11 Year Old Looks After Overweight Mother | My 600-lb Life
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The fact that the daughter doesn’t even complain either. She’s just worried about her mother and is willing to do whatever to help her. I hope she gets the life she deserves
Same.
She's definitely willing to do anything and she's a good person
I feel so bad for her, when I was 11, I was just enjoying being a kid at primary school, having the time of my life, with loving, caring parents. Meanwhile, this poor girl has to look after her mother because she can't take care of herself, it should be the other way around. She's not even able to enjoy her childhood, it's so sad, I hope it gets better for her. 😔
If the supposed mother appreciated her then she would organise the kids to do equal chores, she will have big regrets about not enjoying her childhood and teenage years, hopefully she grows strong enough to cut these parasytes and not ruin her adulthood
Yeah.
This little girl looks STRESSED. She’s only 11. Literally born 11 years ago and looks like she is completely overwhelmed. Maneee, I’m praying for this ENTIRE FAMILY.
imma pray for em
she’s 14 now that’s heart breaking
A future nurse or doctor.
she wants her mom to eat hethly but she cooking all that fat food and yee but looks good i wish them the best
SAME
I bet the house falls apart when the 11 year old gets sick or a cold and has to rest.
True
I completely agree
She probably doesn't get to rest when she's sick if we're being honest
So sad she went from an abused home to being a main care taker at 11 for a family poor baby hasn’t had a break in life that’s awful 😢
@@melliethemua7388 she just said that was her cousins daughter
The fact that the 16 year old boy couldn’t help his baby sister just made me mad I hope looking back on this, he’s helping a lot more
Fr
That’s not the cousin?
@@tieany1no
He's not doing it now he won't later. It's clearly in his character to watch people struggle around him while he sits on his high horse.
How dare you people talk down on a 16 year old child!? I haven't heard any praise for her considerate brother who is uprooting his life for his sister and the choices SHE made in life. Ever think that the mother doesn't feel comfortable with her male son seeing her in nude and compromised positions? Obviously it's a bunch of natural male haters over here who can't see past their own distaste for males, even if they're children.
I wish this little girl can see all the nice comments about her
Same she deserves so much and I’m proud of her I’ve been in a similar situation like this when I was younger and I can tell you it’s hard but she’s doing so well 😊💕
Same dude i wish she could see how nice people are in the comments telling her to stay strong
Who knows maybe shes clicked on the vid before
No reason to think she can't
@@marsmurderer9868 you mad because she do more things than you
Somebody go and kiss that baby for me. She is far beyond her age. Prayers for the entire family.
The child is grown, the dream is gone
Unfortunately it’s often the case with children of people with illnesses or disabilities. I grew up with a mother who is a brittle diabetic, I can remember countless school nights where my dad had to go on a business trip even though he didn’t want to go and she’d get very low and I’d have to be up with her all night making sure her blood sugars weren’t to a point where she needed a hospital and was eating candy to bring it back up to a normal range. I’m not angry or blaming my mother, I’ll do it every night in a heartbeat but it’s a lot of work and for as long as I can remember ive been looking out for her even when I couldn’t fully look out for myself
@@LMSPetRescue --WELL NOW ITS 2019 AND SHE MUST BE 13, the type of 'dancing' she does wouldn't make her wear off one pound, most likely she will be like her mother.
Mary Nelson I will
@Vickie OGLESBY , nope. That is NOT how the human mind works.
Man why is there LITERALLY one of the youngest children doing all of the work for the mom?! There is LITERALLY a 16 year old boy that can’t even cook. Clean or help the mom.
Those boys were on the screen for 3 seconds. You don’t know what goes on in that house or who does what.
Dethtrip66 ik but instead of just sitting around with your mom suffering and only one child is helping that not cool
@@howard1852 Anyone supposed to be in kitchen if they want to eat
Nobody want eat if it was me. You would starve or learned how to cook yourself
That shit mad true
I saw this episode when I was pregnant with my daughter almost 6 years ago. She did meet her goal, she did lose weight, and NOW she's taking care of her kids. I'm happy for her!❤
There’s an update? Where do I find it
she did loose weight but i seen her on facebook and she still is over 300 pounds i dont know from where did you see that she did meet her goal but never then less i am happy for cyntia she did loos some weight and i hope she will continiu to do this for her children
@@miriamajamnicka7844well although not an idea weight, you can still take care of your kids at 300.
no one cares that ur pregnant
As a guy, those 4 dudes just sitting around and playing games pissed me off. Its good to help your mother out, and cooking and cleaning are good life skills to have
I whole heartly agree
The expectation for taking care of people always ends up on daughters not sons, no matter the age, it's shitty but it's just how it is a lot of the time
Florence saying ”thats how It is” is to allow It. Time to change that. Most men even realize that, like this comment. So no need to defend it or excuse it. It’s inexcusable
@@claudiajohansson8608 You're right of course, we need to change our mindset as a society ..
