him his most valuable item that once he thought was the result of his success in life. But with his son he realised that his biggest accomplishment wasn’t represented by his watch. But by someone else. So the father gave his son what once he thought was his symbol of success. The Rolex he gave to his son isn’t a new one. It is the one he bought when he thought it was the object that represented his success.
This video doesn't make sense to me… That's like giving a Playboy magazine to teach someone that looks aren't everything. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the beautiful story, but I'm struggling to understand the logic.
Although the example you provided does seem comparable, to the son, the watch had no material value to it. Instead, the sentiments of his father outweighs any intrinsic materialism from the watch. The father gives up material wealth in order to redefine what wealth and success means to him, passing that along to his son. A more accurate representation from your example would be giving someone a playboy magazine and telling them that looks aren’t everything, there is so much more to a meaningful and genuine relationship. (Then add in the fact that this is coming from a teacher figure, or someone looked up to)
It's because his dad is giving up the Rolex, which he bought as a symbol of his material success, to his son, the living embodiment of his true success. His son will not wear it as a sign of wealth, but rather of the pride his father has in him, which is his true accomplishment.
Thanks for sharing this video. I also am not sure why this appears on my video to watch but am glad to see it. I grew up without a father which made my life a great challenge in many ways. Nevertheless I have to deal with the hand I was given in life. Most recently, I have learned to value my relationship with my heavenly Father and have always found him to be ever loving and patient and merciful with me, regardless of what I understand to be many failures on my part. The important thing is to appreciate the gifts in life that God gives us, whether it is a good father, good health, a nice watch, or even a beautiful background you are standing in front of in this video you posted. Thanks for sharing. May this video touch more lives as it touched mine. God bless.
I've never received any heartfelt lessons like this from my father. It seems to me like us kids were just something in his life, a checkbox he could fill out and say he did as part of HIS journey, with not much true care for us. I'm sure he would argue otherwise, but not once did he sit me down and give any meaningful lessons, talk deeply about life, or anything like that. I wouldn't have needed a rolex watch... just some wisdom. The irony of this video for me is that my Dad was ALL ABOUT material items. They defined him. So much so that I think it could be the reason us kids weren't more center stage in his life. We were kind of afterthoughts, when his main pursuit was second, and third wives, fast cars, boats, expensive trips, etc. To this day late in his 60s he's still working trying to accrue a fortune so that he and his 3rd wife can retire... But it's costing him time with his family in his golden years, and I don't think that really bothers him much. Kind of a shame and rather sad when you think about it. I might reflect more positively on my own life if I'd felt that at any point someone cared enough to sit down and share some wisdom. Lacking a significant father figure in my life was probably something that shaped aspects of my personality to this day. I'm not asking for sympathy at all because my upbringing was comfortable, but I am often envious of those who had true meaningful relationships with their parents.
Thats an amazing message and lesson by your father, wish u both well and be happy! Your relationship with your dad is truly the meaning of success. May God bless you!
Sorry, pride is a reason to wear a mechanical device on your wrist, that is less accurate than your phone, that synchronizes with a time server by UDP? Love is nice, but pride is, was and will always be, foolish.
My dad didn’t teach me much but i see him suffering from a mental illness he got years ago. Which motivates me to make something out of my life and be in control of the outcome and opportunities life presents at you
This video got me crying a lot right now. Just lost my father 2 years ago, and a letter like this would be awesome. Give a hug everyday in yout father if you still have him, im sure hes a great one
Thank you so much Jake for sharing this with us. 🙏❣️ I really felt it and the sparkle in your eyes show that you mean every bit of what you said. And beautifully put lines in terms of recipe. Gorgeous 💌 God bless you🫂
My dad offered me a Rolex box, which was empty. He said “your time to take the good decisions to fill this box with the watch”. I just bought a fake one 3 years later, and now he’s so proud of me for no reason.
I have an amazing dad and now I have a boy of almot 2 years and another boy coming soon... There's no greater joy in life then love and rejoice in life with your offspring and your wife. Your dad is the man. Congrats to your family!
