@@RSIALVR people who are lazy have the opportunity to do so, which some don't. they have no real responsibility, no weight on their shoulders, no perceived consequence that comes along with being lazy.
in general, these statements about laziness annoy me. like... laziness does not exist. there is no knowing what to do with life, there are disorders that prevent you from moving on, such as depression and others. these "super motivations" can simply drive a person into a worse state. who will be to blame? no one, because this blogger said "your problems are not mine". what's the point of teaching someone how to live if you can't take responsibility for your words?
srsly i get so sick and fcking tired of this dumbass mindset lmfao . if we could choose to be happy DEPRESSION WOULDNT EXIST. But thx for the guilt @@bbpka
@@bbpkaI can see where you’re coming from. Personally I feel like the two are different like if you have a reason to be lazy e.g. depression then that’s completely different because you can’t really help that you have depression & that it’s preventing you from even doing the basics like shower or eat or brush your teeth etc depending on how bad it is. But if you don’t have any reason to be lazy whatsoever and it’s literally just a situation where you cba then laziness is a privilege because your life isn’t going to change for the worse even if you’re doing nothing e.g. you’re not going to starve or lose your house or anything like that. Say a teenager for example, where their family is doing good and there’s less risk of anything bad happening and they don’t need to do anything for themselves like work to put food on the table or keep their house because they’re in a secure place living with their family. That’s privilege because it’s not like they NEED to do anything to survive, but they’re still choosing to do nothing else with their life, if that makes sense idk. That’s just how I view it, like the two are separate. But yeah I feel like this video should be going to people who don’t have an excuse but maybe it would be better if liz acknowledged in the video that mental illness exists and it’s not that simple for everyone to get up and do as she says to better themselves 🤷🏾♀️
I love this video I feel so much better after watching it. I paused took all my dirty dishes out of my room. I still have alot to go but I’m so proud of myself for starting small!
It’s so amazing how she can push people to do things. I could never do much besides lay since my mental health was deteriorating, but she has helped so much in ways not even my therapist could. I have nothing but love and respect for this woman 💕
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
@@joellealam8529if someone is privileged, it basically means that they want for very little. They have nearly everything they need to survive and thrive without putting any effort in to achieve it.
It's so true especially if your parents are immigrants they worked so hard to give us a better life litteraly left their home countires and all the discrimination they faced :(
1. the halo effect 2. work on your life force: health and diet 3. life force: yourself 4. create routines and stick to them 5. clean space is self respect 6. think about what story you are telling yourself 7. realize you can change your reality at any second 8. heal the past and move on 9. don’t tell everyone about your trauma! 10. too much information makes us lazy 11. are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 12. allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 13. what do you feel vs what do you want 14. learn to ask for and accept help 15. be productive on your own terms 16. are the people around you draining your energy? 17. realize that nobody can make you feel anything 18. change your perspective on situations 19. focus on the things you Can do instead of Can’t
This woman can slap on your face only by talking on camera that too for your own good , she has that power to bring your mind back to stability. She has my respect!
Exactly. When she said I should clean RIGHT NOW, I literally stopped the video and started to clean no joke even tho I wouldn’t actually care what sonebody tells me about that but when it comes to Liz…
Yeah for real though I was on my bed listening to her and then it suddenly all felt connected and I was in the moment. I felt like I needed to stop my bullshit and victim mindset, that I have full control over my life and myself. That I don’t have to live this way and I can do whatever I want in my life. I felt all this with her yelling at me but thank god she’s such a good RUclipsr. I love her 🥰😌
( no one cares if your lazy. Lazy people are the forgotten ones ) well damn, that was very straight to the point 😂. I needed to hear this so I can exit my lazy girl era
@@margeryojije7862 The fact that they are choosing to watch these videos for help already shows that they are TRYING. You don't know what is going in their life and how bad it is. Even wizardliz says that years of habits takes time to let go of. So focus on yourself and speak for yourself instead of criticizing other people's journey.
@@margeryojije7862 OK? Being bitter and mean to people for no reason like that shows that you also don't implement all her words in your life. You are the same then. If you really wanna preach about "implementing her words in our lives", speak and focus on yourself instead of being like the bitter people liz herself talks about when she brings up bad examples. Bring rude instead of properly talking to me like I talked to you is ugly.
1. Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy 2. Life force: . 3 yourself 3.1. How are you treating yourself 3.2. How are you talking yourself in your head 3.3. What are you even watching? What are you watching on your phone constantly all day 3. Clean space is self respect 4. Don't tell anyone abot your trauma 5. Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 6. Are you lazy or did you stop progressing: don't allow yourself to stop progressing because when you stop progressing that's when you stop living 7. Feelings are not always right. Allows your fellings to puge and your body to heal 8. Courage is being vulnerable 9. Learn to ask and accept help 10. Be productive on your own terms 11. Are the people around you draining your energy
See I can only take it bc ik she’s talking to millions and we’re all getting yelled at together and she doesn’t even see me. But boy😭 if she said these directly to my face? I would CRY
You can see how this was probably how her hardworking immigrant mother has been talking to them, always motivating and encouraging them... The voice of her mother has become her own voice! It's true, us immigrants don't have the privilege to be lazy... It's literally about our survival.
you literally earned my respect here. with all the people on the internet trying to sugarcoat everything and normalising every toxic/unhealthy traits, it's so refreshing to find someone who can actually talk sense without putting someone else down. Mad respect for you :)
@@thatboy3015some girls can only take short, so... it's physically impossible to put Smith more than 15, so it's about ways to use. Anyway, you cannot reach an organization by penetration (there are no nerves in vagina tube, only near the hole), so you need to stimulate the clit and its legs, everyone's body is individual. Women's organizations is connected to feelings, you can also use that by adding words or small gestures or fantasies
This is exactly what I needed. I've been acting like such a victim lately and it's effecting everything around me. I know it's pathetic and I'm the problem but I really needed someone to say it right at me.
For me, I've been lazy bc for the first time in my life after working 7 days a week since I was 15 (I wish I was exaggerating) this whole year I didn't do a damn thing 😂 and then guess what happened? I got depressed! I wasn't even enjoying my time off really ! Time to keep going and keep moving again bc that is life. I thought I would be happy once I had XYZ but life is constant motion. Hope my story motivates you, we will keep moving and there's always room to be better and remember even when you feel horrible, someone is always worst of. I came from a long time in survival mode, then I got lost in rest mode. Now its time to thrive again! ❤
Omg literally same, i felt like i always brag to my friends and am a bad person and needed t change, Liz is literally making vids at the perfect timesss
After watching this video including her other videos, I just realize this isn't for the people who are softhearted and to those who get easily offended. She's straightforward and doesn't sugarcoat her words. Her words will slap you to your reality for sure😭
I'd say it's for the easily impressionable, if your laziness didn't evaporate by years of guilt tripping from others and yourself, another person will not change it 👀
not even gonna lie, as a male watching this, this really inspired me im 20, retaking exams and finding myself falling into the same old habits but im hating it more and more, like im supposed to be a grown ass man wtf everything she said was spot on. literally everything its crazy I eat like shit, barely move, watch nonsense, never write things down, have 0 routine/structure and lock myself in all day but im expecting to be disciplined? lmao my room was also dirty asf, i stopped, cleaned everything, got some natural light in, cooked a healthy meal, showered, got out of pajamas, and I feel 1000x better and ready to be productive. its astonishing really. I'm gonna start documenting this stuff too, journaling every night before i sleep. this is where i change, its pathetic man im so ambitious too thank u liz
"In order for you to progress, you need a constant drive or something to strive for." "Don't allow yourself to stop progressing. Because when you stop progressing, you stop living" This hits really hard 🎯
@@aysuumarva8396 anyways, the context of halo effect is used metaphorically to describe a positive or negative "glow" that surrounds a person or thing, influencing how they are perceived.
Summary In this video, Liz discusses how to stop being lazy and become more productive. She emphasizes the importance of realizing that nobody cares if you're lazy and that everyone has their own problems. Liz shares personal anecdotes and highlights the privileges of being able to choose laziness. She also talks about the halo effect and how successful people have no option but to work hard. Liz then explains the concept of focusing on your life force, which includes health, relationships, and self-care. Additionally, Liz encourages creating routines and sticking to them, while also emphasizing the importance of maintaining a clean living space. She concludes by reminding viewers to remind themselves why they made a commitment to their goals and to stop telling themselves they are lazy. Highlights 💪 Realize that nobody cares if you're lazy. 💡 Privilege allows some people to choose laziness. ⭐ Successful people have no option but to work hard. 🌟 Focus on your life force (health, relationships, and self-care). 📝 Create routines and stick to them. 🧹 Keep a clean living space. 🗝 Remind yourself why you made a commitment to your goals and stop labeling yourself as lazy. Thanks, Wizard Liz 🥰
Came across my feed when I was having a breakdown ab how lazy I feel, how I can’t get off my phone, how I don’t have the body I want, oh I’m so depressed, oh I lost family last year. I’M NO LONGER PLAYING THE VICTIM. I’m doing what I can
0:20 Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy 3:36 The halo effect 5:47 Work on your life force : 1. Health and diet 6:38 Life force : 2. Relationships 7:29 Life force : 3. Yourself 8:53 Create routines and stick to it 9:36 Clean space is self respect 9:58 There is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself 11:16 Think about what story are you telling yourself 12:07 Realise you can change your reality any second 12:46 Heal the past and move on 13:30 Don't tell everyone about your trauma!!! 14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 16:23 Too much information makes us lazy 16:57 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 18:12 Feelings are not always right 18:35 Allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 19:22 What do you feel vs what do you want 19:51 Courage is being vulnerable 21:12 Learn to ask and accept help 22:03 Be productive on your own terms 22:45 Are the people around your draining your energy? 23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything 24:52 Change your perspective on situations 25:27 Focus on the things you can do
Starting today, because of you, i have decided i am DONE being a victim of myself. Being lazy is indeed a priviledge and my parents are working hard so i can study in a great university, i Will quit being lazy. Thank you for this ❤️
We got this girl!We were not born to be pathetic.Teenage years are the most important, everything is changing in these years from the body to mindset and life.We deserved the best,and that's why we have to work for that because no one will,our parents work hard but if we are being lazy,everything is wasted.
