She spoke in such a generalizing term and certainty as if all men in general will just take the women back after they spin the block and then try to spin the block back to the good guy 😂 NOT ME! FELLAS AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU, THOSE ONCE A MONTH BLEEDERS ARE OF THE ABUNDANCE.
Not to say that it never happens, but I personally don’t know any men that took a woman back after she rolled out on him so she could run the streets. One guy was like, “You thought I was boring before? I’m even worse now and have nowhere to go but down. We’re both better off with you staying wherever you are.”
The key word she said was “feel”. Listen bruhs, the only thing….The Only Thing a woman is loyal to is her Feelings, and her Feelings can change faster than a New York Minute. Let it breathe.
feelings are chemicals the brain and body create based off the food we put in our body, the drinks we drink, how much flouride is in our blood stream, how much salt or sugar is in our bloodstream, we create ourselves and we create our own perspectives... for example someone might say "its not that simple" well ofcourse for you it is'nt but for many it is, now tell me what's the difference without making exscuses or then again some people can only explain differences while describing exscuses and gaslighting and saying "this sounds like an exscuse but its not" even though its really an exscuse... some peoples entire perspective is defeated and some peoples perspective is "bring on the next challenge" most people are defeated due to calcium phosphate crystilization in the endocrine system and in the brain.. most people have no clue we have two brains and one is in the stomach, 80 percent of our nuero-transmitters are in the gut... food drink medicine recreational drugs have always been weaponized, even sound is weaponzied.. not because my opinion but its public information to be researched...
Why I stopped chasing women. I'm not going to bring confusion into my life. I learnt how to be happy without a woman and it's peaceful, the growth is amazing. I wish I knew this earlier in life
She not lying …A woman will cheat , do you wrong etc while she’s calculating in her mind that you will still be there for her because you love her that bad
@@D-Thang_ she has to love you more than you LIKE her. The reality is most women really DONT LIKE STABLE,LOVING RELATIONSHIPS,EVEN IF THEY SAY OR THINK THEY DO,WOMEN LOVE THE CHASE OF YOUR APPROVAL AND VALIDATION (I.E. YOUR COMMITMENT), women love the honeymoon phase,the emotional rollercoaster,great sex and dopamine highs. Newness and unpredictability.......you actually have to REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED,AND DO THE BARE MINIMUM FOR AND WITH HER.........that will make her question whether you actually care about her,make feel like she isn't good enough for you,and she will do even more TO EARN your validation and approval. ITS ALL IN THE CHASE.
Right here in Atlanta a well to do lawyer wanted a bad boy, and after a while she wanted out but he wasn't having it so he killed her and he killed his self, when I came out of the streets my wife said this is what I've been praying for so if you're a good guy stay a good guy this woman is delusional 😡
Women don't like to be held accountable. They know the so called bad boy is a very flawed individual and therefore can't really hold them to higher standards. More importantly, she doesn't have to feel like she needs to uphold those standards with him. When a man looks like he's got his shit together and in complete control, they run and say some silly thing like "he's boring" Or they stay and self sabotage by seeking out the bad boy still because deep down, they know they don't "deserve" the "good guy" and the insecurity tears them apart from the inside. Deep down, they're wondering why this seemingly perfect guy chose them. Can't he see that he can get someone better? Even more terrifying to them is what if he does find someone better? In short, it just really stems from a lack of self worth.
@thedoctor2085 So, you're saying a woman wants a guy who doesn't play by the rules, so they can do the same thing? If so, that is like a relationship with no boundaries or expectations for either person. I think some women know what they want, if they have been in a bad relationship for a while. Other women, not sure there.
@@Slim1423 More like a relationship with fewer boundaries but a lot of expectations. She wants a guy who generally doesn't play by the rules but adopts a totally different set of rules when it concerns her. Basically a pitbull on a leash. Her leash. Believe it or not, guys like that are the easiest to manipulate.
Nah in modern days good guys get over used,useless woman cause the bad guys get the good woman first and after they the bad guys used her and moved to the next good woman these now turned 304 whores expect God fearing good man to marry them cause since the beginning of time good guys finish last and get nasty by products of bad guys...see this is one BIBLE verse I strongly disagree with I know God did not write this this is work of women in ancient monastery to create that loophole for whores to get married....
I'm one of those "boring" dudes who went to high school in the inner city in the 90's, literally every chick dated thugs or b-ball or football players. If you wasn't one of those, you may as well been a tree stump to girls - and I'm a good looking man. All of them without exaggeration are with none of those same dudes (baby daddies) now, and are single or have had a slew of bad/ghetto dead end relationships. None have been married for an extended period of time and none have stable situations at home. Why can't women just admit they were living for the moment and got caught up in the hype of the culture FOR THAT TIME.
