6 Guidelines of Life 1. When you are alone, mind your thoughts 2. When you are with friends, mind your tongue 3. When you are angry, mind your temper 4. When you are with a group, mind your behavior 5. When you are in trouble, mind your emotions 6. When God starts blessing you, mind your ego
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Unless you're gonna be a subsistence farmer and live off what you grow, you darn well better think about what other people are doing, because you need them.
My personal advice, don't waste time trying to find what you want to do with your life, instead find and do what it is you want to right now, whether it be taking a certain job, starting a business, or working on a passion project. Put all your energy and attention towards what you want to do right now and you won't have to worry about the longterm. As long as you keep doing this, that will make up your lifetime
Notes for myself: Passions are formed, not found ▪find passions by actually doing things! ▪clarity comes from doing Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success ▪if you define passion as a feeling then you risk failure if/when that feeling changes ▪think about what you would suffer for. Suffer for something you actually care about
I'm glad you all found it useful :) I personally benefit a lot when I see others write summaries like this and I even like to save it to my homescreen wallpaper to use as a daily reminder
I used to also work in a job that I'm not so happy about. I ended up quitting that job to pursue my hobby at that time which was blogging. Eventually I switched to vlogging as I find it more appealing and enjoyed it a lot. That's when I thought I finally "found" my passion. I guess what I'm trying to say is that we also form our passion by doing different things which spark our interests. And then devoting our time to that which we think we can actually do whether we are in the mood for it or not. 😊
@@juliaz9843 of course! My hobby (doing RUclips fitness videos) is already my main source of income right now. 😊 I think it has become possible because of the demands for it. What I find helps is to dedicate your time to your interest which you think others would spend money or time for. It would eventually become your passion.
Classic quote, I love this❤️ the funny thing is that sometimes we confuse “liking what we’re doing” with “wasting time,” or at least I do. I guess it comes down to how some of us were raised.
This is anxiety caused by the ego, wanting to know the story in advance. Existing in the now one does not worry about such things and you simply flow with and enjoy life letting it take you where it takes you.
I'll never forget my former teacher who told me that I was talented. She believed in me more than I ever would. Words are incredibly powerful. They can build and destroy at the same time
I think it’s okay to make a living off of something other than your passion. Oftentimes, putting that pressure on your passion can make the excitement and joy of it all to fall away.
Many times we are suffering for a greater cause, family, the pride of work or just taking good care of ourselves financially. Passion can't always be in the work life. Maybe on the side at times.
During my nihilistic days in college, I always asked myself what the meaning of life was? Not too long ago I got an answer(don't remember the source), is simply to give life meaning. Do what fulfills you, and practice gratitude often. Those were game changers for me.
I feel the romanticizing part too much. When I had to decide what to study after school I was only focusing on finding the perfect course. In the end I learned that no matter what I will choose there will be regrets and a feeling of missing out as well as a lot of beautiful things to discover. Understanding that helped me a lot with making all kinds of decisions. ps.: I just get excited everytime I see a new video of yours. Thanks so much for the inspirational content every time :)
@@eu9ne Hii, when I was in your position I decided to just take a break after school. I started working in many different mini jobs and I went abroad for a year. I dont think this is really necessary but for me even just meeting so many new people outside my usual bubble and also distancing myself a bit from those who I noticed held me back in some ways was super helpful. I really got to know myself better and learned what was actually important in life for me. I met some super inspiring people that showed me different ways of making decisions and going about life. Still in the end the most important thing was actually figuring out what gives me the most joy and fulfils me. Regularly writing down what was going on in my head and properly listening to my thoughts and feelings helped me the most I would say. I know this is all kinda vague but I hope its somewhat helpful :)
Searching for a single grand passion can often be linked to perfectionism - we want to get everything just right and be 100% certain something will be *perfect* for us. But life is messy and malleable, and so are the things we love. It's best to simply enjoy the exploration.
