Lana, I found you months ago and I have found out so much about myself because of you!!! It’s all been positive and I just want to say thank you!!! Please keep on doing this because you are helping others!!!
Lara’s 6 Principles 1) find your ‘why’- get to know yourself, your values, and the ‘why’ factor that keeps you grounded to them. Keep asking yourself why this is important to you and how it affects other aspects of your life until you get a strong chain of values that drive you. 2)Start somewhere,anywhere. We can overthink and over plan everything, but to think through every possible scenario is impossible. Specially focus on starting what scares you. 3) Consistency - it’s a sign of your commitment to promises, both to yourself and others. It’s what makes you trustable enough to be held accountable. Show up everyday, if you don’t, it’s either because you are overcommitted, your ‘why’ isn’t strong enough, or you are impatient 4) Patience. Every moment is irreplaceable. Don’t get caught in the everlasting loop of living in the past/ future. This way your present will become the future, your future will become the present, and you will miss out in living the ‘now’, and when you look back you will regret now living it fully. 5) Accountable for your decisions. It’s much easier to live with your choices than if someone else decides it for you, even if everything goes downhill. 6) Comparing yourself to others. Healthy comparison that motivates you to do more, instead of unhealthy comparison that makes you feel disabled to do anything good. Focus on riding on your own journey to reach your goals, but once in a while look around to see what other people who have achieved similar goals have done to get motivated/ know where to improve yourself or make necessary changes in your approach.
"It is easier to live with the decisions that we have made for ourselves than those others have made it for us, even if it goes all downhill." I wish I had taken the decision to study the subject that I loved to in my engineering. Instead I pursued what my parents suggested based on their observations of the society. I wish I held onto the girl that I liked rather than listening to my Church which was against inter - religious marriages. Probably my why wasn't strong enough. Probably, I am too scared to take the decisions. Probably I should have taken the leap of faith rather than wait for all the answers. I need to learn to take responsibility for the decisions that I have taken and not blame it on others. In it lies my Salvation.
Hey !!! I can relate to you so much. I regret not taking decisions, just because my parents do not approve of it.What if something goes wrong. I would get blamed. But the funny/sad thing is that I get blamed either ways, even when I am moving in my parents approved path and anything goes wrong. I just might have suffered in my own chosen path. It's just the inability to take responsibility for my own decisions. Perhaps we really are in true sense alone in this world, and never look to anyone even for mental support
Thanks you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts,Lana.I am taking notes and here are the six Principles she said in a video 1] Finding your WHY 2] Start somewhere,anywhere 3] Consistency 4] Lack of patience 5] Owning your decisions 6] Comparing yourself to others
Watching your video feels like I'm sitting in front of a therapist. I think just some hours ago I was doing that unhealthy comparison thing. And now you're talking about it in your video. I can't tell you how much your videos are helping me to build a positive outlook on life. Thank you! And congratulations on your 100,000 subscribers. ❤
"Raise a hand" cracked me up. Everyone here is so positive. The one way I found that you can keep your promises to others and not yourself if when you love others but not yourself
LANA~~ You're videos are slowly but surely becoming somewhat of my nightly podcast ♡. Each day I could wind down and just listen to you! I wish you were on some kind of midnight radio I could turn on and be able to reflect with each night :3 Thank you and keep going!!
A principle I try to live by is to seek to be real; to be authentic. I hate fakers/hypocrisy. whether in myself or in others. I want to be the same person regardless of who I'm with. ♡
7:50 THIS IS SO IMPORTANT, like i acknowledge i've made mistakes in the past and i've grown and learned from them, it is so vital other people do too cause ive been friends with people who don't see their faults and refuse to change
Find a WHY, a PURPOSE, a REASON why you do the things you do. When we have a purpose we will always find strength to carry on, to find motivation and inspiration 💕 CONGRATS on reaching 100k !!! You are amazing Lana! Much Love !!!!
