"You do not attract toxic people--toxic people go to everyone. You are just allowing them to stay, and that's the issue." Wow, that's a fantastic and eye-opening quote.
One of the few youtubers who don't ask us to subscribe or put the like button No fxcking ads No boring long introduction No montage No pretending No promoting ads or products No sugar coating Just a honest advice from a ECSTASY
OMG yes and I relate to this so much because I’m the same way on my Channel. I hate Sponsorships I never do them because it feels so fake. I just am me ❤
Liz never used to have ads in her videos before, but in this video I have noticed that there are ads being played in between. But I understand that the RUclipsrs also need to include videos sometimes in order to make a living.
Ads are okay, they are not those bad "evil" things. They might be annoying but that's how tv works honestly it makes sense for every creator on youtube to have ads, gaining something from the big effort they made.
"Anyone who wants to hear me correctly, will hear me correctly". As someone who always fears to be misunderstood, I absolutely needed to hear this. This is going to be my new mantra. You're a blessing, Liz. Love you!
and is soo true! I have the same fear and i've started to assume that people never understand me when im talking, but then when im talking with my close friends or people that i know that value me, i always realize they're actually hearing and remembering everything i say. u just have to sorround urself with pure real people willing to listen to you, so that this fear can go away
1 ) Realise your self sabotage 2 ) What you have been taught is not a fact 3 ) YOU CREATE your own reality 4 ) Practice self control 5 ) Do what others are not doing 6 ) YOU don't need to prove yourself 7 ) Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 8 ) Forgive when you see changed behaviour 9 ) Sometimes it better to be lonely 10 ) Discipline over motivation 11 ) Surround yourself with winners 12 ) Realise that you might be running from something 13 ) You are not your trauma 14 ) Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before 15 ) A changed MIND is a changed LIFE. Thankyou❤
Thanks for this! Btw I made my own set with timestamps=) Hope you have a good day! 1:16 Realise your self sabotage 5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact 7:36 Realise that you create your own reality 9:10 Practice self control 11:26 Do what others are not doing 14:37 You don't need to prove yourself 16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour 18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely 20:12 Discipline over motivation 21:34 Surround yourself with winners 23:11 Realise that you might be running from something 24:54 You are not your trauma 27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before 28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
“Nobody is coming to save you and nobody is obligated to save you. You owe it to yourself.” Liz is so bluntly honest and always tells the truth. Victim mindset and lack of self awareness is the biggest reason people aren’t becoming the best version of themselves.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
attention all muslim andrewtateis dajjal in illuminaticreligion s he can summons demons and more of it he accepted islam to have more follower in islam and be aware of it if he says he is mahdy of jesus or more im 100 true
the way she got emotional and tried to hold back her tears when talking about abusement… I love you Liz. You changed me and literally made me quit medications…
@Sam English isn’t her native language and she has subtitles for that reason. Her purpose is to uplift people. She opens up about her traumas. Do you know how hard it is to say publicly “I am abused???” And you catch a word that was imperfect and made fun of her??? And encourage others to join you??? Congratulations. 🎉 If you ‘somewhat’ weren’t like her, you wouldn’t watch this, so…on the inside, I genuinely believe, you have imperfections to work on, too-like all of us. Maybe you should start by asking yourself why finding others’ mistakes makes you happy? Ps. You forgot to put a “.” after you finished your sentence.
*Notes for myself:* 1:16 Realise your self sabotage 5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact 7:36 Realise that you create your own reality 9:10 Practice self control 11:26 Do what others are not doing 14:37 You don't need to prove yourself 16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour 18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely 20:12 Discipline over motivation 21:34 Surround yourself with winners 23:11 Realise that you might be running from something 24:54 You are not your trauma 27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before 28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
Liz is like that older sister every oldest sibling in the family always hoped to have in their lives and every girl who hoped to have her as their mentor. In these past months I've learned so much from her and I'm pretty sure she has helped millions out there. We love you Liz ❤️
@@ellabella7071 I’m just saying that she’s definitely treating herself and her life right because animals have a more advanced sense than humans do. Cats usually sleep where they are most safe and comfortable, I just thought it was quite touching to see that the cat is so comfortable around Liz’s energy to fall asleep right by where she is talking. It’s like a mother-child connection because when there’s a strong bond between a mother and her child, the child even could fall asleep no matter if the mother is having a long or a little loud conversation just because the child feels peaceful around her. It’s meaningful to see cats and even other animals be so comfortable to be close to their owners even while they are having a long talk because usually anything would want to fall asleep in complete silence right? And Liz already making a positive impact to our lives and show that she’s a very respectful human being it’s just nice to see that even our animal companions agree.
I literally cry to myself whenever I listen to her. Whatever she speaks is so relevant to this generation, especially. Indeed, she is a blessing to us. Keep going Liz! We love you. ❤
seriously Ive been in so many accidents the one that messed me up the most was getting hit by a jet ski.... its so hard trying to get back to normal after that honestly it feels like im a new person I had to get over so much anger and grief...
🌈Be aware of self sabotage 🌈Create boundaries 🌈Know your worth 🌈Not everyone have same belief 🌈Everybody has their own beliefs which they have learned from their experience 🌈You create your own reality 🌈You are not your trauma 🌈 Practice self control 🌈Its easy to get ahead of others in today's age bcoz most of the people live in their comfort zone so you can choose uncomfortable path 🌈 Being lonely is better than having tons of fake friends 🌈 Practice othweights talents 🌈 Dont talk about goals show them your results 🌈 Some people might manipulate and gaslight u cut ties with them 🌈 Surround yourself with winner mindset people who can encourage and uplift you 🌈 Motivation is nothing maintain your discipline because you are not a loser 🌈 If you are indulging in a distracting activing such as partying drinking or overeating frequently it means you are running away from something their is some unhealed trauma and you are building a defensive meachanism against trauma through such activities
attention all muslim andrewtateis dajjal in illuminaticreligion s he can summons demons and more of it he accepted islam to have more follower in islam and be aware of it if he says he is mahdy of jesus or more im 100 true
“you did not waste those years, those years are meant to make you a warrior” 31:01 liz you have no idea how badly i needed to hear this. thank you. you have changed my life and i am not even exaggerating
Timestamps ✨: 1:14 - Realise your self sabotage 5:06 - What you have been taught is not a fact 7:36 - You create your own reality 9:10 - Practice self control 11:26 - Do what others are not doing 14:37 - You don't need to prove yourself 16:27 - Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 17:52 - Forgive when you see changed behavior 18:13 - Sometimes it is better to be lonely 20:12 - Discipline over motivation 21:34 - Surround yourself with winners 23:10 - Realise that you might be running from something 24:53 - You are not your trauma 27:55 - Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before 28:58 - A changed mind is a changed life
I didn't become financially independent until I was in my late 30's, and I'm still in my 30's. In addition to having purchased my second home and earning 63k on a monthly basis through passive income, I've also achieved three out of five goals. I just hope this inspires someone to realise that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of these things yet, you can start today no matter your age. Change your future by investing! I made a rather big decision by investing in the financial market.
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate and stocks..
I’ve been diligently working, saving and contributing towards early retirement and financial freedom, but since covid outbreak, the economy so far has caused my portfolio to underperform, do I keep contributing to my 401k or look at alternative sectors to meet my goals?
@@rougeur Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances...
@@face2lune How can one find a verifiable financial planner? I would not mind looking up the professional that helped you. I will be retiring in two years and I might need some management on my much larger portfolio. Don't want to take any chances.
@@rougeur *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
"You did not waste those years, those years are meant to make you a warrior, you will come out of this so strong" she knew we needed to hear that, she just knew and the way my throat hurts from that bc I was holding myself back from balling my eyes out from that sentence LMAO. I love her so much
girl, I'm so grateful you exist, nobody could ever replace or bring what you bring to the world, everyday I come back to you and your messages, I could not thank you enough for just being you.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
liz is actually such a loving, caring, sweet, empathetic person. U deserve the world. so many people who have realized this wouldn't have even gave us this advice and for her to take time out of her day to give everyone absolutely life changing advice just by watching 1-3 of her videos is amazing. I am very grateful to had found her channel, she's absolutely amazing.
The part where she got emotianal had me crying, the pain that she went through and her trying to help us not go through the same and change for the better is the most angelic thing ever.
timestamps 1. realizing your self-sabotage 1:15 2. what you have been taught is not a fact 5:07 3. you create your own reality 7:40 4. practice self-control 9:14 5. do what others are not doing 11:29 6. you do not need to prove yourself 14:39 7. realize when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 16:30 8. forgive only when you see them change 17:55 9. sometimes it is better to be lonely 18:15 10. choose discipline over motivation 20:13 11. surround yourself with people with a winner mentality 21:39 12. realize that you might be running from something 23:11 13. you are not your trauma 24:56 14. remind yourself of what hurdles you have been able to overcome 28:00 15. a changed mind is a changed life (god is testing you, notice those patterns and don't let yourself hit rock-bottom again) 29:00 you deserve the world, we will get through this ❤
“And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know.” (AI-Baqarah, 2:216) “So, surely with hardship comes ease” (Quran - Al Inshirah 94:5) Please stay strong. I pray Allah swt protects you and continues to bless you now and always Insha’Allah.
