Here is where I purchased everything: Bee Command Center- Everything is from Michaels Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
Thank you!!🙌New subscriber here and its Back to School time! I have been watching command center idea videos after video!!! I'm a homeschool mama and wanted to really create a better system this year for the family of 4 !! Thank you for ALL of the wonderful visuals and unique ideas. I Very much liked the breakdown of command center personality traits!!! Believe it or not you are 💯 percent correct, you can never have too many different hubs. I have a few spread out through out the house and was trying to figure out how to bring them together into one space but you are correct!! It doesn't matter as long as it's working!!!
I just found this channel. I have ADHD, and paper organization is very difficult for me, have a hard time deciding what to keep, what to toss. Also have Asperger's so I have an excessive desire to be organized. I'm always struggling to be more tidy and fight clutter (too many receipts! Years of tax returns I might need!) A major priority to me is my good credit rating, paying bills on time, avoiding all late fees for everything, dealing immediately with overcharges and poor customer service; my adult children call me a "bulldog." Since I've had several occasions where I needed a receipt I just threw out on a "declutter day" I hesitate to throw receipts for anything. I'm drowning in all this and family pictures too. Help!
Super video, Cas! I love the detail about *why* the different solutions will work for different organizing types. And your "stay to the end" portion always makes me laugh and brightens my day. I think you changed because you're a mom, btw. You gotta stay safe to take care of your kids! :)
Love this video. Now come to my house and set mine up please...lol. I can relate with you about Rollercoasters. About 10 years ago our then 2 teen boys and husband went to a theme park and rode the Intimidator coaster. I thought I was going to die!! I came to the realization that Rollercoasters after 40 are not fun anymore. After that ride was the scrambler. That is not fun anymore either. So nerve racking....
Yes, I too was adventurous. I'd ride on the bow of our boat on lake Ontario. The bigger the swells, and dips the more I hooped and yelled,...but then I became a mom. The first time I went out on the boat I was a wreck, couldn't wait to get to shore. Instincts to survive to care for your little ones! Normal.
Yeah I'm the same way. I think it's just how we're designed for survival. We're more adventurous when we're young & supposed to be finding a mate & then we get older & our bodies slow us down as we age, but we also become protective mama bears constantly griping at our adventurous kids to be safer. 🤣 It's just the cycle of life, I guess.
I have also gone from an adventurous free spirit to a homebody! Getting older, having kids, and anxiety all play a role. I don't need to ride a roller coaster when my emotions are a roller coaster every day!
I had mine on a wall above a buffet table in the kitchen. It worked perfect. I had a cork board with a calendar, hooks with each of the kids important papers, etc….But our a-hole cat started clawing at the cork board at night and ripping everything down and clawing up the board! So thinking it was because he must think it’s a scratching board for him, I switched to a magnet board which is a lot smaller and less functional for us…the cat still climbs up on the buffet and pulls the papers and magnets down! 😂 it’s funny, but it’s not! He must not like my attempt to organize.
Your cool in my book! Thanks for the command center ideas. I tend to be a Ladybug/Cricket. I have an office make over planned soon and this has helped a lot.
I can relate to the amusement park rides. I loved roller coasters! And then my 40 hit and that amazing thrilling feeling I got when I was younger riding a coaster, is now pure I'm going to die and this is not fun feeling. It only got worse as I got older. Something in your brain changes. I don't know what it is but boy do I miss the old days and riding the lastest coasters to come to Kings Island or Cedar Point. I'm a little bit of everything when it comes to command centers. Some work well and some are works in progress. Good video.
Thanks so much for these tips! We are severely downsizing and I will have to find a new place to keep my bills and todos and tofiles. I think the way for me will be to live in the new space for a while and see where my new "command center" wants to be. Then I can watch this video again and set it up!☺
We used to camp about every weekend or for weeks at a time in all weather (think tents in blizzards and frozen over porta-potties to locations so hot we had to melt ice in a horse trough to cool off.) I made feasts for 50 from a camp stove and grill and I think I had more camping gear than I had regular bedding. But now, I'm like my brother-in-law who says roughing it is when room service is late. I put it in the same category as when I realized I didn't really have to eat chitlins or escargots to be an adventurous eater. Wisdom comes with age.
I think it's also important to remember that your command center can change! You can move it around, add, subtract, create, delete, etc. It will grow and change as your life grows and changes. But this video is terrific and will tell you everything to do. It's also a great idea to create command centers next to each child's study desk and file cabinet. Kids need command centers too and it will get them introduced to organizing their lives. You can work with them regularly to teach them how to use it, how to organize, file, and incorporate their command center into their own lives. Starting in fifth grade, a command center for each student's study desk area will help them to feel "This is my own space where I can study and work well." Check with them too to see if it's working or how they need it to change. Comfy desk chair? Comfy curl-up-and-read chair? Enough light? Enough storage space? Enough desk top area or do they need more? Your child grows! And what is enough at eleven will need to get bigger as they do too! What new ideas do they have? Go shopping with your child and help them to choose what they want to be in their own command center, to make it cute, inviting, and their own special space. "Bring up a child in the way s/he should go, and when s/he is grown, s/he will not depart from it!" Cass, this is an idea for another video: Your child's space needs to grow up with them! They are students with computers! Do they have a study area/office in their own rooms sufficient for their growing study needs? When they grow, it's time to let go of baby things!
You’ve become perfect. A healthy fear is ok to have. The pink all around you & the house look fabulous together. Some of the best tips are when you show the optional ways of organizing - like you did today. Very good presentation-but implementation is the key for us viewers
Nobody's perfect but she's pretty darn close 🥰. The thing with Cas that I love is she's not afraid to be vulnerable and show her flaws. She is relatable and due to all this what she shows us is utterly doable, some done Pinterest perfect thing out of our reach.
Cas, I am so so grateful for your final story. Just yesterday I was thinking about all the incredible things I used to do. And now I’m a nerd. I’m glad we have a club.
Most organizers only show one way and it’s their way! I love that cass will show all ways so when mom (bee) with 3 kids ( bee, ladybug, and a minimalist ladybug)! So we have a house full of stuff, but it is slowly getting there!
I have ramdon organizing systems like everywhere - I've been wanting to fix up my kitchen command center, and I'm realizing I once was a cricket but am now more butterfly, and the cricket ways of old aren't suiting me anymore. Lots of good ideas here on how to make it work. Thanks!!
Great tips, I agree I used to love all the amusement park rides but I was terrified when I hit my 40's lol. The photos of me screaming in utter fear are so funny when I look back at them. I think we often have kids and then start to worry and see things differently that when we were young and carefree.
@@Clutterbug I don't know... I don't have kids and I've experienced the same thing! I used to be so fearless and a thrill-seeker (and also lived out of a backpack for a year!) and now I dread having to go to the grocery store. WHAT HAPPENEDDDD. I attribute it to entering my thirties 😅 but maybe the pandemic had something to do with it too?
I have lost my nerve too as I get older (68). I rode horses and jumped 5 foot fences, owned three in my younger life. I used to scuba dive regularly. Now I don't dare drive in bad weather if I can help it. Even less confident now post covid when we were all held up in our homes. I miss the old me.
