I'm Paralyzed & My Daughter Is Downright Cruel! | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 9 май 2024
- Chloe is a survivor of a tragic shooting that left her paralyzed from the waist down but now feels like she's struggling to save her daughter's life. Meh'lan is a teen acting like an adult who has been downright cruel to her mother, telling her to "stand on it, oh I forgot you can't." Chloe demands her children respect her, wheelchair or not, but Meh'lan says her mother is twisting the truth. This family has experienced a major tragedy, can Karamo help this mother and daughter heal their relationship?
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who else here from tiktok 😂😂
Me lol 😂
Me lmao , this lil girl needs some straightening 😂😂😂
Me 😂😂
Me 😂
Meee
“Oh I forgot you can’t “ is a crazy thing to say wow
Nawl fr my jaw dropped when she said that
That was funny as hell ngl i said worse to my demonic mom
😢😢😢what a mean thing to say
EVIL
Shes playing up.because her mother is agressive and nasty
"stand on that, oh i forgot you cant" is crazy😭
😂😂😂😂😂 that shit was crazy
What’s the time stamp
That girl lucky she had breath after that comment. Woke up the next bc my mama booy...! I bet not close my eyes if I said something like that to my mama under the circumstances
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Time stamp?
If I was talking to my mom like that she would’ve stood up that day 😂😂
Onmmm
😂😂😂😂 not gonna yie
Hunny mine would’ve climbed out her grave and put me face first right in her place. 🤦🏽♀️
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I fully believe if ur momma wasn’t in that chair , she would have her child under control 😭
i do too
Exactly I agree with you 100%
Agreed !!!!!
Its not always about physical control , the toxicity would still be there.
I agree
The daughter's apology wasn't genuine because she kept smiling. The mother feels helpless because she's immobile.
You know sometimes smiling doesn’t means that you don’t care it can be a way on how you process things.
That apology was clearly without feeling.
The daughter is afraid to be vulnerable with her mom. She knew her mom wasn’t going to accept it so she kept her guard up.
Tbf where do u think the daughter learnt it from
People smile when they feel uncomfortable, afraid, nervous, unsafe, etc. To come on stage and be that vulnerable about your trauma at 14 years old alongside a mother who is so angry and unwilling to model forgiveness and healthy behavior... I do not blame her for smiling. It was uncomfortable and she likely did not feel safe. You know what the daughter did do though? The daughter TRIED. Which is more than I can say for the mother. She TRIED to reach out. She TRIED to apologize. She tried. Even though it likely was not comfortable. Please remember that this is a traumatized CHILD. It would behoove all of us to not pass judgement, attack, or hold her to adult standards, especially when they adults in her life don't even hold themselves to the same standard.
my mom was shot 9xs too and left in a wheelchair. there is no way in the world my brothers and i would do any of this to my mom. sometimes i feel like she asks us to do a lot but it’s just regular household chores. this girl needs major counseling and the mother needs counseling too. there are so many layers of trauma here
Speak!
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You will reap your reward by taking care of your mother. All the best to you.
U and her are NOT the same 💕
God bless you for appreciating and loving on your mom bc we only get one. Unfortunately my mom was shot too when I was 10 but she didn’t survive. Cherish her daily bc you all are truly blessed to still be able to see her beautiful face🙏🏽🫶🏽
Ok, I’m sorry to hear dat, but did you hear the way she was talking to her Daughter? I probably wouldn’t be AS disrespectful but ima have my disrespect bc I can’t take dat. Nd know y’all r not the same ppl. Like I said I’m sorry to hear all of dat but still
That apology with the smile and laugh. I wouldn't accept it either.
Me too
The laugh was after her mama denied it.
@@anastasiaxawhy would you accept it if she’s over there smirking? The mother shouldn’t have blown up at her, but this is likely because she’s been through this before where this girl doesn’t follow up with her apologies. And who knows, that smirk may have been seen before and just triggered the mother. The girl laughing is understandable but only if she actually meant that apology, but there’s no way of telling, even for the mother, if she’s smirking through an apology
@@lavoniaholloway1245that smirk says it all. The child knows everybody is gonna think she is acting up because she is a child and that's how she has always gotten away with crapping on her mama. And she has a very unhealthy taste for seeing her mama helpless.
I don’t like how the mom’s feelings are getting disregarded. She has a valid reason to be angry. The daughter is a brat and is beyond disrespectful.
Agreed I was like dang it seems the mom not getting no type of support.
It's because she's coming across very hood. She's the reason her child is that way. She didn't grow her up in a functioning family. Legs or not they would have been there. She thinks violence would give her respect, when love and respectability also can breed respect.
This child needs good disciple, she is damn rude!
@Cynicole you are so true
True
Nope. Blaming the mom all the time is CRAZY !!!!! Some kids really are smart enough to manipulate
She's really a product of her own mother... the mommy is hurt and she thinks so little of herself that she thinks other people see her that way 😢
The mother is the leader. She carried her in her womb. Whatever dark spirit she had when she carried her is in her daughter. Looking at her energy on the show, it's obvious that she's a bad mother. She doesn't love her daughter and her daughter knows it. That's why her daughter is treating her this way. She's mirroring her energy.
I agree. Children don't talk to their parents like that just because they are teenagers.
Frr
@@KtotheGActually a mother and father are leaders. Men pass demonic entities as well. God frees if we ask. Stop blaming parents for choices that an able minded person makes. Are your parents responsible for Every choice you made?
I feel this mother. That little girl is rude and disrespectful as hell.
Exactly
Why do I feel Karamo isn't fair on the mum. That woman is really hurt and her daughter also needs help. She's wild!!!
Can't you see that her daughter is mirroring her. That's why it's mothers fault.
This woman has been on a dating show....she did not mention her son being shot also....she has a very nasty attitude.
@@Ronni-hh1vj she doesn't need to tell everything. It's about her and her daughter 🤷🏽♀️
If she keep on behaving like this she gonna have kids with thugs.