Florence BABY THAT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE IN THE SITUATION THE BISY SHOULD ALSO HELP
Seriously how is there a 16 year old in that house doing nothing while the 11 year old is doing everything
They could cook for themselves. If I were her, I would only cook for my mom 🙄
Ikr
Sounds spoiled, that poor girl.
Ikr
They just lazy
If those 4 brothers want to eat
They can cook by themselves because their sister is not their servant
But it's alright to be a servant to the mother? gtfo with this stupid fucking comment.
JUSTTOO FLUFFY the mother is clearly not in the state to be cooking. Thats why her daughter is cooking for her but the brothers are fine so they can damn well cook their own food and dont need to rely on their sister
@@disabledhorse6030 dude the 4 Brothers are just playing their phones all day and their sister is working so hard and you're telling me to gtfo
@@disabledhorse6030 so what you're saying is you want the sister to cook for the 4 lazy brothers?
They can help clean their mom theirs nothing sexual about that 🤦🏾♂️
daughters break their backs from carrying the household while the boys play video games. I've seen it more than once.
That 11 year old is a amazing little girl. My heart breaks for her though. The boys need to get up and help her. I hope this woman was able to get healthy for her and her kids.
Haley Holbrook girl! This 11 year old childhood is doomed; she can’t even be a kid cuz her big ass mama is trifling
Tn Girl54 shut up
Rickyymf no u
Jb 318 seems like you love to use it too
Jb 318 woman*** ;)))
Why isn't the 16 year old cooking and the other boys should be helping
Fr
right
Its gender. Its the "woman's job to cook". What crock.
@@communistpropagandist4608 it's not that, it's that the boys are lazy on their tablet and playing video games not helping at all
The boys are busy
The way she's parentifying her poor daughter hurts. She has five kids - sure, the youngest son is probably too young to really help, but the other three could easily help out a bit and share the responsibility. That poor girl doesn't have a childhood
The youngest is ten about the same age as the 11 year old! I mean he can't cook but he can fold cloths or do the washing Avery now and then
@@bellabeen2619 no he's 7 second youngest is ten
@@kayleighearls820 oh kk well a 7 year old can still do many stuff
@@bellabeen2619 Yep!
@@bellabeen2619 no the youngest is 7 or 6 years old
That little girl is gonna grow up to be a beautiful caring succesful woman . And i wish she gets to live her childhood again
Or she’s gonna wind up in therapy
no, she is gonna grow up completly messed up because of her shitty mom. she will grow up with terrible self-esteem and will have a hard time having normal relationships because she had to play the role of mother when she was supposed to be a girl.
She could grow up to be very successful, yes. But not if she listens to her mama who teaches nothing but victimhood and no responsibility for personal choices.
That little girl is developing the same eating habits of her mother based on the meal she was cooking. She shouldn't be cooking at all but obviously she is the weakest child and the mother targeted her and plays on her sympathy. The older children over hearing about all the aches and pains to get food. If Mom can't get up and cook it then she shouldn't have it; she won't starve. Tough love is tough on all parties.
I’m pretty annoyed that the girl has to take on such a big burden
While her siblings are playing games..
ren yanzhen don’t call her mom a “big burden” because of her addiction
Kirah the Potato chip I’m not saying that, I’m just saying the girl needs to be cooking and helping around the house meanwhile her brothers don’t help as much! Sorry if it cause confusion!!
ren yanzhen some of the boys is her cousin
@@citrathepotatochip6637 The mother is a fat piece of lazy shit who can't even "woman up" and take care of her own kids.
My older brothers play games while I clean, cook and have to help my little brother with his school and help ,y mom and dad
Damn that little girl is strong, how sad she can’t enjoy her childhood to the fullest :(
Ikr 🥺🥺
I know... she is soo sweet. Its so nice how she is helping her mom out!
I feel bad for her daughter. She should be playing, instead she is taking care of her mom while her brothers just play video games
You are making me cry.
I am running out of tissue.
😥
Bruh them brothers in playing games while that girl is doing all the work
TarantulaRex Right?! Them lazy asses
Maybe the mom doesnt want her sons to see her without clothes on
@@barbkhan2323 yeah but the girl is cooking by herself. At least the oldest should be cooking.
@@chloelabry i agree, but some one needs to get some discipline into her other kids....take away their games until they start helping out...
Brothers are LAZY AF
Ukiah is so mature, she’s even more mature than her own mother. Bless her heart :(
I totally agree with you 👍....
Ukiah is her niece, not her daughter.
@@martignyvalais9635 it says it’s her daughter
I don’t like that the 11 year old is doing all the work while her brothers is just in the room playing
Millie Livne same
I hope they just finished outside work.
Exactly that’s not fair
Sounds like my brother
Just have to teach tough love
She can’t be mad at the doctor for cutting through her lies. She’s should’ve been honest with him about her finances and maybe he could’ve helped find resources to access healthy food .
right, how tf is he supposed to know that her finances are affecting her ability to eat and lose weight if she doesn't tell him? She expects him to be nice about her weight gain and justify it because of her finances or help when he literally doesn't even know it's a problem
I can't even give her that because at her size she could eat 3 fast food meals a day and lose weight.
