Great video! As a Londoner, I recognise all the locations. I have walked on those streets and roads, I know it’s a good place to meet women if you have the courage. Even the girl next to Green Park Station acknowledged and recognised your boldness. My point is that it is NOT as EASY to approach a stranger as when swiping on dating apps. Yes, on the streets, it is an instant connection and possibly rejection. I’ll like to actually see hidden videos of your clients or students and their progression. Watching you is amazing, but what we see is what has taken years to perfect. Let’s see the imperfect protégés in development and marvel at what could be possible, but not that easy.
Nonsense, it doesn‘t take years of perfection and no pickup artistry, because a woman wants to see what you’re truly made of, not a clown. You have to step into your fears just often enough to form a habit. It‘s like going to the gym, the first couple of times you gotta get over it and go, until it is a learned mechanism and you wouldn‘t feel good without doing it anymore.
@@firsthelix6726 Naturally, you speak from experience; equating gym with approaching women! “Approach” is the term I used, I did not state anything about “pick up artistry”. I think you’re projecting here and coming off with a condescending negative vibe. The comment was directed at Sam and he humbly and graciously replied. Even Sam has acknowledged several times in his videos that it took him a few years to get where he is at.
@@AmosArdent-zx6jj You are reading too much into this and overthink things. To form a new habit requires 90 days of consecutive hard work, that’s all you really need! It’s only natural that you get better at it over time. The negative vibe lays in your own language and limiting believes, like „it‘s not easy“, and wanting to see progress of protégés, when all you really need is to practice shit by yourself!!
@@firsthelix6726 Please find someone else to lecture. I did not solicit your advice or made any statement in regards to any comments you directed at Sam. Again, Sam’s whose content I commented on, who the comment was directed at, was kind enough to reply to me. I don’t know what your issue is and why you feel the need to take issue with what I wrote. Have a nice day.
congrats Sam, that first approach was really good! MUCH more grounded and chill than I've seen you before. I thought it went great until the very end. I would totally NOT do that try-hard double kiss at the end. that just came off as almost desperate. but HEY we all do dumb shit once in a while.. but I would try to stop that though.
There was no try-hard in any of that interaction, it was grounded and chill, that’s how I felt, and how she felt, which isn’t always the case of course. It depends on many factors. In terms of your dictates which are masquerading as advice, what value do you imagine they have to me ? Do you think you can tell me something I haven’t already heard or don’t already know with regard to cold approach/ social skills? Where are your credentials/receipts which give you any credibility to act as the authority on such matters?
@@FluidSocial Right now I have a girlfriend and that's why I don't approach girls which I think is fine, but it makes me feel confident that you never know if someone may have a very good impression of you when you approach them
Kudos from America. 🇺🇸 Agreed that cold approaching is vastly superior to setting up a meet up online. 💪🏼👍🏼😎 Also, with the advice towards the end where you were looking at your phone, I can tell that you understand womanese.
Women in London have a bad experience with dating in general.. there is a lack of men that take action and come to you to speak or get your number unless they are drunk 😅
porque às vezes quando eu abordo uma mulher igual você geralmente faz ("gostei de você etc"), a reação da mulher é tipo como se ela tivesse achando estranho ou confusa? como se ela não tivesse entendido que eu simplesmente estou ali pq gostei dela e tenho vontade de conversar com ela, olhar pra ela, sentir ela etc. nas suas abordagens é tudo tão "smooth", a mulher já reage tão naturalmente ao que você diz...
Sir I wanted to ask you regarding getting a gf. I just turned 21 and never had a gf. I have tried approaching woman and using online dating but, I think they don't like me. I have started using prostitutes as I think they are never going to like me and somehow my sister came to know and ahe is now furious. I don't know what to do. Pls help
Just try what he is doing, I just turned 22 and am in the same situation as you, gonna try cold approach, not my favourite choice but gotta do something.
Do you also think that a common a beginner/uninitiated level problem is to be unable to recognise cues of attraction from a woman to a man, and instead think that a man must say certain/specific things for a woman to be attracted?
