How to Deal with Stress & Anxiety (Holiday Edition) 🌟✨

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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

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  • @wendyazure
    @wendyazure 7 лет назад +31

    Listening to your talking just comforts me. Thank for your existence Aileen! Love from Taiwan♥️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +5

      Shuyu Kuo aww thank you for being here!

    • @nads205
      @nads205 5 лет назад +1

      Same here - really calming and relaxing to listen to her.

  • @linaluthor1335
    @linaluthor1335 7 лет назад +23

    "Done is better than perfect"... also useful advice if you're struggling with not-so-satisfactory grades and work... It's okay to not be perfect!

  • @alyxandriaang
    @alyxandriaang 7 лет назад +45

    Hey Aileen! I’m a high school senior and am the breaking point of my anxiety disorder and stress. I just want to say that since I found your channel I’ve been reminded of the things that I forgot: that some of the things I’m stressing about won’t matter in 5-10 years. You’ve helped me so much with school and just managing my mental health. I hope you have a stress free holiday season and a happy one too! Know your subscribers love you ❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +2

      Alyxandria Ang it’s soo true. Hope you’re okay, wishing you the best to get through this time!! 💓💓

  • @juliakristinamah
    @juliakristinamah 7 лет назад +3

    Yes, you're right stay and enjoy in the present.

  • @Miss_Annlaug
    @Miss_Annlaug 7 лет назад

    I find writing what I have to do down step by step helps me not carrying it around as worry in my head. Makes it more manageable

  • @LaurenHeathCreative
    @LaurenHeathCreative 7 лет назад +2

    Yes! Tip number 2, I always get so stressed out last minute trying to find gifts and dealing with shopping and budgets, so much easier this year because I've already started! Great tips!

  • @DobbysStinkySock
    @DobbysStinkySock 7 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing your tips and wisdom! I honestly have not been looking forward to the holiday season, as it's grown to mean a lot of bad things for me since I was a child. Year after year of waiting for loved ones that never show and having to face the duplicity of the ones that linger around maliciously, has made me resent the holidays . But going by what you said it's important to see the good that remains and to keep trying. After all, it's the little moments that make the holidays scintillate with twinkling nostalgia and fleeting familial warmth. No matter who doesn't show, the ones who do and the things they do, they do not dictate the worth of our holidays and our memories. We do. Thank you for the video :)

  • @jiaqichen518
    @jiaqichen518 7 лет назад +3

    I can't wait to see your holiday gift guide! I already love seeing gift guides in general but I can't wait to see yours especially!

  • @cassiopeiasmoon
    @cassiopeiasmoon 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for your videos! Have struggled with lack of motivation the whole autumn, and it's been bad. Cannot remember a time I've had it this difficult to get stuff done... But your videos are helping me get back on track. So thank you! Continue spreading information and giving people back their motivation!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      Cassiopeia's Moon aw glad I could help. Good luck with everything!

  • @BeverlyJBravo
    @BeverlyJBravo 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video Aileen. Everything's just been stressful lately but watching you makes me feel motivated again.

  • @fahadhossain5686
    @fahadhossain5686 7 лет назад +2

    Whenever I get notified of Lavendaire I am here to watch her.
    Beautiful, cute and humble "Lavendaire"

  • @seemu2927
    @seemu2927 7 лет назад +10

    i just discovered your videos the other day and have been binge watching ever since. I love your videos - they're so inspirational and positive!

  • @bluelys4777
    @bluelys4777 7 лет назад

    Watching your videos all over again 💕 they help me so much when I get sad and life gets hard. I find the way you talk so relaxing and reassuring . I hope you will keep making videos ❤️

  • @miyin4123
    @miyin4123 6 лет назад +1

    After watching your video I feel better in my stress😊

  • @anja9121
    @anja9121 7 лет назад +3

    Yas! What's better than a holiday video? Aileen's wide minded holiday video! Gonna enjoy watching this, greetings to you my dearest girl♡

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      Anja W hehe I gotchu covered! Sending lots of love 💕

  • @NoraTKD
    @NoraTKD 7 лет назад +19

    Thank you for the tips Aileen! I am already getting overwhelmed because I will have important exams before Christmas, I need to get presents for my loved ones, travelling and many other things are happening at the same time. Thanks to your video, I think now I know how to handle things better :) Keep up the good work xoxo

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      sending love ^_^

    • @NoraTKD
      @NoraTKD 7 лет назад

      Thank you! :) Love and Light

    • @knownmedia9900
      @knownmedia9900 7 лет назад +1

      The Christmas Season is super hectic, but I know you can do it Nora! Good luck on those exams!

