You have described me to a Tea when it comes to clothes that don’t fit. Thank you for pointing out the other areas like protein powder. Piles of papers too. I have subscribed and I’m listening to you!
Dear Cass I am so thrilled about your speech. I’d love to see it. Btw you are great public speaker to us on you tube. You have made my life so much better. I just had surgery and I can tell my family where things are bc of YOU!❤
In the middle of last month, my husband of 7 years fell ill. The local urgent care told us that he had a cold and to go home and treat the symptoms. But colds don’t give you raging fever with chills and lethargy… so at the beginning of December we took him to the emergency room where he was diagnosed (almost too late) with sepsis. He spent 3 days in the ICU fighting for his life. A fight that he won!! So that is my gratitude for this year. That I get to end it with him whole and on the mend.
I will be 65 this year, and I distinctly remember about 20 years ago seeing the first signs of my face telling me that time marches on, and that it was trampling my face in the process. I tried everything in a jar and bottle that I could think of over the years to avoid having a face like a shar pei as I aged. I have been pretty darn successful. My most important face care recomendations: keep it clean, exfoliate gently and often, moisturize, moisturize, moisturize, wear a hat with a brim outside, and use natural sunscreen. I have lived all my life in Texas, and sun exposure is just gonna happen, so I embrace the freckles and unavoidable wrinkles and carry on. Yeehaa! I have also accepted and embraced a few cold hard facts about aging over recent years ... #1: Getting older is a blessing that is denied to many!!! Think about it! Getting older means we are still alive, and thereby have more opportunities than when we become un-alive. An aging face is a byproduct of not dying young, and I'm OK with that. #2: I have accepted that wrinkles are in a way akin to scars, and the scars vs. tatoos concept applies: Tatoos are interesting, but scars - and wrinkles - have much more interesting stories to tell! Wrinkles are the record of a lifetime of adventures and experiences. Some of those I cherish and some I regret, but learned from the mistakes so they were worthwhile. Every wrinkle is a record of a life lived! #3: My wrinkles became easier to bear, nay a badge of honor, when I became a Grandma. Being blessed with grandkiddos and becoming a "Marme", turned getting older into an absolute blessing and and joy I would not trade for anything❣️ Wrinkles schminkles, who cares! 😂
Please consider donating yarn and craft supplies to a local assisted living community or nursing home! The residents used my donated excess scrapbook paper, gel pens and stickers to make cards for their families!
Clutterbug, You tell yourself “you look like crap”. That’s what needs to go. YOU don’t look like crap. You are successfully teaching people how to get organized. You are smart, sweet and very witty….thought you should know. Just an objective observation from someone that appreciates you for who you are and do. Happy New Year and best wishes to you always.
I love the idea of calling certain things "bullies", because, then I can get rid of them. As a retired teacher, I would never tolerate any bullying at school, so why should I tolerate items bullying me?! Be gone bullies!
2023 has been a year with many positive changes. In February I did a gastric bypass surgery. I’ve lost 45 kg, my diabetes disappeared and my health improved. In August I married my “perfect match”. Later in August I got back to school. I’m 54 and starting a new career. I’m really proud of myself. I’m grateful. Wow! Love from Helena in Sweden ♥️
Yes, my hobby is collecting hobbies. So I have learned to buy only enough supplies to LEARN, but not overcommit. Because the second I figure out how to do it and complete a project, I'm on to the next thing!
@@ladygrndr9424 OMG, finally someone who understands! Thank you! The moment I realize I would be able to do something new on my own I don't even bother to do it, just move to a next challenge and repeat the process :D
Without any question, my very best most wonderful moment was the adoption of our two amazing grandchildren! Our daughter and SIL had been foster parents to the girls for over 5 years so I already felt like grandma. In October, it became official. They’re my only grandchildren. My heart is so full of love and joy ❤
Cas I just adore your wisdom, wit, and transparency. Between you, Dawn and Dana I have transitioned from a fear and anxiety riddled woman with a debilitating chronic illness, to someone able to embrace who I really am. I still have moments of “fantasy me” but I now appreciate those who have those abilities and skills and love who I am created to be. I have a wardrobe that cocoons my post menopausal shape, I’ve booted ALL the guilty/shame/ rejection stuff and toxic people, and you have been essential for helping me be a loving, tender human who has dropped the chains and is living FREE! THANK YOU💝🥰💖🙏🏻
On Dec. 16th my husband was sent from his cardiologist appointment to the hospital. 4 days later he had a stent put in where he had a 99% blockage. 3 days later we surprised my son with a trip to Universal Studios Orlando for his 13th birthday-our first trip there and we’ve never been to Disney. It was so special and we are so grateful that my husband listened to his body and found the blockage just in time!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I graduated with my Associate's of Applied Science Medical Assistant degree at the age of 48. I had so many obstacles while pursuing this degree but I finally finished.
My close Japanese friend died of colon cancer in February 2023. Several months earlier I designed and crocheted the Totoro family of toys for her to give to her 3 year old granddaughter. 2 months earlier I designed and made her daughter's Western/Japanese wedding gown. With the remaining fabric I made her a kimono 👘 to be viewed in prior to cremation. I could not prevent her death, but I could bring her joy during the final months. 😪🥰👍I miss her but was grateful I had skills to share that honored her life and family.
Grateful for making it through another year. I lost my husband in Feb 2022. Our time together (6 yrs) was short but packed with so much living and travelling. We went to lots of plays and concerts too. After a failed marriage of 25 years and being alone for 13 years I met my soulmate. I miss him terribly but the memories are there and wonderful.
I am 65 and am grateful that I was able to retire this year. I realize that not everyone’s financial situation will allow them to retire at that age so I don’t take it for granted.
To answer your last question- I welcomed my baby girl in June after 2 miscarriages in 2022. Our family is finally complete and I feel like I closed a chapter I no longer have to stress about😢 wishing you all a wonderful start to 2024
I became an unexpected grandma this year (daughter was told for a decade that she couldn’t have children). This is an enormous blessing and my granddaughter is amazing (they all are, I know). This has lead to many crises and a roller coaster ride but she is so worth it.
My major achievement for 2023 was joining the take your house back class and started my declutter journey. When my mom passed away in 2018 I ended up relocating and moved to a one bedroom apartment with both my stuff and my moms. I retired in March, then took a month off and traveled with my bff for a month. An amazing trip. When I got home had some issues with my shoulder so couldn’t do much for over a month. I have RA so mobility and long term standing were issues for me with trying to keep my space clean and the thought of starting to tackle the stacks of totes just really overwhelmed me. Then Cass said something the clicked. “FIVE MINUTES MATTERS!” What an eye opener. That day I set my timer for 5 minutes. I had the dishes done and the timer hadn’t even gone off…. Cleaned the stove and put away silverware. Timer went off and I thought “well just let me finish cleaning out the dish drainer. 😮. I was shocked by what I could accomplish. Now mind you I did need to grab a water and sit down… my back was killing me! Late that day I did it again!!! By the time the course came around I had all the “daily” things done so I could start on the totes. Trash bag, donate and keep boxes in hand I began to start in my “literal” WALL OF TOTES. Four wide and 4-5 high in some places. In those two days I had cleaned out 8 totes. Hauled out 6 garbage bags had 3 donate boxes and two keep! THANK YOU CASS!!! And the whole community. I am not finished yet but have continued. ❤❤❤
I got a better paying job. We were able to buy groceries for a disabled grandmother who had no food and had not eaten in 3 days. We paid off some lunch accounts at granddaughter school. Our blessings were the ability to help others
I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 40. I'm 49 now. I finally got the courage to do some online classes which terrified me because school was a nightmare for me. I spent 1/2 my middle school years in detention and my teachers told my mom I would never make it passed the 10th grade because I was so stupid. Well, guess what - I got A's. Unfortunately, I got COVID and was unable to complete my last 2 block courses which sucked, but I learned I am not stupid like I was always told. This was my big win for 2023! I love you Cas and your channel!
