When you know yourself, have a clear vision and are both aligned, and marry for values vs love, it will work out. A layer of introduction to parents and friends and family is great as well. At 37, I am of the belief that this is possible if you have done the work as individuals and you are asking the right questions.
@@tbooker5547 Or that couple has decided to commit themselves to a Godly way of living. Dating is a modern concept. In judaism and early Christianity you were married by your parents. If its meant to be its meant to be. Dating; never was meant to be. Betrothal happens AFTER your parents agreed to an arrangement.
I really like the answer of "There is no set time" You need to be open and talk to your SO. And as you get older, the time you feel like you may need to date a person will probably go down. There are also so many other factors, for instance do they share the same religious views as you (this alone can make a ton of normally conflicting views or life goals align). If you and your partner feel like you should get married and have no doubts, do it. Don't let somebody else say otherwise.
This is so beautiful! You two are awesome. God bless you as individuals and as a God loving and God-fearing couple. Praise God for real marriages😊❤❤❤❤❤
Ugh. Damn. I'm proving a guy who states that he wants to get married and that he's the type of man that needs a wife. It's coming to a year now of us courting and he tells me the other day that we're no where near the marriage steps. I was cool with it but now I guess that I should reconsider some things.
I just got out of a longterm relationship, We both I think feel relieved and maybe the timing wasn't right or maybe other people are meant for her and I but I hope and I'll PRAY 🙏 to have a Godly, Loving and Healthy Marriage like Y'all!! Stay Blessed and Much Love!
I don't think I'll ever get married...lol..im 51 and never been in love, all the men ..even godly men are just so out of the will of God for their lives ..it doesn't make sense to me at all...but, I desire a godly marriage, waiting on God...
Don't ever give up on love. It may take a move to another area and raising your confidence and self-love. Believe it to see it instead of saying "never." Stop waiting and live more so that your paths can cross.
Please PRAY for me. I'm still SINGLE and unwed. That our Lord Jesus Christ may break this curse. I don't want to be single and promiscuous any longer. Tried of not meeting my future spouse. But, I won't loose hope. Thank you both. A fan for year's!
Awesome message! Love the comment about God being the Father in law. Also what was said about God having to clean up the mess and being considerate of a person's time.
Demarcus. I've come across your videos in the past few months, and they have been a blessing. Keep up the good work. Today, your marriage movies have come across my timeline, and it is truly at a time of going 2 months into meeting a woman that I'm hoping is my kingdom spouse. I ask that you keep me in your prayers and can maybe give me some advice on what confirmation looks like. I'm in the waiting stage and the anticipation of waiting to hear back is very hard. We have both agreed we're looking for marriage and share the same goals and intentions so as far as I can see from a human perspective it's a go but maybe I'm overlooking or not understanding what confirmation may look like if that makes sense. Any advice would be appreciated
1 year. Listen, I was together with my ex for 4 years before he proposed to me but then 3 months later he broke it off and moved out. At this point for me, if after a year the man doesn’t pop the question, I’m not the one for him. Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, and instead of a card, I’m giving my new bf a list of my boundaries.
God Bless both of you and your marriage I thank God for using you all to advance his kingdom by sharing the wisdom Jesus has shown you all ... I truly appreciate it !
Good points! But when I was younger guys would be all like Why so serious??! Let's just have fun for now and relax lol. My 20's ahh.. now 37 and still single lol. At times by choice and at times by chance ha!
The boy I am with is 34yrs old and he doesn't know what to do with our 3 yrs relationship. He controls and no respect, no goals and I want to be free from this. He is so disgusting and trying to touch me here and there. I said no several times but he didn't stop.
I'm 49 years old and never been married 🤔 Came close twice marrying in Church ..... Engage twice...... I think Churches are too consumed and worship at Altar of Marriage 🤔 I agree that men should be upfront and not strong us along🤔🤔🤔🤔 After two near miss accidents/ catastrophe, I m not in hurry to tie knot but I'm receptive to Marriage to Godly Handsome Man when Father God says "Time My Princess!"😃😃😃
I truly appreciate your videos. I'm 27 now and I've been with a guy for almost 5 years now and in every instance I have been the one to bring up the topic of marraige which concerns me because I've been waiting for him to bring it up on his own to show me where he is at. How do i get him to do that?
Hey Cassie! Miss you gurl, I know momma and Pappa D are too! Demarcus, thanks for loving Cassie and taking care of her! My question: as a woman, how do you let a guy know you’re interested without seeming desperate or setting yourself up for rejection? What are your thoughts on flirting?
Jo'Anna Davis We literally record what is on our heart or what other bring to us, that we feel would be a help to others. I think your question is great and that many other young ladies may have the same question but aren’t willing to ask!
Please make a video on why would a man wants to marry you but change his speech to something else like “oh I think we are great the way we are without the marriage”.
Sis, he knows if he wants to marry you or play with you. He also can hold you up from someone better having you. You are single until married and that kind of talk has no commitment.