@@LanaBlakely clicked randomly. while see this person.. listening to her voice.. makes relax and sleepy.. and she was pretty good.. actually her facial expressions is like little kid... Positive vibes.. 🤞
A principle of mine - one that becomes more useful over time (for me): Building up, not down. Moving forward, not backward. If I'm ever unsure, angry in the heat of the moment, or thinking how I should go about something, anytime really, I try to come back to this principle. What could I do to build up, and how could I avoid moving backwards. An example of when to come to this principle could be: Having an argument with someone, but instead of picking them apart, focus on what they're doing well. If things are too heated to even think, you shouldn't be having such a discussion! Walk away for now. But if you can, focus on what (the somewhat negative thing they're doing) could be improved upon. Build them up. They're a great person, otherwise you wouldn't be spending time with. Life's already hard enough, we all would like those around us to build us up! Or getting home from work and not knowing how to spend the next 3 hours before bed. You could go to the gym, or you could watch TV. The gym is building up something, you and your life! With this said, I do believe in actively choosing to take time out to do very little. But there's a time and a place for that. I don't think I've given the best examples, but I'm sure you're (whoever's reading) is smart enough to find value in it, if you ruminate on the idea. You're trying to move forward in everything you do. I think sometimes we forget that (I know I do).
Hello, Lana. Just found your channel. I am from Indonesia and really enjoy your contents. My life principles are similar like you said, plus the journey of accepting myself as a truest human
Anxiety exists in all of us and sometimes it does trigger a lot of self doubt and judgment. I notice that whenever I try to set a goal and accomplish it, I put all my energy into it, but then end up feeling anxious or disappointed when I don't get a response or outcome that I hope to receive. It also doesn't help when we live in a world where constant changes occur so fast. People come and go. I constantly have to remind myself that if things turn out poorly, I just have to accept it and move on to the next opportunity rather than dwell on it. I like closure too, but I can't change the fact that other people may never give me closure. I am impatient, but slowly working on setting a good pace so I won't get too far ahead of myself. Thanks for sharing.
My guiding principles are: Humility (the foundation) Altruism Patience Virtue (doctrine of the mean) Thank you for producing your videos, they truly are a delight to watch :)
this video is a jewel. the structure of your why should be made up of reasons that derive from your core values , it's like a fortress that should hold you up when you try to understand yourself as you go through something in life
I think, if I apply what you say, I could become less of a nut. I'm going to get busy right now. I decided to compartment my time this evening starting with laundry. While it's going I will get the dishes going. Then i will be working in the yard. First thing i did was set an alarm to begin a breat from the internet. I set it for one hour. So here i go. Thank you Lana
I just watched your other video on how to get out of a rut! I did the personality test and feel a new level of personal understanding. I've found my why. I've rarely been out of bed for months now. I had to pause the video, shower, brush my teeth and start making my plan for my life immediately. Thank you for inspiring me to take action in my life. Your content is so valuable please keep it up!
I feel like the 'why' is still a motivation part to me, so it's a temporarily thing. The discipline that i taught myself is the reason i keep going. I used to sleep really late and always be late. I used never go to the gym and never read books. Now that i have taught myself more and more 'strict' rules about sleeping early etc, i get more things done than i used to do. A very informative and interesting video again Lana :)
WOW This video showed at the best time! I feel like I do not know what I am doing or knowing myself. It helped me understand just a tiny bit more of myself and I have to say that I am really grateful for coming across your channel. Thank you!
1. compare using driving car analogy (mirror and road). 2. listen to your inner voice. 3. learn to keep promises to yourself. (consistency/reliability / trustworthiness) 4. find why it is important to do that before starting something. 5. document what you do. Learn from it. You are likely to encounter it again. 6. Start. Don't waste time thinking or planning, if it's taking too long. 7. don't expect things to work out easily.
I really don't know ! I'm going through a slump phase right now ! I never searched about anything to overcome it. I'm just spacing out myself and trying to escape whatever I'm feeling right now ! But I really wanna thank RUclips for recommending a video from your channel and just like that I browsed inside and watched a few videos which has kind of sorted my thoughts in a clearer format ! I appreciate and adore your work so much ! Thank you Lana for being a friend to me when I thought I couldn't speak about it to anyone ... We of course do not know each other but I will remember you as my friend who helped me at some point in my life ! Thank you so much !