This makes me sad that teachers weren't clued in that not all people learn the exact same way and voiced such degrading opinions. I too deal with ADHD and maybe a hearing processing problem? But the truth of the matter is that we all can learn once we're given the right environment in which to learn. Well good on you!...You were always capable!
If you think your Mom won't know--think again!! Every Mother would watch her daughter,'s videos!!! Lol! I started a weight loss journey in May of 2033. I've lost 32lbs. I haven't tried to lose weight for 20 yrs, so I am proud of myself. I'm 74 yrs old and I have another 65 more pounds to go! It took me 40 yrs to put it on, so it's not going to come off overnight!! My goal is to lose 35 more pounds this year! 🤞🤞🍀🍀🙏🙏
One of my top moments of 2023 was finding out I was going to be blessed with two more grandchildren in 2024 and watching my first grandbaby grow and thrive and laugh all throughout 2023. Thank you so much for sharing this video. It was exactly what I needed.
Crying on stage is not shameful! It shows your vulnerability and makes your audience feel closer to you. You're a much better public speaker than you think ♥
Thank you so much for making me realize how much guilt I have. There are items in my house that cause me to feel bad when there really isn't any need. I too also had nasty tasting protein powder. I immediately got off my comfy couch, went to the kitchen, and dumped the protein powder in the garbage.
Hi Cass, I just want to let you know how much I enjoy your channel. You fill my cup with your humour and humility. The thing I am most proud of this year, is fulfilling my lifelong dream of graduating from university. At age 48 I returned to school and at age 52 I graduated with a degree in Social Work! Whoot whoot! Yup, I'm tooting my own horn!
I am grateful nobody I love died. Probably also because I lost 4 loved ones last year! Oh and you got 2 standing ovations because YOU are AWESOME of course!
I feel like gifts serve their purpose at the point they're given. My sister in law gave me an ornament and craft thing for Christmas. I've just donated them to a charity shop, but I feel happy knowing she cared to pick out something for me, to wrap it and send it. The gift served its purpose😊
I married a man who treats me in a way i never imagined i would be treated. We had a perfect wedding on a beach- just him and I and were married by his dad. We are building a house! As a stroke survivor moving to a ranch from three story townhouse is going to be a dream!!! Which also means decluttering so much. We had a low key chriatmas as far as spending was concerned and chose gift exchanges with friends vs buying something for each person and I am happier than i have been in years!!!!
Cass, every video of yours lifts me up with joy and more confidence. My gratitude for 2023: in June my spinal disease took me to the lowest point, I had to get a walker. I found a new pain doctor, I did the epidural shots, but after 20 years of dealing with DDD (degenerative disc disease) maintenance was no longer working. Following my new doctor’s advice, I persevered with eliminating certain things from my daily life. I’m happy to say, I don’t need the walker, I do use a cane, and I’m able to look at life as a blessing again.
I'm so grateful that I've had a health breakthrough after years of debilitating chronic illness! The Lord put just the right person in my life with the same issues and a random comment that made me consider something I'd never thought of before that really unlocked a huge part of my health problems!
Cas, I absolutely love and adore you! You have helped me purge SO much with your words of wisdom! I hear you as I'm clearing out! BUT, to hear you speak so badly of yourself, about your weight, your arms, your face, it breaks my heart because I don't see ANY of those things! You are a beautiful, bright, intelligent, and helpful woman that's out here trying, and succeeding, in helping so many others! Let me just say, now I know how it sounds when I bash myself, about my weight, my face, my arms, my ADHD and "laziness", and I've always heard people say, "Would you ever say the things you say about yourself to someone else"? No, I can assure you, neither one of us would!! Why do we do this to ourselves? We both sound incredibly insecure and we have to try and stop that!! You're amazing and I love all of your advice!! Happy 2024 Cas! ❤
We built a new house in a new neighborhood and my daughter and her family built right NEXT DOOR! Best thing ever! They have 3 boys so 3 of my grandsons live NEXT DOOR! Happiest thing for 2023 and beyond!
Celebrated 50th wedding anniversary. Big surprise when all 4 of our children came to help us celebrate, 2 from 100 miles away I. Colorado , 1 from northwest Washington , and one from Canada. It was a wonderful day. First time we had all been together in over 5 years. Lots of tears of joy. Thank you Cas for sharing your high points and your struggles. You are an awesome woman.
One of the things to let go are online subscriptions that renew annually and you only notice AFTER you get charged! Stop the annual renewal on the account!
Grateful for my dad going into remission and feeling well after battling cancer. It was difficult watching him go through chemo, but no he is in better shape than me 😂.
I quit my job and started an early childhood music studio in 2022. This year, a local park district found my website and asked if I'd teach classes for them. I start teaching one class a week for them in 2024!
My husband and I retired in 2023. So exciting. And what you said about family heirlooms - I’m 66 and my dad passed away 14 years ago and left his stuff with my stepmom. She’s been passing stuff on to me and I’m slowly getting rid of it. It’s not my style and I don’t have room to store it and nobody else wants it. I have a sibling who is a minimalist and one in prison, so I just donate or sell the stuff. I love blessing others. My own collectibles are in one display cabinet in my craft room and I enjoy looking at my things everyday. And my kids know they have permission to get rid of it all when I’m gone. Thanks, Cass, for all you do for me and everyone else who watches you. You are a blessing in my life and I appreciate you more than you can know. Here’s to a great 2024!
Grateful that I had the opportunity to go on a road trip through France again, though I'm still waiting for the speeding ticket. We went to visit Vincent van Gogh's grave at Auvers-sur-Oisne before spending two nights in Paris, and when I stood there on that really lovely cemetery I noticed that someone had left a crocheted sunflower in the ivy on his grave. People like this give me hope.
Retired designer here, recent empty nester, decided to start designing FOR MYSELF. I donated 50% of my supplies, only kept what I love, and I'm happily designing knitting projects again. I finished five projects recently, and I'm starting two more. Very excited. So excited that I am displaying all of my beautiful yarn in my family room in a display case, so I can see what I'm going to be using and design around what I already have. I can't wait.
Visually using beautiful yarns in a display case - great idea! Takes using what you already have to decorate your home to a whole new level. Thanks for the idea.
My best friend recovering from lung cancer. She was diagnosed in the spring, with a very short life expectancy. But miraculously immunotherapy shrunk her tumours to the point they disappeared and her rib, which they were eating away at actually is growing back! I am so grateful to have had a lot of time with her this past year, and to be able to look forward to more ahead with hope in my heart! Xx
How did you get into my house to make this! SERIOUSLY! All me….ALL ME. I’m going to make a change…not for New Year but FOR ME. Thank you. I needed this. Top moment for me…After 20 years as a trucker, I had a call to become a 911 dispatcher. It scared me as I don’t like change but I took all the test and even late in life, I scored a spot and I couldn’t be happier.
As of this upcoming Friday, I will be finished my debt-free journey. It was 3.5 years long and required more focus and discipline than I thought my ADHD brain could ever manage but it's (almost) finished and I'm over the moon about it.
Wow, I needed this today. I have more craft things that I want, but I have chronic pain and am not able to sit long enough to do it anymore. Gone! I have size 8 clothes and now wear a size 20...gone! So much to be gone! Thank you so much
Yep, this video us totally me. I have a lot of interests, polymer clay went the same way as Cass' polymer clay, into the trash bin. I did buy all the stuff you supposedly need to create with polymer clay, by this fall my clay had gone rock-hard, the softeners totally evaporated, so I tossed it all together with the tools and beautiful books explaining how you can create all the gorgeous art. Nope, I haven't, I can't, I never will. I'm hooked on other types of crafts, like paper cratfting, drawing and watercokor, knitting, crocheting, embroidery and beading. That are loads of interests. I'll need to make time for sleeping and eating (not stuffing my face with junk food) in between as well. I also have clothes that are too tight because my body expanded, and clothes that fit but (1) are not exactly my colors, (2) cannot be combined well among each other (even though I liked the color when I bought it, or worse, I could combine them but with clothes from a different season, like summer pants with winter T-shirts, pullovers, blouses, or vice versa, you get it). In 2023 I made it a rule (which I actually stick to) that I don't buy a clothing item, just because it catches my eye, the color and /or pattern are fabulous, it's a real bargain, I need to be able to know at least two other matching items I already own when I'm looking at it in the store. It can be tough, because that Item is sooooo cute... But cute or not, it will use real estate in my closet. BTW, to get at this level of decision making took me about three years to arrive at. I'm a kinda slow decision maker. The more frequently I apply my rule, he easier it gets. Cass, as always a video full of tips you can actually use. I can relate so much because I' struck with ADHD. Sending lots of love 🤩 {Edit} My greatest victory in 2023 was to declutter by books. The three large shelf units, each about a yard wide with five shelves in each, I freed up so much space by ridding myself of books collecting dust, that my previous fear of not having enough room to store all the things I really want, went up in a sprinkle of fairy dust. I do have enough space This was especially hard because my books were sort of "sacred" items. I did remember the situation when I bought them. Nonetheless, I freed up half the space in my shelving units. Remember the Pepto Bismol commercial decades ago? "Oh, what a relief it is!". So true.