It varies by ethnicities... I know different cultures where the man takes the woman's last name, they both hyphenate to where her name is last, they both hyphenate to where his name is last, cultures that hyphenate the children's, and others where the woman keeps her name and they hyphenate the children's. There's no law that says a woman has to have another man's last name. Being in college and then being a public classroom educator myself, both exposed me to a lot.
I watched this today because I am having issues with a man who once was my friend and then we moved into a relationship but now I wonder if we can make it to married. I have always believed he was sent to me by the Lord.
Seeking Him daily mine took me to the same damn restaurant he used to hang out at with his ex wife who cheated on him with another guy and married that guy.
@@oliveb6318 I saw your other comment stating that your man has changed his speech from I want to marry you to "I think we're good without being married". I believe you have a lot of praying & fasting to do. No man who wants to spend the rest of his life with you would change his mind to say this..
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the eye contact on both of you all is absolutely stellar i am so proud of you 2 🤝🏾👏✅
Single for 35 years, had options, been in relationships for years until I saw her. Took me 4 months to propose. Now 2 kids 9 years
I know a couple, and he proposed within a week, and they're an extremely happy married couple.
whewww chile ! riskyyyyyy lol but glad it worked out for them.
That couple isn’t very smart lol
When you know yourself, have a clear vision and are both aligned, and marry for values vs love, it will work out. A layer of introduction to parents and friends and family is great as well.
At 37, I am of the belief that this is possible if you have done the work as individuals and you are asking the right questions.
@@tbooker5547 Or that couple has decided to commit themselves to a Godly way of living.
Dating is a modern concept. In judaism and early Christianity you were married by your parents.
If its meant to be its meant to be. Dating; never was meant to be. Betrothal happens AFTER your parents agreed to an arrangement.
I really like the answer of "There is no set time"
You need to be open and talk to your SO. And as you get older, the time you feel like you may need to date a person will probably go down.
There are also so many other factors, for instance do they share the same religious views as you (this alone can make a ton of normally conflicting views or life goals align).
If you and your partner feel like you should get married and have no doubts, do it. Don't let somebody else say otherwise.
Beautiful couple,God continued blessings.
I want someone that looks at me like this ughhhh beautiful
So happy for y’all, glad you came back with new videos. It felt like forever . God bless
hey, Ty! Thank you so much! God bless you too!!!
y'all skin is so beautiful
This is so beautiful! You two are awesome. God bless you as individuals and as a God loving and God-fearing couple. Praise God for real marriages😊❤❤❤❤❤
They’re really attracted to each other ❤️
Ugh. Damn. I'm proving a guy who states that he wants to get married and that he's the type of man that needs a wife. It's coming to a year now of us courting and he tells me the other day that we're no where near the marriage steps. I was cool with it but now I guess that I should reconsider some things.
Jai Sneed...Just make sure this is God’s plan for your life.
What has happened with your situation?
I just got out of a longterm relationship, We both I think feel relieved and maybe the timing wasn't right or maybe other people are meant for her and I but I hope and I'll PRAY 🙏 to have a Godly, Loving and Healthy Marriage like Y'all!! Stay Blessed and Much Love!
I don't think I'll ever get married...lol..im 51 and never been in love, all the men ..even godly men are just so out of the will of God for their lives ..it doesn't make sense to me at all...but, I desire a godly marriage, waiting on God...
Don't ever give up on love. It may take a move to another area and raising your confidence and self-love. Believe it to see it instead of saying "never." Stop waiting and live more so that your paths can cross.
@dating with a purpose did u ever get married?
You guys are such a sweet couple. No wonder you married her.
Please PRAY for me. I'm still SINGLE and unwed. That our Lord Jesus Christ may break this curse. I don't want to be single and promiscuous any longer. Tried of not meeting my future spouse. But, I won't loose hope. Thank you both. A fan for year's!
🙏🙂
Love this. Intentionality and Clarity is key
Awesome message! Love the comment about God being the Father in law. Also what was said about God having to clean up the mess and being considerate of a person's time.
😍 The way you look at each other!!! 💑🤗😮
Congrats on your beautiful union🤗
Thank you guys for your feedback and encouragement. God Bless
Such a beautiful couple, God bless!!!
You guys will have beautiful babies!
Demarcus. I've come across your videos in the past few months, and they have been a blessing. Keep up the good work. Today, your marriage movies have come across my timeline, and it is truly at a time of going 2 months into meeting a woman that I'm hoping is my kingdom spouse. I ask that you keep me in your prayers and can maybe give me some advice on what confirmation looks like. I'm in the waiting stage and the anticipation of waiting to hear back is very hard. We have both agreed we're looking for marriage and share the same goals and intentions so as far as I can see from a human perspective it's a go but maybe I'm overlooking or not understanding what confirmation may look like if that makes sense. Any advice would be appreciated
His voice puts me in the mind of Larenz Tate! Anyway, thank you for the informative video! ❤️
Thanks for watching!