Why would any man want to be liked by a woman like this in the first place? These kimd of women are very likely to be entitled, spoiled, narcissistic, moody, have low self esteem, boring, and deficient.
I’ve only seen this happen once, but once was more than enough! The young lady destroyed two rock bands along with a promising lead singer. And ironically, when she dumped the singer, she left him…for the promising lead singer for still another rock band. She left the first guy precisely because she was able to break him. What’s…wild?…is that I don’t think she ever consciously decided to inflict so much havoc. Benefit of the doubt, because nobody involved (even tangentially like I was) was older than 20…
She’s on point! The worst thing for a woman is for a man to realize his worth. Because at that very point in time, she no longer has a controlling stake in his life.
If she's truly feminine, she WANTS you to realize your worth. Mine speaks positivity over me everyday. The problem is that so many are masculine in the west
The thing is, that’s not love that makes people stay. They don’t love themselves! That’s why they stay. Someone who loves and truly respects themself would leave at the first red flag or sign of disrespect. Staying when you’re clearly not being valued is not exemplary of love, that’s low self esteem/self hatred manifesting in a relationship.
I can testify that women in general (not just lovers) cannot stand too much peace and quiet. They get antsy, bored, and annoyed, feeling like they're missing out on excitement. The very bad boys that they complain about are the same ones they will run over quiet, nice guys to get to. Learned over the years that women mean very little of what they say because mostly they don't know what they want.
This resonated deeply with me brother. There are things I take serious in this life , but a woman's "word" is just not one of them. They are susceptive to seductive language and sometimes they even illude themselves.
"They don't know what they want". This is 100% true.. Female behavior will not make sense unless you understand their Nature. Women are naturally Chaotic, Fickle, Impulsive, Manipulative, & Hypergamous. But most men have no idea about this.
I’m far from a “Bad Boy”, but I can attest, I’ve gotten more action from chicks that thought they “could change me” than any females that were willing to just love and respect me for who I am.
It could also be they're attracted to "emotionally unavailable" men which in turn they try to "fix". Emotionally unavailable people usually have subliminal and subconscious character deficits and are often aloof, can be mentally draining on their lovers, shallow, and boring.
I thank the sister for being honest about the stupid ass thought process some women have. She didn't shy away for one second; stating the obvious contradictions some of our lost sisters carry in their minds.
Its actually the opposite. They arent bored by good dudes, they are scared. They arent familiar and/or don't feel worthy so they run to the guys that are familiar and/or they feel worthy of. In short, a woman's relationship choices reflect her self worth. So no matter how beautiful and intelligent and special she may actually be, the guy she is with, and moreover the treatment she accepts, will tell you how she views herself.
I love watching this lady. She’s honest. We as women need another woman to hold us accountable. Make us look in the mirror and either change what we don’t like…or shut up when we reap what we’ve sown.
Not true, some of them do have fathers but they have either been given the delusional princess treatment for so long of their lives or they weren't taught well (or anything) by their fathers.
Half the women I know like thus had father's in their lives. Good father's. Now alot of them were spoiled too, if anything, That's the reason but then again how do you explain the ones who Didn't have a father.
Maybe 15 or 20 years ago I could fully agree with that statement but these days that almost means nothing. Have you ever listened to how some of these women talk to or about their fathers? Not deadbeats or absentee dads or step dads but their biological father who stayed married to their mother? Straight disrespect and if you ever get the chance to witness her mother and father interact it’s a lot of that also. A lot of women in our community are taking on a ratchet single mother mentality with open disrespect to any and every black male whether it’s their romantic male partner, a male coworker, their brother or other male relative or just a random young or old black man on the street. Even the women that didn’t grow up in that type of environment are taking on this mentality. I eliminate women that didn’t grow up with their biological father or didn’t have a great relationship with him but I don’t automatically qualify the ones that do have a good relationship with their father either.
Usually we equivocate Bad Boy with Alpha male tendencies, do what it takes to get desired outcome. Plus Women love to make themselves up and are pressed to feel secure so sometimes they want attention and feel outta control soft.
What she forgot is that after she chased the bad boy . She tried to come back. He's gone to someone else. And then she's sick because a good one got away
Naaaaww Sis, I ain't gonna be there for someone who don't treat me right. Not that I'm anybody, but I've already left a number of you. Things are changing. Many modern Women are in for a rude awakening. They aren't hip to SYSBM, MGTOW, and IBMORE.
We should hate Women, BUT for sure we should AVOID these types of women that carry and take pride in these stereotype and mentalities. C Highly celebrate & praise the good, sober minded Women truly hold it down.