This year I got back to being able to walk and started driving again after years of health issues! My husband and I went on a run together recently and it was so exciting. Thanks for your videos and for being you! I have watched so so much of your content and love it :) Thanks for sharing the message that we ARE good enough and improvements like decluttering aren't because we are losers. They are because we deserve a beautiful life. You are inspiring!
Loved this. It motivated me to get up, get out my sewing kit and mend a pillow that I have moved off/on my bed for the past 3 years - that had a small tear in the bottom. Every day - 2x a day I would touch this pillow and I had the fleeting thought that "I should sew that up", but I did not. Your comment about unfinished projects really hit home and was the needed motivation to get it done. Took all of 5 minutes to do it, but boy did it make me feel powerful and liberated. :) Thank you Cas. Hope 2024 is a wonderful year.
I totally get the thing about being at the point where you’re hyper-aware of aging. I’m older than you are, and I’ve been struggling with that for several years. But you, Cas, are beautiful! I’m not saying that in an “everyone is beautiful, in their own way” way, I truly think you’re beautiful! Just seeing your face cheers me up on crappy days, makes me feel like maybe I stand a chance of getting my sh- together and being okay. Your smile is amazing, your facial expressions are so cute and funny and ALIVE, your eyes are expressive, your hair is pretty, you’re great at choosing clothes that make you look stylish and pulled together (I feel like I look frumpy no matter what I do). Honestly, I would be totally happy to look in the mirror and see your face looking back, and if I was a guy I would wish you could be my wife. Your husband is lucky to have you, your kids are lucky, YOU are lucky, and we are lucky to get to spend time with you. I know it can be hard to believe sometimes, but you really are pretty, and my wish for you is that as you get older you can truly believe you’re only getting better, because it’s true. 🩷🩷🩷
This came up randomly due to my Organizational mission to decluttering. Every item you mentioned struck home and I had been dealing with. I stuck around to the end and when you said you were a key note speaker, my eyes 👀 popped open wide. Public Speaking is my ultimate fear. I was like Wow! Then when you said you cried…twice, I started tearing 😢up. I’m am so impressed and proud of you! You got one more standing ovation, coming from my house. You Are Awesome!!!! You have inspired me in more ways than I can express. I’ve subscribed and feel empowered. Thank You 🙏
I inherited my mom’s house and I all her stuff. When I don’t want something anymore , I put in on a family chat what I want to get rid of. Then when no one wants it they say get rid of it or whatever you want to do with. It saves the guilt and I have been given permission to do what I want.. Last night my granddaughter and decluttered half of my clothes! Now all my clothes fit in one closet. We are going to donate the stuff today!
In 2023, I finally admitted that the apartment I’m living in is bigger than I need. The size simply provides plenty of room to save/hoard so much STUFF! So I admitted this to myself and my daughter, found a new and smaller apartment - closer to my daughter (she has some disabilities and doesn’t drive the distance to where I’m currently living) and then admitted to a friend of my daughter that I would accept her offer of cleaning and moving assistance. We’re getting close! I pick up my new apartment keys in less than a month. I’m excited - and terrified - for my new life in a lovely, newly built apartment community, just five minutes from my daughter! She has promised to assist me in reducing my possessions further and holding me accountable to my new lifestyle in a lovely new place. Bring on 2024!
Standing ovation because you're awesome would be the correct answer. I'm getting up out of my chair now to declutter some of the items you suggested. I love your honesty. Top moment is that I retired in 2023 and don't regret it for a second!
My eldest daughter got married. Everyone had a great time at their wedding. It was great to see friends and family happily celebrating, especially the newlyweds 🎉
Uggh, you hit on so many things I am dealing with. As soon as I get off work tomorrow, I plan to use my holiday days off for getting rid of the old and start with a clean slate in the new year! No more will I let jeans, blouses, gadgets, ribbon, journals, lotions, nail polish, and home decor bully me. Goodbye clutter, hello peace. Plus, I am gearing up to chalk paint my dresser and night stand. I have incorporated my workout into my workday/weekend. I leave work, go to community center and walk 2 miles, then drive home. Cook dinner, clean and prep for next day then do weights before showering. It is part of my day and I don't feel like I'm lazy anymore. If it rains, no problem.....as long as I do 5 days of walking and every other day weights, I feel successful. I don't want to stress about a strict schedule. I'm more motivated when I feel like it's my choice, not my chore. Happy New Year! North Florida (near Tallahassee) needs you! I'd love to attend an event hosted by you.
Great list! Can't wait to go through my stuff and see what I can get rid of. The best thing that happened to me this year was that I finally moved out of my family's home and got my own place, a little late at 32, but better late than never lol my daughter and I have been living on our own for 6 months now and we love it 😊
2023 was full of love and family. In Dec 2022, my stepdaughter got married and my Hubby got to do the ceremony. 😢❤ They bought a home and now, they're welcoming baby girl #2 in February. Our family has expanded again and we're grateful for them all. ❤ (Fun fact- This is grandbaby #9 and only our second granddaughter.)
It’s your Mother, “How dare you not wear that itchy sweater I bought you”😂😂😂 This is the BEST declutter video I’ve seen yet. You sounded just like me every time I try to part with something I’m never going to wear, use or fix. This was fantastic and I am going to do some serious de-cluttering tomorrow instead of watching a thousand videos about doing it. Your video seriously has me motivated now to finally do it. ❤❤❤Thank You!😊
My husband had emergency heart bypass surgery in March and survived, which might not have been the case. He is fine now, so good that we were able to travel to Ireland, and also go to Disneyland with our Grandgirls. We are SO grateful and blessed. Love you so much Cass. I feel like you are a good friend. And you always make me laugh! Thank you so much for that! I am grateful for you and what you do!
The one thing I actually am good at (when it comes to getting rid of something) is putting things directly into the donation box if it's a gift I don't love.
Cas, I just made 48 on the 19th. I haven’t worn makeup in years and I find that has helped a lot for my face. The only thing that makes me look old as my husband says is my hair. It has just about gone completely grey and I’m ok with that. I started dying my hair in my early 20’s but I had already started going grey in my late teens. I stopped dying it cuz one it’s to damn expensive and second it was killing my hair. I realized a couple of years ago that I was ok with it going grey. I told myself I earned this grey cuz of all the good and the bad I have been through in the past 28 years of being a wife, mother (1 daughter) and now grandmother of 3. We as women need to stop treating our selves horrible as we age but celebrate it cuz we are still alive for the more important things in life.
Along those lines, I decluttered my Kindle or electronic books. I had some how to electronic books, that weighed on my mind with guilt just as much as a physical book would. It was a huge relief to permanently delete them.
Cas, this year I finished my master's in counselling psychology at 53 and on Jan 2nd I start my second career as a counsellor - specializing in neurodivergent clients, such as - you guessed it - those with ADHD!! Perhaps I'll see you at that conference some day :) Thanks for helping me to learn how to evaluate my possessions and let go of those which no longer serve me, without the guilt that I used to have. Thanks also for keeping it real and making us laugh!