You are amazing. You put into words how our home environment critically impacts how we function and feel. You can articulate beautifully what most people can't. You have helped my family transform our life in your humble and humorous way. Thank you!!
At 78 I still like adventures, but mine are a lot tamer now (and have been for quite awhile). No more jumping from high places... or sleeping on the hard ground... or hiking without a hiking pole in each hand... or doing anything that might wreck my back any more than I've already done! I also remember the first time I got really nervous about flying. It was the first time I flew with an infant. Suddenly, getting into a metal tube speeding at 100s of miles per hour far above the earth seemed like an insane thing to do especially with an innocent baby!
Yes, I need this!! I have a command center, but I need to re-visit it. It helps a lot! Cass, don't worry I was never cool 😆, but in front of my Gen Z family members I am the coolest. I always go in the kids Rollercoaster, it's called self preservation. You're cool! ❤️
not sure if it's cause i live in iceland or if it's just me but I don't have anything like this, all my bills are paid through my banks app, there are no coupons in iceland :') I have no contracts or stuff I need to sign, my boys are young but they just have a folder in the school bags where stuff goes and I sign and put it back there but most stuff goes through emails here as well. art work just goes either to the recycling or back in their drawing basket if they want to keep it and I have a secret folder where I move really special projects into and write their name and date. my calendar for work and apt. is in my phone google cal, me and hubby have a grocery list app we can both add stuff to so I don't really see what I'd use this for although it does look really pretty I just feel like my stuff would just build up there instead of getting dealt with right away :')
I can absolutely relate to the adventurous youth that has disappeared! I also used to do crazy stuff and now I am a play-it-safe person. I think it's partly age and possibly parenthood. The fact that there are people who depend on us to be around for a while. 😁 Love you, Cas! ❤️
Coupons I know or think I will use go directly into a specific spot in my wallet so I always have them with me when I’m shopping. I’ve also started making my shopping list in the notes on my phone so I don’t forget to grab the list on my way out, and when I run out of something I add it to the correct notes on my phone immediately. I always have one generic one for Groceries, one for Shopping (for non-grocery items such as clothing or home decor) and one under the name of the nearest larger city for items I can’t find locally. That last one is a great save because if I happen to be there for something else I can check to see if there’s anything I need to buy while I’m there. If I’m planning an IKEA run (the nearest one is 2 hours away) I create a list for all the items I want to look at, things I want to get ideas for, items I want to check interior dimensions on, etc. I also make notes about what the website says is and is not in stock before I leave. I was slow to give up paper and pencil, but I’ve LOVED always having my list with me!
I do the same with the coupons and phone list. I always have my phone with me, but not always paper and pen. If I thought of something while I am at work, I would write it on a piece of paper, never to be seen again. But if I can grab my phone and add it to the list right away....I know I will remember it. Also, I can put a star or something beside an item to remind me I have a coupon. Or I will put 'use points' to remind me that I have enough loyalty points for a store.
Loved these great tips! 20 yrs ago I loved roller coasters and my new hubby hated them. After kids we switched! It would hurt my head and I was terrified. However, I just went to DLand and did fine on Space Mtn. I think my health is better and my kid is almost an adult so instead of me protecting him, he's the one looking out for me!
I can 100% relate to the I have no interest in that anymore kind of thing. I have decided that when I was younger I was trying all the new things...but once you try them they just aren't as exciting anymore. Like I used to never be home- always on the go- always onto the next thing and place. Now it's like "been there, done that, got the Tshirt"...I actually enjoy the peace of my life now. Wouldn't trade the experiences that I have had...but don't need to repeat them either.
I felt like I was hearing myself talk at the end of your video! I was always a thrill-seeker until I had my firstborn and developed health issues that prevent me from living that kind of life anymore. I think even with health issues aside, it happens when your hormones and body physically changes during pregnancy (ok, and maybe I'm just getting old ha). I used to be able to ride the Gravitron -- now I can barely spin my kid in circles before getting nauseous. 😅 Love your content, Cas! Off to work on my command center!
i can relate. I am 67, and while I am still cool, I go down the stairs, slowly, holding on to the railing, so I don't fall. My knees are stiff, and I just have to slow down. It is age, but I still play my guitar, wear silly t-shirts, laugh and have fun, and I am the best grandma ever.
You did not loose your cool. You just became a parent. To have responsibility for more than yourselv changes you. You suddenly realize that your kids will be lost without you and that takes a lot of adventure spirit out of it. And getting older does not help with joint and back pain🤪. Probably you will travel the world again, when your kids are grown up. But probably staying in nice luxuries places😁
Yes. Thank you!. I've been watching your videos for a few years and it's helped me make a lot of changes to keep on top of clutter... except paper clutter. That's my biggest struggle. Will be soon implementing ladybug style command center. 👍
My theory is that as we get older, we become more aware of risks. You hear more horror stories, and have a few bad experiences, and realise you're not invincible after all.
Just want to say, I am 100% the same! I used to do all kinds of fun things, willing to go different places, explore and experience different things, but NOT anymore! I like staying home, especially if it’s raining. It’s like, I’m afraid I will melt 🤣 Just wanted you to know you’re not alone & I attribute to an age thing?!
Thank you for this! Your tips & tricks are just awesome and very much appreciated. ** I've turned into the biggest baby when it comes to being scared. Just like you, I was a thrill seeker, although I've never hitchhiked across the country or lived in a tent for months on end, I was, however, the daredevil of the group. Not. Any. More. I get anxiety and have a panic attack just driving downhill. There's something wrong with me 🤪
Have you ever thought about helping out in the classroom setting? I bet there are plenty of teachers out there, like me, that would love to see the organization and set up of a functional classroom.
Awesome! Sharing this with my dear husband who discovered your wisdom via Hot Mess House. We need a command center in our family room. I am a bee/butterfly. He's a BEE.
I was wondering the same thing myself recently. I used to go on the most tossy turny rides at the fair, but now if I am in a car too close after a meal, my stomach is unhappy. Mentally I think once I had my son, I slightly lost the thrill seeker because I felt responsible for someone else. Now that he is an adult and I want to do risky/thrilling things again, my body won't let me.
I absolutely love you!!! Omg you speak my language!! Love the way you explain things! It all makes sense, clear descriptions , great quality video and great sound!! Woo hoo! You rock girly! Love your channel !! I’m going to binge all of them because I’m feeling more inspired than ever!! Woo hoo!
Love this video. I was a wild child. Then a sober adult, with responsibilities. Then my family grew up and I could rediscover the zany somebody I used to be, except maybe a little more tame. It's all about your season of life. Don't worry, when you least expect it, you will rediscover that desire to explore and experience new things.
Oh my gosh cass I’ve been waiting for this video because I need a command center but I was overwhelmed with the options ,also The file folder that you have in your kitchen where did you get it from!? , thanks for sharing as usual so much fun ideas to choose from 😍😍🥰
The magnet one on the side of the fridge is a Perch from The Container Store. I used to have a black accordion file box in my kitchen, that was from Indigo
I can relate to your final story! I used to love thrill rides, etc. But as I’ve gotten older I think the wisdom and “regular” adventures of life has shown me that I don’t need those things to satisfy my soul❤️ I’m happy on a porch, drinking coffee, reading, talking with friends or watching your organization tips❤️ God is good and I’m satisfied with having those I love in my life. I suspect that’s where you are at too!
