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@@RSIALVR people who are lazy have the opportunity to do so, which some don't. they have no real responsibility, no weight on their shoulders, no perceived consequence that comes along with being lazy.
in general, these statements about laziness annoy me. like... laziness does not exist. there is no knowing what to do with life, there are disorders that prevent you from moving on, such as depression and others. these "super motivations" can simply drive a person into a worse state. who will be to blame? no one, because this blogger said "your problems are not mine". what's the point of teaching someone how to live if you can't take responsibility for your words?
srsly i get so sick and fcking tired of this dumbass mindset lmfao . if we could choose to be happy DEPRESSION WOULDNT EXIST. But thx for the guilt @@user-ey4xw1db9n
@@user-ey4xw1db9nI can see where you’re coming from. Personally I feel like the two are different like if you have a reason to be lazy e.g. depression then that’s completely different because you can’t really help that you have depression & that it’s preventing you from even doing the basics like shower or eat or brush your teeth etc depending on how bad it is. But if you don’t have any reason to be lazy whatsoever and it’s literally just a situation where you cba then laziness is a privilege because your life isn’t going to change for the worse even if you’re doing nothing e.g. you’re not going to starve or lose your house or anything like that. Say a teenager for example, where their family is doing good and there’s less risk of anything bad happening and they don’t need to do anything for themselves like work to put food on the table or keep their house because they’re in a secure place living with their family. That’s privilege because it’s not like they NEED to do anything to survive, but they’re still choosing to do nothing else with their life, if that makes sense idk. That’s just how I view it, like the two are separate. But yeah I feel like this video should be going to people who don’t have an excuse but maybe it would be better if liz acknowledged in the video that mental illness exists and it’s not that simple for everyone to get up and do as she says to better themselves 🤷🏾♀️
Same here😭even my frnd told me that I have a victim mindset and I never listened to him cuz I have never complain him anything about me😭he just judged me by my story and post and I was like is he mad or what but now when I watch liz's video I really feel like my mindset was really like that☹️I never had any intention to be a victim or whatsover but somewhere I feel bad for myself cuz people were really treat me like a shit and now i feel ki that's what a victim mindset is?Anyway I am going to work on myself
@@joellealam8529if someone is privileged, it basically means that they want for very little. They have nearly everything they need to survive and thrive without putting any effort in to achieve it.
1. Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy 2. Life force: . 3 yourself 3.1. How are you treating yourself 3.2. How are you talking yourself in your head 3.3. What are you even watching? What are you watching on your phone constantly all day 3. Clean space is self respect 4. Don't tell anyone abot your trauma 5. Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 6. Are you lazy or did you stop progressing: don't allow yourself to stop progressing because when you stop progressing that's when you stop living 7. Feelings are not always right. Allows your fellings to puge and your body to heal 8. Courage is being vulnerable 9. Learn to ask and accept help 10. Be productive on your own terms 11. Are the people around you draining your energy
It's so true especially if your parents are immigrants they worked so hard to give us a better life litteraly left their home countires and all the discrimination they faced :(
Starting today, because of you, i have decided i am DONE being a victim of myself. Being lazy is indeed a priviledge and my parents are working hard so i can study in a great university, i Will quit being lazy. Thank you for this ❤️
We got this girl!We were not born to be pathetic.Teenage years are the most important, everything is changing in these years from the body to mindset and life.We deserved the best,and that's why we have to work for that because no one will,our parents work hard but if we are being lazy,everything is wasted.
I love this video I feel so much better after watching it. I paused took all my dirty dishes out of my room. I still have alot to go but I’m so proud of myself for starting small!
It’s so amazing how she can push people to do things. I could never do much besides lay since my mental health was deteriorating, but she has helped so much in ways not even my therapist could. I have nothing but love and respect for this woman 💕
1. the halo effect 2. work on your life force: health and diet 3. life force: yourself 4. create routines and stick to them 5. clean space is self respect 6. think about what story you are telling yourself 7. realize you can change your reality at any second 8. heal the past and move on 9. don’t tell everyone about your trauma! 10. too much information makes us lazy 11. are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 12. allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 13. what do you feel vs what do you want 14. learn to ask for and accept help 15. be productive on your own terms 16. are the people around you draining your energy? 17. realize that nobody can make you feel anything 18. change your perspective on situations 19. focus on the things you Can do instead of Can’t
At first I was feeling defensive because I'm significantly disabled and most days genuinely, truly cannot do much without either A. passing out or B. feeling like I'm going to pass out afterwards. (For example, taking a shower requires me to sit down otherwise I run the risk of passing out) so I thought to myself "okay, so am I lazy because I can't work right now due to being unable to take care of myself fully, or having no energy left for other things?" But honestly I see that you're not really talking about people who are legitimately incapable of doing some things. I think your message is actually pretty good, and there is value in a lot of what you said. Especially that productivity looks different from person to person. For me, someone who spends most of my day absolutely exhausted, a productive day is one where I'm able to shower, make an actual meal for myself, exercise in some manner, and either do skincare or a chore or two. That's what I'm trying to achieve as a baseline for every day. It's tough, but I'm working on it.
this is why I always approach self-help with a "take what resonates, leave what doesn't" mentality. she's speaking in generalizations and it won't perfectly apply to everybody and their unique circumstances. it sounds like you've set a great baseline that makes sense for your situation
( no one cares if your lazy. Lazy people are the forgotten ones ) well damn, that was very straight to the point 😂. I needed to hear this so I can exit my lazy girl era
@@margeryojije7862 The fact that they are choosing to watch these videos for help already shows that they are TRYING. You don't know what is going in their life and how bad it is. Even wizardliz says that years of habits takes time to let go of. So focus on yourself and speak for yourself instead of criticizing other people's journey.
@@margeryojije7862 OK? Being bitter and mean to people for no reason like that shows that you also don't implement all her words in your life. You are the same then. If you really wanna preach about "implementing her words in our lives", speak and focus on yourself instead of being like the bitter people liz herself talks about when she brings up bad examples. Bring rude instead of properly talking to me like I talked to you is ugly.
This woman can slap on your face only by talking on camera that too for your own good , she has that power to bring your mind back to stability. She has my respect!
Exactly. When she said I should clean RIGHT NOW, I literally stopped the video and started to clean no joke even tho I wouldn’t actually care what sonebody tells me about that but when it comes to Liz…
Yeah for real though I was on my bed listening to her and then it suddenly all felt connected and I was in the moment. I felt like I needed to stop my bullshit and victim mindset, that I have full control over my life and myself. That I don’t have to live this way and I can do whatever I want in my life. I felt all this with her yelling at me but thank god she’s such a good RUclipsr. I love her 🥰😌
I love the concept of “being lazy means you’re privileged” and it really snaps me back to reality and makes me realize that my parents gave up everything to move to Canada just so we, I, could have a better chance at life, so I could have better education and yet I’m wasting those chances. I am making it up this year cuz I’ve been doing well at school again cuz I’ve found my motivation 💪💪
I completely understand what you mean. It's amazing how our parents sacrifice so much for us. I'm really glad to hear you've found your motivation again. Let's keep pushing forward together!
You can see how this was probably how her hardworking immigrant mother has been talking to them, always motivating and encouraging them... The voice of her mother has become her own voice! It's true, us immigrants don't have the privilege to be lazy... It's literally about our survival.
you literally earned my respect here. with all the people on the internet trying to sugarcoat everything and normalising every toxic/unhealthy traits, it's so refreshing to find someone who can actually talk sense without putting someone else down. Mad respect for you :)
@@thatboy3015some girls can only take short, so... it's physically impossible to put Smith more than 15, so it's about ways to use. Anyway, you cannot reach an organization by penetration (there are no nerves in vagina tube, only near the hole), so you need to stimulate the clit and its legs, everyone's body is individual. Women's organizations is connected to feelings, you can also use that by adding words or small gestures or fantasies
This helped me in healing , in last few days I was constantly suffering because of my toxic family members , now I know how to deal these type of people
See I can only take it bc ik she’s talking to millions and we’re all getting yelled at together and she doesn’t even see me. But boy😭 if she said these directly to my face? I would CRY
im for real going to work on myself this year to earn what i want in life and to accomplish my goals. "to be lazy is a privilege" is literally gonna be my mindset now. my parents have worked so hard to give me the life i have right now and im honestly greatful for it all. im going to start taking care of myself a lot better. im currently cleaning my room as im watching this video now. seriously thank u so much for making this video it really changed my mindset.
After watching this video including her other videos, I just realize this isn't for the people who are softhearted and to those who get easily offended. She's straightforward and doesn't sugarcoat her words. Her words will slap you to your reality for sure😭
I'd say it's for the easily impressionable, if your laziness didn't evaporate by years of guilt tripping from others and yourself, another person will not change it 👀
This is exactly what I needed. I've been acting like such a victim lately and it's effecting everything around me. I know it's pathetic and I'm the problem but I really needed someone to say it right at me.
