To Anyone Needing Direction in Life
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What's one value or principle that you live by?
Lana Blakely watching your videos...
JUST DO IT!
Clicking as fast as possible on your vids.
sincerity
Being honest to myself
You should write a book, I'd read it.
I'd read it too
Me too honestly, i would love that
Me either!!
She literally says everything from books 🤣🤣
Mister Doctor
Damn true .
Don't drift through life on autopilot - take deliberate actions to find what you seek.
IF you don't know where to start, you have to create conditions for a purpose to manifest itself. Away from all distractions and toxicity.
Yeah, this was me last year. I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. So I eliminated major distractions: disabled my Instagram, put boundaries on toxic people, and went into a period of solitude, where I allowed myself to self-reflect and sit with my feelings, uncomfortable as they may be. I still don’t know completely what the rest of my life will look like, but it’s okay, because at least I know I have a direction to anchor me.
Thanks. I feel universe is giving me this signs.
tyyy
I find it difficult to get away from distractions and toxicity because I live with my parents. We have a difficult relationship. Moving out is not an option right now..
Wise advice right here. Sometimes its easy said than done but it's always worth it.
You speak so slowly and calm. I think that you're voice is incredible relaxing to my ears. I like to hear you. I feel real peace. Of course. I like your content as well.
Thank you Elvis!
Yes, I totally agree. Not too many out there like Lana's style.
Most inspiring person for me as an introvert ❤
If you want to get a Deep connection with someone which it could be a real friendship. You can find it an introvert person.
elvis toro Facts
I know right??
Yosri BH I am a introvert and I was drawn to this channel.
I think you're one of the world's best and most genuine creators ever. And I'm not even trying to be positive, just stating facts.
How kind. Thank you!
Hahahahha you got me dead for ' im not even trying be positive'
@@nadialamtalaa5418 it was in reference to the topic of toxic people.
Don't you dare try on her, she's mine
Do what you love, even if that doesn't bring you money, status or anything like that.
Be honest, transparent and sincere to people you say you love. Don't lie to them, don't hide things from them, don't fool them.
Don't be a coward, no matter what. Face life, be responsible, don't be afraid of trying things. I am allergic to cowardliness.
Be honest with yourself about yourself. Best way of never falling into contradiction.
Don't fear being alone, having no friends, not fitting. There are a lot of dead people who would love becoming your friends. Dostoievsky, Goethe, Balzac, Dante, Cervantes, Plato, Nietzsche, Schoppenhauer and many others. Very cool people
Indeed!
thankyou for your comment, much needed for me.
Elysian Fields Thanks a lot. That was really inspiring.
So I lost direction last year, I was attending college going for an engineering degree. I dropped out and started working 40 hours. Then I started taking late night welding classes. And it's been great, I'm ten times happier. Sometimes you just do what you feel like.
That's great! I hope everything is going alright with you :)
I think it's a personal responsibility for every human to discover their life and reinvent themselves regardless of their upbringing. This is the only way we can take charge of the direction of our life and not be a victim of our upbringing and being stuck with it for life.
If only more people would understand this simple insight, they would experience a lot more empowerment and a lot less misery.
Yeah !! It's hard but worth it. !!!🌼💖
There are two types of people on Sunday. Those who go to church; and those who wait for Lana's uploads.
Both
I'm the second!
Hahah thank you Nate!
You forget about the people that just sleep
Ha
7:10 "We need more appreciation in this world"... Amen to that.
This phrase holds so much meaning for me personally. I lost my father several years ago to cancer. He was a great, loving, caring person. I wish I had expressed more of my appreciation towards him and told him how many great qualities he had as a person and how it inspired me to be a better human.
After his passing, I've made a commitment to cherish the people in my life, and communicate my gratitude and appreciation clearly without holding back.
Giving credit is so important. It can transform the other persons life, and make them see themselves in a different light.
Genuine appreciation can make people have more self-love and self-esteem. It has the power to heal emotional wounds.
Don't hold back on saying good things to your loved ones guys. We don't hold back while complaining, why do so when its really time to express.
You have all the answers within you, listen to yourself, to your heart. You don't need to follow the crowd, follow your own path and do what feels right in your heart. Life is a self-discovery journey, we came here to savour this wonderful experience of life...
