Cold Approach For Introverts & Low Energy Guys

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    I coach ambitious Entrepreneurs & driven Young Professionals to meet high-quality women who support their goals and vision, in casual daytime environments.
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    I started out when I was 19 years old working as a trainee Applied Behavioral Analyst, working with students at Universities in the UK with a variety of learning differences: ASDs, ADHD, ADD, and Generalized Anxiety Disorders. I learned how to write syllabus and create structured improvement in the lives of my clients, before applying my knowledge of applied behavioral change to neuro-typical Men.
    By the age of 23, I was in high demand and had worked with many of the world's top Dating Coaching companies. I soon realized that talking to girls in the daytime had greater benefits to the individual than dates and relationships with amazing women, but on a personal level it could be integrated mindfully in to anyone's daily lifestyle, to increase their confidence, social skills, self-esteem, and energy levels.
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Комментарии • 41

  • @Dan-bz8zh
    @Dan-bz8zh 2 года назад +25

    I love how Sam is just social with everyone. I think a lot of us who start day game cold approach focus on getting girls' numbers and turn this into a kind of mechanical thing. He's okay not getting numbers. He's okay just going up to someone and telling someone he likes his shoes. It's just about becoming a social guy. Which really just makes the world a better place, in a small way.

  • @imtrying7262
    @imtrying7262 2 года назад +6

    I love you guys. Super respectful, really encouraging, and very informative! I wish other channel can be as respectful to women as you guys are. You guys don't afraid to show how sometime not every girl is going to say yes to you, very realistic and straight to the point! no fancy hard to follow quick witty lines, you guys keep it simple and easy to follow. This definitely give me a lot more courage and i really just want to say you guys are awesome! Love you guys.

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  2 года назад +2

      Keep going brother, you’ve got what it takes

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 2 года назад +2

    Thank God one man in the world is showing us that dating apps suck

    • @mindsetmotivation9124
      @mindsetmotivation9124 2 года назад

      @joy montana Maybe but you can't worry about what they were doing before you approached them that is their problem not yours.

  • @MR27e
    @MR27e 2 года назад +2

    Yeah I feel more relaxed when you throw the rule book out of the window (well most of it anyway, some of it is very good and valid). You actually get to 'be yourself' in the best way possible where you have the IDGAF attitude anymore.
    For example, group sets and 2 sets (fucking cringe terms, I've grown out of that lol), I've come to realise that if you are just normal, cool and most importantly polite, the friend/friends make it easy for you. How to manage groups is just very basic social skills (acknowledging the group when needed, but being direct and mainly talking with the girl you like) and not putting pressure to be the funny guy.
    Also my verbals are more relaxed, and when you don't worry about saying fancy pickup techniques and gamey shit, girls actually respond BETTER. Contrary to popular pua belief. So when someone in the comments say that, "oh shouldn't ask if a girl is single or if she has a bf" or "you should not compliment or be nice to a hot girl because it gives your power away, she's been complimented too many times" (give specific compliments instead to counter that). Girls when why you are talking to her even when going 'indirect', so no point trying to be MR 'play hard to get'.
    It just shows that guys are still stuck in that theoretician nonsense, which is one of the criticisms of game in the first place (tarring ALL women with the same brush). By the way, negging is bs, playfull teasing where the girl knows you're joking fine, but other than that girls do like a nice guy but has boundaries.
    Final thing to say is that women do NOT hate you, they are biologically programmed and hard wired to like confident men, period. Girls that only like toxic badboys, that's their issue and don't let them deter you from women in general. Girls are on your side and they are rooting for you to do the right things in the right way.

    • @kellykcombination
      @kellykcombination Год назад

      This 100%. Glad someone else put this out there. I agree. It allows you to move out of PUAism where you're constantly trying to monitor and increase value and just focus on enjoying your and the girl.

  • @dany_84
    @dany_84 2 года назад +2

    In Italy I follow coaches like you in seduction schools who talk about the cold approach etc etc ... I like your style, your approach is the right one that they teach here too, direct, self-confident etc etc ... continue to posting videos on daytime approaches are great !! 😎👍🏻

    • @whipshaw
      @whipshaw Год назад

      tell me, are the italian girls receptive to daygame? how is it there in your beautiful country?

  • @smoothbrain9779
    @smoothbrain9779 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for posting these videos.
    I’m in my senior year of college and have not been nearly as social as I could have been
    but this footage has really inspired me to introduce myself to people.
    It’s the second day of school and I have already introduced myself and made plans with 2 girls on campus.
    Everything in my body was conditioned against it but I felt so high on life afterwards.
    Who knows if the plans will actually come to fruition, but it’s the overcoming of personal limits that truly matters.
    Thanks again.

