I had a friend who was on his sixth marriage. Recently. We went out drinking and he started moaning about women. I just looked at him and said: "the only thing that has stayed exactly the same through all of your marriages is you". He hasn't spoken to me since then. Take responsibility for your actions and behaviors, people.
Exactly! If you keep having the same problems 80% of the time it's yourself and nobody else. 😮. Seems like he lost some good women and definitely lost a great friend, because only good friends like that will tell you the truth no matter what because they want the best for you
Authorities: She was a brilliant manipulator. Reality: She was incredibly sloppy and left mountains of evidence constantly, but the only thing more consistent than her taking no effort to hide her tracks was the mishandling of every incident.
100%! There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
Well.. All the policing cannot/will not solve human related issues.. Sarah is a person who ought to teach us more about manipulation till the next better manipulator shows up...
She’s a women women are good at lying and deceiving often times when see doc s and women sadly be victim women be in comments screaming feminism how men are bad In Cases when it the women doing the gruesome actions it’s never said how women are to evil it’s a women world
Wait... so sis set a house on fire, her children are popping up with bruises, people are dying randomly around her and no one did anything? This is wild!
I hate to say this but it's because she's a cute white girl who served in the army. So the police immediately assumed she was sweet and innocent. She fooled those dumbass cops for so long.
@@JellyBeansMystreyMachinetrue because they can’t BELIEVE THAT A CUTE WHITE DONT LOOK LIKE A KILLER it pathetic you not have to look like a devil to be a killer look at Shelia la Barrera Gentre
The failure of law enforcement to investigate and charge her early on is what allowed her to be brazen. She felt invincible. How evil do you have to be to be willing to burn your brother and his whole family.
She tried to kill her ex husbands wife, and the FBI knew about it and did nothing. I think it's because she was an intelligence analyst and had connections
@@qwertyuiop-ke7fs100%! There is absolutely no other explanation. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
I've had to deal with someone similar and this doesn't surprise me at all... not only that but I'm sure at the time she had a lot of people close to him convinced of this also
Ex military is the real red flag. They all learn convincing presentations with duplicitous foundations. The ability to strategize and kill is also bestowed on them.
@@ScottGuitarHK It is definitely completely and utterly hollow. In countless videos, they have broadcast clips of people's most traumatizing moments, i.e. a mother wailing upon finding out her daughter was brutalized and murdered. Like, come on dude, you can tell the story without showing the clip of the worst day of someone's life. Great videos & coverage but the "condolences to the family" always leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
How was she able to get away with so much evil acts??? I assume her children were grateful that she lost custody but she should come with a warning sign!! Pure evil!!
They aren't trained to recognize or treat people with narcissistic personality disorder / borderline personality disorder, etc.. I dated a woman like Sarah and went to jail because the stupid cops ALWAYS sided with her. Even when she went at me with a kitchen knife, slashing at me and slicing my shirt, the responding officers pointed their guns at ME and yelled at ME. It was insanity. Women like this, and the protection our law enforcement and society affords them, puts a lot of people in danger.
Just her facebook post alone would have me pointing fingers at her immediately. "He didn't manage it" next one "Years of eating unhealthy, now his family pays the price". No grieving wife would ever say such things.
So sad how these men in abusive relationships dont even realize it and are too embarrassed to ask for help. This man was afraid he was going to die at the hands of his wife. Society needs to do better and realize that women are capable of being physically/mentally abusive and men need more support
Crazy women like her are scarier than Ted Bundy. Look up Liz Goylar. *stalked a guy, David, she dated a couple of months. And her competition, Cari. *killed Cari- assumed her identity ( being Cari, she stalked herself and David) *so she burned her own house and killed the dog in it(🤬🤬) *shot herself in the leg to blame it on David’s baby momma. (She didn’t want any women near him, she had a boyfriend btw) *out of no where she moved and left David (the man she did this all for) *finally an IT guy, detectives hire to look for an IP address. They knew she was the perpetrator not the victim. *her back story like Sarah was that Liz killed her son Cody (8months) 😈and blamed her bf (at the time, not the child’s father). The boyfriend did 18 years and Liz was not indicted. *they arrested Liz and sentenced to life for killing Cari.
meanwhile there are women out here who still preach 'All men are abusers/predators and we should believe ALL women' are you fckin kidding me!? These men died by the hands of an abusive psychopath and a master manipulator/liar who literally threatened to lie about being SA'd in order to get her way. Yah, I consider ppl who spout such nonsense to be the dumbest sample of our species.
Ummm… ok. Let me just say this as a Public Service Announcement. If someone is on their FIFTH marriage that’s a sign that something is seriously wrong with them. 4 previous spouses can’t all be unjustified in divorcing them so RUN 😅
Thats not true @ all your opinion is crazy 😂 lol now this lady is completely fucking crazy but my grandfather was married 4 times . He was only guilty of loving women nothing else 🎉
They found a strangled child and the most plausible explanation to them was that he must have fallen down the stairs while the leash caught on to the railing. Done, case closed. Massive yikes.
I mean law enforcement have made conclusions before that people tied themselves up and hung themselves on the balcony or tied themselves up and drowned themselves so... Massive yikes, yes.
All that, combined with a mother who had "no emotional reaction," is 100% a case of child murder. But they'll say, "everyone deals with grief differently. 😙"
Your channel I think is one of my all time favorites. I can tell you put more effort into your episodes than most, which tells me you like making premium content, not just content to make money, but because you love what you do. That speaks volumes. I watched another channel earlier today and it was just thrown together. Title wasn't even accurate. They probably didn't even check their work, just uploaded it for views. Your research and dedications shows, and for that you are one of the best on RUclips!!
I love the voice of this presenter... .such a lovely tone and without being overly dramatic and unnatural in his commentary....unlike the documentaries on the likes of 48 hours for instance where the reporters over dramatise the whole thing.....I have really become sick of them...
Beating a child so bad he's out of school for a week and NOTHING was done about her? She did so many horrible things and got away with it. I hope she rots in prison. What an evil person.
I grew up in the 80's in a relatively small town, so times were very different. There are many hundreds of times growing up no one helped me, but one example was when I was 10, My mother in one of her "DID states" beat me so bad I missed almost a week of school. When the police finally showed up because the school became concerned, they looked at me, saw my black eyes and busted nose, and asked her what happened. She told them I swung at her and she KO'd me to teach me a lesson; just popped me right in the nose. She also claimed to have kept me home so no one would talk, as it was a private matter between her and I and she was protecting me from embarrassment. The cops told me I hope I learned to never put hands on my mom again, thanked my mom for her time, apologized for intruding, and left. They told the school they handled it and I would be back the following week. Nothing being done happened quite a bit to a great many people, I am sure....
My ex wife is an ICU nurse at a large children’s hospital. She told me that Munchausen by proxy cases have gone up exponentially as a result of social media. It is crime that is incredibly difficult to prove without a confession. Sadly, even when these mothers are found guilty and convicted, they almost always receive ridiculously light sentences for the horrible crimes they committed against their own children. I agree with you; she is pure evil and definitely seems to be completely void of compassion, empathy, or remorse.