    • @NoraTKD
      @NoraTKD 7 лет назад

      Thank you :))))

  • @bettinak.4
    @bettinak.4 7 лет назад +4

    Christmas+exams.... Yeah it is sressful. Thanks for your video, your videos are always amazing!

  • @EstellVillanueva
    @EstellVillanueva 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this Aileen! It made me feel more in the season (wasn’t feeling the holiday season before watching this).☺️
    The holidays also reminds me that it’s been a year since I started watching you and Muchelle B. You guys are my mentors and inspo for life!✨

  • @trupscorner2989
    @trupscorner2989 7 лет назад

    Finally i realize that you are the only one who can inspire me from the within... I recommend your videos and audio.. And he said.. He can see your influence on me... Thank you so much...

  • @josefineoijer
    @josefineoijer 7 лет назад

    Your Christmas decorations count! I love your motto "Done is better than perfect!" Sometimes you just need to be fine with not everything being perfect! That's when it's a good time to ask for help, like for instance I don't like to cook so I'm naturally quite bad at it, therefor there's no need for me to stress about making the perfect Christmas food, instead I'll do my best, and ask my father for advice since he enjoys cooking! :D

  • @tajughouse7760
    @tajughouse7760 7 лет назад +1

    I m so thankful Aileen..you are so much younger than me but you have so much wisdom!!

  • @garnetsword
    @garnetsword 7 лет назад +1

    Aileen, when you started talking about scents I literally got back into the right space in mind and spirit! ❤💕💕💖💗💓

  • @Allaboutmeggie
    @Allaboutmeggie 7 лет назад

    I’m a new subbie and I’m so glad to have found your channel; from travel tips to tips on how to conquer life. Thank you, and I’m looking forward to more videos.

  • @xohaleyjean
    @xohaleyjean 7 лет назад +9

    This video came at just the right time for me! Trying not to freak out about all of the holiday planning, but it's hard to break old habits. Thank you for another great video!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Haley Jean hope you can relax and enjoy the holidays 😊

    • @xohaleyjean
      @xohaleyjean 7 лет назад

      Lavendaire thank you 😌 hope you do, too!

  • @vanshikbhatia8183
    @vanshikbhatia8183 6 лет назад

    Thank you love your patience with everything ......I know it's really hard 😄😄

  • @brookeflood5683
    @brookeflood5683 7 лет назад

    Some other essential oils I wanted to add are... Peppermint essential oil: helps with fatigue, stimulates, helps with focus, also eliminates pain and headaches when applied to forehead with lavender! Plus it smells like Christmas!! (mix with carrier oil like coconut oil because it's potent and may burn when applied alone. And Ylang ylang essential oil: (floral scent) helps with depression and frustration, and lifts the mood. Great video!!!

  • @ZlataAlekhno
    @ZlataAlekhno 7 лет назад

    Thank you soooo much! I am a fashion design student making a graduate collection, so I am EXTREMELY stressed. I will use your tips to help me get through it xx Good luck!

  • @yennguyen8736
    @yennguyen8736 7 лет назад +1

    Warmly thanks for your motivation ❤️

  • @beranfam
    @beranfam 7 лет назад

    I love your thoughtful advice! It seems like these tips can apply to times outside the holiday season. Thank you!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      Fatima Patino yes they can!

  • @martabm2256
    @martabm2256 7 лет назад +1

    Powerful advices, I love them!!!!

  • @KatieFilms
    @KatieFilms 7 лет назад +25

    I’ve already started planning Christmas 😂🌲

  • @SabrinaBellsdiary
    @SabrinaBellsdiary 7 лет назад

    OMG yes! decluttering my to do list has helped me a lot!
    It's good to do that every once in a while for a stress free life!✨ xx

  • @emmalynvia5627
    @emmalynvia5627 7 лет назад +2

    Biggest inspiration ❤️ thank u

  • @anjalijha5014
    @anjalijha5014 7 лет назад +1

    Wow festive vibes already! Merry Christmas 🎄😊

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Anjali Jha heheh never too early. Merry Christmas & happy holidays!

