Why You Never Have Enough Time

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • As I explore the feelings of inadequacy that I have for myself, I feel like I'm peeling away the layers and finding all of kinds of things I wasn't expecting.
    Maybe even my focus on structure and productivity is a distraction from something even deeper, something even more valuable that I should be paying closer attention to: the present moment.
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Комментарии • 1,8 тыс.

  • @kickbuttvids1
    @kickbuttvids1 4 года назад +2688

    "There's no getting there. We're already there." The shot seems to move forward towards the island while maintaining a stationary perspective, representing the illusion of progress in life. The island represents a future goal for him and his work is to just enjoy admiring it from the shore. Reminds me of To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf. We're all drawn in to our desires inexplicably and often they don't hold the fulfillment we seek. It's about appreciating what we have in the present moment. Nathaniel, you are a genius and your cinematography is poetry.

    • @tim8241
      @tim8241 4 года назад +37

      wow, just wow

    • @cesarcastro2037
      @cesarcastro2037 4 года назад +30

      I can’t even compare or try to type a comment like this boy!
      But I can agree with you, this video has an incredible production, meaning and representation of the message from Nathaniel. Good for you Nathan, great for us! Thanks!

    • @VaultOfTheFuture
      @VaultOfTheFuture 4 года назад +2

      Watch The Lighthouse by Robert Eggers

    • @Carolinefdq
      @Carolinefdq 4 года назад +2

      How funny. I just finished reading To the Lighthouse a few days ago. It's a brilliant novel, and I definitely agree with you.

    • @srikarraoayilneni7074
      @srikarraoayilneni7074 4 года назад +6

      I think you really look like Daniel Radcliffe. Am I the only one feeling 👀👀

  • @fuschiarose
    @fuschiarose 4 года назад +4954

    I never have enough time because I’m always watching videos explaining why I never have enough time.

    • @outsider1st
      @outsider1st 4 года назад +216

      I never have enough time because I'm always reading people's comment about why they never have enough time under the movie about why you never have enough time..

    • @lucieheriche481
      @lucieheriche481 4 года назад +106

      @@outsider1st i never have enough time because i'm always reading people's comment about responding people's comments about why they never have enough time under a video about why you never have enough time

    • @rushikesh.khardekar
      @rushikesh.khardekar 4 года назад +10

      @UCcMGo0JM1fpHN3xAE1jAOQQ please stop it and get life

    • @SrNeoxNGT1kk
      @SrNeoxNGT1kk 4 года назад +2

      I wanna say that

    • @Nordkapp65
      @Nordkapp65 4 года назад +27

      Find myself chilling on RUclips with like minded people, fills my time better than network TV which I rarely watch. I an conscious we have limited time so I exercise control over who and what I watch.

  • @atman1473
    @atman1473 4 года назад +1933

    "We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one. " -Confucius

  • @user-ho8tl9wj7k
    @user-ho8tl9wj7k 4 года назад +1006

    21 years old and a mindset like this?
    Goals.

    • @zu-zu5940
      @zu-zu5940 4 года назад +43

      wait, seriously? I thought he was 30 something with just really good genes that made him look young!

    • @user-ho8tl9wj7k
      @user-ho8tl9wj7k 4 года назад +8

      Yung Long shaft I also thought he was 30 or something but nope

    • @ozziedurmaz3738
      @ozziedurmaz3738 4 года назад

      Miyase Öztürk How old are u then? He is way too old for you. You just a kid idiot

    • @user-ho8tl9wj7k
      @user-ho8tl9wj7k 4 года назад +8

      Haters gonna Hate I'm 20? and I don't care about him. He just inspires me by the way he is talking about life.

    • @user-ho8tl9wj7k
      @user-ho8tl9wj7k 4 года назад +4

      Emily - nshadex I think you can be mature on an early age if you experiences hard times on a young age..

  • @tim8241
    @tim8241 4 года назад +1677

    "There's no getting there. We are already there."

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 года назад +580

    Life isn’t short, it’s long.
    Only when we zone out, check out from reality , we feel that the time flies by. Because we don’t have any memorable moments.