I adopted a two year old English bulldog this year. I have wanted one since I was 15, I turned 40 a few days ago. I gave up on that dream a long time ago but in a crazy couple of days suddenly I had this dog who I wasn’t looking for and now is my best friend. Everyone says how strange it is because you could never tell she was adopted older that it’s like I raised her from a puppy and my daughter says it’s odd seeing me with her because I’ve never been much of a pet person (something else for mom to take care of) but with this dog I come alive lol and apparently so does the dog. They tell me she doesn’t do much until she hears my car pull in the driveway then she jumps up and waits at the door until someone checks to make sure I’m parked and they open the door so she can run out to greet me. This happens every day and it’s the best.
Grateful for getting mental health help this year (decluttering my mind) and painting and renovating rooms in my home to declutter bad memories. It’s feeling like a new home and giving me confidence. Also discovered that i needed to ask myself if I was keeping sentimental stuff because it was from the 80s or part of a collection. I realised the stuff wasn’t sentimental and am donating what I can. Happy New Year to all. Cass you’re beautiful inside and out no matter what the clothing label says.❤
I’m sure you deserved that standing ovation! 👏 👏 👏 I cried when my driving exam instructor yelled at me during the test and he was so visibly uncomfortable he said, “It’s ok! You passed!”
One of my favorite things about 2023 is that my dog, Gracie, and I qualified to compete at Nationals in agility and nosework. I’m so proud of her and so looking forward to having fun in 2024.
I can add something to the book category- unfinished books! I’m on a mission to collect these up from around the house and either finish them before I start any new books or donate them. They make me feel strangely guilty! Great video btw 😊
When I retired from teaching, I gifted other teachers with the vast majority of my stuff. It was hard to go into Hobby Lobby in August for several years because of the teacher supplies, because I wasn't getting my classroom ready.
I adopted a kitten! He's beautiful, and that lowkey loneliness is gone. I also ticked another item off my bucket list, when i had been considering cancelling the whole thing due to my health. I didn't have to cook or host Christmas this year, and it was just so relaxing! Those are my top 3.
In 2023 I watched many of your podcasts and am organizing my life slowly. My kitchen is 70% done and when my adult children visited for Christmas they noticed and affirmed me!!! Slow and steady wins the race!!
Watching your life started the year at overwhelm stage but now getting to stage in half of my rooms decluttered and other half accumulation. Your videos have helped me switch my Mindset and also paid 9 thousand debt off. ❤❤
Way to go on the speaking engagement!! Standing ovation for being awesome enough and human enough to cry on stage!! Almost everyone understands how hard it is to be vulnerable! See, the ovation can be for both! Thanks for sharing!!
In 2023, I lost a good 20 lbs. and started back to the gym intentionally. I am putting out kudo compliments to the people I directly work with in our monthly newsletter. I want to go through my house again this year to declutter more and have a better handle on things. My co-worker gifted me a book and I have started working on word search books. I'm trying to do less phone time and more gratitude time and things to keep my brain active. Congrats on your speaking engagement!!! I'd love to hear your story! (Fellow late in life ADHD diagnosis)
I discovered that I have adhd. At 55 this was a big moment. Such a relief. My husband is so understanding and finally gets me! He’s done lots of research to support me too! We also, after many years, finally laid new flooring in our lounge and hall..and we did it all ourselves! So proud of us. Our daughter who has ASD left school and it’s such a relief for her. She can be herself now and she is flourishing.
This year we adopted our dogs Sherlock and Watson! It's certainly been an adjustment but I love those silly pups so much. We also visited El Salvador, my husband's home country and had an amazing trip! I'm so grateful for these experiences and for the work I've done on myself. Cheers to an even more successful 2024!
The end of May, I moved 3,000 miles across the country, from Southern California to upstate New York! It was the best thing to happen in my life (after getting my little kitty boys [2]!); lots of decluttering happened during the packing period, but more has occurred while getting settled in our new home. My sister is just around the corner (we live in a 50+ community), and we communicate and visit each other multiple times a week. There’s so many fun activities and wonderful people living here, definitely Living My Best Life, now! (It’s taken a long while, I’ll be 68 next month. Definitely worth the wait!)
My husband and I celebrated our 40th anniversary in Hawaii! While there, our youngest daughter texted she’s pregnant. With twins! Some rough patches this year, but the good definitely made up for them.
I got my first 2 milk goats this year and have been providing nutritious, raw milk for my family. That coupled with the laying hens that we've had for the past few years makes me feel like I am finally living my dream!
I decluttered my closet and dresser and donated all the clothes that I thought I might fit into one day. You look wonderful and your arms are not flabby.
That google mail tip is priceless! My gratitude for 2023: I got a new job! Also I declutterred my house with your guidance via RUclips and your course! It made me clean out a basement either things that were in there 20 years!! You’re so motivating! Thank you! Happy 2024!
Those socks!!! Drove me crazy!! I started putting them in a mess bag when I wash them. Two go in, and two come out. Takes a few extra seconds when loading washer, but I find it worth it!
Omg I watched this 3 times! Every single thing you mentioned is so on point. Thanks for being brave enough to put it out there for what it is because many people are sensitive about hearing the truth. Okaaaayyy 👏🏾, let's get our decluttering on! ❤
You can download the free 24 items to declutter checklist here: clutterbug.me/products/24-items-to-declutter-before-2024
Thank you so much! I will declutter those things before 2024 too!
I’ve done that and will again…. It’s a great way to bring fun and joy to others.
You have described me to a Tea when it comes to clothes that don’t fit. Thank you for pointing out the other areas like protein powder. Piles of papers too. I have subscribed and I’m listening to you!
Dear Cass I am so thrilled about your speech. I’d love to see it. Btw you are great public speaker to us on you tube. You have made my life so much better. I just had surgery and I can tell my family where things are bc of YOU!❤
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In the middle of last month, my husband of 7 years fell ill. The local urgent care told us that he had a cold and to go home and treat the symptoms. But colds don’t give you raging fever with chills and lethargy… so at the beginning of December we took him to the emergency room where he was diagnosed (almost too late) with sepsis. He spent 3 days in the ICU fighting for his life. A fight that he won!! So that is my gratitude for this year. That I get to end it with him whole and on the mend.
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Bless your hearts, it sounds like he had Covid or flu. So glad he's feeling better & 🙏 for a healthy & happy year for you two!
I had septic shock Aug 2023….was in hospital for 9 days….took forever to recover from it. Still recovering some but way better than I was.
I will be 65 this year, and I distinctly remember about 20 years ago seeing the first signs of my face telling me that time marches on, and that it was trampling my face in the process. I tried everything in a jar and bottle that I could think of over the years to avoid having a face like a shar pei as I aged. I have been pretty darn successful. My most important face care recomendations: keep it clean, exfoliate gently and often, moisturize, moisturize, moisturize, wear a hat with a brim outside, and use natural sunscreen. I have lived all my life in Texas, and sun exposure is just gonna happen, so I embrace the freckles and unavoidable wrinkles and carry on. Yeehaa!
I have also accepted and embraced a few cold hard facts about aging over recent years ...
#1: Getting older is a blessing that is denied to many!!! Think about it! Getting older means we are still alive, and thereby have more opportunities than when we become un-alive. An aging face is a byproduct of not dying young, and I'm OK with that.
#2: I have accepted that wrinkles are in a way akin to scars, and the scars vs. tatoos concept applies: Tatoos are interesting, but scars - and wrinkles - have much more interesting stories to tell! Wrinkles are the record of a lifetime of adventures and experiences. Some of those I cherish and some I regret, but learned from the mistakes so they were worthwhile. Every wrinkle is a record of a life lived!
#3: My wrinkles became easier to bear, nay a badge of honor, when I became a Grandma. Being blessed with grandkiddos and becoming a "Marme", turned getting older into an absolute blessing and and joy I would not trade for anything❣️ Wrinkles schminkles, who cares! 😂
Please consider donating yarn and craft supplies to a local assisted living community or nursing home! The residents used my donated excess scrapbook paper, gel pens and stickers to make cards for their families!