It wouldn't cost more to eat a normal amount of healthy food than to eat a ton of crap, she must be eating a lot to keep that weight up
And even if she buys unhealthy food, she could still loose the weight if she watches how many calories she consumes
what a bullshit with her finances, she could do without more than half of her candy and still have enough. The problem is that she just buys garbage and wonders why there is nothing left for healthy food. She has enough sweets for 20 children at home
@@douba_plusa it's not even a problem, she's made upthe story up entirely. If she is struggling to buy food then she would inevitably lose weight, regardless of whether the food she is eating is healthy or not. Obesity is the result of eating excessively not necessarily from eating processed foods. If her finances are limiting the amount of food she can consume then she would inevitably be in a calorie deficit.
“It’s quite remarkable she takes care of 5 kids.” She doesn’t. An 11 year old does.
You saw them for 15 seconds stop assuming you know everything about their life
Spiritual Sal I just started the video and watched from beginning to the 15 second mark and all I found out was her name, age, weight, where she lives, and that she’s in a lot of pain. Obviously, I had to watch the video for at least 15 minutes to find out her daughter does everything. You must be her or a Karen! Move along!
@@babypenelope6432 okay, I'm not saying you're wrong but the video is 7minutes 57 seconds. How did you watch this for 15 minutes?😂
@@artzyalicia5546 I figured since the idiot had made a totally disgusting over exaggerated statement “15 seconds” I figured I would make one too of “15 minutes” just to prove a point.
@@babypenelope6432 I didn't know you'd reply and ty for telling me BTW I sub to you
“shes a 40 yr old woman in an 11 yr olds body” NOOOOO she is not, she is an 11 yr old that is FORCED to grow up because of her life circumstances.
She’s basically really mature for her age she wasn’t force to grow up or anything. Plus how would you know? Is that your cousin or smth? No ok then
@@zo8eyl shes a child, shes not mature, shes a a literal child taking of an entire family
@@bloodysuperstar8 yk that there’s some kids that are very mature for their age right💀
@@Dan-fd7ue she’s not tho? How would you know
@@Dan-fd7ue that doesn’t make sense at all
The older boys should be able to clean up or help the girl cook, she’s 11. She shouldn’t be the only one helping her mom and doing everything, that’s unfair af.
Life isn’t fair
If the mother can get up and walk around she can sit her ass in a chair in the kitchen and cook for her children. She's an unhealthy child in an adults body, she wants everyone else to do everything for her. Life isn't fair. Her children should stop doing for her and let her live in squalor like she wants to. When others WONT do for you, you cannot get that size. "It's not my fault, it's because I have to eat whatever I can" no you lying Bit** it's called you don't need ten big macs in one sitting. You'll be fine without four of the big macs. Set the fork down.
@@ISoloYouRelax by far the angriest and most reasonable comment on this thread lol
life ain't fair baby girl
she's going to resent all of them once she's an adult, it's gonna take a lot of therapy to get over that.
"It's amazing she can take care of 5 children at that weight"
BRUH you mean it's amazing an 11 year old can take care of 4 boys and a 610 lb mother
Terribly heartbreaking.
fr
That poor girl should be taking into care
@°•-beauty subliminals-•° it is her fault she did that to herself
@@relaxspot4851 i dont think you know how difficult it is trying not to gain weight or even losing it. shes trying her best, she was bigger since the beginning so that just shows how hard it is if it came to her weighing that much now. She doesn't deserve this hate foe her being overweight.
She's 11 and cooking cleaning when they have 5 or 4 boys laying around doing NOTHING WOW😐😑
Alon baby exactly 🙄
yah
She deserves better than that
PERIOD 👌
Lazy little fuckers
I feel for the daughter. I too wasborn into being the person to take care of everyone and not really have a childhood. My mom wasn't over weight but struggled with alcoholism.
Your daughter is not a forty year old in an eleven-year-old's body. She is an eleven year old in an eleven-year-old's body.
She only said that because she's like a mother
Exactly she's not literally a 40 year old but i can tell that she is acting like one at an early age
It's so sad. Her childhood has been taken away because of her mothers health 😢 No hate to the mum but
She said that cause she’s taking care of them, she cannot take care of them and is really not stable cause of her health.
GachaBanana thank you for understanding, it's so obvious
Seeing all those boys sitting around and playing games while the baby girl does everything is one of the most irritating things I’ve ever seen.
Well, look how lazy their mother is.
@@TheWorstWarlock the mother is besides the point we’re talking about how many boys are in that house and how lazy they are being while the 11 year old girl is doing all the work
@Elijah you stfu
How do u know they aint doin the yardwork?
They can all help her off camera we don't know
If this was a drug addiction disabling her everyone would recognize the child abuse and neglect. But since it's a food addiction some people just overlook it.
So true
Because drug addiction and food addiction is different. The body needs food but it doesn't need drugs, it works and reacts differently to each of them.