When she spoke about "being children of immigrants" part 🤦🏻♀My parents are immigrants too and they're the most loving parents ever. They worked so hard to give me everything and me being here lazy thinking that "I'm enough without trying" my whole life. Thank you Liz for slapping me back to reality.
i love the fact that EVERY SINGLE VIDEO OF YOURS has the potential to change my life. and also there's NOTHING not useful you're saying. that is some mad respect for you girl
note : rule 1: nobody cares if you are lazy or not [eg. a neighbor and liz's mother]没人关心你懒不懒 rule 2:the halo effect [the purpose of diligence] 光环效应 rule 3 : work on your life force [health and diet] 关注你的生命力--健康和饮食 rule 4: work on your life force [relationship][connect with others instead of isolate]关注你的生命力--关系 rule 5: work on your life force [yourself][write things down/ do something alone ]关注你的生命力--你自己 rule 6: have routines and stick to it [like morning routines and evening routines] 生活的常规 rule 7: clean space is self-respect 清理就是自我尊重 rule 8: there is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself记住初衷/记住为什么开始 rule 9: Realise you can change your reality any second 意识到自己随时可以改变 rule 10：Heal the past and move on 放过自己走出过去 rule 11：dont tell everyone about your trauma 不要告诉别人你的不堪过往 rule 12: your body responds to your thoughts and your emotion 情绪和想法决定我们的行事风格 rule 13:Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 到底是懒还是没有进步 rule 14:too much information makes us lazy 信息爆炸导致我们懒 rule 15: are you too consumed in other people's lives? 你是不是被别人的生活消耗掉了？ rule 16: feelings are not always right 情绪不一定对 rule 17: allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 清理情绪，疗愈自己 rule 18 What do you do vs what do you want 你做什么 vs 你要什么 rule 19: courage is valuable 勇气是脆弱的 rule 20: learn to ask and receive help 学会寻求帮助和接受帮助 rule 21: be productive on your own terms 找到自己的高效率方式 rule 22: are the people around u are draining you ? 你周边的人是不是在抽干你 rule 23: realize that nobody can make you feel anything 意识到没有人可以决定你的情绪 rule 24: change your perspective on situations 改变自己对于事情的看法 rule 25: focus on the things that you can do关注你能做什么
Do y'all know why Liz has inspired so many people? Because she is a living, breathing examole of EVERYTHING she's teaching us and that's the most powerfull thing i've ever seen
Inspire what? Their narsistic side? First of all if you want to get help in a psychological way you can get prefessional help from educated expert people or you can do self improvement by many ways( change ur mindset if it harms the way of u thinking by embracing, practicing healthy ideas from philosophers etc.) Listening to a model talking rudely with a loud voice, literally underestimating "unconfident,sad" people isn't helpful I think
I cried while watching this, this is literally what I've wished for. I wished for having someone who would lovingly yet effectively put some sense into my head and I feel god saw me suffer and sent you on my feed. Thank you so much Liz, I love you, you're the elder sister I never had, thank you so so much!!!
I suffer from depression and other mental issues which are literally disabilities. Watching videos like these can be painful but they can also help pulling out the best from me.
Me too I didn’t take my meds today bc I didn’t get my refill yet and it’s for tomorrow and I needed to find a way to get out of bed to not feel shit about myself
I've been chronically depressed since I was 11 (im about to turn 22 now) but this mindset works, if you start to think like "today I feel so bad and heavy but I have to take a shower, I have to eat, I have to clean, I have to go for a walk" etc your mind will change little by little you can choose one of those and do them day by day, sometimes you have to force yourself to do things you don't like for the better. I'm not telling you to go love yourself right here right now because I understand that it's not so easy, but start by respecting your body, you need food, exercise, showers, and no one but you is going to go there and do them for you. I hope you find peace of mind and start treating yourself how you deserve to be treated•°♡♡°•.
same, I'm bipolar and have adhd so getting things done can be really hard. I depend on my parents because i quit my job earlier this year. I've tried o apply for work but with little to no experience and being a college student: it's hard. ngl i felt judged watching this
The first seconds of watching this video felt like it was widening my eyes physically. I felt like I had been given knowledge of myself and my own habits, even though Liz doesn't know I exist. It feels like I've been heard, and I've been told everything I've been doing wrong. To Liz, there'll never be a time when I'm not grateful. I'm going to get out of this endless cycle of self-destruction and self-pity and clean up my distractions. soon i'll to myself and feel more alive like never before because i worked to see myself happy and proud!!
update: i have been giving myself more attention and care, taking my sleep seriously, eating more consistently, and noticing signs of my health more frequently. if i'm tired, i always take a nap or at least try to get to sleep soon, i never stay up too late. it's always around the same time and i wake up really really early in the morning and i make basic breakfast: buttered toast with avocado with sliced banana and have been drinking green tea for natural caffeine. then i shower and do my average care routine. if I'm not taking care of my skin or if I notice I'm not sleeping properly from my eyebags or i haven't used lip care recently, i always notice. i don't ignore it i only drink water strictly. if not a plastic bottled one, i take some from the tap in my reusable bottle. with just this i have been able to feel better and it shows in my skin and hair. i've been feeling more able to focus and process things better in the day. i've been realising how important taking care of yourself is even as basic as this.
How to stop being lazy and pathetic 3:36 The Halo Effect 5:46 (Work on your life force) 1. Health and Diet 6:38 2. Relationships 7:29 3. Yourself 8:53 Create routines and stick to it 9:36 Clean Space is Self respect 11:15 Think about what story are you telling yourself 12:06 Realise you can change your reality any second 12:46 Heal the past and move on 13:30 Don’t tell everyone about your trauma 14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions 15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 16:22 Too much information makes us lazy 16:58 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives? 18:12 Feelings are not always right 18:35 Allow the feelings to purge and your body to heal 19:22 What you feel vs what do you want 19:51 Courage is being vulnerable 21:11 Learn to ask and accept help 22:03 Productive on your own terms 22:46 Are the people around you draining your energy? 23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything 24:51 Change your perspective on situations 25:28 Focus on the things you can do
its almost like she's speaking to me directly. this was exactly how i felt for about the last 2-3 weeks, and i just called myself lazy and call it a day without doing anything. i do feel motivated. thanks liz!
I constantly see you on internet but I've never stopped to sit down and listen to your videos, but today I did it fortunately. Liz, you did not only told me how my mindset was self destructuve, but trough your video I got a warning from God, literally. I think I've just found a pearl. Thank God, Thank LIz.
I love being reality checked every time i come to this channel bc I've made almost no progress in the last few months and I really need to stop mindlessly scrolling and thinking about how much my life sucks 💀 just getting told that I can change my life at any moment is enough for me to get up and start doing the things I actually want to do and need to do
Best video I’ve watched in ages. I was lazy and I was privileged. I stopped being lazy because I got hit in the face with a realisation, not literally, but I got unwell from something that was completely my fault and I realised that my laziness was causing my health to deteriorate and when it really affected me it changed my whole mindset. I didn’t fully understand why my mind changed but this video helped me realise why.
I love the directness of this. It feels like you've learned all this from your own experience and that you're sharing this with love and compassion. Thank you! Even though I know what to do the mind is a sneaky one, I love getting reminders once in a while to get myself back on track.
After a long time, I opened my Bible and prayed, I asked for guidance and found this video and I could not be more thankful to God for helping me find help through Liz. And thank you, Liz, may God bless you.
@ThewizradIiz bro not cleaning up my house is often more self respect than disrespect to me. because I waste so much time on beautiful things. but on the other hand you are right. I can see you mentally freaking out if you could just seeing what my apartment looks like right now😂 but im cleaning no worry
lately ive been watching these types of videos while i been getting back on track with my life and tbh its helped a lot because im also seeing how people are also struggling with these problems. While i watch this video im also cleaning my room atm. Before this video i watched another video while i washed the dishes and it really helped me get my motivation to finally clean this house again
Today i asked my mom for help and it wasn’t easy. I broke down crying but she was supportive and i’m now getting a therapist. Liz, you have no idea how much you’ve helped me shape myself into a healthier person. I’ve never been so motivated like i am when i watch your videos. I’m just so proud of myself for asking for help finally. I’ve been bottling up my emotions for months so it feels like a huge relief. I don’t have any friends, and i used to have a victim mindset where i was so upset over how i didnt talk to anyone throughout the day. But you made me realize that i dont need anyone, i just need myself and that i can pull myself out of this state without anyone else. You’ve helped my self esteem and made me realize my worth. I’m still struggling and it’s been hard to keep up but i’m just so proud with what i’ve achieved. Thank you.