Your HEART knows, keep on trusting in your heart and intuitive direction. Don’t try to figure everything out. Just follow your heart and TRUST that everything will come together. Love you all my friends❤️🔥
true ty❤
Perspective. There’s an old saying...The best way to keep your mind clear is to get your hands dirty’. I believe this application can help all of us. Particularly, volunteering to help in places and in humanitarian issues where there are severely injured or ill people facing life and death struggles every damn day. Certainly will challenge you and tell you what kind of metal we/you are all made of.
My life goal has been to become the man I needed when I was in middle school. I am that man today
One of the latest principles I try to live by is: be intentional in your relationships. If you go out with somebody, tell them why, don't just suppose they know. It's not romantic but your relationship can really benefit (friendly or romantic) from it, or at least it will save some hurt. Even if they don't want to go out with you again after this, they´ll respect you and you´ll respect yourself.
it's like *_youtube can read my mind_* when they showed me this video
RUclips is spying on its users
@Javelin Melody hey Javelin!! lol it's awesome seeing you here! Thanks for always being so supportive of my videos
Ships don't get their way until they clash with the storms in their adventure same is the case with us!We ought to face the challenges with full dignity and lead our lives with our core principles which we adhere to.And Thanks for presenting another beautiful Chapter of A living Book named 'Lana Blakely'..,Thanks a lot Lana and awaiting for another exploration of Yours.
your videos keeps me going 😇
Live life to its fullest!
Each one of Lana's videos brightens my day, and just her presence warms my heart. She is a true gift to humanity!
I like the fact you don't impose your idea and opinion on people,it makes want to follow what you say
This is so refreshing it just makes me feel like I'm ready to find my own natural compass
Your talking is very nice & gentle, not like other vblogers those are in hurry & loud. Thanks for very helpful videos.
I just Hope Brighter Days Come Through For me And for everyone Seeing this Comment
Fly High❤🤞
Amen 🙏
They will, in fact, they are pretty close... I don't know you but yet I have faith in you...Stay strong, stay rocking!
A lot of people don't know what they want out of life, Society tells us what can and what can not be done so they never let themselves imagine what would they do if they could do anything. Having a purpose gives my life meaning, it doesn't make my day to day easier but it does makes the big questions easier.
My life principles:
*JUST DO IT!*
way to stay on-brand!
Ok Nike... we see u 🤣
How beautiful can someone look ❤❤❤
@Ashish koshish dekh rhe ho 😹 wo bhi kaha
This was shot beautifully! Really made me think. Thank you Lana.
Thank you!
What a great video Lana! I like the point you made regarding inheriting beliefs from "past" people that also inherited those beliefs from someone else before them. I think the easiest way to let go of those beliefs is to live your life in your "own" direction, regardless of what anyone else thinks about it. I have done that and have been able to let go of a lot of "stupid" beliefs and ideas I learned growing up👍
I randomly discovered 10 minutes ago. Frankly speaking, I immediately fell in love with your talking tone, your perspective about life. All together, formed a profound and also relaxing piece of art. Thanks💕
*I Love Your Videos* 👌💕
Me too!😀
" Biological map " has always dictated for me to be as happy and comfortable as possible and to explore whatever fancy was in my sights demanding further investigation. One may find oneself in some tight scrapes, but so does everyone. No one gets out of here alive, no point in overthinking everything. Always do what you want today and make sure that you create your own tomorrow!
Great video!
Now that is wisdom!
The bloopers are the Best part of the video 😊🙌🏻
Your videos make me a better human.
Thank you Lana ! Keep going
Thanks Kamar.
As Lana said: "Identify your thuts".
I am watching your video all day long today, love them all. you are a such inspiring people form me.
you know this video and this info being served in the way you served it is exactly what I needed in my life right now. U can't even imagine how grateful I am to you. thank you, thank you, THANK YOU
Lana I hope you’re having a terrific weekend!! Your videos are literally always something that fits my life; I often feel a lack of direction or purpose
RIP to people like me whoget confused what to eat even while ordering
Me too... Or regretting the order as soon as it is outspoken or the food is delivered...
it’s me i’m people
💕
Lol can definitely relate. Lol
Me...
You're the only person i can relate to, i always ask my self questions like is there ever a person in this world that experience this kinds of thoughts i have in my mind? and i am greatful for your existence thank you so much for giving me clarity in mind😊
You are an awesome human. I value loyalty, honest, and communication.
Having values and principles that I stick by is what keeps me strong. Whenever things go wrong, I know that at least I have my values and principles. If I stick to them I can always see the light.