I just dropped a tear realizing how grateful I am to God for bringing Liz into my life😫 since I started watching her, I’ve had this sudden urge to change a lot of of things in my life, a lot of habits that were keeping me depressed, I can honestly say I don’t have depression anymore...GOD BLESS YOU liz❤️❤️
attention all muslim andrewtateis dajjal in illuminaticreligion s he can summons demons and more of it he accepted islam to have more follower in islam and be aware of it if he says he is mahdy of jesus or more im 100 true
I'm so grateful I discovered this channel. You can tell she cares about us SO much when at the end she got emotional. Lots of love to Liz and all the lovely people watching this video
i cant imagine the pain she must have gone through to be able to see the world so clearly, im sure she has her flaws but giving such beautiful and loving advice is a gift, i hope she is happy now and recovered with what she might have suffered with, i admire her so much. i hope 2023 will find us peace and love. i hope we all heal from the stuff we go through and unlock levels we haven’t before
I love all her videos, But this one got me! I listen to Liz, literally, every morning for positive motivation and enlightenment. I’m currently going through very tough times these days but I cannot stay down cause I have babies to take care of all by myself. Her words and strength is so contagious! I appreciate you so much Liz. ❤
Growing up in an Indian family as the oldest sibling I never actually got advices I needed to hear to learn, grow, fix in myself. I have a younger sister and I always try my best to not let her go through the paths that I have been through, I try my best to tell her to be normal with making mistakes and learn from them, I always forward her the videos that Liz posts, no matter where I am I'll forward it to her and tell her to listen to it, what she learnt and what not. I try to be the shield of her life against all the taunts, expectations the family, relatives throw at her. Thank you Liz for being my older sister, now I'm a better one to guide my little sibling.❤️❤️❤️
Putting our Trust in the Creator is sufficient but yes, we do need help of fellow beings due to our limitations. Some Attributes of God/ Creator out of 99 which have been taught to humanity :- 26 As-Samee The All-Hearer, The Hearer (The One who Hears all things that are heard by His Eternal Hearing without an ear, instrument or organ). 27 Al-Baseer The All-Seeing, The All-Noticing (The One who Sees all things that are seen by His Eternal Seeing without a pupil or any other instrument). 31 Al-Khabeer The All-Aware One (The One who knows the Truth of things). 55 Al-Waliyy The Protecting Friend, The Supporter. 68 As-Samad The Supreme Provider, The Eternal, The Independent (The Master who is relied upon in matters and reverted to in ones needs). 77 Al-Waali The Holder of Supreme Authority, The Governor (The One who owns things and manages) them). Also, 4 Al-Quddus The Most Sacred, The Pure (The One who is pure from any imperfection and clear from children and adversaries). 5 As-Salaam The Source of Peace, The Embodiment of Peace (The One who is free from every imperfection). 6 Al-Mu’min The Infuser of Faith (The One who witnessed for Himself that no one is God but Him. And He witnessed for His believers that they are truthful in their belief that no one is God but Him). 7 Al-Muhaymin The Preserver of Safety, The Guardian (The One who witnesses the saying and deeds of His creatures). 8 Al-Azeez The Victorious, The Mighty One, The Strong, (The Defeater who is not defeated). 9 Al-Jabbar The Compeller, The Forceful One, The Omnipotent One (The One that nothing happens in His Dominion except that which He willed). 10 Al-Mutakabbir The Dominant One, The Greatest (The One who is clear from the attributes of the creatures and from resembling them). 11 Al-Khaaliq The Creator (The One who brings everything from non-existence to existence). 12 Al-Baari The Evolver, The Maker (of Order) (The Creator who has the Power to turn the entities). 13 Al-Musawwir The Fashioner, The Shaper of Beauty, The Flawless Shaper (The One who forms His creatures in different pictures). 14 Al-Ghaffaar The Great Forgiver, The Forgiver (The One who forgives the sins of His slaves time and time again). 15 Al-Qahhaar The All-Prevailing One, The Dominant (The One who has the perfect Power and has Power over All things). 16 Al-Wahhab The Supreme Bestower (The One who is Generous in giving plenty without any return. He is everything that benefits whether Halal / legal or Haram / illegal). 18 Al-Fattah The Supreme Solver, The Opener, The Reliever, The Judge (The One who opens for His slaves the closed worldly and religious matters). 20 Al-Qaabid The Restricting One, The Constrictor, The Withholder (The One who constricts the sustenance by His wisdom and expands and widens it with His Generosity and Mercy). 21 Al-Baasit The Extender, The Englarger, The Reliever (The One who constricts the sustenance by His wisdom and expands and widens it with His Generosity and Mercy). 22 Al-Khaafid The Reducer, The Abaser (The One who lowers whoever He willed by His Destruction and raises whoever He willed by His Endowment). 23 Ar-Raafi The Elevating One, The Exalter, The Elevator (The One who lowers whoever He willed by His Destruction and raises whoever He willed by His Endowment). 24 Al-Mu’izz The Honourer-Bestower, The Giver of Honor (He gives esteem to whoever He willed, hence there is no one to degrade him; And He degrades whoever He willed, hence there is no one to give him esteem). 25 Al-Muzil The Dishonourer, The Humiliator (He gives esteem to whoever He willed, hence there is no one to degrade him; And He degrades whoever He willed, hence there is no one to give him esteem). 28 Al-Hakam The Impartial Judge, The Judge (He is the Ruler and His judgment is His Word). 29 Al-Adl The Embodiment of Justice, The Just (The One who is entitled to do what He does). 32 Al-Haleem The Clement One, The Forebearing (The One who delays the punishment for those who deserve it and then He might forgive them). 33 Al-Azeem The Magnificent One, The Great One, The Mighty (The One deserving the attributes of Exaltment, Glory, Extolement, and Purity from all imperfection). 35 Ash-Shakoor The Acknowledging One, The Grateful, The Appreciative, The Rewader of Thankfulness (The One who gives a lot of reward for a little obedience). 37 Al-Kabeer The Great One, The Most Great, The Great (The One who is greater than everything in status). 44 Al-Mujeeb The Responding One, The Responsive, The Hearkener, The Responder of Prayer (The One who answers the one in need if he asks Him and rescues the yearner if he calls upon Him). 46 Al-Hakeem The Wise One, The Wise, The Judge of Judges (The One who is correct in His doings). 47 Al-Wadud The Loving One, The Most Loving (The One who loves His believing slaves and His believing slaves love Him. His love to His slaves is His Will to be merciful to them and praise them). 48 Al-Majeed The Glorious One, The Most Glorious One (The One who is with perfect Power, High Status, Compassion, Generosity and Kindness). 49 Al-Ba’ith The Infuser of New Life, The Resurrector, The Raiser (from death) (The One who resurrects His slaves after death for reward and/or punishment). 53 Al-Qawwiyy The Possessor of All Strength, The Strong One, The Most Strong (The One with the complete Power). 54 Al-Mateen The Firm One, The Forceful One (The One with extreme Power which is un-interrupted and He does not get tired). 57 Al-Muhsee The All-Enumerating One, The Counter, The Reckoner (The One who the count of things are known to Him). 58 Al-Mubdi The Originator (The One who can create Something from Nothing) 59 Al-Mueed The Restorer, The Reproducer (The One who brings back the creatures after death). 60 Al-Muhyi The Maintainer of life, The Restorer, The Giver of Life (The One who took out a living human from semen that does not have a soul. He gives life by giving the souls back to the worn out bodies on the resurrection day and He makes the hearts alive by the light of knowledge). 61 Al-Mumeet The Inflictor of Death, The Creator of Death, The Destroyer (The One who renders the living dead). 62 Al-Hayy The Eternally Living One, The Alive (The One attributed with a life that is unlike our life and is not that of a combination of soul, flesh or blood). 66 Al-Waahid The Only One, The Unique, The One (The One without a partner). 69 Al-Qaadir The All Powerful, The Omnipotent One, The Able, The Capable (The One attributed with Power). 70 Al-Muqtadir The Creator of All Power, All Authoritative One, The Powerful, The Dominant (The One with the perfect Power that nothing is withheld from Him). 71 Al-Muqaddim The Expediting One, The Expediter, The Promoter (The One who puts things in their right places. He makes ahead what He wills and delays what He wills). 72 Al-Mu’akhkhir The Procrastinator, The Delayer, The Retarder (The One who puts things in their right places. He makes ahead what He wills and delays what He wills). 73 Al-Awwal The Very First , The First (The One whose Existence is without a beginning). 74 Al-Aakhir The Infinite Last One, The Last (The One whose Existence is without an end). 75 Az-Zaahir The Perceptible, The Manifest (The One that nothing is above Him and nothing is underneath Him, hence He exists without a place. He, The Exalted, His Existence is obvious by proofs and He is clear from the delusions of attributes of bodies). 76 Al-Baatin The Imperceptible, The Hidden (The One that nothing is above Him and nothing is underneath Him, hence He exists without a place. He, The Exalted, His Existence is obvious by proofs and He is clear from the delusions of attributes of bodies). 79 Al-Barr The Fountain-Head of Truth, The Source of All Goodness, The Righteous (The One who is kind to His creatures, who covered them with His sustenance and specified whoever He willed among them by His support, protection, and special mercy). 80 At-Tawwaab The Ever-Acceptor of Repentance, The Guide to Repentance (The One who grants repentance to whoever He willed among His creatures and accepts his repentance). 81 Al-Muntaqim The Retaliator, The Avenger (The One who victoriously prevails over His enemies and punishes them for their sins. It may mean the One who destroys them). 82 Al-Afuww The Supreme Pardoner, The Forgiver The One with wide forgiveness. 83 Ar-Ra’oof The Benign One, The Compassionate (The One with extreme Mercy. The Mercy of Allah is His will to endow upon whoever He willed among His creatures). 84 Maalik-ul-Mulk The Eternal Possessor of Sovereignty, The Owner of All (The One who controls the Dominion and gives dominion to whoever He willed). 85 Zul-Jalaali-wal-Ikraam The Possessor of Majesty and Honour, The Lord of Majesty and Bounty (The One who deserves to be Exalted and not denied). 87 Al-Jaami’ The Assembler of Scattered Creations, The Gatherer (The One who gathers the creatures on a day that there is no doubt about, that is the Day of Judgment). 88 Al-Ghaniyy The Rich One, The Self-Sufficient One (The One who does not need the creation). 89 Al-Mughni The Bestower of Sufficiency, The Enricher (The One who satisfies the necessities of the creatures). 90 Al-Maani’ The Preventer of Harm, The Withholder (The One who prevent Harm & Delays things). 91 Ad-Daarr The Creator of the Harmful, The Distressor (The One who makes harm reach to whoever He willed and benefit to whoever He willed). 92 An-Naafi’ The Creator of Good, The Bestower of Benefits , The Propitious (The One who makes harm reach to whoever He willed and benefit to whoever He willed). 93 An-Noor The Prime Light, The Light (The One who guides). 98 Ar-Rasheed The Guide to Path of Rectitude, The Guide to the Right Path, The Righteous Teacher (The One who guides). 99 As-Saboor The Extensively Enduring One, The Patient (The One who does not quickly punish the sinners).
I'm a younger sibling from a traditional Indian family ,my parents were really strict while raising her but a little chill while raising me though i will not lie it was all bc of the arguments she had with them and I'm glad she has my back
one of the best things that improved my life when I truly learned how to live by it was things don't change unless you do. It used to scare me a lot but it's actually SO empowering once you realize that you can literally go from being your worst enemy, to your biggest supporter and be unstoppable.
