I left my ex in June and met my fiancé in July. He gave me a promise ring 2 weeks later. He proposed after 2 months to the day. We’re getting married next year in Italy. I was with my ex for almost 7 years and he kept playing the rope-a-dope. That man fumbled me right into my Boaz.
Yes: and someone who says 'let's see how things go'. However, I have dated men who swore they wanted marriage, but never made a commitment! Perhaps either not really ready after all, or saying what they think one wants to hear.
This is true fact, my guy told me that we are in a relationship while leaving everything in God’s hand after I asked him about where our relationship is heading to, with his response, I think he’s playing game with me🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤔🤔🤔
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Yes! Men who want to get married will have a GOAL and working on themselves. If he is LOST than leave. Doesnt make him a bad person just means he needs a map from God and honey u are not his GPS!
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crooked truth83 it's better to stop dating and deal with yourself as to why you have not made your mind up to marry and the kind of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with instead of being in a relationship waiting for the right person to come. the woman you are with is wondering "when he's going to marry ME?? then 20 years go by and you either tell her it's best that you and her move on, she gets super mad as to why you would wait 20 years then decide to break up or she catch you cheating with that "someone better" person. at the end of the day a guy should be upfront regarding marriage and his intentions. if you have not made your mind up yet then let the person you are in a relationship with know so she can move on. it's very decietful to pretend you have the intentions to marry when you're really waiting for someone better to come along or just being a player.
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I desire to be a wife. I know what I bring to our table. I believe that if something is meant to happen It will, ppl don't have to wait years to get married. It takes both ppl & God to make a marriage last.
Tldr; Nuture the relationship no matter how much or little y'all "bring to the table" at a given time 💕😊 @Shawna Satchell hi. Not sure what you mean by that, but *I'd just say make sure what you bring is not purely physical or financial.* My husband told his best friend (who later told me), that THE DAY he met me he knew. 2-3weeks later he asked my thoughts about marriage (got a positive answer) and said "good. Because I'd like to marry you." *(Don't know how it only took 6 months to tie the knot, but hey, still happy)* We give so much to each other, and since we were both a little poor when we met-- money hasn't weighed too heavy in the relationship. We work hard, our incomes have ebbed & flowed, children born, but that's still my best friend and the love of my life who respects me & helps me grow ❤ 🎁this is just my 2cents 🎁
Sis you bring nothing to the table .....its a book pls read it ..dont have that mindset you bring to the table bc that man will use you ..let him pursue and bring to the table
I once asked this guy that I had briefly dated if he saw me as a wife. Not particularly his wife, but in general. He said he didn’t know me well enough to give me an answer. HOWEVER, he apparently knew me well enough to be open to sleeping with me. Long story short, we didn’t last AT ALL.
My mom always told me it shouldnt take a man yrs to figure out if he wants to marry you or not she said " 6 months to 1 year is enough time for him to know if he wants to marry you! See that 3,4,5,6,7,8 years situation is a HECK NO for me!!!!! I'm not waiting that long like other women do! Got me all the way messed up bruh lol! And he gonna know I'm NOT having sex until I'm MARRIED! He also gonna know im not the one for shacking up! When we get married then we can live together....oh. trust the plus imma get him right on together lol
if he don't know when he first meet you that he wants to be married then his mind has not been preparing for it= getting married because you want him to get married=disappearing for no reason you can think of. you got to watch out for them kind too. yes ladies give him a heads up on the time frame and no benefits until marriage 👍👍💍🙌👏👏
Wow,what a word of conformation.when I first saw my Angel I knew she was the one for me.God is amazing because I prayed exactly what I wanted and he gave me just that.Im forever grateful for my blessings from the Father.
So god answers your prayer about a woman while he ignores the cry of children who are starving to death? Sorry that’s evil chances are you married someone because people are always on the look out for love and no god intervened on your behalf. You just contributed the woman you found because you have been indoctrinated into a religion.
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What does a man benefit from marriage? He's expected to be the provider, protector, bread winner, decision maker...etc. Not to mention, women claim they want a man who is masculine and strong...but also demand that he be soft, affectionate, intimate, effeminate ect. I never met a man who demands masculinity from his woman to feel good about himself lol. Imagine that. And say a couple divorces. The women, more often than not, get 80% of EVERYTHING. Sounds like a shit contract to me. Women, please ask yourself if YOU are worth taking a man's last name and being up under him. What do YOU bring to the table? Marriage should be mutually beneficial, but too often, it is not.
@@lr4439 you’re delusional if you think that in 2021 men are still expected to be the sole breadwinners. almost every household is made up of two incomes nowadays. most western men are too cheap to even pay for a girl’s dinner on a date, let alone provide for her lmao
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God gave this amazing beautiful gift called a woman's intuition aka discernment that most women tend to ignore. That alone will reveal to her his true intentions.
I met my husband in hospital when I was sick he told me he knew he wanted to marry me 2 days after we met a man knows when he meets his wife trust me was with my ex for 4yrs no marriage been with my husband for 4months now imagine GOD is good❤️❤️
When I first asked my boyfriend how many kids he wanted he said 1. He already had one kid when we got together. I was like damn but I thought he would change his mind (I was 20 and naive).....we were together for 7 years when I got pregnant, after years and years of us saying we wanted a family, he told me to get an abortion, after 7 years! Ending up having a late miscarriage, broke my heart into two.......i wasted my time.
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Love is blinding or lack of self-love is destructive, I think I had both. I cant believe I dated someone exclusively on and off for almost 5 years with no promise ring or talks of engagement!! Word of advice... A GUY KNOWS WITHIN 30 SECONDS OF MEETING YOU IF YOURE THE ONE OR NOT AND 3 MONTHS IF YOU'RE THE ONE HE CAN/WILL MARRY. Life and your time is so precious -- dont let anyone waste it. Also, your heart must be protected at all costs -- life happens through your heart, care for it. Everything that God has advised us to do is best and best for us. CHECK YOUR PARTNERS INTENTIONS FROM THE START. Its not crazy, its SELF RESPSECT.
YOURE FUCKING NUTS. lol absolutely brain washed/ in denial. How could ANY man "know" if you're the "ONE" within 30 SECONDS of meeting ? How? Everything hes made of will tell him he wants to procreate with 5 million other women lol and thats okay. We, as women, have GOT to get it together man. Fucking nuts
I dont agree sorry if its been 2 years yeah Definitely he should lock it down aka serious talk the both of you should have were are we going from here married not marriage honesty is the best policy not waiting around 3,4 ,5 and especially if you're in you're thirties .