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад

      Hope you’re still killing it my friend 💪🏼

  • @blixx87
    @blixx87 2 года назад

    love these real life examples , everyone else just talks and tells u what to do

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks G - happy to help you out if you wanna book a call in on me 👌🏼

  • @johnnyd2222
    @johnnyd2222 Год назад

    Powering yourself up by communicating to others! I like that Social Momenntum! Thanks

  • @ericpiralla
    @ericpiralla 11 месяцев назад

    You're the reason why I found the courage to cold approach in rl

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад +1

      Legend. Book a call and I’ll help you conquer the next steps Eric!!

    • @ericpiralla
      @ericpiralla 11 месяцев назад

      @@FluidSocial I've got ond result but i want more

  • @LukeSpurgeon.
    @LukeSpurgeon. Год назад

    Gentleman game in action. I like this guy.

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад

      Let’s go bro!! How’s it going for you?

  • @bpsp5821
    @bpsp5821 2 года назад +3

    Your never supposed to ask if she has a bf. That is a woman's go to excuse when she is in a hurry. She could easily not have a boyfriend and say she does so why ask her.

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  2 года назад +3

      There are no rules fam. Relax. It’s not black and white. Ask what you want. Experiment. Don’t judge yourself. Don’t take ‘doing well’ to seriously. Do what you want, be how you feel. Learn slowly.

    • @rauln9273
      @rauln9273 2 года назад

      Well, true and not, it depends on... Some girls tell You that or imply Even without You asking because they just want u to be aware not to reject

  • @johnnyd2222
    @johnnyd2222 Год назад

    Nice Video Sam I’m happy that I’m back in the loop of getting them!

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад

      Good man! Let me know if I can help, book a call if you want

  • @tocccapotato7229
    @tocccapotato7229 2 года назад +1

    Thx dude , this helps . Cheers

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 2 года назад +2

    Bravo 👏 👏 👏

  • @anonymousgara8415
    @anonymousgara8415 2 года назад

    Thank you and God bless...

  • @Jaggudada0666
    @Jaggudada0666 2 года назад +1

    Awesome

  • @giovannipastore5707
    @giovannipastore5707 2 года назад +9

    Allow me to make just one observation.
    What exactly is the reason for giving a validation x5 times higher than reality to an absolutely average girl? I'm referring to the last pink girl. She had a 15€ dress (not even that trendy) and was slightly over her ideal weight. On the contrary, you were absolutely flawless.
    Isn't this perhaps a case similar to the ones discussed over and over again about the boom in (easy) online validations that even average girls receive, with no particular characteristics?
    Don't take me literally about the value of the dress (of which we don't care) etc ... Let's talk about the basic concept.
    Maybe I'm wrong, but I would never dream of stopping a 6 and giving her such a "prize" because that triggers a cascade mechanism. Just as an example: she was a 6 and you were somewhere between 8.5 and 9. After that approach she might feel entitled to reject any 6.5 / 7 / 7.5 / 8 because she got a way too high validation from a seemingly (she don't know you) high-status guy.
    And even if I stopped a 6 I would do it only as a warm-up but absolutely without giving her undeserved compliments especially on the way she looks when I know she is average!

  • @claude878878
    @claude878878 2 года назад +1

    i can tell within the first 3 secs of the approach if he will get the girl or not. It's all in the body language and how they talk. I knew the 1st girl was saying she had a BF and i can tell the 2nd girl gave the #, but was not comfortable at all. She ran out fast after he said bye. Wouldn't it be easier to first make both ur eyes meet with some eye contact, so u at least know she likes u, and she's noticed u, then go up.. Doesn't' going up cold to them like that make them nervous that a stranger is approaching them. just my 2 cents.

    • @timd3469
      @timd3469 2 года назад

      I don't think it's about success. It's about being more social so that we are not nervous talking to strangers.
      Plus failure & rejection can help us grow.

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  2 года назад +1

      Tim D for the W

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 2 года назад +2

    Sam where did you get that suit?

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 2 года назад +2

    And how men should meet women

  • @garrett235
    @garrett235 2 года назад

    Damn everyone’s getting used to the real world again. The UK is Fd. I’ve been back to normal since the start

    • @FluidSocial
      @FluidSocial  11 месяцев назад

      How’s it going for you now man?

  • @ifeelhalfnaked484
    @ifeelhalfnaked484 2 года назад

    you can say we can still be friends after she said she has a bf, you don't need to auto reject yourself unless if she's married