Your point on romanticising passion was such a good one. For me, "passions" are a labour of love: a love, but no doubt laborious. Maintaining them isn't always easy, but they're absolutely necessary to making you feel alive and enthralled in the world.
I tried to write down what I want to do, and why I'm here every week. And I realized it always change. That makes me wonder how many selves actually inside of me.
I really love the quote you said about suffering for what you care about versus suffering for what you don't care about. That really puts a lot of things into perspective for me! Sometimes when I am working on creative content and go down a spiral of sadness/negativity, I forget that no matter how much you love something, there'll always be hard times. This includes work, hobbies, but also relationships as well as self-esteem. I adore your content, Lana! And feel blessed to have you in my feed every week.
I think maybe it’s easier for people who are lucky enough to grow up with parents or other role models around them who encourage, compliment, validate and therefore reinforce what you are good at, to find their ‘passion’. And even ‘picks’ a passion for you as you tend to do what you see around you. As Lana says, success fuels passion and by actually doing something who is seen by others we form an identity around that. For people who lack that validation it’s harder, and they must do the work to validate themselves (both as a person and what they do/accomplish) and find a community who can fuel that. A lot comes down to feeling seen, worthy and validated by others as well as yourself. Remember that you are worthy to feel good. 💞
First of all Lana, I think you are one of the most insightful people I've ever watched on RUclips. I enjoy the way you analyze things that most of us seem to pass over or at least that is what I seem to be doing most of the time.
My observation is that oftentimes we feel somewhat entitled to solutions presenting themselves out of nowhere... Forgetting that it takes time and effort to find what we truly enjoy. It's a lifelong journey! We're constantly evolving. No surprise that we're persistently searching for something, let it be passion or purpose. Finding anything worth having in life comes from trial and error though, and that requires action, not just guesswork.
Great content and perfect timing! I was just thinking about this!! I think in the past, I overlooked the value of authenticity in my decision-making. I am also starting to embrace the fact that we are evolving each day and it's wise to update our plans accordingly. This video is really soulful! Thanks for being brutally honest Lana!
I have been intuitively waiting for you to show up on my feed seconds before you published a video! You always make my weekends calmer! Such a beautiful soul. ❤️
Really awesome video. I wonder if the best thing to do if you don't know what you're passionate about is to simply try new things, to venture beyond what is comfortable and familiar. You won't know if you're passionate about something until you give it a shot.
As someone who grew up with a lot of interests, choosing what you want to do, I think, is just as difficult. But you're right, perhaps it really just comes from doing things that eventually help form a path that you could thrive in. I've been doing mental analysis and frameworks of which path to take based on quantified experiences, which at this point is stressing me out. Now I'm realizing the only way to find out is not through micro-analyzing, but through experiencing. "Clarity comes from doing" !!!
Passion has always been a tricky one. What we tend to think is that there's some hobby, career, activity etc. out there that's the key to living our most fulfilling life, one that'll make us happy and keep us satisfied for the rest of our lives. But there's nothing like that. No matter what you want in life, or how you choose to do it, you won't always find it fun or thrilling, you'll have your ups and downs and that's part of life. Yes there are things in life that just won't work out for us, but that doesn't mean you'll come across something and the stars will align and it'll be perfect. Sometimes you start something and realize that while it may have not been something you ever thought of in the past, it ends up becoming something you do for the long-term.
sometimes people dont have passion. being told to find your passion is toxic and unproductive for a lot of people. some people just either dont like anything or they like everything. im so sick and tired of being told "find your niche", "find your passion". when ur a child do you dedicate yourself to playing or exploring only one thing?? no, when youre a child you are curious about and pursue everything you see. then you get bored and move on. that is how it is for most people throughout their lives. after some time I get so bored. in the words of Rihanna " I am bored while im doing it" lol
She never said it had to be only one passion. I had a professional job and loved it and moved up and after 20 years of that lost the passion and then opened up a running store. Did great with that for 13 years. Started to burn out, sold the store and now I’m a youtuber and author. Your passion does change and that’s okay.