Ruby Red it reacts badly in both situations with too much.
@Masha Zheleznov did I say I am? I'm making a true statement hun 🙄
@@beansforlief5703 you ain't even do any research
“I was in my late 20s taking care of children.” That’s perfectly normal…girl, bye.
Okay but they weren't her kids, have some empathy. She could have left them in their abusive situation and lived her life. You internet warriors are so big and bold online with so much to say and very little knowledge.
@@paperplate4675 you have a point there
@@paperplate4675 So she’s complaining about having to take care of other person’s children when she was close to 30 years old, yet she makes her ELEVEN year old take care of HER children? That’s inconsiderate of her towards her daughter and she’s robbing her of her childhood. She doesn’t even think how this can affect her children but specially the daughter. No sympathy for someone like her.
When you’re not ready, at whatever age, taking care of kids is very difficult. Late 20s or late 40s
The boys can literally clean the house while the daughter cooks🤬🤬🤬
Fr
They shouldn’t have to do that regardless
TheChanelPrint but I mean they can still help just like kids help their mom around with chores etc
@@nature2023crew Still that's there ONLY mom if she ever passed away what would they know?! Nothing really bc they're Mom wasint able to help And she even said she feels horrible Like i said if she ever passed away They might go crazy bc they've lost they're Mother smh and i do agree they should but They're mother can't Do it she's basically disabled
Exactly
That little girl is an absolute saint. God bless her.
She is a martyr and a sacrifice! She doesn't deserve this, she deserves a normal childhood.
Not by choice.
Aww ty!
She shouldn't have to spend her childhood doing this.
She’s a victim
Imagine being so selfish in having a child because you "always wanted to be a mother" and then your child ended up taking care of you.
That part!!
Well thats rude she not selfish there nothing helping wrong with help your mom and your family that your opinion
It's absolutely horrible! A child should never feel like they have to take care of their parents.
@@Stacykelz9 Exactly the child should be doing that part in the end not the beginning
That's not even her daughter, it's her cousin's and she has to do everything for this adult that should be taking care of her instead. She went from an abusive household to living with her mom's cousin and having so much responsibility on her shoulders.
This is so sad, that little girl doesn’t have a life.
BRUH THERE IS LITTERALLY A 16YEAR OLD HE SHOULD BE HELPING
Jazzy Bella there’s no gender roles sis goodbye.
Zoo Petty in my world there are still gender roles sis! Don’t come for me I don’t know you and I have a right to my opinion as you have a right to yours. Come for me again and you will be reported. I don’t argue with strangers.
Jazzy Bella shut the fuck up LOL
@@Ruby0465 The Snowflakes here get triggered because you have a different Opinion, good job :D continue :)
@@Ruby0465 Everyone should cook if they want to eat. Cooking shouldn't have gender roles on it.
Update: she lost a lot of weight now, she’s like 300 pounds now!:)
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victoria kurneh That’s wonderful
i mean it would be pretty awkward for the boys to help their mom with getting dressed but THEY CAN COOK
Yeah
and clean
Cook and clean for girls😤
Ikr
@@appie2643
Break the stereotype and be useful
What a wonderful little girl, I was so impressed when she was making dinner and breakfast. It’s a shame she has to live like that. God bless her
She's parentified. This abuse.
I. Am. Disgusted.
at the simple fact that her 11 year old daughter has to clean in between her rolls
🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣I’m dead
There’s nothing wrong with helping out with your parents if they need help tbh I think that scene was cute.
@@xVONx There’s nothing wrong with helping out you’re right, but that’s not what this is. She isn’t just “helping out” she’s doing everything. She has been put into a position where she has to take care of her mother and her family, because the “mother” cannot do so. She is doing what the adults should be doing. And she is getting no help with that. It shouldn’t be difficult to understand that. That poor girls childhood is being taken away from her because the mother can’t do what she needs to do and be the caretaker.
@@arizonarangershat3831 you’re absolutely correct
Those two oldest boys should get up from their asses and help the 11 yo.
they take turns helping, y’all wanna judge from a 7 minute clip
Exactly
Right!
I've seen this whole episode. In some parts of the episode it shows 1 of the boys washing the dishes & helping out with the house chores. Can't always judge off from an 8 minute clip.
*when you judge from a 8 minute video*
‘It’s remarkable how she is able to take care of 5 kids’ me: no it’s remarkable that an 11 year old can take care of an adult and 4 kids
Exactly this is how I am now I am tired and I am going to tell my mom that I can’t anymore
@@niya1683 how did it go?
The sad thing is that little girl was abused phsically and now she is in still bad conditions the sins are lazy and you can tell she favors the boys
@@lilyhaltom6567 right that’s her cousin’s daughter poor girl hasn’t had a break in life 😢
@@niya1683 stop making this about u
That little girl has to be the most respectful young lady that I have ever seen! Like wow! God bless her! 💗💗💗
That lil girl is sooo sweet for doing all of that
Katie Curry Ikr
Facts I don’t even cook in my house and I’m 17
Katie Curry hell yea because I would have quit love you mom but no😭
yesshe is
She is so nice and her older brothers cant do it
In the episode she kept saying "she has sacrificed so much" and yet the daughter is the one sacrificing her childhood to look after her mother.