I love how the other people in the photo of you screaming are just smiling 😂. And I totally relate, I understand now why my parents used to say they were too old to do something that was totally fun and awesome.
Here is where I purchased everything: Bee Command Center - Everything is from Michaels Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
I think the "circular file" is the file that will best solve my paper clutter issues. One of the DT RUclipsrs hauled a laundry room sign with three clothes pins. I thought it said something like "lost socks seeking sole mate". Thought this might be something you want to look for next time you are at DT. I have learned to stay away from amusement parks and can't ride the baby rides either. Somewhere along the way, I developed a fear of heights. I seem to remember enjoying the "Tilt-a-Whirl" when I was a kid. Tried it a few years ago and it felt like 3 minutes of "sheer torture". Don't know what happened but my amusement park days are over.
Okay any ideas, how I would do a visually family calender for kids ages 4-15. I need it to show when they have school, appointments activities ect but just can't figure a way to put it together
I love your stories at the end! I understand, I know what happened, we got old and had kids and know we live through them! The reality of adulthood sucks! But I still live roller coasters, just can’t do anything that drops anymore !
This is great reminder on how to organize my paperwork. Can we get a way to organize our craft rooms? I know you have done one before, just wanted an updated one maybe. Thanks, I love your videos.
Loved this video! I have a few different command centre styles in my home as well! (Some you’ve featured! Hehe!) I never get tired of your videos! My son is going to Canada’s Wonderland tomorrow and we were just talking yesterday about how I used to love going on all of the big roller coasters when I was younger, but I’ve become such a chicken in my old age. Lol I think when I became a mom, every brave bone in my body left and was replaced with a pack of nerves. I hope you enjoyed your time with your family anyway. I always love going for food! Haha! ♥️
Paper has to be decluttered often to be found. I have never found a vertical, box, drawer or horizontal system that works better than that. I learned one from minimal mom that helps, but isn't perfect either. I use three shelves that hold 8x10 paper or smaller. (Desk trays basically) The top shelf is for bills needing paid. The second shelf is for wait and see. The bottom shelf is put away. Still, for me, it is the decluttering it often that works. This system has been the best for me. I really like your wall idea, but to me, it would look pretty and I wouldn't want to file it in there. Love the white wall organizers. Perfect for college dorms!
That's aging! Welcome to getting older, or the scardy kat phase!! I'm 66 and I can tell you the things I did as a teenager scare the hell out of me now!! But it was a different time. I'm scared to get myself on the train to go to the doctor!! Thank you, Covid!! I just feel safe in my own apartment and shop online for everything!!
So I have a question...is it normal, or even possible, to unintentionally change the type of organizer you are? For example, I'm pretty sure I've always been a cricket...I hate seeing clutter and can't think or function when there are piles everywhere. When I would move (often, I have moved 30 times now) I set up files and stuff with lots of categories (yes, struggling perfectionist). However, the last few years, lots of change, lots of family stress and loss and health issues. Now I'm just at the point where maybe "I don't care" but I'm definitely not functioning and it really bothers me...messes and unfinished projects everywhere, still not completely unpacked or organized after over a year and half in this house, plus had to add all my mom's stuff to the pile when she passed at the same time we moved, but the thought of getting everything into a proper home is just overwhelming. Maybe I'm more of a ladybug now? I am liking the idea of bins behind doors to just chuck stuff into. Plus I just realized that husband is more of a bee or butterfly....he needs to see everything or he forgets, which drives me nuts and makes me shut down even more. He's taken over the kitchen and now does all the cooking (or we'd starve because I'm not doing it) and it's very stressful for me to try to help because everything is out on the counters and makes me crazy and nothing is where I would put it in the fridge or cabinets so trying to cook is not enjoyable at all for me. I'm not sure where to start or which system to try to set up now. I did show husband your 4 types of closets and he likes the clear bins and agreed (maybe under slight duress??) it would be okay to be behind doors IF they were all clearly labeled, so I've been looking but can't seem to find anything at a price I'm willing to pay that would work. I have been slowly working on decluttering, but other than that, any advice? And have you seen people change their organizing type before? Thank you...love your videos, especially the stories at the end!!
YES!! I’m in the process of making a command center before I start school. Working full time and going to school (only 2 semesters left!!) I needed this must have!
Great tips and I LOVED your commentary at the end! I've always been a low-risk person (ever since my older brother took me out to the middle of a lake on an inner tube and purposely capsized it when I didn't yet know how to swim 🙄). Oh, and do tell us more about those 2 years you spent in a tent!
Here is where I purchased everything: Bee Command Center - Everything is from Michaels Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
I consider myself to be a pretty outdoorsy person. I went on a hike with my friend a few years ago and got really nervous on this one path. There were dogs and babies on the path! I started taking anxiety medication around then. 😄
I can completely relate! I blame my kids, lol. Everything changed when I got pregnant with my firstborn. I'm only brave when it comes to defending my kids (and now, my grandkids).
That is SOOO funny about rides. I was always into roller coasters and just all the twirl you around rides. Went to all 4 parks in FL recently, and after standing in the queue, chickened out when it was my family's time to get on Space Mountain. I think I heard the announcement one time too many about if you will be affected by sudden drops, lifts, bumps, jerks etc, this might not be the ride for you. I decided to listen to my feelings and declined to ride. Although the employee kinda had a smirk when he said, 'You're not going?' And showed me the exit, I watched as my senior citizen mom, sister, brother in law and two nieces happily got on. I just don't care for rides anymore that have the waist security bars. I'd feel more willing with the bars over my entire body, say for instance if anyone ever went on the Hulk ride. I definitely prefer low key rides now. :)
Interesting about hearing the announcement... I don't remember hearing it,but I went to CA DL. Maybe, like me, you'll do better again in the future. Hopefully you had a good time anyways!
who uses nowadays still a paper file for invoices and a chequebook for paying things, it's all an online thing now, at least in my country/my life it is.
I am intrigued that you have four different command centers in your home. Can you do a video that expands on each of them in a little bit more detail and how the difference between all of them helps you? I am loving this idea of these various command centers for different purposes. As usual, you rocked it!
Cas, I just took your Clutterbug test again. I am now a BEE! Last time I was a 🦋. .. WHAT? I also just two days ago labeled myself a hoarder of a certain degree bc I literally have stuff Everywhere. I don't need another label. The ADD, OCD, BiPolar, and Complex PTSD are crippling me mentally. I am on disability for a host of debilitating physical issues. Five times I have lost almost everything I own. (Which is a big part of the problem.) I was also bullied, so I found comfort in my stuff at an early age. Both of my parents are crickets, I think. So they had a Lot of stuff, but it was organized and the house was clean. I am a self-proclaimed wanna-be perfectionist. But decision-making and nowhere to put anything in this old house with few closets is a constant problem. 🙄 Any ideas (after getting rid of a lot of stuff)? Letting go of anything is difficult, 😕 especially since I have an eye for imagining that even a piece of trash can be used in a craft to make something! Oh! I just love empty containers! How could I return anything without a host of leftover Amazon boxes? (Returning mistakes rarely happens; procrastinator is my middle name.) So, I will close by mentioning that I am desperately trying to stop my shopping addiction
Cass, I LOVE this video! Thanks so much! And, yes, I’ve definitely changed. I used to do some nutty things, like climb crazy places, jump off stuff, etc. Now just swinging makes me feel nauseous. Cartwheels-nope! Crazy thrill rides-uh-uh! Love your channel!