Ok so I’m a woman and a recipient of the cold approach. This has happened to me quite a few times in London and it feels intimidating, threatening and awkward. Most women automatically assume that there is something suspect about a guy that comes at them with “I just saw you and HAD to run over!” as this is always the opening line of cold approach PUA and it immediately says “I’m practicing cold approach skills and you’re not the only woman I’ve done this to/ will do this to.” It also says “I’ve clocked that you’re on your own and potentially vulnerable.” Seriously guys, if you want to talk to a girl IRL then you wanna at least get some kind of clue from her that she’s seen you and that it’s ok to go over eg- eye contact, a smile, something.
Thanks for commenting! I agree, it’s much better when there is at least some indication that she is available / intereted. Problem is, no one looks up any more, everyone is nervous (men and women). Men are nervous of being threatening or creepy, women are under so much pressure and (I believe) encouraged to be scared of men, and yet 70%+ of women want the man to make the first move.. so, what to do? Women don’t often give guys signs of interest, because women are anxious too! My hope is that, even at the risk of sometimes creating discomfort, this practise makes men more confident, and gives women better experiences of men, so both feel more comfortable opening up to one another
Great video! As a Londoner, I recognise all the locations. I have walked on those streets and roads, I know it’s a good place to meet women if you have the courage. Even the girl next to Green Park Station acknowledged and recognised your boldness.
My point is that it is NOT as EASY to approach a stranger as when swiping on dating apps. Yes, on the streets, it is an instant connection and possibly rejection. I’ll like to actually see hidden videos of your clients or students and their progression. Watching you is amazing, but what we see is what has taken years to perfect. Let’s see the imperfect protégés in development and marvel at what could be possible, but not that easy.
Nonsense, it doesn‘t take years of perfection and no pickup artistry, because a woman wants to see what you’re truly made of, not a clown. You have to step into your fears just often enough to form a habit. It‘s like going to the gym, the first couple of times you gotta get over it and go, until it is a learned mechanism and you wouldn‘t feel good without doing it anymore.
@@firsthelix6726 Naturally, you speak from experience; equating gym with approaching women! “Approach” is the term I used, I did not state anything about “pick up artistry”. I think you’re projecting here and coming off with a condescending negative vibe. The comment was directed at Sam and he humbly and graciously replied. Even Sam has acknowledged several times in his videos that it took him a few years to get where he is at.
@@AmosArdent-zx6jj You are reading too much into this and overthink things. To form a new habit requires 90 days of consecutive hard work, that’s all you really need! It’s only natural that you get better at it over time. The negative vibe lays in your own language and limiting believes, like „it‘s not easy“, and wanting to see progress of protégés, when all you really need is to practice shit by yourself!!
@@firsthelix6726 Please find someone else to lecture. I did not solicit your advice or made any statement in regards to any comments you directed at Sam.
Again, Sam’s whose content I commented on, who the comment was directed at, was kind enough to reply to me.
I don’t know what your issue is and why you feel the need to take issue with what I wrote.
Have a nice day.
24 minutes... you came back with a bang FS 💥
It’s the world’s playground!!
Great to see you back doing what you do best 👍👍
Thank you boss!!
The man is back. One of my favorite coaches.
Let's go my guy !
congrats Sam, that first approach was really good! MUCH more grounded and chill than I've seen you before. I thought it went great until the very end. I would totally NOT do that try-hard double kiss at the end. that just came off as almost desperate. but HEY we all do dumb shit once in a while..
but I would try to stop that though.
There was no try-hard in any of that interaction, it was grounded and chill, that’s how I felt, and how she felt, which isn’t always the case of course. It depends on many factors.
In terms of your dictates which are masquerading as advice, what value do you imagine they have to me ? Do you think you can tell me something I haven’t already heard or don’t already know with regard to cold approach/ social skills? Where are your credentials/receipts which give you any credibility to act as the authority on such matters?
You're overthinking this mate. The 2 kisses were not akward at all. Besides, she even got curious about his perfume.
This is what makes your channel and community growing , keep posting like this .. Incredible Indian here ❤
Thank you brother! I've got new stuff coming!
Thanks for the videos. They are useful
Welcome, sir
The last approach with sam was amazing, she was open to talk you and looks like even happy you be there
Yessir! Did it bring you to any new action and progress?