Her daughter need to respect her what if she was in the wheelchair her mom wouldn't treat her like that
she don’t need karamo. she needs BEYOND SCARED STRAIGHT
I’m my SOUuUuUlLl
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Exactly !
Frrr
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She’s so disrespect & cringey she’s gonna look back on this and feel so embarrassed 🤦🏿♀️
The stupid part is she thinks this makes her look cute right here.
@@TF-gf3fsright with them busted braids and edges if you stealing stuff use it to make you look better
On the Internet forever..
Facts 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
See I was coming to see which person this was about because honestly the mother was more disgusting in my eyes. Then I see more people calling a CHILD out her name so clearly there’s no hope for anyone.
She really fooled this man into thinking she a victim I hate the fact that people don’t realize kids are just as manipulative and conniving as adults sometimes even worse 😂 some kids are just bad and want to be like they bad ahh lil friends, I can assure you 100% that this is the case for this young lady.
AMEN
FACTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, you said it 😅
But he is right also ... She talks exactly like her mom they obviously from the hood ifykyk where is her father....
@@censored817 yea that’s true, but I was raised in a similar household, and still knew my place as a child and would never disrespect my parents or any adult in that way maybe it’s because I was raised by a single father instead of a single mother, either way, around this age I knew right from wrong, I seen how other peoples households worked and I had the internet in my hands, I knew enough to know that outside influence is just as effective as inside influence
Some of these kids need to be in a scared straight program like shows used to do back in the day.
"on my soul" ..gurlll I would've ran onto that stage so fast ta bop ha in da head !!
Dead homies
@@LadyVee-xy5fdLMAOOOO
@@LadyVee-xy5fd lmaooo
frl
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Stand on it????? She would’ve been standing right in the foster care system.
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You hear me!!!!!!!! Stand on being a foster child.
This ‼️
Child is hella disrespectful, but as we can all see, she do get it from her mama. Mom is ANGRY for what happened to her and her son as she should be. That incident would be traumatizing for all of us. Before she can have a relationship with her daughter, mom needs therapy to gain coping skills. I wish this family healing.
They all dealing with it her seeing it and her being shot
Her mother got shot and went through a mental breakdown.
Yup the stages of grief for the lost of her independence and mobility.
@@ariamason9324 yep and that’s why what she said hurt her so much!!!And she was smiling while saying it look how she talk to the audience
@@user-bk7iq3ne7nand her daughter coming out the room to see her family shot wasn’t traumatizing as well?
Y’all missing a really big part in their problem . It would be different if mom were innocent and didn’t act or speak like she does . You can see it clear as day that the daughter is a reflection of her mom. Unfortunately not the good side . When a child acts like this it’s because they have no respect for the person they’re disrespecting. What everybody wants to do is blame her for her disrespect instead of asking why is there disrespect? This is why the daughter feels misunderstood.
We’re so quick to just think people are just supposed to be a certain way . That baby just needs a better influence. Mom already said it herself that what she went through basically shaped her attitude. Shouldn’t be raising no kid with that attitude unless you want them to turn just like that …..
This! ^^^^
Right on the nail ! And the fucked up part is they’re more like this with there daughters and not the boys and than be the first to be like my sons don’t act like my daughters do🤌🏽 swear moms be the first to create bitter black women and dependent ass men 🤌🏽
@@Jadanotwaydaafinally someone who said it I’ve been going thru these comments and they just disgust me saying they would put there kid in foster care and shit like this girl has been thru some shit and was forced to grow up faster then other kids she took in things her mother said and became just like her mother causing her to say disrespectful things to her mother . A kid doesn’t just come out the womb calling there mom a bitch and sh they learn that shit from someone and most of the time it’s there parents .
I hear you...but mama grown.
That girl was really disrespectful & it’s disgusting imagine how the mother feels. she can’t walk or nothing, then gotta take care of a disrespectful brat.
I see both sides🤷🏽♀️ the daughter was traumatized too she found her mother and brother shot up. From there that can mature a child in a way. She is acting like a grown woman because of what she has seen. The mother’s attitude doesn’t help either. Stop only blaming the child like they don’t have parents who play a role in who their child becomes
as a girl who used to act the same way, she definitely know what she doing, she just don’t care .
Thank you! Look at her hiding barely her smile. I have a pity for the mother
Glad someone said it! That doesn’t excuses the mom’s behavior, but she’s definitely taking advantage of a situation. She’s going to look back and feel so horrible.
Exactly, I agree
I’m so glad you can look back at the old you and I’m so proud of you
i can agree and i never smiled when i had my little phase and i apologized and had a sit down talk with my mom. She knows for sure !!! she is just very young now she will realize she is hurting herself more by continuing to be disrespectful
Her cursing, her tone, the eye rolliing…she is beyond disrespectful.
She get it all from her mom
Most these lil girls now & days feel obligated have no respect or morals
@@Ariel-hy4md how can you say that unless Yu know her personally but honestly sometimes our parents are good parents that try pushing us in the right way but being the person iam I regret not listening to my mom
I agree. It’s a lot of misplaced anger and healing that needs to take place. The young girl is acting out. They’re all angry due to unfortunate events. Neither of them are innocent.
@@3j-f418 this exactly god bless🙏❤️
I grew up with a physically disabled parent who became restricted to a wheelchair at the start of my life. one thing that I know from my experience is that it’s more than chores.
he would ask me to do chores that we both could do- but would make it my responsibility simply because being fully abled made the task easier, no matter how busy I was. and that’s acceptable every once in a while- but when you have a parent who recently permanently disabled, and hasn’t yet fully processed what that means- there’s this whole grieving process, mental health and social dynamic shift in their lives.
my dad for example, had so much going on he didn’t consider how much he was putting onto me. He spent my childhood depressed, so my dad glued to the couch for hours not willing to shift to his wheel chair, would shout across the house for me to bring him things, water, soda, cigarettes, lighters, remote, phone, ash tray, snacks, full plates of food, whatever you name it. He’d do this all day, 7 days a week.
eventually, when I was still pretty young he forgot what please and thank you meant. so he’s screaming my name across the house, and ordering me to grab something, and not saying thank you, multiple times a day. oh and if I said “in a minute” or “gimme a second” he say “do what I said, right now,” and if I ever said no, he would lose his mind call me everything under the sun starting with disrespectful and lazy through the R-slur and fat. it didn’t matter if I was busy with literal homework, he’d expect me to stop what I was doing and wait on him like a maid. when I got older I realized the disrespect for me and my time I became “disrespectful” right back. my mouth never got as lethal as this girls, but if it had I would’ve put my safety at risk, as my father had gotten violent with me for saying less. it was definitely more than chores because my chores where all still expected along with waiting on him hand and foot while he also expected perfection from a child because I was abled and it should be “easy.”