@@Mordranethshe must’ve felt really powerful when she got away with that. How was your relationship after that and how is it now, if you don’t mind me asking
@@MordranethI’m so sorry that happened tonight you! Wtf!! How could any mom do that to their child. Hard times or not, there’s no need for that! I’m sorry 😢
Her 3rd husband is as guilty of abuse by keeping his mouth shut and not protecting his kids, "What happens in the housem stays in the house." That's b.s.😠
I grew up with an abusive stepfather, and he always said “what happens between these four walls, stays in these four walls.” You can imagine nothing good happened in that house. The manipulation is real.
He was brainwashed by her too, but when it came to the abuse of the children and then sending to murder someone and it not happening cause the husband answered the door??? He should be in prison too!!
To be honest he had problems with her as well. The news station did a brilliant break down on this case and all her living ex's, their family, her family and kids. Told the whole story about her. Her mom stopped speaking to her once she lost custody of the kids because she knew they were safe 🙏🏾 but the mom said she had of way of manipulating her words and didn't wonder how she didn't get caught sooner 😅
exactly what in the actual F**K?? especially knowing who that woman was the whole time and thats the last memory you have of them.. disgusting and repulsive. that should be illegal
Can I just say it’s probably not as bad as it looks? An organ donor is shown incredible respect for their final gift. When I worked at a hospital, we gathered to line the hallway to give our respects in their final journey.
Doesn’t say anything good when your own children hate you. Every single person around her was just someone to use. And every one of them was used up and disposed off. She drove her own children away. The people who came into her orbit that survived to tell the tale are lucky as hell
She was used, abused, and dumped off too. Not defending her, people typically just repeat cycles. But it’s definitely your job to see those patterns, work through them and not repeat them to hurt loved ones. I hope she rots in jail!
I'm always suspicious of people who say they don't like drama or won't tolerate drama. It's been my experience the ones that say thar are the ones creating it.
It’s always good to try and verify. My boyfriend’s ex was found w a need!e in her arm, she had been stealing money, god only knows what else. Thankfully my bf and I have been friends for over a decade when we started dating, and got tested many times after she was escorted out of his house by the police when he found her passed out high, obvs bc hiv and hep is scary. And a year or so later we started dating, he told me all the crazy stories about her. And I already knew it was true bc we share a large friend group. His baby momma, well I’ve gotten to see first hand how accurate he is about her trifling money grubbin a$$. Anyone who has a child, pays no bills and lives an extravagant life thru her husband, yet needs to be paid more and more money just to watch her child any portion of the month (yet won’t buy the child clothes of his own, he wears his much younger brothers clothing when with his mother) or give him his own room in their huge house and he sleeps on a couch for years, is a truly awful person. So sometimes it’s true what they say. But it’s always good to be speculative. And verify. I’m not above talking to the ex myself to get their side 😂 I am not taking chances with my time. Life is too short to waste on a lying ahole!!
Can’t understand how so many different cops dropped the ball. Even the fire chief who saw she had poison ivy!? wtf! Do background checks on your significant other for the love of god y’all
Exactly. And I don't know if you know much about being in the military, but as a veteran, I can 100% confirm that military members, especially enlisted, are ABSOLUTELY held to higher standards across the board, as compared to civilians. I don't see why law enforcement and politicians shouldn't be held at least to the standards of military members.@@ashleyobrien4937
AGREE! I recently saw cop videos where 2 guys were paralyzed from excessive force and one died. The other is living a rough life. So sick of LEO not being held accountable or doing their job to investigate!
@@ashleyobrien4937 Same as celebs. I just found out today that the principal from Ferris Bueller was arrested 4x for felony charges regarding SA on a minor. Community service all times.
I listen to a lot of true crime and haven't came across this case before so it was nice to see a new to story. With that being said this lady has to be one of the worse people I have come across, my mouth dropped more than once as I listened. Great work as always
My 1000 comment! I have to catch up with all the videos I didn't saw (took a break from True crime) but I'm on it because this one of my fave channel with my fave voice narrator and fave legendary closing line.. stay safe and keep your eyes peeled you never know what's lurking... in the shadows!
I had a supervisor who was on husband #3, she always tried to give me relationship advice and I would tell her ma’am you can’t even stay married long enough to give advice
What infuriates me about stories like this is that so many people let her get away with it. If someone would have stood up to her in any meaningful way, a ton of this could have been avoided.
This is a first for me. I saw her picture in the thumbnail, and she looked sooooo familiar. I grew up and lived around Fort Hood, and I've actually met her! In those brief instances, she was friendly and nice, but I absolutely believe she's a psychopathic murderer. People in the military tend to have multiple marriages and crazy exes, but she definitely takes the cake! WOW 😳 It's just insane that I've actually met this lady!!!
Yes relationships do not last for service members. My GF left me while she was pregnant when I deployed to Afghanistan in 2008. Blamed me for not being there lol. Some people do not even deserve love.
I've seen and heard enough about crazy people but it beats my mind every time how evil people can be. This is really beyond evil and batshit crazy. Humans are the scariest of all creatures
@@sdraulitolito44 a polar bear don’t deceive u, u know exactly what the polar bear want so u are able to take precautions to avoid it, u can’t avoid manipulative lying, deceitful people who hide their intentions
@le_parsdon I'm torn about that. I think she is intelligent however all the incompetence makes her appear that she is simply because she got away with it for so long. I think it was definitely more incompetence than any intelligence on her part, it wasn't hard to see what was going on so they really shouldn't have missed it for so long. Her life must have been a tangled nightmare!
It infuriates me how she got away with so much. And my blood boils when I hear about the things children are made to experience. I wish the Universe gave children only to those with good hearts and deprive evil ones.
The fact that she actually was ALLOWED to keep on destroying lives shows how corrupt or indifferent or both, ALL relevant authorities are. May the murdered ones rest in peace.
favouritism and leniency towards women. In similar crimes and situations women are generally sentenced to 60% shorter jail terms OR let off with probation.
@@muskokamike127 Be honest she had "White women sympathy" 🙄 I'm sorry but there was a similar situation with a black woman and they caught her while engaged to working her way to hubby #3 and she actually got the death penalty until it was overturned in her state 😂
So shocked how many states she moved too with so many dumb cops falling for her victim trap. She must of used Yelp to find which state to go too. Also just Subscribed!!! Great vid.
The damage that humans can cause to others when their childhood is filled with abuse is so sad. Much love to all the people who experienced it yet broke the mould.
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
Okay, I have just started watching but it took 5 husbands before something seemed off. Oh my gosh ! 2 fires, bruised and battered children, dead father and numerous restraining orders! How the hell !!! Unbelievable!!!
What an insane monster!! Glad she was finally charged and hope more charges will be forthcoming & that the victims and their families will get justice. Anyhow, thanks for the upload!
I find it strange that she said her deceased husband ate too much junk food and now "everyone who loved him was going to pay the price". She also said she lost her husband, "that I LOVED dearly". I find it strange that she put LOVED in past tense. My husband has been dead for almost 16 years and I don't say "I loved him" because I LOVE him. His death did not stop my love for him. But then, unlike Sarah, I didn't marry a half a dozen men and I wasn't responsible for my husband's death. I think Sarah is so incapable of love that she didn't find anything bizarre about what she said. The way she played with people and used people was horrendous even if she had never taken it to the final step of actually taking their lives. Who was it who said, "When someone tells you who they are...LISTEN" and I think we can say of Sarah, "When someone's CHILDREN tell you who she is...LISTEN". She is truly a horrible person and she richly deserves to spend the rest of her life behind bars.