@@aishalol I’m going to be honest and say that it was when I felt like I hit rock bottom and things couldn’t go worse. I started getting into manifestation and just surrounding myself of people (online) and concepts that would give me hope instead of crushing me and I started to set small victories like not crying for one day, then for one week, then trying to wake up early when I didn’t feel like I could do it, and it really started from there and I got to a point where I could literally manifest things in a week and just gave me more hope and confidence. The small things that I saw as victories were facts, practical, so it was something that had happened and I could look back and say wow I did it when I was feeling bad, i ‘m not feeling that bad now so surely I can do something about this. I remember I had a note on my phone where I used to write everything I accomplished like “I aced the exam studying only a week earlier” “I managed to follow my schedule during this rough week where I --“ and reading my accomplishments was a boost. Also, big things happen when you shift your energy because I started to attract wholesome people or in general people more aligned with what I wanted to be and negativity started drifting away. Sorry for the long answer but I feel like people make it way easier than it is, actually it’s not but it’s SO worth it. You only have you and you’re enough.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
Hi Liz, not sure if you will ever see this comment, but I wanted to let you know that I am in my late 40s and I am watching all of your videos! You are helping so many people, including me. I love your courage to create these vulnerable and helpful videos. You are wise beyond your years. I love you and thank you - keep at it as this is a definite calling for you! Wishing you much love and continued success 🙏🏼💜
I‘m a guy working on setting boundaries as well and finding the way back to my masculinity. The setbacks in our lives sharpen us and I view them as blessings. Thanks for your work. It‘s a valuable puzzle piece in the process of reprogamming myself.
@@starrynight5163 it's really sad when liz describes someone you need to run away from, someone who is toxic, and the description leads you to your mom or dad or someone dear to you..
27:26 I actually started crying watching this part. It hit me so personally because no one ever saved me and my siblings even if they knew abt how we’re living and what was happening to us. It felt like they didn’t care enough almost. Tomorrow I’m going to a job centre and a lawyer’s office. I only turned 18 not even a month ago and now I’m dealing with family court, assault charges and domestic violence. But honestly this chaotic opportunity is such a blessing bc now I can finally stand up for my dad and siblings. Update: My mum blew up at me because I wouldn’t let her drive my car. ( she lost her license for driving on drugs btw) I just went to my room to be left alone because I didn’t wanna explain why she doesn’t own it and why I don’t have to give it to her. This made her very angry all day. She kept yelling for hours even tho I wasn’t responding I just told her to leave me alone which made her kick in my door and smash my lamp. She got in my sisters face and started pushing her. I recorded the whole thing and called the police. She then stole my dads car and went to her boyfriends.. the police tracked her down and charged her for having drugs in the car plus driving with no license. Then I got a domestic AVO on her and I also had the option to charge her with breaking my property 😳
Your comment actually made me feel empowered i went threw the same thing constant abuse from my older brother about talking back i wanted to file charges but my parents are extremely conservative about certain aspects like therpay. Seeking help. Same sex partners and much more oppressive beliefs they guilted me into not actually standing up and reporting him to the police they said that I'll destroy his life and how I'd set a bad image of him to his co workers and boss and how he could lose friends and people in his life which even made me more hurt than i ever was considering this isnt the first time that he physically assaulted me and he can easily overpower me i cry every night about regretting not actually talking action and actually healing becuz i never actually droped that case and ill never heal becuz this traumatic event stopped my life at a certain point where i always seem very neglected and weak thinking about it and my parents fail to see how it hurts me personally they didnt even care they just didnt want their only son to be held accountable im 15 i struggle with school and still trying to leave my parents i dont how i can actually live properly with nor fear and oppression considering i live in a religious country where me being queer and a woman is a crime im currently desperate to leave and never see their faces agian
this woman is changing my life, a weeks ago i was depressed, in my worst state and every day i didn't plan to come home i was at a job where it was in front of an overpass, I had to stand for 8 hours and I kept looking at that thing for 8 hours like… the mind she lies, like I was on my worst very bad time, for 1 month i not look myself on the mirror I decided to start the new year on the right foot, before New Year, I forgive everyone and cried when it was 00:00 it seemed that everything went away (this moment was beautiful because I saw the moon coming out of the clouds and shining like never before) on the 1st I did my food, spent time with my family and of course, the bad thoughts were still there but I didn't let them control me…Today is the 5th and I can say that I am extremely well, I do pilates at home, yoga, meditate, I started hoponopono for women and I do affirmations and guys this stuff works, I'm becoming my best self, thank u liz so much
I know you guys like stories (just like me) so I brought mine, I'm still not 100% but I wrote a letter to myself, I marked it as 12/31/2023 and in that letter I told you how my year was, how I am and how my best version it looks like it and i can tell i'm pretty as fuck… i can't wait to read it at the end of this year, law of attraction, law of assumption, vision board EVERYTHING it works
Thank you so much for this message, I had a toxic friendship at the beginning of this year and I finally just stopped talking to them. I prayed to God for advice and I looked up a video on RUclips and found your content 🙏. So thanks for your amazing advice. I am now going to change my mindset. 😊
The moment she starting to tear up, I am now more convinced she's in a very bad trauma in her life before she has this kind of version . Thank you this video, I need that confidence , thank you Liz.
I am early and just wanted to say that liz has changed my life. I used to be a pushover but now I firmly tell people my boundaries and don't let anyone cross them while still being true to my nurturing persona. I hate it when people say she is the female andrew tate because liz has content curated specially to make women feel empowered and to let them be kind toward people who would actually accept it. Liz is the person I needed when i had no one and I would always preach her
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
You are the sign I’m praying for. Thanks Liz for wonderful and amazing content. I don’t have money and time for therapy . And out of the blue your channel come to my wall. I’ve watched all your videos. And I’m so grateful. Thank you 🙏🏼
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
When I experienced being cheated on while pregnant and post party depression… it was ROCK BOTTOM. I was the victim in my life. Until one day God just told me I have the power to change my circumstance. I had to learn to value my life like you shared. I realized no one’s going to come and save me. I have to get up off the floor and figure my life out on my own. My life changed and I was saved. Thank you for sharing this video
Did this today. blocked and deleted people who take me for granted, feel they could lie, leave me on read, make false promises, lying and cant be upfront. Was literally so tired!!! You are right ! It is better to be alone ! This is something I had to learn and I am still learning!!!
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
I went to a psychologist recently because you advised for it. It’s insane how many things I’ve learned about myself so far. Some things are so simple but have a big impact on me and my self esteem.
"Abused children have advantage over Non abused children because from a young age, they have been taught to get tough. They are learning lessons from a young age. So we think differently as well. We see the world in a different manner, but we can thrive hard as well. Put us in a stressful situation, honey. We will thrive on another level. I'm telling you." I so understand this! while reading this line, my eyes got teary as well :( thank you so much Liz for your advice!
timestamps 1:16 Realise your self sabotage 5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact 7:36 Realise that you create your own reality 9:10 Practice self control 11:26 Do what others are not doing 14:37 You don't need to prove yourself 16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour 18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely 20:12 Discipline over motivation 21:34 Surround yourself with winners 23:11 Realise that you might be running from something 24:54 You are not your trauma 27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before 28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
"You don't need to prove yourself" not for others, but to yourself yes. I love this line because I always doing this, always proving my worth, opinions to others. Now I realize it all!! Thank you for this video 🥰
“You know how lonely it is to be treated with respect” fuuuuuuuuuck. This is so true. In order to really not sacrifice any of my values, I have to spend time either alone or with truly loyal people. Wow what an amazing powerful message. I’ve lived a lot of what you’re describing here and I really resonate with your experiences. It sounds like your feminine logical and experiential are balanced. It’s inspiring and a reminder that I am empowered to show up however I want to. It’s my life to live after all. Thank you so much beautiful soul for sharing this message of hope, resilience, love, and compassion. You are helping people change their lives. ❤ I’m going to continue doing. I have so many dreams to make art to change the world to love to thrive. This video is a sign that I’m on the right path. God has been testing me left and right and I’ve been passing the tests. So thank you again❤I love you sister
Once we actually decide that we want to change, that we can do it, everything changes. I’m so grateful for you Liz. You have changed so many lives, including mine. Having someone like you to listen to is like… it’s like meeting an old friend, a supportive friend. It’s so inspiring how you have changed, and believe me, many people would be your friend if they knew you. You deserve every bit of happiness you get. We love you so much. I used to neglect my health, my well-being. I had a messed-up sleep cycle and didn’t eat a balanced diet. I didn’t do what I loved, I didn’t have a good mindset. Trust me, no matter where you are, no matter what situation you’re in, you can improve. Some of the most successful people had trauma in their past. If you try and change yourself, you will succeed. I believe in you guys. We can do this. Once again, thank you Liz for being the light in the dark for us. I’m so proud of how far you’ve come and who you are right now. ❤
The last part where you talked about how God tests you is literally so true and that we ask for small things and my Lord wants the best for me , this is all so true!!
Liz saved my life, her viral video in the summer started my metamorphosis. I was living in my trauma responses for the past 10 years. It gave me the courage to get through the last year, and now I am completely transformed and on my way to success. ❤ the hard times haven’t changed, and I allow myself to hurt, but I’ve taken radical control and don’t feel like a victim anymore. Thank you, you’re a beautiful person.
Thank God that you are good now! Always remember that Jesus loves you a lottttt and he wants the best for you. God sent you this beautiful girl in order to get better
The ending made me cry. It is so hard to see the pain that we will endure while in the midst of it, will result in blessings we could not imagine. Thank you Liz for this message! God is so good.
God always puts the right words in your mouth Liz. I’ve been feeling so lonely because I realized how many horrible friends and people were around me and cut them loose. I’m going through a transitionary time. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much. God bless you.
that makes me so happy to hear because i am going through the exact same situation as you've mentioned just now, we'll both get to a point where we wont be so lonely anymore and will be happy and content with life and who we are and how we deal with people ❤️ wishing u, me and everyone else that reads this the best!
My daughter who is 20 got me watching Liz and I can't stop.Ive started taking notes. She says amazing things that make me feel so helpful and empowered, it's so healing
Liz you are so strong. i am amazed at how you were abused and tortured but managed to change your life for the complete opposite and you have become a therapist to many of us you really do deserve the world💖
"I realized it doesn't have to be this way. I CAN change things for myself" This is exactly the same aha moment I had! I realized how powerful I truly was.
