Flirting- A Christian’s Guide
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2024
- ‘Flirting- A Christian’s Guide‘
Yep, we believe it’s okay for a Christian to flirt. But don’t abuse it! When trying to get that guy or girl to notice you, there are some things you should be mindful of. Here are our best healthy flirting tips :)
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Alright, Fam, let’s hear your thoughts on Christians flirting :)
Do you agree with where we are coming from? Or do you see things differently? Love you guys!❤️
You guys read my mind. This is the video I was about to ask for
Paul Benish good to hear, Paul!
I totally agree with what you said in this video! This was very helpful! Thank you!😁
I agree with y'alls point of view!!❤❤ right on with this video🔥🤙
Yes! I agree! And also I am glad that told the guys to step up and be a man. So good!! Amen to that!
I was looking through the book of numbers and realized I don't have yours🤔
King Wavy yes.
@@madisonmclendon7191 holy CRAP did that actually work 😱😱😅
King Wavy haha
King Wavy I know when I saw the video from John Crist (I caught you lol) I like fell on the floor when I heard that:
@@annafebland4460 dang it, you caught me 😅😅
"If I march around you seven times, will you fall for me?" I love that line :D
Haha :P
Haha haha! 😂 that's cool
Hahaha!
That is great! lol
Love this one 😂😂
Eye contact, the only type of contact allowed.
I am not being mean but if he is not funny, I am not gonna laugh. I personally believe that I have to enjoy his humor and be honest about it. After all, he is the guy imma spend the rest of my life with.
Right, and if his humor truly repels you, good chance he’s not right for you😊
A guy once said a terrible joke, then repeated it, then said "Did you even hear me? Why didn't you laugh?"
I said "Yes, I heard you. It just wasn't a funny joke!" 😂 We still talk every now and again, but he's wise enough to keep things serious 😋🤭
I would agree with this. Me and my fellow Christian bros would like to earn your laughs instead of being gifted sympathy laughs.
Princess Bina Chosen this idea that there is pressure to make a woman laugh is ridiculous. we can have an enjoyable relationship without cracking jokes constantly. you can find laughter without humor.
I'm pretty sure what they meant was that some people (like Morgan's friend) don't laugh at the joke because they're nervous, not necessarily because they don't find it funny... Also, if you don't enjoy his humor then you might not want to spend the rest of your life with. :)
I think it's okay to flirt. As long as it's in a Godly way and you REALLY like them, and not just leading them on or doing to try and make someone else jealous.
Alaska Jones exactly!
Motivation is very important, don't play dirty games😉
No, affairs happen, so don't even come close to flirting with someone of the opposite sex.
Flirting in a godly way? What would that look like?
That's right. If two persons like each other they will flirt without even realising it. I mean a guy will make eye contact, will try to be in the same group to the girl, be funny around the girl he likes, and same for girls, they will laugh at his jokes, play with they hair, etc.
As long as you have good intentions,if you are truly interested in somebody I think it's perfectly ok to flirt.
I'm sorry I just have to say Morgan always has the best looking hair
Sunshine Hurricane awe hehe thank you❤️❤️
Sunshine Hurricane is that a flirt
@@PaulandMorgan your welcome 😍
oh my gosh i was thinking the exact same thing!
Yesssss!!!!
Guys, be a gentleman! Even the little things like holding a door open, mean so much to a girl. She will notice if you do it, and she will notice if you don't.
Personally, one of my main requirements for dating/marrying if that the man is a gentelman.
This is true
@@PaulandMorgan thanks for the reply, love you guys😀!
Sarah Juntunen Absolutely 👏👏👏
@@PaulandMorgan yea it is true my friends
Sarah Juntunen, wow, i am so glad to hear that girls still appreciate chivalry!
I have always enjoyed when a boy I was interested in said my name! Good tip!