Thank you Jake, what a beautiful video. I dont say that often at all. Like others, I can see why your Dad is very proud of you, he is a very successful man indeed. I bought my first Rolex, took 2 years to wait for it and it was a very hard purchase as I come from a family that had nothing. But it was an ambition and that meant more than the material value itself. I want to one day like your Dad, pass it on. My Father told me from his grandfather that “ you can be rich in love or rich in money-never both” Thank you for sharing this powerful video, God bless
I’m not sure why this is popping up on my feed 4 years after you uploaded it. Got me pretty emotional about my father. What an amazing message he’s given you.
popped on mine as well , I really really hope that it pops on many more feeds as his message is a great one .
Also on mine!
Me too 🤔👍
same!
Same!
The joy your father had by passing down his watch is a feeling unlike any other! Wear it in good health.
you're a sap and a rube. put your mask back on!
as good as getting a handjob from a stripper ? i think not toolboy
@Booz2020RIP dad
I'm a dad, today is not Father's Day, but my son Filippo sent me your video. Your words are very beautiful, which are the fruit of your father's teachings. He's definitely proud of you. I too am of my son, who today sent me a message of affection through you. Thanks and have a good life.
nice
It was actually a hint to gift him a Rolex 😂
He’s still bitter about you naming him ‘Filippo’
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@@sim9373 Nah, it is a very common name in Italy and as you can see from his profile pic he is Italian
My Dad taught me that success is not found in what you get, but in what you are able to give. That ‘character’ is a bridge you build between the man you are and the man you strive to become.
Awesome
Yes, "what you can give" is a big deal, but you need to be wise when you "give." If you give each time a family member or friend asks, you'll end up broke. The first time you don't give they'll hate you despite the amount you gave earlier. The best things you can give are knowledge and good examples.
@@mitchd949 you’re thinking about giving money. That’s myopic. Giving is about giving of yourself. What do I give? I am a sculptor. After dropping out of college because they didn’t know how to actually make a living at art, I had the good fortune of serving a 5 year apprenticeship with a bunch of Italian immigrants where I learned everything I needed to know to make my living. They treated me like the son they were teaching a generational trade. For the 40 years since I have run my studio, offering the same kind of old world apprenticeship, merged with the cutting edge of modern technology, to help aspiring young artists gain the real skills and abilities they need to make a living at art. Unlike art school which puts them in debt, here they at least get PAID to learn by working on real projects. And then I help many of them secure their first higher paying jobs, or going out on their own. Working in my studio is not like most jobs and I am happiest when I hear my apprentices out in the shop, laughing. Loving their job. And loving their life.
Far from costing me money, having these young artists assist in the studio means I can take on more and larger projects, and they turn what for most is a solitary profession into camaraderie of shared interests and shared creative expression.
“Giving” is not impoverishing yourself. It’s about creating a more loving and humane world within the scope of your reach. About being there when your children need your advice or assistance, but in ways that help them build self reliance. It’s about understanding that business connections are Human connections. I can’t tell you how many times I have done something simple for a client for no charge because I knew they were strapped for cash, and helped out their business. And how many times those clients returned those favors by lowering their prices to me on every job, or even doing projects for free, or recommending me to new clients or for larger projects.
It comes down to John Donne. “Any man’s death diminishes me, for I am involved in mankind.” We are all in this together. It’s not a zero sum. We pull together, or we fall apart.
@@mitchd949 i believe that "give" means something way further than money(not sure if you meant exactly money or not) but i'd like to add some things in what you said.
Beyond "What you give" and "when you give" i believe that "who you gave" is way important too, and unfortunatly sometimes family members are a little toxic, but that's it!
Before you can give, you must get it isn't?
This video found me at the right time. I lost my father to cancer. He was diagnosed 3 months before he passed so it was very fast. I’ll always cherish the lessons my father taught me.
Rest in peace to your father
Rest in peace 🙏🙏
Rest in peace to your father
So sorry for your loss 🙏
Fuck cancer. May your father rest in peace.