Enjoyed the talk and will listen again.. As you speak, I have all these thoughts swirling in my brain....many things resonate in particular the struggle in wondering whether I have been present enough with my loved ones. I have to live today as if it were my last. ♡
Hello Lana , I watch your videos quite often. Believe it or not I saw you in my dream today. I was sitting in a coffee shop and you approached me and sat with me . You talked to me for quite a bit and encouraged me to talk to people and approach them. Just so you know that I’m shy and I have social and approach anxiety. I will take your advice for consideration.🤗
Just a couple of principles I find extremely relevant in today's world. - Live selfish. You can't make anyone happy until you yourself are. - Goodness is in everyone. When you live selfishly and are thus doing things for yourself and are happy, you'll realize more opportunities to do things for others. They wont pass you by because you were too caught up in your own grief - Passion is overrated. Break it down. Respect the work and its place in the world and passion will follow.
My principles: #1 self discipline Then use this self discipline to: #2 face fear and push through boundaries and internal resistance Which will inevitably result in the need to: #3 withstand psychological/social backlash Which has an effect on the emotional system, causing the need to: #4 recover from rejection and energetic/emotional fatigue And just like working out, this recovery will build you back stronger than before, and then you can: #5 repeat this cycle and persist over the long run This will result in the slow and gradual strengthening of the emotional system so that you can face greater fears and push through greater boundaries. But in order to do this you must: #6 have fun and learn to enjoy the struggle
Hi from Russia! Firstly,I was interested in video about introverts and then I've subscribed. 😀You speak in so slowly,pleasant and unusual way! I can understand almost every word. And all your stories seems to go from your heart!💓Thank you so much! You're so brave, intellectual and intelligent person!)
Thank you very much, I've been watching your videos for a while, I'm 14 years old, I'm looking forward to discovering myself and my life, it for sure will be a long journey but its a great start for me since I'm still very young so I will try my best to start figuring stuff out.
I have exactly the same principles which you said, and I am surprised I eventually won a gold medal in the exam which I thought I would fail while writing it.I had the same principles but my WHY started fading away these days, may be as I moved with time I didn't change my WHY or it wasn't strong enough.Thank you for reminding me the things In an organized format .I can reboot myself now .and I have 1 more principle BELIEVE -if you want something believe In it or if it needs to believe in yourself .😊
I do agree with you, there is no guide that will work for every single person, but I do understand the basics of every different kinds of people. I know your kind which is a whole lot smarter than the average people. People are different, but once you are aware of all the different kind of people, you can see where you fit, I really don't fit anywhere, but I don't really care, because I don't need to fit. I have my own road and my own path. It is different than the average people. That works fine with me, it does not matter much. But when I meet someone, I analyse who they are, I adapt to the type they are. It is called social chameleon. I learned that I had this ability once I realized that I change my character a lot. I am also a build up of many different characters. But there is a part of me that is really me and no one every really has access to it, except when I am typing. But anyway, yes people are very different and not one guide will help everyone, but I do know all the guides to help people. People can ask me anything and I will know immediately what type they are and what they want. Obviously in a logical thinking way, not like some magician.
I dont usually comment on videos but this was absolutely brilliant and a huge amount of knowledge condensed into a very short video,I really like what you're doing here and I think its working for me.
im in process of getting out of depression, and u are helping me so much, no pressure, its just, your videos and advices suit me really good, thanks for it
Stumbling upon your channel is the best that happened to me during this phase of my life every day I watch one of your videos and it just makes me feel understood somehow idk thank you!
Awesome video. My creed is know thyself. This has been a life changer. It changed the way I interact with people and my environments. "When you change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change." The content never really changes only our perspective. Congrats and Godspeed.
Congratulations! Only 900k to go to the next one. If you keep the quality of the videos up to the current standard, then this will happen without a doubt. It would be nice to see more and more intelligent RUclipsrs above the 1 million mark.
Thank you @Lana... I just took the personality test; turns out I’m an INFJ!!! I’ve always felt I was though but is a relief to be sure. Thank you!!!!👌🏾✅
i feel lost honestly. i thought i had my path figured out but it feels like it would take hundreds of years to attain. granted, that mindset also comes from being surrounded by negative people.
Found this insightful. I am an INFJ and I'm interested in knowing more about your Myers-Briggs Personality Type. You come off as an INFP (please correct me if I'm wrong. Just to share as requested, I usually throw questions on a blank paper and answer them as honest and vulnerable as possible. I also try by all means to engage with people and just discover how other people think. I enjoy your videos!