This is what it looks like when society is gassed for generations to see women as a graceful underclass held down by men, who shouldn't reasonably be expected to live to the same standards and expectations, while men are assumed to be the problem, and literally all systems are tilted away from applying reason and accountability equally to women.
I love that sentence" What happens in the house stays at the house." I grew up tyranised by an authoritarianism in our home. The day my parents divorced was the day I finally could breathe... Couldn't have been happier. I never used that phrase and it's not always Im too happy about that, but it does put the responsibility back in your court to acknowledge the wrongs you did. And I honestly can think of anything better than holding a mirror up to your own bad behaviour.
@@HeatherHolt My mother has thrown me out of the house because she was mad at me for something, can't even remember what, and I finally, after seating on stairs for 10 minutes mustered up enough courage to express my anger (all this happened not long ago, I'm a grown woman) and I banged on a door for her to let me back in. We live in a block. She ushered me in with a hushed voice and told me I'm "humiliating her" and then hasn't talked to me for a week. Abusers are just something else man.
If someone abuses you, then tries to cuddle up and be sweet…. Don’t walk, RUN…. Trust me. If you see someone doing like this with their kids, be aware. It may be something simple like a momentary loss of control. However if it is happening over and over again… different story…
As the child of a father clinically diagnosed with ASPD (sociopathy), I can tell you it was customary for him to make us sit on his lap and give HIM affection directly after very severe beatings. It’s the ultimate form of control to force a victim to shower their abuser with affection directly after abuse. The abuser experiences double the power because they get to force their will on victims twice, while causing maximum psychological pain. The abuser is also eliminating any chance for the victim to bring up a grievance, because even manipulated or forced affection eliminates the minds concept of actual wrongdoing. That makes it impossible for the victim to vocalize their feelings about the recent abuse because the abuser had changed the entire situation so abruptly. This type of manipulation ensures victim is made to feel that they are the guilty party because they are unloving, petty and vengeful.
@@emilycarter2492 I had similar experiences with several adults in my family growing up. I think it was a behavior that was passed down, learned as the “norm” for how to treat kids. It’s sad that things like this exist. The more we make people aware, the more we can help break the cycle.
Yeah, just one simple database like every other country will help xD. USA tends to act like they are the best but just some of you policies are so brainless. No free healthcare and justice system is a clown show.
Black widow is what she is! This story was so convoluted, but thanks for making it make sense and keep it so we can follow and understand, all the people in her life that she destroyed!
I do not comment much, if at all but this was so totally mind boggling how she got away with so much and so long! You would think her "hoo hah" was lined in gold or something (sorry, just an old saying my granny would say). I'm so glad her gig is finally up and she was caught! I hope they are able to prove her guilty on Everything she's ever done. I pray it all comes to the light, it's been in the dark wayyy too long! My heart goes out to her children, her victims, the victim's families. I think I'm still in shock , like you really can't make this crap up! Thank you to the channel for the upload, this was one hella video, well done guys! Much Love from NC
First red flag is that she spent 20 years in the military. Most people have no idea how sick military culture is. Only the demoralized or extremely moral survive. The former seems to be more common!
Sarah has to be thee most relentless, conniving, & manipulative person I've heard about in a long time. The way she treated people in her life, even the ones closest to her, is incredible. & I don't mean that positively. Who needs enemies, when people like her exist. The amount of events that she was able to manipulate out of, & get away with is outstanding to me. All of the stalking & harassment, the alleged fires, the insane abuse towards her kids. Not to mention the many murders. I can't even begin to imagine what those poor children had to go through & endure. Thankfully the father ended up with custody of the younger kids. & he got away by the skin of his teeth, let's be honest! She is literally the epitome of what a black widow truly is. Too bad some people had to meet her, & lose their lives. My heart goes out to her children, & to anyone she affected due to run-ins with her. Especially the victims & their families.
Wow, I cant say I'm surprised that this narcissist didn't take responsibility for her crimes. I'm sure she'll play the victim again in trial but hopefully at least one of the investigations and trials result in a guilty verdict. An adulterer, child abuser, murderer and just an overall awful person. I'm glad she finally got caught.
*Please do not marry after knowing someone for three months* . It's usually around that time that the very first tiny cracks in a facade begin to show- IF you're lucky.
@@That_AboElHamd Victims? They are just blind cows for not seeing the evil in her eyes. Come on man, stop cuddling victims. People need to man up again and be strong, we are at our weakest in the history of humanity.
@@KiesStaminhono person willingly becomes a victim. They didn't ask for it. They cannot be blamed for her narcissism. They may not have known just how dangerous she was even if they knew she was "a bit off". She will have gaslit the bejesus out of them.
I just want to clear up something. My brother David was NEVER married to this monster. He was ready to leave her ass. He also was an impeccable shot, he would not have missed if her story even had a shred of truth.
I’m truly sorry for you & your family & friends loss. Your brother sounded like an incredibly, sweet person who didn’t deserve to be destroyed like this, murdered & then lied against. :(
Prayers of healing & community support for the survivors of Sarah’s terror. My deepest hopes & prayers are that her precious children recover from her abuse, understanding that they have control of their lives & futures. She can never harm them or others ever again.
Wow! What a case(s)🤯 … we almost need a timeline mapped out for us internet sleuths. So much information to keep up with, arsons, deaths, criminal damage to property, marriages, foster care, 4 abused children, ex-fiancés, etc. I hope there will be updates regarding this Narcissistic Black Widow on BE.
Totally. I mean what a friggin' viper. And they all fell in love immediately! I just imagine Jerry of Tom and Jerry floating in the air to the smell of the cheese.
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Yup, she knew how to manipulate them. It's hard to blame them, we all can be manipulated if someone hits the right notes. It's like it is with scams.
@@argentumsound I agree. I was dating a woman who I knew from college and was a media/Philomena model and broke into small parts in movies etc when we got older and we reconnected. Only I was still attracted to the version of her from 12 years before when she was far more real and had empathy and for the most part....a soul. What I wound up with was a horrific sociopath and I was stupid for not seeing that looks and a body didn't mean anything at that point. What was inside was so horrifying that I literally had to move away and hide my address due to the fact that she could not take that I ended the relationship and apparently you DO NOT do that to her. But I was foolish for not seeing the writing on the wall and not realizing that the person I dated 12 years earlier was way far gone. So I agree, she TOTALLY hit the right notes and was truly a scary person.
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Damn, that is TERRIFYING. You're so strong for actually fighting for yourself and ending it. Just out of curiosity - how long did it take you? I feel like testosterone helps with fighting for yourself a bit haha. Not diminishing your courage but I feel like men are more assertive and have way more chances throughout their life to learn how to use their anger/aggression effectively - to protect themselves. I wish to incorporate that in my personality and managed to do so (with better or worse effects) only after years of therapy. It is insanely freeing though. Anger isn't always bad. I feel it's harder for women since evolution seems to have equipped us with this kind of holy anger only towards people posing a danger to our infants/or anyone we wish to protect in a similar way. So whenever a man has a lot of anger, he goes and kills a bunch of people. And whenever woman does... well, you get THIS.