Marli Aurisch exactly the mom is selfish she doesn’t want to do anything look at the 11 year old girl poor thing
Dominique Coudeu but she cant do enything she cant even walk
BRITISH PUG but she got a choice she could have worked out but she said she didn’t want to and that it didn’t matter
Marli Aurisch Preach!
Marli Aurisch 😚😙😙😇🤠🤡
her brother is so supportive
a 16 yr old boy and he can’t help his 11 yr olds sister cook dinner??
If anything, the 16-year-old should be cooking.😩
Right 💯
Right
..shame on hers brother..😔😔😔
ah yes, because an 11 year old is constantly treated as a teen and apparently should be “fully independent” (I’m agreeing with you)
You're glossing over the fact that the fatass mom does nothing but eat.
You have grown boys in a house doing nothing meanwhile the 11 year old is taking on the responsibilities of a mother...? okay.
Did you even watch the full episode
The 16 year old tho
Yo before you go off saying shit watch the full episode because the kids take turns
Shawn Smerlick barely lol
Bushy brows it’s bcuz she’s a girl it would be weird for a boy to do that shii for his mom
God bless that daughter 😭
Rïrï KK Lol yup
Ameen!
Rïrï KK yup amen
Rïrï KK Amen
Rïrï KK I know :(
It hurts knowing I'm also looking after my mother
She said no body else is sacrificing. HOW ABOUT THE DAUGHTER!!!!!
She's crazy AF.
Christian Tapia child abuse.
She don't have an answer (what's for dinner) yeah yes you're starving all right
Christian Tapia she said me AND MY KIDS as in her daughter too
She basically just let the food take over her to mind.
Coming from a former 11 year old that had to take care of the family, how dare you steal her childhood.
That's why the mom feels horrible.
@@browniepotatodipd6177 but the doctor tells her the hard truth and she refuses to make a change for her kids
@@xo_lexie she did end up changing
My mom grew up fast and had to help raise her younger brothers....she was a drop duster at 15. I think any child having to grow up that fast is abuse
Hi Gerry. How are you doing.
The 11 year old is going to great places in life
Emoji Dog honestly this will probably do a good impact on her future
+Lillian the phandom is following you
Brooke Sanders your fattest women ever
Emoji Dog
Bless that 11 year old girl. Poor baby, seeing and dealing with things she shouldn't ever have to.
Emoji Dog true,I can't believe she know how to cook fried stuff at her age...I'll burn the house down😂
This little girl deserves so much she is so sweet and gentle with her mum ....
Why the 11 year old beautiful little girl, who is an angel, cooking while the older brothers are playing video games!!!!???
CF ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ the boys help out, but the boys can't lotion her naked
Happy Fun do you know they do? Where did you see that ?
Kawthar Taleb omg really what's your problem gurl u a sicko. Srsly I stated my opinion!!its an 8 min video, so how can u judge when you haven't seen anything els
Happy Fun
You just said the boys help out too but they did nothing except eat and play on their phones... Where did you even spot them lifting a finger to help the 11 year old?
The girl is being abused it is so sad.
Why is the 11 year old cooking and like there is 13 and 12 years olds playing fortnite and there on devices
Savaya White how would they be playing fortnite if this came out in early 2017 and fortnite came out in late 2017?
@@mrbruv03 you SEVERELY missed the point.
Maru Nation mmm no, I get the point. I’m just saying there is a flaw in what they said. What I said was a fact. You can’t be playing a game that didn’t even exist at the time
@@mrbruv03 ok, replace fornite with another game that existed at the time, they were on their phone, period. That exact detail that you pointed out (and yes, you are right, i'm not taking that away from you), didn't change the fact that this little girl was literally doing all the job, and it was kinda sad that they weren't actually helping.
Maru Nation I never tried to change that fact. The fact I stated was that it didn’t exist. And yeah I feel like the other kids should definitely be helping out
“I feel horrible asking her to do something” yeah you should. Ask your 4 sons to do something
Edit: ty for 1k
And the worst part about it: actually she shouldn’t be asking anyone to do it. She is their mother, not the other way around. A mother should keep everything going..
Lucienne Usta The mom was trying to do everything she can :c
@@ziimeng no she isn't
They probably cut the parts where they helped for drama and to make it more interesting
Lucienne Usta that’s why she feels HORRIBLE this is abt her trying to change for her future and her children’s future.
Everyone in the comments feel bad for the girl but i dont think so, shes better tha her brothers because they don't care and don't help their mom. She cooks for her mom and brothers, and helps her with everything because her mom cant cook, she struggles to move and get up because of her obesity. I respect that girl taking care of her mom
why is the 11 year old cooking cleaning and all of the above when you got a 16 year old child thats almost about to be out the house not doing anything?? Crazy.