I'd like to add a 7th one: 7) Spend time with people who are good for you. People who motivate you, inspire you and want the best for you. People you can connect with. And when you are in a dire situation, ponder which advice you would give one of your friends if they were in this situation you are in right now, how you would motivate them and comfort them. And then give this advice to yourself. (based on thoughts from "12 rules for life" by Peterson)
What you said about always being in the future moment touched my heart. Sometimes I feel like future possibilities affect on my present. It is such inside-out way of thinking.
So much good advice in this video. Trust your ability to figure it out more than getting everything right the first time. We can keep thinking forever and be stuck in analysis paralysis until we take action
Overthinking a potato is gonna stick with me forever hahaha that was a really good phrase to bring the point home... I’ve always struggled with starting new things either by not finishing them or not keeping my consistency and stopping before I really got started. You’ll never realize how good it is to write down these life values until you do sit down and really think about what’s meaningful in your life.
I just turned 16 and i think these principles are exactly what i need to put in my life🦋 These days, i forgot that i need to look forward for my future but now i don’t know what i even really want in my life.. I want to overcome this challenge of mine.. Thanks for making this video!♥️
Lana Blakely Thanks for the greeting!♥️ and Happy 100k subscribers to you also!💯💕I’m learning alot from you🙂 I’ll be always one of your great supporters😊 Wishing you more success and God bless..💜
Girl, you know you have a lot of qualities to be apriciated about, but If I start to talk about it the list wouldn't end. I'm in love with you not just because you are beautiful from outside but perfect from the inside😍
Thank you all for 100 000. Who's been here since early on?
You are beautiful. I think I'm in love :))
Me
🖐
Way before you became a 🌟
Lana, I found you months ago and I have found out so much about myself because of you!!! It’s all been positive and I just want to say thank you!!! Please keep on doing this because you are helping others!!!
@@hamidtaouili you are way too distracted! haha! 😁
Lara’s 6 Principles
1) find your ‘why’- get to know yourself, your values, and the ‘why’ factor that keeps you grounded to them. Keep asking yourself why this is important to you and how it affects other aspects of your life until you get a strong chain of values that drive you.
2)Start somewhere,anywhere. We can overthink and over plan everything, but to think through every possible scenario is impossible. Specially focus on starting what scares you.
3) Consistency - it’s a sign of your commitment to promises, both to yourself and others. It’s what makes you trustable enough to be held accountable. Show up everyday, if you don’t, it’s either because you are overcommitted, your ‘why’ isn’t strong enough, or you are impatient
4) Patience. Every moment is irreplaceable. Don’t get caught in the everlasting loop of living in the past/ future. This way your present will become the future, your future will become the present, and you will miss out in living the ‘now’, and when you look back you will regret now living it fully.
5) Accountable for your decisions. It’s much easier to live with your choices than if someone else decides it for you, even if everything goes downhill.
6) Comparing yourself to others. Healthy comparison that motivates you to do more, instead of unhealthy comparison that makes you feel disabled to do anything good. Focus on riding on your own journey to reach your goals, but once in a while look around to see what other people who have achieved similar goals have done to get motivated/ know where to improve yourself or make necessary changes in your approach.
Thank you for this, I am writing this in my notebook so that i can read it everyday when ever i find myself struggling
Lara? It's lana Bro.
I like what u said thank you.
I think 6 should be Learning from others instead of comparing.
Thanks. 🙏🏻
The world needs more people like you, Lana.
That's true
Word
The way you talk is so hypnotising
suraj hegde ikr!!!! was looking through the comments to see if anyone feels the same way😂
"It is easier to live with the decisions that we have made for ourselves than those others have made it for us, even if it goes all downhill." I wish I had taken the decision to study the subject that I loved to in my engineering. Instead I pursued what my parents suggested based on their observations of the society. I wish I held onto the girl that I liked rather than listening to my Church which was against inter - religious marriages. Probably my why wasn't strong enough. Probably, I am too scared to take the decisions. Probably I should have taken the leap of faith rather than wait for all the answers. I need to learn to take responsibility for the decisions that I have taken and not blame it on others. In it lies my Salvation.
joshua sundeep areyeee kya hua bhai
Hey !!! I can relate to you so much. I regret not taking decisions, just because my parents do not approve of it.What if something goes wrong. I would get blamed.
But the funny/sad thing is that I get blamed either ways, even when I am moving in my parents approved path and anything goes wrong.
I just might have suffered in my own chosen path.