My ex was so negative about marriage, an atheist, always bringing me down. We broke up over the summer and now I’m seeing someone who is already talking about marriage and children. Total opposite of the ex. And super handsome.❤🥰🙏🏼 don’t let these men waste precious years out of your life!!
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God bless you 👏🏾 this is a great confirmation. I recently started ‘talking’ to this guy and I tend to overthink things... i ended up asking him what his intentions were and we had a serious convo about where our ‘situation’ was headed or could be headed. I received the answers I wanted and at first I regretted being so forward, but I just had to know. This generation is crazy... mostly everyone is playing games and wasting each others time which is the most valuable thing we have on this earth.
This is damn true.A man knows right from the start if he considers you marriage material, a slower one might take a maximum of 3 days but for sure he had made his mind to this point. He will then pursue you with that intention in mind, he will quickly take you out of the market by asking for a relationship and a promise ring within 6 months， you will see him starting to move in that direction. Women have been taught everything wrong from the start,been told to ignore our intuition, to put up with a lot of things because that's how it is. And so many of us, men and women, come from unhappy and abusive households ruled by married bad parents or divorced/sparated because they married for the wrongs reasons. If one makes the mistake of marrying for the wrong reasons or the wrong person, please don't make the mistake of having children.
My fiancé knew within weeks that I was the wife God had for him. He proposed our official first date. I knew to he was the one God has put on my heart to wait for. My grandfather says a man knows when he first see you if he’ll want to marry you.
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@@hughjanus2781 that's woman for you I can bet he was just getting out of another relationship that was long term so he just married first thing he saw. I'm a man I know how they move.
Great Video! So positive! By 6 months you should know if the person is right for you. Don't be afraid to talk about marriage. If they're for marriage go for it. Keep God first, Pray and Go to Church. Our Heavenly Father can make it happen. Believe in A Relationship that leads to marriage. No Lying, Cheating and Playing Games. Stay faithful to one person.
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You are right my brother lam dating my man 6 months ago now and l have pray about it God say he is a Goodman and the pastor help me to pray about it he is the way l thank God for showing me that he is the one that lam waiting for been a long
3 years is a lonnnnnnng time and if a man wants to marry you in a matter of hours or days he knows. Why waste 3 years with someone who can see the person he wants to marry the next day and leave you in a minute. If he married you after 3, 5 years + you are the exception and not the rule.
Omg I don't know wether to cry or be happy for what I've just been told here. I thank God I came across this video. I've been through a lot of stuff lately and now this has come to me as a speeding bullet. Thank you.
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Same, it will be 7year this August for me! God's timing is always on time. I needed to see this vide, I keep look up self-help with this topic and I really shouldn't have to. It breaks my heart that I waited this long for a proposal. Sending you strength!
OMG!! I ask men upfront if they want children and when they say no....I say it was nice talking to you but we are on two different levels. Stay BLESSED❤ and I wish you the Best. Gotta keep it moving.
women you got to know when it comes to being married the timing is up to YOU...please don't wait 30 years for a man to marry you if you want to be married let the guy know if he's not on board from the get go then it's time to move on and don't finalize marriage until you done sift his intentions and character out and don't play house. he will respect you later.
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If a man is thinking about getting married he better be working toward being able to get in a family way financially. The rest is just heat or emotions. Both of you're lucky.
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All well and good asking these questions but unfortunately not all men are completely honest and will lie and decieve the woman. A woman cannot just rely on his responses but needs to listen to her gut and /or do her investigative work on him. Sad but in this day and age a woman has to do it for her own safety.
Hence the ball analogy. If he is a wide receiver, EVERY TIME you throw the ball he can't catch! Then your gut will tell you he isn't a wide receiver. If you need to investigate further then do that too.
One sure way to find out where he head is at. Voice your position in Christ and mean it. Let him know there will be NO sex until you are married, and you won't be playing house with him any time soon either. Then see how quick his response will be.
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i dated this guy who said he wanted to marry me after after a week or two. during the relationship he changed and we broke up. you can never trust men these days. he tells you he wants to marry you and next thing you know he is messing with you.
But I also wonder how many times our gut says NO or we know deep down this guy is no good. I can think of numerous times a guy would say something but deep down my intuition told me something else. Never always trust what someone says (anyone can say anything) look at their actions and what your intuition says, even if it's not the answer you want to hear.
Mine just let me know that he didn't want me anymore because I kept telling him that I wanted to get married. Because I don't want to lie! Three years gone down the drain.
How about you learn your fucking lesson?? You can throw it down the drain if you want to but dont cry about bring alone. Build off your experiences and grow!!!! He didn't lie about not wanting you either, be glad about about.
That’s protection babe, not rejection. It’s nothing wrong with wanting to get married. be honest about what you want so you can manifest it. Asking the right person will get you what you hope for. That just means he wasn’t the one and a breakup was going to happen anyways. Might as well speed up the process!
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I think the BIGGEST mistake that women make is moving in with someone before marriage AND having children before marriage. Also, back in the day future husbands had to be approved by the father. That doesn't happen anymore so women are left on their own to figure out how men operate and if he is serious.
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Let me tell y’all something. It DOES NOT take a man very long to know if you are the one he want to marry. Men are very smart, wise and very logical. They do not move off emotion. Before this man approached you he KNEW who you would be to him whether you are, friend, casual, girlfriend, or spouse. If he is juggling other women while with you then you are NOT the one. If you were he would do anything to cut off anyone or anything that will threaten his relationship with you. He doesn’t want to lose you. Stop asking these men “what are we”. If you got to ask then he has not given you clarity and so then you need to keep it moving.
You're absolutely on point young man.... Every man/woman knows within the first six dates!!!!!!! Ask these pertinent question, watch for Godly, consistant character....You're being led in an awesome direction. Young people will hear you loud/clear......Thanks for sharing....May God Bless!!!!
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Yes! Stop beating around the bush when it comes to discussion(s) about being in a relationship and taking things to the next level in a relationship. Very good video.
This is extremely helpful, i recently met someone and after hearing you speak on this topic i approached him right away straight to the point and may i tell you that i didn’t hear back from him 😂😂. I’m sooo grateful to God because i remember when i wasn’t whole in God this was always hard for me.. so i just want to thank you for your obedience to continue your ministry. I encourage you to further God’s kingdom in this way because your totally reaching out.
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I really like this video. And the "one man's fumble is another man's touchdown." That slaps! I'm 16 and have never dated anyone so I wanted to watch this for some prep. I like these points of asking all of the long-term questions on the first date so you don't waste any time. I absolutely *hate* wasting time where there are better things to do. And if his long-term goals don't match, move on! Such great advice. Thank you.