Been listening to Liz since I was 20, I’m 22 about to turn 23, and there’s is not a single time where this videos doesn’t make me cry. Thank you for inspiring me. ❤
I’m so glad you addressed loneliness . I’m finding out more and more that many people feel lonely, and it’s good to bring awareness to it, while it’s good to put yourself out there and work on making friends , it’s just as important to learn how to sit with your own thoughts
the last part about seeing the same people and situations again is so true. i used to feel really left out and unimportant in my first friendgroupa couple years ago, and then i changed friends and thought that they were the complete opposit of the last one but i was wrong. i recently broke all contacts with all my toxic friends and now i honestly feel so appreciated and loved even if i have almost no friends. so if you're scared to cut off people just because you're scared to be alone. just do it, you will literally feel so liberated and relaxed that you'll stop seeking other people's validation and will work on yourself more
“You did not waste those years” touched me on a deeper level as i feel like she knows it’s hard to admit that i used to be a chronic people pleaser, so different that how i am now, it’s hard to admit to myself that i let those people walk over me that way, i endured all the abuse and manipulation because i had low self worth. Thank you for reminding me that i needed those times to be the version of myself that i am now
god the entire time she was talking about the effects of coming from an abusive household, carrying abusive behaviours, the mentality that you were abused so you'll abuse right back, it reached me on such a deep level. i have been going through the exact dilemma over the last week and it has been so, so hard for me to come to terms with the anger i have inside me, that i denied for so long. thank you liz. i started therapy a few days ago and will continue it for a long time until my traumas are resolved, but it feels so reassuring that someone out there is talking to me about going through the same situation, and giving such heartfelt advice. i feel so deeply connected to what you're saying. it's incredibly healing to me just to hear it. i don't know if you'll ever read this comment but i needed to put my gratefulness out into the universe somewhere. thank you for these videos.
Thank you so much :'( I cried watching this, I've dealt with trauma/abuse since I was 12 now I'm 18 and I've always thought that I wasted all my teenage years cause literally I didn't live them I was just surviving, I'm stronger now and going to therapy even though I still live in the same household I'm starting to change and getting better stopping my parents toxic traits and they can see them a little bit. I think I'm a warrior and meant to break this toxic cycle thank you so much Liz, God bless you.
u almost cried girl. im so grateful for your existence, Liz. your words changed my life so much, so rapidly that i couldn't even believe it in my eyes, just one month and everything changed completely in a positive way. thank you so much. God bless you.
Watching this before the start of the next semester in grad school and my internship tomorrow. I’m 23 and have always been shy & socially anxious and also came from a dysfunctional family. I identify a lot with what you said & im trying not to change and believe in myself and heal. Thank you for your videos they help me so much. The end made me so emotional too I’m so grateful for you.
i love how i can feel you’re at ur highest version of yourself liz, keep working on that consistently bc i fell backwards even tho i thought that would be impossible
Liz, I lost 30 pounds in 4 months and my lifestyle changes started relatively soon after I first started seeing your videos. I started actually learning more about nutrition and fitness and for the first time in my life, genuinely started taking a logical approach on how to change my health and body rather than always victimizing myself about having a bad metabolism and not being naturally skinny. I have always had trouble with emotional eating and binge eating, anxiety, and since one of the first videos of you I saw about binge eating, then confidence and everything else, it really woke something up in me. I never thought that it was possible for me to drop weight the way I finally did. I am still not at my goal weight, but I have been able to really manage my emotions in everything I do now to take the right steps and properly calculate whatever I want and how to reach to that point. Truly, truly, truly, thank you. Thank you for changing my life for the better and bringing me internal peace by teaching me how to approach life in a way that I can actually get things done and get to everything I aspire to become. Even down to cutting out everyone who provided no value in my life, and now I have been able to level up in every way. I don’t feel held back anymore
and this adorable cat in the background.. simple calm .. just observing and being sweet.. the perfect resume of simpleness in life that liz is talking about
In my life, I've never found someone like you, who explains everything in such a profound way. Thank you so much for inspiring me Liz, I'm so grateful to you. Lots of love and support, keep doing what you're doing, you are changing millions of lives.
Hi Liz, I'm just here to thank you because honestly right now I'm really struggling because of my eating disorder recovery: these words were exactly what I needed to hear. I'm tired of this life. I'm tired of just trying to survive and not actually living and enjoying life and now I know that I CAN change this, I'm capeble of doing it and I'll try. Maybe I will struggle a lot but I will go over everything. Thank you, really and truly.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
I really identify with you Liz. I grew up in a toxic home and I have zero self esteem. I have been feeling very suicidal and worthless for the last few days until I saw this video. Now I feel a bit more empowered to try again. I have a son so I have to stick around for him.
Absolutely amazing! Very well articulated. You can tell she real cares about people. She’s helping lots of people by just speaking her truth. Truly authentic and it shines through
✨You don't attract toxic people, you just allow them to stay✨, OMG i just wish i knew this before damn, it changes everything in my mind. Thanks liz for this beautiful video, boundaries is literally key 🗝️👌🙌🖤
That part when you hold back your tears had me crying and thinking about my past and my parents' toxic relationship, I went through many things and had always been that person who's ignored in every friend group and then went home to find peace but I never did but now my parents divorced and our lives are at a peace now and I'm currently working on my childhood trauma, Liz made me realize how strong I am all those past years and I'm proud of myself for trying to become a better person and I will be. Thank you God for staying with me when I'm at my lowest and Thank you Liz you are so brave.
Liz is a blessing she doesn’t understand how much I and many other people needed this I may not know her personally but I love her she truly saved me 💙
18:13 i really needed this being lonely at school has been super hard and probably because it’s my first time i actually leave a friendship because of being left out i love you liz❤️
I’m 25 years old and you’re helping me to realize which things I need to change and put my self up into healing because I deserve it, I deserve to live in peace and be successful!
This was classic Liz. You changed my life almost a year ago to the day today, and I couldn't be more grateful. I've been feeling very low since the new years, and when I needed you the most - your video was recommended again. Thank you so much for everything
"You do not attract toxic people--toxic people go to everyone. You are just allowing them to stay, and that's the issue." Wow, that's a fantastic and eye-opening quote.
Absolutely, you let them in!
I love this comment ..
Wow
That's why I started mirroring them and walking away
:) !!!!! :)
One of the few youtubers who don't ask us to subscribe or put the like button
No fxcking ads
No boring long introduction
No montage
No pretending
No promoting ads or products
No sugar coating
Just a honest advice from a ECSTASY
Which is way she reached success so quickly, real people want real people.
OMG yes and I relate to this so much because I’m the same way on my Channel. I hate Sponsorships I never do them because it feels so fake. I just am me ❤
Liz never used to have ads in her videos before, but in this video I have noticed that there are ads being played in between. But I understand that the RUclipsrs also need to include videos sometimes in order to make a living.
Ads are okay, they are not those bad "evil" things. They might be annoying but that's how tv works
honestly it makes sense for every creator on youtube to have ads, gaining something from the big effort they made.
Honest advice exctasa?
"Anyone who wants to hear me correctly, will hear me correctly". As someone who always fears to be misunderstood, I absolutely needed to hear this. This is going to be my new mantra. You're a blessing, Liz. Love you!
same here 💯
and is soo true! I have the same fear and i've started to assume that people never understand me when im talking, but then when im talking with my close friends or people that i know that value me, i always realize they're actually hearing and remembering everything i say. u just have to sorround urself with pure real people willing to listen to you, so that this fear can go away
same sis
i live by the fact that i’m responsible for what i’m saying, not for what others understand
@@blackqplaylists6751 pl
1 ) Realise your self sabotage
2 ) What you have been taught is not a fact
3 ) YOU CREATE your own reality
4 ) Practice self control
5 ) Do what others are not doing
6 ) YOU don't need to prove yourself
7 ) Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you
8 ) Forgive when you see changed behaviour
9 ) Sometimes it better to be lonely
10 ) Discipline over motivation
11 ) Surround yourself with winners
12 ) Realise that you might be running from something
13 ) You are not your trauma
14 ) Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before
15 ) A changed MIND is a changed LIFE.
Thankyou❤
What do you do when someone disrespects you
Thanks for this! Btw I made my own set with timestamps=)
Hope you have a good day!
1:16 Realise your self sabotage
5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact
7:36 Realise that you create your own reality
9:10 Practice self control
11:26 Do what others are not doing
14:37 You don't need to prove yourself
16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you
17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour
18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely
20:12 Discipline over motivation
21:34 Surround yourself with winners
23:11 Realise that you might be running from something
24:54 You are not your trauma
27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before
28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
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No thank you so much
“Nobody is coming to save you and nobody is obligated to save you. You owe it to yourself.”
Liz is so bluntly honest and always tells the truth. Victim mindset and lack of self awareness is the biggest reason people aren’t becoming the best version of themselves.
This is extremely true.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
Absolutely!! Waiting for the knight to come and rescue you. It won't happen. No one's coming!!
"victim mindset" bro ur right and I'm realizing it now
Her energy and mindset is amazing. People always think it’s other people obligation to accommodate their comfort.
"You did not waste those years, those years are meant to make you a warrior, you will come out of this so strong." I really felt that
For me ● You did not waste those years , those years were meant to make you a warrior , you are coming out of this so strong.
attention all muslim andrewtateis dajjal in illuminaticreligion s he can summons demons and more of it he accepted islam to have more follower in islam and be aware of it if he says he is mahdy of jesus or more im 100 true
the way she got emotional and tried to hold back her tears when talking about abusement… I love you Liz. You changed me and literally made me quit medications…
Abusement????? Uhhhh okay? Lol
@@WhataSam1990 right lmao im screaming
Is abusement in the Websters dictionary and I just didn’t know
@@WhataSam1990 funny how that's the only thing you noticed in that comment 😒
@Sam English isn’t her native language and she has subtitles for that reason. Her purpose is to uplift people. She opens up about her traumas. Do you know how hard it is to say publicly “I am abused???” And you catch a word that was imperfect and made fun of her??? And encourage others to join you??? Congratulations. 🎉 If you ‘somewhat’ weren’t like her, you wouldn’t watch this, so…on the inside, I genuinely believe, you have imperfections to work on, too-like all of us. Maybe you should start by asking yourself why finding others’ mistakes makes you happy?
Ps. You forgot to put a “.” after you finished your sentence.