It's just the inability to take responsibility for my own decisions. Perhaps we really are in true sense alone in this world, and never look to anyone even for mental support
Thanks you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts,Lana.I am taking notes and here are the six Principles she said in a video
1] Finding your WHY
2] Start somewhere,anywhere
3] Consistency
4] Lack of patience
5] Owning your decisions
6] Comparing yourself to others
Thanks a lot for summarizing
Watching your video feels like I'm sitting in front of a therapist. I think just some hours ago I was doing that unhealthy comparison thing. And now you're talking about it in your video. I can't tell you how much your videos are helping me to build a positive outlook on life. Thank you! And congratulations on your 100,000 subscribers. ❤
Glad to hear that Irin
Your voice is so calm...
Im in love with your eyebrows
Aren't we all 😍
This is one of the best channels on RUclips! It is very valuable and deep. Please keep making videos
10:34 - "My mind was in the future, and then the future became the present. And the present became the future once again."
Those who have a “why” can bare any “how”s
A *strong enough* "why", can bear *almost any* "how"
Nietzsche?
Neitzsche and Jordan Peterson 🤗
Friedrich Nietzsche :) and yeah Jordon Peterson quoted it ..
@@fredericksharon6908 your name haha..nice
"Raise a hand" cracked me up. Everyone here is so positive. The one way I found that you can keep your promises to others and not yourself if when you love others but not yourself
Your advice sounds so simple and straightforward yet it isn't a walk in the park. I love it so much. Thank you for your advice.
Thank you for watching :-)
LANA~~ You're videos are slowly but surely becoming somewhat of my nightly podcast ♡. Each day I could wind down and just listen to you! I wish you were on some kind of midnight radio I could turn on and be able to reflect with each night :3 Thank you and keep going!!
A principle I try to live by is to seek to be real; to be authentic. I hate fakers/hypocrisy. whether in myself or in others.
I want to be the same person regardless of who I'm with.
♡
7:50 THIS IS SO IMPORTANT, like i acknowledge i've made mistakes in the past and i've grown and learned from them, it is so vital other people do too cause ive been friends with people who don't see their faults and refuse to change
Find a WHY, a PURPOSE, a REASON why you do the things you do. When we have a purpose we will always find strength to carry on, to find motivation and inspiration 💕 CONGRATS on reaching 100k !!! You are amazing Lana! Much Love !!!!
Thank you so much Erika
@@LanaBlakely Much Love Lana!!!
My principles:
- Take it easy.
- Joyful.
- Inner peace
- Be myself
The 👑 is now has 900,000 more for a million. I was following this gem when she was barely at a few thousand.
Yes you were! :-)
@@LanaBlakely clicked randomly. while see this person.. listening to her voice.. makes relax and sleepy.. and she was pretty good.. actually her facial expressions is like little kid... Positive vibes.. 🤞
And you are so beautiful, your voice gives me chills
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A principle of mine - one that becomes more useful over time (for me):
Building up, not down. Moving forward, not backward.
If I'm ever unsure, angry in the heat of the moment, or thinking how I should go about something, anytime really, I try to come back to this principle. What could I do to build up, and how could I avoid moving backwards. An example of when to come to this principle could be: Having an argument with someone, but instead of picking them apart, focus on what they're doing well. If things are too heated to even think, you shouldn't be having such a discussion! Walk away for now. But if you can, focus on what (the somewhat negative thing they're doing) could be improved upon. Build them up. They're a great person, otherwise you wouldn't be spending time with. Life's already hard enough, we all would like those around us to build us up!
Or getting home from work and not knowing how to spend the next 3 hours before bed. You could go to the gym, or you could watch TV. The gym is building up something, you and your life! With this said, I do believe in actively choosing to take time out to do very little. But there's a time and a place for that.
I don't think I've given the best examples, but I'm sure you're (whoever's reading) is smart enough to find value in it, if you ruminate on the idea.
You're trying to move forward in everything you do. I think sometimes we forget that (I know I do).
Oh man these talks speak straight to the soul.. much love ..