    • @janet.v9470
      @janet.v9470 4 года назад +34

      That's true! That's why for kids time goes MUCH SLOWER. Because they learn a lot more throughout the day, than elder people do)

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 4 года назад +1

      It is humane to slip up from time to time.
      Just make sure to not be consumed by chase.

    • @zurima2012
      @zurima2012 4 года назад +1

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me
      🙄... what are you gonna do with the memories...?

    • @vicwarrior106
      @vicwarrior106 4 года назад +3

      @@zurima2012 you lived them, that's enough. It's not about doing something with it afterwards, it's about living them in the present.
      That's what "making memories" is about, living them for the sake of living, not for keeping them somewhere else for later use.

    • @zurima2012
      @zurima2012 4 года назад +2

      Vic Sum
      That’s what I said, just live for now!
      Meditate! Live for the moment
      When you say memories that implies dwelling on the past 🙄. .
      Being here and now at all times is complete happiness

  • @stevenyee850
    @stevenyee850 4 года назад +435

    The camera work: absolutely beautiful
    The commentary: absolutely insightful

  • @MusicbyBlanks
    @MusicbyBlanks 4 года назад +273

    "there's no getting there, we're already there" that's it right there man! great video

    • @derstein2606
      @derstein2606 4 года назад +4

      Blanks! I didn't expect you here, nice!

  • @victor.hausen
    @victor.hausen 4 года назад +987

    Me waking up every Sunday morning: ok, now let's get a cup of coffee and watch Nathan's video.

    • @maxkurant1470
      @maxkurant1470 4 года назад +18

      Victor Hausen wait is it actually every Sunday morning I just realized lmao ty for a new ritual idea

    • @danielaverbova2511
      @danielaverbova2511 4 года назад +7

      seems like we all have similar way how to spend a Sunday morning (:

    • @NicolleMosquera
      @NicolleMosquera 4 года назад +1

      x2

    • @bugbrain8293
      @bugbrain8293 4 года назад

      I'm the 666th like

    • @tr1stan706
      @tr1stan706 4 года назад

      That seems peaceful :)

  • @markandrovillafranca9383
    @markandrovillafranca9383 4 года назад +496

    “Do not spend MAJOR TIME on MINOR THINGS
    and do not spend MINOR TIME on MAJOR THINGS” - Jim Rohn

    • @aaronbulmahn3817
      @aaronbulmahn3817 4 года назад +1

      Mark Andro Villafranca So be careful with the tonal combination of your time and activity?

    • @moalston4203
      @moalston4203 Год назад

      Time is perious make sure you spend it with the right people

  • @jofranco
    @jofranco 4 года назад +146

    "death is the great equalizer, did I even enjoy these books?" brilliant my friend!

    • @rafaelateixeira650
      @rafaelateixeira650 4 года назад +1

      adorei ter te achado nesses comentários, vc é demaizzz

  • @cbryan7486
    @cbryan7486 4 года назад +439

    "Productivity is a distraction to an even bigger question" Wow...

    • @rafaelateixeira650
      @rafaelateixeira650 4 года назад +10

      i read this in the exactly moment that he was saying it

    • @CC-xc1pp
      @CC-xc1pp 4 года назад +3

      @@rafaelateixeira650 same here haha 😄

  • @ApexWR9
    @ApexWR9 4 года назад +385

    "Don't think you're moving towards death, every second that happens is death." - Seneca

    • @yordano41
      @yordano41 4 года назад +3

      L V damn you killed me with that one. Never thought about that.

    • @user-oz7uk9wp9j
      @user-oz7uk9wp9j 4 года назад +1

      Shit , that’s so deep fuck you got me

    • @ilhamburger8288
      @ilhamburger8288 4 года назад +1

      can you recommend some books about seneca?

    • @tamaradimarco878
      @tamaradimarco878 4 года назад +4

      @@ilhamburger8288 first read something on the internet about him, just to gain general knowledge on his philosophy. Then, find a simplified version of his "Moral Letters to Lucilius"

    • @ApexWR9
      @ApexWR9 4 года назад +5

      @@ilhamburger8288 A great one to start with would be, "On the shortness of life." Very short & digestible

  • @evernightrose5152
    @evernightrose5152 4 года назад +353

    'Imagining the future is a kind of nostalgia' -John Green
    We spend every second of our lives by using future as a distraction.