Oh you're definitely going to be a great mother. Your future kid is going to be so blessed! Keep up the good work :)
Lana I just want you to know how much your videos help not only me but thousands of other people around the world. You are truly genuine and always know how to help through your videos. Keep going, I hope you never change.
Amazing!!! Thanks so much! Gave me so much clarity and motivation just to write this stuff down! ❤️🧡💛
The best direction everyone should have is taking time to figure out what we truly want in life. One who walks in the footsteps of another leaves no footprints. But without those footprints to follow, what is going to bring us to a fork road which allow us to reach our destination? Stay humble, be experimental but be decisive when it is time to make a decision.
OMG I've watched only 3 minutes of the video and I couldn't do anything but comment just how elegantly smart you are... this is amazing!!! Thank you so much for what you do!
You videos are so calming. I was having a breakdown then I started watching it. It made me so calm Thank you Soo much! .
Thank you so much for helping me to become a better person 🙏❤️ values and truths and principles are so important and what we should live our life by and not get distracted or derailed xxx
Thanks for watching Clare x
@@LanaBlakely I love your videos. So deep, yet so relatable. I guess I must be a deep person 😉❤️🙏💫
This video was really helpful thank you very much ❤️ I am trying to figure out what I should study and I was really struggling and this video helped me 👍🏼
Glad it helped you!
I can relate to this video so much because I'm very principled. One of the quintessential principles that I will never let go of is gossip, especially when it comes to considering someone a friend. There is no room for gossip. Another principle I'm very stuck with is that I will never do or say something would hurt/dismay me first to others. In other words, if I really want something good to happen to me, I would definitely do it to others.
This suddenly popped on my feed...I read the TITLE....and...i'm like....WOA! IT'S PUT INTO WORDS FINALLY! Where were You All this Time???...and i didnt even know how to seek for any sort of aid
I value my space, an area of no disruptions or place that is mine. Boundary area that just belongs to me where I place what is valuable to me in that space and it is not used or touched. Sadly I never fully been able to attain that, which brings me great frustration. Being kind as appose to nice is something I value and aspire to always do... sometimes it’s kind to point out to someone that if that don’t change something in an area of there life they will get hurt, but sharing this you are being kind and saving them a fall or pain. Lastly for today I value natural beauty and not fake beauty or beautification and things that are attained through a process of growth as appose to instantly. Thank you again for your post the week Lana
After seeing some videos of Lana, I started wondering if she's writing for her own book. I hope she will someday ❤️.
One of my favorite creator for self-awareness.
I am so so thankful dear that I found you. I really am lucky!!
😭💫✨💛
Most important is to live by your values....Many of us just speak about having a particular value or principle but never actually implement it..Identifying what you truly value is very important
My favorite place to be is what others called a hostile environment, to escape away from how I felt. It felt calming and I found solace there and I didn't want it to be my direction in life because I was afraid it would destroy that for me.
Love your content Lana !
It has really helped me recently. You should consider talking about insecurities, may be physically or socially.
Thank you Charlie!
How can you not love this woman
Im so happy that youtube recommended your videos to me. They are a breeze to me, you help me so much putting words onto what i am feeling and seeing more clearly 🙂🙏
You are amazing Lana! ❤️The things that you say hit straight to the heart
So much respect for you and your dedication to this channel. 😔🙏🏼👸🏻 Thank you, queen.
To be my best self. I am by far the most unperfect human, but its trying that makes me feel like I'm worthy.
At the moment I find myself feeling stuck through issues with toxic friends and stresses at school. I try to ask myself what would you say if somebody came to you with these problems?
Never consider someone that is toxic to you as a friend. From that, there's one important lesson: be your best friend. That won't change others but will shift the way you see the world around you. When you are at peace with yourself, I don't think others can tear you down. No wonder, people will give you headaches bc that's what happens to me a lot of the times but I try to remind myself that you can be sweetest peach in the world and there will still be people that don't like peaches ;)
Big thing that I have learnt recently: you can't help everyone. I for a long time had a habit of staying around people with toxic characteristics because I honestly thought I could help them move past it. I got so lost in other people that I lost myself for a while. But once I stopped trying to develop other people and started focusing on myself I started seeing my direction in life.
Following on from that, and answering your other point about school, ask yourself what do you want to do? For me, it was helping people. For a while my focus was computing but the further through education I got, the more I realised that I don't want my career to be all about money. I want it to mean more than that.