You are SUPER cool and I love your videos Cas! I am making command centres all over my house!!!! I totally identify with the whole being a free spirit before and being more 'sedate' now :-)))))))) It must be getting older I reckon. XX
I was that way at 19! Nothing scared me! I would try to walk from the River Walk in back to downtown San Antonio, TX, at night, by myself, to get back to where I was staying (my friends didn’t let me go alone). I would jump into freezing cold swimming pools in February and not care! At 21, I went hiking in the mountainous Ozarks with friends, slipped, and almost fell to my death (but my friends grabbed me and caught me before I rolled down the mountainside). No way I’d do any of that now! 😂 I’ve got two teenagers and a very emotional 9-year-old, so everyday is an adventure with them, LOL! I’m also realizing death is not my friend, and I’d like to live to see my grandkids, LOL!
Hahaha You "crack me up!" Yep, just turned 55 and all of a sudden my body doesn't want to cooperate! Like you, I was a thrill-seeker, daredevil maniac... not to mention ADHD all the way through! We went to Cedarpoint a while back and the rollercoasters that I love actually made my head feel like my brain was rattling around hitting my skull bones! Tremendous headache the entire day! Why doesn't anybody write books about this? AAAAAUUUGH, this is nothing like PMS back in the day. Love you and your wonderful insights! You inspire me to keep pressing on!
No Cass, it’s because you became a mom 😘 Happened to me too. I loved aventure, like… really crazy things in the amazonian jungle, i went with nothing, built a « house » with trees, ate animals i hunted. I ride horse too. Always pushing myself higher and harder. And then surprise! i had an amazing baby: risks were suddenly over, for example with my horse i was afraid of hurting myself (never before!!), because who could take care of my son if i was hurt? So… uncounsciously, it’s because you have to survive to care about your children. Yeap, natural instinct 😉
Lol, I totally relate to your stay to the end story. I feel like after 40 I lost my ability to ride fun rides, lol I get sooo dizzy! I did go on "The Scrambler " last night yr at the fair with my 11yr old and screamed/ laughed the whole time. Then when it went backwards I screamed hysterically. Lol I'm positive my 11 yr old didn't want to know me after that, lol!😂 I feel I've lost my adventurous side too, what's up?? Well you know, it's anxiety for me, besides dizziness. I struggle with anxiety issues even though I've tried to pretend I don't. It all came to a head recently with what I think was a panic attack. There's a RUclipsr that talks about how to work through anxiety, it's been helping a lot. But this mama for sure isn't going on no sideways, upside- down ride at the fair, lol! I'll just stick to the giant slide. 😁👍👍❤ Thx for sharing!
Thank you for this great video! ❤ I'm a cricket but I'm confused about being visual or not when it comes to my command center. I still wish it could be visual, but only for me. Especially for the calendar. For example, I need to see if I have a medical appointment but I don't necessarily want my visitors to know about it. So I never install a calendar because I don't know where to put it. Where do you guys install yours?
You are awesome! I don’t spend much time on social media (ADHD too!) as it overwhelms my brain BUT as I walked on my treadmill this a.m. I found you (need help getting my “ladybug” self together) Thanks for all the great content. Your fun, honest, real and adorable self is much appreciated. ❤
I am so glad I found your video right before I organize my office. I think I am a hybrid of a ladybug and cricket. Your ending really resonated with me. I used to be more fearless and do things on my own. Now when I think of taking a trip to a place I haven’t been before, I want to join a tour group. I thought I was going insane but your story helped me to feel better. Thank you!
Here is where I purchased everything:
Bee Command Center- Everything is from Michaels
Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store
Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store
Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store
Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
BACKPACKING STORY!
BACKPACKING STORY! 😂❤️
Such a pity you're not in South Africa...
Thank you!!🙌New subscriber here and its Back to School time! I have been watching command center idea videos after video!!! I'm a homeschool mama and wanted to really create a better system this year for the family of 4 !! Thank you for ALL of the wonderful visuals and unique ideas. I Very much liked the breakdown of command center personality traits!!! Believe it or not you are 💯 percent correct, you can never have too many different hubs. I have a few spread out through out the house and was trying to figure out how to bring them together into one space but you are correct!! It doesn't matter as long as it's working!!!
I just found this channel. I have ADHD, and paper organization is very difficult for me, have a hard time deciding what to keep, what to toss.
Also have Asperger's so I have an excessive desire to be organized. I'm always struggling to be more tidy and fight clutter (too many receipts! Years of tax returns I might need!) A major priority to me is my good credit rating, paying bills on time, avoiding all late fees for everything, dealing immediately with overcharges and poor customer service; my adult children call me a "bulldog."
Since I've had several occasions where I needed a receipt I just threw out on a "declutter day" I hesitate to throw receipts for anything.
I'm drowning in all this and family pictures too. Help!
Thanks!!! Do you have a link to the exact items?
Cas, we are going to need the story about living in a tent for 2 years. I've been following you for years and this is news to me :D
Yes!!!! I never heard her talk about this!
Yes, we need the tent story! 😮
Yes! I need this info ❤️
I'm gonna need a full video on that thank you 😊
Yes!!!!
you seriously inspire me! I wish I could execute all the ideas I get from watching your videos 😅
Super video, Cas! I love the detail about *why* the different solutions will work for different organizing types. And your "stay to the end" portion always makes me laugh and brightens my day. I think you changed because you're a mom, btw. You gotta stay safe to take care of your kids! :)
Love this video. Now come to my house and set mine up please...lol. I can relate with you about Rollercoasters. About 10 years ago our then 2 teen boys and husband went to a theme park and rode the Intimidator coaster. I thought I was going to die!! I came to the realization that Rollercoasters after 40 are not fun anymore. After that ride was the scrambler. That is not fun anymore either. So nerve racking....
Kids come first!
Yes, I too was adventurous. I'd ride on the bow of our boat on lake Ontario. The bigger the swells, and dips the more I hooped and yelled,...but then I became a mom. The first time I went out on the boat I was a wreck, couldn't wait to get to shore. Instincts to survive to care for your little ones! Normal.
Yeah I'm the same way. I think it's just how we're designed for survival. We're more adventurous when we're young & supposed to be finding a mate & then we get older & our bodies slow us down as we age, but we also become protective mama bears constantly griping at our adventurous kids to be safer. 🤣 It's just the cycle of life, I guess.
Butterfly for me
But I like all of these ideas ❤❤
I have also gone from an adventurous free spirit to a homebody! Getting older, having kids, and anxiety all play a role. I don't need to ride a roller coaster when my emotions are a roller coaster every day!
Lol!
HEAR! HEAR! SO true for me!