*Notes for myself:*
1:16 Realise your self sabotage
5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact
7:36 Realise that you create your own reality
9:10 Practice self control
11:26 Do what others are not doing
14:37 You don't need to prove yourself
16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you
17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour
18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely
20:12 Discipline over motivation
21:34 Surround yourself with winners
23:11 Realise that you might be running from something
24:54 You are not your trauma
27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before
28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
I appreciate you doing this!
Thank you❤
^^
Thank you so much. I appreciate you
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Liz is like that older sister every oldest sibling in the family always hoped to have in their lives and every girl who hoped to have her as their mentor. In these past months I've learned so much from her and I'm pretty sure she has helped millions out there. We love you Liz ❤️
ikr so true. i’ll forever be grateful for her
@@trashmagick same
As the eldest sister, i feel this at a different level
Hello everyone, I want to change my body because people are going through it, and I don't know how to use the assumption law. Can you help me?
@@hhyunna you wanna know about law of assumption and manifestation? You can look up there are so many yt videos that might be helpful for you. 💕
The way the cat is even so comfortable in Liz’s presence and energy to rest right by where she is speaking positively
What is so odd about that?
@@ellabella7071 I’m just saying that she’s definitely treating herself and her life right because animals have a more advanced sense than humans do. Cats usually sleep where they are most safe and comfortable, I just thought it was quite touching to see that the cat is so comfortable around Liz’s energy to fall asleep right by where she is talking. It’s like a mother-child connection because when there’s a strong bond between a mother and her child, the child even could fall asleep no matter if the mother is having a long or a little loud conversation just because the child feels peaceful around her.
It’s meaningful to see cats and even other animals be so comfortable to be close to their owners even while they are having a long talk because usually anything would want to fall asleep in complete silence right? And Liz already making a positive impact to our lives and show that she’s a very respectful human being it’s just nice to see that even our animal companions agree.
@@anewplaneeveryweek girl😭
@@anewplaneeveryweek lol a child can sleep while their mother is being loud? 😂
@@wistfulina What’s your point? I wanna know
27:03 i almost cried at this moment cause you can actually see how tough that was for her. we all love you, liz
Exactlyy, we can feel how tough that was for her and how proud she is for herself now to finally get through that
I teared up because I related to her 💖
I definitely cried and in a way it was a bit healing that someone shared that feeling that cannot be explained.
I literally cry to myself whenever I listen to her. Whatever she speaks is so relevant to this generation, especially. Indeed, she is a blessing to us. Keep going Liz! We love you. ❤
Literally ❤
the way she started to try hold her tears back, i got emotional too. You're and inspiration to me Liz, you changed my whole mentality
That's why we love her unlike other high value women she speaks with whole Emotions .
@@jessicalimbu3 😊😊😊
@@jessicalimbu3 😊😊
😊😊
“I had to go through so much pain first in order to get blessed.” I felt that so much. ♥️
Relatable .. now i got changed and learned a lot of lessons , and now i become the most positive person 😇💪🏽
seriously Ive been in so many accidents the one that messed me up the most was getting hit by a jet ski.... its so hard trying to get back to normal after that honestly it feels like im a new person I had to get over so much anger and grief...
Me too 🥹
🌈Be aware of self sabotage
🌈Create boundaries
🌈Know your worth
🌈Not everyone have same belief
🌈Everybody has their own beliefs which they have learned from their experience
🌈You create your own reality
🌈You are not your trauma
🌈 Practice self control
🌈Its easy to get ahead of others in today's age bcoz most of the people live in their comfort zone so you can choose uncomfortable path
🌈 Being lonely is better than having tons of fake friends
🌈 Practice othweights talents
🌈 Dont talk about goals show them your results
🌈 Some people might manipulate and gaslight u cut ties with them
🌈 Surround yourself with winner mindset people who can encourage and uplift you
🌈 Motivation is nothing maintain your discipline because you are not a loser
🌈 If you are indulging in a distracting activing such as partying drinking or overeating frequently it means you are running away from something their is some unhealed trauma and you are building a defensive meachanism against trauma through such activities
Beware of people sabotaging you. these people are dangerous people.
@@emilyc1988 yes you are right 😀 thanks for reminding
attention all muslim andrewtateis dajjal in illuminaticreligion s he can summons demons and more of it he accepted islam to have more follower in islam and be aware of it if he says he is mahdy of jesus or more im 100 true
"You know how lonely it is to get treated with respect?" that part really hit. I can listen to her talk all day.
“you did not waste those years, those years are meant to make you a warrior” 31:01
liz you have no idea how badly i needed to hear this. thank you. you have changed my life and i am not even exaggerating
Timestamps ✨:
1:14 - Realise your self sabotage
5:06 - What you have been taught is not a fact
7:36 - You create your own reality
9:10 - Practice self control
11:26 - Do what others are not doing
14:37 - You don't need to prove yourself
16:27 - Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you
17:52 - Forgive when you see changed behavior
18:13 - Sometimes it is better to be lonely
20:12 - Discipline over motivation
21:34 - Surround yourself with winners
23:10 - Realise that you might be running from something
24:53 - You are not your trauma
27:55 - Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before
28:58 - A changed mind is a changed life
SHE WAS RELIGIOUS.
Thankyou 😊
Thank you!
Thank you useless comment of the day.
If Batwoman had a RUclips channel
You are mentor for all teenagers,you are like a big sister for all of us,love ya♥️
frr bro
shes the older sister that i never had
@@trashmagick me too!
bro didnt even watch the video lmao
Frr
I didn't become financially independent until I was in my late 30's, and I'm still in my 30's. In addition to having purchased my second home and earning 63k on a monthly basis through passive income, I've also achieved three out of five goals. I just hope this inspires someone to realise that it doesn't matter if you don't have any of these things yet, you can start today no matter your age. Change your future by investing! I made a rather big decision by investing in the financial market.
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate and stocks..
I’ve been diligently working, saving and contributing towards early retirement and financial freedom, but since covid outbreak, the economy so far has caused my portfolio to underperform, do I keep contributing to my 401k or look at alternative sectors to meet my goals?
@@rougeur Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances...
@@face2lune How can one find a verifiable financial planner? I would not mind looking up the professional that helped you. I will be retiring in two years and I might need some management on my much larger portfolio. Don't want to take any chances.
@@rougeur *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
“So you did not waste those years. Those years are meant to make you a warrior”. Wow. I needed this Liz ❤
"You did not waste those years, those years are meant to make you a warrior, you will come out of this so strong" she knew we needed to hear that, she just knew and the way my throat hurts from that bc I was holding myself back from balling my eyes out from that sentence LMAO. I love her so much
girl, I'm so grateful you exist, nobody could ever replace or bring what you bring to the world, everyday I come back to you and your messages, I could not thank you enough for just being you.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
What a role model. lol. Jesus have mercy on this generation
Yeah dear her advice is really priceless . As u said , i also say that everyone in this channel are really blessed!
liz is actually such a loving, caring, sweet, empathetic person. U deserve the world. so many people who have realized this wouldn't have even gave us this advice and for her to take time out of her day to give everyone absolutely life changing advice just by watching 1-3 of her videos is amazing. I am very grateful to had found her channel, she's absolutely amazing.
The part where she got emotianal had me crying, the pain that she went through and her trying to help us not go through the same and change for the better is the most angelic thing ever.
timestamps
1. realizing your self-sabotage 1:15
2. what you have been taught is not a fact 5:07
3. you create your own reality 7:40
4. practice self-control 9:14
5. do what others are not doing 11:29
6. you do not need to prove yourself 14:39
7. realize when people are disrespecting and manipulating you 16:30
8. forgive only when you see them change 17:55
9. sometimes it is better to be lonely 18:15
10. choose discipline over motivation 20:13
11. surround yourself with people with a winner mentality 21:39
12. realize that you might be running from something 23:11
13. you are not your trauma 24:56
14. remind yourself of what hurdles you have been able to overcome 28:00
15. a changed mind is a changed life (god is testing you, notice those patterns and don't let yourself hit rock-bottom again) 29:00
you deserve the world, we will get through this ❤
Thanksssss
thankq x
gosh, thanks for this!!
Thank you!!!
♥️
“And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know.” (AI-Baqarah, 2:216)
“So, surely with hardship comes ease” (Quran - Al Inshirah 94:5)
Please stay strong. I pray Allah swt protects you and continues to bless you now and always Insha’Allah.
Amin
Ameen
Amen ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹😢🙏🏼
Ameen❤❤
ameen
thank you Liz I can finally breathe and find hope in myself every word you said touched my heart thank you so much
I just dropped a tear realizing how grateful I am to God for bringing Liz into my life😫 since I started watching her, I’ve had this sudden urge to change a lot of of things in my life, a lot of habits that were keeping me depressed, I can honestly say I don’t have depression anymore...GOD BLESS YOU liz❤️❤️
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Same here
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😍😍LOVE HER, SHE IS SUCH A MUSE
Same here 😭😭
I'm so grateful I discovered this channel. You can tell she cares about us SO much when at the end she got emotional. Lots of love to Liz and all the lovely people watching this video
i cant imagine the pain she must have gone through to be able to see the world so clearly, im sure she has her flaws but giving such beautiful and loving advice is a gift, i hope she is happy now and recovered with what she might have suffered with, i admire her so much. i hope 2023 will find us peace and love. i hope we all heal from the stuff we go through and unlock levels we haven’t before
I love all her videos, But this one got me! I listen to Liz, literally, every morning for positive motivation and enlightenment. I’m currently going through very tough times these days but I cannot stay down cause I have babies to take care of all by myself. Her words and strength is so contagious! I appreciate you so much Liz. ❤
Growing up in an Indian family as the oldest sibling I never actually got advices I needed to hear to learn, grow, fix in myself. I have a younger sister and I always try my best to not let her go through the paths that I have been through, I try my best to tell her to be normal with making mistakes and learn from them, I always forward her the videos that Liz posts, no matter where I am I'll forward it to her and tell her to listen to it, what she learnt and what not. I try to be the shield of her life against all the taunts, expectations the family, relatives throw at her. Thank you Liz for being my older sister, now I'm a better one to guide my little sibling.❤️❤️❤️
This is exaxtly what I'm talking about. indian families really expect you to be perfect since day one and leave no room for you to fail and grow
bro I'm the older sister as well and in the exact same position as you. are we living the same life 😂
FELLOW INDIAN HERE. IT'S SO AMAZING THAT LIZ LIVES DONNO WHERE YET WE ALL HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON TO SHARE AND CARE FOR EACH OTHER.