For me, I've been lazy bc for the first time in my life after working 7 days a week since I was 15 (I wish I was exaggerating) this whole year I didn't do a damn thing 😂 and then guess what happened? I got depressed! I wasn't even enjoying my time off really ! Time to keep going and keep moving again bc that is life. I thought I would be happy once I had XYZ but life is constant motion. Hope my story motivates you, we will keep moving and there's always room to be better and remember even when you feel horrible, someone is always worst of. I came from a long time in survival mode, then I got lost in rest mode. Now its time to thrive again! ❤
Omg literally same, i felt like i always brag to my friends and am a bad person and needed t change, Liz is literally making vids at the perfect timesss
This is my first time watching liz videos one thing ill say is that even just this one video made me realize A LOT. i love that she doesnt sugarcoat things but instead slapping u into reality 😭 made me wanna cry a little cause im so grateful for someone talking some sense into me while also reminding me that im a human so crying is okay, having a stressful time is okay! But if u give up helping urself, u wont gonna make any progress. Remember that taking small steps is something to be proud of, u went on a walk for 5-10 minutes? Thats good! Be proud of urself for taking one step at a time instead of 10 steps at the same time (which will stress u out and take u back to step 1)
liz i just wanna say i discovered you in early 2023 when i was getting ghosted by all my friends and fell into depression. You have FLIPPED my life around completely. I have now cut out all the negative people in my life and focused on myself. It's almost my 15th birthday and I have never felt so clean and put together, thankyou. You're saving many people daily!!
Summary In this video, Liz discusses how to stop being lazy and become more productive. She emphasizes the importance of realizing that nobody cares if you're lazy and that everyone has their own problems. Liz shares personal anecdotes and highlights the privileges of being able to choose laziness. She also talks about the halo effect and how successful people have no option but to work hard. Liz then explains the concept of focusing on your life force, which includes health, relationships, and self-care. Additionally, Liz encourages creating routines and sticking to them, while also emphasizing the importance of maintaining a clean living space. She concludes by reminding viewers to remind themselves why they made a commitment to their goals and to stop telling themselves they are lazy. Highlights 💪 Realize that nobody cares if you're lazy. 💡 Privilege allows some people to choose laziness. ⭐ Successful people have no option but to work hard. 🌟 Focus on your life force (health, relationships, and self-care). 📝 Create routines and stick to them. 🧹 Keep a clean living space. 🗝 Remind yourself why you made a commitment to your goals and stop labeling yourself as lazy. Thanks, Wizard Liz 🥰
"In order for you to progress, you need a constant drive or something to strive for." "Don't allow yourself to stop progressing. Because when you stop progressing, you stop living" This hits really hard 🎯
@@aysuumarva8396 anyways, the context of halo effect is used metaphorically to describe a positive or negative "glow" that surrounds a person or thing, influencing how they are perceived.
''if you are reliving in the past it will literally make you physically ill'' 14:21 This is so true because back in august i was really depressed i started to loose happiness in the things i loved doing most like Pilates, hanging out with my friends etc. and basically when i get home from school i just lock myself in my own room and drowned myself in this depression and self-pity and each time i did that i would get so sad my *chest started to hurt, and i would get nauseous*
Tbh some people don't need to 'just move on'. And survival mode can make you freeze and get depressed. A lot of people's bodies can just not cope with constant stress. That's how they get chronic illnesses. Most of them got ill because they just continued and continued fighting. We need to put more importance on community. People are literally not made to fight the world alone. The first thing that 'lazy' people need to do is find a good therapist. But, in a lot of countries access to therapy is not easy. Here in Belgium, a session costs 65 euro. Yes, laziness exists, and it can come from privilege or being spoiled. But some people are 'lazy' because they are in survival mode for too long and their body tries to stop them, so the body can heal from the constant cortisol. You give some good advice.
0:20 Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy 3:36 The halo effect 5:47 Work on your life force : 1. Health and diet 6:38 Life force : 2. Relationships 7:29 Life force : 3. Yourself 8:53 Create routines and stick to it 9:36 Clean space is self respect 9:58 There is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself 11:16 Think about what story are you telling yourself 12:07 Realise you can change your reality any second 12:46 Heal the past and move on 13:30 Don't tell everyone about your trauma!!! 14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 16:23 Too much information makes us lazy 16:57 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 18:12 Feelings are not always right 18:35 Allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 19:22 What do you feel vs what do you want 19:51 Courage is being vulnerable 21:12 Learn to ask and accept help 22:03 Be productive on your own terms 22:45 Are the people around your draining your energy? 23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything 24:52 Change your perspective on situations 25:27 Focus on the things you can do
This video came to me now, 20/12/23 just before the end of 2023. I kept watching on when you said “you’ll probably be too lazy to watch this video” and I’m so glad I did. I really needed this push. To expand my awareness, told the facts and now respect and love myself enough to put the work into me. Thank you. I completely agree with everything you say it actually brought a tear to my eye. I can’t wait to grow!
Genuinely, thank you so much. I have been in a pit of despair with recent stuff going on but just watching this and the harshness of your words. It inspires me to change, thank you.
_Don’t think of what you can’t do. Think of what you CAN do._ Thank you, Liz! That’s a game-changer for me. I always think about what I can’t do, and I end up depressed and comparing myself to others. But thinking about what I CAN do, I feel powerful and unstoppable. I feel alive again.
The thought of being "depressed" is all just a big myth people have made it to distract others and if you keep on saying "I'm depressed" then your actually gonna feel like that. You can be sad but never say you are depressed. I swear all this generation wants to do is put a label on everything and there's hundreds of examples like this such as the lgbtq that's a huge one. Basically what I'm saying is just stop saying your depressed and all this crap because let's be for real your not and most people say this just because everyone else is saying it. So stop. Just think to your self you could be living in a worser situation right now. Keep in mind that people are living in a worse situation than you it's just how you react to the situation that matters most, So take a step back and try to fix the problem not overwhelm your self wth it And remember your not depressed your just sad and sadness doesn't last forever
Now now let's not be negative because you say you can do nothing but what are you doing right now: breathing, probably sitting, writing this comment. So how can you say that you can't do anything if your doing something right now. Don't do negative self talk it just brings you down and I'm pretty sure you already know this.
@thatboy3015 well for me personally it's not the size that matters its the technique that you use. And if you are small and she doesn't get as much pleasure from it then try to distract her with more then just that like kisses etc.
I've never leaving a single comment on this app. But this woman... This video of hers made me cry. Not in a bad way. She made me cry of realization. Just from nowhere. God bless her, I swear she gonna change my life.
Came across my feed when I was having a breakdown ab how lazy I feel, how I can’t get off my phone, how I don’t have the body I want, oh I’m so depressed, oh I lost family last year. I’M NO LONGER PLAYING THE VICTIM. I’m doing what I can
I cried while watching this, this is literally what I've wished for. I wished for having someone who would lovingly yet effectively put some sense into my head and I feel god saw me suffer and sent you on my feed. Thank you so much Liz, I love you, you're the elder sister I never had, thank you so so much!!!
How to stop being lazy and pathetic 3:36 The Halo Effect 5:46 (Work on your life force) 1. Health and Diet 6:38 2. Relationships 7:29 3. Yourself 8:53 Create routines and stick to it 9:36 Clean Space is Self respect 11:15 Think about what story are you telling yourself 12:06 Realise you can change your reality any second 12:46 Heal the past and move on 13:30 Don’t tell everyone about your trauma 14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 16:22 Too much information makes us lazy 16:58 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 18:12 Feelings are not always right 18:35 Allow the feelings to purge and your body to heal 19:22 What you feel vs what do you want 19:51 Courage is being vulnerable 21:11 Learn to ask and accept help 22:03 Productive on your own terms 22:46 Are the people around you draining your energy? 23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything 24:51 Change your perspective on situations 25:28 Focus on the things you can do
The first seconds of watching this video felt like it was widening my eyes physically. I felt like I had been given knowledge of myself and my own habits, even though Liz doesn't know I exist. It feels like I've been heard, and I've been told everything I've been doing wrong. To Liz, there'll never be a time when I'm not grateful. I'm going to get out of this endless cycle of self-destruction and self-pity and clean up my distractions. soon i'll to myself and feel more alive like never before because i worked to see myself happy and proud!!
update: i have been giving myself more attention and care, taking my sleep seriously, eating more consistently, and noticing signs of my health more frequently. if i'm tired, i always take a nap or at least try to get to sleep soon, i never stay up too late. it's always around the same time and i wake up really really early in the morning and i make basic breakfast: buttered toast with avocado with sliced banana and have been drinking green tea for natural caffeine. then i shower and do my average care routine. if I'm not taking care of my skin or if I notice I'm not sleeping properly from my eyebags or i haven't used lip care recently, i always notice. i don't ignore it i only drink water strictly. if not a plastic bottled one, i take some from the tap in my reusable bottle. with just this i have been able to feel better and it shows in my skin and hair. i've been feeling more able to focus and process things better in the day. i've been realising how important taking care of yourself is even as basic as this.