  • @1A1y1a8
    @1A1y1a8 7 лет назад

    Hey Aileen! I am glad that you visited Japan, my home country! I love your videos :) If you can make a video about tips for not taking things seriously, that’d be so much appreciated! Love you xoxox

  • @coolcheetful
    @coolcheetful 7 лет назад

    One More great video ... thank you so much. Lots of love from India

  • @PammiHoneyBeauty
    @PammiHoneyBeauty 7 лет назад

    Hi Aileen! I haven't watched your latest videos, but It's thanksgiving and I have to say I miss you! I'm wishing you a lovely holiday and I'm catching up now :)

  • @thatclaudiakid
    @thatclaudiakid 7 лет назад +6

    Totally needed this 💕 Been stressing about the Holidays so much lately. Had no idea how to handle it but now I do! Thanks so much!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      claudia arias :) good luck & have fun!!

  • @chiaranirmani8405
    @chiaranirmani8405 7 лет назад +2

    Hi Aileen! From Italy, love your channel and also you are my inspiration

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Chiara Nirmani thank youu

  • @SanaShaikh-xb5mt
    @SanaShaikh-xb5mt 6 лет назад

    I am watching your all the videos. Feels so good. :)

  • @earthangelgemini
    @earthangelgemini 7 лет назад

    Loving all the christmas feels to this video. Thanks so much for the tips x

  • @capritheus
    @capritheus 7 лет назад +1

    That was on point! Love all of your videos!

  • @tramngo7624
    @tramngo7624 7 лет назад +1

    Love you as always !!!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      Trâm Ngô Love youuu 😘

  • @sayani6731
    @sayani6731 7 лет назад +2

    Yeahh very very happy Christmas in advance #Aileen💗💗💗 ...and thanks for this #holiday tips..😋😋😋😎😎

  • @pikachuiswatchingyou
    @pikachuiswatchingyou 7 лет назад +13

    Your hair color is incredible !!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      pikachuiswatchingyou hehe thanks!

  • @KawatraProductions
    @KawatraProductions 7 лет назад +41

    Your Big Fan is here!

  • @TheLaIvana
    @TheLaIvana 7 лет назад +2

    Love it :D Especially number 5 since aiming towards perfection is what makes people so stressed out because it's the hardest to achieve, so I'm glad you pointed that out. Looking forward to the next holiday videos :D

  • @Mich1990G
    @Mich1990G 7 лет назад +1

    This is exactly what I needed right now 😄 thank you for sharing

  • @allieowens2559
    @allieowens2559 7 лет назад

    girl you are amazing thank you for putting out so much organized content. so relaxing

  • @cerulean1602
    @cerulean1602 7 лет назад +1

    Your vibe screams inspiration 🙏💓

  • @paulterl4563
    @paulterl4563 7 лет назад +1

    Cool !! Thank you !!! Happy Holydays !!! 🎄🎄🎀🎁🎆🎇🎍

  • @user-of4iw2bz2n
    @user-of4iw2bz2n 7 лет назад

    *_OH GOD WHY DID I NOT SEE THIS SOONER?_*
    A week before Christmas, I had _loads_ of homework, deadlines each day. It was no fun at all. My stressed mindset that lasted the entire year affected my excitement for Christmas..😧. I wish I found this vid sooner. Your vids are currently giving me good vibes for 2018. Lots of love! 💕

  • @lisettehulsebosch7744
    @lisettehulsebosch7744 7 лет назад

    YAAYY thank u so much for this video! I want to make the holidays as calm and relaxed as I can cause that where it is all about. :D Luuuvvv from The Netherlands 🇳🇱💕💕💕

  • @evam3096
    @evam3096 7 лет назад +1

    Great tips Aileen! Such a lovely vid.Ps your top is gorgeous where did you get it? X

  • @ShannonLeighMusic
    @ShannonLeighMusic 7 лет назад

    Thank you so much for making this video! ☺️💕🎄

  • @ilektrapa286
    @ilektrapa286 7 лет назад +3

    Lavendair, your voice is so relaxing! When I read for school I pout some of your videos to see because they help me so much 🤗🙂❤

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      It's just me aw so glad to hear that!