@LanaBlakely, I love the way you are opening each layer of your internal thoughts. We might be born with certain talents, like singers, athletes or mathematicians and then we can turn daily activities into a passion when we find a way to interconnect them with our skills. Thanks for sharing your path.
Thank you so much for this video. I've been crying these past few days because I felt like I'm getting old and I still couldn't find my dream job. I was literally searching for passions and hobbies before you uploaded this. I don't know if this a sign from the universe or just a coincidence but I'm still grateful ❤️
i feel u..im 30..felt no where...but i think ur young, i dnt know how, but set aside ur worries,do not waste ur younger years with anxiety, u cant take this years back..im sincerely hoping we find what we are looking for..bless u
Hey Lana❤️ I love your sweet voice. It’s very soothing while listening 😘😘👌👌. Hey I think you wanted to write “how to figure out what you want to do with your life”
Thank you fort your videos. I want to share a little bit on this subject. Younger, I thought that I had only one passion, it was a big one, and I followed it, it became my job... And I was loosing passion, I wasn't happy. Having this passion as a job was making me sick and unhappy, not because it's not a passion, but because I had to make so many sacrifices that was to much for me to be happy. It wasn't working with who I am and what I need to be happy and healthy. It wasn't the right way to live for me. What I didn't know, is that I have so many other passions, I didn't know because I had never tried before. Sometimes, trying new things is really a good thing. And my first passion, became a passion again, I just need it to not be my only job, to do it less, and appreciate it more when I do it. As I try new things, I am learning about myself more and more. Passions can change, we can have more than one passion, and it's not because something is a passion that we would be happy having it as a job. That's what I learned!
Didn't know I'll be lead here through Psych2go. First vid I watch from her was a day in a life of an INFJ. Because I'm an INFJ. After watching this, I felt the connection with her.
I think Universe sent that to me. *I've started a RUclips channel and it doesn't grow the way that I want and I was wondering what is my purpose In life.*
Funny enough that you always fill yourself with certain amounts of doubts. I guess it balances your passions. I hope your channel grows and you keep going.
I remeber talking with my father and he told one thing that changed my life. " I try to enjoy and love my job independent of what job i take".The people think that they gonna find a dream job and be happly ever after, but the truth is that we have to find happiness in any situation that we can, only accepting our reality and trying to be happy the way life is now until we can "change our lives", thats what i think. thank u for the video
"Passions are formed, not found." I believe this as well for the majority of people; however, a passion can appear to be an instinct from a very early age. This is rare, and I believe it is usually caused by influences that have a major impact on the child or young person. Some may say the person was born with a gift. We often see this with musicians. The passion, in this case, becomes an innate part of the person very early on, and the formation of the passion seems instant.
I used to think that finding a passion was esential for living a memorable life, but now I think that the better is to live a life with passion for life itself. Ps. I loved your neckless ♥️
'Passions are formed, not found'. Amen Lana! Passions and hobbies come through experiencing things. There is nothing more powerful than trying things, doing things, practicing good habits and not being afraid of experiencing new habits if needs be, to find what truly motivates you and truly soothes you. You are your own self healer and you are your greatest coach in life. Juts believe in yourself and do what you want to do, your purpose in life will come from that.
I can then say that I feel blessed because even though it took me around 33 years, I did find my passions! One of them it's counselling! It was always within me, but I just couldn't find it until life decided that it's time!