Carlee Sadler Reminds me of this Brooke Fraser lyric that I love: "I could write a million songs about the way you say my name." :)
Carlee Sadler or when they say a nickname. Like how my name is Sophia, whenever a guy calls me Sophie, not only does he get my attention more but I know almost instantaneously that he likes me lol
People love when someone says their name
Flirtings cool when you know your limit and intentions😌🔥
eshton adams right on!
Yes, limits!👍
No, affairs happen. That is why I can't flirt with any woman.
@@tskjesusfreak then you're doing it wrong buddy.... then you needa change the limit your flirting goes to, don't flirt to the point where it seems like you're tryna have an affair
@@eshtonadams8121 it starts out that way. I'm getting advice from the reformed perspective. Guys like John MacArthur, Steve Lawson, James White, Paul Washer and the late R C Sproul. They all say one should not flirt.
Morgan’s hair literally ALWAYS looks incredible. Drop a hair routine girl!! I’m struggling over here 😂😂
Haha you're sweet! :P
Just be you Sarah! God made you beautiful! Your value is not in your hair
Just quote Song of Songs and tell her that her neck is like a tower of Babylon. Worked for Solomon: the man did get married 700 times...
Why am I still single?...haha...ha...
Grant Prairie lol
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hahahah you made my day
I was literally hoping someone would do a video on Christian flirting, and who better to do it then y'all! Thank you!
Whoop whoop!!
So I have been flirting a lot with this guy for a few months and he finally took the first step and we are dating now! We have been twice and we are going out again soon.
YAY!! :)
Hows it going 8 months down the line?
Update?!?!
How did it go?
@@meanmasherttv3285 oh my gosh that's been so long ago! We dated for a month and then I realized we would be better as friends. There really wasn't any spark ig. I was right and we are still close. He even helps me try and get other guys. I haven't seen him in a while but we will see each other soon!
I'm Soo shy! Flirting is honestly talking for me lol
You have to determine what flirting is for you, what you are comfortable doing! :)
Same😂 I just never know what to say
@@PaulandMorgan Wow, that really makes since. I always get anxiety when watching these types of videos bc of how different everyone’s style is but this video helped me a lot, thank you. I’ve had a crush on this girl all my life as I’ve know her since I was born through Sunday school but I’ve always been so scared because of how beautiful and KIND and crazy she is. But I feel like since my interest in her has never gone away that maybe it’s a sign from God so it’s prob about time I really get out there. There’s just one issue. I’m a freshman and she’s a junior in high school but luckily I’m not a small freshman lol. Tbh it is a little intimidating tho bc of that lol.
My mother taught me to be the one walking closest to the street, which is one rarely mentioned. God bless you and thank you for a great video!
I think the most important element is trusting God, praying about and for whoever you are interested in.
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Omg. Im 27 yall... TWENTY SEVEN!!! 🙈 I've rededicated my heart and purity to Christ, I moved back home to my college town and serve in my local youth ministry and with the most awesome kids at work...HOWEVER, my dating pool has been dry for years lol. You hear me?!!! 😩 I had a crush on an old schoolmate long distance. Then I told him so, and he was like "no ma'am!" lol... I thought... He loves kids, I love kids, he's single, I'm single, we both love Jesus, made occasional eye contact in the library- maybe his heart skipped a beat like mine! ...nope! *sigh
So that was embarrassing, but he didn't stop liking my stuff on social media even though I unfollowed him in an attempt to disappear... Which proves it wasn't as cringey as I thought. However, THASSIT!!! That's almost a year's worth of romance 🙈 I'm lowkey thinking I should join a convent (those gals get to do all kinds of missions trips FO FREE!!! 😍 )
You both make me laugh so much!!! The awkward “hiiiiiii” 😂 You’re so informative, relevant, practical, entertaining, and you speak TRUTH!! Your content is solid. Thank you! ♥️♥️
Coming from a 17 year old who’s never dated and genuinely doesn’t know how to flirt...thank you :)
I disagree with that. Flirting should only happen between a husband and a wife only. Flirting leads to sins like affairs, sex outside of marriage, and lusting. Start listening to John MacArthur, Steve Lawson, James White, R C Sproul, and other reformed guys. They never flirted outside of their marriages and have wonderful marriages.