This all is so sad and infuriating, my sympathy to all the victim’s families. It’s even more sickening when I think about the fact that people like Sarah seem to absolutely thrive in prison. She’ll be running the place , wherever she is …… UNLESS she’s put in solitary confinement! Solitary is the only true punishment for a monster like Sarah. She’s a vampire , that will suck the life out of anyone and everyone around her. Confined all alone would be the only real justice, in my opinion.
Have to watch this one twice… can’t keep track of all the evil stuff she got away with. I have so many friends who walk around thinking people are generally good and this type of stuff doesn’t exist. It does.
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
She is broken beyond repair and she will always hurt the people she loves most in her life because they are pawns in her life for her to decide what to do with. With military precision she destroyed her family and killed all of her husbands. 😢 She is truly evil in every way possible. 😢
My favorite thing about your channel and what made the videos stand out was the intro song and the images in splashes of red. It was effectively eerie. That was always a great intro to set the mood
Black widow,thankfully she was finally caught. Condolences to family,friends of those victims that passed away.Hopefully someone is able to act on a class action suit against this monster.Very well produced channel.Thanks
as a type 1 diabetic i cannot watch this video. this is so heartbreaking. my husband is my lifeline and i couldnt get through diabetes everyday without him, especially when low. the fact that she took advantage of this absolutely wrecks me. he deserved so much love and support
I had a friend who was on his sixth marriage. Recently. We went out drinking and he started moaning about women. I just looked at him and said: "the only thing that has stayed exactly the same through all of your marriages is you".
He hasn't spoken to me since then.
Take responsibility for your actions and behaviors, people.
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Maybe he was complaining about this woman.
Ex-friend you mean, people don't like it when you hold a a mirror up their face. He probably never heard that line in his vicinity before. Good on ya.
Exactly! If you keep having the same problems 80% of the time it's yourself and nobody else. 😮. Seems like he lost some good women and definitely lost a great friend, because only good friends like that will tell you the truth no matter what because they want the best for you
Authorities: She was a brilliant manipulator.
Reality: She was incredibly sloppy and left mountains of evidence constantly, but the only thing more consistent than her taking no effort to hide her tracks was the mishandling of every incident.
100%! There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
Reminds me of Superbad: "He's the fastest kid alive!"
You do know there’s a difference between a manipulator and a detective?
@@milk11111 I get the feeling you don't know what you were trying to say.
Yeah, literally. She got caught every single time, she just faced no consequences. Maddening.
It’s disgusting that the police let her get away with murder, arson, child abuse & stalking for years.
Well she is a white woman 🤷♂️
She's a woman they always side with them. Simps
She was one of them. Army and police friendship.
Well..
All the policing cannot/will not solve human related issues..
Sarah is a person who ought to teach us more about manipulation till the next better manipulator shows up...
They are worthless when preventing crime
The number of times I heard no charges were filed is unbelievable 😒
She’s a women women are good at lying and deceiving often times when see doc s and women sadly be victim women be in comments screaming feminism how men are bad In Cases when it the women doing the gruesome actions it’s never said how women are to evil it’s a women world
White lady privilege.
shes a white independent woman.
If she was a man she would have be arrested for every single one
thats whites privilege right there.
Wait... so sis set a house on fire, her children are popping up with bruises, people are dying randomly around her and no one did anything? This is wild!
I hate to say this but it's because she's a cute white girl who served in the army. So the police immediately assumed she was sweet and innocent. She fooled those dumbass cops for so long.
She set a house on fire TWICE⁉️
@@JellyBeansMystreyMachineshe wasn’t even cute but yeah the rest applies
@@JellyBeansMystreyMachine of course when authorities fail its automatically because of race. Americans are called the most naïve people for a reason.
@@JellyBeansMystreyMachinetrue because they can’t BELIEVE THAT A CUTE WHITE DONT LOOK LIKE A KILLER it pathetic you not have to look like a devil to be a killer look at Shelia la Barrera Gentre
The failure of law enforcement to investigate and charge her early on is what allowed her to be brazen. She felt invincible. How evil do you have to be to be willing to burn your brother and his whole family.
She tried to kill her ex husbands wife, and the FBI knew about it and did nothing. I think it's because she was an intelligence analyst and had connections
im not even surprised anymore when law enforcement fails.
@@qwertyuiop-ke7fs100%! There is absolutely no other explanation. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
"There's no situation which cops can't make worse." Police incompetence and true crime are 2 peas in a pod.
@@qwertyuiop-ke7fs "Ding ! Ding ! Ding!"
So her husband is dying in hospital and she posts on facebook that it was his own fault? That should have rang alarm bells to start with.
Plus not letting his siblings attend his death. Whatever the state of relations between them that is unforgivable
There were a lot of things that should have rang alarm bells . . .
I've had to deal with someone similar and this doesn't surprise me at all... not only that but I'm sure at the time she had a lot of people close to him convinced of this also
@@LL-jt1xti just don’t understand why the spouse gets to decide these things. They were his blood, not some random people they knew
Ex military is the real red flag. They all learn convincing presentations with duplicitous foundations. The ability to strategize and kill is also bestowed on them.
Can we take a moment to give the biggest of praises to that RN who knew her job exceptionally well and alerted the police? That woman is a legend!
For sure!! ❤
No, she is not.
Legend is used far too much.
As a nurse myself I can say she's just doing her job
@@Catherine3296I agree! Icon and/or Iconic are also used far too often & generally without merit.
you're one of the few ive seen actually express condolences to the victims before telling their story, appreciate that
It rings a bit hollow, though. They make a lot of money from the millions of views and ads.
@@ScottGuitarHK It is definitely completely and utterly hollow. In countless videos, they have broadcast clips of people's most traumatizing moments, i.e. a mother wailing upon finding out her daughter was brutalized and murdered. Like, come on dude, you can tell the story without showing the clip of the worst day of someone's life. Great videos & coverage but the "condolences to the family" always leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
How was she able to get away with so much evil acts??? I assume her children were grateful that she lost custody but she should come with a warning sign!! Pure evil!!
Cuz she was thicc. Men..ugh
She was in the army so above the law.
It is mind-blowing how many of these cases are basically law enforcement failing constantly.
They aren't trained to recognize or treat people with narcissistic personality disorder / borderline personality disorder, etc.. I dated a woman like Sarah and went to jail because the stupid cops ALWAYS sided with her. Even when she went at me with a kitchen knife, slashing at me and slicing my shirt, the responding officers pointed their guns at ME and yelled at ME. It was insanity. Women like this, and the protection our law enforcement and society affords them, puts a lot of people in danger.
@@andycanhands6586correction: they aren't trained at all
@@GabeHorn699 true enough
Boo, hiss
@@andycanhands6586 you can thank the Deluth model for that.
Just her facebook post alone would have me pointing fingers at her immediately. "He didn't manage it" next one "Years of eating unhealthy, now his family pays the price". No grieving wife would ever say such things.
That was my first thought too! What awful disparaging things to say while your husband is in a coma!
Yep! If I saw a post like that I’d be looking sideways for sure!
Who the hell blames the person for being in a coma?! 😳
Exactly. Real recognizes real and those comments would raise eyebrows among real people
The FB comments were super off.
This! They infuriated me.