Putting our Trust in the Creator is sufficient but yes, we do need help of fellow beings due to our limitations.
Some Attributes of God/ Creator out of 99 which have been taught to humanity :-
26
As-Samee
The All-Hearer, The Hearer
(The One who Hears all things that are heard by His Eternal Hearing without an ear, instrument or organ).
27
Al-Baseer
The All-Seeing, The All-Noticing
(The One who Sees all things that are seen by His Eternal Seeing without a pupil or any other instrument).
31
Al-Khabeer
The All-Aware One
(The One who knows the Truth of things).
55
Al-Waliyy
The Protecting Friend, The Supporter.
68
As-Samad
The Supreme Provider, The Eternal, The Independent
(The Master who is relied upon in matters and reverted to in ones needs).
77
Al-Waali
The Holder of Supreme Authority, The Governor
(The One who owns things and manages) them).
Also,
4
Al-Quddus
The Most Sacred, The Pure
(The One who is pure from any imperfection and clear from children and adversaries).
5
As-Salaam
The Source of Peace, The Embodiment of Peace
(The One who is free from every imperfection).
6
Al-Mu’min
The Infuser of Faith
(The One who witnessed for Himself that no one is God but Him. And He witnessed for His believers that they are truthful in their belief that no one is God but Him).
7
Al-Muhaymin
The Preserver of Safety, The Guardian
(The One who witnesses the saying and deeds of His creatures).
8
Al-Azeez
The Victorious, The Mighty One, The Strong,
(The Defeater who is not defeated).
9
Al-Jabbar
The Compeller, The Forceful One, The Omnipotent One
(The One that nothing happens in His Dominion except that which He willed).
10
Al-Mutakabbir
The Dominant One, The Greatest
(The One who is clear from the attributes of the creatures and from resembling them).
11
Al-Khaaliq
The Creator
(The One who brings everything from non-existence to existence).
12
Al-Baari
The Evolver, The Maker (of Order)
(The Creator who has the Power to turn the entities).
13
Al-Musawwir
The Fashioner, The Shaper of Beauty, The Flawless Shaper
(The One who forms His creatures in different pictures).
14
Al-Ghaffaar
The Great Forgiver, The Forgiver
(The One who forgives the sins of His slaves time and time again).
15
Al-Qahhaar
The All-Prevailing One, The Dominant
(The One who has the perfect Power and has Power over All things).
16
Al-Wahhab
The Supreme Bestower
(The One who is Generous in giving plenty without any return. He is everything that benefits whether Halal / legal or Haram / illegal).
18
Al-Fattah
The Supreme Solver, The Opener, The Reliever, The Judge
(The One who opens for His slaves the closed worldly and religious matters).
20
Al-Qaabid
The Restricting One, The Constrictor, The Withholder
(The One who constricts the sustenance by His wisdom and expands and widens it with His Generosity and Mercy).
21
Al-Baasit
The Extender, The Englarger, The Reliever
(The One who constricts the sustenance by His wisdom and expands and widens it with His Generosity and Mercy).
22
Al-Khaafid
The Reducer, The Abaser
(The One who lowers whoever He willed by His Destruction and raises whoever He willed by His Endowment).
23
Ar-Raafi
The Elevating One, The Exalter, The Elevator (The One who lowers whoever He willed by His Destruction and raises whoever He willed by His Endowment).
24
Al-Mu’izz
The Honourer-Bestower, The Giver of Honor
(He gives esteem to whoever He willed, hence there is no one to degrade him; And He degrades whoever He willed, hence there is no one to give him esteem).
25
Al-Muzil
The Dishonourer, The Humiliator
(He gives esteem to whoever He willed, hence there is no one to degrade him; And He degrades whoever He willed, hence there is no one to give him esteem).
28
Al-Hakam
The Impartial Judge, The Judge
(He is the Ruler and His judgment is His Word).
29
Al-Adl
The Embodiment of Justice, The Just
(The One who is entitled to do what He does).
32
Al-Haleem
The Clement One, The Forebearing
(The One who delays the punishment for those who deserve it and then He might forgive them).
33
Al-Azeem
The Magnificent One, The Great One, The Mighty
(The One deserving the attributes of Exaltment, Glory, Extolement, and Purity from all imperfection).
35
Ash-Shakoor
The Acknowledging One, The Grateful, The Appreciative, The Rewader of Thankfulness
(The One who gives a lot of reward for a little obedience).
37
Al-Kabeer
The Great One, The Most Great, The Great
(The One who is greater than everything in status).
44
Al-Mujeeb
The Responding One, The Responsive, The Hearkener, The Responder of Prayer
(The One who answers the one in need if he asks Him and rescues the yearner if he calls upon Him).
46
Al-Hakeem
The Wise One, The Wise, The Judge of Judges
(The One who is correct in His doings).
47
Al-Wadud
The Loving One, The Most Loving
(The One who loves His believing slaves and His believing slaves love Him. His love to His slaves is His Will to be merciful to them and praise them).
48
Al-Majeed
The Glorious One, The Most Glorious One
(The One who is with perfect Power, High Status, Compassion, Generosity and Kindness).
49
Al-Ba’ith
The Infuser of New Life, The Resurrector, The Raiser (from death)
(The One who resurrects His slaves after death for reward and/or punishment).
53
Al-Qawwiyy
The Possessor of All Strength, The Strong One, The Most Strong (The One with the complete Power).
54
Al-Mateen
The Firm One, The Forceful One
(The One with extreme Power which is un-interrupted and He does not get tired).
57
Al-Muhsee
The All-Enumerating One, The Counter, The Reckoner
(The One who the count of things are known to Him).
58
Al-Mubdi
The Originator
(The One who can create Something from Nothing)
59
Al-Mueed
The Restorer, The Reproducer
(The One who brings back the creatures after death).
60
Al-Muhyi
The Maintainer of life, The Restorer, The Giver of Life
(The One who took out a living human from semen that does not have a soul. He gives life by giving the souls back to the worn out bodies on the resurrection day and He makes the hearts alive by the light of knowledge).
61
Al-Mumeet
The Inflictor of Death, The Creator of Death, The Destroyer
(The One who renders the living dead).
62
Al-Hayy
The Eternally Living One, The Alive
(The One attributed with a life that is unlike our life and is not that of a combination of soul, flesh or blood).
66
Al-Waahid
The Only One, The Unique, The One
(The One without a partner).
69
Al-Qaadir
The All Powerful, The Omnipotent One, The Able, The Capable (The One attributed with Power).
70
Al-Muqtadir
The Creator of All Power, All Authoritative One, The Powerful, The Dominant
(The One with the perfect Power that nothing is withheld from Him).
71
Al-Muqaddim
The Expediting One, The Expediter, The Promoter
(The One who puts things in their right places. He makes ahead what He wills and delays what He wills).
72
Al-Mu’akhkhir
The Procrastinator, The Delayer, The Retarder (The One who puts things in their right places. He makes ahead what He wills and delays what He wills).
73
Al-Awwal
The Very First , The First
(The One whose Existence is without a beginning).
74
Al-Aakhir
The Infinite Last One, The Last
(The One whose Existence is without an end).
75
Az-Zaahir
The Perceptible, The Manifest
(The One that nothing is above Him and nothing is underneath Him, hence He exists without a place. He, The Exalted, His Existence is obvious by proofs and He is clear from the delusions of attributes of bodies).
76
Al-Baatin
The Imperceptible, The Hidden
(The One that nothing is above Him and nothing is underneath Him, hence He exists without a place. He, The Exalted, His Existence is obvious by proofs and He is clear from the delusions of attributes of bodies).
79
Al-Barr
The Fountain-Head of Truth, The Source of All Goodness, The Righteous
(The One who is kind to His creatures, who covered them with His sustenance and specified whoever He willed among them by His support, protection, and special mercy).
80
At-Tawwaab
The Ever-Acceptor of Repentance, The Guide to Repentance
(The One who grants repentance to whoever He willed among His creatures and accepts his repentance).
81
Al-Muntaqim
The Retaliator, The Avenger
(The One who victoriously prevails over His enemies and punishes them for their sins. It may mean the One who destroys them).
82
Al-Afuww
The Supreme Pardoner, The Forgiver
The One with wide forgiveness.
83
Ar-Ra’oof
The Benign One, The Compassionate
(The One with extreme Mercy. The Mercy of Allah is His will to endow upon whoever He willed among His creatures).
84
Maalik-ul-Mulk
The Eternal Possessor of Sovereignty, The Owner of All
(The One who controls the Dominion and gives dominion to whoever He willed).
85
Zul-Jalaali-wal-Ikraam
The Possessor of Majesty and Honour, The Lord of Majesty and Bounty
(The One who deserves to be Exalted and not denied).
87
Al-Jaami’
The Assembler of Scattered Creations, The Gatherer
(The One who gathers the creatures on a day that there is no doubt about, that is the Day of Judgment).
88
Al-Ghaniyy
The Rich One, The Self-Sufficient One
(The One who does not need the creation).
89
Al-Mughni
The Bestower of Sufficiency, The Enricher
(The One who satisfies the necessities of the creatures).
90
Al-Maani’
The Preventer of Harm, The Withholder
(The One who prevent Harm & Delays things).
91
Ad-Daarr
The Creator of the Harmful, The Distressor
(The One who makes harm reach to whoever He willed and benefit to whoever He willed).
92
An-Naafi’
The Creator of Good, The Bestower of Benefits , The Propitious
(The One who makes harm reach to whoever He willed and benefit to whoever He willed).
93
An-Noor
The Prime Light, The Light
(The One who guides).
98
Ar-Rasheed
The Guide to Path of Rectitude, The Guide to the Right Path, The Righteous Teacher
(The One who guides).
99
As-Saboor
The Extensively Enduring One, The Patient (The One who does not quickly punish the sinners).
I'm a younger sibling from a traditional Indian family ,my parents were really strict while raising her but a little chill while raising me though i will not lie it was all bc of the arguments she had with them and I'm glad she has my back
one of the best things that improved my life when I truly learned how to live by it was things don't change unless you do. It used to scare me a lot but it's actually SO empowering once you realize that you can literally go from being your worst enemy, to your biggest supporter and be unstoppable.
omg that is so good ! what made u change ?