Its because of gender stereotypes unfortunately. Women are expected to take care of everything, so with mom out of the picture the youngest the daughter is expected to do everything, its really sad actually.
Tyreik Kay ok but the comment says cooking and cleaning. In the video if YOU took the time to watch you see the girl cooking for the family. And the boys, who are older, are playing games in their room.
@@justmariaok1707 In the full episode they took turns
Issa Secret secret ya
and the 19&21 year old living with you all? Do they least have a job or go to college? I can see if a person is working and in college and etc but the boy in the video was playing video games as the little girl cooks for them.
Why is the girl cooking like bruh there's there's 5 kids and she cooking
doughnuts gaming I'm a boy though and that makes me sad that they are.
😔
Caitlyn Clifford it's called SEXISM
Brandoon Danhh um try think of anothet reason??
Caitlyn Clifford she probably like to cook damn
God bless that 11 year old girl
leaaaaah78890 true she will get a gold he watching how she concerns about her mom and she loved her to
Amen , God will always protect her and bless her
AMEN
god gonna bless her hard👼👼👼👼👼
@@aphlynerayne5686 are you tamil
Cynthia, I recognize your pain and struggle. My heart goes out to you and you deserve compassion especially from your caregiver. I see the obstacles in your way. I hope that all these years later, you're receiving the support and care you need. MY heart also goes out to your young daughter who seems to be taking on the nurturing role especially seeing as how her brothers aren't helping out. She's experiencing too much stress as an 11 year old and that's not right.
The girl is doing everything and the brothers don’t care and just sit there
And if you believe the way that you want to be treated support people
@@jamariwiley3539 just shut up
that's how it always is
What if the 4 boys already cleaned the house or did the chores
It's not the boys job. It's the mothers job to cook and clean but she's sitting around like a fat piece of shit doing nothing for her kids.
She has surprising mobility compared to other obese 600lb people
Con I realized that too
Con
Thats what I was thinking...
Yes but at
she said it herself she tries not to be lazy and move around she is only trying :)
Thinking the same as everyone here. I appreciate her effort and drive to want to continue to take care of herself and her family. Most 600lbs folks don’t even try to do anything for themselves.
poor 11 year old girl :( the boys should be helping too
kayla laskey this is not the full episode
hanzo with a golden frying pan the boys are young they don’t need to help
Maybe it's bc there boys and she's a girl
@@subwaysurfersbleachersanda6587 what about the 16 and 13 year old
@@kaykaygang5427 yeah. The gender roles aren't always shared
Being fat doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful, or not worthy of love. This is something I really wish some people could understand. And I really hope the people who bully them for being overweight open their eyes to see the struggles people go through to cause this kind of situation.
Some fat people are ugly.
God bless that 11 year old. I respect her for helping her mother when she needs her.
Barney TheSavageDino I say give the kids she not really losing anything maybe she can do surgery for loss weight
I agree on what you say
It's amazing how that 11-year-old girl can do so much for that household but what upsets me is that no one else is helping she has two older brothers....
Zoe Goodall that upset me as well! The oldest is 16‼️ TBH she's probably one of those mothers that favor her sons and therefore don't have to do much meanwhile you got ya dtr in there cooking for everyone. God bless her little heart, I'll be damned they wouldn't eat‼️
+Philly Leyah Most likely, the oldest one is working. Obviously with her weight, she can't work, especially since her knees and ankles are always swollen. And he's 16, eligible to work. He's making the bread for the family most likely. Maybe you should think before saying stuff like that. 😒
Amethyst The Darkrai and what about the other brother?
+Zoe Goodall I can't say, due to not knowing how old he is. So like I can't really say anything about him.
Amethyst The Darkrai have you seen the full episode maybe she talks about how she has a job where we can work at home
You have a 11 year old cooking when there are 2 older boys that can do the cooking. Smh that boy is 16 years old and depending on his little sister to feed him.
Mel E ikr
Mel E Ikr, I think that the boys think that is what girls do. Girls clean and cook, boys work. It's just a stereotype, people should not think like that. Women can do other things too, like if this stereotype stays like this forever what if the couple decides to get a divorce? The woman can't take care of herself because of this STUPID stereotype. I did an essay on women equality at school and this is unfair.
Mel E Yeah that's crazy.
Yes exactly. There is a 16 year old boy and an 18 year old boy counting on their 11 year old sister to take care of them. The 16 year old is very close to going to college, and he's letting his little sister take care of him? And they are supposed to be role models to the younger boys, and all they're showing is to sit back, listen to music, and let the girls do the work. Damn.
it's not his responsibility to cook dinner for his siblings it's the mothers responsibility she layed down to make them so she needs to raise them and care for them
I applaud her for not giving up on those kids. I think some parents don’t realize the lasting effect that has on them.
seriously? both the 16 year old and the 13 sit on their asses while the 11 year old has to do all of the work? they should be looking for jobs or at least helping out around the house
KyuKyuKyutie you have only seen a clip of there life. Stop acting like you know what goes on in their house hold. Just stfu. This shows how easy you idiots can be brain washed
RoBro yes i realize that this clip does not show their entire life story however i stand by what i said smh.