The ultimate Black Widow. Her son summed it up when he said he'd been waiting for this for a long time. I pray justice is served.
So sad how these men in abusive relationships dont even realize it and are too embarrassed to ask for help. This man was afraid he was going to die at the hands of his wife. Society needs to do better and realize that women are capable of being physically/mentally abusive and men need more support
in this case, they were pretty open about the fact that she was dangerous and they had to get out of there
Crazy women like her are scarier than Ted Bundy. Look up Liz Goylar.
*stalked a guy, David, she dated a couple of months. And her competition, Cari.
*killed Cari- assumed her identity ( being Cari, she stalked herself and David)
*so she burned her own house and killed the dog in it(🤬🤬)
*shot herself in the leg to blame it on David’s baby momma. (She didn’t want any women near him, she had a boyfriend btw)
*out of no where she moved and left David (the man she did this all for)
*finally an IT guy, detectives hire to look for an IP address. They knew she was the perpetrator not the victim.
*her back story like Sarah was that Liz killed her son Cody (8months) 😈and
blamed her bf (at the time, not the
child’s father). The boyfriend did 18 years and Liz was not indicted.
*they arrested Liz and sentenced to life for killing Cari.
meanwhile there are women out here who still preach 'All men are abusers/predators and we should believe ALL women' are you fckin kidding me!? These men died by the hands of an abusive psychopath and a master manipulator/liar who literally threatened to lie about being SA'd in order to get her way. Yah, I consider ppl who spout such nonsense to be the dumbest sample of our species.
This gotta be top 10 in wildest stories
Not even close
I wonder how many ppl she has killed
If even your own kids are saying you are guilty and are glad you got caught that truly says a lot about you.
Ummm… ok. Let me just say this as a Public Service Announcement. If someone is on their FIFTH marriage that’s a sign that something is seriously wrong with them. 4 previous spouses can’t all be unjustified in divorcing them so RUN 😅
Fact😅!!!
Very true!! And if they do nothing but bad mouth their ex’s…..RUN!
“No matter what, he has your back”. =. I create a ton of drama and you BETTER take my side.
Thats not true @ all your opinion is crazy 😂 lol now this lady is completely fucking crazy but my grandfather was married 4 times . He was only guilty of loving women nothing else 🎉
True there is such a thing as a common denominator!
They found a strangled child and the most plausible explanation to them was that he must have fallen down the stairs while the leash caught on to the railing. Done, case closed.
Massive yikes.
I mean law enforcement have made conclusions before that people tied themselves up and hung themselves on the balcony or tied themselves up and drowned themselves so... Massive yikes, yes.
yet people think detectives are smart.
That blew my mind. Unbelievable.
All that, combined with a mother who had "no emotional reaction," is 100% a case of child murder. But they'll say, "everyone deals with grief differently. 😙"
@@le_parsdon they are, just not these guys
Your channel I think is one of my all time favorites. I can tell you put more effort into your episodes than most, which tells me you like making premium content, not just content to make money, but because you love what you do. That speaks volumes. I watched another channel earlier today and it was just thrown together. Title wasn't even accurate. They probably didn't even check their work, just uploaded it for views. Your research and dedications shows, and for that you are one of the best on RUclips!!
I love the voice of this presenter... .such a lovely tone and without being overly dramatic and unnatural in his commentary....unlike the documentaries on the likes of 48 hours for instance where the reporters over dramatise the whole thing.....I have really become sick of them...
I think it's Russell Archey. He's excellent.
Beating a child so bad he's out of school for a week and NOTHING was done about her? She did so many horrible things and got away with it. I hope she rots in prison. What an evil person.
Thats just so wrong 😢😢😢😢 poor kid
I grew up in the 80's in a relatively small town, so times were very different. There are many hundreds of times growing up no one helped me, but one example was when I was 10, My mother in one of her "DID states" beat me so bad I missed almost a week of school. When the police finally showed up because the school became concerned, they looked at me, saw my black eyes and busted nose, and asked her what happened. She told them I swung at her and she KO'd me to teach me a lesson; just popped me right in the nose. She also claimed to have kept me home so no one would talk, as it was a private matter between her and I and she was protecting me from embarrassment. The cops told me I hope I learned to never put hands on my mom again, thanked my mom for her time, apologized for intruding, and left. They told the school they handled it and I would be back the following week.
Nothing being done happened quite a bit to a great many people, I am sure....
My ex wife is an ICU nurse at a large children’s hospital. She told me that Munchausen by proxy cases have gone up exponentially as a result of social media. It is crime that is incredibly difficult to prove without a confession. Sadly, even when these mothers are found guilty and convicted, they almost always receive ridiculously light sentences for the horrible crimes they committed against their own children.
I agree with you; she is pure evil and definitely seems to be completely void of compassion, empathy, or remorse.
@@Mordranethshe must’ve felt really powerful when she got away with that. How was your relationship after that and how is it now, if you don’t mind me asking
@@MordranethI’m so sorry that happened tonight you! Wtf!! How could any mom do that to their child. Hard times or not, there’s no need for that! I’m sorry 😢
Her 3rd husband is as guilty of abuse by keeping his mouth shut and not protecting his kids, "What happens in the housem stays in the house." That's b.s.😠
Truly disgusting.
I grew up with an abusive stepfather, and he always said “what happens between these four walls, stays in these four walls.” You can imagine nothing good happened in that house. The manipulation is real.
He was brainwashed by her too, but when it came to the abuse of the children and then sending to murder someone and it not happening cause the husband answered the door??? He should be in prison too!!
To be honest he had problems with her as well. The news station did a brilliant break down on this case and all her living ex's, their family, her family and kids. Told the whole story about her. Her mom stopped speaking to her once she lost custody of the kids because she knew they were safe 🙏🏾 but the mom said she had of way of manipulating her words and didn't wonder how she didn't get caught sooner 😅
Seeing the man laying there comatose, taking his last breaths, IN A HALLWAY , being videotaped 😮 That is so disrespectful on so many levels
Agreed. He deserved more respect and privacy 🥺
yeah, that was rough to see. poor man.
exactly what in the actual F**K?? especially knowing who that woman was the whole time and thats the last memory you have of them.. disgusting and repulsive. that should be illegal
Can I just say it’s probably not as bad as it looks? An organ donor is shown incredible respect for their final gift. When I worked at a hospital, we gathered to line the hallway to give our respects in their final journey.
@@marybird5940 thanks for sharing that. i was unaware.
The narcissism is DRIPPING off her. Absolute refusal of accountability.
She wasn't narcissist at all,she was full blown psychopath,the worst kind mixed with a little bit of sociopath
Well all psychos are narcissists but not the reverse.
@@victoriousjoy9338 Nah, the word is just a buzzword nowadays.
Hard to say because we aren't psychologists but her behaviour was psychopathic.
@@KiesStaminhoit's really not though
@mish375 it's obvious
Doesn’t say anything good when your own children hate you.
Every single person around her was just someone to use. And every one of them was used up and disposed off. She drove her own children away. The people who came into her orbit that survived to tell the tale are lucky as hell
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She was used, abused, and dumped off too. Not defending her, people typically just repeat cycles. But it’s definitely your job to see those patterns, work through them and not repeat them to hurt loved ones. I hope she rots in jail!