When she spoke about "being children of immigrants" part 🤦🏻♀My parents are immigrants too and they're the most loving parents ever. They worked so hard to give me everything and me being here lazy thinking that "I'm enough without trying" my whole life. Thank you Liz for slapping me back to reality.
As a child of immigrant parents who sacrificed a lot to give me a better life, this really spoke to me. I feel that I have a big desire of giving back to them and start earning enough from social media to pay off their mortgage, but I’ve been so caught up in my own traumas and living with a victim mentality because of it, that I just became lazy and ungrateful and mostly took from them (with the excuse of being a full time student and needing money to support myself in an expensive city) instead of giving my all to make my online business work to fully support myself with it and give back to them as well afterwards. I feel like I’m wasting my years away. But this video was a wake up call. Thanks so much for your work and being so straightforward. Your attitude towards life is really goals for me.
i love the fact that EVERY SINGLE VIDEO OF YOURS has the potential to change my life. and also there's NOTHING not useful you're saying. that is some mad respect for you girl
Do y'all know why Liz has inspired so many people? Because she is a living, breathing examole of EVERYTHING she's teaching us and that's the most powerfull thing i've ever seen
Inspire what? Their narsistic side? First of all if you want to get help in a psychological way you can get prefessional help from educated expert people or you can do self improvement by many ways( change ur mindset if it harms the way of u thinking by embracing, practicing healthy ideas from philosophers etc.) Listening to a model talking rudely with a loud voice, literally underestimating "unconfident,sad" people isn't helpful I think
I suffer from depression and other mental issues which are literally disabilities. Watching videos like these can be painful but they can also help pulling out the best from me.
Me too I didn’t take my meds today bc I didn’t get my refill yet and it’s for tomorrow and I needed to find a way to get out of bed to not feel shit about myself
I've been chronically depressed since I was 11 (im about to turn 22 now) but this mindset works, if you start to think like "today I feel so bad and heavy but I have to take a shower, I have to eat, I have to clean, I have to go for a walk" etc your mind will change little by little you can choose one of those and do them day by day, sometimes you have to force yourself to do things you don't like for the better. I'm not telling you to go love yourself right here right now because I understand that it's not so easy, but start by respecting your body, you need food, exercise, showers, and no one but you is going to go there and do them for you. I hope you find peace of mind and start treating yourself how you deserve to be treated•°♡♡°•.
same, I'm bipolar and have adhd so getting things done can be really hard. I depend on my parents because i quit my job earlier this year. I've tried o apply for work but with little to no experience and being a college student: it's hard. ngl i felt judged watching this
I mean this in such a genuine way, I love this video, the fact that she just told me that I need to get my stuff together in the most calmest, but aggressive way possible was just what I needed
note : rule 1: nobody cares if you are lazy or not [eg. a neighbor and liz's mother]没人关心你懒不懒 rule 2:the halo effect [the purpose of diligence] 光环效应 rule 3 : work on your life force [health and diet] 关注你的生命力--健康和饮食 rule 4: work on your life force [relationship][connect with others instead of isolate]关注你的生命力--关系 rule 5: work on your life force [yourself][write things down/ do something alone ]关注你的生命力--你自己 rule 6: have routines and stick to it [like morning routines and evening routines] 生活的常规 rule 7: clean space is self-respect 清理就是自我尊重 rule 8: there is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself记住初衷/记住为什么开始 rule 9: Realise you can change your reality any second 意识到自己随时可以改变 rule 10：Heal the past and move on 放过自己走出过去 rule 11：dont tell everyone about your trauma 不要告诉别人你的不堪过往 rule 12: your body responds to your thoughts and your emotion 情绪和想法决定我们的行事风格 rule 13:Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 到底是懒还是没有进步 rule 14:too much information makes us lazy 信息爆炸导致我们懒 rule 15: are you too consumed in other people's lives? 你是不是被别人的生活消耗掉了？ rule 16: feelings are not always right 情绪不一定对 rule 17: allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 清理情绪，疗愈自己 rule 18 What do you do vs what do you want 你做什么 vs 你要什么 rule 19: courage is valuable 勇气是脆弱的 rule 20: learn to ask and receive help 学会寻求帮助和接受帮助 rule 21: be productive on your own terms 找到自己的高效率方式 rule 22: are the people around u are draining you ? 你周边的人是不是在抽干你 rule 23: realize that nobody can make you feel anything 意识到没有人可以决定你的情绪 rule 24: change your perspective on situations 改变自己对于事情的看法 rule 25: focus on the things that you can do关注你能做什么
its almost like she's speaking to me directly. this was exactly how i felt for about the last 2-3 weeks, and i just called myself lazy and call it a day without doing anything. i do feel motivated. thanks liz!
I love being reality checked every time i come to this channel bc I've made almost no progress in the last few months and I really need to stop mindlessly scrolling and thinking about how much my life sucks 💀 just getting told that I can change my life at any moment is enough for me to get up and start doing the things I actually want to do and need to do
Best video I’ve watched in ages. I was lazy and I was privileged. I stopped being lazy because I got hit in the face with a realisation, not literally, but I got unwell from something that was completely my fault and I realised that my laziness was causing my health to deteriorate and when it really affected me it changed my whole mindset. I didn’t fully understand why my mind changed but this video helped me realise why.
@@ThewizradIiz bro not cleaning up my house is often more self respect than disrespect to me. because I waste so much time on beautiful things. but on the other hand you are right. I can see you mentally freaking out if you could just seeing what my apartment looks like right now😂 but im cleaning no worry
When Liz say get up and clean your room i did and honestly it took me more than a hour cause my room was so dirty and just now not only my room my head also feels clean thank you Liz
I literally cried on this video because i am feeling very frustrated about my future. i am unemployed, i am fat and i am lazy 😢 but now that i've watched your video, my mind changed in a snap. it made me felt i have no rights to be lazy because there are people out there who's eager, passionate and takes challeges 100% that's why i taught to myself, if others can, i can too. so starting tomorrow i'm gonna be going to the gym already and started working out. i'm also gonna eat healthy foods and not be lazy anymore😢❤
Today i asked my mom for help and it wasn’t easy. I broke down crying but she was supportive and i’m now getting a therapist. Liz, you have no idea how much you’ve helped me shape myself into a healthier person. I’ve never been so motivated like i am when i watch your videos. I’m just so proud of myself for asking for help finally. I’ve been bottling up my emotions for months so it feels like a huge relief. I don’t have any friends, and i used to have a victim mindset where i was so upset over how i didnt talk to anyone throughout the day. But you made me realize that i dont need anyone, i just need myself and that i can pull myself out of this state without anyone else. You’ve helped my self esteem and made me realize my worth. I’m still struggling and it’s been hard to keep up but i’m just so proud with what i’ve achieved. Thank you.
I’m really happy for you for doing that ❤️ you are really lucky to have a mom that will support you in that way. I was not as lucky, for when I reached out to mine also broke down crying she brushed me off and I suppressed my emotions, two years later came down with a physical illness that put me in chronic pain for two years. I still can’t eat gluten, dairy, or eggs to this day.
@@thecoolwhipkid2026 im sorry 💗 i also have a mom that brushes off my emotions. it's made me scared to open up because she lashes out at me when I express these feelings and now I dont know what to do
@@A-be6es I am so sorry for you, I hope that you have or will find people that deserve you and are there for you. I wish you the best and I hope you will find happiness
I just wanna say how Liz actually has changed my whole perspective of my life. Like I used to be such a lazy and horrible person, but now I actually have my life together. So thankyou so much Liz 💗
Girl I need more videos like this. It kinda wakes me up and accept that sometimes my mind is just victimising myself when I can do more things it's just me and my negative thoughts stoping me sometimes.
“You know what lazy people are? They’re the forgotten ones.” “You’re not special and life moves on. That’s it.” Needed to hear that cause lord that is me.