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Me and my king will be together 2 years in October, he asked me to marry him April 11...we both knew when we meet immediately that we were supposed to be together and we were supposed to be husband and wife. I remember 1st time we spoke. I got off the phone and told my mom, I think this man is my husband. I had been celibate for 13 years, he had stopped having sex year before he meet me. God had told us both save ourselves for God's choice. We are both so happy God brought us together. When a man finds his ruby he will not let her go. Don't settle ever.
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Wow!! I'm so glad that the Holy Spirit led me to this message. VERY CONFIRMING in the new season that I've entered. Blessings to you! 🙏🏽 P.s. I've definitely subscribed.
I told my fiance I want to get married from the beginning. We joked and said our first date should be in the court house. Point is it wasn't we dated and he asked me to marry him. We are doing it on Friday. I love him.
Needed to hear this when you said you can't compromise....you need a spiritual leader ..I felt that and made my decision very quick I'll choose a man who love the lord over a man I have to fight to read the Bible anyday!!thank you for this message king!
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and 2 weeks back we had a deep conversation about kids and marriage. I thought he took that lightly and we were driving to town this evening n he said something like “ i wanna buy this car after marrying u” n i was like 👀 …. Thats why i landed here, thought it was too soon to have this chat but here we are…
I got set up with a guy online. We met within two weeks and no jokes...without meeting each other face to face we knew we wanted a serious relationship. A future together. We spoke about not playing around and we've been together ever since
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This is so spot on! I was dating someone for 8 months and he still didn’t know what he wanted outside of just wanting me in his life. As hard as it was I let him go, I did and immediately met my current bf. We spoke about EVERYTHING relevant to building a life together / a strong marriage on our first date and after our third date, he asked me to be his gf and made his intentions of marriage known. He 💯% picked up where the other one left off and I’m so glad I gave him that opportunity. He’s a much better fit mentally, spiritually and emotionally...everything is just so easy and natural with him. I learned trust God’s timing and excited to see where it goes. 😊
This video is completely accurate. Me and my King were already certain God put us together. Within a week we knew everything and timing was right. Everyone’s situation is different. God is so amazing once you believe and pray. Let God be in control and pray for your future spouse and God shall deliver. If a man is hesitant then maybe you need to reconsider the situation.
I don’t know if I suggest getting to the business up front... honestly actions will tell you everything. You don’t need to know by asking that question. His actions will tell you everything.
Love_for_humanity sometime waiting on actions without him knowing your intentions will drag the relationship. the questions give him an idea of what you want and he should express that he wants to be married too with words and actions. he should be ready to marry if not he should let you know so you can find someone who is READY....no beating around the bush.
God Bless you Demarcus! The fumbling analogy is great. It gave me a new outlook on how I can look at a new relationship. I hope you continue to be a good, God-loving man.
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Been watching your videos for some time now and I really appreciate every bit of it! The more I watch the more my eyes is set on Jesus! What I appreciate in this video that you shared is that recently the sister in my church, after being friends with her for some time now I suddenly got a burden to pray about the desire I have to be with her. I asked God if she is the one I should pursue and then the Lord gave me a sign because I really had a feeling where I could see myself marrying her. At the moment she is in a bible school so I'm waiting for her to finish that while I work more on my relationship with Jesus and changing my ways to be able to be husband to her with the intend of God being behind it or the way he intended marriage to be.
Amen so very true. Time is precious and we can't make up the lost time however God can restore time of we are obedient to his word. Trust in the Lord and lean not on our understanding but acknowledge him and he will direct your path.
Yr helping me so much. Thank u. I'm about to lose my future wife an my own soul if I'm not guided correctly. An yr a great leader in gods hands. Thank u 4 loving God so much. An wanting to give others yr love. Yr a incredible person man.
DSimsMotivation Thanks bro. My emails perfectiznear@yahoo.com U know, yr help could go along way! I wanna help the whole world go to god. I can help more then most too. Im a very talented praiser, worshipper singer. An now, I'm a extremely talented singer. It's been many years. I'm 1 of the best to ever exist, I know 100% now. Honestly. It was a blessing from God. I use to literally suck at singing! Lol God blessed me with serious incredible abilities with my voice! An I'm a man after God's heart, like David! Me an David are alot alike actually... Idk what that means?? I know god told me I'm gonna be a great man of God. (An that the devil knows it, an is after me.) But yeah, I can mimic other singers, better then, they can mimic themselves. Even legends! An I have my own voice(s) that are better then almost every1 in the world! It's like my voice(s) have no limits now. It's really weird! Lol But yeah, I need help with things like fighting the devil, tips on staying humble, not being lustful, not doing idolatry, submitting to god fully, fasting, being responsible, etc. Any help would be much appreciated! I wanna change the world, but I see I can't do it alone. I've tried. Lol
It took me 4 months after we met. Didnt think I would settle down as I had few options, I often travel to different continent for work, wasnt ready for serious commitment, the ladies know & they dont mind, i was juz focusing on work until I saw her.
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You, (I feel like I know you lol,...... ) are one of the wonderful things the Lord blesses us with every morning.I look forward to seeing your videos.......I have just figured out how to leave comments, but know , like me, I'm sure there are many more blessed by your message, but are not able........We love you too, Brother!!!!!
Yeah u gotta ask questions dont wanna be wasted time on somebody who isn't for u. That's a waste of time. Ask dont be afraid. I gotta keep that in mind. But people do tend to back away from the topic of getting married. Lord knows there are times I've met people who dont know where they going which left me confused. I dont like confusion its frustrating. Just have to aware of everything and ask questions. Pay attention to how that person is like the way they talk they way they act. I'm observant lot of people always say u dont talk much well because I'm too busy watching u lol. I know I dont need games nor dishonesty. That's why u wait on the lord because it's all kinds of stuff out there. A lot of craziness God knows best for us.
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I went on Luther Vandross concert double date. Both men were cousins my date was the cousin and my husband now was on a relationship with this girl over 3 years. The 1st time he saw me with his cousing on that double date, he said he new he wanted to marry me and that he was with the wrong women. He told me about that after we were married. And we on our 17 years going strong. I said all of that to say men dont need 10 years to know you're the one. After a year, if they dont know, let them go ladies.
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i really enjoyed your video. You touched on so many things that I have been asking myself. I thank God for you and thanks for being that vessel to bring forrth clarity in my life. I will definetely get to the steak, been sitting at the table just having dinner for too long. Blessings!
This is good! I like this. My gift is wisdom. So, I like to listen and observe his actions and words, which will tell me more than if I ask him a question. I like to let a man be himself. By him being himself, I'll get to know the real him.