Hello, Lana. Just found your channel. I am from Indonesia and really enjoy your contents. My life principles are similar like you said, plus the journey of accepting myself as a truest human
Anxiety exists in all of us and sometimes it does trigger a lot of self doubt and judgment. I notice that whenever I try to set a goal and accomplish it, I put all my energy into it, but then end up feeling anxious or disappointed when I don't get a response or outcome that I hope to receive. It also doesn't help when we live in a world where constant changes occur so fast. People come and go. I constantly have to remind myself that if things turn out poorly, I just have to accept it and move on to the next opportunity rather than dwell on it. I like closure too, but I can't change the fact that other people may never give me closure. I am impatient, but slowly working on setting a good pace so I won't get too far ahead of myself. Thanks for sharing.
I have seen many of your videos here but this is the best one yet. Period.
For someone still relatively young...you are incredibly insightful.
My guiding principles are:
Humility (the foundation)
Altruism
Patience
Virtue (doctrine of the mean)
Thank you for producing your videos, they truly are a delight to watch :)
this video is a jewel. the structure of your why should be made up of reasons that derive from your core values , it's like a fortress that should hold you up when you try to understand yourself as you go through something in life
I think, if I apply what you say, I could become less of a nut. I'm going to get busy right now. I decided to compartment my time this evening starting with laundry. While it's going I will get the dishes going. Then i will be working in the yard. First thing i did was set an alarm to begin a breat from the internet. I set it for one hour. So here i go. Thank you Lana
I like how you speak and pause it makes the listening is so smooth and sound like the angel.
Hi Lana, you’re honestly so beautiful inside and out. The effort you put in your videos combined your soothing voice are so inspiring.
I just watched your other video on how to get out of a rut! I did the personality test and feel a new level of personal understanding. I've found my why. I've rarely been out of bed for months now. I had to pause the video, shower, brush my teeth and start making my plan for my life immediately. Thank you for inspiring me to take action in my life. Your content is so valuable please keep it up!
Thank God I've found this channel(A couple of months ago) its such a hidden gem. (wish more people subscribed to you)
I feel like the 'why' is still a motivation part to me, so it's a temporarily thing. The discipline that i taught myself is the reason i keep going. I used to sleep really late and always be late. I used never go to the gym and never read books. Now that i have taught myself more and more 'strict' rules about sleeping early etc, i get more things done than i used to do. A very informative and interesting video again Lana :)
People like you Lana help light the world
Hi Lana. I hope you'll see this. I'm a big fan of yours from the Philippines. Thanks for being an inspiration!
CONGRATS!! That's a huge milestone, much love to you & the channel
Thanks so much!
WOW This video showed at the best time! I feel like I do not know what I am doing or knowing myself. It helped me understand just a tiny bit more of myself and I have to say that I am really grateful for coming across your channel. Thank you!
1. compare using driving car analogy (mirror and road).
2. listen to your inner voice.
3. learn to keep promises to yourself. (consistency/reliability / trustworthiness)
4. find why it is important to do that before starting something.
5. document what you do. Learn from it. You are likely to encounter it again.
6. Start. Don't waste time thinking or planning, if it's taking too long.
7. don't expect things to work out easily.
Your video is stunningly asthetic. I feel so relaxed by this beauty, thank you for your hard work and passion!
Thank you Rebecca :-)
I'm not mature enough to understand your philosophy, but still I don't know why, but I love to hear you talk.
how old are you
I really don't know ! I'm going through a slump phase right now ! I never searched about anything to overcome it. I'm just spacing out myself and trying to escape whatever I'm feeling right now ! But I really wanna thank RUclips for recommending a video from your channel and just like that I browsed inside and watched a few videos which has kind of sorted my thoughts in a clearer format ! I appreciate and adore your work so much ! Thank you Lana for being a friend to me when I thought I couldn't speak about it to anyone ... We of course do not know each other but I will remember you as my friend who helped me at some point in my life ! Thank you so much !
Enjoyed the talk and will listen again..
As you speak, I have all these thoughts swirling in my brain....many things resonate in particular the struggle in wondering whether I have been present enough with my loved ones.
I have to live today as if it were my last. ♡
Thanks for your comment Lina
Hello Lana , I watch your videos quite often. Believe it or not I saw you in my dream today. I was sitting in a coffee shop and you approached me and sat with me . You talked to me for quite a bit and encouraged me to talk to people and approach them. Just so you know that I’m shy and I have social and approach anxiety. I will take your advice for consideration.🤗
How come you don't have a book? Your videos are literal poetry from beginning to end.
Just a couple of principles I find extremely relevant in today's world.