  • @spicychashu
    @spicychashu 4 года назад +14

    A book I read recently had a neat little quote that was along the lines of, "If I am to live twenty more years, I will try to live enjoying each moment, instead of killing myself for more."

  • @cwTheDrummist
    @cwTheDrummist 4 года назад +58

    "This is life that is happening right now. There's no getting there... we're already there." That's deep.

  • @Levy957
    @Levy957 4 года назад +572

    Nat: "We live in an accelerating world..."
    Me: *speeds up video 1.5x*

  • @dustinolan1083
    @dustinolan1083 4 года назад +297

    "It's amazing how we fill our lives almost to the brim with every possible distraction, every possible way of forgetting, ignoring and running from the present moment, I'm doing my best to remind myself not to sprint all the time because what's the rush this is life that is happening right now, there's no getting there, we're already there. " The narration is gold, thank you Nathaniel for this, it feels like for me your videos is part of my mental health being, thanks man! Kudos to you! 你很棒!

  • @doraalgarvio9717
    @doraalgarvio9717 4 года назад +16

    I started decluttering stuff in my home and my appointments a couple of years ago. Then I realized that the hardest part is facing that free time and myself without distractions or occupations. I'm on that stage now. I think this is the real start of the real self-improvement.

    • @moalston4203
      @moalston4203 Год назад

      Don't say you don't have enough time you have the same hours as hellen keller albert Einstein mother Teresa etc....

  • @captainlamia2105
    @captainlamia2105 4 года назад +15

    Being both an INFJ and Highly sensitive person, I really can feel those behind the scene thoughts of yours. I'm in my final year of undsrgrad, and for last 1 year, my intuitions are screaming to tell me, I'm in a wrong movie, I'm heading towards wrong direction. But the family and society expectations are so much and everything is so fast speed, that now pausing for a moment to check whether I'm on right path or not, or which direction I should go, this pausing is felte like I'm less capable. Slow living, or experiencing, learning from the mistakes these don't exist anymore. Careers and paths are more fixed than pre destiny. I'm getting physically and mentally sick out of it.

  • @TSTechGear
    @TSTechGear 4 года назад +366

    *thats like the most important question of my life:*
    *"what is all this productivity even for?"*

    • @waterunder3718
      @waterunder3718 4 года назад

      Bjorn Callewaert Like self growth?

    • @kisstwogays5258
      @kisstwogays5258 4 года назад +16

      Its about social acceptance and fitting in because if you sit around and do nothing in a rich country everyone will hate you and you have no friends. So you have to deal with either constant stress or social isolation and loneliness. Yet most people feel a lot of both.

    • @waterunder3718
      @waterunder3718 4 года назад

      Kiss two Gays what are you even saying ? I’m sorry I didn’t get it. You’re saying fitting in is wasting your time?

    • @rileywebb9
      @rileywebb9 4 года назад +6

      The internalization of late-capitalism's imperative of productivity.

    • @guillermoarauz9020
      @guillermoarauz9020 4 года назад

      Water Under yes

  • @ajaynair3924
    @ajaynair3924 4 года назад +303

    The main point that I get from this video:
    " There's no getting there, we're already there"

  • @mohsenashouri7533
    @mohsenashouri7533 4 года назад +33

    "there is no getting there, we are already there"
    I am amazed by this sentence, thank you Nathaniel

  • @bosgotnojams
    @bosgotnojams 4 года назад +82

    "There's no getting there. We're already there."
    wow....

  • @reuben.mathew2
    @reuben.mathew2 4 года назад +275

    This is such high quality content, in every way imaginable.