@bobbywallace4225 good men have boundaries but can't make women desire them, nice guys can't get the women at all only lucky. ..good men get cheated on too. ..along as you are relationship focused/ husband material be careful fellas
It's all about how deep that woman is getting stroked out by that particular man and everything else falls in line after that some men have different levels of experiences with women than others
Black men need to stop taking disrespect in the name of keeping your family together or not wanting to start over. I get it, you get into a routine and don’t wanna messed that up, but I’m not allowing myself to be played with in the name of keeping my family. As long as the kids are taken care of, they’ll be ok. You’re setting a precedent to your kids that it’s ok to take back people that disrespect you, and I’m not going for it.
They’ll live longer with cats than they would with you 😅😂 Don’t believe me…read the stats. Why does a single woman living with cats bother you? I don’t get it. Ever heard of what others eat, won’t make you 💩…
@indigoGoddess7 well, the question would not be what man and/ or woman says, WHAT DID THE MOST HIGH TELL US TO DO!? IF THATS FOLLOWED, SO CALLED SH-- WOULDN'T BE AN ISSUE! AS WELL AS AN ANIMAL TO SUBSTITUTE A BOND BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN!
I worked in America twice. Men and women in relationships generally were untrustworthy in behaviour ,with colleagues wives appearing to see what their partners were up too. The boss was having an affair as well and most of them professed to be Christian.
Yeah, at this stage, I stopped trying to build family with women. I have my fun when they are around, and be a monk when they aren’t around. I date myself when women aren’t there. Don’t know how you’re supposed to build a healthy family when constantly dealing with this type of ridiculous mindset. So, yeah… it feels like the culture is doomed. 🤷🏽♂️ I release this confusion and nonsense in my life. More power to the rest of you. Guess I’ll have to live vicariously through the successful ones and be grateful at least some people figured it out if I don’t. 🕊️ ✌🏽 🖤 ✨
@@GenuineRSA I'm talking about looks, you said it's because the bad boy is sexually attractive, that's why I made the example about Russell and Future, LOOKS!!!
@@yangasidziya3245 Looks= Physical attraction. Sex=Sexual attraction. Wtf does another man's looks have to do with being a "bad boy" that a woman finds sexually attractive, read slow next time that seems to be your pace.
Other races are like this too bro so don’t get it twisted, Black women are not the only ones with this mindset and I’m speaking from experience and it’s the black women that YOU associate yourself with
This was how I was as a youngster, when you grown up take care of your responsibilities, I wouldn't want to be like this in my 40s. Try having a relationship with God let him guide you.
No…No…No… The reality is not all women. The so-called bad boys are actually unaware narcissists and these women are unaware empaths. Empaths have an inherent addiction to narcissists without knowing it… it’s almost like spiritual
Bless her, at least she's honest. I believe it's the responsibility of older women to teach the younger females because they don't even understand themselves.
You don't have to be a thug or a bad boy.....you do however need to be a man that will not tolerate disrespect. You do need a backbone. As a man you need to know when to walk away for good if things are really that bad.
Being competitive is not the same as being bad-minded, covetous, envious and jealous and that's what I see in so many women and it's disgusting and sickening. It really needs to stop.
Cough!! BS!! If a woman leaves me, she doesn't get a second chance. And a couple that understands what marriage is does not have this problem. This type of ignorant thinking where there is no accountability on the woman's part for her actions or way of thinking, in the relationship, is the exact reason why men are leaving the country to find what they need. You can think like this if you want to, but it goes both ways, and the dudes I know are not falling for this anymore. At your own risk, a woman like this acquires a certain reputation among her peers and friends that says she is unrelatable and undatable. I don't need no man, yes you do, why, because there is a natural plan set in motion by God. We as humans were not made to feel right, alone. It may last for a while, or maybe years, but eventually that person is going to seek out companionship from someone.
It’s premeditated whorring. They get their freak on then find a sucker to leech on. A lady broke it down on video: Why Women Want Sex (THE REAL STORY) by The Happy Wife Scholar
Women love bad boys and dudes they KNOW don't need them. Be the guy that doesn't need them fellas. Throw some mystery into it also. Let them know you don't need them to take care of you.
Sister's is this true ?
Please share your thoughts in the comment section🤝🏿
This phenomenon is not new. ❤ Just think back to high school. 😂
Generally women are not very smart
This is the dumbest shit I have ever heard.
She spoke in such a generalizing term and certainty as if all men in general will just take the women back after they spin the block and then try to spin the block back to the good guy 😂 NOT ME! FELLAS AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU, THOSE ONCE A MONTH BLEEDERS ARE OF THE ABUNDANCE.