No matter what you are told, the ex is not always the crazy ones. It may be the ones telling you about the ex
Yesss if ALL their exes were crazy, it might actually be them that are gaslighters and make them out to be crazy
The person that talks negative about their ex is usually the toxic one
Insulin overdoses are particularly cruel. Often they cause seizures, and they are horrible.
I'm always suspicious of people who say they don't like drama or won't tolerate drama. It's been my experience the ones that say thar are the ones creating it.
It’s always good to try and verify. My boyfriend’s ex was found w a need!e in her arm, she had been stealing money, god only knows what else. Thankfully my bf and I have been friends for over a decade when we started dating, and got tested many times after she was escorted out of his house by the police when he found her passed out high, obvs bc hiv and hep is scary. And a year or so later we started dating, he told me all the crazy stories about her. And I already knew it was true bc we share a large friend group.
His baby momma, well I’ve gotten to see first hand how accurate he is about her trifling money grubbin a$$.
Anyone who has a child, pays no bills and lives an extravagant life thru her husband, yet needs to be paid more and more money just to watch her child any portion of the month (yet won’t buy the child clothes of his own, he wears his much younger brothers clothing when with his mother) or give him his own room in their huge house and he sleeps on a couch for years, is a truly awful person.
So sometimes it’s true what they say. But it’s always good to be speculative. And verify. I’m not above talking to the ex myself to get their side 😂 I am not taking chances with my time. Life is too short to waste on a lying ahole!!
I can’t believe the lack of consequences she faced in her life it’s absolutely insane
She a white women that was military, literally you can’t top that privilege
Can’t understand how so many different cops dropped the ball. Even the fire chief who saw she had poison ivy!? wtf!
Do background checks on your significant other for the love of god y’all
@@MoMo-cz3vrstop being racist and giving this horrible woman an excuse.
@whitedragoness23 stop being an enabler. People like *you* are the reason that Karens multiply
@@HeatherHolt They cover for eachother.
This should be made into a movie!
I got married once
Divorced once
Stayed single ever since.
Thank God
I was slow to catch on ....I married twice, divorced twice...that was it, Been single 34years..😊
@@meatavoreNanaBeing single or celibate is not easy when you are mentally ill.
It's a shame law enforcement can't be held as the same standards as the rest of us.
I would argue that the standards should be higher for law enforcement, but yeah, you are absolutely right.
Yes ! they take an oath, a legally binding one, but somehow they are covered in Teflon....
Exactly. And I don't know if you know much about being in the military, but as a veteran, I can 100% confirm that military members, especially enlisted, are ABSOLUTELY held to higher standards across the board, as compared to civilians. I don't see why law enforcement and politicians shouldn't be held at least to the standards of military members.@@ashleyobrien4937
AGREE! I recently saw cop videos where 2 guys were paralyzed from excessive force and one died. The other is living a rough life. So sick of LEO not being held accountable or doing their job to investigate!
@@ashleyobrien4937 Same as celebs. I just found out today that the principal from Ferris Bueller was arrested 4x for felony charges regarding SA on a minor. Community service all times.
I listen to a lot of true crime and haven't came across this case before so it was nice to see a new to story. With that being said this lady has to be one of the worse people I have come across, my mouth dropped more than once as I listened. Great work as always
“And now everyone who loved him was going to pay the price” ???? That’s what she chose to post while her husband was in a coma? Says a lot!
My 1000 comment! I have to catch up with all the videos I didn't saw (took a break from True crime) but I'm on it because this one of my fave channel with my fave voice narrator and fave legendary closing line.. stay safe and keep your eyes peeled you never know what's lurking... in the shadows!
Great update 👍
My favorite thing about your channel will always be that you remember and honor the victims in all your videos❤
Same. Every video I’ve watched he always says that at the start. Respect
Most channels do that.
So thankful he doesn’t say “thoughts and prayers” anymore
Yeah...wait, how is saying "thoughts and prayers" a bad thing? @@HeatherHolt
No@@bodhi5933
I had a supervisor who was on husband #3, she always tried to give me relationship advice and I would tell her ma’am you can’t even stay married long enough to give advice
What infuriates me about stories like this is that so many people let her get away with it. If someone would have stood up to her in any meaningful way, a ton of this could have been avoided.
People who are dead would still be alive if she'd been called to account when she did her first attempted murder
Narcissists are master manipulators..
@ccampbell7214 no they're not, maybe in rare cases but usually not.
Like who and how? Only law enforcement I can see.
Cowards
I just found "Beyond Evil", good first story!!!! Thanks!!!!!!
The incompetence of the investigators is unbelievable.
This is a first for me. I saw her picture in the thumbnail, and she looked sooooo familiar. I grew up and lived around Fort Hood, and I've actually met her! In those brief instances, she was friendly and nice, but I absolutely believe she's a psychopathic murderer. People in the military tend to have multiple marriages and crazy exes, but she definitely takes the cake! WOW 😳
It's just insane that I've actually met this lady!!!
Be glad you weren't actually close to her!
@@Flamsteretteexactly!! 😂
She’s a dang preying mantis
@@HeatherHolt For sure!
She's no lady.
Yes relationships do not last for service members. My GF left me while she was pregnant when I deployed to Afghanistan in 2008. Blamed me for not being there lol. Some people do not even deserve love.
I've seen and heard enough about crazy people but it beats my mind every time how evil people can be. This is really beyond evil and batshit crazy. Humans are the scariest of all creatures
I think of this often, lose whole days. The carnage humans have done is just beyond all evil.
You ever seen a polar bear?
@@sdraulitolito44 a polar bear don’t deceive u, u know exactly what the polar bear want so u are able to take precautions to avoid it, u can’t avoid manipulative lying, deceitful people who hide their intentions
@@GregoryScarpo you can if you are wise
@@GregoryScarpo yeah. They kill you no matter what.
This is wild. I'm only halfway through it and I've lost count of the deaths and fires etc. How did she keep up with it all? How exhausting!
And incompetent policing is somehow leading her to being called a "mastermind"
@le_parsdon I'm torn about that. I think she is intelligent however all the incompetence makes her appear that she is simply because she got away with it for so long. I think it was definitely more incompetence than any intelligence on her part, it wasn't hard to see what was going on so they really shouldn't have missed it for so long. Her life must have been a tangled nightmare!
I appreciate that you send condolences to the family and friends of the victims. Watching these crime stories we sometimes forget the bereaved
It infuriates me how she got away with so much. And my blood boils when I hear about the things children are made to experience.
I wish the Universe gave children only to those with good hearts and deprive evil ones.
I watch quite a few true crime channels, and I gotta say yours is one of the best. The production, narration and case coverage are **chef's kiss**
Except for all the typos. Typos drive me nuts! 😂 You’d think they’d have someone proofreading.
Married after 3 months, after 4 failed marriages??? Wtf!!? 🤷🏻♀️
don't hate the player,
hate the game.
Some people never learn, huh?
Gosh. So many people can’t even find ONE.
Hate? Who said anything about hate?🙄
@@kyriewestkanyeirving390😂
The fact that she actually was ALLOWED to keep on destroying lives shows how corrupt or indifferent or both, ALL relevant authorities are.
May the murdered ones rest in peace.