  • @SarahKarver
    @SarahKarver 4 года назад +126

    We love a creator who stays humble & admits they don’t have answers

  • @crisc2903
    @crisc2903 4 года назад +15

    I live in Italy, I studied latin and ancient greek for about five years in my highschool and I always hear people saying that studying those subjects is useless. I really appreciated the fact that you have actually understood them and you put what they said in your life: in facts it’s not that common! I see some of my schoolmates leaving Seneca’s ideas on their literature books, instead of reacting to his statements like you did. So I really appreciated your reaction: you have just given them back their worth.

  • @dorianmck
    @dorianmck 4 года назад +235

    Isn’t it funny, every decision we’ve ever made has led us to this moment. I want you to think about that.

    • @arlpoon6423
      @arlpoon6423 4 года назад +12

      The Skweezy and every decision of our ancestors

    • @louistanada4638
      @louistanada4638 4 года назад +2

      whoa, this is wild. Thinking back, I was telling myself how much I want to be where i am now and now i am thinking where i want to be. crazy.

    • @dorianmck
      @dorianmck 4 года назад

      Louis Tanada u don’t make sense

    • @sunzalea3257
      @sunzalea3257 4 года назад

      Real Truths thank you

  • @SofiaYasmin
    @SofiaYasmin 4 года назад +21

    We are so lucky to have this kind of quality content for free

  • @DoodleDan
    @DoodleDan 4 года назад +130

    "There's no getting there; we're already there"
    My brain: *stops functioning*

  • @KevinJohnMulligan
    @KevinJohnMulligan 4 года назад +20

    "There's no getting there, we're already there." is a succinct and poignant line!
    I like all the references to Stoic philosophers.

  • @akarshshrivastava6764
    @akarshshrivastava6764 4 года назад +9

    "This is life - happening right now. There is no getting there, we're already there"
    Beautiful💛

  • @ReeceGeofroy
    @ReeceGeofroy 4 года назад +60

    Fantastic message Nathaniel. Your videos are getting more inspirational with each piece you put out! I feel like I am watching a mini documentary everytime I see a video from you. Keep up the great work and keep on the right path! ❤️

  • @jz2466
    @jz2466 4 года назад +76

    “Death is the great equalizer... did I at least enjoy any of those books?”

  • @tomyfirewindsdevelopment6595
    @tomyfirewindsdevelopment6595 4 года назад +8

    I usually never comment, but you brought a lot of value to me at the right moment. Thank you very much, from the bottom of my heart 🙏🏾

  • @mansoorzia9155
    @mansoorzia9155 4 года назад +16

    "There is no getting there. We are already there." Eloquently put, my friend.

  • @matthewheadland7307
    @matthewheadland7307 4 года назад +36

    It’s so interesting how his constant struggle to slow down and be imperfect is inspiring his perfect videos.

  • @danieljapanese8447
    @danieljapanese8447 4 года назад +9

    Man, you really inspire me. Every single time I waste my time doing things that honestly ruin my life I see one of your videos and then I get back to realization about genuine things in life. Thank you for this, dude. Even if you never notice this comment I wanna thank for all of it.

  • @jesse4689-o2l
    @jesse4689-o2l 4 года назад +5

    You seem to have a very definite talent to inspire people. You will find your destiny if you keep up the constant questioning. Very inspiring to see a young guy not following the crowd or chasing useless people or wasting himself. Keep up the good work.

  • @KaushalyaMadhawa
    @KaushalyaMadhawa 4 года назад +6

    "Everyone aims to work harder, do more, achieve more. *what is all this productivity even for?* " That is one question I was pondering for quite a while. You tackled it beautifully. This video is a masterpiece.

    • @moalston4203
      @moalston4203 Год назад

      For less pay then what we are worth

  • @masara455
    @masara455 4 года назад +7

    I loved this. Usually I get stressed out thinking I’m not doing enough and it’s nice to hear that taking a moment for myself is ok.

  • @martainnocenti3182
    @martainnocenti3182 4 года назад +63

    "Il dolce far niente", as they say in Italian, is becoming a lost art. I encourage you to visit small Italian villages and spend time with the locals, I'm sure you can find someone who still enjoys and cherishes taking things slow and the small pleasures in life here somewhere. I am very grateful to have been born and brought up in such a place, sometimes it is the most banal and simple things that we tend to overlook and forget as we strive for success in the madly accelerated way of living of our times. Greetings from a small village near Florence!