The point where she said " Your body responds your emotions " It can actually be the root cause of laziness smh, it's important to regularly check up on yourself ❤
i was honestly gonna add this to my watch later list and just watch the intro, then i got called out and i realised that i was a little pathetic, so now im planning all of my essays due until april at 1am. this was my wakeup call and i love the brutality of your advice
I AM SO LOVING GETTING TOLD OFF BY THIS WOMAN. she is speaking no BS straight facts, my kind of language. we need more straight to the point women in this world. I am sick of weak people feeling qualified to give advice. you go girl!!!
fiinally i realize that i am not lazy i have just loose interest in things around me and I have to find new hobbies for myself moreover this video reay give me the importance of why healing yourself is important..!!!!😇😇😇😇😇😇
That’s crazy how wise this woman is. Liz is an embodiment of kindness, high self-esteem and wisdom. I’ve watched all the videos and I couldn’t help but admire more and more. Thank you so much, queen❤️
These are the most useful advices Ive ever heard and reaffirmed what I already learnt but from my own terrible life experiences.Thank you for refreshing this CRUCIAL life tips, if only I had this video to heed back in my teens, I would not have gone through depression. I hope you achieve your goals and reach your form of happiness too. Sending all the love!
so many great points, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear to get my life back on track and for the better, thank you Liz, you have no idea how much this changed my perspective❤
Okay so as a 12 year old, I think wizard Liz have COMPLETELY changed my life. After following her advices, I literally like became a whole different person in just one second. I’m really glad that someone like her is here. So the things that I CAN do is and (I’m doing it) is cooking, exercise, babysit, and sometimes help my family cook. A huge thank you to Liz !!
That's good to have this kind of advice so young!! When I was your age I definitely wasn't independent and didn't have my shit together, I think it's really beneficial to start having this mindset from a young age
@@margeryojije7862 u commented on this channel 324 times 😭 either u want attention or ur weirdly obsessed, both are embarrassing. if u are being serious yeah some people don’t do exactly what she says immediately because it takes time to change ur mindset and build new habits.
This video made me really realize what I was doing with my life and how I’m not gonna be able to get anywhere if I just be a slop, I even started getting teary eyes while watching this
this video made me realize that im not pushing myself to be better version of myself. im just complaining about it and being lazy not gon help to my future.
After a long time, I opened my Bible and prayed, I asked for guidance and found this video and I could not be more thankful to God for helping me find help through Liz. And thank you, Liz, may God bless you.
I've stop progressing. But I realise it is my fault, for my mindset and yes, some laziness and depression and wanting to stay in the comfort of the situation. I really needed this message. It was a huge slap in my face and I can't thank you enough!
Thank you for making this video. Nobody ever sees the failures, the tears or the times you have to go hungry or wear old clothes that is falling apart even when you sew it. They only see the successes.
I was having trauma for so many years and after so many days I was feeling kind of healed from inside ... Thank you so much for being an unpaid therapist for me ❤️❤️
"I want you to clean right now because that's just a huge disrespect to yourself" *pauses the video and starts cleaning my room to earn self-respect* That was actually powerful and Liz makes amazing points that are truly eye-opening. I'm just waking up on a Saturday morning wondering what to do for the weekend and this was definitely a wake-up call for me to get my act together. Can't wait to change my habits into better routines and see the outcome by the end of this year. There is always time to change. The question is if not now, when?
Liz has truly helped me get out of a dark place, watching her videos is what inspired me to better my life, and even start my own channel. I am forever grateful for her compassion. She puts herself in a vulnerable position just to help all of us, thank you Liz ❤
I think her vulnerability is what makes her very strong now. Very ironic. She knows all the places where it can go wrong in our heads and thinking. She's very strong now and knows how to deal with her weaknesses and even gives advice for ours.
“To be lazy is to be privileged” wow. Needed to hear that. She really knows how to put it
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Sorry I'm not catching up with that can someone explain it in a simpler term?😭
@@RSIALVR people who are lazy have the opportunity to do so, which some don't. they have no real responsibility, no weight on their shoulders, no perceived consequence that comes along with being lazy.
i don't understand a thing she once said she was addicted to her phone now she says she's never been to social media
The way she yells at me always snaps me back to reality
@@margeryojije7862Shut.Up.😭
This is so real
Lmao
She sounds genuinely angry at me 😂
Better go to the kitchen and microwave something.
*“being lazy is a privilege”* you changed my mindset on everything
this is insulting asf to disabled people but whatever floats yalls pathetically shallow boat
in general, these statements about laziness annoy me. like... laziness does not exist. there is no knowing what to do with life, there are disorders that prevent you from moving on, such as depression and others. these "super motivations" can simply drive a person into a worse state. who will be to blame? no one, because this blogger said "your problems are not mine". what's the point of teaching someone how to live if you can't take responsibility for your words?
srsly i get so sick and fcking tired of this dumbass mindset lmfao . if we could choose to be happy DEPRESSION WOULDNT EXIST. But thx for the guilt @@user-ey4xw1db9n
@@user-ey4xw1db9nI can see where you’re coming from. Personally I feel like the two are different like if you have a reason to be lazy e.g. depression then that’s completely different because you can’t really help that you have depression & that it’s preventing you from even doing the basics like shower or eat or brush your teeth etc depending on how bad it is. But if you don’t have any reason to be lazy whatsoever and it’s literally just a situation where you cba then laziness is a privilege because your life isn’t going to change for the worse even if you’re doing nothing e.g. you’re not going to starve or lose your house or anything like that. Say a teenager for example, where their family is doing good and there’s less risk of anything bad happening and they don’t need to do anything for themselves like work to put food on the table or keep their house because they’re in a secure place living with their family. That’s privilege because it’s not like they NEED to do anything to survive, but they’re still choosing to do nothing else with their life, if that makes sense idk. That’s just how I view it, like the two are separate. But yeah I feel like this video should be going to people who don’t have an excuse but maybe it would be better if liz acknowledged in the video that mental illness exists and it’s not that simple for everyone to get up and do as she says to better themselves 🤷🏾♀️
erm then dont watch it
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I’ve been in a victim mentality/I’ve been sick era for long enough. Thank you for the real talk.
Same and this is the worst thing i ever lived.
Edit: GUYS, IM NOT GONNA GIVE YOU SPOİLERS BUT JUST TRUST THE PROCRESS!!!!!
Hope you're doing better!
Same here😭even my frnd told me that I have a victim mindset and I never listened to him cuz I have never complain him anything about me😭he just judged me by my story and post and I was like is he mad or what but now when I watch liz's video I really feel like my mindset was really like that☹️I never had any intention to be a victim or whatsover but somewhere I feel bad for myself cuz people were really treat me like a shit and now i feel ki that's what a victim mindset is?Anyway I am going to work on myself
YOU'RE GONNA BE ALRIGHT!! GOOD LUUUCKK
SAME!!!
I like how she goes from yelling and lecturing us one second to smiling and introducing herself the next😭 2:23
SAME❤
righttt😭😭
And then promoting better health! 😂😂😂
i died.
😂
"If you have the option to be lazy, you are privileged." The way this just snapped my eyes wide open. 😳
What does privileged mean?
@@joellealam8529it means basically lucky and fortunate or blessed with wealth or health or anything to be grateful for
@@joellealam8529if someone is privileged, it basically means that they want for very little. They have nearly everything they need to survive and thrive without putting any effort in to achieve it.
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"too much information from social media specifically makes you lazy" so true
1. Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy
2. Life force: . 3 yourself
3.1. How are you treating yourself
3.2. How are you talking yourself in your head
3.3. What are you even watching? What are you watching on your phone constantly all day
3. Clean space is self respect
4. Don't tell anyone abot your trauma
5. Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
6. Are you lazy or did you stop progressing: don't allow yourself to stop progressing because when you stop progressing that's when you stop living
7. Feelings are not always right. Allows your fellings to puge and your body to heal
8. Courage is being vulnerable
9. Learn to ask and accept help
10. Be productive on your own terms
11. Are the people around you draining your energy
"You are not lazy, you are privileged"
I REALLY felt that😭💔
This is my mom's everyday words to me 😭😭
I was like Rah, surely she didn't call me out like that 🥲
it made me tear up 😭😭
It's so true especially if your parents are immigrants they worked so hard to give us a better life litteraly left their home countires and all the discrimination they faced :(
Brooo😭
she will NEVER sugarcoat it for us and i love her for that
@@MdoubleHBxlmao wtf this is not a dating site
@@MdoubleHBxget a life please
No you’ll prob cry lol
@@cyber7065yes it is
@@MdoubleHBxwhy would anybody goijg that good want to be with you 😂
she just dropped all the secrets of life. the secrets we are too blinded by self pity and ego to see.
Starting today, because of you, i have decided i am DONE being a victim of myself. Being lazy is indeed a priviledge and my parents are working hard so i can study in a great university, i Will quit being lazy. Thank you for this ❤️
We got this girl!We were not born to be pathetic.Teenage years are the most important, everything is changing in these years from the body to mindset and life.We deserved the best,and that's why we have to work for that because no one will,our parents work hard but if we are being lazy,everything is wasted.
I'm so proud of me❤
to all the girls who stopped the video to clean their rooms..i feel ya, this woman has power over me, as well
i literally did it sis😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Literally I saw her face mask and was like hey maybe self care? Do some cleaning??
literally. i cleaned a lot of my floor up because whats the point of playing this video if i dont listen?