  • @Sonya-cx8dd
    @Sonya-cx8dd 4 года назад

    Thank you for this! 🙏🏼

  • @shannonmcl1593
    @shannonmcl1593 7 лет назад

    This is exactly what I needed today - thank you so much for making so much great content!

  • @SofiaElfrida
    @SofiaElfrida 7 лет назад +1

    Enjoy beeing the yougest you will ever be💕

  • @imanidlamini8499
    @imanidlamini8499 6 лет назад

    I love your vibe

  • @milliology
    @milliology 7 лет назад

    you are wonderful!

  • @raquelcuevas7237
    @raquelcuevas7237 7 лет назад +3

    You are so inspiring!! I love your videos; they have become a part of my self care routine :)

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Raquel Cuevas ahh love it ✨✨

  • @nirupamakumar5442
    @nirupamakumar5442 7 лет назад

    Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas in advance! Have a very happy holiday season Aileen! :*

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Nirupama Kumar happy holidays!!

  • @mariapaolalupi7813
    @mariapaolalupi7813 7 лет назад +1

    you are soooo inspiraring !

  • @_toastie_1232
    @_toastie_1232 7 лет назад +1

    Amazing 😍❄️💫

  • @ekstra4109
    @ekstra4109 7 лет назад +1

    The contet of your videos, perfect

  • @ultimatebluegod3070
    @ultimatebluegod3070 7 лет назад

    I am so glad I found you. You are awesome. New subbie.

  • @sbitnov
    @sbitnov 7 лет назад +1

    I I really needed to hear this thank you!

  • @tuluonglt
    @tuluonglt 7 лет назад +2

    Are you home? Thanks for de-stressed video :D

  • @prittyflutterbystar
    @prittyflutterbystar 7 лет назад

    Very helpful, thank you! Happy Thanksgiving!🍗🍁

  • @sudharsanravichandiran3461
    @sudharsanravichandiran3461 7 лет назад +7

    Thanks for posting good content. It really shaping me and my life. Thank you so much for doing this.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +2

      Sudharsan ravi ahh so grateful for that 🙏🏼✨

  • @ranikster9955
    @ranikster9955 2 года назад

    Oh my gosh..
    It's s only the 1st of december and I'm already stressed out 😵‍💫😵🤯 This weekend Christmas family gathering in Copenhagen. Next I have week 2 concerts and 1 Christmas dinner with work and another Christmas dinner with choir on the 14th. Gifts for family, gifts for parents...tidying and cleaning. Gifts and payment for choir 🤯 not to mention a christmas Lunch with the book club

  • @lisettehulsebosch7744
    @lisettehulsebosch7744 7 лет назад

    Your voice is so nice to listen to. :')

  • @LilJoeyJam
    @LilJoeyJam 7 лет назад +1

    Hey, Lavendaire! Advanced happy thanksgiving! Nice video.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      Joseph happy thanksgiving!! 💓

  • @niharikamishra2530
    @niharikamishra2530 7 лет назад +4

    Hey ! #Aileen
    Love you💗💗💗 so much💖
    And it really made my day💝💝😘😘
    Every stuff in video is really helpful for me to revising the tips for a stress free life🐦
    Thumbnail picture is awesome💕😘
    Thanks fr the video💗💗 dear😘

  • @potatoesandtomatoes6817
    @potatoesandtomatoes6817 7 лет назад

    One way that i reduce stress when i am anxious about giving people presents is that i try to feel real real happy about giving them. (Well i didnt realise that until recently as i became more self aware of my habits) I visualise them complimenting/ maybe dissing my present(which is okay for me cuz i know everybody's different) and i feel a sense of happiness growing within me. And also i find that treating things in your life as an 'experience' really helps alot? Like if i choose to see this as an experience that i will never have again i immediately feel relaxed and able to stay in the moment :)
    Btw great video and good luck to people who needs to buy loads of presents! (my fam dont really do that so haha

    • @knownmedia9900
      @knownmedia9900 7 лет назад

      This is such a lovely tip! Giving is literally the best feeling in the world.