@@aishalol I’m going to be honest and say that it was when I felt like I hit rock bottom and things couldn’t go worse. I started getting into manifestation and just surrounding myself of people (online) and concepts that would give me hope instead of crushing me and I started to set small victories like not crying for one day, then for one week, then trying to wake up early when I didn’t feel like I could do it, and it really started from there and I got to a point where I could literally manifest things in a week and just gave me more hope and confidence. The small things that I saw as victories were facts, practical, so it was something that had happened and I could look back and say wow I did it when I was feeling bad, i ‘m not feeling that bad now so surely I can do something about this. I remember I had a note on my phone where I used to write everything I accomplished like “I aced the exam studying only a week earlier” “I managed to follow my schedule during this rough week where I --“ and reading my accomplishments was a boost. Also, big things happen when you shift your energy because I started to attract wholesome people or in general people more aligned with what I wanted to be and negativity started drifting away. Sorry for the long answer but I feel like people make it way easier than it is, actually it’s not but it’s SO worth it. You only have you and you’re enough.
@@RosaDaniello omg woww I’m so happy for u tysm💝
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
"you do not attract toxic people, they go everywhere.... you are just allowing them to stay on your life." So true 🌄
Hi Liz, not sure if you will ever see this comment, but I wanted to let you know that I am in my late 40s and I am watching all of your videos! You are helping so many people, including me. I love your courage to create these vulnerable and helpful videos. You are wise beyond your years. I love you and thank you - keep at it as this is a definite calling for you! Wishing you much love and continued success 🙏🏼💜
what a role model , totally changed my life i cant even begin to thank her for opening my eyes to things
Yeah that's right
I‘m a guy working on setting boundaries as well and finding the way back to my masculinity. The setbacks in our lives sharpen us and I view them as blessings. Thanks for your work. It‘s a valuable puzzle piece in the process of reprogamming myself.
Another guy here. I’m rooting for you buddy
I love this so much. Thank you for sharing.
So well articulated! Feeling the same dude.
I'm from Argentina and I listen to your videos every morning. I'm thankful for finding you ❤
I ran away from my abusive mother’s house April of 2022, Liz is the only person who genuinely taught me how to get through and past my situation ❤️
I'm in the same situation i can't wait to move out I feel like I can't heal if I'm surrounded by those people who constantly bring me down
@@starrynight5163 it's really sad when liz describes someone you need to run away from, someone who is toxic, and the description leads you to your mom or dad or someone dear to you..
27:26 I actually started crying watching this part. It hit me so personally because no one ever saved me and my siblings even if they knew abt how we’re living and what was happening to us. It felt like they didn’t care enough almost. Tomorrow I’m going to a job centre and a lawyer’s office. I only turned 18 not even a month ago and now I’m dealing with family court, assault charges and domestic violence. But honestly this chaotic opportunity is such a blessing bc now I can finally stand up for my dad and siblings.
Update: My mum blew up at me because I wouldn’t let her drive my car. ( she lost her license for driving on drugs btw) I just went to my room to be left alone because I didn’t wanna explain why she doesn’t own it and why I don’t have to give it to her. This made her very angry all day. She kept yelling for hours even tho I wasn’t responding I just told her to leave me alone which made her kick in my door and smash my lamp. She got in my sisters face and started pushing her. I recorded the whole thing and called the police. She then stole my dads car and went to her boyfriends.. the police tracked her down and charged her for having drugs in the car plus driving with no license. Then I got a domestic AVO on her and I also had the option to charge her with breaking my property 😳
Oh my! Good luck, I'm only 20 and life feels like it's too much. But we really have to do it ourselves. Good luck!
@@davieee1168 thank you and yep that’s so true 🤣❤️
Im sorry you and your siblings had to go through any of that. I hope you get justice.
Your comment actually made me feel empowered i went threw the same thing constant abuse from my older brother about talking back i wanted to file charges but my parents are extremely conservative about certain aspects like therpay. Seeking help. Same sex partners and much more oppressive beliefs they guilted me into not actually standing up and reporting him to the police they said that I'll destroy his life and how I'd set a bad image of him to his co workers and boss and how he could lose friends and people in his life which even made me more hurt than i ever was considering this isnt the first time that he physically assaulted me and he can easily overpower me i cry every night about regretting not actually talking action and actually healing becuz i never actually droped that case and ill never heal becuz this traumatic event stopped my life at a certain point where i always seem very neglected and weak thinking about it and my parents fail to see how it hurts me personally they didnt even care they just didnt want their only son to be held accountable im 15 i struggle with school and still trying to leave my parents i dont how i can actually live properly with nor fear and oppression considering i live in a religious country where me being queer and a woman is a crime im currently
desperate to leave and never see their faces agian
éxitos!!
this woman is changing my life, a weeks ago i was depressed, in my worst state and every day i didn't plan to come home i was at a job where it was in front of an overpass, I had to stand for 8 hours and I kept looking at that thing for 8 hours like… the mind she lies, like I was on my worst very bad time, for 1 month i not look myself on the mirror
I decided to start the new year on the right foot, before New Year, I forgive everyone and cried when it was 00:00 it seemed that everything went away (this moment was beautiful because I saw the moon coming out of the clouds and shining like never before) on the 1st I did my food, spent time with my family and of course, the bad thoughts were still there but I didn't let them control me…Today is the 5th and I can say that I am extremely well, I do pilates at home, yoga, meditate, I started hoponopono for women and I do affirmations and guys this stuff works, I'm becoming my best self, thank u liz so much
I know you guys like stories (just like me) so I brought mine, I'm still not 100% but I wrote a letter to myself, I marked it as 12/31/2023 and in that letter I told you how my year was, how I am and how my best version it looks like it and i can tell i'm pretty as fuck… i can't wait to read it at the end of this year, law of attraction, law of assumption, vision board EVERYTHING it works
So proud of you! Continue to blossom beautiful human❤
@@luiza4893 omo I literally wrote a letter to my self like u did!!! Best of luck dear
Thank you so much for this message, I had a toxic friendship at the beginning of this year and I finally just stopped talking to them. I prayed to God for advice and I looked up a video on RUclips and found your content 🙏. So thanks for your amazing advice. I am now going to change my mindset. 😊
The moment she starting to tear up, I am now more convinced she's in a very bad trauma in her life before she has this kind of version . Thank you this video, I need that confidence , thank you Liz.
I am early and just wanted to say that liz has changed my life. I used to be a pushover but now I firmly tell people my boundaries and don't let anyone cross them while still being true to my nurturing persona. I hate it when people say she is the female andrew tate because liz has content curated specially to make women feel empowered and to let them be kind toward people who would actually accept it. Liz is the person I needed when i had no one and I would always preach her
Andrew tate is not even on her level.she is not female andrew tate she is THE WIZARD LIZ .
I hate it too. Her content isn’t negative or hateful like Andrew rate. It’s actually useful and life changing!
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
You changed your life too.
@spiderman3fan friendly reminder that he was arrested for human trafficking
You are the sign I’m praying for. Thanks Liz for wonderful and amazing content. I don’t have money and time for therapy . And out of the blue your channel come to my wall. I’ve watched all your videos. And I’m so grateful. Thank you 🙏🏼
Liz please start a podcast. I could listen to you hours and hours!!❤️❤️
Yess
Yes
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
When I experienced being cheated on while pregnant and post party depression… it was ROCK BOTTOM. I was the victim in my life. Until one day God just told me I have the power to change my circumstance. I had to learn to value my life like you shared. I realized no one’s going to come and save me. I have to get up off the floor and figure my life out on my own. My life changed and I was saved. Thank you for sharing this video
I’m so sorry , am also pregnant now and i couldn’t imagine your pain 😢
Im so sorry for you're pain, your mentality really is inspiring, im sure youll get the life you want and deserve !
Did this today. blocked and deleted people who take me for granted, feel they could lie, leave me on read, make false promises, lying and cant be upfront. Was literally so tired!!! You are right ! It is better to be alone ! This is something I had to learn and I am still learning!!!
Thank you.... thank you...God has put you in my way for a reason
I don't know how, but somehow whenever I am going through something, Liz puts a video that exactly explains the solution to me. 😭♥️
Literally sameee
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
same!
Yesss
yaa😭😭
I went to a psychologist recently because you advised for it. It’s insane how many things I’ve learned about myself so far. Some things are so simple but have a big impact on me and my self esteem.
"Abused children have advantage over Non abused children because from a young age, they have been taught to get tough. They are learning lessons from a young age. So we think differently as well. We see the world in a different manner, but we can thrive hard as well. Put us in a stressful situation, honey. We will thrive on another level. I'm telling you."
I so understand this! while reading this line, my eyes got teary as well :( thank you so much Liz for your advice!
timestamps
1:16 Realise your self sabotage
5:06 What you have been taught is not a fact
7:36 Realise that you create your own reality
9:10 Practice self control
11:26 Do what others are not doing
14:37 You don't need to prove yourself
16:27 Realise when people are disrespecting and manipulating you
17:53 Forgive when you see changed behaviour
18:13 Sometimes it is better to be lonely
20:12 Discipline over motivation
21:34 Surround yourself with winners
23:11 Realise that you might be running from something
24:54 You are not your trauma
27:56 Remind yourself of what you have been able to overcome before
28:59 A changed mind is a changed life.
"You don't need to prove yourself" not for others, but to yourself yes.
I love this line because I always doing this, always proving my worth, opinions to others. Now I realize it all!! Thank you for this video 🥰
“You know how lonely it is to be treated with respect” fuuuuuuuuuck. This is so true. In order to really not sacrifice any of my values, I have to spend time either alone or with truly loyal people.
Wow what an amazing powerful message. I’ve lived a lot of what you’re describing here and I really resonate with your experiences. It sounds like your feminine logical and experiential are balanced. It’s inspiring and a reminder that I am empowered to show up however I want to. It’s my life to live after all. Thank you so much beautiful soul for sharing this message of hope, resilience, love, and compassion. You are helping people change their lives. ❤ I’m going to continue doing. I have so many dreams to make art to change the world to love to thrive. This video is a sign that I’m on the right path. God has been testing me left and right and I’ve been passing the tests. So thank you again❤I love you sister
Once we actually decide that we want to change, that we can do it, everything changes. I’m so grateful for you Liz. You have changed so many lives, including mine. Having someone like you to listen to is like… it’s like meeting an old friend, a supportive friend. It’s so inspiring how you have changed, and believe me, many people would be your friend if they knew you. You deserve every bit of happiness you get. We love you so much. I used to neglect my health, my well-being. I had a messed-up sleep cycle and didn’t eat a balanced diet. I didn’t do what I loved, I didn’t have a good mindset. Trust me, no matter where you are, no matter what situation you’re in, you can improve. Some of the most successful people had trauma in their past. If you try and change yourself, you will succeed. I believe in you guys. We can do this. Once again, thank you Liz for being the light in the dark for us. I’m so proud of how far you’ve come and who you are right now. ❤
even if my anxiety is so bad to the point where i feel i tingly feeling in my hands and legs?