How to figure out what you want to do with your life? Go out there, reflect and then act it out. Firstly, sit yourself down to think for a few minutes and look around your surroundings whilst also attending to your ideas, thoughts and emotions and flesh out what beckons to you as troublesome and ask yourself if it's within your level of expertise, knowledge, skill and competence. If it is, act it out by trying to amend the problem slowly and carefully, one manageable step at a time. Practice and do that many times over, and across a lengthy period of time... you'll figure out what is meaningful in your life and potentially the lives of others. A path will reveal itself to you and go for it. And if it's not that path, another one will light forth in time. If you come across a problem that you desperately want to fix but it's out of your level of competence... ask for help to see if there's other novel ideas helpful to your cause that you can carefully experiment out. That's also what therapists are for. And what loved ones are for.
Thanks for making a video like this!
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Thank you for sharing this video. It genuinely helped. :)
I'm a fan of Psych2Go ❤️
@@nyebe799 me too
I had an imaginary friend named "Yana" when I was little and you seem like a reality of yana. Thank you Lana
6 Guidelines of Life
1. When you are alone, mind your thoughts
2. When you are with friends, mind your tongue
3. When you are angry, mind your temper
4. When you are with a group, mind your behavior
5. When you are in trouble, mind your emotions
6. When God starts blessing you, mind your ego
( ・▽・)つ⌒ŧ‹”ŧ‹”ŧ‹”ŧ‹”that's inspiring, thank you.
What would be an atheist counterpart for 6.?
@@qretan3750 When good things start happening for you/you achieve success ect., mind your ego
@Spartan 300 Because I don't. Period. Anything beyond that would require me to write an essay. Sorry mate.
Beautiful ❤
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
You too! Yes, don’t compare yourself to others and life becomes a lot easier!
Unless you're gonna be a subsistence farmer and live off what you grow, you darn well better think about what other people are doing, because you need them.
Burda da mı varsın ahahah her yerde karşıma çıkıyorsun
@@hnurtanic benimde akshsjdhg
I always try to not think about the judgement of others
“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”
*―C. S. Lewis*
Love C.S. Lewis!
Aren't you tired of spamming lol
@Spartan 300 omg thanks 💀❤️do you like Bollywood 👀😄
@Spartan 300 sorry for trying to be edgy😅
@@tuhimerameraa1 Christ is the way, the truth and the Life!
My personal advice, don't waste time trying to find what you want to do with your life, instead find and do what it is you want to right now, whether it be taking a certain job, starting a business, or working on a passion project. Put all your energy and attention towards what you want to do right now and you won't have to worry about the longterm. As long as you keep doing this, that will make up your lifetime
Thanks for the genuine advice
Thankssss!
❤❤❤
Notes for myself:
Passions are formed, not found
▪find passions by actually doing things!
▪clarity comes from doing
Success fuels passion more than passion fuels success
▪if you define passion as a feeling then you risk failure if/when that feeling changes
▪think about what you would suffer for.
Suffer for something you actually care about
Nice summary!
Yes, definitely well said. Passion comes from doing, not thinking.
Love this summary, I screenshot it🙂🙏🏼
I'm glad you all found it useful :) I personally benefit a lot when I see others write summaries like this and I even like to save it to my homescreen wallpaper to use as a daily reminder
@@hellohello-mi4ek *thankyou so much for this* ❤
I used to also work in a job that I'm not so happy about. I ended up quitting that job to pursue my hobby at that time which was blogging. Eventually I switched to vlogging as I find it more appealing and enjoyed it a lot. That's when I thought I finally "found" my passion. I guess what I'm trying to say is that we also form our passion by doing different things which spark our interests. And then devoting our time to that which we think we can actually do whether we are in the mood for it or not. 😊
Can you make a living out of your hobby? (I hope so of course 💕)
@@juliaz9843 of course! My hobby (doing RUclips fitness videos) is already my main source of income right now. 😊 I think it has become possible because of the demands for it. What I find helps is to dedicate your time to your interest which you think others would spend money or time for. It would eventually become your passion.
That’s awesome, I hope the very best!
Happy for you but you need to realize vlogging is a lot more open to young, pretty women than other people.