I had mine on a wall above a buffet table in the kitchen. It worked perfect. I had a cork board with a calendar, hooks with each of the kids important papers, etc….But our a-hole cat started clawing at the cork board at night and ripping everything down and clawing up the board! So thinking it was because he must think it’s a scratching board for him, I switched to a magnet board which is a lot smaller and less functional for us…the cat still climbs up on the buffet and pulls the papers and magnets down! 😂 it’s funny, but it’s not! He must not like my attempt to organize.
The secret life of your pet😆
My cat did this to my cork board too
LOL a hole cat!! I used to have cat who did the goofiest things I have ever seen. We called him Pudden, but nick name was dum ''axe'' cat!!
Sounds like your cat is a ladybug and doesn't want to see it😉
Lol!
Your cool in my book! Thanks for the command center ideas. I tend to be a Ladybug/Cricket. I have an office make over planned soon and this has helped a lot.
Wonderful!
I can relate to the amusement park rides. I loved roller coasters! And then my 40 hit and that amazing thrilling feeling I got when I was younger riding a coaster, is now pure I'm going to die and this is not fun feeling. It only got worse as I got older. Something in your brain changes. I don't know what it is but boy do I miss the old days and riding the lastest coasters to come to Kings Island or Cedar Point. I'm a little bit of everything when it comes to command centers. Some work well and some are works in progress. Good video.
Thanks!
Thanks so much for these tips! We are severely downsizing and I will have to find a new place to keep my bills and todos and tofiles. I think the way for me will be to live in the new space for a while and see where my new "command center" wants to be. Then I can watch this video again and set it up!☺
Smart thinking!
You're welcome!
We used to camp about every weekend or for weeks at a time in all weather (think tents in blizzards and frozen over porta-potties to locations so hot we had to melt ice in a horse trough to cool off.) I made feasts for 50 from a camp stove and grill and I think I had more camping gear than I had regular bedding. But now, I'm like my brother-in-law who says roughing it is when room service is late. I put it in the same category as when I realized I didn't really have to eat chitlins or escargots to be an adventurous eater. Wisdom comes with age.
Thanks for sharing!
I think it's also important to remember that your command center can change! You can move it around, add, subtract, create, delete, etc. It will grow and change as your life grows and changes. But this video is terrific and will tell you everything to do. It's also a great idea to create command centers next to each child's study desk and file cabinet. Kids need command centers too and it will get them introduced to organizing their lives. You can work with them regularly to teach them how to use it, how to organize, file, and incorporate their command center into their own lives. Starting in fifth grade, a command center for each student's study desk area will help them to feel "This is my own space where I can study and work well." Check with them too to see if it's working or how they need it to change. Comfy desk chair? Comfy curl-up-and-read chair? Enough light? Enough storage space? Enough desk top area or do they need more? Your child grows! And what is enough at eleven will need to get bigger as they do too! What new ideas do they have? Go shopping with your child and help them to choose what they want to be in their own command center, to make it cute, inviting, and their own special space. "Bring up a child in the way s/he should go, and when s/he is grown, s/he will not depart from it!" Cass, this is an idea for another video: Your child's space needs to grow up with them! They are students with computers! Do they have a study area/office in their own rooms sufficient for their growing study needs? When they grow, it's time to let go of baby things!
You’ve become perfect. A healthy fear is ok to have. The pink all around you & the house look fabulous together. Some of the best tips are when you show the optional ways of organizing - like you did today. Very good presentation-but implementation is the key for us viewers
Glad you enjoyed it!
Nobody's perfect but she's pretty darn close 🥰. The thing with Cas that I love is she's not afraid to be vulnerable and show her flaws. She is relatable and due to all this what she shows us is utterly doable, some done Pinterest perfect thing out of our reach.
I agree. Love all you do Cas, but especially the comparison videos. Thanks! ~ Jo Anne
Cas, I am so so grateful for your final story. Just yesterday I was thinking about all the incredible things I used to do. And now I’m a nerd. I’m glad we have a club.
For sure!
I love it when you show the different styles. It is much more helpful than the tests. Thank you! 👏👏👏
You're welcome!
Most organizers only show one way and it’s their way! I love that cass will show all ways so when mom (bee) with 3 kids ( bee, ladybug, and a minimalist ladybug)! So we have a house full of stuff, but it is slowly getting there!
You look awesome!! I haven't watched in awhile and made some time to come back and check out videos and you look great.
I have ramdon organizing systems like everywhere - I've been wanting to fix up my kitchen command center, and I'm realizing I once was a cricket but am now more butterfly, and the cricket ways of old aren't suiting me anymore. Lots of good ideas here on how to make it work. Thanks!!
You're welcome!
Great tips, I agree I used to love all the amusement park rides but I was terrified when I hit my 40's lol. The photos of me screaming in utter fear are so funny when I look back at them. I think we often have kids and then start to worry and see things differently that when we were young and carefree.
So true!
Your cool factor just shot WAAY UP learning that you backpacked for two years! What a phenomenal experience! What happened is you had kids!
Probably true.
@@Clutterbug I don't know... I don't have kids and I've experienced the same thing! I used to be so fearless and a thrill-seeker (and also lived out of a backpack for a year!) and now I dread having to go to the grocery store. WHAT HAPPENEDDDD. I attribute it to entering my thirties 😅 but maybe the pandemic had something to do with it too?
I have lost my nerve too as I get older (68). I rode horses and jumped 5 foot fences, owned three in my younger life. I used to scuba dive regularly. Now I don't dare drive in bad weather if I can help it. Even less confident now post covid when we were all held up in our homes. I miss the old me.
I so get that.
You are amazing. You put into words how our home environment critically impacts how we function and feel. You can articulate beautifully what most people can't. You have helped my family transform our life in your humble and humorous way. Thank you!!
Yes!
Tent story please! Thats awesome!
:)
At 78 I still like adventures, but mine are a lot tamer now (and have been for quite awhile). No more jumping from high places... or sleeping on the hard ground... or hiking without a hiking pole in each hand... or doing anything that might wreck my back any more than I've already done! I also remember the first time I got really nervous about flying. It was the first time I flew with an infant. Suddenly, getting into a metal tube speeding at 100s of miles per hour far above the earth seemed like an insane thing to do especially with an innocent baby!
Thanks for sharing!
Yes, I need this!! I have a command center, but I need to re-visit it. It helps a lot! Cass, don't worry I was never cool 😆, but in front of my Gen Z family members I am the coolest. I always go in the kids Rollercoaster, it's called self preservation. You're cool! ❤️
Glad I could help!
This was great
You grew up Cass! Nerds live longer. 😉 🤓 😂
Lol
not sure if it's cause i live in iceland or if it's just me but I don't have anything like this, all my bills are paid through my banks app, there are no coupons in iceland :') I have no contracts or stuff I need to sign, my boys are young but they just have a folder in the school bags where stuff goes and I sign and put it back there but most stuff goes through emails here as well. art work just goes either to the recycling or back in their drawing basket if they want to keep it and I have a secret folder where I move really special projects into and write their name and date. my calendar for work and apt. is in my phone google cal, me and hubby have a grocery list app we can both add stuff to so I don't really see what I'd use this for although it does look really pretty I just feel like my stuff would just build up there instead of getting dealt with right away :')
Thanks for sharing!