Powerful. You've been blessed with a good dad.
More importantly, a good value watch.
My dad never ever told me he was proud of me. The maximum validation I ever got from him was a thumbs up emoji. I envy you far more for having a letter from your dad saying he's proud of you than for having any watch in the world. Big cheers and big props to your dad.
Be the change you wish to see. So, if you ever get to be a dad/mom, you know what your kid needs, that what you did not get. I know you will be a good parent❤
Tell him that
Damn. Times have changed. Now we have emojis as lasting memories, not scars by being beaten with a belt with steel buckle by an asshole father who actually understood the world much more than anyone else around him, teaching you all of this, so now you have mixed feelings.
Same but he’s drunk when I receive that “thumbs up” validation. Glad he’s still kicking though.
@@doctoromelettebrownies wtf man
So he basically said wear this Rolex to remind you that success isn't measured by whatever luxury items you are able to buy
😢😢😢
@@jonatanholmberg1268 why sad
@@Arodrimrich people say not to care about money
@@hellothere-ii8vlcringe 10 year old take
@@hellothere-ii8vl cuz they know how useless it is when they got there lol
1:53 Treat material wealth as the *seasoning* to life rather than the main course. - that was brilliant man. Oftentimes in trying to live a “pure” or “wholesome” life it is taught to stop wanting nicer things and stop using social media and all that. But there’s nothing wrong with wanting beautiful things, nor is there nothing wrong with wanting to genuinely see what your friends are up to. We’re teaching how to go to the other extreme end of having things when really it should be a life that’s more in the middle, living life well and only having material wealth as a supplement to it, not the main goal. Thank you for sharing this video with us all
I am a 36 year old father of 2 boys.
I can confirm that fatherhood puts everything into perspective.
I have done decently, working hard in Tech, but have gone from working hard in order to move up the ladder to working less to spend more time with kids - and the primary reason I work now, is to be able to afford time with my kids - now and in the future.
lmao. are they out as trans yet?
The gender reveal party will have to wait till they are 21, got to be sure. ~Jimmy Carr 2024~
That letter is moving, and that’s an incredible lesson your father imparted on you. Thank you for sharing this with the world.
yeah
I bought a microphone after watching your review and it's still working great
This is amazing. Your father saying those words is incredibly powerful. I hope I could one day do this for my future kids.
Great message.
Not a Rolex but it reminds me of the Timex I bought my father some 4 years ago for Father's Day. It was all I could afford at the time, but I bought it with my first "big boy" job money because before that I worked a lot of menial jobs that didn't pay well and he knew this was the first step in my career. He wore that cheap watch nearly every day...he could've worn his Tissot, Hamilton or his favorite Omega, but nope...he wore the $50 Timex Easy Reader watch that his son bought for him. Had it with him until he passed last year from cancer...now I wear it nearly every day. Miss him.
Bless his soul. That's true love right there mate. Very lucky to have such wonderful father. My prayers to him.
@@qazzranalamry1772 Thanks, I appreciate the kind words my friend. He was a loving and wonderful father and something that has helped the grief is remembering how lucky I am. Truly blessed.
You guys are amazing
i dont buy my family or siblings anything at all because it has no meaning. They know I love them by how I interact with them.
@@DanuxsyI get that
I have a dad taught me everything. Level of gratefulness I have for my dad is beyond words
It actually breaks my heart that this doesn’t have more views… I feel like it would do a lot of good to have more people hear this.
The time has come, RUclipss Algorithm found it! ❤
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Instead of a Rolex, my father left me with a box of abandonment issues. I had to teach myself these lessons the hard way. I would have preferred the rolly and note method.