I’m really happy for you for doing that ❤️ you are really lucky to have a mom that will support you in that way. I was not as lucky, for when I reached out to mine also broke down crying she brushed me off and I suppressed my emotions, two years later came down with a physical illness that put me in chronic pain for two years. I still can’t eat gluten, dairy, or eggs to this day.
@@thecoolwhipkid2026 im sorry 💗 i also have a mom that brushes off my emotions. it's made me scared to open up because she lashes out at me when I express these feelings and now I dont know what to do
@@A-be6es I am so sorry for you, I hope that you have or will find people that deserve you and are there for you. I wish you the best and I hope you will find happiness
That’s crazy how wise this woman is. Liz is an embodiment of kindness, high self-esteem and wisdom. I’ve watched all the videos and I couldn’t help but admire more and more. Thank you so much, queen❤️
When Liz say get up and clean your room i did and honestly it took me more than a hour cause my room was so dirty and just now not only my room my head also feels clean thank you Liz
I AM SO LOVING GETTING TOLD OFF BY THIS WOMAN. she is speaking no BS straight facts, my kind of language. we need more straight to the point women in this world. I am sick of weak people feeling qualified to give advice. you go girl!!!
As a child of immigrant parents who sacrificed a lot to give me a better life, this really spoke to me. I feel that I have a big desire of giving back to them and start earning enough from social media to pay off their mortgage, but I’ve been so caught up in my own traumas and living with a victim mentality because of it, that I just became lazy and ungrateful and mostly took from them (with the excuse of being a full time student and needing money to support myself in an expensive city) instead of giving my all to make my online business work to fully support myself with it and give back to them as well afterwards. I feel like I’m wasting my years away. But this video was a wake up call. Thanks so much for your work and being so straightforward. Your attitude towards life is really goals for me.
This is so crazy because I relate 100% to everything you just wrote, making the excuses of studying full time and such becomes a bad habit and enables laziness. We need to work on that
“You know what lazy people are? They’re the forgotten ones.” “You’re not special and life moves on. That’s it.” Needed to hear that cause lord that is me.
Never new how privileged I was until now. I've got a roof over my head, my mom brings in enough money to live comfortably. I grew up barely getting by but now I've taken what I have for granted.
Liz has truly helped me get out of a dark place, watching her videos is what inspired me to better my life, and even start my own channel. I am forever grateful for her compassion. She puts herself in a vulnerable position just to help all of us, thank you Liz ❤
I think her vulnerability is what makes her very strong now. Very ironic. She knows all the places where it can go wrong in our heads and thinking. She's very strong now and knows how to deal with her weaknesses and even gives advice for ours.
I feel like Liz is a messenger from God for me. I've been procrastinating and telling myself,"Oh I'll do it later", or "I'll do it tomorrow" then i never do it. I was scrolling through RUclips and then this video popped up!! Thanking you Liz for being so real all the time. I appreciate that you never sugarcoat things and always tell us straightforward ♡
Ngl every time I woke up and felt lazy to attend lecture. I just keep hearing Liz telling me “ Get a hold of yourself, you guys are lazy but then complain that you don’t have the life that you want”. So take this as a sign to make change.
I've stop progressing. But I realise it is my fault, for my mindset and yes, some laziness and depression and wanting to stay in the comfort of the situation. I really needed this message. It was a huge slap in my face and I can't thank you enough!
"Are you lazy or you just stopped proggressing?" Liz, you're brilliant and you're really helping me to figure things out. I didn't intend to search for this video when it popped out, you worth all the hype. Keep doing what you're doing❤ I love you.
This video is in my weekly routine for real, whenever I start to become like lazy and stop putting efforts for my dreams I come here and woah I starts to get moving
"I want you to clean right now because that's just a huge disrespect to yourself" *pauses the video and starts cleaning my room to earn self-respect* That was actually powerful and Liz makes amazing points that are truly eye-opening. I'm just waking up on a Saturday morning wondering what to do for the weekend and this was definitely a wake-up call for me to get my act together. Can't wait to change my habits into better routines and see the outcome by the end of this year. There is always time to change. The question is if not now, when?
You're the big sister everyone needs. I was literally feeling pathetic and your video showed up exactly on what I was feeling. I'll call it a sign to heal!
The point where she said " Your body responds your emotions " It can actually be the root cause of laziness smh, it's important to regularly check up on yourself ❤
liz i actually paused the video and went to clean the mess in my room. 😭also the haters saying what liz is saying is "common sense" probably didn't watch one video beginning to end. this girl is singlehandedly bettering like thousands of people's lives. the amount of comments she gets about people telling her that is insane and in her dms as well. i actually knew about the law of attraction, manifesting etc before i watched her and lived by what she preaches (i have a few things i need to improve), but god do i just love watching her. her on my screen literally puts me in a better mood. her energy is amazing. she deserves all the abundance she gets and more and so much happiness. i really want the best for her and hope she stops isolating herself :(
I love the concept of “being lazy means you’re privileged” and it really snaps me back to reality and makes me realize that my parents gave up everything to move to Canada just so we, I, could have a better chance at life, so I could have better education and yet I’m wasting those chances. I am making it up this year cuz I’ve been doing well at school again cuz I’ve found my motivation 💪💪
I completely understand what you mean. It's amazing how our parents sacrifice so much for us. I'm really glad to hear you've found your motivation again. Let's keep pushing forward together!
I usually don't cry in videos like this but LIZ! LIZ! YOU DEFINITELY TOOK SOME BONE OUT OF ME. YOU TOOK SOMETHING OUT OF ME THAT MADE ME REALIZE. THIS IS WHAT EXACTLY I NEEDED TO HEAR. I'M THANKFUL FOR TELLING ME EVERYTHING YOU MADE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER EVER. I FEEL LIKE WAS UPGRADING AFTER YOU TOLD ME TO WAKE UP! OKAY, ILOVEYOU LIZ.
I know you like her and helps you but how about you try loving your self a bit more and liz once made a video to not get attached to people but to be honest I feel like your getting to attached to her. What I'm trying to say is don't get too attached because you never know something might happen to her and you won't be able to watch her anymore so just make sure to live your own life a little bit and make up your own rules
@@Maryam_mazzz i do live my life and i'm loving myself more cause i know that it's what i need and what i want myself to feel. and i'm not attached to her, its just that i told her how thankful i'am because she made me realize something and it really does made me feel motivated and not be lazy? i get your point as well, but i'm not attached to her or to other people. and i don't watch her video always. i literally love myself right now. and because of her telling me some words that made me think of not being lazy really helped me and right now i'm doing tasks and chores.
i love how you dont sugarcoat it. whenever I give my friends advice sometimes they get mad when I give it straight up like this. i love seeing influencers and you especially talk about this
Please God, let this video stay on RUclips for eternity. This is now the video I will listen to every morning when I wake up. No more tarot or pick a card readings. This is the real deal. Thank you Liz. Thank you for being you and not sugarcoat anything. Some of us have to learn the hard way, and the truths you’re telling here in that serious manner really wakes you up. I appreciate you greatly and I will never again take this life for granted
this came out exactly when i realised ive had enough of my bad habits and now im deciding to move on from the past and get more productive. i love how ur always so passionate about helping others and im not even being overdramatic when i say uve changed my life in so many ways 💖
liz you don’t understand how much you have completely SHIFTED my lifestyle. i have never been so productive as a teenager. i go to the gym and write so much. i found love for writing because of you. and the routine part is CORRECT. i started cleaning everyday and didn’t do it one day and literally felt so lazy. i stopped giving my energy to unnecessary people and things. i am now focused on myself and how i can make my future self grateful! love you liz 💜
Okay so as a 12 year old, I think wizard Liz have COMPLETELY changed my life. After following her advices, I literally like became a whole different person in just one second. I’m really glad that someone like her is here. So the things that I CAN do is and (I’m doing it) is cooking, exercise, babysit, and sometimes help my family cook. A huge thank you to Liz !!
That's good to have this kind of advice so young!! When I was your age I definitely wasn't independent and didn't have my shit together, I think it's really beneficial to start having this mindset from a young age
@@margeryojije7862 u commented on this channel 324 times 😭 either u want attention or ur weirdly obsessed, both are embarrassing. if u are being serious yeah some people don’t do exactly what she says immediately because it takes time to change ur mindset and build new habits.
Liz you changed my life. I know you don't know me but you play an important role in my life. It's been a year I watched this video of yours, at that time I had no job, no life, just sleep,eat, and scroll down through my phone while comparing my life with others but one day randomly i clicked on this video and Boom 💥 I got a hard slap on my face , realisation hit me, I fell so hard after that I started to looking for job and I find it, not so well paid but decent amount of salary. And my life started to become better. Now I have decent amount of savings and also enjoying vacations, trips, . Thank you for teaching me that " IF GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE THEN IT'S TIME TO WATER MY OWN GARDEN'" ( English is not my first language if there is any kind of Grammar or spelling mistakes then please correct me)
Yes, she is of helping nature, my life's struggle and her life's struggle is quite same, I love her manifestation video in which explained about writing 'My dreams' , creating 'Mind Movie' abd saying affirmations in the morning and before going to bed, that helped me lot, I got motivation to start my RUclips carrier again after 1 and a half year, love and support from India 🇮🇳
A lot of people think Liz is harsh but those people are the same ones who are not creating anything for themselves. As an Entrepreneur and someone who wants to create success starting from the very bottom, no hand outs no nothing, this is exactly the kind of mindset and attitude you NEED to have and be told by others who have already created wealth. SUCCESS IS NOT EASY!! Cry about it or take the hard coaching and apply it. Thank you Liz!!!
is it just me or liz is always there right when we need her. Literally like rn i felt like i wanted to change my life and saw this video pop up. I am grateful for her being there for me when i need her. i feel so motivated to do something with my life right now. thankyou Liz ❤
This helped me in healing , in last few days I was constantly suffering because of my toxic family members , now I know how to deal these type of people
i wish i could download this video and listen like a podcast over and over. it just kicks my ass into gear, and i don’t even consider myself lazy. it’s just so motivational. it makes me want to be a better person and makes me reassess my priorities
Funny thing unlike other she never asks anyone to subscribe to like to comment ..you literally feel her passion and her drive to help people out ...and the need to listen to her .... Thats how powerfull this woman is😭♥️
"Unleash your inner strength and transform your life! Break free from laziness and invest in your financial future. Learn, grow, and thrive in the stock market. Celebrate every success, no matter how small. Believe in yourself and your abilities. You are capable of achieving greatness"
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or bitcoin and stocks.