I can absolutely relate to the adventurous youth that has disappeared! I also used to do crazy stuff and now I am a play-it-safe person. I think it's partly age and possibly parenthood. The fact that there are people who depend on us to be around for a while. 😁 Love you, Cas! ❤️
Brilliant ideas, Cass! ❤️
Thanks so much! 😊
Coupons I know or think I will use go directly into a specific spot in my wallet so I always have them with me when I’m shopping. I’ve also started making my shopping list in the notes on my phone so I don’t forget to grab the list on my way out, and when I run out of something I add it to the correct notes on my phone immediately. I always have one generic one for Groceries, one for Shopping (for non-grocery items such as clothing or home decor) and one under the name of the nearest larger city for items I can’t find locally. That last one is a great save because if I happen to be there for something else I can check to see if there’s anything I need to buy while I’m there. If I’m planning an IKEA run (the nearest one is 2 hours away) I create a list for all the items I want to look at, things I want to get ideas for, items I want to check interior dimensions on, etc. I also make notes about what the website says is and is not in stock before I leave. I was slow to give up paper and pencil, but I’ve LOVED always having my list with me!
I do the same with the coupons and phone list. I always have my phone with me, but not always paper and pen. If I thought of something while I am at work, I would write it on a piece of paper, never to be seen again. But if I can grab my phone and add it to the list right away....I know I will remember it. Also, I can put a star or something beside an item to remind me I have a coupon. Or I will put 'use points' to remind me that I have enough loyalty points for a store.
Thanks for sharing!
Where do You keep the list on your phone
@@suzyshoemaker7804 I have a notepad app. There are many free ones available. I keep it on my home screen so it is always easy to find.
You are cool Cas
Thanks!
Awesome video! Where did you get the wall organizing things with the whiteboards in the butterfly command center? I love those!!!
These are so expensive! Anyone find a more affordable option like this?
Perch system from The Container Store
Loved it. Thanks! The end was also fun to watch! Thank you!
You're welcome!
Loved these great tips! 20 yrs ago I loved roller coasters and my new hubby hated them. After kids we switched! It would hurt my head and I was terrified. However, I just went to DLand and did fine on Space Mtn. I think my health is better and my kid is almost an adult so instead of me protecting him, he's the one looking out for me!
Thanks for sharing!
@Janine...Smiling...Just caught your comment after sharing mine. You should see my comment above.
I can 100% relate to the I have no interest in that anymore kind of thing. I have decided that when I was younger I was trying all the new things...but once you try them they just aren't as exciting anymore. Like I used to never be home- always on the go- always onto the next thing and place. Now it's like "been there, done that, got the Tshirt"...I actually enjoy the peace of my life now. Wouldn't trade the experiences that I have had...but don't need to repeat them either.
Thanks for sharing!
I felt like I was hearing myself talk at the end of your video! I was always a thrill-seeker until I had my firstborn and developed health issues that prevent me from living that kind of life anymore. I think even with health issues aside, it happens when your hormones and body physically changes during pregnancy (ok, and maybe I'm just getting old ha). I used to be able to ride the Gravitron -- now I can barely spin my kid in circles before getting nauseous. 😅 Love your content, Cas! Off to work on my command center!
You've got this!
Lol! I love your videos
So glad!
i can relate. I am 67, and while I am still cool, I go down the stairs, slowly, holding on to the railing, so I don't fall. My knees are stiff, and I just have to slow down. It is age, but I still play my guitar, wear silly t-shirts, laugh and have fun, and I am the best grandma ever.
Love that!
You did not loose your cool. You just became a parent. To have responsibility for more than yourselv changes you. You suddenly realize that your kids will be lost without you and that takes a lot of adventure spirit out of it. And getting older does not help with joint and back pain🤪. Probably you will travel the world again, when your kids are grown up. But probably staying in nice luxuries places😁
:)
I really didn’t think a Command Center was needed for me as a single person. This video convinced me I did, especially as I age. Thanks Cas!
You're welcome!
Yes. Thank you!. I've been watching your videos for a few years and it's helped me make a lot of changes to keep on top of clutter... except paper clutter. That's my biggest struggle. Will be soon implementing ladybug style command center. 👍
My cousin told me that getting older makes you different for roller coasters at Disneyland. Definitely true!
For sure!
Love the doggie on the couch! I have also changed from an adventure addict to an adventure nerd. Having kids may be the reason!
I know, I got distracted by him. I thought I was the only one noticing him. 🐶
Probably
My theory is that as we get older, we become more aware of risks. You hear more horror stories, and have a few bad experiences, and realise you're not invincible after all.
Hey Laura! That's a great point.
Thanks again for joining me on a podcast. I really enjoyed talking with you!
@@Clutterbug I assure, the pleasure was all mine. Let's do it again sometime!
Where can I find the wall organizer for butterfly?
Perch system from The Container Store
Just want to say, I am 100% the same! I used to do all kinds of fun things, willing to go different places, explore and experience different things, but NOT anymore! I like staying home, especially if it’s raining. It’s like, I’m afraid I will melt 🤣 Just wanted you to know you’re not alone & I attribute to an age thing?!
Thanks for sharing!!
Thank you for this! Your tips & tricks are just awesome and very much appreciated.
** I've turned into the biggest baby when it comes to being scared. Just like you, I was a thrill seeker, although I've never hitchhiked across the country or lived in a tent for months on end, I was, however, the daredevil of the group.
Not. Any. More.
I get anxiety and have a panic attack just driving downhill.
There's something wrong with me 🤪
You're welcome!
Have you ever thought about helping out in the classroom setting? I bet there are plenty of teachers out there, like me, that would love to see the organization and set up of a functional classroom.
Awesome! Sharing this with my dear husband who discovered your wisdom via Hot Mess House. We need a command center in our family room. I am a bee/butterfly. He's a BEE.
Wonderful!
I was wondering the same thing myself recently. I used to go on the most tossy turny rides at the fair, but now if I am in a car too close after a meal, my stomach is unhappy.
Mentally I think once I had my son, I slightly lost the thrill seeker because I felt responsible for someone else. Now that he is an adult and I want to do risky/thrilling things again, my body won't let me.
Thanks for sharing!
Loved the video, but I want to hear about this two years in a tent!
Next time!
I LOVE seeing the different ideas! Thank you!
My favorite part of every video is "staying for the end." Thank you for being yourself and sharing your life with us.
You are so welcome!
I absolutely love you!!! Omg you speak my language!! Love the way you explain things! It all makes sense, clear descriptions , great quality video and great sound!! Woo hoo! You rock girly! Love your channel !! I’m going to binge all of them because I’m feeling more inspired than ever!! Woo hoo!
Love this video. I was a wild child. Then a sober adult, with responsibilities. Then my family grew up and I could rediscover the zany somebody I used to be, except maybe a little more tame. It's all about your season of life. Don't worry, when you least expect it, you will rediscover that desire to explore and experience new things.
Thanks for sharing!