But good for you man, he seemed like a good father and taught you well. Cherish that and embrace it when it’s your turn.
lmao
hahahaha nice cope. don't care
This really resonates with me. I am the father of a 1 1/2 year old boy, Colt. He really taught (and is still teaching me everyday) about what it truly means to be a father and live your life for someone else. Between he and his mother, they're all I really need in this world. Everything else is just fluff... That being said, this past Sunday was Father's Day, and my wife told me she wanted me to have something to someday pass down to Colt. About a half hour later, we're at the Rolex store in San Jose, CA. The wife approved the purchase of a Rolex (for me, and someday our son). I ended up with a timeless two-tone Datejust 41mm that I am over the moon about.
It isn't necessarily the price of the watch that entices me. It's what the watch represents, and how it makes me feel when I wear it. And it's all compounded by the fact that someday my son will wear the watch on his wrist and have the story to tell about it. Sounds cheesy, but I don't care. It makes me happy.
Hopefully you actually wear it regularly so your kid has fond memories of his dad wearing it and can look back in photos and see his dad with it on.
this just made me write down questions to interview my 82 year old dad before he passes so I remember what success looks like. what an amazing gift. thanks for sharing
Seriously, you haven't already asked him and gotten to know him completely already?
Better late than never !
“Life is not about material wealth. By the way, this is a good reason to buy a Rolex”
Lol😅
Draper, DON
Jake your Dad is a true “sensei”for such beautiful words of wisdom that will follow you for life.
Sharing this on this platform will now enrich your audience as well…
Shut the fuck up, sensei my ass. Be normal
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When you can let go of material things you really feel a sense of freedom. But if you do have wonderful material items, express gratitude and use them for good, as tools, and like you said, a seasoning to your life! Great video and message. I recently graduated so this was cool to hear!
I bought the same $200,000 Mercedes my family used to drive me to school in. It reminds me daily that some things are more important than money. God bless you ❤
Great video. Popped into my feed and so grateful it did. Jake, your dad's message is spot on and you also seem tuned in to what is truly important. Thank you for sharing.
Step 1, get a Rolex
thanks algorithm to recommending me this video today! what an awesome message. Honor the people that have done a lot to you.
Such a sweet story ! Dad's lessons on life and success beyond riches :)
What a beautiful message from your father. This is the dad I am and your father is the one that many of us men wished we had. Nice to see you appreciate that. Never forget and thanks for sharing this very personal story.
My dad taught me how to accept failure and losing, and I see it as a big part of my success.
yoo whats up i liked your video about dan koe
@@MicahUhl haha! my fame preceeds me :D Thanks a lot!
It's very ironic to wear something material that embodies wealth to remind you exactly that it's not the most important thing in life.
Felt shallow for me too. The whole video context is a bit, comic to be fair. What would be the true wealth, then?
This video is so incredibly disconnected
The Wealth of Wisdom and Heartfulness his Father Passed on is Priceless! May God Bless all of You.
So ironic that he’s talking about finding confidence in himself and not materialism while making a video about his excitement in a luxury watch that his dad gifted him.
Yeah, man made of bs
Just 1 day ago my father which is in Stroke illness and in recovery which he cant really talking anymore and move less, giving me his rolex watch and today i saw this video and i think this is not coincidence. i think He want to send a message to me but he cant talk much, but i really mind blown to find this video on youtube and really blessed by your message which I think my father want to say to me. Thanks a lot for sharing , live a Happy life and God bless you!
Incredible timing that this popped up on my home page on my dads birthday. Great message.
Hi Jake, cheers for uploading this video. I don’t know why it came to me but now I know. My dad (rip/Z”L) passed away during Covid, he gave me a submariner when I graduated from uni, I have never been a materialistic person far from it. Now I understand what he was trying to express, that I was his success, I gave my watch to my younger brother and I will work and save for a Rolex or PP for me to give to my future son whenever he comes.
I appreciate this video mate!
"Wear this $20,000 watch in front of people that can barely afford food and rent to be constantly reminded that success isn't measured by materialistic things", yes that makes perfect sense...
100% my thought. do not understand why everybody in the comments is celebrating this although he does exactly the opposite of what his message is :D
he is wearing the watch as a physical reminder of the message his dad left, not for the sake of wearing a rolex. huge difference.