@@face2lune Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.
I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the CFP that assisted you and how to get in touch….
When you are telling your trauma to someona , they see you weak! I have exeperienced it and this is 100% true. Keep your traumas to yourself heal yourself and MOVE ON! Thanks Liz for this video, full of learnings....
Yes All they see is that part of you, and it is an obstacle to your energy to change or grow We have to grow till we can carry ourselves And we have the right to start again, grow and have fun in life
When I first started watching Liz, I was upset that I did not see results within days. It has been months and I am so glad I found her channel because I have changed drastically for the better! Thank you so much and congrats on 4Mil!
I was borderline depressed for the past month after coming home from uni for the summer break and everyday I was just wondering why was I was feeling so miserable. Tbh before watching I thought this video wouldn't apply to me but the more I watched the more I realised that I actually got lazy with life here. At uni, I was all alone so I actively took charge of my life which felt empowering and rewarded me but back home because I knew my parents would take care of almost anything for me, I stopped doing it myself which made me feel weak and like a loser. Thank you so much, Thewizardliz for bringing these points to light; Now there's a better chance for me to actually figure out whats going on and how to sort this out.
At first I was feeling defensive because I'm significantly disabled and most days genuinely, truly cannot do much without either A. passing out or B. feeling like I'm going to pass out afterwards. (For example, taking a shower requires me to sit down otherwise I run the risk of passing out) so I thought to myself "okay, so am I lazy because I can't work right now due to being unable to take care of myself fully, or having no energy left for other things?" But honestly I see that you're not really talking about people who are legitimately incapable of doing some things. I think your message is actually pretty good, and there is value in a lot of what you said. Especially that productivity looks different from person to person. For me, someone who spends most of my day absolutely exhausted, a productive day is one where I'm able to shower, make an actual meal for myself, exercise in some manner, and either do skincare or a chore or two. That's what I'm trying to achieve as a baseline for every day. It's tough, but I'm working on it.
this is why I always approach self-help with a "take what resonates, leave what doesn't" mentality. she's speaking in generalizations and it won't perfectly apply to everybody and their unique circumstances. it sounds like you've set a great baseline that makes sense for your situation
The way she yells at me always snaps me back to reality
@@margeryojije7862Shut.Up.😭
This is so real
Lmao
She sounds genuinely angry at me 😂
Better go to the kitchen and microwave something.
“To be lazy is to be privileged” wow. Needed to hear that. She really knows how to put it
Ikr
Ikj
Sorry I'm not catching up with that can someone explain it in a simpler term?😭
@@RSIALVR people who are lazy have the opportunity to do so, which some don't. they have no real responsibility, no weight on their shoulders, no perceived consequence that comes along with being lazy.
@@kubrak-x8fDo you actually watch her videos? Or cherry pick what you think is contradictory?
she will NEVER sugarcoat it for us and i love her for that
@MdoubleHBxlmao wtf this is not a dating site
@MdoubleHBxget a life please
No you’ll prob cry lol
@@cyber7065yes it is
@MdoubleHBxwhy would anybody goijg that good want to be with you 😂
she just dropped all the secrets of life. the secrets we are too blinded by self pity and ego to see.
*“being lazy is a privilege”* you changed my mindset on everything
this is insulting asf to disabled people but whatever floats yalls pathetically shallow boat
in general, these statements about laziness annoy me. like... laziness does not exist. there is no knowing what to do with life, there are disorders that prevent you from moving on, such as depression and others. these "super motivations" can simply drive a person into a worse state. who will be to blame? no one, because this blogger said "your problems are not mine". what's the point of teaching someone how to live if you can't take responsibility for your words?
srsly i get so sick and fcking tired of this dumbass mindset lmfao . if we could choose to be happy DEPRESSION WOULDNT EXIST. But thx for the guilt @@bbpka
@@bbpkaI can see where you’re coming from. Personally I feel like the two are different like if you have a reason to be lazy e.g. depression then that’s completely different because you can’t really help that you have depression & that it’s preventing you from even doing the basics like shower or eat or brush your teeth etc depending on how bad it is. But if you don’t have any reason to be lazy whatsoever and it’s literally just a situation where you cba then laziness is a privilege because your life isn’t going to change for the worse even if you’re doing nothing e.g. you’re not going to starve or lose your house or anything like that. Say a teenager for example, where their family is doing good and there’s less risk of anything bad happening and they don’t need to do anything for themselves like work to put food on the table or keep their house because they’re in a secure place living with their family. That’s privilege because it’s not like they NEED to do anything to survive, but they’re still choosing to do nothing else with their life, if that makes sense idk. That’s just how I view it, like the two are separate. But yeah I feel like this video should be going to people who don’t have an excuse but maybe it would be better if liz acknowledged in the video that mental illness exists and it’s not that simple for everyone to get up and do as she says to better themselves 🤷🏾♀️
erm then dont watch it
@@bbpka
to all the girls who stopped the video to clean their rooms..i feel ya, this woman has power over me, as well
i literally did it sis😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Literally I saw her face mask and was like hey maybe self care? Do some cleaning??
literally. i cleaned a lot of my floor up because whats the point of playing this video if i dont listen?
I love this video I feel so much better after watching it. I paused took all my dirty dishes out of my room. I still have alot to go but I’m so proud of myself for starting small!
It’s so amazing how she can push people to do things. I could never do much besides lay since my mental health was deteriorating, but she has helped so much in ways not even my therapist could. I have nothing but love and respect for this woman 💕
i love how she said “ik a lazy person will be to lazy to watch this video so lemme be fast” 😭
😂😂😂 gurlll she was right on that tho cause it’s been months and I only saved the video and I’m barley watching it
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
i cant find, link please
@@kritikapandey4726 from what I found out, it's a scam, so be careful
Scam
"If you have the option to be lazy, you are privileged." The way this just snapped my eyes wide open. 😳
What does privileged mean?
@@joellealam8529it means basically lucky and fortunate or blessed with wealth or health or anything to be grateful for
@@joellealam8529if someone is privileged, it basically means that they want for very little. They have nearly everything they need to survive and thrive without putting any effort in to achieve it.
IKR 😭called me out fr
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I like how she goes from yelling and lecturing us one second to smiling and introducing herself the next😭 2:23
SAME❤
righttt😭😭
And then promoting better health! 😂😂😂
i died.
😂
"You are not lazy, you are privileged"
I REALLY felt that😭💔
This is my mom's everyday words to me 😭😭
I was like Rah, surely she didn't call me out like that 🥲
it made me tear up 😭😭
It's so true especially if your parents are immigrants they worked so hard to give us a better life litteraly left their home countires and all the discrimination they faced :(
Brooo😭
"too much information from social media specifically makes you lazy" so true
1. the halo effect
2. work on your life force: health and diet
3. life force: yourself
4. create routines and stick to them
5. clean space is self respect
6. think about what story you are telling yourself
7. realize you can change your reality at any second
8. heal the past and move on
9. don’t tell everyone about your trauma!
10. too much information makes us lazy
11. are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
12. allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal
13. what do you feel vs what do you want
14. learn to ask for and accept help
15. be productive on your own terms
16. are the people around you draining your energy?
17. realize that nobody can make you feel anything
18. change your perspective on situations
19. focus on the things you Can do instead of Can’t
@ThewizradIiz love youu
@@lisahaultner07893 that's not liz ... look at the name. it's spelled slightly differently
Thank youuuu
Literally 444 likes rn
شكراااا❤
This woman can slap on your face only by talking on camera that too for your own good , she has that power to bring your mind back to stability.
She has my respect!
Exactly
Exactly. When she said I should clean RIGHT NOW, I literally stopped the video and started to clean no joke even tho I wouldn’t actually care what sonebody tells me about that but when it comes to Liz…
yess liz is lit
Yeah for real though I was on my bed listening to her and then it suddenly all felt connected and I was in the moment. I felt like I needed to stop my bullshit and victim mindset, that I have full control over my life and myself. That I don’t have to live this way and I can do whatever I want in my life. I felt all this with her yelling at me but thank god she’s such a good RUclipsr. I love her 🥰😌
( no one cares if your lazy. Lazy people are the forgotten ones ) well damn, that was very straight to the point 😂. I needed to hear this so I can exit my lazy girl era
Sheesh we got roasted HARD
@@margeryojije7862 The fact that they are choosing to watch these videos for help already shows that they are TRYING. You don't know what is going in their life and how bad it is. Even wizardliz says that years of habits takes time to let go of. So focus on yourself and speak for yourself instead of criticizing other people's journey.