She already does as she's said in other videos 😊
@@laurafprimMaybe this isn't a request to CASS so much as a request/reminder to those of us WATCHING.
Yes she has mentioned this in other videos
One of our longest, dearest friends has been battling cancer for a year. His last 2 scans have come back CLEAR!!! He's our miracle! 😊
That's so true
You DESERVE a standing ovation.
Clutterbug, You tell yourself “you look like crap”. That’s what needs to go. YOU don’t look like crap. You are successfully teaching people how to get organized. You are smart, sweet and very witty….thought you should know. Just an objective observation from someone that appreciates you for who you are and do. Happy New Year and best wishes to you always.
Totally agree!! Cas rocks ❤
This is a typical ADHDer’s mindset. My husband looks down on himself too which is quite frustrating because he’s really smart.
She was being sarcastic...
I agree, Cas you really are so beautiful. Honestly. And the great thing is, you are also beautiful on the inside!
Cassie, abusive self-talk needs to go. Right now! Out of the house.
I love the idea of calling certain things "bullies", because, then I can get rid of them. As a retired teacher, I would never tolerate any bullying at school, so why should I tolerate items bullying me?! Be gone bullies!
I love this! YES! Be gone bullies! ;)
2023 has been a year with many positive changes. In February I did a gastric bypass surgery. I’ve lost 45 kg, my diabetes disappeared and my health improved.
In August I married my “perfect match”. Later in August I got back to school. I’m 54 and starting a new career.
I’m really proud of myself. I’m grateful. Wow!
Love from Helena in Sweden ♥️
Wow, so awesome!! Congratulations!! 💕
You made me smile big time! You go!
Good for you, big kudos from Cali ❤
Grattis Helena! Kjenner ikke deg sånn personlig men gleder meg skikkelig at du har klart alt dette!🤗👏🏻
@@Imaan-h7z Tack!
Loved " buying craft supplies and being a crafter are two completely different hobbies". I laughed out loud. Love you, Cass. Keeping it real!
👀 🫣 same 🤣
Yes! I am definitely a person who loves buying craft supplies! The other category? Not so much!
This!
Yes, my hobby is collecting hobbies. So I have learned to buy only enough supplies to LEARN, but not overcommit. Because the second I figure out how to do it and complete a project, I'm on to the next thing!
@@ladygrndr9424 OMG, finally someone who understands! Thank you! The moment I realize I would be able to do something new on my own I don't even bother to do it, just move to a next challenge and repeat the process :D
Without any question, my very best most wonderful moment was the adoption of our two amazing grandchildren! Our daughter and SIL had been foster parents to the girls for over 5 years so I already felt like grandma. In October, it became official. They’re my only grandchildren. My heart is so full of love and joy ❤
Congratulations to your family! ❤
@@bernadetteswanson3304 Thank you!
Adoptee and adoptive mom here sending you all the ❤❤❤
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Awww this is so sweet. What a lovely grandma you must be ❤
Cas I just adore your wisdom, wit, and transparency. Between you, Dawn and Dana I have transitioned from a fear and anxiety riddled woman with a debilitating chronic illness, to someone able to embrace who I really am. I still have moments of “fantasy me” but I now appreciate those who have those abilities and skills and love who I am created to be. I have a wardrobe that cocoons my post menopausal shape, I’ve booted ALL the guilty/shame/ rejection stuff and toxic people, and you have been essential for helping me be a loving, tender human who has dropped the chains and is living FREE! THANK YOU💝🥰💖🙏🏻
Well done.
Love this! Thanks for sharing ❤
Thank you for being real and genuine with us. You are a blessing to everyone who watches you.
On Dec. 16th my husband was sent from his cardiologist appointment to the hospital. 4 days later he had a stent put in where he had a 99% blockage. 3 days later we surprised my son with a trip to Universal Studios Orlando for his 13th birthday-our first trip there and we’ve never been to Disney. It was so special and we are so grateful that my husband listened to his body and found the blockage just in time!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I graduated with my Associate's of Applied Science Medical Assistant degree at the age of 48. I had so many obstacles while pursuing this degree but I finally finished.
That is awesome! Congratulations!!!🎉🎈🎊
@@AviSLeigh Thank you so much!
My close Japanese friend died of colon cancer in February 2023. Several months earlier I designed and crocheted the Totoro family of toys for her to give to her 3 year old granddaughter. 2 months earlier I designed and made her daughter's Western/Japanese wedding gown. With the remaining fabric I made her a kimono 👘 to be viewed in prior to cremation. I could not prevent her death, but I could bring her joy during the final months. 😪🥰👍I miss her but was grateful I had skills to share that honored her life and family.
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Grateful for making it through another year. I lost my husband in Feb 2022. Our time together (6 yrs) was short but packed with so much living and travelling. We went to lots of plays and concerts too. After a failed marriage of 25 years and being alone for 13 years I met my soulmate. I miss him terribly but the memories are there and wonderful.
I am 65 and am grateful that I was able to retire this year. I realize that not everyone’s financial situation will allow them to retire at that age so I don’t take it for granted.
To answer your last question- I welcomed my baby girl in June after 2 miscarriages in 2022. Our family is finally complete and I feel like I closed a chapter I no longer have to stress about😢 wishing you all a wonderful start to 2024
WOW Im so sorry for your loss 🙏 and so glad you now have a beautiful and healthy baby to give all the love in the world 🥰
@@LeCherrySodaa thank you so much!
Aww, I'm so sorry for the 2 lost, sweetie....congratulations to you all on the arrival of your baby girl 💕
Wahooooooooo! What a year!
I became an unexpected grandma this year (daughter was told for a decade that she couldn’t have children). This is an enormous blessing and my granddaughter is amazing (they all are, I know). This has lead to many crises and a roller coaster ride but she is so worth it.
Aww, that is so awesome!! Congratulations Grandma!! 🥰
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Congratulations! Being a grandparent is a true blessing. Enjoy every moment with your granddaughter.
YAYYYYY!! I love hearing stories like this. CONGRATS TO YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My major achievement for 2023 was joining the take your house back class and started my declutter journey. When my mom passed away in 2018 I ended up relocating and moved to a one bedroom apartment with both my stuff and my moms. I retired in March, then took a month off and traveled with my bff for a month. An amazing trip. When I got home had some issues with my shoulder so couldn’t do much for over a month. I have RA so mobility and long term standing were issues for me with trying to keep my space clean and the thought of starting to tackle the stacks of totes just really overwhelmed me. Then Cass said something the clicked. “FIVE MINUTES MATTERS!” What an eye opener. That day I set my timer for 5 minutes. I had the dishes done and the timer hadn’t even gone off…. Cleaned the stove and put away silverware. Timer went off and I thought “well just let me finish cleaning out the dish drainer. 😮. I was shocked by what I could accomplish. Now mind you I did need to grab a water and sit down… my back was killing me! Late that day I did it again!!! By the time the course came around I had all the “daily” things done so I could start on the totes. Trash bag, donate and keep boxes in hand I began to start in my “literal” WALL OF TOTES. Four wide and 4-5 high in some places. In those two days I had cleaned out 8 totes. Hauled out 6 garbage bags had 3 donate boxes and two keep! THANK YOU CASS!!! And the whole community. I am not finished yet but have continued. ❤❤❤
Most encouraging. Thankyou.
Well done!
I got a better paying job. We were able to buy groceries for a disabled grandmother who had no food and had not eaten in 3 days. We paid off some lunch accounts at granddaughter school. Our blessings were the ability to help others
I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 40. I'm 49 now. I finally got the courage to do some online classes which terrified me because school was a nightmare for me. I spent 1/2 my middle school years in detention and my teachers told my mom I would never make it passed the 10th grade because I was so stupid. Well, guess what - I got A's. Unfortunately, I got COVID and was unable to complete my last 2 block courses which sucked, but I learned I am not stupid like I was always told. This was my big win for 2023! I love you Cas and your channel!