@@GioMellosExactly. The Rolex is a reminder of his dad; who found his son and family was the most important thing to him. -it’s an endearing story that shows one of his father’s values.
However, the son, seen here, speaks from a position of wealth. He shared the story and delivered a different message.
The message he shared is: “don’t let money dictate your life and shouldn’t be the main course; it should only be used to spice it up, the appetizer”.
Someone living in poverty, or us sitting here sees the irony in this statement. Because we don’t have money to spend outside of “the main course”. Everyday is a struggle, and for some that requires working 3 jobs to get by.
To say “don’t focus on the pursuit of money; use it to sprinkle excitement in your life” is someone who’s never once had to worry about paying rent or putting food on the table.
I can appreciate the man his father was, I enjoyed the story; but that doesn’t mean I agree with the son’s message and his perception of what he thinks it means.
Fantastic lesson to share with the world, one that I know of but is easy to forget from time to time. I have done well for myself overall so far, but I often wonder what my life would, be like if I had a father who was there that devoted himself to my upbringing as yours seems to have you. Cherish that and thanks for sharing. 🙂
Recipe for success in life: be born in a family where they wears Rolex.
This made me cry. Thank you for this man
New to your channel. I just inherited my father‘s 37 year old datejust Rolex after he passed away last year. I wish my father spoke to me this way.
lol
I got my fathers Rolex, regretfully not while he was alive. He died when I was 40, I miss him every day and listening to your message I’m confident he would think the same way. He visited almost every spot on the world with his watch, it lived an amazing life on his arm and now on mine.
He wears a material item to remind himself wealth is not tied to material items.
Great message you have found the essence of success and share it with others. God bless you
What a wonderful message. Thank you for posting this. As someone who is looking to purchase his first Rolex, this is a great reminder.
Appreciated this, my
Dad died when I was 14 and I think about him everyday and the way he in stilled in me to always value people around me and spiritually over any material amount or things. People don’t realise just how important fathers are when now more than ever we see them as optional. We have a real problem of fatherlessness so if you do have a father and a good one, just remember who lucky you are from time to time. Having a good father is the best start you can have in life above any of material privilege.
Mothers make the world happen, fathers make the world good.
So glad this popping on my feed, and thank you for this message!
I don't know why this popped on my feed. Well, I'm glad I clicked and watched it...really needed to see this. Thank you, man ! Best regard !
wear a luxury material status symbol as a reminder that material wealth isn't important. got it.
My thoughts exactly.
Why am I seeing this 5 years after. Fantastic video and beautiful lesson from your father passed on to the viewers.
Great lesson. Deserves a thumbs up!
You’re very blessed to have a father who actually cares about you.
Tell your kid that true success does not come from commercial consumerism, then goes with giving him the epitome of commercial consumerism. Should have just written him the letter to give to him upon graduation.
As someone who lost his dad recently, this video was not asked for but damn was it valuable. I never got hear if he was proud of my success or not, but i've taken his lessons to being a parent of my own kids. Thank you for sharing!
I am sad. I only remember beatings from my father, but not meaningful lessons. At the same time, I envy Jake and am happy for Jake. Fortunately, I am happy for him and I am grateful that I can still feel upright happiness for other people.
Same
same bruv
You’re blessed to have a very sweet father. Knowing my dad is pleased and content with me and what I’m doing is one of the best feelings ever
Well said. I love material things my Rolex’s and cars mean a lot to me. But they can’t hold a candle to my 2 daughters and wife. They are the true being of my happiness!
Well said.
Your wife will cheat on you and your daughters will hate you in 2 seconds God first
Bro, your dad is so sweet, my dad wrote me one letter only and its about how much of a burden i was when raising me and how much money i have to pay every month when i graduate, he made me sign the letter too! Forget the watch 😅
I will pass my Rolex to my son, It took me 29 years to get my first Rolex. Starting with a 3000 USD per year to 120000 USD in 4 years was a journey. That's what my Rolex means to me.