@@penultimateh766 there are a lot of other profitable hobbies out there like baking, cooking, sewing, crafting, dance, etc. 💓
“You never achieve success unless you like what you are doing.” - Dale Carnegie
Or do it till you love it?
True.
Very true! Life is much easier if you love what you do!
So true
Classic quote, I love this❤️ the funny thing is that sometimes we confuse “liking what we’re doing” with “wasting time,” or at least I do. I guess it comes down to how some of us were raised.
I know a guy who's 70 years old and he's still trying to figure out what he wants to do for the rest of his life.
Sounds like me! But I’m not 70.
well he doesnt have a socalled 'rest of the life'
what are his achievements so far,if its ok for you to share
A panda once said:
“Don’t hope for a life without problems,”“There’s no such thing. Instead, hope for a life full of good problems.”
To whoever is reading this, I hope you find your true passions soon and live a life well-lived 🙂
Thank you, Leslie.
And if you're a sub-Saharan African or a Bangladeshi, we hope you achieve the passion of not starving to death.
Thank you girl. More power to you as well
thank you, leslie. you too.
Bruhh didn't she just say passion is not "found"
This is anxiety caused by the ego, wanting to know the story in advance. Existing in the now one does not worry about such things and you simply flow with and enjoy life letting it take you where it takes you.
True.
Your purpose is not what you love doing.
*Your purpose is what you can't live without doing.*
Exactly.
Woah I love this
So true!
I love it
Food
*"You are one desicion away from a totally diffrent life."*
I'll never forget my former teacher who told me that I was talented. She believed in me more than I ever would. Words are incredibly powerful. They can build and destroy at the same time
I think it’s okay to make a living off of something other than your passion. Oftentimes, putting that pressure on your passion can make the excitement and joy of it all to fall away.
Many times we are suffering for a greater cause, family, the pride of work or just taking good care of ourselves financially. Passion can't always be in the work life. Maybe on the side at times.
I 100% agree. Especially if you’re still working for a cause you believe in
I think at some point it all comes together ✨✨
During my nihilistic days in college, I always asked myself what the meaning of life was? Not too long ago I got an answer(don't remember the source), is simply to give life meaning. Do what fulfills you, and practice gratitude often. Those were game changers for me.
I feel the romanticizing part too much. When I had to decide what to study after school I was only focusing on finding the perfect course. In the end I learned that no matter what I will choose there will be regrets and a feeling of missing out as well as a lot of beautiful things to discover. Understanding that helped me a lot with making all kinds of decisions.
ps.: I just get excited everytime I see a new video of yours. Thanks so much for the inspirational content every time :)
@@eu9ne Hii, when I was in your position I decided to just take a break after school. I started working in many different mini jobs and I went abroad for a year. I dont think this is really necessary but for me even just meeting so many new people outside my usual bubble and also distancing myself a bit from those who I noticed held me back in some ways was super helpful. I really got to know myself better and learned what was actually important in life for me.
I met some super inspiring people that showed me different ways of making decisions and going about life. Still in the end the most important thing was actually figuring out what gives me the most joy and fulfils me. Regularly writing down what was going on in my head and properly listening to my thoughts and feelings helped me the most I would say. I know this is all kinda vague but I hope its somewhat helpful :)
The simplest answer to this question is just: TRY EVERYTHING
Agreed! 💯🙌
Absolutely.... but sometimes we can't.....
exactly!
Searching for a single grand passion can often be linked to perfectionism - we want to get everything just right and be 100% certain something will be *perfect* for us. But life is messy and malleable, and so are the things we love. It's best to simply enjoy the exploration.
You look like Kendall Jenner
Thanks for the video still watching u
Your point on romanticising passion was such a good one. For me, "passions" are a labour of love: a love, but no doubt laborious. Maintaining them isn't always easy, but they're absolutely necessary to making you feel alive and enthralled in the world.
True.
Nutrition=shows a cake 😆
I tried to write down what I want to do, and why I'm here every week.