    • @asmitachatterjee5146
      @asmitachatterjee5146 4 года назад

      Ciao! I've always been fascinated with rural and countryside Italy since I can remember! It's one of the most beautiful villages and sceneries on Earth! Where are you from, bella? (Pardon my poor Italian)

    • @SlomoUofR
      @SlomoUofR 4 года назад

      Studying in Piacenza right now. Sometimes I say there’s nothing to do here. Then I realize that spending time with friends at restaurants, bars, etc. IS the thing to do because it’s so important.

  • @mickeeva
    @mickeeva 4 года назад +3

    The time and effort you out into your content does not go unnoticed! This is amazing.

  • @raneerah7730
    @raneerah7730 3 года назад +1

    Another thing I love about this channel is the comment section. I just love hearing other people's thoughts and additional advices that makes life even more beautiful. I feel connected to every person watching these videos. God bless you all wonderful souls.

  • @AlanisBraun
    @AlanisBraun 4 года назад +48

    Every upload comes at just the right time... makes you realise how we’re all in this together. Loved the way you approached this artistically, I can tell you’ve been putting effort into improving quality!

  • @maxkurant1470
    @maxkurant1470 4 года назад +46

    “There’s no getting there. We’re already there”.
    This is something I’ve also discovered a lot lately. I keep thinking that there’s some “point” I’ll get to and then I’ll be successful. A certain award. Acclaim from a certain person. A certain number of people who look up to me. But just thinking about how I’ve already achieved what I didn’t think possible a year ago in my personal and professional goals and growth and yet still I think I’m not “there yet” has made me reflect a lot and realize that I never will be there because there is no point to get to. Just the present moment, with the person inside of me who more or less will never change and I need to learn how to be satisfied with and love.

  • @Raeleen
    @Raeleen 3 года назад +2

    Omg I resonate with this soooooo much. The anxiety I feel over being productive and moving forward. It literally disables me when I stress over it, which extends for hours. I always want things to move faster. I’m learning to rest and relax and live in the moment. I loved this video, thank you

  • @anantvishwakarma4511
    @anantvishwakarma4511 4 года назад +2

    I've said this before but I've been following this channel for quite a while and the quality of the content here just never seizes to amaze me. The way you tell your stories, the cinematography, it just draws you in. The content here has really helped me through times when I felt lost and has often provided me with a new perspective from which to view things. I feel like this channel has become a part of me and I really appreciate the hardwork you put into this.

  • @ArtChickTV
    @ArtChickTV 4 года назад +12

    This is one of the best videos I've seen you do so far... well for me anyway. I am constantly thinking ahead and struggle with being present. When I stop to be present I think about the past and all the people I miss spending time with that are either dead or no longer in my life by choice. It's a painful part about life, that is letting go of the past, remembering the good, and being present and enjoying what is around you. Thank you again for sharing this video. It really moved me.

  • @WillReil
    @WillReil 4 года назад +33

    Damn dude, your filmmaking is on point. Every single video you seem to improve. You inspire me to step outside of my comfort zone and become more productive. I have even started experimenting with RUclips videos about personal finance as a way to educate myself. Keep doing what you are doing, thank you!

  • @balance9799
    @balance9799 4 года назад +1

    your videos are always so beautiful and profound, but light at the same time. They give me a sense of balance and peace, which is rare to find on social media, so thank you for that.

  • @crazygrace94
    @crazygrace94 2 года назад +1

    Bro, Nathaniel’s videos hit SO HARD when you’re blazed. #blessed This was absolutely glorious to behold. Thank you, Nathaniel. 🙏🏼

  • @cloelespagnol
    @cloelespagnol 4 года назад +8

    I told my mom the other day, "I cant' wait to graduate college so I can finally start my life," and she turned around, looked at me and said, "you're already living it. Enjoy it now." I was like damn... she's right. It is so hard living in the present and that's something that I have to remind myself to do every day.