Also I think risk-taking evolves. You started your own business & are in front of a camera. That is still radically wild-child ❤️❤️
Oh my gosh cass I’ve been waiting for this video because I need a command center but I was overwhelmed with the options ,also The file folder that you have in your kitchen where did you get it from!? , thanks for sharing as usual so much fun ideas to choose from 😍😍🥰
The magnet one on the side of the fridge is a Perch from The Container Store. I used to have a black accordion file box in my kitchen, that was from Indigo
@@Clutterbug thanks 😊 and I truly love you I mean it 😍
I can relate to your final story! I used to love thrill rides, etc. But as I’ve gotten older I think the wisdom and “regular” adventures of life has shown me that I don’t need those things to satisfy my soul❤️ I’m happy on a porch, drinking coffee, reading, talking with friends or watching your organization tips❤️ God is good and I’m satisfied with having those I love in my life. I suspect that’s where you are at too!
I am :)
Where did the butterfly command center caddy’s come from?
That's from the container store. Check her Instagram for more info
Perch system from The Container Store
I love how the other people in the photo of you screaming are just smiling 😂. And I totally relate, I understand now why my parents used to say they were too old to do something that was totally fun and awesome.
I'm so not cool.
@@Clutterbug that’s ok, neither am I 😆. We should start a club. ❤️
You're still cool! You've just organized it! 😂💓
I hope so!
Where or what’s the name of products that’s stick too your refrigerator? And wall.
Thank you😇 all you get tips
Here is where I purchased everything:
Bee Command Center - Everything is from Michaels
Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store
Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store
Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store
Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
@@Clutterbug oh thanks for responding back. I will have too check it out.
Have a blessed day. 💗
About losing your sense of adventure: you became a Mom!
Paper clutter is my biggest, messiest weakness! Command center coming soon! Thanks for the video!
You're welcome!
I think the "circular file" is the file that will best solve my paper clutter issues. One of the DT RUclipsrs hauled a laundry room sign with three clothes pins. I thought it said something like "lost socks seeking sole mate". Thought this might be something you want to look for next time you are at DT.
I have learned to stay away from amusement parks and can't ride the baby rides either. Somewhere along the way, I developed a fear of heights. I seem to remember enjoying the "Tilt-a-Whirl" when I was a kid. Tried it a few years ago and it felt like 3 minutes of "sheer torture". Don't know what happened but my amusement park days are over.
Thanks for sharing!
Okay any ideas, how I would do a visually family calender for kids ages 4-15. I need it to show when they have school, appointments activities ect but just can't figure a way to put it together
I get zero Mail or papers and use online calendars and to do lists but I love your channel so I watched the video anyways 😂
I could never do that. It would be nice not having the paper to file etc.
But I HAVE TO HAVE THE PAPER!
Thanks for watching!
I love your stories at the end! I understand, I know what happened, we got old and had kids and know we live through them! The reality of adulthood sucks! But I still live roller coasters, just can’t do anything that drops anymore !
:)
This is great reminder on how to organize my paperwork. Can we get a way to organize our craft rooms? I know you have done one before, just wanted an updated one maybe. Thanks, I love your videos.
Here are a couple:
ruclips.net/video/8bRkQ1XWkU8/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/Lc-k08R3Z-Y/видео.html
You didn't lose your cool, you've found your common sense!!! 😃😉🤣😍
Hopefully!
Loved this video! I have a few different command centre styles in my home as well! (Some you’ve featured! Hehe!) I never get tired of your videos!
My son is going to Canada’s Wonderland tomorrow and we were just talking yesterday about how I used to love going on all of the big roller coasters when I was younger, but I’ve become such a chicken in my old age. Lol I think when I became a mom, every brave bone in my body left and was replaced with a pack of nerves. I hope you enjoyed your time with your family anyway. I always love going for food! Haha! ♥️
I've been afraid to have more than one... Thought I was over-thinking / doing... glad to know I can do more than one!!
For sure!
Paper has to be decluttered often to be found. I have never found a vertical, box, drawer or horizontal system that works better than that. I learned one from minimal mom that helps, but isn't perfect either. I use three shelves that hold 8x10 paper or smaller. (Desk trays basically) The top shelf is for bills needing paid. The second shelf is for wait and see. The bottom shelf is put away. Still, for me, it is the decluttering it often that works. This system has been the best for me. I really like your wall idea, but to me, it would look pretty and I wouldn't want to file it in there. Love the white wall organizers. Perfect for college dorms!
Thanks for sharing!
That's aging! Welcome to getting older, or the scardy kat phase!! I'm 66 and I can tell you the things I did as a teenager scare the hell out of me now!! But it was a different time. I'm scared to get myself on the train to go to the doctor!! Thank you, Covid!! I just feel safe in my own apartment and shop online for everything!!
I feel that!
So I have a question...is it normal, or even possible, to unintentionally change the type of organizer you are? For example, I'm pretty sure I've always been a cricket...I hate seeing clutter and can't think or function when there are piles everywhere. When I would move (often, I have moved 30 times now) I set up files and stuff with lots of categories (yes, struggling perfectionist). However, the last few years, lots of change, lots of family stress and loss and health issues. Now I'm just at the point where maybe "I don't care" but I'm definitely not functioning and it really bothers me...messes and unfinished projects everywhere, still not completely unpacked or organized after over a year and half in this house, plus had to add all my mom's stuff to the pile when she passed at the same time we moved, but the thought of getting everything into a proper home is just overwhelming. Maybe I'm more of a ladybug now? I am liking the idea of bins behind doors to just chuck stuff into. Plus I just realized that husband is more of a bee or butterfly....he needs to see everything or he forgets, which drives me nuts and makes me shut down even more. He's taken over the kitchen and now does all the cooking (or we'd starve because I'm not doing it) and it's very stressful for me to try to help because everything is out on the counters and makes me crazy and nothing is where I would put it in the fridge or cabinets so trying to cook is not enjoyable at all for me. I'm not sure where to start or which system to try to set up now. I did show husband your 4 types of closets and he likes the clear bins and agreed (maybe under slight duress??) it would be okay to be behind doors IF they were all clearly labeled, so I've been looking but can't seem to find anything at a price I'm willing to pay that would work. I have been slowly working on decluttering, but other than that, any advice? And have you seen people change their organizing type before? Thank you...love your videos, especially the stories at the end!!
Yes, you can be a combination of bugs or change styles based on rooms, new home, or seasons of life.
I feel for you. What use to come soo easy seems impossible but you just keep plugging away.
Source for the organizers in the butterfly section of the video?
The container store
Perch system from The Container Store
YES!! I’m in the process of making a command center before I start school. Working full time and going to school (only 2 semesters left!!) I needed this must have!
You got this!
Yes, I've definitely noticed a difference in my love of thrill rides as I've gotten older. I still go on them but I'm much more anxious now.
Thanks for sharing!
Great tips and I LOVED your commentary at the end! I've always been a low-risk person (ever since my older brother took me out to the middle of a lake on an inner tube and purposely capsized it when I didn't yet know how to swim 🙄). Oh, and do tell us more about those 2 years you spent in a tent!
More and more I am deciding I am NOT a butterfly. I may be a ladybug. I loved that command center.
So glad!
Do you happen to remember where you got those gold hanging file folder holders from the first command center you showed? They’re really gorgeous!