This makes me sad that teachers weren't clued in that not all people learn the exact same way and voiced such degrading opinions. I too deal with ADHD and maybe a hearing processing problem? But the truth of the matter is that we all can learn once we're given the right environment in which to learn. Well good on you!...You were always capable!
Congratulations, Tanya! Love this for you!! Be well, beautiful stranger.
If you think your Mom won't know--think again!! Every Mother would watch her daughter,'s videos!!! Lol!
I started a weight loss journey in May of 2033. I've lost 32lbs. I haven't tried to lose weight for 20 yrs, so I am proud of myself. I'm 74 yrs old and I have another 65 more pounds to go! It took me 40 yrs to put it on, so it's not going to come off overnight!! My goal is to lose 35 more pounds this year! 🤞🤞🍀🍀🙏🙏
I lost 30 pounds this year. I thought I was doomed to be diabetic. I’m thankful for this opportunity. 16:08
One of my top moments of 2023 was finding out I was going to be blessed with two more grandchildren in 2024 and watching my first grandbaby grow and thrive and laugh all throughout 2023.
Thank you so much for sharing this video. It was exactly what I needed.
I absolutely love how blunt you are! You use such good humor and are also good at speaking it how it is! Thank for this! 💗🙌😂
We were blessed in 2023, my daughter had her rainbow baby. We welcomed a beautiful, healthy baby girl. God is good!
Crying on stage is not shameful! It shows your vulnerability and makes your audience feel closer to you. You're a much better public speaker than you think ♥
Top moments, solo dates with each of my kids. Finishing my Master's degree in counselling and the privilege of clients trusting me.
Thank you so much for making me realize how much guilt I have. There are items in my house that cause me to feel bad when there really isn't any need. I too also had nasty tasting protein powder. I immediately got off my comfy couch, went to the kitchen, and dumped the protein powder in the garbage.
Hi Cass, I just want to let you know how much I enjoy your channel. You fill my cup with your humour and humility. The thing I am most proud of this year, is fulfilling my lifelong dream of graduating from university. At age 48 I returned to school and at age 52 I graduated with a degree in Social Work! Whoot whoot! Yup, I'm tooting my own horn!
Amazing!!! Congratulations. I'm beyond happy for you. I've always dreamed of going too, so I find this extra inspiring.
That's so AWESOME!! Congratulations!! 💕
Wow! That's not easy to do. You rock!
I am grateful nobody I love died. Probably also because I lost 4 loved ones last year! Oh and you got 2 standing ovations because YOU are AWESOME of course!
Our newest granddaughter was born this year. She has my name as one of her middle name, Letty Roselynn Alma Trumble.
I feel like gifts serve their purpose at the point they're given. My sister in law gave me an ornament and craft thing for Christmas. I've just donated them to a charity shop, but I feel happy knowing she cared to pick out something for me, to wrap it and send it. The gift served its purpose😊
It’s my 20th year teaching and I have my own identical twin daughters in my class this year. Not many schools would allow this and I am thankful.
I married a man who treats me in a way i never imagined i would be treated. We had a perfect wedding on a beach- just him and I and were married by his dad. We are building a house! As a stroke survivor moving to a ranch from three story townhouse is going to be a dream!!! Which also means decluttering so much. We had a low key chriatmas as far as spending was concerned and chose gift exchanges with friends vs buying something for each person and I am happier than i have been in years!!!!
Cass, every video of yours lifts me up with joy and more confidence. My gratitude for 2023: in June my spinal disease took me to the lowest point, I had to get a walker. I found a new pain doctor, I did the epidural shots, but after 20 years of dealing with DDD (degenerative disc disease) maintenance was no longer working. Following my new doctor’s advice, I persevered with eliminating certain things from my daily life. I’m happy to say, I don’t need the walker, I do use a cane, and I’m able to look at life as a blessing again.
I'm so grateful that I've had a health breakthrough after years of debilitating chronic illness! The Lord put just the right person in my life with the same issues and a random comment that made me consider something I'd never thought of before that really unlocked a huge part of my health problems!
Cas, I absolutely love and adore you! You have helped me purge SO much with your words of wisdom! I hear you as I'm clearing out! BUT, to hear you speak so badly of yourself, about your weight, your arms, your face, it breaks my heart because I don't see ANY of those things! You are a beautiful, bright, intelligent, and helpful woman that's out here trying, and succeeding, in helping so many others! Let me just say, now I know how it sounds when I bash myself, about my weight, my face, my arms, my ADHD and "laziness", and I've always heard people say, "Would you ever say the things you say about yourself to someone else"? No, I can assure you, neither one of us would!! Why do we do this to ourselves? We both sound incredibly insecure and we have to try and stop that!! You're amazing and I love all of your advice!! Happy 2024 Cas! ❤
We built a new house in a new neighborhood and my daughter and her family built right NEXT DOOR! Best thing ever! They have 3 boys so 3 of my grandsons live NEXT DOOR! Happiest thing for 2023 and beyond!
Celebrated 50th wedding anniversary. Big surprise when all 4 of our children came to help us celebrate, 2 from 100 miles away I. Colorado , 1 from northwest Washington , and one from Canada. It was a wonderful day. First time we had all been together in over 5 years. Lots of tears of joy. Thank you Cas for sharing your high points and your struggles. You are an awesome woman.
One of the things to let go are online subscriptions that renew annually and you only notice AFTER you get charged! Stop the annual renewal on the account!
Grateful for my dad going into remission and feeling well after battling cancer. It was difficult watching him go through chemo, but no he is in better shape than me 😂.
5 days ago I became a grandma at the age of 64, didn't think it was going to happen but so worth the wait. Next April I become a grandma again❤❤
I quit my job and started an early childhood music studio in 2022. This year, a local park district found my website and asked if I'd teach classes for them. I start teaching one class a week for them in 2024!
Both of my kids have diplomas (high school and associates) as of this December and I'm so grateful!
My husband and I retired in 2023. So exciting. And what you said about family heirlooms - I’m 66 and my dad passed away 14 years ago and left his stuff with my stepmom. She’s been passing stuff on to me and I’m slowly getting rid of it. It’s not my style and I don’t have room to store it and nobody else wants it. I have a sibling who is a minimalist and one in prison, so I just donate or sell the stuff. I love blessing others. My own collectibles are in one display cabinet in my craft room and I enjoy looking at my things everyday. And my kids know they have permission to get rid of it all when I’m gone. Thanks, Cass, for all you do for me and everyone else who watches you. You are a blessing in my life and I appreciate you more than you can know. Here’s to a great 2024!
Grateful that I had the opportunity to go on a road trip through France again, though I'm still waiting for the speeding ticket. We went to visit Vincent van Gogh's grave at Auvers-sur-Oisne before spending two nights in Paris, and when I stood there on that really lovely cemetery I noticed that someone had left a crocheted sunflower in the ivy on his grave. People like this give me hope.
Retired designer here, recent empty nester, decided to start designing FOR MYSELF.
I donated 50% of my supplies, only kept what I love, and I'm happily designing knitting projects again. I finished five projects recently, and I'm starting two more. Very excited. So excited that I am displaying all of my beautiful yarn in my family room in a display case, so I can see what I'm going to be using and design around what I already have. I can't wait.
Visually using beautiful yarns in a display case - great idea! Takes using what you already have to decorate your home to a whole new level. Thanks for the idea.
I'm using white shoe cubbies for the display. Wine racks will work, too
My best friend recovering from lung cancer. She was diagnosed in the spring, with a very short life expectancy. But miraculously immunotherapy shrunk her tumours to the point they disappeared and her rib, which they were eating away at actually is growing back! I am so grateful to have had a lot of time with her this past year, and to be able to look forward to more ahead with hope in my heart! Xx
How did you get into my house to make this! SERIOUSLY! All me….ALL ME. I’m going to make a change…not for New Year but FOR ME. Thank you. I needed this.
Top moment for me…After 20 years as a trucker, I had a call to become a 911 dispatcher. It scared me as I don’t like change but I took all the test and even late in life, I scored a spot and I couldn’t be happier.