Not to say that it never happens, but I personally don’t know any men that took a woman back after she rolled out on him so she could run the streets. One guy was like, “You thought I was boring before? I’m even worse now and have nowhere to go but down. We’re both better off with you staying wherever you are.”
The key word she said was “feel”. Listen bruhs, the only thing….The Only Thing a woman is loyal to is her Feelings, and her Feelings can change faster than a New York Minute. Let it breathe.
feelings are chemicals the brain and body create based off the food we put in our body, the drinks we drink, how much flouride is in our blood stream, how much salt or sugar is in our bloodstream, we create ourselves and we create our own perspectives... for example someone might say "its not that simple" well ofcourse for you it is'nt but for many it is, now tell me what's the difference without making exscuses or then again some people can only explain differences while describing exscuses and gaslighting and saying "this sounds like an exscuse but its not" even though its really an exscuse... some peoples entire perspective is defeated and some peoples perspective is "bring on the next challenge" most people are defeated due to calcium phosphate crystilization in the endocrine system and in the brain.. most people have no clue we have two brains and one is in the stomach, 80 percent of our nuero-transmitters are in the gut... food drink medicine recreational drugs have always been weaponized, even sound is weaponzied.. not because my opinion but its public information to be researched...
Pump up the volume
Reality at it's finest!
@@Jarack123 Even the feelings gotta be recouped😂
Damn thats big fact! 💯
Why I stopped chasing women. I'm not going to bring confusion into my life. I learnt how to be happy without a woman and it's peaceful, the growth is amazing. I wish I knew this earlier in life
Me too!
PS5 never leaves you
@@yeahmhmmrightokaymhmmyeahsureThis.
You save your money too
Yes
Good doesn't mean stupid.
I'm a good guy, but I don't play that sh...
100
Women love good guys. Especially, ones with a father and/or good common sense. Keep doing you Black Man!
Facts 💯
onnnnmeee!!!!!
In the hood good means vulnerable
She not lying …A woman will cheat , do you wrong etc while she’s calculating in her mind that you will still be there for her because you love her that bad
This.
That's why you need to love yourself more as a man. A woman should always love you more than you love her.
@@D-Thang_ she has to love you more than you LIKE her. The reality is most women really DONT LIKE STABLE,LOVING RELATIONSHIPS,EVEN IF THEY SAY OR THINK THEY DO,WOMEN LOVE THE CHASE OF YOUR APPROVAL AND VALIDATION (I.E. YOUR COMMITMENT), women love the honeymoon phase,the emotional rollercoaster,great sex and dopamine highs. Newness and unpredictability.......you actually have to REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED,AND DO THE BARE MINIMUM FOR AND WITH HER.........that will make her question whether you actually care about her,make feel like she isn't good enough for you,and she will do even more TO EARN your validation and approval. ITS ALL IN THE CHASE.
@@jonthomson9262that’s too much I got shit to do a kingdom to build, these hoes can take they thrill seeking asses to Six Flags
Right here in Atlanta a well to do lawyer wanted a bad boy, and after a while she wanted out but he wasn't having it so he killed her and he killed his self, when I came out of the streets my wife said this is what I've been praying for so if you're a good guy stay a good guy this woman is delusional 😡
She just proved the manosphere right.
Sure did , in pure 4k!
It don’t get no more crystal than this
It's funny how people talk smack about the red pill dudes yet use their talking points
@@yangasidziya3245super FAX… the main ones trying to shame the redpill are Simps and Women who are borderline Feminists
Facts!
@@yangasidziya3245Exactly
Women don't like to be held accountable. They know the so called bad boy is a very flawed individual and therefore can't really hold them to higher standards. More importantly, she doesn't have to feel like she needs to uphold those standards with him. When a man looks like he's got his shit together and in complete control, they run and say some silly thing like "he's boring" Or they stay and self sabotage by seeking out the bad boy still because deep down, they know they don't "deserve" the "good guy" and the insecurity tears them apart from the inside. Deep down, they're wondering why this seemingly perfect guy chose them. Can't he see that he can get someone better? Even more terrifying to them is what if he does find someone better?
In short, it just really stems from a lack of self worth.
Deep
“ Women Love To Be Held, Until They’re Held Accountable “……….
That went round and round 😅😅
@thedoctor2085 So, you're saying a woman wants a guy who doesn't play by the rules, so they can do the same thing? If so, that is like a relationship with no boundaries or expectations for either person. I think some women know what they want, if they have been in a bad relationship for a while. Other women, not sure there.
