How to start a Flirty Conversation if you’re Shy & Introvert!
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I coach ambitious Entrepreneurs & driven Young Professionals to meet high-quality women who support their goals and vision, in casual daytime environments.
I have helped 1000+ men to meet amazing women who support them and their vision & build networks of hungry and inspiring friends and associates.
I started out when I was 19 years old working as a trainee Applied Behavioral Analyst, working with students at Universities in the UK with a variety of learning differences: ASDs, ADHD, ADD, and Generalized Anxiety Disorders. I learned how to write syllabus and create structured improvement in the lives of my clients, before applying my knowledge of applied behavioral change to neuro-typical Men.
By the age of 23, I was in high demand and had worked with many of the world's top Dating Coaching companies. I soon realized that talking to girls in the daytime had greater benefits to the individual than dates and relationships with amazing women, but on a personal level it could be integrated mindfully in to anyone's daily lifestyle, to increase their confidence, social skills, self-esteem, and energy levels.
Now I work with high-achievers all over the globe, coaching them to have A) the dating life of their dreams, and B) a solid tribe of guys to motivate, support, and push them forward, whilst remaining mindful in balancing their health + finances with new-found social freedom!
I created Fluid Social with the mission to teach the ambitious men how to meet their ideal women and form unshakeable networks.
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Such a fun interaction. And a perfect showcase of how two people can be us vs the world. Thanks goodness I found this corner of the internet years ago. Great to come back every now and then and see at least channels like this keeping things alive.
7:00 LOL you got super lucky she rescued you from that grandma who was a bit too interested in you.
Yes, I was seeding the movement buy pointing to the mushroom house and bringing focus back to her. But she took the lead in a lovely manner, you're right!
nice Sam. congrats!!
The English accent enchanted her already, it was already win-win, but I must admit that your ability to improvise and talk about the “milieu” (not her group dynamic in this case), was very well done. I will like to think that my limited pseudo knowledge of ‘Alice in wonderland’ and psychoanalysis will come in handy, but the self awareness of my BS, will get in the way. Again, very well done, and I acknowledge it has taken years to get here. Your potential clients should know that no amount of coaching will suffice until they crash and burn several times, before talking, chatting or flirting becomes a smooth ride.
It's not just the accent. It's the indicators of intellect & intelligence. She was not actually very interested in the first 10-20 seconds, and that is all the time you get before she decides if you're worth it or not. What I did do well was read quickly that she is smart/values intellect, and adapt the conversation towards the creative/mysterious/intellectual realm. With this accent, my looks, my style, but dumb/basic conversation, she would not have reacted like this. It's nuanced, my friend
@@FluidSocialbasically just be more sophisticated with the words and delivery when you assume the target is matured and educated looking?
I think in general a good game is cater to people needs and demonstrate as authentic as possible so that they like you. I will say people will misinterpret this as manipulation
it actually good to see that theres areas there that arent so crazy,. and she seems like the perfect balance of nice but fun. not the sort i would of imagned to be around, goes to show :) this was a great one!!
So true
Great improvisation skills side note you look like the Bond villain in no time to die
Stunning beautiful Gal! And one of the best camera work results infield I seen so far. You´re the most charming Small Talker I´ve seen. How can You stay so calm in the presence of a woman that beautiful. I´m past the first steps a while ago, but I tend to get get offensive quicker in that circumstances can´t help myself. (Also lacking these stellar skills of course)
Thanks for the feedback brother, the cameraman was a high-level professional, so I'm glad it paid off! The audio was also good, and the woman was extremely sweet and smart and feminine, so if course that helps, too. Some is always about 'luck' (right place & right time / right woman) but if you get enough tickets and find the best times to buy you will, eventually, win the lottery (over and over again)
@@FluidSocial It was a very well done showcase of emotional intelligence. Like a theatre play. I doubt I have the potential for that and compared im like a wooden hammer, which sometimes still is enough. 😂
Hey Sam glad to see you being consistent and upgrading massively your work!