And I realized it always change.
That makes me wonder how many selves actually inside of me.
❤
I'm not first
I'm not last
When I see your notification
I click it fast
I really love the quote you said about suffering for what you care about versus suffering for what you don't care about. That really puts a lot of things into perspective for me! Sometimes when I am working on creative content and go down a spiral of sadness/negativity, I forget that no matter how much you love something, there'll always be hard times. This includes work, hobbies, but also relationships as well as self-esteem. I adore your content, Lana! And feel blessed to have you in my feed every week.
I think maybe it’s easier for people who are lucky enough to grow up with parents or other role models around them who encourage, compliment, validate and therefore reinforce what you are good at, to find their ‘passion’. And even ‘picks’ a passion for you as you tend to do what you see around you. As Lana says, success fuels passion and by actually doing something who is seen by others we form an identity around that. For people who lack that validation it’s harder, and they must do the work to validate themselves (both as a person and what they do/accomplish) and find a community who can fuel that. A lot comes down to feeling seen, worthy and validated by others as well as yourself. Remember that you are worthy to feel good. 💞
Thanks, so helpful as always :)
The notifications for your videos are the best notifications
True.
“The purpose of life is a life of purpose.” 🌺💥🧘🏿♂️
sO deEp
It's to glorify God in all areas.
Beautiful.
💗 this
your eyebrows are awesome
You don't find your passion, you create it. :)
I do think many people are born gifted
First! Love your videos
First of all Lana, I think you are one of the most insightful people I've ever watched on RUclips. I enjoy the way you analyze things that most of us seem to pass over or at least that is what I seem to be doing most of the time.
Getting cross-eyed from all the editing lol. Fixed it. Thank you so much James!
@@LanaBlakely I like this new version :-) :-)
My observation is that oftentimes we feel somewhat entitled to solutions presenting themselves out of nowhere... Forgetting that it takes time and effort to find what we truly enjoy. It's a lifelong journey! We're constantly evolving. No surprise that we're persistently searching for something, let it be passion or purpose. Finding anything worth having in life comes from trial and error though, and that requires action, not just guesswork.
This is such a great reflection.
Yes, so true!
This is so profound
One purpose n passion we’ve been born with but always forget is “to live”
True.
Yes
Ur so gorgeous amazing woman
Hei Lana Blakely! Hvordan går det med deg?
Great content and perfect timing! I was just thinking about this!! I think in the past, I overlooked the value of authenticity in my decision-making. I am also starting to embrace the fact that we are evolving each day and it's wise to update our plans accordingly. This video is really soulful! Thanks for being brutally honest Lana!
True.
I have been intuitively waiting for you to show up on my feed seconds before you published a video! You always make my weekends calmer! Such a beautiful soul. ❤️
Really awesome video. I wonder if the best thing to do if you don't know what you're passionate about is to simply try new things, to venture beyond what is comfortable and familiar. You won't know if you're passionate about something until you give it a shot.
As someone who grew up with a lot of interests, choosing what you want to do, I think, is just as difficult. But you're right, perhaps it really just comes from doing things that eventually help form a path that you could thrive in. I've been doing mental analysis and frameworks of which path to take based on quantified experiences, which at this point is stressing me out. Now I'm realizing the only way to find out is not through micro-analyzing, but through experiencing. "Clarity comes from doing" !!!
Love you videos Lanaaaa, you were an inspiration for my own chanell 🥰🥰
Beautiful reflections, beautiful channel
Passion has always been a tricky one. What we tend to think is that there's some hobby, career, activity etc. out there that's the key to living our most fulfilling life, one that'll make us happy and keep us satisfied for the rest of our lives. But there's nothing like that.
No matter what you want in life, or how you choose to do it, you won't always find it fun or thrilling, you'll have your ups and downs and that's part of life.