  • @MatthewHyatt
    @MatthewHyatt 4 года назад +11

    Just wanted to say, at this point, i look forward to your videos...which i cannot say for very many creators. As a creator myself, I appreciate the amount of time and work and thought that goes into each one of these. Keep thinking and creating, Nathan.

    • @MatthewHyatt
      @MatthewHyatt 4 года назад +1

      Btw, glad you switched to the XT3...i love the look of it.

    • @MatthewHyatt
      @MatthewHyatt 4 года назад +1

      And now that I've finished this video, brilliant. I'd love to hang out and create something one day.

  • @kallllll
    @kallllll 2 года назад

    "What's the rush? This is life that is happening right now. There's no 'getting there', we are already there." That humble me in the best way possible

  • @irynalynnyk5178
    @irynalynnyk5178 4 года назад +5

    The nature in Italy reminded me about my trip to Norway. There was no people around me - only such a wonderful colors of water and sky like in this video. 😊

  • @WoWkiddymage
    @WoWkiddymage 4 года назад +4

    "This is life that is happening right now, there is no getting there, we are already there.".
    That one got me. I realize that my happiest moments aren't based on holidays, time off, material, they come when I just appreciate what I already am, what I already have, people in my life, giving my self some time to really think and enjoy the process of life. Whether I am at work helping costumers with their shoes, at my other job tutoring and helping children out, If I'm studying for my classes or just working out. Of course, we all want to be "somewhere" we aren't, it doesn't mean we can't appreciate where we are now. Just makes the process that much easier... that much more enjoyable.

  • @ashishchoudhary7370
    @ashishchoudhary7370 4 года назад +11

    Just watched the whole video twice and still feel like I missed out on something. It was so beautifully shot and written , so thoughtful of you. Great message. Love from India🇮🇳

  • @xxChacaronXX
    @xxChacaronXX 4 года назад +27

    In my eyes there's really only two types of lost people ... The one's who never find their grind/passion and the ones who get lost in it.

  • @Samuel25737
    @Samuel25737 3 года назад

    "Pick a goal not because of its destination, but because of the journey".
    I heard this while doing a language exchange, and it stuck with me.

  • @mushyomens6885
    @mushyomens6885 4 года назад +11

    This video just gave me 8 minutes 42 seconds of an inner peace, idk why...

  • @harmley4410
    @harmley4410 4 года назад +27

    "There's not getting there. We are already there." That hit me in a way I was not expecting. Such a powerful statement.

  • @teocrawford
    @teocrawford 4 года назад

    That addiction to productivity is sooo relateable for me. ..and I'm feeling a little anxious now overthinking the sense of all of this.. anyway great video! :)

  • @TheMambaAtlas
    @TheMambaAtlas 4 года назад +11

    Another skilfully made video. Thank you

  • @shaunjeter
    @shaunjeter 4 года назад +24

    I didn’t realize I wasn’t living in the moment until this video opened my eyes.

  • @tim8241
    @tim8241 4 года назад +51

    "I'm doing my best to remind myself not to sprint all the time, because what's the rush."

  • @atifnaushad54
    @atifnaushad54 4 года назад

    Watching this for the fourth time now and I still can't believe he said that even productivity is a distraction to a bigger question.......absolutely love this guy!!

  • @Kdiksha
    @Kdiksha 4 года назад +3

    "This is the LIFE that is happening right now...there is no getting there we are already there"
    Damn!!

  • @soupiedog23
    @soupiedog23 4 года назад +9

    “There’s no getting there. We’re already there”
    that’s a perspective I haven’t brought my mind to before.

  • @Amanda-qe5lj
    @Amanda-qe5lj 4 года назад +4

    That's what I love about Nathan's videos, it's always right on time. Your content never ceases to amaze me, keep it up.

  • @angelosapostolopoulos1464
    @angelosapostolopoulos1464 4 года назад +3

    Damn Nathaniel. Hitted me right in the feels. It's really fascinating that with your own art that you provide in these videos, you're pushing a lot of people like me to dive into some deep and meaningful thoughts. Keep grinding dude, absolutely love your content! ✌️

  • @taboussh
    @taboussh 3 года назад

    My name is also Nathan, and every time I stumble across one of your videos it speaks to some deeper part of me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.