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Your football \ love life lessons analogy is such a guys thing lol I ran across this vid 2 years after you posted it and everything you said was spot on I literally just told my ex who's realizing what he had & now is talking marriage that words are not impressive only actions can help us at this point and I'm willing to leave it right there & let him grow in our God because if The Lord doesn't see it for me I'm not letting it set me back... I enjoyed this lesson from a males point of view this is what women need for clarity
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I don't play house and that's what we women and men need to understand. If you give them a marry life without commitment why would they want to marry you.
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Mine's asked me to marry him after two weeks and he said he has a big surprise for me once I go to his promotion day with him being in the Marine Corps getting his E8 rank up so excited
my bf and i are 1 week from 10 years in a relationship...we both have been preoccupied with grad school and internships. not that is an excuse. but i know where my mind was and marriage was not on my priority list. now that my career is established and he has completed his schooling. I slightly mentioned "where is our future going"...he looked like a dear caught in headlights. no pressure. no argument. but i can see in his eyes, he is not ready.
I'm in a similar situation and I don't know what to do. We are getting out of debt together... student loans and car payments... and I know it would be faster if we work together. I really want to get out of debt so I would like to hold on but I don't want to be his 100 year girlfriend.
honestly i felt numb...not that i don't care or anything. after this long of time and he looks stunned that the question came up was enough to say that it's not his priority with me.
i feel you on the working together part because 2 incomes can make thing s happen in turbo drive. i truly feel like we are more best friends than romantic partners. what is your financial plan? i on year 2 of my 5 year plan. my boyfriend is factored in but he is not, if you know what i mean. i based my finances as if he decided to go. if your plan is to be out debt in 1-2 years then the question and answer need to be known right about now. once the debt is paid off, you need to know where to step next. we not trying to lost and wandering asking 'which way do we go george"
This advice scares me because I've done the exact same thing. I've asked the scary but important questions from the beginning. Only to find out I was lied to from the very beginning. With their sole purpose of keeping me around.
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"One man's fumble is another man's touchdown" Love that!
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@@DevotionsWithDemarcus Love how you use football terms! That's a good one about one man's fumble.
Sounds like you don’t care who marries you as long as you get married because love is irrelevant right 😂
I left my ex in June and met my fiancé in July. He gave me a promise ring 2 weeks later. He proposed after 2 months to the day. We’re getting married next year in Italy. I was with my ex for almost 7 years and he kept playing the rope-a-dope. That man fumbled me right into my Boaz.
Dr Dermix Girl Congratulations! May your union be blessed!
amen! good for you ruth!
Wow how did you and your fiancé meet?
GOD bless you and all of us
GODS CHILD- we met a my daughter’s best friend’s birthday pool party last July. Getting married this summer, God willing.
If he is confused, inconsistent and negative about marriage. RUN!!!!!!!!! And dont look back. Thank the lord for saving you.
👏👏👏👏👏spoken from a person with true wisdom.
Learned this the hard way but I learned.
Want to run unable to do even after thirteen years still hoping the day will come soon
Yes: and someone who says 'let's see how things go'. However, I have dated men who swore they wanted marriage, but never made a commitment! Perhaps either not really ready after all, or saying what they think one wants to hear.
This is true fact, my guy told me that we are in a relationship while leaving everything in God’s hand after I asked him about where our relationship is heading to, with his response, I think he’s playing game with me🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤔🤔🤔
I got married 6 months after meeting my husband now we married for 3 years with a 1 yr old 😊
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@@DevotionsWithDemarcus what if you’re with a man for 15 years and he decides to marry you is that a red flag?
@@tyeshiamckinney3441 if he marry you that is good but still long time . 15 years is no joke 😭
@@tyeshiamckinney3441he is marrying you out of convenience...he has no other option and you available
Yes! Men who want to get married will have a GOAL and working on themselves. If he is LOST than leave. Doesnt make him a bad person just means he needs a map from God and honey u are not his GPS!
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Nicccce!! 🤣
Learned this the hard way, but I learned & eventually left.
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Amen! 🙌🏾
As a man I've learned that when I'm unsure about a woman its usually a NO.
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As a woman I have also learned that lol
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unsure means no. do that mean you stay with that person for 10 years until it's a yes.😁
crooked truth83 it's better to stop dating and deal with yourself as to why you have not made your mind up to marry and the kind of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with instead of being in a relationship waiting for the right person to come. the woman you are with is wondering "when he's going to marry ME?? then 20 years go by and you either tell her it's best that you and her move on, she gets super mad as to why you would wait 20 years then decide to break up or she catch you cheating with that "someone better" person. at the end of the day a guy should be upfront regarding marriage and his intentions. if you have not made your mind up yet then let the person you are in a relationship with know so she can move on. it's very decietful to pretend you have the intentions to marry when you're really waiting for someone better to come along or just being a player.
It took me 18 days. Been married over 4 years.
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Women must not settle less to someone who doesn't have intentions
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You’re spot on!! People make time for what’s important to them!! 🙂
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Bridget Evans 100% agree
I desire to be a wife. I know what I bring to our table. I believe that if something is meant to happen It will, ppl don't have to wait years to get married. It takes both ppl & God to make a marriage last.
I know that’s right 😋Pass the butter please 😂
Tldr; Nuture the relationship no matter how much or little y'all "bring to the table" at a given time 💕😊
@Shawna Satchell hi. Not sure what you mean by that, but *I'd just say make sure what you bring is not purely physical or financial.* My husband told his best friend (who later told me), that THE DAY he met me he knew. 2-3weeks later he asked my thoughts about marriage (got a positive answer) and said "good. Because I'd like to marry you."
*(Don't know how it only took 6 months to tie the knot, but hey, still happy)*
We give so much to each other, and since we were both a little poor when we met-- money hasn't weighed too heavy in the relationship. We work hard, our incomes have ebbed & flowed, children born, but that's still my best friend and the love of my life who respects me & helps me grow ❤
🎁this is just my 2cents 🎁
Sis you bring nothing to the table .....its a book pls read it ..dont have that mindset you bring to the table bc that man will use you ..let him pursue and bring to the table
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When a man says the table the table is a metaphor for his life and happiness
I once asked this guy that I had briefly dated if he saw me as a wife. Not particularly his wife, but in general. He said he didn’t know me well enough to give me an answer. HOWEVER, he apparently knew me well enough to be open to sleeping with me. Long story short, we didn’t last AT ALL.