@@Slim1423 More like a relationship with fewer boundaries but a lot of expectations. She wants a guy who generally doesn't play by the rules but adopts a totally different set of rules when it concerns her. Basically a pitbull on a leash. Her leash. Believe it or not, guys like that are the easiest to manipulate.
Ecclesiasticus 26:23
[23]A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.
Nah in modern days good guys get over used,useless woman cause the bad guys get the good woman first and after they the bad guys used her and moved to the next good woman these now turned 304 whores expect God fearing good man to marry them cause since the beginning of time good guys finish last and get nasty by products of bad guys...see this is one BIBLE verse I strongly disagree with I know God did not write this this is work of women in ancient monastery to create that loophole for whores to get married....
This. She gives off 'wicked woman' energy.
Straight up
The problem is most people don't know the differences between needs & wants. Most choose want before need, which indicates a spiritual deficit.
Very well put
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That problem may be more so with women, than men.
and lack of common sense, maybe not well parented/coached. Culture can condition people as well
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And this is why there’s an epidemic of “baby mommas & baby daddies” in our communities. 💯😊
Yes.
Operation “broken black families” a TOTAL success.
80% of women and less than 10% of men destroying our community right now
@@wesleycristman3278 Raegan is smiling.
Why doesn't she just break up
We all want excitement but when there are responsibilities involved something's gotta give.
I'm one of those "boring" dudes who went to high school in the inner city in the 90's, literally every chick dated thugs or b-ball or football players.
If you wasn't one of those, you may as well been a tree stump to girls - and I'm a good looking man.
All of them without exaggeration are with none of those same dudes (baby daddies) now, and are single or have had a slew of bad/ghetto dead end relationships.
None have been married for an extended period of time and none have stable situations at home.
Why can't women just admit they were living for the moment and got caught up in the hype of the culture FOR THAT TIME.
Because it's culture now and not a choice
Short answer: A bad boy, playa is someone she thinks SHE CAN CHANGE. The minute you change for her is when she’s gonna stop respecting you
Why would any man want to be liked by a woman like this in the first place? These kimd of women are very likely to be entitled, spoiled, narcissistic, moody, have low self esteem, boring, and deficient.
I’ve only seen this happen once, but once was more than enough! The young lady destroyed two rock bands along with a promising lead singer. And ironically, when she dumped the singer, she left him…for the promising lead singer for still another rock band.
She left the first guy precisely because she was able to break him. What’s…wild?…is that I don’t think she ever consciously decided to inflict so much havoc. Benefit of the doubt, because nobody involved (even tangentially like I was) was older than 20…
She’s on point! The worst thing for a woman is for a man to realize his worth. Because at that very point in time, she no longer has a controlling stake in his life.
If she's truly feminine, she WANTS you to realize your worth. Mine speaks positivity over me everyday. The problem is that so many are masculine in the west
The thing is, that’s not love that makes people stay. They don’t love themselves! That’s why they stay. Someone who loves and truly respects themself would leave at the first red flag or sign of disrespect. Staying when you’re clearly not being valued is not exemplary of love, that’s low self esteem/self hatred manifesting in a relationship.
Yes indeed, I've learned that too
Well said, that was me at one point in my life
Well said and good point
SOMEONE GETS IT !
It's not LOVE it's codependency.
@@HiHello-wz6bx🎯🎯🎯
Lmaoo ill just stay single at this point
Forreal
I can testify that women in general (not just lovers) cannot stand too much peace and quiet. They get antsy, bored, and annoyed, feeling like they're missing out on excitement. The very bad boys that they complain about are the same ones they will run over quiet, nice guys to get to. Learned over the years that women mean very little of what they say because mostly they don't know what they want.
This resonated deeply with me brother. There are things I take serious in this life , but a woman's "word" is just not one of them.
They are susceptive to seductive language and sometimes they even illude themselves.
They must destroy something
They are agents of chaos
Women thrive in chaos. They need ALL their emotions stimulated. That includes the negative emotions too.
"They don't know what they want". This is 100% true.. Female behavior will not make sense unless you understand their Nature. Women are naturally Chaotic, Fickle, Impulsive, Manipulative, & Hypergamous. But most men have no idea about this.
I’m far from a “Bad Boy”, but I can attest, I’ve gotten more action from chicks that thought they “could change me” than any females that were willing to just love and respect me for who I am.
Because they know you're genuine and CANT CONTOL YOU!
It could also be they're attracted to "emotionally unavailable" men which in turn they try to "fix". Emotionally unavailable people usually have subliminal and subconscious character deficits and are often aloof, can be mentally draining on their lovers, shallow, and boring.
Boys fall into "bad boy" and "nice guy". Men have both traits
I thank the sister for being honest about the stupid ass thought process some women have. She didn't shy away for one second; stating the obvious contradictions some of our lost sisters carry in their minds.