@@tskjesusfreak Flirting shows someone that you're interested, I have no idea what you're talking about 😂
Lol the definition of me...twinsies 😊
“ Hii👀🙂” 🤣🤣Morgan, your hair looks gorgeous😍
Vegan With Love Thank You❤️❤️
Vegan With Love True
I totally agree with you guys on this. Especially the saying the name part! When my husband says my name I'm taken aback a little and feel butterflies! I know this wasn't the point of the video, but your video really reminded me to flirt more with my husband because it's so easy to forget that!
That's sweet
Does anyone else think it’s funny that Morgan Cat Statue just causally sits in the background? 😂
😺😼😺😼
YES! I was waiting for someone else to comment on it xDDDD
Kinda weird
I know way too many single women that really wanted to get married and never did because they never showed interest. I wouldnt show interest in most cases and i almost missed getting married for not allowing myself for guys to approach me (including my husband in first instances )My husband called me (cuz he lived in a different state) after my Bible school graduation to congratulate me and we werent friends so I just knew from that call that he was interested...my husband was bold and intentional.
Love that! Thanks for sharing, Mary😊
Yes thanks for sharing!!! ♥️ because i always reject a guy and say “I’ll wait for what God will say” in my mind and purposely ignore them. And wasn’t taught how to show interest.
Mary C m
Paul and Morgan h
Mary C when I’m bold and intentional, pursue the girl, they tell me they want a man who doesn’t care about them. Christian women. Let me ask you, were his looks very important to you? For example, if he was ugly but treated you the way he did, would you still have married him?
I like that at the end of the video ya'll said "we'd like to hear your opinion so we can have a conversation about it"... That is HUGE. Even if people disagree with them these youtubers want a conversation. Yes you heard right. Wow. :) Two thumbs up here. And I also love the vid.
Everyone knows that the best way to show interest in someone is to:
1. Stay as far away from them as possible.
2. Say absolutely nothing.
3. Avoid any and all eye contact
4. Ask God why they don’t like you.
Or am I doing it wrong?
Haha no, no...that's perfect! :P
Yep I needed this im that girl who avoids the guy they like smh. This helped a lot though so thanks :)
Estie P haha me too 😂
haha you have to be confident in yourself and then that confidence will flow into how to present yourself to others
Same. This video was helpful. 😂 I don't know what I'm doing.
Estie P I’m also in the same boat.
This is so me 😭
Of course!!! Flirting is so important!!❤️
lattesdarling 😄😄❤️
Honestly, without ANY flirting at all it's not only harder to approach someone but also it can be really weird when you do because neither one of you has any clue that the other had interest in you in the first place haha it's kind of a necessity in a way. XD plus.. it's also a little fun 😏
@@sierrab489 agree with you! Flirting is needed, but just in right way😉
Disagree with the whole notion of flirting. Why? Affairs happen. Only flirt with your spouse. If you don't have a spouse flirting still can be dangerous. Don't ever flirt.
Flirting is a form of fornication if your looking for the person your meant to be with Pray to the Lord Jesus Christ to show you who your supposed to be with and a sign to be certain their the one you dont need to date God will bring you togeather if you ask and have faith. I prayed to God and 2 days later got a text message from the person I'm ment to be with after they said they had this strange urge to call me and see how I was doing God is the greatest dating app because he knows who your ment to be with before you and knows who's right for you.
The laughing thing is such a great one for me. I have always been the class clown and the person who likes to make people laugh so if I notice someone who genuinely laughs (or at least pretends to) it really stands out to me! Love this video!
It makes sense :)
amen amen, needed this. Thank you so much for your point of view on this aspect. It’s very helpful!
Jeanmarie Perez so glad to hear that! ❤️
You guys are so enjoyable to watch. Love all your vids. 💯⚡️
Thank you, Joselito!
Impress those girls with those Bible versus
I think this is gonna be a hit guys try it while flirting !! Timothy 2:11 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection…" pretty sure she will be impressed :P
@@eymerich6872 Nope , actually that hurts my ears
Tell 'em!