Why he nee to Merry you to be with you your stupid if he was a genuine person
My mom always told me it shouldnt take a man yrs to figure out if he wants to marry you or not she said " 6 months to 1 year is enough time for him to know if he wants to marry you! See that 3,4,5,6,7,8 years situation is a HECK NO for me!!!!! I'm not waiting that long like other women do! Got me all the way messed up bruh lol! And he gonna know I'm NOT having sex until I'm MARRIED! He also gonna know im not the one for shacking up! When we get married then we can live together....oh. trust the plus imma get him right on together lol
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That's right! I'm going to do the same 🙌🙏
Yes girl! 💯
I agree with your mom 6months to a year to get a ring, one year to get married. No games and for the love of god no children until your married.
if he don't know when he first meet you that he wants to be married then his mind has not been preparing for it= getting married because you want him to get married=disappearing for no reason you can think of. you got to watch out for them kind too. yes ladies give him a heads up on the time frame and no benefits until marriage 👍👍💍🙌👏👏
Wow,what a word of conformation.when I first saw my Angel I knew she was the one for me.God is amazing because I prayed exactly what I wanted and he gave me just that.Im forever grateful for my blessings from the Father.
I have been praying for my husband for quite some time..This is very encouraging.. Thanks..
This guy I am talking to said the same thing similar to what u said. Wow!
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So god answers your prayer about a woman while he ignores the cry of children who are starving to death? Sorry that’s evil chances are you married someone because people are always on the look out for love and no god intervened on your behalf. You just contributed the woman you found because you have been indoctrinated into a religion.
I hope everyone reading this finds the Lord God almighty and accepts that he came down from heaven, lived a perfect life, died for our sins 3 days later and rose from the dead. If you believe that, declare that Jesus is Lord and repent for your sins then you can go to heaven!! A place with no sin and sadness a perfect place! “May the Lord bless you and keep you make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26 God bless and I hope to see you in heaven!!
Also some men want the benefice of marriage but they are not qualify to marriage
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Hope you don't mind the correction. The spelling is "benefits".
What does a man benefit from marriage? He's expected to be the provider, protector, bread winner, decision maker...etc. Not to mention, women claim they want a man who is masculine and strong...but also demand that he be soft, affectionate, intimate, effeminate ect. I never met a man who demands masculinity from his woman to feel good about himself lol. Imagine that. And say a couple divorces. The women, more often than not, get 80% of EVERYTHING. Sounds like a shit contract to me. Women, please ask yourself if YOU are worth taking a man's last name and being up under him. What do YOU bring to the table? Marriage should be mutually beneficial, but too often, it is not.
@@lr4439 you’re delusional if you think that in 2021 men are still expected to be the sole breadwinners. almost every household is made up of two incomes nowadays. most western men are too cheap to even pay for a girl’s dinner on a date, let alone provide for her lmao
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God gave this amazing beautiful gift called a woman's intuition aka discernment that most women tend to ignore. That alone will reveal to her his true intentions.
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God is a fictional character
@@hughjanus2781 God is very much real. If he wasn’t real you wouldn’t have said other wise. Do you say this about Santa Claus? Yoga? Mythology?
GOD ALMIGHTY CHRIST JESUS HOLY SPIRIT Is SO SO SO VERY REAL TO ME HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN!!!
...You made me hungry. You're right... "Has God given you a desire for marriage?" Great question. Thanks.
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Another question: what do you think about marriage? if he stutter or look at you crosseyed...RUN🏃🏃🏃🏃
Amen Amen n Amen ... No need to be wasting time .... Adults should know exactly what they want...
God's Timing is the Best Timing
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So if I met a girl yesterday I should ask her to marry me?
I met my husband in hospital when I was sick he told me he knew he wanted to marry me 2 days after we met a man knows when he meets his wife trust me was with my ex for 4yrs no marriage been with my husband for 4months now imagine GOD is good❤️❤️
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When I first asked my boyfriend how many kids he wanted he said 1. He already had one kid when we got together. I was like damn but I thought he would change his mind (I was 20 and naive).....we were together for 7 years when I got pregnant, after years and years of us saying we wanted a family, he told me to get an abortion, after 7 years! Ending up having a late miscarriage, broke my heart into two.......i wasted my time.
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That is so sad. You know what? The best fish have not been caught. God has the best for you.
He told you he just wanted his kid. You were in denial lol ??? Oookay
Awww
That's so sad ...and girl you deserved so much better I'm glad you're not with that ass whole anymore
I’m so sorry, men are so hurtful sometimes smh
And they say women are complicated
Tekila Jones 😂😂😂
We, as women, often complicate romance. To the MAX lol
SERIALLY 🙄
GIRL!!!! humans are complicated periodt
girlll PREACH!!!!!
The one thing you mentioned that I believe is paramount is intentions and asking those important questions in the beginning. Good word.
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You can ask all the right questions. Doesn't mean they'll give you honest answers. The CAN n DO lie.
Dazzling Jewel that’s true but that’s why we have to pray and ask God for discernment
@@ladylauren5258 amen
Love is blinding or lack of self-love is destructive, I think I had both. I cant believe I dated someone exclusively on and off for almost 5 years with no promise ring or talks of engagement!! Word of advice... A GUY KNOWS WITHIN 30 SECONDS OF MEETING YOU IF YOURE THE ONE OR NOT AND 3 MONTHS IF YOU'RE THE ONE HE CAN/WILL MARRY. Life and your time is so precious -- dont let anyone waste it. Also, your heart must be protected at all costs -- life happens through your heart, care for it. Everything that God has advised us to do is best and best for us. CHECK YOUR PARTNERS INTENTIONS FROM THE START. Its not crazy, its SELF RESPSECT.
Some of these women are Jezebels. You reap what you show!!!
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YOURE FUCKING NUTS. lol absolutely brain washed/ in denial. How could ANY man "know" if you're the "ONE" within 30 SECONDS of meeting ? How? Everything hes made of will tell him he wants to procreate with 5 million other women lol and thats okay. We, as women, have GOT to get it together man. Fucking nuts
I dont agree sorry if its been 2 years yeah Definitely he should lock it down aka serious talk the both of you should have were are we going from here married not marriage honesty is the best policy not waiting around 3,4 ,5 and especially if you're in you're thirties .
My ex was so negative about marriage, an atheist, always bringing me down. We broke up over the summer and now I’m seeing someone who is already talking about marriage and children. Total opposite of the ex. And super handsome.❤🥰🙏🏼 don’t let these men waste precious years out of your life!!
One man’s fumble is another man’s touchdown (snatch the wig off on that one) 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🙌🙌🙌
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God bless you 👏🏾 this is a great confirmation. I recently started ‘talking’ to this guy and I tend to overthink things... i ended up asking him what his intentions were and we had a serious convo about where our ‘situation’ was headed or could be headed. I received the answers I wanted and at first I regretted being so forward, but I just had to know. This generation is crazy... mostly everyone is playing games and wasting each others time which is the most valuable thing we have on this earth.
