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One thing I’ve learnt when it comes to winning in pick up, as well as all areas in life, is that it all comes down to self-image & how YOU view yourself - you can be the most attractive person ever but if you have internal doubts about who you are, it truly can mess you up. Great stuff Bartek
I completely agree mate. This relates to a concept called inner game (where you just show complete and utter belief in yourself, which helps to win the girl over).
@@Roma-SRyan True. Introverts don't even desire mundane conversations. They choose to not have them. If that's supposed to be anti social, then saying no is anti social every time
@@JevWDI think thats bullshit. I can easily talk like an "extrovert" during an event but then need some weeks of rest until I can or feel the need to go out again. During this I am rather alone and dont contact people often. What I mean is you can have convos and social/pick up skills as introvert its just that your battery charges when alone or with loved ones than when with alot of people/ friends around
I noticed that you travel to other countries or even other cities within your country. This allows you to meet different women. For those who can't do this, they run the risk of seeing the same woman on a daily basis.
If you live in a small town then yes. If you live in a city then you probably won’t bump into the same girls that often. I only travel to different countries or cities so I can make a video titled ‘Picking Up Girls In …’ (so purely for content rather than because of the fear of bumping into the same girls over and over again).
Bro that was amazing as always! Keep em coming man! Only thing I would change is sitting further away from the girl. Giving her some space in the beginning will help her feel more comfortable. Hugs from Greece man
I don’t think you have to look like me to do this. You probably noticed the girl who gave me her number wasn’t that comfortable with me there at the start. It was my body language and social skills that helped her to relax and actually enjoy my company (not my looks).
How much you think it’s the girls openness/ personality or a guys ability to hold a convo? Cus sometimes girls aren’t that keen to talk or reciprocate which can be super awkward and hurt confidence lol cus you feel rejected
I think it’s mostly about the man’s ability to hold a convo. If a girl isn’t giving you much, it’s usually to test your manhood/competence as a man. If you’re able to overcome her initial obstacles, you will become more attractive to her.
So we're not gonna notice how she looked over and her body language changed? That's something I'd notice or maybe just overthink and end up having the negative thoughts show up and all hell breaks out internally lol Then she ended up being the cool one of the bunch Kudos to the interaction and getting them involved
You have to approach these situations with complete self belief, and be unfazed by the girl’s initial reaction. Oftentimes, a girl just needs a bit of time to become accustomed to you, and then she’ll be fine after that.
@@BartekSocialGreat advice mate. I’m actually an overthinker when i talk to girls. I pick up on their body language way too easily. Gonna follow your advice going forward 👍
@@coachingconfidant2785 It’s annoying init. I become very self conscious about what i say incase i make them feel uncomfortable. But this video is evident that i’m just overthinking it.
Nice content Bartek,, love it,, but I hope you pay that camera man some good money because he is really good,, I do not know how he gets all those angles and not be seen.. But great content
@@BartekSocial You could go back and pick up the mic, a lot of prank channels and stuff do it for audio. You’d simply walk back 10 seconds after and say sorry I left my coffee/tea. I just think it’s cool to know what there first impression was of the interaction
I've been rejected by 10,000 girls and I've probably slept with about 300 girls. One thing I've learnt is that you can't impress all and you won't be attractive to all, no matter how hard you try. Notice the girl closest to him, scooted over closer to her friend while her arms was crossed. She was extremely nervous. Bartek should have leaned back while talking to take the tension of but regardless, job well done
How do you have the time to talk to so many girls mate 😅 my philosophy is to become as high value as you can, and then if you want to sleep with 300 girls, you’ll only have to talk to 1000 or even less, as opposed to 10,000. Thank you for the feedback 👊🏻
@@BartekSocial There's a big difference between sleeping with girls and talking with them. Sleeping with them is the easy part and maintaining that is the hard part. I am a high value man and getting women is easy. I don't actually sleep with much women nowadays but I am 33 now and I've defintiely released all my sexual tension in my early years.