@DwightK.Schrute. Thank you! 👏🏾
@@0_0Rosie very well spoken!
@@margeryojije7862 OK? Being bitter and mean to people for no reason like that shows that you also don't implement all her words in your life. You are the same then. If you really wanna preach about "implementing her words in our lives", speak and focus on yourself instead of being like the bitter people liz herself talks about when she brings up bad examples. Bring rude instead of properly talking to me like I talked to you is ugly.
1. Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy
2. Life force: . 3 yourself
3.1. How are you treating yourself
3.2. How are you talking yourself in your head
3.3. What are you even watching? What are you watching on your phone constantly all day
3. Clean space is self respect
4. Don't tell anyone abot your trauma
5. Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
6. Are you lazy or did you stop progressing: don't allow yourself to stop progressing because when you stop progressing that's when you stop living
7. Feelings are not always right. Allows your fellings to puge and your body to heal
8. Courage is being vulnerable
9. Learn to ask and accept help
10. Be productive on your own terms
11. Are the people around you draining your energy
tyyy
Thanks babeeee 🫶🏻
I love you, thank you.❤❤❤😊
Thanks 💗
Thank youuuu
when she was telling us to clean our room i felt like she was my mom 😭 LOVE YOU LIZ!!
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ya i never do it when ppl online tell me to do stuff & i just ignore it, but liz is a teacher so i have to follow her commands.
See I can only take it bc ik she’s talking to millions and we’re all getting yelled at together and she doesn’t even see me. But boy😭 if she said these directly to my face? I would CRY
😭😭😭
bro i started looking around my room bye-
I literally paused the vid, cleaned my room and did my skincare then came back
Thank you so much Liz you're a lifesaver 😭💗
same 😭
Same!
Lol
omg, i paused the video and did workout too hahahah
lol i literally came back 4 hours later after i cleaned my room
She’s literally the older sister who wants her younger sister(s) to be better than her
You can see how this was probably how her hardworking immigrant mother has been talking to them, always motivating and encouraging them... The voice of her mother has become her own voice! It's true, us immigrants don't have the privilege to be lazy... It's literally about our survival.
sister and brothers (me)~ stan wonyoungism!!
I’m literally watching this video in order to show it to my little sister 💀💀💀💀
She’s only 24. So not big sister vibes. She’s so young. But she’s the friend we all need
Lele
Always Coming back to watch this video everytime I feel lazy and it works everytime😭
thats true bro, i m doing the same now
Like she said remind yourself why you started 👏👏
same 😭
you literally earned my respect here. with all the people on the internet trying to sugarcoat everything and normalising every toxic/unhealthy traits, it's so refreshing to find someone who can actually talk sense without putting someone else down. Mad respect for you :)
haiii karma
@@thatboy3015if u ain't blessed in that area, work on your kindness and get yo money up. And learn to use tongue lol
@thatboy3015 many men are not blessed down there as well , so ... ?
@@thatboy3015some girls can only take short, so... it's physically impossible to put Smith more than 15, so it's about ways to use. Anyway, you cannot reach an organization by penetration (there are no nerves in vagina tube, only near the hole), so you need to stimulate the clit and its legs, everyone's body is individual. Women's organizations is connected to feelings, you can also use that by adding words or small gestures or fantasies
@@полкостер 15 ????? girl 7 inches is already too much
This is exactly what I needed. I've been acting like such a victim lately and it's effecting everything around me. I know it's pathetic and I'm the problem but I really needed someone to say it right at me.
For me, I've been lazy bc for the first time in my life after working 7 days a week since I was 15 (I wish I was exaggerating) this whole year I didn't do a damn thing 😂 and then guess what happened? I got depressed! I wasn't even enjoying my time off really ! Time to keep going and keep moving again bc that is life. I thought I would be happy once I had XYZ but life is constant motion.
Hope my story motivates you, we will keep moving and there's always room to be better and remember even when you feel horrible, someone is always worst of. I came from a long time in survival mode, then I got lost in rest mode. Now its time to thrive again! ❤
Omg literally same, i felt like i always brag to my friends and am a bad person and needed t change, Liz is literally making vids at the perfect timesss
thats growth, you take accountability of your actions.
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honey, first of all, go rn and change your stupid id, you are not a procrastinator anymore! Good luck 🌷
After watching this video including her other videos, I just realize this isn't for the people who are softhearted and to those who get easily offended. She's straightforward and doesn't sugarcoat her words. Her words will slap you to your reality for sure😭
because the truth hurts 😉😉
I'd say it's for the easily impressionable, if your laziness didn't evaporate by years of guilt tripping from others and yourself, another person will not change it 👀
Right it's for thirsty ass cat moms who end being alone at 40 with no kids
@@carbon-based-lifeform9172and yet that demographic of unmarried childless women are the happiest
Yeah but "softhearted" is another thing that isn't related to being offended easily
not even gonna lie, as a male watching this, this really inspired me
im 20, retaking exams and finding myself falling into the same old habits but im hating it more and more, like im supposed to be a grown ass man wtf
everything she said was spot on. literally everything its crazy
I eat like shit, barely move, watch nonsense, never write things down, have 0 routine/structure and lock myself in all day but im expecting to be disciplined? lmao
my room was also dirty asf, i stopped, cleaned everything, got some natural light in, cooked a healthy meal, showered, got out of pajamas, and I feel 1000x better and ready to be productive. its astonishing really.
I'm gonna start documenting this stuff too, journaling every night before i sleep.
this is where i change, its pathetic man im so ambitious too
thank u liz
"In order for you to progress, you need a constant drive or something to strive for."
"Don't allow yourself to stop progressing. Because when you stop progressing, you stop living"
This hits really hard 🎯
hi what is meaning "halo effect"?
@@aysuumarva8396 there is a google honey 😊
@@aysuumarva8396 anyways, the context of halo effect is used metaphorically to describe a positive or negative "glow" that surrounds a person or thing, influencing how they are perceived.
@@juliakayeballesteros4125 thank you💞
my english isn't well that's why i asked from you
i’m so proud of liz because she’s been through so much and then opens up to us and helps us with things. her energy is really magnetic
Magenta
@DwightK.Schrute. magnetic=magenta
@DwightK.Schrute. he is down bad
@DwightK.Schrute. oh yeah
@MdoubleHBx neggawhat
Summary
In this video, Liz discusses how to stop being lazy and become more productive. She emphasizes the importance of realizing that nobody cares if you're lazy and that everyone has their own problems. Liz shares personal anecdotes and highlights the privileges of being able to choose laziness. She also talks about the halo effect and how successful people have no option but to work hard. Liz then explains the concept of focusing on your life force, which includes health, relationships, and self-care. Additionally, Liz encourages creating routines and sticking to them, while also emphasizing the importance of maintaining a clean living space. She concludes by reminding viewers to remind themselves why they made a commitment to their goals and to stop telling themselves they are lazy.
Highlights
💪 Realize that nobody cares if you're lazy.
💡 Privilege allows some people to choose laziness.
⭐ Successful people have no option but to work hard.
🌟 Focus on your life force (health, relationships, and self-care).
📝 Create routines and stick to them.
🧹 Keep a clean living space.
🗝 Remind yourself why you made a commitment to your goals and stop labeling yourself as lazy.
Thanks, Wizard Liz 🥰
You're amazing!!! thank you.
@MdoubleHBxXDDDDDDD
Youre so kind for this❤ thank you for the dedication
this comment is so ai coded, but thx love it
what is meaning "halo effect"
Came across my feed when I was having a breakdown ab how lazy I feel, how I can’t get off my phone, how I don’t have the body I want, oh I’m so depressed, oh I lost family last year. I’M NO LONGER PLAYING THE VICTIM. I’m doing what I can
Me too girl good luck 🫶🏻
@@Rayna-oo3th 1 hour ago.. ig we both needed this video at the moment 😭
so real good luck, we got this
@@JounickaLondon-ov9mh right 😭😭
0:20 Realise that nobody cares if you are lazy
3:36 The halo effect
5:47 Work on your life force : 1. Health and diet
6:38 Life force : 2. Relationships
7:29 Life force : 3. Yourself
8:53 Create routines and stick to it
9:36 Clean space is self respect
9:58 There is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself
11:16 Think about what story are you telling yourself
12:07 Realise you can change your reality any second
12:46 Heal the past and move on
13:30 Don't tell everyone about your trauma!!!
14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing?
16:23 Too much information makes us lazy
16:57 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
18:12 Feelings are not always right
18:35 Allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal
19:22 What do you feel vs what do you want
19:51 Courage is being vulnerable
21:12 Learn to ask and accept help
22:03 Be productive on your own terms
22:45 Are the people around your draining your energy?
23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything
24:52 Change your perspective on situations
25:27 Focus on the things you can do
for the lazy people ^
@@jaydahaenga617 not only for the lazy ones. sometimes we need a structure to not forget the topics 👀 like a summary
Sooo helpful
thank you
Thank you!
All your videos motivate me to be the best version of myself, i love it
I love the video tho
ruclips.net/user/shorts9s8aYXrsl04?feature=share
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Motivation doesn’t exist btw that’s what she said, you just have to do it
whats your ig id
That's your duty in life. This is the only thing you have to do/work on! 😊
I asked God to help me stop being lazy and I came across the video 😭😭 and when she said to get up and clean my room, I did 🧘🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️
Good for you👍
Good job, Jesus loves you!!