Yes there are things in life that just won't work out for us, but that doesn't mean you'll come across something and the stars will align and it'll be perfect. Sometimes you start something and realize that while it may have not been something you ever thought of in the past, it ends up becoming something you do for the long-term.
amazing video
love your videos so much! i am sooo incredible thankful for discovering your channel;) and i am from germany
I think you made a mistake with the title
Rogerrrr
"Clarity doesn't come from thinking, it comes from doing"
I LOVE this. I needed to hear this years ago
sometimes people dont have passion. being told to find your passion is toxic and unproductive for a lot of people. some people just either dont like anything or they like everything. im so sick and tired of being told "find your niche", "find your passion". when ur a child do you dedicate yourself to playing or exploring only one thing?? no, when youre a child you are curious about and pursue everything you see. then you get bored and move on. that is how it is for most people throughout their lives. after some time I get so bored. in the words of Rihanna " I am bored while im doing it" lol
She never said it had to be only one passion. I had a professional job and loved it and moved up and after 20 years of that lost the passion and then opened up a running store. Did great with that for 13 years. Started to burn out, sold the store and now I’m a youtuber and author. Your passion does change and that’s okay.
lana your videos help so much with my self-growth 🍃
My life has become more complicated year by year.
The best part is I'm still single.
Worst part is I'm earning zero.
I am living very simple life.
Love this channel
Her voice itself is enough for me to define what is life... Doesn't matter what she speaks
@LanaBlakely, I love the way you are opening each layer of your internal thoughts. We might be born with certain talents, like singers, athletes or mathematicians and then we can turn daily activities into a passion when we find a way to interconnect them with our skills. Thanks for sharing your path.
You have such a passion for the important things in life! You always help me gain perspective. Thank you❤️❤️❤️
You're a philosopher Lana... a philosopher. 😊
Exactly.
Thank you Lana! Gracias!🌻🦋
Thank you so much for this video. I've been crying these past few days because I felt like I'm getting old and I still couldn't find my dream job. I was literally searching for passions and hobbies before you uploaded this. I don't know if this a sign from the universe or just a coincidence but I'm still grateful ❤️
i feel u..im 30..felt no where...but i think ur young, i dnt know how, but set aside ur worries,do not waste ur younger years with anxiety, u cant take this years back..im sincerely hoping we find what we are looking for..bless u
@@highdopamine29 Sorry for the late response! I really do hope we find it soon. Thank you for the advice. Best of luck with everything 🙏
Your videos are so aesthetic, great and helpful content.
Lana, thank you so much for this video!
Thanks Lana . Was literally thinking about this and boom ; a video from you ❤️
Thank you for this! 🙏🏼
you are so incredibly wise. thank you for this
"Passion is ABOUT, but Purpose is TO and FOR (I was put here to accomplish)" The more I watch your videos, the more I fall in love with your content!
Yess i know the quote you mentioned was in the book I read from mark manson. Ask yourself “what are you willing to struggle for” 😌
Hey Lana❤️
I love your sweet voice. It’s very soothing while listening 😘😘👌👌.
Hey I think you wanted to write “how to figure out what you want to do with your life”
Ya, she is so soothing
I swear it is just so hard to figure out 'what to do with your life' at the age of 30!
Try it at 46!
To me the perceived necessity of studying everything in college that is out there that interests me puts a lot of pressure on myself
Love the Jerome Bruner reference! He has a book called Making Stories that's great, and useful for anyone interested in what it means to tell stories
Sunday’s are reserved for Lana‘s videos.
You made some good points❤️
Your content is everything. I love it ❣️
You are a huge inspiration! We love you! :) You are so beautiful!
Your videos are too amazing!!!