  • @sujanithtottempudi2991
    @sujanithtottempudi2991 4 года назад +20

    Time wasters, Cause: mobile, day dreaming, screen time, arguing with people, commuting, waiting , excess work, planning future, dwelling in past

    • @ZoeyVagnerLLF
      @ZoeyVagnerLLF 4 года назад +4

      did you just describe my adhd? :o

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 4 года назад +1

      “Time wasters” is purely subjective, unless you define what your goal is. Planning for the future makes sense if it helps attain your goals, commuting can be positive if you get work done on a train or listen to podcasts and only commute because it saves you thousands of dollars due to a cheaper home, arguing with people can, if done correctly, allow you to gain information about a subject you wouldn’t normally be exposed to.
      It really depends what you want.

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 4 года назад +196

    Adopting the NOW mentality is the key to making time. “I’ll do it tomorrow” is one of the worst things you could say.

    • @smoke4131
      @smoke4131 4 года назад

      Watch this 😁
      ruclips.net/video/i4LrPobIcxI/видео.html
      Thoughty2 - Why procra stination is good for you

    • @2-tonekit18
      @2-tonekit18 4 года назад +1

      So true indeed 😅😅

  • @tonyg1296
    @tonyg1296 4 года назад

    The scenery in this video is insane. I just can't stop but get chills while watching the scenery change and change.

  • @daisymajor1415
    @daisymajor1415 3 года назад +1

    You have perfectly summarised what I think on a daily basis but have yet to learn from

  • @ChrisDAndrealifestyledesign
    @ChrisDAndrealifestyledesign 4 года назад +9

    When he said “the anxiety bubbling up in my chest” I really felt _myself_ getting anxious! Thank you for this video, I think we all really needed to hear this message.

  • @alyssatoh3679
    @alyssatoh3679 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing. When you quoted Seneca, it reminded me that “time is only wasted if I waste it”.
    This was my response to people who told me “what a waste of time”, for certain decisions I made such as flight timings. I realised that I am the one using this time and not them.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, always.

  • @johnesparagoza8800
    @johnesparagoza8800 4 года назад

    The thing I have liked the most as I watch your vids, is your honest to your shortcomings, flaws, mishaps and your very own vulnerabilities. A very rare trait especially in today's times. :) Thanks

  • @jasminedragon9
    @jasminedragon9 4 года назад

    The point about seeking higher and higher degrees of productivity as being a distraction from life's bigger questions is something I really resonate with. It's very easy for the frenetic "productivity" encouraged by society to make us, ironically, less productive in actually pursuing what matters.

  • @EmmyHucker
    @EmmyHucker 4 года назад +30

    You've been reading my mind again o.o

  • @toritacoo1338
    @toritacoo1338 4 года назад +12

    Two years ago, while my friend visited me in college, she said to me, "You know, you're really busy, but what are you really doing with your time?" I remember feeling defensive at first because I knew what she said was true. I had to take a step back and ask myself, "Why are you so busy?" I realized the busier I seemed, the more likely I will be viewed as successful or involved. The reality was that I was busy, but not productive. I was doing something for the sake of doing it. Since then, I do my best to hone in on my intentions.
    Nathaniel, since you have experience traveling, how does this need to be busy present itself in different cultures (or maybe it doesn't). Would love to hear about it!

    • @davewhite9464
      @davewhite9464 4 года назад

      Story of most of my friends, we were in same school school scoring almost same grades still they were always busy n I always had time for everyone

    • @flavienmatifas261
      @flavienmatifas261 4 года назад

      So agree with you ! Thanks for the amazing contents, please share a bit about your experience as a traveler :)

  • @Andre-xv3cx
    @Andre-xv3cx 4 года назад +1

    Saw this pop up in my recommended, and now I'm just amazed by your storytelling through this video

  • @hamedhaile23yearsago39
    @hamedhaile23yearsago39 4 года назад +10

    THE BEST CINEMATOGRAPHY I’VE EVER SEEN.