I love this video I feel so much better after watching it. I paused took all my dirty dishes out of my room. I still have alot to go but I’m so proud of myself for starting small!
It’s so amazing how she can push people to do things. I could never do much besides lay since my mental health was deteriorating, but she has helped so much in ways not even my therapist could. I have nothing but love and respect for this woman 💕
1. the halo effect
2. work on your life force: health and diet
3. life force: yourself
4. create routines and stick to them
5. clean space is self respect
6. think about what story you are telling yourself
7. realize you can change your reality at any second
8. heal the past and move on
9. don’t tell everyone about your trauma!
10. too much information makes us lazy
11. are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
12. allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal
13. what do you feel vs what do you want
14. learn to ask for and accept help
15. be productive on your own terms
16. are the people around you draining your energy?
17. realize that nobody can make you feel anything
18. change your perspective on situations
19. focus on the things you Can do instead of Can’t
@ThewizradIiz love youu
@@skinnylegend2165 that's not liz ... look at the name. it's spelled slightly differently
Thank youuuu
Literally 444 likes rn
شكراااا❤
Always Coming back to watch this video everytime I feel lazy and it works everytime😭
thats true bro, i m doing the same now
At first I was feeling defensive because I'm significantly disabled and most days genuinely, truly cannot do much without either A. passing out or B. feeling like I'm going to pass out afterwards. (For example, taking a shower requires me to sit down otherwise I run the risk of passing out) so I thought to myself "okay, so am I lazy because I can't work right now due to being unable to take care of myself fully, or having no energy left for other things?" But honestly I see that you're not really talking about people who are legitimately incapable of doing some things. I think your message is actually pretty good, and there is value in a lot of what you said. Especially that productivity looks different from person to person. For me, someone who spends most of my day absolutely exhausted, a productive day is one where I'm able to shower, make an actual meal for myself, exercise in some manner, and either do skincare or a chore or two. That's what I'm trying to achieve as a baseline for every day. It's tough, but I'm working on it.
It might be tuff but I believe u can overcome some of the struggles, do ur best🥰 xx
this is why I always approach self-help with a "take what resonates, leave what doesn't" mentality. she's speaking in generalizations and it won't perfectly apply to everybody and their unique circumstances. it sounds like you've set a great baseline that makes sense for your situation
( no one cares if your lazy. Lazy people are the forgotten ones ) well damn, that was very straight to the point 😂. I needed to hear this so I can exit my lazy girl era
Sheesh we got roasted HARD
@@margeryojije7862 The fact that they are choosing to watch these videos for help already shows that they are TRYING. You don't know what is going in their life and how bad it is. Even wizardliz says that years of habits takes time to let go of. So focus on yourself and speak for yourself instead of criticizing other people's journey.
@@DwightK.Schrute. Thank you! 👏🏾
@@0_0Rosie very well spoken!
@@margeryojije7862 OK? Being bitter and mean to people for no reason like that shows that you also don't implement all her words in your life. You are the same then. If you really wanna preach about "implementing her words in our lives", speak and focus on yourself instead of being like the bitter people liz herself talks about when she brings up bad examples. Bring rude instead of properly talking to me like I talked to you is ugly.
This woman can slap on your face only by talking on camera that too for your own good , she has that power to bring your mind back to stability.
She has my respect!
Exactly
Exactly. When she said I should clean RIGHT NOW, I literally stopped the video and started to clean no joke even tho I wouldn’t actually care what sonebody tells me about that but when it comes to Liz…
yess liz is lit
Yeah for real though I was on my bed listening to her and then it suddenly all felt connected and I was in the moment. I felt like I needed to stop my bullshit and victim mindset, that I have full control over my life and myself. That I don’t have to live this way and I can do whatever I want in my life. I felt all this with her yelling at me but thank god she’s such a good RUclipsr. I love her 🥰😌
I love the concept of “being lazy means you’re privileged” and it really snaps me back to reality and makes me realize that my parents gave up everything to move to Canada just so we, I, could have a better chance at life, so I could have better education and yet I’m wasting those chances. I am making it up this year cuz I’ve been doing well at school again cuz I’ve found my motivation 💪💪
I completely understand what you mean. It's amazing how our parents sacrifice so much for us. I'm really glad to hear you've found your motivation again. Let's keep pushing forward together!
if you feel like you are unmotivated, set a new goal.
She’s literally the older sister who wants her younger sister(s) to be better than her
You can see how this was probably how her hardworking immigrant mother has been talking to them, always motivating and encouraging them... The voice of her mother has become her own voice! It's true, us immigrants don't have the privilege to be lazy... It's literally about our survival.
sister and brothers (me)~ stan wonyoungism!!
I’m literally watching this video in order to show it to my little sister 💀💀💀💀
as the older sibling, I wish I had an older sister who would be honest to me like this
She’s only 24. So not big sister vibes. She’s so young. But she’s the friend we all need
you literally earned my respect here. with all the people on the internet trying to sugarcoat everything and normalising every toxic/unhealthy traits, it's so refreshing to find someone who can actually talk sense without putting someone else down. Mad respect for you :)
haiii karma
@@thatboy3015if u ain't blessed in that area, work on your kindness and get yo money up. And learn to use tongue lol
@thatboy3015 many men are not blessed down there as well , so ... ?
@@thatboy3015some girls can only take short, so... it's physically impossible to put Smith more than 15, so it's about ways to use. Anyway, you cannot reach an organization by penetration (there are no nerves in vagina tube, only near the hole), so you need to stimulate the clit and its legs, everyone's body is individual. Women's organizations is connected to feelings, you can also use that by adding words or small gestures or fantasies
@@user-re3vp4fr9s 15 ????? girl 7 inches is already too much
This helped me in healing , in last few days I was constantly suffering because of my toxic family members , now I know how to deal these type of people
She pulls me back to reality and you know what? She is my mother,teacher,therapist, everything honestly I wouldn't do anything if it weren't for her.
when she was telling us to clean our room i felt like she was my mom 😭 LOVE YOU LIZ!!
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ya i never do it when ppl online tell me to do stuff & i just ignore it, but liz is a teacher so i have to follow her commands.
See I can only take it bc ik she’s talking to millions and we’re all getting yelled at together and she doesn’t even see me. But boy😭 if she said these directly to my face? I would CRY
😭😭😭
bro i started looking around my room bye-
I literally paused the vid, cleaned my room and did my skincare then came back
Thank you so much Liz you're a lifesaver 😭💗
same 😭
Hahaha i will do the Same👌
Same!
Lol
omg, i paused the video and did workout too hahahah
im for real going to work on myself this year to earn what i want in life and to accomplish my goals. "to be lazy is a privilege" is literally gonna be my mindset now. my parents have worked so hard to give me the life i have right now and im honestly greatful for it all. im going to start taking care of myself a lot better. im currently cleaning my room as im watching this video now. seriously thank u so much for making this video it really changed my mindset.
It's so important for young women to have another young woman to give hard truths. ❤
After watching this video including her other videos, I just realize this isn't for the people who are softhearted and to those who get easily offended. She's straightforward and doesn't sugarcoat her words. Her words will slap you to your reality for sure😭
because the truth hurts 😉😉
I'd say it's for the easily impressionable, if your laziness didn't evaporate by years of guilt tripping from others and yourself, another person will not change it 👀
Right it's for thirsty ass cat moms who end being alone at 40 with no kids
@@carbon-based-lifeform9172and yet that demographic of unmarried childless women are the happiest
@@carbon-based-lifeform9172male moment
This is exactly what I needed. I've been acting like such a victim lately and it's effecting everything around me. I know it's pathetic and I'm the problem but I really needed someone to say it right at me.
For me, I've been lazy bc for the first time in my life after working 7 days a week since I was 15 (I wish I was exaggerating) this whole year I didn't do a damn thing 😂 and then guess what happened? I got depressed! I wasn't even enjoying my time off really ! Time to keep going and keep moving again bc that is life. I thought I would be happy once I had XYZ but life is constant motion.
Hope my story motivates you, we will keep moving and there's always room to be better and remember even when you feel horrible, someone is always worst of. I came from a long time in survival mode, then I got lost in rest mode. Now its time to thrive again! ❤
Omg literally same, i felt like i always brag to my friends and am a bad person and needed t change, Liz is literally making vids at the perfect timesss
thats growth, you take accountability of your actions.
ruclips.net/user/shorts9s8aYXrsl04?feature=share
☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻
honey, first of all, go rn and change your stupid id, you are not a procrastinator anymore! Good luck 🌷
This is my first time watching liz videos
one thing ill say is that even just this one video made me realize A LOT.
i love that she doesnt sugarcoat things but instead slapping u into reality 😭
made me wanna cry a little cause im so grateful for someone talking some sense into me while also reminding me that im a human so crying is okay, having a stressful time is okay! But if u give up helping urself, u wont gonna make any progress.