After working with Sam in the past for some years here is my best advice to anyone:
Figure yourself out, build yourself out first. Understand your emotions first. Understand that whatever NOs you get in life are pathways to getting you to YESes. Its more of a journey towards yourself than you might think its about socializing with others.
Whatever goal you have in terms of dating, have your fun, but in time you might consider the quality of those connections and how are cherishing and improving your life and others.
Thanks Claudiu. I believe that each journey comes in its own time. Sometimes we seek outwardly, and that leads us inward (I believe this was the case for you). Without first seeking the outward path (cold approach) we may not find the inward path (self actualisation). Hope you’re doing great brother
Each day, each training, each session, each interaction, each cold approach was and is meaningful
Whatever one is seeking is right for them to do what they feel at that time and receive guidance! The path is very different for each as we are all unique. Whatever one needs make it fun! :) Don't be hard on yourself. I kept saying to myself 100 years from now we'll all be dust and nothing will matter anyway, the only person remember anything of your life is just you. Absolutely deep psychology and it's easy to say it but not fully understand it. Do you want psychology first hand? go approach people! :)
I had tons of fun working with Sam and if you are reading this, he is a good guy see if its right fit for what you need, he was for me!
I believe we had over 50 interactions together throughout our coaching time one of the best times of my life
Thank you!@@FluidSocial
Always welcome @@craciunlabs
Pure Romance. Quality video bro (applause)
Thank you G 🤙🏼
Very nice 👍🏼
She was very nice, indeed 🙂
Great video. I like your dress sense. Simple and effective. Maybe a video of certain outfits that everyone should wear.
I have done already my friend! Have a look back on the channel. The same clothes on different people look vastly different. I'm in very good (muscular / athletic) shape, and so it means that most fitted clothes look good on me. If I were skinny/skinny-fat it would not look good. Upgrading your avatar is much more important than stylistic hacks/details, though they are worth focusing on once you're in good shape 👍
@FluidSocial will do my friend👌🏾I'm just a lazy shopper lol keep up the good content. Heading to Brazil in march. Your vids have helped a ton (and the cheatsheet).
Get in touch about Rio man, I can help you prepare your trip 👌🏼
@@FluidSocial , great job, and thanks for the video with Deepak. Can you plz tell me which brand/model shirt are you wearing here (the black vegas one I mean) thank you!
Mahh boyyy
My guy!!!
imma be real. talking to someone in english would make it much easier for me than in german xd
Do it!!!
vegas?
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Two thumbs up to you too, sir
I just wanna be able to do it in England
So do it in England! I've done it many times (100s) in England. Just make sure you are not blaming the country/city based on hearsay & personal resistance alone and that you first test the waters before assuming they are rancid!
Lots of personal resistance. It seems so hard wired
@@Bloody_alchemy The more difficult to overcome, the sweeter the overcoming
Definitely I'll never give up lots of demons. I'm taking steps in various areas
well, that was a yes girl :D
But is that a problem? Like what are you expecting? The whole point is that you’re working so that sometimes the right place & time comes and you’re ready for it..
ah no sorry i guess that soudned wrong, totally agree, got to be in it to win it, and it was without a doubt down to your cofidence she was responding as well as she was. - it feels VERY rare you find a girl so open /fun /feminine in UK! @@FluidSocial
There is nothing wrong with that. Without approaching, you would never meet these yes girls
Very good video but I have a question to ask, what do you think about the concept of just be white aka JBW, I hear about it a lot in black pill spaces. It is the concept that being a caucasian man actually widens your dating pool and puts you above all other ethnic men, do you think it is a real thing or it's not real. Just curious and people in the comment section can contribute their answers to this as well
It's provably not true, and even if it were, it would still be self-destructive to believe or consider. Only consider what serves you and your ability to do good. Anything else is born of cowardice & self hatred.
Can’t hear it clearly.. did said she’s not completely single at the end?
No she said she is
holy cow what a smokeshow, i hope you closed
nice holding on to the pressure when the queen was leading the conversation. Your main target seems uninterested at fjrst