  • @GoalsAndCrows
    @GoalsAndCrows 4 года назад +7

    What a thought provoking video. Thank you for inspiring me to improve my own videos. I want to help people become the person they want to be by controling their habits.

  • @SirChillicious
    @SirChillicious 4 года назад +1

    Absolutely loved this dude, your videos keep getting better and I love that you're sharing your state of being inspired with all of us. Keep going!

  • @Ellouisex
    @Ellouisex 4 года назад

    This video felt like a puase button; it was such a refreshing awakening. The feeling of inadqeuacy from a lack of productivity is something, especially as students, I think we all struggle with. The focus on continuous work, progress and improvement that dominates our society has become so toxic, yet so ingraned, that it prevented me from even realising I had not stopped to reflect. Your description of productivity as an addiction is such an accurate perspective, and yet one I had not thought about before. Inspiring as always.

  • @Noah-fv2zq
    @Noah-fv2zq 4 года назад +4

    „There‘s no getting there. We‘re already there.“
    Those are some true words

  • @ramirenriquez6795
    @ramirenriquez6795 4 года назад +11

    Recently, I've been trying to remember that even upto now, we are evolving as humans and we hear this all the time but we forget. The way we live, treat each other, our environments, everything. So instead of trying to control, we just really have to flow with it but with mindfulness of where things might go. Everytime I get lost at work or a task, I do my best to ask myself "What am I trying to accomplish here again?". It helps.

  • @JackStrood
    @JackStrood 4 года назад

    Nathaniel, I just wanted you to know that after watching this, I packed my TV away. After 2 hours of RUclips, today, this video came up. I watched it 3 times and you made me realise I'm wasting time watching car reviews on RUclips and need to focus on my model making and animation career.
    I've unplugged my TV, placed it in the cupboard and repositioned the furniture in my living room to focus on my career. Thank you, you made my 28-year-old mind turn a much needed corner for focus towards my dream job. Thank you, all the best, Jack

  • @avanny3915
    @avanny3915 4 года назад +2

    Creo que ver este video fue lo más productivo que hice hoy. No tengo palabras para expresar cuan agradecida estoy de que hayas hecho ésto, ayudarás a muchas personas 💜

  • @djlosmi
    @djlosmi 4 года назад +4

    "This is life that is happening right now." Wow, this resonated with me. Powerfull stuff, awesome video!

  • @aryamannmastana4923
    @aryamannmastana4923 4 года назад +4

    This video has some of the most beautiful cinematography I've ever seen. Amazing Nathaniel. Also, I was surprised to see Bernardo, I've watched some of his videos (I'm in the same University as he was, from India).

  • @intentionalliving7326
    @intentionalliving7326 3 года назад

    🌸 I feel the more i befriend myself, the more I enjoy alone time and the simple life pleasures, the less willing I become to play the “I am busy” game with myself and others ✨

  • @n0_n0
    @n0_n0 4 года назад

    Massive, massive respect. Every bit of this strongly resonates with me. To 10% less, to being and letting doing flow from there, to presence....

  • @lolopcallulu3082
    @lolopcallulu3082 4 года назад +62

    me: *reads the title* “yeah I think I need to be attacked”

  • @alexhodge3636
    @alexhodge3636 4 года назад +5

    Dude I feel like we're going through such a similar journey right now. Really appreciating your insights

  • @chocolateanddutchy
    @chocolateanddutchy 3 года назад

    We really enjoy the way you make your videos and we are inspired by changing our way of making RUclips videos. The last few weeks are views are going through the roof, there have never been so many people watching our videos and we want to thank you for inspiring us.
    We both struggle with having moments of nothing in our life, but watching your videos helps us realize we are not alone in this and that it is ok to take some time for yourself.

  • @HareAndTheHatter
    @HareAndTheHatter 4 года назад

    I'm also trying to teach myself to be less busy because I've noticed that focusing too much on productivity has been hampering my creativity. Thanks for this video.

  • @minahilalvi9169
    @minahilalvi9169 4 года назад +4

    I feel the need to breathe after watching your videos..... Keep it up, my man!!!