How old are you?
@@TheEndIsCuming If he started at 3000 USD/year & got up to 120K/Year, I'd assume he'd be 29.
Wow, inflation is bad
@@TheEndIsCuming135 years old
HOLY SHIT
You and your father are amazing people. You made me remember that the reason I am who I am right now is my father, he has guided me heavily into the correct path without directly controlling me on the small things in life, but by making me study in specific schools and teaching me amazing lessons. My father is more amazing than I give him credit for and he's so much better as a person than I am. Thank you for bringing light to this and I hope everyone realizes how their father had a major impact on their life for good or bad.
I will be honest. I did not get the message. He talks about not chasing material wealth but he is flexing a Rolex. If someone explains it to me, I would appreciate it.
Rich families trying to look more wholesome or relatable is my guess.
Same bro, same
I didn’t understand either. A Rolex?? Seriously? I have an Omega. Much better. My dad died 37 years ago. So I bought it myself. Because I like the watch. 😄
It’s just for likes, dude, that’s all. It made us click, it did its job. No further explanation is needed. Take care.
The father gave him his most valuable item that once he thought was the result of his success in life. But with his son he realised that his biggest accomplishment wasn’t represented by his watch. But by someone else. So the father gave his son what once he thought was his symbol of success. The Rolex he gave to his son isn’t a new one. It is the one he bought when he thought it was the object that represented his success.
We need to be fathers and sons like these guys right here.
Always remember , you don’t take with you any material thing in the afterlife, just the blessing of accomplishment and love of your family and friends
I mean, it's a good message but a Rolex being a reminder of it is a bit hard to get behind.
This video doesn't make sense to me… That's like giving a Playboy magazine to teach someone that looks aren't everything.
Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the beautiful story, but I'm struggling to understand the logic.
Although the example you provided does seem comparable, to the son, the watch had no material value to it. Instead, the sentiments of his father outweighs any intrinsic materialism from the watch. The father gives up material wealth in order to redefine what wealth and success means to him, passing that along to his son. A more accurate representation from your example would be giving someone a playboy magazine and telling them that looks aren’t everything, there is so much more to a meaningful and genuine relationship. (Then add in the fact that this is coming from a teacher figure, or someone looked up to)
Totally agreed ❤
It's because his dad is giving up the Rolex, which he bought as a symbol of his material success, to his son, the living embodiment of his true success. His son will not wear it as a sign of wealth, but rather of the pride his father has in him, which is his true accomplishment.
I think it’s more like wear it to enjoy with life(true success) not for the sake of being flashy.
You're so well spoken. Thanks for sharing the video.
Wow, that was amazing. I don't know that kid very well, but I'm proud of him too.
22M, just lost my dad last year. I can’t help but to get emotional thinking about my dad. I’ll always remember what true success looks like.
Well said and well deserved . Thanks for sharing .
My dad told me that no matter what happens to me to tell myself that I am not a victim. This keeps you in control of your own destiny.
This man is speaking straight gibberish
That’s beautiful and couldn’t have been more thoughtful
Hope he didn't write that letter with Chatgpt.😅
Wow, someone with common sense, smarts, and possibly integrity. Great messages.
Lesson: don’t be poor
Thanks for sharing this video. I also am not sure why this appears on my video to watch but am glad to see it. I grew up without a father which made my life a great challenge in many ways. Nevertheless I have to deal with the hand I was given in life. Most recently, I have learned to value my relationship with my heavenly Father and have always found him to be ever loving and patient and merciful with me, regardless of what I understand to be many failures on my part. The important thing is to appreciate the gifts in life that God gives us, whether it is a good father, good health, a nice watch, or even a beautiful background you are standing in front of in this video you posted. Thanks for sharing. May this video touch more lives as it touched mine. God bless.
I've never received any heartfelt lessons like this from my father. It seems to me like us kids were just something in his life, a checkbox he could fill out and say he did as part of HIS journey, with not much true care for us. I'm sure he would argue otherwise, but not once did he sit me down and give any meaningful lessons, talk deeply about life, or anything like that. I wouldn't have needed a rolex watch... just some wisdom.