Remember that taking small steps is something to be proud of, u went on a walk for 5-10 minutes? Thats good! Be proud of urself for taking one step at a time instead of 10 steps at the same time (which will stress u out and take u back to step 1)
liz i just wanna say i discovered you in early 2023 when i was getting ghosted by all my friends and fell into depression. You have FLIPPED my life around completely. I have now cut out all the negative people in my life and focused on myself. It's almost my 15th birthday and I have never felt so clean and put together, thankyou. You're saving many people daily!!
Summary
In this video, Liz discusses how to stop being lazy and become more productive. She emphasizes the importance of realizing that nobody cares if you're lazy and that everyone has their own problems. Liz shares personal anecdotes and highlights the privileges of being able to choose laziness. She also talks about the halo effect and how successful people have no option but to work hard. Liz then explains the concept of focusing on your life force, which includes health, relationships, and self-care. Additionally, Liz encourages creating routines and sticking to them, while also emphasizing the importance of maintaining a clean living space. She concludes by reminding viewers to remind themselves why they made a commitment to their goals and to stop telling themselves they are lazy.
Highlights
💪 Realize that nobody cares if you're lazy.
💡 Privilege allows some people to choose laziness.
⭐ Successful people have no option but to work hard.
🌟 Focus on your life force (health, relationships, and self-care).
📝 Create routines and stick to them.
🧹 Keep a clean living space.
🗝 Remind yourself why you made a commitment to your goals and stop labeling yourself as lazy.
Thanks, Wizard Liz 🥰
You're amazing!!! thank you.
@@MdoubleHBxXDDDDDDD
Youre so kind for this❤ thank you for the dedication
this comment is so ai coded, but thx love it
what is meaning "halo effect"
"In order for you to progress, you need a constant drive or something to strive for."
"Don't allow yourself to stop progressing. Because when you stop progressing, you stop living"
This hits really hard 🎯
hi what is meaning "halo effect"?
@@aysuumarva8396 there is a google honey 😊
@@aysuumarva8396 anyways, the context of halo effect is used metaphorically to describe a positive or negative "glow" that surrounds a person or thing, influencing how they are perceived.
@@juliakayeballesteros4125 thank you💞
my english isn't well that's why i asked from you
''if you are reliving in the past it will literally make you physically ill'' 14:21
This is so true because back in august i was really depressed i started to loose happiness in the things i loved doing most like Pilates, hanging out with my friends etc. and basically when i get home from school i just lock myself in my own room and drowned myself in this depression and self-pity and each time i did that i would get so sad my *chest started to hurt, and i would get nauseous*
Tbh some people don't need to 'just move on'. And survival mode can make you freeze and get depressed. A lot of people's bodies can just not cope with constant stress. That's how they get chronic illnesses. Most of them got ill because they just continued and continued fighting. We need to put more importance on community. People are literally not made to fight the world alone. The first thing that 'lazy' people need to do is find a good therapist. But, in a lot of countries access to therapy is not easy. Here in Belgium, a session costs 65 euro. Yes, laziness exists, and it can come from privilege or being spoiled. But some people are 'lazy' because they are in survival mode for too long and their body tries to stop them, so the body can heal from the constant cortisol. You give some good advice.
i’m so proud of liz because she’s been through so much and then opens up to us and helps us with things. her energy is really magnetic
Magenta
@@DwightK.Schrute. magnetic=magenta
@@DwightK.Schrute. he is down bad
@@DwightK.Schrute. oh yeah
@@MdoubleHBx neggawhat
0:20 Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy
3:36 The halo effect
5:47 Work on your life force : 1. Health and diet
6:38 Life force : 2. Relationships
7:29 Life force : 3. Yourself
8:53 Create routines and stick to it
9:36 Clean space is self respect
9:58 There is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself
11:16 Think about what story are you telling yourself
12:07 Realise you can change your reality any second
12:46 Heal the past and move on
13:30 Don't tell everyone about your trauma!!!
14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing?
16:23 Too much information makes us lazy
16:57 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
18:12 Feelings are not always right
18:35 Allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal
19:22 What do you feel vs what do you want
19:51 Courage is being vulnerable
21:12 Learn to ask and accept help
22:03 Be productive on your own terms
22:45 Are the people around your draining your energy?
23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything
24:52 Change your perspective on situations
25:27 Focus on the things you can do
for the lazy people ^
@@jaydahaenga617 not only for the lazy ones. sometimes we need a structure to not forget the topics 👀 like a summary
Sooo helpful
thank you
Thank you!
This video came to me now, 20/12/23 just before the end of 2023. I kept watching on when you said “you’ll probably be too lazy to watch this video” and I’m so glad I did. I really needed this push. To expand my awareness, told the facts and now respect and love myself enough to put the work into me. Thank you. I completely agree with everything you say it actually brought a tear to my eye. I can’t wait to grow!
Genuinely, thank you so much. I have been in a pit of despair with recent stuff going on but just watching this and the harshness of your words. It inspires me to change, thank you.
All your videos motivate me to be the best version of myself, i love it
I love the video tho
ruclips.net/user/shorts9s8aYXrsl04?feature=share
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Motivation doesn’t exist btw that’s what she said, you just have to do it
whats your ig id
That's your duty in life. This is the only thing you have to do/work on! 😊
_Don’t think of what you can’t do. Think of what you CAN do._
Thank you, Liz! That’s a game-changer for me. I always think about what I can’t do, and I end up depressed and comparing myself to others. But thinking about what I CAN do, I feel powerful and unstoppable. I feel alive again.
The thought of being "depressed" is all just a big myth people have made it to distract others and if you keep on saying "I'm depressed" then your actually gonna feel like that. You can be sad but never say you are depressed. I swear all this generation wants to do is put a label on everything and there's hundreds of examples like this such as the lgbtq that's a huge one. Basically what I'm saying is just stop saying your depressed and all this crap because let's be for real your not and most people say this just because everyone else is saying it. So stop. Just think to your self you could be living in a worser situation right now.
Keep in mind that people are living in a worse situation than you it's just how you react to the situation that matters most, So take a step back and try to fix the problem not overwhelm your self wth it
And remember your not depressed your just sad and sadness doesn't last forever
I can do nothing
Now now let's not be negative because you say you can do nothing but what are you doing right now: breathing, probably sitting, writing this comment. So how can you say that you can't do anything if your doing something right now.
Don't do negative self talk it just brings you down and I'm pretty sure you already know this.
@thatboy3015 well for me personally it's not the size that matters its the technique that you use. And if you are small and she doesn't get as much pleasure from it then try to distract her with more then just that like kisses etc.
@@Maryam_mazzzsay "depression isnt real" to the millions of people who lost loved ones to suicide
I've never leaving a single comment on this app. But this woman... This video of hers made me cry. Not in a bad way. She made me cry of realization. Just from nowhere. God bless her, I swear she gonna change my life.
Came across my feed when I was having a breakdown ab how lazy I feel, how I can’t get off my phone, how I don’t have the body I want, oh I’m so depressed, oh I lost family last year. I’M NO LONGER PLAYING THE VICTIM. I’m doing what I can
I cried while watching this, this is literally what I've wished for. I wished for having someone who would lovingly yet effectively put some sense into my head and I feel god saw me suffer and sent you on my feed. Thank you so much Liz, I love you, you're the elder sister I never had, thank you so so much!!!
I searched for this but I'm glad that I got sense talked into my dumbass.
How are you now? Did this video work???
@@aslzodvampirlarprobably not.
@@FUEGOSTARRoh probably yes. If you want to change, ok. Or don't, I don't care, just be a delusion to yourself
@@amieeee_ girl what??🤣
How to stop being lazy and pathetic
3:36 The Halo Effect
5:46 (Work on your life force)
1. Health and Diet
6:38 2. Relationships
7:29 3. Yourself
8:53 Create routines and stick to it
9:36 Clean Space is Self respect
11:15 Think about what story are you telling yourself
12:06 Realise you can change your reality any second
12:46 Heal the past and move on
13:30 Don’t tell everyone about your trauma
14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing?
16:22 Too much information makes us lazy
16:58 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
18:12 Feelings are not always right
18:35 Allow the feelings to purge and your body to heal
19:22 What you feel vs what do you want
19:51 Courage is being vulnerable
21:11 Learn to ask and accept help
22:03 Productive on your own terms
22:46 Are the people around you draining your energy?
23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything
24:51 Change your perspective on situations
25:28 Focus on the things you can do
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Tysm ❤
Her therapist is a hotline psychic, Idiots.
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Thankssss
The way I immediately stopped the video to clean my room :')
The first seconds of watching this video felt like it was widening my eyes physically. I felt like I had been given knowledge of myself and my own habits, even though Liz doesn't know I exist. It feels like I've been heard, and I've been told everything I've been doing wrong.