- Live selfish. You can't make anyone happy until you yourself are.
- Goodness is in everyone. When you live selfishly and are thus doing things for yourself and are happy, you'll realize more opportunities to do things for others. They wont pass you by because you were too caught up in your own grief
- Passion is overrated. Break it down. Respect the work and its place in the world and passion will follow.
My principles:
#1 self discipline
Then use this self discipline to:
#2 face fear and push through boundaries and internal resistance
Which will inevitably result in the need to:
#3 withstand psychological/social backlash
Which has an effect on the emotional system, causing the need to:
#4 recover from rejection and energetic/emotional fatigue
And just like working out, this recovery will build you back stronger than before, and then you can:
#5 repeat this cycle and persist over the long run
This will result in the slow and gradual strengthening of the emotional system so that you can face greater fears and push through greater boundaries. But in order to do this you must:
#6 have fun and learn to enjoy the struggle
So good. Thanks for sharing Aaron!
@@LanaBlakely Your welcome, have a nice day (or night, I guess it's probably getting late in sweden)
Hi from Russia! Firstly,I was interested in video about introverts and then I've subscribed. 😀You speak in so slowly,pleasant and unusual way! I can understand almost every word. And all your stories seems to go from your heart!💓Thank you so much! You're so brave, intellectual and intelligent person!)
People can learn from your authenticity in the delivery. Worth the watch for sure! If more poeple would watch this, they’d be much more relaxed
you are gorgeous. your talk is inspiring and it came out from your heart. you deserve millions of subscribers
I have posted this on MeWe. You have a gentleness and humility that many people need to search for and find.
I love to hear the way you talk..is calming:)
Your content is precise, and easy to follow, which is extreamly refreshing, also watching u always leaves me with positive energy, thank u
I'm glad :-)
You are too positive........... Thanks, you made my day!!
Thank you very much, I've been watching your videos for a while, I'm 14 years old, I'm looking forward to discovering myself and my life, it for sure will be a long journey but its a great start for me since I'm still very young so I will try my best to start figuring stuff out.
Glad to have you here :-)
I have exactly the same principles which you said, and I am surprised I eventually won a gold medal in the exam which I thought I would fail while writing it.I had the same principles but my WHY started fading away these days, may be as I moved with time I didn't change my WHY or it wasn't strong enough.Thank you for reminding me the things In an organized format .I can reboot myself now .and I have 1 more principle BELIEVE -if you want something believe In it or if it needs to believe in yourself .😊
I do agree with you, there is no guide that will work for every single person, but I do understand the basics of every different kinds of people. I know your kind which is a whole lot smarter than the average people. People are different, but once you are aware of all the different kind of people, you can see where you fit, I really don't fit anywhere, but I don't really care, because I don't need to fit. I have my own road and my own path. It is different than the average people. That works fine with me, it does not matter much. But when I meet someone, I analyse who they are, I adapt to the type they are. It is called social chameleon. I learned that I had this ability once I realized that I change my character a lot. I am also a build up of many different characters. But there is a part of me that is really me and no one every really has access to it, except when I am typing. But anyway, yes people are very different and not one guide will help everyone, but I do know all the guides to help people. People can ask me anything and I will know immediately what type they are and what they want. Obviously in a logical thinking way, not like some magician.
completely agree that if miss schedule.. it affects work, clarity, and
creativity for the day
I badly needed this video!! I hope you’re having an amazing week Lana!! ☺️
Thank you! You as well. :-)
Lana Blakely You’re welcome! Thank you so much. :)
I dont usually comment on videos but this was absolutely brilliant and a huge amount of knowledge condensed into a very short video,I really like what you're doing here and I think its working for me.
im in process of getting out of depression, and u are helping me so much, no pressure, its just, your videos and advices suit me really good, thanks for it
Stumbling upon your channel is the best that happened to me during this phase of my life every day I watch one of your videos and it just makes me feel understood somehow idk thank you!
This talk helped me a lot ..❤❤❤❤
Awesome video. My creed is know thyself. This has been a life changer. It changed the way I interact with people and my environments. "When you change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change." The content never really changes only our perspective. Congrats and Godspeed.
I learned so much from this video! Thank you so much Lana!
I just love your content and your mindset too.
Thank you Haren!
Lana the mind reader - was looking for ways to take it to the next level - time to iterate
Congratulations! Only 900k to go to the next one.