I also noticed how the mom blew a fuse when the daughter mentioned mace and was using more intimidating communication tactics with her daughter in that moment and It was just way too familiar for me. as well the mother expecting the daughter to have adult responses mentally and emotionally while expecting her to stay in a child’s place socially. This may not be the same as my situation, but there is definitely so much more to this dynamic that I don’t think the daughter has the maturity or words to articulate yet. I hope they both get the long term help they need.
All of you guys fail to realize she is young 14 and her mom was shot and had to take all the responsibility of taking care of the house cleaning she has a younger sibling she definitely takes care of him ,she is not able to actually enjoy her teenage years and especially her school life seem she having a very stressful time and having a mental breakdown and her mother seems she has anger issue the daughter learn instead of crying or go out the way to please her mom THERE NOTHING TO ACTUALLY please or satisfy her , because she will always come of strong in a negative belittling shaming her criticizing her , not acknowledging or even consider and appreciate how her daughter doing what she can, it looks like the mom going against her own daughter and clearly got issues , she is a survivor n is traumatize but she it’s seems she’s punish her in a very toxic way .
This is no reason to be kicked out of school. No reason to be disrespectful and cussing at her mom. No reason to dodge household responsibilities like chores. No reason to be disrespectful to the crowd either.
This little girl is very angry and will lead to a life of destruction and chaos if she doesn’t break this generational curse of smart mouthery & toxicity. Terrible example for the younger brother.
They both have TERRIBLE manners but this girl needs to pave her own way instead of thinking she knows everything & that she’s grown. Not cute!!
Not all the moms fault either, the mom is matching her daughter’s energy as Karamo says.
@@samanthadiioryou seriously could watch that entire video, read that whole comment and still say “theres no reason for…”? I can tell you aint never been abused by your parent. Its sickening the lack of empathy towards children adults have. It gets even worse when its their own children, parents have absolutely no empathy for their kids. How tf is the mom matching the daughters energy when the mother literally raised the daughter??
Agreed. I dont care what hurtful things my kids may say ill always love them even when it hurts. Im sure the daughter is resentful due to having to take on so much most teenagers don't even have to worry about. Not only that, but Mom is clearly no angel. Daughter needs help so does Mom.
I’m the oldest and have to take care of my younger siblings but I will never act like this towards my mom
@@t.s.1868 How does your mom act tho? Bc her mom has just as much of a bad attitude as her.
Mother hasn't accepted what happened to her, and neither has she healed from it. The daughter was put into a situation that took away her childhood. They both had to accept and heal from the situation
Making her accountable for chores is not stealing her childhood. She needs to BE a child and get her tail in school. The mom has built up aggression. The entire family needs counseling.
@@FeliciaTorres-gv9vy i think the original poster is referring to the fact she saw her mother get shot and paralyzed as well as her brother. that ruins a childhood, especially when nobody is healing from it. she had to call the police to save her mother and brother. that’s a lot and maybe what made her think she’s browner than she really is and that’s unfair to her but she’s not understanding that she has to heal that pain to thrive the way she wants to.
*growner
@trinastafford6306 the mother is a paraplegic. It matters not that she is 14 she is a child and for now her mother's condition has to take precedent. The is child rude, disrespectful, expelled from school, steala etc there is no way i as a parent will accept this level of disrespect. No way.
This daughter is not realizing that this mom is done on all platforms the daughter is cold and she will see in life her ways
The young lady is very disrespectful and wrong. She has taken advantage of her mother's situation.
I can't believe how he just validated all of her bad, disrespectful behaviors. He just handed her an entire License For Bad Behavior!! This is how pipelines to prison begins!!!!!!
exactly
Yes That Part it's Shameful😓
@@cathryncoleman6460why do some adults have 0 sympathy for a child’s situation. She witnessed a violent home invadion at a young age, watched her mom become disabled, had to take up all the households roles and look after her younger sibling. She was a kid who was made to act like an adult, that along with her mum cussing her out and belittling her. Y’all just see her as any other kid, when she’s not. This is the problem with blk people we don’t care for a kids wellbeing and mental health, and always expect 100% from a kid after doing the bare minimum or even less than it.
I agreed so true no respect at all thought everything was funny
That girl is HORRIBLE. Are we just gonna ignore the narcissistic smirks?
💡 I couldn't watch it all. She's giving sociopath, but I'm not a therapist. She needs to see one and get a diagnosis/treatment for whatever it is because it's not just a case of hurt people hurt people lol Let's get serious and diagnose the child.
People are blaming the child but fail to realize it starts at home. Whatever you put into your child’s ears pours from their mouths. Although it doesn’t make it right for the daughter to be disrespectful to her mother.. I think it’s time the adults as parents take accountability for what they say and do to their children. Words hurt and they stick… these are learned behaviors that turn into anger and resentment because there is a disconnect in communication. If you cannot learn how to properly communicate with your children don’t expect them to know how to effectively communicate with you. It is your job to be the BIGGER PERSON (the adult). Even if it is hard, it is your job as parents to teach them. This is why children grow up hating their parents because their whole childhood they’ve felt like their parents hate them.
so real . my life in a nutshell .