@@FluidSocial Right now I have a girlfriend and that's why I don't approach girls which I think is fine, but it makes me feel confident that you never know if someone may have a very good impression of you when you approach them
"A northerner has been accused of terrorizing london by waling around saying hello."
There is nothing impossible to him who will try - Alexander the Great
He's the master. You absolutely can. I did, armed with the confidence and knowledge that Sam illustrates here. Top dog. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Kudos from America. 🇺🇸 Agreed that cold approaching is vastly superior to setting up a meet up online. 💪🏼👍🏼😎
Also, with the advice towards the end where you were looking at your phone, I can tell that you understand womanese.
It's a simple language, but takes a while to learn 😉
I missed these videos. London is your natural habitat haha
True
Amazing as usual, Sam. Abraço do Brasil!!!
Which parfum do you use? Got curious cause of her reaction
music track in the background? good vibe. not the one in description
Women in London have a bad experience with dating in general.. there is a lack of men that take action and come to you to speak or get your number unless they are drunk 😅
Nice daygame
porque às vezes quando eu abordo uma mulher igual você geralmente faz ("gostei de você etc"), a reação da mulher é tipo como se ela tivesse achando estranho ou confusa? como se ela não tivesse entendido que eu simplesmente estou ali pq gostei dela e tenho vontade de conversar com ela, olhar pra ela, sentir ela etc.
nas suas abordagens é tudo tão "smooth", a mulher já reage tão naturalmente ao que você diz...
Tem muitas coisinhas discretas que decide como ela responde 🫡👍🏼
Sir
I wanted to ask you regarding getting a gf.
I just turned 21 and never had a gf. I have tried approaching woman and using online dating but, I think they don't like me. I have started using prostitutes as I think they are never going to like me and somehow my sister came to know and ahe is now furious. I don't know what to do. Pls help
Just try what he is doing, I just turned 22 and am in the same situation as you, gonna try cold approach, not my favourite choice but gotta do something.
Are you worried that alot of the other accounts from other guys in the field got taken down?
I’m not worried about anything
Well said Sir Fluid@@FluidSocial
great approaches but the pointless and long chatting does not build attraction...
True. Do you think there’s anything else besides building attraction that makes longer conversations worthwhile ?
@@FluidSocial building trust but again if there is too much attraction missing its not gonna lead to anything.
Sure, do you think there was too much attraction missing ?
@@FluidSocial Generally yes. Its a typical intermediate level problem. Getting tons of numbers and now one needs to work on reducing flakes.
Do you also think that a common a beginner/uninitiated level problem is to be unable to recognise cues of attraction from a woman to a man, and instead think that a man must say certain/specific things for a woman to be attracted?
Well he's handsome. What do you expect
It's not only about the look.6 month ago i started cold approach and right now i'm rly good at it.I'm not the handsome dude btw :)
Ok so I’m a woman and a recipient of the cold approach. This has happened to me quite a few times in London and it feels intimidating, threatening and awkward. Most women automatically assume that there is something suspect about a guy that comes at them with “I just saw you and HAD to run over!” as this is always the opening line of cold approach PUA and it immediately says “I’m practicing cold approach skills and you’re not the only woman I’ve done this to/ will do this to.” It also says “I’ve clocked that you’re on your own and potentially vulnerable.”
Seriously guys, if you want to talk to a girl IRL then you wanna at least get some kind of clue from her that she’s seen you and that it’s ok to go over eg- eye contact, a smile, something.
Thanks for commenting! I agree, it’s much better when there is at least some indication that she is available / intereted. Problem is, no one looks up any more, everyone is nervous (men and women). Men are nervous of being threatening or creepy, women are under so much pressure and (I believe) encouraged to be scared of men, and yet 70%+ of women want the man to make the first move.. so, what to do? Women don’t often give guys signs of interest, because women are anxious too! My hope is that, even at the risk of sometimes creating discomfort, this practise makes men more confident, and gives women better experiences of men, so both feel more comfortable opening up to one another
Why is this making me cringe?
Because you’re sensitive to uncomfortable situations. I would creating such situations to help overcome your sensitivity 👍🏼