“Momma why you always like them thugs?!”
@@orionhomes4528 Jody and his mama needed righteous stability in the home.
@@orionhomes4528Because mama got a life too and she want to be bent over like she used 2
It ain’t some it’s the majority
Its actually the opposite. They arent bored by good dudes, they are scared. They arent familiar and/or don't feel worthy so they run to the guys that are familiar and/or they feel worthy of. In short, a woman's relationship choices reflect her self worth. So no matter how beautiful and intelligent and special she may actually be, the guy she is with, and moreover the treatment she accepts, will tell you how she views herself.
I love watching this lady. She’s honest. We as women need another woman to hold us accountable. Make us look in the mirror and either change what we don’t like…or shut up when we reap what we’ve sown.
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Thank you for your honesty sista
If ya mama couldn't do it I don't think a stranger can
Exactly. I am this for women around me. I call them out on their bullshit. They hardly call me with relationship drama. Im not pandering.
@@MD-DLive you’re welcome
....ONLY demonic souls get "bored" with good things happening...let that sink in 🤔
Wow! This.........
Ruining kids lives for drama and entertainment is crazy these women never learn 😂
No DRAMA, PETULANCE, NARCISSISM & MATERIALISM.
No corrupt Family Court System.
No False PATERNITY.
Men's PEACE OF MIND --- Priceless‼️💯
They think sleeping with other women’s baby daddies and husbands is a game, it has bigger consequences later on in life
Right on the money. Men Love from an idealistic standpoint, women Love from an opportunistic standpoint
This is called codependency and unhealed, unmet childhood needs
So listen up dudes since she says you'll be there waiting on her,then make sure not to be there
They won’t listen to you, like she said, most men don’t like starting over or don’t wanna ruin the family dynamic.
@antoniesseals8892 dats on them Ian waiting
Smart people can play dumb but dumb people can’t play smart
It’s premeditated whoaring. They get they freek on then find a suckr to leech on.
The first 30 seconds was something a child would say about relationships
More often than not, those types of woman did not have father figures in their life.
Not true, some of them do have fathers but they have either been given the delusional princess treatment for so long of their lives or they weren't taught well (or anything) by their fathers.
Half the women I know like thus had father's in their lives. Good father's. Now alot of them were spoiled too, if anything, That's the reason but then again how do you explain the ones who Didn't have a father.
Maybe 15 or 20 years ago I could fully agree with that statement but these days that almost means nothing. Have you ever listened to how some of these women talk to or about their fathers? Not deadbeats or absentee dads or step dads but their biological father who stayed married to their mother? Straight disrespect and if you ever get the chance to witness her mother and father interact it’s a lot of that also. A lot of women in our community are taking on a ratchet single mother mentality with open disrespect to any and every black male whether it’s their romantic male partner, a male coworker, their brother or other male relative or just a random young or old black man on the street. Even the women that didn’t grow up in that type of environment are taking on this mentality. I eliminate women that didn’t grow up with their biological father or didn’t have a great relationship with him but I don’t automatically qualify the ones that do have a good relationship with their father either.
@@biscaynesupercars💯
The Fathers live lives of crime themselves
💥 LOSER MENTALITY (Made Cool) & ENTERTAINING
Usually we equivocate Bad Boy with Alpha male tendencies, do what it takes to get desired outcome.
Plus Women love to make themselves up and are pressed to feel secure so sometimes they want attention and feel outta control soft.
That's the problem, and needs to stop.
I needed to hear this!! ❤ I learned how to love at a distance and chose myself over a relationship (that can't work).
Why would you abuse love like that. Sad
So sad
They love deadbeat and kid’s suffering
What she forgot is that after she chased the bad boy . She tried to come back. He's gone to someone else. And then she's sick because a good one got away
This is the real reason why so many of them are unmarried.
@@johncalhoun916Main reason for the bitterness they carried for 3 generations
They love sharing baby daddies and husbands then they complain 😂
Naaaaww Sis, I ain't gonna be there for someone who don't treat me right. Not that I'm anybody, but I've already left a number of you. Things are changing. Many modern Women are in for a rude awakening. They aren't hip to SYSBM, MGTOW, and IBMORE.
What she said is a bunch of foo foo . Woman love evil plain and simple. It takes the holy spirit to make a good and virtuous woman.
Facts
It's not a ball of confusion. Its an Atomic Fusion bomb of Confusion!
And try to spawn a family with this bomb of confusion
We should hate Women, BUT for sure we should AVOID these types of women that carry and take pride in these stereotype and mentalities. C
Highly celebrate & praise the good, sober minded Women truly hold it down.