1 year. Listen, I was together with my ex for 4 years before he proposed to me but then 3 months later he broke it off and moved out. At this point for me, if after a year the man doesn’t pop the question, I’m not the one for him. Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, and instead of a card, I’m giving my new bf a list of my boundaries.
Great point about seeing if he's talking about it to you will show you if he's even thinking of heading there.
Wow I'm a Cassie also😄Thank you guys your beautiful together and compliment one another wish you happiness forever💕😇
God Bless both of you and your marriage I thank God for using you all to advance his kingdom by sharing the wisdom Jesus has shown you all ... I truly appreciate it !
Beautiful couple!
thank you!!
Good points! But when I was younger guys would be all like Why so serious??! Let's just have fun for now and relax lol. My 20's ahh.. now 37 and still single lol. At times by choice and at times by chance ha!
PS ---- You two look so cute together 😄😄😄😄Awww
The boy I am with is 34yrs old and he doesn't know what to do with our 3 yrs relationship. He controls and no respect, no goals and I want to be free from this. He is so disgusting and trying to touch me here and there. I said no several times but he didn't stop.
I'm 49 years old and never been married 🤔
Came close twice marrying in Church ..... Engage twice......
I think Churches are too consumed and worship at Altar of Marriage 🤔
I agree that men should be upfront and not strong us along🤔🤔🤔🤔
After two near miss accidents/ catastrophe, I m not in hurry to tie knot but I'm receptive to Marriage to Godly Handsome Man when Father God says "Time My Princess!"😃😃😃
What about when the woman isn't sure? How long should we court her?
I truly appreciate your videos. I'm 27 now and I've been with a guy for almost 5 years now and in every instance I have been the one to bring up the topic of marraige which concerns me because I've been waiting for him to bring it up on his own to show me where he is at. How do i get him to do that?
Happy Belated Anniversary!!!! 💃🏾💃🏾😍😍🥰😘❤️❤️❤️🎊🎉🎁
I’ve been dating my bf for two years he hasn’t mentioned marriage but I think he’s scared cause he was married before
Two years? Tony Gaskins would say, " that isn't your husband".
Men know within the 1st meeting if you are their wife
Hey Cassie! Miss you gurl, I know momma and Pappa D are too! Demarcus, thanks for loving Cassie and taking care of her!
My question: as a woman, how do you let a guy know you’re interested without seeming desperate or setting yourself up for rejection? What are your thoughts on flirting?
Jo'Anna Davis...He should be seeking you. If he is who God has for you he will come to you. Don’t put yourself out there.
Sonja Holtzclaw Amen. I agree with that.
Jo'Anna Davis that is such a great question. Would you like us to cover it in a video?
Cassie Sims ha you can if you want! If there are other suggestions that are more pressing, do those!
Jo'Anna Davis We literally record what is on our heart or what other bring to us, that we feel would be a help to others. I think your question is great and that many other young ladies may have the same question but aren’t willing to ask!
Please make a video on why would a man wants to marry you but change his speech to something else like “oh I think we are great the way we are without the marriage”.
Sis, he knows if he wants to marry you or play with you. He also can hold you up from someone better having you. You are single until married and that kind of talk has no commitment.
This was beautiful ❤️
You are such a nice couple 😊
Thanks for sharing. Hey, how long did y'all date before engagement?
What do you think about a woman that chooses to keep her last name (maiden name), or hyphenate her name, once she gets married?
It varies by ethnicities... I know different cultures where the man takes the woman's last name, they both hyphenate to where her name is last, they both hyphenate to where his name is last, cultures that hyphenate the children's, and others where the woman keeps her name and they hyphenate the children's. There's no law that says a woman has to have another man's last name. Being in college and then being a public classroom educator myself, both exposed me to a lot.
Amen
This was GREAT!
I watched this today because I am having issues with a man who once was my friend and then we moved into a relationship but now I wonder if we can make it to married. I have always believed he was sent to me by the Lord.
Ya so cute and your wife is very beautiful 😍 I hope to find this one day leaving it to God blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for these wonderful videos!!!
thank yall for this.
1:15 the average "agree to avoid arguing"
How long did the two of court before getting married?
Oh my goodness, can you tell my bf "women always want to know where they are heading"?
You guys are so cute ❤
Awesome video.... Thanks!
Glad it helped!
3 years for me lol my trust with men is not good.
God bless you!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Thank you
He uses me and string me along. I hate him but I have to wait another year to be free. Pray ro God to free me from this guy
thx 4 the video
Where did you guys meet ?
My girlfriend watched your video and now all she can think about is the zoo..
hahaha!!
Go on a date....at Chick Fil’ A instead! 🍗
Lol!
Seeking Him daily mine took me to the same damn restaurant he used to hang out at with his ex wife who cheated on him with another guy and married that guy.
@@oliveb6318 I saw your other comment stating that your man has changed his speech from I want to marry you to "I think we're good without being married". I believe you have a lot of praying & fasting to do. No man who wants to spend the rest of his life with you would change his mind to say this..