They probably do more than you. Who do you think took care of her when the little girl was like 8. And the 16 year old probably has a job. You are legit just judging them just because you think a guy should be doing more work than a women. if it was the other way around no one would care.
J purple ramen so do you know what a troll is? I’m serious. You guys are so easily brain washed and thin kyou know everything. Just like you assume I’m a “troll” thinking you know shit.
J purple ramen and I just don’t “randomly cuss people out. I’m only talking to the you whiny bitches who think men should do all the work
Honestly, this little girl has to do everything! Those little boys could do so much more. They should be taking charge and helping out.
Exactly! And, the sad thing is it’s not just little boys. One of them is literally 16.
If he’s old enough to drive, he can definitely help his little sister around the house!
That is so true . I cant even cook a full meal like that and i am the same age as that little girl .
@@Aiko_63194 I know! They can at least offer to help her!
꧁卐Nazi Dino卐꧂
Fuck no. And, your username also says a lot about you. It’s not about the gender roles, but how much work the little girl has to do with her brothers(one of them literally being 16) not helping her. It could be the other way around and would still be just as unfair.
Oh, and of course you’re a gacha life kid. Explains why you’re acting like a piece of shit.
꧁卐Nazi Dino卐꧂
Then if you’re aware of that, what the fuck do you think a feminist is?? And look, I don’t give a shit about your profile picture. So shut up about it.
The 11 yr old takes care of the house I want to hug her so bad 😕.
Me too..
Same
This is sad to me
This is sad to me that she can't do anything her self
Me too
“Sometimes when my kids ask what’s for dinner I don’t know what to tell them”
“Mom what’s for dinner”
Cynthia: KIIIAAAAHHHHHHHHH
That daughter is so nice to her mom
Her Lazy and selfish Mother has taught her to be subservient and meek. The daughter will have a lifetime of people walking all over her. She will be use to that treatment.
Too nice IMO. People like her mom are costing the USA 147-210 billion US dollars a year
I mean, it’s her mother lol
I really like that doctor. He is so straight forward.
Hes a savage too
Thicc Rice lmao
Sounds like my dad
I feel like he is the abby lee miller of this
SunsetxStarbucks oh nah Abby way worse.
3:54 correction: she's not the one taking care of her kids, her 11 year old daughter is the one taking care of her and her 4 kids.
Edit: people are getting salty and telling me the mother provides for her kids, yes that may be correct but providing for someone and physically taking care of someone are two different things!
Nafisa Islam that chicken looked good as hell too lol
Toya Nixon it’s porkchop not chicken
yes her daughter is helping her and her 4 kids but she is the one who has to find a way to get the money to pay for the stuff so her daughter can help her she is trying to do stuff on her own but it's just not that easy for her because she has a lot of weight on her
But she's trying not to be lazy
My gosh get the boys to help and stop lying and start eating right
It's hard to lose the weight but this 11 year old girl needs to have a child hood she should be enjoying her youth God bless her this lady needs a home health aide
Overweight or not. she still took in and cared for 3 kids that weren't even her own.
And...they think of her as a mother.
We dont know the full story, we hear only what she is telling us.
Gabby Smith I can give you 3 reasons #1 Child Slavery. #2 money**** #3 food stamps!!
Exactly Eli, we are the ones paying for all those pork chops.
she's a teacher she works for her money.
"Shes a 40 year old woman in an 11 year olds body."
So you're acknowledging your child has had to grow up too fast... how does she even have custody of these kids?
She's an 11 year old who's been put in charge of a 40 year olds body
It's sad,
are you white?
She means that her daughter is very mature for her age. most 11 year olds don’t have the ability to take care of someone this well
@@jalyn1628 what does being white have to do with anything
Feel sorry for the kid but anyway hello everybody how's your day going
That 16 year old should be cooking , not the 12 year old.
Solja88 why the fuck does it matter. I doubt she is the only one cooling
RoBro And your point ??????
Solja88 its 11
Asia Pitts Wow, clap for yourself, you're so observant.
Solja88 my point is ur judging people you don’t even know.
This lady is abusing her daughter . I’m sorry but this wrong. The mom needs to get it together and stop having her little daughter take care of her responsibilities
She should have personal care workers, her daughter does not have a childhood, she is not a 40 year old in a 11 year olds body she is a child and shouldn’t have to be getting her mom dressed, cooking and cleaning
Yes that's true but the mom is not RUINING her life but it would be better for her to have care workers
first of all.... do you even know if she can afford it???