Desirae Ambrielle what did he say?!
@@omiquewilliams2522 Dang, I be waiting to find out too
We need to know
This is damn true.A man knows right from the start if he considers you marriage material, a slower one might take a maximum of 3 days but for sure he had made his mind to this point.
He will then pursue you with that intention in mind, he will quickly take you out of the market by asking for a relationship and a promise ring within 6 months， you will see him starting to move in that direction.
Women have been taught everything wrong from the start,been told to ignore our intuition, to put up with a lot of things because that's how it is.
And so many of us, men and women, come from unhappy and abusive households ruled by married bad parents or divorced/sparated because they married for the wrongs reasons.
If one makes the mistake of marrying for the wrong reasons or the wrong person, please don't make the mistake of having children.
Agreed!
My fiancé knew within weeks that I was the wife God had for him. He proposed our official first date. I knew to he was the one God has put on my heart to wait for. My grandfather says a man knows when he first see you if he’ll want to marry you.
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Very true
You married a stranger
@@hughjanus2781 that's woman for you I can bet he was just getting out of another relationship that was long term so he just married first thing he saw. I'm a man I know how they move.
My man after our second date literally called me..."respectfully.. tell anyone that makes inquiry that you are now unavailable" lol 😂😂😂..WELL!!❣️🙌🏽
@persisrose thank you so much he's a wonderful man ..we are coming up on a year 🫶🏽
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He did this to me 😁🤗I was shocked he was like am serious we are exclusive since just needed to let you know in your front
Key word: “man”
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Great Video! So positive! By 6 months you should know if the person is right for you. Don't be afraid to talk about marriage. If they're for marriage go for it. Keep God first, Pray and Go to Church. Our Heavenly Father can make it happen. Believe in A Relationship that leads to marriage. No Lying, Cheating and Playing Games. Stay faithful to one person.
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Do you even take age into consideration? You expect an 18 year old college student to know he wants to marry a girl after 6 months of dating?
You are right my brother lam dating my man 6 months ago now and l have pray about it God say he is a Goodman and the pastor help me to pray about it he is the way l thank God for showing me that he is the one that lam waiting for been a long
@Princess blessing 👸🥰 why man need to merry you though? Yall act like some magical happens afterwards
If he hasn't proposed within the first 3 years. He'll never , period...
Thank you!!! Very true
I agree!
Three years why in the first 3 dates he should tell you his intentions that’s what my Pastor said don’t let a man waste your time its precious
That's not a true statement, that's your opinion. My proposal came after 5 years.
3 years is a lonnnnnnng time and if a man wants to marry you in a matter of hours or days he knows. Why waste 3 years with someone who can see the person he wants to marry the next day and leave you in a minute. If he married you after 3, 5 years + you are the exception and not the rule.
Omg I don't know wether to cry or be happy for what I've just been told here. I thank God I came across this video. I've been through a lot of stuff lately and now this has come to me as a speeding bullet. Thank you.
Wish i saw this earlier....am spinning right now, been 4 yrs dont know what to do
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Same, it will be 7year this August for me! God's timing is always on time. I needed to see this vide, I keep look up self-help with this topic and I really shouldn't have to. It breaks my heart that I waited this long for a proposal. Sending you strength!
OMG!! I ask men upfront if they want children and when they say no....I say it was nice talking to you but we are on two different levels. Stay BLESSED❤ and I wish you the Best. Gotta keep it moving.
Jaquanda J l'll take him
Alexis McIntosh not so fast he may be a narcissistic person 😀
mar jn why do you automatically assume that?
Jaquanda J ..."No", would be the right answer for me...
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women you got to know when it comes to being married the timing is up to YOU...please don't wait 30 years for a man to marry you if you want to be married let the guy know if he's not on board from the get go then it's time to move on and don't finalize marriage until you done sift his intentions and character out and don't play house. he will respect you later.
AMEN, AMEN, & AMEN!!
Hallelujah
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Sure am. Thank ya!!!!
Sandy Pat ur not "Cassie"🤣😢😁
If a man is thinking about getting married he better be working toward being able to get in a family way financially. The rest is just heat or emotions. Both of you're lucky.
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All well and good asking these questions but unfortunately not all men are completely honest and will lie and decieve the woman. A woman cannot just rely on his responses but needs to listen to her gut and /or do her investigative work on him. Sad but in this day and age a woman has to do it for her own safety.
Hence the ball analogy. If he is a wide receiver, EVERY TIME you throw the ball he can't catch! Then your gut will tell you he isn't a wide receiver. If you need to investigate further then do that too.
JoJo Ask the Holy Spirit for discernment
One sure way to find out where he head is at. Voice your position in Christ and mean it. Let him know there will be NO sex until you are married, and you won't be playing house with him any time soon either. Then see how quick his response will be.
Its not sad, its reality.
Listen to 10:47 :)
You are on point, men know and I absolutely ask questions at the beginning. Saves so much time.
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Great fumble analogy. Thank you brother Sims.
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i dated this guy who said he wanted to marry me after after a week or two.
during the relationship he changed and we broke up. you can never trust men these days. he tells you he wants to marry you and next thing you know he is messing with you.
Yaa Dede true that means he was never sure to begin with but was assuring himself. It happened to me too but 3 moths into it !
Sameeee. That’s why you ask God for discernment because people will say anything to get what they want.
But I also wonder how many times our gut says NO or we know deep down this guy is no good. I can think of numerous times a guy would say something but deep down my intuition told me something else. Never always trust what someone says (anyone can say anything) look at their actions and what your intuition says, even if it's not the answer you want to hear.
SimplyMaui yes
Dede's Empire that was just words he didn't mean in the first place
Wow this may be confirmation for me ❤🎉 one man's fumble is another man's touchdown
Love this!!!
Mine just let me know that he didn't want me anymore because I kept telling him that I wanted to get married. Because I don't want to lie! Three years gone down the drain.
How about you learn your fucking lesson?? You can throw it down the drain if you want to but dont cry about bring alone. Build off your experiences and grow!!!! He didn't lie about not wanting you either, be glad about about.
That’s protection babe, not rejection. It’s nothing wrong with wanting to get married. be honest about what you want so you can manifest it. Asking the right person will get you what you hope for. That just means he wasn’t the one and a breakup was going to happen anyways. Might as well speed up the process!
God just made a way for your escape. He may have not been what you thought he was. Praise God for protection
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I think the BIGGEST mistake that women make is moving in with someone before marriage AND having children before marriage. Also, back in the day future husbands had to be approved by the father. That doesn't happen anymore so women are left on their own to figure out how men operate and if he is serious.