Fr ive been more productive in the last week than I have been in my whole life😭
@@toyosia8051 girl frlll
@@tired247 thank u lovee!
I just woke up and left my bed unkept. When she said "get up and clean", I instantly get up and made my bed. She's amazing!
Starting today, because of you, i have decided i am DONE being a victim of myself. Being lazy is indeed a priviledge and my parents are working hard so i can study in a great university, i Will quit being lazy. Thank you for this ❤️
We got this girl!We were not born to be pathetic.Teenage years are the most important, everything is changing in these years from the body to mindset and life.We deserved the best,and that's why we have to work for that because no one will,our parents work hard but if we are being lazy,everything is wasted.
I'm so proud of me❤
So how’s it going
When she spoke about "being children of immigrants" part 🤦🏻♀My parents are immigrants too and they're the most loving parents ever. They worked so hard to give me everything and me being here lazy thinking that "I'm enough without trying" my whole life. Thank you Liz for slapping me back to reality.
@MdoubleHBxpinagssbi neto 🧍🏻♀️
aww
@MdoubleHBx get a life
@MdoubleHBx bro help
@MdoubleHBx bro tf
Whenever Liz posts I get a burst of motivation and remember everything I’ve learned from her videos.
ruclips.net/user/shorts9s8aYXrsl04?feature=share
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i love the fact that EVERY SINGLE VIDEO OF YOURS has the potential to change my life. and also there's NOTHING not useful you're saying. that is some mad respect for you girl
note :
rule 1: nobody cares if you are lazy or not [eg. a neighbor and liz's mother]没人关心你懒不懒
rule 2:the halo effect [the purpose of diligence] 光环效应
rule 3 : work on your life force [health and diet] 关注你的生命力--健康和饮食
rule 4: work on your life force [relationship][connect with others instead of isolate]关注你的生命力--关系
rule 5: work on your life force [yourself][write things down/ do something alone ]关注你的生命力--你自己
rule 6: have routines and stick to it [like morning routines and evening routines] 生活的常规
rule 7: clean space is self-respect 清理就是自我尊重
rule 8: there is a reason why you made that commitment to yourself记住初衷/记住为什么开始
rule 9: Realise you can change your reality any second 意识到自己随时可以改变
rule 10：Heal the past and move on 放过自己走出过去
rule 11：dont tell everyone about your trauma 不要告诉别人你的不堪过往
rule 12: your body responds to your thoughts and your emotion 情绪和想法决定我们的行事风格
rule 13:Are you lazy or did you stop progressing? 到底是懒还是没有进步
rule 14:too much information makes us lazy 信息爆炸导致我们懒
rule 15: are you too consumed in other people's lives? 你是不是被别人的生活消耗掉了？
rule 16: feelings are not always right 情绪不一定对
rule 17: allow your feelings to purge and your body to heal 清理情绪，疗愈自己
rule 18 What do you do vs what do you want 你做什么 vs 你要什么
rule 19: courage is valuable 勇气是脆弱的
rule 20: learn to ask and receive help 学会寻求帮助和接受帮助
rule 21: be productive on your own terms 找到自己的高效率方式
rule 22: are the people around u are draining you ? 你周边的人是不是在抽干你
rule 23: realize that nobody can make you feel anything 意识到没有人可以决定你的情绪
rule 24: change your perspective on situations 改变自己对于事情的看法
rule 25: focus on the things that you can do关注你能做什么
thank you so much for that
Absolute thank you
Thank you so much for taking the time to do this, you are an angel.
Thank you for the comment. Just one edit: Courage is being vulnearable. ❣️
Do y'all know why Liz has inspired so many people? Because she is a living, breathing examole of EVERYTHING she's teaching us and that's the most powerfull thing i've ever seen
Inspire what? Their narsistic side? First of all if you want to get help in a psychological way you can get prefessional help from educated expert people or you can do self improvement by many ways( change ur mindset if it harms the way of u thinking by embracing, practicing healthy ideas from philosophers etc.) Listening to a model talking rudely with a loud voice, literally underestimating "unconfident,sad" people isn't helpful I think
Yeah totally 😊
So true. She is so motivating.
@@rojerinikrrr
@@rojerinShe's right though, seek therapy
Liz gave me a ton of reasons why I cannot afford to be lazy. She really has a life-changing mindset that speaks volumes 💯
if you feel like you are unmotivated, set a new goal.
I cried while watching this, this is literally what I've wished for. I wished for having someone who would lovingly yet effectively put some sense into my head and I feel god saw me suffer and sent you on my feed. Thank you so much Liz, I love you, you're the elder sister I never had, thank you so so much!!!
I searched for this but I'm glad that I got sense talked into my dumbass.
How are you now? Did this video work???
@@aslzodvampirlarprobably not.
@@FUEGOSTARRoh probably yes. If you want to change, ok. Or don't, I don't care, just be a delusion to yourself
@@amieeee_ girl what??🤣
I suffer from depression and other mental issues which are literally disabilities. Watching videos like these can be painful but they can also help pulling out the best from me.
Me too I didn’t take my meds today bc I didn’t get my refill yet and it’s for tomorrow and I needed to find a way to get out of bed to not feel shit about myself
@@idont6439 that's so dangerous 😔 I get mine delivered because sometimes I struggle too much. I hope you'll find a way. Sending love 💕
Just like Liz said , stop telling yourself the bad story , i hope your depression heals , please take small steps and never stop working for them
I've been chronically depressed since I was 11 (im about to turn 22 now) but this mindset works, if you start to think like "today I feel so bad and heavy but I have to take a shower, I have to eat, I have to clean, I have to go for a walk" etc your mind will change little by little you can choose one of those and do them day by day, sometimes you have to force yourself to do things you don't like for the better. I'm not telling you to go love yourself right here right now because I understand that it's not so easy, but start by respecting your body, you need food, exercise, showers, and no one but you is going to go there and do them for you.
I hope you find peace of mind and start treating yourself how you deserve to be treated•°♡♡°•.
same, I'm bipolar and have adhd so getting things done can be really hard. I depend on my parents because i quit my job earlier this year. I've tried o apply for work but with little to no experience and being a college student: it's hard. ngl i felt judged watching this
I relapsed into my old self and I really needed this. Liz really came through, thank you 😭😭
That’s because you need motivation instead of discipline
@@Shalini-x5jThere’s no such things as motivation actually, it’s all about discipline, discipline will get you successful.
@@mikesquare that’s what I meant, genius
@@mikesquare real
@@Shalini-x5j 💋
The first seconds of watching this video felt like it was widening my eyes physically. I felt like I had been given knowledge of myself and my own habits, even though Liz doesn't know I exist. It feels like I've been heard, and I've been told everything I've been doing wrong.
To Liz, there'll never be a time when I'm not grateful. I'm going to get out of this endless cycle of self-destruction and self-pity and clean up my distractions. soon i'll to myself and feel more alive like never before because i worked to see myself happy and proud!!
update: i have been giving myself more attention and care, taking my sleep seriously, eating more consistently, and noticing signs of my health more frequently. if i'm tired, i always take a nap or at least try to get to sleep soon, i never stay up too late. it's always around the same time and i wake up really really early in the morning and i make basic breakfast: buttered toast with avocado with sliced banana and have been drinking green tea for natural caffeine. then i shower and do my average care routine. if I'm not taking care of my skin or if I notice I'm not sleeping properly from my eyebags or i haven't used lip care recently, i always notice. i don't ignore it
i only drink water strictly. if not a plastic bottled one, i take some from the tap in my reusable bottle.
with just this i have been able to feel better and it shows in my skin and hair. i've been feeling more able to focus and process things better in the day. i've been realising how important taking care of yourself is even as basic as this.
Journaling is such a good way to relieve stress and live happier she is so real
I'm always gonna be grateful for Liz , she's helping so many people out there!!!
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@@thatboy3015 for me very much
@@thatboy3015no
How to stop being lazy and pathetic
3:36 The Halo Effect
5:46 (Work on your life force)
1. Health and Diet
6:38 2. Relationships
7:29 3. Yourself
8:53 Create routines and stick to it
9:36 Clean Space is Self respect
11:15 Think about what story are you telling yourself
12:06 Realise you can change your reality any second
12:46 Heal the past and move on
13:30 Don’t tell everyone about your trauma
14:17 Your body responds to your thoughts and emotions
15:30 Are you lazy or did you stop progressing?
16:22 Too much information makes us lazy
16:58 Are you too consumed in other peoples lives?
18:12 Feelings are not always right
18:35 Allow the feelings to purge and your body to heal
19:22 What you feel vs what do you want
19:51 Courage is being vulnerable
21:11 Learn to ask and accept help
22:03 Productive on your own terms
22:46 Are the people around you draining your energy?
23:58 Realise that nobody can make you feel anything
24:51 Change your perspective on situations
25:28 Focus on the things you can do
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Tysm ❤
Her therapist is a hotline psychic, Idiots.
❤
Thankssss
its almost like she's speaking to me directly. this was exactly how i felt for about the last 2-3 weeks, and i just called myself lazy and call it a day without doing anything. i do feel motivated. thanks liz!
It’s 2 years for me
you could have depression, i don’t think most are lazy!