If you keep the quality of the videos up to the current standard, then this will happen without a doubt.
It would be nice to see more and more intelligent RUclipsrs above the 1 million mark.
Thank you Robert :-)
how can anyone ever dislike your videos, I don't understand 😭congrats on 100k
Thank you @Lana... I just took the personality test; turns out I’m an INFJ!!! I’ve always felt I was though but is a relief to be sure. Thank you!!!!👌🏾✅
You are one Class Act. You hit the nail on the head with every swing. Keep hammering away!!!
Keep Growing and Expressing your beautiful soul! Best Wishes for you and this channel!
Thanks a lot :-)
@@LanaBlakely ^_^
I’m making the promise to myself right here right now to be fully myself and stop fighting my path. Thanks Lana. You’re great.
You said we can overthink a potato... And precisely today I started overthinking a potato because it's part of the story I´m writing!
i feel lost honestly. i thought i had my path figured out but it feels like it would take hundreds of years to attain. granted, that mindset also comes from being surrounded by negative people.
proud to be part of the day you announced your book club. Rest assured most of us are here for the long haul, and not just on the next bus stop :)
thank you for everything
Many thanks Andrea
Found this insightful. I am an INFJ and I'm interested in knowing more about your Myers-Briggs Personality Type. You come off as an INFP (please correct me if I'm wrong.
Just to share as requested, I usually throw questions on a blank paper and answer them as honest and vulnerable as possible. I also try by all means to engage with people and just discover how other people think. I enjoy your videos!
I'm an infp, I highly doubt any infp has their shit together as much as this woman lmao
I'm here since you had few thousands, glad that you've reached 100k subs congrats.
I'd like to add a 7th one:
7) Spend time with people who are good for you. People who motivate you, inspire you and want the best for you. People you can connect with. And when you are in a dire situation, ponder which advice you would give one of your friends if they were in this situation you are in right now, how you would motivate them and comfort them. And then give this advice to yourself.
(based on thoughts from "12 rules for life" by Peterson)
So much truths in a little video ! 😄
& greats metaphors.
Good vibes from Mexico, I love how you see life and reflex about everything
This video is great miss Lana! My principle is treat yourself right and the rest will follow.
Each moment in life is irreplaceable 🙌
You're likable. I can see why you have 1.23million sub's. Keep up the good work!
THERE IS ONLY ONE PERSON IN THIS WORLD THAT CAN STOP YOU. THAT PERSON IS YOU.
What you said about always being in the future moment touched my heart. Sometimes I feel like future possibilities affect on my present. It is such inside-out way of thinking.
Omg, that car example at the ending is so genius!! 100% true. Thank you, you're really doing great! ❤️
So much good advice in this video. Trust your ability to figure it out more than getting everything right the first time. We can keep thinking forever and be stuck in analysis paralysis until we take action
I never thought for a second you were swedish. Your english is too good. 🇸🇪
Overthinking a potato is gonna stick with me forever hahaha that was a really good phrase to bring the point home... I’ve always struggled with starting new things either by not finishing them or not keeping my consistency and stopping before I really got started. You’ll never realize how good it is to write down these life values until you do sit down and really think about what’s meaningful in your life.
With every new video you upload, I connect with you on a whole different level! The videos are just therapeutic for me. So, thank you!!!🙂
your videos are so relaxing i love them x
Thank you :-)
"Each moment in life is irreplaceable" Lana Blakely
Great work!
Such a nice energy, and useful and clear information. Thank you. Subscribed.
I just turned 16 and i think these principles are exactly what i need to put in my life🦋 These days, i forgot that i need to look forward for my future but now i don’t know what i even really want in my life.. I want to overcome this challenge of mine..
Thanks for making this video!♥️
Happy belated birthday Jenny! Thanks for your comment
Lana Blakely Thanks for the greeting!♥️ and Happy 100k subscribers to you also!💯💕I’m learning alot from you🙂 I’ll be always one of your great supporters😊 Wishing you more success and God bless..💜
Thomas B Thanks for the reply! Maybe I’ll just refrain myself from thinking too much!😊♥️
Thank you Lana
Girl, you know you have a lot of qualities to be apriciated about, but If I start to talk about it the list wouldn't end. I'm in love with you not just because you are beautiful from outside but perfect from the inside😍