Stupid and incompetent might serve just as well in your analysis.
favouritism and leniency towards women. In similar crimes and situations women are generally sentenced to 60% shorter jail terms OR let off with probation.
@@muskokamike127not towards woman, towards her rank
They do even more for the men in army
@@muskokamike127 Be honest she had "White women sympathy" 🙄 I'm sorry but there was a similar situation with a black woman and they caught her while engaged to working her way to hubby #3 and she actually got the death penalty until it was overturned in her state 😂
Who else wants to write her a letter in prison saying how happy you are she’s there?
I would!
Hahahaha 😆
So shocked how many states she moved too with so many dumb cops falling for her victim trap. She must of used Yelp to find which state to go too. Also just Subscribed!!! Great vid.
The damage that humans can cause to others when their childhood is filled with abuse is so sad. Much love to all the people who experienced it yet broke the mould.
Thank you.☺️bow
Many people are abused and don't turn out like Sarah.
@@Zorobbabel Yes, that's what the person said. Reading comprehension.
I don’t know if this chick has been abused. Looks like she was born a sociopath
All this arson? How did she get away with this for so long? She's dangerous!
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
the laziness of local law enforcement.
This is the best episode I've watched on the channel so far. - Magnificent narration, script and production.
Great coverage of the case.
Okay, I have just started watching but it took 5 husbands before something seemed off.
Oh my gosh ! 2 fires, bruised and battered children, dead father and numerous restraining orders! How the hell !!! Unbelievable!!!
It only took 5 husbands to catch her ? Wow 😯 😂
Not sure what that implies. Only the last 2 were killed
@@samsunggalaxyj3prime889she should have been put away way before that with all the stalking & abuse.
@@samsunggalaxyj3prime889escalation
wow this is a kinda person you are happy to see off the street.thank you for another great one.
She is the kind of person who really shouldn’t be breathing anymore.
What an insane monster!! Glad she was finally charged and hope more charges will be forthcoming & that the victims and their families will get justice.
Anyhow, thanks for the upload!
A massive failure of law enforcement.
I find it strange that she said her deceased husband ate too much junk food and now "everyone who loved him was going to pay the price". She also said she lost her husband, "that I LOVED dearly". I find it strange that she put LOVED in past tense. My husband has been dead for almost 16 years and I don't say "I loved him" because I LOVE him. His death did not stop my love for him. But then, unlike Sarah, I didn't marry a half a dozen men and I wasn't responsible for my husband's death. I think Sarah is so incapable of love that she didn't find anything bizarre about what she said. The way she played with people and used people was horrendous even if she had never taken it to the final step of actually taking their lives. Who was it who said, "When someone tells you who they are...LISTEN" and I think we can say of Sarah, "When someone's CHILDREN tell you who she is...LISTEN". She is truly a horrible person and she richly deserves to spend the rest of her life behind bars.
Every officer and department that decided to say meh nah she's innocent, needs to be held accountable.
Or at least fully explain their decisions!!
or lack thereof
This is what it looks like when society is gassed for generations to see women as a graceful underclass held down by men, who shouldn't reasonably be expected to live to the same standards and expectations, while men are assumed to be the problem, and literally all systems are tilted away from applying reason and accountability equally to women.
Hear hear
They werent helping her they just werent good detectives.
I love that sentence" What happens in the house stays at the house." I grew up tyranised by an authoritarianism in our home. The day my parents divorced was the day I finally could breathe... Couldn't have been happier.
I never used that phrase and it's not always Im too happy about that, but it does put the responsibility back in your court to acknowledge the wrongs you did. And I honestly can think of anything better than holding a mirror up to your own bad behaviour.
Never heard the phrase used that way till this video. It's usually "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas."
Sadly this is common practice in many abusive households. So many awful things happen behind closed doors even our neighbors aren’t beyond reproach.
@@loveforeignaccents In Poland it was usually used when husband's were beating up their wives. Tells you all you need to know about what it means.
@@HeatherHolt My mother has thrown me out of the house because she was mad at me for something, can't even remember what, and I finally, after seating on stairs for 10 minutes mustered up enough courage to express my anger (all this happened not long ago, I'm a grown woman) and I banged on a door for her to let me back in. We live in a block. She ushered me in with a hushed voice and told me I'm "humiliating her" and then hasn't talked to me for a week. Abusers are just something else man.
If someone abuses you, then tries to cuddle up and be sweet…. Don’t walk, RUN…. Trust me. If you see someone doing like this with their kids, be aware. It may be something simple like a momentary loss of control. However if it is happening over and over again… different story…
What if the kid or parent is too afraid to TeLL🤷🏾♂️
As the child of a father clinically diagnosed with ASPD (sociopathy), I can tell you it was customary for him to make us sit on his lap and give HIM affection directly after very severe beatings. It’s the ultimate form of control to force a victim to shower their abuser with affection directly after abuse. The abuser experiences double the power because they get to force their will on victims twice, while causing maximum psychological pain. The abuser is also eliminating any chance for the victim to bring up a grievance, because even manipulated or forced affection eliminates the minds concept of actual wrongdoing. That makes it impossible for the victim to vocalize their feelings about the recent abuse because the abuser had changed the entire situation so abruptly. This type of manipulation ensures victim is made to feel that they are the guilty party because they are unloving, petty and vengeful.
@@emilycarter2492 I had similar experiences with several adults in my family growing up. I think it was a behavior that was passed down, learned as the “norm” for how to treat kids.
It’s sad that things like this exist. The more we make people aware, the more we can help break the cycle.
This story is frighteningly reminiscent of the experiences I once had with just such a woman. I too feel lucky to still be alive.
No one ever questioned why all these people were dying around her? Nice detective work
I am so tired of states not sharing info. No one gets this many unfounded accusations. Wish we had more investigators to look into these things.
Yeah, just one simple database like every other country will help xD. USA tends to act like they are the best but just some of you policies are so brainless. No free healthcare and justice system is a clown show.
That's why you FUND the police. And then CONTROL the police to do what they were sworn to do.
How Cruel is it to deny his Siblings a chance to say good bye?? Heartless!🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
Narcissists are not empathetic whatsoever.
I mean, she was cruel enough to kill their brother. And since no one would punish her, she didn't have to play nice.
But his wife of 2 months clearly is much more important to him
Black widow is what she is!
This story was so convoluted, but thanks for making it make sense and keep it so we can follow and understand, all the people in her life that she destroyed!
I do not comment much, if at all but this was so totally mind boggling how she got away with so much and so long! You would think her "hoo hah" was lined in gold or something (sorry, just an old saying my granny would say). I'm so glad her gig is finally up and she was caught! I hope they are able to prove her guilty on Everything she's ever done. I pray it all comes to the light, it's been in the dark wayyy too long! My heart goes out to her children, her victims, the victim's families. I think I'm still in shock , like you really can't make this crap up! Thank you to the channel for the upload, this was one hella video, well done guys! Much Love from NC
First red flag is that she spent 20 years in the military. Most people have no idea how sick military culture is. Only the demoralized or extremely moral survive. The former seems to be more common!
What about officers? That's obviously a career.
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Sarah has to be thee most relentless, conniving, & manipulative person I've heard about in a long time. The way she treated people in her life, even the ones closest to her, is incredible. & I don't mean that positively. Who needs enemies, when people like her exist.