I constantly see you on internet but I've never stopped to sit down and listen to your videos, but today I did it fortunately. Liz, you did not only told me how my mindset was self destructuve, but trough your video I got a warning from God, literally. I think I've just found a pearl. Thank God, Thank LIz.
I love being reality checked every time i come to this channel bc I've made almost no progress in the last few months and I really need to stop mindlessly scrolling and thinking about how much my life sucks 💀 just getting told that I can change my life at any moment is enough for me to get up and start doing the things I actually want to do and need to do
Literally, last few months were like on some survival mode and so draining, when we really can get up and change things for better
Bye, same 💀
@MdoubleHBx jump into a lake with heavy rocks in ur pockets
Best video I’ve watched in ages.
I was lazy and I was privileged. I stopped being lazy because I got hit in the face with a realisation, not literally, but I got unwell from something that was completely my fault and I realised that my laziness was causing my health to deteriorate and when it really affected me it changed my whole mindset. I didn’t fully understand why my mind changed but this video helped me realise why.
Which advise actually helped u!?
I love the directness of this. It feels like you've learned all this from your own experience and that you're sharing this with love and compassion. Thank you! Even though I know what to do the mind is a sneaky one, I love getting reminders once in a while to get myself back on track.
After a long time, I opened my Bible and prayed, I asked for guidance and found this video and I could not be more thankful to God for helping me find help through Liz. And thank you, Liz, may God bless you.
@@thatboy3015what?
@@Leema101 ignore them
I'm literally lazy and pathetic rn 😭 THE VIDEO I NEEDED THANK YOU
@ThewizradIiz you are NAWT Liz get outta here
Liz is the type of friend you actually need in life!!! she is talking facts even tho it might seem harsh but i love her honesty
love ur Ai Hoshino pfp
@ThewizradIiz bro not cleaning up my house is often more self respect than disrespect to me. because I waste so much time on beautiful things. but on the other hand you are right. I can see you mentally freaking out if you could just seeing what my apartment looks like right now😂 but im cleaning no worry
Yeah that's a friend I need. Not just someone who is there for me when it's convenient and only for fun.😄
@@user-xp5op6sl3r that’s a fake account pretending to be her in replies, see the username is “wizrad” not “wizard”
@ThewizradIiz wait I honestly thought it's Liz who responded, litterly felt happy for 2 sec :'(
lately ive been watching these types of videos while i been getting back on track with my life and tbh its helped a lot because im also seeing how people are also struggling with these problems. While i watch this video im also cleaning my room atm. Before this video i watched another video while i washed the dishes and it really helped me get my motivation to finally clean this house again
Today i asked my mom for help and it wasn’t easy. I broke down crying but she was supportive and i’m now getting a therapist. Liz, you have no idea how much you’ve helped me shape myself into a healthier person. I’ve never been so motivated like i am when i watch your videos. I’m just so proud of myself for asking for help finally. I’ve been bottling up my emotions for months so it feels like a huge relief. I don’t have any friends, and i used to have a victim mindset where i was so upset over how i didnt talk to anyone throughout the day. But you made me realize that i dont need anyone, i just need myself and that i can pull myself out of this state without anyone else. You’ve helped my self esteem and made me realize my worth. I’m still struggling and it’s been hard to keep up but i’m just so proud with what i’ve achieved. Thank you.
I’m really happy for you for doing that ❤️ you are really lucky to have a mom that will support you in that way. I was not as lucky, for when I reached out to mine also broke down crying she brushed me off and I suppressed my emotions, two years later came down with a physical illness that put me in chronic pain for two years. I still can’t eat gluten, dairy, or eggs to this day.
@@thecoolwhipkid2026 im sorry 💗 i also have a mom that brushes off my emotions. it's made me scared to open up because she lashes out at me when I express these feelings and now I dont know what to do
@@A-be6es I am so sorry for you, I hope that you have or will find people that deserve you and are there for you. I wish you the best and I hope you will find happiness
I AM BEYOND PROUD OF YOU WARRIOR!! Reading this made my day especially because you're proud of you. Girl you're so precious, keep it going. ❤️
sending you lots of strength
That’s crazy how wise this woman is. Liz is an embodiment of kindness, high self-esteem and wisdom. I’ve watched all the videos and I couldn’t help but admire more and more. Thank you so much, queen❤️
“You’re Not Special and life goes on. That’s it, life moves”
Damn bro I felt that 💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
When Liz say get up and clean your room i did and honestly it took me more than a hour cause my room was so dirty and just now not only my room my head also feels clean thank you Liz
I AM SO LOVING GETTING TOLD OFF BY THIS WOMAN. she is speaking no BS straight facts, my kind of language. we need more straight to the point women in this world. I am sick of weak people feeling qualified to give advice. you go girl!!!
straight to the point aint 26 mins, she's wasting your time
@@fab_code26 minutes of your whole life. If every other minute of your life is improved even slightly by this video, then it’s worth it.
@@fab_code "a lazy person would be too lazy to watch the whole video"
@@fab_code u go mr lazy!!!!
@@geetmittal word
As a child of immigrant parents who sacrificed a lot to give me a better life, this really spoke to me. I feel that I have a big desire of giving back to them and start earning enough from social media to pay off their mortgage, but I’ve been so caught up in my own traumas and living with a victim mentality because of it, that I just became lazy and ungrateful and mostly took from them (with the excuse of being a full time student and needing money to support myself in an expensive city) instead of giving my all to make my online business work to fully support myself with it and give back to them as well afterwards. I feel like I’m wasting my years away. But this video was a wake up call. Thanks so much for your work and being so straightforward. Your attitude towards life is really goals for me.
This is so crazy because I relate 100% to everything you just wrote, making the excuses of studying full time and such becomes a bad habit and enables laziness. We need to work on that
“You know what lazy people are? They’re the forgotten ones.” “You’re not special and life moves on. That’s it.” Needed to hear that cause lord that is me.
AMEEEEEEEENNNNNN!!!!!
Sameee😢
😂 same
Never new how privileged I was until now. I've got a roof over my head, my mom brings in enough money to live comfortably. I grew up barely getting by but now I've taken what I have for granted.
Liz has truly helped me get out of a dark place, watching her videos is what inspired me to better my life, and even start my own channel. I am forever grateful for her compassion. She puts herself in a vulnerable position just to help all of us, thank you Liz ❤
I think her vulnerability is what makes her very strong now. Very ironic. She knows all the places where it can go wrong in our heads and thinking. She's very strong now and knows how to deal with her weaknesses and even gives advice for ours.
Girl because of you the amount of things I got done, the way my grades changed, and the way I just changed
Congrats!!
111 likes! have a gooday
I feel like Liz is a messenger from God for me. I've been procrastinating and telling myself,"Oh I'll do it later", or "I'll do it tomorrow" then i never do it. I was scrolling through RUclips and then this video popped up!! Thanking you Liz for being so real all the time. I appreciate that you never sugarcoat things and always tell us straightforward ♡
Ngl every time I woke up and felt lazy to attend lecture. I just keep hearing Liz telling me “ Get a hold of yourself, you guys are lazy but then complain that you don’t have the life that you want”. So take this as a sign to make change.
I love how you talk, straightforward and no sugarcoating, it reminds me of my mom. Thank you so much, Liz. I've learned so much from you.
I've stop progressing. But I realise it is my fault, for my mindset and yes, some laziness and depression and wanting to stay in the comfort of the situation. I really needed this message. It was a huge slap in my face and I can't thank you enough!
"Are you lazy or you just stopped proggressing?" Liz, you're brilliant and you're really helping me to figure things out. I didn't intend to search for this video when it popped out, you worth all the hype. Keep doing what you're doing❤ I love you.
This video is in my weekly routine for real, whenever I start to become like lazy and stop putting efforts for my dreams I come here and woah I starts to get moving
Same
here I am again
"I want you to clean right now because that's just a huge disrespect to yourself" *pauses the video and starts cleaning my room to earn self-respect*
That was actually powerful and Liz makes amazing points that are truly eye-opening. I'm just waking up on a Saturday morning wondering what to do for the weekend and this was definitely a wake-up call for me to get my act together. Can't wait to change my habits into better routines and see the outcome by the end of this year. There is always time to change. The question is if not now, when?
Nice. Good luck with everything.👍
not me also reading and watching this on a saturday morning
getting my act together 🫡 thx liz love u pookie
You are amazing🎉
Hai how far?
My eyes were filled with tears watching your true words stabbing my poor mindset about being unproductive and lazy.
Thanks, i needed that.
You're the big sister everyone needs. I was literally feeling pathetic and your video showed up exactly on what I was feeling. I'll call it a sign to heal!
I needed that. It’s true, what we eat affects on our mood, emotions and productivity 😢
The point where she said " Your body responds your emotions "
It can actually be the root cause of laziness smh, it's important to regularly check up on yourself ❤
yeah... im in that stage right now and i don't know how to get out of it
@@bekybb8301 I'm sure it will pass... i believe everything will be okay ❤️ take some time off, and listen to yourself ☺️🥰
liz i actually paused the video and went to clean the mess in my room. 😭also the haters saying what liz is saying is "common sense" probably didn't watch one video beginning to end. this girl is singlehandedly bettering like thousands of people's lives. the amount of comments she gets about people telling her that is insane and in her dms as well. i actually knew about the law of attraction, manifesting etc before i watched her and lived by what she preaches (i have a few things i need to improve), but god do i just love watching her. her on my screen literally puts me in a better mood. her energy is amazing. she deserves all the abundance she gets and more and so much happiness. i really want the best for her and hope she stops isolating herself :(
I love the concept of “being lazy means you’re privileged” and it really snaps me back to reality and makes me realize that my parents gave up everything to move to Canada just so we, I, could have a better chance at life, so I could have better education and yet I’m wasting those chances. I am making it up this year cuz I’ve been doing well at school again cuz I’ve found my motivation 💪💪
I completely understand what you mean. It's amazing how our parents sacrifice so much for us. I'm really glad to hear you've found your motivation again. Let's keep pushing forward together!