The irony of this video for me is that my Dad was ALL ABOUT material items. They defined him. So much so that I think it could be the reason us kids weren't more center stage in his life. We were kind of afterthoughts, when his main pursuit was second, and third wives, fast cars, boats, expensive trips, etc. To this day late in his 60s he's still working trying to accrue a fortune so that he and his 3rd wife can retire... But it's costing him time with his family in his golden years, and I don't think that really bothers him much.
Kind of a shame and rather sad when you think about it. I might reflect more positively on my own life if I'd felt that at any point someone cared enough to sit down and share some wisdom. Lacking a significant father figure in my life was probably something that shaped aspects of my personality to this day. I'm not asking for sympathy at all because my upbringing was comfortable, but I am often envious of those who had true meaningful relationships with their parents.
Thats an amazing message and lesson by your father, wish u both well and be happy! Your relationship with your dad is truly the meaning of success. May God bless you!
I wore a fake but very accurate Rolex replica for years. Nobody ever noticed, commented, or cared.
My dad taught me when times are good buy vodka and when times are difficult buy Mad Dog 20/20. I will never forget it.
Sorry, pride is a reason to wear a mechanical device on your wrist, that is less accurate than your phone, that synchronizes with a time server by UDP? Love is nice, but pride is, was and will always be, foolish.
My dad didn’t teach me much but i see him suffering from a mental illness he got years ago. Which motivates me to make something out of my life and be in control of the outcome and opportunities life presents at you
Jesus this made me cry 😭
This video is a direct example of what RUclips was created for. Broadcast Yourself.
Very nice video. You could at least have shown us the watch though.
Great lesson, great parenting.
Your dad has done it right.
Best, Dominic
I think it's a Rolex explorer 2 from the start of the video
What a true example of why the world is the way it is right now. A generation of sociopaths raising children that are worthless.
sounds like a rolex sponsored talk
Amazing Gift from a father the note is more valuable than any object respect to your Father for such great advice keep the tradition.
Great lesson!
This video got me crying a lot right now. Just lost my father 2 years ago, and a letter like this would be awesome. Give a hug everyday in yout father if you still have him, im sure hes a great one
Don't visit London. Good luck
Just popped up on my feed out of nowhere and I don't regret a bit. Nice lesson Jake, true words spoken. Thanks for the video
Great lesson 👍
Nothing more important on this earth than a father son relationship.
It is the good foundation that all our other relationships are built upon.
Thank you so much Jake for sharing this with us. 🙏❣️ I really felt it and the sparkle in your eyes show that you mean every bit of what you said. And beautifully put lines in terms of recipe. Gorgeous 💌 God bless you🫂
My dad offered me a Rolex box, which was empty.
He said “your time to take the good decisions to fill this box with the watch”.
I just bought a fake one 3 years later, and now he’s so proud of me for no reason.
I have an amazing dad and now I have a boy of almot 2 years and another boy coming soon... There's no greater joy in life then love and rejoice in life with your offspring and your wife. Your dad is the man. Congrats to your family!
I bought my dad a rolex and he pawned it next day to buy meth.
Thank you Jake, what a beautiful video. I dont say that often at all. Like others, I can see why your Dad is very proud of you, he is a very successful man indeed.
I bought my first Rolex, took 2 years to wait for it and it was a very hard purchase as I come from a family that had nothing. But it was an ambition and that meant more than the material value itself.
I want to one day like your Dad, pass it on. My Father told me from his grandfather that “ you can be rich in love or rich in money-never both”
Thank you for sharing this powerful video, God bless
Your dad presented you with some very wise advice. Hoping you're still wearing the watch and living his lesson.
All dads have something to teach. Mine taught me how not to behave and treat people. He was the best example of that.
As a dad on Father’s Day who grew up without a dad that hit hard. It’s how I’m raising my kids. Thanks for this video.