@@chybandss552 sorry to hear that, it’s unfortunate that our loved ones can’t see what they do to us.. or better yet they don’t want to. I hope you find clarity in your situation to be able to maintain and healthy lifestyle, a healthy you in general. Sending healing ❤️🩹
Woa the daughter is a sole reflection of her mother! Her mother cusses and talks to her daughter like shes in a gang fighting In the streets! The daughter mimicks her mother 100% The daughter is the young version of the mother!!!!!!! So sad
@@taylorpegues5871 exactly, her mom is failing to realize that she created her own monster by the lack of communication, accountability and compassion she had for her child’s feelings. It starts with the parents.
Her apology wasn't genuine anyway so her mom didn't have to accept it. That girl is disrespectful as hell and should be grateful her mom is only in a wheelchair and not in a grave. You don't treat your loved one that way.
Thank you
Her mom speaks to her daughter horribly and her daughter is a reflection of the mom.
If the mother would actually listen to her daughter instead of yelling at her all the time then maybe the daughter wouldn’t act like that and she also gets her behavior from her mother , and I understand where both of them are coming from but the parent is supposed to set a example for the child.
@@Khloe.1 yall also have to realize that she is an disable parent , she makes sure she has clothes on her back , food in her mouth , roof over her head . all she has to do is to go to school and do dishes, clean up. most of the time you have to help ur disable parent but shes not even asking for that ,the mom has some things to fix but i belive that she did not mean that "sorry " she said . but the mother is wrong for having a reaction like that ?the child is being disrespectful n the mother is reacting js like the daugher .
She was laughing that apology was so fake smh
when that lil girl said watch your mouth to her mama I lost it😬
Sad
Thiss!!!
Girl smh
Frlll when my mom saw this on facebook she said she wanted to jump through the phone and smack the luh girl.
the mom is rude grow up
It’s crazy how ppl are blaming the child for how she acts but look how her mother acts 🤦🏾♀️
u get respect when your respectful. if my child wanan be rude imma be rude back
@@jordynn21that’s why a lot of ppl shouldn’t have kids..
@@Jas-ly5fzu expect for the momma to just let her talk to her like that? Absolutely not, respect is earned not given. If you wannabe rude and disrespectful,i’ll match your energy. Yes the mom shouldn’t cuss at her child like that but it’s not right for the child to do it. The child thinks cause her moms in a wheelchair she can’t slap the taste out her mouth. I feel like the child would let her friends talk to her mom like that because she thinks it’s CUTE when it’s not.
@@REVENGE_LIAHHbut how is the kid supposed to change if the mom doesn’t the kid wants to change yu can see by just simply watching the video but the mom doesn’t try to talk to her kid respectfully and it shows .
@@jordynn21 and youre not supposed to have kids if this is your mentality. she literally witnessed her momma and brother get shot.. then had to take care of everyone.. it doesnt warrant a lot but she couldve went through WAYY more .
If i ever spoke to my mom like that, I'd have not been able to exist to watch this video today 😂😂😂😂
Her daughter said “stand on it . . . . oh you *CANT* 😮 I would’ve needed Jesus
Nah cause I bet I would've got up from that wheelchair though on everything.
Jesus loves you all ✝️❤️🙏🏾 Repent 💖 HE took upon himself all sins of humanity so you could be forgiven 🥰Surrender and give your life to HIM 🙏🏾 HE will heal all your pain 💖🙌🏾
Gurl that's deep and says alot.... I seen videos of them that daughter needs help and mom needs counseling
Imagine all of the nasty things her mother told her. But y'all don't care about that part.
Shitttt I would’ve needed more than Jesus 🤣
This is so sad because you can tell they’re both dealing with unhealed trauma and they don’t know how to deal with it so they fight :(
That’s basically it.
You said it!!
Exactly, there both dealing with stuff
Very well said 👏🏼
this is the first balanced comment i've seen. they're two DEEPLY scarred people who need to get better.
I've actually been in the same school as Mei'lan since 3rd grade and we were in the same class in 5th & 6th grade. She was known as the class clown that was always getting into fights and arguing/yelling with teachers. I haven't seen her since 7th grade, but when this video randomly popped up and I saw her face, I was so shocked. I've never known her personally but hearing about her family's situation is heartbreaking. I didn't see the full episode yet, but I'll definitely be praying for her and her family :((
“Stand on it…..Oh wait you can’t” MY JAW DROPPED 😬
Not her telling the audience stfu and then saying "On my soul" is crazyyyyy 💀
she wanna go viral so bad 😂😂😂😂😂😂
If mama wasn’t paralyzed she would have her under control I can tell.
You mean whoop her ..?
What? Cuz she’d be physically assaulting her instead of verbally abusing her
& her daughter knows it
Like for real the mom see through all that BS that little girl throwing karamo
Kids like this is very dangerous that mama better sleep with one eye open and one eye close like seriously
She’s a direct reflection of her mother 🤷🏽♀️
“ Stand on that, oh I forgot you can’t.” is crazyy😭😭
Stolen comment. 🙄
@@LionLThePrince781 sorry if it looks like I stole a comment I guess great minds think alike but there's no need for an attitude
@@LionLThePrince781 oh I found the comment I supposedly "stole" but they were both 2 days ago so how would you know if I stole it or not
That lil girl taking advantage of the fact that her mother in a wheel chair.. it ain’t just about the mother being mad about getting shot. She grown as hell
Facts! She’s a little butt head.
I disagree
Did you hear that the mother mace's her child and just look at the way we all felt bad for her when she first started talking. We were definitely on her side when her daughter opened her mouth (at least the daughter didn't put on a show). The daughter pushed the right buttons and the 'real' mum came out.... no more sympathetic, sweet momma. The way she spoke to her 14 y/o was atrocious, smh. You give respect to get respect AND parents are their children first teachers PERIOD. Seems to me she is raising the child to be a carbon copy of her. That child is hurting.
Es miss kassy I red ur comment and ur rite d saying goes like like daughter is like d mother,,,,,, blessings
I don't agree. We can clearly see the mother's behavior. It's clear her daughter is acting out and mirroring her mom. She isn't taking advantage she is trying to figure it out. This child wants love from her mom and she isn't getting it. The mother is Stuck in anger due to being paralyzed
The daughter is mad disrespectful and as a teen myself she has no reason for coming out the mouth the way she does. Her mom needs personal therapy.