To Liz, there'll never be a time when I'm not grateful. I'm going to get out of this endless cycle of self-destruction and self-pity and clean up my distractions. soon i'll to myself and feel more alive like never before because i worked to see myself happy and proud!!
update: i have been giving myself more attention and care, taking my sleep seriously, eating more consistently, and noticing signs of my health more frequently. if i'm tired, i always take a nap or at least try to get to sleep soon, i never stay up too late. it's always around the same time and i wake up really really early in the morning and i make basic breakfast: buttered toast with avocado with sliced banana and have been drinking green tea for natural caffeine. then i shower and do my average care routine. if I'm not taking care of my skin or if I notice I'm not sleeping properly from my eyebags or i haven't used lip care recently, i always notice. i don't ignore it
i only drink water strictly. if not a plastic bottled one, i take some from the tap in my reusable bottle.
with just this i have been able to feel better and it shows in my skin and hair. i've been feeling more able to focus and process things better in the day. i've been realising how important taking care of yourself is even as basic as this.
Journaling is such a good way to relieve stress and live happier she is so real
When she spoke about "being children of immigrants" part 🤦🏻♀My parents are immigrants too and they're the most loving parents ever. They worked so hard to give me everything and me being here lazy thinking that "I'm enough without trying" my whole life. Thank you Liz for slapping me back to reality.
@MdoubleHBxpinagssbi neto 🧍🏻♀️
aww
@MdoubleHBx get a life
@MdoubleHBx bro help
@@MdoubleHBx bro tf
I asked God to help me stop being lazy and I came across the video 😭😭 and when she said to get up and clean my room, I did 🧘🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️
Good for you👍
Good job, Jesus loves you!!
Fr ive been more productive in the last week than I have been in my whole life😭
@@toyosia8051 girl frlll
@@tired247 thank u lovee!
As a child of immigrant parents who sacrificed a lot to give me a better life, this really spoke to me. I feel that I have a big desire of giving back to them and start earning enough from social media to pay off their mortgage, but I’ve been so caught up in my own traumas and living with a victim mentality because of it, that I just became lazy and ungrateful and mostly took from them (with the excuse of being a full time student and needing money to support myself in an expensive city) instead of giving my all to make my online business work to fully support myself with it and give back to them as well afterwards. I feel like I’m wasting my years away. But this video was a wake up call. Thanks so much for your work and being so straightforward. Your attitude towards life is really goals for me.
Same❤
i love the fact that EVERY SINGLE VIDEO OF YOURS has the potential to change my life. and also there's NOTHING not useful you're saying. that is some mad respect for you girl
Whenever Liz posts I get a burst of motivation and remember everything I’ve learned from her videos.
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☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻
Do y'all know why Liz has inspired so many people? Because she is a living, breathing examole of EVERYTHING she's teaching us and that's the most powerfull thing i've ever seen
Inspire what? Their narsistic side? First of all if you want to get help in a psychological way you can get prefessional help from educated expert people or you can do self improvement by many ways( change ur mindset if it harms the way of u thinking by embracing, practicing healthy ideas from philosophers etc.) Listening to a model talking rudely with a loud voice, literally underestimating "unconfident,sad" people isn't helpful I think
Yeah totally 😊
So true. She is so motivating.
@@roaslikrrr
@@roaslShe's right though, seek therapy
i love how she said “ik a lazy person will be to lazy to watch this video so lemme be fast” 😭
Yes. People who are swimming to survive CANT stop to cry and be lazy.
I'm always gonna be grateful for Liz , she's helping so many people out there!!!
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@@thatboy3015 for me very much
@@thatboy3015no
I relapsed into my old self and I really needed this. Liz really came through, thank you 😭😭
That’s because you need motivation instead of discipline
@@Film.tv101There’s no such things as motivation actually, it’s all about discipline, discipline will get you successful.
@@mikesquare that’s what I meant, genius
@@mikesquare real
@@Film.tv101 💋
I cleaned my room, did skincare, n did chores while listening to this🎀
Congrats you did the bare minimum
Liz gave me a ton of reasons why I cannot afford to be lazy. She really has a life-changing mindset that speaks volumes 💯
I suffer from depression and other mental issues which are literally disabilities. Watching videos like these can be painful but they can also help pulling out the best from me.
Me too I didn’t take my meds today bc I didn’t get my refill yet and it’s for tomorrow and I needed to find a way to get out of bed to not feel shit about myself
@@idont6439 that's so dangerous 😔 I get mine delivered because sometimes I struggle too much. I hope you'll find a way. Sending love 💕
Just like Liz said , stop telling yourself the bad story , i hope your depression heals , please take small steps and never stop working for them
I've been chronically depressed since I was 11 (im about to turn 22 now) but this mindset works, if you start to think like "today I feel so bad and heavy but I have to take a shower, I have to eat, I have to clean, I have to go for a walk" etc your mind will change little by little you can choose one of those and do them day by day, sometimes you have to force yourself to do things you don't like for the better. I'm not telling you to go love yourself right here right now because I understand that it's not so easy, but start by respecting your body, you need food, exercise, showers, and no one but you is going to go there and do them for you.
I hope you find peace of mind and start treating yourself how you deserve to be treated•°♡♡°•.
same, I'm bipolar and have adhd so getting things done can be really hard. I depend on my parents because i quit my job earlier this year. I've tried o apply for work but with little to no experience and being a college student: it's hard. ngl i felt judged watching this
I mean this in such a genuine way, I love this video, the fact that she just told me that I need to get my stuff together in the most calmest, but aggressive way possible was just what I needed
Thanks again Liz, you have a huge impact on the world.
note :
rule 1: nobody cares if you are lazy or not [eg. a neighbor and liz's mother]没人关心你懒不懒
rule 2:the halo effect [the purpose of diligence] 光环效应
rule 3 : work on your life force [health and diet] 关注你的生命力--健康和饮食
rule 4: work on your life force [relationship][connect with others instead of isolate]关注你的生命力--关系
rule 5: work on your life force [yourself][write things down/ do something alone ]关注你的生命力--你自己
rule 6: have routines and stick to it [like morning routines and evening routines] 生活的常规
rule 7: clean space is self-respect 清理就是自我尊重
rule 8: there is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself记住初衷/记住为什么开始
rule 9: Realise you can change your reality any second 意识到自己随时可以改变
rule 10：Heal the past and move on 放过自己走出过去
rule 11：dont tell everyone about your trauma 不要告诉别人你的不堪过往
rule 12: your body responds to your thoughts and your emotion 情绪和想法决定我们的行事风格
rule 13:Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 到底是懒还是没有进步
rule 14:too much information makes us lazy 信息爆炸导致我们懒
rule 15: are you too consumed in other people's lives? 你是不是被别人的生活消耗掉了？
rule 16: feelings are not always right 情绪不一定对
rule 17: allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 清理情绪，疗愈自己
rule 18 What do you do vs what do you want 你做什么 vs 你要什么
rule 19: courage is valuable 勇气是脆弱的
rule 20: learn to ask and receive help 学会寻求帮助和接受帮助
rule 21: be productive on your own terms 找到自己的高效率方式
rule 22: are the people around u are draining you ? 你周边的人是不是在抽干你
rule 23: realize that nobody can make you feel anything 意识到没有人可以决定你的情绪
rule 24: change your perspective on situations 改变自己对于事情的看法
rule 25: focus on the things that you can do关注你能做什么
thank you so much for that
Absolute thank you
Thank you so much for taking the time to do this, you are an angel.
Thank you for the comment. Just one edit: Courage is being vulnearable. ❣️
its almost like she's speaking to me directly. this was exactly how i felt for about the last 2-3 weeks, and i just called myself lazy and call it a day without doing anything. i do feel motivated. thanks liz!
It’s 2 years for me
you could have depression, i don’t think most are lazy!
The way you told us the truth about not being lazy you just changed me
I, like many others, needed to hear this. I thank you for your candidness. I will do better.
I love being reality checked every time i come to this channel bc I've made almost no progress in the last few months and I really need to stop mindlessly scrolling and thinking about how much my life sucks 💀 just getting told that I can change my life at any moment is enough for me to get up and start doing the things I actually want to do and need to do
Literally, last few months were like on some survival mode and so draining, when we really can get up and change things for better
Bye, same 💀
@MdoubleHBx jump into a lake with heavy rocks in ur pockets
Best video I’ve watched in ages.
I was lazy and I was privileged. I stopped being lazy because I got hit in the face with a realisation, not literally, but I got unwell from something that was completely my fault and I realised that my laziness was causing my health to deteriorate and when it really affected me it changed my whole mindset. I didn’t fully understand why my mind changed but this video helped me realise why.
Which advise actually helped u!?
"if you have the option to be lazy, you're privileged" whoa, this gave me a quick reality check :`)
Thank you for this I actually cleaned my room and now the energy is more vibrant!