She’s describing a simp not a good guy.
A good man loves himself. He will love you, and leave you...
@bobbywallace4225 good men have boundaries but can't make women desire them, nice guys can't get the women at all only lucky. ..good men get cheated on too. ..along as you are relationship focused/ husband material be careful fellas
It's all about how deep that woman is getting stroked out by that particular man and everything else falls in line after that some men have different levels of experiences with women than others
Then she’s not gone like that bad guy if she changes him into the good guy Ayooo are we in some type of video game lmaoooooo
Because it's become increasing the difficulty level: Rookie, Easy, Medium, Hard, Very hard, PRO
@@Mr.Edwards233😂😂😂😂
Which is why I say the females are the problem
Like Nas said "Black girl lost".
Black men need to stop taking disrespect in the name of keeping your family together or not wanting to start over. I get it, you get into a routine and don’t wanna messed that up, but I’m not allowing myself to be played with in the name of keeping my family. As long as the kids are taken care of, they’ll be ok. You’re setting a precedent to your kids that it’s ok to take back people that disrespect you, and I’m not going for it.
Their gonna be old with a bunch of cats, @because I can’t go for that”
Let's leave them where they're at.
Yeah really. They tickle me with animals being a substitute!
“ i can’t go for that” 🗣️ lil Durk
They’ll live longer with cats than they would with you 😅😂
Don’t believe me…read the stats.
Why does a single woman living with cats bother you? I don’t get it. Ever heard of what others eat, won’t make you 💩…
@indigoGoddess7 well, the question would not be what man and/ or woman says, WHAT DID THE MOST HIGH TELL US TO DO!? IF THATS FOLLOWED, SO CALLED SH-- WOULDN'T BE AN ISSUE! AS WELL AS AN ANIMAL TO SUBSTITUTE A BOND BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN!
"Ghetto Love" sounds like trauma
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I became stronger watching this. 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️ 🔥
I worked in America twice. Men and women in relationships generally were untrustworthy in behaviour ,with colleagues wives appearing to see what their partners were up too. The boss was having an affair as well and most of them professed to be Christian.
Welcome to our hypocrite country!!!!😂😂😂😂
@ Thanks, never stayed . It wasn’t for me.
Most Christians are terrible human beings. As a general rule.
People only cheat and have bad relationships in America and nowhere else?
Yeah, at this stage, I stopped trying to build family with women. I have my fun when they are around, and be a monk when they aren’t around. I date myself when women aren’t there. Don’t know how you’re supposed to build a healthy family when constantly dealing with this type of ridiculous mindset. So, yeah… it feels like the culture is doomed. 🤷🏽♂️ I release this confusion and nonsense in my life. More power to the rest of you. Guess I’ll have to live vicariously through the successful ones and be grateful at least some people figured it out if I don’t. 🕊️ ✌🏽 🖤 ✨
Stay single & celibate…😂
If you’re not finding any success…why do you even need to sleep with women?
Just live a celibate life like 50 cent 😊
"WORD TO THE WISE" Men Love with there hearts women love with there feelings and emotions that changes daily.
I FEEL YU GODDESS QUEEN 👸🏿🫶🏿👸🏾 YUR OH SO RIGHT, THE REAL MAN IS ONLY GONNA GO SO FAR .... SPEAKING TRUTH TO POWER ONLY FOR MYSELF.....
Relationships in today's society are completely F%$&ED up.
Love yourself first and foremost.
If a woman leave me, She has no chance of getting back with me. I don't care what the excuse is, fuck that.
This
She's keep it 100
BARZ BARZ BARZ!!!!!
Man these women are out of their wigs!! Peace over marriage ✌🏾
Need to drop pt 2 today!
So many women misconstrue "peace" for "boring" they will leave a good dude for one that's the poster boy for drama.
A thief comes to steal kill and destroy
The problem is that you can leave, but I HAVE TO STILL SUPPORT YOU.
They hate accountability so much not even one of them is under these comments, because they know it's the truth. These people are demons
because black men create single moms. Stop blaming women it so weak it crazy
Being unhappy and letting you step out is two different things.
Stats don't lie - 1 in 4 will marry in their lifetime, probably due to this logic. Now that Men have the internet, it's probably 1 in 20.
I lost a couple brain cells watching this shit 😅😂
If most woman could be openly married to 2 men, one man for stability and another man for spontaneity, they would.
Don't forget the third guy they use for money and the fourth guy that strictly only takes them to pound town.
Cause the bad boy is sexually attractive and the nice guy usually isn't.
Not true! Look at Future and Russell Wilson
@yangasidziya3245 How is it not true when Ciara had a baby with future and wanted to get married to him and he refused are you slow?