I swear ! She gave no real valid reasoning to be acting like that and I been thru some terrible shi in my childhood and I never treated my mom like this even when we had our disagreements. I wish I was her big sister I’d give it to her 🤣
I agree, but she's in pain. Bit they both need help
Agreed
I agree. I felt he was too easy on her. Yes, agree to understand, Let her know she doesn't disrespect your mom like that, who is disabled. Her mother has been through alot.
I definitely agree with you love. And the mother isn’t any better for talking to the daughter like she’s another adult out in the street.
The fact that he’s blaming her mom is crazy.. this lil girl don’t have a damn about her mom .. and he knows this
I went to school with her and would've never known this would be her life😢 she is an amazing singer just thought I'd put it out there❤ I'm praying for them 🙏🏽
That smirky apology definitely wasn’t enough for mom. That’s why she snapped. But mom also had this coldness in her heart for her daughter. Sad.
Exactly and the sad part is these weirdos on here making it seem like the mom is wrong.. Kamaro is a weirdo too because nobody should talk to their mother the way this girl is the worst
@@Quietaskept461bc they came on here to heal so they BOTH need to heal and shes the PARENT
@@Quietaskept461Adults say stuff they don't mean all the time. You are taking about a literal child. Moms and dads still need to lead by example and earn their child's respect even though they are parents. Macing your child is crazy. That's wild. That child should go live with relatives or something because that is not normal discipline.
@@vixen_0072and you think it was okay for the daughter to crack a hit on her mothers head with a bottle because she told her to clean up…simple things any 13-14 should be doing. you sound mad ignorant! why should she give up her child because she’s in a wheel chair? there are thousands of parents who chair bound and STILL take care of their kids. the daughter just no longer has respect for her mom because she knows her mom can’t do anything. why would the mother give her out of control daughter to another relative. are you okay? don’t you think she’s just going to act the same way either way?! if she’s doing this to her own mom then she’ll do the same to anyone else. i’ve been in a house with parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, whatever and they call cursed and you know what I did as a kid and still now as a 20 year old? respect my elders. just because my mother is cursing around the house did not give me the opportunity or option to do the same because she’s a grown adult. I respected and still respect my mother and all family members and anyone else older than me.
Yep. My mom has a coldness for me and I didn't start stealing til 18 because I was denied stamps, was staying with someone who didn't share food or get groceries, and I had to survive til I found a job.
Listen…. Karamo’s face when she told the audience “y’all can stfu too” he wanted to jump out that chair😂🤦🏽♀️
Omg.. I so peeped that.. that head tilt.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Crowd went crazy. Lol
He had to remember he had cameras on him😂😂…cause baby the way I would have flew over there🤨..WHO TF U TALKING TO LIL ASS GIRL😡I WILL GLADLY DO WHAT YO MAMA CANT DO WITH ALL RESPECT ✊🏾
She trying to have a, cash me outside moment. Lil girl ,stop frfr
@@simonasweet9085what’s worse is, she actually made a career from that. That’s insane
That girl is a menace.
The audience stopped cheering the moment they got their own piece 😭
That mother is going through it. My heart goes out to her and her children
The mom is still dealing with the trauma of the shooting, and now, being a woman with a disability. She's got a lot of anger and can't hear anything. She wants to be mad at her daughter. She needs to deal with her anger. She is struggling to accept her Disability. Its heart breaking and it's a journey. I hope she heals. I feel so bad for the daughter, she's 14 years old. She's a child.
her being 14 don't mean she should not be held accountable for the bs they do and they know it's wrong
@@egujugapupfh7543you under everybody comments you must be the mom 💀💀
@@egujugapupfh7543 she is modeling her mother and her mothers anger her mother is 1000000% at fault for how her daughter is
@@egujugapupfh7543 She should be held accountable no one is saying she shouldn’t. It also starts with the mother children are a reflection of the parent, her mom is angry and children can feel that and they grow up in it and then they become angry from being in a hostile environment and they’re both feeding off of each other. The only real way to fix this would be to separate them it’s both of their fault, the majority also falls on the mother because she’s an adult she’s the parent and she allowed that kind of environment to fester which yes she’s human but she also held the responsibility to have a healthy environment for the children, and the mother doesn’t want to accept any fault for her raising her daughter to be the way she is.
Both need to be held accountable regardless of their ages !
Still don’t give her a right to disrespect her mom she should take care her mom while she down and Unless she repent God will deal with her
that little girl is grieving the person her mama was before she became paralyzed. she acts out because her mama hurts her. laughing and smiling is a coping mechanism used when you can't cry in front of others.
She was rude before her mom was. She’s rude in school, she’s stealing out of stores and all the mom wants is for her daughter to respect her!
She probably lacks respect for authority because how her mom handled/handles her before and after the incident
exactly! the daughter seems like she was raised well! look how they both came dressed and the pictures of the family before. it’s obvious the daughter is just using her mom being paralyzed as advantage to do anything she wants and the fact her mom can’t do anything about it makes her upset. telling her child to do simple chores but yet the daughter gets mad…
Agree that’s a lil rotten helfa
But if the mom can’t even respect her child just as a human being how will she be able to model that for her daughter? She’s rude because thats what she knows how to be but when mom starts talking you start to see what’s happening.