So, I stopped doing what I was academically best at and instead chose to switch to biology so I could make my dream a reality. It's all about asking yourself what would you change if you could? What don't you like about the world today? What do you need to do to be able to start improving it?
We feel stuck when we have fewer options. The key to getting unstuck is to Explore more options, meet more people, find new friends, visit new places.
You don't have to be stuck with people who have a negative influence on your life in any way. Leaving toxic people behind can be a tough call to make, but it's SOOO worth it, believe me. And when you do, you'll have created more space for better people to enter your life. Those who really deserve your attention and care.
P.S. I have a video on how to heal yourself, and also on setting boundaries in relationships, on my channel. You might want to look into those.
I really appreciate you putting so thoughtful and helpful videos. I was really on autopilot through life. Learning more about values and it is taking alot of alone time. But it's a perfect time. And thinking about life goals and Everything else..I have so many tabs open on my browsers, researching. 😅
Going through a major career transition right now and this resonated pretty hard. Thanks for the video Lana
Your best piece so far, it helped a lot
Oh dear Lana, I am a rather new subscriber to your channel and do take valuable lessons from the realistic content you offer. I have observed and would like to compliment you for your nonjudgmental and quite gentle approach in regards to people and situation... Thank you for your work! Success!
Your videos genuinely helped made me realize I’m not alone
Great vid!! Love the B roll! Be the love and kindness that we all need to see in the world.
Title is a blessing to me❤️
Out of all days for me to see this today is just amazing... Thank you, Lana, for everything! Please keep doing what you're doing! :)
Thank you, your videos helping me to feel good and I can apply and follow them in my existence.
You are amazing!
For someone just starting out on youtube, this has been so useful. Thank you Lana!
Just watching you makes my life have a direction.
i live alone in my apt in US. im here for work and i dont have much friends( i mean real friends). usually my apt is so calm with just me in it. i play your videos, just to listen to your voice and it make me feel i got someone with me. makes me feel i am not left behind. thank you Lana
I think one of my values this year is to listen more what my body needs.. if i Need a break or just have some me time or even realizing that my job does not fulfill me anymore... i have to do something about it
This video made me feel more...calm? Thank you, i appreciate you and your work
I appreciate that when you messed up a sentence, you redo it instead of chopping, editing it
I like this style of video cause I get the "mood" sometimes, very relaxing
Thank you so much Lana, I've been journalling since i was 14 and only until watching this video did i learn what has been guiding me my whole life. Writing down my values and principles just now have solidified my understanding of who i am and what i deserve in life. I have only just stumbled across your videos and your words have helped me in such a dark time. Thank you, your videos and your wisdom goes so far and you are helping thousands of people.
I’m always fascinated with your beauty. It’s valuable to see you!
Well said Lana. I guess saying "truths " is more difficult than it seems. ✌🤣
Who would've thought. Lol
Love your videos,great help as always ❤️
I honestly love all your content
I value truth and loyalty, I value integrity and respect, I value kindness and caring, but most of all I value freedom and justice!
Your videos have inspired me take photos again! I have been struggling to get back into photography :)
Watching your video's and hearing your voice make me feel so relaxed. Thank you for being who you are and for making these amazing video's 💕
Lana's videos are calming...somehow.
Yeah. But more so her voice and stoically authentic delivery is what does that for me.
This is like THE PERFECT podcast
I can listen to you all day !
Same here!😀
I love Your pronunciation!from an english learner!
What is life?
Well it's a very old question which don't have any permanent answer. Well I think that is greatest achievement of that question and everyone is invited to seek their own answer.
You talked about direction in life and I must say that fixed for every living thing, birth to death, cradle to grave, yeah.
So what should be the general outlook towards life. I personally see life as a three course meal to which I am invited. I don't pay for it and I can't take anything home. So what do I do, make the full of it, experience every bit if time I consciously spend. Of course every experience will not be smooth, but smooth or course, good or bad, the periodic changes make us mature.
Lana Your so pretty my friend, being a intervert, went in United States Marine Corps. now there is many interverts but i learned how 2 sound off loud and clear , about 11 hours of quiet a week 4 , 13 weeks but i learned well how 2 connect and work really well with others in high pressure high stress, your sharing is awesome and great thanx 4 sharing God Bless You Always Miss Lana
THANK YOU
I love and appreciate what you got going on. I wish you nothing but success.
Ahh, to be young and inspired. I feel that you will be successful in whatever you choose.You have a great outlook on things
Thank you for being here 💛