I'm literally lazy and pathetic rn 😭 THE VIDEO I NEEDED THANK YOU
@ThewizradIiz you are NAWT Liz get outta here
Liz is the type of friend you actually need in life!!! she is talking facts even tho it might seem harsh but i love her honesty
love ur Ai Hoshino pfp
@@ThewizradIiz bro not cleaning up my house is often more self respect than disrespect to me. because I waste so much time on beautiful things. but on the other hand you are right. I can see you mentally freaking out if you could just seeing what my apartment looks like right now😂 but im cleaning no worry
Yeah that's a friend I need. Not just someone who is there for me when it's convenient and only for fun.😄
@@user-xp5op6sl3r that’s a fake account pretending to be her in replies, see the username is “wizrad” not “wizard”
@@ThewizradIiz wait I honestly thought it's Liz who responded, litterly felt happy for 2 sec :'(
20:20 - 21/22 min is like so where i am. Thank you for sharing. It’s refreshing to know others are going through this.
When Liz say get up and clean your room i did and honestly it took me more than a hour cause my room was so dirty and just now not only my room my head also feels clean thank you Liz
I literally cried on this video because i am feeling very frustrated about my future. i am unemployed, i am fat and i am lazy 😢 but now that i've watched your video, my mind changed in a snap. it made me felt i have no rights to be lazy because there are people out there who's eager, passionate and takes challeges 100% that's why i taught to myself, if others can, i can too. so starting tomorrow i'm gonna be going to the gym already and started working out. i'm also gonna eat healthy foods and not be lazy anymore😢❤
Wish you the best of luck, you can do this!
Sending you lots of love and support energetically!! You can totally do this girl!
You can do this!! Be kind if you have slip-ups but as long as you keep going, you’re doing great!!
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@@Vengeance2203 get a life
Today i asked my mom for help and it wasn’t easy. I broke down crying but she was supportive and i’m now getting a therapist. Liz, you have no idea how much you’ve helped me shape myself into a healthier person. I’ve never been so motivated like i am when i watch your videos. I’m just so proud of myself for asking for help finally. I’ve been bottling up my emotions for months so it feels like a huge relief. I don’t have any friends, and i used to have a victim mindset where i was so upset over how i didnt talk to anyone throughout the day. But you made me realize that i dont need anyone, i just need myself and that i can pull myself out of this state without anyone else. You’ve helped my self esteem and made me realize my worth. I’m still struggling and it’s been hard to keep up but i’m just so proud with what i’ve achieved. Thank you.
I’m really happy for you for doing that ❤️ you are really lucky to have a mom that will support you in that way. I was not as lucky, for when I reached out to mine also broke down crying she brushed me off and I suppressed my emotions, two years later came down with a physical illness that put me in chronic pain for two years. I still can’t eat gluten, dairy, or eggs to this day.
@@thecoolwhipkid2026 im sorry 💗 i also have a mom that brushes off my emotions. it's made me scared to open up because she lashes out at me when I express these feelings and now I dont know what to do
@@A-be6es I am so sorry for you, I hope that you have or will find people that deserve you and are there for you. I wish you the best and I hope you will find happiness
I AM BEYOND PROUD OF YOU WARRIOR!! Reading this made my day especially because you're proud of you. Girl you're so precious, keep it going. ❤️
sending you lots of strength
I just wanna say how Liz actually has changed my whole perspective of my life. Like I used to be such a lazy and horrible person, but now I actually have my life together. So thankyou so much Liz 💗
Girl I need more videos like this. It kinda wakes me up and accept that sometimes my mind is just victimising myself when I can do more things it's just me and my negative thoughts stoping me sometimes.
“You know what lazy people are? They’re the forgotten ones.” “You’re not special and life moves on. That’s it.” Needed to hear that cause lord that is me.
AMEEEEEEEENNNNNN!!!!!
Sameee😢
😂 same
The point where she said " Your body responds your emotions "
It can actually be the root cause of laziness smh, it's important to regularly check up on yourself ❤
yeah... im in that stage right now and i don't know how to get out of it
@@bekybb8301 I'm sure it will pass... i believe everything will be okay ❤️ take some time off, and listen to yourself ☺️🥰
You saved me from a lot of self sabotaging. Thank you so much Liz we love you ❤
i was honestly gonna add this to my watch later list and just watch the intro, then i got called out and i realised that i was a little pathetic, so now im planning all of my essays due until april at 1am. this was my wakeup call and i love the brutality of your advice
I AM SO LOVING GETTING TOLD OFF BY THIS WOMAN. she is speaking no BS straight facts, my kind of language. we need more straight to the point women in this world. I am sick of weak people feeling qualified to give advice. you go girl!!!
straight to the point aint 26 mins, she's wasting your time
@@fab_code26 minutes of your whole life. If every other minute of your life is improved even slightly by this video, then it’s worth it.
@@fab_code "a lazy person would be too lazy to watch the whole video"
@@fab_code u go mr lazy!!!!
@@geetmittal word
“You’re Not Special and life goes on. That’s it, life moves”
Damn bro I felt that 💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
Really needed to hear "what you FEEL like and what you WANT is not the same"..) love you Liz❤🥹
fiinally i realize that i am not lazy i have just loose interest in things around me and I have to find new hobbies for myself moreover this video reay give me the importance of why healing yourself is important..!!!!😇😇😇😇😇😇
That’s crazy how wise this woman is. Liz is an embodiment of kindness, high self-esteem and wisdom. I’ve watched all the videos and I couldn’t help but admire more and more. Thank you so much, queen❤️
"If you have the option to be lazy, you are privileged"
- Liz
These are the most useful advices Ive ever heard and reaffirmed what I already learnt but from my own terrible life experiences.Thank you for refreshing this CRUCIAL life tips, if only I had this video to heed back in my teens, I would not have gone through depression. I hope you achieve your goals and reach your form of happiness too. Sending all the love!
so many great points, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear to get my life back on track and for the better, thank you Liz, you have no idea how much this changed my perspective❤
Okay so as a 12 year old, I think wizard Liz have COMPLETELY changed my life. After following her advices, I literally like became a whole different person in just one second. I’m really glad that someone like her is here. So the things that I CAN do is and (I’m doing it) is cooking, exercise, babysit, and sometimes help my family cook. A huge thank you to Liz !!
That's good to have this kind of advice so young!! When I was your age I definitely wasn't independent and didn't have my shit together, I think it's really beneficial to start having this mindset from a young age
12 y/o 😂😂, kid what fuck just happened in your life kiddo
@@j0ph11elit’s ok to be not independent at that age 12 years old it’s literally a child
@@margeryojije7862 u commented on this channel 324 times 😭 either u want attention or ur weirdly obsessed, both are embarrassing. if u are being serious yeah some people don’t do exactly what she says immediately because it takes time to change ur mindset and build new habits.
@@MdoubleHBxnobody wants u
This video made me really realize what I was doing with my life and how I’m not gonna be able to get anywhere if I just be a slop, I even started getting teary eyes while watching this
this video made me realize that im not pushing myself to be better version of myself. im just complaining about it and being lazy not gon help to my future.
After a long time, I opened my Bible and prayed, I asked for guidance and found this video and I could not be more thankful to God for helping me find help through Liz. And thank you, Liz, may God bless you.
@@thatboy3015what?
@@Leema101 ignore them
I've stop progressing. But I realise it is my fault, for my mindset and yes, some laziness and depression and wanting to stay in the comfort of the situation. I really needed this message. It was a huge slap in my face and I can't thank you enough!
Thank you for making this video. Nobody ever sees the failures, the tears or the times you have to go hungry or wear old clothes that is falling apart even when you sew it. They only see the successes.
I was having trauma for so many years and after so many days I was feeling kind of healed from inside ... Thank you so much for being an unpaid therapist for me ❤️❤️
"I want you to clean right now because that's just a huge disrespect to yourself" *pauses the video and starts cleaning my room to earn self-respect*
That was actually powerful and Liz makes amazing points that are truly eye-opening. I'm just waking up on a Saturday morning wondering what to do for the weekend and this was definitely a wake-up call for me to get my act together. Can't wait to change my habits into better routines and see the outcome by the end of this year. There is always time to change. The question is if not now, when?
Nice. Good luck with everything.👍
not me also reading and watching this on a saturday morning
getting my act together 🫡 thx liz love u pookie
You are amazing🎉
Hai how far?
Liz has truly helped me get out of a dark place, watching her videos is what inspired me to better my life, and even start my own channel. I am forever grateful for her compassion. She puts herself in a vulnerable position just to help all of us, thank you Liz ❤
I think her vulnerability is what makes her very strong now. Very ironic. She knows all the places where it can go wrong in our heads and thinking. She's very strong now and knows how to deal with her weaknesses and even gives advice for ours.