The amount of events that she was able to manipulate out of, & get away with is outstanding to me. All of the stalking & harassment, the alleged fires, the insane abuse towards her kids. Not to mention the many murders.
I can't even begin to imagine what those poor children had to go through & endure. Thankfully the father ended up with custody of the younger kids. & he got away by the skin of his teeth, let's be honest!
She is literally the epitome of what a black widow truly is. Too bad some people had to meet her, & lose their lives. My heart goes out to her children, & to anyone she affected due to run-ins with her. Especially the victims & their families.
Wow, I cant say I'm surprised that this narcissist didn't take responsibility for her crimes. I'm sure she'll play the victim again in trial but hopefully at least one of the investigations and trials result in a guilty verdict. An adulterer, child abuser, murderer and just an overall awful person. I'm glad she finally got caught.
*Please do not marry after knowing someone for three months* .
It's usually around that time that the very first tiny cracks in a facade begin to show- IF you're lucky.
If she was a narcissist, the gaslighting must have been wild. I truly these men were abuse victims.
@@That_AboElHamd Victims? They are just blind cows for not seeing the evil in her eyes. Come on man, stop cuddling victims. People need to man up again and be strong, we are at our weakest in the history of humanity.
@@KiesStaminhono person willingly becomes a victim. They didn't ask for it. They cannot be blamed for her narcissism. They may not have known just how dangerous she was even if they knew she was "a bit off". She will have gaslit the bejesus out of them.
You can only hide the crazy for so long.
Exactly!!!
I just want to clear up something. My brother David was NEVER married to this monster. He was ready to leave her ass. He also was an impeccable shot, he would not have missed if her story even had a shred of truth.
How did she end up with the farmhouse to sell it?
I’m truly sorry for you & your family & friends loss. Your brother sounded like an incredibly, sweet person who didn’t deserve to be destroyed like this, murdered & then lied against. :(
What a maddening story... my God.
Sadly, I met a couple of women in the military that fit this description and questions were always hovering over their personal lives.
It took five husbands before anyone became suspicious?
They were too stupid.
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This isn't the Raven, LOL.
The incompetence of police....Imagine she was put/given bond...lolol..🙂
@@loveforeignaccentsOh. It sounds like him, who is it?
This woman - what a piece of work! Beyond Evil, can you tell a story, thank you. Stay safe.
Prayers of healing & community support for the survivors of Sarah’s terror.
My deepest hopes & prayers are that her precious children recover from her abuse, understanding that they have control of their lives & futures. She can never harm them or others ever again.
She sounds exactly like my mom. Haven't spoken to her since I turned 18. Best choice of my life
Wow! What a case(s)🤯 … we almost need a timeline mapped out for us internet sleuths. So much information to keep up with, arsons, deaths, criminal damage to property, marriages, foster care, 4 abused children, ex-fiancés, etc.
I hope there will be updates regarding this Narcissistic Black Widow on BE.
A time-line would be great! Lotta writing..
This story is crazy!! I feel bad for these men. She’s a psychopath
Totally. I mean what a friggin' viper. And they all fell in love immediately! I just imagine Jerry of Tom and Jerry floating in the air to the smell of the cheese.
She's not even the least bit attractive, is crazy as hell...yet got all these men under her spell?! Strange...
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Yup, she knew how to manipulate them. It's hard to blame them, we all can be manipulated if someone hits the right notes. It's like it is with scams.
@@argentumsound I agree. I was dating a woman who I knew from college and was a media/Philomena model and broke into small parts in movies etc when we got older and we reconnected. Only I was still attracted to the version of her from 12 years before when she was far more real and had empathy and for the most part....a soul. What I wound up with was a horrific sociopath and I was stupid for not seeing that looks and a body didn't mean anything at that point. What was inside was so horrifying that I literally had to move away and hide my address due to the fact that she could not take that I ended the relationship and apparently you DO NOT do that to her. But I was foolish for not seeing the writing on the wall and not realizing that the person I dated 12 years earlier was way far gone. So I agree, she TOTALLY hit the right notes and was truly a scary person.
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Damn, that is TERRIFYING. You're so strong for actually fighting for yourself and ending it. Just out of curiosity - how long did it take you?
I feel like testosterone helps with fighting for yourself a bit haha. Not diminishing your courage but I feel like men are more assertive and have way more chances throughout their life to learn how to use their anger/aggression effectively - to protect themselves.
I wish to incorporate that in my personality and managed to do so (with better or worse effects) only after years of therapy. It is insanely freeing though. Anger isn't always bad. I feel it's harder for women since evolution seems to have equipped us with this kind of holy anger only towards people posing a danger to our infants/or anyone we wish to protect in a similar way.
So whenever a man has a lot of anger, he goes and kills a bunch of people. And whenever woman does... well, you get THIS.
This all is so sad and infuriating, my sympathy to all the victim’s families.
It’s even more sickening when I think about the fact that people like Sarah seem to absolutely thrive in prison. She’ll be running the place , wherever she is …… UNLESS she’s put in solitary confinement! Solitary is the only true punishment for a monster like Sarah. She’s a vampire , that will suck the life out of anyone and everyone around her. Confined all alone would be the only real justice, in my opinion.
Yes!!!
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This whole thing is mind-blowing
Have to watch this one twice… can’t keep track of all the evil stuff she got away with. I have so many friends who walk around thinking people are generally good and this type of stuff doesn’t exist. It does.
I been in mental health my entire career. This woman by far is the most narcissistic person i have ever heard about.
Dark triad. She’s psychotic first and foremost.
Can you further elaborate?
BEYOND EVIL- I love narrators voice, but especially the total respect you tell the stories and pay homage to all victims
For someone connected to so many house fires those fire marshalls need to sharpen their detective skills.
No, they need to be fired
@@sobrietywig2970most definitely need a new career path
Wow! Sarah is crazy unlucky. She should write a book!
So when she lost her looks, they finally stopped believing her.
law enforcement was lazy af everywhere this lady went 😭
I was thinking the same thing.
Complete clowns thru the whole thing
Medical staff too
Makes u wonder what kind of government clearances she had
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
She is broken beyond repair and she will always hurt the people she loves most in her life because they are pawns in her life for her to decide what to do with. With military precision she destroyed her family and killed all of her husbands. 😢 She is truly evil in every way possible. 😢
My favorite thing about your channel and what made the videos stand out was the intro song and the images in splashes of red. It was effectively eerie. That was always a great intro to set the mood
Black widow,thankfully she was finally caught. Condolences to family,friends of those victims that passed away.Hopefully someone is able to act on a class action suit against this monster.Very well produced channel.Thanks
I LOVE that her son is so pleased!!
I remember being here when this was a new channel under a different name. Well done! I love when you post new videos!
This woman is a monster!
it is so scary these monsters walk amongst us. how can she possible say she loved anyone she had ZERO CLUE what love is.
Bravo to the sharp ICU nurse that picked up on signs of the insulin overdose.
as a type 1 diabetic i cannot watch this video. this is so heartbreaking. my husband is my lifeline and i couldnt get through diabetes everyday without him, especially when low. the fact that she took advantage of this absolutely wrecks me. he deserved so much love and support
When someone gets away with so much, your trust in the system should be reconsidered.