@@BartekSocial I'd admire the 1v3 approach I still haven't even made by 1 on1 approach yet lol. Do you get a little nervous before approaching and how tall are you? I think one day filming you firming Ls and getting rejected would be nice as it would show transparency to viewers and lets them know not every time is gonna be a W
It's ridiculous how all women around the world want a guy to take guesses, like wtf, imagine coming to the store, asking for a price of a donut and the guy is like "guess". It is annoying, but I use it against them if they act like that (one guess is okay, but anything else is very inmature) so I would say: okay, not engineering for sure. Or judging your clothes, definetely not design. But in a joking way. If they are not going to give some leads, then I will go with worst guesses.
I had a lot of people request seeing the full interactions from previous videos, rather than just snippets. I’ve never uploaded this film interaction to my channel, so wanted to do it as I think the full interaction has a lot of value from which you can learn.
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One thing I’ve learnt when it comes to winning in pick up, as well as all areas in life, is that it all comes down to self-image & how YOU view yourself - you can be the most attractive person ever but if you have internal doubts about who you are, it truly can mess you up. Great stuff Bartek
absolutely true
I completely agree mate. This relates to a concept called inner game (where you just show complete and utter belief in yourself, which helps to win the girl over).
that just hit me, i agree 100%
Me too agree
Bro just does it with pure ease 👊🏼
Best pickup channel on RUclips
Thank you mate 👊🏻
Full interactions are more interesting and value, thanks Bartek ❤
Man your videos are so entertaining to watch good job mate.
I appreciate that mate!
Great opener, pretty much in from that point.
Tremendous man
"How I EASILY Keep A Conversation Going!"
Introverts: "That's *not* the plan, nope."
please stop confusing "introvert" with anti social or lacking social skills. not the same
@@Roma-SRyan True. Introverts don't even desire mundane conversations. They choose to not have them. If that's supposed to be anti social, then saying no is anti social every time
@@Roma-SRyanintroverts are seen as anti-social because we can’t get past the initial small talk 😅
@@JevWDI think thats bullshit. I can easily talk like an "extrovert" during an event but then need some weeks of rest until I can or feel the need to go out again. During this I am rather alone and dont contact people often.
What I mean is you can have convos and social/pick up skills as introvert its just that your battery charges when alone or with loved ones than when with alot of people/ friends around
@@kingsguard5614 You sound like an ambivert then. Introverts hate small talk, so the initial conversation with a girl can be really difficult
Step 1 look attractive step 2 dont be ugly step 3 dont doubt your attractiveness
I’m guessing you subscribe to the black pill
Bartek the beast!
Best in your craft mate!
Appreciate you bro 🙏🏻 looking forward to your next vid!
I noticed that you travel to other countries or even other cities within your country. This allows you to meet different women. For those who can't do this, they run the risk of seeing the same woman on a daily basis.
If you live in a small town then yes. If you live in a city then you probably won’t bump into the same girls that often.
I only travel to different countries or cities so I can make a video titled ‘Picking Up Girls In …’ (so purely for content rather than because of the fear of bumping into the same girls over and over again).
Believe me, this channel will surpass 100k subs one day
Appreciate you bro 🙏🏻
Bro that was amazing as always! Keep em coming man!
Only thing I would change is sitting further away from the girl. Giving her some space in the beginning will help her feel more comfortable.
Hugs from Greece man
Thank you brother!
How can i do that?
Ur the man brother
Thank you bro 🙏🏻
Fire content as always mate 🔥
Appreciate you bro 👊🏻
This guy looks like a younger Travis Kelsey
I'm an american fan. Cool seeing you do your thing. Very interesting, learning a lot and learning about your country as well. Thanks lol.
I think this is the best channel for guys who want girls
I really appreciate that mate!
Did it turn out to be a solid number?
New favourite channel 🔥
Appreciate that bro!
Great job buddy!
before acting like him, make sure u are at least as atractive as he is. Are u? Good, u good.
I don’t think you have to look like me to do this. You probably noticed the girl who gave me her number wasn’t that comfortable with me there at the start. It was my body language and social skills that helped her to relax and actually enjoy my company (not my looks).
Are You from Poland?