The last part where you talked about how God tests you is literally so true and that we ask for small things and my Lord wants the best for me , this is all so true!!
Liz saved my life, her viral video in the summer started my metamorphosis. I was living in my trauma responses for the past 10 years. It gave me the courage to get through the last year, and now I am completely transformed and on my way to success. ❤ the hard times haven’t changed, and I allow myself to hurt, but I’ve taken radical control and don’t feel like a victim anymore. Thank you, you’re a beautiful person.
Thank God that you are good now! Always remember that Jesus loves you a lottttt and he wants the best for you. God sent you this beautiful girl in order to get better
The ending made me cry. It is so hard to see the pain that we will endure while in the midst of it, will result in blessings we could not imagine. Thank you Liz for this message! God is so good.
God always puts the right words in your mouth Liz. I’ve been feeling so lonely because I realized how many horrible friends and people were around me and cut them loose. I’m going through a transitionary time. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much. God bless you.
that makes me so happy to hear because i am going through the exact same situation as you've mentioned just now, we'll both get to a point where we wont be so lonely anymore and will be happy and content with life and who we are and how we deal with people ❤️ wishing u, me and everyone else that reads this the best!
This was actually so good. It brought me to tears. Thank you for your wisdom and allowing God to speak through you to help and encourage us.
Liz single handedly healing the entire generation!!! Its so comforting to hear her say all the things that everyone of us really needs to hear 💖
My daughter who is 20 got me watching Liz and I can't stop.Ive started taking notes.
She says amazing things that make me feel so helpful and empowered, it's so healing
made me cry because she is SO relatable. i love her so much, god bless you liz, ameen.
youre helping thousands of people, everyday.
I cried with you. You really got me, you are an inspiration to so many people Liz, you are a blessing in this world
Liz you are so strong. i am amazed at how you were abused and tortured but managed to change your life for the complete opposite and you have become a therapist to many of us you really do deserve the world💖
"I realized it doesn't have to be this way. I CAN change things for myself" This is exactly the same aha moment I had! I realized how powerful I truly was.
"not a lot of people are willing to respect you" that's so deep. thanks liz!
Been listening to Liz since I was 20, I’m 22 about to turn 23, and there’s is not a single time where this videos doesn’t make me cry. Thank you for inspiring me. ❤
11:30 should admit that kitty looks so confidence just like her mom😍
@di_m9815 ya someone do tell
It was there idk i use a laptop tho
I’m so glad you addressed loneliness . I’m finding out more and more that many people feel lonely, and it’s good to bring awareness to it, while it’s good to put yourself out there and work on making friends , it’s just as important to learn how to sit with your own thoughts
the last part about seeing the same people and situations again is so true. i used to feel really left out and unimportant in my first friendgroupa couple years ago, and then i changed friends and thought that they were the complete opposit of the last one but i was wrong. i recently broke all contacts with all my toxic friends and now i honestly feel so appreciated and loved even if i have almost no friends.
so if you're scared to cut off people just because you're scared to be alone. just do it, you will literally feel so liberated and relaxed that you'll stop seeking other people's validation and will work on yourself more
Thank you Liz! This was an amazing heartfelt video. I personally adore you and appreciate you! ❤
“You did not waste those years” touched me on a deeper level as i feel like she knows it’s hard to admit that i used to be a chronic people pleaser, so different that how i am now, it’s hard to admit to myself that i let those people walk over me that way, i endured all the abuse and manipulation because i had low self worth. Thank you for reminding me that i needed those times to be the version of myself that i am now
god the entire time she was talking about the effects of coming from an abusive household, carrying abusive behaviours, the mentality that you were abused so you'll abuse right back, it reached me on such a deep level. i have been going through the exact dilemma over the last week and it has been so, so hard for me to come to terms with the anger i have inside me, that i denied for so long. thank you liz. i started therapy a few days ago and will continue it for a long time until my traumas are resolved, but it feels so reassuring that someone out there is talking to me about going through the same situation, and giving such heartfelt advice. i feel so deeply connected to what you're saying. it's incredibly healing to me just to hear it. i don't know if you'll ever read this comment but i needed to put my gratefulness out into the universe somewhere. thank you for these videos.
Thank you so much :'( I cried watching this, I've dealt with trauma/abuse since I was 12 now I'm 18 and I've always thought that I wasted all my teenage years cause literally I didn't live them I was just surviving, I'm stronger now and going to therapy even though I still live in the same household I'm starting to change and getting better stopping my parents toxic traits and they can see them a little bit. I think I'm a warrior and meant to break this toxic cycle thank you so much Liz, God bless you.
You're so brave, girl! wish you all the best🤍
I hear you loud and clear. I've only been watching your videos for 2 days and I am completely changing my mind set
u almost cried girl.
im so grateful for your existence, Liz.
your words changed my life so much, so rapidly that i couldn't even believe it in my eyes, just one month and everything changed completely in a positive way.
thank you so much. God bless you.
Wtf is this emoji
@@allstars4131 i was crying while reading all the comments, but your comment made me laugh
Watching this before the start of the next semester in grad school and my internship tomorrow. I’m 23 and have always been shy & socially anxious and also came from a dysfunctional family. I identify a lot with what you said & im trying not to change and believe in myself and heal. Thank you for your videos they help me so much. The end made me so emotional too I’m so grateful for you.
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This is literally me. Girl we got this 😭❤❤❤
i love how i can feel you’re at ur highest version of yourself liz, keep working on that consistently bc i fell backwards even tho i thought that would be impossible
Liz, I lost 30 pounds in 4 months and my lifestyle changes started relatively soon after I first started seeing your videos. I started actually learning more about nutrition and fitness and for the first time in my life, genuinely started taking a logical approach on how to change my health and body rather than always victimizing myself about having a bad metabolism and not being naturally skinny. I have always had trouble with emotional eating and binge eating, anxiety, and since one of the first videos of you I saw about binge eating, then confidence and everything else, it really woke something up in me. I never thought that it was possible for me to drop weight the way I finally did. I am still not at my goal weight, but I have been able to really manage my emotions in everything I do now to take the right steps and properly calculate whatever I want and how to reach to that point.
Truly, truly, truly, thank you. Thank you for changing my life for the better and bringing me internal peace by teaching me how to approach life in a way that I can actually get things done and get to everything I aspire to become. Even down to cutting out everyone who provided no value in my life, and now I have been able to level up in every way. I don’t feel held back anymore
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This gives me hope that I can finally also overcome my disordered eating behaviors and lose weight as well, alongside making good changes for my life
i’m so proud of you ❤️🩹
Really gave me tears. Thank you Liz, you are so powerful
and this adorable cat in the background.. simple calm .. just observing and being sweet.. the perfect resume of simpleness in life that liz is talking about
In my life, I've never found someone like you, who explains everything in such a profound way. Thank you so much for inspiring me Liz, I'm so grateful to you. Lots of love and support, keep doing what you're doing, you are changing millions of lives.
We honestly need more people like you Liz . I am literally watching this video on tears ❤️
I cried during the end and now I feel good. You’re a true blessing .. these videos have healed me . Thank you ❤
Hi Liz, I'm just here to thank you because honestly right now I'm really struggling because of my eating disorder recovery: these words were exactly what I needed to hear. I'm tired of this life. I'm tired of just trying to survive and not actually living and enjoying life and now I know that I CAN change this, I'm capeble of doing it and I'll try. Maybe I will struggle a lot but I will go over everything. Thank you, really and truly.
I love you too 😍
you are so capable & so so loved.
Loved the video! I found it so inspiring to start changing my current ways of living. This made me believe that I can do it. Btw I make videos to help this upcoming generation learn and develop fundamental and life changing wisdom! Let me know what you think! Thanks in advance
And your comment is what i needed
I really identify with you Liz. I grew up in a toxic home and I have zero self esteem. I have been feeling very suicidal and worthless for the last few days until I saw this video. Now I feel a bit more empowered to try again. I have a son so I have to stick around for him.
Absolutely amazing! Very well articulated. You can tell she real cares about people. She’s helping lots of people by just speaking her truth. Truly authentic and it shines through
✨You don't attract toxic people, you just allow them to stay✨, OMG i just wish i knew this before damn, it changes everything in my mind. Thanks liz for this beautiful video, boundaries is literally key 🗝️👌🙌🖤
I'm crying like a baby.
Thank you so much
You are the light I needed
I thank God for your existence.
That part when you hold back your tears had me crying and thinking about my past and my parents' toxic relationship, I went through many things and had always been that person who's ignored in every friend group and then went home to find peace but I never did but now my parents divorced and our lives are at a peace now and I'm currently working on my childhood trauma, Liz made me realize how strong I am all those past years and I'm proud of myself for trying to become a better person and I will be. Thank you God for staying with me when I'm at my lowest and Thank you Liz you are so brave.
Liz is a blessing she doesn’t understand how much I and many other people needed this I may not know her personally but I love her she truly saved me 💙
My exact thoughts ❤
Thank you, Liz! I appreciate and value everything you’re talking about and sharing. Forever grateful
18:13 i really needed this being lonely at school has been super hard and probably because it’s my first time i actually leave a friendship because of being left out i love you liz❤️
@@bathemeinchampagne thank you this means a lot❤️
Biggest inspiration at the moment, Liz literally motivated me to change my life i am so grateful that i came across her channel.
I’m 25 years old and you’re helping me to realize which things I need to change and put my self up into healing because I deserve it, I deserve to live in peace and be successful!
Im crying on the way to work listening this and getting strength at the same time ❤
This was classic Liz. You changed my life almost a year ago to the day today, and I couldn't be more grateful. I've been feeling very low since the new years, and when I needed you the most - your video was recommended again. Thank you so much for everything
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