Sometimes kids do those things as a cry for help. The little girl did not get a mouth like that out of the blue or attitude out of the blue, her demeanor mirrors her mother's. They are both carrying a lot of anger, the family needs so much help
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! The daughter talks just like her mother!
you are supposed to learn from what they do and do better
Mom can’t even hear NOBODY but herself
@@egujugapupfh7543ok? She’s a child sthu
@@egujugapupfh7543hypocritical if the other person doing the same thing
@@egujugapupfh7543 She’s a child. She’s not in a stage in her life to do better than what she’s been taught by her parents.
my mum was like this. and I was like this child, bc she stressed me tf out, her words were hurtful, so I responded with her same attitude. Then I realized that I was doing that with myself and my friends who didn't deserve it. I started therapy and I got better. Guess who didn't. They both need to heal and be respectful and caring to each other. It is very frustrating that nobody listen to you, so I hope that they're both okay, specially that kid, because she wants to heal and got time to do it. I hope her momma too
and I also think that you gotta earn respect. She is your daughter, you gotta be a example for her.. and she is being one. A bad one. I really hope she can learn to heal 😢
This really made me cry. 😢 I feel sorry for the mother and child. Both were robbed of something special. The mom is angry for what happened to her and the teenager is mad because she lost a piece of her mother. My grandmother was shot over 9 times and paralyzed when I was 8, she died 2 years ago when I was 34. I watched her be angry so many days because of her circumstances but none of her grandchildren disrespected her. I feel for this family😢😢
I hate when lil girls think this behavior is cute and acceptable
Wheeeeeew chilllle mine would be tore up I want to say something but 😡😡
Her mom is very disrespectful. She didn’t get here by herself
@@krystalbobbett5175Yea and I’d call cps because we not about to fight 14 year olds.
She thinks it’s “cute” and “acceptable” because of the way her mom talks to her. I’d think it’s acceptable when my own family acts like it is.
I hate that s*** too and society will sit here and blame her mother but her mother said she has been doing that s*** to her for years and like she said if she wasn't in that wheelchair she wouldn't be popping off like that.. mom said she is getting worse..
The fact that she said sorry while smiling just means that she’s not serious 😭😭
She also knows that her mom isnt ready to forgive. So he ce the coping mechanism. Her mom is causing trauma to her unknowingly. Putting your child down , talking crazy to them that will cause a child to not react properly. I know from experience.
She is a kid the mother needs to toughen up she is the adult if she weak the kids will continue to do her bad she needs parenting classes
wasnt so sure... the fact there iin court is serious
The smiling is usually a coping mechanism…… it usually because the daughter feels embarrassed about her past actions and not that she found it funny……. My daughter does the same thing when I call her out, she smiles because she feels embarrassed and that I can SEE her. It’s her coping mechanism, so let’s not make this lil girl out to be that she was not genuine. Learn human behaviour people, it will make your judgements of others less harsh
@@talye 🗣️👏🏾👏🏾they don’t know thanks for making it simple for their simple minds
Telling your mom who's paralyzed from the waste down to "stand on it" is wild 😂
These kids these days dont understand a disobedient child will shorten your days of living 🙏
She no longer views her as her daughter anymore she's done with her you can just see it
yea the dynamic switched. she sees her as a girl as a street same as the daughter
This is the son of the mother you seen on this video, I must say your sadly right. She doesn't see her as her daughter anymore. She always wishes she dies and stuff like that after arguments she always starves her but as her big brother I try my best to feed her and help my mom at the same time. It's stressful.
@@GOOFYDUDE999I'm sorry you and your family are going through this
It's shameful and look how humble she became when karomo spoke to her with love and understanding.
@@GOOFYDUDE999I’m so sorry to hear that
As a child who’s mom was paralyzed from the waist down when I was 8..I could never. Karamo didn’t acknowledge the hurt of the mother. That is why the mother is hurting. She laughed during her apology. As a child who is now an adult. I would never..this behavior was unacceptable and it wasn’t made clear enough from Karamo for me.
Exactly he’s making it all about the mom and it’s wild. The daughters behavior is disgusting, zero compassion and empathy for her own mother. I thought there was something super traumatic the mom did but it all boiled down to cleaning up????? This is crazy
@@biggerthanlyfe9853 exactly and her mother was not perfect but look how the child talks to adults immediately without much provocation. The mother has trauma of her own while trying to still be a mother. She could have literally had some sympathy.. “stand on that, oh you can’t” my mama woulda snatched me up so good right while she in that chair. She even laughed during the apology which KARAMO DIDN’T even acknowledge!! Painted the mother as if she is just so unforgiving..she was hurt and while the pain was on her face that child laughed. Found it humorous that her mother feels shame and disappointment.
Karamo failed miserably! He was more on the daughter’s side who showed no remorse for her actions.
exactly & don’t make it about the child regardless of the matter that child needs to have respect my mother would’ve have me looking for my teeth
I agree 💯
She is angry about being in that wheelchair
Y’all do not understand. The mother is supposed to set an example for her kids. And it doesn’t take a psychologist to know that parents have in influence on their kids. The girl is clearly under pressure from everything she has to do and the mother refuses to understand that. Specially in relationships like these you don’t know everything thats going on with your children. She could very well be struggling at school or having a hard time to do all the chores or whatever, and her mom doesn’t want to acknowledge that and say shes lazy.I’m not saying the mother’s feelings aren’t valid but she has to understand that as the adult you always have to be the more responsible one, that’s part of growing up. Notice how the mother even started shouting at the host, not with the same agression but still. She is easily angered and that little girl is taking after her. Kids don’t know how to show restraint, so her anger is being shown to its fullest. Notice how when the host started talking to her like a normal human she softened and even started saying sorry after disrupting him? Her laughing, smiling and being disrespectful is a coping mechanism. I know that because I did the exact same thing to my parents. She won’t even accept her apology and immediately cussed her out. Im not completely excusing her actions but the mom is stooping down to her level as an adult, she is to blame.
everyone is talking about the daughter behaviour but the mother’s doing the same, the mother cussed more than the daughter even. Respect is mutual, mothers and fathers don’t have the right to say all this to their children.
The mom is cursing back…the daughter brought her to down to her level. She is a child don’t do that. When you act like her she is going to treat her like everyone else in her life!
They both need to help. I wish that Kamaro would have been able to get the mom some counciling, because mom can't do it on her own.
@@mykarma2..No she cannot.
She is a 14 yr old child.
All that smart azz talking...this is why I could not teach inner city schools.
Someone is going to do some damage to this little girl, if she does stop.....
I guarantee you the school is NOT lying about her behavior. She’s extremely belligerent & disrespectful. Unreal!!