Here is where I purchased everything:
Bee Command Center - Everything is from Michaels
Ladybug Command Center - The Container Store
Butterfly Command Center - Perch system from The Container Store
Cricket Command Center - Accordion box is from Indigo, plastic file box is from The Container Store
Kitchen Command Center - Menu planner, to do list, calendar and grocery list are all from Amazon
I consider myself to be a pretty outdoorsy person. I went on a hike with my friend a few years ago and got really nervous on this one path. There were dogs and babies on the path! I started taking anxiety medication around then. 😄
LOL!
Lol😂
I can completely relate! I blame my kids, lol. Everything changed when I got pregnant with my firstborn. I'm only brave when it comes to defending my kids (and now, my grandkids).
That is SOOO funny about rides. I was always into roller coasters and just all the twirl you around rides. Went to all 4 parks in FL recently, and after standing in the queue, chickened out when it was my family's time to get on Space Mountain. I think I heard the announcement one time too many about if you will be affected by sudden drops, lifts, bumps, jerks etc, this might not be the ride for you. I decided to listen to my feelings and declined to ride. Although the employee kinda had a smirk when he said, 'You're not going?' And showed me the exit, I watched as my senior citizen mom, sister, brother in law and two nieces happily got on. I just don't care for rides anymore that have the waist security bars. I'd feel more willing with the bars over my entire body, say for instance if anyone ever went on the Hulk ride. I definitely prefer low key rides now. :)
Interesting about hearing the announcement... I don't remember hearing it,but I went to CA DL. Maybe, like me, you'll do better again in the future. Hopefully you had a good time anyways!
@@beautifulhomemaking I had a fantastic time. Heat and all.
t/hanks for sharing!
who uses nowadays still a paper file for invoices and a chequebook for paying things, it's all an online thing now, at least in my country/my life it is.
You had kids. That is what happened to you. And you are more responsible. That is what happened to you. No worries.
I just recently found your channel and I absolutely love your outros I think that’s what they are called. This one has me cracking up!! 😂🤣
I am intrigued that you have four different command centers in your home. Can you do a video that expands on each of them in a little bit more detail and how the difference between all of them helps you? I am loving this idea of these various command centers for different purposes. As usual, you rocked it!
Well thanks!
Cas, I just took your Clutterbug test again. I am now a BEE! Last time I was a 🦋. .. WHAT?
I also just two days ago labeled myself a hoarder of a certain degree bc I literally have stuff Everywhere. I don't need another label.
The ADD, OCD, BiPolar, and Complex PTSD are crippling me mentally.
I am on disability for a host of debilitating physical issues.
Five times I have lost almost everything I own. (Which is a big part of the problem.)
I was also bullied, so I found comfort in my stuff at an early age.
Both of my parents are crickets, I think. So they had a Lot of stuff, but it was organized and the house was clean.
I am a self-proclaimed wanna-be perfectionist.
But decision-making and nowhere to put anything in this old house with few closets is a constant problem. 🙄
Any ideas (after getting rid of a lot of stuff)?
Letting go of anything is difficult, 😕 especially since I have an eye for imagining that even a piece of trash can be used in a craft to make something!
Oh! I just love empty containers!
How could I return anything without a host of leftover Amazon boxes? (Returning mistakes rarely happens; procrastinator is my middle name.)
So, I will close by mentioning that I am desperately trying to stop my shopping addiction
Cass, I LOVE this video! Thanks so much! And, yes, I’ve definitely changed. I used to do some nutty things, like climb crazy places, jump off stuff, etc. Now just swinging makes me feel nauseous. Cartwheels-nope! Crazy thrill rides-uh-uh! Love your channel!
You're so welcome!
You are SUPER cool and I love your videos Cas! I am making command centres all over my house!!!! I totally identify with the whole being a free spirit before and being more 'sedate' now :-)))))))) It must be getting older I reckon. XX
Morning Cass! Thanks for another great video! Blessings from Central Iowa 🇺🇸
You're welcome!
I was that way at 19! Nothing scared me! I would try to walk from the River Walk in back to downtown San Antonio, TX, at night, by myself, to get back to where I was staying (my friends didn’t let me go alone). I would jump into freezing cold swimming pools in February and not care! At 21, I went hiking in the mountainous Ozarks with friends, slipped, and almost fell to my death (but my friends grabbed me and caught me before I rolled down the mountainside). No way I’d do any of that now! 😂 I’ve got two teenagers and a very emotional 9-year-old, so everyday is an adventure with them, LOL! I’m also realizing death is not my friend, and I’d like to live to see my grandkids, LOL!
Hahaha You "crack me up!" Yep, just turned 55 and all of a sudden my body doesn't want to cooperate! Like you, I was a thrill-seeker, daredevil maniac... not to mention ADHD all the way through! We went to Cedarpoint a while back and the rollercoasters that I love actually made my head feel like my brain was rattling around hitting my skull bones! Tremendous headache the entire day! Why doesn't anybody write books about this? AAAAAUUUGH, this is nothing like PMS back in the day. Love you and your wonderful insights! You inspire me to keep pressing on!
No Cass, it’s because you became a mom 😘 Happened to me too. I loved aventure, like… really crazy things in the amazonian jungle, i went with nothing, built a « house » with trees, ate animals i hunted.
I ride horse too. Always pushing myself higher and harder.
And then surprise! i had an amazing baby: risks were suddenly over, for example with my horse i was afraid of hurting myself (never before!!), because who could take care of my son if i was hurt?
So… uncounsciously, it’s because you have to survive to care about your children. Yeap, natural instinct 😉
You are such a wonderful, uplifting and much needed source of motivation and inspiration. Many thanks!
Lol, I totally relate to your stay to the end story. I feel like after 40 I lost my ability to ride fun rides, lol I get sooo dizzy! I did go on "The Scrambler " last night yr at the fair with my 11yr old and screamed/ laughed the whole time. Then when it went backwards I screamed hysterically. Lol I'm positive my 11 yr old didn't want to know me after that, lol!😂 I feel I've lost my adventurous side too, what's up?? Well you know, it's anxiety for me, besides dizziness. I struggle with anxiety issues even though I've tried to pretend I don't. It all came to a head recently with what I think was a panic attack. There's a RUclipsr that talks about how to work through anxiety, it's been helping a lot. But this mama for sure isn't going on no sideways, upside- down ride at the fair, lol! I'll just stick to the giant slide. 😁👍👍❤ Thx for sharing!
Thank you for this great video! ❤
I'm a cricket but I'm confused about being visual or not when it comes to my command center. I still wish it could be visual, but only for me. Especially for the calendar. For example, I need to see if I have a medical appointment but I don't necessarily want my visitors to know about it. So I never install a calendar because I don't know where to put it. Where do you guys install yours?
You are awesome! I don’t spend much time on social media (ADHD too!) as it overwhelms my brain BUT as I walked on my treadmill this a.m. I found you (need help getting my “ladybug” self together) Thanks for all the great content. Your fun, honest, real and adorable self is much appreciated. ❤
I am so glad I found your video right before I organize my office. I think I am a hybrid of a ladybug and cricket. Your ending really resonated with me. I used to be more fearless and do things on my own. Now when I think of taking a trip to a place I haven’t been before, I want to join a tour group. I thought I was going insane but your story helped me to feel better. Thank you!
I think it comes with age that you realize the dangers things! Cass you're great love to watch you 🙏🙌💕💯
So glad!