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Let me tell y’all something. It DOES NOT take a man very long to know if you are the one he want to marry. Men are very smart, wise and very logical. They do not move off emotion. Before this man approached you he KNEW who you would be to him whether you are, friend, casual, girlfriend, or spouse. If he is juggling other women while with you then you are NOT the one. If you were he would do anything to cut off anyone or anything that will threaten his relationship with you. He doesn’t want to lose you. Stop asking these men “what are we”. If you got to ask then he has not given you clarity and so then you need to keep it moving.
You're absolutely on point young man.... Every man/woman knows within the first six dates!!!!!!! Ask these pertinent question, watch for Godly, consistant character....You're being led in an awesome direction. Young people will hear you loud/clear......Thanks for sharing....May God Bless!!!!
Are ya nuts? 6 dates? Six...............
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@@lr4439 This is why the divorce rate is nearly 70%
Yes! Stop beating around the bush when it comes to discussion(s) about being in a relationship and taking things to the next level in a relationship. Very good video.
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This is extremely helpful, i recently met someone and after hearing you speak on this topic i approached him right away straight to the point and may i tell you that i didn’t hear back from him 😂😂. I’m sooo grateful to God because i remember when i wasn’t whole in God this was always hard for me.. so i just want to thank you for your obedience to continue your ministry. I encourage you to further God’s kingdom in this way because your totally reaching out.
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We need more videos like this, please! They make a big impact.
I absolutely love it.. You are so right and a males point of view with scripture is so powerful..thank u
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I really like this video. And the "one man's fumble is another man's touchdown." That slaps! I'm 16 and have never dated anyone so I wanted to watch this for some prep. I like these points of asking all of the long-term questions on the first date so you don't waste any time. I absolutely *hate* wasting time where there are better things to do. And if his long-term goals don't match, move on! Such great advice. Thank you.
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Holy crap...you have dispelled one huge myth we ladies have been told, that guys don't have immediate inclinations towards marriage from the start.
My husband said he knew the first time he met me that I was "the one"
No one has ever said that a man don't know if he sees himself married to a specific lady.
It's never been a myth.
Mines know after 2 months
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Some men are just selfish. They have fears, from prior relationships, and both can die alone.
Me and my king will be together 2 years in October, he asked me to marry him April 11...we both knew when we meet immediately that we were supposed to be together and we were supposed to be husband and wife. I remember 1st time we spoke. I got off the phone and told my mom, I think this man is my husband. I had been celibate for 13 years, he had stopped having sex year before he meet me. God had told us both save ourselves for God's choice. We are both so happy God brought us together. When a man finds his ruby he will not let her go. Don't settle ever.
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What a beautiful testimony.Praise the Lord 🙏❤
" where are you leading me? off a cliff?!!! Lol! I shoulda asked. Doggone!!
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Tht true.. But some women just want 2 b married.. But the man must know were he is going. 2 lead a family
You ain't lying sis
Wow!! I'm so glad that the Holy Spirit led me to this message. VERY CONFIRMING in the new season that I've entered. Blessings to you! 🙏🏽
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I told my fiance I want to get married from the beginning. We joked and said our first date should be in the court house. Point is it wasn't we dated and he asked me to marry him. We are doing it on Friday. I love him.
Elena Way how long have you been dating him? Can you share how did you tell him that
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Needed to hear this when you said you can't compromise....you need a spiritual leader ..I felt that and made my decision very quick I'll choose a man who love the lord over a man I have to fight to read the Bible anyday!!thank you for this message king!
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Same here, no more settling for less because God knows best!🙏❤
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and 2 weeks back we had a deep conversation about kids and marriage. I thought he took that lightly and we were driving to town this evening n he said something like “ i wanna buy this car after marrying u” n i was like 👀 …. Thats why i landed here, thought it was too soon to have this chat but here we are…
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I got set up with a guy online. We met within two weeks and no jokes...without meeting each other face to face we knew we wanted a serious relationship. A future together. We spoke about not playing around and we've been together ever since
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This is so spot on! I was dating someone for 8 months and he still didn’t know what he wanted outside of just wanting me in his life. As hard as it was I let him go, I did and immediately met my current bf. We spoke about EVERYTHING relevant to building a life together / a strong marriage on our first date and after our third date, he asked me to be his gf and made his intentions of marriage known. He 💯% picked up where the other one left off and I’m so glad I gave him that opportunity. He’s a much better fit mentally, spiritually and emotionally...everything is just so easy and natural with him. I learned trust God’s timing and excited to see where it goes. 😊
This video is completely accurate. Me and my King were already certain God put us together. Within a week we knew everything and timing was right. Everyone’s situation is different. God is so amazing once you believe and pray. Let God be in control and pray for your future spouse and God shall deliver. If a man is hesitant then maybe you need to reconsider the situation.
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I don’t know if I suggest getting to the business up front... honestly actions will tell you everything. You don’t need to know by asking that question. His actions will tell you everything.
Love_for_humanity sometime waiting on actions without him knowing your intentions will drag the relationship. the questions give him an idea of what you want and he should express that he wants to be married too with words and actions. he should be ready to marry if not he should let you know so you can find someone who is READY....no beating around the bush.
well I guess if he ask for sex that gives you a quick idea about who he is.
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"One man's fumble is another man's touch down"❤ #MKSC #WONTHEDOIT
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God Bless you Demarcus! The fumbling analogy is great. It gave me a new outlook on how I can look at a new relationship. I hope you continue to be a good, God-loving man.
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Not long, if he's not getting the milk for free!! People that need to date 5, 10 years & still dont know...really???
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I would say after the infatuation, and honeymoon phase is over that’s when Love should come in. Then it should then kick start marriage or not
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Love didn’t have a time it happens when it died and that’s the right timing
Been watching your videos for some time now and I really appreciate every bit of it! The more I watch the more my eyes is set on Jesus! What I appreciate in this video that you shared is that recently the sister in my church, after being friends with her for some time now I suddenly got a burden to pray about the desire I have to be with her. I asked God if she is the one I should pursue and then the Lord gave me a sign because I really had a feeling where I could see myself marrying her. At the moment she is in a bible school so I'm waiting for her to finish that while I work more on my relationship with Jesus and changing my ways to be able to be husband to her with the intend of God being behind it or the way he intended marriage to be.
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@1:30 described Ciara and Future.....lol....she leveled up with Russell
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Amen so very true. Time is precious and we can't make up the lost time however God can restore time of we are obedient to his word. Trust in the Lord and lean not on our understanding but acknowledge him and he will direct your path.