And her mother isn’t? That’s where she learned it from….smh
@@inyouressenceby your comments you supporting this rude diabolical daughter actions
@@willdee-st6ubNobody said the daughter wasn’t rude or disrespectful. But the mother didn’t respect her by being there. Her mother admitted to being a mean person after the shooting. Of course her daughter is mean towards her as well. It’s a response to disrespect. Your child deserves respect just as much as their parents do. You don’t get respect when you call your child a biatch and a wh0re.
Shes hurting
@@willdee-st6ub What do you mean?? By pointing out the mom's behavior? Callin' her daughter the b word is something we should look over & just pin everything on the daughter? Alright bookie..
Here from TT. I know exactly what she needs. This child is out of control.
i hate these comments just coming for the daughter when she clearly gets it from her mother. that baby is hurt and her mom isn’t making it no better by talking to her any type of way. they’re both speaking out of anger and until her mom can grow up and fix it her daughter will keep doing the same thing as her
OMG , THIS LITTLE GIRL IS GROWN AS HELL , I'M 50 AND I COULD NEVER TALK TO MY MOTHER LIKE THIS, I DON'T EVEN CURSE IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER, THIS IS DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS !
Did your mother curse at you growing up?
I'm 65 never disrespect my parents.
@@Kikabubblyscrub my mother cursed at me and loved me as well. The Bible says honor thy mother and thy father and thay days may be long upon the land. Someone told me once when I was younger, we were Never promised parents with no faults. Our parents have fun and so do we I’ve never met a person who’s not done something or said they shouldn’t have.
That girl is disrespectful Karamo did not handle that correctly at all
So is the mother! What should he have done differently?
@@ronm3034 watch the video again and you come back and tell me what should he have done differently besides making excuses and saying she just a kid watch the video again
@@isaiahmiles5642 you made the statement not me! Lol wtf your response says it all .
@@ronm3034 make sure next time when you comment at me make sure your using the right word plus I’m not gonna go back and forth with you in these comments cause that’s something I don’t do like i said and imma say it again watch the video and you tell me what you think he should’ve done differently besides making excuses for the girl thank you 🙏🏾 💯
@@isaiahmiles5642 you obviously have difficulty reading! I Never made any excuses for her! I just asked you a question and it’s clear you don’t have an alternative way for him to handle it. Lol
“ we are survivors (the pain i her voice 😢😢)
The moms energy rubs off on the child‼️the child is also angry because that day changed her life as well
Mom hasn't healed from what happened to her. It changed all of their lives! Her daughter is at that crazy age. I pray for them to find peace & healing.
Imagine experiencing a home invasion, seeing your siblings shot and your mother ended up paralyzed. Karamo empathised with her because he sees a very hurt and traumatised child. She was expected to be "normal" about something so deep that adults break down over.
Her attitude towards her mother and the audience is unresolved defensive anger and she only gives her mother the same energy back. I pray that they can heal from this.
Thank you, finally someone understand what a bystander trauma is, this child is as traumatised as her mother and brother, but her mother doesn't see it because "she didn't get shot"
Fr I see too many people in these comments hating on the FOURTEEN YEAR OLD for not knowing how to deal with trauma!! Everybody in this family needs therapy asap
@maddo_2197 it's not hating on the little girl that I see. I have dealt with all types of traumatized children, but there is a difference in trauma, and thinking you're grown and being disrespectful!!! This child issues aren't just she's traumatized, she doesn't want to wash dishes and clean, because she looks as her mother as if she is interrupting her free time. And he shouldn't tell the girl that knows what she wants, he should ask her
Finally the correct way to respond to trauma.
I agree 10000%
Oh my God. How can life be this level of messed up? I understand that Karamo can only do so much with the time that he has. And I appreciate the work he does.
That child needs discipline. SHE WAS LAUGHING at her mother while she was "apologizing" to her... what?
I hope that family finds the healing she deserves. I really do.
no respect given, no respect gave. this is the case here . both parties is wrong & daughter is getting it from somewhere. “I” believe even if the mom wasn’t paralyzed, they would be going through the same thing . Mom lacks accountability and her daughter mimics what she sees
That little girl is smirking. We are in a different time, she doesn’t care. She’s clearly fooling Karamo.
coming from a girl 2 years older than her who was a troubled child, ur comment is extremely valid
this show is sort of like therapy trying to help people. when i was forced into therapy at exactly her age because of many household issues that were out of my control, i sat there with the therapist smirking too. it’s a way to cope, she’s in survival mode and smirking and laughing is how she shows her suffering bc her household and nervous system taught her not to cry and put up walls exactly like the behavior her mother was displaying. it’s so insane how everyone wants to call her a brat when the mother is the role model. her family went through a traumatic event, and that little girl was the one who found her mother in that state. imagine being that young and seeing your mother physically wounded and having to call 911. imagine the panic she also felt. the whole household felt the same things. it’s not easy to go through something like that at any age, i can see it’s not easy for the mother at all but SHE admitted that when it all happened she started to become very angry with everyone; how do you expect her daughter not to display the same behaviors? the daughter didn’t have a safe space to process. clearly her mother didn’t have a space to process either, but at your early teens you don’t exactly know or can reach out for help, so her mother should’ve been the first to do so as soon as possible. please re-evaluate.
And is she’s young and heartless
Yes. She is nasty and rude. Seems heartless too
I took it more as she nervous laughs. Not all kids are the same. Some not gonna smirk but others being put on stage being told to say sorry infront of 100+ ppl will get nervous and feel uncomfortable so they hide behind the laugh.
Please get that poor girl some help. Seeing my mama in a wheel chair is no joke. It sets her off big time. That family NEEDS emotional support😢
I'm in a wheelchair
We need more people like him frl bc he understands and hears people for real like we really need more people to stand up and do this cus most shows have fool of people.
I went through a hard time when I was 14, I’m 17 now of this year. I know exactly what this girl is experiencing. I fought, I got suspended, I got in trouble all the time, I cursed at my parents, I got into fights (even physically) with my parents, etc.