She pulls me back to reality and you know what? She is my mother,teacher,therapist, everything honestly I wouldn't do anything if it weren't for her.
I usually don't cry in videos like this but LIZ! LIZ! YOU DEFINITELY TOOK SOME BONE OUT OF ME. YOU TOOK SOMETHING OUT OF ME THAT MADE ME REALIZE. THIS IS WHAT EXACTLY I NEEDED TO HEAR. I'M THANKFUL FOR TELLING ME EVERYTHING YOU MADE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER EVER. I FEEL LIKE WAS UPGRADING AFTER YOU TOLD ME TO WAKE UP! OKAY, ILOVEYOU LIZ.
I know you like her and helps you but how about you try loving your self a bit more and liz once made a video to not get attached to people but to be honest I feel like your getting to attached to her. What I'm trying to say is don't get too attached because you never know something might happen to her and you won't be able to watch her anymore so just make sure to live your own life a little bit and make up your own rules
@@Maryam_mazzz i do live my life and i'm loving myself more cause i know that it's what i need and what i want myself to feel. and i'm not attached to her, its just that i told her how thankful i'am because she made me realize something and it really does made me feel motivated and not be lazy? i get your point as well, but i'm not attached to her or to other people. and i don't watch her video always. i literally love myself right now. and because of her telling me some words that made me think of not being lazy really helped me and right now i'm doing tasks and chores.
@Gelai_ good bro I'm proud keep it up
Off topic but you’re literally so pretty omg !
@@saintxh3aven thank you! ^^
i love how you dont sugarcoat it. whenever I give my friends advice sometimes they get mad when I give it straight up like this. i love seeing influencers and you especially talk about this
Please God, let this video stay on RUclips for eternity. This is now the video I will listen to every morning when I wake up. No more tarot or pick a card readings. This is the real deal. Thank you Liz. Thank you for being you and not sugarcoat anything. Some of us have to learn the hard way, and the truths you’re telling here in that serious manner really wakes you up. I appreciate you greatly and I will never again take this life for granted
I don't get the tarot refrence
she's helping me thru dark times, i need sum kind of discipline, she's basically giving healthy but aggressive discipline , more people need this
this came out exactly when i realised ive had enough of my bad habits and now im deciding to move on from the past and get more productive. i love how ur always so passionate about helping others and im not even being overdramatic when i say uve changed my life in so many ways 💖
exactly the same for me!! go us 💪✨
A very good book that inspired me was Atomic Habits, you should read it :)
liz you don’t understand how much you have completely SHIFTED my lifestyle. i have never been so productive as a teenager. i go to the gym and write so much. i found love for writing because of you. and the routine part is CORRECT. i started cleaning everyday and didn’t do it one day and literally felt so lazy. i stopped giving my energy to unnecessary people and things. i am now focused on myself and how i can make my future self grateful! love you liz 💜
hey, i am so proud of you for what you've done in your life. good job, keep going!!! 🌻💛
Keep it going, my dear! Doing amazing!
Okay so as a 12 year old, I think wizard Liz have COMPLETELY changed my life. After following her advices, I literally like became a whole different person in just one second. I’m really glad that someone like her is here. So the things that I CAN do is and (I’m doing it) is cooking, exercise, babysit, and sometimes help my family cook. A huge thank you to Liz !!
That's good to have this kind of advice so young!! When I was your age I definitely wasn't independent and didn't have my shit together, I think it's really beneficial to start having this mindset from a young age
12 y/o 😂😂, kid what fuck just happened in your life kiddo
@@j0ph11elit’s ok to be not independent at that age 12 years old it’s literally a child
@@margeryojije7862 u commented on this channel 324 times 😭 either u want attention or ur weirdly obsessed, both are embarrassing. if u are being serious yeah some people don’t do exactly what she says immediately because it takes time to change ur mindset and build new habits.
@MdoubleHBxnobody wants u
Liz you changed my life. I know you don't know me but you play an important role in my life. It's been a year I watched this video of yours, at that time I had no job, no life, just sleep,eat, and scroll down through my phone while comparing my life with others but one day randomly i clicked on this video and Boom 💥
I got a hard slap on my face , realisation hit me, I fell so hard
after that I started to looking for job and I find it, not so well paid but decent amount of salary. And my life started to become better. Now I have decent amount of savings and also enjoying vacations, trips, .
Thank you for teaching me that
" IF GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE THEN IT'S TIME TO WATER MY OWN GARDEN'"
( English is not my first language if there is any kind of Grammar or spelling mistakes then please correct me)
Can we appreciate for a moment that Liz is help us to be a better person.✨💖
Yes, she is of helping nature, my life's struggle and her life's struggle is quite same, I love her manifestation video in which explained about writing 'My dreams' , creating 'Mind Movie' abd saying affirmations in the morning and before going to bed, that helped me lot, I got motivation to start my RUclips carrier again after 1 and a half year, love and support from India 🇮🇳
A lot of people think Liz is harsh but those people are the same ones who are not creating anything for themselves. As an Entrepreneur and someone who wants to create success starting from the very bottom, no hand outs no nothing, this is exactly the kind of mindset and attitude you NEED to have and be told by others who have already created wealth.
SUCCESS IS NOT EASY!! Cry about it or take the hard coaching and apply it.
Thank you Liz!!!
Amen! This video felt personal but I needed to hear those words to get myself out of a slump
is it just me or liz is always there right when we need her. Literally like rn i felt like i wanted to change my life and saw this video pop up. I am grateful for her being there for me when i need her. i feel so motivated to do something with my life right now. thankyou Liz ❤
Ikrrr... like man... it was like.. i was HELLA confused in myself.. and thank god... this popped up😭
This helped me in healing , in last few days I was constantly suffering because of my toxic family members , now I know how to deal these type of people
i wish i could download this video and listen like a podcast over and over. it just kicks my ass into gear, and i don’t even consider myself lazy. it’s just so motivational. it makes me want to be a better person and makes me reassess my priorities
It's on Spotify 😊
@@larano6022tysm for commenting this!!!!
Funny thing unlike other she never asks anyone to subscribe to like to comment ..you literally feel her passion and her drive to help people out ...and the need to listen to her .... Thats how powerfull this woman is😭♥️
"Unleash your inner strength and transform your life! Break free from laziness and invest in your financial future. Learn, grow, and thrive in the stock market. Celebrate every success, no matter how small. Believe in yourself and your abilities. You are capable of achieving greatness"
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or bitcoin and stocks.
I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more…
@@face2lune Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.
I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the CFP that assisted you and how to get in touch….
@@face2lune I get guidance from *Susan Tori Davis* Most likely, the internet should have her basic info...
When you are telling your trauma to someona , they see you weak! I have exeperienced it and this is 100% true. Keep your traumas to yourself heal yourself and MOVE ON! Thanks Liz for this video, full of learnings....
Yes
All they see is that part of you, and it is an obstacle to your energy to change or grow
We have to grow till we can carry ourselves
And we have the right to start again, grow and have fun in life
But what if I shared my trauma already with anyone and now seeing this video I'm feeling embarassed and guilty
When I first started watching Liz, I was upset that I did not see results within days. It has been months and I am so glad I found her channel because I have changed drastically for the better! Thank you so much and congrats on 4Mil!
I was borderline depressed for the past month after coming home from uni for the summer break and everyday I was just wondering why was I was feeling so miserable. Tbh before watching I thought this video wouldn't apply to me but the more I watched the more I realised that I actually got lazy with life here. At uni, I was all alone so I actively took charge of my life which felt empowering and rewarded me but back home because I knew my parents would take care of almost anything for me, I stopped doing it myself which made me feel weak and like a loser. Thank you so much, Thewizardliz for bringing these points to light; Now there's a better chance for me to actually figure out whats going on and how to sort this out.
At first I was feeling defensive because I'm significantly disabled and most days genuinely, truly cannot do much without either A. passing out or B. feeling like I'm going to pass out afterwards. (For example, taking a shower requires me to sit down otherwise I run the risk of passing out) so I thought to myself "okay, so am I lazy because I can't work right now due to being unable to take care of myself fully, or having no energy left for other things?" But honestly I see that you're not really talking about people who are legitimately incapable of doing some things. I think your message is actually pretty good, and there is value in a lot of what you said. Especially that productivity looks different from person to person. For me, someone who spends most of my day absolutely exhausted, a productive day is one where I'm able to shower, make an actual meal for myself, exercise in some manner, and either do skincare or a chore or two. That's what I'm trying to achieve as a baseline for every day. It's tough, but I'm working on it.
It might be tuff but I believe u can overcome some of the struggles, do ur best🥰 xx
this is why I always approach self-help with a "take what resonates, leave what doesn't" mentality. she's speaking in generalizations and it won't perfectly apply to everybody and their unique circumstances. it sounds like you've set a great baseline that makes sense for your situation
I feel like she's watching me cuz this is exactly what I needed to hear
I love her. She’s the mom I always needed