@@shaniatingman2083 well they should fund raise or something it’s not fair on the daughter
Abcdefg X omg so you’re still not being realistic. privilege at its finest. 😒
@@shaniatingman2083 so ur saying it’s fair on the daughter to be doing every single thing in the house, she’s 11 not 40
16 year old playing games instead of helping his mom...that 11 year old girl deserves so much for everything that she’s done god bless her♥️😢 *damn the ppl for the likes I’ve never gotten 209 thxxxx😌💖💖*
Its always the women that does the work. Its me and my 2 brothers that live in my moms house and of course i do all the work
RIGHT well and plus my dad and brothers are in mexico for 6 years and me and my twin and my mom are home me and my twin do the work anyways even if the boys are home
Whoop Whoop Chicken soup YEAH I DID i wasn't talking to you i was talking to Quandaisha not you and you can't call me kid
Quandaisha Cunningham same here with our family I do everything
liliana friedberg well I do the same I don’t even know where my dad is
“ she’s 11 but acts 40” CUZ YOU FORCED HER TOO
It's not like it's her choice to "force" her to do it. I am an overweight person so I know how hard it is to lose weight, and from where that mother is, it can seem almost impossible to lose it. She didn't even exactly say that "she acts forty", that little girl is just obligated to do tasks an 11 year old shouldn't have to do because of her mother's weight.
@@audrawilliams9213 i’ve been overweight too, doesn’t mean i’m gonna justify a 11 year old having to step up and take care of her mother like an adult. i understand it’s very difficult to loose weight once you are bed bound. but in no way does it mean you should make your child your little servant like this. it’s disgusting to justify that.
Parentification... it's so sad because it can cause a lot of long term trauma for that little child
She doesn't really force her to. If no one else is helping then I would be helping my mom too.
@@audrawilliams9213 she’s not obligated that’s where you wrong at smh. She is still a child . children dnt have nothing to do with adult issues no matter what goes on she shouldn’t be expected to do all of her moms duties she isnt obligated to. She didn’t ask for any of that she is only 11 it’s robbing that baby if her youth that’s selfish. she don’t have ANY kids her mom does she should be focused on being 11
I'm literally crying right now
The 11 year old 😭😭
Wow! I pray that little girl gets everything she deserves in life. She is the real MVP.
Malisa Lewis MVP is what she is
Sheila Mccullough what!?
Her brothers need to step up, cause at this rate they won't be ready for adulthood. I hope the sister doesn't have to face them leaning on her in the future.
Brian Strickland that's the problem today... They make their girls strong and men weak... They don't build them to be strong men... Make their girls so strong they flex like men..
Idk how they can even stomach having an 11 take care of them like she’s their mom. Especially the 16 year old. Where’s his pride and sense of responsibility? Smh
Brian Strickland you don't know they probably made look like the 11 year old does work you don't know
Brian Strickland Those kids shouldn't be forced to be the parent
Brian Strickland the
The way my blood boiled when I saw the sons just playing around while the little girl was making everyone food and their f4t4ss mother didn't even say nothing... till when are girls gonna keep being mistreated by their own damn families?? This woman does not deserve this daughter
I’m more sad for the 11 year old than anyone else...she doesn’t need that stress and worry before being a teenager
That is true
Yep
The boys need to do SOMETHING
Exactly it doing SHIT
Fr. They need to work or something
Yall don't think they be doing the yard work and stuff
All Those kids shouldn’t be doing anything. Their mother needs help
@@just4funlive4eva kids can have chores LOL 😭
god bless that child
oddteenager and the woman
oddteenager right God bless her whole family
Only_1_princesstkeyah Nation yws
I mean yes
Yeah your right
I feel like the brother should help out it is so unfair that the girl is doing everything
The 11 yr old GIRL is taking care of the household when she has a 16 yr old BOY that can just lounge around ... That's confusing.
Must be because of gender stereotypes. That goes 2 ways, as in, both the mother and the children probably have societal gender role notions regarding household chores. :/
If you watch the full episode, you’ll see they actually help out too. This video was just focused on the girl.
A E S T H E T I C C A N C E R good they should focus on the girl she deserves it.
tee lovee
Bc there is no MAN in the house these boys are going to grow up and be a statistic. You can tell bc they won’t even help they’re little sister with they’re overweight aunty.
The woman has s pretty face she does but she needs to stop eating if she dies the kids won’t have nobody
A E S T H E T I C C A N C E R
Oh ok
she is good little girl look after her mother 😢😢😢
TheCloudyday89 Smart little girl at that she learning at a young age!!
Felicia Phillips you know ? my own mother she won't let me take care of her , Never
That's not good
TheCloudyday89 fc
TheCloudyday89 ik right
Oh my goodness, Ukiah 😍 What a precious soul ❤
Kate I know! And why does this comment have more than 700 likes yet no comment except for mine????!!?
Poor thing
Kate your legit so right
Kate is she 11
Kate right.
It's so horrible that she's forcing sexist expectations on her 11 year old daughter while her older sons sit around playing video games. Bad parenting.
That kid is so kind to help her mother.
That is one strong 11 yr old she must be under a lot of stress
Kassandria 😢😢😢
Kassandria Yup sad :(
Kassandria yeah i hope one day she will get at least one amazing thing in life that she will always remember bc thats exactly what she deserves
Kassandria Fuck yeah
She does it bc she worries her mom will die