Trina Martin that's powerful! Thanks for sharing! Your opinion matters!! God bless you!!!
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You crack me up... GOD bless you for this message.
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man your getting married now thats awesome. Congrats and God bless you all
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Your analogies with sports & food got me hollering!!! But it hits home & make things plain!
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Scooby Doo killed me lol
haha!
The ravioli will be alright 😂
Great message. God bless you!
Yr helping me so much. Thank u. I'm about to lose my future wife an my own soul if I'm not guided correctly. An yr a great leader in gods hands. Thank u 4 loving God so much. An wanting to give others yr love. Yr a incredible person man.
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DSimsMotivation Thanks bro. My emails perfectiznear@yahoo.com U know, yr help could go along way! I wanna help the whole world go to god. I can help more then most too. Im a very talented praiser, worshipper singer. An now, I'm a extremely talented singer. It's been many years. I'm 1 of the best to ever exist, I know 100% now. Honestly. It was a blessing from God. I use to literally suck at singing! Lol God blessed me with serious incredible abilities with my voice! An I'm a man after God's heart, like David! Me an David are alot alike actually... Idk what that means?? I know god told me I'm gonna be a great man of God. (An that the devil knows it, an is after me.) But yeah, I can mimic other singers, better then, they can mimic themselves. Even legends! An I have my own voice(s) that are better then almost every1 in the world! It's like my voice(s) have no limits now. It's really weird! Lol But yeah, I need help with things like fighting the devil, tips on staying humble, not being lustful, not doing idolatry, submitting to god fully, fasting, being responsible, etc. Any help would be much appreciated! I wanna change the world, but I see I can't do it alone. I've tried. Lol
Glad I was eating when you were naming food! I was having a Chicken Shwarma bowl! Lol. Great video btw. All facts!
It took me 4 months after we met. Didnt think I would settle down as I had few options, I often travel to different continent for work, wasnt ready for serious commitment, the ladies know & they dont mind, i was juz focusing on work until I saw her.
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You, (I feel like I know you lol,...... ) are one of the wonderful things the Lord blesses us with every morning.I look forward to seeing your videos.......I have just figured out how to leave comments, but know , like me, I'm sure there are many more blessed by your message, but are not able........We love you too, Brother!!!!!
Yeah u gotta ask questions dont wanna be wasted time on somebody who isn't for u. That's a waste of time. Ask dont be afraid. I gotta keep that in mind. But people do tend to back away from the topic of getting married. Lord knows there are times I've met people who dont know where they going which left me confused. I dont like confusion its frustrating. Just have to aware of everything and ask questions. Pay attention to how that person is like the way they talk they way they act. I'm observant lot of people always say u dont talk much well because I'm too busy watching u lol. I know I dont need games nor dishonesty. That's why u wait on the lord because it's all kinds of stuff out there. A lot of craziness God knows best for us.
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I went on Luther Vandross concert double date. Both men were cousins my date was the cousin and my husband now was on a relationship with this girl over 3 years. The 1st time he saw me with his cousing on that double date, he said he new he wanted to marry me and that he was with the wrong women. He told me about that after we were married. And we on our 17 years going strong. I said all of that to say men dont need 10 years to know you're the one. After a year, if they dont know, let them go ladies.
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i really enjoyed your video. You touched on so many things that I have been asking myself. I thank God for you and thanks for being that vessel to bring forrth clarity in my life. I will definetely get to the steak, been sitting at the table just having dinner for too long. Blessings!
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This is good!
I like this. My gift is wisdom. So, I like to listen and observe his actions and words, which will tell me more than if I ask him a question.
I like to let a man be himself. By him being himself, I'll get to know the real him.
Amen ! I'm waiting for my Touchdown. Thank you Brother. God bless you.!!
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Your football \ love life lessons analogy is such a guys thing lol
I ran across this vid 2 years after you posted it and everything you said was spot on I literally just told my ex who's realizing what he had & now is talking marriage that words are not impressive only actions can help us at this point and I'm willing to leave it right there & let him grow in our God because if The Lord doesn't see it for me I'm not letting it set me back... I enjoyed this lesson from a males point of view this is what women need for clarity
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A guy dropped the ball...who's fumbling? lol! Good word.
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I’m glad you put this video out. I appreciate you for posting! God is good all the time 🤍 good to hear from a man’s POV more so that’s a believer 🙌🏼
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Congratulations to you and your wife-to-be!!!!
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I don't play house and that's what we women and men need to understand. If you give them a marry life without commitment why would they want to marry you.
My God this confirms so much. I'm not crazy after all.... thank you Jesus. Lol and Thank you @dsims for posting this
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Y would u think tht?
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You'reeee funny " Don't worry about the Ravioli, he can get a to-go box." LOOOOL ! You right ! *taking notes*
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This man is preaching! Totally agree with him!
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This video was awesome. I love your perspective and the analogy to football. You are hilarious. Love it!
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That's right, get straight to the point, don't waste anyone's time...
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Haha! “He can take a to go box.”
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Mine's asked me to marry him after two weeks and he said he has a big surprise for me once I go to his promotion day with him being in the Marine Corps getting his E8 rank up so excited
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my bf and i are 1 week from 10 years in a relationship...we both have been preoccupied with grad school and internships. not that is an excuse. but i know where my mind was and marriage was not on my priority list. now that my career is established and he has completed his schooling. I slightly mentioned "where is our future going"...he looked like a dear caught in headlights. no pressure. no argument. but i can see in his eyes, he is not ready.
Random Lee Angie how did you feel?
I'm in a similar situation and I don't know what to do. We are getting out of debt together... student loans and car payments... and I know it would be faster if we work together. I really want to get out of debt so I would like to hold on but I don't want to be his 100 year girlfriend.
honestly i felt numb...not that i don't care or anything. after this long of time and he looks stunned that the question came up was enough to say that it's not his priority with me.
i feel you on the working together part because 2 incomes can make thing s happen in turbo drive. i truly feel like we are more best friends than romantic partners. what is your financial plan? i on year 2 of my 5 year plan. my boyfriend is factored in but he is not, if you know what i mean. i based my finances as if he decided to go. if your plan is to be out debt in 1-2 years then the question and answer need to be known right about now. once the debt is paid off, you need to know where to step next. we not trying to lost and wandering asking 'which way do we go george"
it seems that 10 years isa long time sister. be careful sometimes men run off and marry other woman.
This advice scares me because I've done the exact same thing. I've asked the scary but important questions from the beginning. Only to find out I was lied to from the very beginning. With their sole purpose of keeping me around.
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