As of this upcoming Friday, I will be finished my debt-free journey. It was 3.5 years long and required more focus and discipline than I thought my ADHD brain could ever manage but it's (almost) finished and I'm over the moon about it.
Wow, congratulations--very well done!!
I'm so happy for you!! What an incredible accomplishment!
That's fantastic! We're a few months away from being debt-free, too!
@@bernadetteswanson3304 Congrats!! It's not an easy accomplishment.
Wow, I needed this today. I have more craft things that I want, but I have chronic pain and am not able to sit long enough to do it anymore. Gone! I have size 8 clothes and now wear a size 20...gone! So much to be gone! Thank you so much
Yep, this video us totally me. I have a lot of interests, polymer clay went the same way as Cass' polymer clay, into the trash bin. I did buy all the stuff you supposedly need to create with polymer clay, by this fall my clay had gone rock-hard, the softeners totally evaporated, so I tossed it all together with the tools and beautiful books explaining how you can create all the gorgeous art. Nope, I haven't, I can't, I never will.
I'm hooked on other types of crafts, like paper cratfting, drawing and watercokor, knitting, crocheting, embroidery and beading. That are loads of interests. I'll need to make time for sleeping and eating (not stuffing my face with junk food) in between as well.
I also have clothes that are too tight because my body expanded, and clothes that fit but (1) are not exactly my colors, (2) cannot be combined well among each other (even though I liked the color when I bought it, or worse, I could combine them but with clothes from a different season, like summer pants with winter T-shirts, pullovers, blouses, or vice versa, you get it).
In 2023 I made it a rule (which I actually stick to) that I don't buy a clothing item, just because it catches my eye, the color and /or pattern are fabulous, it's a real bargain, I need to be able to know at least two other matching items I already own when I'm looking at it in the store. It can be tough, because that Item is sooooo cute... But cute or not, it will use real estate in my closet.
BTW, to get at this level of decision making took me about three years to arrive at. I'm a kinda slow decision maker.
The more frequently I apply my rule, he easier it gets.
Cass, as always a video full of tips you can actually use. I can relate so much because I' struck with ADHD. Sending lots of love 🤩
{Edit} My greatest victory in 2023 was to declutter by books. The three large shelf units, each about a yard wide with five shelves in each, I freed up so much space by ridding myself of books collecting dust, that my previous fear of not having enough room to store all the things I really want, went up in a sprinkle of fairy dust. I do have enough space This was especially hard because my books were sort of "sacred" items. I did remember the situation when I bought them. Nonetheless, I freed up half the space in my shelving units. Remember the Pepto Bismol commercial decades ago? "Oh, what a relief it is!". So true.
This year I got back to being able to walk and started driving again after years of health issues! My husband and I went on a run together recently and it was so exciting. Thanks for your videos and for being you! I have watched so so much of your content and love it :) Thanks for sharing the message that we ARE good enough and improvements like decluttering aren't because we are losers. They are because we deserve a beautiful life. You are inspiring!
😲Wow! Bravo!
Good for you! I am so happy that you were able to accomplish things we take for granted. Enjoy your beautiful life too.
Loved this. It motivated me to get up, get out my sewing kit and mend a pillow that I have moved off/on my bed for the past 3 years - that had a small tear in the bottom. Every day - 2x a day I would touch this pillow and I had the fleeting thought that "I should sew that up", but I did not. Your comment about unfinished projects really hit home and was the needed motivation to get it done. Took all of 5 minutes to do it, but boy did it make me feel powerful and liberated. :) Thank you Cas. Hope 2024 is a wonderful year.
I totally get the thing about being at the point where you’re hyper-aware of aging. I’m older than you are, and I’ve been struggling with that for several years. But you, Cas, are beautiful! I’m not saying that in an “everyone is beautiful, in their own way” way, I truly think you’re beautiful! Just seeing your face cheers me up on crappy days, makes me feel like maybe I stand a chance of getting my sh- together and being okay. Your smile is amazing, your facial expressions are so cute and funny and ALIVE, your eyes are expressive, your hair is pretty, you’re great at choosing clothes that make you look stylish and pulled together (I feel like I look frumpy no matter what I do). Honestly, I would be totally happy to look in the mirror and see your face looking back, and if I was a guy I would wish you could be my wife. Your husband is lucky to have you, your kids are lucky, YOU are lucky, and we are lucky to get to spend time with you. I know it can be hard to believe sometimes, but you really are pretty, and my wish for you is that as you get older you can truly believe you’re only getting better, because it’s true. 🩷🩷🩷
This came up randomly due to my Organizational mission to decluttering. Every item you mentioned struck home and I had been dealing with. I stuck around to the end and when you said you were a key note speaker, my eyes 👀 popped open wide. Public Speaking is my ultimate fear. I was like Wow! Then when you said you cried…twice, I started tearing 😢up. I’m am so impressed and proud of you! You got one more standing ovation, coming from my house. You Are Awesome!!!! You have inspired me in more ways than I can express. I’ve subscribed and feel empowered. Thank You 🙏
I’m grateful for every new day to begin again and the opportunity to make things better.
I inherited my mom’s house and I all her stuff. When I don’t want something anymore , I put in on a family chat what I want to get rid of. Then when no one wants it they say get rid of it or whatever you want to do with. It saves the guilt and I have been given permission to do what I want.. Last night my granddaughter and decluttered half of my clothes! Now all my clothes fit in one closet. We are going to donate the stuff today!
I’m 63 and finally I am a grandmother!! The birth was the highlight of 2023!!! Hope you have a great 2024!!🎉
In 2023, I finally admitted that the apartment I’m living in is bigger than I need. The size simply provides plenty of room to save/hoard so much STUFF! So I admitted this to myself and my daughter, found a new and smaller apartment - closer to my daughter (she has some disabilities and doesn’t drive the distance to where I’m currently living) and then admitted to a friend of my daughter that I would accept her offer of cleaning and moving assistance. We’re getting close! I pick up my new apartment keys in less than a month. I’m excited - and terrified - for my new life in a lovely, newly built apartment community, just five minutes from my daughter! She has promised to assist me in reducing my possessions further and holding me accountable to my new lifestyle in a lovely new place. Bring on 2024!
Standing ovation because you're awesome would be the correct answer. I'm getting up out of my chair now to declutter some of the items you suggested. I love your honesty. Top moment is that I retired in 2023 and don't regret it for a second!
Gratitude - I have been on a health journey and released 105 lbs (20 lbs to go)
My eldest daughter got married. Everyone had a great time at their wedding. It was great to see friends and family happily celebrating, especially the newlyweds 🎉
I’m super grateful that my son was added to the transplant list for a new kidney,
Congrats on your keynote speech, Cas! That's so awesome!! 🎉
Uggh, you hit on so many things I am dealing with. As soon as I get off work tomorrow, I plan to use my holiday days off for getting rid of the old and start with a clean slate in the new year! No more will I let jeans, blouses, gadgets, ribbon, journals, lotions, nail polish, and home decor bully me. Goodbye clutter, hello peace. Plus, I am gearing up to chalk paint my dresser and night stand. I have incorporated my workout into my workday/weekend. I leave work, go to community center and walk 2 miles, then drive home. Cook dinner, clean and prep for next day then do weights before showering. It is part of my day and I don't feel like I'm lazy anymore. If it rains, no problem.....as long as I do 5 days of walking and every other day weights, I feel successful. I don't want to stress about a strict schedule. I'm more motivated when I feel like it's my choice, not my chore. Happy New Year! North Florida (near Tallahassee) needs you! I'd love to attend an event hosted by you.
Great list! Can't wait to go through my stuff and see what I can get rid of. The best thing that happened to me this year was that I finally moved out of my family's home and got my own place, a little late at 32, but better late than never lol my daughter and I have been living on our own for 6 months now and we love it 😊
2023 was full of love and family. In Dec 2022, my stepdaughter got married and my Hubby got to do the ceremony. 😢❤ They bought a home and now, they're welcoming baby girl #2 in February. Our family has expanded again and we're grateful for them all. ❤
(Fun fact- This is grandbaby #9 and only our second granddaughter.)