Yes, tell a girl "your hair is like a flock of goats"
I always avoid the boys that I like 🤦🏻♀️
I assume that a girl acting like that doesn't like me. The things we do...
nick 😀
Morgan, your hair looks sooo pretty!!! Also, I am very bubbly like you and it was good to hear that I can just tone it down sometimes cause it does seem like I have a flirty personality. Yall are a beautiful couple. God bless.
You're sweet! And of course you can tone it down! It is not wrong to be bubbly, everyone just has to learn how to present themselves most effectively! :)
Ahhhhh!!!!!!! I love you Paul & Morgan!!!!😍😍🔥 amazing video💗💗
Aweee you’re awesome Joanna😊❤️
Yes! It's really helpful to me that you guys are talking about this from a christian perspective❤
:)
Love this video! Something that I’ve noticed on a few dates that is “good weird” is when the guy will come over to open my car door for me before getting in on his side! It’s clearly intentional and no one really does that nowadays!
That's a good tip for guys too :)
Hope P the guy I’m trying to know did that a couple of times too!!!
Oh my gosh saying, the name thing is so true! I love when people say my name. It makes my heart so happy ❤️
Thank you for your vids! I watched ur last one on spiritual gifts, and it came at just the right time. For the past few weeks, God has been putting it on my heart that I have the gift of prophecy. When I went to church our youth pastors sermon was talking about spiritual gifts, and he said "I pray that some of you will have the gift of prophecy" and I knew God was talking to me. So I prayed with my youth pastor and we talked about it, and I'm really excited to use my gift. Ik I left some of the details out, but I do know that God has given me this gift. So basically can u guys pray for me that i can use this gift to help others?
P.S God has been speaking to me too! Like he has told me sooooo much about me, and what he wants me to do, which is super cool. Love your videos! Keep up the good work!💜💜💜💜
Katie That’s so cool! Praise God, that’s a really special gift!
To flirt, just read the person verses from the Song of Songs. Some of favorite verses include:
-I liken you, my darling, to a mare among Pharaoh’s chariot horses.
-Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from the hills of Gilead.
2 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn, coming up from the washing.
Yeah I have that happy bubbly personality that gets every guy to misunderstand me... 😄
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Me too!
I think it depends how one defines flirting and ultimately (and most importantly), heart motive. I also just noticed you guys have 71,000 subscribers?! That's amazing!! Look how God is growing you! Grateful for you both and your channel. Much love!
Agreed! And yess! Thank you for supporting us! :)
The name one is so true! If a guy says my name, especially if he has a nice voice, it plucks my heart strings!
Love this! So helpful to hear it’s okay to show that you notice someone and like them without feeling guilty or weird about it. Loved this video.
Yeah!😄
The name thing is RIDICULOUSLY true. You notice it (sometimes subconsciously) and it just makes you feel special and seen.
Thank you so much for making this video!! I am one of those awkward girls and I accidentally avoid the guys I find attractive sometimes and this video was SUPER helpful!
We're glad you found it helpful! :)
Lovedddd the video! Been watching for the past two weeks now and have been on a Paul and Morgan marathon all evening lol. Keep up the great work!
awe that's so sweet! Thank you :)
Ahhh seeing that fresh shave on Paul is a good sight😂. In all seriousness though, I needed this video. Thanks guys, I love you both, hopefully this retreat happens bc it would be so exciting to meet you both !
haha yes! And we hope the retreat happens too! We would love to meet you! :)
“I will give an authentic response...”
*goes and smells hair* -Paul 2018 😂
:P
Omigosh, yasss😍😍 saying their name is truly such a good tool! I love it when ppl ya my name. It’s kinda shows(to me) that they are truly interested in talking to me. It’s gahh so interesting and effective!
Yes girl! :)
Thanks for making this video. My wife and I just watched. We also should guard our hearts in case the person isnt interested. This happened to me a few times and it was really good, so it wasnt awkward around them and could still je friends.
this is true :)
This very is one I was looking for! 😱😄 thank you!
