Why Christians Should Stop Dating So Long Before Marrying Someone
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- Опубликовано: 27 мар 2019
- ‘Why Christians Should Stop Dating So Long Before Getting Engaged/ Marrying Someone’
Let me get this straight, Paul and Morgan think it only takes four months of dating to know if you want to marry the person? Well, as a general rule, yeah. In this video we explain why we feel this way and why we think too many Christians are drawing out their dating relationships longer than they should be. We share all our opinions in love, and we respect and welcome differing opinions :)
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Hey Fam! What did you think of our perspective that dating doesn’t need to take so long? We share our views in love and we welcome differing perspectives on this topic :)
I think knowing you DON’T want to marry someone takes much less time than knowing you DO want to marry them.
“Sexual boundaries get broken because there is no ending in sight” Um. PLEASE don’t get married just to have sex. That’s cray.
“Don’t be afraid to get married” dude it’s legal binding like you lose a lot of money if you guys separate it’s kind of a big deal you gotta make sure it’s the right person
There is NO way that you truly know someone's character after 4 months of seeing them a few times a week.
I think it’s important to see someone in different seasons of life. See how they handle times of success, hardship, disappointment, anger, etc. It allows you to see if their faith is unwavering in the furnace of affliction and Christ as their true cornerstone.
Everybody pleeease take your time before getting married!
Divorce rates have been steadily dropping for years and that's in large part due to the fact that so many people are now waiting longer to get married. If you can wait four months, you can wait a year, or even two years. This is a lifetime commitment that shouldn't be taken in haste. People tend to present the best of themselves in the early stages of a relationship, especially fundamentally dishonest people. It takes time to discover someone's true character. That said, there are always exceptions, some people know after the first date and stay together forever, but statistically it's much more of a risk to jump in early than to give it time.
I was with my ex boyfriend for a year, when after a turn of events he changed a lot and became abusive, I thought I wanted to marry him, but I’m so glad I didn’t. I’ve now been with my current boyfriend for 3 years, I can’t imagine anyone more kind and compatible and only now is there talk of engagement, and I feel ready for that as I know I do want to marry him. Personally, I’m glad he’s seen me in different stages of my life and I feel like time has helped us grow together and learn more about each other :)
Just some food for thought, not all people date for a longer period of time because they aren't sure if they should marry the person or not. A lot of the process of getting married is logistics, especially money. If you are young and don't have money you will have to continue dating for potentially many years before logistically you can have a wedding, have money to move in together and take on bills. Most people know right away but not many people are in a position in life where they can just throw a wedding after 4 months, they have to save money and plan and graduate college and move to the same city if they're long distance. I would say the majority of people stay in relationships until they can responsibly enter into marriage. You have to prepare before you go into it it's not just "boundaries" and "questions," that's probably the least of the problems. "Godly dating" doesn't just mean getting to know someone, it also means being responsible as people before you literally join yourselves together as one flesh.
Met my fiance, courting one month later, engaged 7 weeks later, married 10 weeks later. From met to married in 5 months! When its right, you KNOW. God’s timing is perfect.
“It wasn’t a ‘I’m not ready for marriage thing.’ It’s a ‘I wasn’t actually ready for dating thing.’”
My parents dated for 4months, and this year they celebrate 20 years happily married... I agree 100% with you guys, intentional dating!
I understand your points of view Paul and Morgan, but marriage (in my head) is LIFELONG. I would not suggest Christians to rush into it just because it is such a sacred, important, and again LIFELONG commitment. Instead, if anyone is contemplating getting married, do ALOT of praying (like pray everyday) and ask God to give you the signs if this person is the one or not. God should be the one giving the signs (or red flags) as to whether or not you should marry someone. He will show you and you will know if that person is the one by their fruits (Matthew
I feel like it’s not necessarily a specific amount of time... for so many reasons.... but I WOULD say it’s important to have had a fight before you get married... I think you should know how your partner fights! 🤷🏻♀️
My parents met each other, got engaged one month later, got married one month after that, and they're still together 24 years later. It's called commitment. I totally agree with this video. If you're in the right stage of life and intentional you'll know in a short time period.
I met my husband online, and we fell in love before we even met in person! We also knew we wanted to get married before we met in person too. After 4 months of talking on the phone, FaceTiming, or texting for hours each day he got a plane ticket FL to visit me. Three days later I bought a plane ticket to Canada to be with him, we got married a month later.
See, I completely agreed with this idea until I got in my first relationship. I tried my best to be as intentional as possible, she put on a good show about loving the Lord, and things were going pretty well. Around 4 months in we started taking about the possibility of getting married. Six months in I was considering buying a ring sometime soon. Then I found she had a bad habit of sleeping with other dudes behind my back (not that we were sleeping together), and I'm so glad I didn't put a ring on it. That's why I'm weary of jumping into marriage that quick, but maybe I just have had bad experiences.
Hi Paul and Morgan,
I strictly remember him saying I dont want to just talk to you..or Netflix and chill but take you on a formal date. That's when I knew how cute.