How much you think it’s the girls openness/ personality or a guys ability to hold a convo? Cus sometimes girls aren’t that keen to talk or reciprocate which can be super awkward and hurt confidence lol cus you feel rejected
I think it’s mostly about the man’s ability to hold a convo. If a girl isn’t giving you much, it’s usually to test your manhood/competence as a man. If you’re able to overcome her initial obstacles, you will become more attractive to her.
Hopefully one day i can get confidence to talk to girls 😂
Don’t hope for it mate, because simply hoping won’t get you there. You need to actively work to improve it 👊🏻
So we're not gonna notice how she looked over and her body language changed? That's something I'd notice or maybe just overthink and end up having the negative thoughts show up and all hell breaks out internally lol
Then she ended up being the cool one of the bunch
Kudos to the interaction and getting them involved
You have to approach these situations with complete self belief, and be unfazed by the girl’s initial reaction.
Oftentimes, a girl just needs a bit of time to become accustomed to you, and then she’ll be fine after that.
thats because ur focused on rejection.
@@BartekSocialGreat advice mate. I’m actually an overthinker when i talk to girls. I pick up on their body language way too easily. Gonna follow your advice going forward 👍
@@hearditb4 same i approached one and they were half away from me half facing me, and i was doing the same
@@coachingconfidant2785 It’s annoying init. I become very self conscious about what i say incase i make them feel uncomfortable. But this video is evident that i’m just overthinking it.
Nice content Bartek,, love it,, but I hope you pay that camera man some good money because he is really good,, I do not know how he gets all those angles and not be seen.. But great content
The Indian girl closest to him is Gorgeous!! hmmmmm
Next time leave a mic in a coffee cup so you can hear what they say after you go regarding the interaction etc
That would get very expensive very quick lol
@@BartekSocial
You could go back and pick up the mic, a lot of prank channels and stuff do it for audio. You’d simply walk back 10 seconds after and say sorry I left my coffee/tea. I just think it’s cool to know what there first impression was of the interaction
I've been rejected by 10,000 girls and I've probably slept with about 300 girls. One thing I've learnt is that you can't impress all and you won't be attractive to all, no matter how hard you try. Notice the girl closest to him, scooted over closer to her friend while her arms was crossed. She was extremely nervous. Bartek should have leaned back while talking to take the tension of but regardless, job well done
virgin
How do you have the time to talk to so many girls mate 😅 my philosophy is to become as high value as you can, and then if you want to sleep with 300 girls, you’ll only have to talk to 1000 or even less, as opposed to 10,000.
Thank you for the feedback 👊🏻
@@BartekSocial There's a big difference between sleeping with girls and talking with them. Sleeping with them is the easy part and maintaining that is the hard part. I am a high value man and getting women is easy. I don't actually sleep with much women nowadays but I am 33 now and I've defintiely released all my sexual tension in my early years.
Are you like 163years old?
300 🫡
0:35 goto read her body language. she moved away and crossed arms
But then I still got her number
A girls initial reaction using always going to be a positive one. It’s important to not let this phase you, and to still remain positive yourself
@@BartekSocial I'd admire the 1v3 approach I still haven't even made by 1 on1 approach yet lol. Do you get a little nervous before approaching and how tall are you? I think one day filming you firming Ls and getting rejected would be nice as it would show transparency to viewers and lets them know not every time is gonna be a W
Let’s talk about how cold all the ladies sneakers are 🔥
Actions speak louder than words
You're Gee mate
Thanks bro
Where are you actually based bro, like I see quite a lot of manchester stuff. But where is your day-to-day base.
I’m based in Manchester
It's ridiculous how all women around the world want a guy to take guesses, like wtf, imagine coming to the store, asking for a price of a donut and the guy is like "guess". It is annoying, but I use it against them if they act like that (one guess is okay, but anything else is very inmature) so I would say: okay, not engineering for sure. Or judging your clothes, definetely not design. But in a joking way. If they are not going to give some leads, then I will go with worst guesses.
Making a guessing game out of it just makes the conversation more fun instead of just asking a bunch of questions
Why are you reuploading your videos?
I had a lot of people request seeing the full interactions from previous videos, rather than just snippets. I’ve never uploaded this film interaction to my channel, so wanted to do it as I think the full interaction has a lot of value from which you can learn.