Awe yay!
I truly respect what you two are doing I think it’s amazing !!
Thank you guys! This couldn’t have come at a better time! 💛 Could y’all make a video about you journey and testimony of speaking in tongues? Thanks and love you guys!😊❤️
This is such a good video :)) thanks for such a timely message!
Glad you liked it, Judy!
This is a very good video!!! I got inspired!! Thank you both.
Alaska Jones yay!!
Is your name Faith? Coz you're the substance of things I've hoped for
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I love this🔥🔥
Nice
This is great! and Morgan thanks for the advice about being aware if you are too bubbly or outgoing and how that can deter a guy without you trying. I’m naturally super friendly towards EVERYONE so I find it hard to know where the line is in still being my true self but also how to make it apparent that I’m interested in someone
Yeah, you have to be yourself no matter! God has created you in a special way :) now to figure out how to best express that to others :)
I just found this channel and I love it! I subscribed!!
GOALS. I pray that someday I have a relationship as genuine and Godly as you guys clearly have.❤️
God will bring the right one in the right time :)
If you haven't already you should do a video of how NOT to flirt. Sooo many guys think that calling a girl sexy is appropriate flirting for Christians...
True, thanks for the topic :)
@@PaulandMorgan no problem. I just recently started watching your videos (had never heard of you guys before) and they have been a real blessing. :)
I totally feel that part about the bubbly personality. There are guys that think I like them when I totally didn't mean that. This does make it harder because I can't tell how the guy I actually do like feels about me. I just discovered and love your videos! Thank you for answering these types of questions from a Christian perspective!
Thanks for the comment😊
Christians aren’t allowed to flirt..? When did anyone ever say rhat nonsense...I’m a transitional Christian and I flirt all the time and love to do so as well😂
Lol do you have urges?
you guys fill so many gaps when it comes to my knowledge about dating as a Christian so thank you for making these videos (esp because im heading off to college in the fall)!!!
Thanks for your support! And good luck next fall!! :)
Morgan is so pretty❤❤ the role play at the end when Paul smells Morgan's hair😂 I died😂😂
You're sweet!
This was a really good one, I like your perspective on this!
Thanks!
I thank you guys for this. As an adult who has recently found faith and lived quite a different life prior to Christ, Im clueless on how to flirt because I'm used to taking it across the line. Thank you guys for sharing these tips!
Thank you so much for this video!!!! I was just thinking about this the other day, perfect timing! 💛
:)
Thank you guys!!
I think I’ve only watched three of your videos so far, and I loved them all a lot. Thank you guys for making these videos and helping your fellow brothers and sisters out. You guys are such a cute couple
I am SO GLAD that you two put out this video!! I cannot flirt for the life of me and it really bothers me. I don't know what to do around guys who I am interested in. I freeze up, am super awkward, or simply avoid them. But I don't like that this is how I act around guys I am interested. I want to know how to flirt in a normal way that is not over powering but is obvious. I am also 20 and have never been in a relationship, so I do not have any past flirting experience to help me haha. So yes, I think it is fine for Christians to flirt... with someone that they are genuinely interested in. But I disagree with flirting with everyone or just trying to lead people on, because that is playing with emotions which is not okay. Paul and Morgan, THANK YOU for your tips to flirting! I would love even another video (maybe collab with other RUclipsrs) where you can talk about this topic more and give more tips.
Paul you said about taking the hit from the car if necessary
to protect her! Love that 😂
:)
Love you videos! So entertaining and encouraging!
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@Morgan, I 100% understand you. We have similar personalities, and one time my best friend said “No offense, but sometimes guys think you’re flirting with them, because you giggle a lot.” 😂 The bubbly personality struggle is REAL.
Love to watch y’all. I recently started a channel, and y’all were a huge inspiration in why I wanted to do that. Keep it up! 💕
Love the last part 😂😂😂smelling her hair!!! You guys give good advise this is great thank you and keep posting videos.