Thank you fort your videos. I want to share a little bit on this subject. Younger, I thought that I had only one passion, it was a big one, and I followed it, it became my job... And I was loosing passion, I wasn't happy. Having this passion as a job was making me sick and unhappy, not because it's not a passion, but because I had to make so many sacrifices that was to much for me to be happy. It wasn't working with who I am and what I need to be happy and healthy. It wasn't the right way to live for me. What I didn't know, is that I have so many other passions, I didn't know because I had never tried before. Sometimes, trying new things is really a good thing. And my first passion, became a passion again, I just need it to not be my only job, to do it less, and appreciate it more when I do it. As I try new things, I am learning about myself more and more. Passions can change, we can have more than one passion, and it's not because something is a passion that we would be happy having it as a job. That's what I learned!
Didn't know I'll be lead here through Psych2go. First vid I watch from her was a day in a life of an INFJ. Because I'm an INFJ. After watching this, I felt the connection with her.
Glad you found her video helpful! :)
I think Universe sent that to me.
*I've started a RUclips channel and it doesn't grow the way that I want and I was wondering what is my purpose In life.*
Funny enough that you always fill yourself with certain amounts of doubts. I guess it balances your passions.
I hope your channel grows and you keep going.
Talks about nutrition and a long pause on that chocolate cake....yesss now that's my kind of nutrition lol
Passions are short-lived and rarely lifelong. It's all about the situation.
Early gang🙋🏻♀️
*FIRST* been waiting for you dear💙
I remeber talking with my father and he told one thing that changed my life. " I try to enjoy and love my job independent of what job i take".The people think that they gonna find a dream job and be happly ever after, but the truth is that we have to find happiness in any situation that we can, only accepting our reality and trying to be happy the way life is now until we can "change our lives", thats what i think.
thank u for the video
Great video as always!
"Passions are formed, not found." I believe this as well for the majority of people; however, a passion can appear to be an instinct from a very early age. This is rare, and I believe it is usually caused by influences that have a major impact on the child or young person. Some may say the person was born with a gift. We often see this with musicians. The passion, in this case, becomes an innate part of the person very early on, and the formation of the passion seems instant.
Thank you Lana 🙂
I used to think that finding a passion was esential for living a memorable life, but now I think that the better is to live a life with passion for life itself.
Ps. I loved your neckless ♥️
Thanks a lot for this video. I really needed something like this for a motivation.
Stay blessed
This lady is beautiful in every possible way.
Again a Nice video 😍👁️🔥
Thanks for making the english subtitle, by doing so I know you really listen to your viewers's opinion, +1 respect my friend !!!
'Passions are formed, not found'. Amen Lana! Passions and hobbies come through experiencing things. There is nothing more powerful than trying things, doing things, practicing good habits and not being afraid of experiencing new habits if needs be, to find what truly motivates you and truly soothes you.
You are your own self healer and you are your greatest coach in life. Juts believe in yourself and do what you want to do, your purpose in life will come from that.
watching this before i start my week :)
Your voice is exceptionally calming.
I can then say that I feel blessed because even though it took me around 33 years, I did find my passions! One of them it's counselling! It was always within me, but I just couldn't find it until life decided that it's time!
Lana I like you 💯 percent . You are my role model from now onwards.
You’re my absolute favorite ❤️❤️❤️
Finally, a new clip! I missed you!
How to figure out what you want to do with your life? Go out there, reflect and then act it out. Firstly, sit yourself down to think for a few minutes and look around your surroundings whilst also attending to your ideas, thoughts and emotions and flesh out what beckons to you as troublesome and ask yourself if it's within your level of expertise, knowledge, skill and competence. If it is, act it out by trying to amend the problem slowly and carefully, one manageable step at a time. Practice and do that many times over, and across a lengthy period of time... you'll figure out what is meaningful in your life and potentially the lives of others. A path will reveal itself to you and go for it. And if it's not that path, another one will light forth in time. If you come across a problem that you desperately want to fix but it's out of your level of competence... ask for help to see if there's other novel ideas helpful to your cause that you can carefully experiment out. That's also what therapists are for. And what loved ones are for.
This is very inspiring brother
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