@@GenuineRSA I'm talking about looks, you said it's because the bad boy is sexually attractive, that's why I made the example about Russell and Future, LOOKS!!!
@@GenuineRSA Are you Slow?🤔
@@yangasidziya3245 Looks= Physical attraction. Sex=Sexual attraction. Wtf does another man's looks have to do with being a "bad boy" that a woman finds sexually attractive, read slow next time that seems to be your pace.
BLACK WOMEN mindset is different day n day i see why there the least desire
True that, more power to them😂
Other races are like this too bro so don’t get it twisted, Black women are not the only ones with this mindset and I’m speaking from experience and it’s the black women that YOU associate yourself with
@kvthegameaddict8404 i hear u but blk woman mindset is on another level it's horrible
@@kvthegameaddict8404Nobody was talking about other races goofy
@@timharris1675 shut tf up and go make love to your snowbunny
damn...i really appreciate her honesty...now it all makes sense..wow
What's even the point of trusting and loving someone if they'll replace you like its nothing?
If toxic is her peace. Get heck away! Beat it!!! I've got my lumps. Lol
*Men love for real. Women love based on conditions.*
Taking advantage of your protection. Protect your Kingdom
This was how I was as a youngster, when you grown up take care of your responsibilities, I wouldn't want to be like this in my 40s. Try having a relationship with God let him guide you.
Women love men who are devoted to themselves....
She knows what she talking about!🤞🏿
No…No…No… The reality is not all women. The so-called bad boys are actually unaware narcissists and these women are unaware empaths. Empaths have an inherent addiction to narcissists without knowing it… it’s almost like spiritual
The last part explained my whole high school experience I knew I wasn’t trippin now I’m 22 and now I just see it with adults
In other words, it's a lost cause
It’s a difference between being kind and nice
Good women WANT good men WATER SEEKS ITS OWN LEVEL 💯 women want bad men bcuz they are BAD WOMEN 💯🤟🏿
This Queen speaks Truth 🎉 ❤❤
Nah, once you leave, you can stay gone
Bless her, at least she's honest. I believe it's the responsibility of older women to teach the younger females because they don't even understand themselves.
If she gone, let her go! Don't be no damn fool. That ain't love. You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. Anway.....
You don't have to be a thug or a bad boy.....you do however need to be a man that will not tolerate disrespect.
You do need a backbone. As a man you need to know when to walk away for good if things are really that bad.
Women can’t love only obey. Men love like God that’s why we are the Christ of the home.
But, they obey non black men
Being competitive is not the same as being bad-minded, covetous, envious and jealous and that's what I see in so many women and it's disgusting and sickening. It really needs to stop.
i wish they would have talked about how toxic that shit is.... they probly do further down in the interview tho, lets see
A great women will never choose a man that is less than
Cough!! BS!! If a woman leaves me, she doesn't get a second chance. And a couple that understands what marriage is does not have this problem. This type of ignorant thinking where there is no accountability on the woman's part for her actions or way of thinking, in the relationship, is the exact reason why men are leaving the country to find what they need. You can think like this if you want to, but it goes both ways, and the dudes I know are not falling for this anymore. At your own risk, a woman like this acquires a certain reputation among her peers and friends that says she is unrelatable and undatable. I don't need no man, yes you do, why, because there is a natural plan set in motion by God. We as humans were not made to feel right, alone. It may last for a while, or maybe years, but eventually that person is going to seek out companionship from someone.
Yall hear this right. Keep the most high first. That is the only relationship you you need is yourself and God that is loyal...😮😮😮😮
Without people there is no God the hand of another person is the hand of God spirt has to work through fkesh a ghost can't keep nobody warm
in any case, bad choices usually lead to bad results and consequences
So what happens when that man that really loved you, never comesback after you go to the streets?
She is right on point 😢
Catch and release
It’s premeditated whorring. They get their freak on then find a sucker to leech on. A lady broke it down on video: Why Women Want Sex (THE REAL STORY) by The Happy Wife Scholar
women come & go.. I've had abt 60. never put my ALL into any. & no commitments I keep it open just in case either of us get attracted to someone else
Women love bad boys and dudes they KNOW don't need them. Be the guy that doesn't need them fellas. Throw some mystery into it also. Let them know you don't need them to take care of you.
The men they hurt don’t need them either, these just some trifling ass hoes who were raised wrong 💯💯
The manosphere has been validated. Women like her will change their relationship from Poindexter to Pookie in a New York minute
Post-slavery trauma in the black community is sooooooooo real.
They need to stop calling it boring men... It's men who desire Peace
Emotions run high the logic runs low.