Unfortunately, this girl has some trauma and when you’re already messed up as a child you mingle with the worst of the worst, especially in school. Whatever “friends” she’s fighting at school, she thinks she needs to be strong and stand tall to feel power because she has no control in her home life because she needs to be older in some forms of fashion. She takes that anger and that “strong” behavior back to her mother which is extremely disrespectful.
I understand her mother has some shitty behavior and traits but come on, as a child you really do have a place as a child. There’s no reason she should be assaulting her mother and not doing the chores she gets payed for WAY MORE than I do in a month! This little girl carries a smug look on her face apologizing to her mother and it’s disgusting, she grew up too fast and she’s already pushed into this frame of behavior, at this point she’s just confused. I hope this mother and daughter truly make a comeback from this.
The daughter is a mirror of her mother. Change your behavior, and then she will change hers. It starts with you, MOTHER!!
A lot of people are missing this. Solely blaming the child. That scares me🤧
This is a tragedy that affects so many families and communities. So much pain and not enough learning of how to react and deal with life. So sad!
@@alinaspears7893And blaming the mother alone is the way to go, i guess?
He is siding with this disrespectful wanna be tough child who’s clearly lying and bullying a disabled mom.
@@ChangingMyFutureADayAtATimeyou are unserious 😭
Y’all have got to stop blaming the mom all the way. The daughter came in rude asf in the beginning. Yes them mom probably has a big part into why she speaks that way but the way these kids are today, you could have a angel as a mother and they’ll STILL act this way.
I agree
An
So true
Exactly! 💯
Yo!! she should have been a West Indian we don’t play tht.
Karamo, you were too soft on this teenage girl. He mother was almost murdered and she got some damn nerve to say and act the way she do to her mom. Under any circumstance she needs to be on beyond scared straight or daily therapy to correct her behavior!
Having her mom go through that traumatic experience ending in her being paralyzed and she treats her that way is wild. Mmhhmm CPS, go disrespect them and see how good you had it. Little girls like this reallyyyyyy bother me. The fact she just casually cursing and the mom just sitting there ( no pun intended), then I heard the mom talking….it makes sense. Both of them need healing.
Everybody goes through something, this lil girl needs a reality check🤦🏾♀️
Or maybe you need a hug too
@@ohana317 This bay just wants to be a kid. The mother is aggressive and its not helping. Just because she's in a wheelchair doesn't mean her mothering responsibilities should be passed down to the eldest child. Yes her daughter is disrespectful but we can see where she gets that from
And a therapist!! Add communit service. Mom needs healing from the trauma.
jus cause everyone goes through sum don't mean they can't express their emotions, she's expressing it aggressively because her mother is aggressive, she got it from her mother. who else would she learn such behavior???
@@refmokobe7698 stfu if I was her mom " your getting kicked out " like wtf she said " stand up on that oh I forgot you can't" like wtf
no way the daughter is smiling like that the whole time. i couldnt take an apology from someone like that while they smiling about it too...crazy
I agree these weirdo people on here making it seem like how the daughter is acting is okay..
Nahh it's because she's still immature.... nobody's saying it's okay.
laughing is sometimes a coping mechanism… notice how when she was talking to karamo when her mom left she didn’t laugh or smile.
@@rapalotkidasya3743she smiled when he validated her feelings and after she laughs she keeps a smile on her face despite the fact people are upset the mom then when he said she needed to work on it she avoided eye contact and wasn’t smiling anymore clearly she hates her mom (could be because of the trauma and not how she actually feels and her stealing could be her way of “getting back” at her mom) or wants to get back at her
Grown adults beefing with a traumatized child they dont even know will always be embarrassing to me.
Horrible circumstance. Mom is angry and rightfully so, both are traumatized Period. Healing light to the family. Amen.
Girl: “And y’all could stfu too”
Audience: “Ohh 👏👏👏👏”
😩😩😂😂 That was their literal response!
No brain. People applaud bad behaviour. Foolish.
on my soul
@@aaliyahpatterson8612get outtttt 😂🤣😂🤣
It was more like Ohhhh😮🙃🤨
She is really is tired of her daughter…. I get it! Some people can verbally break you til the point they are 💀 to you and I get that vibe from the mother
I green but hold the mom accountable. The daughter is pain and the mom cuees her what does that fix 🤪s?
U can hear the innocence that is or was in this girl..... her mothers anger is what happened to her.... she acts like her mother and the fact that her mom doesnt acknowledge her as a survivor when she experiended this too....
If mom wasnt in the wheelchair she would probably be fighting this little girl..... matching her energy is not going to help Karamonis right communication is key... mom needs help and healing more than physically....
Im so sorry all together... mom needs a softer heart
“On my soul🙄.” That had me deadddd😂
OMGGG? “ oh i forgot u can’t “ IS INSANE 😭😭😭😭😭😭
da way she kept repeating was fmuuuu😂😂😂😂😂
Karamo face killed me . “ i did all that work for nothing “ 😂😂😂😂
It’s not funny.
Cryn 😂🤣
@@kathconservit is
As a person who has trauma with her mom like this ongoing I feel both sides so hard.
She’s smirking, cursing in front of her mom. Telling her mom to watch her mouth. I see why the mom is angry because that daughter is wayyyy too disrespectful and she wouldn’t be in my home. Your mom is in a wheelchair and you can’t help with housework is crazy. People are justifying why a child talks to a parent like that, you don’t say certain things to your mom no matter how mad you get when you’re still needing her to depend on
That child is having a traumatic inbalace, she needs psychological help.
So does the Mom 😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This breaks my heart and pisses me off. My mom was paralyzed from the waist down. The best mom in the world and she passed in the pandemic. I miss her so much.
I pray this family can come together..😢
That’s scary ending up paralyzed from the waist down can’t even imagine that’s like limb loss but paralysis is worse than losing a limb
@@elijahmcdonald1349 I totally agree
Eh... but I'm sure your mom didn't behave in this manner... I'm sure your mom allowed you to still be you and not belittle you like this woman did to her daughter on national tv
Sorry for your loss
I’m sorry for your loss ❤
he's right, they both need to listen and go to therapy, go through their trauma and everything
“Stand on it” is outrageous