It’s your Mother, “How dare you not wear that itchy sweater I bought you”😂😂😂 This is the BEST declutter video I’ve seen yet. You sounded just like me every time I try to part with something I’m never going to wear, use or fix. This was fantastic and I am going to do some serious de-cluttering tomorrow instead of watching a thousand videos about doing it. Your video seriously has me motivated now to finally do it. ❤❤❤Thank You!😊
You are so welcome!
My husband had emergency heart bypass surgery in March and survived, which might not have been the case. He is fine now, so good that we were able to travel to Ireland, and also go to Disneyland with our Grandgirls. We are SO grateful and blessed. Love you so much Cass. I feel like you are a good friend. And you always make me laugh! Thank you so much for that! I am grateful for you and what you do!
The one thing I actually am good at (when it comes to getting rid of something) is putting things directly into the donation box if it's a gift I don't love.
I keep a "to go" bag in my closet for stuff that's got to go!
Cas, I just made 48 on the 19th. I haven’t worn makeup in years and I find that has helped a lot for my face. The only thing that makes me look old as my husband says is my hair. It has just about gone completely grey and I’m ok with that. I started dying my hair in my early 20’s but I had already started going grey in my late teens. I stopped dying it cuz one it’s to damn expensive and second it was killing my hair. I realized a couple of years ago that I was ok with it going grey. I told myself I earned this grey cuz of all the good and the bad I have been through in the past 28 years of being a wife, mother (1 daughter) and now grandmother of 3. We as women need to stop treating our selves horrible as we age but celebrate it cuz we are still alive for the more important things in life.
Along those lines, I decluttered my Kindle or electronic books. I had some how to electronic books, that weighed on my mind with guilt just as much as a physical book would. It was a huge relief to permanently delete them.
Brilliant! Digital clutter is still clutter that we have to inventory. Time to make another pass through my files.
Cas, this year I finished my master's in counselling psychology at 53 and on Jan 2nd I start my second career as a counsellor - specializing in neurodivergent clients, such as - you guessed it - those with ADHD!! Perhaps I'll see you at that conference some day :) Thanks for helping me to learn how to evaluate my possessions and let go of those which no longer serve me, without the guilt that I used to have. Thanks also for keeping it real and making us laugh!
I adopted a two year old English bulldog this year. I have wanted one since I was 15, I turned 40 a few days ago. I gave up on that dream a long time ago but in a crazy couple of days suddenly I had this dog who I wasn’t looking for and now is my best friend. Everyone says how strange it is because you could never tell she was adopted older that it’s like I raised her from a puppy and my daughter says it’s odd seeing me with her because I’ve never been much of a pet person (something else for mom to take care of) but with this dog I come alive lol and apparently so does the dog. They tell me she doesn’t do much until she hears my car pull in the driveway then she jumps up and waits at the door until someone checks to make sure I’m parked and they open the door so she can run out to greet me. This happens every day and it’s the best.
Grateful for getting mental health help this year (decluttering my mind) and painting and renovating rooms in my home to declutter bad memories. It’s feeling like a new home and giving me confidence. Also discovered that i needed to ask myself if I was keeping sentimental stuff because it was from the 80s or part of a collection. I realised the stuff wasn’t sentimental and am donating what I can. Happy New Year to all. Cass you’re beautiful inside and out no matter what the clothing label says.❤
I’m sure you deserved that standing ovation! 👏 👏 👏
I cried when my driving exam instructor yelled at me during the test and he was so visibly uncomfortable he said, “It’s ok! You passed!”
One of my favorite things about 2023 is that my dog, Gracie, and I qualified to compete at Nationals in agility and nosework. I’m so proud of her and so looking forward to having fun in 2024.
I can add something to the book category- unfinished books! I’m on a mission to collect these up from around the house and either finish them before I start any new books or donate them. They make me feel strangely guilty! Great video btw 😊
When I retired from teaching, I gifted other teachers with the vast majority of my stuff. It was hard to go into Hobby Lobby in August for several years because of the teacher supplies, because I wasn't getting my classroom ready.
Cass, you are always so uplifting and wise! Thank you for this and all your videos!
I adopted a kitten! He's beautiful, and that lowkey loneliness is gone. I also ticked another item off my bucket list, when i had been considering cancelling the whole thing due to my health. I didn't have to cook or host Christmas this year, and it was just so relaxing! Those are my top 3.
In 2023 I watched many of your podcasts and am organizing my life slowly. My kitchen is 70% done and when my adult children visited for Christmas they noticed and affirmed me!!! Slow and steady wins the race!!
Watching your life started the year at overwhelm stage but now getting to stage in half of my rooms decluttered and other half accumulation. Your videos have helped me switch my Mindset and also paid 9 thousand debt off. ❤❤
Way to go on the speaking engagement!! Standing ovation for being awesome enough and human enough to cry on stage!! Almost everyone understands how hard it is to be vulnerable! See, the ovation can be for both! Thanks for sharing!!
Was inspired to clear out 10 years of emails... over 23,500!! 🙏
In 2023, I lost a good 20 lbs. and started back to the gym intentionally. I am putting out kudo compliments to the people I directly work with in our monthly newsletter. I want to go through my house again this year to declutter more and have a better handle on things. My co-worker gifted me a book and I have started working on word search books. I'm trying to do less phone time and more gratitude time and things to keep my brain active. Congrats on your speaking engagement!!! I'd love to hear your story! (Fellow late in life ADHD diagnosis)
I discovered that I have adhd. At 55 this was a big moment. Such a relief. My husband is so understanding and finally gets me! He’s done lots of research to support me too! We also, after many years, finally laid new flooring in our lounge and hall..and we did it all ourselves! So proud of us. Our daughter who has ASD left school and it’s such a relief for her. She can be herself now and she is flourishing.
Same here. 55 yrs old and newly diagnosed. I'm putting in the work and nt family had been amazing.
This year we adopted our dogs Sherlock and Watson! It's certainly been an adjustment but I love those silly pups so much. We also visited El Salvador, my husband's home country and had an amazing trip! I'm so grateful for these experiences and for the work I've done on myself. Cheers to an even more successful 2024!
My daughter delivered a healthy baby boy and I'm so grateful.
The end of May, I moved 3,000 miles across the country, from Southern California to upstate New York! It was the best thing to happen in my life (after getting my little kitty boys [2]!); lots of decluttering happened during the packing period, but more has occurred while getting settled in our new home.
My sister is just around the corner (we live in a 50+ community), and we communicate and visit each other multiple times a week. There’s so many fun activities and wonderful people living here, definitely Living My Best Life, now! (It’s taken a long while, I’ll be 68 next month. Definitely worth the wait!)
My husband and I celebrated our 40th anniversary in Hawaii! While there, our youngest daughter texted she’s pregnant. With twins! Some rough patches this year, but the good definitely made up for them.
I got my first 2 milk goats this year and have been providing nutritious, raw milk for my family. That coupled with the laying hens that we've had for the past few years makes me feel like I am finally living my dream!
I decluttered my closet and dresser and donated all the clothes that I thought I might fit into one day. You look wonderful and your arms are not flabby.
Yes to decluttering unfinished products and clothes that don’t make you feel good. Soo true. They really are like little “bullies” 😂
I use my old face creams on my stomach and elbows . So I don’t like them on my face Atleast my dry elbows do
The Google mail hack was my fave! So necessary! I need a digital detox just as much as tangible clutter.
That google mail tip is priceless! My gratitude for 2023: I got a new job! Also I declutterred my house with your guidance via RUclips and your course! It made me clean out a basement either things that were in there 20 years!! You’re so motivating! Thank you! Happy 2024!
Those socks!!! Drove me crazy!! I started putting them in a mess bag when I wash them. Two go in, and two come out. Takes a few extra seconds when loading washer, but I find it worth it!
Omg I watched this 3 times! Every single thing you mentioned is so on point. Thanks for being brave enough to put it out there for what it is because many people are sensitive about hearing the truth. Okaaaayyy 👏🏾, let's get our decluttering on! ❤