  • @Costa2Music
    @Costa2Music 7 лет назад

    To be honest, I'm starting to get excited for Christmas right after Halloween :D I loove this holiday and I already have all the Christmas gifts for my family and friends ^^ So I appreciate your video, which is, as always just edited soo lovely and I really like your top! ♥

  • @Moonlight-Charm
    @Moonlight-Charm 7 лет назад +2

    I love you so much!

  • @anishajoshi4720
    @anishajoshi4720 7 лет назад +1

    This made my day better ❤

  • @Karenbella31
    @Karenbella31 7 лет назад

    Happy Thanksgiving, Aileen. Love your inspiring and calming vids... do you have a vid on staying calm and I know this sounds odd: but a vid on eyelash extensions’ care? Thank you for being a lovely inspiration!❤️

  • @tuyetvu5802
    @tuyetvu5802 4 года назад

    🖤💜💙💚💛🧡❤
    I've learned your video to improve my English a lot

  • @umeabihabatool6229
    @umeabihabatool6229 7 лет назад +1

    You posted!! I love this!! :D

  • @ansheetas5605
    @ansheetas5605 7 лет назад

    Hi Aileen, can you please make a video on overcoming perfectionism. Thank you so much for all the efforts you put in making these awesome videos :)

  • @chingwong1945
    @chingwong1945 7 лет назад

    Love this video😘

  • @Muse_XoXo_
    @Muse_XoXo_ 7 лет назад

    I am your biggest fan!

  • @petalis
    @petalis 6 лет назад

    This video helps me so much 💕

  • @MariaGarcia-is6nx
    @MariaGarcia-is6nx 7 лет назад

    you seem so tired in your smile, dear. I know you're strong, hope you're ok ♡

  • @sarahsameh1516
    @sarahsameh1516 6 лет назад

    Youre amazing and life saving

  • @whitecloudov968
    @whitecloudov968 7 лет назад +2

    Is this gonna matter in five years? Yup- I’m keeping that one. Thanks!

  • @MellowMathi
    @MellowMathi 7 лет назад +1

    Beautiful girl 😍 Aileen 💙... Happy Christmas to you in Advance 🌟🌠✨🎆🎉🎈🎈🎊🎁🎁🎀🎀🎗

  • @niharikamishra2530
    @niharikamishra2530 7 лет назад +2

    Perfect stuff✅ fr me😘😘

  • @GeekyMino
    @GeekyMino 7 лет назад

    I really love your voice😊

  • @karulinaalencar
    @karulinaalencar 7 лет назад +1

    Hello from Brazil

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад +1

      Karol Alencar 👋🏻👋🏻

  • @sudharsanravichandiran3461
    @sudharsanravichandiran3461 7 лет назад +3

    OMG. My angel girl dropped new video

  • @077di6
    @077di6 7 лет назад

    Hi as a minimalist what bag do you use for the camera and lenses ??

  • @afnan-gi2nj
    @afnan-gi2nj 7 лет назад +1

    Well it is not holiday time here but I really needed this because it's time for exams 😔 and we are all stressed so some tips will really work for me.
    But I can say that even if your video is not for me I just enjoy watching you 💖💖 I love you so much 💙😘

  • @hannahrussell2009
    @hannahrussell2009 7 лет назад +9

    Your voice is so soothing! You should have a podcast woman, I would be so into that.

    • @menakasbridal
      @menakasbridal 7 лет назад +1

      Hannah Russell Hello. She does have a Podcast. You can find them at her blog, hope this helps 💟! Good day.

    • @hannahrussell2009
      @hannahrussell2009 7 лет назад +2

      This is the best news I've heard all day - thank you!!

  • @heenadilliwar5187
    @heenadilliwar5187 7 лет назад

    I just love your blogs...... Lots of love for you..! 😘from India 🇮🇳

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  7 лет назад

      chandrakiran dilliwar sending love to you!

  • @seventeen7428
    @seventeen7428 7 лет назад +1

    Not a big fan of winter too. Secret Santa with a budget seems wallet friendly when it comes to gifts; you don’t know who’s getting the gift so you tend to get generic stuff (which I find to be cheaper?).

  • @kalyanmavani3276
    @kalyanmavani3276 7 лет назад

    your video always good