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LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!! Thank you so much for putting this view forward, definitely agree with your points! X
Thanks for your support! :)
Morgan is literally my spirit animal
I LOVED this video!! I definitely agree on where you're coming from...keep up the good work!
Thanks for the support! :)
Loving everything u guys said🙌🏻
Love you guys! You always make my day! 🤗
Kirsten_ iZed awe😊❤️
You guys are awesome. Subbing now! Great thoughts.
Thank you for the support! :)
This could not have been uploaded at a better time!
awe good :)
Morgans role play/awkward laugh scene @ 1.55.... Been there, done that!
and the 'being rude' part applies too :)
Did Paul Just Dab?
Yael Y oh you know it!
Like a boss!
he does it almost every time ahahahaha lol
Yael Y that is of the world.
Christians dont know such things.. #sin
I usually avoid the guy I am interested in
It means a lot to a guy when you are interested in talking and hanging out. You shouldn't have to be anyone but yourself around him. The Man of God for you will see and appreciate you for who God made you to be. He will respect and honor you as the daughter of the King. And of course, surround yourself with genuine Godly people who will speak life and encouragement to you. I prayed for the Lord to surround me with brothers and sisters in Christ who are hungry for God and He has been faithful to answer this prayer. He will be faithful to you no matter what.
Hey guys! I wanna encourage you for the good work you’re doing in the kingdom!❤️
I really felt on my heart to share with you guys that the Lord is challenging you to grow more in the revelation of what it means to involve the Holy Spirit into the journeys of dating and marriage!
So I encourage to pray on that, I believe God specifically wants to speak to you and take you deeper into these topics💛
I am so blessed by your ministryy and beautiful anthenticity, may God take care of you more and more!💓
I LOVE this video :) SUCH great advice & and I especially enjoyed the ending, hair-smelling lol.
Thank you for your support! :)
hahaha I love you guys!! i was smiling through the whole video. :) you are doing great things, keep being awesome!
Awe thank you :)
I've been watching you're channel alot lately on all topics of love, dating, relationships and everything to do with this subject. I'm interested in a guy in my youth group n hes intrested in me. I just want all the Christian advice I can get. Thanks for being a youtuber who's open about their faith and the topics church's dont talk about often love you guys!
Oh my lands I love this video.😂😁 I really appreciate the points you made while still recognizing that it's not a "game" per se. Well done.
Thank you :)
Loved this video it was super helpful and love you guys.
:)
Thank you so much for being the man and woman God called you to be. He loves you. I bet He´s proud of you both
Ok I LOVED this! It’s so hard for me to know how to actually interact with a guy I might be interested in and I agree 100% with the guys advice about getting out there! Thanks for the awesome video!
You both are so cute together!! :) (I hope that doesn't sound weird lol). I hope I will find a guy like Paul who loves God, has humor, and can sing, and that my future relationship will be just as godly as yours'! Thank you so much for this channel!!
I am new to watching ur channel but I absolutely love it! You guys are awesome! I will definitely be telling everyone of my friends abt you guys! There are some of my friends that struggles with not being pretty or handsome enough for that one person they like and you guys would be amazing for them to watch! Thanks for being encouraging! I will definitely be watching a lot more of your videos! 👍😁
LOL PAUL THE END when you sniffed her hair 😂😂 Oh my I love you guys so much and love this video! Also, thanks to you guys for giving me the idea of going on prayer walks because I felt really stressed out with school today, so when I got home I went for a walk and listened to worship music the whole time and I just had this really long conversation with myself and God in my head and it really helped to just calm me down. 🧡 Unfortunately, it’s time to study for my anatomy and physiology test now 😆
That's awesome ItsAshHun
I like this. Thank you for the great tips! 🙂
Welcome!
Thank you so much! Very helpful!
I think it’s okay in the way you’re describing it. It’s important to get to know people🤷🏾♀️
Thank you so much for your videos!! They are such a blessing!! Love you guys!!!!!!
We love you guys!